Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - 119: Kids and Cleaning, Addressing The Rumors, and Updates Galore

Episode Date: August 27, 2020

*DISCLAIMER* There were some technical difficulties with the audio this week. Thanks for bearing with us, the problem will be resolved by next week's episode! This week on Coffee Convos, Kail and Lindsie discuss the ongoing issue they have been facing with getting their kids to clean up and get organized. Lindsie has come up with an unconventional way to get her son to start listening, and it involves a made up camp for misbehaving kids. And there have been some rumors floating around lately, and Kail and Lindsie want to put an end to them. Finally, with so much going on in their lives, it's time for some good old fashioned updates! All this and more on this week's episode of Coffee Convos.  This episode was sponsored by:  Fight Camp  Shapermint (use code CONVOS at checkout) BetterHelp  Have a question you want answered? Want to give Kail and Lindsie a call? Leave them a message at ?(609)-316-0060?. Music by Nathaniel Wyvern. Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License.

Hey guys welcome back to another episode of coffee combos Lindsay it's been a week since I've really talked to you. Does he have a nice quote on the wall? Same damn one. Do your best until you know better and then do better and you what you know what like honestly nothing could be more applicable. But I'm gonna need him to update that because when you know better you do better so if you know that these quotes are inspiring us and our listeners then you would know that it's time to update it. I hope he's listening to this. So Bill I hope you're listening. We need our weekly inspiration. Can I also tell you

that some random reason well I'm gonna get into the reason of why I think it's in here in a minute but Will has an eight ball on his desk and I'm wondering if he sits in place with it and makes wishes and sees if it's gonna come true. Oh that's amazing. It's kind of amazing you know I'm not gonna lie. So tell me about your week and then I'll get into why my weekend was such a freaking disaster. Oh that's the story of my life so I'm ready for it. My week's been crazy because I have been scheduling all my appointments like to kind of just like get my life back on track. I went to the dentist. I went to the dermatologist.

I got my eyebrows done like just kind of like doing all the things that I needed to do while I was pregnant but like I really actually don't like if I needed dental work. I don't like doing it while I'm pregnant. I know sometimes you just don't have a choice but like I just like the what if like I know let it came is supposed to be safe or whatever but I just didn't want to do it while I was pregnant. I go to the dentist. Turns out I don't even need any dental work done so I didn't have to put that off. I had to have some spots removed on my skin because I spent so much time in the sun so that wasn't great to hear. I hate going

to the dermatologist. Yeah I hate it. I literally hate it and then today I'm going to the GYN so that's gonna be so much fun and then you know just like trying to catch up with appointments you know like getting back on track and adjusting to the four kids and let me just tell you that I thought that Creed was colic and he's not colic. The pediatrician and I have determined that it's actually reflux and so that's what's been kind of just like hard and I can't believe he's actually gonna be a month old when this episode airs. Oh my gosh I know. Isn't that so crazy? I feel like you were just laboring yesterday.

Yes like I remember everything like it was yesterday and somehow it's gonna be a month on Thursday so that's insane but why was your weekend so crazy why was it a shit show? Well first of all we all know that I'm severely ADD so I need to talk about this before we move on. I didn't know going to the dentist when you were pregnant was a thing like when I was pregnant with Jackson I just must have read somewhere that you don't go to the dentist so I didn't. I don't know if that's smart you go like every six months I guess so it's probably not too bad that I didn't go. Right. But I also remember when I told you that I was gonna

go to the ER because I got that popcorn kernel stuck in my tooth. Yes I remember that. That's also when I was pregnant so I also didn't go to the dentist so maybe that was the thought process behind that but do people normally go to the dentist when you're pregnant? I just don't know. I think if it falls in like your normal like schedule like the six-month thing yes or if they have like an issue I just had put off the dentist mine like for an entire year. Okay I'll go you. So that's why I was like you know what I'm and they say that pregnancy actually affects your teeth a lot like some people really just yeah like it can

take a take out not take out like affect the calcium and just like make your teeth a lot weaker so some some people have like will find themselves getting cavities during their pregnancy or whatever and so like I was just like you know what I'll put I've already put it off this long I might as well just wait until I'm not pregnant anymore so any any effect that the pregnancy has had on my teeth I can just do it once I'm not pregnant you know so when I went I swore I had something like work done that I was putting off but the dentist was like you don't have anything she's like you're fine so it ended up probably one of

those weird dreams that you have like the just like random stuff happens it's something you dreamt or maybe I thought I needed work done and I already had it done I don't really know but she was like you don't have any cavities like you're good she's like we'll see you in six months and I was like okay well that's a relief but also like I was dreading this my entire pregnancy just to find out nothing was wrong so but yeah I don't think that like you should like seek out the dentist while you're pregnant I just know that it can have for certain people it can have an effect on your teeth and you're more like prone to

