Club Shay Shay - Kanye vs. Kim Kardashian BEEF, Rolling Loud Cali, polyamorous relationship rules | Humble Baddies

Episode Date: March 18, 2025

Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to Kanye West and Kim Kardashian beefing, A$AP Rocky headlining Rolling Loud California, NLE Choppa attending the The Truth Awards, rules to polyamorous relationships after Ne-Yo and Nick Cannon's relationships continue to go viral, and much more!02:30 - Rolling Loud reaction06:30 - Kanye & Kim Kardashian beef12:46 - NLE Choppa at The Truth Awards18:20 - Rules for polyamorous relationships53:42 - Humble Baddies Mailbag(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Okay, so let's say California right now or just past? Yeah, just past over the weekend. And you know, usually they have it here in Miami too. I know they do different cities. So yeah. The headliner was Miami. Miami be lit. Yes it does. We've been to one together. Or yes we have.

We've been to one together before. And that was a good time. You know, I'm really, Miami just lit, but I feel like ASAP showed out. ASAP has set the standard with his whole grand entrance performing on a helicopter, just showing out. Like, it hasn't been done. Okay, he better be showing out. Travis came it hasn't been done. OK, he better be showing out.

Travis came down. He arrives on a helicopter, but then drove in a truck and then performed this last one here in Miami. So it's like they're just doing it. They trying to top each other. Yeah, they trying to top each other. You know, the headliners. Yeah. You know, these headliners. Yeah.

Those, these, you know, these music festivals are really interesting. Like the kids are the ones that really low key got me going consistently, just because they want to be all up in the mix. They want to see their favorite artists. They want to go from place, like stage to stage to stage, hit the food trucks up.

But I like to be in the VIP, you know, it's 21 and up, up there. We got- Okay, but quick question. What I like to be in the VIP, you know, it's 21 and up up there. We got- Okay, but quick question. What was Rihanna in the audience? Oh yeah, must be there. Everybody was there. Jay-Z there.

Everybody was there. Okay. I heard Ivy Park was there. I mean, no, Ivy Park Blue Ivy there. Yeah. You know, people don't come out and show up. That's the one thing about these music festivals. You look up and you look to your right, that could be a celebrity.

You look to your left, somebody else. Just about music. That's the common denominator is everyone vibing, having a good time and just flowing. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. When I go to Roland Lyle, I always end up like falling in love with an artist that I never thought I would like Because it's really about like their stage presence and like how they go crazy with the audience So like the mosh pits and like jumping in the crowd crowd surfing I feel a little too old for it

But I'm with it and I I feel like I get to learn like what the kids are into now like One year I went and I fell in love with Lil Pump. Who? I only met Lil Pump. I don't know. But you were like this performance? Yes, yes. I was into it.

I was very into it. Yeah. Yeah? Was it the... Wait, I have to... You say what? Would you say Cheryl? I haven't experienced the Rolling Loud.

Oh, we gotta go this year then. You gotta do it the right way though. Like we be in VIP, like it's a very different situation. Listen, Arianna has been, and I took my best friend with her, Chef Ron, because I can't. I was gonna say, that's a lot. It is a lot.

Yeah, it's a lot. But if we go in the VIP part, it's not so crazy. Yeah, you just gotta go to one week ago in the VIP. Well, I had her in VIP, but she wanted to be in the VIP with Jada Waiter and all them. I'm like, that's a whole different type of VIP, baby. You need. Yeah, really? Yeah, it is. You know, it's a bottle service. They have like your own food truck areas, it is the best way to go.

And I go with my big three. I come to the big three, the big kids, and they drag me there. We get VIP passes, but then I usually dip off and I'm in the 21 and up club area. And then they go into the mosh pit. They go in there and in the dirt, it's dirty. And another thing you got to realize in these festivals, it's a lot of drugs. It's a lot of liquor and it's a lot of kids. And so it's like, it's a lot of energy going on in that, you know, on these music festivals. So you definitely, it's better to be where the adults are and have that good activity. Yeah, that's smart. We're gonna have to check. Yeah, we're gonna have to check it out. Let's talk about Kanye and Ms. Kim K.

What's going on with the team with them? I don't know it. I'm gonna hear that again. So, Kim K has trademarked her K as she should. Right. Yes, without Kanye's permit. Oh, it's without? Well, she did not let him know that she trademarked. She did not tell him that it was trademarked. He found out, I think it was trying to put her on a song or something, like, did he?

Something like that. I got a fruit fly in here. Because you're sweet. You're sweet. OK, so I mean, what did he think she was going to do? Kim is a whole business woman. She comes from a whole family. Like, hello. Like, he shouldn't be surprised. And it's protection at the end of the day. They have their public, their public figures, their families, public,

their children. We know every north, South, East, West. We know all the names, you know, is very much, I feel like it's a protection thing, but it should have been communicated. And this is not gonna be the first or the last time they're gonna go at it about something. He's obviously creative and has his musical genius and his side of things, but Kim is the business side

of it. So they got to work together and figure this out. It looks like, I feel like who wants to do it? Right. She is a business person, but do you feel like as a parent, even though y'all know how we feel about Kanye, but as a parent, do you think she should have at least told him, hey, this is what I'm doing? Acknowledge, gave him at least a notification, like I'm about to trademark our kid's name,

this is what I'm about to do. How he found out, do you think that was messed up, how he found out? I think how he handled it is just as bad as how he found out. So like him taking it to the internet, it's like two wrongs don't make a right. So if you had an issue with it, then he should have called Kim up instead of it to the internet, it's like two wrongs don't make a right. So if you had an issue with it,

then he should have called Kim up instead of going on the internet. You know what I mean? Like now- You mean about the group chat? Yeah, so I don't necessarily feel like, you know, it was right or like wrong that Kim did that. Like I don't think it's right or wrong.

