Cosmic Brilliance - EP47 - Redemption, Reformation, Amnesty & Rehab Themes for 2025 with ET Council Member, Apollymi Mandylion

Episode Date: January 3, 2025

Cosmic Brilliance presents a returning guest, ET Council member Apollymi Mandylion, to discuss a timely 2025 theme very close to her heart. As you know from our previous shows together, she has the sad and tough job of being an “Apocalypse” Being when Experimental World timelines go too dark or do not succeed. We are in a time of “coming clean” opportunities where all of us - as well as behind-the-scenes, darker military corporate-run space programs and warriors, will be asked to be held accountable. The more initially innocent and naïve warrior recruits have not been given the full truth as they move up the ladder of compartmentalized positions until they find themselves in something they can no longer live with, blackmailed by secret military corporations, both on Earth and off Earth. Many beings will be seeking Amnesty and may publicly serve both as informants, and disinformants unknowingly. This will require Redemption, Amnesty, Reformation, & Rehabilitation to be contemplated so that we can hold a balanced, neutral position with the information and various people coming forth and be able to stay calm.

Welcome back to Cosmic Brilliance and to our returning brilliant guest, Apollomene Mendelian, who is here to discuss a timely topic that is close to her heart. As you know from our previous shows together, she has the sad and tough job of being an apocalypse being when experimental worlds or timelines go too dark or do not succeed. I personally, this is just me, I personally believe we will succeed. And so our show today is focused on redemption, reformation,

rehabilitation, and amnesty required for all of us right now. We are in a time of, shall I say, coming clean opportunities, where all of us, as well as behind the scenes, darker military corporate-run space programs and warriors, will be asked to be held accountable. The more initially innocent and naive warrior recruits that have not been given full disclosure as they move up the ladder of compartmentalized positions

often will find themselves in doing a job that they can no longer live with or feel good about, essentially blackmailed by compartmentalization by secret military corporations, both on earth and off-earth. Many beings will be seen, seeking amnesty and may serve both as informants and disinformance unknowingly. This will require solid evidence that has been collected in the present and in the future

will be assisted by psionically advanced courts, psionic means psychic, to discern if there is true remorse, mind control or lying in the person that is asking for amnesty. this time allows all of us for greater disclosure and enlightenment. Adyushanti, a profound spiritual teacher, said this about enlightenment. Quote, enlightenment is often a destructive process. It is the crumbling away of untruth. It is seeing through the facade of pretense and is the eradication of everything we imagined our word taught as true.

quote. So for the sake of authenticity, I am highly suggesting all of us to reevaluate everything that we have been taught or told is true. It is very important to reclaim our power, not give it away, and self-determine what is authentic for us and what is not authentic any longer just because it's been a tradition or just because the parents do it that way and also not in reaction to do the opposite. That is why we have Cosmic Brilliant shows as well as a few other channels that also share non-infiltrated truths that will empower you and help you with your ascension enlightenment. So Apollini, I believe that you will not have to be the destroyer of this world this time around. In Hinduism, as an example, they name three divine forces carried out

by three entities. Brahma is the creator, Vishnu is a sustainer, and Shiva is the destroyer and regenerator. So for me and Paul and me, you have the opportunity to not only take out the dark, but represent the Shiva aspect of regenerator and reformer for which this show is focused on today. Your sincere, unselfish actions were demonstrated in the amazing story you shared at the end of our last show about the prison planet you bought and after five years managed a huge amount of large improvements as a what I call a leader of reformation, not just a destroy of worlds and timelines that have gone too corrupt. So those of you who have not listened to that last show with Apollomite at the end especially, she shares a very inspiring rendition of how she turned around an entire planet in five years. So this is a gentle reminder that all our shows are built on one another without much repetition. Now when we use the word reformation, it's not a religious movement, okay? for you,

Apollom me, it was applying what you learned, right, from your own life experience so far and willingness to put into action combined with what you call common sense and a desire to improve society in a beneficial way for all beings while still requiring accountability.

And leadership and maturity often require ongoing learning, not perfection. So we will welcome you back, Apoll and me. And thank you so much for being here for this interesting and very timely topic that is going public as we speak in terms of multiple court cases and things like that. Thank you so much for having me again. I'm really excited to be here. And yeah, this is a very, very sensitive subject for me to my heart. So I apologize for the tears.

Okay, let's start with the key elements that are missing in our society as the outworn dysfunctional systems disintegrate, making room for more creative and updated advancements. So one of those advancements and encouragement for others, everyone, is to seek support. So do you want to talk about that and any personal experience you wish to share around that? So our society is so broken in the way that we treat people, in the way that we see people, and the way that we support people. We can all go out our front door and think to ourselves, do we really have a community that supports us?

If our car breaks down on the side of the road, how many people are going to go by before someone stops to help? You know, it creates a very strong sense of insecurity, of untrust, and the feeling that we have to do everything on our own. It's a good point. So, yeah, and it needs to change. It has to change if even humans and non-humans, we all have to have a sense of security and trust in our environment and in our communities.

So being able to be there for each other is so important, whether you're a neighbor, whether you're a boss, whether you're a kid at school. You know, we all live with and around each other and we have to start realizing that our existence is our own, but we also influence everything around us. That's true. It's very true. And not only influenced by the thoughts, right, but also by the words we use and how we talk about others.

Is that your experience too? Absolutely. Being able to understand the physics of nature itself, the way that we emotion, the way that we think, the way that we interact with people, it's all frequencies. And as we know, frequencies is the basic language of the universe. You know, our souls communicate with each other, just talking to each other online, walking down the street. You know, we're so consciously aware of everything, whether we know it or not. And so our thoughts or emotions and our feelings affect our environment, and it can either make or break a supporting system of our community.

You know, as for personal experiences, you know, everyone knows I've had a hard life. I'm not the only one. I know very few people on this planet that had a platinum spoon built into their mouth where they've had a family with a good paying job and the parents were loving and they were supported. 99% of us don't have that. All right. And it's up to us to change everything. So having the experiences that I have had, being a super soldier, you know, being part of the ET councils, going through all of my trials and tribulations and trying to make a change on a prison planet that was a different planet, not this one.

And seeing the changes in those last five years has been eye-opening completely. Because if a prison planet can change just from two people, you know, me and my mate going in and buying the planet and changing all this stuff with compassion and understanding,

I know that this planet can do it. well said because a society that doesn't grow in the right directions for the benefit of all eventually perishes or is destroyed by resets please don't make me do that they don't want to do that folks we've had so many already right but no it's through history time and time again that if our society doesn't communicate and grow with each other we're going to fail you know I'm in the same boat. I might have a slightly better paddle, but guess what? I have to row too. So. Yes.

