Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - 207: No One Deserves To Be Queefed On
Episode Date: February 24, 2022Kail's new house drama continues! Kail admits she would pull a Kanye and dress up as a bush! USPS will NOT be mailing Farrah Abraham's cottonballs with poop! MORE Duggar Drama talk! and today's Foul P...lay - queef PTSD! Check out our great sponsors!!! Cerebral: Get 65% off your first month of medication management and care counseling at Cerebral.com/convos ThirdLove: Get 20% off your first order at ThirdLove.com/coffeeconvos Stitch Fix: Fill out your free style quiz at StitchFix.com/convos to take advantage of free shipping and returns! Lumineux: Find Lumineux on Amazon.com and get $7 off today! Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE today on the App Store or Google Play!
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I hate gift-giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you
This is coffee convos with Kale Lowry and Lindsay Chrisley. I really want you to be in your feels Kale
That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you a spirited discussion about motherhood friendship
Family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here. Here's Kale and Lindsay
Hey, hey everybody
Hey
Are you okay?
No, I don't know why I lost my voice. I think my vocal lessons are really wearing me out. Wait, you're taking them actually no
I made that up. Okay. Wait, so is the bad voice coming from
Basketball games over the weekend or is this allergy related or what's going on?
I've been crying for about a week straight actually, so I think I am just making
My body is worn out and my mind is worn out kill. Yeah
Why didn't you tell me you have been crying for a week? I just been it's been an emotional week for me
And I honestly just don't really know
Why because I feel like on a normal like regular day. I handle most of the shit like
We just get through it and like I have not
Been able to do that lately. So are you just overwhelmed like you just have things going on that? Yeah, I am overwhelmed
I'm very overwhelmed. There's been a lot that hit me at once
And then, you know, Javi and I went through like we're just like in a really weird place
Which makes it really difficult and then like I'm trying to not be friends with him again so that I don't
Fall back into this like we hate each other every two weeks kind of thing because it's exhausting. It's draining and
You know, I have just like a bunch going on
I actually went to go pay for a portion of my pool to be installed at my new house and
They told me they were like hey and just want to let you know that you know
We can no longer start this month. We're actually gonna start next year. Oh, wait, what that's what I said
I was like wait, I'm sorry. Did you mean next week may June of next year because I thought maybe she thought we were still in December
So I was like
Actually, we're in 2022. She's like, yeah, I know
She's like May or June of 2023. Oh
Wow
So that's what which means that I won't have a pool this summer or next summer
Because it'll take a couple months
To get it all situated and I was like, oh wow like okay, so I don't know that makes me sad for you
because I know how much you guys do use the pool in the summertime and
Not that it's free entertainment and I don't want to act like it's free entertainment because having some more convenient
That's going to a water park. Yeah, but like having pools is expensive and like the maintenance and whatever but
It is so nice to be able to just like be like, hey, we have built an entertainment. We can just go in the backyard
Yeah, and obviously this is first world problems. So I understand that not everyone can have a pool at all
So I do want to be sensitive to that but also want to say like, you know, I really work hard for my money
And you know what the things that I have so
Yeah, I was I was a little bummed out
So now I have to explain to the kids that they will not be swimming at my house this year
Bless their hearts. Well, they will be okay. Um, they will how was the weekend did the weekend was awful
It was very sad and
It just wasn't a good time for me kill
Like we're gonna we're gonna switch the mood around. Okay. I mean I saw the intro. I'm down till just like switch it up a little
Yeah, I don't want you to be sad and feeling like weird. How are you feeling? Um,
I'm feeling I'm thriving today. Good. Actually, good. I loved the last Instagram picture that you posted
I thought you looked so fucking cute. Um, thanks. Give me tell you a little story about that last Instagram picture
Because I've gotten so many deums of people being like
Lindsay, I know that is a men's car heart sweatshirt and it's bigger than you
So who's your boyfriend? Oh?
I'm like, who's your boyfriend, honey? I wish I could tell you like a really hot
Successful kind generous
Gentlemen gentlemen, but unfortunately I was shopping in the men's section at Dix and I bought that for myself
so
You're like, um, I it's okay for people to think that you have a boyfriend
But that's actually really funny. I didn't know it was a men's hoodie because I don't I'm not really super familiar with car heart
But that's hilarious. Oh my gosh, and then
outside of that
kill that
shit that you sent me about Kanye West dressing as a tree on
Instagram at the end of last week or at the beginning of this week whenever it was I
was legitimately dead, but like also
Very concerned and like do we think that this is fake news? Yeah, does it look pretty real from what you sent me?
It definitely looked very real. I definitely think it was concerning
Slightly hilarious even though it's concerning and also probably something I would do wait you would dress as a tree for sure
Actually, I'm gonna tell you this what we're what we're planning on doing tonight. Okay, tell me so
You know, I mean, I are not really on good terms. Well, it depends on the day, but
I bought an Annabelle doll off of
Amazon yes, and
You know
Lincoln and his dad are fine. So we decided that after school today
Lincoln's gonna go stop it. I'm gonna drive him to his dad's gonna stop over there really quick and he's going to
Distract Javi while Isaac puts the Annabelle doll in Javi's bed
Do we think that's like the same as Kanye dressing up as a bush?
