Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies Part 1 - Thriving Side Chicks + Tattoo Regrets

Episode Date: April 8, 2025

Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to the recent trend of side chicks taking the spotlight over main chicks and why being a side chick never works out in the long run. Later, they Love & Hip Hop ATL star Bambi revealing a fresh new tattoo of her fiancé Rayface’s name and talk tattoo regrets.01:38 - Intro03:46 - Side Chicks Gone Wild29:34 - Bambi Tattoos Her Fiancé(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season 1. Every time I hear about my dad, it's, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between Jeremy Scott and the son he'd never known. At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley Season 2 starting April 9th on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey y'all, welcome back. It's the Humblebetties podcast.

I am your girl Ashley Nicole. I'm Alexa. And I'm Alexis Welch Stoudemire. And we are the humble baddies. What's up, y'all? Hey, chillin'. I just, you know, just glowing, glowing on this beautiful Monday. You sure are glowing.

I saw you at Serenity, you at French Fry, was out on the beach. Where y'all was at? Girl, we took a little trip destination, I know, a secret location. Oh. Yeah, we had a little trip. I was with you.

That's my baby. Little mini-lady. Yes, we had a little mommy-daughter vacation. Okay. Okay. And I see Lexu glowing too. You know, my passport was just sitting on the shelf just a little bit lonely, and I needed some, like, some real relaxation and recalibration time. So I dipped to Jamaica.

And was just on the beach. Yes, yes. Getting to eat my, eat my plantain and my peas and rice and my fried cabbage and my whole snapper. So I've just been eating and living and relaxing. So I'm happy. Love that for y'all. I wasn't on nobody. I'm a chicken.

You been a, a chicken. Mom, I'm a chicken. Mama, I'm a I'm going to chicken mama. You know, they chicks grow so fast. Like they are big already. They're big already. Like they you got to hold them with two hands now.

What a difference a week makes. That's incredible. Yeah. So I'm getting them a little chicken coop built. Actually, it's a big chicken coop. Like I can't wait. I'm gonna say, I'm sure it's gonna be lit. I can't wait to see this. I'm going to mouth for my little... We got to come check the chicks out. I love that. But speaking of chicks, let's talk about the side chicks. Our side chicks.

Oh, yeah. That's a side chicks. Cool. Not the side chicks. Side chicks. All right, y'all, let's get into the real tea in 2025. All right. The side chicks ain't hiding. They letting it be known that they are side chicks. They keeping it real. They're posting their lavish lifestyles, posting jet pics, Rolexes, their Chanel bags, their

Hermes bag. They just showing showing out. So do y'all think. But are they really well, I'm not talking to them, but are they really winning? Do y'all think side chicks are winning? Is it is it like a praise to be a side chick now? I mean, I think they went in at something for sure. You know what I'm saying?

If you out here, I mean, hopefully if you a side chick, you one of the side chicks that's getting flew out and you know, bags and you know, I hope you're not the side chick that's just having to lay on your back and That's it. You know what I'm saying? So I would say you know if that's what you choose to do and you're getting all that then I would say you're a winning side chick Now are you winning that what like? Relationship wise or I don't know about that

But I feel like if you a side chick and you getting all them things, then yeah, I think you're doing good at being a side chick. Who knows to you, bitch. But you're right. Stay on that level. But I think it's really winning because, you know, like, no, women eventually want what that what that wife says. They want the main.

But maybe they don't. I feel like a lot of women these days don't see the value in being a main chick, because they're like, why would I be a main chick? Why would I subject myself to being with a man who maybe I think would cheat on me? Or why would I be with a man who, I don't know, doesn't treat me as well, doesn't buy me things or whatever, you know, that those type of women like, you know what I mean? Maybe they feel like it's a better situation to be the side piece, you know?

I think nowadays, you know, being in a relationship, people just don't believe in it as much because of, you know, their past situations. And, you know, dating these days is hard. So you might as well just get, you know, flued out in bags and stuff, and not even have to worry about having to keep this man happy.

