Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan - Confidence Classic: Heal the Past, Free the Present, and Expand Your Future with Tania Lester

Episode Date: October 21, 2025

What you know isn’t what moves mountains, it’s what you feel. In this episode, Heather sits down with medical intuitive and ThetaHealing instructor, Tania Lester, to talk about the bridge between information and embodied knowing. Tania shares her story from an MS diagnosis and Bell’s palsy to being 14 years medication-free and the exact mindset, energetic practices, and lifestyle shifts that catalyzed her healing. We also dive deep into the beliefs that create blocks in business, love, and health, how to reprogram them at the subconscious level, and why certainty + surrender is the unlock for manifestation. Get ready to shift from knowing to feeling, and release the blocks holding you back. In This Episode You Will Learn Why INFORMATION in your MIND means nothing until you FEEL it in your SOUL. How Tania healed from MS and became 14 YEARS MEDICATION-FREE. How to REPROGRAM negative patterns and release LIMITING STORIES. The most COMMON BLOCKS stopping abundance How ENERGY WORK brings PEACE and CLOSURE after loss (without mediumship). How HEALING yourself creates a POSITIVE RIPPLE EFFECT for your CHILDREN. Resources + Links Learn more about Tania Lester HERE Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN. Want to do more and spend less like Uber, 8x8, and Databricks Mosaic? Take a free test drive of OCI at oracle.com/MONAHAN. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Get 15% off your first order when you use code CONFIDENCE15 at checkout at jennikayne.com. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Tania on Facebook & Instagram

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Hi and welcome back. I'm so excited you are here with me today. You are about to meet my friend, Tanya Lester. She is a medical, intuitive, certified theta energy healing instructor and practitioner, spiritual advisor, psychic, intuitive reader, and I am going to vouch for her on all these things. She's traditional background in medicine, working in hospitals, 12 years of traditional medicine, which actually led her to this completely different, much more powerful career. And that's how I actually got to meet Tanya.

So Tanya, I'm so excited for you being here today. Thank you. Thank you, Heather. I'm very excited and happy to be here as well. Just a brief as to why I would leave traditional medicine with a stellar career and jump into alternative energy healing medicine. I've always been intuitive and it always shocked me how I would have two patients with the same age, same ethnic background, same diagnosis, and why one patient would heal and the other one would succumb to the disease and eventually that may get passed away. But I never really went into it that much because at that time, my best interest was in traditional medicine. But about 14 years ago, I became very ill, and the right side of my face was paralyzed.

It's called Bell's Palsy. It was 93 pounds. I could not walk. I could not take care of my two-year-old son. I knew there was something as an intuitive wrong with my brain. And sure enough, when I went to have my MRI, I myself saw the 13 demalinizing lesion, brain lesions that I had. And when they told me that I was diagnosed with MS, multiple sclerosis, I knew that I had it at that time, as I can read the MRI,

but at the same time, I knew that it wasn't mine to keep, that I had it for a reason, but that I could release it and heal it. And it took me about a year after I went to the Mayo Clinic, I had a great Gary Weiss, he was my neurologist, and through all of my exploration, I came about, I'm a lovely doctor, Dr. Rodriguez, he's in New York, And he was the first MD that said to me, of course, you can replenish the mildly the nerve. You have to change your life.

So there are people in traditional medicine that understand that you don't have to just take a pill or take medicine to be healed. Long story short, I began treatment in terms of kinesiology, energy healing. I changed my diet. For about a year and a half, I was alcohol-free, caffeine-free, only organic. and I released all of the toxic relationships in my life. And eventually I moved to Bali, Indonesia, to begin my new chapter in life with my 4-year-old son. And it was there where I began to study all of the different alternative medicine techniques. And it was when I moved there that I released the medication for MS, which was like a bag,

it was called Tysabri. And I am so blessed and happy to say that I am 14 years medication-free. So, and I do Vigran three or four times a week. I take not one aspirin. So I know that if I had this miraculous recovery, that it's available for everyone. And that's what really did it for me, for me to say goodbye to a career that I loved very much in traditional medicine. But I'm so much more happier in what I'm doing now, getting people options and healing