stuff dang maybe that's where all my cavities came from because I'm so cavity-prone and it's crazy me too yes I lost I useless Doreen yeah uh-huh well so my dad I had a water pick when I had braces and my dentist was like you know if you because I have a permanent retainer on my bottom teeth from when I had braces she said that I should just use the water pick even still like and if you know that helps if you don't floss regularly yeah I think that might be the problem they're like 50 bucks at Walmart no no no I'm saying I think the flossing part might be my problem you know yeah one of those people like I

do floss I don't want to sound like I don't floss but I don't know if any of our listeners ever watched newlyweds in Jessica Simpson with her teeth but like very bad dental hygiene and just like didn't floss and whatever and that's totally me like if I'm in the bathroom and I like happen to see the floss I'm like oh yeah I haven't done that in a little bit so like I probably should but now I will say it's more my normal routine because the last time I went to the dentist I had to get like a deep cleaning and it was just not experience and just not fun yep but I'm definitely the type of person that when I know I

have a dentist appointment coming up I like vigorously floss yeah I definitely have done that but if you if we don't regularly floss like I've had cavities in between my teeth from not flossing and so it's like oh well they can still see the cavity or you know what I mean like why do we do that is like grown adults like why do we feel like we're gonna get in trouble at the dentist so we just like or like oh my gosh I have an appointment coming up in three days I need to literally floss my teeth out like I don't know but I'm it's weird because like I'm on my kids about their teeth every single morning I'm like did

you brush your teeth and it's like oh they still have a big gaps between their teeth so I don't I'm not on them about flossing but like how I have the nerve to be on my kids like that about their teeth and I'm not even flossing every fucking day like what's wrong with me we're all hypocrites about our kids though because honestly it's true we have expectations for our kids that we don't even have for ourselves I think it's yeah no I literally will send my kids upstairs to brush again if I don't think they did a good job it's like Will's quote when you know better you do better you enforce better right yes we

need yes I like it right but seriously I'm so on Jackson about stuff like that too but that then rolls into my weekend okay so basically we've talked about the digital learning thing I know your kids are about to start soon I am heavily praying for you you might need to be medicated it's unsure very strenuous very time-consuming very mentally draining emotionally draining trying to teach a seven-year-old how to sit still on a zoom call waiting on their turn or their completing assignments faster than other people because the other students might not have as much help you know and they're trying to navigate

the computer and stuff which I feel horrible for those kids it just I think all of this stuff kind of like came to a head over the weekend and then you and I have to have this conversation about parenting before too that I think our kids forget how much they have and how much they have been given and have access to this sometimes you just feel so underappreciated and it's just like an expectation like things are expected yep and just like a lack of respect and I just get so sick of it so basically what I did and why this eight ball I'm assuming is sitting on Will's desk was that Jackson stuff was all discombobulated

in the basement that's where his playroom is and so he likes to appear that he picks up when he picks up which is normally like a six-day process and I know that you and I were having that conversation about looks yes and and you can tell your story about that but basically when Jackson finally does pick up he just shoves stuff places so like you might find underwear or socks or like a random t-shirt and the costumes or I mean it's just it's crazy and it drives me nuts so basically I just said we're picking up all the stuff we're gonna pick up for you but we're gonna organize all the things the way they're supposed to

be and then we taped everything off with like freaking caution tape so he can't get to any of it I took all of his books out of his room because when I go in there in the morning it literally looks like something exploded and there are the books are absolutely everywhere so I took everything out I organized everything in a closet I said we're gonna have a checkout system so it's gonna be exactly like the library you can check out two books when you get finished with those two books you bring them back you can get two more books because I am sick and tired of having all this shit everywhere like it drives

me literally insane and then I also told Jackson that I was gonna send him to the little boys farm which is a completely made-up fucking place basically that he was gonna go and live with this lady named Sandy and I literally drove him to the Boys and Girls Club to like sit outside because there's a bunch of buses and stuff and it's boys and girls club so he doesn't even know what that is he thinks that's the boys farm and he thinks he's not gonna be allowed to brush his teeth and that he's gonna have to sleep on a rock and he is gonna have to have beans which is something that he hates to eat and

so now he is behaving and he has been very enthusiastic about school however it is only Tuesday so okay so I've definitely done something similar you know it's one of those things and people may not agree with us but I have definitely done that like I'm not even kidding I will say and I think I said it before on the podcast but my my she's not my friend anymore but someone I know their teacher put Velcro strips under the desk so that the kids could kind of play with it so that they would like focus does that make sense like it's almost like um like a

distraction but they could still pay attention but it'll give them something to like fidget with while they're waiting for their turn to do something so I don't know if that's something that you have tried or willing to try or like even like a fidget spinner or whatever but like I know that that seemed to work for this person I know as a child that's that's the only advice that I have for that two things I want to touch on regarding the virtual school thing I did get my kids Chromebooks and I noticed that they were sold out everywhere so I know that's like super unrelated to like what you're saying but I wanted to say