I look at it as temporary satisfaction. It is very much to say here, here's some, here's some money or here's a bag. Just to satisfy your senses for the moment. But it's very much temporary. And it goes to show you that when you, you know, understand that you're a side chick, you also know that you're not first and you're not the main, you know, the, and I do know there are women who accept less, but we got to do better. You know what I mean? It's just, um, I wouldn't want the bare minimum. I don't want, I want the person that I'm doing to be bare minimum. I think they're getting what

they want. We're talking about materialistic stuff though though. They're saying that the D, the side, like they they know their role. So I feel like they don't feel like they're missing out on something. I mean, there are people who know their role for sure. But what are you getting out of it? Nothing except for something mon of monetary or temporary satisfaction, nothing of value of substance, only monetary. And to me is whack behavior. And you also really like, you know, it's just really very much putting yourself in the position

of that you are not the one. And to me, you get that energy and you putting that into just the relationship. You can't question this man. You can't, you know, and then, and then low key, if you see him out or you see him, you know he's not with you. If he's not with you, he's with the other, his wife or potential just his main partner who he's giving love to. But low key, I pose the question though, like do the people like you really are with somebody

in a, like in a committed relationship. And then the side chick has that hush mentality of not coming out. Do you all feel like it's almost degrading of that woman to just be like, accept the bare minimum? I mean, I know you said, Ash, a little bit, be good at being a side chick, but I feel like I believe in karma.

I believe in all these different things that, you know, why are we accepting the bare minimum? So I just want to I'm just curious of what you guys' thoughts are on that, you know, of just really thinking that. You know, the guys can like think this is OK, I don't know, I just I just feel some kind of way about it. I don't believe in this, I just want to put that out there. I'm just trying to- Oh, for sure. ... from the perspective of, you know, women who don't mind being second or a side or whatever.

I feel like they're- ... outside of myself. I feel like there's some women, like Ashley Ashley said who don't want to just be tied down in a relationship because I know some women who are not and they are okay with being side chicks. Do I agree with it? No, I do not. But the reasoning were they don't have to deal with the stress. They person take care of what they need to take care of. They come and go, they satisfy their needs and move on. It's no nothing more. They don't want nothing else to it. They would rather let the main person deal

with all the stress and drama. It's like. So they accept a portion of the man. They accept what they want and they continue on. So I don't know. I could not be no side chick. Me either. It's not my portion. No. You got to know. It's not my person either. Nothing to get those who choose to live that lifestyle, who want that lifestyle, there's nothing wrong with it. Because in some situations, it's people who've been married and they feel like it's cheaper to keep her

and their relationships are just there just because, and they have a whole other thing going on. I feel like men are not gonna leave their wives though for the side trip. Like statistically, I feel like, you know, I guess if you know that's what your portion is gonna be, then like low key, you're just gonna always stay second. I mean, I feel like over time there could be feelings attached, obviously, the hope of maybe I'm gonna be with this person later on.

I don't know, it's just beyond disrespectful to me. So I don't know, it's just beyond disrespectful to me. So I don't know. It's just, and I could never be number two. And I think too, maybe it's a thing of like, you're not a side chick, but you might be with a man who has just like a lot of women. You know what I mean? That counts as a side chick too, right? Because you're not a man. I think if you know, like if y'all had this like a right? Cause you're not a main. I think, I think if you are, if it's, if you know, like if y'all had this like a little conversation

and you like, hey, you know, obviously, you know, he's in a situation, he's like, yo, I am committed to this woman, you know, whatever, she's my main, or we live together, we got kids together, whatever he's gonna come up with. I guess maybe he's given that, that the side chick, the option to be number two and knowing that, you know, if my wife calls, you need to hush up.

If we're out or I'm going to do family things or whatever the case may be. I just feel like they know what they're doing and they know their position. Yeah. I think there are like a lot of situations, situationships where people are out here, you know, with men and they know, you know, that they do things for other women. But they would say like, that's not my man, that's not my boyfriend. And he's, he doesn't have a woman, but he's doing like those things for maybe her and somebody else. So, I mean, I don't know, I feel like it's just interesting because, you know, I feel like a lot of women these days don't care about, you know, if they're not

looking for a man, like if they're not looking for anything, they would prefer a situationship where they get flued out. They get the bags, they get this, this, and that. You know what I'm saying? Temporary fix. Temporary set up. They're okay with that. They're okay.

You got some side chicks. Like, okay, well, I don't got a man, but I do got this one. Like pacifiers. Yeah. Then you got some side chicks that turn into the so-called main chick and then that is a new side chick. So it's like, good job. This is how you lose them. How you get them.

