Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - School Breakfast and Chuck E. Cheese Pizza Was Lit

Episode Date: November 10, 2022

EP252: Kail's chaotic morning has Lindsie thinking about her favorite school breakfasts... They reminisce about how hard that Chuck E. Cheese pizza and salad use to hit. The conversation goes into whether or not you should teach your kids good restaurant behavior at an early age and when to potty train. Kail and Lindsie read some listener topics like daycare costs, wishlists for kids, and when to use the word "our" when speaking about a potential stepchild. Kail also brings up the Amish tiktoker and the latest craziest thing she has learned about the community. Lindsie shares her thoughts on the Jessica Simpson Pottery Barn commerical. For Foul Play, Lindsie wants to know who is still out here 69ing, and Kail relates to the heavy period flow struggles..  Thank you to our sponsors! Better Help: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/coffee today to get 10% off your first month Chime: Get started at chime.com/convos Clare: Go to clare.com/COFFEECONVOS for 10% off your order Everlywell: Visit everlywell.com/convos for 20% off an at-home lab test Green Chef: Visit greenchef.com/convos135 and use code convos135 to get $135 off plus free shipping Kiwico: Get your first month of ANY crate line FREE at kiwico.com/COFFEE

I hate gift-giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you This is coffee convos with Kale Lowry and Lindsay Chrisley. I really want you to be in your feels Kale That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you a spirited discussion about motherhood friendship Family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here Here's Kale and Lindsay We're going on a trip in our favorite rocket ship zooming through the podcast world Hello, Lindsay What was that? Are we recording? We're recording. We're on air. Good morning and welcome to coffee convos podcast

What you doing? I just want to warn you that you may hear Lux in the background. My kids do not have school today for election day Um, and so whether I was recording here or at my office Lux would have begged me to come with so He's doing a craft right here on my desk and so just want to warn you guys I'm gonna mute myself when I'm not talking Just a little bit chaotic today, you know, I Do not love a chaotic morning to be honest Like it's my least favorite thing in the world like if I could have chaos if I had to pick like where I wanted chaos in the day

It would be like midday chaos because I at least have time to recover from it before I go to bed But like I don't like starting my day or ending my day chaotically. Okay. Well, that's never gonna happen in my house It's always gonna be chaotic in the morning less chaotic in the middle and then always chaos at night Can you tell me specifically what? Breakfast looks like at your house. Oh, and it's never the same Some Some days we have like a nice good solid like formal breakfast in the morning and other times It's we're grabbing stuff in the car and I don't know what they're grabbing. So it's could be cheese. It's could be waffles

I don't know. It just depends. Whoa. Wait. What is like a Really good traditional Breakfast look like in your house. My kids though. They love scrambled eggs and bacon. Oh, so your kids are those type Yeah, okay. My son would murder me if I Scrambled eggs and put bacon on a plate. Why what does he like to eat?

Will thought that that was gonna make him bulk up for whatever reason. So I think he became traumatized from Eggs and bacon for so long that now that we're no longer married I feel like we'll probably still does that but then did I tell you about the time that will was cleaning out his truck? because they also were doing breakfast like on the go so eating on the way to school and Will was cleaning out his truck and in the back like little side pocket of the door He found all of these like hard-boiled eggs where Jackson had just like done a drop-off and then got out act like he ate them Who the fuck would what hard-boiled eggs? None of my kids would eat that will he hard-boiled eggs and then

Just like gives him to Jackson to eat in the morning. I don't know if he still does that I don't know what goes on over at his house But I specifically do more of like sweet breakfasts, which is probably not like the most healthy option But I live by as long as they're eating and they're getting something that's better than not eating and getting nothing and so we do Cinnamon rolls typically this time of year when it starts getting like a little bit cooler in the mornings will do cinnamon rolls Definitely on the weekends. If I have time, I'll do it like on school days, but I'm a big like oatmeal Hot breakfast person. I love for him to have a good hot breakfast a little bit of fruit

A glass of milk or a glass of orange juice and then out the door My two of my kids have breakfast at school and it's free and I It's weird because none of my other kids had that but where they go to school for Spanish immersion. They have free breakfast So if Lincoln and Lux don't eat in the morning, I'm not concerned at all. Actually speaking of that I used to love school breakfast when I was growing up. I didn't have school breakfast It wasn't an option for me. It was the best thing ever like their breakfast I don't know if it was just my school. I hope people back me up whenever they hear this But I would much rather have had school breakfast than school lunch like pack pack me lunch

But let me eat school breakfast. Okay. Okay, I can see that because I feel like I don't know breakfast is more There's I don't know. It's like more flexible, but like school lunches are Like the cheapest of cheapy cheap. Oh god. Do you remember those like rectangular pizzas? Yeah Like do you remember they they fit like perfectly in the tray? Yeah, I do remember that I do remember that That's probably what's wrong with us. I had free lunch at school up until high school Because my mom obviously was poor and then in high school my friend Ariel She paid for my lunch every single day. My high school had well

I went to two high schools my first high school They had every option for school lunch like they had a soup line They had a sub line. They had a hot lunch line like they had everything and it was always so good So I have zero complaints on that but My second school they served dominoes on Fridays and like shit like that So like high school was way different than like elementary and middle school lunches Honey at my elementary school when you got in fourth grade you were allowed to do the potato bar and like I

got a potato every day and and absolutely loved it so much and I Sometimes wake up craving the elementary school potato bar. What is what is a potato bar include? Well, it just includes like potatoes like baked potatoes and then Like all the toppings that you would put on it so had like butter and sour cream and cheese and chives and Bacon bits and like just like all the shit and people like that. Well, I don't know if other people were getting it But I was I just don't know like of all things that a school could have done like why a potato bar like that's so weird

You know something else. It's like really disgusting that I'm about to out myself for what oh god Like I can't even believe that I'm saying this. Okay Um Chuck E cheese people make fun of their pizza all the time and like their salad bar, but like I specifically Love it. Oh, they used to have the best pizza. They don't have a good pizza anymore. It's disgusting Oh, I love their pizza so much. No, they changed it. The old pizza was lit People say it's like cardboard pizza, but like I absolutely love it and I also love a salad bar anywhere And it's probably like the worst thing for you Um, no telling like what type of E. Coli is going on there, but oh, yeah, I don't care

