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Truth After Dark family, in this episode we start off diving deep into mental health. Paul & Azar discuss Kai Cenat’s mental struggles, the dangers of social media, dealing with isolation, and then we transition to some lighter topics such as being afraid of losing your partner, Moneybagg baby mama drama, seeing you ex out on a date, and so much more. Tune in to another episode of The Truth After Dark! Download the PriztePicks app today and use code TAD to get $50 in lineups after you play your first $5 lineup! #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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You know what I'm saying? I agree with that. Like, you know, like, if he sat right in front of you in his casket and he gives no shit, because that's pretty much almost what you're saying, then you don't. really love them or you got this wall of protection wall up or it's just something physical. This is the taking over the game. Welcome to truth. Do you think that and are more toxic? Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to another episode of The Truth After Dark. I'm your host as our Faraday. Good boy, The Truth. Paul Pierce, what's happening? What's happening? How are you feeling?

Good. How are you doing? I'm cool. I'm all right. What's what's up? What's what's up? Yeah. Talk to me. What's on tap today? What's on tap is just something that I want to touch on first and foremost that's been happening in our community so often is like people need to, like mental health has been a real issue these days. You know, I just lost somebody to suicide.

But this is the third person. I've lost to suicide. That's my friend, not including like family. family. My best friend shot himself in the head when we were 17. You know, I've, and then my friend just shot himself in the head the other day. And so then I just seen like a few more people, like an NFL player, this person that like people are killing themselves at a, they say that the rate in which people are killing themselves, especially black men, is at the all time high.

You think that a lot of that has to do with like social media and the pressures of like, because I think now as a community, we're dealing with way more pressures and we pay attention to it. Like, if you look at a high school kid and somebody's bashing them online, they don't know who it is. It's like, it's so many different ways

to attack people and it messes with your mentor, especially at a young age, and if you're constantly dealing with that for years to build up of it, it's just like, man. So I think that a lot of that stuff has to go back toward the home and how you control. Like, how do you control that part of someone's life because I think social media has a lot to do with it.

Yeah, I mean, I will say that we have an overload of information online more than ever, and I feel like less people are connecting with nature or touching grass or living in the present moment. And there's a lot of comparison, and I always say comparison is the thief of joy. You go online and you see everybody doing this or everybody doing that, and it just gets to a point where some people are overwhelmed by that, and they just feel like they don't want to live anymore. I also feel like we're in a state

where we're more connected than ever, but more alone than ever. Being isolated is a big thing in this generation because we're so connected via the internet, it's less interaction. It's less people saying, let's meet up, let's go outside, let's go to the movies, let's go here, let's go there

because you can sit here and see a whole world in the palm of your hands, so you're less likely to interact, especially the younger generation. so connected via the internet, but they're so isolated. So we're connected more than ever, but we're disconnected more than ever, too. And everything is just like at the tap of your finger. And you can do this and you can do that.

And people were now seeking validation more than ever via the internet. You know, like, oh, I'm feeling sad. I'm going to go on the internet and do this. But then as soon as that's gone, then you feel empty again, you know? And I feel like we just have lost sight of community and connection in real life and living in the present moment too. Yeah, there's more pressure on younger people at a young, I mean, you know, younger people than it has been before. Yeah, for sure. Because when you didn't have no worries, no cell phones and everybody was outside, enjoyed the little things in life.

Yeah, it's different. It's different now. So when you look at your peers, you look at kids your age and cyberbullying and all of that. Those things, it's just like, damn, so how as a parent, do you control that with your kids? How do you limit that access to social media until what age? Because actually, when you think about the people are older, come in suicide, but I think it's the buildup from childhood and the social media error that gets to them. The pressures of the world is more than ever because of what we read and what we see from other people that's not real.

Stuff that's not real that's affecting us. And you know what else it is is like people go. through breakups and stuff and then you go to their Instagram and they look so happy and they're posting like they're living their best life and then you see them with a new person and see them with a new relationship and it's all this stuff when you don't really know how someone's really feeling on the inside but it can look like that while you're in the bed depressed you go and see oh this person like I deal with friends right now that are going through breakups and they're depressed and they're in the bed every day and they go look at the person's Instagram and they're out living their best life and they look like nothing has to be. phase them and they're posting subliminals and all this stuff. And it's like, damn, like, it's even harder to go through a breakup. It's harder to be in a relationship. It's everything is so much harder because of social media. There's a lot of positive sides of social media too. But I will say that like those aspects of it can make it more difficult. You know what I mean? Because we're so we can stay connected with people we have no business staying connected to.

Like I shouldn't have to see what you're up to. Like, especially if you're trying to heal from something or you're trying to like go somewhere like it's it's difficult you know and it's like before i was on social media like and i had to do a career on social media i would deactivate my instagram all the time like i would be off of instagram all the time because i just would feel like i just need a break like i need to force myself to feel present in the world so like if you don't have to use social media as a career i really suggest that you take some time off of it like give yourself a week and just get off of social media in general. Yeah, you see how it's affected.

Kais and I, you know, think about it. He's going through all that. He's going through, you know, and he's talked about it. And, you know, I think a lot of his was probably based on social media or, you know, streaming. That's all the world that he lived in. Yeah, he didn't live in the real life. And the pressure of doing it every day.

