Club Shay Shay - Kristy & Desmond Scott’s Viral Breakup, Taking Breaks In Relationships, & Paul’s Biggest Crush

Episode Date: January 26, 2026

What’s up Truth After Dark family! We are back with another one with Paul & Azar! We get their reaction to Kristy & Desmond Scott’s viral breakup, taking breaks in relationships, all men cheating, Celina Powell blasting Offset, and so much more! Pour a glass of wine, light up some candles, and get ready for The Truth After Dark! #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Talk to me. Straight to it. First and foremost, the buzz on the internet is simply about. Christy Sarah and Desmond Scott breaking up, right? She filed divorce papers. If you don't know, they're a couple on Instagram. They're very popular. They both like have millions of followers, right?

And they basically have been together since they've been 14 years old, right? And I usually don't enjoy a lot of couple content, but their couple content was always really funny to me and I liked it a lot. I was personally a fan of both of them. but I know not to idolize people or couples, especially on the internet. But long sort of short, she filed for divorce,

and it basically said that it was irren, how do you say that word? Not reconcilable differences. And like no way to fix it. You know, like she said that in the papers. Like there's no way that will like, no chance of getting back together, basically. And she said that it was because of infidelity, alleged.

Right. So then, TMZ got a hold of that, whatever the case may be. Desmond came on the internet and he did a statement. And his statement basically said in so many words, I wanted to separate in December. I talked to her about a separation. That didn't happen. And in that time, I made some bad choices and basically cheated. And now she has said a few things.

She's, her posts have been very like lunch. Oh, me. Body, body, body. And then she just posted that in her new house, because they had just built this beautiful house together. She posted in her new house today and put same address and had a whole photo shoot, right? So it's crazy because the internet is basically blaming her, right? And they're like, he's probably, like, even with the same address post,

they're in the comments talking about like, oh, well, girl, he probably, like, not dealing with your annoying ass and your drama. It's women, it's men. Everyone is like dogging her and basically saying like, he don't care about that house because that house wasn't bringing him peace. He probably licking whipped cream off the next girls.

But in all type of stuff, they're saying crazy stuff about her and basically saying like, you were so annoying and da-da-da-da. And then some people are saying like, how as a man could you cheat on a woman that's so beautiful? Like she's beautiful.

She's funny. She's cool. Like the woman is really gorgeous. She's funny. She has a cool character. I don't really know her, so I don't know who she is as a person. You know what I mean?

But that's kind of what the internet is on, mainly siding with him. Yeah. Some people are saying he's gay. He cheated with a man. And some people are just saying, like, he is over her, whatever. What do you think?

Do you think that women becoming more successful and being in the limelight like that can drive a man to want to cheat on her? I think when I look at her, I see she got millions of followers. Yeah. Very beautiful girl. She is. That's not the recipe for longevity.

They've been together since they were 14. Yeah. When you're 14, you don't know what you want. That's the deal. Like, when you be with somebody at 14 and you with them and then you started getting a level of success or you start to grow up. Like, your needs change as you get older. What I wanted at 14 and what I need at 21 is two different things. Right. And they're in their 30s. That's what I'm saying. So, like, over time, you can imagine that some people stayed together just because they were together before

the success. But, like, when you start becoming a man and you start having needs and you start becoming a woman, you have different needs. Now, she divorced him based on him being having infidelity. Like he probably didn't want her for a long time, but it worked because they had success. They had notoriety. They was probably making, they was making money. So it worked. But like, that 14-year-old version of her in the 30 years, it's two different people. And a man, that's a boy, that's a man, you start having a better understanding of yourself and what you need to be a man and what you need to kind of like, as fulfillment from your woman. And maybe she didn't meet those needs. And they stuck it out because of the success they had together. You know what I'm

saying? And that can truly happen. And, you know, that's a real assessment. That's real. And I feel like even with him, he didn't have an Instagram. He created an Instagram like last year. He has millions of followers too. And he, in his comments, because he's a very, they're both extremely attractive. He's a very attractive man too. And all of his comments are like women like, ooh, I'm waiting for him to be So I'm sure he probably had so many women throwing himself at him. And that was probably like, wow, I don't know. But I just feel like for me, when you look at it on the outside and people can say whatever they want to say, and I feel like people chalk things up to like, can men never be satisfied

or happy because she's beautiful. She's funny. She's this. But you don't really know how she is with him and you don't know how he is with her. They just might not be compatible in the long run. You know what I mean? But they have two kids. You know, they built this house together that's like beautiful.

And, you know, she's extremely successful in her career. And he kind of is doing his own thing too. And, you know, obviously men don't usually leave women. So the fact that he's the one who said he wanted to separate her last year. But he didn't file. But divorce she did. He didn't file, but he said he wanted to separate. Like he was cool.

Like, because if you really wanted to, you're fouling. He didn't want to leave her. He probably wanted a little bit. a separation or some time to herself, but he didn't. Women, she, she, she put her foot down. Because you cheated. If you didn't want to really leave me, you could have separated and not cheated. You cheated on me and you started messing with other women and that's my fault. Like, yeah, I'm going to divorce you at that point because you disrespected our marriage. If you needed space, you can take space. We never talked about. So let me ask you this. So what does taking space mean?

Maybe we just need space from each other. for a second. What does that mean? Focus on yourself. What does that mean? We live together. We had two kids. What does I need space mean? Moving out the house? I don't know what that looked like for him. He's the one who was asking to separate. What would your definition or what would you do if you need a space for him?

A man, you live with and have two kids. What would you just imagine it to be? Well, I don't know. I feel like I'm not saying that because I feel like space for me is once we, like, I don't believe in breaks in space. You're asking a question. and I'm telling you that. Like, I don't know what else you want to say. So you don't know what that's going to look like.

No, because I don't believe in breaks or, like, I feel like space for me looks like I'm going to take a spell. You have to be married to say we want space. I think marriage you ask for space in a marriage. Like, boyfriend and girlfriend, you just break up. Yeah, I think if marriage you want space, then I would probably say, like, I would just take some time to, like, do me. Like, go out for the day, be gone for a week.

Maybe take a little vacation. Like, I'm going to take some time to think. Like, I'll be back. But I don't think that it's just like moving out and this and that. But does that put a chink in the relationship, the space? I don't know. So say this, if I say, hey, babe, I need some space. And I'm like, but I just, I need to, I'm going to get an Airbnb for like a couple weeks.

