Crime Junkie - Anna Kendrick is CJAF!
Episode Date: October 25, 2024On today's episode of CJAF, Ashley sits down with actor, director, and producer Anna Kendrick. To see this conversation on video, please visit the Crime Junkie YouTube channel!Watch Anna Kendrick’...s directorial debut in Woman of the Hour on Netflix! Please visit RAINN and The National Center for Victims of Crime for more information on their incredible resources. And if you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse of any kind, you are not alone. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S.) at 800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. You can also visit their website. Listen to Crime Junkie episode, SERIAL KILLER: Rodney Alcala, on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts! To learn more about Crime Junkie AF, how you can listen to it monthly, and to view photos, please visit our website: Crime Junkie AF.
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Hi, Crime Junkies.
Surprise, surprise, a little extra Ashley Flowers
in your feed today, but I'm coming to you
for a very special reason.
I recently got the opportunity to interview Anna Kendrick
about her new movie on Netflix, Woman of the Hour.
I'll tell you right up front, you guys,
10 out of 10, highly recommend.
Now, our interview was originally for my SiriusXM show,
Crime Junkie AF, which if you didn't know, you can find in the SiriusXM app or
in the Crime Junkie fan club.
But this interview was just too good.
It was like so right up your alley that I begged SiriusXM to let me share it with
all of you because it turns out Anna Kendrick is just like us.
Cuz along with talking about Woman of the Hour,
which by the way is her directorial debut,
we also talked about her personal experiences,
what led her to this story,
and her interest in true crime as a whole.
So whether you're an OG crime junkie,
or you just found us because you're a fan of Anna,
this conversation is one that you don't want to miss.
And if you're here because you're an Anna Kendrick fan,
hi, me too, and welcome to your ultimate true crime
destination where you can hear the true story
behind Woman of the Hour and the stories behind
hundreds of other true crime cases.
So take a listen right here, right now,
or if you want, you can catch a video version
of this conversation on the Crime Junkie YouTube channel.
And after you listen to this interview,
don't forget to listen to the episode of Crime Junkie
titled Serial Killer Rodney Alcala
to hear the details of the case
behind Anna Kendrick's Woman of the Hour.
I'm gonna link to it right in the show notes for you.
I promise you'll love it, but you're gonna love this too.
Enjoy. ["Crime Junkies"]
Hi, Crime Junkies.
I'm Ashley Flowers.
And if you're watching this,
you'll notice I'm not in my normal place.
I'm in a very special place with a very special guest.
Most of you will recognize her from her work.
She's multi-talented in many ways,
from being an Oscar and Tony nominated actress to an
author singer songwriter.
And you are now starring in Netflix's Woman of the Hour.
It is your directorial debut.
Anna Kendrick, you guys.
And for my daughter who was giving me a guilt trip before I left, she would think I was
so cool that I was meeting Poppy.
Oh, oh my God.
I love her.
Wait, how old is she? Oh, she's two and a half. Oh, okay. So this is a tricky age because
When parents are like, oh my gosh, look, it's Poppy and they introduce a child to me. Oh, it's like such a bummer.
It's like floods of tears immediately because I don't have pink skin and pink hair and it's just awful. What a bummer.
They're like that's not Poppy. I'm just gonna let her listen. She's gonna be thrilled.
Oh, great, great, great, great.
So I'm so excited.
First of all, Women of the Hour was incredible.
I got a little sneak peek.
Thank you so much.
I truly loved it, start to finish.
Well, I feel like a loser fangirl in my merch right now.
I know, and you're crying.
But it's such cute merch.
Like, I get a lot of merch and it's usually like,
oh, you ruined a perfectly good shirt.
This is so good.
This is so cool.
Anyway, sorry, go ahead.
Thank you.
Well, so yeah, speaking of being a crime junkie,
how did you get to this place?
Because this is a little bit of a departure.
You've done some serious stuff,
but I mean, this is serious in a serious way.
No, I was like, I don't even think I've ever been in a movie
that was this genre or this kind of intense of a movie.
The thriller stuff that you've done
has still been kind of lighthearted.
Yeah, yeah.
And I am very aware that most people know me
from one of a couple of like lighthearted
musical franchises.
So, yeah, Poppy or or pitch perfect or whatever and so yeah, I
I even got some
not pushback, but
my my friends were
Questioning the decision like I sent a filmmaker friend the script and I was like do you think this is crazy for me to do?
I was mostly thinking about hey, here's the story, here's the very
limited budget and time frame that we have, and I would be jumping on to this movie, I
would be pitching myself to direct this movie, and it starts in six weeks. So, do you think
that's just a terrible idea and I'm just setting myself up for failure?
And, you know, he was like, well, it's a lot, but mostly he was like, I confess,
I've been hoping you would direct something for a long time and I'm surprised that it's this.