So to grow, I mean, these, what we're talking about today seems obvious, but it's obviously not. Because we all need to remind ourselves. So to grow, it helps to have some kind of introspective process shared, like therapy or whatever. Would you agree with that? Absolutely. Because again, our existence is all that we know. We can only, even for those who have

osmosis, where you can walk up and touch people and get memories and get light language and feedback, we're still living in the moment of that memory, but it's still so short-lived. You really don't. know the entirety of a person's experiences, their emotions, their thought processes on how they've had to take situations and grow or not grow, how they stunt their growth from it, you know, because you're going to receive stuff, but you're not going to really, you're going to have your own dialogue of everything of like what you should have done and everything. So it's about your ego versus the ego of your community. versus the environment of your community.

We have to have that understanding of ourselves. You know, because, like, we all go through life having our own movie. You know, we are the star of our own show. But we also have to remember that interacting with other people is interacting with another. consciousness. So they're going to have, they're the star of their own show too. It's a place in a time. There is a place where you need to be the star of the show, of your own show, but there's a time where you need to learn to step back and understand that it's not all about you. And I'm still learning this, okay? Like everyone kind of puts me on a pedestal, but guys, I am not perfect,

okay? I am still very much learning just as everyone else, just because I'm not human. and we still go through the same retrospects of life, of learning how to be unselfish and learning how to share and learning how to be part of our community and learning how to obey certain rules and regulations and boundaries because it makes it for a safe environment. My ears are going back right now because I had a lesson this week about this. Do your ears go back when you're embarrassed?

Yeah, or like when I'm in trouble or I'm feeling guilty. Just remind her, folks, she has two sets of ears. Yeah, I have the ones on my head and then when I'm on base, I actually have a set of dragon ears on top. They are kind of more like horse shaped, but they do fan out. So I'm a freaking nature, but I love it. our society needs to remind us at times that we when we need to step back because a lot of people can get on their high horse and do whatever they feel like they want to.

But our community, our society helps make those boundaries and rules a safe place. You know, we all have, you don't have to agree on everything, but there are certain things in a community that just you can't do. It makes it unsafe. It makes it either unethically moral or, you know, certain things, like walking into traffic without alerting anyone and wearing complete, you know, black clothing and doing it at nighttime. There's rules and regulations for things for a reason. But, and of course, you know, people would get out of their cars and yell at this person, been like, what are you doing? Did you forget the rules? So it's important for our community to to recheck our egos for us and step us back into line, you know. So, you know, you're bringing up rules

and let's take a backstep a little bit. So since we are moving and as a culture, you're going to see more and more on media, all different kinds of media of people up for trial, all kinds of things, exposure, things like that. So a good place to start would be to refresh people with an understanding of the laws of this universal laws and then the laws of Earth, if you would be so kind to do that. Now, I know that in my last show with Dr. Amir Jangiri, he just kind of called off some really quick, like he said, Okay, major no-noes or violations universally are stealing soul codes, which we explained,

destroying or sabotaging soul codes, invading free will, slavery, which takes some discussion, and messing with souls in general. So he briefly went through that. But would you agree with that? What is it that people need to know are real no-noes and there will eventually be consequence of? Well, in some of our older episodes, I have gone over the rules of souls. You know, you're not allowed to technically mess with any soul contracts. Like, if you have a ordained place that you want to go after you die and you have made that sole contract for your soul to go to that place, no entity is allowed to come in and just take your soul, you know, like the sooner, the minute you die, no one's allowed, like,

the dark forces aren't allowed to come in and put your soul in a soul jar or soul trap or anything like that. That is disobeying carmetic laws. And so that is punishable by high demand. So we've already gone through a lot of those, but the whole slavery thing, people have, I'm not sure if people understand the terms of slavery on a universal law kind of like understanding. because most people think of human slavery of like you come in and you take them and they're yours and you treat them however you want universal slavery is a yes and a no but the principles are different if a person tries to kill you okay or does anything to cause you extreme harm like your soul coding or anything like that you can choose to spare

them of being completely punished by, you know, Arma, but it would be more of an indentured servant. Does that make sense? An indentured servant is someone who owes you a life debt, who, you're sparing their life even though they tried to take yours, so therefore they have to give you their existence until they basically learn their lesson. or that you feel like they've learned their lesson. So it's kind of straight up karma. But that would be in between lives after this life. No, it could be this one as well.

You just say now I have the right carmically to have you as my slave or indentured servant? Yes. And not a lot of people know about this law, but it's basically you still have to treat them as a human being. or an entity of consciousness. You know, you're not really allowed to just be like, you're not allowed to treat them like dirt. You're not allowed to, you know, kill them or rape them or, you know, do all these horrible things to them.

Because what's happening is it is a straight up carmetic. It's a straight karma casion is basically what it is. Because they were going to kill you, you know, which is against one of the rules in certain things. and basically your soul. Like, say I walked down the street and this person made me upset, and instead of attacking their physical body, I was just going to attack their soul.

Try to dismantle their soul coding or try to basically, you know, steal their soul without whatever. The tides can be turned through that. And then now they would basically own me because I broke one of the universal laws. Does that make sense? It does, but it's very advanced for where most people are hanging out in terms of, but it's still good to know.

It's an interesting kind of thing. It's a balancing act. And you also have to be, it also would mean you weren't killed, you know, like they tried to kill you, right? Right. But the intention of messing with the soul coding and or, trying to destroy that soul in general is the act because that's actually done a lot that's I know that takes away your free will to live because this is a not this is a free will universe

but it still goes against the non free will act which is part of Hanovean law but it still qualifies here because it is one of the base laws of all universes of existence So basically when, okay, so the free will is really interesting, right? Free will and the 50% darker, 50% light and the neutrality game, which we discussed in previous shows. So did the ones who will call the pirates, who let's talk about the ones that came in 250,000 years ago. And I found out they were actually invited in to up the ante. So do they know Where they told the universal laws

Or were they just like Woohoo you know It doesn't matter like does everyone in this game As souls know the universal laws And then they just decide Okay No For the species that came here

Through the rift Basically where there was a lot of rifts that happened And they got some of them got invited some of them got thrown in, you know, like the Shackrel got thrown in. They had no idea they were even coming over here. You know, they, they, it wasn't like, oh, hey, hey, you're going to a different universe. We're going to check you in. Here's your guidebook.

That never happened. They got thrown into a completely new situation with nothing, no understanding. Those who have joined the universal councils, however, generally have a decent understanding of most of the laws because some of the universe creators are part of that council. So the laws have been generally gone over, but there's a lot of loopholes in this universe, unfortunately. And they take advantage of it very well. This is why I'm asking specifically because the loopholes have been worked in and out.

