Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies Part 2 - Real Housewives of Atlanta DRAMA heating up + Proposal Etiquette

Episode Date: April 8, 2025

Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to beef on The Real Housewives of Atlanta as Kenya Moore officially exited the series after a heated feud with new castmate Brittany Eady, why women should never propose to a man, and much more!01:38 - Reaction to Real Housewives Of Atlanta drama24:10 - Humble Baddies DMs31:22 - Should Women Propose To Men?42:53 - Humble Baddies Mailbag(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season 1. Every time I hear about my dad, it's, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between Jeremy Scott and the son he'd never known. At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley Season 2 starting April 9th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Yes. We got to talk about it.

Okay. Because this has been followed. The blog. Let's have a look. Reality TV or real life trauma? Has reality gone too far for ratings? And what was in the what was in the blog in regards to on Bravo? The Real Housewives. Real Housewives. Yes.

So I actually know Brittany Eadie and Kenya Moore. Because y'all know I'm a Atlanta girl. So yeah. Big C.L. OK. Yeah. And I was so happy to see that Brittany got casted on this season because I'm a big fan of Real Housewives of Atlanta. And I love all the ladies. I love the show. And I, but I did think like they needed like some new girls.

So I was really excited to see Brittany on there. She's like newly married. She's a beautiful girl. She's been on like music videos, but she also owns her own insurance company. And so, you know, I thought she was like a great addition to the show. And then while they were filming, it came out that they had this scene where Kenya made these poster boards and had pictures of Britney doing some, you know, sexual acts, you know,

and this was, I guess, to get back at her for whatever shade that Brittany had thrown at her previously. They said that Brittany had, allegedly Brittany had threatened Kenya to shoot Kenya or something. Yeah. Or they were gonna pull her down. Yeah, she said she had a gun on her. to shoot Kenya or something. Yeah. Yeah. She said she had a gun on her. So I haven't seen the episode yet.

I need to go catch up. I don't think the part was shown, but Kenya did. A few people. I did see a clip. They showed a clip of Brittany saying something about a gun. Like she said something about a gun. So, um, so the next episode, I guess, is when Kenya like addresses it. And I guess, you know, is trying to like embarrass her and, you know, basically, you know, shame

her or whatever. But this is like, Brittany is trying to apologize and Kenya's not having it. And she just shows all these pictures and the rest of the cast. Like revenge porn. Yes. So the rest of the cast immediately is like, no, this is too far. I don't even want to be here filming anymore. And then they leave the event. The event was actually for Kenya.

Kenya was, it was like her opening of her hair salon. And literally she used this moment, you know, she was talking about how she's been, you know, working on Kenya More Hair Care for all this time. And then she actually starts talking about Brittany and everybody's like, why would you use this moment? Why would you ruin your own moment by showing porn or whatever. So the rest of the cast was just very upset that Kenya chose to go this route. They felt like this was beneath her. Um, you know, because she's an OG.

Kenya's been on for, I don't know, like... She is one of the stars of the show. I just feel like... She's been on for the longest, no? Yes. I just feel like it's a time and a place for everything. Um, it should have been dead. And this is the thing with reality TV, you know, we did reality TV.

When the whole... Because it happened on ours. Somebody mentioned a gun when we were family. Y'all remember that, right? Mm-hmm. Um, we put a stop to it. We reported it. We, you know, we said we needed to say, but I felt like they should've, production should've stepped in before it even got to that point to allow someone to talk.

Because once things like that happen and you say something or you threaten someone, someone else can go to the furthest extinct because they are, you know, emotionally hurt. They're pissed, they're mad, so they want to retaliate. So I feel like, you know, with production, it should have been dead in the beginning. You mean after Britney said what she said, they should have stopped filming Britney? They should have. I feel like there should have been, if there was any type of threat, gun violence is just as bad. It's not right.

So after Kenya, I just want to mention after Kenya showed the revenge porn, Bravo stopped filming with her. They decided to like basically take her off the show. And so there's a lot of uproar right now. Yeah, because, you know, they took her off the show, but, you know, Britney- I'm sure it's in the contract. Talking about having a gun. And so they're like, why not, you know, take her off the show or stop filming with her when she's the one who made those threats?

Though, Cherelle, you were saying that they should have stopped filming when Brittany first said what she said. I feel like something should have been done on that end too, because it's like, this is, I mean, gotta be honest, it's just as bad as Revenge Point. They're both bad things. So it's like either you're gonna, you need to penalize us both. Yeah. Or y'all should have put a stop to it in the beginning. penalize us both. Yeah. Or or y'all should have put it in the beginning.

