Club Shay Shay - Paul & Azar Discuss A Man Proposing 43 Times, Traditional Values & Why Women With BBLs Aren't Loyal | Truth After Dark

Episode Date: January 5, 2026

The 1st episode of 2026 is here and you know we’re getting spicy! Paul & Azar discuss a man proposing 43 times to his girl, being a traditional woman, bad BBL’s, women asking their men... for marriage, having a backup plan in your relationship, and 1 word to describe 2025! Let’s start the New Year off the right way! Pour you a glass of wine and tune in to Truth After Dark! #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcript
Discussion (0)
Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human. Pro drivers live for race day, but for small business owners, every day is race day. That's why going pro with Lenovo Pro matters. One-on-one advice, IT solutions,
Starting point is 00:00:16 and customized hardware powered by Intel Core ultra-processors, keep your business on the right track. Business goes pro with Lenovo Pro. Sign up for free at Lenovo.com slash pro. have you ever listened to those true crime shows and found yourself with more questions than answers who catfishes a city is it even safe to snort human remains is that the plot of footloos i'm comedian rory schovel and i'm here to tell you josh dean and i have a new podcast that celebrates the amazing creativity of the world's dumbest criminals it's called crimeless a true crime comedy podcast
Starting point is 00:00:59 Listen on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, everybody, it's Michelle Williams, host of checking in on the Black Effect Podcast Network. You know, we always say New Year, New Me, but real change starts on the inside. It starts with giving your mind and your spirit the same attention you give your goals. And on my podcast, we talk mental health, healing, growth, and everything you need to step into your next season, whole and in podcast. New Year, Real You. Listen to checking game with Michelle Williams from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Like, because a woman loves when a man is smack and ass when you walk by.
Starting point is 00:01:44 Because it's like, okay, grab a little ass back, especially if you have ass. Like, how do you know I grab my ass and you know I have ass? Yeah, right. All in that. Yeah. Yeah. In the kitchen cooking. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:01:57 Exactly. How you not grow up. Grabbing my ass, knowing I have ass, is blowing me. Let me ask you something. Do girls with flat cheeks like they ask me? I don't have flat cheeks. No, I'm just saying, do you think? Probably, yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:09 Grab a little flat cheek. Like, grab a tini. Grab something. Grab something, baby. This is the taking over the game. All right, everybody, welcome to truth after dark. Do you think that men or women are more toxic? This episode is brought to you by prize picks,
Starting point is 00:02:56 whether you're starting a new routine or Making player picks for the first time, trying something new can be hard. But in life and on prize picks, it always feels good to be right. With high pressure playoff matchups every weekend and elite hoops action almost every night, the action never stops. And prize picks lets you take control. Yeah, Paul, the first time I tried prize picks for basketball, I was hooked. It's available in 45 states, including California, Texas, Florida, and Georgia.
Starting point is 00:03:27 I jumped in, made a lineup, and suddenly watching the game got way more exciting for me. I know that feeling. I started picking more on Jalen Brunson's points, Josh Hart's rebounds, and just watching those players' projections, hit made the games feel alive again. Assist, threes, rebounds, total points, more, more, more, baby. And for me, the best part is that my friends didn't even know
Starting point is 00:03:52 who to watch in the game, but now they're texting me every week, asking who I'm taking more or less on. Prize picks just make watching basketball more hype for everyone, including me. And there's a new feature alert. Price Picks now has early payouts. If your player gets off to a hot star, you can now have the option to cash out those winnings before the game even finishes.
Starting point is 00:04:16 And find your community on Price Picks with the new social feed feature. You can share Price Picks with your friends and copy lineups from winners with a single click. Copy lineups you like or use them as inspiration for your own picks. You can even follow Price Pick partners like us and tell or fade our picks with just one click. Download the PricePix app today and use code TAD to get $50 in lineups after you play your first $5. That's code TAD to get $50 in lineups after you pay your first $5 lineup. Price Picks.
Starting point is 00:04:50 It's always good to be right, baby. Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to another episode and the first one of the new year of The Truth After Dark. I am your host as our fair day. I am your boy, Paul, Anthony, the Truth Pierce. Hey, man, it's been a great year.
Starting point is 00:05:10 We're coming back for the new year, even bigger and better. Make sure y'all continue to support us. We appreciate y'all. We're almost at one year now from the way we started. When did we start the podcast? In February of last year, 2025. Damn, we almost had a year and we're thankful for all the support y'all gave it.
Starting point is 00:05:28 So make sure y'all tune in because we're going to be having more guests, more live shows, bigger and better things coming to 2026, man. So make sure you'll continue to like, subscribe, do all the things, wherever you get your podcast, check us out. Yeah, so, yeah, it's been an amazing year.
Starting point is 00:05:44 Well, it was an amazing year. What is one word that you would use to describe last year, 2025? One word. Damn, we're asking about, How can anybody give one word to the scrub of a whole year? Geez. To sum of that, what would you do?
Starting point is 00:06:00 Because you go through ups and downs. You do, but what would one word be? What would one word be for me? Yes. I guess it would be like, damn. I don't know no big words, so don't be looking for a big word. We ain't looking for no big word. That's a word.
Starting point is 00:06:27 So I would say, damn, because I had some ups and downs, stress, happy. I went through all the emotions. I laughed. I cried. And I hardly ever cry. Damn.
Starting point is 00:06:43 One word. You give me your one word first. What's your one word to describe last year? Interesting. Unexpected. Unexpected? Yeah. Just had an unexpected 2025.
Starting point is 00:07:00 Yeah, because I feel like a lot of things that you plan or you thought was going to happen or you decided like, oh, I'm going to do this or I'm going to be this or I'm going to be here. Like it just was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, okay. Like all these different unexpected things happened. We started truth after dark. I didn't expect that and it's cracking. I've had other things happen where I'm like, oh, shit. like okay you know what I mean and just for me it's like an unexpected year I won't expose everything but like yeah it's just unexpected was it a good year did you I think overall it was good
Starting point is 00:07:35 obviously there was ups and downs as well I've cried I laughed all the same thing but I think just take my answers every second I'm not taking answers I'm just relating to you my friend and so I feel like for me I had a cool year though overall like I made it. I'm here in 2026. I have to step into gratitude. You know what I mean? Okay.
Starting point is 00:08:00 That's good. I know my word now. Okay. I'm going to just continue to say, I'm blessed. Okay. Your word is blessed. Blessed last year, I was blessed. I love that.
Starting point is 00:08:11 You know, whenever you can go through another year, make it standing on your feet, family, healthy, kids doing cool, building new businesses, building new relationships. I'm blessed with the people I've been able to meet you know it's been a blessing
Starting point is 00:08:28 you know I don't really like to dwell on the negative stuff because we all go through stuff and we're going to continue to go through stuff but it's always how you fight through the storm and have an understanding
Starting point is 00:08:43 like the sun is going to come back no matter what kind of storms you come you go through and so I truly will say it's been a blessing I think I've enjoyed my life a little bit more last year than I have in the past. I was a little more, like, jaded and grounded and, like, a lot of things that I was using just with relationships and pouting and doing that, these things, these things.
