Club Shay Shay - Club Shay Shay - Yung Miami Part 1

Episode Date: March 19, 2025

On the latest episode of Club Shay Shay, Shannon Sharpe sits down with the one and only Yung Miami—platinum-selling rapper, award-winning podcast host, viral influencer, and trendsetting entrepreneur. Flying in straight from Dade County, the star brings her signature charisma and unfiltered honesty to the conversation, covering everything from her booming business ventures to her take on love, money, and modern relationships. Yung Miami and Shannon dive into her new card game, Resha Roulette, playing a few rounds while discussing the inspiration behind turning her love for games into a thriving business. She opens up about dating in the spotlight, her thoughts on 50/50 relationships, and whether kissing on the first date is a green light or a red flag. No topic is off-limits as she addresses rumors about her love life, including Stefon Diggs, the age of the oldest man she’s dated, and what she’s learned about relationships. Miami keeps it real about the hardships of growing up in the 305, how her mother’s prison sentence shaped her, and the grind that got her to the top. She also shares the story behind the City Girls’ rise, from childhood dreams of being a mortician to making hit records with JT and getting the ultimate co-sign from Drake. Plus, the two chop it up about social media drama, industry politics, and the reality of fame—whether it's dealing with DJ Akademiks, navigating Quality Control's decisions about her music, or the double standards Black artists face. And of course, Yung Miami talks about the luxuries she loves—her Ferrari, the importance of investing and paying taxes, and how she’s building an empire beyond music. #volume See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

So hello, you're successful. Ooh, I know you got them athlete feet. Don't put out them. I will run out of here. I promise you. No, I ain't got no athlete feet. I ain't got no athlete feet. Look at that.

Ah, look at that. Let me see. All my life I been grinding all my life, all my life Been grinding all my life, sacrifice, thoughts will pay the price Want a slice, got the rolling dice, that's why All my life I been grinding all my life Hello, welcome to another episode of Club CheChe. I am your host, Shannon Sharp. I'm also the proprietor of Club CheChe. And today we're at Spotlight LA. Stopping by for conversation on a drink today is a force to be reckoned with in at Spotlight LA. Stopping by for conversation on the drink today is a force to be reckoned with in the music and media.

She's known for a bubbly down to earth personality, hilarious commentary and catchy sayings like period. She sets the tone for being a bold and ambitious member of the most popular girl group of this decade. She has created anthems for women empowerment and independence. She's a larger than life presence. She's a platinum selling rapper, award winning podcast host,

must watch entertainer, viral influencer, trend setting artist, a talented content creator, a loving mother, a rising executive producer, an exceptional entrepreneur who's building an empire with her car game, Risha Rillette. Miami's own, she flewed all the way from Dade County. Carisha is a government name, but you know it's Young Miami. Welcome to the show.

Oh, that was a good introduction right there. You like that intro? Yes, I'm like clucky, clucky, clucky. Ooh. So when you hear me reading all this off and you're like, damn, I did all that, do you realize what you've done at such a young age? No, I mean, I realize it,

but that right there just settled in. I'm like, oh, it just kept going, and that just made me feel good, like, okay. But thank you so much. Thank you for joining us on Club Cheche. Normally we toast, but you have a game. It's called Risha Roulette, and we have Risha Roulette Reloaded.

So we're gonna play this game to start off. So give me a brief synopsis of what we're doing here. Okay, so the Risha Roulette, which is a card game, come with a hundred-acre cards, and it comes with some shot glasses, yours just take a shot. The reloaded now, it comes with a wheel. So we're gonna spin the wheel.

So you spin the wheel, and whatever it lands on. You gotta pick from that category. So it's three categories. You either dare pay, take a shot, or get wild. Let me see, ooh. You're cheating, you already looking at the card. Well where the money at? You got some money?

Cause if you ain't gonna do this, then I need my money. You gonna have to pay me up. Yeah. There you go the money, yeah. So I'm gonna spin the wheel. Take a shot. Damn, I'm not the money, yeah. So I'm gonna spin the wheel. Okay. Take a shot. Damn, I got the muscle?

We didn't even ask no questions. No, I gotta pull from the deck of cards now. Take a shot. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. I got what you get. Okay, it's like take this shot if you go through the self-checkout to steal when times is hard.

I ain't gonna lie, I don't went through this. Going to get one. Going to get one. Going to get what? I don't went through the self-checkout and like, me ain't scared my ass before. Scam one and take put two in the bag. Shout out to Walmart.

All right, all right. Okay, it's your turn? Yeah. Okay. It says. Oh no, Yeah. Okay. It says. Oh no, you moved it. It says your pick. It was right here. Okay, your pick.

Which one you want to pick from? So you get to pick your deck of cards. What you want, do you want me to? I will do dare or play. Okay. Allow the player of your choice to purchase something online right now for up to $20 with your debit or credit card or pay $5 to another player.

I ain't got no debit card. I probably should have took a shot. I'll give you $5, here you go. He'll give me $5, he's gonna let me order something off of Amazon. You have this money, but are you supposed to have real money? No, so you could play with real money

or you can use the reisha bucks. Okay, I'm gonna hand you your reisha bucks. All right, your turn. You gotta spin, you gotta spin. Okay. I like this. Okay, let me see. Okay, okay. You know it.

No, no, no, you might be, you're cheating, damn! We're just two minutes into the game, but you cheated on me, you had to take another shot. Okay, okay, but it say take a shot, take a shot. Yes! Oh, God. I like this, I like this, I like this one, I like this one. Oh my God. I like this game, I like this game.

You see, that's why I don't like playing my game. Yeah, so what it say, what you gotta do? It say take a shot. If you got to use lube to get wet. Uh, yeah. I don't know, but you got to take a shot. Oh no, I ain't got to take no shot. Did that you ain't got that. Oh, okay. No. Okay. Slippery with wet. Yeah, I know. Take a shot. Damn. I want you to get a good one.

Can I go? Do I have to pick off the top of the neck? No, you can pick from where you want to be. Oh, OK. Take a shot if you've ever did something strange for a piece of change. Absolutely not. Didn't ever do that.

Ain't got to. He he he. Go ahead. Your go. Your go. Your turn. OK, let me see. Take a shot.

Take a shot. Yeah! Okay. Take a shot if... Okay, that's a good one. Tell me if you know this. It say finish these lyrics. Yeah, we knuckin', it buckin'.

I don't know nothing about that. Knuck if you buck? Yeah, we knucking and bucking. No. Man, take a shot. You know, yeah, we nucking and bucking and ready to fight. Say I'm cool, I'm cool, calm, collected, I don't do that kind of, so let me ask you this.

