Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley - Why Are You So Obsessed With Me?

Episode Date: September 1, 2022

EP240: No, literally, why are you so obsessed with me? Lindsie wants to know why her ex keeps trying to sabotage her peace.. Lindsie shares the craziness. Kail doesn't understand why men think certain household duties are gender exclusive, and a Hooters waitress is doing rubbing WHAT in WHAT?!Also, Kail wants to know who is in charge of picking which true crime gets a documentary, craziness goes down in the Telegram groupchat, and in this week's Foul Play? We're definitely kink shaming!  Thank you to our sponsors!Better Help: Visit BetterHelp.com/coffee today to get 10% off your first monthCon Air: Search “Conair SmoothWrap” on Amazon.com to try the new drying experience with SmoothWrap today!Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com/COFFEECONVOS for 15% off your first purchaseStitch Fix: Sign up today at StitchFix.com/convos to get $20 off your first purchase

I hate gift giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you? This is coffee convos with Kale Lowry and Lindsay Chrisley. I really want you to be in your feels Kale That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you a spirited discussion about motherhood friendship Family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here Here's Kale and Lindsay Are we recording right now? Good morning. Buenos dias It was a little bit of an eventful time getting on here

Kristen and I are at the lake and I had to like connect to Wi-Fi and stuff and I Got a new computer and there was just a lot going on. So good morning. How are you? I am alive unwell as usual and Thriving this morning. Jackson and I actually slept in he is playing hooky today and Yeah, we're just we're living it up. I'm drinking an alani and ready to chat with you

I actually drink coffee this morning for the first time in months and months and months You're gonna have diarrhea shits. Well, probably but I I feel like because we're at the lake house I feel like I did not have they don't so where I'm from like my actual hometown Which I've told you guys before is not Nazareth, Pennsylvania Like the show says but I'm I'm actually from Honesdale and Lake Wal-Paw Pack. Like that's where I grew up They don't have a Starbucks here. So they don't and they don't have any type of other crime Yeah, so like knowing that I didn't have like instant access to it and they also the lake house can't get any deliveries to it So just like knowing that I couldn't have coffee because I didn't have access to it

I literally was like I feel like I want coffee and it's so weird because at home it like repulses me It's repulsed me for like the past several months. So it's just like a weird, you know, what I think it is it is something Psychologically about that. I swear. It's like a marketing thing that Chick-fil-A does like yes They that is God's food Jesus's chicken But them being closed on Sunday I feel like I always want Chick-fil-A on Sunday and it's got to be some type of Psychological thing that they're messing with your mind and it's because you can't get it. I think you might be right

I do. I think you might be right about that. So same thing for like you can't really have Like when we got here yesterday, so we were trying to instacart stuff because nobody wants to go to the store with 12 people Like it nobody just know no one signing up for that. I don't want to go to the store with me I literally don't want to bring my kids to the store. Like I would I don't want to go to the store by myself same I Do a lot of like delivery For my groceries because just more convenient and here you can't do that. So Her order got canceled like three times. Finally, we got a delivery this morning

But they're very few and far between like you can't just get it on a whim speaking of Kristen actually instacarded Me because after our recording last week like literally right after the recording last week I came down with some sickness. I'm calling it the flu because everything else was ruled out Took multiple COVID tests. No, it's not that Um, you know when I tell you this sickness that I came down with was like all of a sudden I couldn't get out of the bed And I am so thankful that Silver rendad was over here because if he wasn't I don't know if I would have been able to survive like my

sweats and fever and Just general nausea Was so bad. I was like, wait, am I? Dying like this might be the situation where I really need to call 9-1-1 and get an ambulance and get me to the hospital I felt so bad I was about to start crying because I thought I was dying like dehydration and stuff like that Yes, it went like an IV

When I tell you I don't know if anybody that is listening to this has ever gotten so sick that they Got afraid that they might be passing away That's how I felt and I was like, oh my god, like what am I gonna do? Like I need to get in touch with Kristen, but like I don't even have the strength to get in touch with Kristen and life insurance policy and like Update your living will Yeah, I mean Lindsay, that's awful. That is so also. Are you feeling better? Like did you are you are you better? Yes, it was so weird. So I had this fever and it was for like

Two and a half three days. Mm-hmm. And then all of a sudden once the fever broke I showered and I was good Bodies are so weird. Like I've never had something like that actually My smart-ass ex-husband Had sent an email yesterday and it was to Kristen and it was like wait e-mails Kristen Wait, yeah Oh, why why does he email her? Kristen's our mediator. Oh my god. Goodbye. And so in that email it was like

Hold on. Let me just see. I'm not gonna give you guys all the contents of the email That would be an appropriate. I know but but it was so great. Okay instead of nitpicking Your employer should maybe show a little credit and appreciation towards me Ask her who helped her when she suffered through the fastest flu in the history of blues Like stop typing like literally the fastest flu in the history of flu's Literally get off your fucking PC and find something else to do stop it right now Stop it get off your PC. Does he have a PC? Why does he not have a? Mac this is the same person that rolled around with an Android the entire time we were married but then

Decided that he was gonna be with the times and get an Apple watch and an iPhone after we got divorced But I'm assuming that's when he got on these dating apps. So what the fuck is going on I feel like the fuckery was so real this week like our group chat blew the fuck up like I I Didn't know what the fuck was going on wait Are we gonna talk about that right because well, we can't talk about it right this second because I've got a couple other Things I need to tell you about where we get to that. Okay, that's like the meat of this conversation That's the meat and potatoes baby Okay, so I

Feel like I am ready to Hard launch suburban dad. I don't know why I'm so afraid of this Like I don't really care about what the general public thinks about anything really Which is slightly alarming sometimes my parents are like, okay, the level of no fucks given is scary But I Am nervous about it and I don't know why It just feels like kind of scary, but it also feels like the right time for me to do it