And he was like, I think, you know, once I got it further into the script, I could see
a lot of themes around moving through the world as a woman and trying to stay safe,
that makes sense to me.
But you know, he was really kind of referencing the opening scene of the movie, which was
interesting because I love that scene and I fought for that scene.
Which I heard, which I'm so glad that you did
because I can see why many people would want to remove it
but I think it takes away from what the story is.
Yeah, yeah.
And don't get me wrong, I understood why he was going this
because again, it's not really what I'm known for
and it's not the kinds of film sets that I've been on a lot.
But I think that even my relationship to true crime
really changed a few years ago
because I went through something really shocking
and traumatic for me.
And I really couldn't figure out what had happened.
And, you know, I don't know if you relate to this,
but I'm sure many listeners will,
that you really beat yourself up and go like,
how did I not see?
Like, how did I not know that that was coming?
How did I not get myself out of that situation sooner?
You know, all the ways that we really put all that shame on ourselves.
And I told him, I was like, I know that this isn't necessarily in my professional wheelhouse,
but this unfortunately feels like familiar territory to me.
And that question of whose shame is this?
How much of your shame do I have to absorb here before I'm in harm's way?
I think that question hangs over a lot of our lives more often than we realize.
And that felt central to the kind of emotional center of the story.
And I've always been kind of, I don't know, I guess maybe I would consider myself to have been a more casual consumer of true crime.
And then when, you know, some things went down in a long term relationship that I was in,
I really got kind of obsessed.
And I think that there's a way in which
we can kind of sublimate our own stuff
by feeling like if I can just get to the bottom
of why that guy or that person did that thing.
Maybe I could uncover some universal human truth and I could make sure that I never found
myself in a situation like that again.
And I don't know how true that is, but it really changed how I consumed true crime.
But at any rate, you know, the subject matter of the movie is like really gripping,
but I also hoped to be bringing in some of that emotional DNA
to the entire movie.
Which you did a great job of.
You said it's outside of your wheelhouse,
but girl, it is not outside of your wheelhouse.
You did incredible.
Oh, that's so awesome.
And I feel like I just like, my crime junkie brain just like jumped right in.
But do you actually for those who don't know what Women of the Hours is about,
the corner. Oh my gosh.
Do you want to tell them like what the story is based on?
Yes. So it's funny on other outlets, I'm sort of more vague, but I guess I don't
have to be here. I was like, obviously we're talking about Rodney Alcala.
Like, welcome to be here. I was like, obviously we're talking about Rodney Alcala. Welcome to the show. Yeah, so it is based on the story of Rodney Alcala,
who was a serial killer in the 1970s
and in the middle of really being able to operate
without consequence for over a decade.
Unbelievable.
He went on the show, The Dating Game,
and won The Dating Game.
And so that piece of the story, that dating game piece, is really used as a kind of framing
device for the movie because it's really evocative of that question of who can you trust and
who's really behind the curtain?
How much can you really know about a person before you know that you're safe? We have a crime junkie life role that you never know anyone ever.
Like, truly.
Girl, tell me about it.
Um, and yeah, I mean, I sort of describe it as the story of Rodney Alcala,
but it is really meant to be the story of the impact that he had on the people that were unfortunate enough to come across him.
So the aim was always to really center
the women's stories.
Yeah, and I think you did a really amazing job of that.
And you had this scene,
like I was crawling out of my skin,
the scene where you're actually on a date with him
and you're walking to the car
and it's the whole number scene
where he's like, tell me your number again,
why can't you remember?
And I was just, my husband didn't quite get
why I was freaking out so much.
Oh, that's so interesting.
Oh, he and I talk about this all the time.
And the way you were talking about it earlier,
I'm like, Eric, he's this six foot six dude.
And I'm like, you move in the world a way that I cannot.
Yeah.
And you cannot, I appreciate that you move in the world a way that like, I cannot. Yeah.
And you cannot, I appreciate that you empathize with being a woman, but you have no idea what
it feels like that when I'm going on a walk, I'm not enjoying the walk because I'm constantly
like looking here and looking there and that car passed me twice and here's the license
plate number.
And like, it's just completely different.
But the way that I thought you did so well in capturing just the uncomfortable position,
I think nearly every woman has probably been in at some point.
Yeah.
Where it's like, I don't feel safe, I don't feel good.
But you also don't feel comfortable saying that.
Yes, and you're not totally sure if you're making it up.
Like, oh, maybe I'm just being paranoid.
And the way that we kind of second guess ourselves and try to just sort of like
be pleasing and I'll just get myself out of this situation.
God, that's so interesting because there are several moments in the movie
that while we were shooting, one of the men on set would sort of say, like,
hey, should we do another take of that?
Like, I don't know that it's super clear, like,
what's happening in this scene.
And I would sort of be like,
well, women are gonna know what's happening in this scene.
