Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies - Part 1: Diddy Verdict Reaction + Relle Responds to Dating Rumors

Episode Date: July 4, 2025

Sharelle, Ashley & Porsha react to P. Diddy being found guilty of lesser chargers in RICO case, rumors that Relle and Jeezy are involved after attending his concert, Nelly and Ashanti's reality show, and much more! Humble Baddies - Part 2: She Ain’t a Girls’ Girl + A Mailbag To RememberSharelle, Ashley & Porsha react the WILDEST Humble Baddies Mailbag yet, that sparks a debate about cheating! Later, they debate the definition of "a girls’ girl" and much more!PT100:00 - Intro07:00 - W.A.G.s to Riches07:30 - Diddy verdict reaction17:00 - Internet is MESSY39:24 - Nelly & Ashanti reality show   (Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.)#ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I want to turn up with the girlies in the intro. We're going to do, we're going to do, hey. I'm going to do Humbobaddy. We're going to redo a video, P. We got you. We got you. What's up, ladies? Hey, girl. Hey, friend.

How have y'all been? Oh, look at my little buddy in the back. Serenity! Say hi, guys. You and Portia twins. Are we twins? Yes. Beautiful girl.

But how y'all been? I'm good. I'm good. These kids is running me. I ain't go out tired Build a sign them up for every sport there is And honey, I'm still recovering from the other night. Y'all know I'm washed for real for real in real life Oh, yeah, you said, oh, yes, we had a time. We did have a time. It was something. It was a good time. It was a good time. I was like a kid in the candy store.

Man. GZ is definitely one of your number one rappers. I enjoyed it even though I don't be knowing all the words. I was going to say that. Ashley ain't know all the words, but every video that I got, my girl is hopping up and down like she in a mosh pit. Good time. Okay. But it was the it was the fact that she said, I don't know these words, but I'm still gonna vibe. I was right there with you, Ash. You know what I mean? Like, you're Cheryl and Andre and they

little hood booger antics. I was just over there like, I only know a few of these. Y'all know somebody tried me when I was like, y'all know, because y'all close to me, y'all know GZ is like one of my top rappers. I know every lyric. Somebody was like, I bet you she don't even know a whole line of the lyrics. They tried me. Baby, I have no evidence that you and Gucci man like high school.

Oh, oh, oh, five or six. I was jamming to GZ and Gucci man. Those were, was my two plan. We can tell. Right. Everybody looks so good in their Texas and their. Like it was like, it was like,

it was like, it was like, it was like, it was like, it was like, it was like, it was like, It's just about playing. We can tell. Like everybody looked so good in their Texas and their kid house. Like it was giving Black excellence. It was. Except for when we was outside. I mean, it was entertaining.

So I'm not even mad at it. That part we could have did without. We was like, ooh, this is nice. And next thing you know, we started hearing some rum and I said, oh, they still out here now. It is Jeezy. It was Jeezy. He brought them out.

They was dressed up. Jeezy bring the hood out now. And I was part of the hood. I came out, my other, my alter ego came out. We had a great time. It was a lot of fun. It was. It was.

It's very cute. It was good. of fun. It was. It was. It was very cute. It was good. What y'all got planned this weekend? Essence Festival. I'm going to Essence. Are you going? Yeah, I'm taking my mom and then I'm speaking on a panel about reality TV. So. Oh, that's going to be good. What we going to be talking about, but I know it's going to be a good time.

This is my first time going to Essence. I've never been to Essence Festival and neither has my mom. So we plan. They said the tickets dropped this year. I wonder why what's going on with this. I want to go. It's these tariffs. The president don't want to find shoes. I want to go.

I used to call it auntie fest. Cause it kind of is a little auntie fest. I kind of want to go cause I think I'm, you know. We turned into the auntie. We the aunties now. We're auntie adjacent. Like I really, we next to it. Like cause like I think there's a concert every night. I think we're going to go probably Saturday night.

