Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - 29: Adoption, Kail's Dating Show, & Sperm banks

Episode Date: May 24, 2018

This week Kail & Lindsie were in NYC for the Teen Mom Reunion & interview w/ Chelsea Houska DeBoer! They talk about the baby on the way, Aubree becoming a DeBoer, & Adam's current situation. Do Chelsea & Cole EVER fight? They talk about recreating the Simple Life & want to know who would be interested in watching? They talk about the time Kail was going to find a match on Farmers Only. Lindsie talks to Chelsea about being a child from the 1st marriage & her adoption story. They talk about people being social media parents & how Chelsea talks to Aubree when it comes to Adam. Tune in to hear this amazing interview! 

Hi guys, we're here for Coffee Combos and the whole MTV crew is here and we have Chelsea from Team Mom 2. Hello. Are you ready? Yeah. Oh my God, we're so excited to ask you a million questions, especially about the baby. I have a lot of questions. I thought you were going to ring Cole.

Well, he's back home. With the baby. Because the baby's sick. Aubrey's in there too. Aubrey wanted to come, but then I was like, I don't know what they're going to ask me. I didn't want her to be in here. True, that's true. We are going to ask you some questions.

Yeah, I figured. Some hearties. Is your dad here? He is en route from the airport. Okay. I want to meet Randy. Did you see that hilarious thing on Twitter of him turning up and it was like, was that Leah in the front?

Oh my God. Wait, are you talking about the little- The shot? Yes. And he's like- He was at the thing? At the special? The party special?

Yeah. I didn't know that. I'm pretty sure it was Leah in the front of him, right? Yeah, I don't remember who it was. I don't remember. It was so funny. I saw that you guys did the inflatable race thing. Losing Randy?

Well, yeah, I didn't do it. Well, right. Because I can't do anything fun right now. That's fine. But yeah, they did it. My dad's trying to lose weight. Me too. I feel like we should have a weight loss show.

Yeah. You and your dad. Losing Randy and Kale from Fat to Fit. Losing Randy. Is that what y'all call it? Yeah. It's so funny. Oh my gosh.

So I thought somebody was dying. So I saw that on Facebook. That's what a few people read. And I was like, oh my God. Is something wrong with Randy? Like, this is terrible. I saw Rita posted something too about losing weight. Yes.

We're all in this together. Yeah. It's a real struggle, you know? Maybe y'all should come up with your own show. That's what I'm saying. Fat camp or something. My dad's doing a YouTube channel. I saw it.

I don't know if I could. He's so cute. Bone had the idea of filming my workouts and stuff. Yeah, just do it. But also, I would be heavily embarrassed. Same. They always wanted to film me at the gym. And I was like, I don't know about that.

But what do you do at the gym when you go? Well, I haven't gone to the gym in a long time. But I used to go to CrossFit. Yeah. Okay. We should get you into CrossFit. No. I'm like so little.

I saw your snatch one time. And I was like, I could never do that. I have a beautiful snatch. Right. How does that even like happen? I don't even know how I would get. I'm not coordinated enough for that at all. That's how I feel about most of my life.

I'm just coordinated enough for that. Okay, so I want to hear about the baby. You're heading to girl. You announced the pregnancy. Yes. Okay. I'm almost 24 weeks. Right.

So that's more than halfway. So tell us any news that like you can tell us. Right. Like when are you due? It's a girl. I'm due September 11th. But all my babies have come early. Like Aubrey came at 35 weeks.

Watson was born at 37 weeks. And so my doctor doesn't think I'll make it to the full 40. So maybe like the beginning of September or late August? Yes. That's what she's thinking. So our babies will be like exactly one year apart. Yes. But I, this has been like the easiest pregnancy.

Were your pregnancies all different? All of them. Like my, with Aubrey was super easy with Watson. First of all, I got huge and I was miserable. Literally my first and second. Yeah. And then my third has been like the easiest one of all of them. I think physically the third one was the easiest for me.

But mentally I was like. It's almost like you've done this three times. Yeah. So, you know, it's a girl. Right. We have a name, but we're not announcing. Right. Is it the one that you told me?

Yes. I always know the secrets. Yeah. I do. I literally knew Watson's name and I was so excited because I was like fuck yeah. And then like I would tell her my baby names when I had looks and she would give me. Does it like match Watson? All your names are pretty different.

You know they're pretty different. I don't think they do. There's no like theme. No, yeah. Yeah. Some people do so themed. Yeah. I like unisex.

Me too. I love unisex girl's names. I just, my kids names don't have like a thing. Yeah. A lot of people were like. The same letter or like alternating letters. Like a double E and I was like, no, I don't want that. I don't want them to be.

They're all their own people. Yeah. So maybe. But isn't Aubrey like a family thing like with the E or something? No. There's only one other. I have a niece who's Braley. She's the only other.

Oh. E. Okay. And then Paisley, which is. Taylor and Adam. Okay. I actually wanted to ask you about her. Yeah.

Because she's here. I know. I was going to say so. Taylor's here? Yeah. Oh wow. And Paisley? No.

Okay. So obviously there's like a ton of stuff with Adam going on. And I'll ask about it later. But so do you keep in contact with Taylor to facilitate the relationship between Paisley and Aubrey? Yes. Her and I get along great. Because I know probably for some people it's like weird when I told you and Leah, oh,

Taylor is coming to the reunion. I just didn't know how you felt about it. That's why I was like. Yeah. Because sometimes it's like weird. But no, it's totally fine. And first of all, I never have anyone to fill my segments with on the reunion. So I was like, yeah, bring somebody.

