Club Shay Shay - Dak’s Wedding Called Off, Sharing Your Ex With Your Best Friend, & The Need For Women.

Episode Date: March 23, 2026

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and the free IHeard app So let me ask you this Is it inappropriate if he's like, man, I'm about to get married. I just want to get it in one last time with somebody else, and then I'm ready to go. Is it inappropriate if she did that? She had sex with another man before you married her? I'm asking, but answer my question first.

The question is yes. It is inappropriate? So is it inappropriate to have a bachelorette party with swinging balls and dicks everywhere, and then y'all, he's sitting on you? That's inappropriate. Yeah, that's inappropriate too. But that's women do that.

It's, I mean, it is what it is. men do strippers and have naked strippers there. Yeah, so that's like, I think the bachelor and bachelor party is like, you know what, I'm going to have fun one last time. It doesn't mean you're sleeping with someone. This is the taking over the game. All right, everybody, welcome to truth after dark. Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to another episode of The Truth After Dark. I am your hostess Arfairdha. What up?

The Truth in the building. So we're going to get into some current events. Dak Prescott has been in the media a lot. Him and his fiance called off their wedding a week before it was supposed to happen. So there's been a lot of speculation, some saying like she didn't want to sign a pre-up. And allegedly what really happened is that people at the Bachelorette party or Bachelor Party, or bachelor party showed her inappropriate DMs from DAC to other women.

Damn. This is my thing. Why y'all wait as friends of hers to the Bachelorette party to bring this up? If y'all are friends, you're going to contact her like, girl, you still want to do this? Why are you wait until we get all the way to a week before the wedding or all of this stuff

to be like, oh, look, girl, you sure you want to marry him? That's just hate. That's just hate. Like, I feel like friends get, it's a proper time and place to do things. And as a friend, do you bring that awareness to her of that? Girls are going to do that anyway, yeah. But I think you shouldn't wait to the Bachelorette party.

I don't think when you're like, everything's all planned. Oh, look, look, look. That's just like, come on, man. That's like you're just trying to make something good go bad. He obviously love her. He obviously wants to marry her, but then this stuff come up. I hate this. Well, it's not their fault.

Well, they could have brought it up sooner. They could have brought it up sooner, but we don't know if it just happened. It's not necessarily their fault. Yes, I agree with what you're saying. That's that they could have brought it up sooner. But saying he obviously loves her and he obviously does, he obviously doesn't respect her enough if he's about to marry her and he's DMing a bunch of other women.

All right, so let me ask you this. Is it inappropriate if he like, man, I'm about to get married? I just want to get it in one last time with somebody else and then I'm ready to go. Is it inappropriate if she did that? She had sex with another man before you married her? I'm asking, but answer my question first. The question is yes. It is inappropriate.

So is it inappropriate to have a bachelorette party with swinging balls and dicks everywhere and then y'all, he's sitting on you? That's inappropriate. Yeah, that's inappropriate too. But that's women do that. It means what it is men do strippers and have naked strippers there. So that's like, I think the bachelor and bachelor party is like, you know what, I'm going to have fun one last time. It doesn't mean you're sleeping with someone.

There's crossing a line by going to a strip club. What I'm saying? Who said he was sleeping? said inappropriate messages. Yeah, but still, inappropriate messages or inappropriate messages doesn't mean he's sleeping with her. That's two different things. Inappropriate, if you found messages in your soon-to-be wife's phone

asking men to sleep with her or can I have dick or you're handsome, you're sexy, I want you. We don't know the context. What I'm asking you is, are you going to still marry her? What you're asking me again? If you're soon-to-be wife, you found DMs of her, DMs of her DMing multiple men flirting, asking them to meet up, asking them for sex,

saying that they're sexy and she wants them. Is that inappropriate? And are you going to marry her? I think we got to have a conversation. I don't think, like, that, the position he is, hell no. Hell no. I'm good. Like, no, we ain't doing that.

Right. Right. And I'm good, too. So we don't know the extent or the context of his inappropriate message. No, was it something sexual? Was it like, we don't know. Inappropriate is inappropriate and disrespectful, but I don't know the context. Obviously, it was enough to say to call off the wedding.

So. You're not calling off the wedding because you're saying, hey, what's up? You're calling up the wedding because you probably are saying something sexual. You're probably insinuating things. And I'm calling off the wedding too at the end of the day because at this point, what are we getting married for? Like, I'm so confused. Is it a breakup then? It's a breakup.

It's like, this is off completely. I'm cool. You disrespected me. Like, it's one, and we don't know if it's a continuous thing. Like, see, with a woman, it's like, I may see something one time, and I might let that slide, but then if I see it again and again, this is now, you're showing me this is who you are. And at that point, I'm stupid.

Fool me once, shame on me. Shame on you, I mean. Fool me twice, shame on me. Like, I'm not going to let you fool me twice. I'll give you a one-time benefit of the doubt. So we don't know if she gave him. a benefit of the doubt before. And he was like, no, it's not like that.

And now she's seeing all these messages and we're supposed to get married. I don't want to marry you. She saw the deal on the table. She saw, oh, inappropriate messages and a prenup, I can't take that deal. Maybe. If it was no prenup, maybe she takes the deal.

I wouldn't. It just depends on what people value. I mean, women love security in a man. He obviously, can give that to her. Do you realize that security is more than money? It's money and it's mental health. Do you know that it's emotional security? It's physical security. Physical security meaning I know you're not sleeping with other women and can bring me something. Emotional security. Honestly, I feel like financial insecurity is important, but I put emotional security really high up there for women.

We're very emotional and we have a lot of shit going on with us. And if a man can't protect you emotionally, that doesn't feel safe. It doesn't feel good. It feels scary and it feels really like uneasy and it dysregulates your nervous system as a woman when I feel like I cannot trust my man to just have a conversation with them, to trust them to be faithful, to trust a lot of things. It makes you feel like I'm not in a good place. And also, it's funny because I, on here, I have to, this is something I'm actually talking about. There's a study that shows people who avoid hard and tough conversations are more likely to cheat or disconnect.

