Club Shay Shay - Paul & Azar Discuss A Man Proposing 43 Times, Traditional Values & Why Women With BBLs Aren't Loyal | Truth After Dark
Episode Date: January 5, 2026The 1st episode of 2026 is here and you know we’re getting spicy! Paul & Azar discuss a man proposing 43 times to his girl, being a traditional woman, bad BBL’s, women asking their men... for marriage, having a backup plan in your relationship, and 1 word to describe 2025! Let’s start the New Year off the right way! Pour you a glass of wine and tune in to Truth After Dark! #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Like, because a woman loves when a man is smack and ass when you walk by.
Because it's like, okay, grab a little ass back, especially if you have ass.
Like, how do you know I grab my ass and you know I have ass?
Yeah, right.
All in that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
In the kitchen cooking.
Yeah.
Exactly.
How you not grow up.
Grabbing my ass, knowing I have ass, is blowing me.
Let me ask you something.
Do girls with flat cheeks like they ask me?
I don't have flat cheeks.
No, I'm just saying, do you think?
Probably, yeah.
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Hello, beautiful people.
Welcome to another episode
and the first one of the new year
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Hey, man, it's been a great year.
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We're almost at one year now from the way we started.
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Yeah, so, yeah, it's been an amazing year.
Well, it was an amazing year.
What is one word that you would use
to describe last year, 2025?
One word.
Damn, we're asking about,
How can anybody give one word to the scrub of a whole year?
Geez.
To sum of that, what would you do?
Because you go through ups and downs.
You do, but what would one word be?
What would one word be for me?
Yes.
I guess it would be like, damn.
I don't know no big words, so don't be looking for a big word.
We ain't looking for no big word.
That's a word.
So I would say,
damn, because I had some ups and downs,
stress, happy.
I went through all the emotions.
I laughed.
I cried.
And I hardly ever cry.
Damn.
One word.
You give me your one word first.
What's your one word to describe last year?
Interesting.
Unexpected.
Unexpected?
Yeah.
Just had an unexpected 2025.
Yeah, because I feel like a lot of things that you plan or you thought was going to happen or you decided like, oh, I'm going to do this or I'm going to be this or I'm going to be here.
Like it just was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, okay.
Like all these different unexpected things happened.
We started truth after dark.
I didn't expect that and it's cracking.
I've had other things happen where I'm like, oh, shit.
like okay you know what I mean and just for me it's like an unexpected year I won't expose
everything but like yeah it's just unexpected was it a good year did you I think overall it was good
obviously there was ups and downs as well I've cried I laughed all the same thing but I think
just take my answers every second I'm not taking answers I'm just relating to you my friend and so
I feel like for me I had a cool year though overall like
I made it.
I'm here in 2026.
I have to step into gratitude.
You know what I mean?
Okay.
That's good.
I know my word now.
Okay.
I'm going to just continue to say, I'm blessed.
Okay.
Your word is blessed.
Blessed last year, I was blessed.
I love that.
You know, whenever you can go through another year,
make it standing on your feet, family, healthy,
kids doing cool, building new businesses,
building new relationships.
I'm blessed with the people
I've been able to meet
you know
it's been a blessing
you know I don't really like to dwell
on the negative stuff
because we all go through stuff
and we're going to continue
to go through stuff
but it's always how
you fight through the storm
and have an understanding
like the sun is going to come back
no matter what kind of storms
you come you go through
and so I truly will say
it's been a blessing
I think I've enjoyed my life a little bit more last year than I have in the past.
I was a little more, like, jaded and grounded and, like, a lot of things that I was using
just with relationships and pouting and doing that, these things, these things.
And I just think the year before it lasts.
So, like, this past year, I just was, like, more positive, more open and thankful, and I feel blessed.
I love that.
That's amazing.
Okay.
Come on blessed.
Now, what would you like 2006?
What would you like that to look like for you?
Like, if you had anything that you would say, like, you really want to happen,
or what is a word that you feel like, okay, I want 2026 to beat this?
I want 2026.
And don't say blessed.
Yeah, what do I want in 2020?
I just want to continue to grow.
Okay.
You know, so, like, if anything, my word for 2076 is just grow.
Growth.
I love that.
And what I mean by that is just spiritually continue to grow,
financially continue to grow.
You know, it's been the biggest challenge in retirement for me.
It's like, you know, basketball was easy.
You know, I trained my whole life, but you never trained for, like, life after basketball.
And this is what I've been the most proud of myself of.
life after basketball, how I've
turned into something different
that I'm successful now in
not sports.
You know, not like, because, you know, you always
looked at as a sports player, but now I'm doing,
you know, I'm thankful. I'm on, like, I have
three podcasts, I have businesses
that I'm thriving in. Yeah.
Like, you know, because a lot of people look at us as
dumb athletes and we can't do
nothing else but sit up and dribble.
No, no, we can do
other things too and be successful.
and other things outside of sports.
So that's what I've been most proud of being successful outside of sports
and continue to thrive and be an example for an inspiration for kids and adults
and for players after basketball or after their sport
because a lot of guys in my position, they try to still try to figure it out
and they go into depression and they spend all their money
and they still looking for something to do.
And, you know, it's tough.
Life after sports is tough.
It's tough on you.
You mentally, it's tough on you just, just the adjustment to like family to now what do
you do?
You're trying to figure it out because you think about it.
When you retire, you're young.
You have the rest of your life.
And like for me, hopefully I can be an inspiration to kids and as adults to like, man, the world
is yours.
You just got to pour into it.
You got to get off your ass and stay positive and get to work.
Like, because like I don't have to work.
Like, I just.
I enjoy getting up every day.
I enjoy going to the gym.
I enjoy business ventures.
Like, I love being busy.
And so hopefully in 2026, it'll be more of that.
And hopefully I can continue to inspire.
I love that.
And I will say this.
You have been blessed with an incredible personality.
So you're funny and charismatic and entertaining.
So a lot of people don't have that.
And people enjoy watching you and seeing you.
So, you know, you got really blessed because you just have that vibe.
People have, you have that Geneseequa, that aura, that energy.
Genesee qua, they go another word.
You come out with a word every week.