Okay, well whenever you're ready, we'll be here, but were you nervous? I was very nervous if it's very nerve-wracking because it's one of those things where it's like You want to keep it private because you deserve some level of privacy and you want to protect the relationship and the person at all costs But then you also It's like if I do this is shit gonna go south immediately, but I feel like and I correct me if I'm wrong But I don't feel like you have as many trolls as I do that would be willing to Ruin try to ruin the relationship outside of maybe like exes So if you feel comfortable, I say do it

I mean, it's obviously nerve-wracking, but also you could do a tiktok that says does anyone want to claim this man before I hardlaunch him I Saw that on tiktok and I was like, honestly, that's kind of amazing It was like does anyone want to claim this man before I marry him and Wait, you have to send me these tiktoks. This is so good. Yeah, they were they will show the man It's like does anyone want to claim him or tell me whatever? Before I marry him or before we move in together or whatever like the milestone is and I thought about doing that But I'm so dead. Yeah. Oh my god. I love that. I love that so much. Please send me the tiktoks

I was gonna say I do think that you have a lot more trolls Actually my ex husband let me know that I also have trolls and it's funny because he is one he is one Will I it's so hard because I loved will when I met him So it's so hard because it's like the one side of me is like I don't want to hear this horrible stuff about will because I really liked him when I met him But then on the other side, it's like he really had me fooled if he's doing all this fucking wild ass shit So it's sad. I'm sad. Well, it is sad

Like I had said before the statement. You don't know someone until you divorce them That's a fact is so true for me and I think that you know true people's true colors really come out My parents never liked him. So I guess they're just in the phase of told you so told you so told you so Don't we all love to hear that like I'm sure helpful like it's Not helpful at all. I'm sure other people who are listening to this that have parents that Love to remind them about how they told them so can relate to yeah to me actually my dad loves to regularly send me memes and Every morning I wake up to stuff and there was an I told you so meme like in there this morning

He also had sent me something last night before I went to bed that said it was from crazy bitch problems And he's always sending me this so I don't know if he is a crazy bitch or if he thinks I'm a crazy bitch But it said I'm so impressed by people in their 20s who got divorced You made a commitment broke a commitment hired a lawyer in the same decade that I couldn't figure out what to do with my hair I'm like, I don't know if I should feel attacked and press Which one which one am I love that so much wait, I'm gonna shit I'm gonna play the little thing that he sent me this morning You never do white duties at girlfriend prices, I've heard that before

I have a lot of feelings on this because I just feel like It's Sam. It's it's one of those things where it's like if you value marriage and you If that's what you want, I understand that but I also understand like Showing your person your partner who you're supposed to love and who's supposed to end up. You're supposed to end up with You know who you are before you get married kind of thing like unless they just know that they're gonna marry you before You do all of that and then that's fine and then it just gets better when you get married But then on the other hand like marriage is not the end game for everybody So if it's not the if it's not the end game then when you guys move in together

You're gonna do all the things that you would do when someone else gets married. Does that make sense? Oh, no, it makes total sense. I think when I hear that The way I listen to it is take like wife and girlfriend out and like if you are not Committed to the level of what like a marriage would be you shouldn't be doing those types of duties at the lower price Y'all be knowing I love pair. I wear luxe calls them kinetic glasses instead of magnetic glasses It's so cute. Your talk is my fave. Yeah So I just did a tick tock on these and actually Lincoln just got his football uniforms And I want to match my glasses to his football uniform

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Men feeling like they do chores to help us and it's like no those are literal Household chores that all of us should be taking part in I don't feel like I should be the only one that cleans And I don't feel like I should be the only one that cooks or you know what I'm saying? Like those are not things that are just left to the women You're not taking that off my plate. If you fucking live here, you need to participate. Oh, this is so good You're not doing a fucking favor by cleaning the kitchen and I'm not I'm not talking about Elijah or anyone specifically I'm just saying like in general. I've been in relationships where it's like they literally feel like they did something for me by doing the laundry or doing the dishes or

Taking up the trash. No, these are fucking mutual things that we need to be doing together And I'm not going to thank you like I'm just not I think it is Society tells us that like these are The roles right like yeah, but those roles were established when men worked They were the breadwinners and they were financing a woman's entire lifestyle to be able to stay home and raise the kids And cook and clean and that was her only job. It was not when Society decided that both parents should be or both partners should be working over 40 plus hours a week And the woman should have to still come home clean take care of the kids do all of that

Like obviously there are exceptions to this and there are really good men out there But I think a majority of men who have this idea that you know They're working 40 hours a week so they don't have to come home and do mutual chores I don't agree with that because taking care of the kids and staying home is a full-time fucking job so I can give you my experience with this because it is Something that we definitely struggled through when will and I were married at one point I was considered a stay-at-home mom and stay-at-home wife and I did all of the duties like going to the grocery store and the laundry and

cooking at one point and all needs were met for Jackson and then I have always kind of been a stay-at-home mom But then I was a stay-at-home mom with an income at one point and then a stay-at-home mom with an income that superseded my husbands and so You know at that point. I got to a place where I was like, okay. I am Providing at this point

Bringing more to the table financially than my partner Still staying at home with my son and taking care of all of his needs The last thing I want to do is clean this fucking house And put a meal on the table and I know that that sounds horrible But I think I grew bitter and I was resentful. Yep. I knew you're gonna that's And you know what's fucked up is that we're almost like brainwashed to feel like We have to do these things because I don't know about you if you've ever experienced this But there have been times where I will look at my partner's location

