Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies - Teyana Taylor sounds off on divorce, Kanye West has lost it

Episode Date: March 20, 2025

Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to Teyana Taylor taking to Instagram Live to clear up negativity around her divorce to Iman Shumpert, Kanye West's comments about Jay-z and  Antonio Brown shari...ng DMs blasting his ex, Young MA's health struggles, and much more!03:00 – Teyana Taylor talks divorce17:10 – Antonio Brown blasts ex23:47 – Young MA’s health situation29:31 – Kanye West’s comment on Jay-Z & Beyonce’s kids43:40 – Pros & Cons to celibacy1:00:30 – Humble Baddies Mailbag1:06:30 - Q&A(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:11 Feel like you're the one and I'm the one. So what is gonna be? Baby squad. Yo, we are back. What's up, what's up? Welcome back. Hey, hey. Welcome back, everyone, to another episode of Humble
Starting point is 00:02:25 Baddies, and we are here with another episode filled with some tea. What's up, you ladies? Hey, girl. I'm Ashley Neutroll. I'm Sharare Rosado. And I'm Alexis Stoudemire, and we are the Humble Baddies. The Humble Baddies. Y'allall my ass, I almost bust my behind trying to make it to this live.
Starting point is 00:02:49 What the heck is going on? You look like you just woke up. I'm sleeping so good at y'all. You made it. I did, I made it. I almost pulled a chat. What's that mean? What happened? Because every time chat don't show up for night camp, that means he was knocked out. But I made it, so I didn't pull a Chad. You made it. You made it.
Starting point is 00:03:10 I love a good nap. You know it's in when you're slopping out the mouth. Yeah, that's that good sleep. Absolutely. I was sleeping good, y'all. You get the crust out of your eyes over there. I was sleeping good, y'all. You get the crust out your eyes over there. I got some crust. I'm gonna get the camera so it's gonna pick up everything.
Starting point is 00:03:36 So let's get to it. Ashlyn, you got something for us? You want to start us off with some tea? So I really want to dive into this first topic. So I know y'all didn't see our girl, Tiana Taylor, our girl, our good sis, our humble baddie is all over the blocks right now because her ex, her ex-husband, Imane Schumberg, has recently leaked their divorce settlement. So I quit picking it up. And first of all, they got divorced a year ago. So let me just put that out that their divorce settlement was finalized a whole year ago
Starting point is 00:04:14 and it was also sealed. So this document was leaked and it had to be leaked by him. And what came out was actually false documents. And so allegedly he's putting all this information out to, you know, make Tiana look bad. Because the way it was written was basically saying that she got all his money, all the properties, all these cars from him basically left him for dry. And that is the farthest thing from the truth. I saw that going around. Everybody was like, Oh, Tiana, Tiana, yeah, yeah, he'd be man. She took everything. Making it look like so crazy because everybody has known Tiana.
Starting point is 00:04:55 She she did not just become Tiana Taylor. She has been a fucking girl in the industry since she was a teenager. So 15, 16. I remember that sweet 16. She worked very hard. She's always working. That she was a teenager. So... 15, 16, I remember that sweet 16. Yeah, she worked very hard. She's always working. That girl keeps a job. So for people to sit there and automatically believe something that the block puts out is crazy.
Starting point is 00:05:17 And then also, the thing is, I find it very convenient that this comes out at a time where she's getting awards. You know, she was just an honorary recipient I find it very convenient that this comes out at a time where she's getting awards. She was just an honorary recipient at the Black Women of Hollywood. She has movies coming out. She has TV shows coming out. The girl is busy. Soft lunch.
Starting point is 00:05:37 Exactly. With the boo, maybe, possible boo or something. Yeah. And so I find it just very convenient that this would all come out at this time, you know? And the great thing about it is with Tiana, and she said it on the blog today, she cleared it up that she didn't get the things that they said that she get. But she also took up for him, even when he did her wrong, and you know, the whole big
Starting point is 00:06:03 scandal, she was like, you know, not so much on my dog. Like, people trying to cover up for him and take it easy. And the fact that he's still trying to, I feel like it's jealousy. Like he don't want to see her win. So he's going to do whatever he can to make her look bad. But she's still killing it. I agree. I know them personally, and that's why I feel okay to speak on it in the manner that I am. You know, I've always felt like there was like this competition, like he was always trying to
Starting point is 00:06:32 compete with her and she was always trying to stand up for him, always trying to protect him, always, you know, just doing the most. I feel like black women do that in general, like we're always the ones that's protecting our black men, you know what I mean?. I feel like black women do that in general. Like we're always the ones that's protecting our black men. You know what I mean? And I feel like that's happening in this situation. And now she's having to stand up for herself and protect herself because there's grown men out here that are like threatening her. They're threatening her, you know, and she really has to stand up for herself and protect herself. has to stand up for herself and protect herself. So the truth of the matter is that she, there were seven properties, Tiana got four in which two of those were paid for by Tiana solely. Iman got three and one was paid by Iman. So the other four properties, the court split them up evenly. So they both got two. So for people to just sit there
Starting point is 00:07:25 and believe whatever the blogs say is crazy. Like everybody knows Tiana is a hard worker. She's always been a hard worker. And first of all, the divorce in the first place was supposed to be private. When she filed for her divorce, she filed under their initials because she didn't want anybody to know any of their business.
Starting point is 00:07:44 She's always been a very private person when it comes to you know stuff like like this Um, and then he's the one who came out and filed his stuff under their name So, of course now it's going to go public and everybody can pick up this information And she's always has been the one to try to like protect the family protect the name You know do whatever she can to just keep their name the family, protect the name, you know, do whatever she can to just keep their name, you know, in good spirits of people. Even when he was doing trifling stuff in the blog, getting caught making in the bathroom with girls, you know, she cleaned that up. Yes, y'all remember that?
Starting point is 00:08:16 No. It's a picture going around and she cleaned that up. She was like, hey, you know, don't, not too much on him. Like, you know, that's my guy. That's all going to be the father of my children, whoop-de-boo. Like, she's always stepped up and, you know, protected him. But you know what I hate, though? You know, when we always do that, it always backfires on us.
Starting point is 00:08:36 Like, as, and it's always, like you said before, it's always the women that's always covering for the men. We go so far, even when things go bad and we get publicly embarrassed, we still always take up for that man. And I don't think it's backfiring. I think, you know, it's in our nature. It's in Tiana's nature to always just be the bigger person,
Starting point is 00:08:58 to be the protector, to be the nurturer, to be whatever she needs to be. And look how it's coming back on her. She's getting movie roles. She's getting these big deals. Karma is real. You know what I'm saying? I feel like she's doing what she needs to do.