and letting them know that they can change their lives. They can change their lifestyles and be happy and manifest the world and the life. of their dreams. So thank you for getting through the opportunity to share that with your people. Thank you. Thank you. Tanya, it's such an amazing story and it's so obvious you found your purpose, your mission, you know, and why you're here. And I'm so grateful you are here. I want to share with everyone how I came to know Tanya. I was at a spin class at the first week of January. And a very dear friend of mine ran into me and I hadn't seen her in a while because of the pandemic. And she said some things off with you, you just seem not your regular, vibrant self. You seem

negative stressed. What's going on? And I was in a court case with my ex-husband about my son and, you know, a number of different things. Pandemic was not living my best life for me. So I'd had a string of challenging things happening in my life, probably a year and a half. And so she was right when she called me out on that. And I said, yeah, this is all true. You're right. I'm going through a hard time. And she said, I'm going to give you a phone number. She said, but don't tell anybody because I'm so concerned that, you know, I got this phone number, you know, through these secret channels or whatever. She had been very ill. Doctors couldn't help her with her walking. And when she went to see you, she told me this, that within 24 hours, she was walking again.

So once she gave me that testament to that she had, you know, a visceral reaction. It was amazing experience. So once she explained that to me, she didn't tell me much else, you know, I reached out to you and I came in a week or two later for our first meeting. And I'll tell you within 24 hours of meeting with you, positive events started showing up in my life that are not explainable. And do you have people from all these people that come to you saying the exact same kind of things to you? Yes, yes, yes, yes. And what I tell people, okay, I may have told you this as well,

I said, you know, the mind sometimes it takes the mind. mind a little bit longer to take in the healing itself. So when these amazing changes start to happen, the mind will immediately say, I can't believe it. And I tell people, you need to cancel that immediately and say, yes, I believe it. I am deserving of this. This is what I wanted to happen. This is what I'm manifesting so that you can stay in alignment with that amazing, you know,

seven plane energy that is coming in to make these amazing changes in your life. So yes, I get that a lot. We are so accustomed to responding to not expecting miracles, not expecting amazing things that happen that when they do, like you said, we try to challenge it when in reality you need to be receiving and grateful for it and of course expecting more of it. And it is a mind shift. Exactly, exactly. The mind is more 3D than I think the ethereal body.

And sometimes you just have to be very aware. That's one of the things I tell people, what are you thinking of? what are the thoughts that are going in your mind do you have a positive mindset are you fear base so you're right hither 100% correct to allow the mind to make that shift where you can accept and be grateful and know that more changes positive miracles are coming okay so i had shared this with you but i need to share this with my peeps listening right now i probably eight months ago someone had said to me Heather there's this spiritual healer she wants to meet you she has this sense that she can help you. So I had never, I didn't know anything about healing people,

you know, this is not something I had heard about or had knowledge about. I had zero experience, but I'm an open-minded person and I always say, if nothing bad can come from it, you know, why wouldn't you give it a shot, right? And there's nothing bad with meeting someone that someone else's friends with. So I went to meet with the woman and it was a very uneventful session that I had with her, nothing happened. You know, she basically said to me, I see you very coiled up with negativity, anger, and you need to step into your feminine and release this. And that was really it.

No experience of miracles, nothing like what I experienced with you. And so I believe, or I at least want people listening to understand, there are all different types of people in the world. Maybe they call themselves different things. I'm not sure. But open your mind to the idea

that there are some people who have been blessed with a gift because I also know, you said this, that you learn this from other people. There are other people in the world, including you, that have this gift and have ability to truly heal people. Yes, that is correct. Thank you. One of the really cool things about how I connect with my patients, with my clients, is I always come from a place of love and I respect people.

It's all about free will, Heather. If somebody wants to read the books that I suggest, great. If they don't, they don't have to. Somebody wants to get on an outlaw line diet. They can. They don't have to. If somebody's not ready to go back to their childhood and release trauma, they don't have to because it's about free will.