Just to see how close they are to home so I could get up and act like I did everything And back to the dishes and do the things and do all the things that I'm literally preaching that I feel like I shouldn't have to do Because I am a work-from-home mom. Um And even though I do have help and things like that It's like I feel like I'm a piece of shit if I don't do those things that I've literally talked to my therapist about it I've literally been like and she's like leave the dishes in the sink kale leave them Like see what happens if you leave them and I mean Elijah has never said anything to me about it But I know it's self-induced like you put that on yourself. I yeah, because that's what I feel like I'm supposed to do

No, and I'm like no I got to a point where I legitimately just did not care and Really that caused huge problems in our marriage And then we would get into the argument of You know Will didn't grow up with a housekeeper I did So I was like it's not the end of the world for me to pay for someone to come and clean this house So that we can go out and enjoy a Saturday right instead of focusing on what needs to still get done

And we can be present with our families and things like that. Yeah, and like a Feeling like everything is a life chore because that's what my marriage turned into a chore um And to me I'm like okay. I look back on it and I'm like okay Well, if he would have just let me hire the housekeeper or if he would have just given on this You know, I mean, I'm sure he probably does the same thing, but It's just no society tells us that as women we are supposed to do all of these things Plus have a career plus rage children

plus plus plus plus plus right and men are allowed to Go to work Play golf and they feel like their wife three times a week. Yeah, and and don't get me wrong There are women who probably like to do you know, they're like my man worked really hard He works 40 50 60 hours a week and they like to do those things. I'm not knocking the women that like to do it And they want to do it um So I really don't like if you guys aren't fitting into

The generalization that we're making right now Please don't message me and say that you know Your specific situation is different because that's not you're not you don't apply to this So you get what I'm saying like I don't want to read message I hate when people message and they're like well, I love this or I like this or this is how I do it It works for us. Great. That works for you. It wasn't it didn't apply to you then, right? Like if it doesn't apply let it fly Okay, chris, right

If it don't apply let it fly No, but I think then you get into the conversation of if people are saying that Then it's a bigger conversation of okay. Well, is that your love language because That's not mine. Ah See that's not mine either like obviously I like to have A clean house and those things on my own, but I'm not going to do it for somebody else I'm going to do it for me like my love language is not acts of service Oh, so my my dad's is what yours mine is first acts of service, but but now that you bring that up

Evidently acts of service is actually a trauma response like your love language being acts of service is trauma Tell me more. Okay. Hold on. Let me see what I didn't think we were going to get on this topic Otherwise, I would have came prepared Acts of I got to google this now because I had seen it. It was like a tick tock, which so obviously it has to be 100% true Uh, no, I'm just kidding. Anything you see on tick tock is the bible. So basically Um, I'll post it on the story because I don't want to spend too much time looking for it Because I just didn't think we were going to talk about this topic But I will find it and I will post it on the story and I'll send it to you because I remember

Specifically seeing like that is it's like not real. It's trauma. It's from trauma. See my love language is not cleaning the kitchen or cooking food, but my love language is Netflix and chill like quality time Yeah, I would love to know what other people's are because I think that that Also plays a part into everything that we're saying like what is your love language? I use how do you give and receive love? We actually talked about that a while on the southern tea Yeah, like the way you give love and the way you receive it could be two different things as well for sure

I also have this like complex. Um, and I'm really showing my ass here and it's only evolved over time Um, and I think that when money becomes involved people get weirder and I've said that a hundred times on here One thousand percent, but I think that is also like because I have always I mean even when I was with Mary to Javi and he was busing tables and I was a dental assistant I was making more money than him. I pretty much always made more money than all my partners I can't think of any partner that made more than me. Um, I have this complex where it's like Okay, how the roles have reversed society believes that oh that a man works 40 50 60 hours a week and should come home to A home cooked meal and clean house and taking care of the kids

I feel like I'm the breadwinner. So either you're gonna take care of mutual tours with me or you're gonna do them all Oh, yeah, no, I totally feel like that and And it's um, it's a horrible trait to have I'm sure but that's how I feel now Yeah, no, see I am of the mindset at this point. Well, I have everything that's like my own So at this point I don't give a fuck. I'm gonna do the way I want to do it um And have no intentions at this point to Change that I'm like I have worked hard for this life

And I'm gonna do it the way that I feel is appropriate because I know what caused problems in my marriage And I know how those problems if I allow someone else to come in And control certain aspects of my life It's just gonna build resentment and I'm gonna keep doing it the way that I do it. Like I work hard I am a busy person. I have family to tend to um, a child to tend to and An ex-husband to fight so I got shit to do so I don't care Not an ex-husband to fight

I don't care if someone wants to rag me because I have someone come and help me clean my house on Fridays Like I'm also helping them while they're cleaning as well So it's not like I'm just having someone come in and clean all of my shit You know, I'm also at home on Fridays typically taking care of all of my household duties that need to be done So I can go into the weekend With a clean house and know that on Monday whenever I wake up that I'm not waking up into chaos And I probably will not change that regardless of what partner that I have I agree Now a word from our sponsor better help. So Lindsay and I actually just got a message of a woman who said that she

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I don't know what was happening at Hooters Which is so funny because I just talked to I'll call her a friend Jade who used to work at Hooters and she was like, oh like it's great and like surprisingly the girl support girls Everyone likes to get dressed and like look cute and go scam money men all day And I thought that was so funny, right? So I happened to be scrolling again I don't know if the phone's listening and showing me this shit on purpose or what

But it says it came up on my feed and it says Hooters waitress taken into custody for allegedly dipping hot wings in her vagina on and off her period to rude customers And it's literally a mugshot of this woman in her Hooters shirt. Okay First of all on and off her period. That's disturbing like that I mean, there's other ways to get back at rude customers, but I don't think bodily fluids Or or body parts Um Should be involved. I mean she was definitely doing this with flats. Like it wasn't drumming