Like she did what she had to do. Like she a mom, she a business woman. Like you didn't do it, so I'ma do it, whatever. You know what I mean? Like I don't think it's wrong that she did it without talking to him. But because it doesn't necessarily have to do with like how she's being cared for or you know what I mean? It's like business. It's like if she wanted to go, if she wanted to go work at, I don't know, McDonald's. Do y'all really need to have a conversation about that? I feel like it's business.

But this one is different because I guess Kanye wanted to put, what's her name, North on one of his tracks. But he can't because it's trademarked. And that's how he found out. Like, do y'all feel like, just, I feel like we, you know, we're judging it because it's Kanye and we already have a strong opinion about Kanye, but as two parents,

when you're making big decisions like that, I feel my opinion, I would acknowledge and let, hey, this is what I'm doing for our kid. I agree with you, Sherelle, especially now that they were a big entity together. And obviously we know about the divorce and now separate lives. It has to be a conversation. It should have been a conversation really low key prior to divorce. I feel like because they were public figures and having these children. And I feel like Lowkey, he might have known because I feel like all the Kardashians

trademark everything because that is how they make their living. It is name brands, it's branding, it's influence, it's lifestyle. So I feel like every child has a, just by default, I mean, I feel like Kris Jenner is pushing for that. And I feel like all the men, low key the dads know about this.

I mean, their fathers are famous, the children are famous by their image, you know, their name, image and likeness alone. So I feel like low key he knew about this, but we don't, we really don't know. It should be on a creative level that the children with permission from both parents should be able to have that creative, you know, with, with, cause I mean, dad is who he is, you know, and mom is who she is. So I feel like this won't be the last time we're going to hear about this on

some creative level, just letting the kids express themselves. That's true. I just feel like if, if he would have did it and she didn't know about it, baby, it would have been an ugly situation. My opinion on it, I feel if I was to handle it, I would have acknowledged, hey, this is what I'm about to do and do it. Just putting it in. I agree with you. Now, I don't want him to find out

by trying to do something. But I feel like, you know, he's taking it the way he's taking it because it's greed on his end and he knew he probably could make even more profit by adding her on. So it's pissing him off. I think it's more than just not, you know, I didn't tell you what I did.

It's messing up his coins. That's what I do. Yeah. Well, that's not about it first then. Kim, let me be the punch. About the kids, it should be about the kids. But I know it's definitely, I'm sure they're probably not even talking like that.

You never, you just never know. Like it's hardcore parenting, you know? And then when there's other parties involved, especially influence, again, you got the world involved. People start to group chat. We should know about this stuff. I agree. Yeah, and into the internet,

you just mess yourself up in the- Yeah, and only the kids get hurt at the end of the day again. But it's like, you know, yay is yay. He's gonna do this nonstop, right? Don't do it. No. That's a tough one.

Just never a dull moment like with him or her. You know, it's always something. It is. Let's talk about NLE Choppa. Yeah. Choppa. Yeah. Choppa, I have respect for him. I don't understand.

Who don't understand what? That was serious Sam, sorry. I don't understand. He don't understand. I don't know. What's going on with him? Because it's something that's going on with him too. Well, I feel like it's good. I feel like, you know, he's been supporting the LGBTQ community. Did I? We got it right.

Don't come at us. What is the LG? LG, B, T plus. Plus. Plus. Plus, the A, B, C, D's. But he's been supporting, and a lot of people feel like because he's been supporting hard that you know he's a homosexual or he undercover. He has expressed that you know I'm very confident

in who I am as a man. I just support everyone and I like that you know he's not being judgmental. He has fans in that community and he's showing the same amount of respect and love to that community as well as the, you know, the straights. But he's been getting a lot of criticism in regards to being undercover. And that's not fair, that's not right. I'm gonna say is the criticism from which community?

Is it the black community? Because you know how we are deep in our masculinity, especially the men, very, very masculine and very much like homophobic. And I feel like what he's doing is he's the artist, he's expressing himself and being very much like I am straight. I've heard his songs, my kids sing the songs, and he is definitely talking about the females. You know what I mean? So I don't see why you can't support others. I mean, you never know if he has family, you know, that could be.

It just has to be where it's 2025. We have to be way more open. We have to be way more tolerant of everyone else because they're just people at the end of the day and their sexual preference shouldn't even, it shouldn't matter. Don't get your kid. Yeah, I think the younger generation is more open, more fluid, more accepting than like the older generation,

like our generation. I hate that I'm the older generation now, but. The aunties. Yeah, we're the aunties. But I feel like the younger generation, they're just a little bit more open to different people's lifestyles and more accepting, which I think is amazing. And I think that through art, music, and just creatives in general, I think it's just really great that we can, all of our communities

together. So kudos to him for, you know, standing up and showing support for the LGBTQ plus community. I feel like if you are, if you are supporting them too, or not supporting them, it's a double edged sword. It's one thing or the other. Like you're either jumping on the, what'd you say, Boop? You can't, is it, you can't win for losing or is it, you can't, which one is it?

You can't lose for winning? Y'all know right now that you're trying to say it. Right. I know what you're saying. Like, you know, like, you know, either you say, I'm not going because it's a LG, saying. Like, you know, either you say, I'm not going because it's a LG, it's a, you know, it's gay pride or whatever. And then you're getting bashed or getting canceled.