And I think most men will, you know,
follow what's happening in the movie.
But, yeah, if there's like 20% of men
who don't follow what's happening, that's fine with me, if there's like 20% of men who don't follow what's
happening, that's fine with me.
You know, I would much rather...
The lesson probably isn't for them.
Exactly.
Don't be the creepy man.
That's your own lesson.
And it feels like there's this kind of secret language of women, and part of that is it's
a fucking secret.
Yeah.
So, wait, am I allowed to curse?
Oh yeah, for sure.
It's serious, right?
Like fuck, I don't know. So, you know, sometimes that means that maybe it won't be a thousand percent clear to some men,
like what the dynamics are at play, but I think it's very, very clear to women.
But I think that's like the beautiful part about you having stepped in the role as director,
is having a woman be the lens through this story and telling it
from your perspective and being able to hone in on those nuances that I don't know that
someone else would have captured.
And I just thought you did it in such a truly incredible way.
Oh my gosh, that's so nice.
That's the nicest thing.
So how did you decide that you wanted to direct something?
Because this is your first.
Yeah.
I mean, you came out with a banger, but...
Um, I mean, I always feel a little embarrassed saying this,
but I think I had told myself, I mean, certainly I told everyone around me,
and I had told myself I just wasn't interested in directing.
Because I think that it's vulnerable to want something and you might
not get it or you might get it and you might fail.
And so I just was constantly telling myself like, oh, I don't know, directors are crazy.
I'm not doing that.
And I really found myself getting kind of obsessed with this script and maybe getting a little controlling.
You know, because I was attached as an actor for about two years
and I was just sort of like, okay, let me know when the movie goes.
Two years?
Yeah, yeah. Oh, God, that's so common.
Yeah, like you just sort of like,
The world of P.O.D.tastic.
No, I can't.
To things and you're like, well, let me know if it comes together.
Wild. to things and you're like, well, let me know if it comes together. And then the other thing that happens is occasionally something that's been moving really, really
slow for a long time will out of nowhere, very quickly, be coming together at lightning
speed and basically going, okay, well, we got the money together and we have a window
that we could shoot it in and if we don't, if we miss that window, it might fall apart again.
And at that point, we didn't have a director.
And so we kind of scrambled and we were trying to find someone and we certainly weren't looking
at first-time directors.
It was like, well, we have three dollars and a roll of duct tape and it needs to happen
right now. So we were really mostly trying to find like pretty experienced people and
I guess I oh
God, I feel weird saying this but I think that I also started to feel like wait. I'm sorry
I've been thinking about this movie for two years and someone's gonna come on and like tell me what the movie is
And I'm gonna be like, you just got here.
And there were also certain details from the true story
that felt really important to me.
And I had always thought like, well, if it were my movie,
this is how I would do it, but it's not my movie,
that's okay.
And very quickly I got to do like a new draft
with the the screenwriter and make some changes and I just...
Was it a hard conversation being like I want it?
Oh it was terrifying oh my god I mean I think like even in in the pitch that I did I kept saying like if
you guys don't think I'm the right person that's so fine it's totally fine I just
want to do what's best for the movie it's okay like if guys don't think I'm the right person, that's so fine, it's totally fine. I just want to do what's best for the movie. It's okay. Like if you don't
think I'm ready, please tell me.
What people think a girl boss is, is like just coming in and like owning the room and
what, being a girl boss is really that. It's just being like, listen.
Listen. Here's the deal. Here's like what I bring to the table.
I think it's me.
I was even going like, here's what I think I bring to the table. Here are the areas of deficit that I have.
I want to be honest.
Why project false confidence?
Because then I was like, well, also, if you hire me,
it means you have to support me, because I was honest.
I love it.
So how did the story find you originally?
Well, OK, so it originally found me because it was, the script just got sent to me and
I had that moment that maybe a lot of the listeners have where you go, oh, right, this
guy, he was, yeah, he was a serial killer and he went on the dating game.
And that's like mostly what you remember or what you know about it.
And you know, obviously that is a fascinating true crime story. So I was interested from the get-go.
And then when I read the screenplay, it was just, it was, it was really beautiful.
I know that's a, feels like a strange thing to say, but there was so much beauty in the world of these women.
And you really fell in love with them
in, you know, a very limited window, really.
I mean, some of the actresses in the film,
they have a very limited window of screen time
to make you fall in love with them
and be absolutely invested in what is going to happen to them.
And I'm just blown away by the writing
and by the actresses in the film,
because you are so desperate for each one of them
to come out of it on the other side.
And the movie is like chilling,
but it's heartbreaking too.
There's one scene in particular
when you talk about them having such a short time
to make an impact where this girl's like unpacking her new apartment.
And I remember just feeling so much like, God, I remember being like, you know, in my very first place and you're in a new city and you feel like such a big kid with your whole life in front of you.
