Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies - Natural Wins, Love Island Shocks & Community over Clout

Episode Date: July 15, 2025

Sharelle and Ashley react to the Love Island finale and if the right couple was picked, Kash Doll talks about how her man loves her natural look, and is Trump quietly moves MLK statue and much more! T...imeline:00:00 - Introduction03:22 - Love Island 09:12 - Kash Doll, Natural Era22:41 - Trump removes MLK Statue27:27- Teddy Bridgewater suspended34:14 - Humble Baddies Mail (Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.)#ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an iHeart podcast. Hey girl! I miss you. I know I miss you too. Man, this summer is flying by. I feel like, I mean, Paris wasn't that long ago, but I feel like I've been seeing you forever. It's been crazy. It seemed like the kids just got out of school and now I'm schooled. I'm like, I'm going to go to school. I'm like, I'm going to go to school. I'm like, I'm going to go to school. I'm like, I'm going to'm in school forever. It's been crazy. It seemed like the kids just got out of school
Starting point is 00:00:48 and now I'm school shopping, get ready to send one off to college and the other one back to school. Oh no, girl, you got all age groups. You got, you got, you're in it. Don't, don't, don't even remind me. I don't even know why I started over. Oh my goodness. Girl, ooh.
Starting point is 00:01:09 But it's fun. It's fun. I can't complain. I'm excited. The weekend was amazing. I actually was in, I missed the know, and they are killing it. You know, we got together, we had a great event, we networked, I got to meet all my Texas agents. I stopped by my favorite restaurant, Taste in Houston. So anybody, if you ever want some good soul food, some good brunch, make sure you check out Taste in Houston. The food was amazing. But other than that, I've been, you know,
Starting point is 00:01:47 doing what I do, keeping busy. That's what's up. That's what's up. Well, congratulations on the new office. Absolutely no more is taken over. I'm so proud of you. Like, you're really killing it. So many women, so many realtors in general, they really look up to you.
Starting point is 00:02:04 And I know this is only the beginning. So many women, so many realtors in general, they really looked up to you. And I know this is only the beginning anyway. So look forward to everything that you bring to the real estate industry, girl. You're killing it. Thank you, boo. Thank you. I try. I try.
Starting point is 00:02:19 How you been? What's been going on with you? Girl, I just been here with these children and my husband. This weekend was probably one of our slowest weekends that we've had in a long time. So we were just really relaxing at the house. Relaxing means still keeping these kids busy. But just slow, just being able to hang out at home
Starting point is 00:02:41 by the pool, just have a drink, you know, put some food on the grill. I really be needing that sometimes because we just be moving, you know, so fast, doing so much. And sometimes we really just need a second to like chill at the house. I really needed that.
Starting point is 00:02:58 All right. Yeah, I feel you on that. I'm ready for it. Like every time I feel like I have a minute to relax, I don't because there's something else coming, a project coming, agents calling, I got an event or I wanna spend some time and you know, go on vacation, take my little weekend trip, but.
Starting point is 00:03:17 Yeah. Hey, I'll rest one day. Yes, we need the rest, rest is needed. You gotta schedule that. So my question, have you been watching Love Island? Well, no, I don't watch that. That is not for me. Okay, like I know it's taking over the world right now. I know everybody is watching Love Island and it come on like every night, right? Y'all are literally tuning in every night to watch this.
Starting point is 00:03:48 It's done. Last night was the season finale and they played the water and the world was. I know who are about no damn Love Island. I think I'm too old for this. Like, I don't know. I just, I literally didn't watch one episode. Nothing about it just made me want to watch it, but go ahead. Let me hear I was I felt the same way But of course I have ariana in the house and her friends come over and I just get sucked right into Catch it. I tried yesterday was a relaxation day for me. So I was like, let me start from episode one Okay, I got through it and I did
Starting point is 00:04:26 develop some favorites. What's my girl name from Alabama? Oh, they know who I'm talking about. The one from Alabama. She's, she's my favorite. And I was hoping that she would win her and Nick. What is the show? So it's like a dating show and it gets down to one couple? Well, it was down to four couples. So couples come in and out. They mix and mingle. We got to vote for them. You have to vote each week.
Starting point is 00:04:58 So it's like survivors, but love. Yes, you got to prove your real love. And if you are, if you become a, you know, a fan, sometimes you get guilty by association. So if one of the girls start dating a guy who the fans don't like, then they don't like that girl. It's crazy how it is. But shout out to the winners. I forgot her name. The people who watch the show know who it is.
