Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - No Candles During Sex

Episode Date: September 22, 2022

[TW: MENTIONS OF ALCOHOL, DRUGS & DEATH] EP244: Looks like Tiktok has given us some great topics to talk about this week. The conversation surrounding deaths related to fentanyl seems to be non-existent and Kail wants to know why, are D.A.R.E. programs still as infuential as they were back in the day and is social media just normalizing these kinds of lifestyles? Lindsie confesses to something wild and we will now NOT be having candles around during sex. Kail shares an amish tiktok that had Lindsie rewatching over and over, and wtf is up with the Adam Levine situation? Also, Kail and Lindsie go over the difficulties of being a podcaster.. Thank you to our sponsors! Better Help: Visit BetterHelp.com/coffee today to get 10% off your first month Con Air: Search “Conair SmoothWrap” on Amazon.com to try the new drying experience with SmoothWrap today! Stamps: Visit Stamps.com and use promo code COFFEE for a special offer that includes a 4-week trial, free postage, and a digital scale! Stitch Fix: Sign up today at StitchFix.com/convos to get $20 off your first purchase Visa: Anyone can change the game Wondery: Listen to Whose Amazing Life? on Amazon Music, Apple Podcasts or the Wondery app

I hate gift giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you? This is coffee convos with Kale Lowry and Lindsay Chrisley. I really want you to be in your feels Kale That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you a spirited discussion about motherhood friendship Family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here. Here's Kale and Lindsay Can she photoshop one of me and the baby dads? Kale, we're recording. Oh I'm so tired today Lindsay. Good morning. Hello coffee combos listeners. Good morning I would say that I am tired, but that would be a lie. I feel pretty well rested Something that I'm struggling with is the fact that I sound like a dead person. So I mean, but you look great though

Well, um, I still feel dead. So That has not been great. I Got to Florida and all of a sudden started having an allergy attack evidently and it's just not letting up and Suburban dad when he called me or FaceTime me this morning He was like I need to send you medicine ASAP because I was supposed to get it yesterday But then I got so busy working that I was just like, oh, it'll go away on its own and it's like still here So, yeah, happy

Thursday Happy Thursday, it's Tuesday for us Thursday for y'all um, I Went to go see this investment property this morning And then I went live to do like my makeup and stuff because I get bored and that's what I do and Kristen gets on there and she's like I Need to harass you about this email I just got and when I tell you that I like

Literally wanted to shit my pants because I was like if one of these baby dads is gonna cuss me out for something I just don't want to deal with it and I was so afraid but it turned out to be completely just about the investment property and But I was I was shitting my pants because I was like I just I'm over this drama Like I just don't feel like dealing with it anymore Just want to get along with everyone And then it was fine. So and now I'm so tired like I can't even tell you I just I could literally crawl up in my bed and go to sleep right now. Okay, so for the past

Three four weeks, however long that I've been arguing with my ex-husband um, I have been so Exhausted and I think it takes so much mentally Out of you and emotionally out of you that it just makes you a different kind of tired and so finally Um once Kristin got involved well, she's been involved for some time but like once she basically put her foot down I was like, this is what we're not gonna do Once that transpired and I prayed about it

I've been able to let it go and I think I've reached a point that I'm just like, you know, what? sometimes you have to let people dig their own holes and dig themselves out of those holes on their own without you trying to play referee and I think that's a lesson that I have learned and now I have woke up for a couple of days now not tired So it feels really good. Oh good for you. I love that for you. We love a well-rested Feeling which I haven't felt in a long time I truly could not imagine kill like arguing with multiple baby dads. No, it's literal hell

Like it's literal hell and I'm at a point where it's like when I tell you that I'm just like I want to be cool with everybody I'm not I don't even want to talk about negative things like that's where I'm at Because I feel like even though I'm venting about my situations. Like I just don't even want the backlash I don't want the feelings. I don't want anything like I just it's exhausting. It's so exhausting It's hard too because part of our jobs is Talking about our lives and like things that are going on and so there's a fine line that you walk It's like what's too much to be talking about and what's not enough

Because in one sense you don't want to come across as a fraud somebody find out something that you didn't share Mm-hmm and be like why didn't you tell us this right? But then in the same sense, you know You do want to have a level of privacy. I was actually just talking to my dad about this yesterday in reality TV and Just the fact that we have been doing this public life for 10 years You've been doing it longer than that But you get to a point where you want to have some level of privacy and it's not because you want to hide things necessarily it's just because You feel so out of control

When you don't have something that you can just keep to yourself Marinate on it for a little bit before you share you always have to feel like you have to be ahead of the story because that's what Is preached to you in the business that we're in, you know, like stay ahead of the story tell your own story, right? And that's frustrating. I also want to tell you that I got pulled over this morning So I'm basically kill the jailbird. Wait, what you got pulled over for what? speeding did you get a ticket Um, he Wait, wait, wait back up before you even start with the ticket first of all

I need to know if you have you you obviously have new tires at this point because that's how you're driving, okay? Yeah, so You were going where? Speeding specifically and what did you look like when you were getting pulled over and like why weren't you on your phone? videoing this for us so what's funny is that I Normally in this area would go the speed limit. I just wasn't I surprisingly was not on my phone But I did wasn't paying attention to like the speed limit changes right there and normally I would pay attention

But I don't know I was just like late for my appointment I was like fuck it Um, and it's funny because I kept going and I saw from my rear view mirror like a mile back He's like getting on his motorcycle to come home me over. So I already pulled over like he didn't even have to put his lights on Like I already knew you did not get pulled over in your suburban by a motorcycle cop. Yes, I did So he comes up to my passenger window and he's like, um, do you know why I'm pulling over I said yes, I do And I told him and he's like where are you going? I said an appointment and he said what times your appointment? I said nine o'clock. He said so you're already late. I said yes, sir. Yes, sir. And he said he asked me for my

Registration my license and my insurance. I said I have my license to my registration I said but my insurance is on my phone and he said, okay So I showed so he goes and he he's like what when I'm gonna go run your License or whatever he does and you pull up your insurance. So I was like, okay, cool so he comes back to my car and he's like, I'm gonna give you a verbal warning he's like But I did had I did have to put on the paper That you don't have your insurance so that I could give you a verbal warning But then instead of paying a ticket

