Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies - Part 1: Hailey Bailey Custody battle & Have men become the new baddies?!

Episode Date: May 15, 2025

Ashley & Alexis are joined by W.A.G.S star Porsha Nicole react Hallie Bailey requesting sole custody of her son, have men become the new baddies?01:38 - Introduction18:12 - Hallie Bailey Custody b...attle33:33 - Have men become the new baddies?(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:44 host of the podcast, Are You a Charlotte? Sarah Jessica Parker is here, podcasts. But then you forgot about it. I completely forgot about it. Listen to Are You a Charlotte on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What's up everybody? Welcome to another episode of Humble Jatties. I'm your girl, Alexis Stoudemire. And we are here to give you some of the, what's the latest tea, the vibes, the good energy, you know? What's good? What's good, ladies?
Starting point is 00:02:35 Hey, girl, we got our sister in the house, poor Shaberto here filling in for our girl, Sherelle. What's up, boo, I miss you. Hey, boo. Hey, boo. I know, I miss y'all too. I can't wait to get back down to Miami. Where you coming?
Starting point is 00:02:51 So we can hang out. I'm coming to Miami, cause I need a tan, first of all. Okay, yes. Mm-hmm. You hear how I let you try me. She already said I look like something off of Twilight. I mean, you could use a little, yeah, I think a little.
Starting point is 00:03:03 You think I'm giving everlasting white ones. It's cute, it's so good, it's so pretty. Everlasting white lady. And it's so funny, y'all, whenever I get my makeup done, that's my first bit of instruction is, please don't make me look like a white woman. Like wash you out? It can go. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:23 You know what I mean? I always tell them I wanna be bronze, like bronze me down. I want to be brown. Yes. There you go. Like a new thing. Yeah. Make up. I don't want much. This is beyond makeup. I'm not on here mismatch color and everything else and girl. color and everything else and girl, it's my face. I'm down here, you know, a little more south and get you somebody that. Yeah. Okay. Okay.
Starting point is 00:03:49 Not even around like the girls. I mean, like the gay. Okay. I got it. Yeah. I'll do a baby. Yeah. He's so good.
Starting point is 00:03:58 My little chunky bug. Yeah. Y'all he's the best. I try not to say things like, Oh, good baby, bad baby. Cause there is no such thing as a bad baby. He a good baby. He's a good baby. There's a baby.
Starting point is 00:04:10 He's not too mean. There's a bad, sleep-free, colicky baby. Yeah, that's a good baby right there. That baby's a good baby. That's a good baby. That's the best thing too, that, you know, him being the latest one, you know? Because that can change up a little bit of the diet.
Starting point is 00:04:25 Would you have another baby? Are you? Cause this makes it easier for you. Since he was a good baby. I will say that I feel like that's how people get pushed into having four and five babies because they get that one baby that's just like, you know, like I'm an amazing, no, but he's just great.
Starting point is 00:04:42 Okay, you can't answer my question. Are you gonna have another baby? I don't know. Yeah, I don't think it's up to me. OK, that's great. Are you saying it's up to God or it's up to your husband? I mean, oh, kind of. It's getting both. You know, I think I would be open to it.
Starting point is 00:05:02 Not right now, though. I'm so tired. I'm exhausted. Like, I don't have it. I hear you, girls. All day, I'm sleepy all the time. But if you wanted another one, I'd be like, yeah, OK. OK. Sure. Well, I'm beyond babies, but I am celebrating my anniversary today with y'all. Happy anniversary.
Starting point is 00:05:23 Happy anniversary. You know, today is my anniversary. Happy anniversary. Happy anniversary. You know what today is. What a blessing, Ashley. Congratulations. Thank you. Thank you. How many years has it been? It's been our eighth year.
Starting point is 00:05:35 I know that's right. Yeah, our eighth year. But we've been together 16 years. So, I mean, to me, I feel like it's been a lifetime. You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, my...'s been a lifetime. You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, my middle. I have a question. Cause I'm almost like you.
Starting point is 00:05:49 It's been 15 years for us, but six years, Mary. But have you ever heard of the seven year itch? Yeah, yes. That's when our daughter died. You guys had the seven year itch? I don't know if that was just the seven years. I definitely feel like it was maybe around six years. I feel like we wasn't itching, but we needed some lotion.
Starting point is 00:06:11 You know what I'm saying? We needed some shade butter. We were with the action. Dry. Yeah, I'm saying we wasn't itchy yet, but it was definitely getting to a point where we needed some moisturizing of our relationship. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:06:31 So yeah, it's like, we definitely felt it. So I ain't trying to fool nobody. How do you moisturize it? I'm so intrigued. How do you moisturize? Because I'm coming up on your set. This is good. This is good dialogue to know about, by the way.
Starting point is 00:06:45 If it get ashy. No, I need to know. Yeah. I gotta go. You know, before it got to us being itchy, you know, I'm saying we was a little, it was a little dry and I felt like it was a communication thing. Communication was dry and like we really needed time to like sit down and really express like our feelings.
Starting point is 00:07:04 You know, every day I would be saying what I'm frustrated about, but not what I'm frustrated about. You know what I'm saying? It would be like little things that I'm like mad at him about, but the real core issues we weren't addressing. And so I feel like really it took conversations of us sitting outside.
Starting point is 00:07:23 Like I have somebody here with the kids and we literally sat outside. Y'all know of us sitting outside. Like, I have somebody, you know, here with the kids, and we literally sat outside. Yeah, I know, I'm always outside. And we sat outside on the grass, shoes off, like, just talk. You know, just have a conversation. Yeah, like, we really needed to ground ourselves, ground our relationship, and just, like, talk for hours. And just, like, lay it all out.