And it's like Erica Badu and What am I supposed to do? You know what them to stream it so I can see what you say about reality TV friend. That's really what I Real I might keep it all the way I'm gonna let y'all know what actually friends say she's finna get up there They gonna say so what about is she finna say fuck that show. I'm gonna let y'all know what Ashly Finns says. She finna get up there and they gonna say, so what about, and she finna say, fuck that show. I'm kidding. Oh, sorry, French Fry.

I ain't see you back there, girl. My bad. But yeah, no, I'm gonna keep it real. I hope they ask me some real ass questions so I can give them some real ass answers. And I feel like we need to speak on, you know, how reality stars don't get what they deserve. You know, I feel like we need to speak on, you know, how reality stars don't get what they deserve. You know, I feel like we're still fighting for,

you know, we do a lot of work. Like reality TV isn't easy. And I feel like the pay is not equivalent to the work that we do. Definitely not equivalent. I'm gonna make sure, you know, I'm gonna have my points. Right. The months and months of exploiting your life

Exactly. I'm gonna I'm gonna be honest if I can go back and change the hands of times I probably wouldn't have done the last show Yeah, me either if I had it on it was gonna be like that shit I feel bad. I missed out on a lot of business trying to be a team player Yeah, actually listen we felt Being Ashley, listen, we felt the same. I'm sitting down on the sofa talking about black love and black excellence and business and wealth and sisterhood just for us to end up talking about two vaginas that we just don't care about. Right.

All the things that they could have shown and it's just like that's what y'all show? Damn. Well, let's take, let's carry on. Let's not relive we're in a better space let's let's not relive let's get into the show tonight what we talking about y'all see the internet is going crazy diddy with my boy diddy well I gonna say he my boy but with with my boy Diddy. Well, I ain't gonna say he my boy, but with the boy Diddy. He ain't let him out yet though, right? No, his bail got denied.

Oh, damn. But so I guess he has to wait till October. So he's going back to prison until his sentencing in October, but he's clear, but still questioned the Diddy dilemma. So yeah, Diddy wasn't found guilty of the big charges. It was the Rico and the sex trafficking, but he was guilty of some lesser charges like transporting people for prostitution. Now that the deaths are starting to settle,

fans are either defending him hard or distancing themselves in silence. Now, when I was watching, I seen the fans outside with a whole bunch of baby oil. So what happened at Chappaquiddick? Well, it really depends on who you talk to. There are many versions of what happened in 1969 when a young Ted Kennedy drove a car into a pond. And left a woman behind to drown. There's a famous headline, I think, in the New York Daily News.

It's, Teddy escapes, Lon drowns. And in a strange way, right, that sort of tells you. The story really became about Ted's political future, Ted's political hopes. Will Ted become president? Chappaquiddick is a story of a tragic death and how the Kennedy machine took control. And he's not the only Kennedy to survive a scandal. The Kennedys have lived through disgrace, affairs, violence, you name it.

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The library now for me is a safe space as someone who is writing books that they're trying to take off of shelves. And how we as Black queer folks relate to our Christianity. Listen to Hella Black, Hella Queer, Hella Christian on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Did y'all see that? People got to know the time on their hands. Was this like in protest? So after Diddy was found not guilty on the big charges, they read everything out, the

fans started celebrating and people had baby oil with a Celebrating with baby law. Okay. I was unsure everything I need to go buy some stops and Johnson and Johnson at this point something People have way too much time Income like what are you doing? Go home? Like, what are you doing? Go home. You're outside the courthouse with baby oil. Like, who's mama and daddy are you? Like,

No, but for real. Cause you know they wasn't kids. These are people, these are grown adults. Grown men. These are grown men. These are grown men. Their shirts off, rubbing baby oil all over them. One man had on a Steve, a whole Steve Harvey suit, rubbing the baby oil all over his suit. Honey, every day you pray further and further

from the Lord's grace. I'm telling you, I'm telling you, this is crazy. I'm confused because just a couple of weeks ago, everybody was against Diddy. Now they all happy, but he got to quit it. I'm like, so what happened? Everybody just kind of flip-flop we like Some people are silently making subliminal pose. I know they tried to say that Carisha did the Justin Bieber Was within what this mean? He came out so they're trying to say she's basically for applying to Diddy's