Yeah. Constantly being this way and constantly interacting with the world, showing your life every second of it. And it's just like, dang, you just got to the point to where it would then feel like real life. I guess. Yeah. And then when you just like put it down, it's just like, you're like,

what do I have? What's been going on? Yeah. And it's like, damn, I couldn't imagine living that lifestyle because you look at him, he's made a lot of money. He's successful at what he did,

one of the biggest streamers in all of the world. But now he's just not happy. Yeah. And, you know, like people, they make fun of him for talking about his mental health and stuff. And also, too, in the same breath, it's like we sit on Instagram and we only see.

the good sides of everybody. You only share your highlight reel of all the good shit. That's why even for me, I make an effort to be like, vulnerable and honest. Like, I go through dark places. I struggle with shit all the time in my own mental health. And it's like important

to highlight that, but when you do, people make fun of you. Or they're saying you're seeking attention. Or you want this. When in reality, a lot of people want to do it because they want to show you like, everything ain't what it looks like. There is moments in your life where even me, I have to come up on this podcast and have a conversation,

and I'm not in the best mental place. I want to break down. I want to cry. I don't feel good. But I have to do it because I've made a commitment to do this. So there's moments where, you know, like, you got to do things when you're not in the best mental space, and I for not, like, people always hit me up like,

oh, you're so pretty, you're this, you're that, you're popping. And it's like, I'd be one of people who know, like, I have my shit too. Like, I go through shit all the time. I think you should express it, but I think, you know, people see the popping part of your social media, but they need to see the other side too. Like, you like, you dealt with, you know, a friend going through suicide.

I think you should really go on and express that. Like, let them see how you really feel. Let them, you know, when you do that, you humanize yourself. Yeah, for sure. You know, you don't look like this big aura that people look at you as like, oh, she's goals.

She's, you know, who I want to be. but like, dude, you got to be vulnerable. But I do, and that's the thing. I'm very vulnerable. And the people who actually follow me and be around me, they know that. And I feel like I always want to be that way because my whole goal is to like share, like, when I was lacking confidence and I still struggle with my own insecurities and the things that I go through, when I went through that, I really didn't have anybody to lean on, really.

And I feel like the whole point of me starting this journey was to be someone that a young, girl can look at and understand like like you know you could get through this there's things that are difficult but you can you can push through anything you know and there's so many women now that look to me for advice and mentorship and I want to always show those moments that are not always good you know and I and I and I make sure to try and do that and even in moments that I have there is people that are like oh you just want attention or you what's wrong with you you you you don't have anything like people assume you just because you may have this or you look this way or you have this you don't have nothing it's like one thing i could tell you is you could strive to

look like the most beautiful woman in the world and you can still have the darkest heart you know like you can strive to be the most rich person in the world and you can still be lonely and feel empty like these are all things that happen and i have been vulnerable and open about you know i've never been someone who has a big support system and a big circle of people and and a lot of friends. Like, I've moved through life alone in a lot of ways. And I've dealt with feeling like, you know, I'm facing things by myself a lot.

And I don't because I didn't go to high school like that. So in a school where I had all these things, like I don't have this large group of home girls and I don't have all of that stuff, you know, that a lot of people have. And for me, it's like I don't have the biggest support system. The people I have, I'm very grateful for. But, you know, I've moved through life feeling alone a lot, you know, and I've been open about that.

And I just always want to encourage people who feel that way, like there's light at the end of the tunnel, you know? And there's, you've got to change your thought process. Like every time you have a negative thought, think of something positive and replace it. That's how you train your mind and train your subconscious mind to just be more positive. and like you really got to live that. I think people who are going through depression, the best thing for that is just like, yeah, be vulnerable. Number one, express it.

But then I think routine helps. Yeah, for sure. You have to find something that you like. Yeah. And kind of like use that as a method to kind of cope whenever you're going through, whether that's go to the gym for a certain few hours a day. Yeah, for sure. Or go to church.

or take a walk or something that you're into. Or a hobby. Find a hobby something that you can just get your mind off of things and keep you busy. I think it helps with the process of getting through or actually having somebody to talk to. Who's that one person? And if you don't have nobody to talk to, you know, I think,

you know, if you're not religious, it's just like find somebody. Like, find somebody that you can express it to. And if that's not a person who's there, use the social media to talk to. Turn off the comments. And just be vulnerable. Just express yourself.

Yeah. And let it all out and just be like, man, world, this is who I am. Yeah. Like it or not. You know, all the stuff that I've shown you. Yeah. That's really not me, but this is me giving myself to the world. And once you let it out, I think you'll start the process of coming back to reality.

Because when you're under the press state of mind, you're not in reality because you start thinking of things and thinking about suicide and things. and thinking about, you know, just too many negative things. So I just feel like, you just got to do a number of things to just snap out of it. Yeah. And people who struggle with real depression, I know I don't want to be insensitive because it is hard for people. It's a real mental, I don't know, I don't want to call it illness, maybe mental illness. But it is something that people deal with and they can't get themselves out of that place a lot of time.