Starting point is 00:07:48 So we did that. We went away, you know, so we could have more conversation, you know, time just for ourselves. And I really feel like just being open and honest about what we're really feeling and really like making a decision about what we're going to do moving forward. Because it's like, yeah, we can talk about it all day, but like moving forward, like what we're gonna do moving forward because it's like yeah we can talk about it all day but like moving forward like what kind of marriage do you want to have for real like because you know we could be married and it could suck we could have a you know a good marriage you know so or you have a good marriage here or you know so it's like one let's say you want to be here I like that first of all you know yeah yeah yeah you want to be here, first of all. You know, yeah. Yeah. You want to be here because if you don't, yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:29 Well, we both did and we knew that, but it's like, OK, we both want the same things. Then like, what are we doing? So really, you just got to ask the question. Like, do you want to be here? What kind of marriage do you want to have? What kind of wife do you want? What kind of husband do you want? have? What kind of wife do you want? What kind of husband do you want? What are your expectations of me? You know, where do you see us building together? What do you see
Starting point is 00:08:53 you building on your own? Just really whatever those core questions are, I feel like we really had to sit down and talk about it because just going every day, like doing your thing and then waiting until something happens to try to have a conversation about those things, it doesn't work. Like you really got to be specific because it's your marriage and it's forever. And you need to be specific about what you want your marriage to be like. Yeah. I feel that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:21 Thank you, girl. Yeah, so don't let it get, um, don't let it get itchy. When he's... We don't want it to be itchy. It's moisturizing, okay? We get you some shade letters, get you some... Do the darn... We have therapy in here every day. Like, I fully became his therapist,
Starting point is 00:09:42 and I think he became mine, but it's, you know, necessary. Yes, it is. And it's something you have to do every day. You got a pollution on every day, or your ass gonna get ashy. Every day, or you gonna look at math. Exactly. Gotta check in. Got to.
Starting point is 00:09:56 That's my little advice now. You know, we on year eight, I'm still learning and, you know, so whatever advice, I'm always like here, but I just know that worked for us when we had got a little dry or whatever. But... It was, so seven years is when actually it was started to be a separation and divorce. So it's... That's a real theory. That's heavy.
Starting point is 00:10:20 Yes. Yeah, they said like that's a real, like it's been studied. Like that's absolutely true. It has been. Absolutely. And it's not was that... It obviously, it just wasn't seven years, because we have children prior to that, but, like, that's when things started to shift.
Starting point is 00:10:36 And I agree with you, Ashley. I think it's commendable that you're honest, because you're in it, and others are in it and listening, because I feel like if more people in our circle, in our community, that people that were like there for us were more honest about what marriage looked like, how hard it is, how, you know, it goes ups and downs, 80-20, 60-40 sometimes, give and take, all these things and understanding your partner. I feel like that could have been a little bit of a catalyst
Starting point is 00:11:06 for us to kind of maybe get things a little bit better. You know, I feel like we were just almost out there figuring this out by ourselves. So without that... You want to know what we all thought? You know, we all thought that the worst thing that could happen in your marriage is infidelity. And it plainly just...
Starting point is 00:11:24 Everybody thinks that as long as he ain't cheating and I ain't cheating, you think that's the worst thing that can happen to you? Correct. Truthfully, it's just life. As you're growing up, you're getting older, now you're an adult. Childhood, traumas come up.
Starting point is 00:11:38 It's all- Yes. You know, your parents are getting sick, your children are being born, they're going through stuff, financial stuff. And then you grow into different people. Like I'm not the same person that he met, you know, in two different times. No length. You know what I'm saying? And you're not supposed to be.
Starting point is 00:11:56 Exactly. But that's the thing. Like people are like, at one point he's like, but you wasn't like that before. You didn't like that before. I'm like, yeah, no, I was. You probably told me that. Yeah. You know, there's definitely like natural growing pains, but nobody really talks about that. But you know, there's one thing that I don't subscribe to and that's that marriage is hard.
Starting point is 00:12:20 And I feel like I hate that saying. I hate when people say marriage is hard because nothing that's worth it in life is easy, first of all, okay? Second of all, it's hard if you want it to be hard. You know what I'm saying? Like, we know what we need. Saying marriage needs communication, we've been hearing it since the beginning of time. Saying, like, you have to be honest. They're
Starting point is 00:12:49 Transparent and truthful. We know these things. It's just doing it you know, it's just actually being about it and doing the things that you say and I Just felt like you know power is in the tongue. So if you keep saying they're just You know what I'm saying, yeah, I'm here just gonna hard. So I just don't subscribe to saying those words out loud. I will never be like, I'm just like, you know, he got my nurses. You know what? I don't I don't like to say that it's hard, but it damn show. And that's cool. That's what I was going to say. It's not worth having.
Starting point is 00:13:24 It is a little hard. It is not. But's what I was gonna say. It's not easy. It ain't easy. It is worth having. It is a little hard. It is not. But yeah. It's a challenge and you're supposed to, you wanna show up. Speak positively over your marriage, protect your marriage. And yeah, I just, I just don't. I know that's right.
Starting point is 00:13:38 Yeah. Deaconess Wheeler, you better tell them. Tell the congregation, the sites in the back, life and death and how would have told you hello What that we do need that for sure, but we got celery I low-key have forgot about my anniversary To wish me and I was like But his mama Was she shady about she was she was just like,
Starting point is 00:14:07 oh, that's nice. Yeah, actually. She's not that. Yeah, that's right. So thank you, Miss Phyllis. She said she sent us a gift. It hasn't come yet, but she is so sweet. Like our relationship has grown so much over the years. And I think that has helped our marriage as well, because, you know, when you don't get along with it, that's hard. Okay.
Starting point is 00:14:32 No, I'm glad that we are healed from our past because if you ever watched any of my old show, y'all know it was a mess back in the day. On your cheeks, cut it up. Okay. was a mess back in the day. On the cheese cut and that. Hurricane Phyllis, play with, okay? Nothing to play with. I still love Hurricane Phyllis. That's still Hurricane Phyllis. I love her though.
Starting point is 00:14:55 Yeah. I love her too. That's cool. We're going to celebrate. We're going to celebrate. I don't know, in a couple of weeks we're going out of town, but for now, I'm going to just be outside with my chickens. And that's all.
Starting point is 00:15:06 Do you think the anniversaries change over time? Like, it's just like, we'll just celebrate later. I do feel like in the beginning, I was like, count down the days to my anniversary. And now, like, it's another day, another year. Yeah. We're happy. I'm happy.
