Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - 141: Catching Up On Drama, A Royal Rabbit Hole, and An Empty Carseat

Episode Date: January 28, 2021

This week on Coffee Convos Kail and Lindsie have so many topics to discuss. First, they catch up on some internet drama involving some reality TV stars. This story is blowing up so fast even Lindsie's husband Will wants to know all the details! Recently Lindsie has been watching The Crown on Netflix, and it got her thinking about some things she had questions about. Naturally she turned to google, and it resulted in quite the rabbit hole of questions and research. Plus Kail talks tells Lindsie about her recent trip to the waterpark, and a false alarm that has her totally freaking out for a second! This episode was sponsored by: Function of Beauty, Caviar, Stitch Fix, & Homer Have a question you want answered? Want to give Kail and Lindsie a call? Leave them a message at ?(609)-316-0060?. Music by Nathaniel Wyvern. Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License.

Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Coffee Combo's podcast. Oh my gosh, your energy this morning is like really something to be proud of. You know what? I literally sat down to start podcasting and I was like, oh my god, I'm gonna shit myself. So I did quickly poop. What? Yeah. I literally, when I said I was going to be on time, I was like, yes, like I'm at the

office on time, gonna do this and then you literally text me and you said you were ready and I was like, oh wow, like I'm gonna poop. So I had to go. So you pooped in that four minutes from the time that I text you to the time that you called me. Yeah, I think it was less than that. But yeah. Oh my god.

Okay. I don't know what's wrong with me. This is funny, but people who are fast poopers are like really funny to me. Why? What do you mean? Cause like I am not a fast pooper and when I go to the bathroom, Will's always like, I swear you're in there for like an hour and I'm like, Will knows when you poop. Yeah.

Oh my god. I have no privacy. No, I will disappear. I don't want anyone to know that I'm pooping except for the fact that I announced it on this podcast, um, like if I'm at a hotel with like friends or something, I will literally go to the lobby or like if somebody else has a room, I'll be like, Oh, I think I left something in your room. If they're like in my room and I like won't, I don't like, but now that I'm announcing

it, anybody that listens to this podcast is going to know my secret, but yeah, like I will literally leave. Now that you're announcing this, actually, you know what it made me think of it made me think of you going into the closet to far, I didn't do that. And now everyone's really going to believe me because of what you just said. Listen, I don't really know where that rumor came from, but I really didn't do that because I don't, I would just disappear in part. Like I don't, I feel like I don't, I don't know.

Wait. So you're telling me that you have private shits? Yes. Like you're reported that luxury literally even when I'm in a relationship, like you won't know that I'm pooping for like the first like two years. Oh, absolutely not. Like Will will come into the bedroom. My bathroom door will be wide open and he'll stand there and I'll be like sitting on the

toilet, taking a shit and he'll be like, what are you doing? Well, that doesn't look like I'm doing married life 101. Like once you're like knees deep in the relationship, like that's, you know, it starts, you can't hide it anymore. It's like the Kristen Cavalieri post on Instagram. It's like 12 years. Can't break this. Okay.

Let's talk about it. We got to talk about it. We have to talk about it. Okay. Both. Okay. So I sent you the post of Kristen Cavalieri and Jay Cutler with like the cryptic caption, right?

And first of all, she's definitely hammered in that picture. You think? Oh my God. I was like, Oh, she's drinking. Like this was a drunk post. Like this has to be a drunk post. I didn't see that. Like when I looked at it, I don't know, maybe I'm just being judgmental then I definitely

looked at it and I was like, Oh, like this is 100% a drunk post. Like this is going to get deleted, like whatever, whatever. And that's what I thought. I couldn't understand like the timeline, like the sequence of events was like they were married. I remember her filing or they posted for about divorce and like they're getting along, but like they're getting divorced. And like, you know, you take it with a grain of salt, they're either really getting along or they say they do that and say it publicly, you know, because they don't want anyone in

their business, which is completely understandable. But then last night, was it last night? Was it? No. I mean, I've been watching this unfold for like the past week, but you just from Southern. What is it from? What is she from? Um, okay.

So she's from Southern charm, okay, which is a what a show, a YouTube series. What is it? It's a show. Um, and what is her name? Um, it's not just, it is, I'm trying to think, yeah, Kale, you're starting rumors that just like the, I don't know who Jess is, but whoever she is, she needs to let us know, um, just okay, so she, I'm going on, yeah, tell me what her name is. No.