Geneseequa is like just basically saying like you have that swag, like that aura, that energy.
Like, you know, you walk into a room.
People like want to, and not just because you're famous.
Like, I believe if you weren't famous, like people will be drawn to you.
because people are drawn to me as well.
And I feel like you have that energy to where you're just, like, funny.
Like, and anybody is lucky to have you on their podcast or on their platform
because you make it, you make it interesting, you make it entertaining, you make it funny.
Thank you so much.
You have a vibe about you.
You do, too.
You have an energy and, like, you have a voice because I've been around you
and I've seen people just gravitate towards you, you know, and just like,
and I'm talking about, like, women.
Yeah.
Like, you know, I know you got the men that gravitate toward you,
but like when women do it and they like, oh, my God,
they want to be your friend and do all this stuff.
It's like it's a great energy that you do.
Yeah, that's dope.
I think you have that too again, and not just because you're famous.
So I'm lucky to share this platform with you,
and I feel like you just are inspiring and you're a great vibe,
and you just are funny, too, you know?
I don't try to be.
You don't try, and that's what's super good.
I think the top five funniest motherfuck is.
You, Kevin Hart, Dave Chappelle, like, you up there with him.
I'm crying.
Okay, so anyway, let's get into the show.
I know you, I know you lie.
Let's get into the show.
So anyways, this story is super crazy.
So a woman finally said yes to her man after he proposed 43 times over the course of seven years.
People in the comments are clowning him saying that he's tripping for staying that long.
What are your thoughts?
Should he get props for being patient?
or is this just a bad decision?
This is the worst decision
he's making in his life.
Now let me ask you this.
If a woman, you propose a woman right now
and she's like, no.
Are you leaving her?
I'm leaving her.
Like, what else is there?
I decided to take the next step.
We're together, right?
Yeah.
You want to be with me?
Obviously, we're together.
You're telling me you don't see a future with us.
So, like, why are you wasting my time if I'm ready as a man?
And I'm stepping up as a man to be with you, and that's crazy.
43 times, I would, man, you know what I would do?
I would, like, plan the wedding.
Let's do it.
It's petty ass.
Man, we're going to walk down that aisle and I'm out of there.
We're going to pay all that money just to be petty.
Yeah, because you was petty 43 goddamn time.
I'm going to be petty once.
now so is that equivalent to a woman being pregnant
and a man saying I'm not ready
what's the difference should she leave that man to
wait said that again so like if you're saying
oh a man proposed and she said no so you out of there
because I'm ready what we're supposed to be together
what's the problem so if a man
if a woman gets pregnant by her man and he's like
I'm not ready to have that kid she should leave him
because what was the difference
That is not equivalent to that.
How is it not?
Because people think that having marriage is a bigger commitment
than having a child, but I don't agree with that.
She should leave him if he say I'm not ready to have the kid.
What's the difference of saying I'm not ready to have a kid
to say I'm not ready to right now to be married?
Do we plan the kid?
Because we plan, we can plan the wedding.
Did you be planning the kid?
No, but you can, but the point is
is you can plan an engagement and I can say,
I'm not ready to be engaged right now.
You pop the question, just like I popped out pregnant.
I'm not ready for this engagement right now
because I feel like we still need to do X, Y, and Z before.
That's why on both cases it should be a breakup.
So you think it should be a breaker for the kid too?
If he wants it and she does it?
Or if she wants it and he's like, no, I'm not ready.
I think it's the other way around.
If he gets her pregnant and she doesn't want it, like, and he's like, what?
Why wouldn't that matter?
That's equivalent to what you're talking about.
Wait, so why doesn't it matter if the woman wants it and the man doesn't?
Most of the time the woman wants it.
99% of the time.
Okay, that's not true.
That is true.
I don't think that's true.
Like, if the woman says,
like, because that's like, damn, I'm not having your baby.
Like, you know what I'm saying?
Like, damn.
Like, what?
Like, if she says, I'm not, no.
Like, that's equivalent to that.
If the woman says no, yes, it is.
It makes more sense that way.
Because that's like looking at,
that's like the slap in the face to the man.
And you don't think it's a slap in the face to a,
woman when a man says no he doesn't want to have your baby you don't think that that kills a woman
down yeah so she should leave him i'm telling you that's what that the equivalent of what you're saying
is that okay it makes a whole bunch of nonsense to me on the on the engagement it's like her saying
i'm not having your kid right now so that's equivalent to that so ddg sister a proposed to her man
she proposed yeah as she should that's what i think it should be i am blown away
by any woman proposing to please
baby keep you know keep your dignity as a woman
yeah I'm never getting on a need to propose to a man
that is so you ain't got to get on me you ain't got to get on me
who made that up anyway who made up get on me
but listen to what I'm saying you could be as a woman
I don't think you should propose to a man
and I wouldn't want like my daughter's proposing to no man
I think that that is so just
I think it's an imbalance in the relationship
and I think that it's just like
As a woman, you should, I don't want a man who says, I'm a leader, I should lead, follow
me, and then I'm getting on my knee or not getting on my knee and making a big life decision
to propose.
What about all masculine women should propose?
Fine, do that.
I don't care, because I'm not going to be masculine in my relationship, so I'm not proposing
to a man.
I think that that is out of pocket and out of control.
How is that out of pocket because of like what society has made a look?
No, it's not about society.
It's about the imbalance of a relationship.
And I forgot who it was, but a man was talking about this.
And you know, he's like a sports person and he's like being on podcast.
I'm so sorry, I don't know what I'm saying.
The point is, is he was talking about the Bible and he was talking about how it does create
an imbalance in a relationship when a woman is on her masculine and is trying to wear
the pants in the relationship, no matter what, it's going to create an imbalance
in the relationship.
And I believe that.
So if you're telling me, I'm getting on the knees to make a huge life decision that I feel
like my man should make.
Like, you tell me when you think
this is the time to do this.
You tell me that.
I'm not telling you that we're about to make
a whole big life decision.
I'm not doing that.
You tell me about that.
You tell me when to do that.
Like, that's it.
Men are the first to get on the knee,
but then women are the first
to give you them papers.
Yeah, I could agree with that.