So it becomes a very trusting, loving, enlightening experience. But what I'm really, really good at, and what I love, is to go back someone's childhood or any other early trauma. And I can release through Creator, I'm the conduit. I'm the conduit. Thank you, God. I can release negative beliefs that people have about themselves. about humanity, about others.

I mean, there's a difference between, let's call him Fred. There's a difference between Fred, embezzled money. I can't trust, you know, Fred in a business. And as opposed to people cannot be trusted in business. If you have a belief system that people can't be trusted in business, that's all you're going to attract. The same thing with love. If you have a belief system that men cannot be trusted,

God bless you, that's all you're going to attract. So it's a matter of going back in time and, you know, I will be guided and told when this person created this belief, why they created this belief, give the person what they didn't have in their past, really like a computer. You pull out that negative belief, like the hard drive, clear it, and then you download with the client's permission, the new program that's going to facilitate what this person wants to achieve in their life, whether it's health, love, family, business, money, whatever it may be. The universe is limitless. You can have it all. Well, I have experienced this firsthand. I just want to share a little bit so everyone understands what it was like, you know,

I didn't know what to expect the first session I had with you. And immediately, you asked if you could read me and heal me, which I said, yes, I was open to that concept and the idea, and I wanted that. And immediately, you felt pain from me. And you started with healing pain. in my early childhood, pain with a relationship with my mother, you know, starting going back years and years and go. And one of the things that was interesting to me,

having had a couple of sessions with you now, is that it's almost like different layers. You know, that's the best way I can verbalize it, that you started healing these earlier things. And then as you healed those things and then I left, you know, when I had some time back in my life separate from you, new things would come up into my mind. And I thought, oh my gosh, this just popped in my head out of nowhere.

I haven't been thinking of it. And one of those examples, which we worked on, which was super powerful, was this idea that my dad had started an entrepreneurial business and it failed. Years and years and years ago, I had forgotten about it, but that that was impacting my business now today

because of a belief system that I wasn't aware I was dragging around me. Exactly, exactly. The subconscious mind is like an onion. So sometimes you peel layers away and then you're working to the best of your ability moving forward in life. And then all of a sudden, you won't go back, but you'll have a little bit of a snag or you'll come in. Like something just doesn't, a lot of times people will start to remember their childhood, stuff that they had to be pressed or certain memories like yourself with a parent.

Like, oh, my God, I just remember them. And when that happens, it is like an onion and it is layers. You know, you just peel that belief away and replace it with a positive one. If it's an emotional trauma, maybe that can be healed as well. So, yes, you are correct. It is very much in layers. Okay. So one of the common questions I get or receive is, well, how many sessions do I need?

And to be honest, I'll tell the person, I'll let you know after the first session. Most people, I would say two to three sessions, and then you're pretty good for some time. if it's a physical dis slash ease, if a person has cancer, fibromyalgia, diabetes, but have not and they want to heal that disease, that takes a little bit more time. That's usually once a week for about a month, then every two weeks and every two weeks,

because a lot of these physical diseases are brought about by toxic relationships, toxic beliefs. I've seen a lot of hearing, I've seen people be remission from diabetes, too, from cancer, from MS, including myself, fibromyalgia, you know, lubis. I've seen it. But when you're physically sick, it's a little bit more of a process than, let's say, I want to manifest this, or I'm feeling blocked, or how can I acquire, you know, love or what have not? Meet a different guest each week. I never thought about changing my betting with the seasons, did you?