No, I feel like Kanye dressing up as a bush if I ever found out that you dress up as a bush and working walking around
Looking like that bush that I saw and these pictures will be posted
Um, I'm not gonna lie like I probably wouldn't answer your calls or texts for like at least 48 hours
I mean, I think that's fair. I feel like that's fair
I wonder like how does kim react to that like if she didn't see him dress up as a bush and then she sees it online
Like what would you think at that point? Like it's just so
It's so outlandish that it makes me laugh and for those of you who have no idea what the fuck we're talking about
um
There was this rumor going around town and these photos about
Kanye West being spotted outside of kim Kardashian's house dressed as a tree
and actually there was an article
That was put out after the fact saying that it's not true and it's false and um,
It just didn't happen
but I'm like, okay
Well, where did those pictures come from because like it legitimately looks like Kanye with bushes on him
I don't understand him. I'm pretty sure him and Julia Fox broke up. So so much for her for her being his muse
Yeah, I'm kind of glad that that happened to be perfectly honest. Are you happy about this? Are you?
I mean, yeah, I definitely think it was I felt like
if it was kim k she would um
Like it almost felt like Julia Fox like aided up and like took interviews about it and like
I don't know. It just didn't feel like genuine. It felt like there was an ulterior motive and kind of like
She loved the press around it where I feel like kim k would have been more like unbothered and like acted
Like she's unfazed and not really taking interviews. I just felt like Julia was very weird for that
She was very weird for that. We didn't like her for that and I'm not even gonna pretend like I liked her
I did not like her at all like anytime she spoke. I felt like I was disgusted
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I did. Um, I actually watched a rerun this morning because I didn't I still don't have cable and internet
So I have to watch from like my phone or my computer. Um
I I actually don't have a whole lot to say I felt like there was no drama this episode, which is a good thing
That's what I would have hoped for the cast the entire time was like truly therapy based like growth based and things like that
Um, I don't have a whole lot to say. I felt like it was a little bit boring
But when it's boring, I feel like that means that you know, there's no drama, which is good
Um, but
Ashley, you know wants bar to be more romantic and she wants some romance in her life
And I feel like that's very fair and valid especially after being in a relationship or a marriage for six seven years
Um, it's easy to kind of go through the motions of life and not really prioritize each other or you know yourself
So I do think that was a cute, you know
Little conversation they had they went on a little date and there was rose petals and things like that but
Um, as long as they are able to implement that into their real every day lives
Like I obviously wish them the best and hope that they they can find their balance
so
I think that
Some of this stuff that's going on on the show obviously very you know has to go on for the production to go on
But with that being said, I feel the same way kind of about this as I do any of the bachelor shows. It's like, okay
um
I would hate to see them
Making these efforts on the show but not being able to apply those things in real life. It's kind of like
Bachelor bachelorette they go on these lavish trips and then they get home and settle into real
day-to-day life
And people wonder why those relationships don't work and it's like, okay. Well, they were basically secluded and
and being given these things that they can do that are like so exciting and so fun and they have help and
Whatever then they can't implement it into their real lives every day life
so
I just hope that some of these things can continue to happen and I think what ashley
said is very valid about
You know feeling like
You can't quite put your finger on something
I think a lot of people have been there in a relationship where you can't put your finger on like what it is that's wrong
But you know, there's something wrong and something's not clicking and so I can definitely say I can relate to that
Do you have thoughts on lia introducing her boyfriend?
in that whole situation
um
Yes, I have a couple um
At first
I was like, okay. I don't know about this guy
And then I was like, okay. Well, maybe like he might be okay
Um, I didn't like how he answered about her being a single mom and about his family
Did you notice that? Yeah, I feel like he didn't really answer the question. He kind of deflected a little bit. Yeah, and so yeah
I agree. I don't know if that was like an
intentional deflection or maybe just
Some of the stuff could be a barrier that he's never like really filmed before but at this point
Hasn't he already been filming on teen mom 2 or we don't know that? I mean, I don't think we know that for sure. I think it can be
It would be a good guess. Um
I'm not completely sold on him. I'm still having reservations
About him, but I completely resonate with lia when she says that, you know, she's guarded and she doesn't really trust and
I think all of the girls have a conversation where they say that they self sabotage
And I feel like I definitely resonated with that. It's like I could truly and wholeheartedly be in love with someone
And literally I'm like, well, let me push them as far as I can push them to see if they leave. So
Right before they leave I leave and say see look what they you know what I mean? Like look look what happened
I wonder what
Cause is that because I found myself doing that and I would say rejection and abandonment
All relationships though. Like I don't even think it's just necessarily a romantic relationship. Like
I'll find myself doing weird stuff with friends being like how far can I push that?
boundary that line boundary
To see like is that person gonna give up on me? I definitely do that. Or are we gonna ride it out? And I and it's weird because I'll be like
Um pushing them to like literally the edge and then I'll be like see I knew you couldn't handle it like I knew you couldn't handle being with me
Yeah, like why do we do that? I don't know
Maybe if we go to teen mom family reunion season two then we can talk to dr. Bryant and see what she thinks
Like why we do that? Maybe we can dive deep into
Why we feel like those things are okay. I don't think that I'm gonna attend. I don't know if I said that before but I'm
I'm leaning more towards no a lot of people are asking about it. Um
What would be your reservations for not doing it?
