Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - What Keeps Me Up At Night

Episode Date: January 26, 2023

CC266: Lindsie is not feeling the good vibes this morning. After reading an article of things she should throw away Lindsie and Kail discuss the snack rules in their house... and also discover a new t...erm used for hot wings? Lindsie leaves Kail confused about calling the school nurse "a clinic", donating to the school nurse, and the clothing items involved in said donation. Kail talks about her monoxide poisoning anxiety that keeps her up at night. Lindsie addresses a clickbait article regarding a family member. How do they both assigned chores to the kids and is that a problem in their households? Also, their thoughts on certain states making it mandatory for adult children to take care of elderly parents.   Thank you to our sponsors!Factor: Head to GO.FACTOR75.com/coffeeconvos60 and use code coffeeconvos60 to get 60% off your first boxProgressive: Visit progressive.com to learn more

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I hate gift-giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you This is coffee convos with Kale Lowry and Lindsay Chrisley. I really want you to be in your feels Kale That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you a spirited discussion about motherhood friendship Family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here. Here's Kale and Lindsay We're recording. We're on the air. Wait, what? Coffee convos is on the air. Good morning coffee convos podcast. I did not get the countdown Warning this morning. So I don't know if Kale was trying to keep catch me off guard or what was happening But good morning. I didn't expect to start that quickly
Starting point is 00:00:49 I thought that we could have a very like sometimes we just like shoot the shit. And so I was like, let's do a Chaotic morning for coffee convos, but you look great. Your hair looks great. You look great. You look fantastic Let me tell you I have not felt the vibes in some time And I woke up this morning and I have just like not wanted to get ready at all You know, like when you're feeling down and you just want to take shower like not put yourself together Put on some fresh clothes or pajamas and then like do nothing else. Yes Yeah, that's been my life for pretty much like the past couple of months. And so When I realized, oh, yeah, I committed that I was gonna be on camera this morning
Starting point is 00:01:29 I was like, wow, I love that for me. And I actually hate everything about this You know, it's like one of those mornings where you're like storming around in your bathroom because like you hate everything that you're doing Oh, I've had those types of mornings a lot Part of it is because my closet is still in boxes so if I send you a picture of my current the current state of my closet, I It just makes me want to throw a fit in the morning because like I know I have clothes I just can't find them. So then the clothes that I do have out
Starting point is 00:01:58 I hate everything and then if I hate everything that my outfit might hair my makeup all looks like shit So I completely understand. I am a firm believer that If you feel like your outfit looks like shit, you just automatically look like shit because you're not feeling the vibes And so everything just like goes downhill from there speaking of closets One, did you ever get your closet like built out? So I it didn't happen yet, but I started I went with closets by design and they should be here any day Probably well probably like two weeks. They called me yesterday
Starting point is 00:02:39 Because I have a safe in my closet and it's like a tall one and it's probably like two feet wide And so they she called me and she was like, hey, like I need you to send me the model number So they can make sure that they build that part of the closet to fit the safe So I think they're just finalizing details and then and then it'll be done when I tell you I Did not expect for my like budget to have to Accommodate what it did for my closet buildouts that's something that I way underestimated and It definitely needed to be done because my closet
Starting point is 00:03:20 I think I've talked about this before but I swear somebody who was like six seven built my closet Because the way that they installed the shelves, there's no way that like I would have been able to get to like the top part and So I was only able for the first six eight months that I lived here I was only able to use like that bottom shelf And so I would fold stuff and like put it on the top of the shelf and then obviously like hanging stuff But there was minimal Hanging space and there is nothing worse than having your stuff disorganized and not knowing where to find something I would be searching for socks. We all know I don't wear underwear. So like that wasn't something that I was searching for
Starting point is 00:04:02 But it was just like mass chaos and when I tell you my most favorite investment in this house Has been Jackson's closet because he does not get his own stuff out in the morning I've talked about how he is all into jerseys now So I know that he wants to wear jerseys every day, but as far as like caring about his underwear his pants Anything like that like I do all of that and so it's been so helpful for me in the mornings to just know exactly like where to go To find something I'm just so pissed off too because My old closet at my old house was done like I had the neat method come to it
Starting point is 00:04:39 I Remember last year for Christmas when we went to Atlanta and I took a picture in my like gray Timberland boots I have not been able to find those Timberland boots in since that trip. So I'm like and I got so many compliments I can promise you I didn't steal them. That's not my style. So like I didn't steal it. No, I don't think you stole them I don't think anyone stole them I think I've either left them at the Airbnb or just they're somewhere in the closet But I will post a picture of the closet a little video Only because I know that it's gonna get done
Starting point is 00:05:13 And so I won't live like that forever, but it is such a shit show and I hope that when They come do the closets in a couple probably like a week or two I hope I find those boots because they're not sold anymore like you can't get them at the store So it's not like I could just like buy a new pair It's so funny that we're even talking about this because I had screenshot this list of 50 things to throw away for instant decluttering and I plan to print this today to like start going through this list I'm just gonna work from the top, but see it's just like a list of 50
Starting point is 00:05:47 Things and it's anywhere from like old magazines old books broken makeup Old perfume half empty bottles towels with holes like it's things that You think that you need to get rid of but you wouldn't think to put together on a list Wait, we need to talk about the half empty bottles thing because okay I'm so weird about The things that I spend my money on Kristen wants to kill me because I will go buy like some random shit That I may or may not even use but I will not Throw away half empty products. I will use them until the very last drop even if I hate the product
Starting point is 00:06:30 So I spent money on it. I'm gonna use it But I will then go spend $500 at Target on shit that I don't know if I'm gonna use it's very weird What I am willing to throw out and waste versus like using every last drop, you know You get bamboozled by Target like way worse than me and I truly think that if anybody hears this They would think the exact opposite that I would be like the type of person that goes into Target Leaves with like a full cart with a bunch of stuff But I truly am such a minimalist and I have become more minimalistic. Is that the right word?