So people who avoid conflict, instead of resolving it, problems don't get resolved, they usually end up either cheating or they completely disconnect from the relationship. And I can agree with that. All right, before we go any further, women value financial security first on the list. once they get the financial security,

all those other things file in line. Would you agree with that? I think most women, yeah. I would probably agree with that. Well, he didn't show emotional security because of the text. He's given her financial security, so I'll say move on with the wedding

and figure it out in a marriage. Some people value financial and emotion security the same. Like, it's the same. Like, if a man didn't, I can give you no financial security, and he gave you emotional security. What I'm saying is it's the same. You can't have one without the other.

There's a lot of women who will take financial security and not emotional security, and there's a lot of women who take emotional security, not financial security, but there's a lot of women who feel like if I can't get both, then I don't want to be in this relationship. Like if I can't be emotionally secure,

because people will go, a lot of people who take the financial security, they'll end up being in a situation where now they feel empty. All I got is nothing. I got financials, but I'm depressed, I'm sad, I'm alone. I don't have anybody that I can talk to and really, like, have a conversation with.

I don't trust this person. Like, it's a lot that comes with that. So it's just, it's inevitable to end. Like, women need emotional security. And even if they try to trick theirself and pretend that they don't, that relationship will end. But not having financial security

can lead to that emotional insecurity also. Everything, that's why I said it's a balance. It goes hand in hand. You need to have both, period. Because even with men, men who are not financially secure in a relationship, they often cheat too

because they need their ego strokes because they're in a relationship with a woman where they feel like, oh my God, I'm struggling, she's complaining, like I need to go over here and get a release type shit. So it's like, there's always something, and that's why I say it goes hand in hand. But emotional security, we talk so much about financial,

but emotional security is like gold. And it's really hard for men to give that a lot because men are so logical that they don't understand the motionality of a woman a lot and they really don't try to do the work to understand that. So for them, it's like, you're emotional. You're always saying something. You always got this, you always got that.

Because it's true. Like, it's true. women are more emotional. Yeah, we are. We know that. And then little things turn into big things when they don't have to.

Well, I think that little things turn into big things when men can't accept that their woman is emotional and just let them say what they need to say and be like, all right, baby, I got you. Instead, men want to tip for tat.

Why are you tip for tatting me? I'm not, what are we doing here? You're a man. Why are you trying to act like me? I think we need to all just grow up, though. Yeah. Like, sometimes it's just like, man, as a man,

want them to be all soft all the time. You want them to like, sometimes you got to hold the line. Yeah, but I think that there's a level of, there's a level of like when you're a man, there's a level of like knowing when and how to treat your woman accordingly. Like, I just, I do. I feel like women, we go through hormonal changes, PMS, all this stuff, which is real, scientific proven, backed by science. Like we change hormonally all the time.

And a man who can understand that and be like, you know what? All right, baby. Like, I get you. We're good. Like, because you can as a woman have a whole emotional week, a whole emotional two weeks because you're PMSing before your period. Now you're on your period. Now you're stressed out.

Like there's a lot that women deal with when it comes to their emotions that we just want men to do a better job at understanding. And that's it. Like, I get it. And I feel like as a woman, you shouldn't lean solely on your man to like regular. your emotions, no, you should have some emotional regulation on your own. But who wants to have, like, men should not match energy. You shouldn't match a woman's energy.

You're not a woman. Like, you shouldn't be tip for attack. What is a woman looking for in an emotional? No, you're not looking for emotional man. Like, like, what are you, what's how emotional security you want if you don't want us to match your emotional security? My point is, is if a woman is, like, in her emotions, we're not expecting a man to be, oh, you have this, now I'm going to act like this. We're not expecting no tip for tact.

We're expecting a man to be like, all right, baby, like, I love you, you good. Like, it takes the smallest thing. Like, men don't realize you could shut the woman up so quick if you're just like, all right, baby, I hear you, I love you, I got you. Don't trip. It's simple. But men just want to instead be like, whatever, I don't, what da-da-da-da-da, like all this stuff. And it's like, just say that and move on.

And I think that that's where women and men are getting. just saw a video about this and two women have spoken about this recently. I just feel like it's just simple and we both need to do a better job at understanding each other, period point blank. But, you know, like just, even as women,

I think we need to understand men are logical. And sometimes, like, it can hurt our feelings because we're just like, damn, it feels so cold. But, you know, men just don't harp on shit the way we do. And we have to understand that as well. I think we just need to do a better job by understanding

both. parties. Yeah. I wouldn't have called off the wedding if I was heard of. I'd be like, man, we didn't

went this far. I mean, come on. Like, we didn't went this far and for her to see some inappropriate test. It depends on what they said. We can talk about.

But we don't know if it's been a reoccurring issue. And then it's like, damn. How do we get this far the NFL's a reoccurring issue? How do we even get this far? Because women give men

chances. We want to say, we want to believe when a man's like, no, babe, I didn't do that. on purpose. I didn't mean that. No, babe, this happened. We give men so many chances to excuse the behavior. So then now I look stupid because now you keep playing with me in my face. And now

people think women want to be married so bad. I don't want to be committed to a man that's like that. I don't want to spend the rest of my life. It's going to have been an isolated incident. I don't, but we don't know that. And even if it is, some people have harder boundaries. I don't deal with, some women are straight up. I don't deal with that. I don't deal with no level of cheating straight up. I didn't get this far for you to call this off. We didn't have all the invitations. I didn't bought out the place. I didn't, I didn't flew out all these people with flights. Well, then because it's like I don't want to get a divorce. I don't want to go through that. I know that I don't want to be with you. See, men don't understand when men, women don't understand

when men, I mean, men don't understand when women start to see certain stuff a man is doing, you lose that soft spot for them. You start to lose respect. And a man doesn't want to be with a woman who doesn't respect him. So if I know in my heart, I can't really respect him anymore. I lost that soft spot for him. I'm doing, like, that's really doing him a favor. That's doing you a favor. Because I'm not going to be able to look at you in the same light anymore. I'm doing you a favor for real by moving on.

Like, once I get to that point, I have to walk away because you don't want to be disrespected. I don't really have respect for you after you seen terms of. I don't think they have kids, but, no, I don't think they have kids together. But I have to double check. I'm not sure. But from what I, from what I, Remember, I don't think, let's see, I can look it up.

If they got kids, then. But they're not by her, right? Yeah, I don't think that they have kids. No, they don't have kids together. Or do they? Probably he saved a way, man. I don't know if they have kids. I thought it was from a different lady, but it might be from her.

He probably saved. She saved him a lot of bread. By doing that. Yeah, they do have two kids. They have two kids together, yeah. They got to work that out. They got to figure that out. We got to be like, no, we getting married and we're going to figure it out.