While we playing this game, how do you come up with the idea of creating a game? Because I like to play like, I'm a type of person, I'm very like, I like to get to know people. So I love to play like never have I ever. Drink out of the person's cup next to you or pay everybody one dollar? pay everybody one dollar. Here, let me go and give you some money. I don't know. See, I like to play with you.

I know it would be a good change, but damn, we was playing some real money. Yeah, yeah. I'll leave with some money. If you hear the thing, we ain't got but one player. But see, how many players can play at this game at one time? You could play with, to 10 people, how many people you want to play with? Like,, how many players can play at this game at one time? You can play with 10 people. How many people you want to play with?

Like, you know, it's going to be like a little event. So you can play with 10, seven people. So you're sitting around one night, and you say, you know what? Because obviously, if you're playing this game, you like to play card games. You like to play games. I mean, what's your favorite card game to play?

Tunk. OK, you like to play Tunk? Yeah, I don't know how to play Spades. OK. So how do you play Tunk? So let me ask you a question, because we play it several different ways. Obviously, if you go down and get caught,

you got to play that person double. But the way we also play, so I've played before, if you go down and somebody catches you, you have to pay everybody at the board. Have you? See, I don't play for money, I'm just out there. Oh, no, no, no, that ain't nothing for fun. What the hell?

You even got money right here, okay, your turn. You know why? Because I know that people love to play card games for money. Yes. That's what my daddy done do. They play, they play spades and they be talking. And they be like, yeah, get my money, it gets so intense. Yeah, yeah.

And I be like, oh my God. And I be sitting, I'm like, damn, this is interesting. So when I did the first one, I just did it, I take a shot. This one, I'm like, you know what? I'm going to add some of the, damn, this is interesting. So when I did the first one, I just did it, I take a shot. This one, I'm like, you know what? I'm gonna add some of the Arisha Bucks to it so it can be like a little more intense, a little more fun.

And that's what made me wanna add the money to it. Yeah, but they need to come with their own real money. No, you can play with real money, but I know that some of my consumers, you know, like Monopoly, you know? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. I put like a little twang to it, but me and my friends, we playing with real money.

Like me and you, we gonna play with real money. Oh, you trying to get my money? You trying to get? Cause I see you, you ready to play. You like, yeah, yeah. See, you ain't gonna do nothing there. See me, I ain't giving you my money. So you gonna spill the beans, huh?

Yeah, I'm gonna do it there, what's up? Come on, spin the wheel. See, I'll keep it not take a shot. Take a shot. Let me see. See, we ain't got no, it say eat a spoonful of mustard or take a shot. We don't got no mustard.

We ain't got no mustard. Well, yeah, you gotta take another one. You gotta. What is it? Thank you. It say text your ex. Baby, I mean, she would take a shot. Text him. It's a texture eggs. Baby I'll miss you. I'll take a shot. Text him. Let me tell you something.

I'll miss getting the f*** on. I don't miss you. So I'm going to take my shot. I don't miss you. Hell. You know you're going gonna see this right? You be doubling back. What?

Do you double back? No, no, no, spin the block? Yeah. No. So once you own you call. But he gonna see this, you know this right? Okay. Okay.

Text me if you miss me. Damn you just told that man you don't miss him, you talking about text. Yeah I'm not, you know, like, you know. Chase me. So, but let me ask you this, okay, you have this idea for a card game. How do you take that idea and turn it into a business? So, I feel like I love money. I love money.

And I love to play games. So I got to turn my game into some money. So I just called, like, I got a creative director. I called and I said, hey, can you help me evict this card game? And we put the mood board together and we just brought it to life. How long did it take you? Six months or years?

I was supposed to say six months. Because we got to go through the cards, we got to play it. I'm the type of person, I'll approve something, and it'll be like, in production, it's done. I'm like, hell no. Whatever I spent, we gotta change it. Like I want everything to be right. Right.

So let me, so obviously these cards, so all a lot of these cards have to be some of your own ideas. It's like, okay, I want this on the card. I want that on the card. Did you have other people giving you ideas or insight of what they thought? Yes, I did.

Okay. I did. I came up with majority of the cards, but I did have some people like, damn, what I could put on the card. What we be doing This is wild card It's time to get wild now. So what I mean I can pick any card You gotta pick from the deck of get wild. So this is right here. Get wild. Mm-hmm. Okay

Okay, I don't know if you want to pick from the top. I want to pick from the middle. Okay, okay Cuz you better set me up. Okay. I got one right here get wild Spend the bottle whoever it lands on give them a body massage for 30 seconds Bring out a bottle See, that's why you got a play this game. I always so we got it. So There's certain items that you're gonna have to have so you're gonna have to have food You don't have to have mustard you're gonna have to have hot sauce or ketchup or X, Y, and Z. You're going to have to have a bottle so you can spend the bottle.

So there are several things obviously you're going to have. If there are certain, I mean, like tequila, cognac, is there any like any other beverages you can have? Soda, water? You play with your own beverage. That's just like if you went to a house party, you put out a game. Y'all are already in the setting. Right.

So y'all let's just play the game. Okay. Okay. Okay. But I always say like, don't play with your man. went to a house party, you put out a game, y'all are already in the setting. So y'all just play the game. Okay, okay, okay. But I always say don't play with your man, don't play with your wife, and don't play with your mama. Because it's going to get wild. You and your wife, because it'll be like, text your ex. Oh no.

It'll be like, let me go through your phone, and the wife like, yeah. Oh, go through the phone? Yeah. Y'all got that card in there? Yeah. Well, I'm going to have to pull that one out before, it'll be like, get your body.

It'll be like, let the person next to you go through your phone for 10 seconds, go through your apps, all that, like, yeah. Yeah, you asking for trouble right now. I wanna see the last Lyft you sunk. Let me see that Lyft account. Don't play with your, hey. I got my pick.

I'm gonna do a DRL Pay. Okay. What does it say? Sh D.R. Pay. OK. What does it say? Shana, we can't do that. It says transfer a shot from your mouth to the mouth of a person next to you or pay that person three dollars. Come on with it. Come on with it, Carisha. Come on with it.

Now you're black. Babe, you trying to blow me in the head for real. Oh my God. Okay. See, this is what I'm saying. This is why it's going to get messy. It says, type your name in a pair of your choice phones and review why your name was mentioned for 10 seconds. So that's why I was like, give me your phone and I'm gonna type my name in there search history

and see what you were saying about me. I ain't say nothing, but you wanna give my phone to Joel Leman. Imagine you was playing with Michelle. Oh, there you go. I'm telling you. What the hell? What the hell?