Starting point is 00:09:15 But I feel like Iman and any man should always protect the mother of their children. If something comes out, whatever y'all have going on, and these random people are going after the mother of their children. Like if something comes out, whatever y'all have going on and these random people are going after the mother of your children, like there has to be a point where you step in and you say, hey, look, I know we're going through something. It's real crazy.
Starting point is 00:09:34 Yes, we had this public thing going on, but this is the mother of my children. And don't y'all ever think that y'all could, you know, come between that or do anything disrespectful. Well, I want to chat a little bit while we are. I said, why are we on this? Chad said he come to take the property from me. He gonna pull it. Pulling mine is this. Not today. Not today. Not today. No, Ashley, Ashley, you really are making a point of just watching, first of all, let's just start with what it is.
Starting point is 00:10:11 You know, it's a public figure, two public figures, and I feel like everyone is getting so invested in when people are getting together and when they ultimately are going to break up. So everyone feels like they have something to say. And unfortunately, when it gets public and sensitive matters that are supposed to be in-house are leaked or from one or one party or the other, you're starting to add all this different energy in what's happening with our families today. They're broken and we have these stigmas of not getting along and really just wanting not the best for each other. And at the end of the day, these are two people who decided to love each other, and I'm sure
Starting point is 00:10:57 they still love each other. And they're going through so much of grief and sadness and all these different levels and stages of divorce. So it's a lot of- I'm gonna have to cut you off. Love is not gonna allow you to go that far to ruin, not, I ain't gonna say ruin, but to- Try to keep ground your, the mother.
Starting point is 00:11:19 Your ex-wife, the mother of your kids. Like you don't- I agree. I agree. And what I was gonna complete my thought process was the fact that, you know, it's a lot of sensitive energy and you do have to be in the sense,
Starting point is 00:11:33 it's only been a year. So both of them need to have grace. Grace for her feelings, grace for his, and everyone's moving on. At this point, you don't have any feelings. And they have children that they're raising. At this point, you need the grace.
Starting point is 00:11:44 I think Tiana has done the most and now she's at her. That's why now she's like going live. Tiana never goes on live. Never, never, never, never. It's just sad. You know, it's unfortunate. I think she's at the point where she's done giving Iman grace. She's always stood up. You can see it. You can see it from her life. And when she was very calm, very direct. You know, she tried to go up to mediation. He didn't even show up for mediation.
Starting point is 00:12:11 Mm-hmm, correct. Always tried to give him the grace. And he doesn't reciprocate. Absolutely. And I think she can't do it anymore. And she's just fighting for her name at this point, you know, at this. It's tiring. It's exhausting. What I've built and what I have going on. And you're not going to try to sit here and try to make it seem like I'm taking from you, you know, taking anything from you.
Starting point is 00:12:37 Because I think what's calling her a gold digger. Exactly. And she shouldn't, she should. People don't know facts. They gonna always have something to say. But the thing about it is, I'm glad she cleared it up because people don't know. Like, people who are on the outside, they don't know. They feel like, okay, you know, this is what happened. Dane came out on top. She, you know, poor Yvonne,
Starting point is 00:12:57 you know, whatever. People don't know. So I'm glad that she did come out and clear it up. I am too. Like, this is what I left with. This is false. Like, you have to remember, like, people aren't, think logically. Like, he is coming out with music. He's literally using Tiana for clout.
Starting point is 00:13:18 Like, hello, why come out with this all of a sudden? You know, Tiana's at the top of her game right now. The timing is insane. He's not necessarily, I'm not saying that he's not talented and that he can't get it on his own, but what I am saying, the timing is very convenient for you to put this stuff out, for there to be this much buzz and talk about it.
Starting point is 00:13:36 And now all of a sudden you got new music coming out. Like, sir. Come on. We're not that slow. Like, we see what you're doing and it's really messed up that you're willing to let the internet come after the mother of your children. She's saying like she feels very uncomfortable. She has the issue with it and you're staying completely silent.
Starting point is 00:13:58 That is horrible. This is not the time to be silent. You got a lot to say. Yes, he should step up. Absolutely, he should. And I think Tiana has given enough grace. She protected him as much as she could. Now she has to protect herself from him and everybody else. Like, I'm sure she just, she's all great and she's got her wits in, but I'm proud of her for standing up for herself and trying to prepare. She doesn't owe us anything,
Starting point is 00:14:25 but I think it's really messed up that people can just run with the narrative and really think the worst of people, especially when they're at the top of their game. We need to be celebrating our black women. Right. Do you think that Tiana was justified in requesting jail time for him? Because you know, they said-
Starting point is 00:14:43 She did not request- Is that fact? She did not request jail time for him because you know, she did not request. No, is that fact? He did not request jail time. First of all, she filed a motion because he was leaking seal documents. Her, their divorce settlement was sealed and he's leaking the information. So she, so this is a reparation. Whatever the court proceedings, the law is the law. And if it- Where did it come from that allegedly it was put out that Tiana asked for it for 20 days?
Starting point is 00:15:12 That's not what she asked for is what I'm telling you. I'm telling you, I don't know, but she put, she filed a motion for him to stop putting out their divorce settlement. But she never asked for it. Well, she never requested it. But she never asked. Well, she never requested. But basically it's a violation. It's a violation of whatever the agreement was. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:15:33 Maybe. And so if that leads to jail time, whatever, whatever, but she never asked, requested, nothing about jail. She wouldn't do that. She wouldn't do that. She would never do that. Okay, so that's fake news that was put out that she requested, allegedly, she requested jail time.
Starting point is 00:15:50 No, she filed a motion for him to stop putting out their sealed information. She left the court no and filed a motion. That's what you do in the court of law. Period, Ashley. I can feel the energy, baby. You like, Yes, you can.
Starting point is 00:16:04 Don't call her. Yes, she's not calling energy baby. You like. Yes you can. Don't call for her. Don't call for her. That's right. I feel it through the camera. That's right. I feel it through the camera. Especially, yeah.
Starting point is 00:16:12 Don't do that. None of mine. None of mine. We got to get over here. Listen, I love Tiana. That's right. I met Tiana through you guys at your event, Ashley. And well, actually, she had something.
Starting point is 00:16:28 And her energy and everything is just amazing. She is a sweet person. And it's such that she have to even go on live to defend herself. But she's already on top, and she's going to stay on top. That's right. And that's usually what happens anyway. She has motion going on.
Starting point is 00:16:45 She is booked and busy. She is in love or happy or whatever the case may be. We don't know, but she is living and thriving. So at the end of the day, you're going to have some shots fired at you. She's literally the most humble person I've ever known. Always, always busy, always giving, loving, nurturing. Like, that's just who she is. She can't help but to be that person.