I have to now go to court because he had to put on there that I didn't have my insurance But I fully showed him my insurance So I think it was like kind of still like a favor because he's like you probably in in our heads He's probably like go to the courthouse and show them your insurance and then they'll be like, okay, that's it He's really nice. It was really quick. I thought it was gonna take like 20 minutes, but he was nice about it. Yeah Yeah, why do you always find yourself in? shitty situations because I'm I make poor choices Lindsay. I'm not a good choice maker, you know This goes back to I think I was saying this on the southern tee about

Baby daddy will showing up 10 15 minutes late when we had a standing time when he needed to be somewhere You both need to live by the rule of if you are not five minutes early, then you are late. Yes 100% and if you live by that rule, you won't find your ass speeding I won't have to worry about his Ford truck falling apart driving down the road like driving like a bat out of hell trying to get somewhere Not the Ford truck. You won't have to worry about having blowouts on the side of the road and needing to be technically somewhere else That's just you know, my advice not that I really need to be giving people life advice because I need someone to actually give me some But with being late, that's something that just drives me nuts. Mmm

To be fair Also, what are you drinking? I was just drinking a water trying to stay hydrated. My doctor said I have I'm dehydrated kill. I feel like you're always dehydrated. Well, my MIP was so dark wait And if I drink wait, does your pee ever smell like coffee? Everybody's pee smells like coffee if they drink coffee, but I can tell you You truly coffee combos podcast listeners. I have not had a coffee in some time now And truly don't have a desire to have coffee I don't know what it is that happened that you sound like me, but like what is it?

I don't like literally is woke up one morning and didn't want coffee for five months And then like even now when I was drinking my matcha tea my iced matcha this morning I didn't really want that while I was drinking it. I don't know like it's like I'm just drinking shit Just to drink it, but like I don't even want it wait people wrote into me and told me about the coke thing and COVID That it's a real thing and that like a lot of people have the same feeling and my sister also had it and my dad also had it With the it doesn't taste the same. Yeah, it doesn't taste like I don't think that coke tastes the same since I had COVID at all And now I am full just like Sprite girl. I also hate Sprite, so that's gonna be a no from me

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Off your first month. That's better HELP comm slash coffee This is a trigger warning for mentions of drugs alcohol and death So if you guys want to skip this part you can fast forward about 15 minutes I need to tell you about this tiktok. I saw okay. Are you gonna play it? No, I'm not gonna play the tiktok, but I am gonna post it. Oh, I'm gonna summarize it so we're coming up on the anniversary of my lifetime friend my childhood friend's death

which was in October and I don't know if fentanyl was a part of it. I believe it was but I don't know I Was scrolling on tiktok and you know some people say that the way that the algorithm on tiktok works is that The people that you follow and I might have said this before when they like things it affects your algorithm So say five people that you follow are all liking the same type of content Then that content will start showing up on your feed So somewhere along the lines people that I'm you know following or whatever

They are liking this type of content and I get a tiktok that I've never really seen a drug Tiktok on my timeline before and this girl she's talking about fentanyl and how you know There's been a lot of deaths, you know for COVID and things like that, but nobody's talking about Fentanyl related deaths and how that is what's killing people. I think she says 18 to Kristen did she say 18 to 45? I believe yes. It's the biggest killer of people between 18 and 45 is fentanyl and it's made in labs in China And then they're bringing it over here and then they're selling it illegally And lacing it in everything pretty much lacing it in heroin lacing it in cocaine

Lacing it in weed now and it's just dropping people like flies What yeah, and she has like statistics on there and it's so fucking sad because nobody's talking about it So hold on back up for a second because I need to discuss about this algorithm because now that makes sense Why I see certain stuff on my feed now. Mm-hmm. Yeah, it's probably because of the stupid shit that you watch First of all if we're talking about the algorithm I got a bone to pick with every single person I follow I follow so many people on tiktok because if I like one video I like follow them I follow 887 people and so many people will tell me that Chris comes up on their timeline

Chris does not come up on mine cuz you're locked is liking Chris's content to make it pop up Stop it. It's because you're blocked dummy. Oh duh Chris also doesn't come up on my timeline, but I haven't looked him up on tiktok. So oh my god Yeah, let's not we're trying to be like nice and just chill and not worry about baby daddies right now dead, okay, so Then this tiktok comes up. It has all these statistics on it I'm upset that you're not playing it so that I can get like more invested in this

I'll play it, but it's it's a little on the long side had to Finally make this video because I am just so done. I am so done hearing about everything else I am so done hearing about COVID deaths when the number one cause of death of people between 18 and 45 is Fentanyl poisoning and the amount of people that have no idea what that is blows my mind I did not know what it was a year and a half ago when my 23-year-old brother passed away from Fentanyl poisoning and so many other people have lost so many amazing people from this so I have decided to make this video so that I can Provide you some education and hopefully stop people from making this choice because it is ruining families and we're losing a

175 people every day to Fentanyl poisoning So if you don't know what Fentanyl is, Fentanyl is an illicit drug that is being made in China in labs And it is being taken over our borders from Canada and Mexico and it is being sold illegally By leasing it in drugs or selling it in pure form You're seeing it being laced in cocaine. You're seeing it being laced in Xanax and Percocet and now weed So any type of illegal drug that you buy any drug that you get that is not prescribed Has the possibility of being laced with Fentanyl and let me tell you that if it is laced with Fentanyl Two milligrams can kill someone and whether it is swallowed and hailed or just touched

Fentanyl is 50 times more potent than heroin and a hundred times more potent than morphine. There was some people in Florida who Took cocaine that was laced with Fentanyl. They went into cardiac arrest two of their friends didn't do the drugs But they were performing CPR on them and from just performing CPR on them and inhaling the drug They also went into cardiac arrest. This is one of the most dangerous drugs that we have ever seen Why are we not talking about this? Just please honestly? I ask you to educate yourselves to share this with your friends to let them know if you decide you want to do drugs And you want to get them off the street

There are testing kits that are available in many states that might help your chances But honestly guys know the weight of your decision This isn't the 70s anymore when everyone is doing drugs and the only danger is over dosing on that drug You can be poisoned from the lightest amount You can take like my brother did took one pill and he was dead and that could be you and you can leave your family so just please think about that and please share this and Let's please please open this conversation

Okay, so I think we talked about this before Didn't we talk about it with spring breakers before I believe so and I talked about how they gave me Fentanyl for Lincoln's when I was pregnant with Lincoln. They gave it to me for labor and delivery. Yes. Well labor not delivery But I think you know it was controlled. It was in a hospital It was you know, it was they told me they had to cut it off before a certain amount I mean before a certain time so that you know, the baby would be okay. Etc. Etc. I Did not know that it was made in China. I did not know that they were bringing it here illegally I don't even know I guess I didn't put too much thought into how it was getting into our drugs