Um
I think
I could do personal growth in therapy and things on my own
And I don't know that I necessarily need to be around people who I don't see on a regular basis and are not part of my life on a
Regular basis. I don't think I need to do therapy with them
I feel like it would be more stressful and I just am not I don't know like
I love that some of the people really loved their experience like I'm glad that they got a good experience
I just for me. I just don't know if I like want to even do that. Like you get what I'm saying
for sure, I will say um
Cheyenne said something on the episode that
definitely
Hit for me and it was something I guess she said her mom or her dad had said I can't remember
about finding
Someone that can what was the what was it that she said stimulate your mind not just your body?
and
And if anyone takes anything out of that episode, I think that's it that because
Nothing could be more true than that. Oh a hundred percent
I've been in relationships where I felt like it was all physical and no mental and then I've been in relationships where I feel like
This person takes care of me, but absolutely does not push me challenge me or any type of stimulation
in a mindful way and in
You know stimulates my mind at all. Yeah, I need to be with someone who's smart
Who's smart? Yeah, and can intellectually
Challenge me. It's like, you know, it's all good and great. The sexual chemistry can be there
um, but that's not going to keep you engaged for
Forever right agreed. I agree, but overall thoughts on the episode. Um, I heard
Outside of my overall thoughts. I got a message talking about how Gary must have listened to coffee convos because he
He shaved the chin strap. So
I don't know Gary surely if you're listening to this or not. Um, but if you are
Love that for you. Um, how do we know is it confirmed somewhere? Yeah, there was a picture
Where on incident facebook? I don't know. It was just like sent to me and there was Gary with no chin strap
And I'm gonna die laughing if someone photoshopped that sent it to me and he actually still has a chin strap
So again, Gary surely if you're listening to this
Please confirm or deny if the chin strap is
There or if it has vacated the premises of your face. I need to go see if he has an Instagram
I'm just he have an Instagram Gary. It's Gary time. Oh, he follows me and I don't even follow him
So I just follow him back. He has no pictures on here. So it's hard to say
um
Gary and his chin strap
I'm I've done overall thoughts on the episode though. Um, I will also
Just say this really briefly before we move along
that
I didn't know
That jade's baby dad had never been to rehab before this last time like I had no idea about that
I didn't know he was abusing a substance abuser or addict for 10 years on and off. I didn't know that
So I do feel like I'm kind of learning a little bit of information. Um
Speaking of that, let me just say this. I did see that jade
Wished her daughter a happy birthday from there. Um, I don't want to mom shame, but that's another reason
I don't think I could like I would never miss my kid's birthday to be there with team mom cast. I think
um
When you've been doing something for so long that your focus
Changes and decisions that you would make. I'm not saying that you would ever make that decision period because I don't think that you would
but generally speaking for
Just collect, you know, like a collective whatever. Um, I think that your
decision
Making changes and looks very different when you've been in the game doing something for a very long time versus when
You're still relatively new
I okay, that's fair. I definitely think that's a fair um, a fair statement
you know tour in the beginning of team mom too and
Uh, when I first
Became hard of the cast because as you guys know if you guys don't remember I was added very late
I was supposed to be on 16 and pregnant season 2 b which is the second
part of
10 girls and at the very last minute they switched me to 10
Season 2 a because they already had two adoption stories. And so then I was
Asked to be on team mom too. And so I I will agree with your statement in that if it was season 1 2 of
Team mom and we did this. I probably would have maybe considered, you know, missing a child's birthday because it just
Who knows how how often we're going to get this opportunity or how long this is going to continue and so in that aspect
I could agree with you. Um
This is not related to you on family reunion final thoughts on that
I did think that the episode with the less drama
Was better you did
Like yeah, but could it go long standing long running? Could you watch an entire season like that?
No, um, and I think
Maybe if there was a little bit better balancing going on and there was like
50 50 like 50% good parts and then 50%
dramas some of these episodes I feel are so loaded with the drama that
It's hard to get to the actual point and the real reason that they're doing the show and so
Um, and I guess I just don't understand having beef with people in the way that
The beef goes on within the franchise
With people that you don't see regularly or don't really affect your life. That's something I will never understand
but then I also think
that um
There is a lot of pride when it comes to the show whether it be og or whether it be two and I think that
When you have shared so much of your story when
You've been doing it for as long as you have and then you have newer girls come in. It's no
It's nothing negative really to them. It's just like, okay
they're
I would have to tend to agree with
Ferris statement, but on a very smaller scale
that y'all have built
this franchise and
And other people have been able to come in since y'all started
And able to benefit off of that and so I think that a lot of the hostility underlying probably comes from that
whether people want to admit it or whether they don't
And that's okay because you know girls are going to be girls
It's weird though because I definitely think that there is some validity in that because I I definitely think that that's how
I felt a little bit at first with jade
Um, I didn't feel that way with Brianna because I already knew Brianna at the time
So originally there was no beef at all. Like it was like, okay. She was cool
Like I resonated with her story the most out of team mom three
Um, which is crazy. There has right. It's actually really crazy when you think about where we're at now
Um, it is very strange to think about it that like that because I definitely could see but then there's like keila from
Um, young and pregnant and I have absolutely no issues with her. I don't feel like she is, you know, she's on young and pregnant
Still, I don't feel like they have
um, like truly
Benefited off of anything that I built
Um, I don't feel threatened by her or anything like that or any of the young and pregnant girls. Does that make sense?
I will just say
as a personal friend when you are the face on
Netflix other people have benefited from what you've done. So
I think that there is validity and
Some of that across the board whether it be og girls
um team mom two girls and
That to me is where most of the underlying issues come from. I agree outside of that
One more teen mom thing before we move on. Oh, you're laughing. What happened?
So remember me telling you that, um
Krista Horton, she's a blogger if any of you guys know, I follow her. I follow her and she's yeah
literally fucking hilarious and
She was talking about how her husband Bryce, but she calls in bruce. Um, what?
Yeah, she calls in bruce
That he was like buying these cotton balls that like pharaoh wiped her asshole with no. No, he didn't
No, he did not buy them. He like legitimately didn't but it was a joke and she was like playing all of this out on stories
Well, then I watched this right and then later on in the day
I see where the united states postal service official account
had
posted a comment on one of
pharaoh's lives
and it was about toxic waste in the mail and
that
usps official says, yeah, we ain't sending these packages out
What?
and I was like, um
Okay, and there you have it. So you need to call up betx. You need to call uh, ups
because your
Asked why cotton balls are not going through united states postal service. So there's that. I mean, I would imagine that that has to be
Like illegal. I mean if you're throwing poop is a felony
Then mailing poop should at least be a misdemeanor. Yeah, but like is it mailing poop is if it's just like wipe it on her
But that is toxic waste
No, and no, fuck that like I cannot what if it's no poop though?