That's going to blow me. Like, Mary Boy, like. But I'm saying like, because at that point, do you just want to break up? That's my problem. I'm going to like, okay, so you just don't want to. be at this point. Like, that's what I'm going to look at it because it's like, what you, what?

Like, I can understand, like, a day or two. I can understand a weekend. I can understand that. But God damn, you need a where we be for three weeks. That means that you might be reevaluating this whole relationship. And I need to know what's up right now so I can get my mind prepared. If you're saying that you need space, you're pretty much about the break up. Yeah, that's what I can feel.

Yeah, because I remember, you know, in my marriage, uh, she said, you know, maybe we should live apart. See what that looks like. Yeah, that looks like we're not together, honey. Let's see what that looks like. And that was an indicator of like, yes, probably over or going to be over. And women try to put it to where it's like, let's see if, you know, our time apart grows us back stronger.

Yeah. You know, it can go one or either way, though. But it usually doesn't, though. I'm going to keep it real. Because even me, I've done that. I haven't been married, but I've lived. with somebody and I literally was like I think we should live apart and just see

what that looks like and that looks like us breaking up. That looked like he moved. It was very hard for him to want to move. He didn't move on at all. He moved and he was trying to get it and I was just like I'm not feeling it and as soon as he moved

like I was sad and everything but I just felt like I needed you gone like and then now that you're gone I feel refreshed I'm sad but I'm now Like as a woman, if you're going to move from a man, you're done. There's nothing else. Like if you're going to take the work to be like, you have to move and we're going to move.

You're done because you're going backwards. Women, their ultimate goal is to live with somebody, have a family, be married, be united. If I'm saying move out, we're taking steps backwards. Where we go from there? I'm confused. Like, you just moved out. You got your own space. you're not about to just break a lease and do all this,

you're going to have your own space now. Are we not? This is what I'm saying, because then you see, I think it could go one or two ways. Like you said, like you break the space, but then maybe breaking the space

helps you see the value that that person brought. Yeah, but I think that happens for men more than a woman. I think if women do that, they're checked out. Women are not going to do that. But like, like,

women don't understand the man's value and vice versa. You know, men don't understand a woman's value sometimes because when you get used to each other being around, you take it for granted. Yeah, I agree with that. And so now the space creates like, damn,

I miss at night laying with her. I miss waking up, having some breakfast. I miss when I came home, it was watching our shows. And it was just like you start seeing, like it can turn into that to where you can say, oh damn you know what it's best that we be together because I'm sad right now yeah I get that

you know but that's moving out of sadness like I when I my ex moved out I missed him I miss Friday night our routine of hitting it vibing cooking eating what are we're gonna eat going here watching movies watching our shows cuddling I missed all of that but it wasn't strong enough for me to be like we're gonna get back together because it doesn't make sense I would never want you to move out if I wanted to get back together with you like at that point a woman has made up in her mind, I'm done, and now I have to get the strength to move on. So when I miss you, I'm going to call my home girl.

When I miss you, I'm going to cry. I'm going to watch a movie. I'm going to talk on the phone to my home girl all night. I'm going to go somewhere. Like, that's what we're doing at that point. We're like trying to figure shit out on how to move on. Did you break up with all your boyfriends? Yeah, I did.

Oh. But it's just because men, like, they'll cheat and they'll do all type of shit just to get you to break up with them. So, like, how many relationships would you say you've been in? I've been in three, serious relationships. And all of them cheated? Yeah, I think, well, I'm not going to say all of them.

One of them, I don't know if he cheated or not. So why did y'all break up? Because we just couldn't get it right. Like it was just too much arguments and this and that. Like it was basically like I never caught him cheating for real. I don't know if he cheated or not, but it was just like negative energy. Like it was just not right. Like, you know, he was doing weird shit.

I don't know. Well, how did you all break up? I broke up with them. You just said, I don't want to be with you because. No, like, I have been, I'm not easy to give up on somebody. Like, I'll fight and be like, okay, we need to do this. Maybe we get therapy. Maybe we could figure it out.

And we fought, like, and it was just, like, not working. It was like, I'm tired. I'm tired. Like, I don't want to. Just drained you? Yeah, I'm just drained. I can't just be with someone who's like, it's like other things other than cheating. Like, for instance, like bringing me down, dimming my life, saying a little

slick shit being a hater like you don't want me to be cracking because you're in like you feel intimidated you feel this like all of this stuff and it's like I don't like that like I don't feel like you want to see me win and like you don't want to see me at my best you want to see me like sad and down and like you want to bring me down you want to say slick shit about me I don't like so it was verbal abuse yeah I was like verbal stuff and it was like just really mean behaviors and like very like just I don't know I didn't like all of it and I just felt like it was just always something and I'm like I don't I don't like to fight like that like I don't like to just be fighting every day like I'm drained off of that like I'm not gonna live like that period you know what I mean so if I'm if we're not like I look at things like this if you're in a relationship just like a business or anything else you should assess it and be like am I better because of this or is this making me worse like am I down bad feeling bad about myself not doing this not doing that because of this relationship or is it like making me flourish we're we're vibing we're winning together like what is it giving you know what i mean and i just think that when it's not giving that and i

think sometimes men they don't want to let go too and so like sometimes as a woman you have to force that hand and be like look this is not good for neither of us low key like you're not happy either you just don't want to like do it you know what i mean you're not happy a lot of times when a woman is done a man is really not happy he's just not like and you're just not like and you're you feel that and you're like not going to do it as a man so I'm going to do it and it's going to hurt for both of us but it's going to be better for us in the long run but all right so this is what I say yes the man usually when a woman breaks up the man's not happy either yeah but the man can deal with not being happy for a year and come back yeah but a woman like this is the deal

about relationships and what we have to understand that all long-term relationships It's just like the economy. You have good years and bad years. Yeah, I agree with that. You know, everything ain't going to be always good. I agree with that. The people who together 20, 25 years, you think it was all smooth sailing. No, I agree.

No, you're going to, like, it's just like riding in the ocean in your boat. Like, you're going to, it ain't going to be calm water all the time. It ain't going to be sunny days every day. You're going to go through rainstorm waves. Boat might flip over. Damn. Yeah. Can we get this thing back afloat?

But sometimes there's too much damage that's been done and it's just too far gone. You can't come back from that. And as a woman, see, what men don't understand is when women get cheated on, disrespected, lied to, they start to lose respect for that person and it chips away at them

and they can't get that back. I can't look at you the same. You know what I'm happy for it right now? Yes. And I was just in the gym with, I'm happy for Matt Barnes. Yeah, congrats. And I told them congratulations

on reconciling and getting married. You know, they have a couple beautiful kids. And I thought that was a beautiful thing, you know, and I can see the change in him, you know. And I'm so happy for him. So I want to say congratulations to Matt. I had a chance to talk to him because we was working out the other day. And I think that's a beautiful thing.

