Club Shay Shay - Humble Baddies - Yung Miami's comments on cheating + Jonathan Majors & Meagan Good get married

Episode Date: March 25, 2025

Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to Yung Miami's trending Club Shay Shay interview, LeBron James being Dad of the Year, Phylicia Rashad speaking on women's fashion standards, Jonathan Majors saying Meagan Good “lost endorsements” from their relationship, and more!00:00 - Introduction04:35 - Yung Miami’s Club Shay Shay Interview22:58 - LeBron James, Father of the Year34:35 - Phylicia Rashad on dressing standards48:49 - Jonathan Majors & Meagan Good are married55:40 - Humble Baddies Mailbag(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My husband cheated on me with two women. He wants to stay together because he has cancer. Should I stay? Okay Sam, that has to be the craziest story in OK Storytime podcast history. Well John, that's because it's dump of week and this user writes, last week we had an attempted break-in. I asked my husband, who was supposed to be at his mom's,

to come over and change the locks, but his mom told me he wasn't with her. And it took me less than an hour to find the first two women he was cheating on me with. Did you leave him? Well, to find out how this story ends, follow the OK Storytime podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.

I'm ready to fight. Oh, this is fighting words. Okay, I'll put the hammer back. Hi, I'm George M. Johnson, a bestselling author with the second most banned book in America. Now more than ever, we need to use our voices to fight back. Part of the power of Black queer creativity is the fact that we got us, you know?

We are the greatest culture makers in world history. Listen to Fighting Words on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is John Cameron Mitchell and my new fiction podcast series, Cancellation Island, stars Holly Hunter as Karen, a wellness influencer who launches a rehab for the recently canceled. In the future, we will all be canceled for 15 minutes. But don't worry, we'll take you from broke to woke, or your money back. Cancellation Island's revolutionary rehab therapies

like Bad Touch Football, Anti-Racism Spin Class, and mandatory Ayahuasca ceremonies are designed to force the cancel to confront their worst impulses. But everything starts to fall apart when people start disappearing. Karen, where have you brought us? Cancellation Island, where a second chance might just be your last. Listen to Cancellation Island on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your

podcasts. Bloomberg and Kaleidoscope about the rise of deep fake pornography and the battle to stop it. Listen to Levittown on Bloomberg's Big Take podcast. Find it on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome back baddies. We are back here for another episode of the Humble Baddies podcast. And welcome to we have some tea for you. Yes, I am Ashley Nicole. I'm Alexis Stoudemire.

And I'm Shara Rosado, tuning in all the way from Ghana. Okay, Shira, all the way from Africa. From the motherland. Well, at least you're here and present. I am. Listen, this comes first, no matter what, you know, business first. Business, business, business. That's presenting. It's business there and it, business first. Business, business, business.

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What's going on, Lex? Well, today I did my annual mammogram. Us ladies of a particular age, unless, you know, breast cancer or anything like that runs into your family, then you go sooner. But I had to go and get that done and taken care of. And it was so uncomfortable. When I tell you, like, to have yourself in the machine, you have to be still.

And they take your breast and squeeze it with, like, literally squeeze it two pieces of, like, machine come down and take your breast and squeeze it with, like, literally squeeze it two pieces of machine come down and squeeze your breast so they can get the breast tissue. I mean, we have to do it once a year, but it's super uncomfortable and doesn't feel good. So I'm just like, what's going on? But it's something that has to happen.

So in this women's month of month, take care of yourself. It's a good thing that you're doing that. Thank you. Thank you. And thankfully, breast cancer doesn't run in my family. So it's still precautionary. But at the same time, I need to know what's going on with my body.

So I have to stay on top of it once a year. And you just put it in my mind. I need to schedule all my doctor's appointments. I'm a little behind because I've been traveling and doing the most, but I need to schedule my appointments. So thank you for that reminder. You're welcome. Yeah, I gotta schedule my dentist appointment.

Yes, every six months. Exactly. Nothing, nothing. All right, y'all, so let's begin for the tea. I'm ready to dive into it. First of all, have y'all seen this whole interview with Young Miami and Shannon Sharp? Yes. First of all, I love the whole interview.

I thought she's so entertaining. She's so cool. I don't know. The question she was asking was like so on point. But the one thing that's really got the internet in the frenzy is she basically said that she would allow, you know, her guy, whoever she's in a relationship with, he has four chances to cheat. So she wouldn't leave me cheated one time, two times, three times, she would say, not till the fourth time would she be like, all right, I'm done. So a lot of people are like, okay, that's real.

Like, cause you know, men gonna do what they do. So like, why would I leave a good man? He runs out and makes a mistake or whatever. But a lot of people are like, nah, like that's crazy. Why would you like out loud say that? Like four times is a lot to let a man disrespect you like that. So what y'all take on that?

Well, first of all, how old is she? I don't count the times. I mean, you know, there are situations, you know, there's temptation out there. But I look at how you move. Just I'm not counting the times. If you make your mistakes, it has to be to a point where I'm just fed up and enough is enough. Like, I'm not lifting the times. If you make your mistakes, it has to be to a point where I'm just fed up and enough is

enough. Like I'm not living in a world of pain. But you're not counting. So it could be ten times. But it's wrong with the person. If there's no number two, it's just shit with someone and you know things happen. I'm not gonna count, oh you cheated one time, you cheated two times, you cheated three times. It's basically the respect and how you move.

Like if you just out here moving reckless and just cheating and it's just known and it's just embarrassing and it comes back to me then that's a different story. But me counting to get out of a relationship, no, I'm not. I'm not, that's just my opinion. I'm not counting. So it depends on how he moves. So say he was cheating in peace and quiet. Nobody knew but you.