Like what if she like let's just say a hypothetical situation that
And I like I said it's hypothetical. I'm completely making this up because I have made this up
What if she went into the bathroom and used like a dude wipe wiped her asshole?
Swiped the cotton ball on it and then nailed it. That should be a minimum a misdemeanor
I can you not can you not?
I
I'm upset like I'm
I am
Maybe I should put some Nutella on a cotton ball and mail it
And see what happens. Like do they think it's a fair gift? Like do they think it's I purchased from ferris website?
I'll put I'll put a pack with the Annabelle if I get a cotton ball to my house
That has Nutella on it. No, that's a felony. I will slingshit on your new front porch. Not on my new porch
Not on the new porch. Like literally I will commit it. I can't like I will
I will commit it
Don't be wiping your asshole and sending cotton balls to my house
You sent the doodoo blanket that Jackson still uses to this day. It's a taco a burrito
Yeah, well he calls it the doodoo blanket
Um and it literally looks like
Turd drippings on that blanket wait
So I was watching love is blind season two last night and one of the contestants on there had
The taco burrito blanket and I was like, oh my god, and I thought of Jackson. I was wondering if he still had it
Yeah, he still has it. He still rolls with it. Um
He thinks of you every single time he uses it
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outside of the do-do blanket and that um ass wiping on cotton balls there was
an article that came up
That probably every person at this point that's listening to this heard about
Did you see about the four-year-old girl that was missing since 2019 was found alive hidden under stairs in new york?
First of all, no, I don't even know about a girl that was missing at all
so she was six years old um
more than two years ago she
was missing
And it had been believed that she was taken by her non custodial parents
The article says um
That a girl went missing more than two years ago at the age of four was found alive by police monday
Hiding underneath a staircase in the new york home
Paisley, I don't know how to say the last name is six years old found at the residence about 45 miles south of albany
um after authorities had received a tip regarding her whereabouts
um and
Officers found her after an hour of searching in a makeshift room under the staircase leading to the basement
This is like you shit like that show you I think it's Dan not like something I would do but yeah the show
Yeah, yeah, it said that um
The detective noted that something appeared odd about the staircase because he saw a blanket and then
a flashing light between the steps
so
He used a tool to remove several of the wooden steps and that's when the detectives saw a pair of tiny feet
And after removing several more steps the child and her abductor were
Discovered within the space that was small cold and wet wait, but why was the abductor with her?
it says that paramedics examined her and after
Um determining her to be in good health. She was returned to her legal guardian
um
And she had been reporting missing in july of 2019. Um, she had been believed to have been taken by her noncustodial parents
um
and
this person kimberley cooper and
Kirk schultes
Um and kirk schultes senior were all arrested and charged in her disappearance. Um
Police had previously followed leads to the residents where paisley was ultimately found but said each time
The residents had denied any knowledge of the little girls whereabouts and um, during some of the follow-ups to
the house, um, they were permitted to
have limited access
and they would go looking for the child and um,
The crazy thing is is like the people that were allowing them limited access
Knew where the child and her abductor were hidden within the house. Um, and knew that they wouldn't be found
and like the pictures of where they were it almost looks like, um
Like one of those industrial
size like what you would see in a shop that like keeps tools
Like one of those types of things and it has like dirty blankets and like stuffed animals and stuff down in it. Um,
and it says that uh
Both of the schultes were charged with one count each of felony
Of custodial interference in the first degree and a misdemeanor endangering the welfare of a child
I'm reading the article about it and I guess for me
I under I could understand where the pain would be for the non custodial parents to not have access to their children
But as the mom and as a human being I would have to look at the bigger picture and
Really sit with the fact that if I'm not best for my children then my children need to be in someone else's hands
Why you would then take your child or any child for those who you know
Don't essentially keep these children hostage
You're keeping them hostage for what you're not doing things with them. You're not taking them out on activities
You're not they're not going to school
You're truly not doing anything that would benefit them and actually stunting their growth their development and giving them
essentially PTSD
Agreed on everything that you just said. I thought that was crazy. Like how
How does something like that happen? I don't know like I just don't even understand like the entire story like how something like that happens
And goes on for that long of a period of time. I'm blown away
And like how are they getting food and stuff, you know, I need to like reread this whole story because
I guess I don't am I missing something like what am I missing? It doesn't make sense. Like the story doesn't
I'm gonna I'm gonna follow up on this and try to gather more details and ask
Instagram fam to like come through and people who are very invested to let us know more information
Outside of that crime someone sent me a message and you were attached on it too. So I don't know if you saw this
but someone said that OJ Simpson was innocent and
No for us to talk about it on coffee combos and not to hate them
But we should cover a story first of all we did
Um, it was a true crime quite some time ago. Was it our first true crime that we ever did?