I mean, we know a few people have been canceled for, you know, not supporting. And more, you show up and you really are just like, I'm creative, I am who I am. I can be very confident. Yeah, very confident in my sexuality and shouldn't feel any kind of way. It's 2025, we gotta do better. Yeah.

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Oh, yes. I've been talking about the Grimmsons selling Sunset. Yes. Oh, she did an interview in regards to, you know, her relationship with Nick Cannon. And I feel like it's starting to be the norm now. These... Why do, why are people so interested though, is my thing. Like, why do we keep interviewing her about her relationship with Nick Cannon? But it's not just, sir, what I'm, what I'm speaking on is like a lot of people are becoming open to the... Probably.

Probably. Or open or whatever. Because probably because women feel like they'll take a piece of a man. They can't get everything that they're looking for from one person. So I feel like they're just like, well, if he can give me this and this, he might not can give me everything, but he can give me a baby, he can give me some money, a house.

Okay, I can work with that. So they go with that. Hmm. So you feel like it's just our culture, because when you really take a deep look into it, you look into the Muslim community world, they have multiple wives and they're okay with it. Isn't that a little aid?

It's not just most. It is. I know what you're saying. There are some cultures that are like, if you can afford to take care of X, Y, and Z, so many wives and the children, then you should be multiple. What does it be, fruitful and multiply? You know, that take it to another level. I have multiple wives.

They have multiple wives. So that's considered what? Polygamy. Polygamy. Right, so it's been going since- Day one. Since day one. We're not used to it. I'm not used to it. I couldn't be in a... I was just about to ask y'all.

I couldn't do it. Why can't you do it, Sherelle? I'm curious what your thoughts are. I'm not sharing my man. Like I just can't share my man. But what if you had how they're doing it? Like, would you be the one woman with multiple men though? Could you do that? I just said I can't balance multiple men. Well, you need to learn the multitask, honey.

Oh, okay. I don't know. What you're saying is, you know, I'm not going to be able to do it. I'm you need to learn the multitask, honey. Oh! I don't know. What you're doing? I'm trying.

My thing is this. I don't know. You may be. What? I have this. I actually don't have that. I seem to know a little bit about it. And I just feel like men are so open to doing it, but they can't handle it if they are the

one of many. You know what I mean? Like if they just had to be with, they had to be one of the husbands. I agree with you Ashley. I feel like they can't handle it. I feel like they can't do it. And I feel like we need to see the other side of it.

We need to see a woman who has five husbands. And were they all in agreeance like, yeah, I'm Tuesday and Thursday and whatever, whatever. But would you be in a relationship and if a man came to you and say, you know what, I have to have multiple women, I love you, but I need another woman, how would you take that and you really like him? I feel like I'm low key dealing with that now in dating just in general, being single. I mean, in my other relationships,

I was in an open relationship and didn't know I was in one. So at least there's some dialogue and some communication. But I'm saying that because I'm dating. I'm not already dating. And they're already dating multiple people at the same time. And when you're with them, you already feel like, you know, you really like him, you're the only one. Like you're not thinking about, you know, when he leaves

and who he's with when he's gone. You don't know who he's dating and you know what I mean? What's the right feeling? Who you texting, good morning. Is it a mass text in the morning to everyone that you're talking to? You're juggling. You're not a man. You're juggling so many energies, you know what I mean? texts in the morning to everyone that you're talking to.

So many energies, you know, that being cause it's funny when you said the magic, I was on this flight coming back and it was a high profile individual sitting in front of me and I can see them texting, like they didn't have a screen on it. They would copy and paste the same thing to like 12 different sounds. Like, oh dang, that's the kind of like people watching. I like to use.

That's exhausting. I'm just saying, see what you're saying. You're like, that's all you're talking about. But he might be, he might be a polygamist or just living his best life. You know what I mean? Like, I look at it like this. I want open dialogue. I mean, I agree with Sherelle and y'all.

I feel like men can't handle it. If you're saying this is what it is, it starts from the beginning. Hey, I'm dating other people. If that's the conversation, I'm dating with intention, or I'm dating for one partner. I mean, I prefer one partner. My pH balance prefers one partner. My mental, my heart, my time prefers one partner because it's already a lot juggling this pie of like work and family and friends and children and all these things. And so I don't need all these other energies because I believe in soul ties. I believe in, you know, mixing energies and other people's energies coming into your relationship and really coming into your spirit. And I don't have time for that. Like, I don't want to be getting tested over and over again,

because, you know, you over here doing this and doing that. I appreciate the honesty, because again, it's the other way around. It becomes cheating if it's not verbalized, you know what I mean? But at the same time, it's not for me. I just don't think I can spread all this love. And I feel like my value is just enough to where, you know, I feel I love myself so much that you shouldn't want to share. You shouldn't want me to be out there being shared, you know,

lock this shit down. I think right now there's this whole thing with men, like they feel like, I mean, they should feel like they are a prize, right? But they feel like things have shifted, you know what I mean? I feel like there's this whole thing about a high value man and they feel like if they're high value men, then, you know, they have a lot to offer and they have a lot of resources. And so therefore, they should be allowed

to have multiple women because they can afford it. And that just makes them, you know, an eligible person to be with multiple women. So I don't know, I think because women are allowing I think because women are allowing this mindset of the man being like the prize and we have to be out here trying to get them and chase them. I feel like it's really just changed

like the whole dynamic of dating. And I don't know, it's like- I agree. The women are the men now. That's what, what's your call it? Said. What is the soft? What's the football player?

Cam Newton? No, Brandon Marshall. He said. Oh, he did say that. What did he say? He said. The women are the men. The new, yeah. The women are the new niggas. That's what he said. said, the women are the men. The new, yeah.