Why, though? Because we already built something. Why tear it down? When you walk that aisle, you know, it's for sickness and health until death do us part. Yeah, but it's not for you cheating or sending inappropriate messages or, you know, telling what else you did. Let's take that out the wedding then until a death do us part.

I don't never need to be to say it by the... Well, that's my point. She didn't go through the wedding. Yeah, but I'll just say that. She didn't want to do the death to us part because she's not going to deal with what you're coming with. That's my point. My point is, is I'm not going to walk down the aisle

because I'm not going to make that commitment to a man who behaves like this. Whether we have kids or not, people have kids all day and they're not together. Like, what does that have to do with anything? People are baby moms and baby dadies all day. So at the end of the day, already had two kids before we were ever married.

So now we'll co-parent. Like, what is the difference? I don't want to commit to a man. Like, men thinks women want so marriage so bad that they'll relinquish their boundaries and their values and their respect. I don't want to be sitting here and make a vow and commit to a man who I know is willing

to have this type of behavior, who is disloyal. I can't sit in front of God and the people that I love and make that commitment. Because once I make that commitment, people honor marriage, some. And once I personally make that commitment, we really are death to us part if I get married. If I ever get married, I'm death to us part.

We're not divorcing. We're going to have to figure this out. So I'm not going to do that with a man who I know is going to put me through so much shit that's going to make me want to die so we could part. I'm not going to want to do that. Well, wait, what did you just say? You said, we'll work this out if you get married?

Yeah, if I get married. But if we're before the marriage, and we're not doing this. I'm not going to go make that commitment before God. So if that had happened within the marriage, then they got to work. They got to figure something out. If that would have happened within the marriage, it would be different, yeah.

And again, like you said, it's a fine line and boundaries, and it must have been something. There had to be something over the top to where you just, I can't deal no more. Because they obviously been together for a while, got two kids together, and maybe that was just the final straw.

Yeah, I could have been the final straw. They've been together for a minute. Obviously wasn't that. obviously wasn't the first time. Yeah, it couldn't be. Because if it's the first time. Well, I'm going to tell you this, though. It's so funny because me and my homework

were talking about this and she said something crazy. And it's sad that women even have to experience it. But she was like, you know, the first time a man does something to, like, break your trust, she's like, remember that time it hurts the most. Right? Like, because what happens is for a woman, men don't realize that's the time it hurts the most.

but once you do it again, it's like, okay, then you do it again, it's like, okay, I'm starting to fall out of love with you now. What's happening is the first time a man cheats or he does anything to break your trust, it hurts so bad because as women, even though men have constantly proven that they will do this type of behavior, you have this man on a pedestal. And you're like, no, this one is different. He's not going to do anything like that. I trust him. I love him. He hasn't done anything I know. And you have this hope that you're like, I actually met someone who's not going to do this,

who's different for me. And then when they do it, it shatters you. It breaks you so bad. And it's like, damn, I really thought this was different. And then after, when you find something again, you're just, it gets the pain lessons every time. And then by the time you're on their third, fourth, you're ready to leave because you're like, oh, it's like you get numb.

You're like, oh, I expect this now. I don't even expect you. I don't even look at you as someone like, I want to leave me or I could trust because you lack discipline. You lack loyalty. You lack honesty. Why do I look at you? Those are not leadership qualities.

I don't look at you as a leader. So now I'm losing respect and I'm losing love as time goes on to the point where you just become numb. But that first time, that first time, you're broken. Well, she probably lost respect. You lose respect. You lose respect. And who knows?

He might have been doing the marriage and the engagement because he messed up so bad. You already had two kids together forever long. Like, you probably did this because you're like, okay, let me show you this and that. And she probably got to the point where, like, I'm not going to do this. I'm not going to make a commitment in front of all these people

and end up divorcing you. I'm not because that's going to divorce is hard, obviously. You know, it's more than a breakup, it's more intense than it's a lot. And nobody wants to have to go through that. So, you know, you're already going through a public this, and this is not even the divorce, and you're already going through all of this. So, you know, as a woman nowadays, too, it's like you want to think about, like, if I ever get the opportunity to get married or whatever,

it's like you got to, it's going to have to be someone that I'm like, yeah, I know you're not going to make a full of mirror and bear it. me because once I stand before God, it's more for me a commitment to God. Like, I'm going to really rock with that and we're going to make this work. But if I know you're going to put me through a whole bunch of shit in order to do that, why am I going to do that?

Like, why? Why? What's the point? I get it. Because, like, for instance... So what do we ask you do? How do women look at it? Like, all right, he put you through some shit. It's over with. You move on. You get a new guy. He put you through some shit.

Is this a cycle now? Yeah, it's a cycle. So what happens is, is like, you pray, you find a guy that's not going to... You wish you should have stayed in that bullshit? No, you don't. You don't. Once you're gone...

I should have just took his bullshit than dealing with his bullshit. No, no, no, you're cool. Yeah, you're cool. Once, because it gets too deep into one person's bullshit to where you can't even get with them sexually anymore. You can't, you can't. Like, I can't get past this with you.

So I don't want you. So even if I go to a new man and he cheats or he, does something, like, I'd rather do it here because it's not as built up long-time resentment. I can't do it with the person. Once you meet a threshold with a man as a woman, it's over. It's really over. Like, that's what men don't realize, even if we want to be with you.

Yeah. Even if we're like, I wish I don't want to end this relationship. I don't want to not get married. I don't want to not be with the person I'm supposed to, like, have a kid with. I don't want to do this. even if you have all those things that you don't want, you physically cannot feel soft again. You physically cannot feel safe again.

And if a new man does it, then it's a new situation. And you pray and hope that he might mess up one time and it's not again. And you keep figuring it out until you can find a man that actually respects you. But I'm going to keep trying and get with somebody who is actually like,

you know, I got you, baby. So where I can feel safe and I can feel good because I don't regret. I've been in that situation. I've left someone and I got with a new person and they did something. I don't ever feel like I should have stayed with him. No, because it's gone.

It's over for that. Like, I can't. And that's why men have to understand when you're doing stuff and you're doing dirt, it's not even about if she's going to forgive you. It's about I can't forgive you if I want to. I can forgive you, but I can't feel that way with you no more. Like I remember telling

the guy that I was with for years, like, I just don't feel that way about you anymore. I just, I can't. Like, I want to, but I really can't. I really can't. And I've tried therapy, but I just, I can't get past this anymore. Yeah. You know, I can't feel soft with you and safe with you anymore.

