Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - 198: Vacation Preferences, Holiday Choices, & New Years Thoughts

Episode Date: January 6, 2022

Happy New Year Coffee Convos! Kail and Lindsie are starting off the new year talking about the past few weeks of holidays and traveling. Lindsie's recent trip to Disney World got her thinking about traveling and vacations. Is it better to stay on property at resorts and places like Disney, or stay off site in a condo or Airbnb? And Kail received some backlash over how she handles the holidays, and she wants to know what is so wrong about celebrating differently. And with the changing of the year comes recentering and looking towards the months ahead. Kail and Lindsie talk about the changes they hope to make and their "words of the year". What is your "word of the year"? This episode was sponsored by: Best Fiends & Calm Music by Nathaniel Wyvern. Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License.

Good morning coffee combo. Good morning fluffers. Good morning fluffers. How are you guys? First of all, I'm just so glad that we finally have like a name for our following our listeners because I feel like every podcast I listen to they have like a name for their for their people for their like like minded people. You know what I mean? Yes. I love fluffers. Love them so much. And I'm just so excited that it is a new year. Me too. I'm very excited. Although getting here was not easy. We got what I thought this morning was like two inches of snow. By time I got in my car to come to the office there's at least five inches of snow going. It was not a good time when I dropped off Lux. He really really really wanted to play in the snow

and I had to get here to record because the rest of my week is crazy. So I dropped off Lux to play in the snow and I busted my ass on the way out. I was like Lux was like my mom just fell but he was dying to play in the snow and I knew I couldn't I couldn't do it this morning. So first snow of the season and first snow of the new year and we got new branding for the new year. First of all I hope that everyone is so excited about all the things that are to come because it just is like a really good vibe. I cannot explain to you the level of peace that I have walked into the new year with. Just all around like peace and my personal life peace and my business life. It just feels really really good and like a really good start.

I'm I feel like we're off to a good start and we hit 20 million. When the new year when it literally changed from 2021 to 2022, we hit 20 million downloads, which is huge. I feel so proud. I'm so excited. Back to your snow comment though I'm literally laughing at our group chat because to be honest if I had to go somewhere to record and that was my life, I would not have shown up because I do not know how to drive and implement weather like that. It's not a thing and so I'm just really proud of you. Thank you. Thank you. I'm very proud of you as well and I'm excited to see what you have to do in 2022. Can you believe it? I can't believe it. It's literally like. First of all though I went to bed at 1140 like I could not hang and I've been watching the show how to get away with murder.

And I've read something that okay so I was watching it with someone and I was like the crazy thing is that some of the stuff that these lawyers say in the show I'm like I would literally say that as an attorney and then I read this little cute. It was like this little not cute it was this quote and it said my toxic trait is I feel like I could represent myself in court and that is literally me and I thought of you because we both want to go to law school and I'm like this is us like this is me. Why is this us though? It is like I don't know I do not know and we could literally we could represent our porn porn fluffers across the nation. Kale, I was dying getting some of the messages of people being like I had no idea that you would not know what a porn fluffer is and like well listening back you knew what a porn fluffer was or you didn't know what a porn fluffer was. No I just guessed. I don't know why I didn't know that and people were messaging me and I was like the fact that so many people know what that is and I had no idea I had never even heard of it. Like, why was it like a household conversation about what like everyone knows what a porn fluffer is. Well, yeah, I actually was texting someone and was like, do you know what it is and the person told me they just like assumed what it was same as me.

And I just thought to myself how did all of our listeners know about this and where did the conversation come up for that to even be like a named job and how does one sign up to be that job. Should we just, I was going to say should we just do that. I'm not trying to sign up. I'm just saying how does. No, I was going to say that thinking about the fact that I thought that it was like fluffing the scene but it's really fluffing the dick. So I also don't want to sign up like I never want to sign up. But how does like how do you apply for that job like is there like a Craigslist ad that or like an indeed like post about it like I don't know. We don't know, but we also definitely need answers on like how this all transpires because I would love, I would love the inside scoop and I know the fluffers out there will let us know. I also wanted to tell you, and this is not really like a resolution because I don't have we talked about this before that I don't really like resolutions because I either don't do them or just, you know, how it goes.

