Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan - #484: It’s Time to ELEVATE Your LinkedIn with Melanie Borden, Founder & CEO at The Borden Group
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Because there's so many people who are afraid to share their story because they think it's
unprofessional or they're afraid of the visibility, they're afraid what's going to happen.
But why don't you be excited about the possibilities of what could happen,
who might see the post, who could possibly reach out, who you might be in front of at the right
place at the right time. And that's why when you have an updated profile and it reflects who you
are and where you're going,
it just creates this other level for you that just didn't exist.
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I'm ready for my close-up.
Hey, we're back and I'm so excited. You are back with us today. Okay, literally I've seen this woman on the show
more than anybody else in the history
of creating confidence with Heather Monahan.
She's my wingman.
We do so much together and we're actually here today.
We're gonna talk a little bit about our January, February,
eight week bootcamp.
We are literally gonna make you the thought leader
that you knew you needed to be in 2024.
But for some reason, you waited till 2025. We're not going to wait any longer.
It's the CEO of the Boarding Group. We've got Melanie Borden back today. Melanie, thanks for being back with me.
Thanks for having me again. I'm so excited to be here with you.
Alright, so Melanie, as we talk all the time and we were talking offline, guys, first of all,
the key
thing for us is we always want to add value to you.
We want to teach you how to do the things that we've learned how to do because both
Melanie and I have built very strong personal brands, specifically on LinkedIn.
Those brands have allowed us and afforded us so much opportunity to work for ourselves,
which is amazing, which we never had.
There was no big strategy behind this, by the way,
when it all started out when I got fired.
I kind of stumbled into it.
Melanie did it out of need.
Not that dissimilar for me.
But along the way, what we've learned
is how to really hold the pen when telling
the story of your life, how to elevate yourself,
how to be seen as a thought leader,
how to attract opportunities to you,
how to attract employees to you, how to attract clients to you, how to build a business. And for all of you that actually are
out there in corporate America, one of the things that we've done and had a lot of fun doing is we've
advised companies on not only how to elevate the CEO and the senior executive team, but bring all
of the employees along with it. We're going to get into a little bit about that. The importance,
again, really at the root is about that personal brand.
Melanie, where should we start?
How can we add value to everybody listening today?
I think we should start about going to market
for something very specific.
A lot of times, I know this happens to you too,
where someone will come to you because of a specific need.
Maybe they're looking to get a board seat.
Maybe they're looking to land a TED seat. Maybe they're looking to land
a Ted talk, or perhaps they're just looking to find a way to express themselves, to create
thought leadership on LinkedIn, and they just don't know where to start. So what if we talk
about optimizing your profile for success to align with your goals?
Let's get after it. Where do you think people should start?
Well, one of the things that I always tell people is the first thing that someone sees
when they come onto your profile is your profile photo.
So making sure that you have a relatively recent within the last six months, headshot
or photo of yourself is so important because we don't want to be showing up to a meeting or a potential
opportunity with an image that looks like us from 15 or 20 years ago.
Or, and we had this, Melanie and I run a boot camp right now, actually, and we had this last
week where we have this really dynamic woman. But when we were looking at her profile, her photo
is not representative of who she is. And guys, here's the thing for everyone listening, people do business with people they know,
like and trust.
So when they go to your page and they see kind of an AI image or a static image or like
some stale image from a few years ago, they're not going to be drawn to you the way they
could if you could be thoughtful about.
And again, it doesn't mean it needs to cost a million dollars.
It does not.
I've seen plenty of people have selfie pictures of themselves up on their LinkedIn profile that look a heck of a lot better than
ones that have been done professionally. So don't get caught up in the idea. It's very expensive to
do. Let's just be thoughtful about it and show your personality and who you are. And to Melanie's
point, be within the year at least, because too often I'm with you, I'll see someone's image.
I'm like, oh, that, okay, now I know who I'm looking for.
And then in real life, when you meet them,
you're like, oh, this cannot be good.
And I'm hoping this person is not running that same game
on a dating profile, even bigger ones.
I was just thinking about that catfishing for business.
And that's really what it is.
It really is.
And I know that you know this,
but I do want to touch on this.
Recently I changed my profile picture on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn.
I try to keep them consistent across all platforms just because I want people to be able to find
me easily.
Now, I create different content, by the way, in different platforms.
However, I keep the image the same so that people can find me.
Now, what I want to add to this is, and I'm saying this because I know somebody's thinking
it, the minute I did it, I got so much hate.
So anyone listening right now that's like, Heather, I want to change my profile, which
I agree with you, but I just don't want to get the negative kickback.
Well, listen, here's the thing.
Number one, I was having a conversation with some of our group coaching clients yesterday.
They were all upset about people attacking them.
Here's the thing.
There's this great Theodore Roosevelt quote that's all about, I'm only going to
listen to feedback from someone who's in the arena.
If you want to get in the fight, if you want to be in the dirt, like Melanie and
I are, we're changing our profile pictures, we're creating new content,
we're taking risks.
Go ahead.
You can give me some feedback, Melanie, but you're never going to give me
negative feedback, might be constructive, but you're never going to give me negative feedback. It might be constructive, but you're never going to attack
me for something because you're in that arena with me. You're taking the shots from other
people. Don't listen to these people that are shooting shots from behind a computer
who are faceless. Those people are not our peers, right? They are not winning for a reason.