And, you know, he's been through some things. And so love is strong. you know obviously you know they had their issues it was all in the public but they was able to work it out and get married so you can figure stuff out you know what I'm saying you can get married you could do that but you just have to you have to see because as women we can figure stuff out because we want certain things but then we can't let go of that shit for real and it's going to chip away you have to you have to if you're going to stay with a man but they don't women don't do that.

Don't let you know right now. You could be like, okay, you want to marry me. I'm going to get married. I'm not speaking to their situation. I'm just saying as a woman, okay, you cheated on me this many times. Okay, now you want to work it out. I'm sad. I miss you.

I want to feel that feeling again. So, okay, I'll be with you. But every time you go out, I'm stressed the fuck out. You think all men cheat? I think a lot of men cheat. I can't say, oh, man, no. Because I don't know if this is true or not. But my mom and dad swear that my mom and dad swear that my,

My dad never cheated on my mom. And my mom is crazy, and she will find out and she'd be on shit. So he must be a cold. But they're old. That's old love. Yeah, so I don't know. Like, my dad was that example for me.

So how long they've been married? For 50 years. Damn, so your dad only has sex for one lady for 50 years? Supposedly, I don't know. Do you believe that? I don't know because I believe it only because I don't. No, but that's true love, though, if it's like that. Nah, I just think that.

No, so no? I'm just saying I will. will say that my mom, she's crazy. She'll say anything and she'll tell me like, your dad is like she's crazy. So if he was cheating, like she's not the type of mom that I didn't cover it up. I watched the movie.

That idea, I understood. So did you see that one movie? I forgot the name of that movie where dude was trying to explain to his daughters about him and his wife divorce. And they was like, you know, girls, let me ask you something. If I got you like a Barbie or a card and I said, here, this is yours.

You only can have this one. Barbie. That's crazy to tell your kids. You can't play with no other Barbie. That's wild. Do I believe... For the rest of your life, would you want to do that? This is what I'm saying.

Would I believe that if I'm with a man, let's say I get with a man and we get married and we're together for the rest of our lives. Do I genuinely believe that that man would never do nothing for the rest of our lives? No, I do not believe that. I hope that he wouldn't. I pray that he wouldn't.

And I especially hope that he wouldn't if I was pregnant or feeling crazy about myself. Like, that will fuck me up. And I hope that if he ever did, he did it in a respectful way to where I never found out nothing. It was a one-time situation. It just happened. It was a slip up whatever. Damn near pay somebody.

Whatever. Like, but never talks this bitch again. But I will pray that that's how it was done or it wasn't done at all. And, you know, I just, I don't want to deal with that because as a woman, it's like all that cheating and stressing out. like, I'm too, I'm older now. I don't want to deal with none of that shit. Like, if you're sloppy enough to where I'm finding out,

because I'm not going to go looking for nothing. If you're sloppy enough to the things are coming to me. Do you ever want to your man phone? Yeah, I have. And I'll never do it again. How are you going to say I'm never going to look for nothing? Because I did that when I was young and I will never do that again. I learned my lesson.

My stomach was in my asshole and I was sick into my stomach. What did you see? What did you see? What did you see? Tell us, there ain't one thing you saw. I don't care I've seen all type of shit So you looked at him like the constant angel

And then you got the phone The guy that I was with to at the time Oh my God I had him on a pedestal I thought he would net Literally I don't think that man will never He's taking your earrings off right now No they fell off they fell off The type of man that he was

I really thought like wow What did you see on the phone? I seen a woman with lipstick Write his name on her tities like this sending. It was a video? Yeah, I seen videos. That's not cheating.

Excuse me? That's cheating. In the text message, in the text message and he replied. What do you say? Yeah, some shit, honey. Like, what do you mean? He was replying and he's saying shit.

What did he say? Because if a girl says a guy a flick, is that cheating? No, but it just depends on what your response is. Like if it's an old, a bra that's just sending... What did you see that you was like your stomach went to your ass?

Like you said. Yeah. That wasn't it. Not that. That ain't it. You must have saw like a whole situation. Yeah, I saw a lot. I saw a lot.

I saw him cheating. You saw him like... Pulling up. Pulling up. Running it up. No, having sex with another girl? I seen that. Yeah.

He was on the video? A video of him getting head. Yeah. That's cheating. What are you talking about? Is that cheating? Like, no, I'm playing with you. Like, you're blowing me right now.

I'm so confused. That's definitely cheap. Yeah, I've seen all type of stuff in the text message. And I also seen what I don't like is a man that's complaining about your relationship with me. Like, because we were together for a minute. And so you're in the text. Like, your game was to vent to another woman about my relationship. Like, this is so disrespectful.

Like, I don't like shit like that. Like, that's where I draw the line. Like, you're so corny and weird that you have to talk to me about me to these women. and they're thirsty to want to know my business, and you're over here telling them my business so you can get some... Some action. Some action?

Like, this is crazy to me. And once I see that, I'm cool. So you see the phone, you find out, did you tell them that night or that day? You went right to it, or you didn't react it right to it. I react immediately. If you see, one thing about me is you see what you get. I'm not going to...

You ain't going to hold it in. Now I will. Now I do. You hold it? Oh, now I will... Why would you hold it? Because I will hold it because I just, I have to think about it. Like, oh, this is crazy.

Am I going to leave him? Okay. Like, I have to prepare my thing. Like, I will prepare my exit route. Like, oh, I'm cool. Let me see if I'm going to leave him. If I'm going to stay with him, then I need to approach it differently. So you catch him cheating and you hold it.

Like, and he wants to have sex that night. That's going to be difficult, right? Yeah, it's going to be difficult. See, I'm hard. The thing is, is like, I'm. I am super reactive in general, and like my sister always tells me, like, you got it. Because, like, I'll find something out. And I'm like, this is crazy.

And I'm losing it. Like, yo, what, like, are you kidding me? Like, you're da-da-da-da-da. Like, I'll lose it. But now it's like, I've got it better at just being like, I'm a peep it. I'm a peep it. Cool. And if I'm not, like, I'll peep it.

Like, I'll peep it. I'll really peep stuff now. And I know stuff. I got some information on this girl. I like. What information do you have? I just got some information. I'm holding it right now.