Outcome, but then some people were trying to come at her and say oh you wasn't there to support him So why are you trying to speak now? Of course, you know 50 cent he's gonna be petty and I think intro and I forgot what he called him He said something it was something on there, but he was trolling. You had, um, little Bootsy come out and say something. He came out and said something. I mean, people are talking. You're going to have more people come out now who didn't say anything.

And I feel like they just should have just like they just need to shut up and be quiet because either you're gonna support him and support him, support him loud like crazy Kanye or you just gonna be quiet and carry on. Yeah, everybody was real quiet except for Kanye during the whole trial. Ain't nobody wanna have none to do it, did he no more? And now all of a sudden everybody's like,

Oh, praise God, amen. Yeah, but I mean that also for the people who were not supporting Diddy, that doesn't really change. The outcome doesn't really change how they feel about him. What these 12 people think about what he did and what somebody else thinks about what he did, it don't matter if he in jail or not, if they think that he's a monster,

they just think that he's a monster. Right. You understand what I'm saying? So it's really no like, I don't matter if he in jail or not, if they think that he's a monster, they just think that he's a monster. Right. Do you understand what I'm saying? So it's really no like, I don't know, the people who were quietly, they were quiet about it because they low key supported him. There's no sense in coming out about it now because you ain't going to change nobody mind. No. It is. And it doesn't affect us either way, honestly.

It don't. I agree with you. I feel like the people who are quietly supporting him, they should they should just stay Quiet because you weren't confident enough to say it before so why are you all I told you so now I feel like people are are mad that they didn't let him wait I don't feel like i'm seeing reading that people are mad that they didn't let him out on bun like what's the point if he didn't get charged, found guilty on the big charges,

why y'all holding him in? Because there's still other charges, I guess. He's still guilty of something. They have to figure out what they're gonna do about that. And then also that man got money, he can flee. Cause if I was deaddy you let me out I mean what what what's the maximum charge of transportation of prostitute? They're trying to give him the max it's like ten years for each of those lesser charges they try to give him the max

But it's hard to give somebody the max who don't have any Criminal charges who has never had any criminal charges. It is hard, but they're going to try. That's why I ain't giving him bail. They're like, well, we'll keep him while we can. They're going to try to keep him for whatever they can. But it's just crazy because it's almost like, like I understand what all of this was for, but I don't understand what it was all for.

I feel like it just seemed like just some horrible humiliation ritual or something. Cause it's like, y'all came out and said all of that. Y'all told all of that man business talk about racketeering and it's like, all witnesses and all their stories. All we got was just scandalous, salacious details about his sex life. It's like, my God, take me at the chat, please. Yeah, I didn't look at Diddy the same.

Yeah. How I looked at him in the first place, I just feel like those stories about him. Well, I didn't have no no bad look, but now it's just like. It was just like, OK, you you're great, you know, but now the skeletons that came out is like, oh, it's just a little nasty. Yeah, nasty. And he beat he beat people. Let me ask you a question.

Would y'all go to a Diddy party now? Now? No, no. That's not up my speed. I'm too old for that type of mesh anyway. Can I tell you? No, I'm talking about like, I speed. I'm too old for that type of mesh anyway. No, I'm talking about like he's been to a Diddy party before.

Like he has at his house like it's the all-white big Diddy party like he has like you know not the same party. They be normal parties though like I've been to Diddy parties they be normal parties until a certain time and in a certain room. They really be normal parties. And so everybody's like, oh, Diddy parties, Diddy parties. First of all, Diddy throws spectacular parties. Right. Okay, push a P.