If you're willing to put yourself out there and you're willing to expand and grow beyond
your family and your inner circle, you're going to get some creative feedback.
Start seeing that as a celebration that, oh my gosh, I broke through.
I'm reaching more people than just my closest friends and just my teammates around me.
I'm so excited.
And the other thing that I'll say is this, my first book, I have a chapter about haters.
I couldn't remember what I wrote about in there.
I had to go pick up my book and read it to help these people on my coaching team.
Here's what I want you to know.
You will forget about these haters faster than they would ever forget about you.
I wrote about it in a book.
I couldn't even remember what it was I was so upset about.
So the point is these people who are throwing stones at you, taking potshots at you, they're
irrelevant in your life.
We don't even know who they are.
They're ghosts on a computer.
Don't let them take up any of the space in your mind right We don't even know who they are. They're ghosts on a computer. Don't let them take
up any of the space in your mind right now, because I promise you a year, two years, five years, seven
years from now, they're going to be even more relevant then than they were back then. What do
you think about haters and how do you deal with it? Because I know you do too. Yeah. I mean, I look
at haters now as being a great sign, because when someone is hating on you, that means that you're
doing something that is making someone feel a certain way
that has absolutely nothing to do with you
and everything to do with that person.
One of the number one KPIs that I tell my clients
that they should expect if we're managing a brand for them,
which is, IE their LinkedIn profile,
one of the first KPIs that they're gonna have
is people in their industry are gonna start talking.
They're gonna start saying, well, what are you doing? Why are you doing this? Then you're going
to have other people that are going to say, I celebrate you. This is amazing. I love this for you.
And then you're going to have other people that are just going to watch and be inspired and might
not say anything. But those people who are negative, they're just not able to do it themselves.
And a lot of times I just look at that as a celebration.
I've had a ton of droll experience
and it's one of those things where
if you have any sort of success, no matter what you do,
whether you're posting on LinkedIn
or whether it's for your business or you're in a marathon,
whatever the case is,
you are always going to have someone in life
who is going to not be happy for you
and isn't gonna give you flowers
and there's gonna be other people who will.
And I just always tell people focus on the positives
and your overarching goal, which is where you're going.
And if your photos trigger that from someone,
you just have to feel bad for them
that they're getting that upset about a profile photo.
I mean, it's crazy to think about,
but they need to find something else. They need a hobby. They need to probably focus on investing
in their brand and join our bootcamp. The thing people usually get most upset about is something
that's lacking within themselves, right? Like myself included, I'll get frustrated when I see
someone like they wrote their third book and I'm like, I've been thinking about doing my third book
for so long. Like when you squeeze someone,
what comes out is like what's really inside of you.
Like, oh, I wanted to do that or whatever.
So I do understand it.
I try to empathize it.
But to your point of like, people are gonna be talking.
I don't remember who this quote is from,
but I remember when I was starting out,
which for me was seven years ago.
So I try to be fair with everybody.
I started on LinkedIn seven years ago is when I got fired.
So people think like, oh, you have hundreds of thousands of followers and this and that it didn't happen overnight,
guys, like this has been a seven year journey for me. So don't get too caught up and like, Oh,
you're here and I'm not because Melanie grew a lot faster than I did in a shorter period of time.
Everyone's different. Everyone can grow at different times and for different reasons.
But I want you to know this when I first started out to Melanie's point, people were immediately asking me, why are you doing this?
Picture that was seven years ago, guys.
There's no more business cards anymore.
There's a personal brand online, right?
Like there's your LinkedIn profile.
That's what you send people.
You don't send them a business card anymore.
And if you are, please stop and go ahead
and get a QR code of your LinkedIn profile
and start using that.
So that's how people market themselves.
Well, back then, seven years ago,
not everyone was leaning in the way that they are now. So when people would ask, I would
feel a little embarrassed. Well, then I learned this saying or some quote that said something
like this, people are going to keep asking you why you're doing it until the day that
comes that they asked you how you did it. And I specifically, and just think about that,
they're going to ask you why you did it until that day they finally come to you and ask
you how you did it. I've lived that transformation firsthand and I just want for everyone listening
who hasn't gone through this yet, trust me because seven years ago I didn't know that was real.
I want you to know I've lived it. I've walked it. Melanie, I know you have too. And now we build
businesses teaching people how to do the things that we did do that don't forget seven years ago
they were asking me why I was doing it. So it's a great thing to be different. It's a great thing to be unique. It's a great thing
to fly your freak flag because the more you do that, the more you separate yourself from
the general public and general population out there where too many people are trying
to swim under the radar. They're going to miss the opportunity. They're going to miss
the business. They're going to miss their calling it and purpose in life. And those
aren't our people. Don't come in our boot camp if that's you, if you want to fly under the radar, because
we are going to push you into who you are driven and meant to be.
And that's also one of the parts of the process.
And that's part of how some people grow quickly and others don't.
I just did a post yesterday about storytelling because there's so many people who are afraid
to share their story because they think it's unprofessional
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don't know how, that's why when they do come to us, it works so well.