that before I forgot I was super shocked and I don't know why I didn't think to get them sooner and then secondly I completely can relate to you with the mess situation because Lux does not want to clean up his toys like my thing in the house is if you're old enough to take them out you're old enough to put all your stuff back mm-hmm and it got to the point the other day where I said alright well I'm putting them in the trash then and I physically picked them up and put them in a trash bag and he didn't even flinch why are they like that and then I said well what do you like literally yesterday I was like what do

you want to do to earn your toys back and he said I don't like he literally does not care he does not want to earn them back and I said well that's really sad because Creed wants them he wants to use them when you're you know when he's old enough and you're done with them he said I don't want them back why are they like hard with you but why why are they like this I I don't know cuz see that's it that's a different situation does Jackson want to like hard-headed luck or Lux Jackson wants to do the right thing so that he doesn't have to go to the boys farm right but Lux probably would just Lux would probably just go to the

boys farm like he would call me on my bluff and be like all right mom drop me off you know like me there all right see you later I mean what do you do in that situation now I don't know what to do about that I mean okay so at one point I've been threaded the boys farm for quite some time to be honest and I think he started thinking that boys harm like wasn't real so I had to get like real creative so I was gonna drive to the jail which is across the street from boys and girls club but then when I saw boys and girls club with vans I was like oh this is the place and y'all I can't I'm literally sitting in the parking lot

and Jackson's like so what's gonna happen now and I I literally fake call Sandy which is will and I'm having this conversation and I'm like okay so you're gonna be in like a little red car and so Jackson's literally looking his his heads on a swivel in the backseat and I'm like what are you doing and he's like well I'm looking for Sandy's car and then he asked me what van he was gonna get on because I told him that she was gonna like come there and park her car and then they had to drive up in a van to boys farm I mean he's never even been on a freaking bus like he has no idea so he was so scared and I just want to know

like what works with people's kids like what makes them mind right I don't know we need to hear stories and experiences ace up all the advice like I just don't know but the weird thing is is when we bag Jackson stuff up like in plastic trash bags he will get so offended that things are going in the bag like it will be like the most dramatic thing that you've ever experienced like screaming carrying on like why are you doing this to my things it's literally insane the amount that he loves like his things and he holds so much value in his things but I'm like okay if you value them so much then take care of them and like put

them away and make sure they're not left out to be broken because when I tell you that child will have the entire floor covered with shit and just I mean it's a novel idea to pick something up like let's just step over it step on it possibly break the arm off it's fine nobody cares nobody talks about this stuff when you decide to have a kid you know what I mean like they're like it's hard but nobody talks about like this shit nobody and I'm like well somebody gonna tell me about this like the things we need to know I didn't know I would be arguing with a mini version of myself for 18 plus years yeah and Lux is

literally a mini version of you because I could totally see you as a kid knowing your personality somebody oh yeah shit and trash bags and you being like okay okay that's funny that's not funny it's not funny but it's funny I just yeah he's but he's a different he's a different person when he's around his dad like it's crazy because when Chris is around I mean he doesn't he doesn't he won't tell his dad no he like Lux sometimes it will give me like he doesn't want me to brush his hair he Lux is very very particular about his hair so like he knows when he wants it up he knows when he wants it in braids he knows when

he wants it down and I'll be like come here let me brush your hair no like he does not want me to touch his hair or play in it like sometimes if he's sitting on my lap or something I'll like want to play with his hair does not let me do it but let his dad touch his hair he's fine with it so maybe I'm gonna have to start being but I've I've read alpha I've read that you're not supposed to threaten a child with their other parent I've read that like I'm gonna call your dad I've read that you're not supposed to so I don't know that is one thing that I have stuck by because I also read that and when Jackson and would used to and he

very rarely got in trouble at preschool but when he did if I told him that something was gonna happen like I never said wait until your dad gets home or anything like that like I punished him and then if we wanted to have a conversation with him when he got home then that was one thing but like the punishment took place by me because I was the one that was told about what I did right so but yeah I guess you can't threaten him about his hair and be like well I'm gonna tell your dad well it's more about the toys like cleaning up and like the thing is that like I don't think that Chris would like punish him or

anything like that I think he would just be like listen to your mom you don't know what I'm saying like I that's the one thing I will say at least in the experiences I've had so far he you know he's like he does yes I will say that he does he has backed me up like you need to listen to your mom don't disrespect your mom you know stuff like that but I don't know I don't know if it's like a natural like because not like Chris is like I've never seen Chris like truly make Lux be afraid of him does that make sense from like I don't think Lux is afraid of him I think but is it like a natural right like is it a

natural thing between like oh my like I'm scared of my dad no I think they just listen to their dad so much better because Jackson's that same way and is it a boy like a son versus daughter thing because I try I feel like I have to tell my kids to do shit a hundred times they and I don't know if it's like a child thing or if it's like a respect thing like do I need to work on the respect that my kids have for me or do I need to it's just a normal you have to tell kids to do things a hundred times or a combination of both I think it's a combination of all things but I also think somebody told me this one time