I don't care. Yeah. So when she's coming and the girls in the long great, we don't get together all the time. But we would like to. I mean. And the girls know that they can get together if they wanted to. Yeah.

And y'all live close. Yeah, we live in the same. I saw, first of all, she follows me on Twitter. Yeah. And I saw that she just got married. Yes. So you guys are both like in stable, good relationships. We're in good places.

Yes. Oh, that's so good. It's like a bump in the road and then y'all got over it. Yeah. Tell her about Adam. Okay. Yeah. It's a funny, like weird connection, so my husband played college baseball at Georgia

State. Oh, okay. I'm pretty sure I didn't know what you were going to say. And Will, my husband's name is Will, and he played baseball with Rob. Okay. Yeah. So I think Rob was a Juco transfer from like Iowa or something. And he came down and played, but they weren't.

And Rob is Adam's brother for anyone who doesn't know. That's so weird to me. Yeah. That's really crazy. Isn't that so random? Yeah. Like the world's so small. Small world.

Like Iowa. Like how did he get even to, is Iowa and South Dakota close? Yeah. They are close? Yeah. So he transferred. Will, my will was explaining to me that basically like the way Juco works is a lot of kids go there that think they're going to get drafted and then they don't get drafted.

So then they go to like a four year college. Yeah. Oh my gosh. That's so crazy. And that's so weird. So dude. Okay. But he, I don't know like if his personality is the same as Adam's or not.

How like, are they similar? Because he went to college. I mean, I don't, I'm not like close with his family. But I mean, he's, Rob's married to a girl named Chelsea and they have kids. So I mean, he's, they're doing well. Oh good. Yeah. I mean, he was always like, kind of like sarcastic.

They're definitely a baseball. Yeah. They're a baseball family for sure. Yeah. Super like competitive personalities. Yeah. Yeah. Oh my God.

Yeah. Like so not. How the realities collide. Yeah. Reality worlds collide. So Chelsea and Cole texted me when I asked them to be on the podcast if, or they told me that they wanted to meet your dad. Oh my God.

Oh my God. We love him. Why? I don't know. I don't know. We even called this morning was like, I just want to meet her dad because he's so funny. But it's not funny when it's like your dad. I know.

I'm sure it's so different. It's your own parent. Yeah. And I'm the oldest child of five. So I got it. I feel like I got it the worst than any child. And then he kind of like simmered down. If there is a Todd, if there is a Todd simmer, like he's like, it's simmered each child.

So he's kind of like cool with Grayson, but not with us. Like he still tell them about the teller that you've talked about the tattoos. Oh yeah. My dad said that he would like kill any of his kids that ever got a tattoo. And four out of five of his kids have tattoos. And the youngest one doesn't have one because he's 12. So it's time to talk to you guys. I'm going to talk to you guys about Brooklyn and I hope you guys have taken our advice

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Because I'm curious to know. We don't have big blowout fights, but we definitely bicker. Like your husband and wife, that's normal. What would you bicker about? What kind of animal you're getting next? Usually I'm like, I'm always in a hurry because I'm always late for everything. Even more time than you would take. In the time that I could like get the kids ready, get myself ready.

He's like dinking around, having a snack. Let's go. There's not really anything like crazy. Okay, well, I think that's a good answer. That's because he's like very patient. I need to know. Is he as on board as like with the farm animals and the farm as you are? Okay, so I would say like in the beginning, he was more like reserved and stuff.

But as we've been together, he's like, I've changed him to be like, we needed one person to be like, no, maybe that's not a good idea, but no, he definitely isn't that anymore. Now he's like, yeah, let's do it. And then I'm like, yeah, let's do it. They have a pig and like a dog that looks like a horse though. Is the pig in the house still? Yes. Are you going to have a farm outside?

We want to have a farm like a acreage and animals. My Jamaican boyfriend also like, it's not even a real. It is real. Like it's literally Jamaican version of coal. That's what she said. She said Chelsea, I thought it was coal. And he's like a gardener and he like wants a farm. So I was like, perfect.

Then Chelsea and I and Lindsay, we can all have like the simple life meets Teen Mom too. Yes. That's what we want to do. You know, like remember like Paris and Nicole and the simple life? Yes. Like can we make that again? Yes. We need that.

Love it. So we would totally be that. What's your next farm animal then? Well, we're definitely not getting anything until we actually move. Like a mini horse would be cute. I want a miniature. I want a regular horse. I had one of those when I was younger and I like miniature.

I like miniature. I want the goats like the mini goats. Would you eat goat cheese? Like would you make that? Does it actually come from goats? Goat cheese? Yeah. Ask her.

That's serious. She's the farmer. And then that's where you get the cheese. Can you please tell her about the time you signed me up? You wanted to sign me up for farmers only? Yeah. You need a good. Okay.

Can you explain to us about farmers only because we don't understand. Is it only for farmers? Yeah. Is it? Yeah. I think. Isn't it? But like can non-farmers date farmers?

Like if I wanted to date a farmer. No. No. It's if other people want to date a farmer. So it's basically like a fetish site. I guess. In a sense. Like.