The women are the new niggas. That's what he said. Yeah, the new N-word. And because he got flewed out. Yeah, because he got flewed out by an A-lister actress. You know, it's like the tables have turned. The men are going to be whined and dying. They want to be flewed out. It's a different dynamic these days. No, I want to be courted. I want to be, let me be the queen that I am. You know, let me know you're interested.

And show some effort. That's sexy. And I'm not competing. I feel, again, two people have to be in love with themselves to want to share that love and really negotiate their peace with someone else. And I don't have time to be splitting it up and dividing it up and all that. It's too much.

EO is out here, flying around on his own. Yeah, EO. That's right. That's another one. Yeah. Every day he's out like posting pictures. I don't know of them, right? I don't know of them either too.

Like, why are they so flashy with it? Like, why is have them right? They're not either too. Like why are they so like flashy with it? Like why is it a show? You know, why do we need to know that they're with 10 different women? Do they all date each other because they all be together in one? That's a great question, Sherelle. What type of relationship is that?

Is that the- Like where he is the main and then they have, I don't know what you call that. Do they hang out together? What do you call it? What do you call it? What do you call it? What do you call it?

Thin. Thin. That's a lot of, that's a lot of going, that's a lot to handle. That is a lot. Maybe it's like a thought thing too. Maybe it's like they're just trying to be cool. I don't know. But Ne-

I don't think, I have been approached to be like, like this is my partner. This is my fiance. This is my person, but I'm allowed to date other people and date other women, I should say. What was this? Maybe about six, seven months ago, a friend of mine was like, just, I mean, I like listening to people.

I like listening to people and really understanding where their mind is. Did you think that you have a little thought process and was like, maybe I could? No. No. No. I didn't like them enough. Okay. What if you really, really liked them? I think that wouldn't be my person. I feel like I, my values, my religion, just my spirituality and really just my life experience.

I'm not for everybody and everybody's not for me. And I don't want to deal with another female. I just don't want to deal with them. Like how... Oh, we saw that show. Yes, yes. The actor, he said he's ethically non-monogamous, you know? So he was saying like, every woman in his life serves a purpose and has like a role.

And like one woman might not be as available because they have a career or they live somewhere else or something so they're not as available and so then he has this other girl who isn't as busy so she serves a purpose and then like he has a woman who he wants to help kids with you know so it's like each woman serves a purpose but I don't think any of the women really have to deal with each other. And that's going back to like Nick Cannon and Breed too, like, I feel like, but I don't ever see Nick with other, his other baby mommas.

I always see him with Breed. I see him with the other ones. I know one of them. That could be with the other ones because he's still making babies with us. And he's, he's with them. Like I see him in the pictures. I see him like. Bring his baby number like eight, six or seven. I don't know, but he had more after her.

And yeah. I'm saying like, I see every time I'm on social media, I just always see him. I feel like she's doing that. She's the only one that's post skiing. Yeah, she's into this. She's about that life. You know what I mean? She's on reality TV. She's doing that. They want that co-skiing. Yeah, she's into this. She's about that life. You know what I mean?

She's on reality TV. She's doing her thing or whatever. I mean, I don't know. She's definitely the one doing the interviews. You see Mariah. Mariah ain't having no, no. Mariah is not a part of that count. She is like, she was the first two.

She was the only wife. But you know, to each their own, again, it's just not my passion, my portion or my testimony. It's not my thing. Free statement was, has defended their, they have an arrangement, not a relationship, an arrangement stating that she is happy with their dynamic and does not feel the need for exclusivity. And that's good for her. I think she's lying to herself for now.

You know what I mean? It's like, I gotta make the best of this situation and I'm gonna make it look amazing. Cause why would you come on these interviews and be like, it's horrible. I hate it. You know, like she's gonna say that. I feel like she's gonna say whatever she has to say to get by.

I think I get two in my head. You know, if the minute you walk out the door, you adding all this extra pressure to me. I don't want. Right. We are emotional creatures. Like we get, we get lonely. It's that time after that time of the month, we start, you know, ovulating. When we start ovulating, you know, we won't want it bad.

And what if we can't get it from him? I feel like they'll be having somebody on the spot. I wonder if that, I wonder, has that been asked? They don't, no. Like all is fair, like he can do him. She knows that he's going to go to see these babies and be an active father. I'm sure that's what's attracted to her too.

But like, I don't know. I don't know, Ash. Yeah. I don't think they gotta be exclusive back. Right? I don't know. I put the ad. But they can't, they don't want you out there. They want you to themselves.

I know. I know. Neal said that about his situation. What he said? Yeah, that they have to be exclusive to him. That's every man. I don't think Nick Cannon, he's never said anything like that. I think Nick wants his, his women to be exclusive.

You don't see anyone else. Maybe they're not allowed to publicly. Because you can't be that. I just want to walk around with a clown face baby because I know. Yeah, I don't know. Ain't no money in the world that's gonna have me looking like boo boo the fool while you out here with every eye. I don't want it.

I don't want it. I feel like, you know, we got to go back to the times of being courted and being loved on and being, you know, put on a pedestal and really like men should be, you know, fighting for our attention and really like it's like the lions, you know what I mean? Like, let me go and impress her and really be like, choose this woman that I want to pour into. Because we are way more, I feel like, complex. Like, men are very, like, simple, you know what I mean?