And I remember that just being like the emotion as I was watching that and being like, oh, God.
So even in like you just get like a brief moment with each of those women and it was just done so well.
Yeah. And, you know, I'm sure that the listeners are very, very into,
as they should be, like the details and accuracy, factual accuracy.
And there are so many details in the movie that are lifted straight from the true story,
but, you know, just the way you're talking even about that scene with the apartment, you know,
it just reminds me that part of the objective was also to give each woman that we meet,
like quite a different personality and quite a different kind of entry point to how they
meet this man, how they interact with this man.
Because again, like emotionally, it felt important to kind of establish, it wouldn't matter
what your personality is and how you meet a person or how careful you are or how sweet you are or how tough you try to to seem. None of that guarantees your protection from someone
if they're determined to harm you.
And even though I think there are really,
really interesting things in the movie
around the ways that some of these women manage to survive,
it also feels like an exercise
in at least putting the shame where it belongs,
which is in the hands of a person who's harmful. And never, I remember actually at one point,
oh my God, I forgot about this. Oh, this is maybe a little spoilery, but also, we already
know the story. That, you know, I play the the bachelorette who's on the dating game.
And so I survive.
And I remember at one point one of the producers asking me if my character should have like
some kind of really clever plan that got her out of danger. And I was like, you know, in most movies I would say,
sure, blind luck isn't a great way for your heroine
to kind of, you know, survive a situation.
But it would also feel like a disservice
to all the really brilliant women who didn't survive.
You know, sometimes it is just blind luck.
Well, and the truth of it is, he did go for so long,
and he was successful at taking lives of so many different women,
that to say, oh, like, this person, to your point...
Oh, she just needed to outsmart him. Yeah.
No, like, it's the one person in the parking lot who just, like, scares him away,
and you're like, and you just thank your lucky stars, like why me and not the other person?
Completely, completely.
Which is wild.
So you said that your true crime fascination,
you had been into it before, but always,
like for me, I always say like crime junkies
are born not made, like I since I was little,
when did it start for you?
Gosh, yeah, I guess I can't really remember a time that it wasn't there.
I mean, you know, this isn't really true crime, per se,
but I remember sitting in like the dentist's office and they would have those books about like,
like natural disasters or the Titanic or something.
Like, there is just something about the grim and the macabre that is always kind of called to me.
And so, yeah, that's always sort of been there lurking
and then it ended up being something else for me.
You wrote in your book about you being in New York
for the first time, which like, when you were a kid,
and I'm like, you were like towing the line,
you were about to be your own true crime story,
like running around the city of New York,
like how you were like what, 10?
I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know.
I know, like my, yeah, my parents,
cause I was a stubborn little child,
and I was like, I wanna be an actress,
and I wanna audition for Broadway shows and
You know they worked full-time jobs
And so they drove me to New York for a couple auditions and then we're like girl if you really want to do this
We like this is you need to figure it out. So my brother and I he was like two years older than me
he he and I would go down on like a Greyhound bus and
Like just audition for stuff in New York City.
Which yeah, I don't know.
There is an overconfidence and a trust there that I think also comes from growing up in
a place where I grew up in Maine and no one locked their doors at night.
When I moved to LA, God I I really am like a walking through crime,
this is awful.
No, when I moved to LA,
my roommates were constantly having to remind me
to lock the door.
I just wouldn't lock the door, just wide open.
Because also in Maine, if you lock your car door at night,
it'll freeze over.
So like we don't lock anything.
Girl.
I mean, I lived in like Indiana and it's not wild out there but
like I know that's crazy we had ice that's really crazy like but I think
about that all the time when you're like to go back to it we're just talking
about like I remember I went to Vegas when I was like 22 and like me and my
roommate just like we like didn't want to pay for a cab So we like caught a ride with a guy who had a hook for a hand
And I'm like you're not just true crime. You're like a creepy ghost story. That's a classic campfire ghost story
I don't know but yeah, I'm like walking down alleys and it's like the stuff that it truly is luck. Yeah, like sometimes it's right truly
Just luck that saves you. It's a miracle we're both here today.
No, completely.
That's absolutely right.
So how did you, were there certain things that you pulled from your own life, like situations
you've been in where you felt like that?
Or like how did you even begin to prepare for this character?
Yeah, so I mean there are things in the movie that are like, there's a couple little Easter
eggs, but you know, for example, my character, there's that scene in the movie that are like, there's a couple little Easter eggs, but, you know, for example,
my character, there's that scene in the opening when we first meet my character where I'm
having like a very bad audition.
Oh my god.
And the casting directors are, yeah, they're, and they were so funny, they were so wonderful
in the day.
And while we were shooting it, I was like, hey, will you guys do this?
Like, we just say these couple lines with me, I'm probably gonna cut it, but I don't know,
it might be interesting.