But like, you know, like you said, I think having a routine about yourself, forcing yourself sometimes to get out of that funk and just get up and do things. It's hard, but you know, you could do it. And I get it. Like, you know, and I think too, like, even for me, it's hard when you go through these things because sometimes you don't want to burden the people that you're with

and you don't want people to feel like burdened by like your issues or your sorrow. So you keep it to yourself or you carry it yourself. Or if you're someone, like me like I'm a positive life for a lot of people and like people love my energy my or and when I'm this and so if I'm down or I'm not a space my energy is so strong that everybody feels it and it's like what's wrong what's wrong because they expect me to be in that space 24-7 and it's like that has been a burden on me because sometimes I'm like I can't perform for you right now I can't be

this person like I'm tired I don't feel good like but then and then then you feel the guilt of the other person feeling like well what's wrong with you like what's wrong with you like Why aren't you? And it's like, then you try to force yourself to get back into that vibe because they're expecting you to show up in a certain way, you know? And even in relationships, I feel like when you're someone who has been alone a lot and you find someone that you can, you feel like you can trust and you can talk to and you can be around, that's a really scary feeling too. Because as someone who's been abandoned a lot or a lot or, you know, like hurt by people that were supposed to love you the most, it's scary to. to put your trust in someone and be so vulnerable with someone and be open because you always have the thought in your mind like I can lose this person. And then when I lose this person, I'm going to be so devastated.

You know, like, so I've noticed with me, I haven't, even if I'm in a relationship, like I don't fully, like I'm always a little bit scared because I'm like, oh my God, like I love this person. This is scary. The most overwhelming feeling for me is fear when I love someone. And it sucks because you want to be in the present moment and you want to love them and you want to be there. But you're also nervous because you're like, if I fall into this too deeply and this ends, I'm going to be so devastated, you know?

So that's like a really scared feeling that I deal with because I'm like I don't have a lot of people. And when I meet someone I trust and I love that, I feel like it's like family or home to me. And then that thought of like I could lose this person and makes you like hold back a little bit because you're like, I can't give them all of me because then I'm scared, you know, like,

because things end, you know, even if you don't want them to at times, and it's just, it sucks, but it's a reality, and I feel like that's hard, you know? So, yeah, I think you just have to find things that you love that don't involve other people or depending on anyone sometimes, you know, like things that are just,

that you have a level of control over, you know, whether that's like a hobby or community-based sport, like something of that nature that you do, that you love, that you can get into. I think that that's important, but I just hate to see, like, all these people killing themselves.

It's just really sad to me. And I have a home girl who told me literally two days ago that she wants to kill herself. And I've been talking to her every second because I'm so scared because I've done this. I've lost multiple friends. My best friend killed himself,

shot himself in the head. So, like, I've done. dealt with this a lot and I do not my best friend and my sister's best friend both shot themselves in the head and I've dealt with this a lot so I when people tell me that I take it very seriously and like I plan on going to her house and cooking for her

and cleaning her house and helping her like be there for your friends when they need you for real yeah for sure for sure so anyways that was a deep moment but let's move on to something more Light. Yeah. I was deep.

Okay. So anyways, Dr. Sarah Fottano, our girl. Yeah. And Weezy and Mandy all did a podcast together, which I've been seen the clips and I love it. So there's a viral clip of Weezy basically saying, and she's in a relationship, but she basically says she isn't afraid to lose a man. Like she don't give a damn. She's not afraid to lose a man.

She's okay if he wants to go to lunch one-on-one with another woman. She don't care about none of that. He could go to dinner with another woman. That's what she said. Yeah. Oh, yeah. But, you know, they feel awesome different type stuff. They're into some, like, you know, in a 20.

Weezy and Mandy also, I mean, they said the same thing. And Dr. Sarah was, like, absolutely not. Like, if you have to go to dinner with a girl for whatever reason, like, come to my house, come over to our house, I'll cook for y'all. Y'all can have whatever conversation you need to have if it's like a friend that you supposedly have or whatever. Like, you shouldn't be separate from us.

Like, any home girl or anything you think, is like she coming into town I'm there or come over to our house and we'll cook or whatever the case is and Wees is like no I'm not afraid to lose a man I don't care and then Dr. Sarah's like well that's the problem Yeah And so it's this whole thing now they're going back and forth

And like their podcast was funny because they're so opposite Like the Dr. Sarah and like weezy and Mandy Or whatever the case is because Mandy never wants to be married You know she likes to have an open relationship She doesn't want kids she doesn't want any of that stuff and she's very clear on that you know what i mean and she wants like you know multiple partners or whatever the case may be um which in my opinion if that's what you want that's what you want like i don't believe that we should argue down people to change the way that they want to

live like i'm not here to convince you that that's not the life for you like if you feel like that's the life for you then that's the life for you like i don't think that we should be in the business of convincing people to change the things that they feel work for them. You know what I mean? Like you've been through certain things in life that makes you feel like that's how you want to roll, then do that. Yeah, I don't think like when Weezy is talking like that, I think it's hard for her to be completely 100% in love with that person.

It's always like if you feel that way that your partner can go have lunch with another girl, it's either a couple things. are in an open relationship. Yeah. Or you don't really fully 90. I 100% love that person. If you're not afraid to lose somebody, you don't completely love him.

I agree with that. You know what I'm saying? I agree with that. Like, you know, like if he sat right in front of you in his casket and he gives no shit, because that's pretty much almost what you're saying, then you don't really love them. Or you got this wall of protection wall up.