It's not right. Yeah, it's not right. No matter what, especially for two beautiful, successful black women. But when you're going to penalize someone, I feel like both should have had some type of accountability when it came to to the punishment. I agree. I don't like how productive When they Step in, you know Like like you said sure. I think it has to be the same across the board

I also think it's their fault the way that the cast Feels like they have to say certain things or do certain things to make a viral moment You know, you know, Brittany is obviously new on the show, so maybe she felt like she needed to do the most. You know what I mean? Maybe, you know, she got she was angry and just said something, whatever the case is. But I do think that these shows and production. And I can speak because I've been on a reality show. I do think they there's pressure to perform. I do think there's pressure to make me, you know what I mean?

And so I think the messed up like situation to be in, I think production needs to set the tone across the board. Like this is the show that we want. You know, this is what's allowed. This is what's not. This is what we'll tolerate. This is what we won't. And that way it's even a even scale across the board.

You know what I mean? As far as what the punishment will be if you do X, Y, and Z. Like everybody knows. And then everybody gets treated the same as well. And also, nobody gets hurt because... the pressure that they put on us to perform, it's a lot. And you want to do well. You want the show to do well. Though, like, you're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't.

Yeah. And that's a messed up position to feel, you know, to be in. It sucks. Yeah, it sucks they had to go this far. That far, you know, they all played a great role on the show. I like Kenya because she's very extra on the show. It's doing amazing. She's beautiful on there. I just, you know, it sucks that it had to come to... But the thing with Kenya is also her, with her being the OG,

it's kind of like girl. You didn't have to do all that. You know what I'm saying? You don't have to do that. Like you were still going to be on top. Regardless, you are the OG. Save that for the newbies. Let the newbies do the most. You know what I mean? It's like you should know at this point in your career on this show.

You know what I'm saying? What you need to do. You don't have to do that. Like, be the OG. I agree, yes. I'm saying let the newbie... And this is her event. Y'all see, this is her, finally her opening. I feel like her storyline has been Kenya Moore hair care, the, you know, a lot of that, you know,

of just like really like this is, I finally made it. I finally have my place, my beauty salon, whatever. And she's showing out. I don't know. I don't know. That was not the time or the place for that. Yeah. I know. I'm finding the place. But I feel like she just was retaliating to what happened. That the threats and stuff.

It's a sad situation. And you know, when the cameras are rolling, yeah, people want. Wow. They want, you know, to be heard and seen and want to sit on it cuz they well I think it's the like we we face situations where we know what happens behind cameras and what's going on and and you're Frustrated you're furious. You're not thinking straight, you know Yeah, so sometimes you yeah all human beings we say and do things that we eventually later regret, but I just feel like, you know, the punishment should have been equal across the board.

Yeah. Um, well, the people are saying in the chat that the pics are already online, but I still don't think that makes it any better. You know? Oh. I still think that Kenya shouldn't have done that. And I, and you know what? And I want to give Brittany, you know, the benefit of the doubt too. Cause you know, you get on camera and like, and when you get upset, everything just feels

heightened. You know what I mean? So she probably was just talking. You know what I mean? She was just angry and it just, that's what she said. I'm sure in the clip, the little clip that I saw, she didn't look afraid or threatened or whatever. You know what I mean? It didn't seem like an environment where Kenya thought

she was about to get shot. You know what I mean? You could tell it was just, they were arguing or talking shit. You know what I mean? You could tell it was just, they were arguing or talking shit, you know what I'm saying? So I feel like Kenya could have, even if she didn't want to accept Brittany's apology, but taking her moment, her own event, to get back at Brittany, who was a newbie, like that was really honestly like beneath you. You know what I'm saying? You didn't have to do that.

Yeah, that's not a good thing. The threat. So I don't know. It's just still not good. Especially with Dilla saying you have a weapon. It says she hired a private investigator. So maybe it's Kenya who felt threatened, you know, because to do all that, to hire a private investigator to go- Who hired a private investigator?

Kenya. She hired a private investigator to dig up information about Brittany and to finally- It's not that serious now. I'm not about to hire no private investigator. That's what Kenya did, but that's what I'm saying, Kinga. You the OG, girl. Why you doing all that? You don't have to do all the, you do not have to do all of this. Yeah.

I don't know. You wanted to hurt her for sure, but I'm just saying, not in my space. I'm not gonna highlight somebody else at my event. I'm not saying not in my space. I'm not gonna highlight somebody else at my event. I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. And now risking not being on the show. No one wants to film with you and all that too.