Starting point is 00:15:27 And, you know, I feel blessed that we made it to eight years. Because, I mean, we've been talking all this time, like, can you believe, like, we've been meeting for eight years and we got two kids. They're like an old person, because you feel like, who's life is this? Yeah. How have you been married? Like a new parent. Who said that? Who chose that? Why is that? Why you keep giving us cute?
Starting point is 00:15:56 Yeah, we say that a lot. But it is something to be proud of. Sometimes I don't get caught up in the celebration of it, or what we're going to do, or where's my gift. I don't do any of that the celebration of it or what we're gonna do or where's my gift. I don't do any of that, but like we'll go to dinner and we'll just be like, oh, like we're proud of us. You know what I mean? You can accomplish me now.
Starting point is 00:16:13 I love that. Yeah, I like that too. And you know, I just think that in this day and age, we really should like recognize it. Like I shouldn't, we shouldn't be so nonshallowed about it because honestly like relationships don't be lasting and marriages, people don't uplift it like they used to anymore.
Starting point is 00:16:34 So we should celebrate it and it is a big deal. So I don't mean to like make it seem little of it at all. I think it's, yeah. But what's happening? Yeah, I understand. We feel you, girl. We know you ain't. We do.
Starting point is 00:16:49 You're going to give all the emotion all the time. You know what I mean? Yeah, I just I feel I feel blessed every day. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm happy every day. I take a moment every day to be like, thank God for all of this. You know what I'm saying? So but yeah, I don't make little of it at all.
Starting point is 00:17:08 Appreciate it. I need the little dose of positivity to start the cast. Okay. Okay, come. A little dose. Enough of me. Enough of my fairy tale. I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating.
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Starting point is 00:21:13 Listen to Are You a Charlotte? on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's talk about signing one, from fairy tales to headlines. Tonight we're diving into a story that's been making waves across social media and news outlets. It's about love, fame, and the complexities that come with both. We're talking about the recent allegations involving Haley Bailey and her ex-boyfriend
Starting point is 00:21:48 rapper DDG. That's right. Haley. It's her name Haley or Holly. Holly. Haley. I think it's Haley. Haley Bailey.
Starting point is 00:21:56 I think it's Haley. Yeah. I think I'm talking about. A little mermaid. Little mermaid. Not the name of the mermaid. She's recently been granted temporary custody, granted a temporary restraining order against EDG
Starting point is 00:22:13 and citing multiple instances of abuse during and after their relationship. The couple share a 17-month-old son named Halo and they began dating in 2022, and they separated in October of 2024. The court filings alleged physical abuse, verbal, emotional, and financial abuse, including a January incident
Starting point is 00:22:37 where DDG allegedly assaulted her during a custody exchange, resulting in a chipped tooth. Ooh, did y'all see that picture? I did. Yeah. She also claimed that DDG has used social media platforms to spread misinformation and incite harassment against her, leading to threats and online abuse.
Starting point is 00:22:57 It's a deeply troubling situation that raises important questions about domestic violence, especially in high profile relationships. So let's open up this conversation with some questions that we hope will spark some thoughtful discussions. All right, so controversial and conversational questions. Did we all ignore red flags because the couple looked so cute online?
Starting point is 00:23:25 Were we too caught up in the aesthetic of the relationship to notice things were off? Well, I wanna start by saying, one, we don't know what people have going on behind closed doors. Let's just capture that. One. Two, these are two public figures
Starting point is 00:23:42 and we did see them come together. We did see her, like, you know, since she was doing this run with Disney and being, you know, a Disney princess and Ariel, the first Black and only Black Ariel, by the way. Um, I feel like, you know, we were invested because she was doing so much press while she was expecting.
Starting point is 00:24:03 And so, not only that, she was focused on her job, doing her, but also didn't want to have the stigma of, I'm not married, you know, I'm Disney, I'm all this, this, and this. So, with all of that pressure and all of that going on, her body changing, hormonal, all this stuff, again, we don't know what was going on behind closed doors. Obviously, now what's done in the dark comes to the light
Starting point is 00:24:24 because here we are speaking on this. And unfortunately, there's a baby, a baby involved. And we know this as mothers, you want to protect yours. And obviously, there's some other things that have happened where it's like it may or may be documented, I don't know specifics, but enough to where she's like, my child is not safe in this environment. Yeah. Obviously if it's me, you know,
Starting point is 00:24:49 I'm not safe in this environment and neither is this child. So I'm sure, I mean, in order for a judge to even give a restraining order, there is some kind of evidence of like, at least like, you know what? This situation is a little weird, so you need to go ahead and stay away, you know, until they have more, you know, evidence or whatever the case may be.
Starting point is 00:25:10 But if a judge grants a restraining order, that means there is enough submission, a significant amount of evidence where they're like, you know what, this is not good for her to be near you guys are not supposed to be near each other, right? Now the baby coming in involved is tough because now, again, you want to protect yours and now it's like, look, I gotta take this baby with me, I gotta travel, she's gonna have to work
Starting point is 00:25:34 and take this child with her, which it is what it is, you gotta do what you gotta do. But again, we just don't know what was going on, so now it's out, you know, it's public and now we're just gonna, you know, support her and uplift her. And at the end of the day, we have to believe when people are saying this happened to me, you know, I know she's also very nervous about his, his outcry,
Starting point is 00:25:57 his, um, public image, as far as all his followers, cause he's a known streamer that, you know, streams live all the time and they're harassing her. So it's also very volatile in that situation too, because now you're adding that being both of you public figures, but people can publicly post these disheartening, you know, things. So it's a lot of mental and emotional abuse that she's already saying she's had. So now you're adding these layers to it. So it's sad.
Starting point is 00:26:26 Um, I'm supporting family all the time. Um, and also, but also safety first. Let me tell you, I was not caught up in no static of nothing. I'm telling you why. Because little mermaid, first of all, she has been following the Beyonce protocol. Her whole career. I ain't saying nothing. I ain't saying nothing, I ain't do nothing. She don't respond to nothing.