Starting point is 00:09:07 And I just think the year before it lasts. So, like, this past year, I just was, like, more positive, more open and thankful, and I feel blessed. I love that. That's amazing. Okay. Come on blessed. Now, what would you like 2006? What would you like that to look like for you?
Starting point is 00:09:27 Like, if you had anything that you would say, like, you really want to happen, or what is a word that you feel like, okay, I want 2026 to beat this? I want 2026. And don't say blessed. Yeah, what do I want in 2020? I just want to continue to grow. Okay. You know, so, like, if anything, my word for 2076 is just grow.
Starting point is 00:09:56 Growth. I love that. And what I mean by that is just spiritually continue to grow, financially continue to grow. You know, it's been the biggest challenge in retirement for me. It's like, you know, basketball was easy. You know, I trained my whole life, but you never trained for, like, life after basketball. And this is what I've been the most proud of myself of.
Starting point is 00:10:21 life after basketball, how I've turned into something different that I'm successful now in not sports. You know, not like, because, you know, you always looked at as a sports player, but now I'm doing, you know, I'm thankful. I'm on, like, I have three podcasts, I have businesses
Starting point is 00:10:39 that I'm thriving in. Yeah. Like, you know, because a lot of people look at us as dumb athletes and we can't do nothing else but sit up and dribble. No, no, we can do other things too and be successful. and other things outside of sports. So that's what I've been most proud of being successful outside of sports
Starting point is 00:10:57 and continue to thrive and be an example for an inspiration for kids and adults and for players after basketball or after their sport because a lot of guys in my position, they try to still try to figure it out and they go into depression and they spend all their money and they still looking for something to do. And, you know, it's tough. Life after sports is tough. It's tough on you.
Starting point is 00:11:21 You mentally, it's tough on you just, just the adjustment to like family to now what do you do? You're trying to figure it out because you think about it. When you retire, you're young. You have the rest of your life. And like for me, hopefully I can be an inspiration to kids and as adults to like, man, the world is yours. You just got to pour into it.
Starting point is 00:11:42 You got to get off your ass and stay positive and get to work. Like, because like I don't have to work. Like, I just. I enjoy getting up every day. I enjoy going to the gym. I enjoy business ventures. Like, I love being busy. And so hopefully in 2026, it'll be more of that.
Starting point is 00:12:02 And hopefully I can continue to inspire. I love that. And I will say this. You have been blessed with an incredible personality. So you're funny and charismatic and entertaining. So a lot of people don't have that. And people enjoy watching you and seeing you. So, you know, you got really blessed because you just have that vibe.
Starting point is 00:12:25 People have, you have that Geneseequa, that aura, that energy. Genesee qua, they go another word. You come out with a word every week. Geneseequa is like just basically saying like you have that swag, like that aura, that energy. Like, you know, you walk into a room. People like want to, and not just because you're famous. Like, I believe if you weren't famous, like people will be drawn to you. because people are drawn to me as well.
Starting point is 00:12:50 And I feel like you have that energy to where you're just, like, funny. Like, and anybody is lucky to have you on their podcast or on their platform because you make it, you make it interesting, you make it entertaining, you make it funny. Thank you so much. You have a vibe about you. You do, too. You have an energy and, like, you have a voice because I've been around you and I've seen people just gravitate towards you, you know, and just like,
Starting point is 00:13:15 and I'm talking about, like, women. Yeah. Like, you know, I know you got the men that gravitate toward you, but like when women do it and they like, oh, my God, they want to be your friend and do all this stuff. It's like it's a great energy that you do. Yeah, that's dope. I think you have that too again, and not just because you're famous.
Starting point is 00:13:32 So I'm lucky to share this platform with you, and I feel like you just are inspiring and you're a great vibe, and you just are funny, too, you know? I don't try to be. You don't try, and that's what's super good. I think the top five funniest motherfuck is. You, Kevin Hart, Dave Chappelle, like, you up there with him. I'm crying.
Starting point is 00:13:54 Okay, so anyway, let's get into the show. I know you, I know you lie. Let's get into the show. So anyways, this story is super crazy. So a woman finally said yes to her man after he proposed 43 times over the course of seven years. People in the comments are clowning him saying that he's tripping for staying that long. What are your thoughts? Should he get props for being patient?
Starting point is 00:14:16 or is this just a bad decision? This is the worst decision he's making in his life. Now let me ask you this. If a woman, you propose a woman right now and she's like, no. Are you leaving her? I'm leaving her.
Starting point is 00:14:36 Like, what else is there? I decided to take the next step. We're together, right? Yeah. You want to be with me? Obviously, we're together. You're telling me you don't see a future with us. So, like, why are you wasting my time if I'm ready as a man?
Starting point is 00:14:55 And I'm stepping up as a man to be with you, and that's crazy. 43 times, I would, man, you know what I would do? I would, like, plan the wedding. Let's do it. It's petty ass. Man, we're going to walk down that aisle and I'm out of there. We're going to pay all that money just to be petty. Yeah, because you was petty 43 goddamn time.
Starting point is 00:15:13 I'm going to be petty once. now so is that equivalent to a woman being pregnant and a man saying I'm not ready what's the difference should she leave that man to wait said that again so like if you're saying oh a man proposed and she said no so you out of there because I'm ready what we're supposed to be together what's the problem so if a man
Starting point is 00:15:35 if a woman gets pregnant by her man and he's like I'm not ready to have that kid she should leave him because what was the difference That is not equivalent to that. How is it not? Because people think that having marriage is a bigger commitment than having a child, but I don't agree with that. She should leave him if he say I'm not ready to have the kid.
Starting point is 00:15:55 What's the difference of saying I'm not ready to have a kid to say I'm not ready to right now to be married? Do we plan the kid? Because we plan, we can plan the wedding. Did you be planning the kid? No, but you can, but the point is is you can plan an engagement and I can say, I'm not ready to be engaged right now.
Starting point is 00:16:09 You pop the question, just like I popped out pregnant. I'm not ready for this engagement right now because I feel like we still need to do X, Y, and Z before. That's why on both cases it should be a breakup. So you think it should be a breaker for the kid too? If he wants it and she does it? Or if she wants it and he's like, no, I'm not ready. I think it's the other way around.
Starting point is 00:16:29 If he gets her pregnant and she doesn't want it, like, and he's like, what? Why wouldn't that matter? That's equivalent to what you're talking about. Wait, so why doesn't it matter if the woman wants it and the man doesn't? Most of the time the woman wants it. 99% of the time. Okay, that's not true. That is true.
Starting point is 00:16:47 I don't think that's true. Like, if the woman says, like, because that's like, damn, I'm not having your baby. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, damn. Like, what? Like, if she says, I'm not, no. Like, that's equivalent to that.