But so the ones that I will call invaded, but we're invited. It's specific to a couple groups. They had the same test we did, which is coming in blind, most of us coming in blind, because this is a sole maturity test, kind of anything goes, maximum experiences, maximum challenges. So they weren't told either, even if they came from a higher dimension. So they came in and they're like, woo-hoo, look at this. we can actually be you know get away with a lot of things here kind of it's like it's like having a bunch of children who were born with families who have a lot of rules being left alone on the

theme park where anything goes you know you're like oh wait I can do this and not get in trouble they don't really know until they overhear or do it themselves and don't get punished you know So, but also depending on the species, they don't have any internal compass as a soul to know like, you know, like this is inappropriate behavior at all. It depends on their species and where they're from and how they look at us, you know, so. A lot of species have an internal compass. Many of them do. Even the dark ones that are, you know, floating around now. They usually do, but again, it comes to our society.

It comes to tradition. It comes to what's expected of us. When you say what's expected of us, explain that a little bit more. Well, say every culture has different expectations of what's expected of their community and their people and their children. And that's pretty much the same terminology. depending on what species that they're born in, you know, whether it's good or bad, you know, if a species starts to get corrupted, things start changing and then their expectations for the younger generation changes. And then it just gets worse and worse and worse. Even though that child might have a moral compass of not wanting to do that, it's what's expected of them and what the punishments are going to be or, you know, either exiled or killed or, you know, receiving pain themselves. You know, so it's the same principle and it's unfortunate. Especially the might makes right groups and the bullying groups and the ones that,

like you say, you'll be punished if you stand out or different. This is such a fascinating time right now. So, who, okay. So we're going to be seeing a lot. We need to take accountability for our own actions. We've come pretty much full circle, and this is kind of the end of a huge game. And so I believe that not all the dark, the ones that played the dark role, but a lot of them know that their time is limited, so to speak. But the ones that are really strong won't allow themselves to feel that because they have denied fear.

don't admit it and they're they're kind of like we're going for broke right in a certain way yep is that pretty much it so um they've lost their moral compass now you tell me something very interesting about psychopaths that they're finding out because we probably have 10% psychopaths that are really extreme and those will be a lot of them will be recycled back to source but um you were mentioning the DNA connection there. Yeah, so there are studies out there that are, hang on, sorry, there has been studies that have basically done DNA structure work on serial killers and certain psychopaths and stuff, and they found that it was actually genetic sequences within their DNA.

So, I used to raise lizards. You know, and when a lizard's temperature gets to a certain, you know, temperature because the female temperature and the male temperature, just like chickens, have, it messes with their hormones, but if you get one that's kind of in between, it genetically makes them psycho. Like, they just can't control themselves. They're very aggressive. They're very violent. And humans are different, you know, but it can change within the DNA.

to have these people come out and just be genetically created to be like this. You know, now does the laws of karma have rules that sympathize with these people? Yes, to a certain extent. But just because you're genetically altered, you know, doesn't mean that you can still be not pointed in the right direction for what you do. if you're going to do bad things do it for good reasons that's just my chaotic nature but so um this also gets into so it gets into what all these issues around this forgiveness responsibility accountability consequences you know and i think it's the job of all parents

to actually teach their children at a fairly young age, some level of responsibility, accountability, follow through for what they did. I don't mean beating them or anything, but just consequences. And do you feel this is important also and will help create more sane, you know? Absolutely.

You know, one of my friends right now is having a trouble with their 25-year-old. You know, they just went to jail, and they ended up getting a psych evaluation and all this other. Just a whole bunch of drama all the time. And it literally stems down to he got everything that he wanted. He pushed over his parents, showed him no respect, and they caved on him. You know, they're just like, I don't want to deal with your attitude right now. So here, just take this and shut up.

And now they're paying the price for it. They, you know. A parent can do everything that they can, and sometimes a child will not change. But that is also part of the community's problem as well, because the community helps forge and helps maintain what is socially acceptable. You know, this goes down to forgiveness. This goes down to making sure everyone else is stepping in line. And I'm not talking about conformance people.

I'm not talking about, you know, oh, well, you got to be communist. in order to do that. No, I'm talking about having a very wide open range of what is acceptable and what isn't and being able to harmonically get together and live with each other. It doesn't matter what race, religion, sex, gender, like politics, anything. You can be respectful to each other and still be a functioning community. But it takes all of us to raise families. It takes all of us to raise a child, not just one person. And in America, everyone thinks that, oh, well, I'm a single parent, whether you're male or female or whatever you identify as, I have to do this alone. And that's not true.

Because your single being is still part of a huge community. So, but it still takes all of us to be like that's socially unacceptable. You can't just, you know, vomit on the floor and walk away. Yeah. clean up after yourself be responsible go to the right people and say hey this happened or if you have the ability to clean it up yourself do it yourself that was a gross terminology i apologize but you know it's you make a mess you learn to clean it up like or you get you know a ticket or something or you get finder you never get to go back to that restaurant because you were disrespectful

now are they going to forgive you throw up well i mean if you got issues forgiveness is the thing but, you know. I 100% agree. I find it's interesting that we have, we seem to have a lot of extremes and everyone's kind of doing their best, but part of it is to be, find yourself deprogrammed,

learn to be authentic, right? So that takes a lot of work. That takes like therapy, work, inner work. Have you had an experience with any assistance through therapy, you know, inner work? What's been your path? So therapy I have had since, how do I put this? I've had therapy since I was about five years old.

And, well, I mean, I got into the projects and, you know, all this other stuff. And it affected my physical life here, you know, and when psychologists and therapists can't explain how I'm interacting with these things and they check in on your home life. and they're like, we have no idea what's going on. You know, it can be difficult. So I felt very, you know, obviously alienated and alone and no one else was going through this, you know. So now that I'm older and I know what's going on, you know, and I am going to therapy specifically for certain things, yeah, I see it does help a lot. but it also, you have to find the right support group for this stuff. You know, going on the super soldier support groups is really comforting for me because, like,

I might be on different, you know, missions or different, had different things happen to me, but we're still in the same genre of having the same trauma. And just being able to talk to them and then, you know, have. having that support group of sharing legitimately, you know, don't lie about experiences you don't have. You have to be truthful. You have to have your trust in a support group. You have to be authentic in a support group. But, you know, understanding other people's opinions, understanding other people's experiences and respect. Respect is so important, you know, respecting what the what they chose to do and how they chose to cope with everything how they chose to

react to the situation because we're all growing you know we all make mistakes we all you know do what we can at that time and moment of of trauma or need uh sometimes isn't the best decision you know sometimes we didn't have time to analyze everything of what could be. And, you know, so, but not being judgmental about it to them, you know, about them during that and having the forgiveness and giving them the understanding so that they can grow from the experience and change and learn that what they did might not have been the best move, but, you know, learning different options of what they could do next time is, it's just so important. You know, on a daily basis for most people, lots of people go to therapy. Lots of people go to a psychologist because, again, sometimes our ego gets into the way of being able to interact with our community properly. Because, you know, sometimes we don't have the social skills or sometimes we're doing selfish things and we don't really know about it until our community tells us that this is unacceptable. You know, like, why am I alone?

the time obviously there's something wrong with everyone else well it could just be you you know like what's happening during your social you're uniquely wired it could be right but but still like that's a social skill that is miscommunicating so going to to therapy and understanding why about yourself you know is is happening during that miscommunication can can help because you know every Everyone's like, oh, well, you go to therapy to just complain about everything. Well, it actually kind of makes it better. Like, I hated therapy because I was just like, complaining about it isn't going to do anything. So if nothing can physically be done about it to make it better, why even waste someone else's time?