Starting point is 00:05:31 Shout out to them. I actually did like them too. They were Dominican, but they won 100,000. And I think what my daughter stated, she said whoever gets the envelope they decide if they want to keep it or share it split it but I think they decided to donate to a charity with their money. How much money they make? 100,000 but the crazy thing is they make so much money off of sponsorship deals. Yeah. It's crazy. I was like, I wish we had that back
Starting point is 00:06:06 when we were coming up in our early 20s. Well, I also heard they also was passing around STDs. All of them had herpes bumps on their lips and all these challenges. No, no. Okay, so that's not true. So my stepdaughter, she auditioned for Love Allen. My stepdaughter, she auditioned for Love Allen.
Starting point is 00:06:28 So before you even get, even during the stage of them interviewing you, you have to go through an extensive background check, a mental health check, a extensive STD check, all of that, all the way up. So they do an extensive, you have to go through so many Go through medical people have herpes though And they was they was they was showing the herpes in outbreaks and they was all kissing each other and the challenges This is what I I could I couldn't do that though
Starting point is 00:06:57 I couldn't do that because I'm very germaphobic and if you kiss one person and you come in to kiss the next one Yeah, I would have passed New kids I can't do that. I can going to be the whole time watching like, ooh, I don't know. That's what I was like, I was like, how can y'all do this? Like you go from kissing this one to kissing this one, y'all just sharing. Yeah. Would you do a show like that though, if it was like maybe a little bit more mature or like yeah more mature? Yeah if it was if it was a more mature show I would but if it came down to kissing I wouldn't. Yeah. I'll be I'll be like just kiss me right here on the cheek. I do not like kissing and I have to
Starting point is 00:07:40 really love you to kiss you and even when I I love you, if your hygiene ain't right or if your breath's faint, you ain't kissing me. I'm sorry. Okay. Well, child, yeah. I'm trying to get into the love island. No matter what nobody said to me and everybody was talking about it,
Starting point is 00:07:57 I was just like, I only have like this much time to watch TV and it's not gonna be watching me. But. It was actually, you can get sucked into it for sure. Definitely you can get sucked into love Allen, but it wasn't bad. I enjoyed it. I fell in love with some of the couples. I even you know, teared up a little but yes, it was so cute.
Starting point is 00:08:22 With Olandra. Nick, Nick and Olandra was the names. Those were my favorites. I was reading the fan mail. It was so cute. Thanks. Now you try crying over these little children. They are so cute together.
Starting point is 00:08:44 I hope that they find love off the village. Okay. They should have won, in my opinion. Okay. So y'all tell me who y'all think should have won. I'm team Nick and Alondra. Alondra and Nick. She a Bama girl. Now enough of Love Island because Ashley can't get into it. I mean I'm barely getting into it because I just jumped on the bandwagon, but I am a team of Love Island. So definitely we'll be keeping up with the next season
Starting point is 00:09:13 that comes out. Okay. Let's get into it. Cash Doll natural era and why it's a big deal. So you've been noticing Cash Doll have been wearing, she's been going around bare faced, no weed, no makeup, and she is looking good. Cash doll just let the world know that her man loves her more when she's natural. And she's been confidently showing up with fresh skin, no makeup and embracing her glow. But in a world obsessed with perfection
Starting point is 00:09:45 is natural beauty finally back in style. Yeah, I mean, I think first of all, most men love when their women don't wear makeup and all the hair extensions and stuff. I mean, I know Phil always used to say that to me. Like, I love when you don't have any makeup on, blah, blah, blah. But I think most men do prefer, like,
Starting point is 00:10:10 when their women are, you know, in their natural state. And for some reason, like, when you go out looking raggedy to the gas station, to Walmart real quick, that's when most guys be trying to holler. So it's something about just being in your most bare, au naturel state that really turns men on. Cause I feel like it's like, oh, well,
Starting point is 00:10:32 if you look this good when you're bare, then you know, when you get all done up, you must really be fine. I don't know, in my head, that's what I'm thinking. But I think everything is, you know, it comes in waves. Like I think everything comes in waves. I think makeup trends, hair trends, all of these trends, they come and go. I don't think necessarily that being there
Starting point is 00:10:57 went out of style ever. I just think that people just stopped doing it because of social media. And because social media is so present at any moment, there's a camera, somebody's taking pictures of you, everybody wanted to make sure they look good. So I think that's why that look kind of might seem like it went away, but I don't think bare face
Starting point is 00:11:19 and natural makeup and stuff like that and hair was ever out of style. Right. I feel like, in my opinion, I like both. Like, at first I felt like I needed to go around and wear makeup everywhere I had to go. I needed to put on makeup. But like you said, when I was in relationships,
Starting point is 00:11:43 they liked the frackles. They liked for this to show, they like the natural face, everything. Now I'm starting to embrace the natural look more. I got, except I gotta have my lashes, but I'm starting to embrace the natural look more because when I put on makeup, I get hit with, oh, she look, oh, this, that, and that, there.