Prop yeah, like I am alarmed. I'm I'm very alarmed. Like you couldn't think of anything else to do like You know, right? Tell them they're ugly on the receipt. Like I don't know Maybe something that's not a felony because this is like truly Like in order to think of something like that you're already a psychopath Like you're a felon. I mean you you were born a felon you need to be Locked up like this bitch was born a felon if you had the thoughts of Sticking a chicken wing in your kuchi to get back at somebody immediately you're a felon No, I'm literally immediately because that's not

That's not normal in any way shape or form to even think of that idea. Um I haven't been to a Hooters in a minute. I actually haven't been to Hooters in a minute too probably years actually Um, but I have been eating wings quite a bit Um, I think it has to do with the time of year and I know that that's like sounds really weird But I tend to eat certain foods certain times of the year that I don't eat other times of the year Okay, so like wings is definitely like a major Fall staple for me. Okay. I love them so much I am a lemon pepper girl and I love an extra crispy flat

But don't fuck with me on that and if you bring me blue cheese, don't I love blue cheese and I also love extra crispy flats God, it's so good. It's a fall thing. Um, I'm really leaning into the idea of Cooler weather and I say this all the time like it'll be winter and then I'm like I am so ready for summer And then summer comes and I'm like, okay. I've had enough of this hot shit. So I'm ready for fall And that's where we're at. I'm ready for like crockpot meals some football food I'm just really excited college football is the absolute jam

I love nothing more than to wake up on like a saturday morning and to Just be active go to the gym or something maybe go on a walk come home shower getting comfy's Um watch clumps in football and eat Fingerfoods. It's it's so unmatched. Unmatched. It's an unmatched feeling um, but speaking of fall somewhere I can't remember if it was like in the

group chat on telegram or not, but somewhere I said something about like how it smells like fall Oh, I think it was because I was talking about how I was gonna do stuff with suburban dad and our kids on the weekend And I was like it smells like fall outside and then I was like wait, I probably need to explain like How it smells like fall. Um, I am definitely the type of person that associates Emotions or like smells with emotion smells. Oh me too a hundred percent a hundred percent and in the fall I always like get this

sense of like I don't it's very hard to describe but like it smells like fall to me and when I was a little girl when my parents were going through a custody dispute, um, my dad had me and My biological mom had Kyle and They had to go to court. They had to go to some like court hearing And this was in downtown Atlanta and I don't know what was going through either person's mind

But I had been left in a car In a parking lot Um in downtown Atlanta by myself I know you told me this privately before and I'm like so sad. I know what you're gonna say I was probably like six or seven years old And I was given a I was put like in the floorboard and I was given a wristwatch and told like when the clock goes here We'll be back and they were in this court hearing and I was underneath this blanket with this wristwatch

And the windows were cracked and I can remember hearing people like, you know, if you're in a parking garage Like you can hear people's voice like echo. Yeah, and so I could hear voices echoing and I was so scared But I knew like I didn't need to move because I was afraid for somebody to see me And I can remember this like it was yesterday Afraid for someone to see me Afraid of the noises and I just kept watching this watch and the smell Outside was fall. So every time I start smelling fall. I think of this memory That's fucking traumatizing. Obviously it's trauma

um And it's so weird fall is my favorite season, but also I associate the smell with that memory a traumatic event Yeah, I also get that way. Um, any type of smells like I'm very very sensitive to smells Um, I'm the same way. I don't have a memory like that specifically, but um I'm surprised that it's your favorite holiday even though you think of that not holiday your favorite season Even though you think of that and I also want to apologize if you guys can hear my kids out in the living room, um The lake house is really small. So Um, there's not really anywhere else for them to go. No one can hear them. Okay. Um

If if we can we don't care. Okay. Also, um before we get really into it I want to let everyone know that I personally am going to be covering sins of our mother on here Um, it's a three-part True crime docu series that's coming to netflix on september the 14th. And so I think that maybe I don't know how we're going to cover it. Um If you guys would rather us cover it like by the episode Um, or just like an overview of all of it

Um, I guess we'll have to see how in depth like it really is but i'm excited for it You know, I just still wonder and I think I've said this before like how do filmmakers and documentaries and like fbi and all these people decide What to make documentaries about and like what crimes what true crime? What did they get like how is that decided because honestly feel like my life could be a lifetime movie or honestly like a really good Two-part documentary. So I just want to know like how how is that decided? I don't know because I've never heard of the people that are in sins of our mother I don't know and it's so weird. I'm like, well, did these people like approach

Someone to get this to happen or like I need answers and same for I just killed my father like I've never heard of that outside of this documentary So like how do they decide when like what is going to be created into? Films wait, will you tell me about that because I just couldn't get into it. Okay, so So it took like a strange turn. Um, I thought that this like he was kidnapped by like a random person Um, but it ended up that he was taken by his dad and allegedly the biological mom was on drugs and Didn't really have outside of like missing person's signs She didn't really do a whole lot to get him back because she was afraid of her ex-husband

um And his current wife ended up leaving him because she was being abused by him as well This young boy, he never went to school. The dad had such severe control issues That he never registered his son for school. He wasn't allowed to play with neighborhood kids He was isolated in the home. Um, and the dad basically brainwashed him and his drinking became excessive and he would like just Traumatize and harass his son Um, all the time to the point where the son eventually snapped and shot his dad I wonder if that's like common with because you hear it pretty often

Um, when you're watching true crime stuff about people who Do things to their children like first thing that came to mind was the turpin family And how you know, they didn't go to school. Um, there's got to be something specifically That's causing them not to like involve them in regular secular society, I guess the thing about