I think so the first yeah, we did it with summer the OJ Simpson
and then
This girl says that there's a documentary
on his wife on showtime
That she thinks shows another side and that she had had a sexual relationship with a killer
that later on was found to be um
The to be a rapist and a killer in SoCal and just an idea for us to cover it
so want to kind of gauge interest on
If we're gonna be conspiracy theorists and like
Deep dive into this and see
If there is a potential that we think that he's
Innocent I'm willing to explore this but I don't think that there is truly anything that could convince that could convince me that he's innocent
Like I'm same with him as I am Scott Peterson
And
The black doll. Yeah, I see I'm stuck on George George hodell definitely killed the black doll. Yeah
The Scott Peterson stuff. I think you could convince me that he was innocent
Um, but OJ Simpson. No way. No fucking way. There's no way. I'm going
I'm going to watch whatever this is and we're gonna talk about it
Oh a hundred percent, but I just want to know if anyone else feels like this that's listening to this and if
You think that there's any type of validity
Um, we'll just love to know other people's perspective
and before we get into
Some dugger stuff
Someone sent us a message and said hi Lindsay and Kale. I've been listening religiously to you guys from the start
Um, and your segment on the dugger situation really struck a nerve even typing this now
My hands are shaking. I was molested at 14 by the choreographer of a local musical that I was in
I was in it was my first sexual experience and for years
I felt like something that just happens to everyone until I told my now husband and he pointed out how
Wrong the man was for what he had done
Shortly after I came to terms with what had happened to me
Kesha's song praying came on shuffle and I must have sat in the car for 20 to 30 minutes listening to it on repeat realizing
Absolutely nothing I can do about it now and the statute of limitations is up
I recently learned that this man is now running for a local office
And comes up on my social media feed regularly and all I can do is hope that he never did this to another child again
Thank you both for all the difficult topics that you guys tackle on this podcast because I really appreciate you both
first of all, I have absolute chills because
I you know
That is one person who wrote into us about thinking that it was normal and that happened to everybody
Like can you imagine how many people go through this and they don't realize
That that's not normal and that's not usually how things should go
That's not how things should ever go. Do you get what I'm saying?
Like your first time that you ever have a sexual encounter should be consensual and by choice
It should never be be because
someone else
Did it to you? Do you get what I'm saying? Agreed and
And there are so many people that have written in
I've seen on coffee convos instagram dms. I'm sure to your personal definitely to my personal that I've seen
That I'm just really proud that we are creating a safe place that people can anonymously send us stuff
We can share this create an awareness
um and for people to feel safe
And this community makes me feel
So proud and as much as I have grown to hate covering the dugger stuff
um mainly because I am just
Physically ill over it when I read more
um
I do think that it has created a ton of awareness within this community and for that
I love it. I also love it and I'm thankful that we have this so if you guys ever
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Um, definitely we will try to get to as many as we can and just share your stories and create awareness for our little community
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So we are going to pick up on
The douger stuff august of 2015
The following segment contains mentions of child abuse and sexual assault
Josh douger is exposed in the ashley madison hack
So for those of you who do not know about ashley madison
ashley madison.com is a popular online adult dating website that caters primarily to married people
Or people in a relationship who are looking for some extra curricular fun
Um, their slogan is life is short. Have an affair. I have so many problems with this
What?
Yes, ma'am
Life is short. Don't get married. How about that?
I have so many problems with this because the fact that a company can
Make so much money and create a place for people to go to encourage this
Is appalling to me. That's horrible like
If you're not wanting to be faithful and I understand like I have
I have always said like I don't think cheating is black and white as everyone wants to you know, it's so horrible
It's wrong. Yeah, we know all of that
But I do think there are you know life happens and feelings happen and things like that
But I mean if you're if you're talking about like seeking out an affair or seeking out someone to cheat with
Don't get married and don't commit to somebody like there's there's a huge difference between like life and shit happens with
Um, I don't know. I'm gonna get married, but I also want to sleep with other people. Just don't fucking do it
Just be single
I
Feel exactly all of those feelings. Um, so
hackers
Exposed users to this site by publishing names
Oh IP addresses street addresses phone numbers and in some cases sexual preferences on the dark web
um
First of all, this is all just like so morally corrupt
Here, but then could you imagine like I love the fact that hackers got into this because
These people should be exposed in my opinion
Like why I just can't believe this
Why is this like a private thing like this makes me so ill?
So
Josh Duggar had signed up using a credit card linked to a billing address that matched his grandmother's home in Fayetteville, arkansas
What the fuck?
Allegedly, he paid
986 dollars and 75 cents during his two-year subscription
And he was paying in order to find an extramarital partner for the following apps
Conventional sex
experimenting with sex toys
One night stands
open to experimentation
gentleness
good with your hands
sensual massage
extended foreplay and teasing
bubble bath for two
What?
What the fuck?
Likes to give oral sex
Likes to receive oral sex
someone that can be taught
And someone who can teach him kissing cuddling and hugging and sharing fantasies and sex talks
So
I'm just going to go out on a limb here. I've never fucking been on Ashley Madison
I never planned to go on Ashley Madison
But I'm going to assume that this was more of like a questionnaire type thing
And he clicked all the things that he was interested in because if he is soap up a weird to be like
Bubble bath for two but like also he could get divorced and go on tinder
And he wouldn't have to put all of this on his profile and he could literally get divorced
Get on tinder or plenty of fish and then literally he would never like
I don't have any words for this like i'm not going on any type of fucking website
Why wasn't he on christian mingle because
No, he goes against everything
He goes again or farmers. There's like a farmers website too. He's a fraud
Um, he is a fraud
um
So are we going to go with the fact that this was like check boxes of things that you're interested in or did
I fucking hope so but also if he came up with this himself and he really wants a bubble bath for two like
I'm not saying and nobody's goddamn dirty bath water like what the fuck wait
um
The other thing about this that is just like
weird is
The teaching and someone who can teach like
Some of these things are just like real weird. I'm like, I
Almost want to go on the site to see if these are boxes that he checked. I'll pull it up right now
I'm gonna go pull it up right now because what if you ever
Someone was like, oh
Kayla lowery
googles
Ashley madison
dot com
Well
You know what? I'm gonna take the risk because I just I need to see what good with your hands
Yeah, I mean the other option here for
for him I could I just
Why not be in a a polygamist or polyamory type of situation like let's
Normalize being open and honest with our partners so that
We're not doing this stuff. We're not doing this stuff. If you do not feel satisfied
Completely by your wife
Then you need to have that conversation and either a leave her. I understand it's against your religion
But sometimes we have to break the rules
In that specific aspect. I don't mean by other things that he's done
um, or
Let her know that this is not enough for me and I would like to add another person into this marriage
Um, what is it called? It's called. Ashley madison.com. Yeah, okay
it says
Right off the bat. Ashley madison life is short. Have an affair and it says see your matches or log in
So there's no way for me to see you're not creating an account. Absolutely not but it says
When monogamy becomes monotony the thing is is that
That's what it was for him not for his wife
So
All of this stuff was done
Behind the back. It says rooted in desire
Did you know infidelity is emotional while adultery is physical?
