Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies - Part 2: Joy Taylor's Relationship Red Flags + Sharelle’s Perfect Man

Episode Date: May 8, 2025

Sharelle is joined by W.A.G.s to Riches star Porsha Berto to react to Joy Taylor's recent podcast appearance where she discussed her relationship red flags, Mother's Day affirmations, postpartum depression, and much more!01:38 - Getting Your Sexy Back17:15 - Sharelle’s Perfect Man22:41 - Joy Taylor’s Relationship Red Flags29:13 – Humble Baddies Mailbag(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You're listening to an iHeart podcast. The Made for This Mountain podcast exists to empower listeners to rise above their inner struggles and face the mountain in front of them. So during Mental Health Awareness Month, tune into the podcast, focus on your emotional well-being and then climb that mountain. You will never be able to change or grow through the thing that you refuse to identify, the thing that you refuse to say, hey, this is my mountain, this is the struggle.

Listen to Made for This Mountain on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Connie Britton is here. I think you should encourage your friend to go ahead and not be holding out for any man to have her babies. She could be waiting another 10 years before she finds the right guy. Connie didn't meet her right guy until you were what, 50 Connie?

52. 52. 52. I kept thinking, oh, I'm going to meet the guy. I'm going to meet the guy. I'm going to meet the guy. I finally was like, what am I waiting for? And I did it. And I'm just so glad that I did. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, it's Emily Tisch-Sussman, host of the podcast She Pivots. In honor of Mother's Day, we have some very special guests. I'm Elaine Welteroth.

And I'm Keelan Murray. Both women pivoted out of their careers after having their kids, proving that motherhood is just another chapter in our journey, not the end. Come on over to hear their full stories. You can listen to She Pivots on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Why is a soap opera western like Yellowstone

so wildly successful? The American West with Dan Flores is the latest show from the Meat Eater Podcast Network. So join me starting Tuesday, May 6th, where we'll delve into stories of the West and come to understand how it helps inform the ways in which we experience the region today. Listen to The American West with Dan Flores on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I get in my way, never out of my lane. Feel like you're the one and I'm the one.

So what is gonna be, baby squad? Recast that, recast that. Let's get into our next segment. Let's get into our next segment. Go ahead. We get it. This one you can relate to, Portia, because you got your sexy back and it is getting your sexy back after having a baby.

Mother's Day is this Sunday. Woop woop. Shout out to all the mothers. Happy Mother's Day. We love y'all. Hope y'all may do it big for y'all and y'all kids. I hope you get to take a nap. That's what I hope.

Do you think Mother's Day should be spent with the kids or a long time? I hope you get to take a nap. That's what I hope. I hope you get to. Do you think mother's day should be spent with the kids or a long time? No, no, okay. Let me not say that. So I think for, this is what I've been doing for like the last two or three years. For the first half of the day,

we get up and we do things with our moms, which is like not for me, cause I'm like spending time with your mom and my mom so That's for them for me after we do the things and the pictures and the cute shit I'm gonna need you to get me a hotel room up the street Check me in Take the keys home bring me some Chipotle bring me Krispy Kreme bring me Krispy Kreme, bring me a Pepsi,

let me watch, bring me the Fire Stick, I'm trying to watch Housewives, and let me sleep alone. And I've done this for like the past three years. I will spend the day with the kids, with his mama, with my mama, but then after that, I'm going up the street to that hotel, and he doesn't even stay. Like, he'll literally drop me off, he'll bring me food, we'll usually have sex, and then he leaves, and I sleep there in the bed all by myself. And it's amazing.

Wow. It's perfect. So you don't get piped down before you say he do? Yeah, absolutely. And then he leaves. He goes. He doesn't even stay. He goes. He's like, OK, watch housewives. I'm like, yup. And then he leaves. He goes. He doesn't even stay. He goes. He's like, OK, watch housewives.