This specific documentary is that um, I think that the father was controlling him not going to school and having friends in the neighborhood because Of how bad he was abusing and basically holding his own son captive He couldn't risk his son Telling somebody right. Yeah. No, I think I think that's a common thing that you hear of that That's why they keep them away from General public because they're afraid of what is going to be told Well, and there was one part two where when the when the stepmom ended up leaving for abuse Um, I think it was like her and her brother and her own son

Um went to go get like furniture or something And the dad had put strategically placed cameras not for like outsiders But to keep an eye on his own family coming and going which is a little sick. Um And he had told his son that they were coming to beat him up And so that they should he can't answer the door for them. These are familiar faces So the son got scared and was like texting the dad when they got there because he thought that they were coming to beat him up So the stepmom was like, we're not here to hurt you Like we're literally here to get furniture and like we're so sorry

But the one thing where the stepmom failed was that she says in the documentary and in court that She witnessed her and her own son witnessed abuse of him But they did not put that on any place in their own PFA's now I filed PFA's before as y'all know and at the bottom or somewhere on the document It'll say like kids in the household that you want to protect as well And nobody ever named him and I did think that was kind of like failing him a little bit because even if you try And you put his name down and they don't protect him You at least tried and you at least let them know there is another child in the house that's being abused or whatever the case may be

But she did not do that. And so that did It was kind of like a mark against him like is he abused? Is he not abused? Um, and then there was this argument which actually let me say too. They did a mock trial for this case Um, the attorney ended up taking the case pro bono with um, like he never has to pay it back um And they did a mock trial which I thought was really cool And I have never heard of any other cases doing mock trials to see what the jury would think Um, and I felt like that was really helpful and insightful to see like what are the chances if this goes to

A jury trial. I don't think it ever did. They ended up exonerating him and like letting him off or getting him acquitted Um, but I will say like I don't like the argument so much that Oh, other people have been traumatized and don't kill their parents. Okay. I was kidnapped by my father when I was six months old Um, and that's a story that my mom and my mom and my dad's sister told me and their story is aligned Um, I didn't grow up to shoot any of my parents But everybody handles trauma differently. So you can't compare people's traumas and how they react You know what I mean? So I didn't really like that argument. I I agree, you know, um, every person Handles a situation differently. They could be in the same situation. It's just like raising kids, right?

It could be raised exactly the same in the same household by the same parents and Just come out a world differently and literally look like they were raised in two totally different environments by different kinds of people Um, so I don't agree with that argument either. Yeah, so that was this summary, um, oh Also, some they found a sibling somebody found a sibling of his Um connected him while he was still in prison to his biological mom He was able to go meet his grandmother his aunt and his mother

Um and kind of talked to them and he you know talked about how weird it was that he knows them He's related to them, but he doesn't know them Um, but she said that you know, she she never gave up on him But the dad had told him that she was like cracked out and didn't care about him and was never looking for him Which was really sad. Um, so I would be curious to know like what the relationship is now with his, you know With his maternal side The grandma says on the documentary like it was really good to meet you again. Um, the next time we meet I might not be alive because she was older

Um, but you know, we've always loved you and things like that and I just thought how sad is that like he's missing That whole part of his life. That's so sad well, if you're interested in True crime, we always do a true crime episode once a month and then regularly cover documentaries on here When they come up because they I feel like they're coming up more and more. Um But if you're not interested in true crime and you want a good just like easy Super super easy watch and kind of like chicky watch. I just started sweet magnolias I had finished virgin river

And was told by suburban dad's oldest daughter that like sweet magnolias was good So I was like, I'm gonna give it a try watch the first episode love it. Um, so that's what I'm currently watching Okay, so I just went on instagram live and you were on it Everyone was like, what are you doing with your hair? And at the time obviously I just didn't have time because I was getting on another podcast But I just got the conair smooth wrap hairdryer. So as soon as we get off the podcast I'm going to go use it to finish out my look for the day because I'm going to football after this And this is not a typical hairdryer. It's a treatment for all hair types. So Traditional dryers emit only like negative ions to control frids

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I want to tell you what happened to me with jackson at sky zone Another incident at sky zone. Well, there was an incident at sky zone, but this involved all three of our kids Um, some boy throwing balls at their heads, but like that's not that's literally the least of the worries um, I was sitting at sky zone and had gotten a text from Will and it said Brit Brit is wild and out Who's Brit Brit? First of all, who goes by Brit Brit as an adult woman Like that's first of all

Secondly, I'm just like don't misfire text. I know that like you and your mother have an issue with misfire text but like Don't misfire text to your ex-wife like probably Not advisable advisable um Then calls me At seven something and I have bought a 90 minute jump pass for jackson

So I'm like, I'm not gonna make him stop jumping to come and talk to you Further, let's get into who the fuck Brit Brit is and why she's wild and out and like why I'm getting the text about it And why does will know she's wild and out? Yeah, like we need to know why you know this and so You know break it down And continue going back and forth with each other It comes out that will allegedly has a girlfriend. Okay, and this is interesting to me because

Because like a true interesting revelation because she was not a claimed girlfriend a couple of weeks ago in A parenting session with jackson's therapist And so at this point i'm pissed off not because he has a girlfriend But i'm pissed off by the fact that we pay a lot of money for jackson to participate and play therapy Which also requires both parents that are sharing custody to participate in this process and if we're walking through the process of being a year out post-divorce and

You know the therapist is kind of gearing jackson up for You know what it looks like for your parents to date and like Other people being introduced into his life as suburban dad I have been fully transparent with jackson's therapist about that And what we do and just that way when she's doing therapy with jackson and he's playing If she notices any themes she is very aware of what's going on right so jack Will coming to a therapy session and just being a bold-faced liar like doesn't benefit anyone including himself And now brit brit's wilding out and we don't know who the fuck brit brit is