But I'm starting Chelsea Grace up. You did? And I would like get on there and like match her. She looks so good. I literally was looking through her. I was creeping. And I was like, damn. Chelsea Grace looks awesome.

She looks so good. So good. Your friend that's on the show. Some guys are like you're talking about. Yeah. Yeah. She looks so good. So make sure you tell her I said that.

I will. I love her. She'll probably hear. Chelsea's nervous. Yeah. A question that we got on Twitter was how do you maintain your babies and animals? Do the kids help you with your animals? Because I get super frustrated with my children because they want all the animals.

And then they don't help me take care of them. And I literally tell them that like you guys don't even. Yeah. The one time. My kids actually did try to help. They opened the back door. But you didn't make a believer out of them because you kept buying the animals. But listen.

Yeah. My fence in my backyard was open. And they opened the door to let the dogs out to go potty. And they ran out the fence. And then they actually lost the dogs. So it's like you can't win. Yeah. So what do you do?

Aubrey is really good at helping like to let the dogs out and stuff. The baby's too little. Well right. Yeah. Watson get out there and feed the dogs. But we did fix. We have chickens and ducks. Because Aubrey was in 4-H and wanted to like show a chicken.

So obviously we're like hell yeah. We bought like 10 chickens. 10. Because we always have to be that way. I don't know. You buy like over buy. And two ducks. Yeah.

And she doesn't help at all with those. Oh good. But she does like to like chase them around and stuff. We went to Sam's Club last week and Isaac was. Listen. That's all we have in Dover, Delaware. Um Isaac asked for a chicken coop. But I saw your.

On my snap. Yes. Did you buy it? No. Because I just don't know that I. Okay. I just don't know that I can commit to things. Yeah.

No. They're a lot. Of work. Well I think the ducks definitely don't get ducks. Because those make it more work. And we have a rooster and our neighbor complain about them all. I would too. All my neighbors are on that.

If I heard your rooster I would be like. See but I think it's so cute. My neighbor has one. He's waking us up. And you're like sorry. And you're like that's the intention. It's so funny. Okay.

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And we would never move to we want to live in a small town outside of Sioux Falls and I don't think we'd ever leave South Dakota. Got it. If we did it'd be to Nebraska because we have like a cabin there and that's where my dad and Rita stay. Oh that's where your dad stays. Where's his practice. Can I.

It's in Vermillion South Dakota. So he but okay so we have a cabin and then they have a apartment under his dental office so they stay there and they bounce back and forth. Got it. Two places. Oh well that's cool. So yeah I mean your whole family's there. Could you imagine Randy cleaning your teeth.

I asked him to. He said he would. Yeah you need to come. I would. I want Randy to clean my teeth. And I think he does Botox and I want to try Botox. He does. So he can put a little on my forehead.

Yeah I should have got it before I got pregnant again but I didn't so I'm wrinkly. Yeah because you can't get it like while you're pregnant yeah. I should have him work on my teeth. Yeah. See I can't move mine. You guys have great teeth. What do you need done. Mine are fake.

Yeah so what do you need done. I mean I still need checkups and like cleanings. I need to do a baseline on my bottom. Same. I'm doing it right now. Are you. Oh do you like it. Oh I'm doing small direct.

Okay so is Aubrey excited to have a little sister. Yes. Does she know. She knows right. Yes. Well and she has paisley obviously but this is going to be a little different yeah. She wanted this one to be a girl for sure so she was really excited. Oh I kind of I was watching your story about her changing her last name and like I really

relate to that because I'm for my dad's first marriage so his last three kids are from my dad and his wife on the show and I kind of felt like a sense of like I wanted to fit in you know like I just kind of like felt like an outcast even though they didn't make me feel like that intentionally like I felt that way. And so I just wanted to do like whatever I could like make myself feel apart because I always felt like something like wasn't whole yeah totally and so at my stepmom adopted me. Oh she did.

Yeah. Oh that's awesome. So I guess that just kind of like can relate I mean yeah it was just and some people obviously are against it or whatever. Why. I honestly don't know because we left Lind on her last name so. She hyphen right. She hyphenated it and I mean she was so happy right you know when we finally got it and

it's just a nice way to include her and. She feels like a part of the family right right and that's what our goal was. The crazy thing is that I because I recently changed the babies last name to Lowry and when you go into court for that I don't know how it is in South Dakota but in Delaware you have to go in and it's a bunch of different cases and you have to listen to everyone's case. Did you have to do that. No because it wasn't contested.

We had a court date set for a couple of different things. Got it. Okay. So I had to go listen to other people's cases and like the reasoning that they would the judge would allow it or not allow it was kind of surprising to me like some of like logically in my head I'm like okay they should be able to hyphenate or they shouldn't and they just like didn't go. Like what was one they wouldn't allow it.

It was kind of like your situation actually was very similar and they just said no and they had been married for over a year and they the judge was like no. And which is weird because especially with and were they hyphenating it. Yeah they were just hyphenating it. Yeah and you would think that that would be like a. Did you have a problem too. No because he ended up agreeing to it. Right he didn't contest it.

So I after I changed Lux's last name I called Joe and I asked him if we could add Lowry to Isaac's last name and he is not about it. He doesn't want to do it and I just like don't understand and I guess I understand but also I want them to be included too like I kind of want all my kids to have the same last name. Right. And I don't want them to get in Marshall Mariquin Lowry like he's like he's for it but Isaac's the oldest and he doesn't really he doesn't care.