That is different. We'll talk about it. We'll speak on it. It's just cheating is not gonna be the main I, why I get out of a relationship. If you cheat, but other people know about it. It's not just about the cheating. Like cheating is not my main deal breaker. Cheating is not going to be my deal breaker in a relationship. It has to be a little bit more than just cheating and how you move and how the relationship is. It's not just going to be cheating. Okay. I think for me, it's like when I was younger, I would tolerate more just because I

was learning myself. I was a little like not confident in how I'm moving or feel like I was going to lose out on this person or let me just bend to their rules. So like, I feel like now being older, I look at the cheating as disrespectful, habitual, distracting, like very behavioral and very much of your character. So like, depends on like of the intention of where we're going and want to take this relationship.

And we both have this open dialogue of, this open dialogue of just really like, what are your boundaries? What are your insecurities? What are your deal breakers? That's what I'm set on. And I know now going forth in these relationships that I don't want that.

I don't want to feel like I have to be looking through your stuff. I don't want to feel like I need to be hearing the word on the street. Just all these things. I want to be hearing the word on the street. Just all these things. I want to be set in that situation where I'm not even thinking about that. We should be thinking about what we're investing in. What else are we doing? What's our next date night? What vacation we're going on? You know, it's not really supposed to

be about the cheating. But you can think about that and still somebody can still just, I mean, they just go out and cheat. They go out and have like Again people look at at relationships like it's so perfect like people can say oh I couldn't do that I wouldn't do that. Meanwhile, your man out here having a whole nother relationship, you know screwing off on yeah Everybody else and you don't know you think you have a perfect relationship So it's like you say you're not gonna focus on cheating. That's why I say this, it's not a number.

It takes more to end a long-term relationship, especially if someone that you're in love with. It takes more than just cheating. I just say whatever the boundaries are, you know? But if you go, I feel like for Young Miami to make this statement, like, four times, like, I'm allowing it four times, I feel like that means you're going into a relationship and you're putting it

out there that cheating is okay as long as you only do it three times because the fourth time I'm done. So I just feel like that's a very like interesting take on relationships in general, because I feel like you get into relationships because you wanna commit to somebody fully. You wanna commit to them in a way where they're not dealing with anybody else, sexually, emotionally, whatever.

So once you make that commitment, if you're going into it saying, okay, well, I know they probably gonna cheat, but they only got this many times before, you know, I'll stay, like before I leave. I feel like you're setting yourself up to have a relationship fail. Yeah. No, that's true. And it's like, at least saying like, you don't deserve a relationship where you

won't be cheated on, where the other person can't commit to you. Like you don't believe that you can attain that relationship. Like, that it's not real. Like, you think monogamy doesn't exist, basically. It's like you're setting yourself up already. You know, especially if you're putting it out there. You're having a... Yeah, you went on this big platform with Shannon Sharp,

and you told the world that I'm going to stay with a man until he cheats on me for the fourth time. So it's like, I'm sure she has a lot of men who are interested in her. So now they hear this and they're like, okay, cool. Like I can get with her and I can do whatever I want. I just gotta make sure she don't find out four times. Like, you know what I mean? Like it's just, even though it's like we all go into a relationship, we all want the same thing.

We all want to be able to trust in somebody. We all want it like... And I mean... I'm not saying like it's, uh... Like, I don't want to sound like naive or like a hopeless romantic or whatever, but I feel like we should still like... for our own sanity and like as women, in our respect, like we shouldn't

go into relationships saying stuff like this. Like we should believe that we can be with somebody who's going to respect us. And you know, but things happen. Like you said, Sherelle, like, you know, people make mistakes and I understand like cheating may not be like the end all be all for people. You know what I mean? But I feel like we still as women, that then should have a standard.

Have the expectation. And what, I agree. And if you don't want that, then don't be in a relationship. And if you feel like you don't deserve that, then that's a whole nother thing. And a whole like, we need to go to therapy and we need to, you know what I'm saying? Like it's a whole nother thing.

I feel like it's a self-love thing. Like I would never put that into the universe. Like I will be with a man and I will, I just wouldn't put that energy into the universe. Like of course I don't think like cheating is like the end all be all, but like I'm not going to sit there and be like, well, he got this many times. I just feel like that's just not the energy you should put out into the world. That's not what you want for yourself.

So why even say that? You know, it's to each their own and what they can tolerate, what they want to deal with, how, what their relationship looks like. I mean, for me, being married, being divorced, being cheated on, being whatever the case may be, I am not tolerating it in my situation. If I'm being intentional with you,

I'm setting those boundaries, those values, those railings up ASAP. Like this is what I'm not tolerating because I've healed through that already. I know where the flags are and especially- So un-lexed. I'm just not gonna, I'm not tolerating it. Well, you feel like you can find a man

that's just gonna be fully faithful. Yeah, 100%. 100%. And going back to what Ashley said, I'm putting that out there. Why would I want to say I want a portion of a man? I want a portion of a partner. No, it's not saying you want a portion of a man,

but it's just expectations. Like, I just feel like... I want people to live in their truth. I want them to live in their truth. People live in their truth, but no one is perfect and things are gonna happen. But would you just, you, so basically, if you find out a man cheated on you, you're done.

Absolutely. Not for me. Absolutely. It's not for me. So, Sherelle, you don't feel like you're being realistic if you go out into this world as a single woman looking for a man who can commit to you and you only. Like, you feel like that's not being realistic? It's not. I'm just being honest. It's not. Why is the bar so low? It's not setting the bar low. It's real. It's real.

No. I want more. It's majority. Men who want the same things. Like you just haven't left them. And those men, name a man that has that's that has been straight up faithful. Name one. I'll wait. That has never.

No, I don't know that. I don't know. I can't name a man. That's not what we're talking about. But what I'm saying is I do think it's realistic to want something from somebody. And yeah, yeah, I just want it for other people. But from somebody else. Yeah, I just don't want it. For other people. But that wasn't my question that I asked Alexis. I asked Alexis was, could she find a man that will be faithful to her fully?