Okay. I'm just checking right now. It is Madison LaCroix. Yeah. Okay. So listen, you guys, this weekend will comes upstairs and he's like, tell me all the business about Jay Cutler and I'm like, will like with Jay Cutler, I don't know what it is. He's like obsessed.

I guess it's because of football or whatever, but he lays down and he says this and I'm like, what is it that you want to know? And he said, what is going on? He said, I need to know everything. And I was a major Hills fan growing up. Same. So much. Same.

I loved and I couldn't, I wanted to like Kristen, but like, I felt like she was the like, the, like the mean girl, like that's what it felt like. Yeah. So, I mean, I definitely, I definitely was a Kristen fan. So I just felt like she was real and even though she was mean, like I was for it, but that also was like high school me. And then I was so invested in that show, so invested in Kristen's relationship with Jay. Didn't that start like after the Hills was over for a period of time.

And then they like broke up, got back together, got engaged, did the whole thing. The thing that she does with her children with like not showing their face on Instagram and stuff is very respectable to me. And I'm like, oh, wow, that is really cool that she doesn't like expose her children to the world because like they might not, they might not want that. However, I'm thinking about myself and my child and he, he wants to be on Nickelodeon or Disney channel and he loves Instagram and he wants his own Instagram and he wants his own YouTube, whatever.

But then they live like this, what do you call it, Kale, like a crunchy life? Yes, yes, very, yes, crunchy. Super crunchy. And then for years, I felt like watching the Instagram and just she got the show, right? We talked about that before. And then I just like had a weird feeling like there was something with a relationship like before it started unfolding and maybe it was because of things that I would see like scenes from the show or whatever.

And then I was just like, okay, something's like not, not right. So then she was connected to some, some comedian, this is after she falls for a divorce, she was connected to some comedian, maybe Madison LaCroix's ex-husband or something. And then all this stuff starts unfolding about Jay with Madison. And I'm like, oh, wow, like this, this is going to get good. Like this is going to be Hills type drama that we're, you know, ready for. And Madison, after all this, after Kristen post this, Madison basically, I guess is like a scorned woman and she starts posting screenshots of like her texts with Jay.

What? Yes. And I was like, oh my God. So then we've all been there where we've been in situations. I have been in situations where I let people talk first and then once they've had their speaking, then I'll come with receipts, like been there, let them show their ass so that you can. Yeah.

One up them basically. Yeah. 100%. Just like let them do whatever. And a lot of people can probably relate to that to a degree, like in their own personal lives. So she posts these screenshots and in one of the screenshots, she kind of like covers up the word slept, but it read that basically you shouldn't have done this and been a participant

and like this Kristen drama, whatever, if you shouldn't have slept with me, basically. And then she like covered up the word slept and like a text overlay, like on Instagram stories. On barstools Instagram, it said something like it showed like another podcast talking about the situation. And they were saying that like, essentially, it looked like Madison had deleted some of her responses and only had yes. So when I was reading what she put, like the text that she had posted, it was like one

of those moments where you, you're reading a conversation and it doesn't exactly make sense. Does that make sense? Yeah. Like something's missing. And I think that's where people thought that the text were a little contrived or altered because it was like a bunch of stuff that would have been in benefit of her, but not in benefit of Jay.

But then it brings me to the point that, okay, they did really well with the divorce filing and the seemingly public publicly, it seemed as if they were doing really well with the co-parenting and parenting situation. But then add another woman to the mix and then it gets really messy. So is the relationship as over, as what they think it is, like, is there, is there more to it that we just don't know about? Was Jay and Kristen trying to get back together? Like I'm just, I'm kind of confused about the whole situation and then Madison goes on.