You know, I don't want to be a burden or I just find that it's stupid. but having a group or just a person reflect on your actions. Because sometimes it's hard to get out of our own bubble to see ourselves from the outside of what are we actually doing in our community or interacting with this person or anyone else. You know, it helps to have that outside perspective. And plus right now, people are slowly rewerect. remembering who they really are and learning who they really are. And that's hard because your physical vessel's identity is going to be different than your soul's

identity. We've talked about this in other previous videos. And it can be a very confusing time for a lot of people because they go into that, well, who really am I? Like what am I? And a lot of people get lost. They get depressed. They get discouraged during this time. You know, they start isolating themselves, which is normal people. It's okay. it's okay to isolate yourself and figure out what you like and don't like again because you're learning about yourself again. But having that support group, not even just therapy, but like just a support group to help you be able to express yourself in a supportive, understanding, forgiving environment, because a lot of people get past life memories where they can just be terrible people.

and they could be the nicest person on the planet right now and they have issues dealing with it. You know, when I found out, and I'm not the only one, I know I'm not, you know, when I found out of all the stuff that I did, I was like, I don't even want to live with my existence right now. Like, what was I even thinking? So, like, my intention started out pure and then it just got corrupted like crazy, just like everything else, you know,

because I didn't have that support group. I didn't have those boundaries. I didn't have the community that I needed to not put me in line per se, but give me guidance through everything I was going through. And this is why I wanted to come out and talk about redemption. Because out of all of the people on Earth and what, you know, some of the species going on in space and everything, it's just we literally got the. crappiest universe, like, to be put into that is so unfair and so unforgiving, and it's

only unforgiving because we're all making it that way. You know, we all have the power to change it. We really do. So, but the first thing that we can do with all of our trauma is to learn to forgive ourselves and work through it and be there for each other, because I can guarantee you on this planet, maybe 0.2% of the population is a pure soul that has had never had any trauma in their entire existence of consciousness, which means all of us have issues. But, you know, we can all be there for each other. Well, thank you from speaking from your heart and what you've been through. And because, again, part of the game of ascension that you were sharing with us and teaching us was to come to neutrality. So it's quite an art form to be dealing with people

who are extremely dark or whatever, or naively, extremely light in a certain way, and being fair, and understanding where they came from. And, you know, was this out of their own volition? Was it out of, you know, it's incredibly complex. The legal issues we are dealing with, behind closed doors and which will become more public. So this is an advanced notice for people to really review those issues of neutrality, breaking naivete, extreme judgment toward the dark, what level of compassion, right? all of those different things and this takes us to also

incarceration and prisonment right so I know that we were talking about this because you had some friends right that didn't you have some friends that were in prison or that had gotten into trouble

yes unfortunately but like just kind of like on a side note and I'm not taking I'm completely neutral on this aspect, but like a lot of the dark forces, as I had mentioned beforehand, got thrown into this universe and we talked about this in other shows that you and I have done. Some of these people who just lost everything. Think about like they're, they got taken off of everything that they knew. Their entire universe just literally got thrown

into another one. They have no family. They have no friends. They have no idea where they are. what they can do is the place even livable, you know, everything they've ever known got left behind in this one heartbeat of an instance. And some of these people who came over got met with hostility. They got met with distrust immediately. They weren't here to receive open arms, not all of them. And we're talking about some of these dark forces, you know. and they did what they had to do to survive, just like a lot of these people who are getting thrown on the streets. You know, our economy right now is absolutely terrible. And I have to say this myself, I've been homeless too.

Being in jail gives you three square meals a day, gives you a roof over your head so you're not freezing on the streets, especially during wintertime, you know, and it gives you medical. and it sucks, you know, it absolutely sucks, and you have to do something wrong in order to get in there to get help. You know, so a lot of these people did what they had to do. A lot of these dark forces did what they had to do to survive. It wasn't so much them being like, oh, well, if I go over and stab this person,

then, you know, I can totally get away with it. Oh, hey, that felt really good. Not all of these dark forces were like that, especially at the beginning. you know, they did what they had to do to survive, and unfortunately it has escalated to the point where they are what everyone sees them to be now because of tradition, because of, you know, this is the way that things have to be in order to stay strong and survive in this universe. And it doesn't have to be that way. You know, they could choose another path because a lot of the other species, you know, were part of the problem of why they got to be that way in the first place,

you know, just because they didn't like their culture, they didn't like the way that they looked or the way that they smelled or whatever. I've seen some of the archives on why the Galactic War started, and it's just, it was so ridiculous to me. I'm like, why did this even happen? This is so childish, you know. So the same principle is still kind of applying to them on why, why they turned to these darker things and why they got stuck in it.

It just sucked them in because it gave them power and they just kind of continued to run with it. And it got worse and worse and worse and worse. I agree with that. I think they figured might makes right. And this on a third dimension, it was like they're part of the game here, as I understand it more deeply and deeply and deeply, is to create the most resilient souls also. and the resilient and strong souls as well as bodies. And so I can see how it can easily go over into where I'm an honorable person,

and I know that many of these beings that are very powerful, consider that doing certain things is honor, but I really am asking them publicly to reevaluate for themselves, not just because their culture has been traditioned that way for EOM, of time. But honor is not just brute force. It's not the willingness to just die in the name of, you know, some honor. It's not killing because life is sacred. Honor is doing not acting out of reaction or programming. And there is programmed as the people I meet every day on the streets. And so this is

a whole re-evaluating. And the one thing happens that if you don't shift your programming and your ancestral patterns that were dysfunctional, you don't grow. Exactly. Would you agree with that? No, I completely agree with that. So for me, for tradition, in the Dark Draco traditions, because I did go over there and learn about some of their stuff, because I wanted to play neutral, I wanted to know why the war between them and the Searians happens. Like, what happened? Why is this huge war happening between these two? And I got to read both

of their archives, and it was just the stupidest thing. The Dark Dracos came over here. A lot of them were mistreated, you know? And again, it's that whole, oh, well, don't get me wrong. The Dracos have a

normal cultural thing of where they think they're better than everybody else. Arrogance. Honor, true honor, would make it to where you can still have that ego to a safe extent because they did come from a higher dimension than the universe here. Okay. Like, they came from a higher universe. And that pertains a little bit of ego because they can do more things.

Their energy work is a lot better. Their energy manipulation, their science, everything. Which knowledge boosts ego a bit. but their culture was still very somewhat mindful about ego, but when they came over here and they realized they didn't have to really obtain to that because they're away from their culture, they're away from their society, you know, these small group over here is away from their society. They're like, oh, wait, I have the freedom to do whatever.