That's so true. But I believe I believe in kermit energy. You know what I mean? Like, obviously, the main chick, she probably don't even know what's going on. She don't know funds are leaving her household, the emotional attachments, the physical, the all these things, you know. And I feel like most men in these situations, when they have a side chick, they pick the weaker women that are okay with this and just they know that they can throw some money off, I mean, to them.

It's always on the lower. I feel like there are men in the world who marry a certain type of lady because they know they can have side chicks. You know what I'm saying? Like, I feel like rich men know how to pick a wife. And sometimes the wife, you know, I think men think that like women are dumb and like, you know and we don't see their way. Like naive or something to that.

And I think some women play into it because they like, fuck it, I don't care if he has a side piece or whatever, as long as my lifestyle is my lifestyle. You know what I'm saying? So do y'all think that intentionally will be with a man who has a lot of money knowing that he's probably going to have side chicks? I think the woman is more acceptable if the man has a lot of money, like they'll deal with more of it than, and know that, OK, this is what's going on. I've seen it several times.

This is a lot of community. Yeah. Religious. Do you have the money, the funds? That ain't tricking if you got it, I guess. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. But if you were in that, if you were in those shoes and he got all these women, shit, the woman can have her

side piece too then. I'm sure it's not going down. I'm sure. Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season 1. I just knew him as a kid. Long silent voices from his past came forward. And he was just staring at me.

And they had secrets of their own to share. Um, Gilbert King? I'm the son of Jeremy Lynn Scott. I was no longer just telling the story. I was part of it. Every time I hear about my dad, it's, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between a killer and the son he'd never known.

If the cops and everything would have done their job properly, my dad would have been in jail. I would have never existed. I never expected to find myself in this place. Now, I need to tell you how I got here. At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Bone Valley, season two. Jeremy.

Jeremy, I want to tell you something. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley, season two, starting April 9th on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And to hear the entire new season ad free with exclusive content starting April 9th, subscribe to Lava for Good Plus on Apple Podcasts. Um, what Tom Brady and, uh, just saying y'all think Tom had him some side pieces. What I feel like, I mean, I don't know. I don't know about that. I didn't hear it. I didn't know about it.

No, you said what? I don't think Tom was cheating on him. I don't know what's his side piece? I mean, we do not know. I don't know. I just can be a side chick. I feel some kind of way about side chicks. And just because I feel like you're doing more harm than good and it's very selfish. But then I don't fault them as much as I fault whoever's in the relationship, especially if you hiding behind backs, you doing the dirty stuff.

You know what I mean? It's just like now you starting to put health in jeopardy. Now you starting to put financial strain and all these things and just that that putting that energy of, you know, we're sneaking around behind the main situation. But we have seen where people are very much. It can happen like you know, it happened like more kids can come about. Of course. Then what? Like anything can happen. So you just. Yeah. You're playing with fire.

So that's side chick mistress type of thing. And I don't feel like they're being elevated. So like I know we have fans that are of all ages. I don't think they're being elevated. I think it's just very show what I got on the gram, you know, but you can't even show him on like a picture or whatever. You can show the stack or you can show the new bag that came out, but there's more to that, you know what I mean?

It's just like, but that bag is not going to warm me up at night. It's not going to answer that phone call if you have an emergency either. You know what I mean? You're just not the priority so What should I do? So we normalize being the side chick because relationships are failing No, it's not normalizing it I Don't think it's not normalizing it.

I don't think it's normalizing it. But like I said, it might be easier, you know, if you come coming from a relationship where you got hurt or cheated on or whatever, or didn't work out for whatever reason, it might be easier to just decide like, oh, well, I'm gonna mess with this man. Like, I can get what I want from him or whatever. You know, I feel like it just appeases to some women in some situations, you know what I mean? I don't know, but I don't think it's normalized.

I don't think nobody deep down inside wants to be a side chick. Yeah, I definitely, I just came out of a relationship and I definitely ain't about to jump into nothing being no damn side chick. Mm-hmm. It's not worth it. No, I'm not even howling at you. She got a person. Like I don't even want that energy. Yeah, I don't need nobody, you know, hitting me up on the side like, yo, you dealing with my man. Yeah, I don't want no smoke with that. It's not for me. So if a man is paying bills, flying you out and keeping it honest, is that toxic or transactional? Say that again? I said if a man is paying bills, flying you out and keeping it honest, he got a woman.