Starting point is 00:17:00 If the woman says no, yes, it is. It makes more sense that way. Because that's like looking at, that's like the slap in the face to the man. And you don't think it's a slap in the face to a, woman when a man says no he doesn't want to have your baby you don't think that that kills a woman down yeah so she should leave him i'm telling you that's what that the equivalent of what you're saying is that okay it makes a whole bunch of nonsense to me on the on the engagement it's like her saying
Starting point is 00:17:28 i'm not having your kid right now so that's equivalent to that so ddg sister a proposed to her man she proposed yeah as she should that's what i think it should be i am blown away by any woman proposing to please baby keep you know keep your dignity as a woman yeah I'm never getting on a need to propose to a man that is so you ain't got to get on me you ain't got to get on me who made that up anyway who made up get on me but listen to what I'm saying you could be as a woman
Starting point is 00:17:57 I don't think you should propose to a man and I wouldn't want like my daughter's proposing to no man I think that that is so just I think it's an imbalance in the relationship and I think that it's just like As a woman, you should, I don't want a man who says, I'm a leader, I should lead, follow me, and then I'm getting on my knee or not getting on my knee and making a big life decision to propose.
Starting point is 00:18:21 What about all masculine women should propose? Fine, do that. I don't care, because I'm not going to be masculine in my relationship, so I'm not proposing to a man. I think that that is out of pocket and out of control. How is that out of pocket because of like what society has made a look? No, it's not about society. It's about the imbalance of a relationship.
Starting point is 00:18:40 And I forgot who it was, but a man was talking about this. And you know, he's like a sports person and he's like being on podcast. I'm so sorry, I don't know what I'm saying. The point is, is he was talking about the Bible and he was talking about how it does create an imbalance in a relationship when a woman is on her masculine and is trying to wear the pants in the relationship, no matter what, it's going to create an imbalance in the relationship. And I believe that.
Starting point is 00:19:04 So if you're telling me, I'm getting on the knees to make a huge life decision that I feel like my man should make. Like, you tell me when you think this is the time to do this. You tell me that. I'm not telling you that we're about to make a whole big life decision. I'm not doing that.
Starting point is 00:19:19 You tell me about that. You tell me when to do that. Like, that's it. Men are the first to get on the knee, but then women are the first to give you them papers. Yeah, I could agree with that. But, like, so what's wrong
Starting point is 00:19:35 with a woman getting on that knee? because she's going to eventually give you the papers too so do both I'm not getting on that knee you might as well do both then I'm not getting on that knee ever my dad would be disgraced I'm not stand up and give it to my ass
Starting point is 00:19:55 I'm not proposing I'm not standing up at dinner I'm not proposing to a man I'm not nothing and my dad would be disgraced with me as a 77-year-old man man, it will blow him. I'm never doing that.
Starting point is 00:20:11 I don't care. If you want to do it to eat your own. What if you was with a man for like three or four years and he was like, baby, if you asked me to marry you, I'll marry you? That's blowing me. Why are we together for four years anyways and we didn't even have that conversation?
Starting point is 00:20:24 No, I'm cool, cool, cool. I'm cool. I'm not saying, like, I'm asked you a question. If he said, hey, if you ever asked me to marry you, like, I don't believe in marriage. But, like, if you ask me to marry you, I'll marry you. Well, first of all, would you propose? No.
Starting point is 00:20:38 If you don't believe in marriage, we shouldn't even be together because that's the goal for women. What if you believed in it and they said, I don't believe in it no more, in the relationship. We shouldn't be together then. Things change. Then we shouldn't be together then. That's okay. If we all together, like, I want to marry you. And then it's like, let's be together for some time.
Starting point is 00:20:55 And then he comes like after three years and I really don't believe in marriage. I love you. I love the way we are. But if you ask me to marry, I'll marry you. Okay, well, we're not getting married then. And I'm not going to be to you anymore. So your ego is going to allow you to not get. It's not my ego.
Starting point is 00:21:06 It's the fact that you, what kind of man, if you ask me to marry me, I'm going to make. Like that's, no, you're saying a voice. Don't make that feminine voice. Don't make that feeling of voice. If you asked me, that's such a feminine thing. If you ask me to marry me, I got you. If you ask me to roll over, I'll do whatever you want. Ew.
Starting point is 00:21:22 No, that's nasty. I don't like a man that's like, if you tell me what to do, I'll do it. That's giving. That's not giving. That's how men sound. I don't care. That's what it will sound like me to be in my mind. Like, oh,
Starting point is 00:21:36 if you ask me to marry you, I'll do it. No, I'm not asking you, and I don't care what anyone says about me in this moment. If you get on one knee right now, I'll marry you. Bye. You're saying bye? Yeah, you're blowing me. You're breaking up that day.
Starting point is 00:21:50 You're blowing me. I will be a disgrace. I can't even take you home to my family. You want me to get on one knee to marry you. So then when you go to your family and you tell them that, like, and they say, like, let's go down the basic list of things that you like and you like the nine out of the ten things. but now because of that that's a deal breaker I'm not going to say that I will break up
Starting point is 00:22:10 but it would make me view you different I'm saying what you're saying with the nine out of ten things I'm not necessarily saying like I'm going to break up with you I don't know because I'm not in the position but I will not ask you to marry me I will not ask a man to marry me period point I'm just not doing that like I believe in traditional values in a relationship
Starting point is 00:22:28 I believe that the man I don't even know what's traditional value well like the man is the head of the household to me the man runs the decisions. I will ask my man, like, is it okay if I go? Is it okay if I do this? Like, I'm cool with that. I believe in that.
Starting point is 00:22:41 I like traditional values. You believe in making Daddy a sandwich. Yeah, absolutely. Okay. 100%. Like, I believe that I should clean up. I believe that I should cook. I believe that if my man is like, comes on three and once have sex, we could do it.
Starting point is 00:22:53 You want a sandwich? I'll get up. Like, I'm not doing none of that. I think that's weird. That's how I was raised. That's how my sisters are with their husband. That's how my dad is with my mom. Like I don't like that
Starting point is 00:23:04 And I don't want it to be to where I'm making big decisions For our relationship I want my man to make those decisions And I want to follow his lead And yes, as a woman we always have our little things we're going to say But for the overall big picture I don't want that I want my man to be the head of this entire household
Starting point is 00:23:21 I want him to make the big decisions When we're raising children I want him to tell me okay cool Like I don't want that I just don't want that Like that's weird to me And whoever wants to do that that's cool I feel like the newer generation
Starting point is 00:23:32 is with some whole freaky stuff, maybe on some different little items. Cool. Get into that vibe. I am just old school values like that. I don't want that. Yeah. Old school, yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:44 Older, you older. I'm an older woman. So for me. You've been raised a certain way, and that's nothing but you got to stand on that thing. I'm standing on it. That's what's up. That's what I'm.
Starting point is 00:23:54 No, that's what's up. Period. Period. I like the old school values. I like that's cracking. I like an old school value. I don't care. We got a Tuesday's young.
Starting point is 00:24:02 That's the thing. And that's why I like women be like, it's control, you're controlling. But for me personally, I like a little bit of control. I like a person to be like, I'm making decisions. I'm telling you what to do.
Starting point is 00:24:13 All right, cool. I'm cool with that. I've always been cool with that. I don't have a problem with any of that. I don't even have a problem with the man's like, I don't change that outfit is to this. Like, I have been in the, I'm like, all right, cool.