And if he did slip out, she's done completely. And she said she's done completely. So basically, if if he cheats one time, whether it's physically or emotionally, she's done completely. So basically, if he cheats one time, whether it's physically or emotionally, she's out. Because this man is going to spend time with me. He's going to be intentional. He's going to be sent from God. And I know for a fact he's going to know where my heart is

and know where my mind is. And it's a lot going on over here. You know, like, don't, you know, we're penetrating souls. And so once you start intertwining all that, putting my health in jeopardy, my mental in hell and in jeopardy, I just know this person, whoever my person is, is going to know who I am and know that is the non-negotiable for me because I've healed my way through that. That was a dark spot in my life. So it's triggering, you know?

So how dare that person that I'm spending time with, that I'm building with, that I'm like, want a relationship with, that I'm loving on, that I'm being romantic with, how dare them disrespect me with one of my non-negotiables? That's not my person. I feel like, especially at our age, if you looking for somebody who wants the same things that you want,

if you're putting those intentions out there. I feel like there's less of a, maybe less of a chance. You know what I mean? That it could happen. But if you're going into a situation saying, I know I'm a cheat, you're probably going to end up with a cheat. Give that a run. Oh, yeah, those are your intentions. Those are the vibes that are creating your situation in your relationship.

My thing is not what I'm trying to get at with Alexis is people make mistakes. Her thing was, her biggest boundary, if you cheat on me, I'm done completely. What I'm saying is people do make mistakes. No, you don't go into a relationship saying that all men cheat or all women cheat. No, because you're basically putting it into existence that it happens. What I'm saying is no one is perfect. And nine times out of 10, most relationships, they look for just 100% faithful. But things happen to people and there's some way in relationships. The biggest thing is cheating is not the downfall in my relationship.

It takes more because things are going to happen. But I would not just end a relationship just because you cheated. It's just more. So my question to Alexis was, so you're non-negotiable. Basically, if he cheated on you one time, someone that you are in love with, he cheated on you one time, someone that you are in love with, he cheated on you one time, you're completely done. Yes, that's not my story.

I'm not agreeing with Carisha or anything that she says. That's not my portion, that's not my legacy, that's not my destiny, that's not in my spirit. I'm not a cheater. I know that I'm disciplined. And I'm saying that you're looking for it. No, it's not an option for me. I'd rather have open dialogue and let me decide what I'm gonna do with it. Don't go behind my back.

Don't be doing the sneaky stuff. If we locked in, we have this dialogue of what it is that you were trying to do with me, Alexis. Y'all know my stance on even having multiple relationships like polyamorous. It's not for me. I was the one and I know I'm gonna have someone that's locked in with me fully. Now, it's just not, it's just not, it's not negotiable.

Like, do you all think that emotional cheating is different than physical cheating? Yeah, I definitely think it's different. They're both the same. But the same? I think they're both, I think they're both... wrong. I feel like women tend to do, like, emotional cheating. I feel like emotional is worse.

I was gonna say, which one you think is worse. I feel like emotional is the physical cheating though. So it's like, yeah, if somebody is interested in somebody else emotionally, like physically, especially for a woman, because once you get their heart and their mind, like their body is going to follow, right? So I don't feel like men can, you know, go have a one-off with somebody and like they don't think about them, call them or anything after that. So yeah, I would probably say emotional is worse. Like Sheryl said.

But yeah, what if you found out that your friends man was cheating? Would you tell your friend or would you keep it to yourself? Well, we need to establish what a friend is first of all. What type of friend is this? Exactly. This is... Yes. Okay. establish what a friend is first. What type of friend is this? Exactly. This is... Yes. Okay.

This is a friend. Y'all aren't the best of friends, but y'all, you know, y'all are social friends. You go to dinner, you've had some private conversations before. Um... That's none of my business. I'm staying out of it. Okay. What about you, Leigh?

What? That's a tough one. Um, I feel like if we have a better relationship, friendship, then I need to say something, especially if I broke bread with this couple, especially if I've had, you know, dialogue and we're in the same room of just a few people. I'm going to have to say something, especially because if I'm out and I see something inappropriate, again, being someone that has been married, and again, with my cheating tolerance and all this thing, I just will feel some kind of way holding that in.

And we'll take the repercussions. Nine times out of 10, women do go back to whoever, you know what I mean? So then the friend is always the one that's asked out. So low key, if it's not a friend that I would risk losing, then I'll just say it, you know what I mean? But if there's somebody that's like my sis, I gotta say something, because it's violated. Right, got to.

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There is so much darkness in this world and what I think we could all use more of is a little joy. Listen to the Dylan Hour on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. Love ya! My husband cheated on me with two women! He wants to stay together because he has cancer. Should I stay? Okay Sam, that has to be the craziest story in OK Storytime Podcast history. Love ya! until he's well enough to move into our new home with us. He's good so far. Well, last week we had attempted break-in. I asked my husband who was supposed to be at his mom's to come over and change locks, but he wouldn't. Then his mom told me he wasn't with her. I went to Facebook and it took me less than an hour to find the first two women he was cheating on me with.

Oh, what else is he lying about? Well, one thing my paranoia just wouldn't let up was about the cancer in his treatments. I asked his mom about it, who told me he doesn't have cancer. She also informed me he was in rehab, not the hospital. He suffered from addiction and was trying to recover for me and our baby. Did she leave him?