But, like, so what's wrong
with a woman getting on that knee?
because she's going to eventually give you the papers too
so do both
I'm not getting on that knee
you might as well do both then
I'm not getting on that knee
ever my dad would be disgraced
I'm not stand up and give it to my ass
I'm not proposing
I'm not standing up at dinner
I'm not proposing to a man
I'm not nothing
and my dad would be disgraced with me
as a 77-year-old man
man, it will blow him.
I'm never doing that.
I don't care.
If you want to do it to eat your own.
What if you was with a man for like three or four years
and he was like, baby,
if you asked me to marry you, I'll marry you?
That's blowing me.
Why are we together for four years anyways
and we didn't even have that conversation?
No, I'm cool, cool, cool.
I'm cool.
I'm not saying, like, I'm asked you a question.
If he said, hey, if you ever asked me to marry you,
like, I don't believe in marriage.
But, like, if you ask me to marry you, I'll marry you.
Well, first of all, would you propose?
No.
If you don't believe in marriage, we shouldn't even be together because that's the goal for women.
What if you believed in it and they said, I don't believe in it no more, in the relationship.
We shouldn't be together then.
Things change.
Then we shouldn't be together then.
That's okay.
If we all together, like, I want to marry you.
And then it's like, let's be together for some time.
And then he comes like after three years and I really don't believe in marriage.
I love you.
I love the way we are.
But if you ask me to marry, I'll marry you.
Okay, well, we're not getting married then.
And I'm not going to be to you anymore.
So your ego is going to allow you to not get.
It's not my ego.
It's the fact that you, what kind of man, if you ask me to marry me, I'm going to make.
Like that's, no, you're saying a voice.
Don't make that feminine voice.
Don't make that feeling of voice.
If you asked me, that's such a feminine thing.
If you ask me to marry me, I got you.
If you ask me to roll over, I'll do whatever you want.
Ew.
No, that's nasty.
I don't like a man that's like, if you tell me what to do, I'll do it.
That's giving.
That's not giving.
That's how men sound.
I don't care.
That's what it will sound like me to be in my mind.
Like, oh,
if you ask me to marry you, I'll do it.
No, I'm not asking you,
and I don't care what anyone says about me
in this moment. If you get on one knee right now,
I'll marry you.
Bye.
You're saying bye?
Yeah, you're blowing me. You're breaking up that day.
You're blowing me. I will be
a disgrace. I can't even take you home to my family.
You want me to get on one knee to marry you. So then when you go to your family
and you tell them that, like, and they say,
like, let's go down the basic list of things
that you like and you like the nine out of the ten things.
but now because of that that's a deal breaker
I'm not going to say that I will break up
but it would make me view you different
I'm saying what you're saying with the nine out of ten things
I'm not necessarily saying like I'm going to break up with you
I don't know because I'm not in the position
but I will not ask you to marry me
I will not ask a man to marry me period point
I'm just not doing that
like I believe in traditional values in a relationship
I believe that the man
I don't even know what's traditional value
well like the man is the head of the household to me
the man runs the decisions.
I will ask my man, like, is it okay if I go?
Is it okay if I do this?
Like, I'm cool with that.
I believe in that.
I like traditional values.
You believe in making Daddy a sandwich.
Yeah, absolutely.
Okay.
100%.
Like, I believe that I should clean up.
I believe that I should cook.
I believe that if my man is like, comes on three and once have sex, we could do it.
You want a sandwich?
I'll get up.
Like, I'm not doing none of that.
I think that's weird.
That's how I was raised.
That's how my sisters are with their husband.
That's how my dad is with my mom.
Like I don't like that
And I don't want it to be to where I'm making big decisions
For our relationship
I want my man to make those decisions
And I want to follow his lead
And yes, as a woman we always have our little things we're going to say
But for the overall big picture
I don't want that
I want my man to be the head of this entire household
I want him to make the big decisions
When we're raising children
I want him to tell me okay cool
Like I don't want that
I just don't want that
Like that's weird to me
And whoever wants to do that that's cool
I feel like the newer generation
is with some whole freaky stuff,
maybe on some different little items.
Cool.
Get into that vibe.
I am just old school values like that.
I don't want that.
Yeah.
Old school, yeah.
Older, you older.
I'm an older woman.
So for me.
You've been raised a certain way,
and that's nothing but you got to stand on that thing.
I'm standing on it.
That's what's up.
That's what I'm.
No, that's what's up.
Period.
Period.
I like the old school values.
I like that's cracking.
I like an old school value.
I don't care.
We got a Tuesday's young.
That's the thing.
And that's why I like women be like,
it's control, you're controlling.
But for me personally,
I like a little bit of control.
I like a person to be like,
I'm making decisions.
I'm telling you what to do.
All right, cool.
I'm cool with that.
I've always been cool with that.
I don't have a problem with any of that.
I don't even have a problem with the man's like,
I don't change that outfit is to this.
Like, I have been in the,
I'm like, all right, cool.
I promise, like 10 toes down, I'm on that.
I don't care about that.
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So the question of the day is there's a clip online
of a news station talking about men and women
having backup plans within their relationships.
My question for you is do you think
that there's more women or more men with backup options?
Oh, I think it's more women with backup options
You think so?
Yeah
Because I don't know, that's a good one
I never had no backup options
Okay
I never had a backup options in the relationship
I think that's a woman thing
They're going to keep a man in the back pocket
Because a man don't
With women and other men
The women don't got to talk to the man
as much as the man got to talk to
a woman. I can see that. You know what I'm saying? To keep it
cool. Yeah, I can see that. Because like if you're dealing with somebody else
you got to text them, call them every other day
or every couple days where a woman, she might not talk to him for a week or two
or, you know, y'all got a schedule or it's something crazy
you're telling them. Meet me at the trash can in this alley.
Like, y'all, y'all, a man will be there too.
Yeah. Just for the five-minute conversation. Where is?
Or women a lot, I feel.
like they are more inclined to like have a man that they'll talk to just emotionally and it won't
be about anything like you don't have to see the man you just call them oh this is how i'm feeling
like and just like emotionally dump on him because i feel like there's a lot of men who are so
enamored by like a woman's beauty or her vibe and they just don't care they'll just be in her life
or whatever like as long as you can just call me i'll always answer i'll be available there are men
like that. But the men are natural
like hunters. Yeah. So like
if a man feel like he can
take another man's prey
he don't care how long it takes.