I also didn't know such a low dose could kill you like I had no idea. I think the kids today And even us, I mean if this was going on whenever we were what teenagers, I mean, I don't know if it was or not I wasn't around that kind of thing, but I think it's just like the lack of awareness Not knowing that something can impact your life or take your life so quickly And I think that's what's so scary is you have teenagers out here Making these decisions thinking that they're doing something that just their friends are doing and End up dead because they did not have the knowledge that they needed to have to be able to make right decisions I think if I was a teenager because I mean prior to getting pregnant with Isaac

I was ripping and running the streets as I always say and I smoked a lot of pot I think had I known as a teenager that you know if someone told me oh like fentanyl This fentanyl that you know, it could be in the weed. It would have scared me and I wouldn't have been smoking You know what I mean? Like I wouldn't have trusted blindly trusted my friends because I never really paid for weed when I was a kid I just got it like people would just smoke with me or give it to me or whatever and But had they said oh, you know, this could be laced fentanyl or like that was a conversation back then Which I don't think it I don't know that it was a problem back then But I hope now by opening this conversation like parents can have these conversations with their kids because that's so freakin scary

I mean, I can't imagine someone in high school kids in high school smoking weed. That's laced with fentanyl Well, that's what I was gonna say Earlier like was this going on whenever we were in high school and we just didn't know about it Or is this something that is like a new thing now that you know Parents have to have greater worries because things are going on now that weren't going on then Mm-hmm. I don't know the answer to that I know it was happening when I was in high school fentanyl was not I don't think it was I'm not sure. I don't want to say yes. I don't want to say no, but things like weed and stuff

We're definitely being laced with other stuff that were you know, really getting people very sick or killing them Interesting. Okay. I did not know that. I think you think you're invincible So you probably don't pay attention like I didn't pay attention as much as a kid I think about it more now than I did when it was happening in high school. That's just terrifying honestly and You know, we need to really advocate for the dare program and saying no to drugs because You know, I don't know because used to when we were in school and tell me if y'alls was like this but We had an entire week of like say no to drugs

Awareness to and you would wear like this little pin on your shirt Or like I think it was like a ribbon or something like that like a red like red ribbon or something I can't remember but like I remember that you wore a ribbon and then they had like dare shirts and I don't even know that I knew what drugs were. I was just saying no to them I Was doing all the dress-up days for like dare and I don't think that they do it anymore and if they do I've never heard Jackson Talk to me about it before and I've never seen it come home on like a school flyer like when I was in school

I remember it was so like it came home and like the folders and you had like dress-up days for dare Um, yeah, it was like a big deal. Well, I I don't think I started dare until seventh grade So I think Jackson may be a little young still. I I said since seventh so I'm gonna ask him we did an elementary. Yeah same And I was so into dare that I on stage at an assembly called my parents out for being drug addicts No, you didn't yes, I did did they whoop your ass They definitely were pissed and I called them drug addicts because they smoked cigarettes and cigarettes were drugs according to dare and That's what made them they quit cold turkey because they were so mortified that I literally told everybody

You did that to Debbie. Oh, yeah to the Deb. Yeah But yes, like back in the day when we were you know having say no to drugs week at school Every single person that you knew that did anything that they were talking about during dare week Immediately were addicts and you were like I I can't be around you because like you should be saying no to drugs and Like not smoking six. So it was working. Yeah, maybe here's the thing though Was it was it more effective then because we didn't have social media like we do now We weren't as influenced. I'm not saying we weren't influenced at all, but we weren't as influenced by Celebrities and these you know rappers that have

Overdose like did we have access to that back then and so we were more trusting in you know Drugs are bad versus now where it's like people say they're bad, but they're a good time. No, I Do you get what I'm saying or am I not making sense? No, you are making sense I'm just trying to figure out how to answer the question like um, I feel like social media I feel like kids are exposed to so much now that Everything and correct me if I'm wrong about this. I feel like everything is so normalized now. Mm-hmm because of social media That kids aren't as afraid

Now as we were like it didn't take much to scare the shit out of us like because I was terrified we just had to wear a deer shirt and You know, we were calling out every person around us that smoked anybody that was drinking wine coolers like All the things now if you talk to kids about that they would probably just be like, okay, that's great This is just like something we're learning about in school and they really just don't care. Yeah I definitely think that social media. I think like from them doing it in elementary school They're trying to get to you before you even get exposed necessarily before you should get exposed now with social media you have kids that are

So young getting exposed and also because drugs have become such like an epidemic And drug use has that people are getting exposed to it also more frequently at home than our generation Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Lindsey. It's starting to get to a fall I need to change my wardrobe and I'm definitely going to be trying stitch fix because you and kyle always talk about it And I'm so excited. I Absolutely love stitch fix if you guys have never tried it I feel like it is truly the best way to discover new styles and brands that are just for you stitch fix is basically like a style partner and your stylus will learn about your taste and

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The episode about fire alarm sex before no Yes, when you guys were talking about emergency sex Yeah, like when you just well, you've had it a lot of times. So like what do you mean? What is that? Well, I don't know what I don't remember remember. I was like calling you out I was like, did you just feel like it was an emergency to get pregnant like in the back of a car? Like you guys were just having emergency sex remember that okay, well The inspiration for the fire alarm or emergency sex came from me and suburban dad

Lindsay What? Explain yourself right now So I'm not going to give time frames because they have really just like not done me well in the past to give people time relevance of like when things were going on but fire alarm sex, um That happened to us. We were

in an entanglement and I guess the urban dad thought it was a good idea that he was going to light some candles and like Make it a vibe and a great mood Uh-huh, and so we were just like at his house on his bed And I was laying not the way that like you normally would lay on a bed, but like the other way Uh-huh, you know like not uh horizontal Yeah, hot dog. Is that hot dog style like if you fold a paper it's hot dog. No, you weren't laying

Vertical you were laying horizontal. Yeah across the bed and I guess my head was like a little hanging off the bed and um some things were just like happening and going on And all of a sudden I started smelling this like weird smell of like burning And it was just like crispy and I was like what the heck is that like I looked down literally my fucking hair was on fire What? Your hair my hair