Where they ask me if I'm willing to do nudity,
and then this guy makes a very, like,
very specific and weird remark about my body.
And that happened to me verbatim when I was 19.
No. Yes, verbatim.
In an audition.
Yeah. Crazy.
Absolutely crazy.
So there's also a degree to which-
I want the version on Netflix where it pops up
and be like, actually happened.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, oh my God, yeah.
No, but there's also a degree to which I really had fun
making a period piece and playing up
the kind of 70s of it all.
But also, some of this stuff happened not that long ago.
Some of the little juicy little tidbits where you think,
well, no one would say that now.
And I know 19 was not recent for me,
but yeah, it was not relegated to the 70s.
Like it was five minutes ago.
Holy crap.
Yeah. There's also like, this is dumb, but there's a sign that's on the door when I'm
about to go out on stage that says like, check your lipstick and that's like that backstage
at talk shows, that stuff of like last chance to check your makeup. That's like written
under the mirror that's right before you go out into like live TV.
So yeah, just like a bunch of little Easter eggs like that.
I like how do people know that though?
Like if they don't know the bits like this is all the insider baseball.
I want to know.
I guess like you know you mostly get away with it by not saying it but now I'm saying
it on a big podcast.
So I'm obsessed.
What are you gonna do?
What are you gonna do?
I'm obsessed. Well, what are you going to do? What are you going to do?
I'm obsessed.
Stay mad.
So how do you, when you think about being in something like this for, was it really
six weeks?
Like.
Yeah.
Well, yeah.
So wild.
I mean, I was like thinking about the character for two years.
Right.
But then like was, oh God, I'm responsible for all of it for like six weeks.
And then, and then you have about six weeks of like hard prep.
So you're like finding the locations
and actually like really mapping out the movie.
And then we filmed for 24 days, which is not enough time.
Oh my God, you did that whole thing in 24 days?
Yeah, yeah, yes.
That's intense.
It was a lot, it was a lot.
It makes me hot just thinking about
how much we were running around.
Is that normal?
No, no, oh my God, no.
I mean, it's normal for teeny movies
that take place in one location.
But yeah, it was a lot.
But I also, I think I am maybe a little bit
of an adrenaline junkie because I
Would I was like oh my favorite animal is me when I'm when the schedule is slightly behind
Where like the way that like I get a weird rush of dopamine where I'm like we're gonna we're gonna finish this day
We're gonna get every shot that we need on this day. God damn it
So it's like very exciting
How did you think about coming off that and like, but in more specifically, like even
out of the space, like that you're kind of living in like a dark world for a while.
Yeah.
Do you take a break from it?
Do you have like a true crime detox?
Or are you, are you ready to like jump back into the next true crime project?
God, I, I think that, you know think that when I would go home for the day,
I would probably just put something mindless on YouTube,
like something upbeat or something.
What's your mindless? What is your guilty pleasure right now?
This is very silly, but I think that at the time that we were filming the movie,
I didn't know of the Try Guys,
but when we were filming the movie,
the Try Guys had like a infidelity scandal thing.
They're like YouTubers.
I was like, what's the Try Guys?
I don't know.
That was my point.
And so I was like, wait, what is this?
And I like watched a couple of videos and I was like,
I don't get it.
But then I started watching it and it was like,
okay, this is fine. This is just like guys being silly, and I don't know one of them like cheated on their wife
So fuck that guy, but you know I don't know whatever so I would just like put that on his background noise to fall asleep
To the try guys I'm putting you to sleep. I know I know
like the most random rabbit hole to just be like fine this cuz I like can't even think about like finding like oh, what's my
Nighttime no you know comfort show I fine, this. Cause I can't even think about finding, oh, what's my nighttime comfort show? I was like, this, this is it.
It's great.
I know a lot of people, they say it is a comfort thing
to watch the same thing over and over again.
It drives me now.
I can't watch the same thing over.
Not even like The Office, you don't have a show like that?
That you're like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll just throw it on.
No, I think I'm broken.
I don't know, I don't know.
Everyone's like, yeah, I've just got my, I don't.
Wait, do you watch any movies like more than once?
Because Rebel Wilson has this thing.
She has never seen a movie more than once.
Never not once.
She says her favorite movie is A League of Their Own and she has seen it twice in her
life.
That's her favorite movie.
That's crazy.
I think I've seen maybe some movies well my daughter's movies aside
I've seen movies I like like tops two times I cannot rewind like I know what's gonna happen
There's no someone needs to study your brain and rebel Wilson's brain and figure out what's happening there because honestly
I kind of wish I was more like that like I wish I was more like yeah
I'd want to watch something new something new and then there's just like a laziness thing where you're like
Oh, whatever. I've heard it's like a comfort thing
Like you know what to expect like in a world where everything's crazy and you got a zillion things coming at you like the comfort of like
Knowing exactly what's coming next. I guess that's probably it. I don't know for me
It might just be and you're not anything down the middle laziness because I'm like, I just can't think of anything else to watch
I'll just re-watch 30 Rock, fine.