Starting point is 00:24:24 I promise, like 10 toes down, I'm on that. I don't care about that. So anyways, this is the daily fantasy segment brought to you by Price Fix. where you can win real cash by playing daily fantasy. Use code TAD and get $50 instantly in lineups when you play your first $5. So the question of the day is there's a clip online
Starting point is 00:24:48 of a news station talking about men and women having backup plans within their relationships. My question for you is do you think that there's more women or more men with backup options? Oh, I think it's more women with backup options You think so? Yeah Because I don't know, that's a good one
Starting point is 00:25:09 I never had no backup options Okay I never had a backup options in the relationship I think that's a woman thing They're going to keep a man in the back pocket Because a man don't With women and other men The women don't got to talk to the man
Starting point is 00:25:28 as much as the man got to talk to a woman. I can see that. You know what I'm saying? To keep it cool. Yeah, I can see that. Because like if you're dealing with somebody else you got to text them, call them every other day or every couple days where a woman, she might not talk to him for a week or two or, you know, y'all got a schedule or it's something crazy you're telling them. Meet me at the trash can in this alley. Like, y'all, y'all, a man will be there too.
Starting point is 00:25:52 Yeah. Just for the five-minute conversation. Where is? Or women a lot, I feel. like they are more inclined to like have a man that they'll talk to just emotionally and it won't be about anything like you don't have to see the man you just call them oh this is how i'm feeling like and just like emotionally dump on him because i feel like there's a lot of men who are so enamored by like a woman's beauty or her vibe and they just don't care they'll just be in her life or whatever like as long as you can just call me i'll always answer i'll be available there are men like that. But the men are natural
Starting point is 00:26:28 like hunters. Yeah. So like if a man feel like he can take another man's prey he don't care how long it takes. He's going to sit back in the weeds and the bushes and be waiting on that. Yeah. That's how I mean I'm right. Men for sure. Like I think that there's men
Starting point is 00:26:44 that will check on a woman periodically to see like you're still in your relationship or check your Instagram to see because there's a big viral meme that what's his name? Speedy. I think his name is, he's a famous interviewer. He has a thing where he's like, when I see she took her man's pictures off the page,
Starting point is 00:27:03 I'm like, woo, and it has like a million likes. And men are like, yeah, as soon as that man is off that page, I'm in the DMs, like, or if that man is not on that page, I'm in the DMs. Like, if she visibly don't have no man, cool. Because I feel like men are more respectful, you would be surprised of women in relationships. I've noticed that.
Starting point is 00:27:22 Like, man, if you tell them, like, I'm in a relationship, they will literally be like, oh, for sure. show like but they see that relationship fall apart they go on that ass see this how i feel how do you feel about being a relationship and posting your partner though like i feel that just give them i give the internet more ammo i feel yeah i could see that just like oh you know yeah damn i'm gonna be on her he what like when you all post a lot but unless you ain't unless you post in the thirst trap pictures and he ain't on there like if you ain't doing all that and you ain't posting your man
Starting point is 00:27:58 but then when you post your man it's gonna be or you post your girl it's gonna be more eyes on her now yeah more eyes on him now well I'm so torn with that especially like for me like I've never been a big poster of my relationships
Starting point is 00:28:15 yeah like never and I like it that way because it just it's annoying because my brothers just say anything yeah they want to drag you I posted, I'll be honest I've posted my relationships on Instagram before
Starting point is 00:28:31 like my ex you know like he had me on his page I had him on his page like people knew we were together I'm not a big poster in general like I'll be all over the world and barely post anything like that's the thing about me
Starting point is 00:28:45 as a content creator I should do better but I don't post a lot and I remember my last ex would be like post this of us like what I don't like that. I'm not being pressed to post nothing. Like, no, why aren't you posted?
Starting point is 00:29:00 I was like, you're thirsty. I don't want to have to post if I don't want to, like, or whatever. But it's not like I'm sitting here posting the dinners and everything, but I don't post the man. I don't post nothing half the time. And that's the thing about me. But, yeah, I have done that before. And you know what I hate is like the idea of, like, taking that down.
Starting point is 00:29:19 Like, I've done that and had to sit there and be like, let me take these pictures now now, Because we got together and then going to his page and he took them pictures down. And then it's like, everyone knows like, oh shit, y'all are not together anymore. And then as soon as that happened, every man is like, what's that, what's that, blah, blah, blah. Like thirst, right? Because we're not together anymore. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:40 You know what I mean? Like, I'm not against posting my partner, but I feel like posting your partner to me. I'll never post a man until me and this man is engaged, married. Like my best friend, she was like, I'm never posting a man ever getting in my life until I'm engaged. and she got engaged and she posted him when they got engaged like that's all I'm posting when we get engaged, cool
Starting point is 00:30:01 other than that I'm not looking stupid no more in this life like I don't want to be showing all of that and like da-da-da-da-da-da-da but as a woman I will say there's a reason that you do post your man though to be honest with you because it does stop all the DMs going crazy because like every day are you single
Starting point is 00:30:19 what's that what's good this person following this person this celebrity like it's so a lot that you just want to sometimes be like, I'm, like, publicly I'm not available. Don't hit me like sometimes you do want to do that as a woman because it's overwhelming. It's a lot like you
Starting point is 00:30:35 will be surprised and it's just like I want less of that and more of leave me alone. Like, please. It's good to get that just to know you still got it though and not cooked. I don't need to know that. I told you I already know that I got it. Period point blank, baby.
Starting point is 00:30:50 It ain't nothing. It's like women need like you look at the comments you like to be feeling like no I don't think that that does anything for me I think it's like how you're famous and when you go out people are like Paul Paul can I get a picture
Starting point is 00:31:04 after a while you're like it's cool someone else will think I bet you he loves that it's boosting his ego after a while you don't give a damn that's how I feel about the men I've had every man try to talk to why do I care anymore it's not doing nothing at this point leave me alone like at this point
Starting point is 00:31:19 you're talking to yourself in the DM 30 times I'd rather just have more and for me I'm focused on like more women followers more women on my stuff like I don't want to post something as all men like oh what's up are you single are you this are you that are you that every day I get that from every type of man you can imagine like leave me alone right you know what I'm saying but whatever it's like a beautiful woman it's like the same thing as being a celebrity what's the difference um a lot of things no it's like you got people coming at you yeah you do yeah like what's the difference like you
Starting point is 00:31:52 a beautiful woman is the same as a celebrity you got everybody hitting you up every time you go to the thing everybody trying to talk to you all this like for real it's like no different and that's why
Starting point is 00:32:04 the only thing is everybody don't want to take a picture but they always on you yeah and that's why it's hard even when like you want to post a picture as a woman sometimes like I don't post like extra doubts like thirst trap
Starting point is 00:32:15 but like a face picture a little thing where you're vibing you want to post that but I know like as soon as I post that it's going crazy like you're getting so many hitups of like damn you're so beautiful what's up follows follows follows like I don't know if they sending it to each other what's up but it's like it goes crazy so sometimes I get why women be like I'm in a
Starting point is 00:32:35 relationship you should one day on truth after dark posted Vince Carter no I'm not doing that I already know what you mean but I don't even know who that is you don't know no I don't but I know exactly what you're saying because you said it before About the Dark, DeVance Carter. No, I'm not posting nothing about my body. Like, and, and, yeah, we'll talk about it on the episode because there's actually something that a man said recently. 360.