Was on fire So what the fuck do you do about that? I patted it out and kept going. Oh wait wait wait wait wait wait wait Ma'am this happened during sex. Yes Yes, my hair was on fire. Shut the fuck up. Did it smell so foul? Yeah, just like Crispy that's the best word I can use to describe it and I was like, oh my god Like am I going to have half of my hair gone whenever I get up from this entanglement? I just patted it out. Do you have pictures of this? No

Did I tell you about my vacuum story where this a similar situation happened? No, wait, what? one time I'm so What? The closest story I have to my hair being on fire is my hair getting caught in the bottom of the vacuum um so we were living with my mom and her ex-husband at the time and You know like when you know someone's coming home in 30 minutes and you're like, let me get everything done Yeah, it's like when you are growing up and your parents are like

You need to do all of these tours before we get back home And you've done none of them and then you get the 30 minute warning and it's like oh fuck like I gotta get going Yeah, so I had taken the hose off of the vacuum and was trying to like I squatted down to vacuum under the couch and the vacuum actually fell and the brush roll got my hair and It like twisted it up and I I didn't have any way to get it out And it just smelled like burning hair and I had to sit there for like 30 minutes until my mom got home Um What?

Yeah, and my it was just the vacuum was just going on my scalp Wait for 30 minutes. Yeah, it was awful and it smelled so bad So like I cannot imagine what your hair smelled like when it was Legitimately on fire and because we have blonde hair. It probably even smelled almost worse Wait back up for just one second and then I'm going to continue on about my story, but What did Susie specifically say when she came home and this was going on? She panicked she was like, oh my god. Oh, she freaked out. She was so Like I'm so sorry. I can't believe this. It was awful. We had to cut my hair out of the brush roll

And it was just not a good time. It was very it smelled so bad for hours kale What was going through your head when this was going on? I was dramatic. I mean, I was like 12 or 13 So I was like, I'm gonna die here. Like I was like What the heck? I'm gonna die. Oh, hold on you guys. Hello Hi, darling Nanny, do you know whenever I record for coffee combos every single week? Do you know when I am recording for coffee combos every week because you call at the same time every week?

She said okay, bye I love her so much. And then she just hangs up like she doesn't even talk about Like what do you guys like do you guys talk about pop culture? Like what do you guys talk about with nanny? Yeah um Just my dad's fuckery. Um, just what's going on in the family Her casino earnings people that she's met at the casino all of her new friends What she's doing at her house with her porch

Her dealing with the little yorky milie anybody who's ever watched chrysalinos best will know who milie is Um She takes her to the vet quite a lot because she has Glycoma or whatever it's called. I don't know if that's really the right word It's the same thing that that dog had on the hangover or what show what what movie was that? Where the dog had like glycoma eyes Or something they just like were like foggy and they can't see and then they just go blind

Glock um Okay I Chris and be better, um Yeah, so that's that's the kind of stuff that we talk about. Um when i'm gonna come and visit Um food that she's made Um Going to the produce stand. Yeah, that's pretty much it. So does she stay up on pop pop culture?

Like does she know what's going on with like? Kardashians does she know about adam levine? Like does she stay up on that? Um, she watches the news. So if it comes up on the news, then you know, she knows about that politics the queen Um, all those types of things but really like more educated things to be quite honest, um, but outside of that Um, I need to finish telling you about my hair being on fire. So yeah, it just caught on fire Um, I padded it out And I was just like keep going

and then Um, whenever I got up and then even the next morning. I just had like clumps of hair coming out Oh my god Yeah, was it is it black or is it still the regular it just inched off? Oh my gosh, so do you have like parts that are just shorter now? No, I don't think that I really ever noticed. I have a lot of hair So I think that that like really worked in my benefit this time But my thoughts are now is never try to be romantic and then get an entanglement like that

Because my hair might catch on fire Oh, I cannot believe that happened and like what would I have done? Like what how would I have explained that to the world to my parents to Everybody that is involved with me if like half my hair was just cinched off. Like what story would I possibly set you? You literally couldn't say anything. You'd have to say there was a grease grease fire on the stove. You'd have to Like And just half of my hair got got burned off. Oops. Love that for us. Um Speaking of

sexualizing um, and and just sex and whatever I I was talking with christen the other day about halloween costumes and like First of all as adults do you dress up with your kids for halloween or do you just? Go and like fall looking clothes like I always tend to Actually get ready for trick-or-treat like I'll do my makeup whatever. There's been a couple of times that I'll dress up

Um and like onesies or something like that um family costumes have just like really never been a thing for My little family Will and I used to dress up a lot back in college. Um Like we would go as themes. So like we did Wizard of Oz one time. Um I was a playmate and he was like something in a robe. Like I have no idea

Um, just like various different things and so Then I started thinking I was like, why are halloween costumes that women wear? Like why do we sexualize? Certain things that just shouldn't be sexual like A maid for example, like that's that's one that I can think of bunnies animals, which is um

All of that like why are we making those things sexy? It's like What about being dressed up in a maid costume with a duster? Is like that really Gets my go, you know, like that really gets me going like why? Um, that's a really good question actually like I'm thinking of mean girls when she's like Halloween is the one time of year that you know girls can dress like a slut and And can't get hated on for it. And it's just like why? I think about the things that I wore in college and the costumes and I'm just like first of all

If I had a daughter and she wore those costumes, I would immediately be pissed like I literally wore something from Victoria's Secret one time like a lingerie piece from Victoria's Secret for Halloween and like I thought it was a good idea. First of all, I remember 8th grade 8th grade I wore like a

Like a pirate situation It didn't even fit well So I was like fuck this and I put sweats on my friend dressed up as a bumblebee And it was like a sexy bumblebee and I was just like what are we doing? Yeah, like but why are they sexualized like why is it like okay? Let's like skimp these out and also Let's make these ideas sexy. So like Think of other ones like a maid

doctors nurses um all the things and Any person that is listening to this that is ever dressed up in any of these costumes knows exactly what I'm talking about also I am the type of person that okay even superheroes for example, like I was robin one time for Halloween and will was Batman And I went and had my costume altered like to make it tighter and

Shorter and like all the things so it no you didn't cotton. I didn't have it altered Yes, I did so it was like custom fit because it didn't fit it was just like it looked like a A box when you put it on so I needed to have it like tailored so that I really looked the part and I'm like who Who told us that we need to be doing this on Halloween and like why? I don't know because the only time I went Halloween when I went trick-or-treating as a kid My mom took me once and I was fucking big bird So my mom wasn't putting me in sexualized costumes at all by any fucking stretch of the imagination

Um, wait, you only went trick-or-treat one time. Yeah, what were you doing on the other times? um I'm not sure. Were people coming and trick-or-treating at your house on the times you weren't trick-or-treating? No, so your mom kept the light off. Yes, my mom kept well, we never My mom we always lived in an apartment or like Two of our houses like one of the houses I posted on my instagram like the main living area was upstairs So people wouldn't Like we would just keep the light off because we would have to go downstairs to get the candy. Does that make sense?