But I was so committed to like getting my life in a state of organization and when I tell you I made more of a mess of my house, trying to organize than actual organizing took place. So now I just kind of have clothes everywhere and like stuff kind of everywhere and I'm getting there. But I think the statement, it gets worse before it's get it gets better when it comes to like organizing and getting your life in order, right. I think that's very true. I have given up on trying to organize my life at this point because I'm just trying to like get rid of everything before I move into the new house but like, I agree with you, I do agree with you. Like I'm pulling stuff out from all different places and I thought I was so organized when I moved in here because remember I was like so diligent about like not bringing in boxes and going through them all and whatever. But now I feel like that I've been here what like six or so months that I've acquired things that I like either don't need or Jackson starting to outgrow clothes or there's toys that he doesn't play with anymore. And I don't know if it's just my child or if it's everybody's kids but I feel like once they collect all the way until the last item of something new that they become invested in, then they're on to the next thing. Um, can we talk about squish mellows and squish squishables for a second. Um, yeah, why you don't love them I love them. I absolutely love them and you told me about squish mellows and then my friend bone told me about squish squishables.

And then I was like, Oh, wow, like I have I know I talked about it on the podcast this Ninja Turtle pillow. Remember that Ninja Turtle pillow that I have that it was Lux's grandmother had given it to him like years ago for his birthday and I have I slept with it for forever, because I like hold something when I go to sleep like to help my back. And then Lincoln and Isaac were fighting about who wanted it and the squish mellows and the squishables are the same type of like pillow. So now I'm like look like I'm on my work laptop and I'm on my personal laptop at the same time trying to figure out how I decide which kid gets what and then also my, I call Sterling's kids my nieces like I was going to get them for like a late Christmas gift I was going to get them each one, but like they sell out and you have to preorder some of them like what the fuck is this why didn't we invent this like why didn't I take that Ninja Turtle pillow and be like wow I could create multiple of these and sell them like where the fuck was my business brain then. Do you want me to send you a picture of all of Jackson's squish. Oh, you have multiple.

Oh, honey. Like my. Pushable or or squish mellows or does he do both. Okay, so what's the difference. I think just there I don't think there is a huge difference I'm looking now and they all they, there's not a huge difference but I've noticed that squishables, there's more options. Okay, so squish mellows, I don't know if they are exclusive to like Walgreens or whatever but that's where I find most of his and for anyone who's listening to this who's who have never heard of them like I feel really bad if your kids are also listening to this because they're going to really want them. But I think that they're like a newer version and like a better version of tie beanie babies. When we were kids like in the 90s. They've got small ones but then they've got ones that are like pillow size. And so Jackson got a ton of them and I literally kill driving home from Christmas.

I felt like the people and everybody who is listening is going to know what I'm talking about. Like, I felt like the people who have beanie babies like in the rear of their car. Yes. Like sitting up there. I felt like that person and like if I got pulled over. What would I say to a cop with that many squish mellows in my car. What would I say you would and he would probably give you a ticket for your. What is it called? A structured view and a distraction. Yeah. And I'm like, okay, would I tell him I for sure did not want Rob or Walgreens. I just was maybe swerving because I couldn't see to get over because my vision was obstructed because one, I'm not wearing my glasses that I'm supposed to be wearing and two,

I'm not wearing any fucking squish mellows in the car. I love it. I'm obsessed. I, they're so cute. And I'm just like, this is something I can get behind because I feel like they're practical, like they're for comfort, they can play. And also you can use it as a pillow like in the car or something like I support. I'm going to send you a picture and I'll make sure that it gets posted in the stories this week too because you're just going to be like, okay, I think that you have enough like you're, you're good. I don't need to invest. I maybe need to invest in stock actually in squish mellows. Why are they, why are they so expensive is what I need to know. Why are they so expensive? Why are they so cute? I just, you know, is what it is. Hey, PS, need to tell you about my Disney extravaganza. I need to know people who are listening. If you go to Disney and you prefer to stay on property or if you prefer to stay off property.

Because as much as I liked the experience of being kind of like intertwined in Disney the entire time. I did not love like waiting for the bus to go to the other parks like that was chaotic to me. And I also kind of like staying in a condo that has a kitchen and I don't know if other people travel this way or not but I prefer like Airbnb stay or somewhere that has kitchen accommodations not that I'm in there like chefing it up but like I like the option of having that and so I kind of felt a little confined in the hotel. So I have done, I did both. I when I went to Disney with the family for my 23rd birthday and I brought the kids that was the first and only time I ever brought my kids to Disney. We did an Airbnb, and I didn't have anything to compare it to but I just felt like we wasted a lot of the day not being in the park already. And so it kind of allowed us to start our day later and not really like seize the day and make the best of it. And the second time I did Disney was when I ran the half marathon and well I ran a part of it, but bones in the other room cracking up. I ran part of it. I walked the rest a majority.