Well, to find out how the story ends, listen and follow the OK Storytime podcast on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. ["The New Fiction"] This is John Cameron Mitchell and my new fiction podcast series cancellation Island stars Holly Hunter as Karen a wellness influencer who launches a rehab for the

recently canceled in the future we will all be canceled for 15 minutes, but don't worry we'll take you from broke to woke or your money back. Cancellation Island's revolutionary rehab therapies like Bad Touch Football, Anti-racism spin class and mandatory ayahuasca ceremonies are designed to force the council to confront their worst impulses. But everything starts to fall apart when people start disappearing. Karen, where have you brought us? Cancellation Island, where a second chance might just be your last. Listen to Cancellation Island on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your

podcasts. Are we ready to fight? I'm ready to fight. As you wish. Is that what I thought it was? Oh, this is fighting words. Okay. I'll put the hammer back. Hi, I'm George M. Johnson, a bestselling author with the second most banned book in America. Now more than ever, we need to use our voices to fight back. And that's what

we're doing on Fighting Words. We're not going to let anyone silence us. That's the reason why they're banning books like yours, George. That's the reason why they're trying to stop the teaching of black history or queer history, any history that challenges the whitewash norm. Or put us in a box. Black people have never, ever depended on the so-called mainstream to support us. That's why we are great. ever, ever, depended on the so-called mainstream to support us. That's why we are great.

We are the greatest culture makers in world history. Listen to Fighting Words on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. ["Fighting Words"] If this is a best close friend, I'm definitely saying something, but if it is someone that's a social friend, I'm not saying anything because I don't know what the situation is. I don't know if they have an open relationship. I don't know if this person's are just, you know, they have a private breakup and, you know, we don't know about it.

So I stay out. If you're not close to me, I'm not in your business. That's just what it is, because it's just it's too much confusing. And your mama had like, I don't see you in my business and drink my water. I have definitely seen some people's husbands out in these Miami streets. OK, did you say something? No. No, no, no, no, no. I am not getting into that. And it wasn't like a close friend of mine. So, I didn't feel obligated at all.

But I did want to run up on him and be like, I see you, like, I see you. Do you know, like, we can see you. But you have that. I'm looking for a pull-up. Like, I'm okay with pull-up. That little one, hey, how y'all doing? What's your name? Yeah, I'm gonna pull up. I'm definitely gonna make the situation very uncomfortable.

Where is Sonia? And I just feel like if I see you outside, you know, it's like, if you're that bold to be outside with another woman, I feel like... Frank girls, she probably know. Like, she probably know something. You know what I'm saying? If you have the audacity to be outside like in our

hometown with another lady, she know already, you know what I'm saying? So I definitely wouldn't, I wouldn't say anything. But yeah, that is a tough situation to be in. Like y'all said, it depends on the situation, how close you are with that person because like Lexa said, nine times out of 10, that person is going back to them. And they're like, you don't know what they can say. Man, they lying. They just said it. That you done got yourself caught up in the mix.

Yes. I did, right? That's a close friend, baby. I'm gonna have proof. Video record, take pictures, do my little research, girl. If I have video record, then send a drink over. I gotta have the proof, because you know they gonna lie. So you gotta have the proof.

Yeah, they gonna be like, -"Uh-huh, you gotta take video pictures." -"Give me some evidence." Everything. Yes, you gotta have the evidence. Doing the detective work. Yeah, no, I'm letting somebody know. I have to, especially if that's my girl, we gotta have a discussion.

You know? Yes, yes. Okay. Well, next topic. So we recently saw LeBron and Zuri hanging out together going on a date night. And there was also Future that was singing at his daughter's Sweet 16. So what do you guys think about this?

Just, I think we just wanna really acknowledge our humble zaddies, daddies, you know, just in general of just like how our black men and just men in general are stepping up and just really like being a force for their families. What do you guys do? I'm going to add one more to it because we didn't have lunch. Shout out to Chad.

Like Chad did something and you know what? That's why you my dog. He took all the girls on a trip, just daddy and daughter time. I loved it. And I just loved it. All his daughters, they went to Dominican Republic, spent time with them, took them on excursions, like the whole nine yards. Like he really had the photographer there. I felt a little jealous. I was like, okay.

Oh, not a little jealous. But I loved it so much. Because I was, you know, I was like, okay. I was like, they were so beautiful. They was dressed alike. He had the photographer. He just made them feel like queens. So he was set. I love a father that just set the standard. So shout out to all the humbles that exactly. Yes, I agree with that. Yeah. Yes, kudos to Chad. Like, he is a girl's dad. Like, I saw him out there posing with the girls.

Super cute. Super, super cute. I saw Future's daughter, Sweet 16. It was like a little mini, rolling loud. He had all the... Yeah, Travis Scott. Sexy Red. Sexy Red. I think Mariah Carey. He performs. I was like, okay. Like, it was lit. It looked like she had the best time.

So the daddies are showing up. lit. It looked like she had the best time. So the daddies are showing up. It's necessary, you know, we need help. Guys, when it's necessary, it takes two to have these babies in the first place. And so it's actually been beneficial for me to really like, like since I had my, speaking of my kids are with their dad right now

for spring break. So I have, I can do way more work at home. I can do whatever I need to do. I can travel, I can move around. So it really is giving me a break low key because we need that. We need to like, recalibrate our minds and our, and our spirits and our energy. And so like low key has been helpful that he takes that on. And so it's like shout out to you know

Linda families too because it definitely takes a village and um, I think that's what I was I was gonna get into I was I didn't mean to cut you off Alexis How would y'all feel if okay? Some a father-like future he has how many kids? I don't know. Hmm Maybe let's say like maybe six or seven? I don't know. That's a great question. Maybe, let's say like maybe six or seven. I don't know. You have some fathers that go above and beyond for some kids,

and then some of the kids, they just don't do anything. You mean like in families or just in general? In the Glynda families, like, okay, they have like several baby mamas and okay, for this child, I'm gonna go all out. But for this child, because I hate that baby mama, I'm not even in that child's life. That's a turnoff for me. Like in this day of like, you know, in this day,

he had, in this day of just dating, if I see that you're not talking about your children and I know you have them, like if you're not involved, if you're not trying to schedule things and really be mindful of these children, then it's a turn off for me. I'm like, what's going on? That's not attractive. That means you have no time management. That means you have no like regard to your blood walking on earth.