Or it's just something physical. Do you feel like there you could, sometimes you don't realize like until you're about to lose someone that you're afraid to lose them? Like sometimes does it take for you to be about to lose someone for a person to be like, oh my God, I do not want to lose this person.

Because I feel like sometimes it may take for you to realize like I could lose this person for you to then realize like, oh shit. You know what I mean? Yeah. that's a tough one because like when you, like, thinking like that or something happens to where you can lose that person, most likely it's something you did. Yeah. Because you weren't afraid to lose up, so then you did it.

Now you're about a loser. And now you're like, oh, I fucked up. Yeah. You know, but you wasn't thinking that when he was fucking up. So I don't know. It's just like a lot of cases to where when you're about to lose them, you do everything you can. and then you've got to go through it. If you're not willing to go through it

when you're about to lose that person, you're going to have to get dragged to get them back if that's what it takes. If you really love them, you'll get dragged to get them back. Even though there's some points where a woman will tell you, like, I'm really done.

Like, there's nothing you can do. You can see it. You know, you could be a relationship a whole year or two before it ends, and it's been done. You know, it's been done. Like, you've been that person five years, it was done three years yeah yeah I've been there yeah I've been there but y'all just together because

that's what y'all been used to and you're afraid to go through that pain of really separating yeah so you're just like going through it because you're like I'm going to hurt to be what you and it's going to hurt to leave you so I'm just going to stay because you're afraid of what's next what's next is scary because this I know what this is I it's predictable I know what's going to happen we're going to go through this we're going to fight we're going to be whatever we'll have a few one, two cool days. But leaving means, I don't know, it's uncertain. I don't know what's going to happen next.

Am I going to end up alone? Am I going to meet anyone that I actually like ever again? Am I going to, like, what is that going to look like? And a lot of the time when you're going through that and when you lose someone, you highlight so many good things about them, even if you knew the relationship was trash, and you're like, damn, like, am I ever going to have anybody else? You know, there's that feeling, you know, where, you know, will I ever like someone this much again or whatever the case is, even though you knew that relationship has been over,

like, because there's so much contention. Like, there's one thing to, like, go through stuff with your partner. But there's another thing when you know, like, this just, nothing is working. Like, we always got something. It's always a fight. It's always this. It's always that. I knew in my relationship, it was over.

You know, you go through your ups and downs. But when it's officially over for me, as a man, when it started getting disrespectful. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like all the other stuff I can deal with, like being mad and holding back sex and, you know, not just not going on dates and not doing stuff. But when it started getting disrespectful,

that's when you know it was over. All the other stuff I could deal with. Yeah, when a woman gets disrespectful, she's cool. Yeah, it's over. And you have to realize, too, even as a person, if someone's being this disrespectful to you, there is no relationship anyways because they don't respect you.

And, you know, there gets to a point where even if you're not a bad person, the person views you as like so, like they look at you like such a fucked up horrible human being and you're like, man, I don't even want to be with someone that I have to fight against the fact that I'm really actually not this fucked up person. I made some mistakes and I made some poor decisions,

but I don't even want to be with someone who views me so low down. Like you think of me so horribly. What's the point now? I'm just going to be exhausted trying to prove that I'm worthy, that I'm not that messed up to you. And it's like, that's exhausting for both of us. At that point, you might as well go find someone else

that you actually look at in a better light. Because once you start to look at me like, I'm just horrible, what are we doing? Like, once I look at you like, oh, you're just this, you're that, you're that. Because the chances are, is like, people make mistakes in relationships. But once you get past that threshold of like what you can take, then it starts to get disrespectful and you don't even view that person in the light in which you like what's the point. The only reason we're staying now is the fear of what's on the other side of letting go.

Yeah. Yep, that is true. You know. You hold on for too long. You hold on for too long because you're afraid of what's next and what's letting go. But then you do so much damage in that time that you stay, you damage yourself. Then it goes from disrespect to now we got to. Because it turns into resentment.

Yeah, it turns into resentment. For sure, it returns into resentment. It turns to resentment. You're like, damn. And God forbid, it's even worse when you have to have kids with that person, like, and deal with them forever. Like, me personally, I don't have that. So it's like you can resent someone,

but then you don't have to deal with them. So now you over it. Like, in a few years, you could see that person be like, what's up? Like, we're cool. I don't have no beef. Like, I don't care because I don't have to deal with you. But, see, you do more damage to yourself when you stay

because you hurt yourself more. and you hurt the other person. And then you get in another relationship and that starts to pour over. And it's like, damn, I don't stay too long that I damage my mind because I'm thinking now this is how people act. Now I'm getting disrespected.

Now I'm on the defense. Now I feel a certain type of way in my new relationship. I think that we've got to learn how to let go quicker. Well, it's hard. It's very hard. It's very hard.

It's hard to break the building down. You know, you didn't build it something. You didn't build. over the years and it's hard to let it go. It's hard to walk away. Yeah. It's really hard. And again, I think starting over is hard and it's scary, like, to have to be like,

I'm going to start over and be, like, be alone and figure my shit out. Especially for women. Yeah, it's really hard. It's more difficult for women than for men, I believe. I believe that, yeah, 100%. Because I've seen man get out of long relationships and be with the next woman right then and there. Well, maybe not in a relationship, but like, we'll use women to kind of, like, cover up our pain. Yeah, for sure.