Is that toxic or transactional? Both. Yep. Both. It's very much toxic because I'm just paying for you to hush and really stay on the side, not be elevated, very much stay stagnant and very toxic because of that energy again, you know, let me be financially, you know Manipulating you low-key. You know, we're not toxic since he's keeping it real

What if he's keeping it on this thing? He's like, you know what? I'm married, but I'm not happy you know, my wife does not give me say and I Just you know, I respect her and everything, but I just want to fulfill my needs. And this is what I'll do for you in exchange for this. Yes, both. It's both. Yeah. My pH between my, let me tell you something. For me to get some kind of disease or some kind of whatever is not worth my health.

He's not sleeping with no one else. He chose he he's you know, his wife and give him the sex. And he told he was like, OK, I'm going to marry another partner, a sexual partner. Still married, still attached. Yeah, I mean, I just feel like the whole transactional thing, it appeals to a lot of women these days. Like, I feel like they would rather that situation over having nothing and over having a chance that this man is, they think they're going to get hurt again.

You know what I mean? I feel like it's not that it's normalized. It's just, it appeals to a lot of women these days because dating, the dating game is, is crazy out there. It could be very transactional and very toxic. I might as well, I might as well get a bag. I might as well get flued out. I hope you're getting flued out. And you're getting everything, your bills paid, all of that.

Please don't be out here doing all that. For nothing. Please, Lord. Please. That's nothing. Not a thing. Not for nothing. I'm saying this better, but it's just like, girl, we gonna be out here doing all that.

What? I don't want to go. At least get the light bill paid. Nothing. Not the light bill paid. Something. Not the light bill. Okay, car note, light bill, rent. Uh-uh. Blue down.

Not for me. The world. See the world. That's bad. Uh-uh. I ain't having it. Nah, nah, nah, nah. I'm not risking making sure my kids go to school every morning, my health, my mental, none of that. No, not for me. And being married, I wasn't playing that, you know, that's not fun.

Who wants to be dealing with that? You know, and now being like dating and when you talk to people and you want to lock it in, I'm still not dealing with that. We can have a very much open conversation. What if you dating and they want to date other people? Then we can break up and not be together. We can all we can all go date other people. Well, that's you just saying you believe in dating multiple people.

I mean, no, now we locked in. That's different. OK, if we again, and I said this, too, now we locked in, that's different. OK. Again, and I said this too, if we had the conversation of, hey, we're being exclusive, this is what it is, then I'm down for that. But if you're like, you know, let's be exclusive, but, you know, I still might dibble and dabble here and there, then you're not exclusive with me.

Yeah, that's what we got to clear up too, because a lot of people, they was on our heads last week, like, about... They sure were. ...dating multiple guys, but it's not dating and having sex. It's like, wait, aren't your options, okay, I'm gonna go on a date with this guy, I just met this guy I'm gonna date.

I'm not intimate with him, but I have options that I can weigh out. Yeah, just keeping an open mind, because I'm trying to figure myself out too, like who I want to lock it down with because it's like really low key, may the best man win, you know, like, cause I know whoever I'm gonna end up with, I'm elevating their life. So it's going to take some time. I get to, I need to know what's going on. I need to know who your people are. I need to know how you, you know, treat others. So to me, I want to know who you are because we can only be compatible.

Yes, because you get a representative at the first, you know, first few months, the first everything's fine and all this. I apply for one of the baby. They think we're going to know what's going on. Telling that. Oh, thank you. Like, what the hell? I got myself. And so that's dating. And if somebody asked me like, hey. Thank you. Like what the hell, I got myself into. Yeah, so that's dating.

And if somebody asked me, like, hey, are you dating other people? I would be very honest with them. I wouldn't keep it from them. But that doesn't mean I'm being intimate with everyone. I'm really just, I'm going to have a coffee. I'm going to go to dinner. Like, it's good to have conversations. And I'm not with anyone to be like thinking I'm being

sneaky or think, you know, any of that kind of stuff. I'm very much grown and can very much communicate and verbalize what's going on. So I want to ask, I will. See, that's the thing. And that's why I feel like relationships fail. Because we feel like we only can go out on a date, we go out on a date with one person, we feel like we have to just lock in. That's what, especially these men,

they misunderstood what we were talking about. It's like, I want to weigh out my options. Know I'm not having sex with all these guys. Know I'm not intimately involved with all these guys. I just weigh out my options to see if we're compatible. And if we're not, we're not, we can move on. It's nothing serious. It's okay to go on a date.