I'm like, yup. And that's it. And he come get me in the morning. That is funny. Honestly, it's the greatest gift idea I've ever had for myself. And I would like to continue the tradition. I know that's right. I haven't, you know, I'm spending time with my babies then. We probably go out to eat and I just want to be lazy.

I mean, how can you be lazy if you spending time with your babies? That's what I'm trying to figure out. We all gotta be lazy. Look, I'm gonna get, this is the time where the whole day Serenity can have her pet the whole, I'll pad the whole day. Because that's gonna keep her busy. She gonna be tuned in. Listen, we gonna be good. We just...

Don't bother. Mother's Day is a lot, because you go, you do the brunch, you do the stuff, you gotta get everybody dressed. You like, an outing with all of your children is just, that's just not relaxing to me. I'll do it. You know what I mean? But if you ask me what I really want, I'm gonna stay at home, I'm riddled with children.

I've got a gaggle of kids downstairs right now. They're clawing at the door, like little animals waiting for me to come out. Like, I don't, on Mother's Day, put me at that courtyard myriad and close the door. I will see you in the morning. Period. I don't know that's right. You should try it. Okay. All right, babies. Let's talk about something real. We're diving into the raw, beautiful, emotional chaos of postpartum, that fourth trimester, that what the hell just happened to my body,

my mind, and my soul season. You brought life into this world, and now you're trying to remember the parts of you that existed before diaper bag, leaky boobs, sleek deprivation, and unsolicited advice. It's a riot, y'all. So today we're having a conversation that's not sure who called it.

We're talking body image, mental health, sexuality, confidence, and how the hell did you get your sexy back after becoming someone's mama? Because yes, you are a mother, but you're still a woman. And she deserves to shine too. That was cute. Bravo, friend. So it's like the five key things people don't tell you

about postpartum. And I think you can speak on that because you just, and you probably dealing with it because you just, you probably dealing with it or you just had your baby and I know it's hectic right now. Well first things first, postpartum is the ghetto. Nobody told me. I mean I heard a lot about like you know know, postpartum depression, which I didn't really think that I had it before.

Maybe I did. Maybe I was just disassociating. I have no idea. But I definitely feel it more so with this one than I did the first two, like full on. You know, they say the baby blues lasts like two weeks, three weeks, anything after that. Like you can talk to somebody. Girl, that postpartum depression hit me like a Mack truck. Like a Mack truck.

Everything was wrong and nothing was wrong. I loved everything. I hated everything. It was just, I don't know, but this time, Andre didn't get on my nerves. When I had Legacy, I hated him so much. Oh, it was so bad for him. When I had Legacy, I didn't want nothing to do with Andre.

I wanted his face. But this time, he's the only person I want to be around. Do you think it's because the genders or what is it? I don't know what it is. I think it was just the shock of the first kid. Like, I resented him so much. I resented him before. You're different. It's something new to you. Your whole body is changing. You're like,

-"What the fuck did you do to my..." -"Not only that, it felt like my life had completely changed and his didn't at all. Everything looked different for me, and his shit just looked like it was just another day. Like, oh, I'm just gonna watch Game of Thrones. I know you haven't slept in six days, but you got this. You know what I mean? Like, it was just not...

Damn, what are you all being breastfeeding? You know what I... Agni, it was, ooh, it was the ghetto. Like I said, it was the ghetto. So I presented him real bad the first time. I didn't want nothing to do with him. I was just like, you got it too easy over here. This is whack, like, return to sender. I don't want this, this is crazy.

This time, I think it was just... I don't know, I think my age probably played a part because my first kid, I was 28. I'm 35 now. The pregnancy was a little bit different. I assume postpartum would be too. So I think I experienced a little bit more sadness this time around.

I think my body pretty much did the same thing all three times. Like, you know, I'm a little bony thing, so I ain't holding the weight, not really. So that's not that was, you know what I mean? This is a question to help new, you know, parents, mothers that just, you know, had their first one and they're going through it and they're looking at these moms because it's been a trend. Like a lot of these moms, it's like a gold, as soon as you have your baby, a week later, you post that like my baby pick out that and had my baby.