Starting point is 00:26:51 He probably because he's a streamer, I don't know a lot about him, but everything that I do see is he on Twitter and he's like a certified yapper. Okay? He was going at her. He was saying a lot about her, about the relationship, about this, about that. And I'm like, damn, like... I mean, they're cute and everything, but I really do wish that he would kind of be quiet
Starting point is 00:27:11 about what they got going on, but I understand that's part of his career. He, you know, he gets paid a lot to overshare. I get it. But it's also just like... I cannot stand no man as a certified... I mean, that's what I... When you said that she was following the Beyoncé protocol, I'm just like, I cannot stand no man as a certified. Yeah. When you said that she was following the Beyonce protocol,
Starting point is 00:27:28 that's what I thought of her and her sister. Like they were like following in the Beyonce's footsteps until she got filmed. And then I was like, wait a minute. I know Beyonce did not sign off on this. So I too was not caught up in anything when it came to Beyonce's son or aesthetic. I was just like, as soon as they became a thing
Starting point is 00:27:51 and she was pregnant, I was like, what is happening? Like... I will say he did look like a good dad, though. You know what I'm saying? He looked like a good dad. He looked like an imposter parent. But he held his baby like this. Well, that and because he was always arguing with people on the internet about that baby. He just looked like a very passionate parent. I feel like that's attention.
Starting point is 00:28:15 It's like, let me argue with them and make me look like, like, yeah, I'm not buying it. I'm not certified. I'm never buying it. Also, he's short and I don't know, short kings. But listen, like, I don't know. It's just nothing about them made me be like, oh, that's cute. But no, I wasn't caught up in that. But now that things aren't working out for them.
Starting point is 00:28:48 I don't know,. When I saw her, the picture of the chip tooth thing, and also I saw she had posted a picture with her with Brent Fiaz or whatever his name is on vacation, I think, was it this past weekend or it was something, some weekend, yeah. And DDG got mad or whatever because he wanted to see the baby, but she had took the baby to St. Lucia and with her new boo, I guess. No, it's a... She went with her sister. He went without filter. He assumed... So what ended up happening was...
Starting point is 00:29:17 He assumed. No, it wasn't even that. It wasn't even... But he popped off because that's what Reese's just saying. She's like, look, this is how he is. Okay. Well, I just don't like them out, like, posting their business, like having fights on the internet, like showing text messages.
Starting point is 00:29:41 I hate when, like when celebrities do that because... Like, they're gonna get older and they're gonna see all of this. You know what I mean? I really hate that part about it. Um... And it just seems so childish, too, because, like, we're supposed to be adults, and then it's like, we seeing y'all bigger. I don't know, I just don't like it when it goes public
Starting point is 00:30:05 and we can see the like, ends and outs of the relationship. But I really do hope that, you know, they figure it out. Like, I hope she's safe, the baby's safe. I hope he can continue to somehow be in the child's life. Like, I hope they work it out. You know what I mean? I just don't like the childish parts of it. But my next question is, is Hailey wrong like, I hope they work it out. You know what I mean? I just don't like the childish parts of it. But my next question is, is Haley wrong for wanting full custody or is she protecting her
Starting point is 00:30:31 peace and her child? Let's be real. If you don't trust your ex, do you owe them 50-50 in parenting? Should a mom have the right to decide where the child lives, even if the dad wants to be more involved? And how much say should the non-custodial parent really have? Hmm. That's a complex question. I feel like for a man, if we separate, don't come over here trying to do all the stuff that you ain't never did before. If you ain't never took the baby out of town before,
Starting point is 00:31:05 don't wait until we separate, try to take the baby out of town. If you ain't never kept him by yourself overnight, don't wait until we separate, I can get him on weekends, I'm his daddy. You ain't never kept this baby by, like never ever in your life. Like where are you in concern?
Starting point is 00:31:18 Yeah. Give me back my baby. Same. You know, I just think that. You like keep that same energy. Oh, what don't you keep that same energy, but also... Well, let me think it with another, like, maybe they grow up. Like, the relationship didn't work out. He wasn't the best father, but maybe something happens.
Starting point is 00:31:34 He's more financially stable or has a new wife or something. Now he can be the better father. Baby steps. Yeah. Baby steps. I'll take my baby out of town. I'll punch you in the throat. Don. Baby steps. I'll take my baby out of town. I'll punch you in the throat. Don't do it.
Starting point is 00:31:47 And I see what you're saying, especially if this is not your norm. Like, why put this child in? Because children become, like, they become the pawn in this tug of war. They're right in the middle and they're like, well, I'm going to hurt you, wife or lady, because I know you're closer to this child, so I'm gonna try to take this away from you, because I wanna hurt you, you know?
Starting point is 00:32:11 It can get like that, so it get real messy, and only the child gets hurt at the end of the day. Always gets like that, and everybody always says, I would never do that, and I would never talk bad about them, and I would never do this, and I would never do that, and more often than not, that's exactly what they do. always says I would never do that and I would never talk bad about them and I would never do that and more often than not, that's exactly what they do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:29 That's exactly what they do. So, no. Leave my baby home. Yeah. That's my vote. Well, I don't know. That is such a hard situation. I can't imagine like, that's a right end or whatever and then having to share my kids, like share that time. It's tough. So, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:32:49 That part makes me really sad. Like, thinking about it just makes me liable. It does. It's tough, you know? And again, this is going back to divorce. I just want to throw this in there. There's parenting plans, where you literally have to plan out everything.
Starting point is 00:33:04 Who's paying for this? Who has this time? Who gets this holiday? parenting plans where you literally have to plan out everything. Who's paying for this? Who has this time? Who gets this holiday? Who alternates this? Who's picking up from school? Who's dropping off from school? Who's allowed with like a holiday, splitting the scene. And you, you basically essentially having, you know, lawyers say, Hey, I don't know y'all, but this is the blueprint.