Yeah. Which is weird. Yeah. And it's just hard when you're not with I mean you're their mom and you want them to have the same last name. And especially like when you think about it like when you're going into like the school and stuff and like doctor's appointment doctor's appointments and your last name is different than your kids last name traveling and it's like it's Cold War Watson to war Chelsea to

war and then. Aubrey. Yeah. Yeah. So. Now if you were to get like would all of like the passports and all that would they have both last names or could they just be. I mean I think we would just put both on there on everything.

That's true. Yeah. I guess I just kind of felt like whenever luckily I didn't have the last name situation. Yeah. But I just felt like it made me feel more apart. Yeah. Yeah. It's like a feeling inside your heart.

Yeah. Is adoption something that you would want to happen or have you guys talked about it. I mean I in a heartbeat Cole would do it. Right. But that's something that's I mean her dad would have to you know allow that to happen or just be completely and it's a very permanent situation like when you go through adoption like you go I know like in Georgia the way it worked you go into this room a judge comes in there privately and it's the parties that are involved and then they ask you you know

like are you fine with you know this being not like non reversible like you can never reverse this you know are you fine with this and it's like you have to make that decision and it's so scary because you're like oh my gosh what if I'm making the wrong choice and literally it's like. Did you have a say. Yeah. Yeah. How old were you.

I got adopted as an adult when I was 18. Oh wow. So yeah. Can I ask if your mom had to agree to that or was that you. That you agreed. That was all your decision. Yeah. That was your decision.

Yeah. Okay. And once you're of legal age. Then it's totally empty. It was just for me it just felt like it was more like in line with my dad's other kids you know it was like they all had the same. And it might not even make sense to other people about why you want it or why you're doing it but that's okay.

It doesn't have to. Yeah. It doesn't have to make sense. And like it is scary though because then you get like a new birth certificate and you almost feel like your identity is like stripped from you because my old birth certificate it's almost like tabloids and stuff it was weird when they pulled my birth certificate they said that my parents like that are on the show had me out of wedlock because it showed my dad and his current wife on there.

Yeah. So they were obviously confused. Yeah. Got it. So it like confuses like the whole situation. Oh my gosh. That's nuts. Not crazy.

You like get a whole new birth certificate and everything. Yeah. And it's like it's like your past is like. Yeah. Yeah. Crazy. Like it never happened. But you felt really good about it.

Yeah. I felt like. It was like a weight. Yeah. And all this is what I feel like I deserved. I guess. Yeah. You know like I didn't ask to be like brought into a situation that my parents weren't going

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And if you don't want... Can we get into all this? Yeah. I don't want to like say to... Okay. He's having issues of course and so visits are supposed to be a visitation center but he has to set it up which he doesn't. He's also allowed to like have lunch at our school once a week because his mom goes and

he just recently went to his first one. I saw... I think I saw a picture on Snapchat but he had to make sure that everyone knew about it as soon as he did it. Yeah. Exactly. I know people like that. Right.

And I just think that's so wrong like if you're doing it for the sake of just like putting it on your social media so people think that like you're one way. Like Cole has gone and surprised her with lunch. You know what I mean? Yeah. So cute. Without me even. Yeah.

And he wasn't posted because he has nothing to prove. Yeah. You know what I mean? Right. It's just you're doing it to be apparent. Yeah. To shut... Like who are you trying to convince yourself or everybody else that you're a dad?

Yeah. So how do you explain what's going on with her dad to Aubrey? Does she ask questions or like how do you explain it? So after we had the whole court date or whatever, I did sit down with her because I was like I was kind of worried that she'd be hearing different side of the story over there and I wanted her to know like as much as possible like in a gentle way like what was going on and I said this is what's happening. You know, your dad is sick right now.

He's not making good choices and for that reason just for like your safety and just to know that everything's okay like you're going to have to see him here now if he sets them up and blah, blah, blah and that you're going to still see your grandparents on that side and she is seriously the best kid. Like she's just so... Like understanding. Yeah. And she's like totally...

Accepting. Yeah. And she just adapts to everything so well and so I mean she had a couple questions but she just seemed to understand she doesn't really, she tells me she doesn't really think about him. Because she has Cole. Yeah. And it's like, it's almost like you don't really know what you're missing when you

don't have it. And it's like you're really consistent in a way so it's like you're not losing something that was already. Yeah. And sometimes when things are like so dysfunctional, sometimes when it's like replaced with something that is so functional, it's easy to forget those things because it's like you don't want to remember them. Right.

And if she's like me, that's me. Like if something's bad, I just like forget about it and try not to ever think about it and so I think she is kind of like me. And like when my parents divorced, I was five or six years old and I don't remember any of it and my brother does, who's younger than me, he's 15 months younger than me and he does remember it. But I've been told that like I mentally just like blocked it out and that was like my defense mechanism.

So like maybe that totally, you know, does, um, I forget what I was about to ask. I was going to say something and I would just, did you draw a blank kill? Yeah. Damn it. Pretty typical. That's me on a regular basis. Like I don't remember what I ate for lunch. So, you know, I remember what she ate for lunch.

She ate pizza. But I, I should not be having pizza. Like I've been doing so well on this diet and I'm just, I left yesterday and I was in the car and I was struggling and I got pizza. And then you're so good at the moment then afterwards. I regretted it. Instant regret. And I was like, I'm going on a dating show next week.