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Okay. So for everyone listening, you know, I love a good challenge. So Melanie and I are challenging you.
Number one, if you haven't updated your profile picture on LinkedIn in the last
year, this is your call to action.
You have two weeks to get a picture up and loaded a new picture. We are challenging you. Second challenge I'd like to action. You have two weeks to get a picture up and loaded a new picture. We are challenging you.
Second challenge I'd like to initiate and I'd like you to walk us through how you do it first and
then I'm going to walk everybody through how I did recently. Melanie, will you take everyone through
how to write the about section and how they can update it and enhance it today to help bring
themselves more business and more credibility? Yeah, absolutely. The about section is this
unbelievable opportunity that a lot of people
have written like a traditional CV. And I would love to unwind this idea of your LinkedIn
profile as a resume because it's really so much more than a resume. Like you said, it's
the 2025 business card, but it's also a way to differentiate yourself in a very crowded market. Nine times
out of 10, when I look at LinkedIn profiles, they are missing who they work with, what
they do, the results they get, and how to contact them. And they also don't tell a story.
And so I look at your profile, specifically your about section, as a place for you to
differentiate yourself and to have
this story about where you were, where you are, where you're going, what you do, who
you work with, the results you get, and how to make it easy for someone to contact you.
You want it to be easy for someone to send you an email or easy to send you a DM or easy
to book an appointment with you. And you want to have that information, even in your about section, not talking in the third person about yourself, talk in the
first person, share a little bit about your story, talk in a way where people understand
who you are as if they're speaking to you. So they have that connection and they feel
like they already know you. And you can do that in your about section, your profile.
And that's a really big miss that I see where, you know, been in this industry for X amount of years, has knowledge
of X, Y, and Z, experience and proficiency in A, B, C, and D. And that's just what we see all the time.
And it's a place for you to really differentiate yourself. You can add humor to it. You can add
really anything. I love looking at
people's profiles who have it all, who have a great landing page, if you will. And if you start
looking at your profile as a landing page, as your own personal website versus just this online CV,
it's living, it's breathing, it's constantly changing. As you evolve, your page is going
to change too. And you can do all of that in the about section.
Okay, so for anyone that's listening right now,
that's like, okay, Melanie, got it.
But like, obviously I'm beyond that.
I'm already really successful.
Ironically, I kind of thought the same thing for myself.
I'm like, yeah, I haven't updated my about section
in years and I don't need to.
I am so well established.
I am seen as a thought leader. I've got it going on. Please don't think I'm obnoxious, but I really thought that.
Here's what's interesting. And again, I want to challenge everybody today. We can always get
better. I don't care if you're the president of the United States, you can market yourself better.
There's always a way that we can improve, especially with technology out there. So I want
to share this. One of my partners came to me, this was not Melanie,
this was a partner on my speaking side of my business,
came to me and said,
you are not marketing yourself in your bio.
They weren't talking specifically about LinkedIn,
but like when I'm speaking at events and stuff,
they said, your bio is not strong enough
and representative of how big you are
and how successful you are.
And I was like, I disagree.
I didn't see it that way.
Anyone else with me that like,
you don't have the rose colored glasses on yourself
when you look in the mirror,
you only do that when you look at everybody else, right?
Like, so to me, I'm like, I don't know, it's fine.
Like, what's the problem?
I'm challenging everyone right now.
I'm gonna run you through some questions that they sent me
that they made me fill out.
And then I'm gonna talk about how we turn this
into my new about section on LinkedIn.
You can go see it in real time. Okay. These were the questions they had me fill out. And I want
everybody listening to fill these out in your own time as well. What is your current role in title?
Pretty simple. What is your experience? And so my business that we're talking about is speaking,
but for you, this could be as an accountant, as a business owner, whatever. What is your experience
as a fill in the blank? Please include notable companies,
clients or organizations you've worked with.
That's really important.
What topics or themes do you specialize in
as a speaker for me, but so for, you know,
fill in the blank for you.
What type of audience do you typically speak to or serve?
And what value do they gain from your presentations
or your pitch?
How would you describe your speaking style,
high energy, interactive, motivational? But again, back to your business, how does that apply to you?
How do you ensure your presentations are engaging, interactive for audiences,
activities, storytelling, hands-on experiences, like giving a little bit more color here in
regards to what it is and how you do it? What are your most significant achievements in your career?
Personal life include books, written, notable media mentions, large speaking gigs,
awards, charity work, anything.
Write these things down.
What transformations or outcomes have you helped your clients,
in my case, audiences achieve?
What hobbies, interests, or unique experiences
make you stand out as a unique individual and person?
What makes you a perfect fit for events
in today's business landscape?
Or what makes you a perfect fit for, fill in the blank? What feedback have you received from past clients or audience
about your impact or style? Okay, everyone listening to this, I filled out these answers.
I sent them in to my partner's team and they reworked a bio before I got it back from them.
I took my answers and you know, I did this. I went to chat GPT.
I used the hat technique that we're gonna share
with everybody in a moment around chat GPT.
And I uploaded and chat GPT wrote my new about section,
which I will tell you guys,
it is so much better now than it was last week.