Oh, I love 30 Rock.
I know, it's so good.
Okay, that's fair. I, uh, my, I'm like very into, I always said I was not a reality TV person,
but I'm like doing the Love is Blind thing right now.
So good.
Are you watching this season?
Okay, I just started it.
Oh my god.
I'm like, I think I'm, I I'm, I got to like the first reveal.
The like, Taylor and what's his face?
I don't know, whatever.
Oh no, no, no, I can't even look at your facial expression
because it's gonna get everything away.
I was literally like, I was texting Kate non-stop.
I was like, I felt like I was like live tweeting
love is blind, but only to her.
Totally.
You've gotta have that friend though,
to be like, I'm gonna watch this thing and you have to watch this thing so that we
can text about it.
I know.
I love it.
So do you think you'll do another true crime thing?
I mean, I would be really, really open to it.
I think that it's really fertile ground psychologically.
So I don't know. Well, as I'm saying it, I'm also like, I've been
known as like musical Sally for the last decade. So it wouldn't be, it certainly wouldn't be
the worst thing in the world for me to be like, oh no, oh no, I'm pigeonholed as like
the murder girl. That would be fine with me.
I think at this point you can't be pigeonholed. I think this whole thing you like proved that you can do whatever you want, which is like
the best place to be.
I wouldn't mind.
I mean, I really found it rewarding to dig in to the case.
You know, I was really, really fortunate to have Matt Murphy, who was the prosecutor in Rodney's 2010 retrial,
as a resource.
He was so, so generous.
Like he was not, we did not have the money to pay him,
so he was not getting paid,
but he really made himself available.
And not just as a kind of factual resource,
which he often was, but there were times where
just speaking to him was so emotionally grounding because, again, he's someone who really obviously
prioritizes victims first.
And even just speaking to him would kind of sometimes really re-center me on what was
important about telling the story.
And, and Matt introduced me to Detective, well now the honorable Craig Robeson, but
at the time Detective Craig Robeson who, I mean, was the guy who cared enough about what
was happening to actually take it seriously.
Because as I'm sure you know, as I know you know, really the story of Rodney Alcala is
a story of law enforcement negligence and incompetence and it makes my body temperature
go up every time I even think about it.
Like it really, really makes me so upset. And I think even speaking to Craig Robeson and Matt Murphy,
it was kind of illuminating for me because,
I mean, you think about, okay, a serial killer
who's been operating for over a decade,
this young detective comes on the scene
and kind of saves the day and the prosecutor
that keeps him behind bars and connects all the dots
and realizes that he's a serial murderer.
It's kind of like a ready-made Hollywood story.
But we don't really get into that in the movie
because it would also feel really emotionally dishonest.
Because when I walk away from, you know,
months of research about this case,
the feeling that I'm left with is heartbreak and rage.
Really rage. So...
They got to be the heroes. They were the heroes.
Yes, and they were. And that matters.
But because so many people failed before them.
That's right. And they're just as angry about that as anybody.
And that's where, like where I'll always say,
I mean, there's the really good ones
can recognize and acknowledge when there are bad ones.
I even had a moment where I was like,
oh no, like Matt has really been so helpful to me.
And I am not sure that he knows that like,
the movie is not pro law enforcement.
And I was like, oh my God, oh my God, is that going to bother him or hurt his feelings or is he going to be angry?
And then, I mean, he just put out a book and actually one of the chapters is about Rodney.
And yeah, and he's actually going off more about law enforcement than I am in the movie.
So yeah, we can appreciate that for sure.
I love it. And you said Matt didn't make any money,
but like, I was surprised to learn you didn't make any money on this either.
Oh, yeah, yeah. I mean, you know, I think that, you know,
we're both sort of steeped in some really valid ethical questions around true crime.
And I, believe me, this was never a money-making venture for me, because, you
know, all the resources went to actually just making the movie. But it wasn't until the
Toronto Film Festival is where the movie premiered, and it's this big film festival for someone
to buy movies. And that is, you know, eventually Netflix bought the movie.
But it wasn't until like the week before TIFF
that I thought, oh, oh, the movie's gonna make money.
Like I was just so, you know,
because I went from being like,
let me know when the movie happens
to like, oh God, I'm responsible for this. And then I was just making the movie, making just like, pounding your pen to pay everyone else. I went from being like, let me know when the movie happens, to like, oh god, I'm responsible for this.
And then I was just making the movie, making the movie,
and we just barely made the deadline to get into TIFF.
And then it was like, oh, oh, there's like,
money gonna be exchanging hands.
And yeah, like, I sort of asked myself the question of like,
do you feel gross about this?