You know, the light came on in the wrong direction. So when they're, they got over here, they started to basically just, you know, survive out of, out of necessity. But their egos got completely unchecked. So their honor started to slip from their normal honor in their society to becoming more egotistical for their honor. And stubborn, too. Yeah. So from their original, you know, verse where they were a lot more refined, I would say, you know, more neutral about their ego of being like, okay, so let me give you an example. A neutral ego of, how do I put this?

Or a draconian. A neutral ego. A neutral ego of honor for. for a draconian of a higher universe is usually, you know, okay, well, I'm going to hear this person out. I might not agree with it, but they are capable of doing whatever their species can do. You find the highlights in that, whether it be intelligence, whether it be strengths, whether it be tactics, whether it be, so any of that. And then you honor their strength is basically what you do. Now, the ones here have evolved into, I'm going to totally test your merit by kicking your butt, or to see if you can kick my butt, and then I'm going to judge you on it. And a lot of reptilian species are like this, because you can learn so much about a person during a fight, because it is literally not just a dance of death.

It is a dance of how refined are you disciplined in honing your skill? How passionate are you in honing your skill? How much do you value another person's life? Because you don't know as soon as you take both of those blades if that person is going to kill you and show no mercy. Because obviously if they do that, they do not value you at all. They don't value your skill or anything. They're just bloodthirsty. Or are they going to test your merit by toying with you and seeing what kind of passion you have or intelligence you have during that fight?

And spare them, you know, because when you spare a person, you're not telling them they're pathetic exactly. This is a neutral ego draconian. You're not telling them that they're pathetic. You're telling them that they have room to grow, that they still have room to improve on themselves, their skill level, everything. Now, a lower ego draconian, who is very toxic is going to be bloodthirsty. They're not going to test you at all. They're just going to kill you if they have no honor, like actual honor. you know they're just going to do what they're you know they just see you as prey and that's it you know

a higher level one in this universe that is from that same lineage is going to test your merit they might rough you up a lot but they won't kill you if you prove to be a good enough fighter and you actually understand the small cues of fighting them so it goes from how you present yourself in combat is how they're going to take you. If you go in trying to kill that person, they're just going to kill you because you don't understand the game. You don't understand the society, you know, or the rules of honor bound. So those are just a few things. And that's lawyer honor bound, which is different than your person in the street honor bound. Yes, yes. I mean, you're basically describing are you at street thug mentality or are you at

martial arts respect. Yeah, that's a really good way. It's a whole different level, right? Which is why bullies were often bullied themselves and why we don't allow that. Right. Because it creates dishonor. Being bullied and bullying other people, it creates a dishonor. You're not, you're showing someone complete disrespect.

You're not showing them honor of respect. Well, I think there's a program. too early on by whichever beings who knows but again it they love it loves to polarize into two choices when there's many shades of gray in between and it's like you're either predator or prey you know the whole Darwin the whole you know evolution who the strong survive you know so a lot of them got really programmed in that primitive way like okay the dominant one or the strongest we have the right to control everything rather than the respect for all life, which is a different attitude.

Right. And this goes to the kind of getting off the subject a little bit, but this goes to the two different leaders. You lead by fear or you lead by compassion and understanding. Which you did on the planet that we talked about in the last shows. Those that listened to our show, I hope, are pretty much moving into at least co-creator, our creator consciousness and to realize the impact that once you claim that, that you have on affecting the hologram and what goes on. So we will be in a position where we will be seeing many people in court.

There will be a lot of things brought forward. And we need to go inside and determine what level of authenticity, what level of reality, what level of forgiveness. So I looked up some interesting facts here. And one of those was that the studies done that people incarcerated in U.S. prisons are actually innocent. So if 5% of individuals are actually innocent, that means one out of 20 criminal cases have a wrongful conviction. My friend went to jail for a year and a half before they got out. And he was literally protecting two kids and a woman against his like psychopathic girlfriend who was on drugs. Yeah.

You know, they had like broken up and she wouldn't leave and, you know, just all of the stuff. Unfortunately, he put himself into that position. And, you know, because of laws where I live, he couldn't get out of that position. and so the law is actually led up to him going to jail even though he was protecting somebody else. So it's very tricky. It is. And on the other hand,

you also have, shall we say, corruption where, you know, the innocents will get put in there or whatever else. I'd like to share because I took the time to get a couple of examples of people who volunteered what it was like and what they actually needed in prison.

This is a way of educating us outside of prison, how we can be more supportive to others and realizing that one out of 20 are in there. And so I know you mentioned Apollomy, all good things like support and honesty and, you know, self-inquiry and therapy and authenticity and all of those things. This is a woman named Don Ozzellman who was in prison said when asked, you know, because we're talking about reformation, right? And it's about what do people need to reform? Yeah. Like, hello, reforming.

The entire world is reforming because all the old structures are going down so that you see how dysfunctional. And we are reforming. So even though this may not seem pertinent to you. like, oh, people in prison, everything's pertinent to you, because ultimately we are connected. Okay. So, a woman named Dawn said, quote, I will tell you how you can comfort a loved one in prison, write, visit, put money in their commissary account. Practical. Those are the three most important things to them, knowing their love, not forgotten, missed, so they know they have something to live for, to come back to. And commissary improves their quality of life greatly. They can

by alternate food items, skin lotion, and chapstick, other simple daily items that make all the difference in the world. Another guy, James Downey, spent four years in prison, and this is the advice he offered. For me, the hardest thing was trying to readjust to my new situation. Before I was locked up, I lived very well. I owned my own business for 20 years and very content. I lost everything, including my woman, business, cars, motorcycles, and everything else that I worked my butt off for in life. I almost lost my home, but just got out in time from prison to work it out with the bank. I had no power, water, or gas as I was living at, quote, home. I was released on Thanksgiving, and for three months, I only used every dollar to keep the roof over my head.

I worked with friends and did whatever I had to to pay my mortgage. It was cold every night. I was hungry. I lost 55 pounds. and thank God for my neighbors who would give me water to clean up. I almost wanted to go back to jail, prison, and let the state handle it. But I couldn't let the corrupt system turn me into a statistic. The hardest part is starting all over from scratch. I had no support system whatsoever. It's been almost two years since I've been home and I'm doing well.

If I had just a little bit of help, that would have been great. So if you have a loved one coming home, he or she will need you to understand that things are going to be hard, but make sure this person knows you have their back and make sure they're going the extra mile to get employment and make all appointments with a parole officer, stay off drugs, et cetera, et cetera. There is no excuse to fail if you feel some support. I know we have the most corrupt judicial system in the world, so it's going to be hard, but they will make it if they really want to. As far as giving support to a loved one, write letters, send books, plenty of pictures, visit when possible. If your finances are in place, send care packages, money,

or books, and let them know if you don't have money or packages in a calm way. It's hard enough inside. Last thing we want to do is fight with our loved ones and just listen to them while talking. You will hear one thing, and it really is something else they are asking for. They will blow up sometimes because the system turned you cold. But you know who they really are. Don't give up on them. That is the worst feeling ever, especially if they just, disappear one day without a word. To be abandoned in prison is the worst feeling ever and really hard to keep the prying eyes from getting at you during a weak point in your life. Support, support, support is all I can say. And one last one here. Question, how can we outside contribute to higher success of labeled criminals?