I'm just saying, I'd have been the one or two and it was fun, but they were normal parties. You was drinking, you was drinking out the punch bowls. I don't know what I was drinking. I don't know what I was drinking. I don't know what I was drinking I don't know what I was drinking what people are gonna forgive him and forget and things are gonna slowly get back to how they were do you think he gonna start back throwing parties I think he need to go to Thailand. I don't think so. I was out there with Russell Simmons.

With Russell. Exactly. He's been to that. But I think now I feel like he's going to have a point to prove and I feel like he's going to just be like extra because you know he was trying to change his whole persona with the whole love thing. So I feel like he's's gonna go extra hard with that and try to prove a point and have more love parties.

That man is in his 50s. He needs to go enjoy his wealth. A grandbaby. In his life, he need to stay. Wait, he got grandkids? No. Oh. The way these people ate him up,

I would wanna come back here and talk to none of these people. The whole world ate his ass up for I would wanna come back here and talk to none of these people. The whole world ate his ass up for the better part of an entire year. I would take my little coins, much like what Cassie need to do, girl. Take your coins. And move away.

Go away from this stuff. And these people just- Not though, he seems like a person who needs that attention. He still needs to be like- Got a point to prove. He needs to be Diddy. He gonna come out with a new name. He probably gonna be like,

Diddy. He gonna change his last name from love to what? He's gonna come out with a new name. And it's a child, I don't know. And yeah, I just don't see him like, cowering out and like hiding away anywhere. I don't see that happening. We'll see. Well only time will tell. First we gotta see in October what they gonna send us him with.

Honey the internet is insane. Like it's too much. Like I'm honestly so glad that this is over because I was tired of like debating people about it. I was tired of singing on my timeline. I was just, it was just too much for me. The internet is just, yeah, it's a lot. It's not, and then it's also just like with the news that was coming out, like all these rumors and stuff, like the internet is, that ain't it. You can't really believe all the stuff that you hear and what you see. It was fake news everywhere and it was trash. Honestly speaking of fake news. Speaking of fake news. Listen speaking of fake news miss ma'am. Fake news this internet is not a real place but it's ruining real lives so

not ruining real lives. That's what you, that's what the type of It's not ruining my life. But speaking of fake news, so y'all know we was at the GZ concert, right? I'm gonna break I Post one picture up and people just went on a whole Shabam crazy thing like oh y'all together this that and I'm like what? crazy thing like oh y'all together this that and I'm like what? Saying that you know like Jeze and Sherelle is a new like people just the people You ain't see? You ain't see? Girl and then she went on the live the next day or like three days later People still talking about it

She was on her live talking about it was a couple talking about it. There was a couple. How are y'all gonna, first of all, that's not my type. Second of all, I respect, you know, GZ as a great rapper. And that's it. Don't try to put somebody on me. Hello, everybody. It's crazy. But that ain't even, that ain't even all of it. That's why I say the internet is crazy

So we you were we did our videos we posted our videos During the show or whatever when you send it front row, you don't you don't look behind you. First of all You ain't checking behind you Messages like overload people sending me people calling me They like girl you on this this page this that in the third you trying to expose some I don't know these people It's it's so crazy how people just take they would do do FB the FBI CIA Look in your picture your video trying to see and create their own narrative

and run with it. Who was in the background? I don't, to this day I still don't know these people. What did they say about them? Basically saying I was exposing them because I apparently they were not supposed to be a couple but they was a couple. I don't know child but I was like couple but they was a couple I don't know child but I was like oh she being messy they was all in martini messages in her dms so it was the people behind you or behind us there was they were a couple I guess so they were a couple. I don't know they were together Huh I still don't know the man name to this day. I just I don't know I just know one person and I don't want to say they name on the podcast Okay, so so the person that you know was affiliated with that person behind you. Yes

But what they got to do with me? Not a damn thing. Because I ain't like this. Who like this? Let me look behind me and see who behind me. Right, well, we have a concert. Before you pick up your phone and do your video. But who recording theyself and then looking in the back

of the video to see who behind them in the, who in their background? I can look in the video and see who it is. Come to me, because I need to know who this is in the who in their background The people who they talking about is in everybody who said in our section But they singled me out saying that I'm the one that's being missing because you know the person who know the person Yes, but I don't know them people. So, you know, you know somebody who wasn't at the concert who is Affiliated with one of the people the couple that was saying like five rows behind us Not five And contact you when they were like, uh-uh, girl?