Like to do the I don't know and then same for like my apartment when we lived in was up on the top floor So I think for that one Like the tenants downstairs put like a bowl of candy outside and like come get it yourself kind of thing um Yeah, so I can't remember ever like I don't remember I can't remember ever doing things for Halloween Except for the one time I was big bird My mom said she would never take me anywhere again because I threw up you threw up Yeah, I threw up from too much candy

I'm assuming. Oh bless. I'm sorry. My mom never she literally held that. She was like, yeah, you're never going anywhere again And I never did um At least no that makes me so sad. Well, that's why I'm a Grinch now That's what you should dress up for Halloween actually speaking of Halloween. I actually hate it I know I know you do But the kids love it the kids really do love it. Well, I just hate the whole idea like I I love fall stuff, but like Hate Halloween like I don't like what it stands for. I also

just Like if we want to get candy, why do we need to go door to door to like get the same thing that we can just get at Target like that just makes no sense to me um I don't care to see trick-or-treaters like call me a Grinch if you want to like I really just like don't care to see them um I'll put candy out on the porch if one person takes the entire bowl like literally don't care um

I just hate it Literally don't care I I don't care. Okay. Um another thing that I'm gonna tell you what my inspiration is for this Once you answer the question. Okay. What are your thoughts about people who wear sunglasses inside? I hate it. I hate it I hate it. I hate it. I hate it. I hate it. I think it's so corny I don't understand it. It pisses me off and it should not get under my skin the way that it does

It should not get under my skin the way that it does but it does if I see someone inside with sunglasses on I immediately cringe and I'm like, what are you doing? No, literally and like at what point did someone tell you that you needed to wear those inside? Okay First of all, I hate sunglasses on men anyway, like I just don't love the look like even if they're nice sunglasses I'm just like be blind. Like I don't care, but like I don't like them on you and Outside of not liking sunglasses just in general on men

If they're wearing sunglasses inside, I immediately hate that Well, I know men and women that wear sunglasses inside and it makes me So crazy and I don't understand it. I also am not an avid sunglasses wearer Which I should meet either which I want to be and I should be and I got my prescription in a pair of radians um For that reason, but I actually don't like sunglasses in general because I don't like talking to people that have sunglasses on And I cannot see their eyes. I just hate sunglasses actually in general And like I have really blue eyes

And I don't wear them outside in the sun like I wear baseball hats all the time But I literally never wear sunglasses. Like you won't catch me in sunglasses I'm gonna play devil's advocate here on the sunglass topic on inside. I'll tell you I am a sunglass wearer inside certain places Why because Don't do it around us. I can't help it Like the lights that are in like offices. I forget what they're called like how not halogen lighting. Um fluorescent fluorescent lighting triggers my migraines so bad Like very quickly. So if I have to be inside of a place that has fluorescent lighting for a long time

I wear sunglasses inside. Okay, but so we hate you. Yes And I feel no shame the end I just don't understand why I like at what point did you start doing that because like that wasn't something that you've done for forever No, when I realized that that was a huge trigger for me like for my migraines. Um That's when I started. I was like, well, let me see if this works And it'll like make me able to go grocery shopping without wanting to off myself by the time I get home and have like A terrible day for the rest of the day with migraine. Okay. So everybody that's listening to this

I need to know if you are a sunglass wearer inside and if you are Immediately correct yourself. I just I hate it. I think it's douchey um When I see because I view that as like someone trying to be cool Well, call me queen dish Like trying to be cool or like you smoked a little and you're like, oh, I've got to wear sunglasses because I'm high and it's like If you're an adult, we probably don't care Yeah, and like I have I have seen a couple of people in my personal life wearing sunglasses inside

Not to call them out, but suburban dad and todd chrisley. Um And I'm just like, what are what the hell are you doing? So there there's my Feelings on that. I just needed to let everybody know Okay, so I just went on instagram live and you were on it Everyone was like, what are you doing with your hair and at the time? Obviously, I just didn't have time because I was getting on other podcasts But I just got the conair smooth wrap hairdryer. So as soon as we get off the podcast I'm going to go use it to finish out my look for the day because I'm going to football after this

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So this is your secret. This is what you've been using Well, and I know that you've talked to me about not having a whole lot of volume So this will definitely help give you the volume that you're looking for. Oh, see now. I definitely have to try it Yes, again, so now I know what you've been buying off amazon Obviously, this is where you got the infinity pro by conair smooth wrap hair dryer. So So now I'm gonna have to go and buy it. Thank you again for influencing me I'm super excited because I just feel better when my hair looks better and it's giving you such like Sleek healthy looking hair and then I feel good about the day, you know what I mean?

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uh I Was highly alarmed when she sent it in our group chat Meant to talk about it last week and I still like keep watching it over and over again And keep thinking different things every time I watch it. So which one is it the amish one? Oh I followed him. He has almost a million followers on tiktok. Mm-hmm I

I keep watching it like over and over again. He hold on before you play it christen I just watched one of his newer videos and because he left the amish um His mom only lets him visit for like 15 minutes once a year Um, but this last visit that he did with his mom He you know puts on the amish attire with the hat and things like that and the collar buttoned all the way up Um, she's not like a flat collar. He talks about how you know, he he wants to respect her values and her wishes So when he goes to visit her, you know, he tries to be respectful of the amish community and things like that

And I do appreciate that And he said that she let him visit for a whole hour And then he was like, all right, y'all like I'll keep you updated for next year's visit um, and I thought that was so like crazy to me, but like, you know, that's normal for him and um, it's really cool because There's a ton of amish here. So like the amish worked on my house. They put up my siding. They'll probably do stuff for my pool They did basketball court stuff And so seeing it from his perspective now that he's not part of it is so interesting to me