Starting point is 00:33:28 So we gonna stick this here, stick this here. This is, you know, this is how you do 50-50. It's always something. And then you end up looking up and you can't even, it's hard to even keep up with that because it's not realistic. You know, like I'm dealing with, my kids are older now and they're in college, you know, ones in college,
Starting point is 00:33:47 they're all over the place. So technically, I don't have to say, guess what, go see your dad. They can go on their own or not. You know, it's like, you know, it's just, it's at a point where it's like you have other people dictating, you know, your time with these children. So at the end of the day, the children are the ones that feel the brunt of it. It's like you have other people dictating, you know, your time with these children. So, and at the end of the day, the children are the ones
Starting point is 00:34:06 that feel the brunt of it. It's tough. Yeah. Again, to me, he looked like he was an all right daddy, so he could have fooled me, girl. I don't know what them people got going on. Yeah, I don't either. Practice. But it seems like the way she's going about keeping the child
Starting point is 00:34:21 might not be right. Like, she's literally keeping him from seeing his baby. And that seems like what he's mostly upset about even in the arguments that we're seeing, you know, like he might not be handling it the right way, but it seems like it's what we're seeing anyway, is stemming from her not allowing him to see his son. So.
Starting point is 00:34:43 And that says he was allegedly abusive towards her? I guess what I'm stemming. Yeah, I mean, I guess I get it. I mean. I get that. Yeah. No. You know.
Starting point is 00:35:00 I get it. I get it. But I don't like it, but I get it. Yeah. Well, damn, I hope they figure it out. Would you let your child travel with someone you don't trust? Haley said no to DDG taking Halo out of L.A. Is that being overprotective or just smart? Again, we don't know what's going on.
Starting point is 00:35:20 It has to be something for her to be like, I don't feel comfortable. You know, it's something. Yeah. I feel like mama's be knowing. Mama's be knowing. And I feel like, yeah, like if she wouldn't say that unless it was, there was an issue, there is an issue. And low key, every time he has the baby, and again, I don't know these people
Starting point is 00:35:48 and I don't follow this at all. But like, every time he has the baby on this stream, remember, his life is very much on stream. So he's like, hey, here's my baby, here's my baby. And the streams are just rolling, rolling, rolling, rolling. Like, you know, the more followers, the more whatever, however you make your money off of streaming. But it's just like, here's my baby, here guys, here world, see my child.
Starting point is 00:36:12 I mean, we gotta think of security. We gotta think of other people that are looking at your child and recognizing this baby. That's another layer to security. It's too much for me and my little life child. I don't know how to handle that. I don't know why they putting this in a group chat cause we don't know what to do. We don't know what Security is too much for me and my little life child. I don't know how to handle that. I don't know why they putting this in a group chat because we don't know what to do. We don't know what to tell y'all.
Starting point is 00:36:29 This is a lot. Okay. I don't know. It's depressing me. It's unfortunate. Let's wish them well. It's unfortunate. I wish I would.
Starting point is 00:36:38 Yeah, exactly. All right. Let's move on for that because that's just. We are. Let's move on. Okay. Hey, competition. I mean, it's doing something. I don't like it. I don't like it. All right, let's move on for that. Because that's just- We are. Let's move on. Okay. Hey, the application, though. I mean, it's doing something.
Starting point is 00:36:46 I don't like it. Yeah, I don't like it. All right. Have men become the new baddies? Let's be real. Some of these men are wearing crop tops, getting facials, and getting fast. And honestly, they're doing it better than us.
Starting point is 00:37:03 Ooh. So we gotta ask, have men officially become the new baddies? So we're gonna explore how traditional gender roles have flipped and whether men are stepping into the spotlight with more vanity, sass, and emotional drama than ever before. So I'm gonna give y'all some scenarios. A man gets flown out by a woman
Starting point is 00:37:24 and he posts the food, but not her. Is that giving city girl energy? How do we know? First of all, I don't really see guys posting the food, do they? Like, is that a... What's the city girl part? They be posting the bottles. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:37:44 I think they be posting, they be posting, like, at the airport in the bottles. You know what I'm saying? I think they be posting, they be posting like at the airport in the lounge. You know, they got they way of... Okay, okay. I don't think there's anything wrong getting flued out. Ain't nothing wrong, even if you're a man, ain't nothing wrong getting flued out. If she got it and she want to, then okay. But, you know, like when dad died, was more so like a woman was black. I was trying to like, yeah, the roles are changing now. The men are getting flown out, so, like, you don't think that,
Starting point is 00:38:12 like, changes the whole energy of, like, you know, men versus women and, like, how things go. Not for a real man. If you're a woman, if she getting money, then she just getting money. But if you still... If you're a woman, if she getting money, then she just getting money. But if you still, if you still a man, it's just, you'll make up for it in other ways. It's just, you just got flew down.
Starting point is 00:38:32 It's a gift. It's like a gift. It's like giving a man a gift. You know what I mean? It's not, I don't see the problem. I bet you Andre wish I fly his ass out. I bet you he wish you would knock on him and be like, no.
Starting point is 00:38:46 I think we're old school. Yeah, baby. I think I'm old school in the way. What? Can you come see me? Can you come meet me? No, I don't know if I can do that. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:39:04 You know, it's just that I don't think I could do it. I don't think there's a... I'm not going to do it. I'm not gonna do it, but I don't think... I feel like there are a lot of things that are happening now... that make men come off a little sassy. I don't think that's one of them. I think we've got bigger fish to fry. That's true, but that's the beginning of it.
Starting point is 00:39:23 That's the beginning of it. It's because they want to get to them out. They get in the nails, polished. Yeah, that's the gateway fast. They get the dangling earring, the dangling cross earring. Get away from me, Ashley. They get in real. They get in real. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:39:42 They get the nail polish. They get the cross body. The man-per-ers. What else is the starter kit? It used to be like the skinny jeans, but that's not really in any. Now it's podcast, microphone, and trash talking women all day. That part. That part. Absolutely sub-mom.
Starting point is 00:40:07 Yeah. I'm a part of the sassy brigade. And I know they get on the end, they like to say, oh, y'all always calling men sassy. I'm a part of the problem, because I'm calling you sassy. I think some of those things are sassy. Like, I don't want to see my man doing... I don't like the nail polish.
Starting point is 00:40:22 Y'all like nail polish? I don't like it. I't like the nail polish. Y'all like nail polish? I don't like it. I can't do nail polish. And they be doing, they be going all out with the designs. You hear that? I mean, at first it was like, okay, a little clear. Okay. You go get, and that's a lot for me.
