Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew - 08 Kaitlyn + Jason

Episode Date: February 12, 2020

Today in episode 8 of Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew, we sit down with our new friends Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick. What a pleasure this one was. We talk with Jason and Kaitlyn today for the first time and do a very special 2 part episode, where you can find different stories in both of the versions posted (be on the lookout for the Off The Vine version!!) We learn all about Kaitlyn and Jason's story and how they've supported each other from the start. We also hear (and end up revealing) a few embarrassing confessions between the four of us... these have never been shared before, so it's quite the revealing episode. One of our favorite interviews to date, please enjoy Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick. If you haven't yet, please rate and subscribe to the show to hear more! And if you have suggestions/recommendations for the show, send us your ideas in a video format - we might just choose yours! Email us at [e-mail]. If you want to hear more from Kaitlyn, make sure to hop on over to her podcast, Off The Vine, to hear a different version of this episode! You can follow Kaitlyn on instagram at @kaitlynbristowe and Jason at @jason_tartick. Also be sure to check out Kaitlyn's website where all of her work is showcased (if you're interested in trying the wine we had on the show, click on the link here!) https://kaitlynbristowe.com/ We are supported by the following AMAZING companies! Make sure to check them out using our special code & link below! Zovio! Enroll now by going to Ashford.edu/COUPLETHINGS. Noom! Sign up for your trial today at noom.com/COUPLE. SimpliSafe! Visit SimpliSafe.com/EASTFAM. You’ll get FREE shipping and a 60-day risk free trial! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yeah, this wine smells like tears. I was like, if you're in a relationship that you're not having disagreements or fighting, in my opinion, I don't think you're openly communicated. I am a little bit negative. I will agree with you, and I could work on that. Very good at that. Yeah, and then when the lights go really dark, I'm like, oh, my God, not doing anything. That was a weird thing to say.

I don't feel real great about that. I don't feel real great about that. what's up everybody welcome back to a couple things with Sean and Andrew it's a podcast all about relationships and we have fun doing it too yeah too super special Sean has been dying I'm hoping they're our best friends that's right we're interviewing Caitlin Bristow and Bristow my bad we discuss this we discusses and Jason Tartick yes and it was amazing it was a great conversation I think I'm in love before we get started we're just going to jump right into it. If you could give the show a rating and subscribe to it, that would be fantastic.

Also, make sure to go to Caitlin's podcast. Off the Vine. And since this is a longer podcast, this is longer than usual. I do want to remind people that you can change the speed of what you listen to. So just, no, I do that all time. That's what I do. Okay. So if you, like, if you have a budget for time, just speed it up. But let's go. Let's go ahead. Okay. Today we have a special episode. I'm really excited. So am I? Wait, why is it special? Because it's with you guys. We have Caitlin. Okay, I don't want to butcher. Bristow. Yes. And Jason Tardick. You got it. Okay. It took me longer to get her last name. He always called me Caitlin Bristow. Bristow for like months. It kind of sounds like New York though. Yeah. Yeah, maybe it's in New York and be coming out. It comes out a lot. But yeah, Bristow. I was like, if we're going to date, you need to learn how to pronounce my last name. Got to tighten that up. Yeah. That's going to have to be a thing. Of course. We have double date, double whammy. me, we're doing it all.

It's Valentine's Day. Yes. Tell you what. What a beautiful thing. Sean has never been so nervous slash excited. She was pacing in front of the front door. She might be acting cool now. She's like so excited.

She's like, I just remember being friends with them. Don't mess it up. Well, good, because I kind of feel the same way. I'm like, do I force the friendship? Like, or do I act cool? I'm not sure. I was saying that too. So I just came from the gym and I was in the sun.

I'm like, I'm pissed. I'm all sweaty right now. I don't know. Like, what are what's going to have? She just relax. Yeah. Can you swear on this? Probably not.

Yes. Okay. You never know. You never know. So you were, you used to be a spin class instructor. Um, it was very brief. But yeah, I did. I got my, um, certificate, did the whole thing, started teaching.

But that was like right when I went on the bachelor. So I had to stop, but I still love it. The intensity that, that, like the vibes I'm getting from me. I kind of want you to kind of like, oh, you can see it. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. Okay. Now up it.

Yeah. Four corners. Wait. Did you do soul cycle? Uh, it was like. like that it was at a studio in vancouver it was called um eastwood cycle and shout out and it was yeah same same style like the dance style and i can never keep up with those i mean i did the legs move too fast i danced my whole life but i'm the same way and my legs just they're not strong and so i would

just fake it a lot as a teacher because you can like i didn't i did i would turn the intensity Yeah, I'm like, turn it up. Like, never did. Or I was big on jumping off the bike and hyping up the crowd and, like, getting in there. Because I'm like, I always get mad at an instructor to do that because then I'm like, I know, because then you have to do it. But if you had to, like, grade your spinning when you and I do spin classes, like, the waist up for you is just unbelievable with, like, your moves and your head spins

and, like, your rhythm. But sometimes I let my hair down. Sometimes she'll, like, slow the legs down, but she'll still keep, like, the head box going. Yeah, yeah. But do you admit that I am good at faking the legs? Very good at that. Yeah.

And then when the lights go really dark, I'm like, oh, I'm like not doing anything. Yeah. Everyone's supposed to be going light. Kate's out. Yeah. That's great. I've actually a funny confession for that one time. I was doing, I was at a class in Nashville spinning.

And I was feeling this Beyonce song. It was, finally, you put my love on top, babe. And I was doing that. And she accidentally switched the song when she wasn't supposed to. And I went, you're the only one that. And I like, It was dark and the music went out and I was just like hitting the high note. But it was a full class.

I was like, does anyone know it's me? I don't know. I did see a video of you like doing a rap karaoke. It was solid. Oh, which one? I don't know what the song was. Where did you find there? It was probably Shoop.

I was just say practice makes perfect. And how many times you done Shoup? I did it as an air band in the sixth grade. I mean, we're talking a hundred times easy. You've done live performances of Shoup. Oh. Yeah. When I say live, I mean, really.