that a bond that a mother and a son has is totally different than one that a father and a son yeah and so I think that our kids literally know what they can get away with us and they have us figured out and they know what the limits are and so they're smart like kids are smart and they know what they can and can't get away with like when my tone changes in my voice and Jackson knows he's pushed me to my limit at that point he's like okay I might not want to mess with this crazy lady like yeah and that's it's the same for me but I just wish it didn't have to get to that point me I don't I don't want to have to raise my

voice and and and be upset and everyone's you know now flustered I want it to be like okay I'm telling you once maybe twice because you didn't hear me but I don't want you know what I mean like I wish that I could maybe we remember that show I want to say it was called like nanny 101 or something like that where the nanny would come and like do you remember this yes I feel like you like nanny McPhee that was a movie nanny McPhee right yes but you know what I'm talking about right like the name come and like structure things so the kids would listen to their parents I feel like we need one of those should we do

that should we sign up for it I think we should sign up for it we should film it we should yeah there's like yeah for sure we should do that Jackson would shit his pants I mean yeah yeah I think my kids would too we should do it for the sole fact of watching them shit their pants it's like the scared script scared straight but kind of like on punk to you know like where we can be in the bands like watching the video yeah I was gonna say I'm going to hell for this but can you tell me what's going on in the teen mom world and like are you guys back to filming regular or still not actually I got a text yesterday you know

the season's about to air next week and I got a text yesterday that they are the crew is in Delaware and they're quarantining and then I guess once they're out of quarantine they are we are gonna film we're gonna start filming so that was news to me yesterday and I'm hoping that things go smoothly because I just I'm curious to see how this goes and I I'm pretty sure now don't mark my words we're filming for nine weeks straight which oh wow yeah which is and I don't know if that's just a rumor or that's what I've heard but in previous seasons we've filmed a couple days every two weeks depending on what we had going on

so like the schedule is very very different like the crew would go home and then they would come back and if something major happened I'd be like hey like we need to do this or we need to film this or whatever but from what I understand because of the quarantining situation we're filming for a chunk of time all together so that way that the crew is not going home then coming back to quarantine then filming again then going back home and like to avoid quarantining so many so often I believe that we're supposed to film just like week straight so I'm nervous and I don't know how this is gonna go so wait I'm

supposed to be coming in October so then what does that look like so I would hope that I hope that we film that I hope that they'll still be here and we film that because we have we need some new podcast footage furthermore I feel like we're so off the chain these days that we're completely different people yeah we've got yeah mainly from quarantine right everybody though not just us yeah but like it we're at the point that no f's are given I I haven't seen my producer since March I'm concerned for you so I even texted him and I was like I think we need a day to catch up before we even film because I

don't even know what you look like right like I don't even know what you look like anymore um but yeah so that's that okay so can we talk about I have received no why thousands of messages about what I posted on my Instagram this past couple of days did you see that oh yeah you did see that because you sent me a message about it I was low-key offended Lindsay I was like damn she really if this is true and she didn't tell me I'm a little sad okay well first of all you should know that's not true because you're gonna be one of the first people to know okay fine however this message I actually laughed at your

message because I was like is she crazy like does she think that she would have to direct message me on Instagram to like find out if I am with child right so I go on Instagram start cleaning out my messages listen to your dog spark if I came up to your house and heard that I would shit myself oh my god I'm so sorry and I'm upstairs and I have the doors closed but hold on no I don't care okay I know the listeners hate it so I'm going to guys we've got more important things to talk about so he's just gonna have to bark or she whichever one but I'm just letting you know that if I came up to your house and ring your doorbell

and I heard that I would literally shit myself well that's the whole point that's why I got him because I was like I'm sick of these fucking trolls threatening me like my dog will bite you anyway so go ahead go into my DMs and I start trying to clear them out and because you know how it gets and it just gets very overwhelming so then I get to a section and it's like a bunch of messages in a row and it's basically congratulating me for my pregnancy and I'm like this is weird so then I get to one that says congratulations on the new baby I overheard someone talking about it in church this morning anyway wanted to say

hi and let you know that I'm praying for you and your family so then I'm like okay I'm gonna post this on my story not because I want people to think that I'm pregnant but I just want people to see like the kind of messages that come through on a regular basis and it's just completely false and there's a lot of things that I have a problem with and I was about to say that too so the first one is you're in church so like why are you talking about me when I'm not there that was my first thought was wow she didn't tell me my second thought was damn these people are in church and my third thought was that why would you

congratulate someone on something that they haven't announced themselves because you don't know the situation but you can also relate to this right like how many times have you been pregnant that you haven't been pregnant I mean I've lost count I mean my kid just told me I look like I have another baby in my belly yesterday and I was like wow I'm offended but um so evidently it was Isaac oh my god wow thanks Isaac but yeah no I completely can relate this I just there's a lot of issues with it I just you're in church discussing someone else's potential pregnancy which is just not okay yeah and it's just like