And it's like, did you really have a baby? Were you really pregnant? You know, how do you feel sexy again when your body feels like it's been through war? Um, I don't, I just think it takes time because to say it's one thing to look sexy. It's another thing to feel sexy. And I'm almost six months out and I can put it on something and be like, Oh yeah, I look sexy, but that doesn't mean that I feel sexy. Like I have to take my brain and turn it off of my mode

and then turn it onto like a sexual person type. You know what I mean? I'm not walking around all day just feeling sexy. I'm just not, I feel like a mess. I'm like a utility. I'm breastfeeding, they want things from mess. I'm like a utility. I'm breastfeeding. They want things from me. They're hanging all over me.

Like, I'm just not in that frame of mind, like, almost ever until I purposely comb my hair, put on something decent, go somewhere with my man alone, and then I start to feel better. But it's just, it's hard to get away. It's hard to tear away from the routine. But like, I mean, you just have to do things for yourself. Even if it's just little stuff.

Like, I get in the sauna, that's 50 minutes. It's the best 50 minutes, you know what I mean? A day sometimes, because it's just quiet. You know what I mean? But I'm not far away from my kids, because I'm crazy attached. I'm like a Velcro mom. And I think that's the thing too, and for all the fathers that's listening out here, help your wife or your girlfriend or your mate out because they need, even if it's like 30 minutes, just give them that time to, you know, regroup.

Um, and it's okay. Like, I feel like the communication is not there. Like, and it's okay for that mother to say, baby, can you just take care of the baby for like 15 to 20 minutes while I just regroup? Just have some... I think something else we need to normalize is like, what is considered a break and what is considered time? Because a shower's not a break. That's necessity. People need to bathe. You know what I mean?

Like the shower's not a break. Going to the bathroom is not a break. Like grocery shopping is not a break. It's still a task. Like you just, it takes, it takes a lot. I feel like if men just understood like how, like, and they just never will. Those hormones, it is just something different. It's something different. It's something that you really can't even explain, but it requires all the patience that you have inside of you, like to deal with somebody who's going through that. So I feel like for me, getting my sexy back

was a lot of working out. You know what I mean? Going to the gym, really taking care of myself, getting in the sauna, eating the right things, you know, putting the right things in my body, just feeling like, feeling clean, you know? Feeling like healthy is what makes, feeling healthy makes me feel sexy,

which you know, sometimes it's hard to do when you have kids or a very young baby. And that's what mothers have to realize. Like, not only do you have to take care of your baby, but you also have to take care of your body, too. You have to get your body back together. You can't just put all your focus on it, on your child. Like you have to get yourself back in shape and make sure you're good just as well as you're, you know, you're taking care of your child. Like you have to get yourself back in shape and make sure you're good just as well as you're, you know, you're taking care of your child. And it's okay to take time out, of course, follow the doctor rules, the timeframe, but

get back in that gym and get yourself lose that water weight, the baby weight or whatever. It's okay to do that. What do you think about that? What do you think about that? What do you think about the, um, the snapback culture? Because they have mixed feelings. Girl, I'm snapping back. When I tell you after I had Serenity, I had my waist trainer on as soon as I delivered her,

I put that waist trainer on and... Right. Like, I... I... My doctor always told me, of course, you know, do what your body allows you. Of course I have about to go on and jam and start lifting weights and do all this. And you know, I slowly started off with a little walk and then progress from a walk to a little jog.

Oh don't say it like it's easy work now because you was on my ass. Oh, you need to tell the people how you was on my ass, you was on my ass, you was on my ass. Your ass wasn't even a good three weeks in, and you lifting 15, 25 pounds. I'm like, what the hell is she doing? You already told me to do that. That was a mistake. I just thought it was light. I was like, what?

Like, it was just shocking to me that I just could not lift this thing. And I was like, bitch, my insides about to fall out. I was like, what? Like, it was just shocking to me that I just could not. I lifted this thing and I was like, bitch, my insides about to fall out. I was just shocked. Exactly. That's all. I said, Pusha, what you doing? You cannot lift weights now.