Ruby Tuesday has the best salad bar and I don't care. I will forever go there I don't even goes to Ruby Tuesdays, but they're fucking silent bar is lit What it's so good that you guys can't hear Kristen, but I know she's backing me up on this one like what do they have at it? Everything they have literally everything. You know what pisses me off people who put cherry tomatoes on their salads Like that pisses me off cherry tomatoes in general are foul Who decided that was a good idea who decided to grow those those are so disgusting Cherry tomatoes grape tomatoes tomatoes in general red tomatoes green tomatoes yellow. I don't care. They're disgusting Red tomatoes are not a thing. What are you talking about? I hate tomatoes in general like I don't like them

I just hate them. Mm-hmm. I have a really funny story and I'm gonna post the video on my Instagram when this episode airs but we were in my garage and Jackson started pulling out shoes that were like bought for him that were just too big like does other bombs do this where You see something that you like but you just like bite too big and then like they'll eventually grow into it, right? Yeah, all the time So I do this with shoes and stuff. So he goes upstairs and it's basically like he's just like shopping at a mall in his Closet because he's pulling out stuff. He's never worn and it like now fits So he put on some fresh Jays. They didn't even have a crease in them like so fresh

he pulled out another pair of Jordan's the next day and We went to go and get sushi and I told him I was like you need to hurry up and put your shoes on like you literally Really move the speed of smell like you were moving so slow And I said just put on those crocs and he's like I really love my crocs and I Love them so much But I would never wear them to school Just like it wouldn't be something that I ever thought of doing and I shouldn't even think of doing it Because my school doesn't let you wear crocs there, which I don't really understand

They say that it's dangerous because if you had like a fire drill or something and you had to run Then crocs would be dangerous and I'm like, oh really and I'm acting like I'm like super invested in this conversation Every mom knows like that move of like, oh, yeah, like tell me more First of all, you can put them in sport mode. So whoever said that is trifling ma'am Literally I fell out in my garage because he goes but I don't understand like Why the school thinks that because do you see this strap right here? And then he literally flings that strap back puts it on Takes off from the garage into the driveway and he goes. Did you see that my crocs didn't go anywhere because they were in sport mode

period Say it again Jackson First of all who created sport mode and like why do y'all call it that I don't know I don't know but my My post Malone crocs are you can only wear them in sport mode But they're like heavy-duty crocs like they're just like a special edition and so when I wore them to football Someone was like damn kale like you really got those in the official sports mode And I'm like, I fucking know like I don't know who came up with that term I don't it's probably a tiktok of some sort. They should probably get a

Royalty of some sort, but yeah, and speaking of crocs I wonder if the person who because they like went out of business for forever or whatever and then the person who like did the Jibbitz thing. I'm pretty sure she was on Oprah I wonder if both of like who owns them now and are they like kicking themselves in the ass Okay, they came back crocs came all the way back first of all I'm not trying to be a croc hater because like I really like don't hate them I think they're so cute on little kids and I think the theater me a great alternative to you know, just

Just regular shoes or whatever if you're just like bunking around like your house or You like need to like just slip on something real quick to like check your mail or like take out the trash That's great. And honestly as we're sitting here saying this I'm in the process of making Christmas list and I'm going to personally by myself a pair of white crocs because To me that's the cleanest like most stylish pair that you can get Um, I might buy even some of those little things that you stick in it to like decorate it But I don't love crocs. Like I would never just like be out

Wearing crocs like at Marlowe's on a Monday First of all, what the fuck is Marlowe's and second of all Don't put them in your dishwasher because they will shrink in the steam Don't mind in my business because I know that you're minding my business about me washing my shoes in a dishwasher I'm just telling you that you will waste money if you put them in your dishwasher because they will shrink I think that's actually true. I did that to a pair of Birkenstock brand Brand ones like a little bit ago and I've kind of like kind of stretched them a little bit back out But they they do feel like a kind of a little bit short

So I'm gonna tell you that's correct Marlowe's is a tavern by the way And I'm pretty sure it's like a chain that might be just in georgia or just might be like local to my area Not very sure. Um, but I love going to Marlowe's. It's the best. They've got great food. They've got great mojitos They've it's just a great vibe. I'm just saying I'm not going to be strolling up at Marlowe's on a monday and crocs like now Platform Uggs. I did wear platform Ugg slippers to Marlowe's last night Coffee Conlos podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. BetterHelp is awesome because they're super convenient access online

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So you can get unstuck with better help learn more and save 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com slash coffee that's better help H-e-l-p.com slash coffee What is Marlowe's? I don't know what Marlowe's is. It's a tavern It's like a tavern like a a place where you go to eat and get drinks like a restaurant But it's a tavern We don't have those here Like you you don't even have fun right now

Like I feel like I don't have to just be out having fun and I'm just like at the local taverns and like you're just not No, I have too many kids for that like it's just for me to go out and then for me to come home It going out is not fun because I don't know Like if even if I'm out like like I'm not a drinker you guys know that But even if I don't drink and I'm out late getting up early with four kids is a different kind of like Dysfunction that I just can't like I need my full I need to sleep as much as possible because I already suffer from insomnia So going out and then coming home and then having to wake up at the ass crack a dom with kids is not a good time for me

So I just don't go out like if people want to come visit me and come stop by my house for a couple hours And then they go out perfect. That sounds good See you and I are opposites. I've got a couple things to say about this So I don't know what the life is like to be a mama for because I was actually thinking about you the other day when I picked up Sushi to bring home for Jackson and I for dinner It was like I picked up two rolls and one soup like that's not realistic for you And I think about like how much food it takes to feed those kids and just like how Chaotic it would be to be a mama for and I just don't

I can relate to motherhood and certain things of raising a boy But multiples and that way like I'm not the best person to ask because I don't freaking know That's first and my kids don't None of them eat the same things. So like me going out to get like sushi would never be a thing because Well, none of my kids eat sushi. That's number one Okay, well, here's what I do with Jackson I have started because I allowed him to be like a super picky eater when I was married And I don't really know why I was doing that. I just I allowed it for whatever reason