So supposedly Kristen had done some kind of Instagram live or something like that with some of her friends and she was dancing to the song. We are never getting back together or whatever. Kristen was? And Kristen supposedly did that and then Madison did a remake of that. Like mocking Kristen and then made a statement when she was doing it on Instagram live. Like she was drinking wine and dancing and doing like all the shenanigans. And she's like, well, my kids were with their dad while I was doing it, but her kids were

home. So now I'm just like, okay. And then one of my blogger friends, Kale posted in defense of Madison. No, see, we're not, no, we're not going to do that. And I'm like, I have so many feelings about this and like, I don't want to be offensive to either person like, however, I don't know who Madison is. So I don't have loyalty there. I just like grew up watching Kristen and even though I felt like she was like the mean girl

on high school, like I'm so impressed by Kristen. Like I just love all the stuff that she does with her life. Like I just like you said, even though I don't blur my kids' faces out, like I love that she protects her kids. I love that she's crunchy. I love like she has a cookbook that just came out. Like I just, I don't know as a business woman, as a mom, you don't do it. Yeah.

Like I have so much respect for her. I can't speak on, I guess I can't really speak on Madison just because I don't know who she is, but I just, I mean, I'll tell you what, like through all of this and like hearing more that from what you're telling me right now, like I don't feel as bad about all my shit that goes on in my life because everyone else just does, they don't highlight it. It's probably not on their Instagrams. It's probably not on their TV shows, but like shit like this is like, I'm sorry this is happening, but now I'm like, I'm not the only one, you know, like good moms and respectable

people also have shit that goes on in their lives. So I'm like, okay, wow, this is, well, and I just want to make it a point that Kristen didn't make that post until the day or the night after Madison had chosen to go on Instagram live and basically mocked Kristen and then like shame her parenting. Yeah. That's fucked up. I don't know, so how are people just based on that alone? I don't know how anyone could defend like, how can you defend her just because they know

her or, or what? Well, I guess because of Southern charm fans, I feel like people who are Southern charmers are really into that show. I've never watched it. So I don't know the thrill. However, it is widely known at this point by multiple different reputable people saying that this Madison is a clout chase and that she would do anything to be seen and heard. So I just thought that it was interesting to me when you are the other woman, if you

are the other woman, let's say just given that, you know, she's claiming that she was, I guess, why would you cross that? That's what I do. I don't understand. I'm telling you to your point about her being a clout tracer. I don't know if that's true, but it's, it's almost sickening the things that people will do for a few minutes in the spotlight. You know what I mean?

Yes. And I'm not one to talk because my life is just like everything, even if nobody's trying somehow, it's just like highlighted and goes crazy in them, you know, whatever, whatever. But like, there are people I have met in the reality TV industry that will literally like, you know, they're not your friends. Like you know, the only reason why they're even talking to you or acknowledging you is because they want some type of tag for followers. Like, and I don't understand that.

Like I can't, I literally don't get it. And I guess if Jay was going to have something with this Madison, wouldn't her life have been so much easier if she would have just left it alone and not cross someone. And I know that it's not important that, you know, Kristen has X amount of followers and she has this amount of followers or whatever, but Kristen does have a wide influence. And so I'm just confused as to why like, if I was the other woman coming into the scene, I would try to do that quietly and kind of be more like a wallflower and just take things with stride knowing the situation.

And you know, kind of what you're getting into when you get into a situation with a man who has been with a woman like her, who is so widely followed, like, don't act like it's, you know, I don't know. Like I just, I don't understand the whole situation in itself. And I know that Kristen's best friend, Justin Anderson has gone after Madison on TikTok and it's like this whole like thing unfolding and how she's just making up all of this shit. So I'm like, okay, okay, so I'm going to keep keep following and keep watching.

And I'm sure everybody else is that is a reality TV watcher as well. Yes. No, for sure. But you got, you don't have cable, right? So you can't even like keep up. You have to do it through social media. Yeah. Have to do it through social media.

But I mean, don't act like I'm like out on the farm kale, like I have YouTube TV. You know, Philo, our Philo code still works. So you could use that. I know. But it's telling me to look in to Philo, so I'm gonna, our code still works. I'm going to see what, what it's all about. But I mean, you're out here acting like I'm like being super crunchy and like I'm living on a farm and stuff.

Like I have a TV and I am allowed to watch things. It's just I don't have access to cable. Okay. Okay. I won't act like I'm PS. And we, I don't know if I'm going to sound like a total idiot after I say this probably, but okay, Will and I have been watching the crown for the past two nights. Have you seen it?

Yes. It's a Netflix show. No, I have not seen it. Okay. So it just, it just follows like the political rivalries and the romance of Queen Elizabeth. And it's just, it's good. I like it. I don't want to be a royal, so it's like really up my alley.