Yeah, see, and that's what I don't like either. So I get that to where it's crazy to hold it because I don't feel like it's fair for the other person. But I also feel like at the same time, if it's not something that you're going to leave the person for, you have to approach it in a different way. Like I don't feel like, because like me, if I'm reactive and I react, like, I might really react

and just be like, I'm cool, like, and just do some shit. Like, where I's like, I'm done, I'm cool. on you and be so angry and upset and hurt that I'll lose it on somebody. So I'd rather just, if I'm not going to leave you for that, I'm going to hold it and I'm just going to peep it. Like, because it's like, if I'm not going to leave somebody, then why am I holding on to that? I mean, why am I bringing it up in a rash crazy way?

Like, I need to hold it and then be like, yo, so what's up with this situation? Like, why? This is the more or less segment brought to you by price picks where you can win real cash by picking just more or less on your favorite players. Use code TAD and get $50 in lineups when you play your first $5. So today for our segment, I'm going to ask you a few questions

and you're going to let me know, okay? Okay. Are you ready? Yeah. What do men need to do more of, I mean, excuse me, what do women need to do more of for men to take them seriously?

What do me, hold accountability, duh. That's duh. Duh, that's a duh to me. Okay. Hold accountability. Like, men don't always, why are we always wrong? Why can't we ever win an argument? Why can't, like, like, everything is like we bow down to everything.

Okay. I swear, like, women never like to admit when it's they for or when they're wrong. You've never seen a woman take accountability before. I'm just saying in general, for the most part. women don't. And then it's just bad attitude, quiet, don't want to say nothing and then

don't even have, don't even, won't even apologize when they really find out they wrong. Just try to let it go by. That's the worst. Okay. It'll make things so much easier if women just held accountability or more, more accountability and like apologize a little more

when they're wrong. Okay. What makes you feel like you're being chosen and not just wanted. Like I'm actually choosing this person. I just don't want them for all the stuff that they have. You're talking about me? Like men.

You, man, anyone. Well, actually, say that a question again. What do you think makes men feel like they're actually being chosen and not just, like, wanted for their material items? If you broke? No, but what if you're not? Then it's nothing. It's nothing that a woman can do to make you feel.

like, wow, she actually wants me and not for the things that I have. Nothing. Wow, that's crazy to me. That's blowing me. Yeah, there's nothing. What do men need to do more of for women to feel secure?

What do men need to do more of to make women feel secure? Yeah. Stay home every day and don't do nothing with their boys. That's so petty and just ridiculous. with this girl 20 times. The one time he go out with this boy,

where y'all going? Who are you going? Who you with? What time you come? Yeah. So we don't do none of that. That's the only way y'all gonna feel secure. That's totally not true.

And that's sad that that's your assessment of that. That is true. I know a lot of men, we talk about this. Yeah, but I've been in relationships where my male will go out. I know what I'm saying. You're saying that women are like this,

but it's like there's a lot of women. You asked about men, didn't you? I asked about what men need to do more of. Yeah. So how can you tell? tell me about what men need to do more. Just like you told me what women need to do more right now about being accountable, I'm doing the same thing that you just did one minute ago.

So what do men need to do more? Am I a woman? I would know what a man needs to do to make me feel secure as a woman. Like, what is the man? All right. Just like you told me what women need to do to make a man feel. Because this is about me right. Accountability.

No, we just flipped it. What do a woman need to do to make a man feel? What do a man need to do and make a woman feel good and comfortable? I think for just like open communication, it's like reassurance. You know, I think those things go a long way. Just like communicating. Like, I feel like with men, it's like letting a woman know like, hey, da-da-da-da. Like just like a man wants to know, like what his girl is on.

Like a woman. Like you said, what he own? But if he don't go nowhere, he don't do nothing and he's on every day, what's the time? I don't think that that's sustainable. And I don't think that that's. realistic. I think I would, I don't personally want to be with a man who doesn't do nothing. Like, you should be able to go out with your homeboys. Just like I'm going to go out with my home girls sometime. I'm going to go out with my own home girls. I'm a kick it. I think that

having a balance within the relationship where it's, it's, you just being y'all, listen, trust is built in moments where you don't see your partner. You can't always have, If I'm showing you everything and doing everything, that's not real trust. That's not real trust. That's controlling. That's micromanaging. Trust is built when I don't see you when you're out with your homeboys and you come home at whatever time and I know and trust that you were just doing what you were doing.

Trust is that. Trust is when you're out with your homeboys and the person is not blowing you up because they actually trust you. And you come home and it's cool. Like you can't micromanaging someone isn't real trust. trying to make sure your man is never around women and this and that is not real trust that's false that's just doing weird stuff like at the end of the day real trust is built when you can't stand in the house every day that's just ridiculous i don't know what you're talking about like to me

that sounds crazy anyways i think that real trust is so you think that you can have a relationship but never go anywhere you're never going to go out with any of your home boys and do nothing ever again. You're talking about me? Just, yeah, anyone. Is that sustainable for you as a man? What was the question? What's the original question?

What the original question is, what do men need to do more of for women to feel secure? All right, that was my answer. So I'm asking you. But men ain't going to do that. But I'm just saying that's what they need to. So give a realistic answer.

So what do men need to do more of to have your girl or your husband or wife feel secure? Secure. Yeah, in the relationship. Probably like, give her some money. Okay, you just being extra tonight. That's for real.

That doesn't create, like... I don't see the situation. I don't feel secure. He gave her two mill. She felt secure. She felt secure. I mean, it's the truth. Okay.

Damn, we know that. Well, thank you to our... Women feel secure on what men can do for them. And that's just it. And men feel secure based on, like, you just be in there. That's it. Through bullshit. So you know both the answers on how women feel secure and men feel secure.

I got all the answers. Okay. Anyway, thank you to our good friends at Price Fix. America's number one sports pick app. Use code TAD and get $50 in lineups when you play your first $5. If you can go out on one date with anyone in the world, who would it be? Like, who's your crush? I don't have crushes.

I'm dead-ass serious. I don't have a crush. People have asked this. I don't have a crush. I do not have a crush because I feel like if I have a crush, I'm dealing with you. I'm seeing what's up. I don't have a crush. I feel there's a lack of crushes in the world today.

Back in the day, it was easier. It was easy to have a crush. Who was my crush? No, no, no. But the thing is, it was so much. many like top tier celebrities. Like who was the top tier celebrities?