You know, where a woman will go through it a little bit more than a man. Yeah. Like, won't date, won't go out. Yeah. You know, then you've got other women who will date and go out. But, like, for the most part, it's more men that say, all right, I'm the next day. I'm outside. Yeah.

And you know how hard that is? I was telling, like, social media, like, as a woman, when you break up with someone and you're, like, in the bed, depressed, and you go, look, and you see this man outside. Like I remember when me and my ex broke up, I'm sad. I broke up with him, but you're still sad. Like, I had to let go. Like, this was blowing me. And you're outside, and you people are so messy.

They're calling you. Oh, I saw the, da-da-da-da. Outside with like, oh, girl, and they was, and then it's like, what? Like, you just feel so bad. You're like, damn, I was nothing to you. Like, you just got another woman. But what I notice is with me, it'd be like a few months. and then like in a few months

by the time you do your healing and like I go through my sad depression then I get up and I'm going back into the gym and I'm feeling myself again and I feel good I'm doing the inner work and by the time I'm back hitting it and I'm dating a new man then you calling me then you're like babe

like I love you so much I'll never forget I remember I was like wanting my ex to like you know you want someone to fight for you even if you're done you always want to feel like you're fighting for me it's hard to fight for somebody after the disrespect, though. Yeah, I get what you're saying. Like, you know, in my relationships, I wanted to fight.

Yeah. But, like, the constant, every day being disrespectful, like, I was disrespectful once. Yeah. And it's not common. But the constant disrespect is hard to fight back. No, I get that, and I understand that. But I think you get, as a woman, you're like, damn,

you want someone to fight, and then they missed the, they missed the opportunity in order to do. it. And so I remember I broke up, da-da-da-da. Everyone, oh, he's hitting at this, that. I'm sad. I'm crying. And then I remember I got a whole new man. And the night, my new man was

like, I love you. My old man, I don't know what it was. That man started blowing my line down. I love you. I want to be with you. I'm so sorry. And I'm like, oh, it's too late now. I got a whole new man. I'm good. Like, once you move on me,

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AD to get $50 in lineups after you play your first $5 lineup. Price picks. It's good to be right. So yeah, anyways, this whole drama with Moneybag, yo, have you seen that? I think it was something with his baby mama. Yeah, so basically he went to see his baby mom, I guess, and the baby mom has a new man, and the new man bought her in his house and all this, and he's kicking it. chilling at the new house with his baby mama.

They don't live it? They do, but he wasn't there. He's like out of town. So he sees on the camera, you kicking it. What's you coming over here kicking it with your baby mama chilling for? That's bogus. That's blowing me. So the man is hot.

So the man goes to Instagram like, what? Like you in my house and he's like tripping off the baby mom. Like you left this man at my house and y'all are, it's not even about the kid picking it up, dropping the kid up. Like you chilling on my couch. He keying and kicking it in my house. Like, that's out of pocket. That is out of pocket for her.

Yeah, she's wrong. Yeah, super long. If this dude got you in a new house. Yeah. Why are you kicking it with your baby mama anyways? Why are you kicking it with your baby daddy? Wait, wait, wait. Wait, wait, hold on her.

He just came over to get the kid. He should have just came over to get the kid. But that was his, that was he, what he came over to do. Yeah, yeah. Okay, that's what he came over to do. To get the kid. So it should just be a quick transaction if you had another man. But he's chilling here for hours.

Hours? Yeah, he was at the house kicking it with the girl. You kicking it. There's no reason you should kick it. Get the kid and hit it. They got cameras in the house? Yeah. Oh, he saw that.

He saw. Oh, okay. Well, she knew that. Maybe she didn't. We don't know if she knew. People don't always know if they have cameras in the house. Yeah, she knew. You live there.

You know if there's cameras in the house. You don't know always. If there's cameras not in the house, there's cameras outside seeing you coming in. Right. And then seeing you leave. Yeah. Why are you kicking it?

No, that's this trouble. So then she came out and basically said, oh, I'm not messing with you because you're gay. And I found out that you're gay. While he was out of town? Who knows? These people are crazy. Oh, my gosh.

Yeah, so she basically caught him gay and said he's on the DEL or whatever. Oh. And they were together at the time. Yeah, they're together. So that means it's over. You just broke up. We just broke up. Well, you broke up when you was kicking it with baby mama and baby daddy in my house.

So we was already broken up at that point. He was done with her. He was already like, hey, I'm cool. So what do that mean? Do he got a get her up out of there? Yeah. And he also bought her a range over. I need that.

And so he was like, if y'all see my car in the streets, like report it because I need my car back. I need the house. I need the car. I need the car. I need the car. With the roses. He bought her the car with the roses. I need everything back.

Yeah, I need that. Back. I need that. He's probably in his name anyway, so he ain't in a trip. He gets home called a pole. And then he puts the receipt up where he's playing for the private school of Money Bag Yo's kid. It's time to go public. $2,500 a month.