Starting point is 00:12:02 I be like, oh, don't put on a lot of makeup. Don't do this. I don't like it because it's hard for makeup artists to even do my makeup and to blend. And it makes it worse that I have freckles. So to try to keep the freckles showing to try to make sure it's blended. It's a lot of work.
Starting point is 00:12:19 And I have to go through a test and trial every time if I'm trying out a new makeup artist. For sure. The makeup are a rarity. So don't cover them freckles up. I don't. So now I started, I don't have on anything right now, but what I've started doing now is getting mineral, like a little glow to put on my face.
Starting point is 00:12:45 And just going out like that, unless I really need a beat. But I'm embracing it now. I lean towards wearing makeup. I love to beat my face down. I have like best friends who are makeup artists, so they kind of taught me how to beat my face so if you beat my face I'm gonna beat my face but I have gotten my skincare down to perfection to where now I'm like right now I don't have anything just lip gloss and lashes but um but yeah so now I'm like I'm more into the skincare side of things so that I can go and feel confident
Starting point is 00:13:27 in my own skin without makeup, which I think is refreshing because when your skin is bad, and even when it, or like your skin was bad and you just see the remnants of when your skin was bad, you do just wanna cover it up. You are less confident. So I think it's just great too,
Starting point is 00:13:48 that we are seeing more women step out and be more natural, especially somebody like Cash Doll, because she's like a super confident, like bad bitch personality. And she's like showing women like, we can still be bad bitches and be natural and bare faced. And she used to have the, whoever used to be doing her hair. Blamed, damned.
Starting point is 00:14:10 Oh my god, like the way they used to layer her hair, like perfection. So, see her out here like, yeah, my man likes me like this, like, I love it, I'm here for it. I love it too. Have you ever felt like your natural look wasn't enough? I know I have like, it took me a minute, especially in my younger days, I used to always spend so much money just to go look good. And I felt like me looking good was
Starting point is 00:14:39 having on a full face of makeup. Yeah. And just walking around natural, I just felt like it wasn't enough for me. I felt like in order to impress my man, I needed to have my face done up. I needed to do all this. I needed to look glam. So it was, it was a lot. But as I started to embrace my natural look, my freckles, you know, my little tiny eyes, my little lips. I started to love my natural look even more. Yeah. I think we all go through that. I think all women have gone through times
Starting point is 00:15:11 where we just feel like we need to do something to make ourselves look good. And I think just with growing up and being more confident in yourself, you kind of find what works for you too. I think that because I've been in a relationship for so long, like I never really felt pressed to go out and look a certain way to, you know, find a man or nothing like that. I never really had that pressure, but I feel like
Starting point is 00:15:40 the pressure for me more so is to look good amongst other women. You know what I mean? Like how other women put more pressure on you to like do the most. Like if you ain't got all the inches down your back and you don't got your lashes done, you don't got the best makeup artist, you don't have the best clothes,
Starting point is 00:15:59 like I feel like trying to keep up with other women will make you feel like you gotta to do the work, you know? Yes, and you know what else put pressure on me? I was in the military for 13 years. You was in the military and you know how strict they were on us. No makeup, no lashes, no nails, no this. And another reason why I felt like I needed makeup because it was so much pressure on looking like a little boy all the time with your hair pulled back and you couldn't wear nothing. You couldn't get glammed up.