I was sleeping on something my partner Mel is constantly
telling people not to sleep on because I thought like it was big enough. It was good enough
going through this exercise. I just think too often we water down our own success. We
water down our own accolades, not intentionally because we're thinking like, oh, it's just
good enough. No, it's not good enough. So for everyone listening right now, it's not
the world needs you to shine bright. The world needs you to shine your light so that others can
follow in your footsteps so that others can be inspired by the actions and achievements that you
have. But you've got to start putting that out there. Melanie, do you agree or disagree?
I so agree. I heard this quote the other day that I might have seen on Instagram,
and it said something like, if you're not intentional, the default is to waste your time.
And so to me, I want to be as intentional as I possibly can.
And if I'm investing this time equity into LinkedIn,
into myself, into growing my business
and building my future, I want to make sure
that everything is being incredibly
intentional and thoughtful in any way I can. And if that
means I have to go back to reimagine or make changes to something that I thought was good
enough, then I'm going to do it. It definitely always makes sense just with anything in life
to get a different perspective or to understand how someone else is thinking. Because if you
can do that, then you can also make those changes for yourself.
But I so agree.
And we only have a very short period of time.
We have what, eight seconds to capture someone's attention?
Something like that.
There was a stat that showed online,
you have an eight second window of opportunity,
and that's why those short form videos work so well,
because when they're super short,
you got someone's attention.
Well, you have the short attention of someone who comes to LinkedIn and it's a different
mindset.
It's very different in my opinion than Instagram or TikTok or Twitter, even though it is technically
a business platform.
We have a lot of fun on it.
So it doesn't always feel like business for us, but the people who are speaking to, they're
either looking to hire someone, they're looking to grow, they want to be educated. So you have a very specific mindset too.
So I'm not finding what I need. I'm moving on to the next thing. When you were just talking,
it reminded me of something else that you teach a lot. And obviously you've been teaching in our
bootcamp is that back banner on LinkedIn. it being part of the funnel.
Can you talk through a little bit about,
because you're so good at this.
And it also made me think, again,
I go back to my own profile.
I'm like, I can be better.
Will you talk through a little bit about
some of the things you see there
and how you help people improve it?
Yeah, absolutely.
When someone comes onto your profile,
yes, they see your profile photo,
which everybody who's listening is gonna be committed
to making a change to their profile photo. But the second thing they see is your banner. What does your banner say? So what
I tell clients is, what do you want as your number one goal or what is your objective of using
LinkedIn? Are you looking to grow thought leadership? Are you looking to get speaking
engagements? Are you looking to drive revenue? Do you have an event coming up? What is your
number one goal? Is it driving revenue? What is it? Do you have an event coming up? What is your number one goal? Is it driving
revenue? What is it? Do you want appointments? Because LinkedIn has this option for us of
branding ourselves and it's this real estate that people aren't necessarily using. And I love calling
it a funnel, your profile, because essentially you can direct the person who comes onto your profile
to what you want them to do next.
So if you want them to book an appointment with you, ask for the meeting. If you're looking
to sell tickets for your event, make sure you have the information that's relevant about
your event on your banner. If you're looking to bring in new clients, have social proof
from another client who can speak to your experiences with them. And then all of a sudden people have a different perspective
because you're showing them what other people like them
have said about you.
And so your banner, if you're launching a book,
make sure that you have your product there.
Or maybe you're going to market,
you work for a tech company
and you're launching a version 3.0 of a certain product.
Have that on the banner and have it synchronized
across everyone
in your company. So there's all these micro moments of conversion on your profile. And it
really starts with your banner, with you telling them what to do or asking a question to really
speak to the person who you're talking to ultimately in your content who you want to work with.
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So one of the things that you brought up gives me a reason to give everyone another challenge
because I love giving people challenges and it's ended here.
It's such a perfect time to do these things guys.
So Melanie mentioned social proof, okay, which is testimonials.
The easiest thing and this is my challenge for you right now is to go out and get some testimonials. Let me just tell you, I don't just tell you to go
do the things, I walk the walk. So it's so funny, I was just on a group coaching meeting and I've
been saying to everyone, guys, I need testimonials from you before the end of the year. And someone's
like, can I do it the first week of January? I'm like, yeah, of course you can. But the point is,
ask people for what you want. You know, You can negotiate on the timeline on getting it back,
but building an arsenal of testimonials
is just further credibility for your business
and further storytelling on what the outcomes are
that you provide.
So not only am I challenging everyone right now,
I want you to get at least five testimonials
during your business.
How do you do that?
The next time someone comes to you that says,
hey, great job on blah, blah, blah.
Oh my gosh, Jim, would you mind shooting that to me in an email
that I could use as a testimonial online? Or you send them the link to request a testimonial
from LinkedIn. I don't love that approach as much, but you know, it can work for some
people you're close to, but really just asking people, Hey, I'm wrapping up the year. I'm
reflecting on our relationship. Your business means the world to me. I'd love to help other
businesses like yours.
Do you know any other businesses that I could add value to
and or would you be willing to share feedback
on working with me so that I could use that
to help attract new clients into my business?
Who would say no to that?
Everyone's gonna say yes.
So Melanie, let's walk them through a couple
of the different testimonials that we've built
as we've been working together.
Yes, I love that idea.
So since you and I have worked together, Heather,
one of the most recent testimonials
that we've received together was from the CEO
and founder of a recruiting company.