But this one is a little crazy Is it true that some amish men have sex with animals? Yes Now I'm glad you said some because not all amish are this way majority are very good people But new order amish seem to have sex education Well, the old order amish where I come from they do not and that would be why at the end of your question You said I was curious as to why well, I can tell you because of lack of sex education We simply didn't know how to react when we turned teenage years

I can speak from personal experience that when my hormones started changing puberty hit I had some very wicked things that went through my head because I was trying to figure out why And I heard from my buddies. Hey, did you know it works this way? So with my own eyeballs guys I saw four different of my buddies. I'm not gonna mention no names family members They were caught in sex acts with animals when I'm was with a Guernsey cow another one was with a little calf Another one was a sheep guys It does happen because the simple fact that there's no sex education If they would teach the dangers of it the diseases of it the pregnancy

I thought little babies came from heaven in the middle of the night when angels come down and give me another brother or sister When you're taught that you don't know any better. See that's very dangerous Because if you were open to it and taught those dangers Then they would be afraid to do such a sexual disgusting act to an animal And also that is why a lot of them do that to their own sisters where incest happens I actually googled before I answered your question this morning and I found multiple incest and animal sex stories on google Where an Amish man in 2017 two brothers actually were arrested It leaked out to the outside law enforcement and they were arrested for having animal sex

uh, it does happen and Only if you get busted where law enforcement gets a hold of it a lot of it gets hidden underneath the old order Amish church They make it go away. They forget and forgive and move on. I know a pastor in my Amish church Well, he got busted and confessed of standing on a five-gallon bucket behind a cow. You know what happened? It does happen, but sadly We only know of a few it happens a lot and I saw it with my own eyeballs that it was happening And it's it's really been alarming the number of ex Amish that have left the Amish that share stories with me Where they also did it themselves and witnessed themselves of other having animal sex and also with their own

Family member sisters sometimes very young and it's uh, it's something that needs to be uh discussed and and uh They need to get resources in place and that's what we're trying to help them do But unfortunately they they're they're unwilling to work with former Amish or even Amish rescue mission So therefore it's just gonna continue How do you feel? I have so many thoughts about it because I feel like It's so wrong. Yeah. Yeah, and the The lack of education

And the fact that it seems as if it's I don't want to say normalized but like kind of like normalized That's just like something that happens in that community. That to me is terrifying and why A church would cover up these types of acts Instead of educating. Yes, that's the part that I don't understand We know it's wrong The adults in the Amish community know it's wrong But I guess they don't have an alternative either. So it's like if there's a problem you have to be

Solution oriented and if they're they're completely against say masturbation or um Sex and things like that these teenage I'm gonna Direct it more towards boys Are having these raging hormones and they have no alternative or no um Other option like I guess they don't have another they don't have any other Solution but to cover it up, right because they don't provide other options or solutions for these kids

it would have to be Normalized in that community to an extent because where are they learning to do this? like to me that's just like not a natural thought process of having raging hormones and then being like Okay, I'm going to go Do sexual acts to an animal? I guess like my other thing is We know that's all wrong. We know the incest is wrong And if they feel like masturbation is wrong or you know The education part of it. What is the lesser of the two evils because they're all wrong

So I would rather give my child the education and understanding that you know here You can masturbate then to go fuck an animal to me That makes more sense. It's the lesser of the two evils, right? And I'm just I don't know for sure if it's against Amish religion or not I'm just saying if that is the case We would pick the lesser of the two evils, right? Like I don't want, you know, the little sister Or the sister in general the animals to be harmed and like that's so, you know

Traumatizing for everybody. So why not just give them the option to matter if it's it's all wrong if it's all against their religion Like it just seems like a no-brainer to us Well, to me It's just I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that Ignorance it's truly To me to not educate Your children properly that is when things like this when it becomes normalized in the community a church covers it up That's why you have a history of things like this happening

Incessual relationships like where was that normalized along the way? That's really fucking sad It's really sad because then they grow up and then it just continues because it doesn't ever get corrected But you think about truly what came to mind was the duggers even though they're not Amish but it is groups of people That use religion to cover up acts like this that should not be normalized and are just very wrong

Yeah, and that's like, um What was it called on I feel like it was on netflix and I talked about it years ago I think the keepers or something which was like the catholic religion in baltimore um, they use religion and then it gives christians and and you know religious people a bad name because That's what people remember. You know what I mean, and it's not really fair Well, and I think about what was that one? um show that we watched about

that guy who Said that he was like a god or whatever and they lived on that compound and the wake-up one Yeah, the wake-up one like I think about all of these groups of of people who You know almost like cult like Things like you see stuff happening like this in religious cults. Mm-hmm. Yep, which is just terrifying and you know I do want to say that when You are not taught better

You don't know to do better right and so that to me is sad because then you have Kids out here that are making these decisions because it's been normalized in a sense in the community that they live in and there is no Formal training to educate these kids to do better So then at what point? You know, do you say okay? Well, it's not really their fault But at the same time you look at the stories and you see things like this come up and you're like, okay That is just fucked up

It's like that guy knew it was wrong But I guess like If he was a child in the community, you know when this was going on What was he gonna do? He was gonna tell an adult and they were just gonna cover it up like there's not really It has to come from the higher ups. I would guess in What he's saying is the higher ups were covering it up through the church But but I don't understand it. I don't understand it I would I wish I could talk to this guy because

I don't why cover it. Why not give them here master bait instead? Like I don't I do not understand it. I don't get it either. That has to be A healthier option of the sins if that's what it is I don't know if anyone who is listening is Amish or If you give us or ex Amish if you could give us any insight on this, I would love to know Um, you had mentioned Adam Levine earlier and Um, Kristen actually came across a tick tock this morning and sent it to me And so I want to play it because I was

Freaking mind blown. Did you see it? Um, I did see the tick tock. I did I did. Um, I actually saw the stitches all the stitches. I didn't see the original I have a lot to say Um, just about relationships in general once everyone listens to this essentially I was having an affair with a man who's married to a Victoria's secret model at the time, you know, I was Young I was 90 and I mean quite frankly. I feel exploited. I wasn't in the scene like I am now So I was definitely very easily manipulated. We're in five is practically

Elevator music at this point. So I'm sure you know who Adam Levine is Um, but Adam and I were seeing each other for about a year after I stopped talking to him over, you know, a period of months This is uh How he came back into my life. He said, okay serious question. I'm having another baby and if it's a boy I really uh, want to name it Sumner. You okay with that? Dad serious Um I was like, I'm in hell like I have to be in hell at this point I mean my morals were unknowingly compromised. I was completely manipulated and you know this privately