Public. He's like, I'm paying some people's rent for the private school. And this is your child, Money Baguio, who got money. And you're not paying and not paying for the school. Like, I don't know how a woman could fumble. Like, women, that's tough. You're trifling for that. I'm going to keep it real.

Damn. But based off of how she looks. and her Instagram and everything, again. Don't base everything off looks, though. No, no, no. It's, I can, yeah, it's based off of your actions and how you're moving. You half naked, you got 20 surgeries,

you're trying to catch him the next best man with money. Yeah, you base it off of that. I'm a base it off of that. Like, I could tell a type of woman, you can. Like, at the end of the day, she looks. He should have known that. This is my problem with men. You get these type of woman who got a rapper baby daddy,

and it's on Instagram, how you think you got her? And now you're mad because she did exactly what she meant to do. You, you're mad. You knew, you knew, you knew. This is what happens with men. Again, y'all get with these women and think that you're different. You ain't special. She's showing you exactly what type of woman she is.

Right. All on there, right there. You could see that. Like, there's different calibers of women, and we have to stop pretending that there's not. Like, let's stop pretending that. Like women get mad at me. Like I have some whole holy fans girl was blowing me like one time like going off because she she messed with one of my exes one time.

And because I said something about like women being prostitutes, she was going in like trying to run shit. And I'm like, girl, it is what it is. You're a ho. I don't know what else you want me to tell you. You mad at me because I'm calling it how I see it. Like I'm a different caliber of woman than you. If you decide that I'm better than you, that's your. opinion, I didn't say that.

I'm different, though. I'm a different type of woman and I'm not in the same lane as you. We're not in the same league. We're not in the same category. If you decipher that as me saying I'm better than you, that's what you said, not me. I'm not, I'm just letting you know I am a different type of caliber than you. I don't choose to let anybody with $999 to be able to see inside of my booty hole. Okay?

I don't let anybody with $3 a month get to see me shake my ass. Matter of fact, you do that shit for free on Instagram. Okay? I'm not that type of woman. Stop being mad at me because that's what you decide to do. That's the life you decide to live. I feel good about who I am as a woman. I go to sleep at night knowing that you can't see my body for a few dollars.

I feel good about that. But you should feel good about what you're doing too. If you don't feel good about it, you should reevaluate your lifestyle, baby. That's on you. You know what I learned about women in breakup? based on, you know, I'm listening to you and how you feel about the next woman that got with your ex.

I swear, every woman, when they break up with that man and when that man get up the next girl, she either, she ain't, she ugly or she a hoe. No, no, no, I don't think that's true. You need a baddest girl to planet. Oh, she's ugly, she's a hoe. That's not true, though. The woman who I'm talking about, I swear.

I'm saying you, I'm just saying in general. No, no, no. But let me tell you the truth. The type of person I am is like, Like, I will give credit when credit is due. You mess with that trash. Even if a man that I've been with... What?

No, because chances are, though, but I give credit where credit it's due. Like, I've been with men and they have beautiful exes, and I'm like, I will literally say, like, oh, she's fly. She cool. She was, she was bombed. And then I've seen some of my exes and their baby mom or this stuff. For me, it's not even about the look. Like, y'all, y'all are going look. Like, what if she ain't up to your level of looks?

But she's doing things you wasn't doing? so that's probably why he was. Yeah, that's cool. I'm not mad at that. It's not just about looks. But then y'all will bash because of the look. I'm not going to bash because I don't care. You will, though.

You will. You saw your ex out with somebody that was like, oh, she ain't me, but you don't know she ain't you because you're going off her look. You don't know what she's doing for that man. I know what you said. He probably rubs downs every night, cooking, doing all these things you wasn't doing, but you're going to just from the outside looking in,

you're going to say she wasn't me. Well, doing all this, girls, honey, look at it. I'm going to say this. I'm going to say this, though. I wasn't perfect in my relationships at all in no way, shape, or form, but I know that I gave a lot and I gave my awe. So whether she's doing all this, I know what I was doing. So you can look crazy, and I know that I was doing X, Y, Z,

but the crazier it looks, let me take why it looks crazier. This is why men look crazy. Don't look crazy to you. Yes, because you're hitting me up still begging to be with me. So she looks crazy and you look crazy. hit you up. I just told you. What's up? They hit you up. You're so contradicted. They're doing. Yeah, they do.

So you're keeping up. No, I just told you that my exes every three to six months, one of, one of my exes is going to hit me on WhatsApp and email. I just said that. Like, they do that. Like, they do that. They'd be like, oh, I wish what we had. Iran is in the war and making me feel like, are you safe? Like, you know, dumb shit. I'm just making that up because I see the meme like that. But, you know, men come with dumb shit all the time where they're like, I just miss us and everything that we've been through.

Like, men are going to come with that bullshit six months and every six months quarterly, they're going to come with that. Like, that's all I'm saying. So if you do have a new girlfriend, it makes y'all look crazy. That's why I don't want to be with a man who's hitting an ex or anybody up trying to say anything at all because then I look stupid. Because they look stupid to me.

I'm like, y'all, he's still trying to hit me up. They look stupid. To me, you look stupid, and I look stupid if my man is doing that to their ex. It looks stupid to everyone. Like, I don't want that. I don't like that. So that's why women think men look stupid because they be hitting us up still asking for this and that. All right, so listen.