No, it was blog. It hit the blogs. It hit the local blogs in Miami. And people just started messaging me and calling me like somebody died. I'm like, what's going on? Girl, girl. I'm like, I ain't gonna lie.

That's why I like the internet because. So what happened at Chappaquiddick? Well, it really depends on who you talk to. There are many versions of what happened in 1969 when a young Ted Kennedy drove a car into a pond. And left a woman behind to drown. There's a famous headline, I think, in the New York Daily News. It's, Teddy escapes, blonde drowns. And in a strange way, right, that sort of tells you. The story really became about Ted's political future, Ted's political hopes. Will Ted become president?

Chappaquiddick is a story of a tragic death and how the Kennedy machine took control. And he's not the only Kennedy to survive a scandal. The Kennedys have lived through disgrace, affairs, violence, you name it. So is there a curse? The Kennedys have lived through disgrace, affairs, violence, you name it. So is there a curse? Every week we go behind the headlines and beyond the drama of America's royal family. Listen to United States of Kennedy on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Don't miss the You vs. You podcast. Join Lex Borrero every week as he sits down with some of the biggest names in entertainment to talk about the real stuff, the struggles, the doubts, and the breakthroughs that made them who they are. They go deep, covering childhood trauma, family, overcoming loss, and the moments that shaped their journey. These honest conversations are meant to take the cape off our heroes with the hope that their humanity inspires you

to become a better you and therefore set you free to live the life of your dreams. Here's a sneak peek. I'm trained to go compete. I'm trained to be like harder, but sometimes that mentality stops you from stopping and smelling the flowers in your own garden. Is it wrong to want more?

We migrated, our family migrated here. I'm like second generation. Listen to You Versus You as part of My Cultura podcast network, available on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. American history is full of wise people. Well, women said something like, you know, 99.99% of war is diarrhea and 1% is glory. Those founding fathers were gossipy AF and they love to cut each other down. I'm Bob Crawford, host of American History Hotline, the show where you send us your questions

about American history and I find the answers, including the nuggets of wisdom our history has to offer. Hamilton pauses and then he says, the greatest man that ever lived was Julius Caesar. And Jefferson writes in his diary, this proves that Hamilton is for a dictator based on corruption. My favorite line was what Neil Armstrong said, it would have been harder to fake it than to do it. Listen to American history hotline on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Show me how good it can get today, God, and show the rest of the world what we already know.

It can't get no better than being Hella Black, Hella Queer, and Hella Christian. My name is Joseph Rees. I am the creator and host of Hella Black, Hella Queer, Hella Christian. A fully black, fully queer, fully human, fully divine podcast that explores society, culture, and the intersections of faith and identity. Listen to Hella Black, Hella Queer, Hella Christian to hear conversations about what it means to sound the way you look. I think what I've had to make peace with is that every iteration of my voice is given to me by God, and I love it. Books that validated our identity.

The library now for me is a safe space as someone who is writing books that they're trying to take off of shelves. And how we as black queer folks relate to our Christianity. Listen to Hella Black, Hella Queer, Hella Christian on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's go outside and try to do something funny. I'm going to find out. Girl, they're going to tell you. They're going to be something funny. I'll find out. Girl, they're going to tell you.

They're going to be ready to tell you. Every time. Every time. They're going to be ready to tell you. Can't stop public. Oh, thank you. Thank you for letting me know. Thank you.

I ain't got to check up on him no more. The internet is doing it for me. Thank you. So, I mean, I'm here for the people, you know, paying attention and, you know. But what other job do you have though? Well, wait, since all that happened, have you, let's just say the person's name is Nefertiti.