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Odom, he went on a podcast recently and says that he regrets cheating and stepping out on Chloe Kardashian and that he mentally will be paying for that for the rest of his life. Mm-hmm. Yeah. And he basically said

like he made a commitment. Like he prayed to God. They were both, you know, God fearing and he was praying to God that he was going to do right by this person and he did not. You know, because I know he was married before her, I think. Wasn't he? Yeah.

But he said that this relationship with her, he was trying to do different. And he prayed to God like, I'm going to do different this time. And he didn't. So he said to make that mistake twice, he said it killed him. Yeah.

And he mentally is now paying for that for the rest of his life. Because it's one time to do it once. And then now to do it again is like blowing him, he's head. Damn. But, you know. Life be lifeing. Life be lifeing. It is what it is.

Speaking of that, Dwight Howard is currently going through a divorce. Damn. Why even get married? This is like horror story time right now. Well, I think that this all has to do with men. saying they want peace after disrupting it. I hate when men are on, they're like, I want peace.

I want peace. I want to be peaceful. I just want to be chill. Well, you did a whole bunch of shit to make it non-peaceful and to make me feel crazy about shit and now you want peace so bad. What's the latest on his situation?

Well, he filed for divorce. That's the latest thing we've seen. Damn, they was only together for like a year. Well, they already was having public issues before they got married or when they just got married. So, like, talking about divorce, like after, like, a month of being married.

So I don't know. I also think that, like, keeping your information public and, like, letting us all know what's going on, it's just, like, you shouldn't do that. Keep us out the conversation. We don't need to know when y'all getting divorced, when y'all get divorced, when you all get in.

I hate people who go to the Internet for stuff. That really is the most unattractive thing anyone can do for me. Social media has ruined relationships. So many now. we're in the error to where like you said with the DAC press got DM and inappropriate messaging or here this is what we're doing in our relationship public public public and everybody knowing everything about y'all to where now you allow other people to interfere in it and attack you even more because the more this is what women and men do when they get married and then your DMs getting in flux it just opens up the door for so many negative comments or just negative influences that it can creep in a woman's mind or a man's mind

because now when you make it public and somebody's like, oh yeah, I've seen her here or I know she used to, all of that. And then it just creates doubt. And it's just like, I just feel like most relationships, especially with public figures

because that's what we're talking about right now should remain private. And the more private you get, but the more privacy you put in a relationship, the less people are going to come in and try to attack the relationship to try to break it up. Because people hate to see other people happy. I agree. I feel like a lot of times you got your genuine friends and family that want to see you happy,

but then you got people that just like, let me see. Let me see if I can break this up. Oh, here's my window of opportunity. It just opens the door for too much other things to creep in. I agree with that. I think privacy is key. think he's been so private and too close to your heart is important. I agree with that.

I hate seeing everything play out over social media. It just gets messy. And there's no recovery. Once public embarrassment is involved, it's hard to go back. Like, that's one thing for a woman. A woman hates public embarrassment. Well. You know, you can have stuff and it's kept in-house and, you know, you don't know what's going on.

you don't know what they're going through, but on social media, everything looks happy. But once it goes public, the relationship has such a strain on it that it's hard to recover from that. And that's why I hate when people take it to the, oh, this is what we're going through.

Like, all of that is unnecessary. Like, I just, I'm not, I'm an old school, I'm old school, and I don't like public embarrassment. Yeah, anything who's going to the internet, that's blowing me. It's because you're not looked at as a fool now when you go out in public. But if it's private and everybody ain't in y'all business,

you can probably deal with it a little better, right? Yeah, you can deal with it a little better. When it's public, it's like, damn, you just feel like everybody looking at you a certain way, talking behind your back, doing all this, and it's just too much built up when you have to go out the house every day to have that feeling.

Like, you know, so I encourage, you know, relationships where there is... I mean, people are going to talk about you regardless, though. Whether it's a public figure, whether it's this like... Public embarrassment. Yeah, but it's like people assume things. Like something can come out on the internet and they don't know the real about, oh, this is that, and then everyone's sending it to each other,

talking shit about you, sending it here, sending it here, you can't even go to the damn gym, people are in your business. Like, stuff happens like that regardless, and it's just about how you're built, and if you're built to go through that. Like, there's certain people who are not, and there's certain people who just be like, whatever, I don't even care.

you know, like, it is what it is. Like, for me, I can, I'm one of those people that I could, like, literally probably deal with public embarrassment. I think the bigger fear for me is how I feel about my partner. Like, how am I feeling about you after this? Is how, like, am I going to be able to look at you the same? You know, like, it makes it harder with people in your business, though, and that's why I do believe privacy is important. But, like I said, I feel like we have to be, real about like how do me and the person feel?

Like, let's drown out the noise of everybody else because people are always going to say something even if you're not public, and even if you're not a public figure. Just people in the streets like, oh, her man, or her, she did this and he did that. Like, people always want to talk because people always want to find a reason why

your shit is not better than theirs. Yeah. Okay, so we're going to get into our segment. This is the more or less segment brought to you by price picks, where you can win real cash by playing just more or less on your favorite players. Use code TAD and get $50 instantly in lineups when you play your first $5. Okay, so we're going to talk about Little Boosie. So Little Boosie recently said on like he was on a show or something, and it's a viral clip. But he was like, I don't care what no one says.

I need a woman. And he was like, I feel like men need women more than they like to admit that they do and not just sexually. He was like, sometimes I just want my woman around to lay up with. He just values a woman's presence. And he just feels like a woman just gets his shit together.

Like gets him feeling better, motivated, gets his like cracking. And like just her presence alone just brings that energy. And a lot of women are, like the clip is going viral because a lot of women are like, okay, damn, we don't hear men talking like that as often anymore. What are your thoughts? You know, this to each is on, you know, and, you know, just, like, I think in Bousie case, you know, he's getting a little older. So he's like, you know, he ain't doing the same things he used to do.

And you're like, you know, I need that. You know, I need that comfort. You know, women do bring comfort to the man when it's the right one. It depends on the woman. Like he said, it can't be any old woman just for sex and all that. It got to be one that bring comfort, emotional stability, that just uplift you, keep you motivated, things in that nature. And, you know, some men need that little kick in the ass, you know, from a woman.