It was easy back in the day because you was like all right, Janet Jackson, Beyonce J-Lo. Now it's like who is the top tier? It's influencers. Like who is it? Like who is that top tier it girl? Because in all the eras, like remember it was Holly Berry. It was

what's the girl that was with Mike Tyson? Damn, I forgot her name. What's her name? You know, Vivica Fox was the It Girl, you know, it was a lot of it girls but like, who's the It Girl today? Well, we already know who your crush is, Ruby Rose.

That's your it. That's your only fans models is your crushes. That's crazy. That's what you be on. I personally feel like... I said, did I say that? Yeah, you did. You said that on it.

You tweeted it to her. My thing is, is I feel like thirsty. So me... Thirsty. That was thirsty. I personally. like can't really say like I wouldn't even want to say that I have a crush because that would be crazy girl and guy today because remember the guys was like Morris chestnut and

yeah yeah yeah and Denzel and like who's the it guys and the it girls today like who is Ruby Rose Cardi B so is it Cardi B lotto it's a rapper girls now I guess I don't know who else like sexy red and bag in the stallion and all do yeah I guess because before it was the actresses and with the men I wouldn't even know who the men Men are. Who the, men is? Who's the new Morris Chestnut? Who's the new...

Like, I know, like, Coffey. Coffey, what's his last name? The dude from Tiger? From... Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know if he's from... No, his name is like, Kofi something.

He's a dark-skinned actor, and the women beyond him. Like, he's just Elba. Like, who is that now? The young... Yeah, Coffey. He's one. He's one for show.

Where? He's an actor. Oh, is that big strong, motherfucker? No, he's not even strong. He's just very handsome. He's one, for sure. he's one. And then like, I don't know

who else, honestly. I can't think of nobody else besides him. I know they, oh, Aaron Pierre, which is Tiana Taylor's ex. People think he's so handsome. Michael B. Jordan, because people are Cecil Michael B. I don't find them attractive. That's not my type. But Michael B. Jordan, Aaron

Pierre, they're too like skin for me. And you know who else? Who's another actor? Damn, it was one more guy. I can't think of him. But those are the ones. What about the ladies, though? That's the Lion King one.

Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I know. But who's the ladies right now? Cardi. Lotto. So it's the rapper lady. It ain't no actresses. That's like the it girl.

Maybe the girl from sinners. Haley Steinfield. Is that her name? No, nobody from sinners is the it girl. Well, she's pretty. I'm talking about the level of Ali Berry, Beyonce, like what people was talking about, that's who, you know,

who was singing Janet Jackson. You know what I'm saying? That level. I know what you're saying, but I can't think of anyone who's really fine like that. Who's bad like that in the movies, music like that, everybody like,

damn, that's not, you know, in their 40s now or 50s. Who's a young, hot girl? It's someone.

It's someone. We're missing that right now. No, it's women. It's just some influencer, only fans girl now. That's what you're into. I'm not into that.

I don't have an only fan. I've never seen. seen one only fans video in my life. You were saying, Ruby Rose is your crush. So I'm thinking. I was just going off her Instagram. Yeah, that's what you like.

That's cool. You know what I'm saying? That's what you like. I'm trying to think of like who is the actors, actresses. And I can't think of the actresses right now. I can't think of the actresses. You know bad ass actresses right now?

Damn. No, there is. We just can't think of them. Man, I need y'all to name some of them actresses. So. there's definitely actresses I just can't think of them right now anyways we've been so far left

right now is Aldana no she's in her 40s as well yeah she older huh yeah she's not so it was like Jada oh Zendaya Zendaya she's super young though she's in her 20s but Zendaya um is one

for show um damn I can't think of anybody else but there are them they are out there We just are not thinking of it right now. They're out there. There's so beautiful women out there.

So, I'm saying. We talk about we live in the baddest era of mankind of where it's the most beautiful women ever right now. Why there's no. Who says that though? Everybody says that. I mean, everything gets better over time. It doesn't matter. Yeah, it's true.

Better athletes, better looking. Everything overall is better. So who is the lady right now that's on the level when we, when I talk about this one? Well, I'm going to be honest. I don't think that that's true because I think the 90s when them women was naturally beautiful and glowing and this and Regina King Hall and Nia Long and all them women that were just mastery?

Who is the baddest black girl on the planet right now? I don't know. Who would you guess? I don't know. Is it Meg Dostalia? I don't think so, no. She's up there. Is she?

But the baddest black girl, pure black girl in the planet? Pure black, okay. Yeah. Who's that girl right now? Man, who is it? Okay, we got to move on because we're not going to just sit here. We didn't win way off the cars, huh?

Yeah, okay, so back to we were talking about life. All right, in the comments, who y'all think is the baddest black girl? Let me see what y'all think. We're going to see who. Okay, so Charlemagne the God was on Angie Martinez. Is that her name? Angie Martinez, she's still on the radio? She has a podcast.

Oh, she did? Angie Martinez was popping back in the day. She's still popular. Yeah. So anyways. I like to Angie. I used to listen to her. Okay.

Okay, go ahead. I'll run her. I'll run her rugged, honey. Charlemagne the God says that once he started doing right by the woman he loves, his life leveled up. And he also rejects the idea of he's like, I hate what men be like, I keep real my homies, but I lie to my woman. He was like, that's so fake to me and I don't mess with that. And he was like, you know, when I started deciding to do right by my woman, and my girl, he was like, my life changed drastically.

Like, actually being a good man, which is something that I, he said he never really did, like, where he was like really solid, not cheating, pouring in, this and that. He said his life became so much better. Have you, do you agree with that or do you even know how that goes? I can see where he'd go on because if you just, because it's, because I think when you allow yourself to lock into your woman, you lock into everything else. You know, your work, your goals. Because then you off all the other bullshit distractions,

hanging with the homies, going to the club, doing bullshit. I'm locked in with her, and now I'm just lock in here and I'm going to lock in on my career or what, you know, something that's driving me. And it's going to allow me to focus on that. But when I'm not locked in with her and I'm over here and I'm going in too many directions. It's a clear path

when you lock in with somebody, I truly believe. You know, all great men have great women with them. You know what I'm saying? And I believe that. You know, so. What about the idea of keeping it real with your homies but lying to your girl?

He said that's corny and that's fake to him. Like, oh, I keep it real with my boys but I go home and lie to my girl. And he said he don't rock with that. And he thinks that's fake. Well, what do you got a lot of your homie? about. What do you have to lie to your woman about if you're doing right by her?