Starting point is 00:40:38 If we go, I'm gonna get it. You hear them? No, no, no, you better buff it out. Don't you put a damn thing on those cuticles. You better buff that shit out. We're gonna walk away. Next thing you know, they got a whole pool set. Like, I just can't, okay?
Starting point is 00:40:52 Not a pool set. They under the light. Not a pool set. They under the light. I can't. Yeah, they under the light like that. Yeah, I don't know. I can't do it. I don't, I like me a man who's obviously still, but hypothetically speaking, I'm saying, like I need a man that's a man, like manly, you know?
Starting point is 00:41:14 Like he can't be in the mirror longer than me. You know what I'm saying? Like he need to be waiting on me to get ready. Like you can't have a 10 care, 10 step routine, skincare routine. Like that's too much. Like get you some soap and water and go. And let's hear. Let's go.
Starting point is 00:41:32 Yeah, no, it's very traditional over here. And I did not think that I was like a super traditional, I didn't think that I believed in gender roles specifically, or maybe I didn't until I got married. I don't know, it just works better for me. I'm just attracted to that. Anything that's not that, like I'll be attracted to it for, you know, for a short amount of time. I've had non-manly. I've had... I think I dated a gay man.
Starting point is 00:41:52 I've had him with like a little sex and it lasted. Did you ever date a gay boy? No, but I dated someone who like if later on somebody said, oh, you know, so and so gay, I'd be like, I could see that. You know what I mean? I think I dated a gay, like, if later on somebody said, oh, you know, so-and-so gay, I'd be like, I could see that, you know what I mean? I think I dated a guy before in college. No way. I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating. I don't feel emotions correctly.
Starting point is 00:42:17 I am talking to a felon right now, and I cannot decide if I like him or not. Those were some callers from my call-in podcast, Therapy Gecko. It's a show where I take real phone calls from anonymous strangers all over the world as a fake gecko therapist and try to dig into their brains and learn a little bit about their lives.
Starting point is 00:42:37 I know that's a weird concept, but I promise it's pretty interesting if you give it a shot. Matter of fact, here's a few more examples of the kinds of calls we get on this show. I live with my boyfriend, and I found his piss jar in our apartment. I collect my roommates' toenails and fingernails. I have very overbearing parents.
Starting point is 00:42:57 Even at the age of 29, they won't let me move out of their house. So if you want an excuse to get out of your own head and see what's going on in someone else's head, search for Therapy Gecko on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. It's the one with the green guy on it. The K Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-pop. We're talking music reviews, exclusive interviews, and deep dives into the industry like never before. From producers and choreographers to idols and trainees, we're bringing you
Starting point is 00:43:34 the real stories behind the music that you love. And yeah, we're keeping it a hundred, discussing everything from comebacks and concepts to the mental health side of the business. Because K-pop isn't just a genre. It's a whole world and we're exploring every corner of it. And here's the best part. Fans get to call in, drop opinions, and even join us live at events. You never know where we might pop up next. So listen to the K-Factor on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This isn't just a podcast, it's a movement. Are you ready?
Starting point is 00:44:08 Let's go. Made for This Mountain is a podcast that exists to empower listeners to rise above their struggles, break free from the chains of trauma, and silence the negative voices that have kept them small. Through raw conversations, real stories, and actionable guidance, you can learn to face the mountain that is in front of you. You will never be able to change or grow through the thing that you refuse to identify. The thing that you refuse to say, hey, this is my mountain.
Starting point is 00:44:37 This is the struggle. This is the thing that's in front of me. You can't make that mountain move without actually diving into it. May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to conquer the things that once felt impossible and step boldly into the best version of yourself to awaken the unstoppable strength that's inside of us all. So tune into the podcast, focus on your emotional well-being, and climb your personal mountain. Because it's impossible for you to be the most authentic you. It's impossible for you to love you fully if all you're doing is living to please people.
Starting point is 00:45:07 Your mountain is that. Listen to Made for This Mountain on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, host of the podcast, Are You a Charlotte? What we have all been waiting for. Sarah Jessica Parker is here, and she is sharing stories from the very beginning, like the time she forgot we filmed the pilot episode.
Starting point is 00:45:30 I remember some things about shooting the pilot. Right, I have some memories I can fill you in. And that you're going to fill me in. Yes, but then you forgot about it in the very long time they took to pick us up. I completely forgot about it. And she reveals what she thought when she read the script for Sex and the City
Starting point is 00:45:45 the very first time. He said he wrote this like I was in his head in some way, which I found really interesting. And does she think Carrie is too good for Mr. Big? She had inexplicable feelings. Got it. It is a human being that can't explain to her friends why somebody that might be beneath her
Starting point is 00:46:03 is dictating the hunt. You can't miss this. Listen to Are You a Charlotte? on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You look very pretty. You look very pretty. We never had sex. Oh, well, bitch, that's it. I was just gonna try it. See, for me, I have only sex with, like, on one hand. So for me, it was like, okay, we don't have sex, whatever. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:46:37 Like, but then I realized. Whatever, first of all, if you're not trying to sleep with me, you can't possibly give a crap about me, but that's my brokenness. Don't pay attention to that. That's wrong. That's... Don't pay attention to my brokenness. I think he's like a very pretty boy and...
Starting point is 00:46:53 Yeah, I don't know. Looking back, I'm pretty sure he's good. Yeah, looking back, so you didn't actually think that. We're super old school and I don't want us... We're not gonna speak for the masses, but we definitely want someone to court us, to be that burly, masculine, you know, like... You know, this is 10-year-olds going back to what Portia said. I agree with that. Like, you want X, Y, and Z,
Starting point is 00:47:17 and expect X, Y, and Z from your mate. You know, like, the content creators now, like, I don't want... I couldn't date somebody who's, like, doing the get ready with me, and it's want, I couldn't date somebody who's like doing the get ready with me. And it's like, you see them putting on the lotion and like, I don't know, I don't know. It's just, I don't like that.