Starting point is 00:16:30 It was hard to get glammed up and you were so tired. You had the weekend, but you were so tired. So now that I'm out, I went, I did go through a stage where I just wanted to put on makeup. I couldn't be going nowhere. I just wanted makeup on my face. So I blame the military too
Starting point is 00:16:49 And like that balance of what makes you feel comfortable and confident without overdoing it, you know That's true What's one insecurity you had to unlearn about yourself? one insecurity, um You know what I hated the most growing up was being skinny. Yeah, because you know, everybody, you know, predominantly black high school and like, a lot of Hispanic so the girls was filled out. Okay,
Starting point is 00:17:21 they have body early. And I did not. I started my period later than most of the girls. So I was very much just straight up and down. And people used to pick on me and call me all kinds of names because I was skinny. And so I feel like that was probably my biggest insecurity. And then I feel like that was probably my biggest insecurity. And then I started modeling and I got signed with all the biggest agencies in the country. I got signed with Ford, I signed with Click, and then I started making money and then those
Starting point is 00:17:56 insecurities started to... Went away like what? I'm glad I'm this size. Yes. You know, we used to always get picked on growing up in middle school, high school, skinny, pancake booty, this, that, and the third. But, and the women who did have the shapes. Now, I hate to say it, but baby,
Starting point is 00:18:18 I was like, I thank God I was skinny, I was athletic. You know, I'm still working out because the ones that y'all wanted in high school, y'all don't even look that way no more. They are huge. Yeah, yeah. Some of them. Yeah, I do thank God for genetics and for being a late bloomer because yeah,
Starting point is 00:18:35 I mean, late bloomers thank God for being a late bloomer. And it was the ones that was thick that used to pick on the skinny ones, the females too, y'all know who y'all was Picking on that skinny girl in high school and middle school But that's what and that's what I tell my daughter I was like She's going through this stage where she got a drink insured I'm like, no, I said just stay your size because when you get older like us that weight gonna slowly start creeping up. Yeah, so
Starting point is 00:19:08 Just just be happy how you are right now. Don't don't force it. Don't force the weight up on you. Yeah now Security Oh, yeah, you do. Them thangs are. No. Them feet be barking. They don't be barking because I keep them clean. No, you keep them clean again. They don't be barking. They just.
Starting point is 00:19:36 I keep a muzzle on them. You know what I'm saying? They just. They not the cutest feet. No, they not the cutest feet. Not the most beautiful feet. Your feet look like fingers. You know what I'm saying, that's still an insecurity that I have, I don't think it's going anywhere anytime soon.
Starting point is 00:19:55 But it's cool, like God bless me. But you got you a husband, that's all that matters. And your husband loved them feet. He would just suck my feet. You do Ashley, you'd be like, no, don't look you be like no don't look at my feet don't look at my feet. You know God can give us everything. Is that right? Yes but he blessed you with a beautiful face beautiful body you you good girl. I'd rather have I'd rather have a feet with muscles on them rather have feet with muzzles on them. You know, a jacked up face.
Starting point is 00:20:28 Okay. You done made it this long. It's fine. Yes. But in regards to overall makeup, I feel like the real flex is when you're confident, confident either way. Yeah. And more and if more women started celebrating, whether it's natural beauty or full glam, not just online, but also in real life will be unstoppable. So definitely embrace it. Embrace your natural beauty, embrace glam, whichever one.
Starting point is 00:21:03 But don't allow a man, do not allow a man, you shouldn't allow a man to force you or to, you know, make you, force you into the natural beauty. That's what I was gonna say, cause she said she did it cause that's what her man like. And it's like, yes, but is that what you like? You know what I mean? Like, let's make sure that we're not just totally changing
Starting point is 00:21:26 our whole personality and who we are and what we like for our man, you know what I mean? Right. So. That's true. Because then things, because then what's next? What if he's like, well, I don't like you hanging out with her or I don't like you going there?
Starting point is 00:21:42 It's like, you know, once you start, especially this man is not your husband, once you start conforming to things, because that's what your man like, and what your man like, he's conforming. You start living for him and not yourself, and then that's where the unhappiness and everything else.
Starting point is 00:21:58 Leads to another, leads to another child. And I've been in relationships, my previous relationship, you know, they embraced everything, but I've been in relationships, my previous relationship, you know, they embraced everything, but I've been in a relationship before where it was like, I want you like this, I want you to dress like this. And eventually you get tired and wore out and you're like, I'm living for, I need to be living for myself.