Starting point is 00:33:03 No, I'm not doing none of that. I don't shoot about the dark on. No, and they say that in the comments on the YouTube all the time. You turn around, do the three. Like, just, someone said, let us end our year right. Yeah, give us the 360 for the end of the year. Yeah, no. Why not?
Starting point is 00:33:19 I'm not doing that. Man, that's going to boost the followers. don't solicit my body soliciting is getting paid for something yeah you're talking about this ain't anybody paying you to do that anyways thank you to our good friends
Starting point is 00:33:33 at price picks America's number one sports picks app use code TAD and $50 get $50 instantly in lineups when you play your first $5 she shall cut that off that was the end of the second we're not doing that that's end of the segment right there
Starting point is 00:33:49 end up the segment Moving on. Moving on. What to you are the signs that a relationship is over? Like, for example, Cardi B, she said that her past relationship was over when she would walk past her man and he wouldn't smack her ass. Damn. That was given, like, you don't even care no more.
Starting point is 00:34:12 You're not even smack in this ass. Yeah, people are always doing that. Like, because a woman loves when a man is smacking ass when you walk by. Because it's like, okay, grab a little ass back. Especially if you have ass. Like, how do you not grab my ass and you know I have ass? Yeah, right. All of that.
Starting point is 00:34:27 Yeah. Yeah. In the kitchen cooking. Yeah. Exactly. How you not grabbing my ass, knowing I have ass is blowing. Let me ask you something. Do girls with flat cheeks like they ask me?
Starting point is 00:34:39 I don't have flat cheeks. No, I'm just saying, do you think? Probably, yeah. Grab a little flat cheek. Like grab a tithe. Grab something. Grab something, baby. A stomach, a titty, a ass.
Starting point is 00:34:50 What? What? A leg. You might knock her over, though. She, just because you have, this is wrong with me. I don't know. But I do know a woman wants to feel that like, you're walking by me, smack a little ass,
Starting point is 00:35:02 do a little grab, get a little cracking. Right, right, right, right. I like that. Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You like that. So what do you feel like, you know, like, is there any signs when you know,
Starting point is 00:35:18 like, a relationship is over? A lot of women say they know, when a man is done with you when he starts being really mean to you and like always super annoyed by you. It's like, oh, he must have another woman that's like cool, but it's like also it's hard to tell because sometimes
Starting point is 00:35:32 there's men that are just moody men. So it's like you give the advice of like if he's annoyed by you then he doesn't want you, but then what if you're with someone who's just moody? Yeah, I think when it's starting to disrespect start kicking in. Okay. And what does that look like? Well, just like
Starting point is 00:35:48 I ain't doing that. Like, what? Like, damn, can you make me a play, baby? I'm good. Like, damn. Like, for real? That's crazy. Damn, it's just a certain tone in a voice
Starting point is 00:36:02 that you start hearing that you ain't really heard before. And it's just like disrespectful. Yeah, I can see that. It's just like a certain. You can hear the tone in their voice. Like, then start to roll the rolling of the eyes is more common.
Starting point is 00:36:18 and that start kicking in. This is just my experience. Just disrespectful little comments. And, you know, it's just little stuff that you, it ain't little as big. It's just like, you know, I ain't, I ain't rolling. You know what? I ain't rolling with this.
Starting point is 00:36:36 No, I can't do this. Yeah, when a woman starts to disrespect to man or lose respect, the relationship is pretty much over. I'll be honest. I feel like for me, I've had that experience where it's just like the cheating and, the lies and the weird stuff is just like, I can't respect you. I remember an instant.
Starting point is 00:36:53 I don't know why this would never leave my head. It was just like in my relationship, we was getting in the car, going somewhere, me, her, and her friend. And so I was in the house. So the friend is, she's driving. So I come out, the friend is in the front seat. So I come in, I open up the front seat, like, Like, I shouldn't even have to say nothing, right?
Starting point is 00:37:20 Yeah. And then she was like, just get in the back. I was like, what? What? I felt like that was so disrespectful. Like, we go somewhere, me, you, or your friend, and you tell the, me, get in the back? Like, are you serious right now?
Starting point is 00:37:39 That's not even a question. Like, cool. Yeah, that's crazy. I have a question for you, though. That's crazy to me. Do you think, like, let's say, man has a sister right and like his sister's in town or something and like she's around y'all she might be the older a man has a sister yeah yeah all right do you feel like the sisters are
Starting point is 00:37:59 in the front seat and the woman should get in the back no my lady is in the front seat every time that's not even a question my girl you're not even here get in the my mom get in the back yeah see i'm accustomed to like if it was someone's mom the mom is sitting in the front I'm feeling crazy. She's saying, no, she's going to have to say it. I'm saying no, no, no. The mom is getting in the front. No, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:38:23 But you're going to have to say, here, no, Mrs. get in the front. Yeah, that's blowing me. My wife and my girl is in the front. See, I'm accustomed to, like, my dad is old. So, like, for me, it'd be like, get in the back. If it's someone older than you, if it's your elder, period point blank.
Starting point is 00:38:40 Like, I feel like, okay, you can get in the front. If it's your girl, she in the back. But if it's your wife, she's in the front. Okay, I still feel like. Wife is in the front, moms is in the back. That's long. Girlfriend is in the back.
Starting point is 00:38:54 Moms is in the front. Yeah, that's how I should go. Yep. I think that's how I should go. Wife is in the front because she's making decisions. You're with her every day. You've got to live with her.
Starting point is 00:39:08 Your mom is visiting. But what if the girl is the same thing? You live with your girl. Y'all have been together for this time. Most of the good girls is like, it's okay, mom, getting the front. But most of them, going to give that to them.
Starting point is 00:39:19 And that's what we want as men for y'all to do that. But we're going to validate you on the front. Okay. I can see that. You know what I'm saying? I think that's how I should go. But if she's a good girl, she's going to be like, go ahead, mom, get in the front.
Starting point is 00:39:31 I could never just let the mom sit in the back. That's going to blow me. But me, as the husband, I'm never sitting in the back seat. No, because you're a man. First of all, I didn't bought this goddamn car. What if it's her dad? Get your ass in the back, daddy. Man, get in the back.
Starting point is 00:39:49 And he's tall as hell. And he's old. And get in the trunk then. You need some leg space. So you're letting the dad get in the back for sure. I'm never getting in the back. Okay. Man, lay down in.
Starting point is 00:40:00 That's so crazy. An old man, that's like 80. Yeah, get in the back. Old man. You'd had your front seat days. That's funny. That's not blowing you. I'm the husband.