And you had to type Michelle in there. So where I go? Would I, here, where I go? Okay, you'll go to your messages and then you'll just type Carisha. You ain't saying nothing. See? That's what I'm saying. We are good. We are cool.

So is this a... Let me ask you a question. Is this a good game for a first date? So would you play this game on a first date? I would. You asking for trouble? Mm-mm. Cause you know what, like. Cause you know that card that you pulled says,

okay, transfer alcohol to somebody. And then all of a sudden, y'all gonna end up start kissing. Kiss the other thing on the first date I'm kissing on the first day huh I mean if I don't went on a date with you then mean I like you okay I mean we don't got past like the little talking stage really if I want to go on a date it's like yeah we can kiss on the first day oh okay okay what but when you transfer you got to get okay. What are the- Yeah, it ain't gotta be all bad. But when you transfer, you gotta get down in there cause you don't wanna spill none on his clothes. You don't wanna get none on your dress.

You don't kiss on first dates. No, I'm a gentleman. I'm old school though. I know old school. They be kissing on the first date? Cause I'm learning a lot. They be doing a lot of stuff on the first date. You know everybody in the world is different.

Yes. So to each his own. Right. You got some people that kiss on the first date, you got some people that don't. So let me ask you this, what's an idea of first date? I'm not going to lie, I want the carpet red out, like rolled out for me on the first date.

On the first date? Yes. Damn. It's a first impression. It's a first impression. It's a first impression. So where you go from there? If he does that, if he rolled the red carpet out on the first date, what are you gonna do,

gotta do for the second date? Take your ass to Chantreau Bay? No, now you can see me in a bunny and stuff. See you what? In my little bunny, you can see me like in my sweats with my makeup and stuff off on the second date. Cause we done got through the first stage. Damn. Like on the first date, what you gonna got through the first stage. Damn.

Like on the first date, what you going to do? You want it to just be boring? No, no, I thought the first date, okay. First date, okay, we done talked, okay, where would you like to go? We're going to go grab a bite to eat. Where would you like to go? Boom, boom, boom.

Okay, we going out to eat. Probably she going to take an Uber or Lyft. I can't remember the last time I've actually driven a self. I'm from the old school where you used to drive to go pick up the lady. Yeah. To go take her out.

Do you still do that? No, hell nah. Because don't nobody trust you like that. Because it's a first date. You know what I'm saying? So ain't nobody really trusting you like that, even who I am and they know me, blah, blah, blah. I get it.

I ain't got no problem with that. But I grew up in an era where you went and picked the lady up and you had a date. You went to where you go, movies, out to eat or to an event, and you brought her back home. Right. I like that. That's very grown, intimate and sexy. They let me know that I can trust you. Yeah. You make sure I get back home.

You pick me up. You're a gentleman. You make sure I got back home. Yeah. All that sending me a lift. I don't know if I could trust you. Right. Because when you send me a lift, where you going? Oh, you think he going somewhere happy?

I need you to drop me off and make sure I get home safe. And I want you, when I come out, I want you to open up the door for me, get me in the car, we ride, we gonna have a little playlist. We gonna talk and we gonna be grown and sexy. That's what I like. Yeah, and see, you know what? Drop the person off, hey, hey, thank you.

I, you know, walk you to the door, make sure you get in place. And then I turn and go. I ain't going up to your place. Get a club and cook. Yeah, hey, thank you I you know walk you to the door make sure you get in place and then I turn it go I ain't going up to your place. Yeah, I don't like that. We meet in each other you going in before no, okay I'm grown. Oh court me Maybe feel maybe feel like you you like me, you know But I'm saying you say you don't like the guy. I mean he's being courtesy He didn't have to send that he could have made you go get your own Arise here, but he sent you an Uber.

He sent you a nice black. If it's a date, how I'm gonna like. But I'm saying, so that's what you, the expectation level is, if he asks you out on a date, he's supposed to arrange everything. Yes. Where you don't, hey, just tell me where I need to be, what time I need to be there.

I feel like that's a date, yes. Okay. As a man, if a man set up a date for you, I feel like he set up the date. Everything is, you just come. Okay, okay. Do you agree? Yes, yes I do.

Yes, but for me, okay, what do you like? You know, I need to know what you like to eat, what some of the places. Obviously I don't want to go to a particular place that you've probably been before, but although you might have been there before with somebody else and they're like, well damn, she was just here,

you know, the other day with such a son. And if they come to the, oh hey, Carisha, how you doing? If everybody walked by, hey Carisha, hey Young Miami, how you doing? I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, damn, how many times you done been up in this joint? So I'm gonna be feeling some type of way. So I just want you to know,

when I'm sitting over there quiet, I'm on S.W.O.A. I'm just gonna go ahead and keep it a thang with you. I'm on swole because I'm feeling some type of way. Like, well damn, she must be a regular up in this piece. But I'm not going to lie. I got a restaurant in Miami that I love, Poppy State. I'm a regular in there. Ojo told me about that one.

Oh, it's so good. It's good? It's so good. You know how sometimes you could go to a restaurant and it's like, nah, I need a break. It's so good. So it's like, I just go there on the regular. Like sometimes I go out to eat with myself.

Really? Yeah. Can I tag along? We can have a ball. Oh, there we go. Yeah. So, okay. First date.

What is some of the stipulations? Okay, if you go on the first date, what's some of the things that he has done to make sure he gets a second date or some of the things that he didn't do to make sure he doesn't get a second date? I just don't like boring. I don't like a man. I feel like I don't like people that can't hold a conversation. Okay.

Like, we can't just be at the dinner. We both just quiet. Really? I like personality. Are you a quiet person? I am, though. Okay, you quiet. So you want somebody to talk? Yeah, like I want you to like get it out of me. You know, get open. Okay, let me feel comfortable like such as share something. So let me ask you a question you go to You go to the they seek you you wanted them to sit across from you or you want them to sit next to you?

So at first I want you to start across from me because I like I can take looking in your eyes Okay, you know that we like connect. Okay, like by the end of the night, I need you like next to me. Okay, okay. Did y'all all hugged up everybody looking? Mm-hmm. Because by the end of the night, I'm going to know if this a no-go. Right. Or if I see you again tomorrow.

Tomorrow? Tomorrow. I was thinking about next week. No, that's too long. Too long? Yeah, why next week? I need you to text me good morning, beautiful. I really enjoyed last night with you.