Cheating is a nuanced topic and everyone has different reasons for joining a dating site like ashley madison
Our members are united in a desire to seek out real discreet
Which is underlined connections and ashley madison gives you a platform to search for what's missing. I'm upset by it
Like I said, no, I'm not okay with this. Um, the reviews here like member experiences
Experiences quote. I cheated on my husband to find companionship and to feel happy and alive again
Go to the library. Right. Go to the library. Go hang out with the girls. Maybe go on a vacation with your girlfriends
Um, another one says quote. I joined ashley madison and have found the fulfillment
I needed to return to my husband a satisfied partner
It's completely removed the anxiety from our marriage
Another one says quote connecting with a man of a different culture or someone taller or much older
Something that my husband will never be
It is all okay
Quote since meeting someone on ashley madison and reinvigorating the sexual part of my romantic life
I'm a better wife now than I was
so
In july 2014 josh started a second account that was linked to his home in oxen
You guys correct me if I'm wrong hill maryland where he spent time lobbying against causes like same-sex marriage, which
These people just pissed me off
The two accounts overlap by a few months. So when he opened the second account, he paid
$250 that appears to have purchased the affair guarantee
And if they didn't have an affair within three months, they would give you your money back
What I'm like, how do you have an affair guarantee like this is
weird I
I don't like this according to golker
josh's ashley madison email address joe
smithson
Was also connected to an okay cupid profile and the profile had not been active since september of 2014
Which was when his first ashley madison account stopped being active
This okay cupid profile was deleted the day after this scandal broke. I just are we upset yet?
I'm I've been upset
Like how upset because I this is just feel disgusted at this point
I'm disgusted because there's no reason why why are you even getting married if you don't feel fully satisfied and like
I just don't you're gonna seek out
Affairs and things like that just be single and have sex with whoever you want and do whatever you want agreed
Okay, august 20th 2015
um
We are going to end on august 20th 2015
And I am going to continue to say this every single time the fact that we're still in fucking 2015 pisses me off
josh publishes a statement on his family's website
I have been the biggest hypocrite ever will know shit
while
While espousing faith and family values I have secretly over the last several years been viewing pornography
On the internet and this became a secret addiction and I became unfaithful to my wife
I am so ashamed of the double life that I have been living and am grieved for all the hurt pain and disgrace
My sin has caused my wife and family and most of all Jesus and those who profess faith in him
I brought hurt and reproach to my family
Close friends and the fans of our show with my actions that happened when I was 14 to 15 years old
And now I have rebroken their trust the last few years while publicly stating I was fighting against immorality
In our country while hiding my own personal feelings. I am learning the hard way
We have the freedom to choose our actions, but we do not get to choose our consequences
I deeply regret all of the hurt. I have caused by being such a bad example
I humbly ask for your forgiveness. Please pray for my precious wife. Anna and our family during this time
ma'am
I have a lot of
problems with that because
why
So he's already been publicly, you know
Crucified as he deserves to be
For the things that he did when he was 14 and 15 years old
Why is he saying about like what why is he going public about this porn stuff?
because
He's going public about it because the hackers
Because they expose the users of the site got it. Okay. So he kind of has to explain himself. Okay. Okay. Yeah
Now that makes that's making sense. But also like
Is there a way that it could have been like could he have lied and said it wasn't him?
I think that's like a deep slippery slope. It's like all the
Lines connect right like all the stars align
You have been a part of all of these other scandals and now
These hackers release this information. It's other josh dugger stuff. I have a question though. I
I do want to know and this goes for anyone who has a problem with pornography or
like sexual addictions in any way shape or form like
How does something like that
Happen like is that a chemical imbalance? Is that a mental illness? Like is that?
Trauma from a childhood experience like how does something like that become an addiction? I don't understand that
I don't
Know the answer to that but would love the answer to that. I would love to know the answer to that
so about an hour after
The initial statement that I just read
um, the pornography addiction mention was
Completely removed from the statement
The reference to the molestation charges also
was removed from the statement
and I will just say
their PR person must be
idiot because
Once something is out there you then retracting something
Makes you look like you have further things to hide
Well, why are you putting out a statement that you're gonna have things removed that just doesn't make sense?
I mean, I guess for for from a public
A publicist standpoint, maybe she he or she didn't want to
Rebring up what happened at 14 and 15 years old and then
The pornography and
That's essentially admitting
That he has he's been viewing. I don't know. That's it's very strange to me. I would love to know
Why everyone thinks that the statement was edited after it was posted?
