Corporate Survivor with Mei Phing : Career Growth In The Corporate World - Ep250: How to become a high performer and have career progression every year
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Hey, welcome to the corporate survival podcast with me, Meping. So today is a very special episode because it is the five-year anniversary of a service.
of me becoming a career coach and corporate mentor where I help nine to five professionals
to survive in the corporate world, navigate their people and problems in the workplace,
as well as grow their careers with new opportunities with my career program, the corporate
survivor. So today's episode, I want to share with you a list of what it actually takes to
become a high performer in the workplace where you are a valuable professional that will
get a ton of opportunities where you will be paid your very well.
and feel confident and in control over your career and at work every single day.
So this is a list from my own personal career, having spent 10 years in corporate,
starting as a very lost, confused and underpaid fresh grad to climbing the career ladder,
transitioning across multiple industries and eventually making multiple six figures as a senior
director at a global MNC in charge of a team as well as bookie with stakeholders across 40 countries.
and this is also a list from my observation of the clients that I've worked with,
so over more than 500 clients across 30 job functions on the clients that really get the most
results, the clients that really grew their career, became really confident and level up
their careers and salary super fast as compared to the people out there who are still
figuring out.
So this is a list of the characteristics and the qualities of high performance in most.
no particular order.
And let's start with quality number one.
So number one, what it makes a high performer is someone who is focused on solving a problem
rather than bringing a problem to the boss.
So high performers understand that bosses do not like problems, right?
Anything negative is a disruption to the workflow.
So therefore, it's a headache for the boss.
So therefore, as a high performer, you want to focus on solutions.
Now, I'm not saying that you cannot bring problems.
Obviously, problems will happen at the workplace that is very normal, but what I am saying is the mindset of coming up with solutions, coming up with recommendations and suggestions to solve the problem.
Because this demonstrates leadership skills.
This demonstrates critical thinking skills.
And this also demonstrates that you are ready for the next level, because guess what?
At the next level, you are going to be in a management and leadership position where you will need to lead to.
your team to solve problems.
So the earlier that you can demonstrate
that you understand
problem solving and to be able to
give suggestions to your boss
to resolve an issue,
you will always be seen as a valuable team member
because just imagine if you are the boss
and you have two team members.
One team member is always coming to you to complain,
boss, this problem happened, that fire happened,
this client doesn't like me,
that colleague is not talking to me,
as compared to another team member
who is able to come,
come to the boss and share that, okay, this is an issue that has happened.
And the reason why this issue has happened is because of ABC.
And this is what I suggest the next steps that we do.
Boss, can I get your feedback?
So just compare these two team members, team member A or B.
Who do you want to work with?
Who is the person that you would trust?
And who is the person that you think is going to stay top of mind when it comes to career
progression and salary increment?
I think it is very clear, the person who is always ready, who is always calm, who is always
confident to focus on problem solving is always going to be valued by the boss.
So the second quality of a high performer is someone who is calm, calm in the chaos,
and more importantly, understanding the root cost issue, that is how they manage to stay calm.
Now, one of the things in my career that many people have asked me is maybe you have managed
a lot of multi-million dollar projects, you have worked with stakeholders across different
career levels, obviously it's a challenging time because no project is perfect, nothing ever
moves 100% smoothly. So how do you learn how to become calm, confident and in control?
Now, the secret is actually understanding the root cause problems and big picture, right? So in order
for you to stay calm and if you want to become a top performer, obviously staying calm is
important because if you cannot stay calm, then you will not be able to come out with any
solutions and so forth. So how to make this happen is you need to really understand the foundations.
You need to really understand the big picture, understand the goals of the projects that you are
handling, the responsibilities that you're handling. And eventually, you will stay calm because
you will only focus on the objective fixing of the problem and you do not get emotional.
So the quality of staying calm also comes with a lot of
being able to not just calm down in a way,
but I'd say that to be able to manage your emotions
because that is going to be super-duper critical
because again, if you imagine two managers,
one manager, every time there is an issue,
the manager is very stressed out,
jumping from desk to desk,
calling 10 of the team members to try to resolve the problem
as compared to a manager who is extremely calm,
understands what the problems are,
and directly is able to give,
maybe a three-step guidance to the team members
is okay, actually this is what has happened.
The reason is ABC
and these are the three steps that I would need the team to focus on.
Which manager do you think can invoke more confidence,
can inspire and motivate their team?
And which manager do you think that senior leadership would trust?
It's definitely the calm manager,
the confident manager,
and the manager who has control over everything else is happening.
That's because they really understand their scope of work,
they have the skill set and the leadership skills to be able to drive towards the result,
calmly, objectively to achieve the results without any emotional drama.
Because emotional drama is just going to create more personal feelings.
It's going to feel like a personal attack and all those things are not the most helpful thing.
Now, the next quality of what makes a top performer is someone who understands their boss's point of view.
Now, the problem that a lot of people have is that they work very, very hard, just focus on their day-to-day task.