So we, it's a lot of work. And if we want to be fulfilled in so many different ways they need to focus But I feel like These new age women are making it the bar as well for these me Yeah, the bar is very low like the standard is not there any time So how to change these men to go back to court and to go back to it because they these women is oh Let me see that somebody's what are just making it so easy it's hard for us at home like with

our young people at home like me teaching my sons, like, what kind of lady to be interested in, how to be a gentleman, how to be me. And like, it really just, it's really about having like examples and representation of families and marriages and having them around certain company and they got to see it in their face to believe it. You know what I'm saying? If you don't see it, then you're just going to think, oh, well, I've seen all these broken up relationships

and families, and I already know he probably don't cheat on me, so let me just, you know, I feel like if you don't believe it, that you can have a man that is going to give you everything that you want and need, and you can have a man that is gonna give you everything that you want and need, and you can have a whole relationship that completes you and fulfills you in all the ways that you need. If you don't believe that that could happen for you,

then of course you're just gonna go out here and be with a man who says, well, I'm gonna be with five other girls. You know what I mean? I like that. It does start with self. It starts at home. It starts with having those examples. I like that a lot. And teaching your little boys, like I teach denim, open the door. Say it's, you know, ladies first. Just do the small things

because now you just see my grandfather, even my dad, they open the door for their wife, for, you know, for women. They allowed the woman to go first. These men are starting to act like the... Exactly. That's what I'm saying. They started to act first. And a lot of these guys didn't have that at home.

And it's showing now. It's showing now that they're older and they're dating. It's showing. Yeah. Yeah. It's just too many options and so much access is the access has gotten easier to, you know, you could be at home

scrolling and set up a date the next day instead of just walking down the street, you know, and just really bumping into somebody. It's just too easy. It's like they don't have to put effort. No, they can just double tap. I like you double tap. You know.

And it becomes very transactional. But it's like, it becomes super transactional to where it's like, you know what? It becomes quantity over quality. That too, you know? Just a lot of layers to that. But I'm not playing, well, I bet the men would say that it's like that because women just want money and stuff. So they like, well, I can give you money.

That's easy. You know what I mean? So it becomes a transaction. Yeah. I think they ain't giving you no standards here. This is basically you want the money, I want this. Mm-hmm. Now it's just a transactional fleet. And it gets out of hand.

It's just becoming nasty, just nasty out there. Just nasty. So how do you go about changing it? You like someone and you see potential in them, but they have those flaws of they don't know how to be a polygamist. And you got to change it? No, not, I'm talking about just being able to for a man being a man again, like doing that.

That's tough. I don't know doing that. Hmm. That's tough. I don't know about you. I think I'm going to be changing a man. I feel like a man is going to keep. Not changing a man. I'm just saying like changing, not changing that man as a person, but

changing his ways to, to be able to put the woman first, like doing little small things, learning my love language. Oh, that starts with intention. That's, to me, that's the first, like one of the first conversations. If you, if I'm being approached, one thing, like I think it starts with, like we're all old school. We prefer a man to approach us, you know what I mean?

Especially if we're out. And, you know, it starts with that. And then when you have the start to have these conversations, where are you in life? Where do you see yourself? Intention. That's when you can start to decipher who you're going to really start to invest in. Because I feel like men start to know early on if this is someone that they really start to like, just like, you know what I mean?

And it starts with, it's just really about intention and conversation and really like, this is where I'm at in life. This is what I see really happening for me. And if I like him, then it progresses. If it doesn't, then you know, it starts to naturally fall back because, you know, when you get in a space of knowing your worth

and knowing your value, you're not dealing with the bullshit. You're not dealing with the little, the red flags and just the nuances that would turn you off. Like, I feel like once you get in a space of being married, being divorced, dating multiple people, and just understanding who you are, you can choose who's not gonna go further on in the stage,

you know what I mean? Because then we know we're wasting time. I don't have time for that. choose who's not gonna go further on in the stage, you know what I mean? Cause then we know we're wasting time. I don't have time for that. You know, I gotta like you. You gotta do some things, but it's intention. I think it's- I think sometimes guys can be a little slow. So I don't think that there's anything wrong with a man

who doesn't like come already knowing how to please you. Because everybody is different, every woman is different, everybody thinks differently. So when it comes to, like you were saying, Sherelle, changing a man or showing him, how do you get him to do the things or whatever? I think it just starts with like communication. You know what I mean? And like giving him hints, like I would say,

cause men gonna do what they wanna do. You know what I'm saying? And I feel like if they really, really like you, they're gonna really like pay attention. So I don't like to like tell a man, AKA Phil, cause I don't like to tell him what to do, but I like to hint. You know what I'm saying?

It's a big hint. I pretty much lay it out without telling him. You know what I'm saying? Because I want him to pick it up on his own and really be intentional about making a decision to do this to please be, you know what I'm saying? And I feel like if they don't start picking up on the hips,

then they don't like you. So I think it's just like putting it out there like, this is what I like, but not telling a man what to do. Because if you have to tell him what to do, I feel like he don't really like you like that. He just doing what you saying. Yeah, going through the motions or whatever, the checkoff list. I like that, Ash.

That's a great point. I have a question. This is one that I have seen happen. Do you think a person can genuinely love more than one person at the same time? Yes. Have you ever been in that situation before, Le before? Have I been in that situation before? No. In love, not love, but be in love. I think people can be in love with multiple people

at once. I'm seeing like a couple just because there's different types of love, there's different types of, like, you can still not be over someone who... And step in, like, sexually, intimately. Like, what do you mean? Like, being in love, like, there's different types of love. Like, I love you, but being in love, like, I love you to the point where I want to spend the rest of my life with you type love.

Yeah, I do. I feel like you could be in love with two people at once. I do. I don't get what it costs. I don't either. I just think like you, I think you can, you know, that is, it gets real tricky when that happens. But at the same time,, like, look at us.