Well, and what people would do if they found out their husband was on this site. Yeah, like that would be
Good to know because that would not be something that I would be
okay with
Agreed at all. Oh, no, I wouldn't be okay with it either. I'd be like, um
Yeah, we are
Done effective
Immediately like three minutes ago actually agreed. So that's all on the dugger stuff this week
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um
the foul play I was
I went in to
Look at dugger stuff
Where we store all of our information. Hopefully nobody ever hacked them
But as I was scrolling the only word that I saw on the foul play was queef
And I was like, okay, not again. Yeah
Like legitimately like not again. Whoever thought that was a good idea. Kristen. If you're fucking listening to this and you put that on there
I'm
Immediately upset. Can I read it? Can I please read it? You can't read it yet because I have to tell you about this
Freaking weird thing that I saw on instagram
Okay, some weeks. I'm like all my news comes from instagram and then some weeks
It all comes from tick-tock
but I don't know how to say this place but did you see that video of
um
Those birds it was on february 7th and a cloud of birds just suddenly dropped from the sky
What no, I never even heard of that ma'am
like
Literally when I saw it I was like wait
All of these birds just like passed away. It was like the weirdest thing hundreds of black birds suddenly dropped
From the sky in a northern mexican state
Um, the incident sparked several conspiracy theories such as 5g interference. Um
Or a collision with an invisible
spaceship
Um, oh, I mean that one's I think a little farfetched, but I mean that's like a bermuda triangle type of vibes
so
That's really weird
Kevin j. McGowan. I don't even know how to
pronounce
uh
What his job title is an orthean?
Ornithologist ornithologist. I have no idea
Ornithologist at the cornell lab of ornithology. Um, he said that
The only thing that makes sense was that the birds were fleeing from a predator and I'm like, okay, so how did we get?
um
Interference with 5g technology and then it brought me back to
remember the nashville
Bombing like over christmas not this past year but the year before last and that guy
was some type of conspiracy theorist and
Thought that there was like this 5g technology interference. Do you remember that? No, I don't I don't remember that at all
Like more about that because those are two stories
These are now two stories that I have followed talking about the interference of 5g technology and I
Need to know more about it and I'm not going to do the research. So I need people to
I'm not going to do the research. I know that um, I'm not like 5g is not is
Not good not great for us and I even had a friend. What do you mean?
What are you talking about?
Like the radiation from putting up the 5g towers and the phones and stuff like that and my friend wouldn't even get
The new iphone like she will not upgrade her phone because they're so bad for the environment and like for our bodies
And for us and the radiation and the all of it
Can't we just turn off it?
No, because I mean we need phones to communicate. So unless she decides to go for like an honest lifestyle
I don't think that there's any way really around it
But don't all phones have 5g. No, I don't think so
We need answers because obviously we're dumb. Um, with that being said, we're gonna
I'm gonna do the foul play. Okay. So I can read it now. Yeah, I've been dying. Okay. Well, you already read it
No, I'm just dying to read it because I didn't read it. Okay
I believe Kristen put this one up. So, um, I'm excited to read it. It's probably disgusting and also if it has a
Quief in it, I'm mortified and I just also before I even start this if there is a quiff involved here
Do men know the difference between a quiff and a fart because I feel like I would feel much better if they do know the difference
Um, like if they can tell the difference in some way because if I
Queefed and they thought that I farted I would be even more mortified
I don't think I would give as much of a fuck if they knew it was a quiff. You know what I mean
Okay, I guess no, I do know what you mean and I need this pulled because
I need to know how many other people think like this. I don't we have a shirt
I don't think I've ever thought of this before in fact
Can we have a a shirt that says quiff, but it's crossed out and it says queen see? Why are you telling everybody the ideas?
Like that was a million dollar idea foul play segment
Okay
So this was when I was 16 or 17 years old. I was in a serious relationship serious as in quotes
With my boyfriend. Of course, we still lived with our parents since we were teens
Anyway, one night we were in his room doing the deed and all of a sudden his mom yells his name and says someone is on the phone
And he needs to pick up he stopped mid-pump and picked up the phone by his bed
Um, this was back when they had landlines as soon as he said hello the biggest loudest longest quiff came out of me
I'm surprised it didn't rattle the walls. Hell. I'm surprised it didn't blast me off
His mom was still on the phone waiting for him to pick up and his best friend was on the line as well needless to say
Everyone heard my Guinness world record queef
I'm still mortified by this and I'm 27 married and have two kids. It's the most embarrassing moment of my life
PS queeps are just the air from the outside being pushed in they don't stink because they don't come from your shit laughing my ass off
Well, I feel much better that they don't stink
I guess that's the answer to Javi's question because a couple weeks ago. Didn't he ask if they stink? Well
But I thought that it had been determined that you collectively thought that they could potentially stink if you had like a stinky
kitty
Could you imagine like?
Yeah, it's air, but like
It's could be stinky air. Um, if you have a stinky pussy, I would oh my first of all, what's funny?
Just you being like pussy my cat. Um
your kitty, um
If this ever
happened first of all, I've got a couple of questions
Uh, I understand you're 16 or 17 years old
But he was busy. So like why was he answering the phone being like hello, you know, I mean
Also, did did the mom know that y'all were upstairs in the room with the door closed basically boning like
Did she know that was she aware was this allowed? Did you use protection? You guys were babies?
You were living in this time when you had landlines like I have very many questions that he know
It was a quiefer. Did you think it was a fart? Um, and then outside of that
Uh, who was on the phone and uh
Did they know what the queef was like did they confirm or deny whether they heard it or not
Did they address this because I feel like a lot of information is being left out of this story and
I need to know the answer
Not a lot of information being left out because I'm gonna lose sleep over this because I feel like
Um, they definitely heard it if it was a Guinness world record queef
Like they definitely heard it if is it one of those things like
Where you hear something on the phone and you're just like ignoring it and they just don't address it
But like you know, they heard it because that could definitely be the situation here
But like what would this person's mom be thinking like is she up there queefing like what would you say?