it kind of takes all of the fun out of it right you know it's like and it sucks too because I'm sure that it was not intention intended to be rude or to be offensive like completely get that but at the same time it's just like one of those things where it's like maybe even though it wasn't intended to be offensive like you shouldn't discuss other people's pregnancies in church and once it don't exist like furthermore so it's like not only are you gossiping in church or overhearing somebody gossiping and then sending me a message about it but then it's also a lie so like those are two different things that's going on

in church that shouldn't be going on in church and so I just have a big problem with that but I did want to say thank you for the prayers because I need all of those so we all appreciate that right then I was even more offended because then I got some messages that were like why do you have to be so rude it's like no you don't understand like it's not about being rude I just wanted people to see like what it's like to be talked about and it's not even true right good or bad exactly good or bad that was the point of it like it doesn't matter if it's good or bad just don't start rumors about people and if somebody wants you

to know something then they will say it and tell it and I just I don't know it just like I don't know it just puts an added stress like a layer of if they're saying this like what else are they saying you know what I mean like even though this wasn't like the worst that could be said it's like what else what other untrue things are going around do you know what I mean and like who else is saying it if the people in church that you're going to church with are saying it what else is being discussed and that actually brings me to the messages that we've gotten on the coffee combos Instagram and also my own people

were very very offended by the way that I responded to Creed's name mm-hmm on the podcast last week they said that I was very rude and it was offensive that I acted that way about my son's name and not answering you know what his full name was and it I didn't mean to be offensive it just is one of those things where I'm gonna back you up on this really quick before you keep going because I personally feel like in a situation like this when you deal with isn't probably as many trolls as you have fans it's hard to distinguish sometimes when you're trying to approach a topic that has you a type of way that

I feel like it was like a natural reaction like you didn't think through whenever you were talking about it like it was just naturally how you were responding again it kind of relates to what you were just saying about the pregnancy situation though it's like people think they know me and I saw people arguing about my son's name and that's why I react like it's Romelo Creed oh well it's Creed Romelo well she said it's Creed Romelo Lowry Lopez fucking Mariquin Rivera Isaac Lincoln and it's like shut the hell up like you guys swear you know me and just like with you with the pregnancy it's like

they swear that they knew that you were pregnant and then they're starting this rumor you know what I'm saying and so it's kind of the same thing it was like I'd never meant to be offensive when I was responding it's just like a natural reaction yes do I put my life on TV yes do I put myself in the public eye yes I get it but there are so many people who swear they know what it is and so it does kind of suck for the people who are genuine and are genuinely curious and are happy to know and then it makes me defensive because I'm trying to prove a point to the people who swear they know and they don't do you know what I'm

saying and same goes for you with the pregnancy it's like thank you so much for the prayers but by saying this or listening to this rumor you're actually spreading things that are not true whether they're good or bad and so it's the same thing with the name it's like I was never you know I like I said I was never trying to be offensive it was just like trying to prove a point so that related to what you know I 100% get it and I did see some of those messages too and I also felt bad for the listeners that took offense to it because I don't think that was your intention at all no no not to them it was more towards the

people who were acting like they knew and then they were arguing and they were wrong because there's many people that tune in that listen because they genuinely want to hear us and genuinely want to be you know apart mm-hmm there's a lot of people that tune in that do it strictly to troll right right right or though in they literally commit just twisting the things that I say or the things that you say you know what I mean like they're committed to twisting it to make it look a certain way and those are the people that are like obviously miserable and and they might not even realize how miserable they actually are

but you're right like that's there are people who tune in specifically for that and so it just you know I I apologize for being defensive and I apologize for offending some of you but I was just trying to prove a point well kill your apologies mean so much to me I wanted to tell you something I read yesterday on Instagram what was it was it about me no it was about this woman who was pronounced dead but she was found alive in the funeral home did you read that did you see that yes you want could you imagine could you imagine but wait I didn't only read the headline did you read more yeah I read the whole thing

tell me okay I'm okay so I guess I didn't the story didn't say like why she was like what was happening that she was pronounced dead but she does have an attorney who's suing I guess the state for like a million dollars which I'm sorry but if you pronounced me dead and took me to a fucking funeral home you better believe I'm asking for way more than a million dollars for sure because you might have killed me then we might be talking about murder charges at that point like okay so this happened in Detroit it says Detroit funeral home discovers woman declared dead is actually alive so she was 20 years old from

Southfield and she was pronounced dead early Sunday morning after okay they did say it was after a heart attack so she was taken to the Detroit funeral home where staff found her not dead but very much alive so it says in here officials tried to explain the error later the same day in an announcement that was sent on behalf of the city's fire chief under an unusual and understand the subject line quote mistaken pronounce pronouncement of death unquote I don't know how you accidentally pronounce someone dead it says that according to the fire department which would not release the victim's name paramedics

responded to the 911 call a woman was not breathing they performed CPR and tried to revive her but after 30 minutes they concluded she was likely no longer alive what do you mean like how do you likely no longer be alive and you're at a funeral home so it says the funeral home in Detroit confirmed it picked up the body hours later but at the funeral home employees saw her chest rising and falling and the woman was still breathing they called EMS and woman was taken to the hospital for treatment so we don't know the status of her condition I know that after X amount of time not breathing you you can