So it's a immediate red flag for me. If you are, you have children and you're not talking about it. Like, I wanna get to know you. I wanna know who you are. Like, you have little people walking around this earth. How involved are you? You know, the more involved, the sexier that shit is. Like, you know, so I wanna see that. What you're bringing me off is the child is so innocent.

What'd you say, boo? Another continent. It's okay. Another time zone. No. Another continent. It's okay. Another time zone. No, no, what I was saying is it just, you can't take it out on the child. Correct. That's, that's what I don't like. Like you knew what you was doing when you were doing what you was doing.

And then now that, you know, they kept the baby now that that child is coming into this world without a father figure and you're treating the child wrong. Yeah. Yeah, right. Yeah, and I feel like we see this a lot, honestly. And it's very, very unfortunate to see it. And I feel like it's, you know, always, it's a big, big difference. It's not like some kids can like... And it's mainly our people.

It's unfortunate. Yeah, like we see like them doing the grandest things for some kid and then some kids get nothing. Like it's crazy. And I wonder like, you know, how that ultimately like affects the children. You know what I mean? They feel like they're less than the other kids.

I'm sure that's going to do some damage, some long-term damage. Absolutely. It's heavy. And you want to be open and have that dialogue, for sure to be open and have that dialogue for sure about who you raising, who you not raising. You know, it's all rooted and stimulated from just how you were raised too. So it's, it's crucial when you see the legacy building. And shout out to Future, my bad. He has four kids. Thank you for our check on that. You know, they put a math in there. I thought he had more than one. I thought he had more than one. I thought he did too.

But I guess the fat checking is for, so, right? Is that right? I always show me the lights. So. No, I think he has more. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know about that fat chick. Yeah.

It's fine. It's fine. We don't have to look at that. But shout out to all the others out here representing, because we definitely need to see more of that. Shout out to Big Phil. He's always holding it down for me, so I could be here. You know, on the Humble Baddies podcast,

he's, you know, taking care of the kids right now. So shout out to you, boo. Do you all think with parenting? Yes. With parenting, do you think it's different raising boys, Ash, compared to like us, Sherelle, you and I, we have boys and girls. So do you think like it's a difference of influx

with the father raising boys compared to like raising the girls in general, Ash? Like, what do you think? I'm just curious. Is it a difference what like having a father? What's the question? I just feel like I just feel like as far as with with fathers, they're more. They're more leaning on the girls than the boys.

The boys, they're gonna be hard. They're gonna break, you know, they have, that's that soft spot. I don't know. I feel like, you know, I am a girl's dad. No, I'm a daddy's girl. I am a daddy's girl. And my dad was very strict on me. Like, he did not play, but I was still a daddy's girl.

Even up until, like, I was grown, like, my dad was very strict on me. You know, like, when I got pregnant, he stopped talking to me for a month or two. You know, because we weren't married yet. Girl, my dad did the same thing. Yeah, he had these expectations of me, you know what I'm saying? So, but I do feel like having that strong father's presence in my life really did shape the woman that I am today.

And it shaped like, you know, my preference in men. So, and then now that I'm a boy's mom and my husband is very hands on with my children, I can see how his presence, him being, because a lot of people, they have their fathers around or their husbands around helping with their children or whatever, but they're just kind of there. They're not really fully present. The mom is very much the default parent or whatever they call it. But Phil is very, very hands on and I can see how kids presence in their life is shaping them into the young men that they are. So I do think having a man in the household absolutely makes a difference in raising your children.

And I know it personally from being raised by a two-parent household and now raising my own children in a two-parent household. But when it comes to the difference between raising boys and girls, all I got is boys right now and thank God, yeah, because I just feel like I wouldn't know what to do, how, where to start in raising a little girl. And y'all are doing amazing. Like y'all daughters are beautiful. They're so smart.

They're so respectful. You know, they're everything that I would want a daughter to be. Because in this crazy world that we're living in right now and all these outside influences, like, I just don't know how I would, you know, maneuver and do everything. So kudos to y'all because y'all are the best moms, y'all children are amazing. And y'all don't always have somebody else to help you and support you in the way that you need, you know, the typical way, you know, so y'all are killing it.

So y'all tell me, y'all, I would have to get notes from y'all on how it is raising young women these days. It's definitely not easy, but it's, I feel like- Look, it's not easy. Look, when Serenity come over to you, you're gonna look like a... When you say, feel and, uh, Fox raises Serenity. I know, it's a cute thing.

It is so cute when Serenity comes over to boys. Absolutely. It's a different little boys. I'm like, oh, y'all do know how to be gentle. Oh. That's how y'all was just working. They be giving her a hint, like, mom, we want a sister. Oh.

They're like, let's do some practice. They can hint all they want, but it's not happening over here. OK, honey? It's locked up. OK? Not locked up. Locked honey. It's locked up. Okay. It's not locked up. Locked up. Not playing them games. Yeah.

No. The baby-making factory is shut down over here. Okay. Absolutely not. So y'all bring your daughters over so we can get our little daughter time in because that's all we're going to get. I's fine. I know that, sorry. I love it. I love it.

I love it. Well, speaking of daughters, did you see where Felicia Rashad was on the Breakfast Club? And she, you see that? They were tapping into her. I was great looking at her. Would you say? I said that was a great interview. Yes.

Yes, it was. Did you see where she was talking about how there's an influx of how there's a nudity with our young queens and the influence on Hollywood? So since we're talking about the ladies and growing them up in a certain kind of way, what are you guys' thoughts on that? You know, I feel like she's like the auntie, like, not even the auntie.