And he wasn't claiming her. I don't know who the fuck brit brit is. Can we not call her brit brit? That is so childish He wasn't claiming the girlfriend a couple of weeks ago and childish brit alleged in this co-parenting Session that he was dating But was dating multiple people Not having a girlfriend. So I'm like nothing adds up. So basically we have established now a couple of things brit brit is wilding out and You're a pathological liar

um So I ask him. I'm like, okay. So you have this girlfriend who is she like does she have Kids it you know, like how old is she are you planning on introducing her to jackson? And um, well now I find out that she is and this is not by Me saying this but like him saying this She is high profile. What does that mean high profile? I don't fucking know Like if she like has a she is an attorney and she is high profile. She's an attorney. Okay So I'm like, okay. So any attorney that's dating you I'm surprised that she passed the bar

She shut the fuck up Shut the fuck up because if she's dating you then that tells me everything that I need to know. She's stupid What kind of attorney is she? No one knows. No one knows any of this information. Okay. This is the first I'm finding out about it And how you know, she's smart and I'm like, okay Well, that's interesting because the fact that she was fucking talking to you proves that she's not so So, okay, um, I never alleged that I was smart. I you are smart though Am a reality tv personality a podcaster Um and an influencer. So if I want to be stuck on stupid then that's okay because like my job fits the

mold, right? But like She's an attorney and she's so smart, but she's fucking you so like I'm confused Wait, so is this is this person real or is she not real? No one knows So I'm like Jackson Um, does your dad have a girlfriend and he's like no never heard of her And I'm like Okay, so he's claiming he has a girlfriend, but like you've never heard of her

So let's back up because Will no longer allows Jackson to have a cell phone at his house. Why no one knows You're asking all the questions that I need answers to as well um So it's weird because will uses jack. He he blings Jackson's hotline while he's at my house Lindsay shut up But but yeah, I have to bling will's hotline. Don't listen to me the next smart ass email I get from Christopher Michael Lopez. I'm literally going to email him back and say bling my hotline because I

Oh my god, I fucking can't so You know will has free reign to call text whatever Jackson while he's over here Don't care like whatever. Just don't don't call my hotline like she shut off I guess you're blocked But yeah, I have to call will's phone to get in contact with Jackson will hold the phone won't let Jackson hold the phone um When I FaceTime it's two minutes and then will's like I'm tired of this conversation

And then hangs up on us and I'm like first of all you're tired of a conversation that you're not supposed to fucking be in So like nobody invited you to this conversation. You're not allowed to be at this conversation like I'm pissed off the fact that you're existing in this conversation And then I realized okay. Well, maybe the reason he's holding the phone and won't let Jackson hold the phone Is because he's afraid for Jackson to see text messages or something come through From this girlfriend or Brit Brit. So I'm like, okay now the piece is the puzzler adding up So will regularly says that I am obsessed. I am um

In love with him. He tells Jackson this like your mom's in love with me. Look. She's calling me I called him at 7 0 8 the other morning on Jackson's way to school and will told Jackson Your mom's obsessed with me. She's in love with me because she's calling me Oh, like I'm calling your phone because you won't let Jackson have his phone at your house So evidently you like me calling your phone or you would allow him to have his phone at your house So I didn't have to call your phone um And

Why are you so obsessed with being obsessed with saying that I am in love with you? Like nobody nobody is in love with you Like who are you trying to convince Jackson or yourself or yourself or because you you don't have me convinced or fooled like I'm I'm good bro. Like I'm fine. I am on the suburban dad train I've got things going on and I'm certainly not trying to board The mental illness caboose that is going on with you. So It's just it's really wild um

So all of this happens, right? We get into this knock down drag out over the phone And then the group chat um Would you like to tell what happens on the group chat because I was just sitting at the park with Suburban dad and our three kids enjoying a nice little, you know cheesecake date Picked up cheesecake from cheesecake factory took it to the park kids were playing and I see coffee combos

group message Blowing up on my phone and I'm like what the fuck is this and this is where kales going to take over So I basically Come out of hiding. I hadn't been in the group chat really all day um, and I see something about about Brit or someone's Someone is their friend is dating will

And I'm like I need answers like I have to tell Lindsay like Lindsay's not in here right now I have to text or I have to tell her so I tell you I text you let you know And you're like I need the information. So I was like, all right, cool So then Brit changes her story and she's like well, I don't feel comfortable Like I didn't need to start any shit. Like I don't feel comfortable with this blah, blah, blah I message her separately and I'm like hey like Lindsay's asking for like I need answers and Then she's like no have Lindsay reach out reach out to me directly and I'm just like nah like that's not how this works I don't reach out to anybody right like if you came in here saying all this shit

Then like come with the facts come with the receipts because Lindsay and I don't come Without receipts and actual information So then she just like goes m.i.a. And she wants you to reach out directly or whatever And I'm like what the fuck am I supposed to do? So I have no idea at this point like is this person real? Is she just trolling like what is this? Um, and that was where it was left for me. I mean People will go to bed at this point. Yes, because at this point, I'm like, okay You're you're not going to tell me anything you come and tell an entire group chat worth of people

You know that your friend is dating will but when I message you directly about it, you don't want to tell me You also don't really want to tell Lindsay. I think even Kristen might have said like are you gonna Share the tea like what's going on? I told her to be about it Just told her to be about it. Yes. Oh my god Kristen tells her literally to fucking be about it and I'm like, okay First of all, who are you like your name is your username is brit, but like your other name What was it Kristen? I don't want to say the other person's name because I have a real-time update that just came through And I can confirm that the person who was named brit

Her name is not brit. She actually hacked someone's PayPal account to get into this group chat What? This shit just took a turn. Oh Why not just like come in and just like own it just like if you're gonna be she was talking shit about will like She was up. Was she not Kristen? She was up in there talking shit about will And the girlfriend being a copy paste of Lindsay Yeah, like allegedly she's a copy paste of me. First of all First of all, there's no one that's a copy paste of me. So like sit down