He's going to sit back in the weeds
and the bushes and be waiting on that.
Yeah. That's how I mean I'm right.
Men for sure. Like I think that there's men
that will check on a woman
periodically to see like you're still in your relationship
or check your Instagram to see
because there's a big viral meme that
what's his name? Speedy.
I think his name is, he's a famous interviewer.
He has a thing where he's like,
when I see she took her man's pictures off the page,
I'm like, woo, and it has like a million likes.
And men are like, yeah, as soon as that man is off that page,
I'm in the DMs, like, or if that man is not on that page,
I'm in the DMs.
Like, if she visibly don't have no man, cool.
Because I feel like men are more respectful,
you would be surprised of women in relationships.
I've noticed that.
Like, man, if you tell them, like, I'm in a relationship,
they will literally be like, oh, for sure.
show like but they see that relationship fall apart they go on that ass see this how i feel
how do you feel about being a relationship and posting your partner though like i feel that just
give them i give the internet more ammo i feel yeah i could see that just like oh you know yeah
damn i'm gonna be on her he what like when you all post a lot but unless you ain't unless you
post in the thirst trap pictures and he ain't on there like if you ain't doing all that
and you ain't posting your man
but then when you post your man
it's gonna be or you post your girl
it's gonna be more eyes on her now
yeah more eyes on him now
well I'm so torn with that
especially like for me
like I've never been a big poster
of my relationships
yeah like never
and I like it that way
because it just it's annoying
because my brothers just say anything
yeah they want to drag you
I posted, I'll be honest
I've posted my relationships
on Instagram before
like my ex
you know like he had me on his page
I had him on his page
like people knew we were together
I'm not a big poster
in general like I'll be all over the world
and barely post anything
like that's the thing about me
as a content creator I should do better
but I don't post a lot
and I remember my last ex
would be like post this of us
like what
I don't like that.
I'm not being pressed to post nothing.
Like, no, why aren't you posted?
I was like, you're thirsty.
I don't want to have to post if I don't want to, like, or whatever.
But it's not like I'm sitting here posting the dinners and everything,
but I don't post the man.
I don't post nothing half the time.
And that's the thing about me.
But, yeah, I have done that before.
And you know what I hate is like the idea of, like, taking that down.
Like, I've done that and had to sit there and be like,
let me take these pictures now now,
Because we got together and then going to his page and he took them pictures down.
And then it's like, everyone knows like, oh shit, y'all are not together anymore.
And then as soon as that happened, every man is like, what's that, what's that, blah, blah, blah.
Like thirst, right?
Because we're not together anymore.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Like, I'm not against posting my partner, but I feel like posting your partner to me.
I'll never post a man until me and this man is engaged, married.
Like my best friend, she was like, I'm never posting a man ever getting in my life until I'm engaged.
and she got engaged
and she posted him when they got engaged
like that's all I'm posting
when we get engaged, cool
other than that I'm not looking stupid no more
in this life like I don't want to be showing
all of that and like da-da-da-da-da-da-da
but as a woman I will say
there's a reason that you do post your man though
to be honest with you
because it does stop all the DMs going crazy
because like every day are you single
what's that what's good this person following
this person this celebrity like it's so
a lot that you just want
to sometimes be like, I'm, like, publicly
I'm not available. Don't hit me
like sometimes you do want to do that as a woman
because it's overwhelming.
It's a lot like you
will be surprised and it's just like
I want less of that and more
of leave me alone.
Like, please.
It's good to get that just to know you still got it
though and not cooked. I don't need to know that.
I told you I already know that I got it.
Period point blank, baby.
It ain't nothing.
It's like women need
like you look at the comments
you like to be feeling like
no I don't think that that does anything for me
I think it's like how you're famous
and when you go out people are like
Paul Paul can I get a picture
after a while you're like it's cool
someone else will think I bet you he loves that
it's boosting his ego after a while
you don't give a damn
that's how I feel about the men I've had every man
try to talk to why do I care anymore
it's not doing nothing at this point
leave me alone like at this point
you're talking to yourself in the DM 30 times
I'd rather just have
more and for me I'm focused on like more women followers more women on my stuff like I don't want to
post something as all men like oh what's up are you single are you this are you that are you that
every day I get that from every type of man you can imagine like leave me alone right you know what I'm
saying but whatever it's like a beautiful woman it's like the same thing as being a celebrity
what's the difference um a lot of things no it's like you got people coming at you
yeah you do yeah like what's the difference like you
a beautiful woman is the same
as a celebrity you got
everybody hitting you up
every time you go to the thing
everybody trying to talk to you
all this
like for real it's like no different
and that's why
the only thing is everybody
don't want to take a picture
but they always on you
yeah and that's why it's hard
even when like you want to post a picture
as a woman sometimes
like I don't post like
extra doubts like thirst trap
but like a face picture
a little thing where you're vibing
you want to post that
but I know like as soon as I post that
it's going crazy
like you're getting so many hitups of like damn you're so beautiful what's up
follows follows follows like I don't know if they sending it to each other
what's up but it's like it goes crazy so sometimes I get why women be like I'm in a
relationship you should one day on truth after dark posted Vince Carter
no I'm not doing that I already know what you mean but I don't even know who that is
you don't know no I don't but I know exactly what you're saying because you said it before
About the Dark, DeVance Carter.
No, I'm not posting nothing about my body.
Like, and, and, yeah, we'll talk about it on the episode
because there's actually something that a man said recently.
360.
No, I'm not doing none of that.
I don't shoot about the dark on.
No, and they say that in the comments on the YouTube all the time.
You turn around, do the three.
Like, just, someone said, let us end our year right.
Yeah, give us the 360 for the end of the year.
Yeah, no.
Why not?
I'm not doing that.
Man, that's going to boost the followers.
don't solicit my body
soliciting is getting paid for something
yeah you're talking about this
ain't anybody paying you to do that
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that was the end of the second
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Moving on.