Starting point is 00:17:14 And so I just think that she even is in this position with people coming at her, you know, so. Yeah, I get it. Tiana, I need to get with Tiana. She got to teach me how to move because the girl be dancing, baby. Look, yes, you got it. We love her.
Starting point is 00:17:32 Yeah. I'll shout out to you. Yes. All right. Now that we got that cleared up. Thank you so much. What do we have? Really want to get into it.
Starting point is 00:17:47 The next one. How did y'all feel about did y'all see the whole thing with Antonio Brown and his baby mama Sydney? Oh, yes. She so she asked for some money and he told her to go suck a D. That's crazy. It's rude. I remember when she was pregnant and everybody was like, you are crazy. It's rude. Again. I remember when she was pregnant,
Starting point is 00:18:06 and everybody was like, you are crazy. Why would you get pregnant by this clown? There's no respect whatsoever. You can tell that there's no respect. There is pretty much, you know, like a hands-off approach. And she started off by saying, you know, like a hands-off approach. She started off by saying, you know, our son is well, but I mean, do you all think she's justified in asking for some help? Of course. She should be asked for it.
Starting point is 00:18:34 Well, are you supposed to ask? This is the father of your children and you're asking for help with your children. Yeah, of course. She's justified in asking but You gotta see what you work with you working with, you know, I'm saying no after a while I was just probably she should have known because he was in a blog before she even Know got pregnant like baby, you know what you're dealing with the pattern is there. Correct. You got to know what she Is childish for that response, child. The amount of disrespect he has had for women, and then you come out and get pregnant thinking you the prize, it sucks. No, he's not going to change. Now you're getting what he's given to every other woman that he was already, his baby mama in Florida always have to take
Starting point is 00:19:23 him to go get child support. Mm-hmm. She's sad. He was already, his baby mama in Florida always have to take him to go get child support. Send the people out just to get her money. So you know it's going to be, if he doing it to her, what makes you think you're different? It sucks, but sometimes you got to pick your, you got to pick them right. And you see how she reached out to him. It was in the DM. So obviously they have no communication on the phone. And then whoever screenshotted, I wasn't sure if she leaked it or he did. But it's not appropriate to be putting us in the group chat one and two on social media.
Starting point is 00:19:59 It's really just not cool because she's raising this baby, obviously, you can tell by herself. And, you know, when this baby grows up, you see how this father ultimately is treating the mother of the child. So it's going back to take up for the mother of your children and really have that mutual respect goes both ways. And it's a boy, right? I think so. The fact that it's on social media, when things, you know, it don't go away, the fact that you're disrespecting your child's mom
Starting point is 00:20:27 on social media is crazy. Correct. That's, it's sick. I'm looking for the children cause they're gonna always be able to go back and see all of that, you know? That's just embarrassing. And it really is.
Starting point is 00:20:40 It's an example. I mean, you really do have to choose wisely your partners because it is not just, you know, 18 years. It goes beyond that. Yeah. It always does. The mental health issues there too, like- I think at this point,
Starting point is 00:20:57 because he has publicly embarrassed her, she just need to take it. I don't know if he's fan child support. He can't be if she have to ask for rent. Just take him to court and let the court handle it. Right. Because it's... I agree.
Starting point is 00:21:14 Yeah. It's really sad. I just don't like that it's on social media because low key is really none of our business. But obviously here we are talking about it, you know, so I hope she, you know, things work out. And Sonia really needs to go get some, some type of help because it's not right. No matter who it is, you don't disrespect women. He has a, a hip pattern of disrespecting women.
Starting point is 00:21:42 It's not good. I agree. Coming from a black man, like, you know better. I'm sure your mom, your parents raise you better than that. Like, you shouldn't be disrespecting women. Yeah, what's his mama actually got nothing to say about? Where's his friends? Where's everybody?
Starting point is 00:21:59 I mean, somebody should hold him accountable. But how reckless he is. That's right. Kanye. They just they just say whatever, do whatever. It's just to a point where it's like, it's sad, but. I don't know guys. I just don't think, I don't think we just need to be involved with it. I just think we have to keep those situations private.
Starting point is 00:22:24 Unless she, that's what was, she was reaching out for that help. I don't know. But I think we gotta keep those situations private in general. There's a lot of stuff happening on social media that should be private. Like why the,
Starting point is 00:22:38 I agree. What else, what's the next scene? Ash, what's the feeling girl, feel it. I'm trying to get some teeth. Ah. Ah. You really want some teeth, right? Have you ever wondered if your pet is lying to you?
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Starting point is 00:26:41 Apparently her ex leaked some old hospital footage of her and everybody was wondering like what was wrong with her? Is she okay? So she took the high road and many are questioning the ex's motives for sharing such private footage. Like what was her purpose? Why did she do that? I mean, I don't know. Who's the health? I think that's really messed up because you don't know if it's like, you know, a life threatening illness or like you just never know. Why would she leak her health? That's horrible. I don't know. What is what's the motive behind it?
Starting point is 00:27:23 What is the purpose? Did anyone see the footage? I didn't. No, I did not. But I saw, I mean, Young Ma had to come out and speak on really her side. She took her side of the story just, but why do you have to speak on that again? You know, that young lady posted videos of her in a vulnerable position where she was sick, which is most likely a private matter.
Starting point is 00:27:49 And again, leave us out the group chat, especially when it comes to someone that you are supposed to be having this time with and spending time with, loving on, nurturing. What was the motive behind it if you have to showcase it and let us know about it later on? Why did you take those videos? You know, it just helps you, like, it reminds you that you have to be mindful and careful when you're out here dating people and putting them in your space and when you're in a vulnerable position, because there's vultures out there.
Starting point is 00:28:18 That's true. You know? I think people do anything for coffee these days. They do. You know, they're going to, if they have any kind of like footage that somebody might think is juicy, they don't post it. They're gonna get the clout however they can. How would y'all, if y'all would act if one of, let's say,
Starting point is 00:28:37 Lex, how would you act if that happened to you? How would you feel? I would feel very... In my shoes? How would you feel? I would feel very- Out my shoes. What would you do? I would feel disrespected. You know, it's just, I, again, being in a vulnerable space when your health is on the decline
Starting point is 00:28:57 and you're a public figure, you don't want everyone in your business. That's one of your weakest moments. And until you decide from your perspective to tell your story, then it shouldn't be anyone's issue other than yours to handle that. It's private, it's family, and it's really between your doctors, and it's none of our business.
Starting point is 00:29:18 And unfortunately, I believe in karma, and when someone is very much in a vulnerable state like that, especially with their health, and you never know, it could have been like deathbed, all these, it's the eye-opening moment, and an instance where you have to decipher who's going to be in your circle, who's going to be there in these moments, because now she's healthy, she's back where she needs to be, and this person doesn't deserve to be on that level with her no more.