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challenge that people are having. Okay. That's a great, great question. Thank you. I would say the majority of people are not happy and some of them are not happy because of a relationship. They're not happy because of a health challenge. Most people come because they've tried everything and they're just nothing's working. So I would say a lot of my clients have been diagnosed and they're actually taking the medication and they're not getting better with anything they're getting worse and i would say the majority are people that are not happy in their interpersonal relationships and need clarity and need healing and trauma so that they can feel complete again to make the best decision for themselves i also have a lot of people in recovery okay people who want to be in recovery for

whichever substance they may be having a challenge with. And I also have a large clientele when someone passes away, especially during the pandemic. I had so many people that would call me because the loved one passed away unexpectedly because they had acquired the COVID-19. And they never had the proper closure. They were not allowed in hospital. They weren't able to speak video-wise. I can actually, I'm not a medium, so I'm not the person with the soul. First of all, death is an illusion. It doesn't exist. Okay, when soul leaves, it goes to another plane, energy never dies, let's say.

But when I connect with the energy of the deceased person, I'm not a medium. They don't come into my space, okay? But I can give messages to those persons. And whatever I'm seeking from the soul, really the person will, oh my God, that's my dad. Oh my God, it's my sister. Oh, my God. And it really gives people peace. It really gives them closure so that they can somehow keep this person alive in their heart, guilt-free because they couldn't see them.

Guilt-free because they could not, you know, communicate with them. And I have people that come to see me as well for business reasons. You know, I'm having a challenge with this business partner or this person, what's happening here. So I say I've never had someone asked me to hear. something or give them a psychic reading that I have said, I can't do that. Like, I've never had any, to this day, did you give me a reading on this? Or can you do this or blah, blah, blah, where I haven't been able to receive a message to sell that person or how to heal that person energy wise.

The type of alternative medicine that I provide really is inclusive of everyone, all situations, I would say. So one of the things that I've found to be so interesting about this whole process and interaction that I've been lucky enough to have with you is that, you know, back to the onion, I've been taking notes along the way to watch how my thought process has changed. And not only my thought process, as I mentioned to you before, I was having an issue with a rash and it healed itself, right? Like different physical things have happened, but then actual business opportunities have

showed up. And my court case that's been going on for over a year that had no end in sight miraculously settled within one week of our first session. you can't plan these things you can't predict these things i mean that's my experience and my other friends that i've sent to you or have sent me to you that have worked with you it's not something that you go in there and forecast okay here's what's going to happen and i'm crystal clear it it is like a domino effect of a multitude of different things that continue to keep evolving and changing for the better that was amazing by the way i'm glad you brought that up because it's not

just healing it's manifesting so within the session if somebody has a fear or a belief system that is blocking them from creating this amazing manifestation that you did to have this, you know, core case done, you know, whatever I'm holding onto, you know, which was cleared for that to come to fruition. You know, I also teach people how to manifest. I also teach people how to increase their intuition, how to become empowered, okay, within their own person. So yes, I feel that if somebody wants something to change in their life, and they want to learn how to manifest, you know, the first thing I ask is, you know, what's your intention? Why do you want this to happen? Does anything scare you about what's happening?

And you'd be surprised sometimes people will say things and I'm like, okay, that's from a fear base or a negative. And so a lot of what you're seeing is miracle showing up. It's not just healing the mind, the body and the spirit. It's also teaching the client how to access this energy field that some people call source creator of all that is so that they can actually have these manifestations come to fruition as everyone listening knows you know my old life was very much corporate america never i thought people who talked about manifestation were on drugs or hippies and i truly did not i thought that that was them they're over there and i'm part of the hard working population driving value in the u.s like i just saw that it's so separate from me

And so through this whole journey since getting fired, I've opened my minds a lot of different things and I 100% believe in manifestation and that's something that you've worked with me on. And I'll tell you, you know, I've watched the secret. I've read all these different books and, you know, again, all this information goes back hundreds and hundreds of years, if not probably thousands and thousands of years that I haven't accessed yet. But one profound statement that you made to me that helped turn the switch on for me. I don't know if anyone's struggling with this. Maybe this will help them. I was saying to you when we were in a session, I said, I just don't understand. It seems fleeting like once in a while it will happen, but I don't have control over it.