I was like, I just have one and we're home all the time anyway. So like who really cares I'll just make everything that he likes but now I found myself in my singleness And doing things on my own where I want to go to a restaurant And he's with me and I'm like, okay, we're going to go to this restaurant But you're going to find something on this menu

That you'll eat like you don't have to love everything that's here But you need to try something and you need to find something that you like because I pride myself on The fact that I am a picky eater But I can go to pretty much any restaurant and find something on the menu that I'll eat So I'm dedicated that I sometimes don't I just don't find something Um, and my kids all my kids are the same way So I also wouldn't take like I can't remember the last time I took my kids to a restaurant I would take my

Older to and then sometimes lux but like for me, I wouldn't take creed to a restaurant He's two and it's just not now that I'm a mama for and I have the experience that I have I would not there's things that I just won't do and I know that people give me backlash on You know, they never see creed in pictures and this that in the third But it's just because I've learned over the time I'm I'm not going to stress myself out taking a two-year-old to my route to a restaurant He is very well behaved when he needs to be and when he wants to be but I'm not When he's five, I'll take him but I'm just not going to go to a restaurant with all my kids either

like that's the other thing so I would love to switch lives with you for like What what's the other side of it? I feel like there's two sides to that because any mom who's listening to this is going to be like, okay They're going to fall on One or the other side. So you're going to have moms that are going to be like, no I'm going to force my kids to go and I'm going to struggle through their bullshit While I'm out eating because I'm not going to let them dictate

My life and what I'm going to do and I'm not going to be like an accommodating mom to that and they're going to learn how to like socially Um come correct to like a restaurant whatever then you're going to have the other moms who are like, it's not worth the fight I'm not doing it. I don't care if they don't know how to go to a restaurant They'll eventually grow up and learn now. It's just like not the time and I have been both of those moms Yeah, no and I have to like I I definitely I hear you and I can I could understand like where other moms would come from in the sense of like I'm going to teach them how to behave in a restaurant and things like that. But I don't think that um Like under five, I don't know that they and there are obviously kids that are so good in restaurants I don't know what Creed's attention span would be at a restaurant because we don't really go

But I also think that I could teach him that same those same manners in a restaurant when he's five and have more success with it So I I know I'm just I'm not talking about him right now. I'm talking about him when he turns five Um, and so like I've never really had a problem with my other kids in restaurants. So I just um I don't know like what works for whoever is fine. But for me, I'm not pulling my same thing with potty training I'm not pulling my hair out for You know six months to potty train and you know, they're not I'm not gonna potty train for six months and pull my hair out and stress myself out

Just to say he was potty trained at two two and a half. I'm gonna wait until he's fully ready And then I'm gonna potty train him in two days See, I'm in complete agreement with that and that was the method that I used with Jackson Um, I feel like when they're ready, they're ready now I mean, I don't believe that they should be five years old walking around shitting on themselves But like, you know, everything with limits But at the same time why stress yourself out like what clock are you working against like to be able to tell someone that My child was potty trained by the time they were two years old like congratulations for you

Like I'm glad that that worked for yours That was not the situation for me and I was not stressing myself out about it because I didn't care what anybody thought about it Same and honestly my kids didn't care I'm sure it's less stress on them, you know, like when they can be potty trained in two days and Or three days and they you know, they're they're not like I I knew somebody who like I'm not gonna mention names, but She would get so

Fucking frustrated with her daughter and she it was just like Just to watch it and to hear about it. And it's like if you're not asking for my advice. I'm just here for you to vent Um, and she would get so frustrated and I would just listen and I'm like in my head like She's not she's not ready. Like you you smacking her spanking her is not gonna change Her behavior doesn't smacking and spanking her isn't gonna stop her from pissing herself and Chitting herself actually right because she if she doesn't understand how to go to the bathroom She probably doesn't understand why she's getting hit Yeah, see okay, and then back to

The part where you said that you would just like rather people come and like hang out with you at your house Then go to like a restaurant or like meet someone out I feel the exact opposite of that actually because I like knowing whenever I come home I have control of My house and know that like when I come home It's because I wanted to come home and I'm ready to come home and I'm ready not to be around anyone And I have a big thing about like people over extending their welcome Um and just like not freaking leaving that sounds so rude, but like true

I also had that problem and I know that we've talked about it over the years like I've I've struggled with that in the past But now my visitors are very few and far between and I they're usually during the day They're not typically at night because I People know that I go to bed at between eight and nine like when my kids are in bed. I'm also in bed I love that wait. So we um had this question come in On coffee combos since we're talking on the facebook page, but since we're talking about um eating going out to eat it says Little backstory 15 year marriage. I stayed way too long five kids later

Um single for a year and a half working three jobs. I'm finally going on casual dates just to see friends have encouraged no hookups um The question is the men that I tend to date are pretty traditional with paying But I never assume and never go on a date for a free meal or drink If I don't have the money to cover my portion of the date, do I cancel? They've got to know money is tight if I have five kids and I'm working three jobs Um, I feel like there's a lot to be said about this. I mean, I think

I think it's very responsible of her to have that thought and to think like that I think um, she has the right mentality Because you just never know even though they are more traditional And I do think that if someone is okay going on a date with her having five kids They should know that money is tight. They should understand that and so I do think It would be okay to cancel if you don't have money or just simply let them know Hey, I don't have the funds the extra funds right now to go get dinner But you know, I get paid, you know next week or whatever or maybe in the next two weeks

And I may be able to do dinner then Um, and then they're either going to offer to pay or they're going to say okay And they're going to take you up on that, you know And I think that they'd probably be more respectful that you even considered You know that you could split the bill versus that assuming that they would pay for all of it So I feel like she's very she's it seems to be very responsible Is it I I love this for her that she Literally has thought this far in advance and like thinking of these things. I think that that is very responsible