So there you go. It was the... But Bravo gotta do better, I think, at... Lots of judgment. Um, you know, just... Well, not just Bravo, just these reality shows and their productions in general, I think they need to do better at Holding everybody accountable and having a standard and

Not putting pressure on a cast to do the most because it could get unsafe for real like something They knew it was wrong. It's it's pre-air, you know, Bravo fire. Uh, like, you know, apparently King is not working, working on, I mean, being on Housewives anymore. If it was that bad, which it was, why still airing? Like y'all are just, so when do we hold them accountable? The network accountable? Because basically you're publicly humiliating her still because you aired it, but you still fired the person who did it.

So why air it? Because they're going to get what they need to get out of it, regardless. Correct. They don't care. They don't care about us for real. They just don't want to get sued any further. So they're going to do a little something. You know what I'm saying? And make it seem like, oh, we got things under control over here.

We don't tolerate that, you know? And maybe because Kenya been on for a long time, you know, maybe they like, well, if we got to pick one. I know how they worked it out, but I feel like they're going to get what they need to get out of it. They're going to do just enough to get by so they don't get sued and look that crazy. You know, they just covering themselves. That's it. But they don't care about the cast. These these production companies,

these shows, they don't care about the cast. They don't have an actual, you know, the cat. They on to the next show. You know, the daughter. Yeah. It's their job. They gonna find another girl. It just it is what it is. Someone said they didn't show the pics.

It's not about showing the pics. It's the whole thing. So now you're basically, it's like they know what happened. Everybody can go and see the pics now. And now Google it. Go look it up. Right. Figure it out.

Yeah. But it was bad and it was the issue. Why air that thing? Why not just delete that whole thing? Yeah. It depends. We're talking about it now. And it has everyone in it, of course.

So maybe they'll bring Kenya back. Unfortunately. That's what it is. And it has everyone in the uproar, so. Maybe they'll bring Kenya back for it. That's what it is. How they bring Kenya back? They need to bring Nini back. Nini is the queen of reality, baby. Yeah, they should bring Nini back. They should have Kenya back. I wouldn't even mind seeing Kim back.

Kim's all set. Kim back Kim's oh see What's the time with all her wigs? It's definitely Kevin and Bobby party for the party Yeah, and big papa. Oh, yeah, what happened to be pop? It is crying. All right, I think but I think They be going through it. They done they getting a divorce. They don't have the longest divorce child. They just be fighting on the Internet and stuff. Every every other day. And the police, they just be sitting there talking to the police and the police just be sitting there like, OK, well, get your stuff.

Get your. It's a lot. Her choice. He used to be. Croy used to be Phil's ex-teammate. Yeah. When they had their 100th birthday. I feel so bad for him. He's saying he looked all about, he ain't. He's a nice man.

He's a nice man. He's stressed. He gets stressed out. Okay. Then I had all them kids. How many kids did he give her? Because she had a few already. She had two girls.

And then they had like three. And then they had like four. And then they had like five. And then they had like six. And then they had like seven. And then they had like eight. And then they had like nine. And then they had like nine. And then they had like nine. And then they had like nine her? Because she had a few already. She had two girls and then they had like three

and some others. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. It's a question. Are reality stars being pushed too far by producers in the name of big TV? Hell yeah. I think so. It's definitely a huge influence.

They're definitely feeding certain tidbits. Especially our show. Especially the black women shows. They be pitting us against each other. They always want somebody arguing and fighting. We can't never just have no cute kumbaya moments. It always got to be something, some drama. Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season One.

I just knew him as a kid. Long, silent voices from his past came forward. And he was just staring at me. And they had secrets of their own to share. Um, Gilbert King, I'm the son of Jeremy Lynn Scott. I was no longer just telling the story. I was part of it. Every time I hear about my dad, it's, oh, he's a killer.

He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between a killer and the son he'd never known. If the cops and everything would have done their job properly, my dad would have been in jail. I would have never existed. I never expected to find myself in this place. Now, I need to tell you how I got here.

At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Bone Valley Season 2. Jeremy. Jeremy, I want to tell you something. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley Season 2 starting April 9th on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And to hear the entire new season ad free with exclusive content starting April 9th, subscribe to Lava for Good Plus on Apple podcasts. Y'all don't agree? No, I'm like, I'm just, I agree with you.

I'm just sitting, I'm over here shaking my head. Yeah. Yeah. I think it's always, they always pushing, you know, a narrative. That narrative. Yeah. Yeah. Putting it, putting it, putting it. But then, but then once we do have, when we do have good positive shows, it's like,

oh, they boring, they ain't doing that thing. They ain't, they find enough to, to. It's always gonna be something. I think it's, it's, it's space for all of it out there. The people who are saying it's boring is boring. It's some people out there who like it. They just ain't writing it. Or, you know, it's always the haters who got the most to say.