We stayed in the park and we stayed in the. I want to say it was the animal kingdom. It was a lot better. If I was to do it again with small children I would stay in the park and if I was to do it again with Lincoln and Isaacs at their age now I would stay out of the resort, like the parks. I will say that I felt like with Jackson's age maybe things are just getting a little bit easier like he's way more accommodating when it comes to like time and a little bit more self sufficient and that kind of thing so I don't think it would have been as much of a hassle if we would have had a lot of property because it was just me and him, but it was a little nice to your point that I did feel like we could sleep in a little bit later being so close to everything. That was a nice part of it, but we stayed at the animal kingdom lodge and had a Savannah view room which overlooks like the animals and it was really really cool. In 2021, in 2021 fashion, it rained two of the four days that we were at Disney so we were poncho wearing. I feel like last year I really just learned how to be patient and if it taught me anything to just kind of go with whatever the weather brings you whatever life brings you whatever just like live with it.

I did that and we had a really, a really, really good time and every time I go to Disney, I always like for the next week, I come home unpack and I'm like I'm never going back. Literally, well, yeah, that's like what I say about family vacation with with the baby it's like I'm never bringing him until he turns five and then I am a whole fucking liar. Yeah, and then you book a whole another trip and it's like this big outrageous what at rager and then we're just like partying on an island and you're regretting it. I'm glad we're on the same page. I'm glad that we're there. I love it. But I don't know if you did this with either of the boys I know that you had talked about maybe like taking them on vacations to do, you know, someone on one time. Yes. And I guess my situation is a little bit different because the one on one time is because I have an only child and because I am newly divorced but it was so precious and so sweet to be able to just have him by myself to be able to dine with him by myself to do the mornings by ourselves they're just like something so nice about that. It's crazy because when I think back to when I first had Isaac, I thought I felt very uncomfortable, like taking him to eat by myself or something, because I was so young and I just like, I would literally go to a restaurant eat by

myself right now like by myself. So like back to a time where like I wouldn't even go with my son because it just felt like so unnatural so weird to like eat by myself now I would take any of my kids to go eat just me and them and it's fine and it I love it. And just a little special time it's like those are memories that only he and I will have and there's just something so cute and so nice about that and I think I'm really like leaning into just me and him like for a little while, I was very uncomfortable with that because I didn't really know what to do I mean since I was 19 years old it was always like Will and I and then once we got married we had Jackson right away so then it was all three of us. Right. And so I didn't really know exactly what to do or how to act if that makes sense like, and now it was really nice because I was able to have a very adult conversation with Will. I ended the new year, I mean, the old year with it going into the new year. That there are things that I've had to become comfortable with that I was very uncomfortable with that I have now gained and I don't know if it's through therapy if it's through time if it's through a combination of the things but I've gained this level of confidence that I can make decisions right now, knowing that the decisions that I'm making are specifically for myself and for Jackson, and that only have to think about us when I'm making those decisions and I, I finally got into a level of like okay I'm comfortable with this and I don't know if you ever went through it with Joe or if you ever went through it with Harvey. Did you ever have like an uncomfortable feeling of like you were making decisions for you are making decisions for Isaac, but feeling like should I be considering the other person's feelings or should I not or like how do I

navigate this. Sometimes it's, you have, yeah, because you have to know when to consider the other parties feelings on it or if they're going to say something but most of the time. I know what as they get older know. Yeah, so you, you're comfortable with just kind of like doing whatever on your time. Yeah, like I feel like now. Yeah, I'm not going to ask for permission I'm not gonna like I know what's expected of me. And I choose my battles and you know, I know I hate to say it but like, I will just ask for forgiveness later like if they didn't like it or they felt like I should have brought it to a decision I would rather say sorry. Now I know moving forward, then to like ask because I feel like as a mom. I know what I should and shouldn't be doing what I can and can't do what's expected of me what you know what I mean. Yeah. Just most recently, I've been struggling a little bit with. I mean I have an issue with control when it comes to Jackson because I've always been the primary decision maker when it's come to everything because I stayed home with him for so long so it was like, we'll needed to like give me approval to do something while he was at work, you know, but recently, we've had so many COVID tests and I'm sure y'all have been COVID testing so much too but like just the unknown of like Jackson having a

COVID test, I didn't know about it. And then I found out about it through him. And then, I don't know if you've ever experienced this with your kids too, but there was like a miscommunication of Jackson thinking he got vaccinated but then he actually had a COVID test. Oh, okay. You know, so then it's like, I would love to hear stories from people that have had like complete miscommunication between someone they're co-parenting with and then like their child's version of this story because it can be very different than the actual reality like could you imagine your child coming home and being like, oh, I got a vaccine for XYZ today and then like you had no idea but then actually they just got swabbed for COVID. Could you, I would literally be ready to fight everybody. I know. I would be ready to throw hands. I'm just so dead.