Starting point is 00:07:06 minimal yeah since I have become older I Used to hoard stuff like that. I Got like these little tiny. Do you remember those Lancome? Juicy tubes like how popular they were? Yeah, I had like little bitty tiny ones that were in like a stocking stuffer pack From when I was probably in high school and I swear to you I didn't get rid of the last one until I moved into this house You wait because you like couldn't let it go or because you just needed to use it or why? I don't know
Starting point is 00:07:41 It's just like it was like a cool thing to have and I don't know why I thought it was like cool to still have it And you only use like a little bit So if you got like 10 juicy tubes like 10 little tiny ones, they're gonna last you for a long time because I am more Okay, so are you more of like a gloss? Lipstick Style wear or are you more of like a chapstick? I do love a good like chapstick or lip balm Yeah, but I I've been a big fan of lip oils lately Okay, so I've been a big fan of oils lately period like all over my body
Starting point is 00:08:16 I talked about it on the southern tee like a hundred percent pure Argan oil all over my body I have now gone out and found Argan oil shampoo and conditioner a hair mask like I'm big into it And I think the older that I get the more dry my skin gets and so Big into that so I need to try the lip oils because I haven't tried lip oil But what's on my lips right now is? Just that tart. What's that lipstick that it's like a gloss like pump. Oh the I just put it on too. It's I did Mara
Starting point is 00:08:49 I'm looking it up. Hold on Mara. I want to pronounce it right. I wonder you must have the same one as me Marcula juicy tube or something like that. I think is what it's called. I don't know if that's what yeah Yeah, it's like Mara something Anyway, those things are amazing I can post a picture of it But those things are amazing and I have those literally everywhere all over my house also So I feel like those are gonna become like the next juicy tubes for me but
Starting point is 00:09:19 I have become really good about like decluttering everything even all the way down to my refrigerator Are you the type of person that throws away stuff once the expiration hits like you throw it out or you leave it in in the fridge? No, I'm I now throw everything away regularly my pantry can't always say the same. However I do want to touch on grocery prices right now are They have skyrocketed for me and I do use Instacart regularly but that being said I Elijah and I started a calendar that's on the fridge and we are writing down every single meal of the week And that actually really really helped us go through the pantry items
Starting point is 00:10:00 So this past week when the kids were all at their dads like we got rid of everything that was expired And then we used there was stuff that we could use and then now I'm only purchasing What we need versus like stocking up if that makes sense Yeah, I and same with like snacks for this kids school Like I'm not buying snacks for all day grazing at home We are buying snacks for school and that's it so it's funny that you say that because when I had my Pantry organized and someone came and helped me because I get so overwhelmed with that stuff
Starting point is 00:10:33 But and people would think that's why Kristen says I am a closet type B, but I like type a things I'm not good at doing it, but like I know what I like and I know what I need to be able to be a functioning human But I have baskets in my pantry So my pantry is actually split in a hallway. So like one side and then one side So it's two pantries. Interesting on one of the sides It's all of like Jackson stuff and then on the other side It's all of like what I would be making meals with or like my supplements like all of that So it's really easy to keep it organized
Starting point is 00:11:10 But I have specific snacks that are like school snacks and then snacks that are home snacks And I am a big believer like you should make your kids when they go to the grocery store and they ask you for something You say like you can pick one or two home snacks And they have to go through all of those snacks before you repurchase Because we got in a habit of going to like Sam's and Costco and buying stuff that came in those like individual packs And then they would just go to waste because then they would get old and he wasn't finishing them No, and then he wanted by the time because we bought it in such high quantity that by the time it Like started getting towards the end. He didn't want it anymore. He was on to like a new snack
Starting point is 00:11:51 He was tired of it. That makes sense that makes so much Now what I do like and will does this too is like if he wants a cereal He picks like a cereal for the week like one cereal. Okay. Yeah, and then he has to finish that before he can get a different cereal Yeah, oh wait. Yeah speaking of food I went to grab dinner last night and I was looking on the menu and I was like I want wings and As I'm like scrolling through the menu. I see where it's like drums and then it says flappers I saw the picture you sent and I was like what the fuck is a like I know what they mean like flappers like wings But who calls them that that's not a thing
Starting point is 00:12:28 No, so I have heard other people call them that before and so then it made me get self-conscious Have I been calling them flats like this whole time and it's really like flat flaps But I'm pretty sure it's flat like a flat wing and Everywhere else that I have been like the place that I regularly go. They call them drums and flats Wait, okay, so but drums what part of that what part of the chicken is that? I don't know looks like it's kneecap Doesn't it? I think it's a kneecap. I think it looks like a rusty kneecap Is it like a fountain? It's like I'm trying to think of like the flats are like the actual wing I'm telling you it looks like a kneecap. Hold on. What is
Starting point is 00:13:17 what part of The chicken is a drum is the drum We're about to find out the upper arm of the chicken wing The drum let is called the drum because it looks like a smaller version of a drumstick, which is part of the leg Oh, okay, you can't tell me that a drum does not look like Crusty kneecap Like it's just weird Yeah, but before we move on I need to tell you we got an email from the school and it's like the
Starting point is 00:13:53 Clinic drive or whatever. I don't know if y'all do it, but it's where you send in products for like the clinic the clinic What is that like the school nurse like the clinic? first I've never heard it referred to as a clinic number one number two you call it the nurse The school nurse clinic. It's the clinic. Wait, so what time out? What kinds of things do you send into them? Okay, so I think that my kids schools have never requested something for okay, so The reason that I give to this specific this actual drive every year is because I know how much my son goes to the clinic
Starting point is 00:14:33 So I'm like he's probably Blazing through all of their products, but it's like many water bottles like many Gatorades many Whatever like sprites Gingerails pretzel individual packs of pretzels, which is what I signed up to take But then it got to the bottom part and I was like, oh my god I have to ask you about this because I always got afraid to like shit or piss my pants at school because I was afraid that I Would have to go to the clinic and use like used underwear because you know like back I would send you home
Starting point is 00:15:08 No, they don't just send you home Like if you shit or piss on yourself then you just go to the clinic and you get clean clothes Or like if you fall in mud or get something on your clothes and like it's too wet or something You go to the clinic and get other clothes like what are you talking about like you never did this? No, I've never pissed myself in school ever or shit like kids that barfed on themselves Like they had to go and get like fresh clothes. They had to go get freshies. So I Remember back when I was in school. They would do Where you sent in all of your old stuff?