Really? Yes, yes. After, but then I'll be seeing, I'll be feeling some type of way that she think like, oh, he ain't got nothing to do with his time. He already texted me. I'm not gonna lie, as a woman, we are, once we already got them feelings,

it's be like, we be like, okay, when he gonna text? He's like, ah, come on, friend, he text, good morning. Like, it's that. When you like somebody. If you don't like him, it's just like, ugh. So, first date. You know, I just saw this story, I don't know if you saw this study. They say 75, 80% of the men has never asked a woman out

on a date personally. So, me and you having a conversation, hey, I'm Shannon Sharp, how are you doing? What's your name? Blah, blah, blah. I would like to take you out. Most of the time they say it's through DMs, it's third party interaction.

We've lost the art of asking another person out on a date. What happened? I never got asked on a date. Really? No. So they slide your DMs, huh? You answer? Or it just be like, it goes down in the DM, not gonna. Oh, you answer? I got X on the day. Really? No. So they sliding your DMs, huh? Mm-hmm.

You answer? Or just be like, it goes down in the DM, not going up. Oh, you answer? Yeah. Yeah. You want to get my phone right quick? I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

I'm not going to lie. I'm here in my DM, and I don't have like... I went on the day off of my DM. Did you? Mm-hmm. He had to be so- It started in the DM, and then it went to text. But I ain't gonna lie, I feel like, I'm the one that kinda like technically hit a lot. Cause it was like in the DM, I'm like,

nigga just text me. You were asking too long for my DM, if you hear something, just text me. If you wanna go on a date, let's just get to it. Cause this whole DM thing is so- Yeah, going back and forth. Yeah, I'm not finna keep waking up, opening my apps to see if you like.

So clearly he had to be someone a prominent. So clearly you trust him and you're like, OK, I can go on a date with him. So how did that work out? It was cool. It was cool. You went on the second date, did you? It was cool. Damn. I ain't going to lie. He did his one on the first day. I was like, OK, that's how you come on the first day. It was real cute. It was real cute. Did y'all go to Poppy State? No. Okay. I actually, um, we wasn't in Miami. Y'all weren't in there? Mm-mm. So, okay, this is Linda D. Have you ever been on a dating app? No. No. I'm not doing that. Oh, really? I already should give me some cats or something by that time.

So what's the problem? Obviously you're in the music industry. I'm sure a lot of entertainers want to entertain you, but also you have that look, you have that body that athletes crave and desire. You like? You have a preference? Ooh, as far as what?

The type of man, you like athletes or you like entertainers? Even though athletes are interesting. I ain't gonna lie. Mm-hmm. The math-a-lite's different, huh? Yes! I ain't gonna lie, I don't know if it's like, I don't know.

I think, hear me out, I never really dated an athlete like that. But it's a little different. Like, it's a little, you once was an athlete, right? I was. A football player. I was. Y'all like to play. A little playful, right?

I'm not, but some do. You once never played football in your younger days? No, no. Never? I've always been very matter of fact. For real? Yeah. A little playful, right? Mm-hmm. I'm not, but some do. You was never playful in your younger days? No, no. Never? I've always been very matter of fact.

For real? Yeah. Yeah. I don't do that playing around. So you never played around in the locker room? No, you know, I play the jokes when I'm saying, like, well, my partner, I've been serious because, you know, it's going to happen. You pillify it, and then you hit somebody too too hard or you throw water and when you're not expecting

they get you and so you're on swole. So I say, you know what, let's just not even start that. And we keep it, hey, relationship, relationship. But no, I don't. You know, you wanna know what I do like that athletes do? What? When they do a touchdown, they do they let in. Yeah.

That's so cute. What entertainers, they be doing it when, I mean, when they were on stage. Yeah, but it's like different when you do like like a little score, you do it like a little... I like that. Is it because like you're in the music business and you got a lot of guys that try to approach you. I'm saying guys, I've used that loosely, I don't know.

But anyway, you probably know a lot of them. At least you're not... I mean, you might recognize them by Athletes, you're not kind of, I mean, you might recognize them by the face, but you don't really know them probably like you know. No, I'm into sports. I'm not gonna lie, I go to basketball games, I go to football games. I think that like, I think I would do more

of the entertainment world, because I think it makes sense. You know, I feel like athletes is too damn serious. Like, us as rappers, as entertainers, we get to do what we want. Like with athletes, it's like a schedule. Like you got to work out, you got to do this. And it's like-

You don't like that? It's structure, it's too damn serious. It's like, God damn. You like spontaneous, huh? You like being able to just pick up and go, do whatever, however. It's like they can't be called out. They got like, it's too serious.

Yeah. I don't like serious. You don't? Uh-uh. Uh-uh. So let me ask you this. Okay, you went out with an athlete. What was-

Who? What athlete? I'm just, you never gone out with an athlete? You keep referring to me. No, you haven't gone out with one? No. You want to go out with one? I mean, I will. I'm open to it.

Okay. Y'all heard that guys. You open to an athlete now. You like big defensive linemen, 6'5", 260. You like the- I like offense. You like offense, so you like a wide receiver. I like offense. Okay.

I like offense. Okay. I like when the ball is in your court. I like the ones that gotta like, you know. They gotta catch the ball and do something with the ball in the air. Yeah. Okay, so you like wide receivers, running backs. Yeah, maybe a quarterback, too. Quarterback, I like the ones that got like, you know. They got to catch the ball and do something with the ball. Yeah. Okay. So you like wide receivers running backs.

Yeah. Maybe a quarterback too. Quarterback. You like the quarterback? Ooh, the quarterback. Damn. I ain't never had no quarterback. I'm just saying what I'm just saying. You know, they like, they the MVP, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

But a lot, most of the quarterbacks, they're like, they either married or have a serious relationship. So I'm trying to get you something that you know. So who would you hook me up with? If you had to like put me on a blind date or if you could like. Ooh, whee, damn. Who you gonna give me?

Damn, that's a very good question. I don't know if CJ Stroud, you know CJ Stroud? Take quarterback for the Texans? Why would you go with CJ? I doubt you just asked me to hook you up. I'm trying to hook you up now you say why go hell? That man is a Christian. You might get changed.

You know why you mad? I think it's time to spin that wheel again. Okay, let me ask you. You go on a date, you go on a first date, second date, whatever the case may be. Give me a red flag. Ooh, a red flag, because you just can't hold no conversation. I hate a nigga that just can't talk. Like, hey, babe, what's up?

What about- Get to know me. What about if a guy, y'all having the time, you know, he'll cross with you, and he look at his phone? Yeah, I don't like that phone shit neither. Put your phone down. I'm not even gonna be on my phone. You probably won't even know that I got a phone. Wow.