What are the things you need to lie about? Like, this is crazy. I don't want to move anywhere that feels like you have to lie a bunch of things to be. No, no, no. I'll tell you why. Like, I got friends that are married that they girl don't like them smoking weed. So he'll go smoke some weed, boom, boom, boom, and she'd be like what you're doing. I was just, you know, whatever.

What's another example? That's an example, though. What's another example? What's another example? You said a lot of things. So give me another thing. So he has to lie just to keep the peace. He don't want to argue because he go through so much stress.

He had to, you know, smoke a joint. I'm talking about what's another thing? Give me another example. So a lot of things is like, why is he late? I was late because my dog or some shit. You know, y'all like us to be on times. You know, a baby, I was late. My car flat, flat.

Flat. So you lie about a whole flat tire and you can't just say I was running behind? I mean, it's a lot of, it's little. things, but you do it just so you can keep the peace. And it's like, you know, damn, you know you messed up with being late. You know you messed up by maybe, you know, and it's not about always cheating and being with another girl or talking to females. It's like little stuff that men are lie about so he don't have a little-ass argument

that don't really mean nothing. Yeah. Like, you know what I'm saying? It's like, I'm trying to save both of us time pretty much. That's why I lied. Like, I'm really saving us time. I don't love it. You don't love it, but it's like, damn, the homies was over here

longer than I expected, babe, I'm late. Like, he don't want to tell, oh, so the homies, so when you know that she don't like certain homies, he'll tell you I was with what's the name instead of what's his name. You know what I'm saying? So that's like little. And then someone sends you out what's the name? And then it was a whole lie.

And then now you're fighting over a lie. I don't want to come home and argue with it. And it's not a big deal. So you rather ask. Ask for forgiveness instead of permission. Because permission allows argument at the time. You know, it does. So you're okay with your girl, like you don't like someone.

I'll argue after, not before. So, yeah, so okay, forgiveness and not permission. Yeah, before arguments is just like going to ruin my night. So you're okay with the girl being like, yeah, I went out with this person but was really out with another person. That's cool. Like you respect that because you know she's just trying to avoid a. lie. Yeah, because if I tell you, I don't like you fucking with her, and

you go out and you say, you with another girl, it's going to be an argument. Like, why you miss your way? Or I went out with my homeboy, but I said I was with my home girl. That's cool. You know what I'm talking about. No. There's lies. Do I know the homie? I don't know.

Well, that's cheating. That's not cheating. That's lying and cheating. No, it's a homeboy friend. No, that's lying. Now you're lying and cheating. Now, if I'm just What if your girl has a homeboy? How can she have a homeboy? I'm her homeboy.

Exactly. Like, are you cool of your home girl? Your girl has a homeboy and they're like, oh, babe, I'm going to dinner with a homeboy. Just me and him. Drinks, dinner, clubs, no. Why are you going to dinner? With him? Right.

That's blowing me as well. Like, no one in a relationship, like, I'm not going for that. You know, girls be having their gay boyfriend. Yeah. Yeah, I have a gay friend. Yeah, that they like to hang out with them. I'm cool with that. You can go hang out.

Yeah. Gay is different. We're not talking about gay. Gay means he don't want you, honey. We're not talking about gay. That's like the home girl. Yeah. Yeah, I'm cool with that.

Anyways, okay, so that's what we're asking. We know you're cool with a gay guy. Go ahead, girl. Blow on me. So this is something that I want to talk about. So Blueface, which is just a lot. We need to get Blueface on the show. Hey, Blueface.

Hey. Tell Wack to line it up Hey Wack, we need Blue Face on here We need the holladog So let me tell you what he recently said So Blue Face was on Shannon Sharp And he said that basically his mother Which I've seen

His mother Like every time he has a girl He said no matter what It could be his girl It could be just a chick coming around Whoever it is His mom will be like You're not going to be around for longer

You're gonna be sabotaged it He don't even want you for real He don't want you And he says that it reminds him of a woman that likes him. And he tweeted, he was like, tweeted one time, he was like, mom, you are some weird stuff like, you acting like you want me or something. And so she went on live and was like, and y'all stopped saying I want my son. I have a man and his is way bigger than my son's. She said that on live. She was like, yeah, and his is way

bigger than my son's way bigger than blue face. As a mom, that's crazy as hell. Like, why would you talk about your son's size of his situation and then compare it to your man's. And that's the reason you don't want him. Not because it's your son, not because anything. Because this man has a bigger thing than your son. So that's why I don't want him. I already have a man and it's way bigger than my sons.

And Blueface has said, it's weird. He's like, I don't know. It's weird. Like, she reminds me of a woman who would be wanting me. Like, that's how women act when they want you. they put down other women and they say all of this and that. I just look at it as like a mom who's protective of her son. So you talk about your son's teeth?

No, it's just like, dog, we live in the world. And when you look at blueface's dynamic with the reality, with the podcast and, you know, his whole situation, it's built on drama. It's built on, you know what I'm saying? So, you know, we tune in and he's interested. entertaining and, you know, he's been through a lot and he's documented it all. So, you know, his life is well documented where everybody's not documented in their life like

that. So what does that have to do with your mom? No, but like, yeah, it's going to be some things that said that's given shock value. And, you know, Blueface is about shock value. And that's why we tune in. I don't tune into that. I mean, you, you, I didn't hear that. You did.

Because I have to research. I'm a whole producer. a whole producer. I have to research topics. I don't tune in to him. At the end of the day, what I will say is like, I think that there are some mothers that they don't have a man and they make their son like their second man or whatever. And I feel like that's super unclear. Not like that. It's just that like, oh, my king. Oh, my king, my this. Like, that's weird to me. I don't care what no one says. Like you're doing too much and you're putting the responsibility and the weight on your son to show up like a man. And I have people.

I know people who do that. And I am close to people where their sons have said, like, my mom being doing too much. Like, that's not your king. He's not like, that's not. Like, that's weird to me. And you are replacing, like, you want that man figure and you want your son to show up in that way because you don't have a man. And I just think that that's super uncomfortable for the son. I think it's weird.

And I think a lot of women do that. A woman will love her son more than any other man. Right. I understand that. But you got to understand because now she had a man before. But her son is something different because I lived it. I lived it. I see how my mom was with me.