Her name is Kelly Robinson.
And she mentions in her testimony,
this is my second time working with Heather.
The first time we met,
I had just started my recruiting business, PKR,
and she gave me a goal that seemed wild, but with her help and guidance, I crushed it.
I am back now with Heather and Melanie learning how to best build my brand on LinkedIn.
The live workbook they offer is super helpful and continuously evolving.
We have a messenger to support and guide each other between our Monday coaching sessions.
The women that are in our group are go-getters and looking to take their brands to the next level. They are smart and inspiring. We all learn from each other. Heather
and Melanie have offered so much valuable information, encourage us to continuously
work on our goals. Love them both and love the group of baddest women I have met. I mean,
that's amazing that she feels that way after just, I mean, we're almost through the boot
camp, but we're a little bit more than halfway through. But it's definitely something that you don't know until you actually put yourself in the
position of, okay, I'm going to challenge myself.
I'm going to do something that might not necessarily be something I would do on my own.
But I know that these women have done it before.
There's also another woman that's in our bootcamp as well, who I worked before with
previously and her name is Michelle Bufano.
She did the bootcamp and said, I found this to be such a useful, amazing experience.
I've said before, I thought I was proficient in using LinkedIn, but I was so wrong.
This has made me realize how much more I can utilize it.
I absolutely love the experience and I highly recommend the course.
It's something that I definitely think no matter who they are and what they do.
I mean, you're talking about Michelle's in the legal industry and you have Kelly who's
in the recruiting space.
It doesn't matter the industry.
And this comes up a lot because I have had conversations with people and they say, well,
you work with personal brands and marketing, or I'm sure you've heard,
oh, well, you're a speaker, so it's different.
It's very different and you do coaching,
so it's easier for you.
No, you have to put the work in,
but it's every industry.
It doesn't matter the industry.
You could be selling robots or you could be selling hardware.
It doesn't matter what it is.
You can create a presence and you can
monetize your business, but it requires work. There's no magic pill, but there is two magic
people who have done it before. And that's us. When you take direction from people who
have done the things you want to do, you move at lightning speeds and leapfrog over everybody
else.
All right. I want to read a testimony that just came in for me yesterday that I love. It's actually from my elite mastermind. But guys,
just so you understand, my elite mastermind only opens up once a year. It's an annual commitment.
It's huge money, right? So I'm not sharing that with you enticing anyone to join because you can't
join. However, you can join our eight-week January and February bootcamp. So let me just give you the
feedback from this woman, Stacey, that just sent this in to me because I did ask a bunch of my clients, hey, I want before end of year, send me
a testimonial. Heather Monahan's mastermind has been an absolute game changer for me, both personally
and professionally. This is what happens, you guys, when you invest in yourself. I swear life
changes. Heather's contagious confidence and ability to reframe fear as a green light have
fundamentally shifted my mindset, empowering me to take bold strategic action
in starting and growing my business.
Her coaching isn't about motivation.
It's packed with practical, actionable how-tos
and valuable connections to the right people,
accelerating my growth beyond what I thought possible
and faster than I ever could have imagined.
Thanks Heather and our incredible peer group.
While I'm in business for myself, I never feel by myself.
Having invested in countless programs over the last 15 years,
I can confidently say that Heather's program
is the most valuable and beneficial investment
I've ever made in myself.
The confidence, clarity, connections and support
I've gained through her coaching
have allowed me to dream bigger,
execute smarter and move faster.
If you are ready for more and are seeking clarity
on your goals and practical direction,
how to get there from
someone who has been there. Heather Monahan is a coach you've been searching for. Okay,
so not only do you get Heather Monahan in our eight coaching program, you also get her partner,
Melanie Borden, which I have to tell you guys, Melanie is my yin from my yang. Like everything
I'm not great at. I'm not great at organization. I'm not great at Google docs. I'm not great at Google Docs. I'm not great at turning things into PDFs and email
formats and ebooks. This woman is brilliant in. So we work incredibly well together. You get two
totally different coaches that are very, very much aligned, not only as business partners,
but as friends, as people and in believing in people and wanting to do good in the world.
By the way, that's an amazing testimonial that you got.
That was incredible.
Oh my gosh, well, can I just say,
I'm so proud of her, but I'm also proud of me
because this woman and guys, this is, you know,
I just spit truth.
So this is truth.
Her name is Stacy, or I'm gonna say Stacy K,
but she's from the media business.
She left the media business.
Since we've been working together,
she was unhappy in her business.
I had to talk to her for an hour
to talk her into making the leap. Again, it's a big financial commitment, my annual program. For an hour, I've unhappy in her business. I had to talk to her for an hour to talk her into making the leap.
Again, it's a big financial commitment, my annual program.
For an hour I've talked to her about it.
I'm like, you're shortchanging yourself.
You gotta believe in yourself, take the leap.
As soon as she did, everything started changing for her.
Within three months, she started saying to me,
I think I need to quit this business, I'm not happy.
I'm like, I know you're not happy.
I see it, like since the day I met you, you gotta quit.
Let's give you a deadline.