Starting point is 00:29:45 Get her out of there. It's just sad. I will be very upset, very hurt, and just feel disrespected. And you don't know what people go through, like to even go to that extent, to do something while they're not in, you know, their right space.
Starting point is 00:30:00 It's like, I just don't understand people. I really don't. I don't. It's real ugly. Yeah. It's heavy. It's ugly. It's not cool.
Starting point is 00:30:11 And you just shouldn't take advantage of people in a vulnerable state like that. I think it's horrific. Well, I hope you're okay, young Emma. Whatever. Yeah. She going through. I hope, you know, her health is getting better. Yeah, she through. Oh, you know her health is getting better Yeah, yeah, she had some hits boy
Starting point is 00:30:33 She did we got to get you back right girl, so you can drop some more music How would you all feel if you were in a position of like a health concern or even like let's just say a pregnancy or anything Like that and it got leaked. How do you all feel about that? Anyone I mean, I feel like that's probably like ultimate betrayal type of thing, you know? Because your health matters, things like that, pregnancies, those are like very private things. I think social media is like for social purposes and like, yeah, we need it for business, blah, blah, blah, connecting and stuff. But it's just not the place to be putting out anybody else's personal, you know, business. So if somebody were to do it to me, I would definitely, you know,
Starting point is 00:31:15 confront them about it. They might get cussed out, honestly. Ashley, you know, they will. Ain't no might. I mean, you know, I'm working on me, but yeah, it might lead to that, honestly, because I think that is just a big betrayal for sure. Definitely. I'm the same way with Ash. Like it's betrayal.
Starting point is 00:31:39 Like if someone that you love, someone that you would go out and just expose something like your health and like, yeah. Anything personal and people be knowing too. You know what's okay to post and what's not. Correct. Know when it comes from a messed up place and somebody's really trying to put your business out there. So there's no suits for that. It's no coming back from that. I think that's very wack. Somebody that loves you, that's a friend, would never do that to you. And what are the motives again?
Starting point is 00:32:10 What is the motive behind it? What are you trying to do? You trying to hurt even more? Like, what is the point? The cloud is crazy. Cloud chase is crazy, right? Shh. It is crazy.
Starting point is 00:32:22 Yes. Talk about crazy. Y'all be our best friend back in the block in the media again. Every day. This time he coming for my girl Beyonce and Jay-Z. Who you talking about? Kanye. Right, Kanye, crazy Kanye. Kanye is back in the blog.
Starting point is 00:32:41 He's so exhausting. That's his thing. He's talking about everybody. Wait, he don't have anybody running his account and stuff for him. I just don't believe that he is really like at home, like, ooh, I'm going to talk about all of that today. Like, I just don't, I mean, isn't he a missing man? Like, doesn't he like have stuff to do? Like, he's definitely off the,. Like he's definitely off the, like he's just off the charts. It's just one thing after another. What exactly did he say about
Starting point is 00:33:14 Beyonce and Jay-Z? I don't know. That, um, what'd he say? He said that Beyonce used IVF to conceive the twin. But I think he said something more worse than that, but I can't see. Again, private information. That seems to be the theme of tonight. I'm right now to talk about like, you know, it was Kim the other day. It is, it's copyrights. Another day. It is copyrights another day.
Starting point is 00:33:45 It's his wife. His whole career. His mom, he was talking about, you know, certain thoughts after his mom passed away. Every day is something. It's like the Nazi hatred talk. It's just always something with him, unfortunately, and it's just exhausting.
Starting point is 00:34:05 Get back to music, get back to creativity, get back in the studio, get back to your, really, medication and everything else that's going on. Maybe you need to stay off the meds. Well, I don't know what it is. I mean, unfortunately, it's like you get to a point where it's just exhausting. You're calling people out their names,
Starting point is 00:34:25 you're dividing people. It's just heavy. It's just whack. I don't know what's going on with him, but he definitely needs, somebody needs to help him out. Somebody needs to take his phone. He needs to go get some help.
Starting point is 00:34:38 His wife, she should be helping out. She don't have a wife, girl. The wife just... I think they're getting a divorce. Who knows? Yeah, boy or girl. The wife just. Who knows? Yeah, I think they're getting a divorce. You think so? I thought I thought it. I'm not going to do it. Hold on. No, she his little puppet.
Starting point is 00:35:00 No, I don't like it. It's just been, it's just one thing after another. It's like, what else do you want from us? What else do you need? It's just like seeking attention in so many different ways, which is kind of whack. You know, it's just horrible. I think it's horrible. I mean, it's just like, but again, you pick and you have to be conscious of who you're really picking to be your partner with. You know, it's just just it's a lifelong commitment and Yeah, I used to say it all the time It's that it's a rumor that they were getting a divorce, but then I read that they don't have a pre-nup, which is interesting
Starting point is 00:35:35 That shit it really didn't have nothing going into it. So and he didn't He lost a lot. But I mean, with her, she has no voice. I feel like she can't guide him or tell him because he having her in these streets looking crazy. It's just, it's sad. A bunch of crazy. What do you all think about the fact of bringing children into social media in general? Like, what do y'all think?
Starting point is 00:36:07 What are your thoughts on that? You don't. You don't speak on other people kids. You just don't do that. That's that's like on a whole other level. And then I need to find out what was said, because I heard he said something like calling the kids something out of their name or something like that, like an ill, something. I need to find it before I speak on it.
Starting point is 00:36:29 But you don't bring anyone else's kids into your crazy world. It's not right. Those are innocent babies. Yes. Jay-Z better than me, baby. Woo! Do you all feel, what do you think, Ash? Um, I'm looking at it.
Starting point is 00:36:52 Oh, okay. Sorry about that. I think it's, again, children should not be exposed. Whatever, however they were conceived, should not be exposed. And he's out of line. He's been out of line, out of pocket, everything. And it's just kind of, again, not feeling it whatsoever. Do y'all think he should be banned?
Starting point is 00:37:20 Yeah, he should have been. But you may take him off of Twitter and stuff one time and Instagram. But then he was wearing that MAGA hat and then you know how that goes. Then he got back maybe you know everyone that he called, they caught, he called them the art. That's what happened. What?
Starting point is 00:37:40 He called them the R word. Yes, that's what it was. Yeah. And then he deleted it. Yay. Kanye is out of, he's getting out of hand. Well, it's been out of hand. But why is he not getting canceled?
Starting point is 00:38:00 I feel like he's not getting canceled, y'all. Why do you think he, it seems like he keeps slipping through, you know, the holes? Or you think this might be it? Now that you stepped on Jay and B's toes, what do you think? I feel like people like... Some people are sick and they like that type of stuff.