But something that I did not know was that royals don't have surnames. Like I never thought about it until, they don't have last names. Yeah. Like they do, but like no one knows them or whatever. Like it's not like widely known. You know what I mean? Yeah. So it's like, think about Prince Harry or Prince William or Princess Diana.

Have we heard their last names before? No, never. Is that crazy? I'm like, what? That is so weird. I wonder, I feel like I've looked them up before. Like I've had this like epiphany before where I was like, Oh wow, they don't have last names. And I've looked it up and like gone down this like insane rabbit hole like years ago.

But now that you're like, you have to have those moments where you're like, okay, I definitely thought about this before. I've definitely gone down this rabbit hole, forgot about it for several years, weeks, months, whatever. And then you like, like, you like re-remember and then you're just like re-intrigued and like fascinated. Yeah. I've definitely been there a lot of times.

So I went down this rabbit hole too because I was telling Will, I was like, wait, it makes no sense. Like why don't we know their last names? Like is it a secret or whatever? And Will's like, no, I'm pretty sure it's not a secret. They just don't have surnames. So we look it up and the Royals surname is in Mountbatten, Windsor. Oh, oh.

Have we ever heard of that? No. We're speaking for all of us like, no, we have, we have not, we have not heard of this. So I'm like, okay, so Prince William Sirbatten, Windsor, that sounds so fancy. Um, that's literally pure royalty name. That's a royal name right there. Such a royal name. And I'm like, wow, I wish I was like a Mountbatten something.

Shut up. And then, then this, okay, when you start going down rabbit hole sometimes, does it make you feel like you need to keep going down like other rabbit holes, like it makes you, it sparks interest and like something else that you've seen. So you're like, oh, wow, I should go and look at that now. Facts. Yes. All the time.

Okay. And then you just like keep going down the rabbit hole. So then I was telling Will, I was like, Will, do presidents drive? And he was like, no. And then I thought he was lying to me about it. Do you know that royalty in England, and this is what I remember from going down the rabbit hole is like when you're married in, and you're in like royalty or whatever, you can't fly on the same flight, but you have to fly separate from like, um, what is her

name? Why am I drawing a blank right now? Prince Henry? No. Yeah. Like Kate Middleton. Is it Kate Middleton? I don't know.

Yeah. I don't even remember their last names. She can't get on the same flight as her husband. She has to fly separate because if something were to happen, they both can't, they don't want them to pass away, like both of them to pass away. That's so wild. Like I didn't know that either. So then I'm thinking about like just normal people who aren't royalty, like the president

of the United States. And I'm like, have we ever heard of the president of the United States driving and wills like, I don't even know what made me think of this and wills like Lindsey presidents aren't allowed to drive since JFK, like they, they're never allowed to drive again. Oh, was he driving? Was who driving? Prince Henry. I mean, not Prince Henry, JFK.

No, I don't know. That's just like when it started, like, since JFK. And so I was like, wait, are you just making this up? Because I'm going to talk about it on the podcast. And if you're making this up and I report false news, then I'm going to be really pissed. And he was like, no, I'm being dead serious. He said, I'm pretty sure that once you become a president, you can never drive again. And they always have secret service for the rest of their life.

And I'm like, wow, like that's a big benefit. So let's say you want to go to like Aldi or something, does the secret service just wait for you 24 seven until you're like, I need to go to Aldi or do you have to call them like Uber or like, maybe they have like a food runner or like, what does that look like? Because that's a very fancy and like a big perk. Like that makes me want to be president of the United States actually. But then will said that President Bush had had a big problem with not being able to drive anymore and that he missed driving.

And so he drives around on his private property and they are allowed to drive golf carts, but they aren't allowed to drive a motor vehicle like on ever again. They're yeah, like ever again, okay, on the real road. I thought you meant like just in while they're in office. No. So like for the rest of forever, like they'll have secret service. So like the Obamas, they have secret service and a driver. So if she needs to run to Walgreens to get tampons, she can't just go to Walgreens to

get tampons. I guess not. I, well, maybe she can because she wasn't a president, but like, thank God that he doesn't need tampons. Like what would happen to them if they were like, fuck it, I'm going to Walgreens. I don't know. I'm saying, or like if you're trying to go to Aldi to get some goat cheese or something and you're just like, goat cheese, nobody's going to Aldi to get goat, to get goat cheese.