I never wanted to come forward because obviously I know the implications that come with doing what I do making money The way I do and being an Instagram model Um, so being tied to a story like this. It's like I know the stereotypes I had sent Um, I had sent some screenshots recklessly to a few friends I thought I trusted and one of them had attempted to sell to a tabloid, um So here I am Okay, I did not see the original. I only saw the stitches

But I got the gist of it. Um And maybe this is because of my time in the public eye and maybe because this is my Trauma from being on reality tv But why does the screen clout to me like she she wanted to put this out there? Like you could have taken your demons to the grave and just said, uh, Yes, I feel manipulated, but also I had a hand in this but also, you know Why did she feel the need to go public about this? I also felt that way. Um

And to reference, you know, I am an Instagram model So I know what it means to be tied to a story like this. Let's be honest. You being tied to a story In a cheating allegation with adam levine Is going to do nothing but help you. Yeah, you're gonna gain some haters, but clout chase Um, but it's also going to ruin her chances most likely if I had to guess. I don't know this for sure Any other celebrity who would want to fuck with her or like Befriend her is not going to trust her now

Well, no, and then to be like posting screenshots of the private messages on tiktok um, you know Have some personal accountability and realize that you need to read the room You knew that he was married when you were doing what you were doing for an entire year. So In my opinion Should he have been doing what he was doing? Absolutely not and he needs to take accountability for that Right, but he she didn't need to bring the public into it. She didn't need to bring the public into it

And also she chose to engage in that entanglement. So, you know, that's on her. I agree. I You know in therapy I learned Well, and my own experiences with you know, I've I've been through You know telling so and so that so and so cheated on them or you know, I've I've been in all that and it Did absolutely nothing for me except for ruin relationships and make me look messy and You know, I had a hand in it myself, you know So I that's why to this day like I'm very careful about I told Isaac

Try to follow bounty well here. So Isaac was telling me some drama about so and so kissed this person But she has another boyfriend and I said if you want to watch it from afar Isaac, I said, that's fine I said, but don't be spreading anyone's business. I said, don't go and tell so and so's boyfriend I said, don't tell this person don't I said, don't I said, it's none of your business and you're going to be the one that they end up hating I said, so don't get involved. You can watch it from a distance and that that's literally it And this is the same situation. So I just feel like she knew what she was doing But I think she was going to shoot herself in the foot because now

You've now ruined a mirror. He ruined his own marriage. Let's let's be clear about that. He fucked up big time But that was not for her to put out in the public in my opinion I would love to know Now that I have watched this What exactly he was telling her about his relationship with his wife that would have given her The confidence to remain in this Affair for an entire year

Did they actually have relations though or that was this all like well, so Adam Issued a statement and said a lot is being said about me right now and I want to clear the air I used poor judgment and speaking with anyone other than my wife in any kind of flirtatious manner I did not have an affair nevertheless. I crossed the line during a regrettable period in my life In certain instances it became inappropriate I have addressed that and taken proactive steps to remedy this with my family My wife and my family is all I care about in this world

To be that naive and stupid enough to risk the only thing that truly matters to me was the greatest mistake I could ever make. I will never make it again. I take full responsibility We will get through it and we will get through it together. Um, I think this is a cover your ass statement, I think that There's probably truth on both sides hers and his to a degree This goes back to what we were talking about last week that when you put yourself In situations that you were flirting with someone That you are in a committed relationship in this situation and a marriage

It probably started with flirting which led to something else. Um, it's wrong. It's wrong. He is wrong And I think that it's amazing that um, you know, I have had a front row seat to many people situations And men typically when they get caught doing stuff like this say, you know, you're the only thing I care about Kids are the only thing I care about. I was naive. I was stupid. It was a mistake It was all of these things But this statement to me is just a cop out for what he did and a way to downplay What he was engaged in till you think he downplayed it. I do

See, I don't I don't know if he downplayed it. I think I don't know It doesn't sound like they actually had any like she's claiming it's an affair, but Just like an it isn't a fear because it was an emotional affair Even if it wasn't a sexual affair. Okay. It isn't fair Yeah, no, and it's still wrong. Of course. It's wrong. But for some reason I feel like she made it seem more like a sexual affair, which Both are both are horrible. Um, to me I'm going to go out on a limb here and say not that I would ever want to be cheated on

But if I was worse To me an emotional fear is worse than a physical one because if someone is just Using another piece of ass to, you know, do whatever That's one thing but to be emotionally invested in someone else. That's a whole another thing and to me That is just something that I like maybe couldn't get over. Yeah, I agree So I do believe even if it was not sexual It was an emotional affair for what was going on and it was something that he should not have been engaged in Um, and he's wrong. Yes, agreed. I can't disagree with that at all. So there's that

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And what goes into it besides sitting down to record for an hour a week? Um That to me just like makes me laugh and sometimes I take such a fence when people are like, oh, you're just a Podcaster like you just do this You know one time a week and that's your only obligation to your work life and I wish It's really hard. Um, especially Just to plant we have to plan everything out. I mean

This year we were I know for a fact we were supposed to do like four content shoots And then, you know, my mental health declined and everything else like we have to have content We have to keep things fresh. We can't you know, if we get stale even a little bit people will drop like flies Um, and then we have to be very careful with The criticism because if we get too political, we're wrong. If we don't get political enough. We're wrong Um, just the differences of opinions instead of people understanding that we work together despite our differences of some opinions Um, we get attacked for them. Um, you know, we've been in this for five years and this is the first time we've ever been nominated for any type of awards, which is a big deal for us and

um, just trying to the algorithms and trying to stay up to The standards of like what society wants for content what they want to watch what they like to watch. I did um A podcast with Perez Hilton and he was just saying like how hard it is for people to still to stay relevant today in The society that we live in because there's always somebody new going viral every single day And if you don't work really fucking hard to stay in the spotlight and to stay relevant People do not give a fuck what you have to say because the next person is going to take off on tiktok or instagram And so I don't think that people ever really think about that part of it is like we constantly have to The plan for that

and for You know podcasting as a whole. I think that people look at it as oh They just get on this mic. They talk for an hour a week Shoot the shit and nothing else is going on behind the scenes and I can tell you I'm not going to tell you what project that I am working on. I told Kill about what we were going to engage in right before we started recording. So she's aware But there's been a lot of behind-the-scenes stuff going on with A podcast crossover that we are going to be doing with coffee combos

um That is a big project and it takes a lot of time trying to plan And the content around that trying to plan for photographers for videographer um When you do large crossovers like what I'm referencing there's a lot a lot of work that goes in the behind the scenes and Like keel was talking about keeping the content fresh like With both of us having multiple shows keel has three podcasts

coffee combos Started and then the second one baby mamas and then her personal one barely famous And then I have coffee combos and my second baby the southern tea Trying to diversify content Between those shows and making sure that there is Not a ton of crossover there Is a lot of work and to feel like There's so many people that are getting into podcasting now when we got into it five years ago