suffer brain damage so I don't know what the status is on her condition but the fact that you how do you say someone is likely dead I don't understand shouldn't you be trained medical professionals and furthermore aren't there several like paramedics like if one says oh I think she's dead isn't there others to like confirm or deny like how does that happen but I'm also so confused like is the protocol not like if let's just say she was at her home and they go out and like see she has a heart attack or something and they pick her up would they not take her to the hospital pronounce her dead at the hospital and then have her to the

funeral home or is it different because of COVID or is that just not the process that happens like I just need answers I don't fucking know I just thought it was absolutely insane so I'm curious to follow up on that story hopefully they'll be an update next week me too and then I don't know what grade were you in when the Scott Peterson and Lacey Peterson case took place I was in middle school I was in middle yeah I was in middle so I think I was in I think I was in seventh grade wait are you a grade behind me what year what year did you graduate 2008 2010 oh maybe I wasn't in middle school then kill I was either in seventh or eighth

grade okay well this was in 2002 so what year would that have been we can't do math no I truly I can't truly I cannot my brain can't go that big today um anyway I thought it was very interesting and I'm very disturbed and upset by this but it says that if you tell me that no if you tell me right now that Scott Peterson got out I will literally fall to the floor because there's no if you if that's what you're about to say he needs to put his he needs to get back in jail okay well he didn't get out he can't murder us but Scott Peterson just got a big break because the California Supreme Court has reversed his death

penalty sentence for murdering his wife and unborn child why what's the reasoning is the court ruled the trial judge in the case aired by dismissing prospective jurors who oppose the death penalty but claims they could still follow the law and impose it if the evidence was warranted it says the state's high court ruled unit on is it unanimously opposition to the death penalty alone is not grounds to dismiss prospective jurors they can be dismissed if they won't follow the law but some people with strong opinions still have the capacity to follow the judge's instructions so basically on a

technicality and that's bullshit I just don't have tolerance for somebody who does things to children and babies let alone your pregnant wife so I just don't and I might get a lot of shit for this but I just I don't agree with that I feel like that's no I'm very upset by this but I'm also triggered by this because I followed this case like this was one of the first like big true crime cases that I really got into so I have the hugely vested interest and and when I saw that I was very triggered and I was like fuck you Scott Peterson honestly though honestly that's exactly what I thought I was like I literally

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funny because I was so stupid when I said it like I knew it sounded weird I'm not offended I was just joking but then it was so funny because then the message goes on and it's like because Kale doesn't correct you when you mispronounce especially what did you say how did you what did you say I say it especially but apparently especially especially is that right especially yeah like apparently I say it wrong well I do too then so why would I correct you on something that I also pronounce wrong especially if I'm in a conversation I say especially especially is doesn't sound right I'm like if I'm typing a paper I'm not gonna

put like ESS PIC however I'm saying it like especially but if I am saying it I'm gonna be like especially but if I am writing it I might be like okay come on with that X you know wait a minute no it's spelled especially it is yes I'm good I'm about to Google to confirm as special yes it's especially yes okay so what do you why would as now I'm so confused there's no X specially not with ECS or EX at EXS no it's ESP so it's especially because I know when I text I literally won't even type out the whole word I just say like ESP and I just hope that people understand that I'm saying like especially it's especially

what do you mean you say it correctly I don't know but this person has told me this multiple times about the way I say especially and I'm very offended I'm like damn I'm just talking like I can't help myself sorry um anyway moving on from that hey lady if you're listening I love you still but you're a jackass yes especially I'm gonna screenshot it and I'm gonna we can post it on the story okay fine and other news can we talk about how you're coming along with the feet pics cuz you never sent me any bitch oh I didn't oh I have some I'm gonna send them to you right now so they haven't been sitting out of people yes

I have you have yeah sit down to you I don't know people asked me for peep pics on only fans and I literally sent them wait they pay for them yes yes girl they pay for them bye and I can't say like I do not have it in me to send nudes like I I don't like I really it makes me feel uncomfortable like I'm I'm doing something wrong like I just I have a really hard time like I don't think I would be able to send you describe what these feet pics look like that you have sent I'm about to send them okay there I put my feet in the pool and I took a boomerang of my feet splashing so I was like oh they'll probably really get off

on this one and I'm dead I'm gonna send it to you right now and if you save it it'll tell you what the date was my so that's one thing that you said and then I have you sent but then I also took like one like above the water of just like one foot and I had just got you're laughing I'm being dead this is my I'm sending you my one footer and then I sent both of them out of the water and both of them just like stay like still in the water wait so like how does it work they have to send you money before you send the pic they have to pay to open the message but they know it's there this yeah they requested the feet pics

like they requested that what and then you just get paid for it yeah but you don't okay here's the thing like I was getting so much shit about only fans I'm literally cracking up but people you don't have to do like it doesn't have to be a sexual thing only fans can be for like say you and I wanted to like have like exclusive content on only fans we can go on only fans and have an account for coffee combos podcast with exclusive content that people have to pay for like all the clips that we take out yeah bloopers if we had like videos or like episodes of shit instead of putting it on YouTube where you make like zero