Starting point is 00:40:11 I should never have to get the back. But as a boyfriend, you get in the back. I'll get in the back as boyfriend. I'm just the boyfriend. that's your daddy okay okay because as a husband I take care of you and I take care of this car but what if you feel like as a boyfriend you did that too you're like oh I've been your man for this amount I don't bought you this car all of this you still get in the back let's let's talk about it like what do we live together they live together or you yeah you live together we have
Starting point is 00:40:38 kids no no kids you bought the car though and you take care of the person I bought the car took care of the person I'm in the front I'm in the front okay so you're in the front seat I'm in the front seat so me as a boyfriend I'm in the front seat
Starting point is 00:40:58 but the woman has a girlfriend she's in the back yeah so men don't really respect girlfriends if you're your wife you get respected on the level but if you're a girlfriend it's kind of like you're just a girl because you can be gone tomorrow my mama still my mama
Starting point is 00:41:14 right but a wife can divorce you as well okay but you're my wife right now okay so a girlfriend so do you feel as if because this is what uh when we had poor minds on the episode they said if you're not married you're single technically do you feel that do you have a girlfriend that yeah like I'm saying you have a relationship girlfriend and boyfriend but if you're not married you're technically single do you believe that but what the technically single mean that mean that mean you can talk to other people? I don't know what that means, but she said that,
Starting point is 00:41:50 and I guess it means like... You are single. Because when you write on that application, married or single. Yeah, that's what she was saying? So you're single? You're single, yeah. So what does that mean?
Starting point is 00:42:00 So do you believe that to where it's like, okay, you can talk to other people? No, it's like you like the thing about relationships when you're not married. You have a girlfriend, you have a boyfriend, you have a boyfriend, you're going steady. You have an agreement with each other. Like, hey, I'm excused.
Starting point is 00:42:16 exclusive with you. Right. You know, let's see if this turns into not single. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, and that's what relationships are. And, you know, we do a lot of different relationships because that's a life decision you make when you marry somebody. Yeah, for sure.
Starting point is 00:42:30 You got to figure, like, hey, if I decide to marry you, my idea, my mind is like I'm going to be the rest of my life with you. So that's not a quick decision. For sure. You know, so dating and girlfriends and boyfriends, that's, I got to give me some time to make. that decision but like that don't give me the we're exclusive right now
Starting point is 00:42:50 and I made you exclusive because I want to see if this is heading toward that direction now if it don't work out we just break up and I'll see what the next girl talking about I'm crying and that's where women too you know like yeah that's for women too like all right cool if it doesn't work out and I think that that goes back into women having backup
Starting point is 00:43:06 plans because they're like okay if you're not marrying then we're technically single that means technically you have these people in place that are like oh like I will marry you I want to be with you I want to do these things with you but they're not your first option if you live together for three years and you not have no marriage plans it should be okay to have a backup plan okay
Starting point is 00:43:33 I think if the listen is what I say if you live together I hear two to three years I think you should have a backup plan well we were on poor minds you said if you're over 33 and he lived together for more than one year, then it's not given that marriage shit. Yeah, over 33 is different, though, for a woman. For a woman.
Starting point is 00:43:56 Because y'all are like at that borderline to where it's like you're still thinking kids and marriages are like, because like you can't waste three years. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying? So that's different. You know what I'm saying? You ain't got three years to be this motherfucker. I'll be like, damn, I've wasted three goddamn
Starting point is 00:44:13 years. And this is a critical age to where you're still looking to do the whole family you know you know so that's that's different yeah that's true i think that women have men that really like are good guys but they just don't want to be with them and they're willing to like marry them and have a kid and do all this and they're like okay i could be with that person you know what i mean because there are those men but i feel like women are not attracted to those men a lot of the time even if they're attractive, it's just like, you're not my vibe, really, but you got a good situation.
Starting point is 00:44:52 But you're not my vibe, but you're cool. But see, me, I can't do that. I have to vibe out with you. I just don't love it. Like, I've had that to where it was like the perfect man, handsome, rich. I couldn't even think about something without him having it for me. Like, I'll think about something one time. It's there.
Starting point is 00:45:08 Like, whoa. And it was just everything. And everyone was like, he's perfect. He's the best man. But I couldn't get into the vibe. And so I had to let it go. Like, I can't do this and I can't waste your time. So who was the breakup?
Starting point is 00:45:19 Like, he was like, I ain't, I know what I didn't do it. You broke up with him or he broke with you? I broke up with him and I just was like. What was the reason, though? The reason was like crazy. Because it was just like, I couldn't even go. I felt so bad. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:45:34 But it was like, I just was like, unfortunately, I just did not in the space to want to have a relationship because he was pressing on some like, are we together, we're not together. We're not in a relationship. relationship like I'm telling you that right now wait no I'm saying you were in a relationship with him like it felt like I was debowed into a relationship though because I kept being like I don't want to be in a relationship and then it was like we're together we're together and then it was just like oh god we're together and I just felt so crazy because I'm like I'm still and I will be transparent like I just don't know right now
Starting point is 00:46:05 I'm figuring this out I don't know I don't know and he was just like what like but mind you perfect on paper very handsome tall like women want him I just felt like it was long on me like successful career like music all that and i just felt like i couldn't get into the vibe so i finally just was like was like was y'all having sex yeah we had sex like twice or three times and y'all were together yeah but how long did the relationship last the relationship was like three weeks no like it was like it was like it was like it was It was a minute. It was a minute.
Starting point is 00:46:46 Come on, no, I swear to God. The relationship was a minute. You could not be with somebody left more than three weeks and only have like six, three times. That's crazy. No, it was.
Starting point is 00:46:56 And it was. It was a year. It wasn't a year, but it was like, it was longer than it should have been. But also, too, remember this, we weren't together. We were talking for this period of time. And a lot of the chunk of it,
Starting point is 00:47:09 for six months of it, I was like, no, I don't want to be in a relationship. So why was you hanging out with him? Because I actually, enjoyed him he was cool but i just was like joy is a vibe i enjoy him that's a vibe not like that though it was too it was too many was it opportunistic was it what opportunistic no it wasn't opportunistic at all because it was just like i really wanted to be with him as far as like i wish i could be with you i want to try to make this work so bad because you would not cheat on me you're like a good person
Starting point is 00:47:41 So what was it? It was just not, I couldn't click. It just didn't click. I just couldn't. I was like, damn, and everyone knew. And then when people around me saw me with the next person I was with, they were like, oh, my God, it's so different. You're vibing, you're loving this man.
Starting point is 00:48:01 Like, it was so different to be with this person and then that person. And even my best friend and her, like, fiancee was like, this is crazy. Like, you were not feeling this man. And they even had a conversation with me, like, it feels forced on your end. And it feels like something times men pressure you into things. And you're like, yo, like, I'm not feeling it. And to me, I felt like he knew I wasn't feeling it.
Starting point is 00:48:24 Like he knew it, but you're still pressuring it, pressuring it. And it got to the point where I just was like, yo, you're smut. Like, I feel they're like, it's too much. I need space. I need a minute. Like you're pressuring me into like having a kid, wanting to be married, having this lifetime. No, it wasn't. No, I wasn't big at all.
Starting point is 00:48:44 I was just not big. And so I was looking good. Like, I was looking good. And he was looking good, like he's hitting. Like, he's, cool, like, cool. Like, women want him. Like, he's a hot commodity, and it just wasn't me. Like, honestly, like women, he was cracking.