Yeah, that's right. Very, very loud. But the people who actually wrong, they like it just saying on here like I don't like the day. Maybe maybe the body into these. Oh, my goodness. It's so good. Let's stop. Let's stop, man. I'm told that you being you tried to take a million dollars, blap, blap.

I'm like, do you really think? This press, they do like, do you really? Yes, they do. They Yes, they do think. Oh, my goodness. It's crazy. You want all the money. You want that. Do you really think? Like, for real. I feel like reality TV has just definitely put people on this invisible pedestal.

And then we see and then we're influenced by it. So whatever it is, like, I mean, look at Kim Kardashian, the Kardashians in general. They've been doing this for what, 20 years or something? I don't even know anymore. So it's like a long, long, long, long time of like, okay, it's reality TV. Y'all want to tune in and from tuning in, there are other platforms that are, you know, that can happen. So people are just doing whatever now so they can stay relevant, unfortunately, and not thinking of long-term consequences.

Yeah. But I do think there's a space for shows where we can show black women doing positive things. For sure. But they got to give us a chance to show it. You know what I mean? I was hoping we could show it. What do you never know? We have some hidden scenes that need to pop back out, you know.

Never know. Never know what's... Never know. Never know. Never know. Never know. Never know. Never know. Never know. Y'all. Yes.

Come on. He just. What? So do you think shows like this are having a home and black women's reputation in the media? Wait, what? I think it's harming it. Is it harming or you said harming or helping, right? Helping or harming black women's representation in the media? I think people are sick of seeing the same thing over and over. Like I think people are like the

I think people are sick of seeing the same thing over and over. I think people are like the angry black woman. Women can't get along. It's always some drama. You know, I think that that is entertaining. You know what I mean? There is a lane for that like Zeus, you know, that whole network is working for them. Like, you know, you're right.

So I think, you know, there is a space for that, but I think people want something else. They want to see like the positive they want to see it. So I don't think that it's like harming because I I just think they need to make space for us to show that part. You know what I mean? And I hope people realize, like even from watching our own show, like I hope y'all don't think like every day, like that's just what we out here doing. Cause like y'all see us on our social media, y'all see us being mothers, y'all see us being wives, y'all see us being business women. You know, y'all see us doing real life.

So don't think that just what you saw on these little episodes, you know, is our whole, that represents our whole entire life. Right, right, right. Doesn't, you know what I mean? It's just, this is what they chose to show because obviously this is what's selling right now. And I think that people who think that that's our life, that can seem like it's harming our reputation or whatever. But in real life, you know, we got a lot going on. We got a lot of layers to us, a lot, a lot going on. Yeah.

We just need to- Okay, y'all, now we have a new segment where we take questions from our fans on social media. We've opened our DMs for all of you to send us questions and message us. So we're pulling three out and answering them live. So Ashley's going to take over the other one. All right, should I ready for the first one? Sure.

OK, the first one is you're dating someone with no social media. Is that a red flag or green flag? No social media. Green flag. Next, I would say a green flag. Because they don't have social media. You said what? I would prefer to date someone that don't have social media. You said what?

I would prefer to date someone who doesn't have social media. Okay. Why? Because I feel like it creates less drama. People are not in your business as much. Especially being a public figure, um, it's like they don't have nothing to dig up because most people go to social media to entertain or pull, try to pull a drama out of you. So yeah, being incognito now on social media is just, it's amazing.

Yeah, I like that too. I agree with you, Sherelle. I don't mind if someone's like running your social media or something. You have to do it for marketing, for fans or whatever the case may be. But I prefer someone that is not on there like that. And I honestly like my next situation. It will not be on blast. You know, it's very much that.

And I wouldn't want them to do it either. I feel like it would be very much private, just so we can keep it wholesome in our own way. So I just think it can be a double-edged sword with social media in general. So if that's something that, you know, is starting to affect the relationship, then I don't want it. So I think it's a green flag if they don't have social media. But we're very social, y'all, on social media.

You know what I mean? The first time y'all gave some green flags. What? Really, you think so? Okay. All right, next question. Yeah, it can be distracting, yeah. Okay, next question. You catch your partner texting their ex, Mm-hmm. All right. Yeah, yeah, it can be distracting. Yeah. Okay.

Next question. You catch your partner texting their ex, but they say it was just closure. What's your next move? Closure. They should have had that closure, but in this relationship, that's a red flag. Yeah, we can talk about it.