Secondly, um Will ordering Tabasco at a nice Steakhouse is not surprising to me. Um Um, whatever this girl says that she was there and embarrassed and I'm like, okay Well, if will's only been dating this girl A couple months. Why is he dining with her and her best friend like weird but whatever? um, and then third she said what was the thing that she said Kristen that um, someone

Said the group chat was the photo of will on these dating apps That was like the truck reflection photo. Oh, yeah They said it's not what did it for her for her friend Is that what did it for her friend and she's like no will drives around her car everywhere And I'm like, okay, this makes no sense. Like what type of man like is just driving around her car everywhere? um ordering Tabasco sauce at some nice steakhouse, um

Just doing weird shit that he's doing Like what the hell is going on and why do you feel like this is tea that needs to be spilled in my private group chat? It's like just go away people. I just don't like I just don't get it. I won't get it. I'll never get it Now a word from our sponsor better help So Lindsay and I actually just got a message of a woman who said that she Is so thankful for our code for better help because she's starting her therapy journey and I told her We're here for her. It's not going to always be easy, but better help is so great for therapy and It's just tough to get through everyday life on a regular basis. So you add issues trauma anything else into it

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This is a limited time offer purchase within two days of sign up So then that same evening my ex-husband thought that it was a good idea that he was going to enter the group chat He paid five dollars. He passed go Collected two hundred. He did not collect nothing. We collected five dollars and I nicely told him like You're out. You're kicked out and also like you're not getting your five dollars back Thanks for playing You did not hit the lottery like thanks for playing and like also He texted me and said

I want to go on that chat so I can clear My good name and my girlfriend's good name. First of all, y'all don't even have a name Well, who's the is the girlfriend real then the girl is real? They allegedly. Okay, so I'm like Okay, so I'm like, okay So you're gonna you need to clear what name do y'all have so then he starts talking about how His girlfriend lets him know that censorship is a crime and whatever and so I just simply told him that Censorship might be a crime in itself. And that's great. You can go out and say whatever you want to say But I don't have to allow you to use my platforms that I have created to say whatever you want to say

That's not um, free marketing for you. So get the fuck out and also, please No name Bitch go back to law school because you need to read the constitution And you need to realize that I have freedom of speech So I'm gonna say what the fuck I want to say when the fuck I want to say it and how the fuck I want to say It I need to see a picture of this woman. I also made the rules so that it says I I can kick anybody out that I want How whenever I want to so it's not censorship. I just said goodbye So then I you know get into this knockdown drag out with will about how

You know, basically he's just being a scrub And so he tells me that he's Informed his girlfriend that he was actually the owner of these homes and how he didn't take any money from me And like how it wasn't a marital asset. This is where I'm going to cue christen to play this divorce lawyer tiktok Um, I also want to say we aren't giving legal advice. This is just a public service announcement to my ex-husband and anybody who I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

I don't know. I don't. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. the pay down on the mortgage, you're going to get half of it. Even if you're paying other bills and he's paying the mortgage, you're going to get half of the pay down on the mortgage and half of the appreciation on the house. Any house? So don't know if that needs to be told to the girlfriend or Will Campbell himself, but that that's literally the law. He wants to say that his name was the only one on the mortgage. Yeah,

that's because you're the only one that's stupid because I put my name on the deed because I pulled a Medea on your ass. My name is on the deed. My name is on the deed and not on the financial obligation. That was me too with Harvey. So you got played, buddy. And then I got played in the end because you took my money. And then I decided that I needed to calm down and realize that really none of this shit matters outside of just like petty drama. So then I started looking at TikTok and found this Steve Harvey TikTok. And I know that you're not as much of a fan of Steve Harvey as I am, but I'm going to play play this TikTok and and exit the room on this conversation. For all the bad moments you had that looked like you

weren't going to make it. And then I want you to ask yourself, well, why did I make it? Well, it's real simple. It's simply because God ain't through with you. So I have struggled through the bad moments. I will say going through divorce and the way that I went through it, trying to take the high road every single week on my shows. That all can be proven because it's all in archives. I've tried to do that and tried to be fair. These issues started arising when I became more serious with Suburban Dad. And I'm not going to back down from defending myself and sharing my story because that's not fair to me. And I wasn't required to do that when I was married to him and sharing things on the podcast. I just, we've said this before, but like, I don't understand

the don't talk about me. Don't talk, like, this is my life. I'm going to talk about whatever I want. Literally. And anyone in my life that was a part of my life, that's a part of my story. It's a part of my journey. I don't care if something happened five years ago, 10 years ago, if it applies to the conversation, I'm going to talk about it. If it applies to a topic that our listeners want to hear about that they've experienced, I'm going to talk about it. I just don't, they're weird. It doesn't benefit them anymore. So now they don't want us to talk about it. And like, you weren't that invested to support my businesses when it was benefiting you. You were trying to work against me, but now you're pissed off because it's not benefiting you.