Um, I just wanted to touch on the Never going on a date for a free meal or drink. I also would never go on a date for a free meal or drink Um, I have very limited time to myself and I'm not going to waste my time just Going to dinner with someone just so that I can eat for free and drink for free Um, just not a mentality that I have but I do know that a lot of people do do it and for me, that's just a time suck and and

quite frankly just like a Waste of time if I don't have any interest in you prior to Going on the date I'm not going to go just so that I can do that outside of that I do love traditional men and I Love the fact if a man is going to invite you on a date that He's going to pay for that and maybe

I agree, you know, maybe that's a wrong mentality in today's society. I don't know. It was how I was raised um, and typically the men that I have been on a date with which has been very few um, that is I don't want to say it's an understood. It's just I don't know that I've been on a date with anybody like a first date with someone and Them like not immediately pull out their card I

Like the idea of like a traditional they pay I've never gone out on dates Um, as we all know, I've talked about it a million times Um, I also feel like her a little bit in the sense that like I don't know that I would I don't like the idea of accepting Someone paying for me to do something because I constantly feel like I owe somebody something if they pay for my dinner Um, like a couple weeks ago. My girlfriend was like, hey, I really want to you know catch up and we can go get lunch on me Like I know you've had like a hard time blah blah blah

I was so uncomfortable with her paying for my lunch um, I don't I don't know See like I I want it to be traditional and I agree with what you're saying But I also don't know how to accept that like when you go out to dinner with somebody like and they pull out their card Like are you just like thank you for dinner? Like it's like what do you like honestly speaking? Like what do you say and how because I feel like I overcompensate to like I overthink them Like if they were to do something for me

Well, yeah, because it's like an uncomfortable thing like you feel uncomfortable with someone doing that and I love for anyone to know like okay I don't need you to do this for me But if you want to take me on a date and you want to pay Then like thank you so much for that and thank you for Like caring enough and being gentle a gentleman enough to do that um

I don't know that I and I mean maybe it's just like the type of men that I attract But I don't know that I have ever attracted a man that like wouldn't be willing to Pay for a date. So there's that um, I want to further this question Once you go on dates and then this dating situation turns into a relationship That point when you guys go out to dinner um and whatever is it more of like, uh

He pays one you pay one you split um This is going to be a situation that finances aren't combined like you you both have your own finances um You don't live together and you know, you're regularly going out to eat Do you pay one he pays one or do you split that's Well, and I do that with my friends like me and Kristen do that a lot like it because whenever we go get like our Disport and stuff

we always go to lunch after and Kristen and I will take turns and like I'm okay with me and Kristen doing it because that's my best friend um In a relationship like I also feel like I could be okay with that if it's If it's been a pretty decent amount of time, um, I'm okay with it um If it's me and Natalie same thing um, but

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And I also wanted to give an update on the amish guy that I talked about in previous episodes Because he came up on my timeline again Um, and people have asked so many things. So I'm gonna go down the list on the things that I needed to tell you about in case you haven't heard So the amish guy that we referenced before like in previous episodes. He did a tiktok. Um, and I saw it this morning Where he talks about incest Um, and I know the previous one he talks about Um, that we talked about on the podcast. He was talking about animals and like trigger warning. Um

Beastiality and stuff. So now there's another trigger warning for incest and he basically says That in the amish community, they cover it up by if someone is to you know, have incestuous relations Get pregnant other people in the amish community will take the baby They basically give the baby to other people in the community to raise to cover it up So that they don't have to deal with it and it goes away And he even says that like he he knows people that have Done this and they have no idea where the where the babies go

But they typically go to other amish communities in other states and other towns Um, and basically it never happened So I wanted to say all that because I thought it was very interesting and they'll do anything to protect the the amish community And make sure that like the outside Um police enforcement and things like that don't get a hold of it. And so I thought that was really interesting because I there's rumors of incest in the amish community, but I don't think that I've ever heard Someone that was in the amish community ever speak on it. So I wanted to give an update on that and we can post the tiktok on the instagram wait wait wait so

women get pregnant from incestual relations and then they take the baby at birth and then And put it in other communities Yes, so he describes one guy in particular who again trigger warning Was having relations with his daughter who had down syndrome And she she had I believe two children Um by her dad

And they gave the children a way to other amish communities see that to me I want to be very Um careful whenever I say this because I'm so triggered by that someone to take advantage of Someone with a disability in that way Um in an incestual relationship to get that woman pregnant and then to Strip babies from her the damage that is being done there is disgusting Um, I also think that it's really sad if Women are in a situation to where

incestual things are going on They become pregnant and then Their children are stripped from them at birth like the mental and emotional damage that is being done to those women is Sickening. Oh, I absolutely agree and it's not always a situation of incest where someone is You know mentally challenged or has, you know, a rare disease or anything like that. Sometimes it is like perfectly healthy Um, I'm trying to I'm trying to word this correctly

Um people and they still have their Children stripped of them. However in the same video, he also touches on the fact that the amish community will sometimes Grant cousins to be married Um, and he says that in the amish community Basically, like if you have relations with someone you're instantly married But if it's an incestuous relationship and you get pregnant, they will not Result in an instant marriage because they want to protect and basically hide that So that's why they wouldn't

Instantly marry a couple that has performed, you know incestuous Relations or acts or things like that. So um This guy has a lot of insight and I feel like he's raising awareness for the amish community But I mean there I'm sure there are so many good things. I have, you know, the amish have worked for me and they have Really really great things to offer as well. But it is it is very Sad and disgusting what goes on. I think um

The entire situation with the community saddens me because they're You can Be angered when you hear these things and feel Sad and like all of these different emotions, but also a lack of um education and Just general knowledge Is really really sad too. So the entire

Everything that we've discussed about this. It just truly does that in me Agreed Wait, um, no, you can't I got to tell you While we're talking about the amish, this is not about the amish, but it's a it's about a cult um That baby holly that we were talking about last week Someone sent me a message and said the parents of baby holly in texas were said to be in a religious cult of some kind um

She says not sure if they wanted to leave or what but the cult members ended up murdering the parents and taking baby holly And then she was left at a church in arizona where she was then adopted by a family Okay, so Wow, just goes back to everything that we've said Literally about religious cults like I cannot I don't even have words for that because I know I remember I said When I was reading that two women found her and placed her for they dropped her off at a church or whatever But I'm surprised the cult didn't like take her in themselves

I know the whole thing whole thing's weird, but I just wanted to give you an update on that like update um, okay, so Did you see jessica simpsons pottery barn and I did? um I didn't I just saw like people talking about it so I texted alexa and I was like Can you like Break this down for me because I don't know like what's going on. Um, is she okay?