Moving on.
What to you are the signs that a relationship is over?
Like, for example, Cardi B, she said that her past relationship was over
when she would walk past her man and he wouldn't smack her ass.
Damn.
That was given, like, you don't even care no more.
You're not even smack in this ass.
Yeah, people are always doing that.
Like, because a woman loves when a man is smacking ass when you walk by.
Because it's like, okay, grab a little ass back.
Especially if you have ass.
Like, how do you not grab my ass and you know I have ass?
Yeah, right.
All of that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
In the kitchen cooking.
Yeah.
Exactly.
How you not grabbing my ass, knowing I have ass is blowing.
Let me ask you something.
Do girls with flat cheeks like they ask me?
I don't have flat cheeks.
No, I'm just saying, do you think?
Probably, yeah.
Grab a little flat cheek.
Like grab a tithe.
Grab something.
Grab something, baby.
A stomach, a titty, a ass.
What?
What?
A leg.
You might knock her over, though.
She, just because you have, this is wrong with me.
I don't know.
But I do know a woman wants to feel that like,
you're walking by me, smack a little ass,
do a little grab, get a little cracking.
Right, right, right, right.
I like that.
Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You like that.
So what do you feel like, you know,
like, is there any signs when you know,
like, a relationship is over?
A lot of women say they know,
when a man is done with you
when he starts being really mean to you
and like always super annoyed by you.
It's like, oh, he must have another woman
that's like cool, but it's like
also it's hard to tell because sometimes
there's men that are just moody men.
So it's like you give the advice
of like if he's annoyed by you then he doesn't want
you, but then what if you're with someone who's just moody?
Yeah, I think when it's starting
to disrespect start kicking in.
Okay. And what does that look like?
Well, just like
I ain't doing that.
Like, what?
Like, damn, can you make me a play, baby?
I'm good.
Like, damn.
Like, for real?
That's crazy.
Damn, it's just a certain tone in a voice
that you start hearing
that you ain't really heard before.
And it's just like disrespectful.
Yeah, I can see that.
It's just like a certain.
You can hear the tone in their voice.
Like, then start to roll the rolling of the eyes
is more common.
and that start kicking in.
This is just my experience.
Just disrespectful little comments.
And, you know, it's just little stuff that you,
it ain't little as big.
It's just like, you know, I ain't, I ain't rolling.
You know what?
I ain't rolling with this.
No, I can't do this.
Yeah, when a woman starts to disrespect to man
or lose respect, the relationship is pretty much over.
I'll be honest.
I feel like for me, I've had that experience
where it's just like the cheating and,
the lies and the weird stuff is just like, I can't respect you.
I remember an instant.
I don't know why this would never leave my head.
It was just like in my relationship, we was getting in the car, going somewhere,
me, her, and her friend.
And so I was in the house.
So the friend is, she's driving.
So I come out, the friend is in the front seat.
So I come in, I open up the front seat, like,
Like, I shouldn't even have to say nothing, right?
Yeah.
And then she was like, just get in the back.
I was like, what?
What?
I felt like that was so disrespectful.
Like, we go somewhere, me, you, or your friend,
and you tell the, me, get in the back?
Like, are you serious right now?
That's not even a question.
Like, cool.
Yeah, that's crazy.
I have a question for you, though.
That's crazy to me.
Do you think, like, let's say,
man has a sister right and like his sister's in town or something and like she's around y'all
she might be the older a man has a sister yeah yeah all right do you feel like the sisters are
in the front seat and the woman should get in the back no my lady is in the front seat every time
that's not even a question my girl you're not even here get in the my mom get in the back
yeah see i'm accustomed to like if it was someone's mom the mom is sitting in the front
I'm feeling crazy.
She's saying, no, she's going to have to say it.
I'm saying no, no, no.
The mom is getting in the front.
No, no, no, no.
But you're going to have to say,
here, no, Mrs. get in the front.
Yeah, that's blowing me.
My wife and my girl is in the front.
See, I'm accustomed to, like, my dad is old.
So, like, for me, it'd be like, get in the back.
If it's someone older than you, if it's your elder,
period point blank.
Like, I feel like, okay, you can get in the front.
If it's your girl, she in the back.
But if it's your wife, she's in the front.
Okay, I still feel like.
Wife is in the front,
moms is in the back.
That's long.
Girlfriend is in the back.
Moms is in the front.
Yeah, that's how I should go.
Yep.
I think that's how I should go.
Wife is in the front
because she's making decisions.
You're with her every day.
You've got to live with her.
Your mom is visiting.
But what if the girl is the same thing?
You live with your girl.
Y'all have been together for this time.
Most of the good girls is like,
it's okay, mom, getting the front.
But most of them,
going to give that to them.
And that's what we want as men for y'all to do that.
But we're going to validate you on the front.
Okay.
I can see that.
You know what I'm saying?
I think that's how I should go.
But if she's a good girl, she's going to be like,
go ahead, mom, get in the front.
I could never just let the mom sit in the back.
That's going to blow me.
But me, as the husband, I'm never sitting in the back seat.
No, because you're a man.
First of all, I didn't bought this goddamn car.
What if it's her dad?
Get your ass in the back, daddy.
Man, get in the back.
And he's tall as hell.
And he's old.
And get in the trunk then.
You need some leg space.
So you're letting the dad get in the back for sure.
I'm never getting in the back.
Okay.
Man, lay down in.
That's so crazy.
An old man, that's like 80.
Yeah, get in the back.
Old man.
You'd had your front seat days.
That's funny.
That's not blowing you.
I'm the husband.
I should never have to get the back.
But as a boyfriend, you get in the back.
I'll get in the back as boyfriend.