You know, sometimes men aren't self-motivated and, you know, get into a place in their life to where, you know, depression is starting. starts kicking in, you know, and the woman can uplift you. And I get what he's saying, you know, and a certain space in your life, you want to feel that, because as men, we don't want to be ones that's to die alone. You know, you want somebody that's going to take care of you, uplift you emotionally, physically, all of those things. So I get what he's saying, you know, and women provide that.

But you just think that that's an older man thing. You don't think that all men, like a lot of men feel that, of all ages. feel exactly what. Say it again again. Like, it's just simple. Like that women presence. I just don't think people need a woman. I don't think women need a man.

It's a want. Regardless of like that. If you're independent, if you're independent and you're in peace with yourself, listen, I live my whole life with my mom as a single parent. And she didn't get married until she was like 70. You know, and so I come up to see like, damn, my mama didn't need no man.

She didn't need it, but it would have made her life easier if she would have had the two-parent household. She wanted that. But we're not, we're not like your, I don't think we should fix it on the need or one. I'm just talking about, no, I'm just talking, I don't think anyone needs anything except oxygen and health. People need that. People need a woman. People, it's hard for people to be alone. Yeah.

It really is a need for some people, for a lot of people. It's not. It's never a need. You can make it happen. But the point is... It is a need. You talk to people like, people need that stimulation from a woman. Men actually, like my cousin, like, he wanted and need it. Like...

But you're the one who just said you don't think anyone needs a woman or man. You know, you just said that, right? I said wanted and need it. Yeah, you said you don't think anyone needs a woman or man. I don't think people should need that. People want that. So what are you saying for you? Now, because nothing you just said made sense.

It does make sense. No, you just said. Do you know what you just said? Yeah, I know what I just said. Okay. All right. No, exactly what I said, yeah. I'm so confused.

Like, we don't need it, but we want it. But then there's some people that actually need it. You just said you don't think anybody needs a man or woman. But there are some people that need it. Okay. I'm not. But that's not the question I was asking. I was just asking, do you feel like that's just an older man thing, people who value

a woman's presence? When I'm talking about like needs or wants, we're saying he, Wussi said he values a woman's presence. He loves having a woman around because he feels like it makes his life better. He's not saying he needs it. He's just saying, I value it. I feel like it makes me feel better. It makes me feel uplifted.

It makes me feel like, you know, someone who's there laying up with me, like just the He said that the presence of a woman just makes his thought go up in his mind. And you were saying like, yeah, I feel like an older, if you're older, if you're this, or that's him. But I'm saying, do you not think that that's like men of all ages can feel that way? You just think that that's just what older men feel. Oh, that's a tough one. I mean, I think older men more than younger men. Yeah, I mean, just, you know, that's his.

What he wants, that's what he feels, makes him whole. You know, because when you've had it and you've lost it and you ain't guided no more, they're just like, damn, I need that, if I want that, you know, and that's not all men. But, you know, for him, he sees how he is with a woman compared to when he was without a woman. And that's what makes me feel like the reason he's saying these things. Thank you to our good friends at Price Picks, America's number one sports pick app. Use code TAD and get $50 instantly in lineups when you use your first $5.

So anyways, back to what we're talking about. There's a study that reveals women are exhausted from explaining a basic emotional needs to men. Like listening and empathy. I feel like I get it. I get it 100%, but I feel like this is kind of what we just talked about earlier. I feel like men and women just need to do a better job of understanding. each other and communicating. And this is the other study shows that people who avoid hard and tough conversations are more

likely to cheat or disconnect. I can agree with that because I feel like I never cheated, but I feel like if I can't have conversations with someone and feel like it could be productive without it being like a shutdown or turn into an argument about things that I'm feeling, I've noticed that I will hold a bunch of shit in because I'm like, I don't want to feel like I'm nagging her. I know this person doesn't want to hear this. So I'll just hold it and then that will make me like slowly disconnect because I'll be like, well, I have all these things that I'm hoarding

that could probably be a simple conversation, but I'm afraid to say anything because I don't want it to turn into an argument or the person shuts down or the person gets mad. Like when it's just really me trying to talk about like basic things that I feel, you know? It's not basic though. That ain't basic if you feel that. It's not basic. And if you're going to get through it sometimes,

Sometimes it may take an argument, let it all out. See, in team sports, and I've been on good and bad teams, like, when it's bad, and this is the same as a relationship, you have a team meeting. All right, everybody air it out. What you ain't feeling about him, him, him, while we ain't winning, while we ain't doing this. And you've got to be able to have those arguments and those conversations to get it all out. You're going to feel better. It can't be, I don't want to say it, and then I emotionally get detached.

No, I know that's wrong. Yeah, I know that's wrong. in so many ways. I know that's wrong. The only way you can heal and move forward is you might have to argue. You might sometimes have to yell and scream or nag and all of that shit. I mean, you would hope, though, that like... But that's what come with it.

But you would hope that the thing is, is like, I feel like people, like, are not receptive sometimes. Like, it doesn't have to be an argument. Like, some conversations, it's not even an argument. It's just like, hey, this is how I kind of been feeling about this thing or that thing, and it's been kind of making me feel this way. And instead, I've noticed this happened in my past relationships. I'll be completely honest and I think that this is one of like

my red flags that I've done is like I'll just hold a bunch of shit that's like little shit but it's like making me feel away or I feel weird and then I'm just like carrying it carrying a bunch of shit I'll let it slide I'll let a slide

I let a slide and then one day I'm like letting so much decide that I literally emotionally disconnect and then they're like what's wrong like you don't seem that's so bad it is something that I do you know why it's bad on so many levels

because when you don't let it out to him, you lend it out to your home girl. And now you allow other people in your relationship to say, oh, well, you don't need to be doing this. And that's when the other shit creep in. When you don't talk about it to your partner, you for show talking about it to your friend. For show, every girl is talking about.

No, not necessarily. It's like a hundred because what are y'all talking about? Y'all always talk about each other's relationships. That's not true. That's what men think. But there's a lot of stuff we talk about. We could do a poll. Even for me.

How many women talk about their relationship to their friends? I understand that. 99.9% of them. But let me say this. Like some people, like not every woman has a home girl that's like, fuck him. Don't do this. Don't do that.