Two people, four people, eight people. Oh, yeah. She's like a one-hit wonder. One hit one. Well, you have one other one. Oh, salt and pepper. No, that's salt pepper. Shoot.

Oh, what's the other one? You have another one. I do? Yeah. My lovely lady lumps? Yes, that's it. That's it. So if you're one karaoke song, what you're going to?

Is that for a wagon wheel? Wagon wheel. That's a great one. That's a great one. That's a great one. You really pull out your twang when you don't have a twang. Get it down, Sam. I know, I know, I know.

Wait, that was really good. Thank you. Sean has never told me in my life that I'm a good singer. So I'm just looking. That was really good. Yeah, thank you. We're here to compliment you. Where are you originally from?

Indianapolis. Oh, okay. He does not have an accent. He just puts it on for the wagon wheel. That was good, though. Yes. Well, Sean, what's yours? Your go to karaoke.

I break glass. But you got to have one like. Oh, I thought that was the song. Like, never heard it. Break glass. How does that one go? Like. I don't know.

Sing a song. The conjuring last rites. on September 5th. I come down here, I need you. Array! Array! Array! Array!

The Conjuring, Last Rites. Only on theater September 5th. I couldn't pick one. Come on. You have a good voice. I don't. Thank you, though. Well, we'll let you think about it.

She gets real shy. Oh. Well, that's what the wines for. Yeah. We should pop that thing open. I honestly, I'm not shy. No, that's a shocker to anyone. But when I'm put on the spot with singing, that's the one time I'm like, that's when I freak out.

Anything else, I'm like, yeah, just singing. I'm like, oh, this is so vulnerable. Yeah. It is. While we're opening the wine, I just wanted to, for people that. Spade and Spade and Sparrow No. Oh no, no, no. I'm just saying while you do it, I'm going to For my listeners. Pimp it out.

Yeah. No, no, I've already, I've pinned it out all the time. Spade and Sparrows. At Spade and Sparrows. New wine coming out there. But I want for the listeners on off the vine if they don't know who you guys are to just explain. Oh yeah. Who you guys are a little bit. My name is Sean. No, my name is Sean Johnson. Andrew East. We're married.

I used to be a gymnast back in the day. Don't talk about him. Yeah. Yeah, it's like, no, just any gymnast. I competed at the Olympics once. And did pretty well. Yeah. You are a household name as far as I'm concerned.

Thank you. And humble. I won four medals. Yeah. Pretty cool. It's awesome. Yeah. And then found this handsome gentleman.

How did you guys meet? And you play football. My name's Andrew. My resume is I'm married to Sean Johnson. Did I open this wine bottle wrong, by the way? No, but you're never supposed to hold. the glass like that we learned of it come on i hold katelyn didn't chill it so i don't think all rules are off with the wine brand i'm always like i'm not i don't claim to be like a connoisseur

i i i'm not like you know i don't i can't smell it and tell you the year i don't care about how to hold a wine glass it's not chilled and it's that's what i want it to be wait have you ever watched the documentary some it's on my um list it's on my list i really want to know what you think because I thought it was strange. Oh, really? Yeah, they literally smelled the wine. They're like, I smell grass. I smelled tennis balls.

I smell fresh. Literally. Are they being funny or? No, so evidently the whole thing is there's no right or wrong. Yeah. So there actually isn't a flavor or a smell to it. Yeah. But you have to be able to describe it in a way that like I would be like, oh,

it actually smells like tennis balls. I know what, whatever. What? But like these connoisseurs. smell in this. Wait, hand me marks. Dry January's over.

Oh, thank God. Cheers to that. You did dry January? I did dry January. Yeah. But we're back. We are back.

Cheers. Cheers. Cheers. I, wait. You guys have to, okay. Eye contact.

Can I? Sean's a freak about it. You have to make eye contact. That's fair. This is great. No, with your significant other. Oh.

Hats off. Wait. Oh my gosh. Thank you. Did you do it while you're drinking too? Like it's got, you have to do it. No.

No. Okay. So can I say. That's intense. Too much. Andrew. That just gets weird. Can I say this on our podcast?

The word sex? Yeah. There I just opened it. Wow. We need some of your rules. I learned this from the Russians. Okay. That if you cheers, if you do not look your significant other in the eye, when you cheers,

it's bad sex for seven years. Oh, nobody wants that. I know. So that's a long time. So that's like seven bad sex is this. Because we, now that we have a kid, it's like, You are far between. I was like, okay, back it's out.

Yeah, well, what's our excuse? He just keeps drinking. Yeah, this wine smells like tears. No, this is really good. This is really good. Yes. When you, like, made your own wine, do you get to, like, sample all these different wines? Yes.

But that's scary because at the end of it, I'm like, was I just drunk or was that good wine? I don't know anymore. Do you ever buy wine from, like, napper or something? after you've done a tasting and you're drunk and then you get home and drink it later and you're like this sucks all the time because really just a taste isn't enough because I'll taste any wine and be like it's great but to have like a full bottle or a glass it you can't just do that I've done that so many times we went to nap for her's birthday I got tipsy well it's rude if you don't get very job we got a lot of wine got hammered we got we had to pull over on the side of the

road so she could I was just say that's a rough goal it's a rough hand over you got throw up The hangover. Well, wait. I do confessions on my podcast. Is that your confession? Or do you have a better one? That's a pretty good one right there. I did just throw you under the bus.

I know you're like, stop, stop. And I'm like, yes, that means that's a good confession. You got to go for it. Well, I mean, it's standard Napa behavior. You get drunk and you have a quick little puk and rally. Yeah. Okay, so like we had, we had, I was with the Raiders for a little bit, and we had been to Napa before, done the tasting thing.