It's a red flag. You's a red flag. We can talk about it. It's a red flag. You said a red flag. Yeah, no, it's a red flag. Yes. The closure should have been closed before you came into this relationship. Yeah. Why jump into a new relationship? Like the ex-pervy.

You can have the closure. Exactly. Which I can't. Yeah. Unless y'all have kids. Yeah. And then I shall have kids. Yeah. I'm talking about your kids. That's why I said these baby, these people be Japanese. And we're late for it.

Yeah, we've grown. This is not, you know what they want to quote. They want to agree. And they say, you know, they don't get no rest. They want to make sure them legs won't close. This ain't young and restless. Young and fulgur. Legs. This ain't a soap opera.

You so... I mean, I just feel like if we don't talk about it and in front of them or caught them. What do you need? Like, you need... Like, what is closure? Like, you're saying, well, it was nice knowing you and it was nice being with...

Right, what? That's the way I think when you, I believe in, in power is silence myself. So if you got to feel, if I caught you, yeah, I mean, if I caught you, I think it's again, we're very wrong, but if I caught you texting your ex, what are we talking about? Let me see. And if you feel some kind of way about that, then now we have an issue. So it's a red flag. Yeah, I don't like the red flag.

Okay, next. Oh, sneaky. What's each of your love languages? All of them. I don't know. Oh, they really trying to get to know y'all. All of them. Do them all.

I love it. Love languages are physical touch. Yeah, love. Love is physical touch. Yeah, love. Love is physical touch. Love is physical touch. Love is physical touch. Love is physical touch. Love is physical touch. Love is physical touch. We ain't really trying to get to know y'all. All of them. Do them all. I love that. Love languages are physical touch.

Yeah, I like that. I like that. Acts of kindness. I like that too. I like that too. And words of affirmation. Affirmation. My other love languages are like see me,

talk to me very much, like, observe me. Quality time. Yeah, quality time, time spent. I feel like time is so precious and the most valuable thing. So if you're spending time and you understand like, oh, she likes to go, we like to go eat together or something. What is my favorite meal? If you know what gets me excited or like museums,

just being observant and really tapping into who I am. That's my love language. Those are my love words. Okay, okay. I would say I'm a little bit of everything. And sometimes some things more than others, you know, just depends on how you feeling that day. Exactly. Right. Right.

Because mine has changed. Mine's changed. Like it wasn't necessarily affection. Now it is. Like I want to be touched. I want to be, you know, rubbed on. I want to be kissed on. So before it used to not be like that. So mine have changed over time, too. Yeah. OK. Well, hopefully the people is paying attention because that's a very

stupid. Oh, that's a little personal. It was personal. OK. Last but not least. Well, this is the last and the least. I don't know. Anyway, what's the biggest ick someone can give on a first date? It's that breath. Yeah, that's bad. To me, it would be name dropping.

Oh, yeah. That's a good one. I don't like that. You know, like you you talking too much. I'm like that. You know, like you talking too much. I'm like, oh, man, that's the, Yeah, like the bragging. That's me and bragging or, you know, yeah, we were just at such and such as such as house. I'm like, so you got it.

You don't know how to be in the moment. You know what I mean? So I don't know if I can bring you around some of my people either. So it's name-dropping for me. Yeah, that's true Yeah Well for those those are yeah, I Would say that bragging too. That would be a big egg for me. Yeah Yeah, okay

Well, thank y'all so much for sending in those questions. Y'all DMS with more questions and we would love to answer them. What we got next? We got we got get off your knees, sis, or should you? Huh? OK, we're going to talk about it. Get off your knees, this, or should you? Because social media is in shambles right now.

We're seeing more and more women dropping down on one knee, breaking hand, ready to wipe. Okay, I want that. You talking about her posing. Right. The person crying out the better. Look at this, look at this The proposal is always in the government. Look at this.

The proposal is always in the government. Listen, the ladies are on a lead proposing. Some of these proposals are looking like fairy tales, roses, fireworks, and the whole nine. But we got to ask the real question, is it giving in empowered women or is it giving desperate and tired of waiting? Yeah, the last one. I don't like it.

I mean, I'm tired of waiting. Yeah, I don't either. No, being strong and doing what men do. You know what I'm saying? I'm here for that. But men are men for a reason and women are women for a reason. Like, and you know, I just feel like, no, no, why? That's embarrassing. There's no like, I'm a man.

If you, if your man wanna be married and he don't propose to you, you don't wanna be married. he don't propose to you, he don't wanna be married. He don't wanna marry you. And he crying. The last one I saw, the man was crying and the woman was on her knees. Yeah, no, I'm not doing that.