Starting point is 00:22:18 Why am I doing everything that you want? But then you go out and sleep with this, that, and the third. The opposite of what you want from me. Yeah, yeah. I'm careful going down that road of doing it because that's what my man like. So you definitely do. So do it because you want to do it, not because, you know, I mean you take your man advice, but also do it because you want to do it. Right. Let's get into it. You heard about what your president done quietly do. I didn't do anything.
Starting point is 00:22:52 Oh my gosh, why? He quietly removed ML Martin Luther King's statue. And why is it so silent? So I've seen it on a few blogs, but that's something that should've like really hit the headlines. Right. There's been very little media coverage,
Starting point is 00:23:12 but it's been reported that Donald Trump quietly removed the Martin Luther King Jr. statue from its long time display at the White House. And people are barely talking about it. Why is that? I don't know, that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So it's not surprising. You know what I mean? This is something, I mean, Martin Luther King, even if you are not into civil rights, you don't know nothing about nothing, you know who Martin Luther King Jr. is and you know
Starting point is 00:23:27 his importance in our country's history. So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So it's not surprising. You know what I mean? This is something, I mean, Martin Luther King, even if you are not into civil rights, you don't know nothing about nothing, you know who Martin Luther King Jr. is and you know his importance in our country's history.
Starting point is 00:23:35 So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time.
Starting point is 00:23:43 So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So, I think that's something that's really crazy. I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time. So, I know his importance in our country's history. So yeah, it's crazy that this isn't making waves like it should be, but it's also not surprising that it's not because, you know, it's one of our heroes, you know what I mean? And I don't know, Trump, it just doesn't surprise me at this point, honestly. Nothing does. This presidency feels like it's been going on forever. We only, what, six months in, seven months in? I feel like the fact that it happened
Starting point is 00:24:19 and it barely made the headlines tell you everything about how the country treat Black history and the leaders. Because I mean, it's like you're silently and slowly erasing African American history. Right. They stop talking about it in the schools, they're slowly stop talking about it in the schools, they're you know taking memories away. Yeah, I mean, I don't know, taking memories away. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I just, I really don't understand. What was his point in moving it?
Starting point is 00:24:50 What did it, like, did he say anything or did he just moved it? Nothing, no, nothing else with it? Nothing else with it. It was just removed from it where it was displayed. And I think it was placed somewhere else. I got to read into it, it was just removed from it where it was displayed. And I think it was placed somewhere else. I got to read into it. But it's just, it's sad.
Starting point is 00:25:10 Like, why are you coming in here making all these changes, especially for people who fought and risked their lives? You know, they did something great for America. Because I guarantee you, if it was somebody else, if a black president came in and moved somebody, you know, moved- George Washington. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:25:35 It would have been a World War III. Right. Crazy approach. It's crazy how it is, how, you know, we're silently, how they're silently just, you know, erasing African American history. And it's not right. It really isn't. That's why it's important for us as parents, because they're taking it out of the schools
Starting point is 00:25:56 to continue to teach, to teach what, you know, what was, what our, what our, what we fought for, what our ancestors fought for except it's very important to teach that because eventually the way that they're carrying on yeah the history is going to be erased yeah no you're right you know i was just um talking to somebody like other parts of the world like in africa too they are not teaching about, you know, black history, the slave trade, all of that stuff. They're not teaching it. It's not just in America, which is, I have no idea. So we really do have to be smart about it. We have to be intentional about teaching our children to keep their history alive and, you know, making it a point
Starting point is 00:26:41 that we don't let things like this just go by. We can't just let the media let this slip by like that. We can't just not say anything. Like we really have to put our foot down and, you know, say something. Because like you said, if we just keep letting things go, soon it's not going to be nothing left. And I read something where they were trying to take the first African-American pilots out of military pilots out of the military history.
Starting point is 00:27:09 It's so much that- The Tuskegee Airmen? Yes, the Tuskegee Airmen. They're trying to take that out. Well, I don't know if it's implemented, but it's so much that's slowly being erased and no one's talking about it or even trying to fight for it. Thanks. We gotta get better you guys, gotta stick together and get better.
Starting point is 00:27:32 All right, some good news. It's a bittersweet, the fact that, you know, Teddy Bridgewater, allegedly he got fired for doing what the school wouldn't do. So the story, Teddy Bridgewater, former NFL quarterback, has been removed as head coach at Miami Northwestern High after he admitted in a Facebook post that he paid out of pocket to support his players,
Starting point is 00:27:58 including meals, transportations, and recovery needs. Instead of being praised, the school suspended him. Teddy clapped back saying, "'You can't fire someone who doesn't work for you.'" And he also stated that he was still gonna support even if he have to support in the bleachers. Well, somebody needs to be awarding this man. Like...