And I did.
And so, yeah, so I'm not making money off of the movie.
The money is going to, or has gone to,
RAINN and to the National Center for Victims of Violent Crime,
which was a charity that Matt Murphy recommended to me.
So-
We've done work with both of them.
They're like both incredible organizations. I was gonna ask you like how you got connected with them.
But that's perfect.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, yeah, I think that there are, it's still a complicated area, but that it felt like
certainly like the least that I should do.
Well, I like I, it's a huge, it's a huge thing to do.
And it's like, it's a it's a huge thing to do. And it's like, it's a weird place to navigate.
And like, I mean, as someone who's like still trying to figure it out, I think that, I think
these stories have to be told.
And I think that there's probably a better way than it's been done in the past, right?
And it's like, how do we do right
by the people who are in them?
How do we, there's a lot of heavy questions
that I don't know, it's not black and white.
Ethics is never black and white, it's a little gray.
Yeah, and you know, again,
like when I've shown the movie to friends,
there are immediately like a handful of questions that they want to know like wait
Wait, did that really happen? Did that really happen?
Like, you know, one of the ones that comes up a lot is like wait
Was he really working at the Los Angeles Times in like 1977 and you're like, yep with his real name
Yo with his real name
Like he'd been in jail for horrible crimes already at that point and they, you know, constantly let him out freely based on vibes, by the way.
Because parole boards were just like, yeah, I don't know, he seems chill. I think he's reformed.
Unbelievable. Men.
And then, yeah, he changed his name in New York for a while, but then he got a job at the Los Angeles Times under his real name. So yeah, so the point being there's certain things that are like,
oh my God, did that actually happen?
And then, yeah, there's a degree to which I, you know,
the names of a lot of the sort of players in the movie are changed
as kind of a nod to the idea that like,
I couldn't possibly capture the essence of a real person if I had 100 years, let alone
a 90-minute movie.
And you know, as always, the idea was mostly to be trying to reach a kind of larger emotional
truth about the danger that we walk around with and all the ways we try to stay safe.
And there are things in the movie that, frankly,
feel like they could save a life.
I was watching that other Netflix show, Worst Ex Ever,
and I was literally like,
"'Oh my God, no, do what Monique Hoyt did.
Like, please, please."
And she survived.
She's okay.
The lady, I was yelling at the TV,
as though I could like crawl through the screen
and back through time to, "'Oh my God, it's just, ugh lady I was yelling at the TV, as though I could like crawl through the screen and back through time to, oh my God, it's just,
ugh, it's so stressful.
But I think there are like these tidbits that we get
from these stories that remain in our subconscious
and can aid us in our most challenging moments.
I think it's, you know, you had talked about earlier,
trying to like understand and can I, you know,
can I gather all these tools to protect myself?
And I've always viewed it as,
I think I read it in like Tina Fey's book,
she was talking about, if I can be so hyper vigilant,
like surely statistically just won't happen to me.
Like if I'm always on the way,
and I think that's a little bit of like the way
that I have viewed it, the way I know a lot of our listeners
view it is these stories often happen to us.
And so if we can, you know, and it's not the shame and it's not them, but it's like, unfortunately
I live in this world where I have to, you know, hold the keys a certain way and check
in my backseat and look here and do all the things.
And if I can pick up all the tips and tricks, maybe I'm like this much less likely
to have that happen to me.
I'll take that 2%, even if it's only 2%,
because the hypervigilant thing is fascinating
because again, I think the case that really captured me
when I was coming out of this really abusive situation
was the Chris Watts case.
Do you want to get me started on family annihilators?
I, oh my God.
I'm about to like, I, it's like my life dream
to like just fund a study at some university
because I cannot wrap my head.
And I feel like not nearly enough has been done
to understand like how someone goes.
And it's not zero to 60.
It's not, but it feels like it.
I mean, yeah, unfortunately I could sit here and talk about Chris Boss all day,
but we'll just very briefly.
Like the more that I try every transcript I read, every recording, every text
message that he ever sent to anybody that's ever been made available to the
public, I just, it's frustrating. I mean, obviously it's more than frustrating. It's enraging. message that he ever sent to anybody that's ever been made available to the public.
It's frustrating.
I mean, obviously it's more than frustrating.
It's enraging.
Did you get really sucked into that one?
It became crazy.
I forgot that I actually forgot that I went from being kind of a casual true crime person
to like obsessed. And I was reading an old journal and
I mean old it this was again right after I left my abusive relationship
it like
Coincided with when I learned about the Chris Watts case and I was even aware
At the time because I wrote it down like oh, I I think I'm sublimating my own trauma and just trying
to figure out what happened in Chris Watts' mind so that I can understand what the fuck
happened here.
Because how did you go from the most loving, the most wonderful, and to so abusive, making
me feel crazy, all these things overnight?