We gonna have a definitely having a conversation. Did he do this? Did he do this? We definitely have a conversation. I'm not. That's crazy. That's why I see the visuals. See, it's not, it's not even right. It's not even right. Yeah. I don't know.

That's horrible. He was like, since you've taken too long, let me go ahead. He might need not getting on the knees is crazy too. Yeah. I don't know. Yeah, it's not for me. You know who started it? Oh, Chrissy Lampkin. Ain't that her name?

From Love and Hip Hop. Oh, um, oh, she. Joe Biden. Chris, Chrissy. Chris, what's her name? Was it I'll see Chris Christie she did it on love and hip-hop. He did that on the show. That's great

I feel like that's what got the girls going they was like, okay, bitch No, that ain't that's that's embarrassing I'm traditional. I want to look down on him. He was a writer like she loved that man. You know what I mean? Yeah. OK, how much I love you, baby. I'm not getting down on one knee and propose into you and your big ass standing up there with your head like this.

Crying. I will be like, baby, get up. Yeah. Yeah, I can this. Cries. I'm right. I will be like, baby, get up. Yeah. Yeah, I can't. I just feel like if your man don't propose to you, he don't want to. He don't want to marry you. He don't want to be married. If he don't do it, it's not that deep. Like if you want to be with a lady, y'all both want to be married.

Why would you not do it? Why would you want her to do it? That don't even make no sense. Yeah, that's yeah. Yeah. And why rush somebody into something they're not do it? Why would you want her to do it? That don't even make no sense. Yeah, that's yeah. Yeah. And why rush somebody into something they're not ready for? Yeah, I wouldn't want to rush my mate either. You imagine something that I read to you.

I don't want it. And then you got a big crowd out there. You got a big crowd surrounding you. You know, this man, I didn't say no in front of this whole. Like, that's just it's just embarrassing all around. And why the crowd? I don't know how to get her ass. So like, does the woman ask the man daddy for his hand in marriage?

Do they do that? I was thinking that too, because I feel like that's even changed too over time. Oh, people don't do that no more? That's not. I mean, I don't know. Daddy, on TV actually, we filmed it. Mm-mm. My dad, he was cute. He had it better, but it would have never happened.

But that's not how it's supposed to be. Like, there's traditions and stuff for... Yeah, I don't want to... And I don't want to rush it. Like, things are supposed to... Traditions and stuff for I don't want to and you don't want to rush it and like Things are supposed like traditions are there For a reason so when we started ranging stuff around it really throws stuff out of whack big like a Lady is not supposed to be on honey asking on me and to marry like that don't make no sense

It's given what's on. What's on Friday? What was her name? Felicia. No, not five. So it wasn't next Friday. They date cause they didn't was then the girl and the girl cousin, the big, heavy set girl. Um, she was running around the car with daddy. Well, she got my room in that scene.

Not off the top of my head. Heavy. That was a big D or heavy. Heavy D. Heavy D. I don't know. I don't know. That's what it's giving. She's like, I'm going to go get this man. Lock him down. I don't want it.

I feel like that energy of just starting off a marriage is a little tainted. You know, I feel like what's that old saying? What's that saying? You rather have a single man that wants to be married than a married man that wants to be single, something like that. So why rush if they're not ready for that? You know, it should be a conversation. It should be very much like, okay, we're gonna do this,

like, let's do it. And then when it happens, it happens, you know? I... But I feel like, you know, it's about patience too. Like, we getting impatient, so the ladies are dropping down to their knees and that's crazy. The visuals are outrageous for me. Because just even the man shouldn't want to even look down at us.

Fellas want to be the ladies. The ladies want to be the men. Like the roles are changing. I don't like that person. I don't like that. I'm very traditional when it comes to stuff like this. Yes. Definitely.

I don't believe in that. I don't think it should happen. Like a woman should be a woman and wait for that man. Yeah, yeah, I agree. Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season 1. I just knew him as a kid. Long silent voices from his past came forward. And he was just staring at me.

And they had secrets of their own to share. Um, Gilbert King, I'm the son of Jeremy Lynn Scott. I was no longer just telling the story. I was part of it. Every time I hear about my dad is, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between a killer and the son he'd never known. If the cops and everything would have done their job properly, my dad would have been in jail. I would have never existed. I never expected to find myself in this place.

Now, I need to tell you how I got here. At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Bone Valley Season 2. Jeremy. Jeremy, I want to tell you something. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley Season 2 starting April 9th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And to hear the entire new season ad free with exclusive content starting April 9th, subscribe to Lava for Good Plus on Apple podcasts. I'm not saying wait for everyone. Get your girl behind up. The visual is really throwing me off right now because I have it.