Starting point is 00:15:42 So it basically was like goodwill but like at the clinic So you sent in like your old panties and your old underwear and stuff and then oh They would change them out like I'm pretty sure they were all like old stuff I remember that growing up and now in today's time. I'm like these kids are getting Freshdrawals up at the school when we were growing up. We didn't get fresh draws like we just got Whatever was at the clinic It was like pack of underwear Not opened and pack of panties like not open and that was just like not a thing whenever we were growing up
Starting point is 00:16:24 But will was like why are you giving to the clinic drive? Like why are you taking pretzels up to the school? And I'm like because my kids probably the one eating them You're like we need to contribute where my kid is eating snacks exactly. Yes. Oh my god I've never heard of this. I'm gonna post on my Facebook because I'm one of Alexa's little friends at sports His mom is a school nurse And I yeah, and I don't remember them ever asking like they do drives regularly at the schools like for food pantries and Just donations like I think we've done like donations to the troops and things like that in the past But I don't think that we've ever done
Starting point is 00:17:08 Something for the nurses. I wonder I'm gonna I'm gonna get back to you on that by the next time we record I'll have I'll have some answers for you. Perfect. Yeah, let me know Coffee combos podcast is brought to you by progressive insurance. Hey coffee combos listeners Whether you love true crime or comedies celebrity interviews news or even motivational speakers You call the shots on what's on your podcast cue, right? And guess what now you can call the shots on your auto insurance to enter the name your price tool from progressive The name your price tool puts you in charge of your auto insurance by working just the way it sounds You tell progressive how much you want to pay for car insurance
Starting point is 00:17:43 Then they'll show you a variety of coverages that fit within your budget giving you options now That's something that you'll want to press play on It's easy to start a quote and you'll be able to choose the best option for you fast It's just one of the many ways that you can save with progressive insurance quote today at progressive Com to try the name your price tool for yourself and join the over 29 million drivers who trust progressive Progressive cash truly insurance company and affiliates price and coverage match limited by state law outside of that when I was getting ready this morning, I left my earrings
Starting point is 00:18:19 somewhere and Don't have them in my ear and I've always felt like a naked person if I don't have on earrings. Yep. Mm-hmm Okay, can you tell me how you say in a KD? naked naked naked Naked like your naked ass good like get your naked ass over here You know Wait, so I have to tell you last night Mondays Wednesdays and Thursdays right now are really crazy for us because of basketball practice
Starting point is 00:18:48 We've pressed basketball practice three nights a week and Lincoln's playing in two leagues so the one league that he's in was last night and Lux was like I want to go because he gets to like warm up with Lincoln and so that's fun And I don't know I just there's something about like watching your kids play together like a sport together It's a different kind of Like brotherhood like you're the other real brothers, but then like being in a sport with someone you get what I'm saying So we get home. We do bath time. We do all of that and then Lux was like mom
Starting point is 00:19:20 I really cuz Creed still sleeps in a crib Lux was like I really want to sleep in the crib with Creed and so I rock read asleep every single night And that's just our routine. I Never changed since we went through the sleep consultant Creed did not want Lux to sleep with him. He was like get out my crib. He's crying. He's like get out my crib so I was like once he falls asleep Oh, you can go sleep with him like once he's already asleep and so he Lux waited a week in his bed and when I went to go check on him because normally I lay with him to go to sleep
Starting point is 00:19:55 He was like can I go he like sat straight up and he's like can I go sleep in his crib? And I was like sure he brings his little pillow in there and he lays out I'll post it but it was so cute. So what this morning when they woke up I said, you know did because it's it was a tight squeeze Yeah, I said, you know, did he wake up at all and he said no He didn't wake up at all in the night and then when I when I asked Creed I said, where did Lux sleep last night and he said in my crib and they were so happy that they slept in this crib together It was the cutest fucking thing. I'll post the picture when this episode airs. It was just so fucking cute
Starting point is 00:20:30 So sweet. See, I don't have any of that kind of stuff going on that I do kind of feel FOMO whenever I hear things about siblings like that and I'm like man, I wish Jackson had that experience Um, but him sleeping in a crib at 10 is like that's just like not a realistic thought process. So yeah, no, definitely I can just I can love it for your kids. Yeah Talking about the closets and stuff after I finished recording I have a meeting for the Southern T because there's changes that are about to happen over there I'll text you about them, but I am so excited. I was looking at the back of your
Starting point is 00:21:11 Wall where it has like your decal or whatever on it and I'm like, I'm just in my kitchen But I am finally putting together this week my desk so that I will be podcasting from Because my desk I had it built into my closet because my closet is so big So I had it built in so I'll be in there Hopefully in the next two weeks. Oh, that's so exciting. That's so exciting Don't you love when like something new is happening and it's just like the littlest things will just be great Well, and I love the whole process of like something coming together So yeah, my friend who is helping me she helped me put my guest bedroom together
Starting point is 00:21:50 Which I'll have to take pictures of and show you guys because I absolutely love it. You saw what I did to my guest bedroom I sent you the yes, I loved loved loved loved So I'm gonna take a picture and I'll post that for coffee combos when this airs But also she's helping me put together my office and she's coming over today and we're doing like sushi and champagne I'm putting it together and I'm so excited about it But when I walked on my bathroom today It was an absolute mess like I wish if I had one thing that I could Get someone to do for me every single day. It would be clean up after me
Starting point is 00:22:23 Yeah, everywhere I go. Well, I am messy, but I am clean Mm-hmm, like I will have stuff like everywhere and then I get so overwhelmed that like I just don't care So then I just don't do anything But I had to go back into my bathroom to unplug all of my stuff that I had plugged up and I wonder how many people also have the anxiety of Knowing that you have unplugged something and you've gone back and checked it like five times because you keep tricking your mind You're like I did it unplug it and it's gonna like burn my house on fire So then you go back and like check it again
Starting point is 00:23:00 I will do that five times and we'll still have anxiety one of my I leave my house thinking that I have left something plugged up so Funny that you bring that up because I had a tic-tac the other day I did like a reset a Sunday reset in my bathroom because my bathroom was so messy and my curling iron was plugged in and Someone commented that and was like, don't you have anxiety about that and you know, what's funny is Right after that video. I realized the very next day. I left I not only left it plugged in I left the curling iron turned on
Starting point is 00:23:33 and some of my some of my hot tools have automatic shut off after so long like I don't know if you have the Bombay wand but that one shuts off automatically after some time But this specific one that I had in my bathroom did not have an automatic shut off and it was still plugged in It was still on and it fucking scared the piss out of me. So now I no longer just leave it plugged in I'm ripping that shit out of the wall because I'm terrified I work too fucking hard for my house to set on fire from some careless fucking mistake that I made so I Will be let me tell you everything kill. I have the worst anxiety about it like it is not normal I need to be seen about it because