I feel like she's grandma, honestly. Not saying cause she, oh, but like she still has that old school, like, mentality, that old school, like upbringing. That's kind of like, we don't get that as much anymore, but she's like one of the last few left that's like here and like we listen to and we respect and we appreciate. And so I think she's just coming from like that old school style of like, you should be covered and we should, you know, there's a certain way that a lady acts and talks and you know,

there's something that we all can like take from that because we're slowly like getting away from all of that. And, you know, I myself, you know, I like to be naked most of the time when I go out. Like my face, you know what I'm saying? I like to show a little ass and titties here and there, you know what I'm saying? You know, I really like pushing the limits with my outfits, you know what I'm saying? But I feel like that part of me is coming from a woman empowerment. I feel like maybe she might be old school in her thinking.

I feel like now women feel powerful and strong and confident enough to come out and wear whatever they want to wear. And no, it doesn't mean like we're out here having sex with everybody. It's just we're confident in who we are. We like how, you know, we love our bodies and we're confident in it. So I think there's truth in a lot of wisdom and what she was speaking on.

But I also think, you know, we're in a new day and age and we're taking control of our bodies and our choices and You know, I don't think there's anything That's true Ashley I'm with you on that I feel like there's a there's a point where you Can you can still be sexy show some skin and be classy with it. But then there's that point when you get to Bianca, Kanye's wife, what up his name? Kanye's wife.

Like I would never go to that line. But to show skin, show legs, I like showing, my body, my curves and everything, but still in a respectful way. There's a lot of rules to it. Yeah, I agree. You know, I tell my children and really my daughters specifically because they show their bodies more often, obviously, than the boys do.

But I feel like, you know, we're in the age of female empowerment, self-love, self-empowerment, improvement, health, journeys, whatever it is to make you confident. And so I feel like their generation is very old school and very much set in their ways. And they're like, it's a little bit of, I don't want to say jealousy because I don't want to give them that, but it's almost like, woo, they can talk how they want to talk because they were basically censored. We can move how we want to move. We can wear what we want to wear.

We can travel. We're choosing not to have children. We're choosing not to get married. So we're just in these stages of really just projecting our authentic selves. And that's trickling down to my children because it's like, they're so much more confident than I was at that age to where they know what they're wearing. And then also when you're adding spirituality or religion to it, they're so smart where they know,

well, I want to be more modest around this person because it's older, older, like the elders are around or I'm in this setting, or it's more professional, or whatever the case may be. So it's about teaching them about balance, and really much how to carry themselves. But I love that both, you know, my daughters and my sons are very confident in who they are, their bodies,

because it's hard out here. Social media has made it extremely difficult for our children. That's the difference too in the generation. My mom is like, she can see that on Facebook, she's a Facebooker. So like Facebook is more like post of these are the, this is the family and this is graduation.

Whereas like Instagram is instant gratification. You can buy things, enhance things in the quickness. And so it's like, we see that being able to touch instant gratification, you can buy things, enhance things in the quickness. And so it's like we see that being able to touch both generations, but our younger ones are very much in the space of just more open, more honest about who they are. And it's the colors, it's the tats, it's the piercings, it's all these things. And they're the rebels. You know what I'm saying? And I'm here to embrace it. I love it. Express yourself.

You know? Now, I agree. But I feel she feels like she has this duty and responsibility to speak with wisdom and come from this whole... Like, you know, like, she's always been, like, the Black representative. Like, everybody looks to her, you know, like she's always been like the black representative, like everybody looks to her, you know, as an example, as a role model, you know what I mean?

Like she's bears that weight of being... Generation. Our kids don't know who that is. Yeah. Exactly. So, I mean, times are changing. You know, we can still respect her views and take something away from it. But yeah, she's just part of that old school mindset and there's nothing wrong with that. I think we need to keep that.

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So is there what if they brought home a girl, Ash, that, you know, just came and had like, you know, a little bra lit on and, you know, some little shorts or something. And you know, how would you feel if they brought a girl like that to the crib? You know, I feel like I think it depends because right now I'm very much in control of who they're around. You know, I'm very much in control of like who their friends are and everything. So I know that's not always going to be the case, but I try to, you know, steer them in a direction of like, these are the kind of women that you should be interested in. And, you know, I honestly am, I feel like I would be open to arranged marriages. Really?

Okay. I'm trying not to go that far. That's why I said- When you know the family, you know this little girl, you know their background. And we making a woman with the family like, hey, you got a daughter. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? So all about like, right now I'm just trying to steer them in the direction of like, hey, you got a daughter. You know what I'm saying? So all about like right now, I'm just trying to steer them in the direction of like, this is what you're saying.

You should be going for us. But I know that may not be like realistically what happens. So, you know, I wouldn't judge the girl. But I would be hard on yours. I'm trying. I swear to God, I'm trying not to be that mom. Like, I don't wanna, like, I feel like I went through some tough times with my mother a lot, so I'm very much being as conscious and, like,

intentional about how I treat my future son's interest, love interest or whatever, but I definitely am trying to do my part while I can to like steer them in the direction of where I want them to go. Yeah, we have to. That's what wearing is. So they brought home somebody in a skinty outfit. And they always stop at opposite.

Maybe, possibly. But if they brought home somebody in like a skimpy outfit, I mean, I would try to show them that, I don't know, I would be nice to the girl, but I might explain to them why this choice may not be the best. Is there something wrong with that? No, you're gonna base it off clothes, Ashley. I mean, no, I wouldn't base it off clothes. But if she's like, fast, and she's wearing them clothes, then yeah, I'm gonna be like, she does. You be a judge. I would mean to. There's layers to it. You're right. Yeah.

Leave it up to my daughters. They'll be like, we heard or we... That's not a good one. You know, mine will chime in and add a little two cents. Right. Oh no, like I said, I'm going to be old school with it. I want to know who your mama is, who your daddy is, who your auntie is, what church you go to, you know what I'm saying? Like, I'm going to dig in.