Starting point is 00:28:19 And mind you, they had just won, I think the championship. So I feel like it's more than that. Like when I was growing up, my coach, because my mom was a single mom, she was working and I ran track. My coach went out his way to make sure his top players, make sure his players were where they needed to be,
Starting point is 00:28:40 whether it's track, going to track practice, going home, late practices, involved in different things. You need more people like that in your life. Everybody knows it takes a village, first of all. And especially in our Black neighborhoods, our Black schools, like we need our Black men stepping up in this way. So that's just crazy to me that somebody would want
Starting point is 00:29:02 to suspend him and keep him from being such a great part of the community. And they said that he doesn't even really work there. So what? I feel like it's more personal. Reading it really got up under my skin because I came from a place where I didn't have all the help like I said before. So I feel like it's more personal than you know whatever they're doing it's a personal. Vendetta something? Yes. And it's doing is helping. So I'm not understanding
Starting point is 00:29:49 that whoever is against him I'm not understanding you know what foot they have to stand on because clearly whatever he's doing it's working, it's helping. He sounds like an amazing person in these children's lives. And yeah, I just, we all know how much it takes, how much of a village it takes to help raise these kids, to help get them to their practices, how much things cost, and he's paying for things out of his own pocket. He's not doing anything illegal. Like I'm not like he's benefiting from it. I'm not finding where it went wrong here for him. And I hope they make it up to him and I hope somebody comes to their senses and calls them out on this because you know what if this deters other people, other men from helping and wanting
Starting point is 00:30:39 to step up and you know help out in the community like't. The fact that he's saying he'll sit in the bleachers and still support and help, it shows that he's a great leader and he loves his community. It's like it's rare to find black, strong leaders like that in the first place. And now you want to come in and tear this man down. And he's all he's doing is supporting the community. Right. All he's all he is doing is helping these kids
Starting point is 00:31:08 who parents probably, some of them probably growing up in single households. Some of them, here we go with this bullshit again. Some of them are growing up in single households. Some of them, the parents need the help and you wanna come down and mess things up. It's not right. No, it's not.
Starting point is 00:31:29 I wonder what the parents are saying. I wonder if, you know, was there a meeting that said that there's no investigation, but he doesn't work for the school. So how could there really be an investigation? Like I wonder what the ins and outs are. I wonder what the conversation, I wonder what the students are saying, what the parents are saying. I just kind of
Starting point is 00:31:48 want to know because outside looking in this sounds crazy as hell. Honestly, it really does. It definitely does. It sounds like something some personal situations. So we hope it works out in that Petty Bridgewater can get back to doing what he was doing. Because you can tell that this is probably like a passion of his to go out of his way and do what he's been doing.
Starting point is 00:32:17 So hopefully they figure it out and they bring down whoever was trying to bring him down. Yes, we gotta get better. We gotta continue to support our community. Do you feel like, why is supporting our own communities often punished instead of praised? You know, maybe it's like that crab in a barrel type of thing or somebody wants people to praise, you know, I don't know, I just feel like,
Starting point is 00:32:49 I don't know, I think people just get wrapped up in the wrong things and they forget the reason why, you know, we do charity work and why we are helping, like what's the reason, what are we here for, what's the purpose, you know, people get locked up in their own personal wants and needs. Things can get political. Things can just, you know, like I said, have nothing to do with the reason that we're even there. So I don't know.
Starting point is 00:33:16 It's unfortunate, but it happens. And that's why you have to make sure you have the right people in place that can keep a balance, a check-in balance in everything. Yep, that's true. That's definitely true. You have to keep that check in balance. Like I said, we didn't have those issues growing up. You know, my coach would go in and go out the way for us to make sure we were good. I mean, it was a small town.
Starting point is 00:33:44 Most of us grew up in single parent households. So we needed that support and that help. And I feel like, you know, people trying to tear another man who's trying to help down, a black man who's trying to help is not right. Like we supposed to be supporting each other and just support him. Like all he's doing,
Starting point is 00:34:01 all he is doing is just helping the community. Let's get into it. So make sure y'all support y'all go over there and support our boy Teddy down in Miami. Gabe said he sent you the humble baddies meal. Ashley, do you got it? Yeah, I do have it. Is it time for humble baddies meal already? It's already time. Alrighty. I'm under the weather right now. I don't know what's going on.