So he's gonna get your undivided attention, you want that in return? Yeah. Once I'm on a date, you know, I'm here. You here, you present. That mean I like you, we made it to this point, I wanna get to know you, and I'm gonna give you all my attention. How many phone calls a guy gotta put in

before he get a date? You just gotta be consistent, you know? Just throughout the day. Maybe you say good morning, I understand you got worried. It ain't gotta be an all day thing, but it definitely gotta be like some follow ups, like how your day going, good morning, good night. Let me ask you a question.

The average length of a phone conversation, somebody trying to get to know Young Miami, how long the conversation? Is it 10 minutes, is it 30 minutes, is it 45 minutes, is it an hour? I like to text, she just texts me. Oh, you like texting? Yeah, texts.

See, that's too informal, that's too impersonal. How? God, you don't wanna pick up the phone and talk to me? You talking about you want my undivided attention? We could FaceTime and- Yeah, but after RIP? No, you got to build up the FaceTime. FaceTime is a thing now.

No, it ain't no thing. I swear to God, everybody should FaceTime you. See, the young school, what y'all call, because you old school, so what y'all call them, like, the little young- Yeah, them young- The youngest, they want to FaceTime you straight off the rip. Now, ain't no calling regular. They FaceTime straight off the rip.

Yeah, what happened? They just need to see your face. They want to know the background, where you at. It's FaceTime. Yeah, they be trying to call me FaceTime. Like, if I call regular, they be like, uh-uh, FaceTime me. I'm like, I ain't doing anything.

My wig was just lifting, but hey. No, I just hit decline. I'm talking to you. You don't like FaceTime? But I'm talking to the person. Why are you FaceTiming me if you talking to me? You need to see the background. So that way, when I know the next time I FaceTime,

they ain't your bad. They ain't your kitchen. Damn! Where you at? You try to figure out all that? Yeah. Yeah, man, see. Mm, mm, man, see.

What about some green flags? What's a go? Just a go. I ain't gonna lie, a green flag is just always like, how you day going? Are you okay? Is there anything I can do to make you feel better? It's just like, XMI, okay. I love it, man, that's XMI, okay.

So what's the longest you've ever talked on the phone? You had somebody, they call you, not, I'm saying it could be FaceTime, it could be regular call, what's the longest conversation you've had on the phone? Like with a man? Yeah. Like three hours.

Okay. That's a good conversation, you was into that. You was into that call with him. No, it's just like we started talking and I just set up my phone, they just sat on the phone while I was just doing. You was into that kind of work. No, it's just like, we started talking and I just set up my phone. They just sat on the phone while I was just doing whatever I was doing. That's a man that like you.

Yeah. That's interested in you, yeah. With that FaceTime? Mm-hmm. Three hours of FaceTime? Mm-hmm. Damn. I like men that really likes me.

You know, like I'm very into that. Like I like men that like, that's really into me. You know, like they want to just know what I'm doing. They can't stay away from me. I'm very into that. Like I like men that like, that's really into me. You know, like they want to just know what I'm doing. They can't stay away from me. I'm used to that. Like the men that I date, we do everything together. Like we, they go and sit with me to get my hair done, my nails done.

Oh no, see that's too much. That's too much. How? Because you know how long that take. Yes. Oh, I ain't got that kind of time. And to get your nails done too? My glam team right there, they can vouch for me.

You trying to show it, ma. You like, ah, yeah, y'all ain't got this, do you? You trying to show it, ma, but ain't it? I'm not. I'm just saying what I like. Lord, I'm ready. They be doing... Who's more toxic, men or women? Both.

You like toxicity? Sometimes. I can tell. Sometimes, You like toxicity? Sometimes. I can tell. Sometimes, sometimes it keeps the relationship going. I had Kel Mitchell on, he mentioned something about soul ties. You believe that's such a thing? I believe in soul ties, yes.

You got to spin the wheel, I spun the wheel last time. You do? Mm-hmm. Get wild. Do y'all want me to get wild and shun the shark? You gotta spin the wheel, I spun the wheel last time. You do. Mm-hmm. Get wild. Ooh, do y'all want me to get wild and spin the shirt? Okay, I think it's to get wild. Ha ha ha. Ha ha ha.

Let me see how y'all laugh. Let me see what it say, let me see what it say. Let me read it. Lick a person opposite sex, toes for 10 seconds, or take a shot. Not me, it's so cute. Like I don't know. No, no, no, you pull the card.

Everybody's telling me. You gotta lick the toes. Everybody's telling me to sign an OnlyFans for my toes. Make sure y'all zoom in on my toes. Hold on. I'ma sign an OnlyFans for this. I get that. You can start that after this here,

but Jay just saying, lick it perfect. They say lick it perfect. You the one that read it. But you pull the card. But you said let me read it. No, I just wanted, cause You're the one that read it. But you pulled the card. But you said let me read it. No, I just wanted, cause I wanna make. No, it go about whoever read the card. No, I wanted to make sure, no.

I wanted to make sure, cause you like, mm, cause I don't think, I didn't think you was gonna read what was actually on the card. So hold on just a second. Ooh, I know you got no athlete feet. Don't put out, I will run out of here. I promise you.

No, I ain't got no athlete feet, I ain't got no athlete feet. Look at that. Ah, look at that. Let me see. Okay. Now. Okay, I love a man with good hygiene. Yes.

I take two to three showers every day. Ooh, you ain't got athlete feet, I'm surprised. No. Why you surprised? Cause ooh man, feet be bad, especially the athletes. I get a man in pair every week. They be having a man, it think me bad. Especially the athletes. I get a man in pair every week. They be having a chorus, they be crusty. Yeah, they do.

That ain't me though, babe. That ain't me. Okay. But you ain't have to take no shot. You ain't got to take no shot. Obviously. You like this game. I do.

I do like this game. I'm telling y'all, y'all better go get this game. I'm telling y'all, y'all going to have a ball. Y'all might end up just getting a ball. I'm telling y'all, y'all better go get this game. I'm telling y'all, y'all going to have a ball. Y'all might end up just getting a ball. I'm telling y'all, y'all better go get this game. I'm telling y'all, y'all going to have a ball. Y'all might end up just getting a ball. I'm telling y'all, y'all better go get this game. I'm telling y'all, y'all gonna have a ball.

Y'all might end up just getting mad but that's why you can't play with your husband. This reminds me of a game, I don't know if you ever played this drinking game called Questions. So, you get like 10 people playing and you ask a question and the person has to respond with a question.

Okay. So I ask you, where are you from? You can't say Miami. You have to say, what's your favorite position? You have to ask a question and the person has to respond with a question. So I ask you, where are you from? You can't say Miami, you have to say, what's your favorite position? You have to ask a question. Yeah. It's called questions?