It was so new and they're just there were podcasters that were podcasting before us But in the reality tv space not a ton and so Now seeing so many people get into the business and feeling sometimes like okay Everybody thinks they can have a podcast it feels oversaturated um How to stay above all of that and to not get in the weeds of being like okay You know everybody's doing podcasting now. What makes me different? That's something that I struggle with a little bit, but I can tell you I don't listen to podcasts

So and I've I've maintained that from the beginning like I don't I know you do keel and And christen probably listens to podcast and whatever I don't like to get It ideas or for anything to imprint on me from other shows. So I just choose not to engage in that I don't know I also just want to touch on like When it comes to content shoots and things like that like we are not physically able to do it by ourselves And so then on top of

This is a job like I think people don't realize that this is a career That for us we have made this our careers and so we had to hire christen to help us Plan these content shoots. What are we going to get while we're on these content shoots? What places are we going to go? We have to clear the locations. We have to Know exactly what is going on in the algorithm on tick tock on instagram right now instagram does not give a fuck about still images They want everyone to be making reels. So for our next content trip That's something that we have to consider when we're doing the planning for the content is like In order for people to continue listening to us

We have to keep up with that stuff and also if we ever want to get new listeners And we want to be seen or we want to go viral so that we can get our podcast out there Those are things that we constantly have to watch and you know, christen does a great job at doing that and shout out to christen Um, if it wasn't for that, we wouldn't know what the fuck we would be doing You know what I mean? So I think and just taking in all the feedback from everybody because We're not going to be able to make everybody have it's a lot of work And I don't think that people understand that well and the last thing that I want to touch on with this is that when you're in business with a friend or

Business with family because I have done both and I'm doing both um That is a whole nother obstacle as well because you want to maintain Your friendships or your relationships with your family But sometimes in business you disagree on things and so that can make things hard And that's a whole other challenge that I think that people just don't know about because We don't talk about that, you know, like for me. I love a beautiful picture and for kyle not so much She's like, I want to, you know, be with the trends. I want to, you know, do this. I want to do that

and I think over time we have Learned to really respect each other for our strengths and kyle has different strengths than I have And I have different ones than she has and just like riding with that That's not something that we've always been able to Do since we started this business um

so There's a lot that goes into it that people just don't see and when you're meshing personalities and Trying to effectively do something. That's not always easy either. I'm right. No 100 percent 100 percent So with that being said, um, we have time for one foul play Okay, let me Hi girls. I don't have social media. So I'm not sure if this is the right avenue for my foul play But here you go. Last weekend my boyfriend and I engaged in some extra curricular backdoor action Like kyle, I suffer from some IBS symptoms and after anal sex the next three days or so are extra sketchy

Fast forward to monday morning. My boyfriend gets up and asks me if I need the bathroom before he gets ready for work I say no I had barely woken up at that point and didn't realize my stomach was doing gymnastics after the homemade chili cheese steak sandwiches we had the night before I'm also lactose intolerant and eat way too much cheese. Wow. This she is this me. I feel like this is me Did you write in As he goes to shave and shower in the only bathroom we have I go to the kitchen and start grabbing things to pack his lunch Wow, she's a nice girlfriend

I open the fridge and my stomach starts to gurgle. I stop and clench waiting for it to pass When the relief happens, I continue over the counter with some sandwich makings and it immediately hits again This time so hard that I grabbed the counter and went backwards Willing my butt cheeks to hold back the disaster when a little relief came I carefully waddled down the hallway and asked if he was almost done as I heard the shower He said he was and I stood in the hallway as wave three hit and I almost cried out in panic At that point I had heard the shower shut off and I thought it was clear next thing I know I heard the sink start as he started brushing his teeth the moment lava started filling my favorite pair of shorts

Oh, no I prayed my shorts would contain the liquid monster as I made my way to the back door Which couldn't doesn't have a porch and swung my butt out the door in full squab At that moment I look up and see my boyfriend staring at me from the hallway with a smirk on his face And he'll go away I don't want to talk about it He laughed and went to the bedroom and I kicked my shorts out the back door and ran to the bathroom to clean up and hide my shame He came to the bathroom to where I was in the shower and asked if I was okay before he left for work

I was mortified fast forward to today and I've heard the third joke about shooting out the back door this week He's a good man and thinks it's funny. However, I'm not looking forward Never living this down. So I figured I'd share my story publicly if they get married He's gonna tell this story at their wedding Oh, he's gonna tell the story at the wedding and also I have a couple of just like things that I need to say about this one the butt sex like

You must engage in this very regularly to know that the next three or so days are extra sketchy good for you not My thing and I'm not trying to like go that avenue So like good for you for that. Also good for you for Really loving your man enough that you know that you have IBS and you still do this um I love that for you outside of that good for you for making him a sandwich for work

also Any person that has ever been in a dating situation and you start having sleepovers And you're just like, okay, they're gonna go home and then I'll be able to like shit in peace like Yeah, I have Been there before and felt that before So I feel like she just was like in a losing situation at this point and there was no choice

But for her to not only shit herself, but like also Shit herself outside Um, and I just hope things get better for her I also hope things get better for her We should really work on because I'm also lacked toes intolerant and I eat it anyway um Eat cheese dairy all the things and um, I just love it But we should work on that we should also work on getting our do we need colonoscopies?

Wait, what animal? Maybe we need colonoscopies. I don't know What was the thing that Courtney Kardashian did where she shoved that thing up her butthole that tube and then Kristen would know what is it called enema? That's called. Oh, I've done an enema. Yeah, the enema Yeah, maybe you guys should get enemas. Um on that note I've got actual shit to do So if you guys have not followed us on at coffee combos podcast on instagram follow us over there If you have not subscribed to the show you can do that from any podcast app I hope that you guys all have a great week and we'll talk to you soon. See ya

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