Correct. Get to know each other. If we're bobbing, we're bobbing. If not, move on. I'm gonna go on another date with this person. See how it is. That's right. There's nothing wrong with that,

especially when you're at an age where you know what you're looking for and you know what you want. Correct. And not settling. You know what you want. Correct. And not settling. You know better, you do better. You know, that's the whole point of dating. It's just like dating, like you want to date. I know men just can't handle it.

They just can't handle, you know, women doing what men do anyway. So we haven't done what they're doing. They are here. But but but the thing is, they were really pretty. If y'all wanted to, y'all could. Like y'all have grown and if y'all wanted to go out here and have sex with whoever you want to have sex with, you could. It's just like the double standard of dating and the double standard with men and women. Like, you know, men just can't handle a woman doing what they do.

You know what I'm saying? Like, it just it is what it is. Really verbalizing and just saying, hey, I'm dating other people. And it's not just you. Yeah, they can't they don't want to be on your top of your game. Always double standards. I mean, if you all wanted to go have sex with people like, OK. Mm hmm. That's why you ain't gonna never be married. That's why you the book.

That's why I mean, you absolutely couldn't do that. So, y'all even just having to, like, correct that, it's just like, y'all don't have to do all that because y'all are grown as fuck. Y'all can do what y'all want to do. Y'all can have sex with whoever you want to have sex with. Absolutely. They who have you on a date, it's just they're mad

because men and their egos just cannot handle it. That's point blank. Right. Oh, it is. And we were just being on. So, well, they know it's not every week. We're about to start dating late. Time to start going out and we're going to do the speed dating. Remember, are you going to do a speed dating for me?

Speed dating. I think we should do it on like IG live. You know, like have people hop on the live like a quick. Like, yeah. Oh, yes. Like interaction. The vet. Is that everything done? Huh?

How are we going to how are we going to like vet these people? How are y'all going to vet these people? What are we going to do? I mean, this how y'all gonna vet these people what we gonna do I Mean this is just you know, I don't know. We're experimenting here. Okay, we're experimenting. We'll figure it out I'll out. Don't worry. You just show up you just be there and But I'm cute. You're fine. So and be ready. That's it. I can do that. I can do that Ready. That's it. I can do that. I can do that. Dating. Rotate.

Rotate. We're going to click hang up next. Oh, click hang up. Like who's next? Who's next? Who's next? Shoot your shot. I got we got a better. We'll talk about it offline. What we don't what we don't take you to find you. Oh Let me know then I don't know we don't Okay, it's going to London we're going to London to find you like

You know I heard it's some good prospects over there in London. We gotta go to all the way. There ain't nothing over here. You don't want nothing over here. That's a long way. We need to go get some fish and chips over there. Go to the London Bridge. Okay.

Go holler at the Prince. There's some royalty over there. Yes. We got to go where the money reside. The shag going to go crazy again. Now we go diggers. Cause we going over there where the money reside. over there where the money reside.

Oh, y'all are mad. Is it love or temporary? Oh, this is good for y'all. It's what love or temporary? Bambi Tattoo Sparks major debate. So Bambi from Loving Hip Hop revealed a fresh new tattoo, her fiance's ray faces named boldly inked on her body. Talk about taking things to the next level. Do y'all think she took things to the next level

by tattooing her fiance's name on her? But didn't they get inked? Well, yeah, yeah, fiance, right? Yeah, okay. I mean, it's had my name so I know it's real. I don't know. I mean, I it's had my name, so I know it's real. I don't know. I mean, I like a two for one, too. Like if you get me, then, you know, I might get like a timestamp. I believe in time stamp. Oh, what's that?

That's what I can't really read. I don't even know what it's saying. You know, it's like, well, it's it's. It's about to be removed. I was about to say, you know, that's one thing about that. So you can get a remote cover him up. You got somebody named of what you got somebody name on you. Um, but I got it. There's a few there's my name is on a few.