Like me personally. It ain't the F use of all that. It's opening up to them to allow the negativity to creep in from the friend. But what I'm saying is, it ain't got to deal with that. But what I'm saying is not everyone. not everyone has the home girl that's negative. Like people have safe spaces. Like I have a sister who's been married.

And if I have to talk about something, I'll talk to her because she'll, my sister and some of my friends will straight up be like, you're wrong. Or why aren't you talking to him and giving him the opportunity to change it? Like, you're tripping. Like, I have very, I've been lucky, and I know not all women are lucky to have that.

There's a lot of what you're saying is really 100% true. Women will open up to their friends. and the friend will be like, girl, F him. You don't need to be dealing with that anyways. And then now that's in their head and then they're carrying all the stuff and then they explode, you know? So I think you're right.

And I do think the reason I said it is because I do think that it's not a good look to do that. I agree with you. I think I'm admitting that that has been my faults in my past relationships. I'm trying to work on that now, but I for sure have been someone to avoid the harder conversation.

or the tough conversations because I didn't want to disrupt something or I felt like, you know, I don't want to, this person to be like, she always is saying something or da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da. So I'm just like, let me just shut up, let us lie, let us lie, let us lie. But then that makes you get pushed away further from the person. You're just kind of like, uh, like I don't feel safe here. I don't feel like I can talk about stuff. So I'm just kind of like closed off.

And then you have things that are not met, like unmet things, because the person doesn't really know. So I feel like it's fair to give them the opportunity And a chance to hear you out at least And after that you go from there, you know? But like I do think it's not right I'm not saying that it's right to move like that So

YK Osiris, you know who that is? Yeah, I do. He recently said it's like a viral thing He said, I'm not going to lie, I don't feel like a woman is obligated to cook or clean without a ring. Go get a cleaner or a maid. So a woman is not obligated to cook or clean

Without a ring Without a ring Yeah So that's what he value I mean if that's his thing And then You know he gets into relationship And he don't like that no more

Then it's like damn You know If he want you know Certain guys is like hey I'll get a maid for you I'll get a cook for you That's his thing You know he got the means to do it Hey that's on you

you know what I'm saying ain't nothing wrong with that everybody got their little standards and what they my thing though is well a lot of like if a man is financially contributed in helping you and taking care of you

then I think that it's like how do we expect men to do things that a husband would do but you're not doing anything that a wife would do unless you have a ring my opinion is like if he's doing things you should be doing things

y'all should be reciprocating the means to do those things then who cares like he don't that ain't way he got other things. He value sex probably more or these other things more or whatever. But he, like, if that's minor, that's minor, actually. So that ain't no big deal if he don't require

a woman to cook or clean without the ring. But what if he give her the ring and she can't cook or clean? And that's what he won't? Then what? I mean, that's all the thing I say about that. Like, what if you want your wife to eat cooking clean when she get the ring? If she ain't done it before the ring, why do you expect to do it with the ring?

Yeah, I get that. That's what I'm saying, though. So, like, say you don't require a woman to cook or clean, period. Don't say, don't, you have to throw the ring in there. Well, he's basically saying you shouldn't do wifely things when you ain't a wife. You got to do wifely things to get wife, period. You can't do girlfriend things and expect to get wifed. Wiking things have to be done before you get wife.

How do I know you a wifie? Yeah, I agree with that. Come on, now. So India Love recently went on. and people are like getting on her about it because she said that she never wants a man. She never wants to hear a man ask about how much something cost or about discounts. She said it's the biggest turnoff you can ever do is to like say, oh, is this a discount or how much is this? She said that's just like disgusting.

It's a turn off like that makes a man completely undesirable to her. Yeah, because she don't value the money like a man if a man is doing that. it's motherfucking billionaires that's out there doing that. Yeah, it is. I know that for a fact. Like, so what if he a billionaire then? You know, but that's how you keep your billions. That's how you keep your millions if you're doing stuff like that.

So you've got to value money and you got to value the long term of the money. Because, like, this, I'm going to do this my rest of my life. What if I can't maintain this? What if I got to get the other reason people is billionaires is because they sought deals? you understand that? Yeah, exactly. They got the best deal. That's the reason they got the money.

So she got to understand that part of it. Like, why would I get this $6 million house and living it and don't use all this space I got when I can get this other house where I'm going to use the space and this is all I need? Yeah, for sure. And I have money to do other things.

So, you know, women, they get caught up in the look of how everything looks. That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard. No, I'm just, cannot. Yeah, go ahead. Sorry, I thought you were done. No, let me get caught in the way things look on the outside. Like, oh, why is my man, we had the, we had the store shopping and he asked how much this cost?

Like, oh, that's a turnoff? No, what if I can get something better for cheaper? And I can do something else with this money. You know what I'm saying? But, you know, women like India, you know, she wants the guy, the breadwinner. the guy with a lot of money to just be in there, like price don't matter for her. I'm going to spend it. Then what happened when he go broke?

Then she on to the next. Period. So, I mean, it is what it is. That's what she won't. I mean, that's cool. You know, but, like, when you, it's cool when you young. You know what I'm saying? I didn't understand it either until when I started getting older,

I'm like, man, it's got to last the rest of my life. Why am I, why do I got to floss and have the best of the best every time? Like, damn, it only makes sense. A lot of times I'm getting stuff and then it's going to trash or I don't use it no more. But it was cool at the time, you know. Like, I could be in a bigger house than I'm in now. But like, why? I don't need all that space.

You know what I'm saying? And it took a while for me to understand that. Like, I was living like that for a long time. And then it was just like, I'm in a house and I got a five-bear room. I don't even use these rooms. I don't even go in this room. I don't even go. I don't use this.

And I'm like, damn, that's a way. Right. So, you know, I'm just like, sure, I could be using this money to do other stuff with it. You know, I can use this extra invest in this now. So, I mean, you know, it is what it is. Everybody is titled to what they want and what they believe in. So whatever. Cool.

Okay. So Claudia Jordan. Claudia Jordan was on Nick Cannon's podcast with her best friend, and they spoke about... The homie, Claudia, what's love? They spoke about passing around their exes or guys that they've dated. So, like, basically, the best friend

was telling a story about how she was looking at this guy. So she Googled him and saw that he was on the red carpet with Claudia Jordan. And so she sent it to Claudia and was like, so you used to talk to him. And she's like, yeah, but you can have him. And they just, like, she was like, we've done that a lot of times with men.