I'm just the boyfriend.
that's your daddy okay okay because as a husband I take care of you and I take care of this car
but what if you feel like as a boyfriend you did that too you're like oh I've been your man for this
amount I don't bought you this car all of this you still get in the back let's let's talk
about it like what do we live together they live together or you yeah you live together we have
kids no no kids you bought the car though and you take care of the person I bought the car
took care of the person
I'm in the front
I'm in the front
okay so you're in the front seat
I'm in the front seat so
me as a boyfriend
I'm in the front seat
but the woman has a girlfriend
she's in the back yeah
so men don't really
respect girlfriends if you're your wife
you get respected on the level
but if you're a girlfriend
it's kind of like you're just a girl because you can be gone
tomorrow my mama still my mama
right but a wife can divorce
you as well okay but you're my wife right now okay so a girlfriend so do you feel as if because
this is what uh when we had poor minds on the episode they said if you're not married you're
single technically do you feel that do you have a girlfriend that yeah like I'm saying
you have a relationship girlfriend and boyfriend but if you're not married you're technically
single do you believe that but what the technically single mean that mean that mean you
can talk to other people?
I don't know what that means, but she said that,
and I guess it means like...
You are single.
Because when you write on that application,
married or single.
Yeah, that's what she was saying?
So you're single?
You're single, yeah.
So what does that mean?
So do you believe that to where it's like,
okay, you can talk to other people?
No, it's like you like the thing about relationships
when you're not married.
You have a girlfriend, you have a boyfriend,
you have a boyfriend, you're going steady.
You have an agreement with each other.
Like, hey, I'm excused.
exclusive with you.
Right.
You know, let's see if this turns into not single.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You know, and that's what relationships are.
And, you know, we do a lot of different relationships
because that's a life decision you make when you marry somebody.
Yeah, for sure.
You got to figure, like, hey, if I decide to marry you, my idea,
my mind is like I'm going to be the rest of my life with you.
So that's not a quick decision.
For sure.
You know, so dating and girlfriends and boyfriends,
that's, I got to give me some time to make.
that decision but like that don't give me the
we're exclusive right now
and I made you exclusive because I want to see if
this is heading toward that direction now
if it don't work out we just
break up and I'll see what the next girl talking about
I'm crying and that's where women too
you know like yeah that's for women too like
all right cool if it doesn't work out and I
think that that goes back into women having backup
plans because they're like okay
if you're not marrying then
we're technically single
that means technically you have
these people in place that are like
oh like I will marry you I want to be with you I want to do these things with you
but they're not your first option if you live together for three years
and you not have no marriage plans it should be okay to have a backup plan okay
I think if the listen is what I say if you live together I hear two to three years
I think you should have a backup plan well we were on poor minds you said if you're over
33 and he lived together for more
than one year, then
it's not given that marriage shit.
Yeah, over 33
is different, though, for a woman.
For a woman.
Because y'all are like at that borderline
to where it's like
you're still thinking kids and
marriages are like, because like you can't waste
three years. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying?
So that's different. You know what I'm saying?
You ain't got three years to be this motherfucker.
I'll be like, damn, I've wasted three goddamn
years. And this is a critical
age to where you're still looking to do the whole family you know you know so that's that's
different yeah that's true i think that women have men that really like are good guys but they just
don't want to be with them and they're willing to like marry them and have a kid and do all this
and they're like okay i could be with that person you know what i mean because there are those
men but i feel like women are not attracted to those men a lot of the time
even if they're attractive, it's just like,
you're not my vibe, really, but you got a good situation.
But you're not my vibe, but you're cool.
But see, me, I can't do that.
I have to vibe out with you.
I just don't love it.
Like, I've had that to where it was like the perfect man, handsome, rich.
I couldn't even think about something without him having it for me.
Like, I'll think about something one time.
It's there.
Like, whoa.
And it was just everything.
And everyone was like, he's perfect.
He's the best man.
But I couldn't get into the vibe.
And so I had to let it go.
Like, I can't do this and I can't waste your time.
So who was the breakup?
Like, he was like, I ain't, I know what I didn't do it.
You broke up with him or he broke with you?
I broke up with him and I just was like.
What was the reason, though?
The reason was like crazy.
Because it was just like, I couldn't even go.
I felt so bad.
You know what I'm saying?
But it was like, I just was like, unfortunately, I just did not in the space to want to have a relationship
because he was pressing on some like, are we together,
we're not together.
We're not in a relationship.
relationship like I'm telling you that right now wait no I'm saying you were in a relationship with him
like it felt like I was debowed into a relationship though because I kept being like I don't want to be in a
relationship and then it was like we're together we're together and then it was just like oh god we're together
and I just felt so crazy because I'm like I'm still and I will be transparent like I just don't know right now
I'm figuring this out I don't know I don't know and he was just like what like but mind you
perfect on paper very handsome tall like women want him I
just felt like it was long on me like successful career like music all that and i just felt
like i couldn't get into the vibe so i finally just was like was like was y'all having sex
yeah we had sex like twice or three times and y'all were together yeah but how long did the
relationship last the relationship was like three weeks no like it was like it was like it was like it was
It was a minute.
It was a minute.
Come on,
no, I swear to God.
The relationship was a minute.
You could not be with somebody
left more than three weeks
and only have like six, three times.
That's crazy.
No, it was.
And it was.
It was a year.
It wasn't a year, but it was like,
it was longer than it should have been.
But also, too, remember this,
we weren't together.
We were talking for this period of time.
And a lot of the chunk of it,
for six months of it, I was like, no,
I don't want to be in a relationship.
So why was you hanging out with him?
Because I actually,
enjoyed him he was cool but i just was like joy is a vibe i enjoy him that's a vibe not like that though
it was too it was too many was it opportunistic was it what opportunistic no it wasn't opportunistic at
all because it was just like i really wanted to be with him as far as like i wish i could be with you
i want to try to make this work so bad because you would not cheat on me you're like a good person
So what was it?
It was just not, I couldn't click.
It just didn't click.
I just couldn't.
I was like, damn, and everyone knew.
And then when people around me saw me with the next person I was with,
they were like, oh, my God, it's so different.
You're vibing, you're loving this man.
Like, it was so different to be with this person and then that person.
And even my best friend and her, like, fiancee was like,
this is crazy.
Like, you were not feeling this man.
And they even had a conversation with me, like, it feels forced on your end.
And it feels like something times men pressure you into things.
And you're like, yo, like, I'm not feeling it.
And to me, I felt like he knew I wasn't feeling it.
Like he knew it, but you're still pressuring it, pressuring it.
And it got to the point where I just was like, yo, you're smut.