Go ahead. I'm going to break this down, what you said. This is what you said. You said, Joe, men be hitting you up looking stupid because they've got girlfriends. No, I don't know if they have a girlfriend. You said maybe they do or they don't. I don't know for sure. But how they're looking stupid?

But I'm saying, you just said, if I seen them out with another woman, and I'm like, oh, she doesn't look like this. The only way I would say she looks stupid is because in my mind, I'm like, your man is still hitting me up all the time. You look stupid. Like, that's what looks stupid. You never seen your ex out with another girl? Never?

My ex see me out, but I never see my ex out. Oh, yeah, I have. I've never seen that before. I would, like, I would not care. Like, I don't have no feelings for none of my exes. I would not care. at all. It would never make me feel away at all. Yeah, me neither. Like, okay,

cool, I love that for you. And if she was drop-dead gorgeous, I love that for you. So if you saw your ex out with another girl, would you speak? No, I'm not speaking. I don't have nothing to say. Like, I'm not speaking if I, you weren't with another girl. I'm not speaking regardless. So you could be with another girl or not. I'm not going to speak to my ex if I see them out

regardless. Like, for just a bunch of different reasons. Like, I don't have, I don't have no beef. With none of my exes, I don't have no beef. I just don't fuck with y'all. We're not together anymore. I don't have, if we don't have kids, there's no reason. The question is this. Okay.

If you women are men, you see your girl or your guy out, and they what they do, will you speak? And I'm talking about the guy is with his girl, and they knew girl. Or say, like, you see your ex with another dude, will you speak to her? because like me, I'm not. I mean, I'm not.

I don't really care. I'm not even really tripping. You know what I'm saying? But like, for the woman, what I noticed is like, when I seen my ex out, but I was with somebody and they was with somebody and I was ignoring it. I was just like, you know, I didn't even look. But then every time you turn, you see them looking at you.

You're like, damn, like, what the hell? Yeah. Like, why are you, oh, let me turn my back. Like, damn. I feel like that's awkward for, like, for me. Like, for me. No, no, no, no. I'm saying I feel like I don't want to be in the situation where I'm the girl and the ex is staring over.

Like, I will want someone to tell me. Like, yo, that's my ex there over there with this. Because I'm not going to be sitting here looking like, she's looking like, I don't like that little shit. Tell me what's up. Like, that's, if it's your real ex, like, if someone you just dated, whatever. But, like, if that's my ex, like, if I'm out with my man and. I see my for real ex that I was with for years, I'll be like, that's my ex right there.

I'm going to say that. If it's someone I dated real quick or whatever, no. But if it's my ex, I'm going to be like, that's my ex right there probably. But it just depends because if it's just in passing for two seconds, then I might not say nothing at all. Like if we're walking and walking out, done. But if it's like, we're all sitting right there and there on the other side,

he's staring over here. Like, that's crazy. This is my ex. They're tripping. But I have seen my ex has seen me out with somebody. Like my and they he talked and spoke you know what I mean and said a lot of shit and I was just like what Like I was with your new dude I was just on a date but he didn't realize you know Okay okay okay so it was just like you know what I'm saying like he didn't know that I was with that person so he was just saying like

God sent me you here today as like all this stuff and it just felt so wild to me Yeah yeah but I think that at the end of the day like I'm not I don't care if my ex has a new girlfriend and she's Beyonce the baddest bitch in America Good for you. I'm really happy for a lot. They could be like, damn, I would never think I fumbles any of my asses. That sounds stupid as hell. Like, how he got that all? No, no, no.

I don't think that. I would literally just literally be like, who? Damn, he just upgraded. No, I'm not tripping off of that. I'm telling you, like, I think that what, no matter how the woman looks, no matter what, if it's someone that was in alignment with you and we couldn't work it out, I'm happy for you. Like, everyone deserves love.

Like, I don't have no bitterness or resent. that meant in my heart. Yeah. Because the opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference. So for me, when you hate someone, you still have feelings for them. You still,

you still care. I don't have no hate for you. I'm indifference. I don't care. I'm indifferent. Whatever. You got a girlfriend. Good for you.

I'm actually happy for you. Like, real shit. Like, good for you. I don't care. I'm indifferent because like, ain't no happy I ain't sad. It's not happy. Yeah, I'm not.

But it's like, I'm not out. And I'm just like, oh, this is made me so upset. He got a batter bitch. Like, good for you, my, like, cool. I'm, do your big one. You cool. Like, I don't have no feelings for none of my exes at all.

Like, there's no feelings there whatsoever. Like, just, period. Like, it was over when it was over. Right. You know what I mean? Um, so there's a viral meme that says relationship red flags, right? So here are some of them. Tell me some of yours.

But one, the first one is actually still cool with your ex. I don't fuck with that. That's a red flag for me, too. Still cool with your ex? Yeah. Love bombing. Someone said all her friends being single is a red flag. Someone else said...

That's not a red flag, though. That's just unfortunate for her friends. Yeah, that's how I feel too. Phone screen being turned down. They said that's a red flag. Someone who's fresh out of a relationship. That's a red flag. To do what?

To be in a relationship with me? Yeah. Okay. These are all relationships. relationship red flags. Okay. And someone who's, like, super entitled. Those are just some of them that the people named.