Starting point is 00:24:12 it truly is Like affecting my life and I don't know like when I turned this way I can't remember like exactly when this started happening, but I know Within probably the last like couple of months. I've become way more cautious of it And it's not like I burnt my house down or anything, but I am so terrified So I do I don't even turn it off like I I just unplug it from the wall And then I go back in there and I will check like five six times before I leave the house And then I'll still think about it when I'm somewhere. I have that about carbon monoxide
Starting point is 00:24:48 Well, yeah, I remember that story that those people like all that whole family like passed away from it that we talked about in Mexico Oh, right. Well, and also one of my girlfriends from football Her family was in her family's apart like the family was together in an apartment and it happened to them And they all had to go to the hospital and stuff like that. I think I briefly mentioned it on here But I have like this over what like how you are what you're describing your anxiety with like hot tools plugged in is how I feel about carbon monoxide and I'm always like are these smoke detectors also carbon monoxide detectors because that's terrifying And I have kids small children. They're closer to the ground like it's terrifying And I don't know why I have this like overwhelming anxiety that is like
Starting point is 00:25:29 I'll get you know when you wake up in the middle of the night and you're like, where's my birth certificate? I get that all the time. No! What? What? You wake up in the middle of the night and start thinking of your birth certificate. Yes, sometimes I'm like, wait, where did I put my Social security card is my passport expired Are all of the kids passports in the safe like where's the safe like now I'm thinking about where is the safe like right now? Where is it? Because I have a smaller one and then I have a bigger one. I need to look for that when I get off this podcast because I'm thinking like Where is it? But yeah, you don't ever do that like in the middle of the night you sit straight up. No Kale
Starting point is 00:26:11 No, that is literally not what I think of when I sit straight up. I think of like somebody's in my house. They're gonna murder me I think Brian Coburgers here like those are the types of thoughts that I have Um, but definitely not where is my birth certificate like no really because last night I sat straight up and I was like It's my passport expired Because I'm going to Thailand and I'm like what is it expired because if it is I don't know if I have time to renew it But I didn't check it yet But I think it actually expires next year, but I got to find the safe because it's in there First of all, I need to say something about the safe because I thought that was only a thing that grandparents did like I don't have that
Starting point is 00:26:52 You don't I put mine in a fire a fireproof safe with a case your house catches on fire. Yes What do you mean? My divorce to reason there. Oh because we that cannot burn That can not burn. Yeah, that can not get caught in my divorce decrees in there my birth certificate All the kids birth certificates all of our social security cards and all of our passports are in the fireproof lockbox Okay, I got to go get a fireproof lockbox because now I'm thinking if I leave my curling iron plugged up My house catches on fire. All of my documents are gone like yeah, and like it's just yeah, you they're replaceable You can always get new ones, but I don't know about you
Starting point is 00:27:31 But if you ever wait in a fucking secure social security office I would rather eat myself out a window because that shit you'll be there for hours like the birth the birth certificates way Easier to get because you can order it online or go down to office of idle statistics But also if you are not in the state, it's a pain in the ass because Isaac and I were both both born in Pennsylvania The rest of my kids were born in Delaware. So Delaware ones are fine. I can just go downtown But the social security office fucking forget about it. I will not wait there for six seven eight hours. I won't do it Oh my god, speaking of Isn't it so funny that you say that hold on I'm gonna cover this up
Starting point is 00:28:06 But like who told me this should be sitting on my counter. Why is that on your counter? I don't know I'm like, it's that. Oh my Sam's business card Starbucks guess what guess what speaking of my titties So I For a long okay, so I've told you guys on this podcast before that I never really had credit cards, right? So I got my first credit card. I guess it was last year at this point. I got you for that Yes, and it was just like it was one that I really wanted because it has good travel rewards and
Starting point is 00:28:46 Christine got approved for it first and I was really sad because I didn't get approved for it Which is weird because like I got a mortgage and car payments and shit Well, I applied for an AmEx which was the other card that I really wanted. I don't want any other credit cards Knock on wood. I don't need them for any reason But I got approved for an AmEx card and then I casually told Kristen and she goes, oh, so we did apply for it We got we applied for that. I was like, yes And so I did just get approved for that and I'm very excited although I don't think everywhere accepts AmEx No, everywhere doesn't accept AmEx, but I've never really had any problems
Starting point is 00:29:20 although Kristen regularly cusses me out because I stroll around with my debit card using it everywhere and she's like bitch like Why do you not use? Your credit card, but I have like a weird thing with it. It makes me freak out I know I have the money to pay it at the end of the month But it's like if I go and use my debit card the money is like right there So it just like takes it right away. I don't worry about it that is something that I will sit up in the middle of the night and be like how much money have I spent on my credit card and Yes, I know I have the money
Starting point is 00:29:53 But like I need to get it paid like right this second like I am so weird about like borrowing like feeling like I'm Barrowing from somebody like so weird if I really wanted to get a credit card for the travel rewards and The trade the chase card was that for me And I think I said this before but you know friends of mine would they do instead of using a debit card Which they have a debit card They pay for every single thing on their credit card all year long Everything and then they pay it every month And then they get up they do their anniversary trip with all of their points and they don't have to pay a single dime
Starting point is 00:30:30 For their Mexican Mexican their Mexico trip Everything I think that's so smart and that's why I was the credit card So this is I'm not trying to be tone deaf when I'm talking about credit cards and MX and things like that And I'm not trying to not read the room. I'm just saying for anyone who Wants a credit card doesn't have one doesn't really know how to use it I think that if you look into the rewards of specific credit cards and find out like if if you won't like what is your goal? Like mine was for travel rewards. So that's why I got the travel rewards credit card same for you Some like grocery perks cash back like there's so many different things but speaking of the tone deaf thing
Starting point is 00:31:09 I don't think that's tone deaf I think that's smart spending honestly because you're gaining something by spending and if you're only putting on there I'm not saying to like overspend what you would regularly be spending But if you're just putting on there what you would have to be paying anyway, it makes sense That's just the conversation I had with Kristen literally like Friday. Yeah, that's exactly what I mean is like Don't apply for credit cards for you know just to overspend It's more so to get the rewards if you're gonna use a debit card Why not use a credit card? So if you can help it Lindsay? I would definitely suggest because I I have a lot of
Starting point is 00:31:43 Points for travel and so it's been really great. I'm she said that she's gonna try to learn the mx system I don't know if because you have an mx right? I feel like you told me you had an mx Yeah, I don't know if all of the different cards have the same rewards system or anything But she said she's gonna try to learn the rewards so we can figure out like what is best for me? What purchases are best for me to put on that specific card? But okay, wait, I need to tell you something really quick because I feel like you eat better than I do So well, I feel like you've been exposed maybe maybe not eat better than me, but you've been exposed to more foods Mm-hmm