Using discernment, but not prejudice. So many prisoners, as you said, put themselves back into prison because it is a known factor, even though it's horrendous. At least they have a home and food. So to understand why this occurs, Chris Sgragen's Department of Criminal Justice and Texas said, quote, the shock of realizing the world has moved on, this is if you've been in for 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, the shock of realizing the world has moved on without you. Everyone has moved on. Everything has changed yet has all remained the same. In prison, it feels like the world is frozen. You have to remember, it didn't wait on you. Your family and friends had to get on with their lives. Everyone expects you to instantly adapt. To start working immediately to hit the ground running. You need time to

adjust. You're in post-traumatic stress. Allow yourself to take things slow. I didn't begin working for six months. I had a panic attack the first time I walked into a grocery store. Take things slow. Lost all relationships. You're going to lose friends, family. Don't reach out right away. Wait until they're ready to connect. Sometimes just let them reach out to you. The temptation to use drugs are party or get wasted. Hey, you did your time. But no, that's the quickest way back to prison, so take it slow. When asking the prisoners, what is the hardest obstacle to overcome after being released from prison? McTadam wrote, well, if you've done a lot of time like I have, the greatest obstacle to overcome will be to find a regular good-paying job, like you said.

Follow me? America gives lip service to prison reform and rehabilitation programs, but the reality is they do nothing to encourage it on a national level. After seven and a half years free, with no violations or new charges, I can't even get one person to call me back. It's shameful, and I know if it wasn't for my family being there for me like they've been, I would have done something to get myself back to prison. mostly because of the quote scarlet letter an old term on me and because no one is willing to give a guy who has prison a chance they make all kinds of assumptions once i told them i did 29 years they just automatically assumed i was a killer and wondered how many people i'd kill never killed anyone by the way or anything maybe an aunt or two anyway getting a legit good paying job

is the hardest thing once you get out there. The readjustment comes when you finally realize it's not going to happen and begin to focus and refocus and shift your ideas, efforts, and energy towards self-creative entrepreneurial ventures. So what do you think about that? Apollomene, do you relate to all that? I can definitely relate to a lot of it. Just to let people know I've never been in jail, like, physically.

I don't even have, like, a jaywalking. ticket. I have been homeless several times, not due to my own stuff. Like, I went to college and you get kicked out and I don't have family. So, you know, I had to learn how to survive on my own, but it gets hard. It gets really hard because when you're in a place that, you know, doesn't have homeless support or, you know, and it's hard for me to get a job because I'm targeted as a super soldier. it can be very difficult, but I've never stolen. I've never hoard myself out. I've never killed anybody or done anything wrong because even though I have had so much bad stuff happen to me, like, the universe does provide for me. I just have to be smart about my resources. I take advantage

as much as, you know, the programs will allow me to for the programs that each state gives out. for either the homeless or, you know, job, like, searching or anything like that, you know, the programs are out there. I believe that people need to be a lot more aware of them. They do help. I've been homeless many times. And it's because of those programs. And I'm not talking about, like, the subsidized housing or the, like, Section 8 housing. I have fit in on those programs for five, six years and I still haven't gotten anything. But the short-term, programs of, you know, house relocation and, you know, the YMCA and stuff like that. They're, they're really, really nice. Some of the homeless shelters have a lot of programs you can walk in

and they'll literally go through a lot of them with you. Our country right now is really bad with them, you know, but it's better than nothing. So I'm not going to get into those politics, but it's very important for our community to understand that you have to understand that when someone goes to jail, they've done their time. They've done their crime. They've done their time. It's time for forgiveness and it's time for understanding because they had the time to think about what they did. They got out because they're psychologically okay to now. Usually, okay, this isn't always the extent, but usually. Just because someone has a record doesn't mean they're not wrongfully accused to get in there in the first place. And even if they've done something bad, you know,

if they don't have a chance from society of being accepted back into society, you're going to be part of the problem of making a criminal all over again. And, you know, next time it just might bite you in the butt because we all exist with each other. You know, A lot of these people become criminals because they have hard upbringings. They have no other way to feed themselves or their families. Living on the street is hard. You know, even if you're in Florida or whatnot, necessities, your essentials, your ability to bathe and brush your teeth and your ability to get, you know, health insurance and stuff

and have that comfort and safety, the feeling of safety that you have some place to go to that is continuous and that is loving is stripped from you constantly, you know, before you even go to jail. And it's very, very difficult and it can be solved with, you know, allowing your community to know that you can be understanding. I'm not saying, you have to fully 100% trust someone who's been in jail. You know, they got there for a reason, but they've done their time, and now it's time to give them chances to redeem themselves. Because if you're not giving them the ability to, then it just shows distrust.

You know, they're going to continuously think, like, what was the point of me even getting out of jail if I'm just going to be isolated and, you know, not given a chance? Right. And I know in our previous discussion, when I asked you what makes for you or what do you feel makes a safe environment, you said first my favorite thing, which is rules and boundaries. Let him know what's the non-negotiable, right? And then acceptance, as you said. Right.

Let's go through each one and explain. Okay. So rules and boundaries. Right. So rules and boundaries would apply that when you get out of jail or you get out of trouble, it doesn't even have to apply to people in jail. This could be you messing up at work and getting fired. It could be you missing up in a relationship and breaking up with somebody or having a

fallout with a family member. You know, we all do things that have consequences. And, you know, the thing is, is that first and foremost thing is that, first and foremost thing is that we need to realize that we messed up. All right, let your ego go aside. You need to self-evaluate and figure out what the hell's going on. Was it something I did? Was it something they did? Was it on both parties' faults? You know, could it have been avoided? What action should I have taken during that time to avoid this situation? And if there couldn't have been some agreements, have respect for each other, that it just couldn't have been agreed upon and things didn't have to escalate.

the way that they did. You know what I mean? So boundaries are very important for, and rules are important for communication. All right. How do I communicate with this person specifically? How do I communicate? What is the rules and boundaries that I need to be communicating or addressing when I'm outside of the house, when I'm inside the house with my family or friends, you know, at my workplace? Because we all know, each one of those is completely different. Nobody acts at work like they do outside of work or at home. You know, everyone puts on that mask of a robot and having to pretend to be nice to everyone. Or maybe you like your job even.