We gave her a deadline. Guys, she left that company and industry six months before her deadline that
she had. I just want you to know, I just jumped off of our group coaching meeting this week and
her new client that she's working for a very small percentage of a week, just like as a,
I think it's like 15 hours a week. She's making more money than her whole old full-time job paid her, right? So I want you to understand, you might not know exactly
where it is you want to go. Maybe you just want to get promoted. Maybe you want to board seat. Maybe
you want to speak up for yourself at work. Maybe you just want to be seen as a thought leader.
Maybe you want to get paid more in 2025 and you just want an increase. Maybe you want to change
jobs. Maybe you want to start your own company. I don't know what it is. I just know this it's possible and
that Melanie and I can teach you how to do it because we've both been there. I made it
to the C suite in corporate America. That was not by chance. That was strategic. Melanie
started her own company. Melanie has started marketing for some of the biggest freaking
companies out there in the world and has succeeded at it. There's a reason we know what we're
doing and we can teach you how to do it, just like we're teaching these people that we're working with.
Let's talk to them a little bit, Melanie, about not only how we've done it for personal brands,
but how you and I together did it for a tech company.
Yeah, that was a lot of fun, by the way.
So one of the January 2024 when we started that.
I know. I can't believe that was almost a year ago.
Time flies when you're having fun. We have had a lot of fun though. And I think that's really important too, that people need to
know is that when we work together, we have a lot of fun. And the people that we're working with are
having fun too, because they're experiencing the fun that we're having too. So we started working
for this tech company, advising them and working with them on their executive team and the companies
overall go to market strategy with their personal brands aligned with the whole company's holistic
marketing strategy. It was an unbelievable undertaking. And one of the things that we
saw and that we see all the time is that many times there are so many companies, and this
is one of your lines, Heather,
so many companies are in the work that they don't have time to work on themselves and on the company
where they don't necessarily know how to go to market as a unit for their company if they have
a revenue gall, or maybe let's say, for example, they have a new product launch, or maybe they're
looking for thought leadership
and they haven't been able to figure it out.
So when this tech company contacted us,
they wanted us to work on a couple different things.
One of their goals was thought leadership.
Another one of their goals was they had some new products
that were rolling out.
They had partnerships in their industry.
They also wanted all of their executives to be posting
and all of their executives wanted to be posting,
they just didn't know how to start.
And so we worked together with their team.
We also were on all of their weekly meetings as a company
where they would get together
and we would train their whole company.
And there was what, like 150 people in the company
that we were training on how to use LinkedIn and how to go to market and really
teaching them week by week, different golden nuggets. Essentially, if you take this conversation
that we're having about all these little pieces that someone can use, we were teaching them
how to do this over a period of time. And so when we did this, there were some really stunning
results that we ended up seeing.
So their CEO was not active at all on LinkedIn. And when he was active, he wasn't seeing the
results that he wanted. And he really wanted that thought leadership. And this is something so common
that we see all the time where you have these influencers, not influencers that you see on
Instagram or on social media, you have these industry influencers
that have spent so much of their career
building up their brand in their industry,
but they haven't transferred it,
whether it's they haven't had the team to put together
to help them, or they just haven't been able to transfer
what their success was offline, online.
And that's really where we came in to help them.
And we saw just some of the numbers that I have offhand
from when we were working together.
So just in a few months, we saw for their CEO,
an increase of 108%, 108% just in impressions initially,
just from the start, from when we started working together, which might not
necessarily seem like a lot, but when you're talking about someone who has a relatively
sizable network and who hasn't had as much engagement, this is pretty game changing because
all of a sudden people in your industry, and this is one of the other tricks too, when
you go to market with multiple people who are on a team in the same
company, in the same industry, they have both connected and similar networks. So all of a
sudden it feels like every single person on LinkedIn is talking about this company. So if
you have a revenue goal to hit, or if you have a product launch, this is an organic strategy that is one of the most effective and also cost effective strategies for someone
if they're looking to achieve something by going to market this way.
The results were stunning and what they were able to achieve with just creating the visibility
and awareness and getting all of these micro, we'll call them influencers within their company,
people who were never active on LinkedIn, all of a sudden were grabbing the microphone and having conversations and
talking.
And it's great for their customer teams too.
It's great for customer attention.
It's great for customer acquisition, which were a couple of the goals also that they
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One thing I want to add to that is there's such value in bringing outside eyes and perspective into your organization. A couple of key things, not only to teach the things that Melanie explained
we executed on, that they had very clear deliverables that were, as Melanie said, stunning in the results.
But above and beyond that, it was our ability to say,
wow, there's a lack of clarity in communication,
and here's where we're seeing the breakdown.
Here's where the bottlenecks are occurring
that they did not realize.
They didn't understand why things were taking longer.
Because when you're working in the business,
you can't work on the business.
You can't see the forest through the trees.
It was very easy for us to come in as outsiders and say, oh, it's very clear. Here's what's
broken. Here's where it's broken. Here's why it's broken down. Here's a lack of clarity.
Oh, and they're saying, oh, that didn't ring true. And then travel down to everyone. No,
it hasn't yet. So here's another way that we're seeing other companies, other industries
do it successfully. Let's test and try and see which one the right feels right for you.