So I don't know. I don't want to I don't want to say Like I know we don't want to jump to conclusions and like accuse her of anything, but It just seemed very It it did seem a little weird. Um, I think There's been a lot of things that I've seen pop up of jessica simpson that I've just been like weirded out by um, oh really? Yeah, just I mean videos um body language um

The way she talks I'm gonna say like I kind of am getting like a little bit of britney spear vibes Well, and that's what I was gonna say. It's like I'm not I'm not trying to be gossipy. I'm trying to Like I hope she's okay because I don't want to make the same mistake that um, I you know at first with the britney stuff I think people were like laughing At her almost laughing with her thinking that it was kind of like a joke and then it ended up being really Much more serious um, I don't think that people want to make the same mistake with just with jessica simpson. I just

Genuinely concerned because first of all, I love pottery barn and I did um, Lincoln's whole room in pottery barn teen um, I Seeing the video I was actually like really concerned and I'm actually surprised. I guess that pottery barn would release that well, so You know also the the way that she was talking as I was watching it I was like, well, you know, maybe she had been drinking or maybe there's like Some type of substance that's like involved about it. Um immediately whenever I saw it and because I follow her on instagram and

she actually spoke out um about the concerns for the video and And clapped back at the haters. I guess said that she's been sober for five years. So Um sober so she had a problem before yeah, she did so She had struggled and I I think her book's called open book I think um, I read it and it it talked about um her sobriety in there and kind of like her whole journey with that and And she said as much of as much as I have learned to block out destructive noise people's comments and judgments can still hurt deeply

Um, and she said most important thing that she had learned through the last five years without alcohol being a guard Um for escapism is that she can um, she can and will always get through it I think for me, um When I was watching it, I just very much got some Britney Spears vibes, but you also have to understand the amount of scrutiny that these women have been under throughout the years Um, just with being you know, pop stars or is that what they were called like pop stars? Um pop stars. Yeah struggling with body image stuff

Weight loss weight gain her becoming a mother Going through a divorce um dealing with substance abuse issues and then coming out of that and kind of like reinventing herself and coming back into I wouldn't say that she was ever really out of the public eye, but like making herself more present in the public eye now um, I think that there's a lot of things that people just don't

Realize that people battle with behind the scenes And to me this is one of those situations I don't know. I'm rewatching it right now And I don't I don't know that in I don't know like the first time I saw it. I was like, uh, that's weird Now I'm watching it over and over just to see And I actually don't think it's as bad as people are making it out to me. So I kind of I'm like, I'm gonna send it to you Um, I don't know. It doesn't now that I'm rewatching it. I don't think it's as bad Um, I know it's hard being in the public eye and you know, whether there is or isn't something going on

Um, I hope that she's okay and we can end it on that note because You know, Aaron Carter news is also really big in the media right now and that to me is so fucking heartbreaking Um, you know, I followed him. I had his album one of his albums when I was a kid and I had like Teenage heartthrob for real like I lived for him on losing a wire I actually saw his brother, um Nick when I was a teenager at the Beverly Hills Hotel He was at the pool and I was at the pool Um, with one of my younger siblings. It was either chaser savannah and like I just wanted to

Let you guys know that I did see him in person one time and I definitely fangirled and I just wanted to think I was hot in my bikini Um Yeah Big fan. Are you like talk to him? Yeah at the Beverly Hills Hotel pool Beverly Hills Hotel pool Oh my god. When I was a teenager, I love the Beverly Hills Hotel. Um, literally one of my favorite places, but Can't really afford it. Um, no, um

anyway, um So sad literally I'm I didn't know that he was a victim of his parents taking his money Oh, wait, I didn't know that Yeah, his parents were taking his money and there's in california. There's some sort of like Child star like rule that I think it was like two or 20 percent of their income has to go on an account It's called a kugan account. Yes. Thank you. Um, and They have to basically preserve that money or whatever they ended up taking the money and then he he talked about in an interview erin did

That um, the same day that his parents told him that they were getting divorced He did mtv cribs and he had to act like Everything was fine to to film the mtv cribs episode and he was like everything as I knew it was going to change like I And he described in the interview. He describes it as like all of that's going to go away And in my head when I was watching that I was like, how fucking sad because that's actually his money and his hard work Um, and I don't know if it was the same interview or a different interview where he talks about, um, You know, he's he dedicated over 20 years of his life to his fans And you know at the end they all kind of turned on him because he did struggle with addiction and

It broke my fucking heart like it literally broke my heart and I know that people were concerned He had been in TMZ lately. Um, you know with the back and forth with his with his son's mom I just the whole story is so heartbreaking and I know they already lost a sibling I think there was five Carter children and they had already lost one to Two addiction before I'm going to go back to what I was saying about Jessica Simpson Britney Spears Aaron Carter, I feel like when you reach a level of success and

You're making that kind of money essentially as a as a child and your parents are allowing you to do that work and You know, you're out here living what you think is your dream And then

they're literally robbing you behind your back. I couldn't even imagine what that would feel like, um, the amount of scrutiny, um, mental and emotional things that these kids And that type of business would have gone through It's so sad and it makes me really think like when I see young child stars now The writings on the wall if

You don't read a room and realize what's happened to all of these people It's just so sad and and you see it with Disney stars, Nickelodeon stars, um, So so sad and and it almost makes you wonder like were there underlying things that were going on mental health wise prior to them getting in this business or this business or

did This business caused them to have the amount of mental health things that are going on now because I do believe based off of some videos and stuff that I saw of Aaron Carter that he very much was struggling mentally and emotionally um, and I'll go out on a limb and say, uh, there's definite definite substance

stuff that Looks like that he was engaging in Also, I just want to touch on um, I'm gonna say allegedly for all of this Allegedly Aaron's parents, um, did this behind his back. It it's been floating around But I just want to correct myself because I don't want to spread more rumors um Allegedly, but I there's ticktocks. There's articles. There's all kinds of things that are saying that his you know, his parents did this and You know, the whole thing is so sad. I