All right, you guys, if you've listened to the show for a while, you know that I am obsessed with playing best fiends and playing best fiends year round, but I especially love playing best fiends during the holiday season because I feel like it's the perfect pick me up when I need a break from the holiday action and if you don't know anything about best fiends, you can play anywhere. So if you don't have Wi-Fi, that's no problem. You can play best fiends wherever, whenever you want with offline mode. So even if your holiday travels takes you off the beaten path, you can still play best fiends and I feel like best fiends has it all an amazing storyline, collectible fiends and tons of fun puzzles. I truly can't put it down. It's quite possibly the best puzzle game out there and not to brag, but I think I'm close to level 2000 and best fiends has literally thousands of levels with more added all the time. So there's always a fresh challenge waiting for me when I need a mental pick me up. And I actually shared this either a year or a little over a year ago on my Instagram and I have just really gotten invested in this game. These little characters are so cute.

So if you guys have not played before, you can download the best fiends app for free today on the app store or Google Play. Download best fiends free today on the app store or Google Play. That's friends without the R best fiends. Moving on from that, I need to know what exactly you did for Christmas. Um, and we really need to discuss how much flack you got from telling your followers that you do not do gifts. I, okay, I went to Key Largo for Christmas. I last minute left on Friday came back Sunday. Where the fuck is Key Largo. It's in the Florida Keys. Oh, yeah.

Why do I feel like I didn't know you were there. Did I not tell you. No, I just saw you kayaking and I was like, Oh, she's insane. Yeah, so I, yes, I went to Key Largo and I had a great time I stayed at this little super cute resort. And it's like little, like little bungalows. It's, I can't even, it was so fucking cute and it had like restaurants, it was pretty much the closest that you could get to being on an island without, I mean, I guess Key Largo is an island or a peninsula, I'm not sure. Without actually leaving the country. Like it was super cute. The water was very blue. It was so cute. I have no complaints and every it's an all inclusive in Key Largo, like it was an all inclusive thing and it was, I got a massage on the beach. It was great. I saw a post that Erica Mina did Erica Mina, if you guys don't know who that is, she was on I believe it was love and hip hop.

She said, Oh, is you guys celebrating not saying that you don't celebrate Christmas anymore, your way of not having to spend money on your kids. And I'm like well for one. It's not about Christmas is not supposed to be about spending money and number two, everyone, like, outside of what she said like everyone was like, having, having a fucking meltdown about me not doing Christmas and I'm like, literally Christmas comes in July for us like that's literally what it is it's either vacation in April for spring break or if we go longer, it's in July so like I don't know what everyone's like been out of shape about. But they were so upset. I was just like what is going on like I don't know why and like I understand like people being like curious about it like what like why but like not judging but the amount of like judgment I got was kind of like oh wow I didn't expect that. And it's not new like I've been doing this for literally four years I think the last time I did Christmas when was when Lux was one. Well, I just think it's so strange that people took such offense to like something you were doing with your kids and it's not even their kids. Oh well, so bones in the other room she texted me and she said everyone on tick tock loved it I didn't see any negative comments. So I don't I must have missed that tick tock what what what to talk.

We don't know about the tick tock phone like you need to tell us about the tick tock. The only thing that we saw was people being negative neds and talking about it, although I can tell you. Next year, did I talk about it already tell me to shut the fuck up if I did, but Christmas and holidays are so stressful for moms I feel like because you are so wrapped up in like getting the stuff done to actually be able to celebrate the holiday that by the time the holiday gets there. It's just like, okay, I did all of that prep for this, and it just doesn't seem as exciting as when you were a kid and your mom was doing it for you so I feel like next year. I really want to encourage everyone to just like enjoy the time with the people that you're spending and like maybe do a dinner or something and we can go to hibachi and we don't have to like do this big drawn out thing and still celebrate and see everybody and all those things but it doesn't have to be stressful but I'm like a high stress person when I know that like gifts have to be ball and all of those things. It really stresses me out. I also like there was a time where I did not care and I wanted to like plan all the things but like it stresses me out now like it's not a good time for me.