You know, so there are certain rules and boundaries of how we can interact with people. And those are there to make the environment safe. They're there to make the environment comfortable for everybody on a neutral level. You know, so it's important for us to actually learn how to abide by those rules, because if we want people to interact with us, then we have to basically obey them or follow them. I know it's conformist, but you know what? It's sometimes it's there for a reason. It's not on our turf. What?

At least on their turf. At least on their turf, exactly. In your own home, you're going to make the rules and do whatever you want. This is why. I said, you bet, honey. This is what it's important to get a job and move out of your parents' house. Okay, so the rules, boundaries, acceptance, which you talked about. Right.

So acceptance is accepting the fact that the rules need to be abided by because they're there for everyone's safety. They're there for everyone to interact in a comfortable environment to make things not escalate or become awkward or just be unacceptable socially. But also acceptance is accepting other people's differences, accepting other people make mistakes, you know, and giving other people chances to be able to show that they're changing to that they're growing. It gives them the opportunity to grow for acceptance, you know, but they have to want it. The people who make mistakes have to want to change. They need to have that self-reflection. They need to understand that, oh, if I want people to interact with me in a good way, in a good environment that doesn't require me feeling isolated or doesn't require me feeling

like I don't belong or that I just don't fit in, you know, they need to. to understand acceptance of themselves that it might be something that they're doing. You know, maybe I'm communicating wrong or maybe I'm saying things I shouldn't be like lying about experiences just to feel socially accepted or to not be myself and try to be something that I'm not, which can get you also into trouble, you know. And then the other, the community needs to accept that. that the person might be different or they might have different viewpoints, you know, or that they did something wrong and it could be something terrible, but if they're not given a chance to

change and grow and prove that they've learned their lesson, you know, so that they don't fall back into the crime again or they don't fall back into a different one, you know, to survive and become a bad person to survive, you know, then, then, you know, there's that, you know, it's just important to be, to have acceptance with boundaries, of course. You don't have to come in and be like, oh, you poor thing. And, you know, just give the person respect. Give them a handshake, been like, welcome back to the community. You know, we're going to give you a chance. We're going to try and support you. Here's the help that you need. need, you know, these are the places that you need to go to, the help that you need.

We're going to, you know, trust has to and respect has to be earned to a point. You know what I mean? Like, you don't have to put that person on a pedestal. You don't have to pity them. You don't have to, you know, just cry over their shoulder for, for whatever they did wrong or, you know, like, just have that respect of they are an entity of consciousness. They are a being of existence, they deserve to have the baseline respect, which means don't judge them because you have no idea what happened. You were never there. You know, just take it that hopefully they have learned their lesson, keep your eye on them if you feel like you need to. But don't sit there and be like, I'm not going to hire you or you can't live here or, oh, you messed, you know,

you messed up. I can't trust you ever, ever again. Whether it be a breakup, whether it be a breakup, whether it be, you know, falling out at your job, whether it be, you know, falling out with your family member or going to jail. These are all steps that have to go into redemption of ourselves, redemption of other people, you know, having that, it's having, what's the word do you keep using? Responsibility for yourself? Accountability? Accountability. because having an accountability of taking control of your environment and how people act in a social situation, in a structural situation on a higher conscious level of having all of us is still every single person who is alive right now's responsibility. Yep.

And as a soul. That's so well said. And I think one of the biggest issues on this planet that I've observed is. is clean, clear communication. Absolutely. Talking to someone, and it's amazing how people are so scared of that. But if you're talking to something, I don't care if it's a wild animal, I don't care if it's a person out of prison.

I don't care if it's a guy. Like, merely you're calling me out here. It's a wild animal. I, like, say someone you were going to say, okay, I'll have him clean the garden for me and see how he does, right? So it's okay to say, want to give you this chance. This is what I'll pay you. And these are my conditions.

Now, is that you're on time and you are thorough. And is there any difficulty you're going to have doing either one? Right? And they'll go, oh, well, I have to take six buses or this or that or whatever. So you clear that out, right? See, they're not setting up sabotages. And then you're going, okay, great. Well, then I expect that to be done.

And that is your word. Are we clear? And I always say, are we clear? And they go clear. And I hardly ever have any trouble. Right. Part of it is people don't put fairness out of what they want and what they expect. They just assume, then make all kinds of value judgments, even between species, right?

like we learn all the time like oh my god you know i had a wild experience i'm not going to get into that just by saying someone was cute in their species they assumed i was now they're they're they're literally mate so that was a shocker and you have to be careful flirting with other species i wasn't even flirting i was just no trust me i wasn't flirting i was just like oh you're so cute, you know, but hello. So there's a lot. You have to like, okay, no. No. You're just way to get married. Anyway, that's it. I mean, clear of communication, always, always, always. Thank you so much for sharing your insights and the things that are vulnerable to your heart

and what you've learned from your vast experience, both on earth. not being fully supported and offworld with the challenges and being successful, persevering, and I still see you as a very important leader for now and in the future. So it is an honor for me and that, so we both would like to end with the most spiritual uplifting reminder guidelines that I have found for myself, and many of you have probably already heard about that come from attitudinal healing centers that are in over 30 countries around the world and have 100 centers done by my clients, late Dr. Jerry Jampolsky and his wonderful co-partner, Diane Cherichowny. They were the creators of this and it's very effective.

Now, one of my clients, Rebecca, offered this advice to me for the show because she's booed on the ground as a co-facilitator using Attitudinal Healing Group Dynamics in a prison next to where I live called San Quentin Prison in California. So she uses these rules and she sent me two pages of which I'm going to put on screen and you can screenshot them. and I've been applying the Attitudinal Healing Rules as good reminders. It doesn't matter how great you think you are. They're incredible reminders. There's 12, 12, they would be more called guidelines rather than rules. So what Rebecca shared with me is she said, quote,

it is important when talking to inmates that they feel safe and have a safe space to share. The agreement is for them to set down their personas, this is really important, and roles that they need to survive in the prison or society for the period of time that they are in this group sharing together. And they do say they feel very safe and they have agreed to that commitment when sharing with one another. Now, Rebecca is a very loving spiritual being, and she shares that it is their job. She emphasizes this at the beginning. It is all of your job to listen and suspend judgment. We recognize that love is listening, and we agree to this. And she makes sure everyone agrees to this.

And she sees it as her job. to reflect, this is the most important gift you can give anyone, is to reflect the true essence of that person back to themselves. Because most have never had any positive reflection or trust shown to them. And we all are here as part of one serving as reflections of each other. And in this earth experiment, we need reminded all the time. Now, the inmates do say, and what was interesting, it was the exact words that Apollomia told me before, too. The inmates literally say, quote, we need to be seen as human beings and not treated as animals.