I was a little shocked to find out what the addiction was I don't know if you know, I don't what it's allegedly huffing huffing air Compressed air wait, what? Yeah, I guess like, um, that's like a thing. It's like air aerosol cans, um, maybe like keyboard cleaner and stuff like that like huffing them Yeah, that was the addiction. He yes. Oh, wow. Wow, which is Is something I've never heard like I've never known anyone to ever do that and also Luxa spraying my plants. So if you hear any spray

Luxa spraying my plants for me um Alexa told me that it was big in the 90s like huffing really Yeah, um, which is I've just never I've never like I feel like that's a lot of work. Um, it kind of goes back Kind of goes back to the gasoline thing that I was telling you about like is that the same thing? Like people who enjoy like those types of smells or like is it an actual? No, I don't think so I just don't know like what would make someone I'm not judging at all I'm just genuinely curious like what would make someone try that and get

High off of it. Um, I don't I don't think it's the same as liking the smells of like permanent markers or gasoline or anything like that because I don't think like I don't I don't think it's the same I don't think because like I like the smell of nail salons, but like I wouldn't go in there and like huff it to get high or anything Um, but I wonder like did they just like pick up a can and they're like, let me try this like this is so I don't know. Um, oh It's just chemicals. I guess but that allegedly was the Addiction and allegedly he was found in a jacuzzi tub or a tub of some sort with compressed air cans nearby Um, allegedly so would that kill you? I just heartbreak

Well, I think being high and then being in the water Oh, okay. Okay. Yeah, I did see on TMZ I did see on TMZ where there was like some type of call where It was released which I just want to go out on a limb and say TMZ and some of the stuff that they release is just like so completely insensitive um In times that people are grieving. Um going through

extreme emotional Our mental struggle and some of the stuff that's released. I'm just like Who who clicked publish on that and like felt good about it, right? Like who because it was talking about 9-1-1 call or something saying that they were trying to administer some type of Narcotan or something like that. I don't even know what it's called, but Narcan. Yeah, and I guess that's used for Um bringing people back. Yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah, I just wanted it's TMZ. They don't um, They don't hold back on anything. It's kind of sad nothing I actually just sent Claire to somebody who is doing renovations at their home

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Just because we've gotten so many things in the facebook group recently that I don't want to get behind on it One of them was a scam of daycare It said a woman reached out to six to seven daycares and none had slots open and there was A wait list normal for two years um A thousand nine hundred and twelve dollars for one child and she has two I know that it's pretty standard that if you have more than one that there's a discounted rate for the second one But still like a little over 1900 dollars for one Kristen, correct me if i'm wrong

Did last year when creed and luxe were both in there. Did they get a discount? I don't think so No, I had two kids in daycare last year and I did not get a discount and I Paid tuition up front and I think the discount was 200 dollars for paying in full for the whole year. Wow Well, it says What are the alternatives when both parents need to work? And I think this is something that probably a lot of parents Deal with with like these wait list types of issues. I know my ex sister-in-law I believe she had put

Her son on a wait list for school And I think her sister-in-law had put a baby that wasn't even born yet on a wait list for school Ahead of them being born so that they were already on it for like two years before they went to start school Yeah, I asked actually before creed was born. I asked if I could do that and they said no Um, because I wanted to hold his spot. I've also faced that especially when I had Isaac as a single parent Um, you know, it was completely different. I there was wait list wait list wait list Um, absolutely insane. I I think the alternative is at this point Um, private nannies which are around some of them

I'm only going off my own experience. Some of them are relatively similar in pricing to daycares Um, or an out payer. I think um, I have a friend who She's actually just left Delaware. She moved somewhere else. She hired somebody from another country who That's what they do. Like they come from other countries and they do nanny services Um, and then I had met this woman in Dominican Republic last year when we went And if Natalie didn't want to work, you know, stay with my kids I was gonna have Rosario come here and um, I paid for her to get like her visa and stuff like that and um,

But it ended up Natalie ended up staying, you know with me and the kids So it worked out, but I think that's the only alternative But it's like I think people are afraid or maybe they don't think of those options as options Um, but they are out there and I definitely think that they are real real options I will say that um, when I first had Jackson and Will and I were like so newly married We didn't really have any money. Like we literally lived paycheck to paycheck and You know, there were times of the month where we had like $20 left to our bank account before he got paid on Friday and so they're just like was not money there to be able to afford anything and

You know, when I looked into daycare options It actually would have been more expensive for me to work than to just stay at home And I think that's why it's so hard for people to be able to get ahead because the cost of daycare and raising children is so high that It makes it very hard to be able to get ahead Well, it just doesn't it goes back to the whole situation where society, you know, this whole Mom staying at home is based on the ability of of their partner to be able to work full-time and provide Everything and that's just not the case in society anymore. Like we need two incomes, but then

One of them is truly going to childcare. So yeah, it doesn't it doesn't make sense and it's not I don't know. I don't know what the alternative is Um, this was also from the facebook group. It says let's talk Christmas, especially Christmas gifts from others I'm talking grandma grandpa Super close family is it rude to send out a wish list of items your child would actually play with not something that Aunt Karen ordered out of her as seen on tv magazine I've learned that my kiddos get toys that aren't age appropriate So they don't get played with or something that she's just not interested in or something that's just honestly an odd gift

I have a wish list that I've made Over the year and debated sending it out. Is this rude? I'd honestly prefer people to send me their kids wish list So I could buy them what they actually would want would want and would use I prefer that that's actually new to me. V was the one that first opened the Open my eyes to that where she was making vvs like Christmas lists and stuff like that through amazon. Yes, and I really agree with that I do have a cousin who is like you get what you get and you don't get upset But for me as a mom, I don't want her spending money on stuff. My kids are not going to play with for that