Because in fact why don't do it. Um, in other news, I was so shocked when I saw this article, actually, I say I was shocked nothing shocks me anymore but I was, I guess the better word for this would be appalled. It was the Britney Spears legal fee saga of her dad wanting his legal fees paid by her estate. And I just think that's insane. I don't understand that I think that is horrible and I hope she doesn't do it and that is my raw and filtered opinion. Yeah, so it says that the latest conflict concerns whether Jamie's legal fees will be covered while he's winding down his fiduciary duties over the just ended conservatorship of his daughter that he supervised or co supervised for more than 13 years. It says in legal documents filed last week Jamie Spears says he's entitled to have his legal fees paid by his daughters nearly $60 million estate to ensure the conservatorship can be wound up quickly and effectively to allow Britney to take control of her life as she and Jamie desire. And it was a 21 page petition to the court, his lawyer filed a 600 page brief and support of Jamie's petition. And it said that it was by far the largest document and Britney Spears volumous public court file for her conservatorship.

I just have so many questions on where their relationship would stand at this point and if there is anything like issue on okay terms with her sister and her mom, is she because obviously we know how she feels about her dad. Is it repairable. Well, I love what her lawyer's response was because he said that the request was merely shameful, and that Mr Spears reaped many millions of dollars from Brittany as a conservator while paying his lawyers millions more all from Brittany's work and her hard earned money. And I think that it's probably legally mirrorless. But I guess we'll see. But to your point, I would love to know. I would love to know more about this entire situation and I hope she has been very active on socials. Since all of this has gone down but I would hope that we would get some type of like insider info on why her sister has never said anything, why everything has always been so tight flipped. Are they, you know, still under a gag order where they ever under one, not allowed to talk about it. Do they even get along. A couple of things that I've seen makes me think that Brittany and Jamie Lynn are not like on the best term sisters. Well I've seen a couple things floating around about Jamie's Jamie Lynn's husband, like commenting on certain things and I think that's really weird. Do you know what he was saying. He like would make like shady comments let me see if I can Google them because I just didn't know I didn't know this was going to come up otherwise I would have already had Jamie Lynn, I would have already had this stuff. Jamie like shades her and it's so weird defended Jamie Lynn's husband defends her after Brittany said she wants to sue her family. Jamie Lynn. So his name is also Jamie, his name is Jamie Watson.

Which is lots of Jamie's lots of Jamie's Watson's comment comes after Brittany slammed her family at a court hearing. He says, Brittany also slammed her family for doing nothing to stop her father. So I'm going to put my article in here I'm going to post it because I don't want to like I just didn't expect to like bring it up on here otherwise I would have already had it ready. But there's been a couple things he's like done like Q&As on Instagram and stuff and like answer and like says things it's weird. Yeah, anything that you find then just post it so that we can all read about it. That thing. I have like been trying to dive into the Kim Kardashian business manager. Wait, time out before you go to Kim Kardashian. Brittany Spears just unfollowed her sister on social media. She did. Yeah. See, I told you like there's there's some weird stuff that's going on there and I would love for anyone who's listening to this if you know more info or if you're like super invested and know of any like tick tock articles anything or any insider info then please send it to me because I am quite interested in this whole thing.

All right you guys a lot of emotions surface during the holiday season happiness sadness joy excitement stress and if you're like me you'll have a little bit of every single one of those. The list goes on but remember to take time for yourself this holiday season and make sure you keep your mental wellness in check and take a break with calm. A couple weeks ago I talked about doing this with my kids and I have no idea that they were going to sponsor our podcast and so I feel like the universe was speaking to us here. Take a moment and download the calm app and this new year we've got to exercise the brain but what you really need to do is resolve to strengthen your mind with a mindfulness practice and this is something that I had said that I wanted to work on when I talked about this a couple weeks ago. Just a new gym routine or you need a little help this is where calm comes in just helping you align yourself with all of the things that you want to manifest for this year so we're partnering with calm the number one mental wellness app to give you the tools that help improve the way you feel. Bear your head with guided daily meditations improve your focus with calm curated music tracks and drift off to dreamland with coms imaginative sleep stories for children and adults. If you guys listen back to one of the episodes where I talked about this. I played the jack in the beanstalk one for Lux's first time using it and he fell asleep within the first 10 minutes and I absolutely loved it we've been using it ever since. This was actually recommended to me by my therapist. So that's really cool. If you go to calm.com slash combos to get a limited time offer of 40% off the calm premium subscription which includes hundreds of hours of programming and new content is added every week.