Starting point is 00:38:18 So he has a little fan base where Kanye just says whatever he wants to say. And now with the new platform of X, you can rant about anything. That's a little fan base where Kanye just says whatever he wants to say. And now with the new platform of X, you can rant about anything. So he got those people that's going to support him, that support that craziness. So he's it's like he's wired different. And some people like that.
Starting point is 00:38:42 It's nasty. It's weird. But he got his little fans that's gonna always support him. Ask your thoughts. I mean, Kanye just being Kanye at this point, like I'm not really surprised by anything that he does. One minute, you know, he's you know saying anti-Semian, Semantic slurs and like every day is something different. So, I mean, I feel like he should be banned, but then, you know, there's freedom of speech. So it is what it is. But I definitely think there is like a mental health issue there. I think he hasn't been the same since his mom died.
Starting point is 00:39:27 And it's just gonna continue to spiral down. And I hate to see, you know, how it all ends, but I don't know. It's a bunch of craziness. Why do you think he's so fixated on Jay and Beyonce? Yeah. Why do you think it's so fixated on Jay and Beyonce? Yeah. Why do you think it is? He's jealous. Okay.
Starting point is 00:39:47 This is the tweet that he said. Kanye said, wait, has anyone ever seen Jay-Z and Beyonce's younger kids? They're retarded. No, like literally. And this is why artificial insemination is such a blessing. Having retarded children is a choice. Wow. That's crazyarded children is a choice. Wow. That's crazy.
Starting point is 00:40:07 That is so awful. That is so awful in so many ways. Awful. First of all, I ain't even using that kind of language. We don't say it our word no more. First of all, everybody knows that. We don't say that. Second of all, Why are you speaking on kids? Speaking on children. This is Jaycee and Beyonce. I know, like, they have some type of personal relationship.
Starting point is 00:40:31 You know what I mean? Like, I'm sure... Or did. Or did not. Definitely not after this. Right. So, I mean, that's just crazy to even randomly bring up somebody else's children and speak on them in that way. Like just very awful. And so many parents are blessed to have children because of artificial insemination, like, you know,
Starting point is 00:40:57 in a wrong way. And I know personally a lot of mothers who, and fathers who are grateful for artificial insemination. So to talk about it in such a way is just horrible. I mean, anything wrong with this, him using this platform in this way is wrong. But wow, yeah, they need to take him off of it.
Starting point is 00:41:25 Whatever this is. No, he really need to take him off of Twitter, whatever this is. No, he really need to be counseled. He's out of control. Really need to be counseled. He's just out of control. We're really watching a debacle in front of us, like every day. Every day. We're seeing something. People like Trump and Yvonne and all these big powerful people, you know, they're behind him. They're giving him the ammunition, you know, they're enabling him and his fans, whoever. Like there's always like people that are going to stand behind the craziness. I remember at one point, Kanye was up Jay-Z's behind. Like, everywhere with him. Always up on the side.
Starting point is 00:42:05 It's like, dang, Kanye, like, what do you guys think? Like, why now? Why the hate now? What caused him to go from being up Jay-Z's behind to now you're speaking bad on his wife, his kids, him? Do you think it's jealousy or do you think, what do you think it is? People I think we're inspiring. Would you say?
Starting point is 00:42:30 People are always going to come for whoever is at the top. Like, but it seems like it's always people that are like close to that end up turning on you and trying to bring you down or speak negativity on you. So I mean, you know, we see it all the time, but to see it like from people like Kanye and Jay-Z and Beyonce, like these are the greats, you know what I mean? So, yeah, this is crazy to see it happening at this magnitude. Yeah, it's sick. Yeah, it's just a lot.
Starting point is 00:43:01 They they've been in the target for lately too, with personal issues that have been public. And it's just, again, you're right, Ash, when you're on the top like that, you become a target. It is a combination of jealousy, I feel, also, and just in this weird dark space that we are continually to see. And unfortunately, we're witnessing really a spiral
Starting point is 00:43:22 of somebody, a creative genius, you know, pun intended for his, one of his documentaries. But it's like, it's really becoming sad. And again, there's children involved on really all sides. It makes you think like Kim dodged a bullet, you know, or whatever. It's just really unfortunate that he's dragging other people, these babies, these innocent babies into his mess. Because he's been talking about the Jews. He talked about this, that and the next. I mean, he has been the way we're group has he not really talked about at this point. You know, it's just getting to a point where it's just exhausting.
Starting point is 00:44:00 And I think he should be muted at this point. That's true That is so true. Oh, yeah baby But if you were day or B, would you guys have something to say or do I? Platform I wouldn't even ever speak his name. I wouldn't give him any attention. I wouldn't even He would be boring you're yes, you beneath me. You're dead to me. Done.
Starting point is 00:44:30 Nobody's. I feel like if you even try to confront him or say anything to him, that would make you look bad. You know how they say like we argue with a fool or whatever. I don't know what to be saying. But you know what I'm talking about. You got to ignore him. OK. He's crazy. Don't engage in the craziness. Don't engage. Mm-hmm.
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Starting point is 00:48:57 Wow. Okay. At the moment. At the moment, yes the moment, yes. For how long has it been? No, that you know, we have, we have. What's the question? What's the topic?
Starting point is 00:49:12 It's not is Alexis celibate? What's the topic? What's the question? What's the pills that they be having on like, yeah, we need to see if they make some for women. What pills? What you talking about? I don't know. The Rhino pills. What? What could, what peels? What did you say I know? I don't know. The rhino peel.
Starting point is 00:49:27 What? I think they're rhino peels. Rhino. What is that? It's the, you go long, you go hard. Oh, like the honey pack. That's not rhino pack. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:49:40 I think they call the rhino, rhino. No, but I, let me tell you this. There was a period of time where I was extremely celibate and really focused on really my, centering my soul and really cleansing out all the energies of other people and just all of that. So I did take the time to focus on really myself. And to that point, it helped me really get the juices flowing
Starting point is 00:50:09 and really get my mind... Like, it's a good thing for me too. Yeah, and my confidence popping. So it's good to really low-key take... Let your body, your mind, and your heart, your soul, take a rest, you know, from other outside energies. And so to the point where I'm just sitting in my essence of this bounciness of in the glow and the flow of everything.
Starting point is 00:50:32 And so it's just like, you know, you have to be careful out here in these streets because I'm starting to read more about STDs, all these things happening. And we're in Miami, we're definitely in the space, like, you know, in the cities, these major cities of where you have to be careful. So it's becoming very much intentional about who, you know, I share that space with. That's true.