I don't think that she would have
No, even if they heard it the only person that would have known it was a queef was the boyfriend
Kill no like if I was on the other line and I heard a Guinness
world record queef
You probably would have thought it was a fart
No, I would
If that was me talking to you and that happened I would be like did you shit yourself or
Or are your kids taking a shit or what's happening if someone answered the phone
Whether it's a landline cell phone fucking rotary phone
I don't give a fuck kind of phone if they answer the phone while we're having sex
I'm already pissed off. You deserve to be queefed on like 100%
like
What?
No one deserves to be queefed on first of all
like
Yes, if you get up to answer the phone
Mid pump you deserved that but she said she's married with two kids now. Did she marry him or somebody else?
We don't know that's why I'm saying there's a we need more details ma'am being left out
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um, are we going to save for next week the people article about
um
This kira robertson chamberlain being kidnapped by a serial killer. What the fuck we could talk about
Um, that went that escalated quickly. Um, I'm down to talk about it now. I'm down to talk about it next week
I it doesn't matter to me. So at 15
Evidently we're talking about it right now at 15. She was kidnapped by a serial killer and she not only escaped
But she helped catch him. She's a superhero
it says
She was watering plants and bushes in the front yard of a friend's house in west columbia, south carolina in the early afternoon
of june 24th
2002 when a trans am pulled up in the driveway
and uh
Guy was like in his late 30s wearing jeans button-down shirt baseball cap looking like a skis probably
Got out to offer some pamphlets and asked if her parents were home and she said well, this isn't my house
This is my friend's house
um, this girl is now 35 years old and said, um, okay
Well, what about her parents and are her parents home? So she tells him no her mom's not home right now
And he says i'll just leave these with you and he told her this as he was approaching
So suddenly the man who was later identified as serial killer
richard evanets
Pulled out a gun pressed it to her neck and forced her into a large storage bin that was stowed in the back seat of the car
As he drives
Towards his apartment. She began counting the turns that he made in hopes of later finding her way home
And she noticed details like he was listening to a classic rock station
Um smoking marble red cigarettes
She even memorized the serial number on the inside of the plastic container that he had forced her to kneel inside time out
time out time out
Could you imagine what is going through someone's head when this is all happening and having the ability to stay calm enough
To memorize like let me tell you something when I was like 10 years old
My house got broken into and I could not even dial 911 because I was so upset and so
Like I kept fucking up three numbers on the phone. Do you know what i'm saying? So like
Imagine going through something like this. It was a robber at your house
a long story my mom's ex-husband had a step son a former step son who like did fucking wild that shit and
um, he threw these like really really heavy rocks into our my bedroom window
to like break them and then he also did it through the front living room window and um
It was just like a long story a little bit traumatized because my mom was also very much under the influence that night
um, and so a little bit of traumatized, but um, I couldn't dial 911 because my fingers kept fucking up
So like imagine being in a car where you don't know what is next
Where are you gonna go if it's light or daylight by the time you get out of the car and having
the ability to memorize the serial numbers on a
Container like this woman is seriously she needs to write a book. She needs she's a fucking superhero
so
Could you just imagine being in like a plastic storage container in the back of some car from
Like some douche that's trying to give you a fake pamphlet
Um, and you're counting turns. No, I can't imagine you're turning like how could you be smart enough to do that?
so
She says her survival mechanism
Said all right, let's gather as much information as we can
that fear barely even kicked in and um
The human will to survive and the survival mechanism really just can't be underestimated
And on the way to his apartment, he pulled over and restrained her with handcuffs
Put a gag in her mouth and then took her to his cluttered apartment. He also
Had a guinea pig a lizard and other small animals and assaulted her for 18 hours
It makes me so sad looking at the picture of her at 15 years old
She said despite being terrorized she tried to find ways to identify him
So like literally this girl was
In survival mode. Yeah
Names of his doctor and Dennis were on his fridge and she was just trying to keep calm and he wanted her to have some food
She said i'm not going to eat right now, but is there anything I can do for you?
and she actually ended up sweeping his kitchen and
Said that that kind of manipulation
The sheriff said may have helped save her life
She was just putting him at ease making him feel comfortable gaining his trust and that's what police negotiators do
And she was able to control her emotions to the point where she was able to develop a plan
In the dawn hours while he was asleep. She was able to free one hand from a pair of handcuffs and unclip a leg restraint
She quietly tiptoed to the front door and made her escape ran towards the car in the parking lot and asked two people inside
To take her to the police station where she recounted the entire ordeal
And she was asked by officers to take her back to his apartment because of her keen powers of observation
And the help of the apartment apartment maintenance man. They were able to find him. Oh my god
Um, but he had fled by the time they got there. So
they found a
Locked foot locker with newspaper clippings about unsolved murders of three girls
Um, when the police got there and these girls had all gone missing
Within five years before
Care is abduction. So so essentially he's keeping them because he was the one that did it. Yeah, and like weirdly
We won't get into all of this today, but
There are certain characteristics when I look at some of these serial killers
Like most specifically this man that I'm looking at his nasty mug right now
um
That when I look at ed kimper, I'm like, okay
They kind of look alike. Is it just the fact that it's like a really shitty mug shot that looks like olyn mills?
Or is it the fact that they like actually have
Physical characteristics that look similar. I think for this situation because I'm also looking at it
It looked they're they have some similarities
But also the fact that it's a mug shot because I mean, I think the mug shots
Purpose is to kind of get capture the appearance as is
Ed Kemper is just a different type of I don't even we'll get into that on Monday
I can't wait to go over all of that. Um, when that true crime releases, which will be
For what march?
Yes, march is true crime. It was kales pick and
Again, I have been fascinated been spending tons of time
um always new of ed Kemper, but
You know like didn't know a bunch of details like I do now and I can't wait to get into it
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