I also want to add that Lincoln loves the LeBron James series which I think is really cool and then Isaac and I just do the daily calm. So over 1 million people around the world use calm to take care of their minds sleep more stress less live better with calm. For listeners of the show calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off the calm premium subscription at calm.com slash combos that C a l m.com slash combos for 40% off unlimited access to coms entire library that's calm.com slash combos. Kill what I'm a little upset that. Okay, so you sent me what was it the tick tock or an article about Kim Kardashian's business manager being found dead in her home. Yes. But I was a little upset because it's not her current business manager and I feel like they just because Kim Kardashian is such a big name they tied her. Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay. To all of that. And so I was like that just goes to show how the media works and how they operate and what they do for clicks because this woman was literally found murdered. In her car, her was it her boyfriend or her ex boyfriend was arrested. And Kim's name was attached to it, but it's not her business manager. Okay, so I don't I hate when they do shit like that it's so annoying, because I just feel like.

Why can't you like you could have still done the article you didn't have to tie it to Kim. Yeah, so it's just, it's just a little crazy. But the woman was 55 years old, and she did serve as a business manager for Kim for many, many years, but her car was found in like a car trunk, and it was like in an area. It said like north of Los Angeles, and it said that the police actually found the 49 year old suspect I'm assuming was her boyfriend. And supporting her body. And so it's just like weird but she was a mom of five, and so many people had commented and just said that she was a kind and exceptional person. And she worked with many big names I think she'd even worked with Kanye. And she worked with Nicki Minaj too. Yeah, at one time and so isn't that just insane. It's so sad. It's so sad. And she had moved to the United States I think that maybe she was Russian. But I'm, I'm following this I don't know any more, you know, that has come out other than just that, but I'm going to keep following it because there's got to be something more to it for someone to kill you put you in the trunk of a car and then to get caught like transporting you somewhere.

There's something to that. There's a lot to that. And I just agreed. I'll be interested to continue following that. For sure. So, um, what else is going on in your life. Well, speaking of the Kardashians. Did you see that Kim posted a picture of Chicago and true. But, okay, so sometimes, sometimes I will believe the like Photoshop, whatever. But then sometimes I'm like, okay, is this just someone because what if it was like a fake photoshopped Photoshop, you know, like what if someone just like faked that whole thing. And so if you watch the tick tock I sent you the tick tock. Was it a tick tock bone gives me all the T because bone is, she just knows everything and she's literally the FBI. She, I think it was her she sent me something. Okay, yes, the tick tock where someone points out that the ponytail that true is wearing in a picture is different than what is stormy is actually in the ponytails are different.

It was definitely Photoshop and it looks like they add the picture of where like what picture true. What am I trying to say here what I'm trying to say is they show the picture that was used for for true space to be photoshopped on the stormy because true wasn't even on the trip. It was only stormy. So I'm just gonna, I'm just gonna, we're going to post the tick tock, but I'm going to just play a hypothetical here. What if there was something going on with Chloe and Tristan and people are trying to like mislead Tristan on where true is so then there's like this photo shop. So my theory, that's a good theory I didn't think of Chloe and Tristan at all. I did not think about them. I thought my first theory was okay well if Kim has Chicago or someone has Chicago and stormy. Maybe Kylie was in labor. Oh, and someone has Chicago Chicago and stormy so that she could get birth.

Oh. Okay, well maybe. And then I saw that Travis had posted for the first time what since Astro world so. When was that by the way because I was thinking like, it wasn't a very long hiatus it was only a couple weeks. Yeah, I mean I don't know. November 5. Oh bone said November 5. Yeah, so I mean it hasn't really been that long but to be to be like am I a off of social since November 5 and to even be connected to the Kardashian seems a little whack to me. I just don't like.

I'm gonna post we're gonna post the tick tock on the story so you guys can understand so we're gonna post that tick tock. I'm gonna post the tick tock that bone sent me of. I got a lot of hate on for the Christmas stuff on Instagram and Facebook but I did not get a lot of hate on tick tock and bone just found the tick tock of the, the guy who does the gossip tick tocks that people liked my Christmas stuff, my Christmas situation. And then what other tick tock where we're going to post, or we're going to post the articles of Jamie Lynn. Yeah, of Jamie Lynn. Okay, so before we go. I want to hear about your, your gym adventures. And. Okay, then I want to tell you my word of the year. Okay, so. You know, my ex husband Javier.