We love all of our children. We love our, you know, like, I know that's unconditional in a different kind of way, but if you have a bond with someone, if you're friends, if you have this, you know, maybe intimate relationship. Right, but that's a different type of love. Like, you're gonna love, we're gonna love, of course, because it's different. That's a different type of love. Like you're going to love, we're going to love, of course,

because it's different. But being in love intimately, physically, that's a, that's a, it takes a lot. I agree. I don't think I can be in love, I can be in love with two people at the same time. I think sometimes that happens because like, you get caught up in the idea of being in

love with somebody. You know what I mean? And if that happens, like if you fall in love with two people, I feel like it's not really love. It's the idea of love. Because if you really, really in love with somebody, like in love, like how could you fall in love with somebody else? Unless it's like one of those freak accidents, like you fell in love with somebody and then like they went on a trip and they disappeared and then you met somebody else. That's like a movie though. You know what I'm saying? But

I feel like like are just dating two people and then you fall in love with both of them at the same time. I feel like. And that's why, to your point, that's why I'm thinking like you could still love with somebody and it just didn't work out or it's long distance or something like that. And, you know, if life happens and you just saw that's how I feel like that you could still be in love with somebody. More than one person. Right. What's your take on emotional cheating and is it worse than physical cheating?

Oh, shit. Wow. I don't know. I feel like, dang, that's pretty, that's a tough one. Okay. I think emotional cheating mostly seems like the women in the relationship usually does the emotional cheating. And then it's usually the man that does the physical cheating. So I would say the emotional is probably worse because women, we lead with our emotions. And once we emotionally like going, then the body is going.

I agree. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like if it's a physical thing, I feel like you just got one off and move on. So for me, I would say the emotional is worse, but both are both equally, I think, wrong. I agree with you, Ashley. I feel like emotional is way worse, just because now the heart, the mind, the soul,

everything is attached to that. Whereas physical, it could be a one-off. It could be I fucked up or I slipped up or it was a mistake. You know what I mean? Whenever, so I just feel like, and that might be a little easier to get over than the emotional.

Cause when you're emotionally tied to somebody, there are feelings, there are, your mind is involved, your heart is involved, and that can be very tricky and scary. I was, I did a podcast with this couple. They were amazing out of Atlanta. And the husband spoke on it about, you know, when men cheat. Men don't cheat with the intent to fall in love. Like, they're cheating, they're cheating because it's the ego thing or they want to feel like

they still have it. But when a woman cheat, the man, it's hard for that man to forgive that woman because they know emotions are attached. So he was like, it's not the same. It's not on the same totem hole. Even though both of them are wrong, but when a woman, even emotionally, so I feel like emotionally, they don't even have to lay with that person physically,

cheating, just being attached to a man, their feelings and their attention are starting to drift away. And when they start drifting away, it's pretty much over for that. Yeah. But I know some hoes out there who will just bust one off real quick. I don't want to just put that on the man.

Do the hoes be hoeing? You right. You right, Ashley. I just had to put that out there because we can't, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. It is something that I could cheat with. And that's what turned off for me. If I find out you got a situation, you know, I'm like, no, I don't want to, I don't want to try to penetrate that.

I don't want no parts of it. I don't like it. Yeah, that's true. You know, it's just not my thing. You become instantly unattractive. What y'all think about people having like, work husbands and work vibes and stuff. I'll be hearing about that. Is that cheating or is that like just?

It depends because I have, you know, I have seen situations when Chad and I was in a relationship and he was close to females, but it was like, I know who they were, they were comfortable. But then again, you sometimes have to watch that too, because you'll know they can play the role. And then not saying that that happened in our situation, but it has happened before. What was it? What was it?

I don't even want to put. One of the celebrities, the lady was booking the flights and doing everything, all in her face smiling. And behind her back, she was cheating with her husband. Yeah, man. Say it. I just put them, I just put them, I didn't want to say it.

I just did. It's... It's public knowledge or whatever. You were right. That happens all the time. You know what I mean? Unfortunately. I'm gonna say, I don't, mm-mm.

I won't trust it. Yeah. It's tricky. I'm gonna be the assistant. I'm gonna say I don't. I won't trust it. Yeah, I'm gonna be the assistant. I'm gonna be the everything you need. I'm going to know what you need. I booked the flights. I washed the clothes, taken to the cleaners. What you need?

Make the reservations. I got you. Okay, but I feel like like I mean, I have guy friends and I don't want a relationship to be like, someone in a relationship, when I become super serious, to be like, you got to cut them off. I know my boundaries. I also know I don't want him to be uncomfortable, but I'm going to be like, that's actually my guy friend. There's nothing sexual, there's nothing, anything going on, but actually that's a friend that has been.

What if you started dating somebody and they have that work wife or whatever? And as far as you know, it is just work related, but it still makes you a little uncomfortable. Are you going to just suck it up and deal with it or are you going to speak up and say, hey, I'm a little uncomfortable with y'all's situation? Definitely has to say it makes you well unless it shouldn't make you uncomfortable unless they they give you reasons to make them make you feel that's right because I don't have like any concrete like it's like they're super close they have good chemistry okay because they've known each other for years. They've been working together for years, but they're like, you know, they're really close. She knows everything about him.

She books everything, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. So there's not anything that you know specifically that's wrong, but it's just like the intuition type of feeling. I feel like those are insecurity issues or jealousy. And for me, until you give me a reason to feel that way, then I'm not gonna put it on you. I'm not gonna put that in there. Until you give me a reason to feel that way, I'm not gonna make you feel uncomfortable

because you have a friend. This person could have been friends before I even came in a picture. I'm not gonna make you feel uncomfortable or make you feel like you have to sneak around to talk to your friend or be with your friend because I feel uncomfortable for no reason. Because you're friends with a pretty female or just a female in general.