How about that? Period. Now I'm about to remove a lot of my tattoos though. I'm about to, I want to- I don't know about he love me. I ain't got nobody got their name. They like I have a name. No, but I have my kids.

I mean, I'm tatted up though. I'm like- I don't have no tattoos. Ashley, I like that shirt. Girl, let me see the shirt. That's right. Okay. Oh. You know what I'm raff Let me see the shirt. That's right. Okay. Oh

I'm rafi for the squad Really? We all a family see you right here. We got a day humble babies. We sure do. Yeah But yeah, I'm in the guys I'm into that. And that's going to be her whole husband. I think that's a good expression of love and like how to show your love for somebody. You know, I think as long as you do it. And you smart about it, because I feel like back in the day, like in high school, a lot of my friends got their little boyfriends on them.

You know, like that wasn't smart. No, no. Tramp stamp. Exactly. Oh, I never got the tramp stamp, but I got the thot tattoo. Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season 1. I just knew him as a kid. Long silent voices from his past came forward. And he was just staring at me. And they had secrets of their own to

share. Gilbert King, I'm the son of Jeremy Lynn Scott. I was no longer just telling the story, I was part of it. Every time I was no longer just telling the story. I was part of it. Every time I hear about my dad, it's, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between a killer and the son he'd never known.

If the cops and everything would have done their job properly, my dad would have been in jail. I would have never existed. I never expected to find myself in this place. Now, I need to tell you how I got here. At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Bone Valley, season two. Jeremy.

Jeremy, I want to tell you something. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley, season two, starting April 9th on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. And to hear the entire new season ad free with exclusive content starting April 9th, subscribe to Lava for Good Plus on Apple Podcasts. What's wrong with that face? I don't like, like, if I, that's why I tell my daughters them now, wait until you become

older and mature before you start getting tattoos because I regret getting tattoos. I love them. I don't love them. Damn. I don't, I have four, I have about 14 tattoos y'all. But the way I tell my kids is be very strategic about it, because I'm like, if you're in my personal space or like, you know, more on the intimate level, then you can see them. They're all over. You know what I mean?

So I don't have I could wear a gown and it's like won't be like this, you know. So they're like hidden in different ways and they mean different things. But I'm all for time stamps. You know, I don't mind. Like, but it can be like a little anchor because y'all like to go, you know, fishing or something. I don't know. I mean, there's other things to do. But this is her whole fiance.

So I think it's cute, whatever. She's into tats. I mean, she probably got her other ex-husband on there too, you know, or maybe crossed off or whatever. I mean, who knows? That might be her thing, but, you know, or maybe crossed off or whatever. I mean, who knows? That might be her thing, but you know, actually, would you tap the old name on you? Yeah, I think I would. It.

I think I would. I think, I think it's not yet. Not yet. Hold on. Hold on. Yeah, hold on. Hold your breath. Wait a minute. Hold on. I feel like, yeah, I would, but I'm not.

Tattoos ain't really my thing yet, and I want to be like moved to do it. Like, you know, I want to feel like, yes, because I'm a very impulsive person. I'm a very like, so I want to feel it like I don't like being bound. However, she was like, come on, let's go get the test. So I'm like, bitch. Yeah, a piercing. Yeah. So I was like, let's go get a piercing.

A piercing. Yeah. Now? I'm here. I'm here for it. So you'll get a piercing over your head. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. If I wasn't in the Army, I would have had all kind of piercings going on.

They was mad. I had my nose pierced twice. And they kept trying to make me take it out. I was wearing it when I went post-suing, you know Oh, yeah, can't wear it. I had all these piercings. They kept making me take it out. But anyways Um, I would I'm thinking maybe for like a special anniversary or something like, you know, so that's cute I would definitely. I have a girlfriend who has her husband's, like,

he signs, like, a letter just right behind her ear, just, like, right there, tiny. Yeah. And has no other tattoos. Aw, like, cute. But, like, Phil doesn't have tattoos either. Like, so, I don't even know if he would look at it and be like, you know, when he... Oh, Phil don't have not one tattoo.

No, he don't have not one tattoo. No, he don't have not one tattoo. Wow. So, I would be very upset if I got it and then he looked at it. And then he back out like, uh-uh. Don't like it. You know, like, why you do that? You know? Yeah. Well, I mean, I understand what you're saying

because I'm thinking, like, think about the ladies who are getting the faces tattooed on their face, like a whole portrait. Yeah. No, that's a bit much. I don't think that's smart. That's just done. Period. I don't care.