So I kind of knew what to expect. as you should have as well where like they give you four different wines at every different winery and we went to four in one day so I surprised him for his birthday so we flew up to Napa yeah but we went to four wineries so that's like a lot of wine a cumulative

and the whole time I was like just sipping I wasn't finishing each sample but Sean would like reach over she'd be like quit being such a pansy and like chug it for me and then like after the second one she was buzzing and then after the fourth like we were supposed

to have dinner at this really nice place. We sit down and like legitimately as soon as a waiter came out to like get our drinks. She was like, Andrew, I need to leave. I don't feel there. So we got an Uber and we didn't make it all the way back before we had to stop. How did your ratings do after that one? It's bad. Yeah. A lot of that story sounds exactly like Caitlin and I's relationship, except Pansy starts with the PN's with a Y. I'd be called something else. I was. I was. I think he was being nice. He got the same thing. Yeah. Other than that, I think you get emotionally abused too. Oh, yeah, but I like the, I do like the quickly, let's go. That is like Caitlin said.

Kailen will be like, everything will be great. Hammered, life is good. And then boom, it hits this like break red light where there is no if and grab. That's a great thing. You know when to go. Yeah. Well, I usually should go before that. But I get to a point where I'm like, I can't, I can't go anymore.

I'm out. And my move, if you ever need a move is like, because people know I just will leave. But I mean, I can hang. And I'll, you know, I'll, you know, I'll, I can't get anyone under the table, but when I get to that point, my move is to buy everybody's shots and then leave because then they're like, well, the memory of the morning, they're like, you know, it's probably a little bit later. You're not going to really remember too much after a shot, but you remember, oh, Caleb bought us all shots. It's a great night. That's really smart.

So you dip out a lot under the radar because you got a whole system for it. Oh, yeah. The problem is, if it hits like when we were in New York and it hit the mid mid dinner and the Italian place. Like, can't we just order it. She's like, nope, we got to go on. I had a quick, like, I had a quick cat nap on the table. You did. That's amazing, though.

That can be my question. Wait, I think you went to the, didn't you go to the fall asleep? Didn't you go to the bathroom and fall asleep for like 10 minutes? I think that's what you did. What? Yeah, we've all been there where you're on the toilet and you're like, you took like it was actually incredible because we were with some friends and they set this up. It's tough to get a reservation here.

So you went and you went to the stall and you took a 10 minute nap and you came back like a new person. Everyone's like, Yeah, yeah, I just got a quick nap. It was like you recharge the batteries. No. Swear? Yeah.

That's the weirdest thing I've ever heard. I went to the bathroom and had a nap. I thought I had a nap on the table. No, it was a bathroom. And this sounds like Caitlin went to the bathroom and did a quick line. I did not. Oh, no, no, no, no.

That did not cross my mom. Oh, that is totally not. I'm like, oh my gosh, I don't do drugs. That's what that sounded like. She would admit it. Okay, she tells everything. Yes, I have an open book. There's no lying.

I didn't even think about that. Okay, good. Oh, no, you actually, like, slept. That is, I mean, I have done that before. I am a very interesting human being. I was going to say, though, I've been in the position where you, like, go to the bathroom when you're sitting on the toilet

and you're just like, wow, I could just sleep here. I hope I wasn't in a romper. That's even more off. Oh, interesting. Do you mean a quick line? That's our code word for a schnooser. It's a shnoosers. So your confession is that you throw it,

but you have to tell one now because. You can't just, you can't just tell Sean's confession and then think you're going to get away with that. Yeah, exactly. Now I'm embarrassed. Well, do you, can you think of one and you're just too embarrassed? Well, I got like too boozy? No, just any kind of, any kind of confession. We could also come back if you.

Yeah, because I have another one. For you. Oh, yeah. Let's go. Let's just, let's just, let's just be off the years. Jason is, Jason doesn't really like to embarrass himself. So he never has good confessions. I have had some pretty good confessions.

Yes, you have. Yeah. But I don't even know if you know this one. I was recording a dance at the studio Nashville a couple weeks ago. And it's like this really cool dance studio. They have ones in L.A. And it's like kind of a big deal. And they do really big classes.

And really, really good dancers go there. And I was recording a video for my scrunchy line and at do edit. Can you say scrunchy again? Oh, did I say it funny? Scrunchy. Yeah, you say like. No, it sounds really cool. Scrunt like what you say great.

Say great. Great. Great. Great. Great. I noticed I do it now. It almost found Spanish. Like you're rolling your art.

It's really fancy. Oh my gosh. I didn't even know. Scrunchy. Oh, yeah. No, no. Can I. Good catch.

I mean, as long as you're saying, it's not terrible. And so I'm doing this video and I have a couple of outfit changes. And while I'm getting my makeup done, I am like watching these performers practice in a couple of the studios. And they were really good. They were like these Broadway performers. And I was like watching on this big screen in the waiting room. um forgetting there was a big screen in the waiting room i did an outfit change on the big screen on camera while there was let me pull up youtube real quick yeah i think there is about like

i don't know maybe eight people in the waiting room which could have been worse but yeah still terrible and i mean full naked oh god no way yes yes not even i was like telling the camera guy and all the girls. I was like, just, I'm like, I don't care about the girls, but like, just turn around. I'm like, I've just got to do this outfit change. And I, and it wasn't a cute outfit change. I couldn't get into the pants. And so I was hopping around, like, scooching, like trying to pull up the pants. And then after just, like, if anyone, I'm sure people are watching, but as I realized what was happening, I was like, wow. And I just like went behind a curtain and I was like, oh boy. I was like, Cleo.

I just got completely naked. There's cameras down. Like big screen in the lobby. That's amazing. Yeah. Oh my gosh. It's funny after the fact. My brain immediately goes great podcast content.

Yeah. So there's that. You should say those people were lucky. Yeah, well, they were. Yeah. They got the show. And you had a nip slip the other day on Instagram. Is this?

You're a nip slip on Instagram? Wow. I'm really close to $1.8 million. So, hey, tip you over. It's intentional. I thought that would really get me somewhere. It didn't. Man, I got to get more creative.

Okay, so the girls have, like, said their compassion. Yeah. I did think of mine as we were seven years. It's somewhat along the same line. So it was my first time to Iowa when Sean and I were dating. First time meeting, first time meeting her parent and, like, being in her house and meeting her extended family. And we went to a family bowling night where they had, like, it was black light bowling. So all the lights were off and just black lights, right.

And so everyone knows where it's going now. What? Keep going. Sure. I had like one pair. I had like one night. I used to do my own laundry in college, right? Like, as opposed to Sean doing it all now.