Starting point is 00:47:35 I don't like it. I don't like selfies. Like I don't, why you posting selfies? I don't like that. Like why you posting them out there? Imagine, imagine your man just carrying around a tripod. If I link up public to Andre put out a tripod and set that bitch up and get your,
Starting point is 00:47:51 I'd be like, boy, if you don't get your. Please, it's just starting to think that I just don't find masculine. Like don't take no selfies. Don't post your outfit. Don't do that. Don't do that. I don't like that.
Starting point is 00:48:07 Do you think some stuff is going like the internet, like we're kind of taking it a little bit too far. I actually saw a post where this man was like, you're not a real man if you drive a coupe. And I was like, oh my God, men can't enjoy anything. It's like he's getting to the point where they're like shaming men for like just enjoying their life. You know what I mean? Like, and I get it, because again, I'm a part of the Sassy Brigade.
Starting point is 00:48:29 Like, I will call you sassy in a minute, but it is hitting a different... A mustang is a coupe. A Ferrari is a coupe. A Lamborghini is a coupe. Or like, I'm just going like, dang, they low-key can't really enjoy nothing, because we are ass. Nothing.
Starting point is 00:48:49 At the end of the day, you like what you like, you know what I'm saying? But, and a man is a man, but I just do think some men are a little more feminine than others. And I feel like now it's just a little, it's trending, you know, it's like these trends with the nails and the earrings and the man bags and all cutesy things that some men are into these days. It's trending. It's trending. Hopefully the manly man trend comes back soon. That's what the trend is. I don't care.
Starting point is 00:49:18 I got me a caveman and I ain't let go. Yeah, do that. I can't. It's sassy outside. It's veryassy. Yeah. Yeah. The argument is. Do I think that men are more emotionally expressive now or just more dramatic?
Starting point is 00:49:36 It's a fine line. It's a fine line. But I think, I think they're getting more comfortable with speaking up, which I appreciate because we are saying, men, speak up, have emotions, have feelings, cry, let it out. But now it's turning into, you know, it's like, it's turning into like coming out very much. It could be aggressive.
Starting point is 00:49:57 It could be sassy. It could be sassy. It could be all of the... Because we say that to them because we want them to communicate, but we keep forgetting that they're just not great communicators to begin with. So however it's gonna come out, it's just gonna come out. Yeah. However they come out. Men, just they don't communicate, to me,
Starting point is 00:50:18 they don't communicate as effectively as women do, not always in complete thoughts, just complete emotion. I think, and you can say that about women though. I think men would be like, women are just emotionally dramatic and just act. We are emotionally dramatic, but we also know how to tell your ass
Starting point is 00:50:41 what we are emotionally feeling. I'm emotional, but I'm gonna tell you exactly why. I'm gonna tell you what's going on with me. It's gonna come out emotional, but you gonna know what's wrong with me by the time we leave here. You gonna overstand. And men, I just think are,
Starting point is 00:50:56 they're just not great communicators. I haven't met many who were, honestly. Yeah. Well, damn. I mean, I'm meeting some. I see. But they're older. They're older and they've been through some stuff. Internet.
Starting point is 00:51:08 I mean, because I ain't around a lot of men like that. But on the internet, on the people's internet, the men be the main ones in the comments. Like, well, you think you are that, but you ain't. And it's like, damn, why do you even care? Because like, I don't feel, he ain't even going nobody. Loud and wrong. And tell a lady what they think about her. But it's a lot of men who feel comfortable going
Starting point is 00:51:37 on the people's internet and talking about women and a lot of like derogatory things. And it's just crazy to me. No, babe, they're the meanest names. They are meanest names. And then it's about stuff like, why do you even care? Like a lot of, I didn't expect all the men to be chiming in on the humble baddies
Starting point is 00:51:57 the way they've been doing. And I appreciate y'all for charming in, but I just wasn't expecting y'all to go so hard sometimes, you know what I mean? The way that we're chiming in on how I should spend my mother's day as if they've ever pushed anything out of their cat, it's crazy. I was like, oh wow. It's very intimidating.
Starting point is 00:52:20 And only the men having a problem with it, but it's always like that. Right. I'll be in them comments, I'll be seeing them coming, trying to be like, go home, Roger. What are you doing over here? Yeah, the men have a lot to say, you know? And, you know, it comes with it, you know,
Starting point is 00:52:35 opening yourself up on the internet. But damn, the men are very opinionated. And I feel like the internet has given them the freedom to, I don't know, say whatever. Like... I don't know, I just can't imagine them talking like that in person. Like, did y'all memorize all that? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:52:57 Nobody does. Girl, they see you in person and probably try to hit on you, ask for pictures and weird shit. Do women secretly love a pretty boy or do we want a man's man? I want him fine. I want him attractive. Yeah. That might mean pretty boy. I tried the pretty boy thing a lot of times, but like I said, I think he ended up being for the other team. So I got me a man's man. That's true.
Starting point is 00:53:25 I think I think the one that I had that was kind of he was. Yeah, but I think Cardi B is with a pretty boy now. Stephon Diggs to me, that's a pretty boy because he. Why? We've some pretty boy. I don't know. No, because he's very. Well, you just don't think pretty. No, I do. I think he's attractive you just don't think he's pretty? It was actually... No, I do. I think he's attractive.
Starting point is 00:53:48 I don't think he's a pretty boy. Yeah, I think he's a pretty boy because he's very fashionable. He's very into the way he looks. Like, you can tell, like, that is a top priority for him. Like, his hair is always perfection, outfit perfection. He has, you know, he's always at like fashion weeks, but like also like taking the pictures and like, it's very, he cares about the way he looks.
Starting point is 00:54:17 He's a pretty boy. Like he's into fashion. I look at it as just, that's a hobby and very much like, head to toe, like your hair is manicured. He's into fashion, into style, into expressing himself. I don't think it's like other things. It's very much pretty boy things. So that's why I would category him into the pretty boy category. Just looking at him, I wouldn't,
Starting point is 00:54:39 I don't know anything about him, but I wouldn't say that. I don't know. wouldn't say that. I don't know, I think I have a sassier version of Pretty Boy in my brain. I think the- Yeah, well, yeah, he gives Pretty Boy to me. You don't gotta be, you don't have to have like, you don't gotta be walking around like that
Starting point is 00:54:56 to be Pretty Boy. No, not like- But we definitely wouldn't be Pretty Boy. So who is y'all, who would y'all say is a pretty boy? What is y'all version? Like celebrity. So we can all know who you talking about. I mean, who the, celebrity?