There's a lot of value. And again, whether it's working with Millionaire or other consultants, to bring people into a
different organization and lend that value and insight very quickly, you can fix some problems
that maybe people are just learning to live with or work around. Okay. So enough about that tech
company. We need to move on right now. I wanna share with everybody because I think they're gonna get a lot of value.
Melanie, you're incredible at this.
You've completely, so people talk about using AI
to save time, save money, grow revenue, whatever.
I'm not buying it.
I've worked side by side with you
and you've completely restructured your company
all around AI.
Can you talk a little bit about some of the things
that you've been teaching to our bootcampers in the Q4 boot camp and that you'll be teaching in the Q1 boot
camp as well?
Yeah, absolutely.
AI has totally completely restructured my business and I don't know if it was a
fear factor, probably.
I think a lot of times when I talk to people, it's fear, lack of knowledge.
It's very similar when someone's going to market on social media too.
It's the same kind of thing. Fear, lack of knowledge, not understanding it. But once
I fully immerse myself in it, what I realized is that once you figure it out, you can scale
everything that you're doing from a content perspective. And also in inner workings of
a company, you can also create systems and processes that you may have had in place,
but that not necessarily have come to fruition. So one of the things that I talk to everyone about
is recording your calls. Okay, one of the things that I cannot live without,
I'm probably too dependent on it, but that's why I have a notebook, is recording my calls with some
sort of an AI technology.
I use a company called Otter AI Zero Affiliation, although if Otter wants to sponsor both of
us, we are open to that because we love your platform. We use Otter for every single call.
I record every single client call. We're recording all of our bootcamp calls. It gives you almost
a safety net. If you forget
something that you need to ask, let's say, for example, you talked about something very specific
that you might have missed taking a note on. I like Otter and any sort of AI platform as a CYA.
I also like it to use for content creation. So when earlier this year, I had lost a copywriter
who was on my team and we had a few deadlines,
a few days after she left.
And I'm a writer, but I didn't think that I was gonna be able
to spin up all the deliverables
and I thought everything was gonna be late.
So what I realized is that I had all of these recordings
that I had already been doing
because I had been using Otter for years.
I've been using it for several years, but it was more just for CYI versus content.
And so what I was able to do was really take those recordings and turn those into content,
turn it into posts, turn it into blogs, turn it into newsletters, turn it into ebooks.
And so what that taught me in a very short period of time when I really needed it,
because I didn't think I was going to be able to hire a copywriter in a couple days and
be able to teach them everything. And I knew it just wasn't reasonable. I was able to produce
all of this content where now I realize I don't necessarily only need copywriters,
because you do need copywriters. However, I also realized that I needed project managers
who could use and write and train AI on client voices
with the recordings that we already have.
So one of the things that we're talking to the people
in the bootcamp about is how do you create content?
How do you create your tone of voice?
How do you make it sound like you?
One of the ways that you can make it sound like you
is when you're recording yourself, as an example,
our podcast today, someone's recording us,
they can take this transcription,
they can upload it into ChatGPT,
and they can say, Heather Monahan is an award-winning speaker,
author, podcaster, et cetera,
giving it the information about you, Heather.
Can you please tell me what her tone of voice is?
And it will give a tone of voice guide.
And then you have a channel that you can write in.
So for someone who is looking to scale their content
and says, I don't have the time to do this.
I need an admin or someone else,
but I don't necessarily have a budget to bring an agency in.
So how am I going to create content?
You can create content at scale with something you're already doing, which is recording your
meetings, recording your podcasts, recording your conversations, doing a voice recording
while you're talking on the phone, which by the way, there's a new feature where you can
record your conversations on Apple.
So there's all different ways that you can find content and what you're
already doing. And then you could find posts that are really amazing, that go viral, that are
relatable and say, this is a viral post by this person. I don't want to copy and plagiarize them,
but I love the format of this post. I want to be able to create multiple posts like this,
but use this recording of me talking about X, Y, and Z.
And so creating content at scale is something that is not easy to do, but it's something
that anyone can do when they know how the basics work.
And that's something that everyone is really excited about in the bootcamp.
Here's the thing though, and guys, you know this, we get information from everywhere.
Anything that we're teaching, you can go online, Google and find for yourself. The problem is this, and there's millions
of books and Ted talks and it's all out there, right? The problem is this, we get over any data
information. We're like locked in like, that's what I want. That's what I want. I love that too.
Then life hits, we get back in the business, back in the day to day, back and being a mom, back and
cooking, cleaning the house. And next thing you know, a month passed, two months passed,
and we haven't implemented AI in our life.
And we're like, shoot,
I didn't even get the fricking honor subscription.
Here's what's different.
Information is omnipresent, it's everywhere.
Application is what's missing, right?
So we've got information, now we need the application.
And what happens when you're part of our eight week bootcamp,
January and February,
you are gonna have us ingraining you. Here's the how-to. Someone gets stuck somewhere. We're like, here's the workaround.
Here's how you get through that breakthrough. We're going to hold you accountable. Next week,
I need you to come back and I need you to deliver on this. And we, and Melanie, you know we do this.
This is where I come in heavy. It's like, you've got to commit to me that next week you're coming
back with it. It's okay to come back next week and say, Heather, I tried. I did get jammed up here.