Oh, inside, everything about to drop out. Yeah, but you're a gym girlie. So you was like, okay, well, you finna start walking. You know what I mean? You did motivate me. You encouraged me. But I was walking. Yes, I told you, I'm saying, well, you finna start walking. You know what I mean? You did motivate me. You encouraged me. But I was walking. Yes. I told you, I'm saying, you know, you can start walking, but your ass went from zero to 1,000 real quick. And I'm like, hold up, bring it back, bring it back.

I learned real quick, okay? I put that weight the hell down. I learned real quick. All in support. It was horrible. Yes. Okay, so before we go into our next segment, a little affirmation and advice for moms and Mother's Day. Before we close, we want to speak directly to every mama listening, whether it's your

first baby or your fifth. You are allowed to be soft and strong. You are allowed to grieve your old self and still love your new one. You're not broken, you are becoming. Sexy doesn't have an expiration date and motherhood isn't the end of your power, it's the beginning of a deeper one. This Mother's Day, we seek you, we honor you, and we're rooting for every version of you that is still unfolding.

Happy Mother's Day! It was unfolding. Happy Mother's Day. It's beautiful. Happy Mother's Day. That was beautiful. I'm impressed. For all the mothers and the moms. Thank you, Nat. Get you a room. Get some Chipotle. Made for This Mountain is a podcast

that exists to empower listeners to rise above their struggles, break free from the chains of trauma, and silence the negative voices that have kept them small. Through raw conversations, real stories, and actionable guidance, you can learn to face the mountain that is in front of you. You will never be able to change or grow through the thing that you refuse to identify. The thing that you refuse to say, hey, this is my mountain. This is the struggle. This is the thing that's in front of me. You can't make that mountain move without actually diving into it.

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to conquer the things that once felt impossible and step boldly into the best version of yourself to awaken the unstoppable strength that's inside of us all. So tune into the podcast, focus on your emotional wellbeing and climb your personal mountain. Because it's impossible for you to be the most authentic you. It's impossible for you to love you fully if all you're doing is living to please people. Your mountain is that. Listen to Made for This Mountain on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Connie Britton is here. I think you should encourage your friend to go ahead and not be holding out for any man to have her babies. If she is passionate about becoming a mother and she has her eggs frozen and she has her life together, go for it. She could be waiting another 10 years before she finds the right guy.

Connie didn't meet her right guy until you were what, 50, Connie? How long have you guys been together? Yeah, no, 52. 52. I adopted my son as a single mom because I kept thinking, oh, I'm going to meet the guy. I'm going to meet the guy. I'm going to meet the guy.

I finally was like, what am I waiting for? And I did it. And I'm just so glad that I did. I want to change the narrative about single parents and also help to create a community for single parents so that they can not feel alone in it. One of the big things is it's so hard, especially for women, to ask for help. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your

podcasts. Have you ever wished for a change but weren't sure how to make it? Maybe you felt stuck in a job or a place or a relationship? Join me, Emily Tish-Sussman, over on She Pivots, where I explore the inspiring pivots of women, dig deeper into the personal reasons behind them, and leave you with the inspiration you need to make your next pivot. In honor of Mother's Day, we have some very special guests.

I'm Elaine Welteroth. And I'm Caitlin Murray. Both women pivoted out of their careers after having their kids, proving that motherhood is just another chapter in our journey, not the end. It's like, it's kind of like, will you have more babies? Yes. Will I always be me?

Yeah. And will I continue growing? Yes. Because I was really in the trenches and I knew my worth and my value as a mom. Come on over to hear their full stories. You can listen to She Pivots on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

What happens when we come face to face with death? My truck was blown up by a 20 pound anti-tank mine. My parachute did not deploy. I was kidnapped by a drug cartel. I just remember everything getting dark. I'm dying. When we step beyond the edge of what we know... To open our consciousness to something more than just what's in that western box.