Like, I feel they're like, it's too much.
I need space.
I need a minute.
Like you're pressuring me into like having a kid, wanting to be married, having this lifetime.
No, it wasn't.
No, I wasn't big at all.
I was just not big.
And so I was looking good.
Like, I was looking good.
And he was looking good, like he's hitting.
Like, he's, cool, like, cool.
Like, women want him.
Like, he's a hot commodity, and it just wasn't me.
Like, honestly, like women, he was cracking.
Where are he at now?
Is he around?
You seen him before?
No, I haven't seen him since we broke up.
No, I don't follow him on Instagram or nothing.
We don't follow each other.
If I looked him up, yeah, but I'm not looking him up on Instagram.
No, I'm not doing that.
I feel bad.
I feel genuinely bad and I just really hope that.
We should get him on Pierce by Love.
No, I think he probably has another, like he's cool.
Like people want to be with him.
Like even his ex was still on his bumper.
Like, you know what I'm saying?
Like you ain't no buster, but you just wasn't for me.
It sounded like it was a buster.
No, he was not.
He was not a buster.
He's a cool man.
It just didn't connect.
with me. Have you ever dated a woman who had a lot
of traits and attributes like how Tyrese
was saying they checked the list, but it
just is not clicking for you.
Like, it's not
clicking for me. I just don't.
I had a girlfriend like me. Or like a girl that you was
dealing with it. You're like, I wish this was cool
because you are dope, but you're just
not vibing with me.
You never had it with it. It's just like
you're a dope, but I just can't get into it.
And what type of way, you know, like with them?
I just don't feel. I've never had a
girl that I wasn't viving.
Like, that don't even make sense to me.
See, I think it's a woman thing because
women feel like the man
that I'm vibing with is just
like, I don't want to vibe with that type
of man. Sometimes women say they have to change
their type to be with a man
who's for real. Like, marry
kids, actually have family, you're actually
going to do something. Sometimes you have to change the type of man
you're into. You know what I mean? And it's
like, women go through that phase where you either
decide to do that and be like,
who I'm going to marry this man, because I could have married
this man had a kid with this man, everything.
And it would have had like a house or thing, everything,
like would have been chilling, full-blown taking care of,
everything for a fact.
Never would have left me.
You can decide to do that as a woman,
or you can be like, I'm not doing that.
And I'm not going for that,
because I can't live a life with someone
that I'm truly unhappy with.
I just, I'm not going for that.
I don't care what you can offer me.
But a lot of women take that.
They take that bait because it's like, it's cool.
you're taking care of your good
period I'm not taking
the bait though and I don't want to
you don't need to take the bait exactly
so anyways there's a
viral meme that says
no woman is getting a BBL
and staying faithful to a man
the entire point of that procedure is to be
a hoe
damn
a woman said this too
yeah what are your thoughts on that
damn
I thought the procedure was to just
get a like to keep up with the Joneses because like I don't know that's a woman said that
yeah she said no woman is getting able to stay faithful to a man the entire point of that
procedure is to be a hoe it looked like it depends on what you look like before that
I got to see yo before and after you know what I'm saying because I don't yeah like if you
get that you're trying to you want that attention it depends on which one
one you get to you get level a you know what I'm saying you get level C okay just before you can just
you know for your damn I wonder this though like if a woman is in a relationship do she
consult her man on that then what if he say no and you do it anyway should he be pissed I'll be
pissed I don't like that yeah I think you should for sure cuts off your man I don't like that
that happened to me and I wasn't I wasn't feeling it you got to for sure
consult your man about that 100%.
Yeah, but then you just come home one day
like, yeah, look.
No, that's crazy.
That's morning.
You got to for sure consult your partner
about any surgical procedures that change
your look or change your anything.
Right. I'm consulting my man about
a haircut, a bob.
Like, you should be consulting your man
or your partner in general like,
hey, I'm doing this now. What you think?
Can I do this? Like, I believe
in that 100%.
But like, I'm not going to
say, because I have friends who's had BBLs, and I would not consider them a hoe in any way,
shape, or form. I don't necessarily think that that is what it makes you a hoe automatically.
Like, some people have genetically a really messed up shape, and it's just like you have no butt,
you have a bigger upper body, you're so disproportioned that you need to run that BBL procedure.
I don't know because I never had this issue, and I don't want to sit here and be like,
oh, you shouldn't get a BBL, da-da-da-da, because it's not fair coming from someone
who naturally has had a big butt her whole life.
You know what that's like, I'm going to tell you what the BBL is like.
It's like that one nigga that gets to the league and he just started having girls.
He didn't have girls before.
So now he's popping.
It's like that girl, she didn't get that attention.
She gets that BBL.
It's a different type of attention with a bud.
Now you're like, oh, damn, I'm popping.
And you don't know what to do with this attention.
so I could kind of see what she's saying like,
oh, you're getting that BBL.
Now you became a hoe because before you couldn't
because it wasn't given that.
I'm telling you.
But it's like this or this, this though.
People assume like, oh, I lost weight
and now I looked how I look and I'm a hoe.
And that's not true.
But plus, I was never looking like that my whole life though.
So maybe it's different because I always looked good
and then I gained weight for a little bit
and then I looked good again.
Maybe he knows is opening up the doors for some of these.
Well, because clearly,
I said men don't care about a face, so you just got.
I didn't say that.
You gave, you just, you know, you see how to disrupt the word.
I didn't say men don't care about the face.
But you gave me an ultimatum.
You gave me the ultimatum.
Do I take olive oil with a pretty face or ugly face with the body?
And I chose.
Ugly face with the body.
So when men say stuff like that, it influences women to get a body.
I could be ugly, but I could have a booty in the body.
And I'm cracking.
Yeah.
Women are removing red.
This is how real it's getting
To have an hourglass shape
Yeah, we've got more men saying that
That's why women are putting so much emphasis
On their looks and spending that money
And if you want to spend that money on them, they're going to do it.
They say that BBLs
Are a sign of you being an auntie
Because it's a certain era generation of women
That have them, and they're saying that
It's an auntie look now.
That's like all the internet is say, like BBL is giving auntie,
okay? And that's what they're saying
Because all the girls now are getting old.