I don't know how to make it happen on the regular. I feel like I'm blessed at a certain moment or time it could happen, but I still don't know what I'm doing. You know, it's not methodical and I don't have a handle on it. And I want to have a handle on it. And you said to me, do you know what your purpose is? and I think you called it divine timing is, you know, why you're here on this planet. And I said, of course I do. Yes. I know exactly what it is. And you said, do you see that certainty and that conviction that you have in that?

I said, yes. She said, you need to have that same certainty conviction and knowing when you're manifesting something. Can you talk a little bit about that? Most people are pretty much cute off. There's a lot of information out there. I'm not the only one. You're also a purveyor of health and wellness and success. okay so there's a lot of us out there but all of this information that we read that we're taught there's a huge difference between having all of this information in your mind which you are consciously aware of through your cognitive abilities of everything you've been taught you've been hearing and you've read there's a huge difference between what you have in the mind and what you

actually all of that information in your mind and actually feeling in your soul in your heart all of that information. When you actually feel in your heart and in your soul, everything you've read, everything that you resonate with, you know, cognitively, that's really when the magic happens. When you actually feel it with that conviction, when you were like, of course, this is my divine time. So that type of conviction and that feeling it in your heart, I think, is when the magic, it happens before that transition, but I really feel that that. That's key for all of these blessings to keep coming to someone, to everyone, you know, to actually feel and know and just know that you don't know when it's going to happen, but that is going to happen. So one of the things teach people is to make a manifestation list for their divine timing.

And I think that's a challenge with most people. I want to have a family. I want to open my own business. I want to move to, I don't know, Colorado, whatever it may be. And I think they start to, in their minds, try to figure out how that's going to happen. And that kind of can slow it down as opposed to, I want to move to Colorado at 2023 for my divine timing to be able to do this, this, this, this and this. Thank you, Universe. Thank you, creator.

And, yeah, you want to Google real estate. You want to kind of see what's happening in Colorado. But you don't have to figure out exactly how that's going to happen and when that's going to happen. I'm not referring to someone who's in a corporate position where the company moves to another state and they moves you to another state state. I'm referring to someone who just doesn't want to be somewhere and wants to move somewhere else. So it wants to move out of the country or whatever it is that their manifestation is to put it out there and know that it's available and that's going to happen. staying in the present moment and not trying to figure out exactly how that's going to happen. For me, I've spent my entire life white knuckling and working so hard doing the last bit that you just said,

but trying to figure out how to make it happen. So all this time, I was spending all this effort and angst on something that I should have been letting go of. Yes, I will use myself as an example. I've been practicing energy alternative medicine for 12 years now. and I have a nice, successful private practice. Thank you, on the universe. And a lot of my clients are video well before COVID, because I've never had the privilege of meeting them,

but we'll have a session every three or four months or what have not. And one of the things that I was manifesting was to start doing a podcast, to start on that, I kid you not. It's like, wow, I really want to start being interviewed. You know, my son's already 16 and a half. We'll be in college next year. I'll have the time to travel around and start speaking publicly. I just put it out there, put it on a list, and then, I don't know, about three or four weeks ago, all of a sudden, you're leaving and you turn around and you say, by the way, I'd love to have me on my podcast.

I almost fainted, and I was like, keep it together, Heather is your client. And I was like so, I was beaming with joy. I had a smile from here to here. And when you left, and I was just like, yes, thank you, universe, because that's what I really wanted to happen. but I didn't do anything. I didn't start calling people, hey, can I be on your podcast? It just happened.

And that's another example of just wanting something to happen, knowing that it's going to happen, and just throwing it out there without an emotional attachment to when. When you look at people, and I'm thinking of myself in particular, because of course I put wishes out to the universe,

like in hopes and dreams as I've moved down this path over the last four years, but for me, now when I look back, there were blocks that were up that were blocking me from ultimately having that really easy flow that you just described what are some of the blocks that people could have that are in their life that are preventing them from accessing those answers i would say one of the prevalent ones are scarcity beliefs okay where there's not enough so like for example someone will say will come and say oh my god i'm

so excited i just got my real estate license but i don't know anything's going to come out because There's so many real estate license people out there. That's a scarcity belief. It's a block because the truth of the matter is, this is enough to go around for everybody. So I feel this belief that if you have this much, then you're taking away from what I can have or what's available for me is a big block for people, okay?