In return. I clinically died. The heart stopped beating. Which I was dead for 11.5 minutes. My name is Dan Bush. My mission is simple. To find, explore, and share these stories. I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor.

You're strongest when you're the most vulnerable. To remind us what it means to be alive. Not just that I was the guy that cut his arm off, but I'm the guy who is smiling when he cut his arm off. Alive Again, a podcast about the fragility of life, the strength of the human spirit, and what it means to truly live. Listen to Alive Again starting May 13th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. re-listen to your favorite shows. We're going to do it. Okay. We got to do this. Cause I feel like I have a like your type, like your perfect, you know what? But I don't know. We're going to do this for people and we're going to, we're going to test, we're going to test where your heart really at. Okay. Rapid fire. Don't sleep on the questions for rapid fire.

All right. You ready? Okay. So what are we going? I'm gonna give you two choices, right? I'm gonna say two things. You pick the one that resonates the most. And we put them all together and that's your bill debate.

That's your bae. And then we're gonna go out. We're gonna find that. We're not gonna find that. We're gonna pray for that. And then he gonna find you. Boom. You ready?

I was gonna say so smart, but go ahead. They say smart. Say something. I'm listening. Don't hold back now. I'm listening. What's the question, Korsha? Skinny daddy, buff daddy.

I don't like them skinny. I like them in between. In between. It's you. I like them, you know, I like them a little. You like them a little fluffy. Not too fluffy, but you know, a little cushion. A little cushion. Okay. All right, next one. Athlete CEO.

CEO baby. Kids, no CEO. CEO baby. Kids, no kids. Kids. Beard or waves? Ooh, either or. Either or, how about both? Both. I know that's right, friend. Love notes or forehead kisses?

Both. Fancy dinner or cook for you? Both. You better not say both. You know what you want to say? Grubbub, Uber Eats, Postmates. Bitch, you keep them people in business. You hear me? You always ordering me food. Okay. New York accent or country boy?

Oh, I ain't nothing like no New York accents. Oh my goodness. I fully thought she was going to say country boy. New York, New York is so easy. Girl, I'm trying to try and say what it look like, both of us. What you doing? It ain't nothing. I'm trying to say, what it look like, both of us.

What you doing? It ain't nothing. I'm trying to say, what it look like, both of us. What you doing? It ain't nothing. I'm trying to say, what it look like, both of us. What my goodness. I fully thought she was gonna say country boy. New York, New York is so... Girl, I'm country and say what it look like, but what you doing? And then I'm like, what up? What's she saying?

No, who's she? You, compare me to me. I'm country motherfuckers talking back at one to each other. I need me a New York accent. Ugh, I'm disappointed. Okay, next one, the last one, obviously the most important one. Good head or good peen?

Oh, bad peen. I'm pretty lose with that one. But I agree. I agree with you. Okay, so Shrell's Perfect Babe, Bill DeBay is a little fluffy CEO with kids, with beard and waves. I don't know, you say you like love notes and forehead kisses, you greedy. Fancy dinner and he got a cook. Okay. From New York, you are wild from the neck.

They don't have to be from New York. You gave me a choice, but I love that. Blue. That's not how they ask it. Okay. Somebody who aggravated. I'm kidding. We're a good team.

All right. Well, with that out, I'm going to make you a Bumble account. What do people be doing? They be on Tinder. What do you do? What is it called, Raya? Raya? What? I don't know what that is. Wait. Hold on. Let me see what it's called. Don't be mad if I make you a profile somewhere.

Raya. Raya. What is that? I don't know, but it's pending. My friend signed me up for one this weekend. Okay, so what's the theme of it? Cause you know, a lot of dating apps have like, you know, for farmers only, you know, like they have like. It's when it's invite only. Invite only, that sounds like it's for rich men. It's invite only, so we will see what's on there.