If you treat us like animals, we act like animals. So, reflecting back someone's essence, and my favorite thing to do when I work with others is to see who they actually are. and then back engineer it from there and see if they're still interesting in playing this game because this is the time that most of us are awakening to more of the truth of who we really are because it's toward the end, not the end of time or anything,

but it's toward the end of this huge magnificent game. So I also have been in prisons, been in prisons interviewing super soldiers and multiple visits. So I'm very aware what goes on there and it's extremely corrupt as well as

many of the guards. And so this is part of us reforming reformation and forgiveness. So here I'm going to put on screen the two guidelines. The first one

is Rebecca transitioned some of the principles into 10 guidelines for developing a positive attitude. which who can't use that, right? So I'm going to go through these really quick before we end the show. And the first one is the goal of the group is to develop character, integrity, and have a more positive lifestyle. Two, in the group, we recognize that love is listening and we agree to listen with an open heart, to give mutual support, and to practice non-judice.

judgmental, listening and sharing. Three, we are all here to heal ourselves. We are not here to assume giving advice as appropriate or to change anyone's beliefs or behavior. Being accepted as we are, especially at first, makes it easier for us to accept others. And I know that you were the first I ever heard of, the name of this game, is neutrality. being able to be neutral, you know, hold that neutrality. Four, we all share from our own experience by risking and exposing our emotional state in a safe environment that's been agreed upon.

We find common experience that allows for joining. And this is so true. It's like all religions have almost the same tenets in different words. It's an example of that. Five, we respect each other as unique. We recognize that each person's process is important, not our judgment of it. It's not our judgment that's important. It's their process and what they're learning from it.

Six, we support each other's inner guidance and encourage them to listen to their inner guidance and assist one another and finding our own best answers to the questions we have. 7. The roles of student and teacher are interchangeable. They fluctuate fluidly from one to the other regardless of age or experience. Eight, we practice being present with others, seeing only the light and not the lamp shade, which I thought was a cute way of saying it. Nine, we'd agree to keep in mind that we always have a choice between peace and conflict, between love and fear. And 10th is we recognize the confidentiality of what we share in the group, honoring that this confidentiality and safety is important for maintaining the group and ensuring a place of safety and trust.

So before I go to the last little chart, would you agree with all of that? Yes. Okay. I just have one question. Yes. What do they mean by the lampshade? Oh, you're so cute. The lampshade is what casts a shadow.

It blocks out the light. But it doesn't always block it out. It can dim it. Let's do an appropriate thing. It can block it because the light bulbs right there. And if you just have the light bulb right here, it's really bright. So the lampshade, right? So seeing only the light and not necessarily the lampshade,

meaning the darkness, the obfuscate. the distractions, the persona, the, you know, all that step that is covering the light. That's another way of looking at it as a metaphor. Yeah. That makes more sense. Okay. I'm glad you asked. So, folks, these are the 12 principles of attitudinal healing.

We're putting them up for you now. There might have been one word or two that she shifted for the purposes of her working with the inmates who we hope are soon to be outmates. So this isn't me. This is the one lady who she in? Yes. Well, this is Attitudinal Healing. So this is Dr. Jerry Jampolsky exactly and Diane who put this together and have all those very, very effective. I just wanted to clarify. Yes. Thank you. Okay. So one, a basic truth in developing a positive attitude is that the essence of our being is love. Period. Two, health is inner peace. Healing is letting go of fear.

Three, giving and receiving are the same. This is really hard for people. I work with him all the time on this. We are one being and people don't feel worthy. They don't receive gracefully. And then if they do receive, they think they have to give something back. weird stuff around it. So giving and receive. Yeah, exactly. And very few things are given cleanly. That's the other thing. So that's your job to make sure that that doesn't happen and you don't fall prey to to that kind of manipulation. So giving and receiving are the same. There should be no guilt, no trips going on. Four, we can let go of the past and of the future. Five, now is the only time there is and each day we work on developing and maintaining a moral and ethical character. Six, we can learn to love others and ourselves by forgiving rather than judging.

I need that one. I'm reminded. Seven, we can become love finders rather than fault finders. And that's really beautiful because as creators, what you focus on is what you create in your reality. And attract. And attract. Exactly. So, you know, I was trained like, you know, it's almost like having spy training with a spy training. He's like, look for the weaklings. Look for the this like that. And it's like, it's also, it's like look for the love. Look for the balance. Look for the true essence of who they are. We can become love finders rather than the fault finders. And eight, we can choose and direct ourselves to be peaceful inside regardless of what is happening outside. And the best way to do that, folks, is what. Eckhart Tolle said, the thing that causes suffering is you repeating the same stories over and over

again and thinking they're real, so you keep recreating it. It's not the actual event. It's the stories about it that create the suffering. So when the suffering happens, digest it, understand it, and move on. There you go. I'm still, I was a master at that when I was a kid, not so much anymore. Yeah. Well, most of our brain, you know, we go into the rationalization and all these mind thoughts

and we give it credit. You just have to go, stop. You're not real and you realign yourself, right? That's what I do because I'm bossy. But anyway, nine, we are students and teachers to each other. True. Tan, we can focus on the whole of life,

not only the fragments. So keep seeing holistic. keep seeing others as an aspect of you in the greater picture. So holistic health rather than like all these fragments, okay, because fragments can create separation. 11. Since love is eternal, death not be viewed as fearful. And we know that death isn't really real in most situations,

almost all situations the most humans know about. So, you know, you can guarantee you. It's hard to kill yourself, truly. Okay. except oh, pardon me, I'm not, you're not allowed to talk on this one. Okay, so, and 12, we can always perceive others as either,

this is my favorite, we can always perceive others as either extending love or giving a call for help. A bully is actually giving a call for help. An angry person usually has hidden anger, I mean, has hidden fear. It's a weird call for help, but it's a call for help, and to learn to not take things personally.

So those are the 12 we'll put up for you. So please use those pages for reminders as you would like. And with a quote from the Dalai Lama. We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid. or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more aware. You always have the choice. So, Apollomene, do you have any last thing you would like to share? And because I know we've gone close to two hours,

and I believe that you're still not available to be contacted. So if anyone wants to contact Apollomeney, are more. If anyone has a question, they would like upon me to answer. Please send that to me merely at cosmic brilliance.com and I will make sure and include that in future shows.

I'm usually really good about that. Basically, it doesn't matter who you are. It doesn't matter what you've done. All of us deserve forgiveness and the ability to grow and change. into a better version of us, but we have to want it. You can't just expect people to give you trust and give you second chances if you don't push yourself or believe in yourself that you can change.

And change doesn't have to happen alone, so it's okay to reach out and get the help you need. There's no shame in asking for support. No. Yes. So folks, thank you so much, Apoll and me. Your time is extremely valuable, and you spoke from your heart today and about things that you have experienced and have seen and involved with close friends of yours, and we really appreciate that because we will be seeing a lot of this coming out publicly

at the time this show gets published, which is beginning of January 2025. And may we all be blessed by waking up to the day. the truth of our being, holding balanced justice, and listening and feeling into what we know is right in our own hearts and souls. So blessings to all of you, and onwards and upwards we are going to do this together. Thank you upon me. Of course. From next time.