Starting point is 00:34:28 I smell, sound like a, I got this car sound like a smokers car. Last week. I don't know what it is. Yeah, okay. Well, our Humble Baddies Mail is from Brandon in West Texas. Okay, Brandon from West Texas. All right, he said I love Texas I think I was thinking about I'm gonna cut you off. I was thinking about relocating to Dallas
Starting point is 00:34:57 Mm-hmm. I love it there. I don't know. I've only been in Texas a couple times and I don't know. I've only been to Texas a couple times and it's been okay, but nothing about it that I was like, except for like you could buy a big ass house there. Yes, and the land. I miss my country living. That was the only thing I was like, but other than that, I was like, no. I could see myself living there. I know they say like Houston is like the similar to Atlanta. Girl, you seen them, them right. The STDs, the, the numbers on Houston in Texas. Sure. Well, you better wrap it up.
Starting point is 00:35:40 Oh, I didn't. You said we doing all that now. No, I'm just playing. Okay. What's up, Sherelle? I'm not the type to put myself out there like this, but I had to shoot my shot because real recognize real. Okay. No, no, no, no. I'll put the hotline now. Okay. This is not the humble baddie's hotline. It's alright, okay. I've been following you for a minute and truthfully, it's not just your beauty that caught me. It's the way you move.
Starting point is 00:36:15 You lead with purpose, handle your business with grace, and still manage to light up every room. That's rare. I work in the oil fields out in West Texas. Long days, real grind, but I built a solid, peaceful life. No drama, no clout chasing, just growth, loyalty, and vibes. And from what I see, you match that energy. So respectfully, if you're open to it, I'd like to take you out sometimes. Good food, good combo, no games, just something real with a man who truly sees you. Let me show you different. I'll be waiting. Brandon. Brandon first, I don't even know who you are and how you look. See
Starting point is 00:36:57 y'all, y'all play too much. Y'all play too much. Well, first of all, thank you, Brandon for that sweet message, but I'm currently off the market. Oops. She's off the market, officially? Officially? Ring the bell. If you're a bell, I need a bell.
Starting point is 00:37:16 I didn't say officially. You did. You said you're off the market. I'm not dating anyone right now. Oh, so you're just not dating anyone right now. Oh, so you're just not dating, but you're not off the market? I'm just trying to clear this up for Brandy. Brandy, thank you so much for the sweet messages.
Starting point is 00:37:41 Okay. Is that clear enough? I mean, I guess so. I mean, Brandon, you might have to do a little more than send in a humble baddie. First of all, we don't even know how Brandon look. I mean, he must be confident. We know that. The right such a nice letter to you. First to read on humble baddies. I mean, he's probably decent looking.
Starting point is 00:38:08 If he that confident. I need pictures. Okay, well send a picture. Well, I really don't need I just want to be curious to see who you are, but yeah, I just want to be curious to see who you are. So send a picture Brandon, if you watching this. Okay, well thank you Brandon. If you just want to be curious to see who you are So send a picture Brandon if you watching this, okay Well, thank you Brandon if you guys want to write to Sherelle or no Pictures then base statement then Information as possible. Okay Guys for writing in Humble Baddies. Please write again if you have questions,
Starting point is 00:38:50 if you need advice, write to, what is it, contact at humblebaddies.com. Yeah, we will love to read your mail. No, no more, no more. We thank you guys for another episode of Humbatties. We're gonna let Ashley go because she has to go to her son's basketball game. We love y'all until Wednesday we will see y'all make sure y'all follow us at humblebatties podcast. Follow us on Instagram Shara
Starting point is 00:39:17 Rosado underscore Ashley where can they find you? Find me at Ashley Nicole and Ashley underscore Nicole on can they find you? You can find me at ash3nicole and ash3 underscore Nicole on what's it called? Snapchat. Yeah. You look like you going to referee the game with that black and white on.
Starting point is 00:39:34 I'll be out there yelling, get me out, get me out. All you missing is your whistle. I do, I'll be out there yelling and screaming. You know I feel the cuffs, so the parents be looking at me. Oh, Lord. Yeah, all right, I'm gonna go.
Starting point is 00:39:46 Bye. All right, love y'all, bye. So This is an iHeart Podcast.

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