It's called questions. Now, if you don't answer in the form of a question, you have to take a shot. So you can imagine after playing for several hours and people not paying attention, because normally someone asks you a question, you Yeah. But you have to answer in the form of a question. Okay. Yeah boy. Whew. That was when I was young. Lord have mercy. When it comes to college basketball and March mania one thing is for sure.

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I feel like sometimes tools to wrongs don't make it right. You got to know when to walk away Don't make a left either. Yeah. But let me ask you this, you believe in getting your lick back? Oh. No, whoa! You're gonna pay for what you did!

I'm not going to! But I thought you didn't like 10 for that! Oh, I said that's, listen, I'm gonna get my lick back if I gotta get life. Trust me, babe! Damn! No, cause sometimes the niggas could just do you so wrong that you're going to pay for

what you did. Like, you're going to feel the pain that I felt. It just depends on the level of like pain that you put me through. Right. If you really did some **** up **** up. Oh, you'll get it back huh? He going to pay, he going to make him hurt huh? You're going gonna suffer.

And I need that. So you're gonna get your lick back. Is it planned out? You like, uh-uh, this ain't gonna be quick. This ain't Amazon Prime. You ain't gonna get this next date or a couple of hours. This is gonna be methodical. You ain't gonna even see this coming. I don't wanna put nobody on the spot.

But you got your leg back one time? Thank you. And I ain't play. Damn. He was like, you don't play no games. I said don't ever play me like that again in your life. And then y'all got back together? No.

But I see him from time to time. But let me ask you a question. If you get your leg back and be back with him? Oh, now where? Where'd he do that at? Right here. Cause now we even, now you know. What you mean we even? Now you know. Don't.

Women licks hurt more. But, okay, as a man, this is what I don't understand. Men just be like But I love you though. I love you too, babe. I love you just as much as you love me But I just people like as a woman. I would never like I'm the type of woman that is like I'm never gonna do you like that. I got too much respect for you But once you show me you could do me like that I gotta do you the worst way Because you hurt me but that lit but you know is like that, I gotta do you the worst way. Why? Because you hurt me. But that lick, but you know, it's like.

Why I gotta swear you if you ain't gonna spell me? Huh? Why do I have to spare you if you're not gonna spare me? But see, here's the thing. We playin', we playin' a hitting game. I hit you like that and then you, pow! Yeah. Yeah.

Pow! Oh baby, you dirty. Red fan gonna play, call the referee. Yeah. You gonna get a lot of respect for me. I'm gonna get a lot of respect for you. I'm gonna get a lot of respect for you. I'm gonna get a lot of respect for you. I'm gonna get a lot of respect for you. I'm gonna get a lot of respect for you. Oh baby, you dirty. They're fair going to play. Call the referee.

Yeah. You going to get them back like that? Where? At the Super Bowl. What? Now you know everybody going to be down there. Thank you. Thank you.

No, because I just be, I don't like that. I just be feeling like women are so, I'm going to speak for me. I come in everything dreamy. Like I feel like if I don't f*** with you, I feeling like women are so, I'm going to speak for me. I come in everything genuine. Like I feel like if I don't put you, I'm not going to put you. Like if I don't see no interest in you, I probably have talked to you for like the first week. I thought I'm just like, nah. You know what I'm saying? Like I don't even want to even make you feel like that if it's not that. And I come in every situation genuine because it's like, I put you. And I'm going to be honest, whatever you want to know, just

ask me, babe. And if it ain't go right, it's not go right. But once you start playing games with me, and I'm being genuine, and I really f*** with you, and you gonna hurt me, the queen? Now, Let me ask you this. Okay, you been in a relationship, have you lost interest in a guy?

Like, damn, I really like this dude. I really like him. I'm really digging him, blah, blah, blah. And then five, six months, seven months in, you're like, this issue ain't what I thought it was. I really like him. I'm really digging him blah blah blah and then five six months seven months in you like This is what I thought it was. Yeah, how you tell him how you tell him like bro this ain't working just You stop asking this call That's what see all the face time call you the heat on face. I know You can't you want to go out cuz I don't even know what to say to you at this point

I don't even know how to tell you like it ain't working, you know? Why you don't know what to say? Just say it ain't working, bro. Men, a lot of high value men worried about being in a situation where they get trapped. Women have kids, blah, blah, blah. Do you worry about that? Do you worry about being a high value woman

like yourself getting trapped? Ooh, I ain't gonna lie, I got two kids. I do want one more, but I ain't even the type of person, I think that like women do try to trap me all the time I see. But you got do want one more, but I ain't the type of person, I think that women do try to trap me in all the time I see it. But you got a little bit more control, you ain't gonna like it, because y'all have things now.

Y'all go to the drug store. I always tell women, child support is cool, but raising a child is very more important. It's not all about the money. The broken families is a thing. Like it's important to have a mom and dad. Like money can be cool, but it's like,

this child need a father. And it needs to be some type of co-parenting. Sometimes when it's just like a money grab, you have no child, you be misruped, a child support, and it's just raising a child on your own is not easy. So when it comes to me getting trapped, I ain't having no nigga baby. I ain't even letting a nigga trap me.

You ain't gonna let it happen? I mean, I want more kids, but definitely gotta be a family man though. You want one more? Yeah, probably like two more. Damn, you say you got two. I do, I want five. I want mom, I love my kids.

I feel like, like whenever- You want five kids? I can go to five. I love kids, like my house is, you could drop your kids off to my house. Like, I love kids. Like, I love kids. I'm very like, I'm a family person.

Like, I love to be in the house with the kids. I love to go like, you know, Disney World and do stuff with the kids. I love to go like, though, you know, Disney World and do stuff with the kids. Like I feel like that's what life about. Oh, okay. Give me a little spin right quick. Take a shot. Right here.

Ooh! Act out your favorite sex position. Ooh, yes, I want you to do this. I want you to. Like you set up that line. I want to get to that. Yes, I really do. Cause you know why? I'll be high, I'm going to show you my favorite

fake position, I need a muse. You just got to act out. You know how like you. I don't know how to act, I ain't no actor. You ain't never been to no movies? Mm-mm. Never? No TV show, nothing?

Mm-mm. This show's time to shine right here on Club Shay-Shay. That better go check it. See, that's what happened to me. All with my ass up there on BMF, trying to act. Yeah, see? Bitch, why is my husband? Why is, why y'all, why you, why you, why people keep on, everybody that's come up here has

asked me. Because. Because what? That was iconic. For who? It was for me? Yes, it was. Knowing what?