Starting point is 00:49:03 Where are he at now? Is he around? You seen him before? No, I haven't seen him since we broke up. No, I don't follow him on Instagram or nothing. We don't follow each other. If I looked him up, yeah, but I'm not looking him up on Instagram. No, I'm not doing that.
Starting point is 00:49:17 I feel bad. I feel genuinely bad and I just really hope that. We should get him on Pierce by Love. No, I think he probably has another, like he's cool. Like people want to be with him. Like even his ex was still on his bumper. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like you ain't no buster, but you just wasn't for me.
Starting point is 00:49:35 It sounded like it was a buster. No, he was not. He was not a buster. He's a cool man. It just didn't connect. with me. Have you ever dated a woman who had a lot of traits and attributes like how Tyrese was saying they checked the list, but it
Starting point is 00:49:47 just is not clicking for you. Like, it's not clicking for me. I just don't. I had a girlfriend like me. Or like a girl that you was dealing with it. You're like, I wish this was cool because you are dope, but you're just not vibing with me. You never had it with it. It's just like
Starting point is 00:50:03 you're a dope, but I just can't get into it. And what type of way, you know, like with them? I just don't feel. I've never had a girl that I wasn't viving. Like, that don't even make sense to me. See, I think it's a woman thing because women feel like the man that I'm vibing with is just
Starting point is 00:50:20 like, I don't want to vibe with that type of man. Sometimes women say they have to change their type to be with a man who's for real. Like, marry kids, actually have family, you're actually going to do something. Sometimes you have to change the type of man you're into. You know what I mean? And it's like, women go through that phase where you either
Starting point is 00:50:36 decide to do that and be like, who I'm going to marry this man, because I could have married this man had a kid with this man, everything. And it would have had like a house or thing, everything, like would have been chilling, full-blown taking care of, everything for a fact. Never would have left me. You can decide to do that as a woman,
Starting point is 00:50:55 or you can be like, I'm not doing that. And I'm not going for that, because I can't live a life with someone that I'm truly unhappy with. I just, I'm not going for that. I don't care what you can offer me. But a lot of women take that. They take that bait because it's like, it's cool.
Starting point is 00:51:09 you're taking care of your good period I'm not taking the bait though and I don't want to you don't need to take the bait exactly so anyways there's a viral meme that says no woman is getting a BBL and staying faithful to a man
Starting point is 00:51:25 the entire point of that procedure is to be a hoe damn a woman said this too yeah what are your thoughts on that damn I thought the procedure was to just get a like to keep up with the Joneses because like I don't know that's a woman said that
Starting point is 00:51:49 yeah she said no woman is getting able to stay faithful to a man the entire point of that procedure is to be a hoe it looked like it depends on what you look like before that I got to see yo before and after you know what I'm saying because I don't yeah like if you get that you're trying to you want that attention it depends on which one one you get to you get level a you know what I'm saying you get level C okay just before you can just you know for your damn I wonder this though like if a woman is in a relationship do she consult her man on that then what if he say no and you do it anyway should he be pissed I'll be pissed I don't like that yeah I think you should for sure cuts off your man I don't like that
Starting point is 00:52:36 that happened to me and I wasn't I wasn't feeling it you got to for sure consult your man about that 100%. Yeah, but then you just come home one day like, yeah, look. No, that's crazy. That's morning. You got to for sure consult your partner about any surgical procedures that change
Starting point is 00:52:51 your look or change your anything. Right. I'm consulting my man about a haircut, a bob. Like, you should be consulting your man or your partner in general like, hey, I'm doing this now. What you think? Can I do this? Like, I believe in that 100%.
Starting point is 00:53:07 But like, I'm not going to say, because I have friends who's had BBLs, and I would not consider them a hoe in any way, shape, or form. I don't necessarily think that that is what it makes you a hoe automatically. Like, some people have genetically a really messed up shape, and it's just like you have no butt, you have a bigger upper body, you're so disproportioned that you need to run that BBL procedure. I don't know because I never had this issue, and I don't want to sit here and be like, oh, you shouldn't get a BBL, da-da-da-da, because it's not fair coming from someone who naturally has had a big butt her whole life.
Starting point is 00:53:45 You know what that's like, I'm going to tell you what the BBL is like. It's like that one nigga that gets to the league and he just started having girls. He didn't have girls before. So now he's popping. It's like that girl, she didn't get that attention. She gets that BBL. It's a different type of attention with a bud. Now you're like, oh, damn, I'm popping.
Starting point is 00:54:08 And you don't know what to do with this attention. so I could kind of see what she's saying like, oh, you're getting that BBL. Now you became a hoe because before you couldn't because it wasn't given that. I'm telling you. But it's like this or this, this though. People assume like, oh, I lost weight
Starting point is 00:54:24 and now I looked how I look and I'm a hoe. And that's not true. But plus, I was never looking like that my whole life though. So maybe it's different because I always looked good and then I gained weight for a little bit and then I looked good again. Maybe he knows is opening up the doors for some of these. Well, because clearly,
Starting point is 00:54:39 I said men don't care about a face, so you just got. I didn't say that. You gave, you just, you know, you see how to disrupt the word. I didn't say men don't care about the face. But you gave me an ultimatum. You gave me the ultimatum. Do I take olive oil with a pretty face or ugly face with the body? And I chose.
Starting point is 00:54:58 Ugly face with the body. So when men say stuff like that, it influences women to get a body. I could be ugly, but I could have a booty in the body. And I'm cracking. Yeah. Women are removing red. This is how real it's getting To have an hourglass shape
Starting point is 00:55:13 Yeah, we've got more men saying that That's why women are putting so much emphasis On their looks and spending that money And if you want to spend that money on them, they're going to do it. They say that BBLs Are a sign of you being an auntie Because it's a certain era generation of women That have them, and they're saying that
Starting point is 00:55:31 It's an auntie look now. That's like all the internet is say, like BBL is giving auntie, okay? And that's what they're saying Because all the girls now are getting old. All the girls have Yeah, they're looking crazy and they have So you're telling me the new generation ain't getting BVOs? They probably are
Starting point is 00:55:47 But I think the procedures have gotten better And they're looking more natural So it doesn't, you can't tell as much They're getting a little bit here, here, here, no I'm gonna tell y'all this and I'm gonna look in the camera And say this Hey, we could tell you got that BVL When them legs, you order that ass
Starting point is 00:56:03 And the legs don't come with it And they don't match Man, that I need to come out with the procedure where I'm giving out matching legs. Yeah. Is that a thing? Because when the legs, make sure you do it where it matches the legs.
Starting point is 00:56:17 They don't have that. That'd be looking crazy. When the legs don't match, you over here looking all crazy. When them skinny old legs and you got this big old butt, that look crazy. Y'all, I don't know what y'all see. Y'all, y'all stop looking. But then when them legs don't match, that looks crazy. They look like a little ant.