You got to be coined up to member invite. I don't know. I'm just, I'm just, I was told. Okay. Christina, keep me posted. See shout out to Christina. The girls be coming through. Hey dude. I mean, Keep me posted. See, shout out to Christina. The girls be coming through. They do.

I mean, keep me posted. I just want to see what's going on. You know what I mean? That definitely will. I'll keep you. Because you know, you and Ashley, y'all both are happily married. Y'all doing y'all thing. And y'all, sometimes y'all want to, you know, be nosy and see what's going on.

I want to be nosy. Bitch, I just want to see what's going on. I got to keep my girl away from the scammers and the lambshops and the oxtail tacos. I got to keep you out of the fray. And the, the, the infinity. And the infinity. I would say the hookah, but you actually like hookah bubble flavor tobacco

Ain't nothing out there but hookah and down Julio what they say it's a key look who can't Our last segment of the night and that is it's been going viral with Joyce Haylor She started up some conversation when she said that a man leading with I'm a man of God is a red flag for her. Her reasoning from various podcasts and the surroundings, it often feels performative like a mask. Some men use to present themselves as good guys. While still engaging in toxic or manipulative behavior,

she's encountered men who weaponize religion to excuse bad actions or gain trust quickly. She clarified, it's not about being spiritual or religious, it's about how that phrase is often used as a front, especially in dating contexts. It's a bold take, but one many women resonated with, especially those who've been hurt by men who use faith to manipulate or fast track emotional closeness. I mean, at first, when you first hear it, hear her speak on it, saying that, you know, she, it's a red flag when someone says I'm a man of God.

It's like, bitch, you the red flag. That's what it sounds like. Right, right. But she wants the death. And it's true. Like a lot of people use a mask and they say things that they think that women who want to hear. And a lot of men say that they're a man of God, but their actions show other, show different. So I understand where she's coming from. Like you don't have to lead with I'm a man of God, show it. Don't speak on it. Basically what she's saying, don't talk about it. Show me that you're a man of God.

Don't tell me what you can do or what you're doing, don't talk about it. Show me that, you know, you're a man of God. Don't tell me what you can do or what you're doing, show it. Yeah, I mean, I can kind of see her perspective. I'm not mad at somebody coming and saying today a man of God, because I feel like a lot about, a lot about your walk with God is, you know, you really do wear that and your confession of it, your confession of your love for Him and your devotion.

And I don't think it's a bad thing, but I do understand why it can seem performative because I have known both types of people. I have known the man that like real dealing his life and he is seeking the kingdom of the Lord. Okay. Every day. I feel that way. And then I also know the one that knows that, that I am seeking the kingdom. So you fit to come over here with kingdom talk, but you're not even really the end. You know what I mean? You're going to use it as a manipulation tactic. I have known both guys. So I think that, um, I don't know if I would say it's a red flag,

because I hope that I have discernment enough to know what the hell I'm looking at and what I'm listening to. Um... The comments were lit up. Like, initially, like, what? That's a red flag, you a red flag. You know what I'm saying? It was, you know, hey, that's up. But I can understand, once you know the context of it, I can understand why she know the context of it,

I can understand why she said that is because, you know, it happens. People see you in a, you know, they don't wanna look. Sometimes guys do that as a way to hide how aggressive their nature really is. You know what I mean? Like make it look like they fired up for the Lord and you're gonna be my wife one day, make it look like they're the type of nigga you're gonna commit, do this and they're not

They're just not at all. They're not and it's a manipulation tactic. So I get it You lead where I'm a man of God, you know, I grew up in the church on this thing Now y'all together it's time to go to church. He ain't never showing up. He don't pray with you He don't say his praise. It's a lot of things, like what happened? And I always tell him, because somebody will know scripture without context. They will know quotes, but don't know the story. Right.

They just be, honey, scripture without context will send you straight to hell. What is you doing? Like, why is you, that is not even what that means, sir. Like. Exactly. The Bible means, sir. Like, talking about. Exactly. The Bible said, okay. Be fruitful and multiply.