Because I ain't going to lie, when I heard that I was like, I know what position he was in. It was the growling for me. Yeah, you would say that thing. You see what happened now. My intimacy has been- And how they make you feel? How does that make you feel?

That's a very important question. I wanted to ask you that. How does that make you feel? When something is so intimate in front of the world and we all just got our own perception of what happened. Like I just knew what position you was in. I don't even know. But it's not like you can tell me that could make me change my mind.

Because I'm such a private person, and I've done a great job of keeping my personal life private. I did as good a job as I could shielding my kids, my relationships, because I believe public relationships, when they end, they have to end publicly also. So I like to be behind the scenes. I like to date privately. If we end this relationship, I like to end it privately. And here I am.

That's the first time that I've ever been on IG Live. People actually think I intended to do that. Really? Lose my job potentially, you know, $50 million from Disney, gone. All these advertisers and sponsors that club Shae Shae nightcap and all the affiliates that's up on the Shae Shae mediacap and all the affiliates that's up on the Shae Shae media lose that.

For what? That's how that, and that, you explained that so well, and that's how I feel in my situation. I was just in the situation. You just was in it, you didn't even know that happened. No, I did not. You were just having a good time. Thank you.

Doing the things you like to do. That's what you do with. even though that happened. No, I did not. You were just having a good time. Thank you. Doing the things you like to do. That's what you were. And it got in front of the world. Now you got to explain it to everybody. I know you did that on purpose, and it's like you didn't. I did not. You're telling the truth.

Yes. Well, there's nothing you could say to make people believe. And that's what you realize, that the internet has their own perception of what things is. They'll believe something that isn't true, and then they won't believe something that is true. And the internet has done a, I mean, I love the, I mean, the internet has its pros and cons,

but it's done a horrible job. I mean, people believe damn near everything that comes out on the internet, and it's not the case. Let me ask you this, 50-50 relationships, you open to 50-50 relationships? I'm open to, like, if I can make you pay the bills. You know, like, things like that, I feel like men, if I can't pay the bills. You know, like things like that. I feel like men, and I hate, like this subject is so,

you know, people are, I'm tired of this subject. I just feel like men are providers. That's just the way it is. Have you ever paid for a date? I ain't paying for no date. You ain't gonna pay, you're gonna take your man out for a birthday? I would.

I would. Spend on my man though, I'm not gonna lie. I give, I birthday? I will. Father's Day? I will spend on my man though. I'm not gonna lie. I give, I'm a giving person. I'm very selfish. Like I'm gonna give whatever. Like if I put you, like I don't look at it as like you gotta do for me.

Like if I like you, your birthday come, I'm gonna make you feel special. So I just think that like 50-50 will build if I was like, you know, like I have been 50-50 before, before I became famous. Like, you know, I ain't been 50 50 before before I became famous like, you know I had to make you feel it made me feel like it's regular to some people is regular You must try to say like if this person work a job you have to bring something to the table as a woman

Yeah, sex is just not everything What daddy daddy how they feel no sex is you get this cat? And yeah, sometimes the cat don't even be hitting on anything. Oh! Oh! Oh! Oh! But I just do feel like as a woman,

like you gotta be a mother. It gotta be something special about you. You just can't think sex is the key. You know, you gotta either cook, clean, something. You gotta be a woman in some aspect. Like sex is not always the answer, for real. Would you be okay being the breadwinner? Could you date a guy, let's just say for the sake of argument, he's not an athlete.

He's not a musician. Why you keep saying athlete? Because for me, I'm surprised that you haven't been with an athlete, but I'm just going to go, cause there's one coming. I'm going to talk it up. Okay. Yeah, let's talk about that later. Uh, you just keep referring.

I'm like, who is this athlete? Musician, entertainer. Thank you. Um, a normal guy, he has, I mean, he doesn't make the money that you make, I'm like, who is this athlete? Musician, entertainer. Thank you. A normal guy, he has a, I mean, he doesn't make the money that you make, but he's a great man. Love your kids as if he was their own. He makes sure when you come home, everything is,

hey, the house is in order. Everything that you need, when you come in from the road, he got you covered. Your kid, you know he got you. You okay in a situation like that? I'm not gonna lie. I've been in a situation like that. It feels good.

It always feels good to know that your kids are safe, you're safe, you're comfortable. That's the best feeling. I feel like just knowing that you're comfortable and this person loves me. But it becomes a time where you just like, you do want to feel special when it comes to gifting or somebody's setting, like Valentine's Day coming up your birthday, you want that champagne. Or sometimes it's just like, damn, like, we don't be able

to get, you know, but it's like, it all depends on like what you, some people not materialistic, but I would prefer like feeling good over materialistic things because it's for me, it's the memories. I could always be like, damn, I remember that time. And then these pair of shoes, them shoes just dated. So you want a situation like for Valentine's Day, you want rose petals leading up the stairs, you want all these big. Everyone wanna feel good.

I ain't gonna sit here and say like, okay, it's Valentine's Day, it's just another day. I do wanna feel good. Right. I do want like. So you want them to go all out. For your birthday, that thing better be lit. Oh, hello.

Private jet? It ain't gotta be private jet, because I don't fly private all the time. I ain't gonna lie, like every nigga can't send a jet. But when I land, there room better be something. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. But let me ask you this. being a woman in your position, you earn a good living, you've been the head of your house for an extended period of time, are you okay letting a man lead?

I like a man that leads. People say that! I want a man that leads. God said lead, I'ma follow. I'ma follow. I like a man that lead. I don't want a man that lead. What are your thoughts on women saying they're in their soft girl era? I'm in my soft girl era. I'm not gonna lie. What that is? What that mean? Tell me what that mean.

I'm just like, soft girl era is just like when you at peace, you calm, you feeling good. Like soft girl era is just like you just focus at peace, you calm, you feeling good. Soft girl era is just like, you just focus on you, you just pouring into you, you just feeling good. Everything that you just putting out there is just going to come back to you. It's just a soft girl era. I'm just feeling good. I'm focused on me. I want to get up.

I want to work out. I want to focus on my business, focus on myself. I'm not running after this. I'm not running after that. I'm not gossiping. I'm just in my soft grow era. I feel like that's me. That's you right now? 2025.

How long you gonna be in that era? 2025. That's it? Yeah. Next year I might be talking. This year I'm in my soft grow era. I'm gonna focus on me, you know, I'm gonna focus on me. I just feel like this year is the year

that I need to like lock in and focus. I don't know if you saw this, this viral tweet of a woman, guy sent her woman $200, his woman $200 to go shopping. She said, don't send $200 to go shopping, it's not enough. I mean, how much of a guy send you, what's the amount of money someone should send you that you go like not feel like cheap ass or send it back to him?