Just don't get them anything like yes, we are grateful that you even thought about us But I don't we don't I don't want the junk I don't want the clutter and I just for me send me your kids list that they're gonna I'm gonna pick something that they want or let my kids pick something from that list I would 1000% prefer that and Um, I think it's such a good idea. It is saving money for parents It's saving room and you know, I don't want to clean out junk You know three months after Christmas and it had never been opened with or played with but it's not

Do you get what I'm saying? I mean, I honestly feel like I I like to give meaningful gifts or gifts that um keep giving or Gifts that I know are Usable things that someone's like definitely gonna use or I don't go that route at all And then I'll just do gift cards, which I know a lot of people are like that's so insensitive like gift cards You know, it's no thought that goes into that But in my opinion if I don't know someone well enough

To go out here and buy them something or if they haven't told me like I want x y and z chances are you're gonna get a gift card Because I know you'll take that gift card and use it for something that you actually do one versus Yes, me trying to play a guessing game of oh, I like this So you'll probably like this I love the idea of doing the amazon wish list. I do it. Um, I You know, we'll send it to my parents. I'll send it to my mom grandparents Will will's parents like

It's just so easy and we know that the things that are on there will and I have gone through that amazon wish list And either taken off things that it looks like Jackson just like wanted on a random Tuesday, but like he probably doesn't actually want it um And he gets things that we know that he is going to use and it just makes it so much more meaningful Knowing that he's using it that someone else gifted him that he wanted. I agree. I um, I've done practical things in the past Um, for my like little cousins and stuff like things that you know, like the tumblers custom tumblers custom blankets custom towels things that they're They might not have wanted it, but it's practical. It's gonna get used Um, but I also agree just send me your kids amazon wish list for their birthday like just send it because

Get them stuff that they want or a gift card. I don't yeah, I agree. I can tell you I have never gone to a birthday party um Of like Jackson's friends or like a family member or something like that And not ask like please send me a wish list like I always ask that and if I don't get one then you just get a gift card I think that's fair. I think that's so fair Okay, so this is the last thing from the facebook group Um, it says do you feel that it's disrespectful for a step parent to make social media posts of your kids referring to them as our girl Our boy specifically if the biological parent has been completely absent for literally years at a time

And their spouse that's doing this barely knows the child. I'm curious on what everyone's opinion is on this Can you elaborate? um So the first part of the question is do you feel that it's disrespectful for a step parent to make social media posts? Referring to your kids as our girl or our boy Um, I think that depends on the situation right like it depends how involved is the other parent? What's the relationship with the other parent? What is your relationship with the child? Um, I think it all depends

You know, this might be a rose colored glasses type View I think I'm in a place that if I was going to Be in a position to where I'm marrying someone I would want all the bullshit out of the way with the other parent um That there would be such a level of respect there that they wouldn't view this

as disrespect Because I do think that there's a struggle when you're dealing with kids of wanting them to you know, feel like okay You know, you love me so much and you love me as much as you love your child and um Make me feel apart and all of these things that I think a step parent probably struggles with but then also So there is a struggle of respecting

a boundary from the biological parent and I think that You know if all parents are involved so like the step parent the mom and the dad Um, or if it's like step parents, I don't think that anything about this is inappropriate because essentially That child is our girl or our boy um If there is no relationship With the biological parent um

You don't have a relationship with them and the child doesn't have a relationship with them I think that at that point if you're doing more than what the biological parent is doing Then the biological parent shouldn't have an issue with it because they're not doing anything right. I do agree with that I definitely agree with that like I don't it wouldn't offend me if v said something like our well, well Me and her are good, but I don't know if I would I don't know if I would actually like that if she said that Just be honest. It's not a right or wrong. I don't think I I don't know I don't think she's never done it and I think that's part of like the respect that she has for me

I don't think she's ever been like our boy like if she said that it would be like me her and joe not just like her and joe Yeah, I think that yeah That was my whole point of the thing like If it's a collective effort and you're all you know doing a part in this child's life like essentially it is you know Our boy or our girl Not taking away a role of the other parent, but just like from a supporting step parent of being like yeah, that's my girl Or like yeah, that's my boy

Not discrediting the other parents the other parent. Yes position, right? Mm-hmm, but I could see I could see where this could get a little sticky and a little messy and a lot of people getting pissed off Um, totally I think in a dating situation If someone did this and it wasn't like a marriage situation and you knew it was like more of a permanent thing and You're just dating and I saw something come up on Facebook and someone was like this is my boy like no he came out of my twat

So like he's not specifically and you're not permanent yet. So Don't don't be putting permanents on this until it's permanent Right, and I I've actually experienced that with one of them too. It was like I had to reach out and say like you don't get to use my son in ads Like that's not you that's not something that you're gonna do like i'm not gonna allow that that's not something that i'm comfortable with like stuff like that and Um, if it's one of the things where it's like, oh, that's my boy like in a friendly way

I feel like that's a little different but referring to that just yeah, no, I agree. It can get sticky All right, there's no true way to say I love you then by taking care of each other And that's why this year the gift of help is all you need You know that was the word of the year for me and with every well you can find 30 plus at home lab tests Vitamin supplements and more for every person on your holiday list I love this because you can get your results at home for a fraction of the cost that you would You know get these results at a doctor's office or a physician and you can take the results to your physician So I highly recommend this especially for the holiday season

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um want to hear more foul plays whether they be like sexual foul plays Or other things other than you know, like shit shitting on yourself stories Then just you guys have to submit other stories like we can only read what we get Yeah, so, you know, you want to talk about something else then just submit it and you'll give us more to be able to pull from But everybody um Shits themselves and then wants to tell us about it. So yeah Okay, small backstory before I begin my husband has sarcoidosis. It affects his lymph noids It affects his lymph nodes and lungs the worst

His lungs are very sensitive to the point where he gets in and out of the shower Or the humidity messes with him so much. He immediately starts gagging and dry heaving He does this every time he goes outside too. He does this from drinking hot things as well like coffee Fast forward. We're having sexy time the other day and he wanted to do 69 cool. I'm down Well, recently I'm not sure where my body has started to embrace squirting. I literally never know when it's gonna happen It just happens So he's doing his thing and this gentle man giant literally throws me off him and immediately starts gagging He's so embarrassed and starts apologizing and said it changed the taste changed. Why did it change it changed?