I don't know. Have you talked to Nefertiti about all that? No, because that's not my problem, because I don't talk to Nefertiti on a day-to-day basis Okay, it's not like it's a close friend of mine I don't I still don't know who if I call I'm be like, I don't even know the the guy name I don't know the female I heard of her before but I don't know her. Yeah, what I'm gonna say. Hey girl I don't know her. So what am I saying? Hey girl, such as such was in my video

and it hit the blog. What? I didn't know maybe I should have looked around and checked my surroundings before I posted. Yeah, no. I think that people think you're trying to be messy though. Get the fuck out of here. Who is sitting in front row and front row

seats looking behind them? Let me check my surroundings before I post. That concert caused you all types of hell. Now you got a new man. You got people you don't know. You messy. That's crazy. Girl. Interesting. That's crazy. Let me tell you. I said, yeah, when I tell you the people was devoted and to try, they was reaching out to my best friends. We on vacation, girl, she is messy.

Don't you, Martina was like, hold up. First of all, I got too much in my frame, tramp. They sending paragraphs, paragraphs. Girl my friend's tramp. They send in paragraphs, paragraphs. Yeah. It's crazy. Black people care so much, because it's one thing to be like, ooh, but then to dig into it and be contacting people and writing on blogs

and doing all kind of stuff. Creating a whole fake page just to speak your piece. And then creating a whole narrative. And that's what we're gonna get into. Why are we so quick to believe viral narratives without the facts? I don't know. I don't know.

Juicy, salacious drama, you know, they just are bored, I think, and just need something to be entertained by, and especially if it's negative. Did y'all see that girl that was in the blogs because some blog had posted Nelly in the Sean TV because of their new show, and the girl commented talking about how she was just sleeping with him last week or something. I seen that. And I was like, why does everyone believe it?

Like, all she did was just say random comment. And it was like, why did they pick that comment out of all the ridiculous comments and they just know for a fact, like, and that makes me think like a thing. And I'm like, damn, literally anybody could just go on and be like, yep, I was just with Ashanti last week, that baby, my baby, they but then this is even worse so we were in Paris for Beyonce concert chat was in South of France now how all of us are we together we together they was running with narratives like people Okay, now that narrative isn't it's not it's only far-fetched because I know you and because I know the situation But if I did not know you and I did not know the situation I'd be like what the hell they both doing in France

Don't nobody go to France everyday But do you know how far the two locations are? These people don't know what the hell is going on. That's why I said these people fail geography. Cause I mean, how'd you go get the South of France where he at and I'm up in here in Paris, over here in Paris, like what? It don't even make sense.

Oh, they together, she running behind him. She trying to stay close to him. I mean, I do have a child by him and his kid his daughters are their sisters So if they want to come around me they can like people just create narrative what I'm supposed to just cut off all ties Let her stop talking to her sisters I'm just about to delete everything I'm like, you can't do nothing. I'm just about to delete everything. I'm not gonna wear.

Like, can we be like Becky and John and have a great co-parenting relationship? Who is Becky and John? They're great people, they always have good co-parenting. They get along. They get along. They get along. She know how people don't have these problems.

It's always us, like we always these problems. It's always us. Like we always have to, it's always something. Oh, she still won't him because she communicate. We have, well damn, it was my fiance. We do got a child together. Why can't we communicate? Why can't we have a great co-parenting relationship? Because people want to be miserable.

That's why. And they want to make a story out of it you know they just bored I think they don't have enough going on in their lives. Yeah, that's crazy. It's crazy like let's we should practice okay they broke up it's okay we they should be happy dang they still get along they're still good they have a great co-parenting but no it's always negative things. We gotta get better. We have to practice showing positivity and it's okay to co-parent. We've got beef with each other.