Ooh, like for a regular person, like just at least send, I'm gonna say a thousand. For a regular dude? 500, 500, 50, like once you split it. Gas so high, eggs high, like everything is high. Well, I mean, go vegetarian, stop eating eggs. I mean. But you know, it costs more to eat healthy though.

It does. I ain't gonna lie. Yeah, yeah. I ain't gonna lie, when I just, cause I just started working out and I just, I be going like the Joe's in the juice. If y'all see this for real, like a green juice be then at $40.

Yeah, you might start juicing yourself. That's what I said, I was like, God damn. You ain't gonna like the cleanup. Cause I've juiced before I've tried it all, it's the cleanup. By the time you, you know, and it takes so much, so many carrots, so many beets, so many green leaves and all that stuff, apples, oranges, and then the cleanup.

The break that machine down and clean it. It ain't healthy, it costs a lot. It does. It costs more than a damn meal. Right. I was like, whoa, baby. But let me ask you a question. He ain't send you a thousand, he sent you 250.

You gonna send it back? I ain't sending nothing back, I ain't gonna lie. I'm at 250 right, I'm just figuring out what I can do with it. I'm very appreciative. I'm not a person that's not unappreciative. I appreciate anything somebody do for me. But you keeping a middle note like damn, oh boy ain't saying me but. I be f**king with who I be f**king with.

I ain't gonna lie, I'm very locked in. Okay, so you're locked in so, hey. I'm locked in. What if he ain't got no cash apps? Zelle, Apple Pay, cash. Oh cash. No, no Zelle, no Venmo, no Apple Pay, what up, PayPal. What else they got? They got all types of shit. So many ways to get money. I ain't got none. It is. I mean so, if he ain't got none of that all he got is a cash and the only time you can get cash if he see you Mm-hmm

And he don't live in Miami Okay, then ain't all right, oh you can't do long distance I could do it on distance But I come and get the money you got to pull up. So you mean I gotta fly to get the money for $200? No, no, not $200. Yeah, I don't mind. Like, I ain't gonna lie, I'm like, I'm really a good girl. I go with the flow. You ever flown a guy?

Nuh-uh. What you said? Nuh-uh. You know like flying man to see me? Yeah! Hell no! I ain't buying no man a flight to get on a plane. Why not? That's too sassy.

That show him that you really, really buy him. I don't care. He better make arrangements to come see me. Man, y'all see, y'all ain't trying to do right. Y'all don't wanna- Why would I fly a want to come see me Why not? Why would I you don't like him like that? I do okay? Well good he need to be trying to come see me he gonna come see you, but I'm saying you know what that's you know

What hey? Fight ticket over my dead body Promise you never What's been it's been this way? Hey, hey guys see what y'all getting yourself into now I promise you never. Well spin this wheel. Hey guys, see what y'all getting yourself into now. No, I'm a good girl. Okay, take a shot. What is that?

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I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. A guy sent his he said he sent his last $30 for her to have lunch He said she said well y'all think I'm gonna eat lunch at McDonald's and send it back to him Man, I would've girl don't do that. I think it's in his last. Yeah, that's anything that's for you Yeah, like I think he put him he put you before you put himself. Hey very many with that. I would have something back I probably would have been like, you know what here come like 60 or 100. I don't know. I would have something to back. I probably would have been like, you know what, here come like 60 or 100, I don't know,

I would have just something to back though. I probably would have made me a ham sandwich. And you'd have put an extra 30 with his, 30, send it back to her? You're a good woman. Yeah. Somebody go get them a good woman. Any nigga that like, experience less,

I mean that's a nigga that's for you, they gonna rock out with you. Man, what's the best gift a man has ever given you? And don't say your kids. You gonna tell me about kids? The best gift a man have ever given me was his time. You know what? Oh my God!

Why is it a bull? This is some bull jive. I ain't gonna lie, I'm not gonna lie. Like a getaway, I'm gonna say a getaway. Where y'all go? Bahamas. Had a little private bungalow, door open up to the beach. It was like we went to the Bahamas and it was just us.

Just there. And we just had quality time, that was the best gift. I promise you, we were just us. Just them. And we just had quality time. That was the best gift. I promise you, we was just communicating. I bet y'all was. Body talking, huh? Yeah. Yeah. Do you feel relationships are starting

to become transactional? Of course. Marriage. Nobody ain't marrying no broke ass man. But that's a contract that's one sided. For the most part. Now every once in a while you will find a woman that out earns the man and the contract is, but for the most part, the contract, I mean, think about it. You get married, you signing a contract. Right.

What about that proposition? That's why I used to say I don't want to get married, because I feel like marriage is just like, it's too much on the title. Like, you feel like, oh my God, I'm married, now I'm a wife, I can't do this, I can't do that. It just becomes too, it just becomes like, you're a wife, you can't do this.

It's like, God damn. Mm-mm, can't. Yeah. It's just, it's a big commitment, but I also just feel like sometimes, like what works for you works for you. Right. But.

You okay just having a boo? So let's just say y'all hold it down. Cause guess what? I want to get divorced, and I got to chase you down and sign these papers. Now everybody's saying, oh yeah, but you still married. That's aggravating. Right.

Cause he don't want to sign the papers. Or whatever the situation is, it's just like, I want to just get the fuck on. Next, thank you, next. That easy? Damn. You know how sometimes it would really be a situation that just makes you want to leave.

You leave, y'all never have contact. Now I got to pay a lawyer. You got like, is it become too many fees? It get dragged out. So let me ask you this, you got like, is it become too many fees? It get dragged out. So let me ask you this, you're in a relationship, how often does a man have to buy you gifts? Is it weekly, is it monthly, is it every three, or is it how he see fit?

You expect him paying you birthday, mother's day, Christmas? I'm more of like a feeling type of person. Like I go off of feelings, I for real, materialistic things, It's cool. Like it's cool. You can buy me a bag. It's cool. You can buy me a car.

But like- Damn, a car? The bag, you would do it good with the bag, baby. Some shoes, damn. And then you ain't gonna want no camera. You ain't gonna want no Honda. You gonna want Benz or BMW. I'm just saying,

it's be tricking big these days. Do they? Yes. This concludes the first half of my conversation. Part two is also posted and you can be it these days. Do they? Yes. This concludes the first half of my conversation. Part two is also posted and you can access it to whichever podcast platform you just listened to part one on. Just simply go back to Club Shae Shae profile and I'll see you there.