But they do not connect with their bosses.
They do not communicate with their bosses.
And they do not align with their bosses.
And as a result, they do not understand their boss's point of view.
You don't really understand what your boss's priorities are.
You don't understand what your boss's strategy.
You don't understand how your boss thinks, how your boss makes decisions.
All these are problems, right?
because if you don't understand what your boss cares about,
if you don't understand what are your boss's priorities,
you don't understand how your boss makes decision,
then how can you ensure that the work that you're presenting,
the work that you're spending hours and hours and hours trying to deliver,
actually meets expectations.
So a very, very good high performer, right,
a person that can become a high performer makes an effort to communicate and connect with the boss,
to get feedback, to consistently share progress updates,
to understand the boss's point of view,
so that you can work more efficiently.
Because again, if you compare two team members,
maybe team member number one is the person that works the longest hours,
but do not ever talk to their boss.
So they get a piece of project,
they immediately get to their desk and starts working on the thing.
And they wait two months, then they deliver that piece of work to the boss,
only then to realize that that's actually not what the boss wants.
Maybe there was a misunderstanding on the scope.
There was a misunderstanding on what good quality looks like.
as compared to team member number two, where immediately when they get the project,
the first thing that they do is to have an alignment meeting, a confirmation meeting,
a clarification session with the boss to really nail down what exactly needs to be done,
to define the milestones, to set up recurring progress update meetings,
and to set up specific milestones so that the work can be delivered for feedback
to make sure that the boss is aligned and agreeable on what needs to be delivered
as they move towards the timeline.
Again, if you compare these two team members, right,
who is actually the better team member?
Who would you want to work with if you're the boss?
Someone who thinks that they know what they're supposed to do
and disappears for two months,
do not send any updates and try to figure it out on their own,
or the team member who is proactively engaging,
proactively connecting and proactively communicating with the boss, right?
So I think it is very, very clear.
Now, the next quality of what makes a high performer is someone who continues and actively shares about the good work that they have done.
Now, every single high performer knows this because you cannot become a high performer.
If the boss doesn't know what you've been working on, the boss has no idea that you're putting in the hard work, the boss has no idea you are responsible for a bunch of things, the effort that you have put in and the people that you're working with.
Now, that is why a lot of people, they think that they are very hardworking, they put in a lot of hours, a lot of effort, then to come disappointed that they do not get the recognition that they wanted.
But guess what's missing?
It's the face time, right?
It's the updates.
It's the impression and the connection with the bosses.
So if you want to become a high performer, it is really, really important to focus on your visibility.
Now, I'm saying visibility after you have already mastered, the corporate.
world fundamentals, meaning that you have clarity, confidence and competence, and you're already
doing a very, very good job. Now, there's no point getting visible if your work is in a chaos
because why would you want to let everyone know that you are incompetent? No. So visibility comes
once you have mastered clarity, confidence and competence. And every higher performer knows that
you need to speak up and you need to talk about all the good work that you have done so that from
your boss's point of view, you stay top of mind as the person that.
is contributing a lot, a very, very valuable team member that is ready for the level up
and ready for the career progression, salary increment, and new opportunities, projects and so forth.
So you need to talk about the good work that you have done.
Because guess what?
If the boss has no idea, the good work they have done, then how can this be reflected in a performance review?
So ultimately, you will not be considered a high performer because the boss has no idea,
therefore it's not going to reflect in any performance rating.
It's not going to get reflected in any performance reviews.
And therefore, you will not become a high performer and you will not get rewarded with the salary increment promotions and so forth.
So all this has a snowball effect, right?
But what you want to do is that to connect the right jigsaw puzzle pieces so that you can get rewarded for your hard work,
whether it's a career level up, it's a progression, it's new opportunities, projects, more pay, more opportunities, and so forth.
So this is something that every single high performer understands.
Now, the other quality that every single high performer has,
and I think this is a bit of an underrated quality,
is being able to identify what is the root cost issue when problems occur.
So remember at the beginning,
I talked about how a high performer needs to be a problem solver
and not a problem reporter or a problem creator.
But I think what a lot of people miss out is,
in order to solve a problem,
we must first understand how did the problem occur.
What is the actual issue?
A lot of people, they focus on the symptoms.
Oh, this fire is burning, that fire is burning.
We need to start fixing things.
But are you fixing the right thing?
Are you looking at the right issue?
So one of the things that in my career program,
the corporate survivor, that we do every single month,
is in our member's Q&A call
where I help my members to actually review their current
career or work situation in detail to interpret and understand the root cause issue of what has
actually happened versus what you feel has happened. So this is something that a lot of senior
management are experienced to do, but depending on your career level, you might not be as experienced
yet. So I'll give you an example. So for example, maybe a new manager has entered the team,
and the new manager is starting to make a lot of changes, and there is lack of communication.
right, but from a team member's perspective, you might feel extremely frustrated that this new
manager is coming in and a lot of things are changing. So you suck it up, you keep quiet and you
complain to your peers or you complain to your friends, but you still do the work. But maybe what
needs to be done instead is just a bit of the alignment issue, right? There's some communication.