Do you have any? Yeah, I hate a female who, I mean, or a woman, whatever y'all want to call it, whatever. But I don't know what y'all is these day. See what I'm saying. Yeah, I hate an entitlement. Oh, my God. You know what, you know, because I'm a killer,

you start talking to some of these girls, and they might have been with whoever, the motherfucker at the top. you know, they got lucky to be dating whoever, A, list, this, and that. Then when that ain't there no more, they're just looking at everybody else, like, you ain't, you got to do this and $30,000. Oh man, what about old girl that says something about the $30,000 a month or $50,000? Yeah, she says something like, $40,000.

Wait, wait, wait, what does she exactly say, though? We're going to talk about this on the segment, so we'll talk about this in a minute. But, yeah, the entitlement is crazy to me. part of entitlement though that 50,000 a month. Ain't that entitlement? Yeah. That's crazy. Damn, how can somebody have that mindset?

Like, you literally just like, that's just a high price, like that sounds to me like you're just a high price hoe. That's what that sound like. So, I need 50,000 a month for you to date me, do order, whatever you want. So look, this is the more or less segment brought to you by price picks where you can win real cast by picking just

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But it depends, because what she said was this. If a man doesn't want you to work, right? Because a lot of men, especially depending on what their stature is, they're like, I don't want my girl to work because then she's not available to me in the ways that I need her to be available to me, right? So for her, she's like, well, if that's the case, I make only fans, I make 40, 50K, you don't want me to do only fans anymore, then I need more than just my bills. Like, you can pay my bills, but then I have no money left over.

This is what she said in response. I have no money left over. I'm strapped. So I pay just my bills and now I can't do nothing. So you have to give me more than my bills so I can save money. I can have shit cracking. So I don't feel like so stressed out about money, right? However, her lifestyle is 40, 50K.

Some brides, that's like $7,000. You know, with hers, hers is like 50K because she's saying that's how much she makes being on Onlyfans and she has a Morgan, she has this. So a man who's dating her is like, I don't want you to do that. I don't want you to work. I want you to be able to travel with me. be available to me, do all these things. So is she supposed to say, okay, I'm not going to work

and I have to lessen my lifestyle? Wait, how about keep doing OnlyFans and we can still travel, but you can do the OnlyFans in the hotel. Well, she's saying whatever she has to do. Only fans ain't know wake up 9 to 5. But she's saying whatever she does, she works in a club too.

She's not just OnlyFans. She's a club bottle girl. So she has to be out. You make $50,000 doing that. That's what she was saying. She came on live. She was like, for me, people don't understand that. That's going to run dry quick.

That's probably the peak of it. You ain't nobody making $40,000 a month. She's saying she works in the club. She's a club bottle club girl. A month? She's saying that it's, she see, like in the strip club and stuff, she's like, I see that money in a night. So for some people, that sounds outrageous,

but for me, I come across that money in a night. No, I ain't going. I am not going. You are not maintaining that contract. Yeah, that sounds ridiculous. That sounds ridiculous. That sounds ridiculous. $4.50K is out of pocket.

I don't care how bad you are. You can be, you ain't doing that every month. Like with no only fans and waiterson job. That's, if you are doing that, that's the peak of it. And that's going to run dry. You know, that's going, man, those subscriptions are going to run dry after about that. If you doing that, how many consecutive years have you been doing that? Because I'm going to just wait you out when it go down to like five.

Like, then what would you go to say? Like, damn, like, come on, that's extreme. That's like the highest level of high. And if you are there, that's cool, but that's not going to last long because it's going to be a new girl. That's going to be the hot topic and the hot girl. It's always going to be somebody that's going to take your place. So, like, that 50,000. But is it entitled for her if a man is like, I'm going to take care of you.

I'm going to help you with your bills. Nah, if you look at 50,000 a month, let's keep doing that. But I'm saying, she's saying that the men, that's you. We're talking about a man who's saying, hey, because there's a lot of men like, yeah, that are like, hey, don't worry, I'm going to take care of you. Give me $50,000. I'm going to find somebody else. That could be like you could pay $5,000. I'm like, that don't even make no sense.

It's like I'm buying your love now. Right. Like, what, I got to pay? Like, come on, that don't even make sense. I mean, because that's like a red flag to me. Because it's like, that ain't going to be real. It's going to be talking about the relationships you talk about. You're going to, it's going to last so long.

You're going to be off that. Like, all right, but see, she shouldn't even be saying that because it's going to be a dude that's going to come along that's going to do that. He's going to do it for three months and be good. Now what you're going to do? Yeah. You don't have to go back to that. So, like, come on, that's not realistic.

Come on, that's not realistic. Man, do me paying seven. I mean, we know someone who. He'll do it for two, three, four or five months. Let's say, the year. Then when your fans see you not doing that no more, can you jump back in it and get that same type of momentum? Moment.

Yeah. Once you slow the momentum, then. then it's over, you know? So. Yeah, I mean, I get it. I feel like. Yeah, she ain't no relationship, girl. She's just entertainment.

I'm paying for it. Not a relationship. I'm paying for entertainment, period. I'm rich enough to pay for entertainment. And this is expensive entertainment. I'll do this. I'll blow this for a couple months. Then I'm off.

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