Well, whatever. She can say, well, why Miss... Why Miss Willard, you're wearing it. I see you wearing. Oh, oh. It's that family history. I'm going to be like, I'm grown and I'm married. You're trying to get to where I'm at.

So you know what I mean? I don't know. I feel like she better not say that to me. I feel like that's disrespectful. You don't talk to a grown up like that, first of all. I don't like that. So she already out. Mm-mm.

Next. I might be bad. Lord Jesus. I might be bad with them. I don't know. We'll see. I'm gonna let y'all know. But I'm trying not to be. I'm trying not to be. Do you think Hollywood has made it hard on our young girls? Like, what would they have to wear? And just a little pressure of like instant, fast fashion and...

Oh, my God, I can't imagine being like a young teenage girl right now. Like, when we was in high school, like, you know, we tried it. Like, we might change our shirt or something. Yeah, tuck it in the backpack. Yeah, you know, but now you gotta have like the 30-inch bust down. You gotta have makeup. You gotta bust down. You gotta have makeup, you gotta have lashes, you gotta have nails. Like, you gotta have a body.

You gotta have a budget. Exactly. So, listen, listen, y'all, it's not the same. When I was in school, I snuck some clothes in my backpack to change. It was this little skirt with this little tie up top. My teacher called my mom so fast, my mom came up there and told my behind up. I was in third grade. She was like, I'm better than this.

I thought I was trying to dress like a little cheeky. My grade. Sherellika. Oh, my God. But I didn't dress like that. I just I wanted I wanted to. I was trying to be like one of them little other girls that I was not. And my teacher was not.

She was like, she was like, your mama, I know that, Alice, your mama raised you better than this. She called my mom, my mom came up there and told my behind up. Yeah, well, it's more than just the clothes now. You gotta have everything. You gotta have the designer outfits, the designer bags, the jewelry. You gotta have the Van Cleefs and the Cartieres.

You gotta have everything now. So, I mean... But it's legit! Do you think music has done, has a big influence on that? Like the music industry in general? No, I think it's social media. Yeah, influencers, influencing, gamers. Yeah, and everybody making this, like all these things are so attainable

and you should have this so you're nobody. You know, the social media. Yeah. Are we holding our men and is that, are we holding the, do you think we're holding the boys at a different standard than the females? I mean, I think, I think boys and men have their own things to like, that they're pressured by and to do and to attain and all that.

Um, but I think it, I think it's probably harder on the girls. Just from hearing, like, my friends dealing with, like, their teenage daughters and the things they go through, I think boys are a little bit more simpler, but they do have their things. But I think it's mostly like harder on the girls. I think, you know, boys still want to be cool. You know, I think there's still like a lot of bullying and stuff that could happen. But I don't know, I feel like it's hard to be a teenage girl right now. I don't like my son.

I don't like my son in the, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off. I was saying I don't like my son's a, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off. I was saying, I don't like my son's in like hoodies all year round. Like it'd be hot outside. They on the scooters with these hood, the hood down here or, um, the push ice sees they call it when they have like the ski mask. Oh, yeah. My son loves that too. No, I have to get on him like not wearing it.

Yeah. It's hot outside. We're in Miami and Also, we're in a standing ground state and oh, that's what you say is that? Would you say real I think she I think she might have Frozen up on us in the other time zone over there she might've frozen up on us in the other time zone over there.

But yeah, you know, so I think I do hold a standard with my boys a certain way, just for like things like that. Just in these streets and how they care themselves. I want to make sure they have eye contact, things like that. I guess that would be the only difference. I don't have to worry about them not wearing certain things besides that. What were you about to say, Raelle? wearing certain things besides that.

Are we about to say we're out? No, we still can't hear. It's okay. Okay, so let's move on. I want to talk about Megan Good and Jonathan Majors. They recently had a knot and are officially married. Yes, they are. Yeah, so I mean, I feel like all of this happened pretty fast. It was like when we found out they were together, we were like, oh, okay, interesting.

Because he was going through his whole legal battles with the white lady and everything. And it was a whole thing. And he lost all of his deals. He had like movies coming out and he had major like rules that got taken from him. And it was a whole thing. And Megan Major, she, not Megan Major, well, she is Megan Majors now.

Megan Major. His Coretta, his Coretta. Yes. She was right by his side through it all. Who was all kind of like, side-eyeing it? Like, this is cute, but it's also weird, right? You know, like people were questioning, like, you know, why? Because he had said some weird thing.

Like, their whole relationship was kind of like, under scrutiny. Then they got engaged all of a sudden and now they're married. Yeah. So, he was recently doing some interviews and said that because she decided to stand by his side through all of his legal troubles, that he lost a lot of endorsements. And so, let's talk about that.

I mean, how do you feel about, you know, potentially, potentially, potentially, potentially, you know, messing up like some business deals that you have going through for somebody like for a love interest? Like, how far would you go standing by somebody's side? Do you agree that she should have been there through it all or should she have waited till he was done with all his legal issues? Should they have kept their relationship private until all of that was done?

Like what do y'all think about that? I would have kept the relationship private until it was all done, especially with the situation. Megan is Megan. Megan is that girl. So I feel like, you know, now that they're married, people go through things, people have done things and people rebound from them.

And she chose love for money. And I feel like it's a genuine relationship. And it's only up from here for them. I look at it like this. I mean, you can't help when you fall in love. Can y'all hear me? Yes. You can't help when you fall in love with somebody.

I mean, whether it was fast or not, I don't know. They should have definitely kept their relationship private. But at the same time, she was supporting him, showing up to trial, you know, right there, just supporting him and being vocal about it. And that's what a wife is, essentially, is through sickness and health, richer for poor, through death do us part.