And instead, the issue could have just been a one-time catch-up session with the new manager
to understand what are his priorities and what you need to focus on instead and what is the
communication style like. So that could already be resolved versus you feeling stressed out
that oh, there's this change, there's this new manager, new system, new projects I'm happy with
instead of keeping quiet, then we really need to understand the root cause issue could just be
a communication error, right? It could just be a missing one-time catch-up session where if you just
schedule that session, like the problem will resolve itself in 30 minutes because after that
one-on-one session for the new manager, you have clarity on the team's priority. You have clarity
on what you need to focus on in the next 30 days and what is the communication expectations and how
you're going to be reporting progress to the new manager. So that issue is already resolved. But
imagine if you just identify the wrong problem and you just assume that, oh, this new manager is
crazy and therefore I'm just going to complain to my friend. So that problem is probably not going to get
resolve and instead the snowball is just going to become bigger and bigger and bigger and
bigger and therefore you have a lot of negative emotions that is involved as well.
Now, there is a last, but not least, a last quality of a high performer that I have
personally implemented and have this mindset.
And this is something that I also pass on to all the students that I work with is to learn
how to identify and sell your value.
Now, a lot of people, they feel stuck at their jobs is because they are working
every single day, but they find it very difficult to explain what they have actually done,
what they have achieved. Now, if you cannot explain to me in 30 seconds, right, what is your
main role in this company, right? What is your biggest contribution and how you add value? It
tells me that you have no idea. So therefore, even if you have a chance to interview or doing a
networking event or maybe happen to meet someone at a senior level that can give you the opportunity
that you want, even if you get that chance to have that meeting, you may not know what to say.
Your mind might go completely blank.
So this is something that happens to a lot of people, but high performers know that you always
need to be prepared because opportunities may pop up.
And when the timing is right, you want to make sure that you are ready to always sell yourself.
So you need to really understand, right?
How are you contributing in this role?
What is the value that you bring?
as a professional and to make sure that you have it on top of mind at all times.
And this is something that every high performer is able to do.
They will be able to tell you very quickly.
This is what I'm doing right now.
These are my top priorities.
This is how I'm contributing to the team.
If you speak to any top performer, they will be able to confidently tell you that.
Because this is also how they are going to sell their value during interviews.
Because the clearer you are in terms of the contributions, the achievements,
and the value that you bring, the more.
conviction, you can communicate that to a new hiring manager during an interview or even when
you're talking to C-suite, you're talking to the big boss, right, the reputation and the
impression that you can create by being confident and being someone who actually knows your value
and being able to clearly articulate and communicate why you deserve the next career level
up, why you deserve that progression. That is something that will allow you to go a very,
very long way. And personally for me, that is also how I have managed to climb the career ladder
and I was promoted every single year at the global MNC,
which really has never happened before.
For example, I moved from director to senior director at San Chartered Bank in one year.
A lot of people take maybe six, seven years to do that.
But I've done it based on all the things that I've just shared with you.
Again, you know, it's a list of the qualities of high performance,
but it's definitely not the full list.
So if you want more of that, you can definitely drop a comment.
Then I'll make another episode to share more of the qualities of high performance
with you. But I think the good news is that these are all skills that can be developed. It's not
that anyone is born naturally with it. It's not. It's something that can be developed and you can
develop that as well. And this is how I help my corporate survival members to do, particularly
in our monthly member's Q&A calls where we deep dive into understanding the root cause issues,
how to navigate people and problems at the workplace, and how to better make career decisions
and to trust yourself that you are making the right decisions by correctly assessing what is
happening to your career and the next steps that you need to take. Because if you cannot identify
the right problem, then you cannot fix the right problem. So therefore, any action that you take,
while it feels that you are moving forward, but actually you are not really moving forward. So in order
to fix the issue, you need to first understand actually what is the problem, what is the problem
that's happening at work, what is actually happening in my career so that you can actually feel
more in control. And this all starts with a lot of awareness, very deep understanding of the corporate
world. And that's why in my career program, the corporate survivor, I focus on helping you to
survive in the corporate world, helping you to navigate people and problems at the workplace,
and to grow your career with new opportunities, whether it's a promotion, it's a pay rise,
it's a new job. All these things are your career level up and your career progression.
So if you want to find out more about the program and you want to watch a sample members'
Q&A call to identify the root cost issues and how, at the framework that I teach my clients to go
through, to be able to level up in their career very quickly, to
feel calm, confident and in control over their careers, you can definitely check out more info
at www, not mayping.com. So with that, I will say thank you so much for supporting my, the next
phase of my career as a career coach as I move from my past life as a corporate leader with more
than 10 years of experience in the corporate world. So I'm so thankful to you. Thank you so much for
being here. And I look forward to seeing you in the corporate survivor. Take care. See you soon.