Because I have male friends and it's just not right. Like until you give me a reason to feel that way, then that's when I'm gonna start acting a fool. But... And I agree with you, Sherelle, because it's like until you find out, like, you know, something shady is going on, or you find out that they are booking flights

for other women or whatever, then there's the issue. But other than that, to me, everyone starts with a clean slate until you prove me wrong that you can't be trusted. And I would definitely say something. I'm not biting my tongue. If it's something that's super uncomfortable for me, I got to talk about it. I want to know what's up. And if my intuition kicks in, and then I find out some more stuff, then we got a problem. Yeah. you know, but I just don't, it gets tricky, you know, cause you got, you got, the ladies are in and out,

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Hey Tiffany. Hey Humble Baddies. I absolutely love your show and I'm always excited when a new episode drops. I'm hoping you can give me some advice. I've been dating this amazing guy for about a year now and we've really fallen for each other. Everything has been going great, but recently he told me that his job is relocating him

to Dallas, Texas. We both live in Maryland right now, so this would be a big change. He asked me how I feel about moving to Dallas with him. We're not engaged, but our relationship has been strong, and I feel like he's serious about us. The thing is, I have my family and my friends here in Maryland. While I don't have kids or any major ties holding me back, it still feels like a huge step to move with someone. Do you think I should take the leap and go with him? Or would it be better to let him settle in first,

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Okay, pack it up and go. I mean, if nothing is holding you back, like if your work situation, you know, if you're going to be good to go, like there's nothing holding you back, then why not go? Like he sounds like he's ready to make a big step with you. And I feel like if you're hesitating, then, like, do you even really like him like that? Like, what are you doing? Because, you know, if everything's going well with y'all and he's about to move, he's getting a new job, like, things are on the up and up for him and he wants you to be a part of

that, telling him no to me would be like a major setback. And if I were him, I would look at you like, not like I wouldn't like you anymore, but it would make me feel like you're not as serious about me as I am with you. Especially in this day and age of dating and dating pool ain't that well, girl. I don't know, I would really think hard about it, but I would pack my stuff and see how I feel. And if it don't work out, you always move back. So that's a big, I would probably slowly transition.

I would pack up and leave out, you know, keep my place, go there, see how it is, because it's a lot. You don't know how it is living with this person. Maybe all good, you know, while y'all going back and forth, y'all like each other, the butterflies, but I need to experience how it is living with you for a couple of days, for a week, then go back home, you know, reset, then fill with three weeks, then a month. I just can't, I just can't pack it up and just go. So, Tiffany, my recommendation is to take it slow. I slow, slow it is that is.

I'm Ash and I'm with you, Sherelle. I'm a hopeless romantic too. But at the same time, like she, Tiffany doesn't have anything tying her down. Like right now, like it's hard dating already locally, you know, trying to have your life and have children and work and all that kind of stuff. But if you have nothing tying you down, I say I like how Sherelle said, gradually go, you know, absence makes the heart grow fonder. And so it's like it gets sexier when it's like, yeah, I'm coming in this weekend.

I'll see you after a month or whatever. Or, you know, just pack a bag and really have like really start to slowly transition to it. So I'm like, you know, show up, give that energy. It's sexy to meet up like, you know, halfway or whatever on the road or however that may be. So if that's where your heart is, go follow it. But at the same time, be conscious and know that just

in case you can fall back or you can go and make a move. Because you're starting, you know, say you're moving to this new city, this is where his job is. He's going to have built built in people at work anyway. You're going to have to start over finding people to be social with and to really find your own identity in a new city. And you know, that can be tough in itself and really your job or whatever else, it would be hard, you know.

So it's just, it's a lot of factors, but I say go for it, but take your time Thank you time to grow and don't feel like he might find someone else don't take too much time Tiffany I don't think I don't think you should put that pressure on myself. Like oh he might find someone else Not meant to be if they're supposed to be together Exactly if it's meant to be yeah, but I think he's dope for him to ask too. That is, you know. When he put that ring on a girl and he like, baby, I'm ready to bring you, I'm ready to change that last thing.

Then I will pack up all my shit. Then there's no hesitation. Like hesitation, but it's hard because you don't know how people are. You write this. You don't know who you're dealing with. And it really changes when you're actually in that same household with that person 24-7. That's a big change.

It is. You know, because the first year or so, they would call it like the newlywed stage, and you have your representative, representative, representative. It can be a little tricky because you're right. You don't know, there's not, there's not like, not heavy situations that might arise. It's not financial yet. It's not a lot of real life experiences where you haven't seen this person for who they

really are. That can be tough. That is be tough. That is so true. But you know your heart, I say pray about it and make him put a ring on it sis, for you fully relocate. At least some kind of something, right? Some breaking case of emergency, some kind of security. some kind of security. Well, that is mail y'all if y'all have anything that y'all want to submit to us, y'all want us to talk about it, whether it's tea, whether it's you need advice, whatever it is, y'all send it over to us at humblebatties podcast, humblebatties

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Thankfully. And you don't get on Instagram. up. You might be missing somebody trying to date you and everything. Well, what else do I need to be on y'all? What y'all think? What y'all think? Because it's not Facebook. Snapchat, all the dating apps. I'm on a couple, but I like it. I like in person. Huh? But they didn't have my elect. You need an invite. I think somebody looking for. Looking for I think I might it could set you up on that. What's good?