So she's definitely, obviously has made an influence on him and got him through a difficult time. And it's somebody, you know, that you wanna invest your time in and your last name in and really being, having the union of a marriage. You, they went through such a, just a, like a turbulent time early. And that's probably is what made him more attracted to her

and ready to like lock it down just because he was like, yo, she stood by me when I was at the lowest. And that's a testament to her too, of the fact that she is willing to bring this man up. You know what I mean? So like, I'm sure that was the ultimate for both of them to be like, you know what? I got your back.

I'm doing these things more than a friend. You know what I mean? And then so we built this foundation. It definitely was a little tough, but we went through it, we got through it, and here we are. So, I mean, I think it's beautiful, you know? And it's on, definitely, like a weird way,

but at the same time I get it as far as, you know, you just take your love with the good and the bad and the ugly. But about messing up the coins is tough though, you know what I mean? But I should get it back. I would say, I would say, you know, I really feel like their relationship has been so public from the start. And I feel like it was a little unnecessary.

I just think that he was going through so much, you know, in the public, like, I don't know. I feel like I wouldn't have come out in public with him. Like, I feel like they could've- You wouldn't have. You in public with him. Like, I feel like they could've... You wouldn't have accepted private? Yeah, I feel like I would've kept it private because I just don't understand why they needed to go public. Like, their relationship moved really, really fast.

And so to me, it's like he's clinging on to her in a time that he really needs somebody to cling on to. Like, what are his motives? Yeah, and not saying like their relationship isn't real or nothing like that, but it's just clouded by so much, you know, and everybody's just, I don't know. I just feel like I will want our love to not be overshadowed by all the other things that he had going on.

And then on top of that, to like lose business endorsements and deals and stuff like that. On top of that, to me, it just doesn't make sense. Like, I feel like we have to be smart. Like, yes, we can be in love, you know what I mean? But like, we should still be smart about what we're doing and who we're attaching ourselves to publicly. Like, like you said, Shara, like she's that girl. Like she's Megan Good. You know what I mean? Like, I just don't understand why you would attach yourself to him so publicly, so fast. You just don't understand it. But I wish them well.

You know, I think they're a beautiful couple. I just don't understand it. But I wish them well. I wish them well. I think they are a beautiful couple. I don't really understand that part of it. They could have just quietly been dating this whole time. And then once we forgot about all that he did and said and his legal troubles, they could have came out and started dating and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But best of luck to them, you know, it is what it is.

Congrats to the newlyweds. Hopefully we'll see a little baby, you know. Maybe. Soon. Oh, thanks, well, what's the good stuff? Oh. So yeah, so okay, now I wanna talk about, we'll submit. about will you know, I think we have a little time for a humble baddies mail.

Actually, I don't mean to cut you off though. What you thinking? You want to have one more topic and then we have humble baddies. We're good. All right. Well, you want to do humble baddies mail. We'll go ahead. You got it.

All right. I'll read it then. All right. All right. This is from an anonymous baddie out in Jacksonville, Florida. Okay. Jacksonville. Hey, ladies. So I have my eyes on this guy. And let me tell you, he's the whole package. He's smart, loves God, and he's giving full on sexy vibes. I first spotted him on Hinge, but lost his profile. However, I did some digging and found him on Instagram.

Now here's the question. Should I slide into his DMs? And if yes, what should I say without sounding too desperate? What's the move Addie's? Please tell. Anonymous. Well, Sherelle is the queen of sliding in people's DMs. Well, did you hear it?

Did you hear a little bit? It's surface, so ghetto over here. Well, long story short, we have an anonymous from Jacksonville, and she saw this guy, but they lost... She doesn't have his contact, so she's down on my Instagram and slid in his DMs. What should she do or say so she doesn't sound so desperate? What's the mood? What should she do or say so she doesn't sound so desperate?

What's the mood? What should she do? Hey, hey, big kid. Oh, just that simple? Hey, big kid. Or just like don't pick yourself up. Or just be professional or say, you know, hey, how have you been? Oh, my goodness. I haven't seen you in forever. How have you been? And either he don't respond or he got a so shoot your shot Yeah

Shoot your shot. Is that what you say? People got out of the waiting for a man shoot your shot Yeah, I mean, girl, you might see, did that yet? Like, come on, if you want to hit Hinge, you gotta be sighted and people with DMs, like, I feel like you do that first before you get on Hinge. Yeah, especially because it's right there in front of you. You know, it's in your hand compared to Hinge,

you gotta answer some questions and upload a profile. Instagram is already there. So, I mean. What is Hinge? It's like a dating service. What do you mean? Or dating app, I'm sorry. Like a social dating app.

Okay, Hinge. Hinge. Hinge. Hinge. Like a Hinge. Like connect. Hinge. Hinge. Like a hinge. Like connect. Hinge. Bring it together. Well, is it free?

Sure. I'm sure there's packages and like levels to it like VIP or some, I have no clue. I can only speak for like Raya or things like that. I'm not familiar with Hinge, but you can connect on there, you know what I mean? But it's definitely, I feel like Instagram

is your number one way of connecting. I might be wrong on those stats, I'm not sure, but it's super easy. You have an advertisement, you see the profile, you've got a little information on them. And if you ran into them somewhere in public, like public, you can low key, that was just like your first initial. Now you can be in the comfort of your home

and go and hit them, slide in the DMs like real DMs. You know what I mean? It's going down in the DMs. It's going down in the DMs. Slide in the DMs can get you in trouble. I mean, you never know. There's lessons in life. There's lessons in love.

That's true. Well, go ahead and slide them DMs and see how they're made. That's right. I think you should. I'd be like, hey, I saw you here and here and here. Connect the dots and then hopefully he can backtrack of his memory and y'all can lock it in. So good luck to you, Anonymous from Jacksonville. Well, speaking of sliding in,

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