I saw this post earlier today. I wanna read it. It says, the shade room is a toxic cesspool that has done more damage to Black community than traditional media ever could. It has taught a whole generation to normalize disrespect, misogyny and public humiliation and then repackaged it as entertainment and news for traffic clicks and views. And I think that is true. It's like, you know, in the beginning it was like, oh, you made the shade room, you want the shade room. It's like, you know, in the beginning, it was like, oh, you made the shade room, you're on the shade room.

It was like, kind of like. Everybody was happy like this. Everybody wanted to be on the shade room. Like it was a thing. But now I'm like terrified. I don't ever want to be on the shade room. I don't want to be. Listen.

Ever, because it's always gonna, even if you're on there for something positive, there's always gonna be some group of people that are going in on you. They're gonna nitpick at it, they're gonna lie, they're gonna just find something wrong with you or whatever you're doing and just make a whole narrative, create a whole narrative.

And then you've got people commenting on that and commenting on that and it just turns into this whole negative thing. So, you know, these blogs, I really feel like they should do a better job. They hold so much weight. They have more responsibility now and their platform is so huge.

I really feel like they need to do better at the content that they put out because it's really changed the way that I feel like black people communicate with each other on social media. So like a year ago, I unfollowed every blog. Like every blog and not for any real reason. I just kind of woke up one day and was just like,

you know, that's trash, which is why I would never know what you'd be talking about. I'm always like trying to figure out what you're talking about. I unfollowed every blog. And you know what I realized? Is that as an adult woman, I didn't know what the hell was going on in the world. And I was fully getting my news from blogs. And I was ashamed. I was like, oh girl, how do you not know anything that's happening? And not just in entertainment or culture, but you don not know anything that's happening and not just in like entertainment or culture,

but you don't know anything, anything because you unfollowed TMZ, because you unfollowed Shade Room, because you, and I really just unfollowed it because it was like, it was more, it was more negativity than anything. And even if it was positive, it was like nice nasty. And it wasn't even the post that got me,

it was the comments. It would just be like the overwhelming negativity towards every little thing, you know what I mean like um Um peacock and I saw uh nelly and ashanti's show came out, right? And it just it looked like a cute show and then I was on threads and everybody's talking about it And most people are talking about how cute it is

I go on Instagram the only thing that people are talking about is how he's a crap dad and he don't help her change diapers He's and I'm depending on the platform you go on they look like they're having fun They look like they're laughing like it's you know, like oh my god, they're so cute. That's great. But You know the the blogs are like, you know, like, oh my God, they're so cute. That's great. But, you know, the blogs are like, you know, just Instagram, just people, just in general. It just, it's like overwhelmingly negative. If you have to take people's opinions on people's whole lives.

Yeah, people jump on bandwagons. They see one thing and they run with it. And now everybody is repeating what that one person said who that that comment may have went viral now they're going to other blogs to try to make the same comment viral. It's just it's ridiculous. On TikTok there's it's a whole synopsis on this one scene. I keep seeing this one scene over and over and over again. Everybody has these weighted opinions about him saying, oh, I had this conversation with you, you know, before we got married, before we had the baby,

I don't do that type of stuff, you know what I mean? And everybody's going in about this one thing. And I'm like, bro, I know they filmed for months. Right, right. Why is this the hot take? Because it's probably the most negative take that they can find from the entire show. Yeah, it's crazy.

It's so crazy. Do y'all think it's social media making people lazy thinkers? Yes. Yeah, for sure. Everybody's like you said jumping on the bandwagon. They're not they're not looking for facts. They're not critical thinking anymore. They're just, they'll read an opinion

and they're like, oh, well, that sounds good. I'm gonna go over here. Or that sounds good. I'm gonna be over here today. Nobody's like putting facts together. Nobody's researching anything. Even when it comes to like the most basic thing, people are just like, whatever she's doing, I like her.

I'm gonna do that. Like it's very much just copy and paste, you know? So yeah, I do think people are, it's making people lazy. So what happened at Chappaquiddick? Well, it really depends on who you talk to. There are many versions of what happened in 1969 when a young Ted Kennedy drove a car into a pond. And left a woman into a pond.

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