I'm just. I know, because he's probably like, I said yes. Yeah, it's not it's not just not given. Yeah. Oh, my goodness. Well, hopefully people slow down on that. I don't know. Well, look. And they happen to. OK, who am I? If your home girl proposed to her man, are you cheering her on Well, and look, and they happen to be. Okay. If your home girl proposed to her, man, are you cheering her on or texting the group chat

chat like sis? No. I read me. I actually texted her. I'm going to pull up. Don't do that. I will stop in the middle of this whatever proposal there is and stop it. Yeah, don't do that. Don't do that.

What is that? Don't do that. Sure. Yeah, it's not a good, it's just not a good. I will try to talk her off the ledge. I'll be like, nah, let's not do it. Let's not do it. And the group chat will definitely be lit.

Because we're like, yeah, I need some help. You have the process. Yes, we need some help. That's what I'm saying. What y'all mama said about this? What your daddy said? Well, how did you get to this? But you know, like, what is the thought?

I would love to talk to a lady who proposed to her husband because what was the thought process to let you... Mm. Like... I think that it was okay to even... The thought of it. Yeah. I just think it's more of an impatient thing.

Like, he just taking too long. Let me do it now. No. No. into, uh, let me do it now. Uh, no, no, no. Now that's the, I would rather pressure you baby. Are we getting this going on? That's different. The pressure you then me take my behind to a story, go get a ring and drop down on one knee and my big behind proposal to your big behind.

No, I would just skip the proposal and just wear my own little ring and be like, we engage. That's different. That's different. Like the conversation might look. We don't have to skip the process. Skip the proper circumstance. We engage. We engage.

Real bad. Go to the courthouse. Knock this out real quick. What y'all got? We did. Go to the courthouse, knock this out real quick. What would y'all do? Fans tell us what would y'all do if, if we want to hear from the humble, humble daddies, would y'all, from y'all woman if she, if she dropped down on one knee and proposed for a whole big ceremony.

We need to hear from the guy. Yeah, I want to know. I'm curious. I'll try to be vocal like our vocal about everything else we'd be talking about on this. I want to hear from the guys and I want to hear if anybody in the chat, a female has proposed and how did that work? All the humble baddies ain't, none of our humble baddies in this chat proposed.

They got, they got common sense over here. I know that's right. All right, y'all. Until the end. Oh, what we got today? We got some humble baddies mail. We do. I had the humble baddies mail, y'all. All right. You ready? Yeah. OK.

This is from Amber in Louisville, Kentucky. Okay. Amber. Hey Amber. Okay. Daddy's buckle up. Oh man. You know, when it starts like that.

So buckle up. Yeah. This must be because this situation is wild. Capital W I L D. All right. He's been married. Oh, she's been married. So maybe she's talking about somebody else. Okay. She's been married for three years and like any modern couple, she and her husband agreed to go 50 50 on everything, including rent for years. she's been faithfully handling over half of, over her half of their $3,000

of rent each month, so $1,500. Straight to him, assuming he was sending it to the landlord. But here's where it gets messy. While chatting with the neighbor, she casually found something, found out something that made her stomach drop. The apartment she's been living in is owned by her husband's mother. Yep, his mom. Turns out the husband had been living there before they got married and his mom was the

landlord. So for three years, our girls $1,500 has been going directly to her husband and his mama without her knowledge. That's $54,000 she unknowingly paid them. And now she's left questioning everything. Is this financial manipulation a betrayal of trust? Was she scammed by her own husband or was this just a shady omission?

She moved out and hasn't spoken to him in two weeks, but here's her question to the baddies. What would you do if you found out your husband has been secretly pocketing your rent money for years with his mom in on it? Would you call it a wrap, demand the money back, try to talk it out, or is this a major betrayal that can't be undone? Ladies, what do y'all think? It was then scam. God leave. Scamming your own husband is crazy. That is crazy.

Yeah. I won't even think I would have allowed myself to get in that situation because I'm very, I felt like a detective FBI. I would have known something was up, pulling some records or something. Oh, that's a tough situation. Yeah, I'm like, hmm.

It's like, damn. Well, yeah, I think first she probably went wrong by not knowing who owned the house that you live in in. Joe Hussey. But she was trusting him to pay the rent. She probably went wrong by not knowing who owned the house that you live in. Show husband. But she was trusting him to pay the rent. And the rent's been paid all this time. So she's like, here's my house where you live. And you don't know who owned the house?