Starting point is 00:32:19 So Elijah made steaks the other night like I said we do this calendar now So it we avoid like overspending on groceries and things expiring and shit, right? So we were gonna make beef and he made steaks and he hands me the a1 steak sauce And I don't think anything of it and I put a little bit on my plate and I dip the steak in it And I think steak is good by itself. I don't necessarily need sauce or anything I hate a1 steak sauce. The original is terrible. It tastes like shit. It's tangy. It's Overpowering and I hate it. I don't why are you eating this so offensive for you to say that? Okay, so two points on the steak
Starting point is 00:32:56 I've always heard that it is super rude to Go to like a nice steakhouse and ask for sauce Oh, like if the steak is prepared properly, you don't need sauce. I was raised that way Like not not to ask for sauce because it is offensive to the chef Outside of that I have always had a1 on steak and hind 57 on steak at home and Grew up on a1 Absolutely love a1 steak sauce and the whole reason that I love it is for the tanginess of the sauce Really? Yeah, I hated it. I was like, I
Starting point is 00:33:37 Don't love this and I I feel like I've had and I'm weird about outback because like I do like their steak But it feels like is it frozen like I don't know if it's like a frozen situation But they like if you order to go or when you're at the restaurant They ask like do you want like a buttered garlic sauce? Do you want this kind of sauce that kind of sauce and those types of sauces are good? And I like them and they don't bother me but the a1 sauce I felt like was so disgusting. So I needed to share that with you I need to know if there is anyone in this podcast that feels that listens to the podcast
Starting point is 00:34:08 That feels the same way as I do because I hated it. Wait, have you ever tried Heinz 57? No, I've never tried that Okay, you need to try Heinz 57 and tell me if you like it on steak better than a1 Next look at the bottle. I thought Heinz 57 was ketchup. I don't think that's what it is Or maybe that's just Heinz I'm googling Heinz 57. I know people hate when we Google but like this just came up I don't know what you want me to do about it. Um, no, I've I've never even seen this bottle in my life Yeah, Heinz 57. It says it's a blend. It's a secret blend a secret blend of premium herbs and spices That has made Heinz 57 sauce an American favorite for over 90 years with a unique rich flavor
Starting point is 00:34:52 Equaled by unequaled by any other steak sauce No wonder Heinz 57 is served as America's in America's greatest steak houses So interesting But it also says on the bottle like zest or something like that. So I wonder if you're gonna have the same thoughts As you do with the a1 just try it and let us know Speaking of being able to read rooms Just wanted to address something really really quick um
Starting point is 00:35:24 was debating whether I was going to address this or not and Decided that I was going to there was a clickbait Article that was circulating that came to my intention that involved a disturbing image of one of my family members During what was and is already a difficult time it was a picture of a Hospital bed with my mom on it While I have been in this industry for what feels like a very long time and understand that these things are
Starting point is 00:36:00 Common making fun of a very serious situation To me is both sickening and disgusting and this is just a little public service announcement For really everybody not just one person in particular Being mindful of what you're posting um That even includes the public responsibility that you hold if you are a public figure and have someone posting for you I have seen this happen to other people before I have seen clickbaity things about you
Starting point is 00:36:34 Clickbaity things about my family clickbaity things about other people miscarriages Pregnancies, I just think that if you're having other people post for you on your social media You should be Mindful of what they're posting because you do hold a responsibility if someone else is posting for you You're equally responsible because your name is behind that so that's all I really want to say on that outside of that Did want to answer this question from the Facebook group because we got it last week and I
Starting point is 00:37:14 Have a really hard time with this at home because I just have one and so it's easier for me to do Pretty much everything and I know that it's doing a disservice to my child and like I am very well aware of that Right, but the question was what chores do your seven-year-olds and four-year-olds do? And do you have a reward system? Thanks for any ideas and I know you're big on like charts and stuff at your house I don't know if you still do like chore charts or whatever I'm really really bad at this like I'm not a person to be giving advice on Frickin chores so For me now, we do have the chore chart on the fridge. So that's something that we still do
Starting point is 00:37:56 I have not been rewarding my kids for chores and I've gone back and forth with this and we've tried different things but ultimately I have just come to the realization that one if I wasn't being consistent in Like the rewards because sometimes, you know, they would do their chores and they would forget to you know Get their reward. I'd forget to offer it or they would forget to do their chores and it just was too much So now they they just know to come home and check the chore list I don't do rewards for chores. I'm not doing rewards. These are things that they need to do Regardless and you know contributing to the household. I don't overdo it if they want to Do something that goes above and beyond
Starting point is 00:38:40 That's a different conversation and that would be probably in you know, they're gonna do this because they want something They want to work for something. They want to earn something but regular everyday chores like I told Isaac yesterday Um, because he was absent from the stomach bug. I think like last week or two weeks ago Um, and some of his assignments were late because he was absent So he was able to make them up and I told him and I said, you know, these are things that I said What would you do if this was a job like what would you do if this was your working job? And he's like, but it's not and I said, here's the thing the thing about chores getting good grades Um personal hygiene all of those things are things that are gonna follow you out throughout your life
Starting point is 00:39:21 What you do now is how you're gonna do things as an adult and I said so for that reason You know, that's why I get on to you guys about the chores about the good grades about everything because if this was real life You have to take care of yourself and know how to do these things. I'm not doing a reward system I think little kids like Lux's age He wanted me to show him how to vacuum his room yesterday. And so we got the handheld not the handheld like the cordless shark Uh-oh a couple weeks ago and it's light enough for him to use that he wanted me to show him Cool, I'm happy to show you next time you can do it yourself And I'm not rewarding you for that because I mean unless you want like I think Lux's age
Starting point is 00:39:59 Maybe seven year olds because I forget Lincoln. I don't remember how Lincoln was with chores at seven They like little shit like stickers I'm adding a star to their little chart But outside of that. I'm not doing rewards. No so I agree with you on If your child's doing a chore that is contributing to the household that would not be like an above and beyond thing And I'm talking about like Hey, you take a water bottle to your room every night for bed
Starting point is 00:40:31 If you have water bottles in your room, you should be bringing to the trash can I shouldn't be rewarding you for Bringing something to the trash can that you know to just bring to the trash can exactly exactly putting your clothes in a hamper So that I don't have to pick up your dusty draws like thank you very much That's just like a normal thing that you should be doing Jackson is not good about He's gotten much better about Like I have this rule because he used to go in and like destroy everything So he would he would pull something out and then he would play with that for a little while
Starting point is 00:41:07 Then it would be in one corner and then he got bored of that Then he would go to something else like that doesn't work anymore If you get something out you only get it out if you plan to play with it And if you are not gonna play with it Then you put it back before you get something else out because I'm not playing Molly maids like all day for you So that's what we're not gonna do. Um He he's gotten better as he's gotten older and I don't really have to ask as much But I did go through a phase where I had to ask about everything and I was like something's not clicking like