dollars pretty much unless you're you know huge we you can put like I've seen people put cooking classes on there baking classes I saw we should do that yeah it's like it's like a paywall for anything it doesn't have to be sexual content wait so while we're on that topic but then I'm gonna go back to these feet pics that I'm looking at I was going to send you guys we now like we're coming up in the world we now have a Pinterest a newsletter like it's legit like we're working friend Kristen is literally working on overtime she has become a graphic designer she has become a marketing professional like she's so

legit and I have been hugely impressed with her work so y'all need to be subscribing to the newsletter and to the Pinterest I don't know if you subscribe or follow or what follow you do yep but you follow us on Pinterest I promised her last week that I was gonna send her pics and the recipe for the the what did I call them the bowls the Mexican bowls yes bitching about last week by the way I didn't eat any this week mainly because I was proving a point but I didn't send him to her and the main reason that I didn't send him it to her was because I wanted to take pictures of like step-by-step so they

could like post the full thing so put that on our website too so that we could link the Pinterest to the website so when you click on it you can get the all the step-by-steps on the website and that also has our merch and our full episodes and all that stuff yeah so I was like okay well I'll do step-by-step and then I'm also gonna do the next time I do roast I'm gonna do that and the next time I do spaghetti cuz like literally those are the three top things they're my most highly requested now the Mexican bowl that's been a new ad but the the spaghetti recipe and the roast recipe in the crock pot y'all I'm like a chef

when I make spaghetti and roast so I I made cream cheese spaghetti last night for Natalie and Caden you need to put that recipe on there too okay I'll do that also like step-by-step of you doing it and possibly get some like feet angles like while I really really really would love to work with the the videographer who filmed my placenta encapsulation I would love for him to when you come here in October I would love for him to film us doing some stuff even if we get an Airbnb in Philly and instead of a hotel and do like cooking stuff there and film it that would be really cool yeah should we do

that you guys like should we do cooking with us I don't know if that's what it's gonna be called it's probably gonna be called something more catchy I can't think of it at the moment and then we can put it on only fans and just charge like super low subscription it wouldn't be anything crazy to do like that would be super cool I think we're doing it I think we made a decision right now I just I think that that's something we should explore yeah we'll definitely we'll definitely talk about it um PS are you and Chelsea gonna podcast yes we are we are we are she just got back to me she said that she saw my message and

forgot to respond which I get it so I'm not even mad we are going to do that and I was thinking either we could do a recap of one of the episodes that's gonna air or we could talk about like yeah we could I think a recap would be good yeah you guys need to weigh in and let us know if you guys want Chelsea and kill to do a recap or just like a totally off thing that's yeah it's Lee right teen teen mom would be involved in the conversation because that would be weird for you guys not to talk about it but like mom stuff yeah like weird stuff I don't know I was laughing so hard because I was scrolling on my Explorer page and

I saw where Chelsea had responded to a troll and this person was like you need to actually you know what I'm gonna go and pull the message off my phone cuz it's so funny like literally I was dying laughing if something that about her keeping her legs closed like this girl is married she's been married for years it is about that in fact so the person says she says oh my god another baby keep your legs closed damn so then Chelsea responds and said these and then she does the legs emoji stay open for my husband that is the perfect response like when people say it to me I don't get offended because I guess like me not

being married I totally get why people would say that to me but when I saw those comments on her Instagram I was like first of all she's been married for fucking years like years they already have two children together but even if they didn't like what are you saying you're telling a married woman to keep her legs closed like what the fuck is wrong with you but what is wrong with everyone that just thinks that you can just go on social media apps and just talk shit that is so I mean I still stand by the fact that these people don't even know that they're miserable like they don't even know that that they're

that miserable because I've been there I've been in a place where you're like just like mean about everything and I didn't realize how shitty I was until I came out of it and I think it's like one of those things where like hindsight is 2020 so whoever made that comment to Chelsea hopefully will come out of their misery and be like oh wow I really shouldn't have said that you know what I mean but also then again there are people who just judge everyone and I'm not one of those people so I feel like mmm can't relate where I come back is amazing her comeback was amazing in a little bit like emoji I was like okay now I am dead

on the floor but anyway I go on Instagram and like when first of all I only follow people that one I either value or two I'm personal friends with like I don't follow randos I only follow people that add value to my life in some way whether it's like I enjoy reading what they post or they're a personal friend of mine I want to be an encourager of them like I'm gonna post nice comments I'm always gonna like their stuff which then leads me to my post that I posted yesterday about how sometimes as great as social media apps are and I enjoy being on Instagram like that's my favorite app and I enjoy it so

much sometimes you just feel like okay I need I am feeling the urge to just like step away and just live life and not be doing this right now and I did that last week like I posted in my story and stuff because I would randomly get on there like for an hour or whatever but as far as like actually posting or engaging I just really wasn't and so it felt really good and I don't know it just feels really nice sometimes I don't think that I would ever follow someone on Instagram specifically to talk shit on their comments like that's so weird to me when people will message me or comment on my stuff and say like stupid shit and