You don't know who named the house? You don't know. Right. Because a lot of times I do, I'll go on public search records and see what's around, see who owned what around. and of course it shows the names of everything So that's how it's not hard to find out This is for me. First of all. Mm-hmm. So that was the first part where she went wrong so

I mean, but now we're in it so right. Okay I mean, but now we're in it. So right. I'll say... There will be some major trust issues for me. We will have to go to counseling. Like, I'm not saying, like, leave him. I think this is something we would definitely have to go to therapy about. I think we would have to really, like, lay out all our finances.

I want to know where all the money at, you know? Where is it? Everything got to be shown. Exactly. He said the mom own it, but but they both the mom on the house, the mom on the house. Well, maybe maybe it is maybe he has to pay the mom the full amount of money and they're splitting it 50 50. Either way, she don't know about it.

She didn't know. Yeah, financial abuse is real and so is financial manipulation. Yeah. So whatever the situation is, we got to go to therapy. I don't trust you no more. You're probably laughing about something else. Exactly. Definitely a mission. Yeah. He, he, he, he, he was hot in that, what else are you hot in? Correct. And that's a nice chunk too. And that's where she's living.

Hey, you know, this is my mom's house. We got a cat. We can split it 50-50. Yeah. You hot in it. So it's like, why are you hot in there and we're married? Yeah. But I wouldn't call it a rap.

I would try to get to the bottom of it with help. And if I felt like it was a salvageable situation where we could work through it, I would definitely do that. Um, but that's crazy. But we have to be smart and also know like. That's going to be your resources. Yeah, you got to communicate that for sure. Now that's heartbreaking to hear and to really to like, come to grips of that you like here, I'm giving this to you and then he like,

here mama, handle this. But it has to be conversation. I agree with you, Ashley, definitely going to therapy and really hashing everything out. You know, just like, look, what else is going on? We need to have this conversation. I agree with you, Ashley, definitely going to therapy and really hashing everything out, you know, just like, look, what else is going on? We need to have this conversation because it's definitely, she didn't know. And that's a lot of money. That's a lot of money that she did not know about that she's assuming is taking care of the household that they're laying their heads down

next to each other on the, you know, in the bed. So what else is going on? So, Amber, let your friend know. You know, this is not good. But we say don't, we say savage the marriage, right? We agree on that? Yeah, salvage the marriage. Yeah. Always try. You know what I'm saying?

I thought we could give up because of maybe it's something that he's embarrassed. He was embarrassed to speak on. But talk about it. And yeah, that's not a good. I like therapy, Lisa, go see. And if you can't get back to my money to be in on the therapy to though, because then. Now the moment the moment got nothing to do with it now.

The moment got nothing to do with it now the moment got nothing to do with it a landlord The mama The mama is a business I am in your marriage I married this woman and I married to you This is my house. I need y'all to pay because at the end of day I still have to pay taxes every year the mom is a business moment Does she even know? We don't know if they've had this conversation. Y'all figured out a presentation.

Y'all have my money before the speech. I ain't testing the mom though. Oh no. Every time I see her now. Now that husband need his behind. Now why? Yeah. Yeah. Cause he's definitely not lost you. Yeah.

Cause he's definitely not letting it be known. He could have 100% yo, my mama cutting us a deal, whatever, whatever. I, we got to pay her back. I don't know, whatever the case may be, it should definitely have been a conversation with your whole husband. Yep. They splitting everything else. Yeah.

Yep. Yep. Okay. Well, ladies, that was else. Yeah, yeah. OK. Well, ladies, that was our humble baddies mail. If you have any questions, we thank you all for submitting. You don't have anything you want to submit to us. You want the real down dirty truth. You email us at contact at humble baddies dot com. And we may feature your suggestion. And so next time we will see y'all Wednesday. Wednesday it'll be Ash.

Ashley will be traveling in the air. So it'll be Alexis and I online. We'll be holding it down for you, Ash. So let's have it. Great y'all. I'll see y'all next week. Thank you, Dallas, for tuning in. Make sure you follow and subscribe to us at Humblebady's podcast. Tell your cousins, tell your auntie, tell your side chick, your side daddy, humble daddy, pastor, the deacon of the church.

All to follow and subscribe to Humblebady's podcast. Yes. Love you all. See you next time. Been amazing, ladies. Good night. Good night, y'all. ["Sweet Homework"] Something unexpected happened

after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley Season 1. Every time I hear about my dad, it's, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil. I was becoming the bridge between Jeremy Scott and the son he'd never known. At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer. Listen to new episodes of Bone Valley Season 2 starting April 9th on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.