Nobody's doing that, Lindsay. The fuck? Oh my God. Nobody's doing that. No. Yes. I'm doing that and stop, stop like acting like the things that I do aren't normal because it's making me feel kind of uncomfortable and I'm sorry, but nobody's really buying goat

cheese. Maybe mozzarella. Oh my God. Bye. Okay. So moving on to the next thing. Can we talk about like where you've been for the past couple of days and like what you've been doing?

Do you have any life updates? Like what's going on? Okay. So actually I want to tell you about something that happened to me at the park while we were there. So I don't know what it is lately about my anxiety. I'm not really an anxiety, like I don't really have anxiety and we've had this conversation so many times on the podcast.

I don't really get anxiety. There was like a period of my life where I was having it a lot and then therapy and like my breathing techniques and stuff were helping so much. But okay. So you know how I said that Natalie and Kayden came to the parks with me? Yes. Well, so they drove in their own car and then I drove with my kids in my truck just because I had obviously had four kids and just like so much shit.

Um, so we were leaving the hotel. I want to know what it looked like. You guys pulling up to this water park with all y'all's shit and all your kids. Oh my God. And it's in a mall. So like you have to walk through the mall and I didn't realize that. Like I thought that it was attached to the mall, but you can't go directly into universal studios or universal studios.

You can't go directly into Nickelodeon universe or you can't go directly, directly, directly into the water park. You have to walk through the mall to get to them and I didn't know that. So like two of my kids are in their swimming trunks and then one of them is in like his swimming trunks with no shirt underneath his jacket and in crocs. Like I was just, I truly looked like, I don't even know. So Natalie's in the parking lot and when we were leaving the hotel, um, I was waiting for my car to come around to the hotel to like the entrance to come pick, like to get

us not like a car service, but like my own car, like kind of like ballet. Um, and Natalie was like, you know, so we're not, the baby's not sitting outside in the cold. She, her car was already pulled up. So she put him in her car and mind you, Natalie is a, is my childcare. So she already has car seats and stuff. So she puts them in there and I'm thinking, oh, she was going to put him back into my truck when we, when the car came around.

That's what I thought happened. I see where this is going. Oh my God. So we get to, mind you, I'm like, wow, like it's a five minute drive from the hotel to um, American Dream Mall and we go to get out of the car. I get lux out of his car seat. Don't even look over. Like I'm just blindly doing it.

And then I go over to get the baby out. I open the door, there's no baby in my car. I, Lindsay, when I tell you that I started crying, I was like, where's the baby? And I start crying. Were you screaming? Like were you facing like, why was it literally what I did? I opened the door and I, my heart dropped into my stomach and I was like, where's the baby?

And I'm looking around. Nobody's answering me. I'm like, where's the baby? And then I just like, the adrenaline took over and she's like, I have him. I have him. Like he's, he came in my car and I, I just started crying. Like that was just like my, I like literally put my arm up on my car and like leaned up against it and started bawling my eyes out because I was just so like, did we leave him

outside the hotel? Like what the fuck is going on? Like I panicked, but no, he was safely in her car the whole time. Oh my God. So this, just briefly, I want to tell you about this story that Jackson loves hearing about from Will growing up. So Will has two brothers and they were a baseball family, always at the ballpark. You know what that's like, not maybe not with baseball, but like always on the go with sports

and whatever. And so supposedly Will's mom had his younger brother and his dad had the older two and they were at the ballpark. Well, his mom thought that his dad took all of the boys to the ballpark. So she leaves the house, gets the ballpark and his dad starts asking his mom where his younger brother is. And she's like, wait, I thought you had him. So they had left him, he had been left at home and Jackson thinks that's the funniest

story ever, but it just makes me think like what would have been on that child's mind. He was coming like Kevin from home alone. Home alone. Yes. I wonder how many times that this actually happens, like leaving your kids at home or thinking you left your kids at home. Yeah. I was like, wow, Creed's being so quiet, like he's being such a good little boy, like he

must be sleeping. I don't know and meanwhile he's not even there. No, he was in that like, I don't know why I thought and like now that I'm saying it, the boy, like the older boys may have gotten lucks out of their out of his car seat and maybe that's why I didn't notice right away. Like I might have just gone right over to where Creed's car seat was. And I, like I started bawling my eyes out and the, you can literally like look across the street and see the hotel, but even still, like if that was the case, like I would have,