I go on the on their profile I click click on it and they follow me it's like for what like why are you doing this to me why are you here why are you here like that's like going into a store that you don't shop at that you don't like any of their shit and you go in there like for what like why are you even in there I don't get it I will never understand oh and then on that topic we're gonna close it out with I promise that I would give an update to multiple people who is messaging me asking me about the text message situation oh right promise I would give an update on it so I'm gonna be a lady of my word basically there has

still basically been no communication however we'll spend clearly an excessive amount of time because he sent a three-page word document itemizing all of the issues and why he feels a certain type of way that he feels justifying it with bullet points like literally I thought I was reading a thesis and you know as an adult I feel like that probably was the right way to handle it to like okay lay it all out there be like okay this is you know an incident that occurred these are the reasons why I felt it was inappropriate these are the things that I don't like these are the things that bother me this

is the justification as to why I feel this way I feel like that's a very adult which so if I can just pause you right there I feel like which is even more than I feel like a lot of people would do because a lot of people would be like this is how they would just say that's how I feel and I don't owe you an explanation so I think by will doing that he was laying it all out on the table to hopefully come to some type of like resolution to me I agree I feel like that's you know extending an olive branch in a way of being like okay there has been no communication but this is you know all of the reasons I feel this

way and you know I truly feel like that was the right thing yeah so then he goes on about his business and I tell him like don't let things bother you you've said your piece keep your shit moving basically yep he goes back on hit this was sent over email he goes back on his email to check to see if he gets a response he's still this was last Wednesday it was sent he still has not received a response which one I think is rude because it's like first of all it's not timely like nobody's expecting you to respond to something that's three pages and 45 minutes but also it's basically almost seven days later at

this point and you still haven't responded you're rude and it further proves why will feels the way that he feels right but what was interesting was that will received the email forwarded to him so obviously this person was again caught up in their shit and was forwarding it to somebody else but accidentally forwarded to will you're lying I'm not I can't make it up see that that would be in that moment that's when I would say okay now I no longer owe you an explanation like there's no correcting this because at that point it's like you put it all out on the table to try to address the issue or

issues and you're giving them an explanation to work it out but now you're you're sending this message that was supposed to be between two people you're sending it to someone else or more than one person and now I don't owe you an explanation for why I cut you the fuck off well exactly and then I told will I was like okay well had that been me sending the message first of all would have been a hell of a lot nastier than what he said it was very like wills was very cut and dry right like there was no name calling like mine would have been probably petty but he did a really good job of that and then

basically got slapped in the face yet again so I'm like okay you know what this these people are just rude asses at this point and I have no tolerance for you and I also hate you at this point so please leave me alone please leave my husband alone and also just do better because you fucking suck yeah no that's not okay then I went on Facebook because me being a petty person you know that I am I went on Facebook and just put a status you're always in my views but you're never in my comments or likes so like a good neighbor stay over there and I mean it like well it's like if you why are you just like watching me like

you're just watching me you don't have anything to say like positive at all like what is so why are you watching me for you know what I mean that's my whole thing I'm like it will was like yeah like stop being a creeper like if you're stalking every move that you do and then no nope but then don't say anything so it's like if you're looking you can literally give a thumbs down you can literally put a nasty comment you can literally whatever I personally don't give a shit but stop being a creeper stop being a stalker you're just annoying at this point in your games old it just circles back to the conversation we

just had it's like if you don't like me don't follow me don't even watch what I do even if you want to comment something nice you don't like me anyway so why are you following me in the first place stop watching my stuff you just want something to talk about it just doesn't make any sense like I'm glad that I provide some form of entertainment for your boring ass life like that you have nothing going on like I am glad I am I can be that entertainment for you further proves why you are where you are mentally and emotionally and why we are where we are so sit down stay over there leave me alone what are your own

graphs exactly because bitch that that stuff looks burnt like mine's green over here you know I hear you I'm just like let me knock you out um anyway well yeah now that we've established all that and I got all that off my chest we're pretty much out of time I know you have a doctor's appointment that sure do going to the YN I could be glorious should I ask Instagram if I need to get fixed because I think that seems to be a no okay we don't need to ask people like to on CBS is calling me people love to tell me oh are you getting fixed did you get fakes fixed is this the last one so I don't know I'll leave that up for you

guys to do some reach research on well if you can do math if she doesn't have six then you know it's not the last okay we can go now okay all right well you guys I hope you really enjoyed that little coffee talk and I hope that we were a fun part of your daily commute your laundry folding you cleaning shitty toilets whatever you're doing while you're listening to us I hope that we were provided some form of entertainment for you because honestly I pretty much entertained myself for the last hour should I post my feet book should I post my feet pics on our Instagram yes you absolutely should post

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