Get away from me with that. Get away from me. The Bible said, Abraham had, I don't want to hear about how many wives. Get away from me with your polygamy go away sir That's crazy. But yeah, I get it. But the comments, you know, I live in the comments comments be funny girl I'm kind of I

Think people should definitely, you know understand what she's speaking on instead of just reading the headlines of the statement that she said. And I totally understand because like you said, it's a lot of men out there that just prey on women and they'll learn what type of woman and they'll go and study that woman and tell that woman everything that she wants to hear.

And women do it too towards men, tell them everything they want to hear just to read them in. And then now, you know, the real person, the real you is coming out after you done brought them in and, and it's crazy. So I definitely understand what she's saying. You just have to. Sometimes when I see people like that, I can tell who people are just determined not to like, you know what I mean? You can tell like who's determined just not to like her or whatever.

They ain't even want to hear what she had to say. Like, what? She don't love the Lord? She ain't nothing. She ain't shit. Like, it's crazy. Yeah, Jezebel. Oh, the people love, the people love to say somebody got a Jezebel spirit.

They love to say it. And Andre talked about that all the time, how people use that in the wrong context, that they always say that Jezebel is like a home wrecker and this and that when it's really just a manipulative, overbearing woman, not necessarily somebody sleeping with everybody, man, you know what I mean? But it's just, in the community, like, oh, she got that Jens Bell spirit. Why? Or I don't understand. They was in them comments going nuts on that lady. Whole thing. We understand, Joy. We understand, Joanne. We understand you.

All right. It's time for our last segment of the day. And that is the humble baddie. Oh, I'm so sad. I'm having such a good time. I'm looking at my boy, I'm getting comfortable. My gosh. Our last one. Horseradish, you're supposed to read this. The humble baddie's name. Hold on. The humblebunny's mail. Hold on.

He... Look me in the nose, girl. Because I'm official, okay? I got notes. Oh, let me scroll down. Ooh, he put a line in here. All right, gay. Oh, I gotta go down, down. Down, down. Down, down.

This what you've been reading this whole time? Okay. That's how you stay on track, girl. This is what you've been reading this whole time. Okay. That's how you stay on track, girl. You're right, you're right. I got it. You ready? This is from Keisha from Charlotte, North Carolina. Hey, ladies. Hey, Keisha, girl. I've watched all of you on Wax to Riches,

and I seriously love the show. Okay. I can't wait for more from you guys, but I also used to be a huge fan of Selling Tampa. And my question is for Sherelle. Sherelle, how did you navigate from being a realtor to becoming a developer? Like, what were the steps you took to go from selling homes to building homes?

And how was that transition for you? I see so much online about you. And I just want to say, I'm so proud that you've built an empire on your own. I know that's right. It's amazing to watch and no shade. But girl, you could do so much better without that outro single. Don't do it like that. Thank you so much, ladies. Oh, Keisha's spicy. Oh, Keisha, don't do it like that. But thank you so much for your support. Thank you for your support.

You know, becoming a developer, I mean, from real estate, I felt like, you know, my passion was, was there, but it wasn't there as much. And I wanted to get into something like once I start seeing like how much I'm making and, and I'm like, okay, I didn't, so the highest of the high that I can sell, now it's time to get to that next level. And I'm very competitive. Like I saw that it was a predominantly male field

and I wanted to tap into it. So I started off, you know, working with different companies on the government contractor side, I partnered with a few things and I started off, you know, working with different companies on the government contract inside our partner with a few things and I started learning and Joana had a lot of opportunities with the city. So we got together and we went out the opportunity where we felt like we had a good chance to win. We partnered with the GC and we went out there, won it, and we were awarded our first

lot. So right now we're about to start groundbreaking to build five affordable townhomes in the city of Tampa. And that's how it started. It's just like I observed and I was very interested and I took a leap out on faith and I just did it. You know, I started networking, being around people who are good at what they do in the development industry and I learned from them and I just took a leap out on faith and did it and now

I'm out here building homes. You are inspiring the girls. Look at you inspiring the girlies. Thank you, thank you. And I have a huge opportunity to, I wasn't going to speak on it yet, but I was just awarded the letter, three letters from the DA that I made it to the final stage. My company made it to the final stage to potentially build three hospitals in the state of Florida. No way.