Starting point is 00:41:39 Why is this just not a normal common-sense thing that you know to do but kids? I swear I think that they try to get away with as much as you allow them to get away with and until you enforce something Then they're not gonna do it Lincoln's the worst and probably have talked about this before on here, but he Before laundry gets done He has to go through his entire hamper and put everything right side out And I keep trying to tell him if you put it right side out as soon as you take it off
Starting point is 00:42:08 You don't have to do them before you go to your dad's every week or you don't have to do them You know during the week you just do it when you take them off like shit like that. I'm like What you do now is gonna be carried with you for the rest of your life I don't want you to have to worry like be frustrated as a college student or you know When you're an adult and you're trying to do laundry and you're washing your shit inside out I just can't I and I think with boys It's just harder in general like they just it doesn't click like he even texted me last week before you went to his dad's I was like do I have to do my clothes and I said absolutely you do and he said but I don't mean I don't need clothes here
Starting point is 00:42:46 When I'm at my dad's I said but you need clean clothes when you come home, and I'm not doing this anymore You're nine. You're fully capable of putting your clothes right side out. Okay Other moms are gonna relate to this when I say this how many of your kids bring? Because again, it's only Jackson and I in here. So I have two laundry baskets like darks and then colors Jackson will bring his clothes and act like he's done something when he brings a pair of pants or shorts with His skid mark underwear like still attached into the thing and I'm like that's not my job like I didn't sign up to pull Apart your underwear from your pants or shorts for the rest of my life Like that's not when I decided to become a mother. That was not what I signed up for that wasn't in the job description
Starting point is 00:43:36 That's like one of my girlfriends Years ago. We were talking about You know, she was on the fence about having more kids and her all her final decision about not having more kids was I do not want to wipe asses and brush teeth for another six years Oh my god, because her son was six at the time and I was like wow that makes a lot of sense. I completely understand Wait last thing on the laundry and then we got to move on. I do wash underwear inside out I mean that makes sense. I guess right because you want the outside You want the the inside parts to be the most clean so you put them up. That makes sense. Yeah, I do do that
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Starting point is 00:46:15 slash coffee combo 60 to get 60% off your first box Wait, can we do tick tock o'clock? Absolutely. We can go tick tock o'clock Okay, tick tock o'clock today This tick tock that I found I'm gonna give an overall description If a woman decides to keep a baby with all the contraceptives out there that a man should have the right to forfeit all financial obligations this No, I was so pissed off when I I even commented because
Starting point is 00:46:52 Yes, there are conscious contraceptives for women But men have the ability to put a condom on men have the ability to pull out men have the ability to Refrain from sex and it is just as much a man's Responsibility when he's choosing to have sex with somebody knowing the consequences and knowing that contraceptives can fail So when you are laying down with a woman if she decides to keep a baby You both know the risks. You both know that there are comes contraceptives out there and a man is just as responsible Like I'm sorry
Starting point is 00:47:27 But if you're that worried about contraceptives and you know, maybe that failing or anything like that wear a condom and pull out Do both? Yeah, well I 100% agree with you on all fronts of this and I Imagine that this probably happens Way more than we would think You co-signed this decision when you decided to have sex with someone and not protect yourself from getting in that situation so if you don't want that situation to happen then simply protect yourself from
Starting point is 00:48:06 being required to Financially support a child that you claim that you didn't want. I'm just it infuriated me When I saw and I want to like read some of the comments because on that video because I cannot be the only one that Felt infuriated like there's just no way And then simple as this if you don't want an obligation don't give yourself one Well, and that's my biggest thing is like why are you even taking the risk if you feel like a woman should be solely like? Why are you putting that in a woman's hands? If you don't trust them enough to I don't know if you can't trust yourself enough? I guess to take care of a child. Why are you putting that decision on a woman because you up and I just felt like it was very
Starting point is 00:48:49 Massagenistic also that was the other part of it that really pissed me off I was just like the audacity for men to have this conversation on in public and really like say these thoughts out loud really infuriated me I want to read some of the comments because there was one that was like this is so misogynistic Just like oh if we if we send child support, we don't have to pay for our kids like what have you heard that like Okay This is what I commented and this was on this was like two weeks ago I said a man can simply choose not to have sex wear protection and or pull out. This is so this is a no for me
Starting point is 00:49:26 Someone says I wish it was that simple because I've seen cases where the guy verbally said he wanted the baby and once it came He left Someone else says I feel this doesn't take in the single moms who do raise the kids alone with no fight. No financial support I want to know the woman who is thinking like this when she is deciding about a child that she did not get pregnant with herself What does that mean don't oh like I guess because she didn't impregnate herself. Somebody else did like it wasn't just a one You know one side of thing Um, I'm shocked but three women in these comments are that they completely agree, which I think is complete bullshit Because their perspective on that is gonna be they knew what they were signing up for when they lay down with the person
Starting point is 00:50:12 So don't get mad if you get pregnant when it was almost a choice I'm sure that's gonna be that argument at the same time it takes two people to tango So that doesn't fly for me Someone says I agree, but also the dude can just as easily wrap his little package up to which is exactly how I feel like I just don't understand how this is solely Contract is the birth certificate. Don't sign it. No legal custody. That's actually not how it works I don't think so I think you can still be obligated to pay child support Even if you're not on the birth certificate, they just have to prove paternity. Yeah, they just have to prove paternity. That's it
Starting point is 00:50:47 so yeah, and then then other tiktok I had on here was one that Kristen sent me and She just sent it to me like randomly and I put it on here because I was like what the actual fuck It was a tiktok about There are actually some states that you are legally obligated to take care of your elderly parents You're gonna hate what I'm about to say, but Your parents took care of you. I think that it should be By circumstance. So if your parents raised you then in my opinion You have an obligation to your parents to take care of them really see but I don't think
Starting point is 00:51:26 Maybe I just don't think that way because I didn't ask to be here. I didn't ask to be born and further I asked my mom why she didn't get an abortion because she had no business having me And so for me, it's like whether you were raised really well or not I don't think that we asked to be here. So why should we be obligated to and what happens if I? What happens if my mom is say my mom raised me right like say my mom was the picture perfect mom white pick white pick offense Whatever the case may be What if she lived across the country? I'm not gonna uproot my life to go take care of her. She made that choice No, I think again, like what are the circumstances that surround this because you know
Starting point is 00:52:05 My requirement would be if I'm gonna take care of you then you're gonna have to like move in with me I'm not gonna uproot my life to do that, but I will take care of you I also have a super soft spot for the elderly and so Seeing like my parents old. I'm sure that's gonna break my heart whenever they do get old that my parents are young as fuck right now. I mean like 50 50 and 54 so they're still pretty young and kicking it and like fine But I would totally take care of them or take care of my grandmother if They needed the help. I absolutely would do that. I mean, I think this also