Starting point is 00:56:38 No, it's looking like Spunk. SpongeBob. You know how SpongeBob body. Bongo don't have no ass. I'm just saying his body go with them legs. They don't match. His body don't match his legs. And that's what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:56:49 You're all here looking like SpongeBob. That's, whew. I don't know if the girls can see it, too, because they just roll with it. I don't know what's going on. I don't know if people don't see what's going on what they look. Man, they don't see it.
Starting point is 00:57:02 They don't see the oversized lips. They think the oversized. Yeah. Their face look like a Big Mac. or something and look crazy oh my God that'd be looking crazy
Starting point is 00:57:15 yeah I'm good yeah I'm good I feel like so so this guy went online and he said and I've seen this a few times now he said females be naked so much online
Starting point is 00:57:28 I'd be like damn I bet you look good in the sweater he said I'm so tired he said at this point I could see butt tities every time I scroll he said it don't even phase me no I just scroll past it like whatever what happened to mystery what happened to secrecy what happened to
Starting point is 00:57:44 envisioning a woman naked he's like you can't even do that no more because all these women are half naked or naked on the Instagrams yeah because they're trying to get followers they're trying to use that to monetize they look I mean ain't nobody working
Starting point is 00:58:00 no more everybody trying to monetize they look they influence and if they can give some of your body is influential What does that mean your body is influential? Your body and your face is influential because you've got so many followers and so many likes because of your body and face.
Starting point is 00:58:20 It ain't nothing you doing out here. And if you can monetize that, that's the world we live in because you look at the examples of all these girls who are just showing their ass and face and selling clothes and driving traffic, they make money. So that inspires other people say, hey, I can do that.
Starting point is 00:58:40 Why can't I make some money with my influential body and face? And so that's just the world we live in and they're getting paid for it. So why not give it a look? Why not give it a look? I'm not even mad at those girls who are doing that. If somebody say you want to give me some millions or some free stuff or advertisement or whatever it is for me to take these exotic picks that don't cross the line, but it's sexy and I look that way
Starting point is 00:59:08 to where people want to look at my page and follow me, they're good for you. Yeah, I'm going to be like on some shit where it's like not judgmental, but it is going to come judgmental. I don't like it because I feel like we're just overexposed as a society and I feel like it makes the value
Starting point is 00:59:29 as a woman go down. Where like back in the day, it was so amazing to see a naked woman. It was like, whoa, this is cracking. Now I feel like everything is all over the internet. And I do believe that mystery should still live on. And I believe that women should still value the fact that we have something that's powerful. Power of the P-U-S-S-S-Y.
Starting point is 00:59:52 Oh, gosh. You feel what I'm saying? And I feel like it, no, because it's true. And I feel like I'm- We're just talking about naked. Yeah, and that's what I'm talking about. I mean, not even making photos. It's just, you know, photos.
Starting point is 01:00:03 But you think it stops at that? If you're willing to do that, you're willing to do more. Because you're selling your soul, in my opinion, for followers. Yeah, but it's not an excuse, in my opinion. You're selling a soul for money. Yeah, and that's crazy. That's really like the devil's work right there. You got no other skill in life, and you don't have nothing else going for you,
Starting point is 01:00:23 and they're saying, hey, you can make money this way. People are going to do it. I understand that, and I understand that people are walking the stroll for a long time. It's not nothing new, but I just wish that, you know, people value themselves more to understand that there's more to life than that. And it's like a dark lifestyle living like that and I hate the fact that everything is
Starting point is 01:00:42 naked. I don't even like it. It's like I don't want to see you have naked every day either. Like let me see some let me see you put some shit on. Right. Period. Like put some shit on and look flying something but whatever it's modern day prostitution and that's
Starting point is 01:00:58 all right. Playboy, I call it Playboy. Because that's what Playboy was. It was like the clothes on but it gave you a little this and that. It's not a little. It's a lot going on. Yeah, a little more than usual. This has been going on since the beginning, though.
Starting point is 01:01:12 Right. And that's what I'm saying. But no, no, no, it's overexposed now. Anybody can be in Playboy now. Yeah, it's over exposed now. And a lot of y'all need to hang it up. So before we wrap it up, we're going to say, we're going to just, I'm going to ask you some questions, and you have to answer. I have to know.
Starting point is 01:01:30 Yes. Have you ever stayed with someone knowing it wouldn't last? yes or no it's rapid fire questions you got to answer it's not no nothing yes or no this is a rapid fire question yes yes okay have you ever ignored a red flag because you were attracted yes is I'm busy usually a lie no have you ever ghosted someone who didn't deserve it no is silence a form of manipulation no yes it is who cheats more when unhappy, men or woman? Women.
Starting point is 01:02:07 Who is more forgiving, men or woman? Men. That's true. Who loves harder, men or women? Men. That's a lie. Not even close.
Starting point is 01:02:15 Women, men love you. We already talk about this. Women love who loves harder? That's what that was it. Who loves harder, men are women? No, men love, for real. Women love on conditions. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 01:02:27 Why is the, we get into it really quick. What do you mean? No, we don't need to get to it. Who leaves mentally first? women does good sex make people stay longer than they should yes is body count relevant
Starting point is 01:02:39 or just insecurity insecurity would you stay in a relationship with bad sex yes it's sexual compatibility because you can give sex from someone else so you're just going to cheat
Starting point is 01:03:00 this is crazy Is sexual compatibility more important than emotional compatibility? No emotional compatibility. Okay. Well, thank you guys so much. I hope you guys have an incredible year. There we is. We're kicking it off.
Starting point is 01:03:17 We're kicking it off. All right. We love y'all. We appreciate y'all. We appreciate y'all. Continue to support us this year is going to be an amazing year. Tune into our live shows coming up. We're going to have some dope-ass guests and continue to support.
Starting point is 01:03:28 We appreciate y'all. Thank you, guys. I wish you a great. glorious 2026. I hope that everything that you want comes to you tenfold. Peace. All right, everybody, welcome to truth after dark. Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Pro drivers live for race day, but for small business owners, every day is race day. That's why Going Pro with Lenovo Pro matters.
Starting point is 01:04:27 One-on-one advice, IT solutions, and customized hardware powered by Intel core ultra-processors keep your business on the right track. Business goes pro with Lenovo Pro. Sign up for free at Lenovo.com slash pro. Lenovo, Lenovo.
Starting point is 01:04:48 Have you ever listened to those true crime shows and found yourself with more questions than answers? Who catfishes a city? Is it even safe to snort human remains? Is that the plot of footloose? I'm comedian Roy. I'm here to tell you, Josh Dean and I have a new podcast that celebrates the amazing creativity of the world's dumbest criminals. It's called Crimeless, a true crime comedy podcast. Listen on the IHeart
Starting point is 01:05:13 Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey everybody, it's Michelle Williams, host of checking in on the Black Effect Podcast Network. You know, we always say New Year, New Me, but real change starts on the inside. It starts with giving your mind and your spirit. the same attention you give your goals. And on my podcast, we talk mental health, healing, growth, and everything you need to step into your next season, whole and empowered. New Year, real you. Listen to checking in with Michelle Williams from the Black Effect Podcast Network
Starting point is 01:05:49 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed Human.

There aren't comments yet for this episode. Click on any sentence in the transcript to leave a comment.