All the girls have
Yeah, they're looking crazy and they have
So you're telling me the new generation ain't getting BVOs?
They probably are
But I think the procedures have gotten better
And they're looking more natural
So it doesn't, you can't tell as much
They're getting a little bit here, here, here, no
I'm gonna tell y'all this and I'm gonna look in the camera
And say this
Hey, we could tell you got that BVL
When them legs, you order that ass
And the legs don't come with it
And they don't match
Man, that
I need to come out with the
procedure where I'm giving out matching legs.
Yeah.
Is that a thing?
Because when the legs, make sure you do it where it matches the legs.
They don't have that.
That'd be looking crazy.
When the legs don't match, you over here looking all crazy.
When them skinny old legs and you got this big old butt, that look crazy.
Y'all, I don't know what y'all see.
Y'all, y'all stop looking.
But then when them legs don't match, that looks crazy.
They look like a little ant.
No, it's looking like Spunk.
SpongeBob.
You know how SpongeBob body.
Bongo don't have no ass.
I'm just saying his body go with them legs.
They don't match.
His body don't match his legs.
And that's what I'm saying.
You're all here looking like SpongeBob.
That's, whew.
I don't know if the girls can see it, too,
because they just roll with it.
I don't know what's going on.
I don't know if people don't see what's going on
what they look.
Man, they don't see it.
They don't see the oversized lips.
They think the oversized.
Yeah.
Their face look like a Big Mac.
or something
and look crazy
oh my God
that'd be looking crazy
yeah I'm good yeah
I'm good I feel like
so so
this guy went online
and he said
and I've seen this a few times now
he said females be naked
so much online
I'd be like damn I bet you look good in the sweater
he said I'm so tired
he said at this point I could see
butt tities every time I scroll
he said it don't even phase me no
I just scroll past it like whatever
what happened to mystery
what happened to secrecy what happened to
envisioning a woman naked
he's like you can't even do that
no more because all these women are
half naked or naked on the
Instagrams yeah because
they're trying to get followers
they're trying to use that to monetize they look
I mean ain't nobody working
no more everybody trying to monetize
they look they influence
and if they can give some of your
body is influential
What does that mean your body is influential?
Your body and your face is influential
because you've got so many followers and so many likes
because of your body and face.
It ain't nothing you doing out here.
And if you can monetize that,
that's the world we live in
because you look at the examples of all these girls
who are just showing their ass and face
and selling clothes and driving traffic,
they make money.
So that inspires other people say, hey, I can do that.
Why can't I make some money with my influential body and face?
And so that's just the world we live in and they're getting paid for it.
So why not give it a look?
Why not give it a look?
I'm not even mad at those girls who are doing that.
If somebody say you want to give me some millions or some free stuff or advertisement
or whatever it is for me to take these exotic picks that don't cross the line,
but it's sexy and I look that way
to where people want to look at my page
and follow me, they're good for you.
Yeah, I'm going to be like on some shit
where it's like not judgmental,
but it is going to come judgmental.
I don't like it because I feel like
we're just overexposed as a society
and I feel like it makes the value
as a woman go down.
Where like back in the day,
it was so amazing to see a naked woman.
It was like, whoa, this is cracking.
Now I feel like everything is all over the internet.
And I do believe that mystery should still live on.
And I believe that women should still value the fact that we have something that's powerful.
Power of the P-U-S-S-S-Y.
Oh, gosh.
You feel what I'm saying?
And I feel like it, no, because it's true.
And I feel like I'm-
We're just talking about naked.
Yeah, and that's what I'm talking about.
I mean, not even making photos.
It's just, you know, photos.
But you think it stops at that?
If you're willing to do that, you're willing to do more.
Because you're selling your soul, in my opinion, for followers.
Yeah, but it's not an excuse, in my opinion.
You're selling a soul for money.
Yeah, and that's crazy.
That's really like the devil's work right there.
You got no other skill in life, and you don't have nothing else going for you,
and they're saying, hey, you can make money this way.
People are going to do it.
I understand that, and I understand that people are walking the stroll for a long time.
It's not nothing new, but I just wish that, you know,
people value themselves more to understand that
there's more to life than that. And it's
like a dark lifestyle living like that
and I hate the fact that everything is
naked. I don't even like it. It's like I don't
want to see you have naked every day either.
Like let me see some
let me see you put some shit on.
Right. Period.
Like put some shit on and look
flying something but whatever
it's modern day prostitution and that's
all right. Playboy, I call it
Playboy. Because that's what Playboy
was. It was like the clothes on
but it gave you a little this and that.
It's not a little.
It's a lot going on.
Yeah, a little more than usual.
This has been going on since the beginning, though.
Right.
And that's what I'm saying.
But no, no, no, it's overexposed now.
Anybody can be in Playboy now.
Yeah, it's over exposed now.
And a lot of y'all need to hang it up.
So before we wrap it up, we're going to say, we're going to just, I'm going to ask you some questions, and you have to answer.
I have to know.
Yes.
Have you ever stayed with someone knowing it wouldn't last?
yes or no it's rapid fire questions you got to answer it's not no nothing yes or no
this is a rapid fire question yes yes okay have you ever ignored a red flag because you
were attracted yes is I'm busy usually a lie no have you ever ghosted someone who
didn't deserve it no is silence a form of manipulation no yes it is who cheats more when
unhappy, men or woman?
Women.
Who is more forgiving,
men or woman?
Men.
That's true.
Who loves harder, men or women?
Men.
That's a lie.
Not even close.
Women, men love you.
We already talk about this.
Women love who loves harder?
That's what that was it.
Who loves harder, men are women?
No, men love, for real.
Women love on conditions.
Oh, okay.
Why is the, we get into it really quick.
What do you mean?
No, we don't need to get to it.
Who leaves mentally first?
women
does good sex make people stay longer than they should
yes
is body count relevant
or just insecurity
insecurity
would you stay in a relationship with bad sex
yes
it's sexual compatibility
because you can give sex
from someone else
so you're just going to cheat
this is crazy
Is sexual compatibility more important than emotional compatibility?
No emotional compatibility.
Okay.
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I hope you guys have an incredible year.
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