Javier jalapeno those are all people Java, he gets the crazy names yeah people call him the craziest names it's so funny. I told them start calling JJ, because the name is Jose Javier. Anyway, long story short, I hit him up and I'm like, I need help with Jim stuff like I need to lose weight you used to own CrossFit like I need help. I was at the workout he writes me a workout. I go work out and I literally fell out of the gym. Like I, like I worked out, and then I went to leave and when I was leaving I like misstepped and I rolled out and I people may have thought it was because I had jello legs but I think it was just because I was texting and walking which is the same way I broke my ankle while I was pregnant when I fell down the stairs because I was texting. I was texting on the way out and I literally fell and I tried to catch myself at the door like pull myself up but I was so weak that I couldn't even pull myself up kill so what were you doing. I just literally was just like sitting there for a minute like what am I supposed to do with this like what am I like what just happened and it was so slow motion. Okay, so remember the one time and the story I'll make sense in a second but remember the one time I told you that I went, I needed to go to Levi's to get some jeans, and I wasn't wearing a bra but like I went anyway. Yeah, I was like trying to like cover up my nipples. Well, now I look back on that and I just like laugh because at this point of my life I literally don't give a shit about what anybody thinks what they see me looking

at what I'm doing like if they think that I'm crazy. I don't care about any of that. And so I could totally see myself falling and something like that happening I mean not even carrying what anybody around me thinks, but I could see you being so humiliated by that, and like looking around seeing who saw you. Oh, absolutely but I knew she saw like the owner of the gym was there I know she saw me she didn't say anything. And I just. She didn't say anything and I when I went in to work out the next day, I was like I know you saw me fall out of the gym, and she was laughing, and also I wore my crocs to work out like I wear my crocs on a regular egg I wore them in the snow today. I also wear my crocs and she was like oh I just thought you forgot your shoes and I was like no she's like oh it's so it's a choice and I was like yeah it's a choice like I don't it's not like I'm doing like. I'm not like running and sprinting and doing like those types of things like I'm literally lifting and doing the bike and so I wear my crocs to the gym like I didn't know that was like frowned upon. Oh my god kale. And she didn't know she didn't realize it was a choice so there's also that. I'm actually choosing to wear these post Malone crocs. Oh yeah for sure.

I love it. I have not been to the gym in so many weeks. It's embarrassing. But I just got wrapped up and so many other things it kept being like I would wake up. And then I had to do something else and I wasn't able to get there so like I said I don't make resolutions but one of my goals for the year is to do something active five days a week and then just like not try to make any plans on the weekends for stuff like that because it's just not going to happen so I would be setting myself up for failure. And just kind of seeing where that takes me I'm going to be more diligent with wearing my Apple watch because I'm not. I'm not very good about that. And just not be so hard on myself when I don't get everything done like I'll have a jam packed day and then I'm like oh my gosh but I really need to go to the gym and then I'll sit and sulk like man I would be at the gym right now or like I should I should really be being active but it's like midnight and what am I supposed to do so I'm just like okay well then I'll just do 50 jumping jacks take a shower and call it a day. Honestly, I love that that's kind of like where I was at this week I did. I did the gym three times and I walked my dogs in my neighborhood. I normally don't have to walk them because that my yard is over an acre and they just like literally run around you could throw things and they'll go chase it you know what I mean so I, but I did.

I did the gym five days and two long walks with my dogs. So I kind of love that, and kind of just like starting where you are that was what my therapist said to me last week she's like hey you can't expect to like, go super hard at the gym five days six days a week she's like that's just not where you are your schedule doesn't allow for it and your mental state is more important so like if you can only get there three or four times like, as long as you're being. Like intentional. Yeah, what you're doing like that should be where your focus is and I was like okay that makes sense like I could get behind that. That's how I feel to just you kind of have to go with where you are in life and yes is it. It's a priority but it's not like my number one priority. Therapy Jackson work then like the gym so yeah I'm going to try to I'm going to try to get there and do something five days a week if I can but my word for the year is health and I would love to know everyone else's word for the year. And when I say health, I mean, like health all the way around so like my mental health, my spiritual health, my emotional health, my physical health like those are all things that I want to prioritize to some extent but when I say prioritize like those are all realistic expectations because in past years I'll start a new year and have these very unrealistic expectations on these things. And I think knowing that these are my, my focus is but not overextending myself and areas that I shouldn't be overextending myself. That's where I failed.

It's important to give yourself some, some grace. Give yourself some grace before wait and I know you want to end the episode but I need to set I need to read this really quickly. What is it. Is it dumb. I'm scared. It'll be very quick. This is how we're starting our year off with coffee combos. Hey girl, I'm listening to coffee combos podcast and I'm hearing that you told kale a waxing horror story and that was sent to you and I have a way better one for her this is to Kristen Kristen got this. Hey, she would die. I was, I was waxing a lady and her tampon was sticking out halfway out of her vagina and it was yellow, because it was soaked in P.