Starting point is 00:55:15 I don't even, I don't even know celebrity. I know plenty of content creators that I definitely wouldn't name. I know lots of people I can name, but I'm not going to celebrity. Who's a pretty boy? No. Oh, too young. We find our pretty place. So that find dates for the way.
Starting point is 00:55:37 Are we entering here where men are the prize? Definitely not. I'm kidding. But I'm Definitely not. I'm kidding. But I'm not kidding. I'm not kidding. I think they're senior more, but I think they, men should feel that they're the prize too, just like women should. I feel like it goes both ways, you know?
Starting point is 00:56:00 Come search out and win this prize and vice versa. The best man, best woman wins. But to say you're the prize, to me, that's corny. Like, I'm the prize, you know? Like, no, like you're gonna have to come port me and put me up on this pedestal, meaning like a guy, and then you need to work your way up to be here with me? No, I don't think so. That's not given what we need right now.
Starting point is 00:56:28 Yeah, I don't think that... I don't know. Well, I hope people ain't out here saying that out loud, because that's weird. But I do think men are, like, changing the way they see themselves in the dating game. Like, I feel like men are saying like, no, there's so many women out here and there's only a little bit of men that are worth it.
Starting point is 00:56:55 So my value is this and y'all gotta meet my standards. Like I feel like their attitude towards dating has changed into the mindset of we're the prize. You know what I mean? So, you know, and I don't think there's necessarily something wrong with that. It's just that it's different now. And that's just like the state of dating in these times right now. You know, I feel like, I don't know. But it's also just how you think too, because I'm always going to tell like my? I feel like, I don't know. But it's also just how you think too, because I'm always gonna tell like my single friends, like, don't worry about
Starting point is 00:57:29 them saying like there's only a little bit of men and there's so many women. Like, that's not for you to worry about. Like, that's not your battle. Like, your person is your person regardless. I mean, I get that outlook that men have taken of like, you know, well, I'm a valuable man. Like I'm educated. I have a good job. Blah, blah, blah. I may run in the list or whatever. I get that.
Starting point is 00:57:53 Like that is something to be proud of and to, you know, hold yourself up, you know, high on. But I do think there is this like underlying thing of like the men are the prize now. I feel like that's what we're saying is because right now we're witnessing, I think for like the first time ever, mainly because of social media,
Starting point is 00:58:16 is this massive war between men and women on the internet. It's happening minute by minute. Everybody's arguing about 50-50. Everybody's arguing about what you bring to the table and what you bring to the table and why should I be with you? And I'm a high-value man and I'm a high... Like, it's enough. And I feel like that's why we're getting so much,
Starting point is 00:58:40 like everybody's beating on it. Um, Tito, bye-bye. Sorry, my son is creeping up in here. He's gonna be in his home. I think that's why we're getting a whole lot of, you know, men kind of beating on their chest and talking about what they deserve is because, you know, it's, we're at war. It looks like we're at war on the internet,
Starting point is 00:58:58 men and women all day acting like they need each other, acting like, you know what I mean? Like, that's just, is that like a millennial thing? I don't know what the hell we going through. I really don't. I don't know, it is different. It is different, it's scary out there. But you're right, I can see that.
Starting point is 00:59:16 I can see that. I feel like that's why they keep saying that, why it's this constant discussion about how there's just more good men out there. Like, not more, but like the dating pool is small. Like if you want a good man, it's just these people right here and they are on the internet screaming at you about it. Right.
Starting point is 00:59:36 You know what I mean? Like, so. Yeah. But again, that's... People are impressionable. To your point, there was like, oh, is that how she be thinking? All right. Because, you know, they had to...
Starting point is 00:59:47 And now they all like... Yeah, exactly, exactly. Now everybody's a high value man. Ugh, I hate when people say that. Exactly. That's one of my icks too, like when they... And says I'm high valued. I'm like, and then they start with money.
Starting point is 01:00:05 Like, that's not even what they're talking about, first of all. It's not about, it's not even about that. What are you even talking about right now? Exactly. Well, like I said, I hope, you know, the rise of the manly man comes back. Um, I think society... Are you beating manly men, Alex?
Starting point is 01:00:26 I am. Just that I am. And that's what I'm attracted to. As a matter of fact. Yeah, that's what I'm attracted to. I'm, again, I'm old school. I also, I'm a high-valued woman, you know what I mean? I know that's right.
Starting point is 01:00:40 Yeah, yeah, so, and I know what I bring to the table, you know? So I'm attracting these men that one can step up to the fact that I'm just, it becomes non-transactional. So it's very fair. I'm attracting men that have to be honest, that have to show up, that have to be consistent, and have to be that man, you know? Like, because there's a lot going on over here.
Starting point is 01:01:04 I'm not in a rush to be married. I've been there on over here. I'm not in a rush to be married. I've been there, done that. I'm not in a rush to have kids. I have four. They have a very active father. So like what I'm bringing to the table is like what you see is what you get. And it also filters out the ones who are weak. You know, you can't lie to me.
Starting point is 01:01:22 You shouldn't lie to me. Why do you need to lie to me? You know, you have to be ready for this. I'm a lot of woman and I bring a lot to the table. So that's what I'm attracted to. I want to be the one. Oh, I guess the one over here. It is, you know, it has to be the right kind of man
Starting point is 01:01:41 to be like, not be intimidated by that I'm done. And or let's just say my ex husband, like, you know, the men that are approached me are very much like, okay, all right. I see what's up. All right. Let me look, this is a challenge. Let me, let me step my game up because you know, this is you, you some else Lex and yes, I am.
Starting point is 01:02:01 Amen. Wait, I'm trying to be with you all today. What are you all? What you saying? What you drinking? What you eating? You got to collect it. It's you.
Starting point is 01:02:09 I'm on a cleanse. The mind is clear. The full mode, you know, we just, we here. Oh. My girl say I'm, but I'm that girl. And what you mean? Yeah. Yeah, you know, this is the spirit of the weak ones.
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