What do I do now? That's okay. We'll help you get through those. And then our group chat
helps people get through it as well, because we're there to support in real time during the week.
You'd be like, no, don't give up on that. You got to keep moving. You got to do this, that or the
other thing. So we really are there not only to give you information, but to walk you through how
to implement it and then apply it to actually your business, your industry,
and then hold you accountable to deliver on it. I think that application and the accountability
is where most people are missing. Wouldn't you agree? Yeah, absolutely. It's definitely something
where we all are so busy. I mean, and we're all so distracted and we're over inundated with all the
things, you know, house and family and work and this and that
and social life and all the things.
And how do you find time and how do you make time?
And there are ways that you don't have to start
from the beginning, learn from other people
who have already done it.
I call it trial and terror.
Don't go through that.
You don't need to, you can learn.
I mean, and that's why this workbook is so great
and we're updating it in real time based on what everyone
in the bootcamp needs.
And that was one of your suggestions, Heather,
because when we were building it out,
we started going through all of it and you're like,
let's just wait until we hear what everyone
in the bootcamp is experiencing.
And it was the best idea because now it's relevant,
it's up to date, and it's based on what their actual needs
and their hurts are that they're having
so we can help give them the best information possible
that they need.
Yeah, I'm super proud of what we've built.
Our team is incredible.
And now we are bringing the new team in
and I hope it's you.
And we are gonna give you reasons to join
because we are big fans of incentives.
We are big fans of ending a year strong.
And I just real quick wanna share this with you guys.
Both Melanie and I have letters on LinkedIn.
If you guys aren't subscribed, please subscribe to them.
They're so freaking good.
And we also put our offers out there
and incentives in there so you can get those in real time.
Every year I write down what I've achieved in a year,
what I struggled with, what my concerns were,
what my goals, aspirations were.
And then I do that consecutively every year, like at the end of December,
beginning of January, my big goals and plan, as well as my one word that I'm
chasing down this year, it was faith.
I haven't come up with my new one yet for 2025.
I'm sure it's going to be amazing, but I really am big into tracking and writing
things down for reflection because I forget how far I've come.
You forget how far you've come.
Look, we all do, right?
So I went through the exercise yesterday,
pulled all the papers out of this bin,
and I sat down and went through it.
It was so cute.
2018, I got fired at the end of Q4 2017.
I was reading the 2018.
It said, wow, 2017 was a tough year.
So it's funny now because it's so long ago,
but I was remembering how I felt.
And then I said, this year I want to write a book.
I hadn't written a book yet.
So I'm like watching through the eyes of Heather right after she got fired.
And she's saying like, I want to write a book.
I don't know how, but I want to.
I want to become a bestselling author.
I want to live a life of purpose and passion.
I want to heal my back and run again.
Yes, I just went for a run today.
You don't know what the future has to hold.
So it's so important that we cast out these big visions
in these windows right now today.
But not only just stop there,
some of the key things I did after I wrote that,
I hired an editor.
I hired a PT person to help me work on my back.
I hired someone to rehab my running.
Like I invested in myself so that I could leapfrog everybody else and work with someone
who had written 19 books, because I had written zero at the time.
Now I've written two, right?
So it's like in order to get to the places you need to go or you want to go, invest in
yourself and you can move so much faster and without the pain points that other people
are going to be confronted with, stuck with and not able to move beyond. So that's why I love our eight week bootcamp. If you have big goals and
dreams for 2025, if you haven't been living up to your potential within you, this is the game changer.
We are going to show you how to do it. We're going to help you apply it to your life and your
business. And then we're going to hold you accountable to ensure you have deliverables at
the end of this eight week. Melanie, where do people go to check it out?
I think we're doing it on Tuesdays.
Will you give us a little bit more detail on that?
Yeah, sure.
So elevateyourinfluencebootcamp.com.
That is the website where you can go.
You can learn more information about what we're doing,
what all the details are, everything that's involved,
the link to get started.
We also have a code until the 13th, which is next week until
Friday the 13th, a very spooky day. So until then 50% off using the code elevate. And then next week
on Tuesday afternoon, 5pm Eastern time, we're also going to be hosting an audio event,
a Q&A where anyone can ask us anything. So we're gonna be promoting that as well.
So come to our audio event, ask us anything.
And if you've thought about working with either of us
over the course of time since you've seen us on LinkedIn,
you and I Heather,
it's similar to when you're working on a team, right?
You and I have similar and connected networks.
So some of the people who are in your network
are also in mine and vice versa.
And so if someone is hearing what we're saying
and it's resonating with you,
there's a reason that you're seeing this.
There's a reason that you're hearing this.
So this is the time to make those decisions
and it's the perfect time of year to do it too.
Use the code, elevate, get 50% off,
make the investment in you.
You will not regret it.
We have worked with countless people
over the last couple of years together through our programs
and the transformations have been nothing short of amazing.
We will be here to help you apply it to you,
help take you to the next level
and make you the thought leader
that you should have been seen as in 2024.
Giddy up, let's do it for 2025.
Don't sleep on this.
Melanie, thank you so much for being here.
And of course, I will see you in our bootcamp this weekend. start learning and growing inevitably something will happen no one succeeds alone
you don't stop and look around once in a while you could miss it i'm on this journey with me