And I guess I did it wrong, but pouring detergent right on the pants is what I used to do. Okay. So I show up to black light bowling and having a great night. She has this cousin who's like really loud, like won't let you get away with anything. Nothing. And he's like, he's like, dude, show up the family bowling with some jizz on your pants off. And I look down and like legitimately.

like spotted like this and I was like so embarrassed it was a beginning of the night and the rest and I was just like sitting down like I still have questions that is incredible I have no answer so okay okay well then we'll leave it at that because I'm like is that a normal thing to get that on your jeans like that or I don't know just I mean you know remember room raters no the MTV show room raiders or they go into your room and oh yeah yeah they do the black light I mean it looks like based on that show it's all over the place that's true yeah that's a fair statement it was it was funny there it was like it was all down your pants it was that's it was in compromising areas 100% that's a great confession the most embarrassing moment I've ever had in

and then you continued to bowl the entire time you didn't even go the bathroom time way but off nothing it was there's no white box it was like it was in there stained yeah yeah embedded in the fabric like you could have cracked it if you got your jeans What is wrong with me? What is wrong with me? While bowling, they cracked. Okay, Jason, you're up. That's hilarious.

I actually have like two funny, quick stories that are derived from a confession. Great. So the first one is, Caitlin had told a confession that when she, this is so funny. Oh, can I say those words?

No, sorry. This is so messed up. So Caitlin, when she stayed in Seattle once, apparently I didn't have, I was at work. I was at work.

I knew. You were going to make your confession something embarrassing for me. Hang on. Hang on. This is one. No, no, no. Oh, yeah, this is embarrassing for you. But you already told you confession.

But this comes full circle. So it's about, so I ran out of toilet paper. So she used, I have washcloth stack. She used one of my wash cloths. No. I know. I know. No, this comes back to me.

Gross and out. Okay. Just pants. Just back. Wait. Can I ask the detail that I feel like maybe number. one or number two yeah too okay yeah I mean that's but I think it must have been like I think of the whole full stories like toilet paper ran out had to like some finishing touches and used

but anyway you're like it goes into my toilet paper in the house the funniest thing is it goes into my laundry one one way or another like not too long thereafter I have like two pink eyes so I'm in like double deckers like I saw like I mean like double deckers like I saw like a I doctor all this stuff. Well, yesterday, so I forgot we did this confession months and months ago, like months ago. But yesterday, I did an ad for this face scrubber I use, okay? And I genuinely use it every day because of Caitlin.

Well, I had literally like, the way I started the ad, not even thinking about it. And I actually mean this, I'm like, I don't use washcloths anymore because I don't know like how hard to press I got my face cleaner. And I got so many girls like, yeah, we know why you don't use your washcloth, Mr. Pinkie. Like all these are funny things Literally just makes me look gross

Well that was fun I thought it was funny I can't believe you put it in the wash I do have one one though Where else did you put it? I would throw it out the window in the trash can I'd burn it You know looking back next time

That's what I'll do I always like to like talk about the dynamic Of relationships Where ours is very We're both kind of loud And outgoing and sometimes it's a lot But I feel like Just now are you telling it sorry

I'm like give it where And I'm like trying to step over it Do you guys do that or what's your? dynamic in your relationship. Andrew's, Andrew's the louder one. Okay. I'm the more controlling one probably.

That's a good combination. That's it. You need one. Right? Way to be self-aware, babe. Yeah. That's, hey, I'm a very self-aware person. But yeah, I'm always trying to like finish his sentences and.

Yeah, that's not controlling. That's cute. Yeah. But cute to other people. Yeah, for like a day. Yeah. What would you say? What are dynamic is?

I Yeah, I would say I would say I'm the louder one for sure Yeah Yeah And who's the romantic one? I would say Sean is Yeah

Sean's super thoughtful I can see that If you go on in the master bedroom I have like notes That she's written me Kind of lined up Oh Which obviously now I'm gonna get into

Love Languages Yes What we always ask love languages too Okay great Yeah You're like I'm best friends Yes

Can wait a I'm X like Probably physical touch and what's acts of, is it acts of service? Acts of service, yeah, he's words of affirmation. Yeah, that's me. Big words of affirmation guy. And I'm more acts of service.

See, it's weird because I don't need, don't, I don't need you to tell me anything. Just show me. I feel the same way, yeah. Oh, see, and I'm like, the other, here's another confession, but I'm the same way, like I need just to hear it. Sorry, I'm not the same way.

I need to hear it and I don't really care about showing it. Interesting, yeah. Yeah, and so the other night, the Super Bowl's on and he's there and he's not responding to my text and my text was holy Shakira is so hot and then he didn't respond but I see him on Twitter talking about Shakira oh man and then I'm like I'm trying to be the cool girlfriend seeing how hot Shakira is but really I'm like I think I don't you have to respond and then I'm like you need to respond I'd be like babe you're so much hotter

Yeah, he goes, and then I said, I said, that's a trap. That's a trap. No, it's not a trap. We also, you know, we have to explain the dynamic of our relationship, too. Like, she'll be like, wow, that good guy's a good looking dude. I'm like, yeah, that guy's a stud. Yeah, that's how we are too. We do that.

We do that. We do that. So it's kind of like, our background. Yeah. So I'm like, oh, I'm like, wow, this is cool. Kail is like, that's exactly what those things. Like, we're open, we're on. Yeah.

And I do that, too. Like, well, to watch girls on the bachelor, but okay, yeah, they are beautiful. But the thing was. The thing was, girlfriend was on her period, shoving noodles down her face, eating Chinese after I had McDonald's for lunch. And I'm watching Shakira and Jalo, like, 50 years old looks like they're 12 and they're stunning. And I'm feeling a little bit like crying into my noodles a little bit.

And I even said to Jason, I go, don't respond to that because I'm shoving my face with noodles and I don't want to hear it. His response, instead of saying, you're so hot too, or you're beautiful, is, yeah, I have a new celebrity crush, Shakira. And I'm like, and then I sent him a funny picture of myself, like fake crying eating noodles. And then I went and plugged in my phone and didn't respond to him for a while. And he's like, Caitlin, you're beautiful too. What just respond to me? What are you doing?