Crescent. Eternity, bitch. Uh-uh. What's her name? Is it Crescent? She has a lot of them too, of her guy. Why mess up your whole beautiful face and put a whole man who... Not Phil in the chat timeout and get my name tatted.

So he know it's real. First of all, you go first. Y'all go together. She's scary. It's scary. Soon as they pull out that needle, soon as She's cool. It's scary. So let's say pull out that needle. So let's hear it. It hurts.

He ain't gonna do it. I'm telling you. It doesn't hurt. Get some nomming cream. It's it's already to get my next one. He scared of needles. He a punk. It's not gonna happen.

They say, you know, they are you gonna actually talk to you like that? Now you got a point to prove it. Go get that. Go get it. But it right here. But it's funny. But anyway, if I want to go to the police, I'm going to get a piercing any time. If you don't like it,

if you start dating the guy, he had his ex tattooed on him. What are you doing? I mean, if this getting serious, especially he has like a lot of other tasks, I would like it's time to go get that covered up. Like, why? Why wouldn't you want to go get it covered up? No, no, no, no. I don't think, I don't know.

Again, I feel like it's a time stamp. So if that was somebody that you were rocking with, then, like, I don't think it would bother me. It ain't bothering me. I think it's bad. It just depends on maybe where it is. I don't want to see it. If we, especially if we getting married and this is the only body I'm finna see for the rest of my life.

Oh, yeah, it's fine to get that. If we getting married, baby, pick all their names. I don't need to see that every time. Uh-uh. Uh-uh. I don't want to see it. No. You about to start doing some foreplay. You bought it. You bought it. Start doing some foreplay.

You run it. You bump into the name. Yeah. No. I wonder where it depends on where it is. I can just write a book like, you know, third areas. And it's like the name is this time out hers or something, you know? This is my body. I can do had to speak for this is my one body. I could really do whatever to for the rest of my life. Mm-mm. Cover it up. Cover it up.

No. Burn it off, something. Cut it off. You make a good point. I agree. I don't think that you have to. A lot of arguments have started because of previous tattoos, like getting into new relations. Really? Yeah, a lot of people can't accept that,

having old names, you know, ex's names on them. A lot of people can't accept that. I mean, I feel like, you know, if it's like a previous marriage or long, like, I don't know. But once you're, I just feel like once you're in a deep, deep, long committed relationship, at some point you should, I think, probably covered up. Like that's a, I don't know. Out of respect?

Yeah. That's true. I don't think, go into a relationship, you should be like automatically, all right, cover that bitch name up, you know, that might be a bit too much. A little bit. Yeah. Yeah. But I know those. Michelle, I have a tattoo on my ring finger.

And I wouldn't cover it up. What what does that say? What did it symbolize? Like when I got married? What is it? A date? It's a Roman numeral. Twelve. Well, yeah, I feel matching.

You know, that's your like marriage and like that's a part of your life. Like I get that, you know what I mean? But how much is the name like? Keisha. She shush, you know, like, I think that's a bit like, I don't know. I don't know. I mean, I think it's the name. If I have to see it, I feel I think I feel some kind of way.

But like if he has a like even a face, I don't know if I want to see a face. That would be weird. But like the Roman numeral, I don't know if I want to see a face. That would be weird. But like the Roman numeral, I would... It's just a part of a time, you know, and then that's it. But, I mean, it's red, red ink. I have a lot, a few red tattoos. But it can get, it can get covered up. You know.

It's just asked. Well, do you think it's a red flag if somebody asks you to get their name tattooed on you? No, I don't think it's a red flag. If it's bothering them that much. But that's if we locked in and if we about to, we together together, not just anybody I'm dealing with. But no one's asked me to get their name tattooed on me. Like, if I want to...

Yeah, like... I don't want nobody to ask me to do it. Don't ask me to get your name tattooed on me. That's like, you want, yeah, like a name tag. Yeah, like... Mmm. Like, you own me. Like, yeah. I don't know. That's a little... I don't like that.