So Nick Cannon said that this character standards are in hell. He was like, I don't like that because that just means, where is the character? Where is the this? I mean, is Nick Cannon want to talk? Because he'd be doing all type of stuff. I don't know. But me personally, I get it to a certain degree to where

it's like, if I don't care about a man at all, if I hope it really was about, if someone asked me, like, I'll look at you, I'll never do that. I'll never want nobody else's, like someone who my home girl mess with. Can I finish? I never wanted someone else that I mess with.

man, but I think that if my home group, like, really wanted a man that I used to deal with, then you can have them. What does deal with me? Messed around, Tated. They do that all the time. Like, not just sex, but, like, dated. There's no boundaries. Like, you could date the man you used to date.

If it was your man, man, I get it. But, like, she's probably talking about, oh, I messed around with them, like, and then she didn't know. They were on the red carpet together. They're messing around. Okay. Like, guys do it all the time. Women do it all the time as we hear here. But, like, when it gets to a certain point, like,

oh, we went out on a few dates and everything and messed around. Well, there's no substance in that. But, like, damn, what if she ran into him and they hit it off and it felt good? And, you know, maybe that's all she wanted. Maybe most of the time that's just a sexual thing. You know, and then maybe it can turn into a relationship. But, like, women would be like, oh, he was a good time. girl go ahead men will do the same thing i mean i've never personally done that like hey she was a

good time go ahead though like but women do it and men do i know men that do it like here yeah she was a good time i don't mean ain't no feelings it was just a good time and you know i see it i see it all happen all the time i personally like don't ask me you don't have to ask me like why are you asking me if you know it was just some work because that was just pretty much work at that point oh it wasn't just work but if it was just like my girl or somebody that's when I feel like that's like, no, I ain't feeling that. Like, that was my girl and everything.

Now the homie, you want to be with my girl, but it's on her too. Why are you participating in it too? So I'm like, you tell me about your character now. If you knew I know this dude and I kicked him when you was my girl, you're telling me a lot about you. And now I'm off not only him, I'm off you too.

Why were you ever on them if that was your ex? What's that? What's that? You're off of them? No, I'm off like if my boy or somebody I'll kick it with him, or hang with when I hang out with my ex and then say like the feeling is mutual

and say we still had a cool friendship or whatever. I'm off both of y'all as a friend. Why are you friends with your ex? What if I'm single? Still. Why is anyone friends with their ex? What if I'm single?

Okay, then you get in a relationship and then you cut that person off? I'm single and I'm still friends with my ex. What's wrong with that? Is there like if you're single, you're not friends with your ex? No, I'm not friends with my ex. Like, what does friendship mean?

Like, what car show? We talk here and there, but we ain't nothing going on. But, like, now it go from that. We cordial weeks of talk, text, hey, happy birthday, all this. But now it go from that to, like, nothing. I don't want to hear nothing. I don't want to hear happy birthdays. I'm single.

Listen to what I'm saying. I'm single. I could say to my ex happy birthday. I could say, whatever, if I'm not in a relationship. But if you decide that you want to get with my boy and you, feel cool enough to get with it, and we was happy birthday. You're not getting nothing from me now. It's no more friendship.

It's no more nothing from neither one of y'all. Yeah, I feel like for me, I don't, but that's different. Everyone's different. Some people stay friends with their ex. I don't really stay friends with an ex, to be honest, because, like, you know, there was feelings there and there was stuff involved. So it's just for me, it's like, you know, I'd rather. But I know whatever.

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So Hallie Berry recently said that she feels like women should stop faking orgasms because it's putting men's needs before your own, basically. It's putting men's need. A man's needs before your own by faking the orgasm. Well, I remember when you said one time that most women don't have orgasm. Yeah, a lot don't, and a lot will, some will fake it because they feel bad

and they want to just make a man feel like he's doing that, you know? So a lot of women do fake orgasms, where they think, a lot of men think they are giving women orgasms, and they're not. So she's basically saying, like, we should, and there's a lot of women who do orgasm, but they are just with someone who's either, like, learned their body or they taught them or whatever the case is. So she's basically saying, like, you should stop faking the orgasm because you shouldn't be putting his knees before yours. That means that he thinks he made you come.

He didn't. And now you're just trying to, like, do it to get him going and making him feel, like, better about himself. I don't think nothing wrong with that. Get him going. Uplift your man. What's the point? That's uplift your woman by making her come. Well, tell him how to do it if he ain't doing it.

Show him how to do it. Yeah. Like, if you're going to keep faking it and be disappointed, tell him how to do it. Like, do he know or can he? Is he capable? It's a conversation then. Yeah.

I feel like a lot of women fake it. I don't fake that at all because I just don't. But I just think that women do, get it, you just want to feel like, okay, whatever, like, you're satisfied. It is harder for a lot of women to reach that. You know what I mean? And so I feel like it is on the woman to teach the man. It's also, I feel like on the man to like be on like, what should I do, babe? What do you want? Like, da-da-da-da-da. So I think it's both ways because I even think with women, I think men should, like I feel like women do stuff with men and they really like it's cool, but they like it a

certain way or something different too. So I think both parties have to be more vocal about what they like. Well, why the man got to be vocal? He's not the one faking and if she is. No, I'm saying for his pleasure too, like what he likes. Yeah, most men are 99% of the men. They're going to... No, they are, but I'm saying...

They're going to get to where they need to go. No, I know they're going to get there, but I'm saying... A lot of times that they even own a woman. It's on him. Yeah, I'm not even saying that. I'm just saying, like, I feel like both parties like can instruct or tell the person like what they like more basically. Yeah, so what you like more.

Yeah, of course. Yeah, but I feel like it could be awkward, I guess, for a woman because it's like, how do you even tell a man? Like, you know, I think a lot of women struggle with that and we talked about that when Shambudram was on our show about just how to approach that scenario for a lot of women or whatever the case may be on how to be satisfied or,

whatever because I think that there's like a stigma like you know as a as a woman you have to make sure a man is not like just walking around here not like satisfied or not like having sex or but I don't think that men feel that way about women they're just like oh they're good you know like I feel like men don't think about it like that like oh she's out here just like not getting you know cracking like getting her shit off so damn like men don't think about that about women. I mean, then when the woman take a man down, you all take all our energy.