Starting point is 00:50:58 So I have, I ain't never, I ain't never been celibate. But I just always wondered like, okay, does it count? Are you celibate if you haven't had the opportunity? You know what I'm saying? Does that count? What you mean? Okay, because I feel like- Like if it's a drought?
Starting point is 00:51:17 If they're around here and they can't get none, they can't get it. So you got me, you're celibate? Like celibacy is- By choice, like by choice or by, like- You can get that. A girl can be like, I'm celibate, and I'm just like, hmm, I'm celibate, or like- Is it a drought?
Starting point is 00:51:37 I'm not saying- No, it's a conscious decision. I feel like there's a conscious decision. You give off that aura, you give off that energy of, like, availability. You know what I'm saying? Like, even, like, being married, you know, you're not putting it out there because you have your ring and you have this shield up of,
Starting point is 00:51:53 like, I'm not gonna go out there like that. But, like, being single, you have to protect your essence, your body in your end and really... And I don't know if, like, I never thought about that in marriage either, to have, like, celibacy in marriage, if you're going through things to kind of clear... But you ain't got to stay in celibate. I don't know. If you say that you're about to go celibate and we married back, who is the one?
Starting point is 00:52:15 You don't know. It could be some sexual things going on. It could be some deviation. It could be some other outside people. I don't know. But in my celibacy journey, it was really a conscious decision to really just focus on me and really my self love. Because then I notice now being in just in the maturity of my sexual experiences and just really life experiences.
Starting point is 00:52:41 I feel better when I'm, my everything else flows better when my mind and my soul are aligned and cleansed. And so I'm just very particular who gets experiences. Get some of that licks. Yeah, if you guys are very particular. But sometimes I feel like a lot of these women, not women, just people are like, I'm celibate, I'm celibate. And in my head, I'm like, we need to get you started because I like maybe acting all crazy.
Starting point is 00:53:09 Like, girl, just go on and bust one real quick. Because we need to, I don't know, let some of that out. You know what I'm saying? You put a lot of energy on me. You know, like I've ever had friends who like treat you like you're their boyfriend. You know, like they get mad, like, you know, call them back and is that like, I'm like, you need to go find somebody to let that energy off of. Yeah, yeah. No, I think-
Starting point is 00:53:30 Why don't you come over here? There's lots of toys too. You got options. You can get it off of this way, you know. I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like,
Starting point is 00:53:38 I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I, and it's like, girl, no, sometimes you just need to let one off real quick. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:53:47 You need to just let some energy out. Jarell, are you celibate? Huh? Yeah. You say, huh? There's no computer, it didn't freeze. Don't do that, huh? The camera didn't freeze.
Starting point is 00:54:00 Wait, I lost connection. Oh, all right. Yeah, right. Yeah, right. What can you say, Mac? No, man. Are you celibate? Are you celibate? I don't know what that word is.
Starting point is 00:54:13 Oh, OK. OK. Have you thought about maybe having a period of celibacy and just really going there yet? Because this definitely takes discipline. I don't have discipline for that. Would you be able to date somebody who was being celibate?
Starting point is 00:54:30 That's a great question, Ashley. There you go. Did you date somebody that celibate? No. Really? No. Why? My braiders, was that you who said that?
Starting point is 00:54:46 Toys. I got plethora of toys in my drawer. I heard so. I mean, at some point, how long are you trying to go on this celibate journey? Like, you need to get, before you come talking to me and dating me, you need to get that out your system.
Starting point is 00:55:02 Like, get that all out your system and then come. But I can't date, no, you ain't ready for me. But I'm too stupid, I'm too stupid. Because I'm gonna take you on a long journey. What if y'all really like each other? You know, y'all vibing, the chemistry is amazing, the conversation is amazing, all of that.
Starting point is 00:55:19 But it's just, he celibate. What we gonna say? Yeah, I have moments of weaknesses. So I get it. I like it. Maybe you got you got. You want to express intimacy. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:33 Okay. Okay, I get it. I get it. So celibacy is it. I wonder if it's just a thing like. Okay. Is it, I wonder if it's just a thing like, okay. I was celibate for. She about to come in with a laugh. Go ahead, you listen to it.
Starting point is 00:55:52 Maybe what? Six weeks? And then the plumber. Is that the longest you've ever been, Sullivan? And then and then the plumber had to come back over here and check the drainage. I mean, the you know. OK, the what? OK, well.
Starting point is 00:56:22 I think it's self-discipline, and when you get to a space where you want to like pause, I feel like you can do that. You're very disciplined, Sherelle. So if you ever want to get to that place. I'm not. Yeah, and you shouldn't. I'm not saying it's per person, per pee pee. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:56:38 I don't know. I have my amazing toy in my drawer. I have my amazing toy in my drawer. When it's set out. Okay, so celibacy means you can still play with your toys and stuff. It's just you... That was the question I had. Can you still bust one from your own pleasure or is it just not having sex with another mate? I think you can just because we have needs and you can get them through toys.
Starting point is 00:57:10 Now I feel like you shouldn't, if you're in a celibacy journey, I think it has to do with being with a partner because of the energies. You're really cleansing your body or whatever your choice is to be celibate. And Ashley was saying earlier, some people are celibate by choice and some are just celibate because there's just, there's nothing, there's no options out there. So. Yeah, I think, not that, I don't know,
Starting point is 00:57:34 I don't know nothing about narratives, but now that I'm thinking about it, I'm just like, if you celibate, I feel like you should not masturbate. It's like, Cause that's, what's the, you gonna get the same feeling if you with a partner. should not masturbate. It's like, what's the, you gonna get the same feeling if you with a partner, like. If you're abstaining from sex,
Starting point is 00:57:56 I feel like sex with yourself should be included because that's energy, that sexual energy, that's, you know, just because it's not another person, there's still it there and it's still geared towards sex. And if the whole point of it is to abstain and to put your energy elsewhere, I feel like the effulgant means completely not having any kind of sexual situation.
Starting point is 00:58:27 And I can't do that, baby. That's how I would interpret. That would be your definition of celibacy. I feel like that's the truth. Yeah. Because people will, y'all know people be out here masturbating a lot. We don't need to hear people wearing their rolls out Well, y'all know people be out here masturbating a lot, you know
Starting point is 00:58:49 Wearing they rolls out and stuff. They be wearing that thing out Listen Because that's the ovulation period. I don't know about y'all but baby. Oh my goodness Rebi where Like calm down girl calm down, girl. Calm down. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah. I'm I'm never probably ever going to be celibate.