And it hit me. I started to squirt in his mouth Y'all lesson learned if your partner has the disease Abort mission when he asked to 69 also just to touch on that It has been proven now and it's all over tiktok. It has been proven via testing with ink into your bladder Squirting is in fact a majority of it is pee. It's like I don't want to misspeak But it's like six. It's like 70 or 80 percent of it is actually urine Um with other hormones and that is in a study that they did with dye in your bladder And then having a number of women make themselves do it

Um, it comes out and it's it's it is urine most of it. So I didn't know that like people 69'd like on the reg like I didn't know that was a thing I thought I thought that was like give it the good old college try and then like once you get past that phase of your life That you're just like not doing that. No, I mean, that's a way to spice it up, right? No, there's nothing about spicing it up with your asshole and someone's face like That's all I would be thinking about if that was the case like I am just not a fan of 69 at all Okay, well speaking of that I'm gonna send you something and I really need you to

Tell me if you think it's real or fake. Okay, you're sending it to me right now Is it you 69 it would never send you Pictures, yes, you would wire. Okay. I need you to tell me if this is real or fake right now Okay, let me know when you get it. Okay. Oh my god I Why is it going like that? No, I think it's fake. You know why I think it's fake. Why it doesn't match. Okay. Do you think it's my friend sent it to me? No, I don't think it's fake. I think um, first of all, I've been with people

Kill what that dick is so big There's no way like that's not real if there is an extremity that is attached to someone that is that big Like I'm that's normal. What do you mean? That is my No, stop talking That's one of my baby dad's sizes and also that's his his dick. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no No, okay, but that's how big he is and how big my current partner is No, that that's literally not a thing No, it is. No, okay. Well, that's specifically what I am not looking for

I mean, if y'all want me to send it in the kitty gang group chat, I will but I can't post it on the instagram story So like let me know if y'all want to see what Lindsay is reacting to we we will get shut down Um, okay. So 69 is a thing. It's like a regular thing that just people do. That's what you're telling me. Yeah Mm-hmm. Okay. Well, I also would be mortified if this story happened to me Um With that being said, I'm gonna do the second foul play. Hi Kale Lindsay and Kristen. I have a very foul foul play to share Please keep me anonymous as I really debated on even sharing this. Well, thank you for doing so Since having my son my periods have been very heavy

I was on day three into my new job out of school and had started my period In the middle of the day, I realized I was leaking through my ultra-sized tampon and didn't have a stash of extras My office mate ran and found me a regular size, which I knew wasn't gonna last me long But it was better than nothing I ran to the bathroom and my male principal and superintendent are standing in the hall outside of the staff bathroom Got into the bathroom and I was wearing a dress and while standing pulled my shorts down Just enough to take the old tampon out and put the new one in as I pulled my shorts back up and went to dispose of the Used tampon. I took a step and started slipping

I looked down and saw a ton of blood all over the floor A huge blood clot had fallen onto the floor and I stepped in it smearing it everywhere I was also wearing white tennis shoes and the bottoms had like soft soles So it was soaking up the blood and leaving a bloody footprint all over I looked like a small murder scene. I'm panicking trying to clean up the floor and rinse off my white shoes in the sink Since the bathroom was so tiny Every time I moved the automatic toilet was flushing and my administrators were still casually standing in the hallway outside of the bathroom chatting I was able to get most of the blood cleaned off my white shoes

So I wouldn't leave bloody footprints in the hallway and got the floor wiped up But I was so flustered since it took so long I left the bathroom, ran straight to my office without even looking up at the principal and superintendent I hope this very foul play is a nice change from poop stories Love listening to all of your guys podcast and look forward to them every week Okay, that literally sounds like something that would happen to me because I sent Lindsay one time I had changed my tampon and then went to Lincoln's football game and the time that I left my house the time I got to the football game

It was I was already bled through my clothes. And so this is this is not did I ever tell you the mattress story? The mattress story. No, what? Oh my god I'm mortified to even say this but I just want her to know that she's not alone in this because I had um bought this mattress and everyone loved my fucking mattress and why everyone I mean my my girlfriend's not like men So don't don't get it fucking twisted Um, it was such an expensive mattress, but I wanted it so bad It was so comfortable and but I have really heavy periods. So I bleed through my clothes all night long

Um, and unfortunately, I'm not gonna get a new mattress all the time. I do what I can but at the time I was like what the fuck this was when me and chris were like newly together Washed my sheets and went to go put them back on Um, but when we were stripping the bed chris had seen all the blood on my mattress Because it had soaked through and like obviously at that point I had known to get like a mattress protector So like it was all old Um, but I didn't and he was so mortified that I had to go get a new mattress like that day We went to sears and got a new mattress because he was

floored like it was so embarrassing Yeah, that is so bad. Um I can tell you if I had to choose to shit on myself or to have this situation. I am Definitely going to shit on myself um This is horrible and I have never had a period like this But I do feel so bad for women who do struggle in this way because That would just be so horrible when you were going through that a while ago

I don't know if you still have like the same problems or whatever But when you were going through that I would feel so bad for you because It was something that like literally you can't control No, you can't control it and it doesn't matter if there's a bathroom nearby or not like Like you don't know like it's and it's so messy and it's so unsanitary and Even like when you're cleaning up and then it gets on your I just don't even want to talk about it. This it would grow some people out trigger warning Um, I should we should have said trigger warning before the foul play, but she's not alone and um,

This has definitely happened to me. So I completely understand Bless your little heart. Well on that note I'm actually going to put on some gym clothes head out to the gym I hope that you have a good rest of your day and rest of the week And if you guys have not followed us on at coffee combos podcast, make sure you follow us on instagram Um, also, there is a link on that instagram for you guys to be able to To subscribe to the kitty gang group chat that kail was talking about Um, also if you have not subscribed to the show, you can do that on any podcast app and always first at podcast one

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