And I was like, my phone's charging. But that's, it's funny. I mean, listen, I was focused on that halftime. It was incredible. Oh, yeah. It was really cool to see Latina community women's kick-ass. I also had some funny bets, and I did have a bet on the over-under J-Lo outfit change. So I was also focused on that, too.

It was two and a half. This seems like an unresolved issue. I agree. So you're really paying attention to our outfits. Jason. Yeah, I was. Jason. Babe, you're so hot.

Babe, you're so hot. Jason, we spent like 15 minutes. We should do this more off. We spent like 15 minutes together. I feel like you're real cool, dude. Biggest red flag so far is your flannel shirt has like a hand pocket on it. And I, I'm confused. No, you have a pocket on your side, don't you?

Oh, cool. I've never seen one. No, pockets are amazing. You have a pocket on your side. You see this? Like the, wait, you don't even know that.

Wow. That's the greatest surprise ever. Do you ever wear dresses and find pockets? The best thing. I know how to hell to wear. Because you never know what to do with your hands. In like, awkward situation. I will hate a dress and then find out it has pockets and I immediately fall in love with it.

And I'm like, And then everyone goes, oh, are they engaged? She's hiding her hand. I'm like, no, girl, my dress has pockets. Caitlin literally said, like, I'm running the gym, get a change of outfits, so you can come here. Caitlin gets out of the car. She goes, are you trying to turn me on?

As we were walking up, it's like, what are you talking about? She's like, your red flannel shirt? I was like, red flannel shirts turn you on. She's like, I'm so into that. So first of all, I didn't know that. Second of all, I didn't know you're not supposed to know that side pockets. No, the side pockets are awesome. I assure you is the only red flannel shirt that I own and they ever own ever.

So, yeah, I don't know. I would say my favorite there are the socks, the red socks with. Wait, these are the, uh, you're going to kick that one. Jack in the box. Jack in the box. I thought he was definitely going to kick that one. Yeah. He would.

Come on. Jack in the box. Sox aren't cool. Yeah. We're just worried about the wine. Dude, you got the whole matching thing going. Yeah.

Not bad, right. I've never done that in my life. I know. Yeah. He asked me what we were going to wear today. And I was like, I don't know. I'll probably just wear like joggers in a sweater and like some combat boots like something and he shows up and I'm like, it looks so good.

You look so hot, babe. You look so hot. Oh, cute. Yes, good job. Yeah, but you ruin it. Just keep doing it. I know. Did I do it right?

Did I do it right? Just kidding. Can we play a relationship game? I'm like, is this chair and wheels? It is. Okay. Yeah. You move around a lot?

Yeah, yeah. I'm very animated. I'm very, you keep stomping your feet and like it. Yeah. It's funny. It's like laid back here like. Yeah. I know.

So your baby Drew is three months. She's three months old. sold the cutest i want to steal her i won't um she's very sweet and cute and i mean but how has that changed your guys relationship oh my gosh geez it's in every way possible but in every way possible and it's the i think it's the biggest obstacle for a marriage in a relationship just because you have to figure out we both believe that we have to keep each other first in order to be good parents for her and especially with an infant it's really hard to keep that dynamic because the infant can so easily become the focus of everyone's attention

that you just forget about each other yeah yeah so how do you do that where are you how do you put each other first uh so we scheduled every thursday night from five to nine is date night for sean and injury so we have even two days after we got home from the hospital yeah like my mom came over she watched her baby stuck with that we have every single week yeah and some of those date nights we've gone out of the house completely pissed at each other just like I don't even want to but we still come home happier yes it's like so important I explain it to people like this like you know you had like a roommate in college and there's like chores to do like taking out the trash and doing the dishes and all like this list of things when you have a baby there's like a thousand more of those things and so

the opportunities for resentment of like I'm changing the diaper and I did this a whole day and Like, I'm feeding, like, they just, there's more opportunities to be mad at each other. And so for us to have these weekly date nights where we can just kind of put that aside, just sit at a table across from each other and look each other in the eye and just. And remember why. Exactly. Yeah. And then I don't know if you guys have this, but with your dogs.

Is there anything with your dogs that you guys don't agree on? I'm so glad you brought that before we answered because I was going to ask you if having a dog kind of helped you channel into. having a baby. I think a million percent. Yeah. Okay. Because if there's anything you don't agree on with your dogs, it gets magnified. So our babies can't sleep in our bed with us every no. I would say probably like the seriously the biggest thing that's actually like a real thing is like organic versus like medicine. I'm a proponent of utilizing medicine and you're not a proponent of utilizing medicine.

So I did have this, and this comes back to the conversation at Super Bowl weekend, talking to this guy, CEO of this company. You know when you're at networking events, sometimes you meet someone and you're just like, you're stuck to the person, you get deep and you're talking. One of the things that came up, he said, if you are in a relationship where you are like not happy or you're fighting now when you have kids, you have zero chance. Yeah. And I, like, kind of battled with him.

I was like, if you're in a relationship that you're not having disagreements or fighting, in my opinion, I don't think you're openly communicating. I love that, dude. So I was like, I think it's actually, if you are communicating openly and you are having those disagreements, it's going to prepare you for that. So we kind of had this like battle back and forth. I'm curious, your opinion being in that situation. In what world is like a healthy relationship not have arguments?

Right. There's a healthy way to have an argument. Like, if I'm, if I'm like yelling at you and throwing stuff at me, like not healthy. But there's so many different, like, you. grew up in Canada, you grew up in Buffalo, New York. I'm sorry that it happened to you. You stop. Oh, boy. God, I love you. But, like, there's just culturally, like, the expectations, there's a million different things that are different, and you're going to have to work through those as you're living together and raising a human being together. Like, you're going to have

disagreements. I think the disagreements become more passionate after a kid, because it's not just you that you're defending or your belief you're you're trying to speak for a tiny human yes and like protect them both have different beliefs and yeah different beliefs and even raised different so I agree with that but I mean we've always been huge advocates like arguing we think is good because you are being honest and transparent um I agree it's so much better than bottling something up or yeah or blowing up like an argument can be also a conversation what do you think are some of the most important things that that mean the most to you when parenting your kid. So I'll give you an example.