Like I need to drop five pounds, you know, I'm going to find me dating. I don't know. Speed dating. I should go speed dating. I tried that and it was horrible, but maybe I should, but then you met Cole at a gas station. Yeah. I was like, how does that happen? I'm waiting for my Cole at the gas station, but I have Mr. Jamaica.

It just sucks because he's in Jamaica, you know, I will, let's all move to Jamaica. Kailen talks about this Jamaica all the time. He doesn't even have social media. He doesn't even know that she's on TV. He has no idea. Or that we've talked about him like five times on the podcast. He has no idea. No, but he told me he loves me.

So it's fine. No, he does. Yes, he does. It's always like a catfish situation. You know what I mean? Where's my phone? But you hung out with him in real life. Yeah.

He brought me a conch show. How did you meet? The conch show. Uh, we met in Jamaica on the beach. Like you're just relaxing and just came up to you. And he's like, do you want to go parasailing? And I was like, yeah. Who just like goes up to somebody and like, hey, you want to go parasailing?

If somebody ever asked me that, if somebody ever asked me that, I'd be like, no. Yeah, you sent me pics. You sent me pics. So Chelsea, did you play hard to get at first with Cole? No. But yeah, how did that go? Did you play hard to get into in real life? No, because Cole's so shy that it's not like he was like super aggressive.

It was, we're both shy and we're like, oh, we just like met out one night. That was like the first thing. Like in a group? Because I'm afraid of like one on one dates. I'm afraid of that. Same. I would like to like hang out. If you can handle me and my friends, you can handle anything.

Yeah. So we just met out. Like the first couple of times we hang out. Yeah. Like a group setting. Oh my gosh. And then you just like now. Yes.

Like how soon? But you said you knew from the gas station, right? I knew right away. There was like a feeling. From the gas station? Yes. You're like, I'm going to marry him? And told Chelsea Grace, I'm going to marry this guy at the gas station.

And you did. And you're about to be two babies deep. Yeah. Are you going to have more kids? Yeah, you will. I'm going to say six. You guys are probably six. Can we just have ten kids?

I can be sure Chelsea and Cole with six children, obviously, including Aubrey. We have the divorce dozen. That's what we always joke. Would you carry ten kids if you want to have ten? No. I would have, the max is two more after this. Two more? At least one more.

At least one more. At least one more. I think we should make a pact that you and Cole and I'll go to the sperm bank and we'll all get pregnant at the same time. No. She doesn't have to go to the sperm bank. No. I'm going to go to the sperm bank and her and Cole.

Oh, okay. So our next... I thought you were saying you wanted some of Cole's sperm. No. And Chelsea's like, no. Oh, my God. That would be cute. We should have like, you know, Snooki and Jenny did their little show on MTV, like ours

could be about our pregnancies. Yeah. Would you do a sperm bank? Yeah, you said that. I am. No, you didn't. Yeah, I did. What kind of people go there?

Is it like normal people? You have to have a bachelor's degree. You have to have a minimum of a bachelor's degree. Do they take pictures? Yeah. You can like pick. And they do like extensive genetic testing. What would you look for?

Tall, dark and handsome. Maybe a PhD. A PhD? Who's going to the sperm bank that has a PhD? Well, they got to pay for a medical school. Don't they get paid for it? Yeah. This is true.

True. But I like, they do like... I want to see some of these people. We should do a Teen Mom 2 crossover for the next season where Chelsea comes with me to pick out a sperm donor. I'm going to help you pick some sperm. Okay. Where's Larry?

Oh, my God. I love this. I'm so funny. Could you imagine like picking sperm for Kale? Because I feel like we would pick the same one. Yeah. And Kale would pick the different ones. Yes.

Like what would you want for me to look for in a man or a sperm donor? Well, I would look more of like, do they put like life qualities on there? Like things that... Yeah, what do they include? Have you seen some? I've looked them online. Like not just like looks, but like... I'm actually going to do it for the show.

Like I'm going to do it. Is he outdoorsy? Is he like... Right. Like I want someone who's like a man's man. Yeah. That's how like Clint is. Clint and Cole.

Get it? Like we should just... But Jamaica doesn't even live here. He's not even legal. Just get some of his sperm. Did you ask him? He would have to fed exit. He would.

I think he would. You can order it online. You can order a sperm online. But I'll just ask him. But I'll just ask him. Literally the dumbest thing I've ever heard. No, you can't. Any person that orders...

Do they put it in with a turkey baster? Like what do they put it in with? Yes. And I think... Yeah. But once it reaches the air, like it's dead. How do you know legit human sperm? What if you're getting like horse sperm?

Yeah. Or like monkey sperm. That's probably where like all those deformed animals come from. I'm not ordering mine online. I really want to write Chris a letter and request that so that I have two full siblings. No, not me. Write him a letter. Is that who you would choose out of the three?

Yeah. You would choose Chris. Because like I forget about Joe. We just have like this like... You know what I was thinking this morning? I was like, I forget that Kill was ever with Joe. Me too. I forget about it too.

It's like... It's like so long ago, right? Like it's like a blast from the past. Yeah. Him and me are coming to the reunion this weekend. And plus like you like them like together so much. Oh yeah. I'm gonna go...

Me and my friend Becky are gonna go to their wedding. Oh good. It's like normal. But like I forget that he's there. And you definitely wouldn't pick Javi. No. I wouldn't. Even though Lincoln's so cute.