Starting point is 00:59:15 I mean, I. Feel like I need the I don't have that need right now. Yeah. But yeah, if I feel like if if I think about the definition of celibacy to me and with me restraining from all of that That's fair. Yeah Yeah I'm still counting my celibacy because it was like I went from married and
Starting point is 00:59:45 To divorce and I was like, what's good? Like I Was right after divorce because I was committed to one person for shit I'm most to that But you know, I was like what's good what's outside what's what what's all the fuss about, you know Only to be like, you know, let me let me let me bring it on back. Let me let me let me bring it on back. This is let's calm down. Calm down, girl. Calm down. That's too much.
Starting point is 01:00:16 But I get back to a space of really just what intimacy was for me. And now I know what I want out of like intimacy of a partner and really what my body deserves. So I'm glad I did do that celibacy. I did just think of a time where I could kind of say I was, I'm not celibate but abstinent. What? You're six weeks after. Oh.
Starting point is 01:00:41 No. So you didn't waste six weeks. Oh, I like that, Ash. Let's hear about it. Because my thief actually recovery was very bad. But I was abstinent before me and Phil got engaged. I had come to a point where I felt like I did not want to have sex anymore. I don't want it like, like, I just felt very.
Starting point is 01:01:13 Then, like, it was just on me hard and I got to the point where I felt like I'm not having sex like we even went to Dubai. We went all the way to Dubai for a vacation. And you can't say, in Dubai? Damn. That's the discipline. Damn, girl. That's why Phil was like,
Starting point is 01:01:35 I'm on, baby, let me go get this ring. Yep. You know, cause- Let me shut it down. We have been together for like eight years at that point, or seven, eight years, something like that. And yeah, you know, we had been having the whole conversation about getting engaged
Starting point is 01:01:52 and getting married, and he knew that's what I expected and wanted, and I got to the point where I was like, well, if you don't want that, then I can't do this with you no more. Because one, I didn't want to get pregnant again. Pulling out kind of, it was none of that. You know what I'm saying? So it was, so that was on my mind.
Starting point is 01:02:16 And then two, I just, it was just very much on my heart at the time. Like I just do not even feel right giving this man my body, you know, and he's not providing me what I need. And so, yeah, that was the time where I was abstinent. I wasn't celibate. I think there's a difference, you know, I really like being abstinent from sex, like for a reason. And it wasn't like to like punish him either. It was really a me thing. It was like, I just physically don't feel good about it. You know, like we would have sex and I would feel awful. You know, so I literally had to do it for
Starting point is 01:02:57 myself. Good. And yeah, good for you. Not Ashley over there role playing and everything else. Future on. We'll be outside, Ashley texting, baby, you already know what time it is. She replied, baby, I got the future plan,
Starting point is 01:03:19 the surround sound, I got the future plan. Hey. Situation worked out. If situation where God seen me. Okay. You already know when I get home is going down. Okay. I love that. I bring the food back.
Starting point is 01:03:33 What the shit's what it's who I said I love you. Yeah. I love it. Wait, I definitely have my little my little bout of not indulging, but none of more. I don't think I ever do that. So be set though. Fill up with me.
Starting point is 01:03:49 Good, good. Okay. He was probably going to hate me for putting our business out. He probably in the chat. Is he watching or he taking it? Probably writing in there now, telling me to shut the hell up. But... He probably got the future on pause
Starting point is 01:04:10 as soon as you get out of the club. Exactly. You know what time it is. Well, at the end of the day, celibacy is just powerful. I just thought it was... I really, really was able to tap into my soul and really now take my level of receiving and giving to a whole nother level, you know, just being able to like, know your body. Let me try.
Starting point is 01:04:38 Effective today. How long should I go? It's really up to you. I just think you got to cleanse cleanse your mind and your body. Let's let's let's do one day at a time. Okay. And if you need accountability partner, I'll be there. I'm going to check in with you. I'm going to text y'all and tell y'all to tell that person to stay away from my house. All right. Now I can work on this journey. Have you ever wondered if your pet is lying to you?
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Starting point is 01:09:08 You do. All right, we got humble baddie. I know we got humble baddie mail. So I'm a baddie. It's time for humble baddies mail, y'all. And today, we got a humble daddy. It's humble daddy mail today. We got we got Larry from Detroit, Michigan.
Starting point is 01:09:27 Okay, Larry from the D. Hey ladies. What's up, Larry? Hey ladies. I've got a situation that's been keeping me up all night and not in a good way. I'm 38, single, and living in Detroit. Last year I took my mom in because we felt it wasn't safe for her to live alone anymore.
Starting point is 01:09:51 Everything's been smooth sailing until last weekend. I usually work nights, but I got sent home early. When I walked in the house, I went in to check on her, but let's just say there were some noises coming from her room. Okay, and not just any noise, loud moaning. Now here's the thing, no extra cars were in the driveway, so I don't know who or what was making her make those noises. Was she handling business on her own or could it have been something else entirely? I panicked, went straight to my room
Starting point is 01:10:30 and haven't brought it up since. Should I ask her about it or just pretend I never heard a thing? What would you do? Help me out ladies. Damn Larry, mama gotta get it. Mama got a role. Or not. Or the person has an Uber account, we don't know. He said he wants to go check for the cars
Starting point is 01:10:53 and there was nothing extra going on. I mean, let me tell you something. I hope it never stops. You wanna make sure you can keep it going as long as you can. And now he has to, since they're room, not technically roommates, but housemates, it's just about both of them now understanding what the other one has been going through.
Starting point is 01:11:15 She got to get hers until she can't move. I've heard sex drive in women, the older you get, it goes up. So Larry, you got to let mama live. Mama have needs and mama got to get it going. But that's on you to think that mama didn't have to stay by herself. But you brought her in her in your house. Correct. Mama got to get her needs off, too.
Starting point is 01:11:41 You can't listen. You should. Mama got to do what she got to do. Yeah. Toy is with a Tyrone. But at the end of the day, mama got to get it on. Oh, I see what you did there. What's those bars? He asked, should he bring it up?
Starting point is 01:12:00 That's his question. No, we got to get it. I don't let mama do what she got to know. I mean, it could be some courtesy hours, maybe implemented if it gets, like, really bad, where it's loud or there's a child involved or some kind of whatever, but other than that, I don't think you should really say anything unless it's really bothering you that much.
Starting point is 01:12:20 I mean, obviously, for him to hit us up on humble bad email to get our opinion on it, I think you got to let mama live. Yeah. Because mama could have had a sex toy, she could have had a little rose. She could have had what it do. That rose is a good thing. No, y'all playing.
Starting point is 01:12:36 My mom had to take her, she have a close neighbor. You're calling my mama nippy? No, it's not my mom. My mom's still, you know, it's her, our neighbor. She's like in her late 70s, early 80s. And my mom had to take her to the sex store. And my mom was like, they get it. They go and get them billedos.