She had orange, that's in caps, dry discharge caked between her labia. This was, there was shit on the end of the string that she tucked her knees when she tucked her knees to her chest. Not only did she have shit all over her ass but she, I'm gonna throw up. Not only did she have shit all over her ass but she farted and a dingleberry went flying onto the table and she didn't acknowledge it or apologize. I don't think I have ever heard a worse story from another waxer, please tell her for me. Oh, I can't, I fucking can't. I don't even know where to start to comment like the fact that you were wearing a tampon while getting wax. I have a real question though real real question because I know sometimes like it really just depends on everyone's comfort level. Do you get wax you have your period. No, like I always schedule it. Is this a question for me or everybody's answering this. Well I think of my question is for you because for me personally, like just my own personal preference I'm not judging but like I think for me, I would reschedule.

So, I have appointments kill knows this but my appointments, I start booking everything at the beginning of the year for the entire year so it's on a very set schedule so every six week, I think I think I go on the six. Every six week on the six, I go and get waxed and I know that it's not going to be an issue with my cycle. Right, right, right. I'm never going to be going there while I'm on my period. Yes. Probably, I would bet you that a lot of people do go on their period but I'm thinking that a lot of people don't go on their period with a tampon hanging out with shit caked on it and dingleberries flying out of their asshole. I just need to know like where is the personal hygiene, like, I don't under like if I have to poop before my waxing appointment, I'm going to bring extra wipes, multiple sheets of toilet paper to like make sure that I'm clean. Maybe a pair of bottle or whatever they're called to like, basically wash my ass like you know what I mean like I'm not going to go in there with shit and smelling and all kinds of stuff like I'm just not going to do that. Like when I tell you my routine of going to my waxing appointment is I wake up do a little bit around my house and then go to my waxing or shower go to my waxing appointment and then carry on with my day.

But I will say that not everybody has the luxury of being able to do that so some people are coming from work or. But like I said come prepared we have there's a such thing as called dude wipes if you don't want to use baby wipes there's dude wipes there are vaginal wipes. There are like I said pair about Perry bottles or whatever they're called there are actually even dude wipes does this thing called shower on the go these little wipes that like it's like a shower on the like literally you could use anything to clean yourself up like. I don't. Okay. And I think that sometimes. People just are not self aware and some people have like a very great self awareness and then some people, I don't want to call them clueless fluffers but some people are just like clueless and so I think these conversations are great conversations to have because some of the stuff that we say. People might not even have thought about it before. You know what I'm saying like, even though we are self aware people by nature I feel like some people just aren't that. I just can't. I literally can't.

Imagine having a dingleberry in my asshole period but like more specifically having one spreading my legs on a waxing table. Yeah absolutely not. Absolutely not. I actually have a waxing appointment this week because it's close to the six so I'm thrilled. You know I feel like such a hypocrite being like, I'm never going to go and get waxed again and then like I'm all back on the wax train. It's like you with your lashes like you'll be like, I'm never getting lash extensions again and then kill as I answer your phone for like two hours and it's like what kill where the fuck were you. Oh I was getting my lashes done. Whatever I'm for real never doing that again but also like thinking about shaving my cat I'm like, if someone walked in on me while I was shaving and I'm like, in one position I have like my leg up on the wall and I'm trying to get crevices and then like I'm What. And then I'm squatting down like full squat asked to the floor trying to get my asshole and like it's just.

What's the position where your legs on the wall. Like I have this like corner shelf when I'm trying to shave my cat and I have to lift my leg up and like keep it there so I can like shave and like get all the spots. And then when I'm done that way I squat down. So it's like I'm basically in a full squat but like further than a full squat and I try to get like my butthole and like. Basically that where you would get when you do needs to chest for a wax. I'm in a full squat bottom to the floor, trying to shave my asshole. Okay wait so when you get a new shower what does that routine look like but I have a bench in the new shower so I'm hoping that that is helpful. kill like if it wasn't so inappropriate I would ask you demonstrate. No I will I'll wear like a bikini or something like I'll wear like a bathing suit, and I'll show you I'll take a like pictures in the shower like how I would do it. Wait am I allowed to post them.

Yeah but let me let me do it in my new shower, not my like current shower. Okay so like how many weeks are we looking at before we get this glorious content. Honestly, I'll literally do it when I go to the new house like it's a snowstorm outside right now so like give me a couple days and I bet I will get it before the episode airs or shortly after. I'm just loving this vibe so much. Okay fluffers I got shit to do so. Well I hope that you drive safe and that's no storm. You're the real MVP for making it all the way to your office. I love you. I love everyone who's listening will chat with you guys next week. And of course, if you have not followed us on at coffee combos podcast on Instagram. Make sure you follow us over there, not a whole lot of content posted because there's a bunch of new stuff coming so. I hope that you guys have enjoyed what we posted so far in our new branding.

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