I don't think I would have forgiven myself. Like I, I don't think I would have forgiven myself. I need everyone to write in, call in whatever and tell us your stories. Like if you have ever forgotten your kid at home, forgot them somewhere, um, because I guarantee you it's way more people than we think I guarantee you. Oh my God. That was the worst feeling ever. I can't imagine, but how was the water park?

Like was it? The water park was good. Fun. Were you zipping down slides? I wish. Um, I felt like I was, even though I had help, like Natalie and Kayden are huge help. It's still like there's four kids, you know, so like everyone wants to do their own thing. And so I don't know.

Like it was just a lot. I want to go back with maybe just the older kids, um, cause Creed want to go in the wave pool. He's not big enough. Did I say Creed? Yeah. You said Creed, but people like you that have so many kids, they all, they get their kids' names mixed up.

It's like they start calling them and then it's like, finally they get to the right name. I don't even know. Like I call them. So I know you meant Lux. Yes. I meant Lux. Lux wanted to stay in the water park or the, um, wave pool with, which he loved, but then

there was also like a little kid splash pad that he would have loved too. But then I also wanted to do water slides with Isaac and then Lincoln was just, he didn't want to do anything but the wave pool. That's all he wanted to do. So then Natalie was with the baby and then we would switch and then she would go down to the water park with, with Lux and then it's like, I still can't, you know what I mean, like one of us has to be with the baby. So, um, it was just a lot like I, but it was, it was fun and the kids did take turns.

I mean, Isaac's little friend came, I say little friend, like Isaac's friend came and I'm friends. I'm really good friends with his dad and his dad's girlfriend, Jenny, which, um, I don't know. I don't think I've talked about, about her on this podcast, but, um, I'm good friends with her. Um, so they came and her daughter came. So it was like other kids too, but it was just still like a lot for Jenny also has a

small baby. So we had to stay with the babies. Um, but yeah, so no, it was fun though. I think, um, as far as like age wise, I think that there was a lot for Isaac and there was a lot for Lux, but then like if Jackson were to go, if Jackson doesn't like bigger waterslides and bigger roller coasters, I would wait. Oh, he likes to do everything fast and dangerous. Okay.

Perfect. So then he would love it. Lincoln is not into like the big roller coasters at all. Oh my gosh. Jackson was so upset when we went to Disney and he wasn't like tall enough, but when we went to his last appointment, his last doctor's appointment for his like annual checkup or whatever, he's exactly the height for roller coasters and he was like, yes, I can ride every roller coaster now.

And I'm like, oh my God, I'm raising a psychopath. I love it. I love it. I am dead. So anything else going on? Anything important? Um, okay. Yes.

So I do want to address something that you and I have talked about a lot privately, um, but I want to just address some rumors that are floating around since about last week. Um, if you guys follow any of, you know, the blog sites, um, did I say blog blog sites? If you follow any of the like trolley gossip sites or anything like that, um, even trolley accounts, um, there's rumors going around that Javi and I are screwing or we're getting back together and neither of those are true. Javi and I are not getting back together. We're not hooking up.

We are not, um, doing any of that. We are just friends and co-parents and, you know, just trying to navigate through all of this, um, co-parenting stuff. Um, so I just wanted to say that. And then I also wanted to just say that like something really, really small and to me, um, wasn't super important, got very blown out of proportion. So I just wanted to say that. And for those of you who follow all of those sites and those Instagram accounts, you'll

know exactly what I'm talking about. I agree. It's crazy like how long you have been co-parenting and it's just, it's like a good feeling to see you be in the place with some of the situations like where you can just get along and it's normal and the kids are, you know, first and it's like the ideal situation of what you want to see from co-parenting. So I'm just trying to get better every day. I feel like I'm, sometimes I feel like it's every day, you know, but like,

No, yeah, you're making all the right efforts for it to be, um, to be really good. Wait, but I have to ask you what a question, what you said, how's your toenail doing? My toenail is doing great. It's healing. It's growing. It's going to be normal soon. And I think I'll be ready for flip flops come may listen. Never been happier.