Starting point is 01:12:58 They go and get it. Like, these 80-year-olds are out here using her. Yes, they are. The sex drive is gone. Maybe they don't want to be bothered with a guy or whatever. And I'm not saying no little boy, no little toy either. That can be. Well, Larry, I think you need to turn the music up or something.
Starting point is 01:13:24 You should probably let you know when the money's coming over so you can be prepared. You can leave the house or have the music up loud or something like that. But she ain't gonna stop. Yeah, that's true. So, she was respectful because she did it while he was at work. That's on you. You're probably trying to check on mama. You shouldn't have taken some partisan text or something. And if you think about putting her in one of those nursing homes or whatever, it goes
Starting point is 01:13:54 down even harder. So. Mama gonna get it. Well, Mary, we hope we answered your question. I think you should basically just let it go. Let Ma do her thing. I mean, if it gets out of hand, then you could be like, hey, Ma, I don't know what you got going on, but can we just get a courtesy text or something
Starting point is 01:14:18 when you doing what you're doing? Or if you bringing a man into our house, I would prefer y'all go get a room or something if you don't want men coming into your house. Or let me meet who coming up in here. Let me meet my potential stepdaddy. You never got dropped off, you know? You never know what's going on over here, okay?
Starting point is 01:14:37 -♪ I think you better call on time... -♪ Ah, well, y'all, look, it's about that time, isn't it? It's time for Q&A. All right, guys, it's time to drop them questions. What y'all got for us? What y'all got in the chat? What you got in the chat? What you got? Tell us, Real, because you got it up, don't you? I do, but I don't see the questions coming in with the questions.
Starting point is 01:15:15 We got Q&A, y'all. Q&A. I thought that was Q&A. No, we don't have that questions. Somebody said, I don't see how those CNAs would do it. I'll be gross, baby. You said, what did they say? They don't see how the CNAs do it. They would be gross. What's your question, Nikki.
Starting point is 01:15:51 Oh, Danny. Dr. Frankie Bellamy said, describe a typical day for you ladies. Name. Oh, who wants to go first? I'm all over the place. I wake up early, about 6 a.m., and my boys are up. They head to school early. I sometimes head to the beach. What else?
Starting point is 01:16:18 Then depends on what I have going on for the day I plan it out. I have school, culinary school classes, so I'll tap into that. And then if there's any meeting schedule, I'll go do that. I will see if there's any sports activities. Usually one of the children has sports activities, so then I'll hit, I'll be dealing with that. There's groceries, inventory of the house,
Starting point is 01:16:40 what do we need, just all those kind of things. That's one, like probably that's the bulk of my day is really organizing the family and really my time and balancing that. So, and working. Ladies, what about y'all? I'm feeling calls all day in the morning, Zoom, Zoom, Zoom, team meetings, development meetings.
Starting point is 01:17:08 And then I wind down, talk to the kids and get my nap on. That's a great. Okay. Different from day to day, but I wake up and the kids are home school. So we kind of get up and we have slow mornings in the mornings. I like to go outside with the kids. They play practice their sports with their dad and I'm kind of just out there.
Starting point is 01:17:42 Willers of life. I make them breakfast, then they start school. Their homeschool teacher comes and they do class with them. And then they have like piano and all their sports and running them around. And then if I have like some real estate work, I'll do that in between here and there. And then I'm in, I'm a chef, I'm they may. Lots of heads.
Starting point is 01:18:09 And they're. I'm Phil's assistant. So yeah, whatever they need. That's what I'm doing. Love it. And then I come on here with my humble day. Period. Someone asked, how many times do you shoot your shot
Starting point is 01:18:28 before you get the hint to cut it the fuck out? What? You got one chance. From a woman, you got one time. I'm gonna shoot my shot one time. I'm gonna throw a little flirt thing in there. If you don't get it, then that's on you. But I ain't about to be...
Starting point is 01:18:45 continuously shooting shots and shooting breaks. You have to get the hint at some point. I... If I shoot my shot, it has to be someone that I really am interested in. And then if I feel like it's not reciprocated, then I'm gonna fall back. Shoot your shot, you know. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:19:05 Yes. All right. I'll be shooting my shot to the field trying to get to do my own stuff. Based on what's going on with, I don't know how to pronounce Tiana X's name. The line. Emmen. Fun. And Tiana, as a wag, was it hard for you all to deal with your spouses
Starting point is 01:19:28 after retirement when making your own money? No, it wasn't hard. For me, I feel like it was easier because now he's home. He's not stressed out with, you know, knowing his playbooks and traveling and being on guard and making sure he, like he's not stressed out with, you know, knowing his playbooks and traveling and being on guard and making sure he, like he's not stressed out anymore. He's home and I have like my helpmate now.
Starting point is 01:19:52 So now it kind of relieves me of things and I'm happier because I can fulfill myself in ways that I couldn't because I was being his support system. So for me, it's easier. I know that's not everybody's situation, but. I feel like that's how it's supposed to be. You know, I feel like your partner is supposed to be or help me.
Starting point is 01:20:15 And I feel like once he retired, it made everything like here. But it wasn't all on me. Yeah. The next this next this one is for you. I'm a new mom. What's the best? I didn't fear, because it wasn't all on me. Yeah. Lex, this one is for you. I'm a new mom. What's the best, what's the most challenging slash rewarding part of parenthood? Oh, for us all. The most rewarding part is really seeing your children.
Starting point is 01:20:38 I could say now that they're older, I'm seeing them when they're away, like Aray is away at school. So when she comes home, I'm seeing her maturity. I'm seeing the really the fruits of my labor, you know, of really just putting it point into our children, how much we've invested in education, traveling with them, showing them the world. And I see really the job and sacrifices that I put into my children, I'm now seeing it
Starting point is 01:21:02 into them. So it's just exciting to see. And really just gives me so much joy that I'm on the right track of being a parent for them. Yeah, your kids are amazing. Thank you. When I see, especially your older kids, I'm just like, I hope my kids turn out to be that great. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:21:20 Thank you. They're so sweet, especially your daughter. It's just an honor to hear that. You know what I mean? Especially just because they they're they're vulnerable. Children depend on us for everything. So I appreciate that. That's just super makes me happy. So much joy. Yes.
Starting point is 01:21:37 I feel like we all have amazing kids, but we have done a great job, you know, raising our kids and teaching them the right things and, you know, just being great people, growing up to be future adults. Like, we have done an amazing job. So shout out to y'all. Shout out to myself for it. And my village for, you know, raising our babies to be well-rounded.
Starting point is 01:22:03 It definitely takes a village for sure. Because I know when y'all see mine out, y'all scoop them up for me, help me out. And y'all have. Yeah. Of course, we're here for each other. That's right. Well, that is enough for our humble baddies.
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