Yeah. You know, like my mom, like I was the world, you know, having a boy, like having your boy after you go through it with another man, it's like having a boy that can do no wrong. Yeah. It's something like you have a man that does wrong, but then you have another man that can do no wrong in your eyes. Yeah, but you got to understand too, like,

and I'm not saying this is your experience, but I'm saying, like, women, you enable your son at that point. Like, a lot of these young boys are getting raised in a way where they lack masculinity. They don't know how to do little small fucking shit. And at the end of the day, they're very, like, I watch this, like, they're very, like, coddled, like, because you want to just keep them under your thing

the whole time. It's like, you got to let a man have men. figures in their lives. Men need men figures and they need to be able to like grow and flourish. And I think that that concept is just weighs too heavy on a son. You know what I mean? And I think that that's just weird

to me. And anyone, any, like, you shouldn't be talking about your son's situation. That's out of pocket. Period. Point blank. Anyways, so moving on. Selina Powell, I don't even know why men mess with her at this point because you know she's going to blast you.

It's like Karen Steffens. Like she's known to blast people and tell your whole business. So why are you still laying up with her? It must be just hidden or something. Because the way that they still keep messing with this girl, knowing she's going to videotape you, blast your whole situation. She must got some fire. That's what I'm thinking.

It has to be. It has to be. Because why else? Because cats keep going. You can't keep going. They keep falling for it. Yeah, you keep following. So I don't know.

It must be busing. or something because it's like, why are you stood? Like you robbed G Herbo and he, she's talked about it. He's talked about it like it's a known thing. You don't blasts Snoop Dog. You don't blasted everybody. You blasted everybody's shit and people are still messing with her. What is it that's giving?

I think that it's just giving like a convenient chick that's ready to go and ready to do all the nasty, crazy things that you ever wanted to do. I don't know. You can just, that's not, she's not the only one in that category. Yeah, she's not. So it must just be something because why do you keep going back to that, knowing she's going to videotape you and blast you on every podcast she's going on? The only reason why she's on podcast is to talk about all her sex capades

and every man she dealt with that was married or had a girl. And this is what I will say. And I don't care about nothing. Any woman, and I really stand on this, who messes with a man who's married or knowingly in a public or known relationship has low self-esteem and low self-respect. And I personally do not respect you as a person. Like, I just really mean that from the bottom of my heart. And it's not even because of like my situations or anything. Like, I believe the man is responsible for being loyal to you. But I believe

that a woman who knowingly does that doesn't have a moral compass and doesn't have standards or believes in what's right or wrong. You'll do anything. You have bad character and you're super raggedy to me. And I know women like that. And I know women who will smile. on your face and want to be friends with you just so they can get up on the person that you with. And honestly, women like that are so low budget raggedy and burnt out to me. Like, I know the game. I'm cut from a different cloth.

You can never fool me, baby. I'm not the one or the two. And a woman who doesn't feel the need to be a prioritized or be the man. You're not the one or the two? I'm not the one. I mean, I'm not the two. I'm never the, you know what I'm saying. I know what you said, but I don't want you to give you a chance to correct it.

But at the end of the day. You're not the one. Or the two? Yeah, I'm not the one or the two to play with. Yeah. Don't play with me. Yeah, I'm not the one or the two to play with. Don't play with me or play in my face because I'm never the one.

Like, period. But anyways, I say that I say, like, I just wish women, if women had higher standards and self-respect, like, I just, I don't respect women who do that. I just don't. And if I find out you do that, I just look at you, like, bottom on the barrel. Like, you're just like, bottom of the barrel to me. Don't come around because I have sisters, five sisters that are married, my parents are married.

Like anyone who's willing to do that is just so just like burnt out to me. And you don't have a moral compass. Like you don't believe in nothing at that point. Period. You know what I love about you that you stand on business. Okay. You represent like I really truly believe that you represent a voice for women that have standards. You represent a voice for women that don't need.

all this extra shit to get by like you're natural and you love yourself you like you like you you represent a dynamic of women that's original. Oh thank you that's so sweet. Like you didn't like I know people don't if they go to your page you know it's very like it's it's it's very classy. like you'll show prettiness and womanness

but you don't go overboard. Thank you. And I love the fact that you do that like, you know, how tall are you? I'm five, six. Let me see, stand that real quick. No, don't. Who not play with me.

Damn, I always got it. You know what somebody I am done with you. I am done. I am done. No. No, you're so trifling. Why would you try to pick me up to let me down?

I'm like five, six and a half. Stand up, though. No, I'm not standing up. And you know what's funny? So people have been posting on Instagram. It's like this viral thing where like people will post on Instagram, right? Like it was like a stud girl. And someone posts on Instagram like how many likes do we have to get and who has to comment for you to dress up as a woman, like woman, woman?

And she was like, Tyra Banks has to comment and it has to be 100,000 likes. And then Tyra Banks commented and it's 100. And it's like, it's viral. So like another mom was like, how many likes to have to get for you to do this? And she's like, Marvel has to comment. And then so everyone in the comments like, y'all need to do, y'all need to do that. How many likes you need to get to get a 360 Vince Carter dunk? I need to get 150,000 likes.

Okay. And who has to comment? Damn, that's a hard one. I don't know. Someone impossible. It has to be someone like impossible. It's impossible. Don't do that. No, because that's what they're doing.

They're making it impossible. Like, Marvel and Marvel commented. It was like, yeah, the girl was like with a mom. And she was like, if we get this likes, we get a dog. All right, get 150,000 likes and 50 to comment. And 50 cent to comment. Yeah. That's impossible.

Okay, I'm cool with that. And you'll give us the Vince Carter. I'll give us the Vince Carter. All right, a 50, 50,000. 150,000 likes and 50 to comment. Then, yes, I will give the 360 Vince Carter, period. Oh, my God. That's not happening, honey.

Okay, so one, we'll get into one last thing before we wrap up. You know the girl Sadia Khan. No, I don't know who Sadia Khan. Okay, so you do know who she is. She's like an Armenian-looking girl, but she was like, she always talks about, like, women being motivational and, like, being good women and not cheating and not lying, and then she got caught up cheating with the married man,

and they were blasting her. That lady, that was talking about. That was talking about it. Then she was on recorded that she was. she was recorded, begging, doing weird stuff, right? What about her? So she was on Nick Cannon show recently. She was?

Yes. And she explained why she feels like black men dates outside of the race. And she says that she feels like black men date outside of the race because they're the only man that sought after by every race. Like black men are the most desirable man. So every race wants them. So they have the option of every race. And she's like, Asians don't have the option of every race. race wanting them, this other race,

like, you know, the other cultures, white men are not like, oh, everybody wants white man. Like, I personally would not date a white man. You know what I'm saying? So it's like people, they're saying that like black men, most women want them.