Like, dumb, like, what you expect? Like, you don't get no gratification of taking your man down? Like, y'all took him down. But you know what? You know what men don't realize? You know how, like, if you had sex, but you didn't come?

You still need to, like, get your shit out. Okay. That's the same as a woman. You know that. I don't. Well, I'm telling you, like, men don't realize. that. It's just never had the issue.

Men don't realize that that's the same as a woman. Like, if a woman has sex and she doesn't, she's still going to be like turned on until she can get that out. You know what I mean? So like men don't realize, like, yes, you're satisfied by taking a man down,

of course. But that doesn't mean you're not like Yeah, for sure. But then women go out, that's why these sex shops is made for women. More so than men. So y'all go out and get y'all get y'all little devices and stuff and y'all'll be like all right i'll take care of myself then

that's what women do do that yeah the women do do do that yeah they do but that's what's but men are all men men are okay with that they're just like whatever you could just go do your own thing I don't care to like figure it out women do that way more than men yeah of course because women are not coming men like you said are going to come 99% of the time a woman is not

so it's different well it's easier for a man to get there than a woman. Yeah, for sure. 100%. It's harder for a woman. I mean, when you even took down so many times, it's harder for the woman.

What do you mean? I'll say what I'm in. When a woman then has so much intercourse with so many different men, it's harder for you. That's not true. You know that it's actually more easy for a woman to come,

the more sexual experience that she had because she's more in tune with her body. Do you think that we're coming when we first have sex? When we first have sex, it hurts and it's uncomfortable. You don't start enjoying sex until you're like more, you've had more sex, just so you know. So it's not about a woman's been taken down by so many men now. She can't come.

Matter of fact, women who are more sexually active come a lot quicker and know how to make themselves come a lot faster than women who are less sexually active. So that's a complete wrong statement all the way. Thanks for schooling. No, because it is. You said that when Shan Boudra was on the show too, and she told you the same thing. It's wrong. Like, you think because she's broken now

because she got too lit up. She got beat up so many times. That's not the truth. That's so, like, juvenile thought. That's so untrue. I know. Okay, if prescribed new sexual health patients, get $15 off their first order of sparks

on a reoccurring plan. Connect with the person. provider at row.co slash TAD to find out if prescription row sparks are right for you. We're going to go into a fan question, spinning the block on a relationship. Question for the pod.

Can Azar and Azar elaborate and Paul give insight on spending the block on a relationship? If you left a relationship, what are your thoughts on possibly rekindling things with an X? Why or why not? I've never done that personally. I've never broken up with a girl

and got back with the girl. I'm just like I feel like the issues you had to make y'all break up. It's going to be the same issues you get back. When you get back into it thinking something's going to be different. I've never gotten back with an ex. I've never even

entertained getting back with an ex like, hey, should we be together or any of that? I just feel like once it's over, it's over. But did you ever spend the block like you kind of y'all slept together again, y'all boot up again. Slept together again.

You know how some people spend the block and just kind of like catch up high one night, two nights here and there. No and no. No, no, no, no. I think for me, my answer to the question is I never did that either. But I will say that people can, there's a lot of things that can happen that I'm starting to realize. as I mature because I used to be really hell bent on like never spend the block or whatever. But now like I've seen some people do this and I've seen this happen and maybe like you guys can take time apart and grow and change and like mature and realize like there was some things that

we did wrong that could make us like get back together or whatever. Like maybe we were at the time I didn't really see where you were coming from but I now do. Like if it wasn't a whole bunch of cheating and lying and it was just we broke up because the timing or because there were certain things that maybe were disrupting or we weren't in alignment, I feel like time might heal that

and the work separate, like being separated and doing the work separately and then being like, damn, we reconnected, we came back together. Also, I've seen people like maybe getting another relationship and then that made them appreciate the fact that like, wow, I thought I wanted this but now I'm realizing like, yo,

I really wanted what this was offering. You know, I've seen, like, a few situations in which that happened that kind of, like, changed my perspective on that. Like, maybe you can. Maybe you can. You know, yeah, maybe people can grow apart and then come back together and be like, okay, like, we can make this work or whatever. In, like, you know, a few months or, you know, like a year,

whatever the case may be. And now we're in a much better space. And, you know, I have a friend like that, and she's now married to this. that man, they have kids, and they've been married for a minute. So you never know. You know, like that's kind of how I look at it now. But it can't end in disrespect.

Once it ends in disrespect, most of them, most relationships, a lot of end in disrespect, but if you're in a good place at time and you ain't feeling it right now and you get back, I get it. But when it ends in disrespect, there's no going back for me. Yeah, I get that. I get that. Thank you guys so much for joining another episode of The Truth Ever Dark. You guys were really upset

about our last. episode last week. I get it. I know you guys are so mad. Well, what? Because I was saying things about black man. I'm getting it. It's funny because my home girl commented on one of the posts

that I don't even talk to when she hit me up. She's like, oh, my God, is there the way that people are attacking me because I commented on your post? I said, welcome to my life. You guys were super upset about it, but, you know, it is what it is. You know, I love y'all still.

I rock with y'all, but I said what I said at the end of the day. So, you know, it is what it is. But I still love you guys so much and you know I'm still team black men, black women, black people, but I'm team everybody and I'm a team love. And if that looks like interracotating, I think we should do that. Thank you guys for joining.

Make sure you call it, subscribe. Man, they're coming for you. They're coming for me a lot right now. That's all good. You ain't got no haters, you ain't going to make it. You ain't got no haters. You ain't popping. They mad at me.

I get it. I get it. But you know what? They're mad at me, but I've coddled black men this whole podcast. And now I said some things. And, you know, like I said.

Now you see the light? Tony Baker even commented on it and was just like, because he's so mature, but he was just like, I cheated. I've done things. I take responsibility

in like traumatizing women and my part that I played in this. And they're attacking him. And he's going back and forth to the comments about it like, damn, bro, just take accountability. Yeah. So I respect.

for that. Always shout out to him and shout out to all the men who don't take accountability. Oh well. Damn. But love y'all still. Love y'all, man. Make sure you like, subscribe to it. And if anything you want us to touch on or any guests you'll like us to have, make sure you leave it in the comments and we'll do our best to answer those questions and bring these guests on. So thanks for watching. Continue to like, continue to join us each and every week. We love y'all. Love you guys so much.

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