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I can't wait for you guys to hear the song that he wrote. He wrote a song? Yeah. It's the best. Oh my God. Can you sing it to us? Yeah, I can. Okay.

Okay. Let me see if I can call him and ask him to sing it. No, I want you to sing it. It doesn't matter if I can do it. If I should and I should do it, I can do whatever my mom says because I love her and I six my best friend because he's my brother and the baby is so cute because he's a baby. That's the song. Oh my God.

That's pretty good. It's five, four. Yeah. I love him. He just loves his brothers. Oh my God. I don't know if they love each other, like all of them. They also fight.

So what about Aubrey and Watson? Yeah. She's great with him. Oh my God. Was it ever a jealousy? I think in the beginning, when he was first born, there was definitely an adjustment period. That's hard for all first kids.

Especially after it was her and I for so long. She's great with him. I don't know how I would do it without her. I swear to God. No. She's like a little mama. Yes. The baby will try to be going up the stairs and Isaac will come over like, here you go.

Yes. And I'm like, okay. Okay, yeah. Oh, it's so great. I'm like, I'm going to go up the stairs. Yes. I'm like, I'm going to take a shower. And I only have one.

So literally like, I'm the babysitter, the friend. Yeah. You're like, get on the floor and play. Like all of that stuff. Yeah. I was cooking yesterday and Lux decided to entertain himself because the older two were with their dad. And he got into the cabinet himself.

Oh my God. And I love his dancing. Let me see. He's the cutest thing. Him and Watson would get along. Oh my gosh. He gets into everything. Yeah.

He doesn't get into everything. No. That's how Isaac and Lincoln were. Is he a shy personality? Like you and Cole? He is exactly like Cole. He's just like very laid back and shy and sweet. Like mama's boy.

I saw him snuggling you on the plane. Yeah. He could literally sit with me and watch like a movie, like just movies all day long. And the baby's going to be a pistol. Yes. This one's going to keep you on your toes. I had a psychic to tell me that my son was going to be just like Cole and then we would have a daughter and she was going to be just like me and Aubrey.

So far she's right. That's like the perfect combination. Yeah. So you saw a psychic too. We had a psychic on our... She told me on... Online? Yeah.

We had a psychic on our podcast. But it was like a person on Twitter reached out to me one time and she's been so legit on everything. Is it the same person that was on our podcast? I don't know. What was her name? Karine? No.

Psychic Medium RJ is her... RJ? Oh, Psychic Medium Karine. Yeah. And she was like legit. She told us stuff about the podcast and like... Oh my gosh. And she actually did it for Leah too.

Yeah. Have you seen Leah yet? No. I haven't seen anybody. Leah came to Atlanta and recorded with us for... Yeah. Podcast. And I went to Hawaii with her and almost died.

So I think we need to do also another trip where we take the kids somewhere and I know there's a Nickelodeon resort. Yes. We were talking about that because I haven't traveled without Watson yet. Travel with him. I know. That's what I'm saying. I want to do something with the kids.

We should do one with the kids. Yeah. My kids won't stop bugging me to go back to Jamaica but I think I could convince them that Dominican Republic is Jamaica. Yeah. Is that where we're going? Dominican Republic. I think that's where we should go.

Yeah. Because there's a Nickelodeon resort for the kids. Yeah. I like that. And I already asked Larry. So... When would you want to do that? I'm really free anytime after June 15th.

I can't travel. You can't travel because... Oh. You could go early. So we'll plan it for next year. Oh yeah. Let's do it. So like the baby will be older and then...

Yeah. I wonder what she'll look like. I know. She'll look just like... Do you ever see like siblings that have the exact same parents and they look nothing alike? Nothing alike. And then there's ones that look like twins.

Sometimes a girl will sometimes look identical to the dad. I feel like Cole would make a pretty girl so I'm kind of hoping she looks like Cole. I wonder if she'll look just like Watson. I think Watson like... I don't know who he looks like though. I feel like he's a mix. Yeah. He's like a perfect combination.

Yeah. I don't know. A lot of people think he looks like my dad. Have you seen an ultrasound like to see like can you kind of see what she looks like it? Yeah. Do you want to see it? Yeah.

I just think she's so pretty. I'm sure she is. Oh I can't wait. This is so exciting. Don't you hate when you're like going to try to flip through your pictures to find... Oh and have like nudes everywhere? Oh. And I'm like wait don't film until I get...

Don't film my nudes. Yeah. Kale's like looking for pictures on her phone all the time and she's like wait a minute don't look I've got nudes on me. Right. I'm like who are you? Who are you? I never take nudes.

Well I take them for myself right now because I'm trying to lose weight okay? I take the most nudes. Like I will send my first one in fabric just because I'm pregnant and I don't know I feel good about this pregnancy. Look at her little face. Let me see. I want to see her. Oh baby.

Oh my god I want a thousand children. Did you... I think she looks like Cole. Have you had other 3D ultrasounds before this? Oh my... Oh I didn't mean... Oh my god I'm touching this. It's okay.

Don't touch it. Oh my... Look at her lips. I know. Look at how cute. Look at her feet. Are you gonna have... We gotta convince Lindsay to have another one.

Do you want another one? No. She said no. No. No chance. Like I'm good with one because Jackson has like given me literally a run for my money like in every way. So one and done.