But I'm going to say this one thing because my home girl just told me this today. My home girl's like, her best friend is white, right? And she was like, it's so crazy because my best friend is white and she'll have sex with black men all the time. And she'll tell me, she said one time she literally said,

I mean, I would never take a black man serious. I don't would never date a black man. I just have sex with them. That's what black man feels, some black men feel about white girls. That's what I'm saying. So that's what white, a lot of people do that.

And then what ends up happening is you end up caught up with a, the reason I'm so passionate about this, because I'm mixed, right? And I come from a mixed culture background. And I, a lot of women will date black men. will date black men that are not black. I mean, they're not black.

They'll date black men. They'll have kids with black men, but they won't really accept their culture. They won't accept their child. They won't learn how to do their hair. They won't learn how to teach your child about her blackness. They won't learn about the culture. And that's very damaging for a lot of mixed kids.

They have a lot of identity crisis issues because they're like, I don't know how to be a black girl. I don't know how to be this. And a lot of women are like that. They'll date black man, but they are racist. They don't even like black people. They don't like the family. They don't get along with none of his sisters, none of his family, none of the people in there.

They barely like their own kids. They don't want to like figure out how to do their hair, nothing. Like, and that's a big issue with a lot of mixed people, period point blank. And I think that if you're going to lay up with a black man and have a black child, you need to learn and be responsible enough to understand that you have a black child, especially if your mother is the one that's not black. because as a young black girl, even though I'm mixed, you need to learn certain stuff about being black.

Period point blank. I don't know about that. I'm sick of you. This man says, I don't know about that. No, but I'm saying, do I got to learn how it is in other cultures if I get into other cultures? If we're not living out there, we're in America. As long as you understand what American culture is about this matter.

So you don't believe that black is a different experience for people, You don't believe that black is... So I'm asking, like, if I got a white lady and we have a kid and our kid need to get their hair braided, I expect her to learn how to braid her hair. You don't have to learn how to braid her hair. No, that's not what I'm saying. You have to understand. Yeah, you don't have to learn how to braid her hair.

But you can understand where to figure out, get information on where you can get her hair braided. Learn about her hair text or learn about her body type. Learn I grew up with a big old booty and I was in white people, with the ass crack showing because I didn't understand that my butt was huge and my stomach was small it didn't make sense to me I didn't even get it like there's a lot of things that you have to learn good night I'm done with the show no no this is crazy at the end of the day you want to take everything serious if we get we said what we said we said we said what we said if we get those likes and we go there um who else we got to have a plan B no it's no plan B it's 50 cent who was or or

Snoop? No, no, we never said Snoop was going to do that. Snoop. Whatever. Last thing that I'm going to talk about is there's a woman who said Kevin Samuels taught her to accept

being a single mother means the dating pool shrinks. She'll probably be alone for the rest of her life. She's accepted defeat. That's crazy. I know. That's what she says. She's accepted defeat. I know women who are seeing,

who have kids. You women need, after 30, let me see. Let me tell you when you women, need to accept the feet. If you're 40 with multiple kids and you don't have a boyfriend on a horizon, it's okay to accept defeat.

It's okay to accept unless you're going to wait another 20-something years until all the kids move out and then when you turn 60 or 70. Why don't you get another man with kids? Because his kids plus your kids I'm going to do the math. Damn, so I don't know.

only got to take care of my kids. I got to take care of her kids too. Now that's double. That's going to cost too much. This is my point. I feel like if I see, there's people who have like baby moms and stuff, right, that are still single and everything.

Like, a man would hate for me to be his baby mom because one thing about me, I moved on, honey. I promise, and I bet you, if I ever had a baby by my man, I will have another man taking care of that kid, marrying me and hitting it. Just like my best friend has that. I will be that person. How old is the kid?

Her kid? Her kid is like four. Oh, got them. All right. So when they got together, how old? Probably like three. I mean, I wouldn't be mad at, I'm not mad at that. No, but I'm saying, like, there's a lot of women, like, who don't get in relationships,

but I know me, like, son or not, daughter or not, kid or not. Like, I'm going to be moved on. Like, I don't hold on to people. Once I'm done with someone, I'm cool. It's a lot of people who are like, hold on, hold on. and this like me, bye. If I break up with you, I'm never on you ever again in my life. So I don't care.

If I have a baby daddy, like, I'm not tripping because I don't want that for myself, but I know that like, you can't tell me that a kid will stop me from having a man. It will not. 100%. It will not. Like, a kid will not stop me from having a man. I don't have a kid. But if it did, baby, I will have a new man, honey.

Like, and I hate that the woman think that. You do not have to feel like you don't, you can't get a man. and I feel like it's all about your mindset, period, point blank. Everything you think is what your reality is. You got to stop thinking negativity upon your life. If you want a man, you can have it. A man is not the hardest thing to get, honey. Okay?

So you want to allow other people a negative information to dictate your life. That's not how we're supposed to be living out here. Like, you got to think positive. If you want a man, you can have a man. If you want this, you can have this. I'm a believer in that in all aspects of your life. So you got to stop thinking so negatively and speaking so negatively upon yourself.

You don't have to accept defeat for nothing. I don't give a damn if you want to be 40 years old and run a damn marathon. Hit it. You could do it. I guarantee it because it's all about your mind. The mind is the strongest muscle that you have. That we go.

Anyways. You think the mind is the strongest muscle? I think that the mind is extremely strong. Yeah. I think that the mind is what dictates everything, for real. Like everything that I think is what I am. And the moment I stop thinking about something, I don't give it power anymore.

You don't have power if I'm not thinking about it. You don't even exist. There we go. Period. Anyways, would you like to leave anybody on a last note? Man, hey, make sure you like, subscribe, The Truth After Dark. It really helps go a long way.

Make sure you tune in, week in and week out. Who would you like us to have on the Truth Out of the Dark? Put it in the comments, DM us, and we'll work on that. Who would you like for us to have right here in this studio? You know, they could always say Corey Holcomb. Who would you like to have as a guest if you can have anyone as a guest? Damn, if I got anyone as a guest. I'll say mine.

I would like to have Vince Staples, Vic Mensa, those two I really would love, and Kid Cuddy. I can't think off the top like that. I'm not a freestyleist. I have to think about this one because this has to be calculated with me. Okay. That makes sense.

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Your ending is too long. People already fell asleep. You're so rude. You're one of the rudest people I've heard. No, seriously. All right, y'all. Good night. This is the taking over the game.

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