And I think another block is when people, whether it's their age or their gender, that it's going to limit them. some way. Oh, but I'm 40. I can't start this career now. I'm 40. What are you talking about? Louise? They started at 40. You know what I mean? Like, no, that's wrong. So another limiting belief, I've never done this before. That's a huge one. But I've never done this before. Okay. Well, what's scary about that? What is this really about? Why can't you get out of their comfort zone? What beliefs are holding you back? And another one, a lot of times, love everybody. God bless us all.

A lot of times people will use their offspring or their partner or a parent. I can't do this because my mom won't understand or my husband or my child. I have to do this because and those are also big blocks that people tell themselves that, which again is a form of limiting themselves to what their potentials are. And then another one is when people have recovered from an illness that they can't try something new because somehow this one I'm very aware of it personally as well many many years ago where once you recover this you know terminal illness and you're you're now physically healed that if you do something new or get out of your comfort zone that somehow that may trigger this illness to come back

in some way so there's a lot of different reasons why people will be blocked okay most of them are limiting in some nature and I think sometimes people like one of the things we do I can download someone with a feeling so if someone has been in very traumatic because a traumatic child with a traumatic relationship and they don't know what it feels like to actually feel loved or be loved that person's going to have a real hard time manifesting love so a lot of times people just have to know what something feels like in order to okay now I know what that feels like now I can manifest it or now I can have it. I would say those are kind of the main ones.

I mean, there are a lot more, but the ones that come to mind is the present moment. Well, I'll just say personally, again, one of the things that you picked up from me, and this was, I believe, in my second session, working with you, you said you wanted to heal me from getting fired. And when you first verbalized that, I thought, that sounds so weird, right? I understood my traumatic childhood. I got that, right? Like, of course, you need to be healed from that.

you know, from that hurt child. That makes perfect sense to me. But then to think of myself as a grown adult, 43 years old that I need to be healed from an experience where a nasty lady fired me. I didn't really understand it in the moment, but I trusted you, obviously, I knew of safe and that you mean well for me.

There's nothing bad that will come of it. And when you did that afterwards, it made so much sense to me that I was holding on to this anger, holding on to this upset. And the more that I'm putting that out there, the more I'm calling that back into my life. Yes, that is correct. So that's a great example of how it doesn't necessarily have to be someone's childhood or a present relationship.

It could be someone's past trauma with a past workplace or something that's happened to them having to do with business. And I think when these tragic things happen, we lose a lot of ourselves in that. we lose a lot of what we call soul fragments, pieces of our soul. And once those soul fragments are out there and we are not able to see why we were fired, objectively, we're still holding onto the resentment or acute perception, it can definitely block you from really bringing in more business and more opportunities and more what, because you're still holding on. It's like you're still married to that job, but that makes sense.

So I remember we didn't interject divorce from that business because, you know, we have to get all your pieces back and that you have a better understanding of why that didn't work out. Yes, there was non-integrous, you know, person who was responsible for that. I feel if someone holds on to a toxic relationship or a toxic position in life and they're meant to move forward again, that line, I mean. something's going to happen. They're going to fire you or the person's going to lead you. And you're going to be like, oh, my guy, it's terrible. But when you heal, you're going to realize that it's actually the best thing that happened. So I always tell people you can walk to your divine timing or you can be yanked or you can be broken.