Like I think when I have a child, the things I think about. Or are you going to birth the child? Not having discussions like that. But is discipline, like that the discipline's instilled, having respect for others. And then I think probably the biggest one that people don't really have today is accountability. Instead of putting blame on everyone else, you know, I think that's one thing my parents did with me. It's not the teacher's fault. the principal's fault it's not your coach's fault you know look into me or what can we do to be

better so those are the things I mean the most of me I'm curious like as you guys now have a beautiful baby like what are the things you're like this you know Drew has to have this or like something it's important for me that so I instilled this that's a really good question I would say I'm going to answer what I view is important in raising a kid in our marriage first and I think my answer to that would be like that Sean just trust me and I trust Sean that hey Sean loves Drew as do I and she's going to do some things differently and that's okay and I I kind of expect that in return of like hey look you know I'm not going to change your diaper as soon as she goes to the bathroom I'm going to wait like 10 minutes and that's like not me neglecting her that's me just

making sure she finished going to the bathroom where Sean like changes immediately right and there's like that's what I'm talking about there's this uh disagreements but as far as what is important for me for drew to know um i think a sense of gratitude like the opposite of entitlement um is really important to me just like realizing that that having a general sense of of appreciation is like the best way to go through life um faith to me is important and then uh just like respect for for everybody and realizing that um not everyone might be talented in the same way but you're not going to be talented in the same way as they are realize that everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses and just to respect that like and not get

jealous or frustrated just like respect that i like that's really good you can agree but you don't have to like you're like oh gosh am i almost the only thing i was going to add is like i was terrified to have a girl so we didn't find out what we were having so and i wanted i mean this is going i hope true doesn't resent me someday for this but I wanted a boy because I was terrified to have a girl I think I get that both girls and boys have different things that are hard in today's world to like grow up in but girls I think right now just have it harder people are probably going to disagree with me it's a political statement I guess um but raising a girl to be strong and confident and have a voice and I think is really daunting and And I just want to be able to raise a girl that's very comfortable in who she is.

And feels like she can do whatever she dreams of. See, I think I disagree a little bit. And it's okay. I just think I would never rather, okay, let me think about how to articulate this. I would be more comfortable today raising a woman than ever before in the history of the world. And I think we're now like culturally things are shifting. And an open dialogue is happening. it didn't happen before and you can think of so many cases in Hollywood and corporate America

and politics and I think open communication and equality with women in payment and every right that they deserve and more is now being the forefront of conversation which is amazing it is parents like you guys who will make that like I think the next generation of women is going to be they're going to be so powerful so you're going to be part of that movement for them too I understand your concern tons of work to be done tons of work yeah so far ago like so and everything right and and gay rights and trans I mean the list goes on but I love where it's moving today I think that too comes from like us I think he I think as a guy you think it might be easier to raise a girl and as a girl to me it feels like it would be easier to raise a boy but it might be from personal experience and just growing up in today's a good point so it is no I agree with what you're you said. It is all based on each person's experience, but I agree with you. It terrifies me to raise a girl just because I think of things that I've done or gone through or a scene or like everything. I think it does just depend on. Even a kid, I remember you've made

a couple comments like, do we even want to bring a child in this world? Like she said, you know, seriously though. We've taught like so yeah. Okay, question for you guys. We always ask couples this. Okay. What is each other's biggest pet peeve? And then what do you love most about each other well i need too should we start with kately's like where i start with pet peeve no start with a dis and as a compliment okay um well for me personally my pet peeve um well i'm trying to think of one that's not like so silly and like like you snore like something that's not ander doesn't shut cabinet doors okay actually you know what it's it's your old man noises He makes old man noises all the time.

Let's roll this YouTube video back and play all the old man voices I've made. This is what he does. Well, first of all, snoring at night. He's like, you snore too. You just said you weren't going to include that in your list. But that's part of the old man noises. I've snored twice in a year. No, that's not true.

You snore. Oh, my gosh. Just take the feedback. I know I snore. He'll be talking. and all of a sudden he'll go, like with your nose. I don't do that. It sounds like a buffalo thing to do.

Yeah, it's nasly. But I just went to the doctor and I got this new spray. Oh, my gosh, again, you don't have to defend everything. No, I'm exciting. It should be take care of. What's the other one? I don't know. Just these old man noises come out of you.

Remember the other night when we were in L.A. at the hotel and Lowe was laughing so hard at you because he was like, I hear it. You'd be like, I don't remember. All right, so olden that noises. Is there anything else that is my pet peeve? Or is that? That's pretty good? Pretty short list, yeah, but that's good.

I mean, I could go on. I just thought we had to pick one. No, that's great. That's great. But, I mean, what I love the most about Jason is, I mean, that list is even bigger. But probably, like, just your character in general. Like you just have really good intentions. You are very, well, you're just very well spoken.

You're very smart. You're very level-headed. You're very thoughtful. You're just like your character to the core is really, really good. Oh, that's nice. Cute. It was nice, wasn't it? For a little bit.

All right. So what is my biggest pet peeve? I already know what it's going to be. What do you think it's going to be? I'm curious. That I'm negative? Yeah. That I think it's, yeah, it's overly critical.

as you can tell and and just always it's glass half full with everything that's great and i think that's glass half empty glass half empty so like just simple things like you know you'll and we talk about this and you but you got these beautiful dogs are there we're having so much fun she's like oh it's gonna be so terrible and they die like wait what okay oh yeah i'm not that morbid no you mentioned that you said that the other day i hold oh this is so hard this is what was this is so brutal because they're both the same age and then they're going to die at the same time. I was like, wait, what? That is a genuine budget. I think that's a woman, a female mentality there. Because you like think things. Yeah. Well, I also think it's part of that if you like, this is a good thing in all

relationships is that thoughts today are derived from yesterday, right? So we all grew up and we've had things. Oh, I just did the guru. Did you hear that? I did. I did. I grew up and like things that have created us to be who we are today. And I think understanding that about your partner is so important. So we've had like, we've talked about that in depth. Like, what is it? And you've talked to me openly about how things, things that you have seen fail have then put in your mind that things will fail today. And it's something you're working out.