Oh, well, that is so exciting. Oh my God, this is a big deal. Don't just slide that in there. Like I'm talking about three hospitals. Oh, for that. That's insane. It's not. That's amazing.

It's only the final stage. Oh, that's great. We'll see. You believe it. It's happening. It's not, it's, it's- But that's amazing. It's on the final stage. So, we'll see. Oh, that's great. We believe in it. It's happening. It's done already. I mean, I've been moving quietly, but for my people who support me,

I'm letting y'all know what I'm doing behind the scenes. It's not just traveling. I'm really, you know, busting my ass to make sure, you know, Allure LPT is growing and my business, Allure Management Solutions, like we're out here killing it. So I have some big major moves going on and I'm super excited.

The show is about- Don't give them everything, girl. Don't give them everything. Keep them on the edge of their seat now. Wait for it. I'm excited. Look, put on a cool way seatbelt. It's gonna be a long ride.

Stay tuned. Girlfriend. Peace. Hi, girl. Hi, girl. That is the end of Humble Baddies. We got my girl, Portia. Portia, tell them where they can support it.

I'll see you have your Bad Bitch Good Mom gear on. Let them know where they can find that. You can find it at badbitchgoodmomshop.com or you can go on over to my Instagram at portion Berto Click the link get you a shirt a mug. I should have had my little wine You know, I got bad bitch good mom wine glasses. This ain't it cuz I forgot but I do have them Yeah, get you some merch happy Mother's Day. We throw you a mother be cold or something little sale. Let me put a sail up Yeah, put a sale up for everyone.

Mother's Day code. Go ahead and... Okay? 20% off. Humble baddies. Put the code up. Humble baddies. Make sure y'all go to Portia Birdo.

Y'all get some Bad Bitch Good Mom merch. Keep putting Humble Baddies and subscribe on YouTube to Humble Baddies podcast. You can find me at Sherrell Rosado underscore on Instagram. Follow our our Instagram page Humble Baddies podcast on Instagram and make sure you subscribe to our YouTube to your cousin, your baby daddy, your sister, your side chick, your side uncle, whoever it is. Tell them to follow and subscribe until next time we love y'all we enjoyed you portion bye bye guys

The Made For This Mountain podcast exists to empower listeners to rise above their inner struggles and face the mountain in front of them. So during Mental Health Awareness Month, tune into the podcast, focus on your emotional well-being and then climb that mountain. You will never be able to change or grow through the thing that you refuse to identify. The thing that you refuse to say, hey, this is my mountain. This is the struggle. Listen to Made for This Mountain on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Connie Britton is here. I think you should encourage your friend to go ahead and not be holding out for any man to have her babies.

She could be waiting another 10 years before she finds the right guy. Connie didn't meet her right guy until you were what, 50 Connie? 52. 52. 52. I kept thinking, oh, I'm going to meet the guy, I'm going to meet the guy, I'm going to meet the guy. I finally was like, what am I waiting for?

And I did it. And I'm just so glad that I did. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, it's Emily Tisch-Sussman, host of the podcast She Pivots. In honor of Mother's Day, we have some very special guests. I'm Elaine Welteroth. And I'm Caitlin Murray. Both women pivoted out of their careers after having their kids, proving that motherhood is just another chapter in our journey, not the end. Come on over to hear their full stories. You can listen

to She Pivots on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Why is a soap opera Western like Yellowstone so wildly successful? The American West with Dan Flores is the latest show from the Meat Eater podcast network. So join me starting Tuesday, May 6th, where we'll delve into stories of the West and come to understand how it helps inform the ways in which we experience the region today.

Listen to The American West with Dan Flores on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're listening to an iHeart Podcast.