I don't like that either. Don't ask me to do it. I want to put it... It should definitely be mutually, you know, consensual for sure. Yeah. But now I feel like we can go together and get better. I do not want to get it, because why are you asking me to... No, let me do it because I want to do it. Exactly. I think, yeah, me too. I like once. Yeah, me too. I like what? Yeah. Well, I think, you know, Bami wanted to get her test of her FIASA, so here we are.

Well, well, we got a form of expression. It lands. Bami, you don't want to be looking like you good old sluts over here. No, I wish I was wish that's right there. Don't you can really see? I know you can see it. What you're going to do is you're a Shirelle. You keeping it? I was just about to ask Ash.

I don't know. I haven't decided. It is not my to do list. Okay. Okay. Well, at least it's not supposed to do lists. Okay. Okay. Well, at least it's an option. Because nowadays you can get them removed and everything too. So, yours is a little.

Or you can put it into something. No, I think if I did do something between covering up or removing, I probably would remove. Yeah, because you said you don't like any of your tattoos at this point. I don't. That's true. Mm. Zero? Not even one.

I'm past that stage, y'all. What are your tattoos of? What are the rest of them? I have a lotus flower on my thigh. I have a cover up. I snuck and got a tattoo when I was 16. The first tattoo was a little Playboy bunny. Because I wanted to hide it because I snuck and got it. Then when I was like, what the hell am I doing with a Playboy bunny?

Like, I didn't even know the true meaning of a Playboy bunny. So they'll get covered up with another flower. OK, you like flowers like that? Yeah. Well, that's I mean, you getting it like that. Honestly, that's why I have never gotten a tattoo, because I'm like, I don't even like nothing enough like that. So you can't even get it. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Like flowers. I have't even like nothing enough like that. So you can't even get it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Like flowers. I have my kid's name on my back. I have my zodiac sign on my, the taper of my neck and I have a big tattoo on my stomach. A what? Flowers. So you like flowers.

She likes flowers. But I don't. That's the thing. Like, mine are all over. I got the kids. I got a little heart. That's my first, my latest one. I don't think I'm.

My name. They're all over the place. Like, I want something that means something, but that's like, you got to ask me to know what it is. Like, I don't want it to be like, like, got a flower. I don't, I need them to be like, what is that? What do that mean? Like, it's a story.

But I ain't got nothing. I don't have anything like, but. But see, all my stuff was young. So it's like, I did it because I was in the moment. You know, everybody, everybody had tattoos. It was that, you know, you was a, you had tattoos. It was that, you know, it was a you had tattoos like it was just don't get them. It was a tattoo shop on every everywhere. Yeah, I definitely went with my friends to get their tattoos.

And I don't know, I just couldn't make up my mind, but see, that's good. I don't know. I have a list, I have an ongoing list of potential tattoos. What? What do you want? What's your next tattoo? I wanna get an outlet of the world, and then I wanna, I think I'm gonna end up doing some, like,

tallies of all the countries I've been to, and gonna grow that. I'm gonna do a phoenix. I got all kinds of stuff, but I'm been to and gonna grow that. I'm gonna do a Phoenix. I got all kinds of stuff, but I'm gonna have them to where, like, if you see see me standing up straight, you won't really see them. Because, I mean, they're minor all over the place. See, I feel like I would be a girl who would want a whole sleeve. You know what I'm saying? Like, I just don't know.

Yeah, let's do this. Get on that sleeve. Huh? And finding the right artist. Right. All that stuff. I would I're going to get on that sleeve. Huh? And in the end, finding the right artist. Right. All that stuff. I could so see me with a sleeve, you know what I'm saying? I could see you with a sleeve, though, low-key. I could see you with a sleeve, Ashley.

But don't get it. Yeah, I just need... But if I was a tattoo girl, that would be me. I just, you know... Yeah, I feel like I could see you with a sleeve, too. I would do that shit. Yeah, mine are sporadic. see you when it's leave too. I would do that shit. Yeah, mine are sporadic. It's like hide and seek over here.

This is like whatever. Okay, hide and seek. That's right. Did y'all see Bambi's tattoo? I didn't see it. Let me see if I can find it. I don't know. No, was it just like a name?

Was it a signature, a symbol? I don't know. Okay, well. You know, you just hope somebody's locked in all the way to where you keep it going and you got it. Did he get hers or no? I was going to say, did he get hers? I don't know, but probably so. But you know, I don't know who her fiance is, but we wish them the best.

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