Starting point is 00:52:47 Wiped my house so I can wipe theirs Like if my grandparents were still with me and they needed care taking I would hands down without a fucking doubt be there for every fucking Bell ring like if like I would have done anything Every like if they bring the bell I'd fucking be there, you know what I mean? Like there are people in my family who I absolutely would but that would be more so out of love and out of my choice I think it more so pisses me off because it feels like it's like in these states. It's an obligation I did not I know that there are people who have children to Specifically take care of them when they're old
Starting point is 00:53:23 I don't expect my kids to take care of me when I'm old In fact, I hope that I don't ever become a burden to them in any way shape or form or they even have to consider whether or not They should move me in with them or something. I hope that I am long gone before like I hope the universe takes me and just you know Sends me to the ocean and you know, my kids don't have to worry about that. I don't ever want them to feel like Well, she wiped my ass. So I have to wipe hers like I would be actually mortified Okay, well my dad has that same mentality of everything like pretty much verbatim what you just said
Starting point is 00:54:00 Adding the fact that he doesn't talk about the universe. He's like, I hope God calls me home, but same Process, I Think that's good and great in theory until you become an old person and you realize that like you're you're not ready to like pass away And as you get older, I think your mindset probably will change You're saying that now because nobody needs to take care of you because you're not like in a place of need But I think that that probably does change over time But then there are probably some people that are like you
Starting point is 00:54:36 So Isaac is my oldest and I know that people love him and think he's the sweetest thing ever and he really is like He does have a heart of gold However, Isaac does not like Gross things like he's very type a when it comes to he does not want to see drool. He doesn't want to see poop He doesn't want to Nothing if there's sticky hands dirt on your face like if Creed has like a booger or like snot and I didn't wipe it yet like Isaac does not like babies. He's not a baby person. He doesn't like anything Gross he doesn't like his foods to touch. He doesn't like spit or drool
Starting point is 00:55:12 He would not be capable of taking care of me as an elderly woman. That's number one So him he would unintentionally probably neglect me. Okay, like that's number one Linkin out so we have established Isaac is out. I only have one option. So I hate My kids will be taking care of both of us will be in the friggin old folks home together like coffee combos and they're gonna be like shut that up Lincoln would probably unintentionally forget about me I Lux I think he's my rider I think he would 1,000 percent take care of me But I just don't want him to and then Creed I haven't figured out yet as in terms of whether he likes some days
Starting point is 00:55:57 He he loves the shit out of me and some days. He could not be he could not care less. Oh My god, um, wait, I didn't need to do a little follow-up. I don't know if you remember this, but we talked about it last year it was The Alec Baldwin situation with the gun going. Oh, yeah. Do you remember that? Yes. So He has been charged with two counts of involve involuntary manslaughter and the death of Halina Hutchins on the film Santa Fe Country set in 2021 and that was according to the DA. I remember we were talking about that and um, if we thought that they were gonna be charged or if it was gonna be accidental or whatever and he has been charged I
Starting point is 00:56:44 Kind of have mixed feelings on it. Um, me too on one hand someone lost their life and then on the other hand it was Legitimately an accident. It was a freak accident and I know that people have been like I know of cases where people get charged with involuntary manslaughter Um for things like DUI Drinking under the or driving under the influence and things like that So this one was a literal freak accident. It wasn't like well, but then it was loaded the gun was loaded So then it's like on that end it is negligence like somebody was responsible for loading it. So I
Starting point is 00:57:26 Don't know. I have mixed feelings on it. I'm that's really sad Well, I wonder why it took three two years to get a verdict to get to get convicted Well, he's just been charged. Oh, he's been charged. Okay. He hasn't been. Yeah, okay So that's so I will be interested to see how all the details of that actually do play out and why He was charged with that because there has to be A legitimate reason coming down from the DA like there's a legitimate reason as to why they charged Yeah, for sure Um, I want to do
Starting point is 00:57:59 This from the facebook group Um and want to know your thoughts on it Says thoughts on current partner of six years keeping pictures of ex-wife on facebook The pictures are of them kissing laying in bed on the beach, etc They're at least eight year old pictures. So they aren't super new but there's a good amount of them I have mentioned something about them before and he blew it off like he didn't pay attention to them So I just let it go. They have a child together and the pics were before Um this and they divorced shortly after the baby was born, but we have to see this person often
Starting point is 00:58:35 And I just think it's weird I also want to add that he often checks his memories and is aware of them being there I recently brought it up and asked if he'd ever considered just Untagging himself as they are mostly ones. She posted he blew up and called me crazy and said it will take too much time to do It was hurtful and I feel crazy. I just want to think he's right, but I have always had a feeling He still had a thing for her and I'm so conflicted. Any advice is welcome. Thank you in advance well, um again, I'm conflicted in my feelings on this because
Starting point is 00:59:10 I mean, I've been in a few relationships after my divorce and I I haven't deleted my wedding album or any of the pictures Like, you know how if you go to like your profile pictures album, it's like all the profile pictures you've ever had. Yep I like I have ones of me and hobby in there. I know that he's removed the matching tattoo that we had I know that he's removed pictures. Um, I know that he And I it doesn't it doesn't matter to me. Like I don't care. Obviously it was hurt. I was hurt at the time Because I still felt like okay. Yeah, we're not together anymore But we still had that but now I'm in a place where it's just like I don't care It's like out of sight out of mind, but also I'm not going to go out of my way to delete them
Starting point is 00:59:48 so in this particular situation I feel like What makes this Situation a little sticky is that she's always had an inkling that he still had feelings for her So then why did you why did you marry him? I think If if there wasn't that portion of it I think it doesn't matter but
Starting point is 01:00:12 That's because she has that feeling then you know That's an issue if if you have that feeling though Then I feel like if you have have that much foresight going into the situation Then that should have been things that you addressed ahead of marrying this person or being you know Continuing the relationship whatever it is. She said current partner. So oh six years. Okay, but so that's that for me right off the bat like that is the reason why I won't date someone with kids is because They're gonna go back to their baby mom in some way shape or form and I'm not gonna fucking like it And I'm not gonna live with that
Starting point is 01:00:49 so That applying that same thought process to this is if you're with somebody for six years and you feel like he still has a Thing for his ex you need to get the fuck out because your gut your gut feeling is never wrong It is never wrong. Also um Just want to say if you've addressed this with him and It wasn't a big deal To him, but it was a big deal to you
Starting point is 01:01:14 if He didn't have underlying feelings there He would have just removed all of the stuff knowing that it was causing conflict Between you and him. So there's a reason that he's leaving that stuff there And coming up with excuses as to why he doesn't want to delete them Um chances are he probably does still have feelings for his ex Whether she was ex-wife baby mom and I forget whatever it said, but