I've been broken twice. I don't recommend it. So it's a lot easier to kind of know what your purpose is, how to get there and be able to release again. toxic relationships and work environments that are just not conducive to what you're wanting to do for your divine timing. And just to be clear, divine timing is your purpose. Your son is your first divine timing, by the way. So divine timing is what you said you were going to do when you came to this present incarnation. And it always has to do with humanity. You don't have to have an orphanage or be, you know, a keynote speaker like yourself. But it's always about healthy

humanity in some way and we will eventually come to that divine timing at some point in our lives that's that's a given whether you get there with peace and joy is one thing and you might be a little rattle but you'll get there now when you explain and you talk about kids and was something that was really interesting for me too was there was a way for you to work with me that could impact my child in a positive way can you explain that for everyone listening so there are two ways okay the first way is when you do what's called a healing in the womb W-O-M-B okay or the person so let's say I'm doing the healing in the womb for deborah I'm going back to before she was born when she was a fetus

and all of the emotions she received from her mother that she's holding on to that she was born with or him, whoever the client is. And in addition, an eight-month-old fetus can hear what's happening outside the womb. So when we do a healing in the womb and we're releasing this trauma, whatever happened in the womb that needs to be healed, because you're connected to your son and your mom, your son and your mother will benefit from that healing. They're not being healed directly, but indirectly because there's a DNA connection,

mom, you, and your son. So it will have a positive effect. The other way a session will have a positive effect on the child is we ask for a reading. If we're meeting on my daughter, if you're meeting on my son, I'm not sure if they're okay, it's happening with them. A lot of information would be provided through that reading. that can give the parent a completely different perspective why the child seems a bit odd or seems, you know, not on point or what's happening with them or her or what happened not. So those are two ways.

You can also send your children unconditional love through universal intelligence, greater, all that is. So there's a lot of things that can happen in a session that will definitely positively affect in a human way your child. And then, of course, I heal kids as well. And how do you explain or introduce that? Because I know as an adult, it was difficult to understand so much so my friend really didn't verbalize me what I was walking into when I met you because she had such a hard time and she'd already had this amazing experience. How do you verbalize what you're going to do with a child so that they can feel comfortable? So when I have a child, I do this demonstration when I teach. I'm teaching in May, by the way, to do a three day seminar.

So when I teach people how to connect and how to heal themselves and others, how to manifest, but have not, which is what I do for a child when they come in, we all have an energy field, okay? So when your energy field is cut, your electronics don't work very well, your phone's acting up, microwaves off, or you keep dropping stuff and stubbing your tool and what have not. So when a child comes in, I will cut their energy field so that they, you know, will do a little kinesiology where they extend their arm out. I don't know if you can see my arm. They extend their arm. And I apply pressure and they're strong. And then I cut the field.

And when I put pressure on the kinesiology again, they won't, they won't have the strength. It's a pretty powerful way for somebody to understand that we really are made of energy. You really do have an energy field around us. So I do talk about energy with the kid by giving that demonstrations on them so that they can see that they do have an energy field. And I explained to them that we only talk about what they want to talk about, that I work with feelings. If they're 17 years old or younger, I tell them that the only thing I will discuss with their parents, if they need medical attention or if they need some sort of book or nutrition or what have not. But to answer your question, I come from a place. of feelings, and I will explain to the child that we all have energy.

Most kids get it. Like, every generation is actually more piqued up intuitively. Like, my son blows me out of water intuitively, okay? He knows, like, you know, he's taking some courses, but it's not his path right now. So most kids, really, when we talk to them that way, they know. And kids, they can read you. I kind of know if you know what you're talking about, you do or not. So that's how I tried to explain it to them.

I've never had anybody said, okay, no, bye, mom take me out of here. I've never had that happen. So tell me, what does theta healing actually mean? I've studied many healing modalities. The reason I kind of define myself within the theta is because it's been around for about 40 years. I think it's the most powerful meditation to learn how to connect to this field where everything comes from. So we have five brainwaves, okay, beta, gamma, alpha, theta, theta, brainwave, and delta brainwave. The most, it's been shown through encephalograms that the most profound healing happens in the state of brainwaves.