Then you did say, do I need to? I mean, it's a riot. If you want, you talk. That's why I had to go back to Raya. What is the right data now? This is data that's why I had to go back to Raya. What is Raya? It's a dating app. It's a dating app. But for like, it's attached to your Instagram. You get referred and it's pretty much low key.

Like this is, you are who you say you are. But you can be friends or you can also be there for like, I guess romance or whatever or hooking up. That's what I, it's just turning into more like hookup. Hey y'all, let's take some questions from the, from the viewers real quick. Yes, that would be lovely. Yeah. Hey, think it's time.

Hi, everybody. Hey, what a question. What's that question? You got a mash? I'm looking. Okay, y'all put the questions in the chat. Somebody said, Unc needs to hit legs up. Hey, hey, hey, we on the same team, we on the same team. I'm wrong now, that might be something we on the same team. We on the same thing. I'm wrong now.

That might be, that might be something. Unc and I. Yeah. That is hilarious. Oh no. Oh no. Hey, Hufflepatties, please bring a Laurenzo O'Callaghan. It's a lot of land to develop.

I feel like the people want to see. Okay, somebody wants to know what's your stance on 50-50? 50-50 in a relationship. Oh, well, no, Gepard, you used something about, did she say that she was tired of us? Yeah, she said she's done with that. I'm trying to tell her when she first started. I mean... Okay, I can't do 50-50 because sometimes, nine times out of 10, it's going to be 20-80. You're going to be carrying the 80 and I'm going to be carrying the 20.

Yeah. I'm going to put in what I want to put in when I feel like it. You know what I'm saying? Like, I like to have the play money. Like, my money is the play money. Like, when I want to be frivolous, you know what I mean? And, you know, just do something extra.

That's my money. You know what I'm saying? I feel like I want Phil to be smart with his money. You know, he's very frugal. You know, we got our financial advisors. I know, you know, everything is set where he's very frugal. You know, we got our financial advisors. I know, you know, everything is set where he's so like, my money, we could just, you know, let me ask you a question. When you go shopping, do you sneak and bring your,

your bags in and hide the bag? Um, I do it with my box, my boxes that I order like to the house. Like I try to be home when when the FedEx man is home. I mean, when the FedEx man comes to the house, because I don't want him to be like, damn, you got another package, you got another package, you got another package, you know what I'm saying? But because I don't even shop at them all that much no more. It's really, it really gives me the package. Careful answering that question because I heard, feeling the chat. Feeling the chat.

Ouch. It sucks. Lex, you answer the question. 50-50. No, I don't want to go 50-50. I don't mind having just in case, but I don't want to go 50-50. I have my household.

Obviously I have kids. So that's my situation. Whoever I end up with, they have a household and their kids or whatever the case may be, I don't know, they got their bills. But if we come together, like vacations and things like that, I don't expect to go 50-50 on that. Yeah, I agree.

I think 50-50 is just a weird concept in general. Like, why are we even, I don't know, it's just, it's very like, I don't know, like, almost same as like transactional when you're thinking about it. It's like, I'm gonna do this, you gotta do this. We're roommates. Yeah, I don't like that. We're not even, and it can be, it can get a little tricky too, because I know with the Gab situation, I know she was saying like, you know, she, she has her own and everything and has her empire, but.

Uh oh. They starting to wait, but, you know. So I just think. I think, I think too, Gabrielle Union was saying like, because you know, it gets tricky when you're like, taking care of other households and stuff like that. Yeah. So I just think, you know, each household is different. But when we're just talking about it in general, I think it just feels very, I don't know, it

doesn't feel, it doesn't have that conversation with your man and he's like, where's your half? Where's your half of the mortgage? Where's your half? Where's your half of the mortgage? Where's your half? I think you gave me your 50%. Yeah. It's very weird because I mean, traditionally, like a man is supposed to provide for the household. He's supposed to, you know what I mean? Just like traditionally, a woman is supposed to do certain things. So I feel like we want the traditional, you know, lifestyle and relationship,

the 50-50 thing don't fit in there very well. I feel it's taking notes, so he got the ears. What he saying? Oh, okay. What he said? Then he said he gonna put another camera on the opposite side in your closet, in your personal closet.

I'm joking. Yeah, and then he watch you. Right. He's saying, hey. He's saying he don't watch, comment, like, subscribe. Okay. Shout out to Phil. Phil do be, as soon as the episode drops, he'll be on the court. We love that.

That too. Shout out to Phil. Even though we're not together, my best friend be supported. He'd be supportive. He'd be posting on his page. I'll be like, okay, it's true. He posted us that ain't going live. I don't care. I'm happy for you.

That's sweet. We love that. We love our supporters. Oh, I love them. Let's see. Oh, no. Maybe there's one in the chat over there. I don't know.

Okay, let's see. Oh, no, maybe there's one in the chat over there. I don't know. OK, let's see. Where my supporters at in the in the chat? You know what I'm saying? Where y'all at? Where y'all at? Let's say, well, her supporters, she meet her supporters so she can brag about too. Where y'all at, fellas? Who they say, oh, oh, uh, like we your supporter.

Right. Yeah, before we go, it's St. Patrick's Day and none of us wear green, so I'm pinching y'all through the screen. Um, I'm not Irish, so hmm. Oh, is that how it works? I don't know. I got a little bit maybe. Wait, wait, wait. Not at St. Patrick's Day, I'm gonna pinch out through the screen. Anything that I'd be doing? Oh no she didn't. It's too late. You pinched it. Happy St. Patrick's Day. The Irish. I mean. Don't don't don't grime too much.

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