Starting point is 01:01:41 There's definitely a reason that he's holding on to those memories. So I would just be very cautious proceeding forward and forward And and furthermore just checking the memories and things like that um When I first met Elijah, um Um, the only real fight we ever got into was because we had established our relationship in the beginning and his ex-wife called And I was literally like Why does she even still have access to call? I mean it was through facebook messenger. So like options were removed um, but
Starting point is 01:02:12 When I was like, how does she even still have access like in my head because i'm so hyper aware of things like that I was like, why does she still have access to you? I didn't even have to tell her I didn't even have to tell him to block her And he did it without just because I was like the fact that she still has access Is for me was a red flag and so, you know, they don't have kids together. So, you know I didn't even have to say you need to block her. He already did it So if that is something you basically this woman who wrote into our facebook Um, this will be the last thing I say is you have to decide if that's a deal breaker for you or not
Starting point is 01:02:45 Um, we've gone over this 101 times. There's a difference between red flags and deal breakers Um, or flaws and red flags and you need to decide if this is going to because if if you're going to harp on it Unharp on it unharp on it and he's not changing You either have to stay and stay quiet or you need to get out of the relationship You can't decide that, you know, you're going to keep bringing it up for the rest of your relationship Especially if you're six six years in But we can move on from my personal experience. I'm going to say she needs to move on There is a reason that he is not deleting it. There is a reason that she feels like he still has feelings for his baby mama
Starting point is 01:03:24 There's a reason for all of that. There's also a reason that she wrote into this podcast because it bothers her that much. So Totally we stand with you girlfriend. We do. Um, okay, let's do foul play foul play Hey ladies, I have a PSA that I was unaware of so I need to pass it on so others don't make this mistake I was sitting on the throne taking a pee when out of nowhere. I sneezed It immediately burned and was so painful to finish said pee Surprisingly, this has never happened to me before even though I have insane allergies and sneeze all the time So every time I peed after that it was unbearable
Starting point is 01:04:00 Burning pain and the pain would go up to my stomach until a few minutes after leaving the restroom I thought it would go away after a few days, but by day five I was really starting to panic that I tore my urethra I had an appointment with my OB. Yeah, I that's wild I had an appointment with my OB already scheduled. So I mentioned it to him and he was not concerned Thank the good lord. It started to subside by day eight. I was finally peeing again So if you can help it do not sneeze while peeing the force it sends out the urethra is no joke I do not recommend love the podcast and that
Starting point is 01:04:36 Love the podcast. It's the one I make sure to listen to every week Oh my god, that's awful first off First off Thank you for listening every week to our bullshit because like that means a lot anybody that can do that you're a trooper Secondly, if I And look at me when I tell you this if I started peeing I don't care if there was like a sneeze associated, but I started peeing and it was burning immediately
Starting point is 01:05:04 I would become web and d for myself And I would come up with like the most awful things that it could possibly be like Outrageous diagnosis STI cancer You name it like I would come up with it and would not sleep until I actually got to go to the doctor to find out What was going on because I am I don't want to call myself a hypochondriac But like a hypochondriac
Starting point is 01:05:32 100% if that happened to me, I would be like, oh my god, did I blow out my urethra? Like what is go? Did I remove did my urethra detach from my bladder like what is going on here? That sounds awful who sneezes that hard Like if you are sneezing so hard that you blew out your urethra, I don't even know how to say that word But like whatever That's some power, honey. That is some power that you must be you were really feeling the maladies that day I'm not okay. Okay. Next foul play my husband and I are both military So I went home with him to meet his family for the first time while we were dating
Starting point is 01:06:11 We went out one night with one of his closest friends and we're bar hopping My husband went to grab another drink and I was sitting at a table with his friend The friend was asking me questions trying to get to know me and asked do you like to be hit during sex? Oh very casual Weird right and as he is asking my husband sits down waiting for an answer I tell him that I like it rough and hitting can be fun Fast forward to the next day. We have stayed the whole trip With his very catholic mom and not allowed to sleep in the same room because they don't want us having sex
Starting point is 01:06:46 So we do what any normal couple would do and hook up in the bathroom when she is left for work very normal That's exactly what everyone else would do. Definitely that I am bent over the sink when all of a sudden my ear is ringing this man tried to hit me sexually from behind And cupped hand and slapped me in the ear. It was so painful Unexpected and my ear was ringing for hours. I asked him why he did that and he told me it was because I said I liked it
Starting point is 01:07:19 We have worked on things and they're better now. That was five years ago and it is hilarious looking back We got married a year later first off mother fucker tries to hit me in the ear and makes my ear ring for multiple hours like Never again. No, but it's the we've worked things out. Like that must have caused some serious Trauma in the relationship because she said we've worked things out. I'm fucking dead Okay, but do we think like that it's weird that One of your man's closest friends would be asking you new Questions about like immediately. Yes immediately. I was like, that's not okay
Starting point is 01:07:59 But it's like a very targeted question. It's not like casual, right? It's like, do you like being hit during sex? Like this is my thoughts His friend had a conversation with him and was like, hey, can you ask her does she like to be hit during sex? Like that's just so weird like who just does that if you're an adult and you have to send your friends to ask your future wife Sexual questions like that. Should you really be getting married because I don't want to be with anyone And I can't just be open with about my sexual preferences and kinks and things like that First of all, you shouldn't even be having sex if you can't ask questions like that. So right that's number one number two, I just want to say
Starting point is 01:08:41 Will's parents aren't catholic and neither are mine But with that being said I definitely relate to not sleeping together during trips We went on this or like having sex. No, no, no, like we weren't allowed to sleep together we went on a beach trip when we were in college and I was with Will's parents and my dad specifically called Will's parents and was like, I just need to make sure like Lindsay's sleeping in her own room and Will's parents were like, yeah, like we're gonna be sure of that like all these things like Will's mom exactly on the same page
Starting point is 01:09:16 whatever so Will makes his little bed on the couch and then when his parents go to bed He like creeps into my bedroom and he sleeps with me And then in the morning he acts like he was sleeping at the end of my bed Like the opposite way because he heard his parents coming and he's like, oh, I'm just gonna like act like I'm sleeping this way And it's like first of all, everybody knows we're fucking so like why is this a secret? They don't want to believe it. They knew but they didn't want to believe it On that trip we had sex in that room. We had sex in the pool
Starting point is 01:09:51 Um and sex in that room. Yeah, so so y'all were getting it in whether they liked it or not We absolutely honey. We absolutely were we were fucking like rabbits back in those days Can't keep your hands off each other kind of thing Before we go. I saw this thing that was it said things to remember tomorrow is a new day Making mistakes is part of life Saying no is okay. Not everyone has to like you beauty and strength come from within And on that note kitties Um, I am gonna go and try to get my office together and I have a meeting if you guys have not followed us on at
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