And you're still trying to work against me. You still try to work against me. You're now just trying to be a bigger fucking creep and enter private Facebook groups and private chats, like literally downloaded an app, paid $5 to be in there. And, you know, I had this conversation with my dad because I regularly just have life conversations with him and things that are going on. And I'm sure other people do this with their parents as well. But like the conversation that I had with my dad last night is if I was the girlfriend, I would run for the hills because if I had a boyfriend that was still that obsessed with his ex-wife, that he was going through all of these measures to be involved and to get in these groups and, you know, messaging me at two

o'clock in the morning about my vagina, my boyfriend's dick, all of these things that are like going on, you know, I would, I would probably assess the situation if I was a smart attorney and be like for those reasons alone, I'm fucking out. Right. But on that note, I just want to say that I did not know how much I was going to love the Telegram app and this group chat, but I absolutely do love it. I love that it's separate from the Facebook group community because I think it's like instant conversation, right? But I like the Facebook groups because I know that I can go back in those groups when people are posting and like read that at any time and respond, you know, whenever I can get to it. But the chat, it's just different and I love both of them for very

different reasons. Right. But the shit that went down in the group chat this weekend, if you guys are invested in our show and you want to be involved, it's super easy. You just download the Telegram app. It's $4.99 a month and I know that some people had some questions about that. The reason that it's $4.99 a month is for various different reasons. One of those reasons is outside of my ex-husband and possibly some of Kale's exes, most trolls are not going to pay $5 to be able to get into a private group chat. So it's like an elimination type thing. Outside of that, this is something that Kale and I are also investing more time in to be able to be on there to chat with you guys. And so it's a nominal fee and that's it. And we can do video chats in

there. There's so many different things that we can do in there and the link will be reposted on Thursday on our Instagram and Facebook groups everywhere. If you guys would like to join, I think we're close to 600 members on there at this point. Yeah, I think that we're getting pretty close to 600, which is cool. And I just, I love going on there and being able to chat with everyone. I think it's really cool. And I realized that I have a lot more friends than I have enemies at this point. And so that was refreshing. Yeah, I love it. And I know that Kale's going in there getting all types of, you know, information. Like we were talking about Lake Tahoe in there over the weekend and like we're planning a kitty gang vacation next year. Like so many different

things that are going on. So I don't want to like spill any tea of things that were going on outside of I was just telling my story from what transpired this weekend. But what goes on in the coffee combos, private chat stays in the coffee combos, private chat. And I just, I fucking love it in there. I love it. Wait, can I play this one? Tick tock about, I think it's Kevin Hart, I think it is about my daughter being an asshole. Go ahead. This is just so good. I specifically thought of one of your kids whenever I watched this. And I was like, Oh, wow, I need to send this to Kale. And I was like, I'm just going to play it for her. Added kids to the point where you want to fight. Like my daughter is an asshole. She is. We argue. Me and my daughter honestly argue. She can't even

talk. She know a couple words, right? She put a couple sentences together. It don't matter what I say. She always got to give me something back. And it made me mad. We got to argument of a juice the other day. She came into the room. She was like, daddy juice. I said, no, you got enough juice, go get some water. And she looked at me. She was like, do me a guy, do me a guy, do me a guy, juice. And I looked at her. Who the fuck you think you talking to? She a little ass down to get the goddamn, I was so mad. I was mad because I knew she knew what she was trying to say. She just didn't know how to say it. Like in her mind, she was like, you black midget bitch. Get the juice. That's in one of his stand ups. When I saw him live and I saw that

and I was dying. Kale, which one of your kids is that? That's Lux and Creed. Yeah, it is. That's literally Lux fucking Lowry. Lux is he, I don't know like what inspired the most recent transition back to WWE because Lincoln already went through the phase of WWE, but he's back with a vengeance because I'm telling you, these kids have been fucking each other up for the last two weeks on a level that I have never seen before. And I'm fucking scared. You're like, please just don't bleed or die. Please don't. Don't break a bone. Lincoln's sports are so important to him. Like please do not bleed, break a bone or die. Like please. And I'm like, can you guys be careful because Lincoln will put Lux up on his shoulders

and I'm like, I'm scared of a neck injury. Please be careful. Like literally you're going to end up paralyzed. Like please don't do that. Please don't do this. Sometimes Jackson will be upstairs and it will be so loud that I feel like he's going to come through the ceiling and I tell him, I say, I swear son, like if I find you dangling from the ceiling, I'm not helping. No, I won't. Like I'm literally not. Okay. Speaking of dangling, let's do foul play. All right. So a friend of mine was talking to this chick and she gave him head. She told him to finish in her mouth. So he did. When he got up to use the bathroom and rinse slash clean off, he got a snapchat from her. She grabbed a mason jar off his nightstand, spit out the

cum and proceeded to drink it, spit it back out again and drink it again. Looks like she was, looks like she would like a side of cum pancakes to go with her cum milkshake. I'm so disgusted. What the fuck is wrong? Like there's a level of kink that I could get behind, but no, this is not it. And I'm concerned about your sanity and your wellbeing. First of all, why didn't she swallow at that? If you want him to cum, like there's nothing sexy about spitting in a jar or drinking it again several times. There's absolutely nothing. He already busted. So like he's not turned on. Okay. I just need to know why she needed to snapchat this. And who else did it go to? Yeah, also. Yeah. Like, ooh, because he

why wouldn't she just wait for him to come out of the bathroom? Like why? Who else did this go to? Probably. Can I tell you what? I said it probably went to only fans. Probably on only fans for sure. Wait, so some of the reaction videos of the men of coffee combos podcasts that I saw about the cum pancakes was just gold. Like, could you imagine being a man hearing your woman listen to a podcast? And it's just like the foul play. Discussing. It would be like, bitch, are you okay? I just want to know if the one the original guy that did this, if anyone told him, Hey, your story is on coffee combos. I don't know. Would love to know. But like so alarming, like truly so alarming. And this is you're right. Like there's a level

of kink that like you can get behind. And then there's just a level of, okay, this is truly foul. And I can't get behind this. Like, all I need to say to this person is that you should have swallowed and called it a day. Literally, that's all you needed to do. And then like, when about your day literally on that note, we're going to go about our day. Yes, we are. If you guys have not followed us on at coffee combos podcast on Instagram, please make sure that you follow us over there. If you have not downloaded the telegram app and joined the kitty gang on our little group chat, make sure that you join that. And if you have not subscribed to our show, you can do that by searching in the purple podcast app, type in coffee combos, click subscribe, click the fifth

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