Yeah. See I feel like because we have easy kids I think. Yeah. Yeah Jackson's not easy. He's very like needy child. Because he's an only child. I think that's what it is. Yeah.

But then I almost feel like oh gosh is it too late like is the damage done now? Like... But no because Aubrey was...she was seven. Wasn't she eight? When Watson was born. Watson was born. But like how bad was the transition? That's the question.

She was old enough that there probably wasn't much of a...right? It was...there was a... A tiny? Yeah. A few weeks it was rough. But now it's great. And I feel like that what this one's gonna be a lot better because we know how to handle it.

Right. You know like the things that you didn't do. Yes. Yeah. So does y'all still like do like individual stuff with her like on occasion or tag? Yeah. I do try to do more...Cole works a lot so usually when I do anything...I do try to do things she likes but like usually the baby is with.

Right. Okay. But like we're doing something fun tonight that she doesn't know about. She doesn't know? Yeah. Can we say what it is? Yeah. We're going to the SpongeBob Broadway.

Broadway. She's gonna be so fun. And the baby's not going. No. Cole's gonna stay with him. Okay. So she's gonna be excited because she does love like girl time. That's so sweet.

Aw. Do you take her to get...like I don't know what it's like to have a girl. You know three boys. Like do you do manicures? Yeah. Just like before we left I gave her... Or so she's not like a tomboy. She just does all the things.

Oh my gosh we better ask Chelsea about the waxing. Oh! Yeah. You heard my horrible waxing story. Wait. Tell me again. So I didn't realize that they waxed your butthole and get up on all fours and they told me not to do that.

Have you waxed someone's butt? Yeah. Yeah. You have before? I have waxed a lot. Did they fart? No. No.

Pat can you turn people away for smelly vaginas? I mean I mostly only did my friends because I was afraid and I mean I'm very like sensitive so I was like gag. Right. Me too. So I don't think I could do it because if someone came in...oh my god even thinking about it makes me... Like what would you do?

What would be the proper protocol? Like would you have to turn them away? Would you tell them to go sanitize? You know I think you can when they come in be like okay clean yourself off and have like... The stuff laid out. Yeah. I think that would be appropriate. I feel like it would be.

I mean shit. You're going to be... All up in them. Yeah. Knuckles deep in there. Yeah. I just...I could not do that. I would just have to pass.

I'd have to say I can't do this service. Like I don't even care if I'm making a lot of money. Well yeah. And like we had to watch a video on how to do mittens. What? Nobody wax their balls. Yes they do. No they don't.

No. Do you wax coals? No. And no. Oh I don't think he would be that. She's not that kind of man. No. No.

No I... So you've actually...you've done it. I've never waxed a man. But you had to watch videos on it and you waxed a vagina. Yes. I've waxed my own. No. Yeah.

For yourself. How did you not be too scared to like rip? Right. Like you know it's coming. That was the scariest part. I definitely don't do it yourself. Count down. Yeah.

It's scary. I literally felt like that guy from 40 year old virgin. Like I was literally wanting to scream maim. So you know what I mean? Yeah. It's like one of those things where... Yeah and you got to get up on your all fours, spread your bedsheets. They told me not to get up on all...I was already there because my friend told me to

be there. Well sometimes you can lay on your back and just hold your leg up. And so I was mortified. And that's what she told me to do. So I was like... She's like sorry. So you were on your... Like all fours.

And she's like you don't have to do that. That's so embarrassing. If that ever happened I would have just been like I'm at the wrong place actually and like put it in my clothes and leave. I don't even know what I would do. I just need to get laser hair removal. Oh yeah. I did that.

But I didn't ever finish my session. I know. We talked about that. So it's definitely not as much. So it like works in like a progression. Yeah. Like it gets less and less. Right?

Okay. Well... But I'd say do that. I just don't have enough hair to like even do that. So do you still do as... Like I don't have a hairy like... Yeah. Super hairy.

No. Okay. Well that's good. No. It just like never grew I guess. Thank God. I don't know. I like...

I like have to shave. I'm like... I just wish like my... But you have dark hair. Yeah. I have... I shave my arms. Chelsea, a lot of people have asked about your hair.

Yeah. What about it? And how you keep it so red. Okay. That's what I don't know. Because... Is it a washing thing? Like do not wash it often?

No. I wash my hair every day. But if I'm going to do things I have to wash it every day. That's how I am. Like I don't understand how people... Use dry shampoo. Yeah. My hair doesn't work.

It doesn't work. No. I don't get it. It'll be like matted to the side of your hair. Yeah. So a lot of people think it's like that. But I think I just use like good products. But like what is the hair color that people are asking about?

I mean I've done it so many times and I literally right now I just do whatever I have because I can buy like real beauty products because I have beauty. Have your license. Yeah. And so but what I do is like this one that I did like two days ago. Which I think I like this one. I like this combo. This combo.

I love the color of your hair. It was Kenra and I did 6RR with a little bit of 5RB. Well you've got to use this for the Instagram post so that people don't ask us again. And there was a squirt of 4RR in there. Because that was like the most common question that we got in direct message. So that'll make sense to people who know... Yeah. I had no idea what the hell.

So 6RR, 4RR, a little bit of 4RR and a little bit of 5RB. And I don't even know if that's like the right thing to do. I just literally take whatever I have and just mix it and do it. Okay. Well fair enough. That was a question. Yeah. And then somebody asked if you are still practicing what is it called?