Never been happier. I love that for me. I love it for you. Um, I know that we talk on here, we've talked about this several times on different episodes, but I ran across this article about this teacher who had had relations with a student and her lawyer came out and said that the teacher was too short to commit the sex act with the teen student. I'm sorry.

Say that again. Do you really want me to repeat it? Yes. I was too short to commit sex act with teen students. You're lying. That is the defense. Yes. This was, this was a male.

Let me read you. So it says the attorney for a married British teacher accused of having sex with her teenage student argued in court this week that her client was too short to have carried out the sex acts that alleged victim described. So this woman's 35 years old facing three charges of sexual activity with a child after prosecutors contended that she had sex with a 15 year old student according to this tabloid. She's a married mother of three and was convicted in 2020 of sending topless pictures of herself to the teen who has not been publicly identified.

She is now on trial for additional charges connected to the prosecutor's allegations that the relationship became sexual in October of 2018. Jurors in the first trial failed to reach a consensus on the charges of sexual activity with a child which prompted the second trial and the British courts. So it says that this woman first approached the teen at a sports event in September of 2018 took his phone and added her details into a Snapchat account and the pair allegedly began to message each other through the social media app. Prosecutors said that the conversations quickly turned sexual.

In October of 2018 she picked him up in her car and drove him to a private field where they had sex and the teen testified in court that the pair had met for sexual activity on three different occasions. So yeah, her attorney described her as five feet tall and that she was too short to have committed these acts. So I just want to know what you feel about this. Well, my initial thought is what the fuck. And then my second thought is if you had the intention to try you deserve to be charged.

Agreed. And the fact that you even were texting a student on that level no matter what your height is you're wrong and you should be charged. Where it went wrong and I will stand by this forever that teachers and students like should not be friends on social media platforms like I agree with you Facebook Instagram Twitter snapchat whatever it is she should have never added her snap information to him for things to get blurred and to be sending nude photos of yourself like you're a mother and you're married and you're sending this to an underage person boy yeah like I don't know like there's

been so many people that have called in. I really want to play some of the call ins that we need to have we need to do that yeah on the episodes from just like parent or student teacher relationships of things that have happened and it is way more common than what we had ever imagined like we had discussed before but I'm just like wow like the fact that someone's defense would be that they were too short to do whatever like I have honestly never heard someone say that they were too short to have sex yeah I don't I mean that can't even be accurate because there are little people who get pregnant and have babies and do it in a natural way where

it's not you know artificial and the size difference just like for comparison look at the size difference between me and will like you've met will he's very tall like he's six four six five and I'm five four and a half so I'm pretty sure if we can make it happen then she was able to also make it happen that's wild I mean that's a really shitty defense too so I'm gonna need them to do better so I'm also gonna need to do better in jail just go to jail she just needs she just needs to completely go to jail so do you have anything else going on so this week I am going to Connecticut to shoot with the Boudoir photographer that I used a couple months ago so I'm really excited about that

and then no are you doing like more cool photos so I got a campaign with Savage Fenty oh my gosh that's so exciting yeah I'm really excited about it so that's what I'm gonna go do tomorrow so you're gonna go and feel like really good about yourself doesn't it sometimes just feel so good to like do your makeup like really good and your hair and put yourself together and have a coffee but like not have really any other life responsibilities besides that because like I'm looking forward I haven't I can't remember the last time I wore makeup so it'll be nice to just have my hair and makeup done like truly it's so funny you sent me a picture today of you doing the boys haircuts and your hair was like on top of your head

and like all over the place of my hair on top of my head all over the place like a frizz ball like curled from here to like wherever yeah I mean mom life is just like really strange to me like used to I would never look like this and now I'm just kind of like okay I am just surviving at this point and I have other obligations during the day that are more important to me than like putting a face on but then I go back to at the beginning of the year or at the end of the year whenever it was I was talking about like taking a little bit of time for yourself each day and like putting yourself together honestly I did feel so much better when I was on that path and now I've kind of gotten off of it but since