Okay, now you can heal like Reiki, Reiki masters, Reiki people, they heal through the alpha, so they put the client in an alpha brainwave. And you do have healing through Reiki, but I feel the most profound healing is what's a person. client in the very relaxed theta healing states, Delta brainwigs, you can also heal. You see that more with theta delta with people who deal with hypnosis. So really theta healing is kind of exactly what I explained a little bit earlier where I know so many people that are natural healers without a title and they can shift someone's energy that can release this pain. They can, you know, heal the knee, heal the wrist. But if you can't, can't release the belief that's keeping that illness in place in the first place,

it's going to come back. So when I hear, oh, my God, I love her. She's so good. Or he's so, he's the best every time I go. He does a great job on my neck. But oh, my God, it comes back within two months. I don't say anything when I hear that. I don't solicit.

But in my mind, I already know that this person is not emotional and supported or doesn't feel emotionally supported or doesn't know how to be emotionally supported. And that's why she's having this stuff in her net. So theta healing has to do with putting the client in a theta brainwave. And once that client is so relaxed, you can really heal the subconscious mind with their permission, of course. And it's a lot easier to feel them. And through this meditative state, metaphysical and meditative state, you connect to the seventh plane and you can definitely clear the mental blocks and emotional trauma that is causing. person's pain, suffering, or toxic lifestyle or what have not.

I love that you brought up the supported piece because I remember that you addressed that with me, that I had never felt supported or understood what it felt like, but I always thought I had to do everything that I couldn't trust. And that was something that you worked with me on, you know, with the universe, with creator around that that support has always been there and that I can receive that. Do you see that with a lot of people? Yes, actually yes. Different types of lack of support, let's say. So it could be emotional, it could be physical, it could be spiritual, and it could be financial. Even some people don't feel financially supported. So or mental support. And again, once that person is in a very relaxed state, very easy to see why this person doesn't know how to receive this or has never felt it to again download that. person knowing what that feels like. Once they're in a theta brainwave, they're very relaxed, it works very well, and actually give this person clarity and give them the beliefs necessary

for them to start to be able to support themselves and then have others be emotionally supportive or mentally supportive. That's such a powerful healing. It was for the lot of information. A lot of information. This three-day course, it's nine to nine-thirty to four. You imagine eight hours of information. So there's so much out there that I can't even, it's just amazing to me, all of the information that can be accessed for everyone. But it is, I feel, out of all the modalities that I incorporate within a session, and I do. Sometimes I do a little bit of kinesiology. I'm so grateful to know the human body, all disease processes, all of it, that is mental and intuitive, I actually will feel, okay, you have back pain, you have this, you have this,

you have this, okay, have X-in-Bard, you have this, it's amazing to be able to do that, but again, I would say, Theta is kind of my favorite because anybody can learn. Okay, cancel that. If you want to learn how to connect to the seventh plane, it's a lot easier. You know, in a perfect world, a person will believe in God or creator of all that is. Those are the only people that cannot be taught how to energetically connect with another person to heal that person, traditional medicine free, let's say. So for everybody listening, I know so many people are going to want to have a session with you. They're going to want to speak with you directly.

How can people find you and how can they get and book a session with you? So you can always reach me via my website, which is Miami Thetahealer.com or Bali Thetahealer.com. And you can also find me through my Instagram, Tanya Luis Salester. Also through my Facebook, Tanya Louisa Lester. And a lot of people just text me at 786-512-5166. I'm always accessible.

If I don't get back to you, it's because you're in Singapore or Bali, you're 12 hours ahead of me. It's going to take me a day to get back to you. But those would be the ways to contact me. Well, I will leave all those contacts in the show notes. And you do not need to be in Miami to have an appointment with tanya you can book a session with tanya via your computer and it works

just as well isn't that correct that is correct they've been doing virtual sessions for people well before the pandemic many of them i've never had the privilege of meeting in person as yet and it just as affected well tanya thank you so much for all the amazing work you're doing for the world out there thank you for the work that you do for me and thank you for being here and sharing your wisdom with everyone for having me oh my god what a privilege thank you so much for having me. Great. You know, much love and light. Blessings for everyone. Thank you, Tanya. Until next week, keep creating your confidence. You know we will be to. See you then. I'm on this journey with me.