Aesthetic. Yeah. Aesthetics. I did while I was pregnant with Watson after I had him. Then I just been staying. Do you know what I got? I got this micro needling with the with the blood plasma. I want to do that.

It's fucking weird dog. Like I'm telling you. But did it... They numb your face. Yeah. And then they knew it. It's the vampire facial. Yes.

I got it. And they took my blood. Yeah. Spun it down, separated the plasma, rub it all over my face. And I have this hole from when I had a piercing. Oh my gosh. You should have seen when they like... And they tried to inject it to like help close it.

When they did. I was like holding her hand when they were doing it. And Kale looked like she was going to pass out. Like... But it wasn't bad because your whole face is numb. Yeah. But they just tried to inject it. It didn't close.

But then I also... But me watching it was like... Oh. It wasn't numb. So like I'm watching it. But you want to do it like every six weeks. Yeah. And I didn't...

I know I haven't been back to Atlanta since. Did you notice any difference? I mean this area was a problem for me. And so it cleared that up. Your skin looks really good. Yeah. But when I take my makeup off I'm pretty happy with it right now. Yeah.

But then I also tried to get my eyebrows microbladed the same day and the lidocaine didn't take to my eyebrows. Yeah. But it took everywhere else. And it hurt so bad that it was just over it. Oh my gosh. Do you have yours bladed? No.

I have mine bladed. I'm too scared. You have yours. Oh my gosh. I should. Mine are not bladed. I love it. Because like whenever you don't...

Yeah. Because like lately I'm like okay I'm going to have two under two. I got eyelash extensions and I should do like eyebrows because I don't want to look like a total shit show all the time. Yeah. eyebrows look good right now though. Yeah. But I have to like fill them in every day.

Fill it in. Mine aren't like related now. They're filled in. Oh okay. Do your makeup every day. Fuck no. Oh can I say that? Yeah.

Because someone's like oh she always wears it. Like I definitely... Just because one more filming like I put it on. Yeah. Presentable. Right. Like those days when I wear the same sweatpants and look like shit for like four days. I posted it.

Like literally like we'll change right before Cole gets on from work so I don't look like a total nut mess. I posted a picture today on my Instagram story on accident and there's a hole in my crotch and you can see it. Wait. I was literally like sitting in my crotch. There's a hole in my crotch? No.

Oh. So like I must have been wearing the sweatpants for like three days. And that's what made it. Did you delete it? No. Because I... She just leaves stuff like that up there. Like if I had a hole in my crotch on my Instagram I would be like oh my god I've got to get

it off right now. She'll just leave it. I'm literally white trash. It's fine. No you're not. Like she doesn't even care. Do you still read Reddit? No.

I don't ever read Reddit. I only know Reddit. What is Reddit? For what you tell me. I gave it up. You did? Yeah. After when they showed it on the show.

I said to myself well I told myself it won't be the same now because they knew that I read it. So I was like. Get it. Read it. But wait. What is Reddit? Reddit?

You explain it because I... I don't even know exactly what Reddit. But I seriously haven't looked at it. It's been like... They people talk about you on it? Yeah. They didn't really talk about you right? Or they did?

Yeah they did. They talk so much shit on me. That website alone is the reason why I said I was the most hated teen mom. Yeah. Because they would rip on me more than Janelle, more than Farah, more than anyone and I don't know why. Like it's weird. No but I gave it up and my life has been significantly better because literally I couldn't stop reading

it. Read it free. Yes. But what would you do? Just like sit and like read it? You know what I mean? But then I gave it up and I... Cause I seriously think it was affecting my mood.

Like your lifestyle. Yeah. But now if someone tries to tell me something on it I'm like nope. I don't want to do it. There's probably a Chris Lee knows best one and I bet you there's a coffee combo. Oh my god. There probably is. But we're not going to look.

Don't look it up. We should look it up. Don't. Because they're rude. And if you guys go on Reddit and talk crap about us then you're a loser because that's just really... You're a loser. Oh my god.

But yeah. So I was going to say you should give it up. I'm not going to. I'm not going to. I don't even read my Instagram comments anymore. That's probably good. Cause it's just rude. That's just always something.

Good idea. Actually I only get like a few rude ones. And when they're rude they're like really rude though. Yeah. And I'm just like, why was that necessary? Yeah. Like all these people were being nice and then you had to come to the party and like ruin it.

It always takes like that one person. Like the one dick. Yeah. You're a loser. Oh my god. But yeah. Yeah. Oh my gosh.

Tulsi, thank you so much for coming by and talking to us. Oh this was fun. So fun. I'll see you tomorrow. Oh yeah. I don't know what the setup is but we'll... Are you excited? It's going to be fine.

Okay. It's going to be fine. Yeah. I said it's going to be fun cause you all are going to be together. It'll be fine. It'll be fine. Yeah. We're going to have a good time.

Thank you for coming on Coffee Combos. Thank you guys. Next time we'll have Cole come on with. Yes. We can interview him. I'm going to pick my next lover. Yeah. We will.

You guys should. If Cole gets along with them, if Cole likes them, then they're probably good. You know, it has to be Chelsea and Cole approved. Chelsea is so like in love with Cole. I love him. So cute. I fucking love him. Well thank you so much.

Yeah, thank you guys. All right guys. We'll talk to you guys next week on Coffee Combos. Bye.