And by the way, foul is fail, but just in his buffalo accent. Another pet peeve. This fucking guy is philosophical over there. No, he's so philosophical. I'm just shook from our first, like, female, is this the right condition to be raising a daughter? No, I love it. This is why, well, and especially what you talk about for your YouTube channel,

coming up like I just think the things he has to say are so important I think it'll do really well but um yeah I just I just think I have yeah again like it was really hard for me that my parents divorced and I was like at an age where parents usually don't divorce I was 18 or like 17 years old and um you think that doesn't affect you and that you're not fragile at that point in your life and that you can handle it and you know it's the right thing and you're mature enough to like see what the why but it's still I'm like I saw a failed marriage when my parents weren't unhappy they were pretty happy.

Failed relationships in my own life when you think they're going to work or I've suffered loss of a best friend and it scares me to get close to people. That's a big one. Like certain things. So it's, I am a little bit negative. I will agree with you and I could work on that. But to me, I'm like, but this is why. And I do actively work on it.

Therapy is my everything. I think a beautiful thing. Thore up, he. Power up. I think a beautiful thing. though we've talked about those other couples and some people have differing beliefs but we think it's really important to talk about baggage just because it it teaches your significant other that I respond this way because yeah whereas some people just don't believe like let's not talk about

the past let's not talk about exes and how we got here because I just want to date the person you are I think there's so much more to a person based off of what you've gone through I totally It's really important. I think it's cool. But you have to have the maturity, I feel like, personally, to be able to realize that, hey, all the baggage that I do have has helped me, help made me who I am. I'm not, like, not still be clung to that or bitter about it or, like, let that affect

your current relationship. Yeah, so that's, I feel the same way. So I think, like, baggage is a history, right? But you have two options with history. You let it continue to repeat itself or that you chant, again, I'm getting deep. Either you channel it until, like, you. find the positive from your past that brings you where you are today so you don't relive that past. I think too many people today will take the baggage and move forward with it and let it still

impact their current situation. In my opinion, if you fall down the stairs, well, you should learn not to fall down the stairs that same way. And it's a really bad analogy. No, because I don't want to get deep with other things. But the point is like the whole idea is insanity is doing the same thing over and letting history repeat itself. Right. So while you experience that, you've learned from it, it'll never not be you. I think it's good to take what has happened and then find the good in where it's put you today. Yeah. Well, I mean, it's part of forgiving, like you have to forgive yourself along the way like me today in a relationship is 10 times better than me in a relationship five years ago. Because that's, again, like you just learn from every relationship or failed

relationship or whatever you've gone through in life but I do think I mean I agree with both of you because I think it's so important to talk about like you said the baggage and the failed relationships and why and because it does help each other understand instead of just being like well that doesn't matter anymore because we're here now so I think it's just a combination of those things yeah here I'll detour into a game before we wrap up yes uh okay so this game is just a very standard most likely okay okay so we can answer it too This is funny, the first one. So is it mostly you or me type that?

What's that? You'll see. Most likely to forget an anniversary. Andrew. Both of us. Yeah. We just forgot ours. It's February and we're like, hey, our anniversary was in January.

Oh, what? Okay. We forgot. But we remember your contract and when that's up and we'll celebrate that. Who is most likely to cry over a movie? Andrew. Me. Me.

Yeah. what one gets you up oh yeah instant family with mark walberg oh that was a good one i was pregnant though i cried oh it's really good okay it's really good what would you say get you um art of racing in the rain i was crying i cannot watch movies of dogs yeah it's off limits yeah i'm yeah i'm like a dog's life and stuff i can't watch it yeah i tried to watch one with subtitles once and i turned off the sound because my whole thing guys is you know when dogs cry on movies I can't. How did they get the sound?

Wait, that's a really good question. Right? I can't do it. It's Garmin. That's a good question. Jeez. Have you seen Art of Racing in the rain or no? No,

I can't. If it's narrated by the dog, which is like, holy next level. It's like a dog's perspective. It's cool. And the dog's very intelligent. It's like,

yeah. No. It's always a golden. Peanut Butter Falcon might be my favorite movie. Oh, actually that was really good. It is so good. It's a child of a lot. Anyway,

that was a detour. But go ahead. It's so good. So remember that. It doesn't have a dog in it. Okay, good. Who's more likely to go the longest without showering? Him, my gosh.

Oh, me. I just watched my ever set. I love that. She smelled like a full week. No. I love that. It was four days. That's not bad.

And he always calls me out for smelling. I'm like, I don't really care. No, no, I don't call. It's not a call. I'll just like, when you smell good, I tell you. And when I smell bad? Well, she just. When Andrew gets, when.

gets there, I'm like, it's time. Kate just transitioned to natural, which, which again, I support, but natural deodorant. Which doesn't work as well. It's not working. So I'm like, hey, like. I'm like, you got to let things. You just come on.

When Andrew and I first started dating, he didn't believe in deodorant. He thought your body naturally built up its own resistance. You and I are kind of me. Yes, that's kind of me. See, I would have thought you would have been like that. I don't like smell, though. Oh, okay. She picks and chooses.

I was the same way. I'm like, you've got to give me three weeks for my body to naturally, like, get through this. 21 days. Who's more likely to be late getting ready?

Me? I'm not late. Oh. My son. It depends. We're both. We're both. We need to be better.

Hey, we're improving, though. We showed up at 2.0.0 today. 202. No, no. No, you're behind me. I was 202. Yeah.