we started talking about this just now now I'm back on it like I'm gonna put makeup on tomorrow oh yeah I mean I it's like almost like making your bed in the morning like you just feel better about yourself when you do it oh I wonder how many people that listen to us are morning bed makers like do you have do you always make your bed whenever you wake up or do you not because I feel all weird like if I don't make my bed I think about it all day like if I'm not at home and I know that's extreme but I'll be thinking about my beds not being made I I don't make my bed every day but I do feel better when I do make my bed so tell me about that before we go like about you not making your bed every day

and like what is that life like I just you know what I sleep in until like I hit snooze on my alarm every day at least three times so like if I got up if I get up before the third snooze button hit I'll wake my bed like that's usually how it plays out like if I'm like feeling good and I'm up you know around 6 45 that's like around the second time I hit snooze then I'll probably make my bed but a lot of times it's like scrambling also if I feel like when my house is less cluttered and I like maybe pack the school lunches the night before well Luxa school lunch the night before then I'm more likely to wake up in the morning and make my bed but a lot of times I'm just pressed for time and like I like

my bed a certain way and I have like I don't know 12 pillows that I put on so I also feel weird about like making my bed if it's like not clean sheets like I want super clean sheets but like if it's been a week and I need to wash my sheets like why am I gonna make a dirty bed you know what I mean well okay to that this is like a long rabbit hole kill like a very long rabbit hole for me so I do not like dirty sheets at all I'm like okay the way I look at sheets is like a clothing item now both people that sleep in my bed will and I in case anybody needs to know the people um we both shower before we get in the bed so it's not like our bed is dirty or like somebody just comes in from like the

gym and gets in and it's like nasty but I that but I'm sure there are a lot of people that do um and you're like you're disgusting but I like my sheets washed and clean and crisp and not like funky like if I think it's gonna be funky I will just have to take my sheets off and my whole sheet washing process is a whole literally like a whole day job because I wash my sheets I watch wash my mattress pad every time I wash like my quilt my duvet day like I wash everything whenever I wash it so I also need to know if that's normal or if that is excessive and I'm probably not gonna change either way no matter what anyone says yeah the mattress pads probably excessive but also knowing you I feel like that's very

like that's normal I'm not surprised that you do that that's like very on brand for me right like yes that is very on brand for you I definitely agree and then I also wonder like people who don't make their bed every day do they make it before they get in it at night time um or do they just like do it with the sheets just like wherever they were no no I I don't like to feel like I'm suffocating with like a ton of blankets mixed up and pillows all over the place I take um some pillows off and I do sleep with like when you find it when you I'm gonna post a picture of the Ninja Turtles pillow I sleep with and I'm gonna tell you why in a second um but like I have to like flatten out the sheet and the and I actually

hate the flat sheet I actually put it under my fitted sheet because my friend when I was in high school her mom told me like as like an extra like layer of protection to like put it under the fitted sheet like especially because I was breastfeeding Isaac at the time um she was like you know you don't like milk throw up whatever if you have the baby in your bed like whatever whatever so that's what I do and then um I flatten out my comforter because I don't I hate feeling like it's just like big and bulky all over the place but um I make the bed before I get in it so that was where I was going with that but then I sleep with um like I have the pillow under my head and then I have the pillow that goes

between my legs because it aligns my spine and like makes it like straight and then I have this Ninja Turtle pillow that Lux got when he was one and if it was it's not I don't sleep with it because it's a Ninja Turtle pillow like that's not what it's about for me it's the um the softness of it the texture of it um and I like hug it like when I'm asleep it's very special to you no it's really not I just it keeps my back nice and aligned so my shoulders aren't like like I'm trying to describe it over this podcast I think you need to go to the chiropractor honestly after hearing all of this because this seems like a lot of adjusting to me so I literally hug it like like I'm a side sleeper like I have

to sleep on my side so I like not hug it but you get what I'm saying or like oh yeah exactly what you're saying okay okay and I'm a stomach sleeper so I also want to know whoever's listening to this if you're a slot side sleeper or a stomach sleeper and for the moms who's listening to this if you're a stomach sleeper how miserable were you also whenever you were pregnant when you had to sleep on your side because I relate I wish there was a hole in my bed so that I could just stick my belly through it looks like something I would be interested in I definitely wish that I would have gotten one when I was pregnant I'm so dead well it looks like that's really all we have time for today Kale and yeah I wish we could just like keep

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