Caitlin was definitely. But that's good. for us um okay who is most likely to respond to a social media troll sean me too how do you respond do you do the passive aggressive thing or are you like this hurt my feelings or are you like okay karen what do you do um i was fine until i had drew and now i'm like oh yeah the mom shameers don't come at me like i i went back at someone the other day it's no grandma she's like i'm worried about the half of your child i was like excuse me and i went back at her i was like have held her. Do you know her? No, you don't. Yeah, see, I love a good clapback. I think it's standing up

for yourself. We disagree on this topic. It just, I feel like it just fosters more and just encourage more. Yeah, and that's called engagement and that's how you get your followers. One point eight, baby, the road to one point eight. Nip slip and just let's make it a changeover. I'll tell you what. Who is more likely to throw a thwart? fit during game night me me but passive aggressively i'll just be like i'll like be laughing having a good time when i'm like when i'm winning and then i start losing i'm like i'm ready to go to bed yeah yeah that's me that's i'll like if jason comes up with a funnier answer than me yeah um like this one game quick flash i'm like oh you're the funny one in the relationship now i'm so glad you put up

with me okay and then who these are other questions but who initiated um that i love you first me shonda oh really this is how i made the first move guys that's really cute i kissed him first that's right uh-uh this is actually a great story we've never talked about this the way she first told me i love you was she posted noted i was i was at vanderbilt going to school have you seen bruce almighty yeah of course you know where he covers every inch and post it i did that to his dorm room she did that to don't ever do this it took me 12 hours I thought it was going to take two hours It took way too much

Every inch And then on one in the bottom On one post and the bottom of my closet Behind shirt She wrote I love you On one And he somehow found it Yeah I found it

And I was like How many postits you think that way? Oh too many And it was I don't even know Who that person was back then That was commitment Yeah that's a lot

Was the purpose of doing it For him to find the I love you Was that like the intent? No No she did it all the time No, I was bored. I had no life back then besides him. And I was like, I have nothing to do while he's at school and football practice and he

doesn't come home until 10. Yeah. So I decided to post it now. And I was like, oh, here's a few hundred pads. Let's see if I could do this. Oh, wow. I went to Walgreens probably 12 times. You have a picture of this?

Yes. No way. Don't ever do this. I won't. It's so dumb. It's so dumb. I won't. I will not.

But that's really, that is the most thoughtful thing. I thought about doing, for this Valentine's Day, we're doing gifts. And I thought about doing, I'm not going to do it, so it's not a spoiler or anything. But I thought about doing like cards because we love cards, 52 things that I love about him on like a little ring. Oh, that's sweet. 52. Why have I do it? Why am I not doing that?

Yeah, I was like, 50s a lot. She's like snoring. Oh shit. Wrong idea. Well, this glass half empty over here. Just being negative all the time. What? Going to town.

Canadian of you going to town going to town sometimes they talk Canadian that is very sweet though and that's how you said I love you first yeah wow that's very special yeah we we also never you never said that you found it or anything you didn't say anything but then I was in your dorm room one day and I saw that you had taken the post-it note off and put it on your notebook and I was like oh shoot oh shoot oh he found it and then how did you say it back uh Mad gab yeah Isle A-I-S-L-E of few and then Wait, that's, I love this. I know, that's how we like sign all of our cards.

Now it's all of you. I made a, I actually created a crossword and then like had. We were on a plane from San Diego. We used to do all this stuff back then. We don't do that anymore. You don't have to talk about that. How did you guys do it? We were playing Monopoly deal.

Cute. Jason was winning. And Jason was probably winning at that time in our relationship. I literally, oh, okay, I know, I'm trying to push your buttons. I'm like, Monopoly deal, that's my game. But I have gotten really good. Okay, that's right. So we were playing Monopoly deal and, well, you just looked at me and you were like,

oh, yeah, yeah. Because he was like, I really wanted like a big, like special way to say something. And he's like, but I just can't hold back. Like, I just need to tell you. It was just mid game. Yeah. It just came out like instantly and naturally, you know, it wasn't anything for him. That's really cute.

It was cool. Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool. Okay, this is a little cackle before your laugh. Oh, I have a, it's a, it's a, it's like a thing. It's a thing. It's a thing. It's like, we joke her, like, yesterday, actually, you laughed and I was in the kitchen, I just started laughing to myself because she has, like, a fat man's laugh. Like, she's like, it's a belly laugh. It's like a belly laugh. Like, and like, it's, it's hilarious. It's amazing. It's aggressive.

No, it's great. You have a great laugh. Yeah, he's very deep and, like, philosophical. And I'm more like, and how can I make a joke around it? Thank you guys for coming on our podcast. Thank you coming online. Hopefully you guys will come over for game night. Yes, game night is a must.

Can we schedule this? Done. Not monopoly deal, though. I feel like Jason's kind of locked. Yeah, he'll make you feel really terrible. But what's a good one that you play with four people? Golf. Oh, we play golf.

Yeah. I learned it with your favorite. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do you have Xbox or PlayStation? We don't. Yes, we do. We have Xbox. We have Xbox.

Okay, so that's where we'll play Quick Flash. It's on there. Clifflash is really good. Oh, it's Jack in the Box. Jack and we love that. Yes. I'm glad we figured that one out. That's what we're going to do.

Let me do say, though, whatever podcast you're listening, whether it's off the Vine or a couple things, give the show a rating. Give the show a rating and subscribe to it. Yes. I always forget to say that at the end, but it's so important. You've been in the podcast game for a while.

I have. You're like an OG. I'm an OG. I'm not. Am I allowed to say that about myself? Yeah, I'm OG. Yeah, it's fun. But tell people where they can find your podcast if they're listening to Offsify.

Yeah, so a couple things with Sean and Andrew is the name of our podcast. And then I have my own called Redirected, but we have a YouTube channel called the East Fam. And you can find us. Hey, your YouTube's great. You guys both like, you have over a. a million subscribers between the two of you, don't you? I think so. Yeah.

We have fun. Yeah. Family-friendly content. That's great. That's not with me. That's right. Don't listen to my podcast with the kids in the car. Or mom and dad.

Well, my mom and dad can. Yeah, that's true. Your YouTube channel is it just called restart? Just restart. You love that. You have an Instagram page. I'm really excited for that. That sounds awesome.

It's going to be fun. You're going to crush that, man. I think you guys. I appreciate it. Yeah. We'll have to cross-collaborate. I'm re-erected and restart. There's some common synony.

I'm thinking about our sex later. Oh, boy, this is a good time to wrap thing. And let's close. I forgot there's speech. I'm used to Caitlin. That's amazing. It's so good. I'm sweating now.

Thank you.