Like what happened? And one of the endless
frustrating things about the Chris Watts case is I don't think he would be able to give
you insight if you put him in therapy for the next 50 years. Like, I just, he is so
asleep to himself and his family suffer the consequences of that. Yeah, I think there are certain people
who just will put themselves above everyone.
But here's the rub, in my opinion.
I think that a guy like Chris Watts and a guy like my ex,
I think they genuinely experience themselves
to be the victims.
Like, I don't think that they're like,
ah, screw it, I'm gonna kill my family, I don't care.
I think that they're in such a state of like,
this kind of toddler-esque terror,
that they're just like, no, I just,
I'm in a bad situation and I don't want to feel bad.
This feels so bad that I'm allowed to do
whatever I have to do because this feeling is so bad
and I'm such a victim here.
And like the idea of being caught in an affair
makes you feel so bad.
Do you think it's an idea?
That you annihilate your family?
Like, oh my God.
Do you think it's the idea of being caught
or that they're in the way of what he thinks is happiness?
I know that there's different theory, believe me.
I know there's different theories about group life.
I believe you've been down the wrong road.
I don't know, my theory is that it's different theories, believe me, I know there's different theories about Group 5. I believe you've been down the wrong road.
I don't know, my theory is that it was less like, no, you're standing in the way of what
I want and so I'm going to wipe you off the face of the earth.
It was more like I need to be seen as a good guy and a guy who leaves his family is not
a good guy, but a guy whose family disappears is still a good guy.
And I can't be the guy that had an affair on my pregnant wife.
That is so intolerable to me that, again, everything that is his, his shame around having an affair,
which, by the way, that is an asshole move, but like, so what, dude?
You can get through it.
So your white, so Shanann's friends think you're a dick, so what?
Like, she would have gone on to live a beautiful life.
It's, oh my god.
Your daughters.
And it's all just like, oh, I don't want to deal with the shame of people knowing that
I'm not a good guy.
So I'm enacting that shame on my family.
Is it, do you think it's a little bit of when you care more about what the world thinks of you
than what you think of yourself?
Probably.
Because I can't imagine, like I can't imagine having to live with that.
Even if everyone thought I was amazing, I couldn't live with myself.
But he would rather live with the lie.
I mean, I think it's just like, well, I did,
I think from somebody like that,
from many people who've committed terrible crimes,
I think it's possible that their perspective is,
I would have been such a victim,
and almost like I did what I had to do to, quote, survive.
But to them, someone thinking that you're
kind of a dick who cheated on his wife is akin to annihilation.
And I mean, I think that sort of plays out in the movie.
Rodney was diagnosed with a number
of kind of contradictory disorders over the years
by different doctors.
Again, I can't know him, and I'm not really fucking interested, but I don't know, gun
to my head, I'd say just psychopathy and sexual sadism and that's really just an accident,
right?
And statistically, we're not that likely to meet an honest to God psychopath.
We are incredibly likely to meet people who are emotionally
incapable of dealing with their own pain and their own shame and having them
enacted on us. And there's some stuff in the movie that feels more like that and
maybe that's not a perfectly accurate representation of his psychology. Again,
there's part of me that's like, I couldn't care less, whatever dude.
You're pathetic, you're rotting in hell, fine.
But that moment of going,
oh, you feel like a victim right now.
And I now feel-
Where he's like crying.
Exactly.
Stop it, on the beach.
I feel very scared.
And so I know that I need to absorb all this shame for you so that I
can actually survive the situation and I think that that's a situation that women
know really well and probably know it on the day to day in much much smaller ways
where it's just like you could ruin my day you could ruin my month like you
know there's a whole storyline with my character and her neighbor.
And, you know, he kind of pressures me into sex, and it sucks,
and it's a really weird piece of the story.
And, yes, of course, for women, there is that question of, like,
are you going to physically harm me?
But there's also the question of, like, are you going to psychologically torture me
every time I step out my front door cause you're my neighbor.
And like, I don't know, maybe it's easier for me
to just go, okay, I guess we'll have sex.
And neither version is good, it's all awful.
But like these are the choices that we're faced with.
Yeah, what's the one you can live with
and live with on a daily basis.
And if I stand up in a meeting
and say that I think Brian's idea isn't that great,
what are the consequences going to be for me around the office?
And like making those bargains every day is also part of the fabric of the movie.
How did, I don't know, and whatever you are not comfortable talking about,
how did you get out of your relationship?
Because I think that's such a good, it always is, like I think about the takeaways in the movie, but I think you're somebody that people would look at and be like,
she's fucking Anna Kendrick. Like, but you got out of a situation and what did it take for you?
I wish I had a simple answer. Like I know, I think that those stories are always like
really messy and complicated. And yeah, there were kind of steps along the
way.
But certainly there was a day that we were having a conversation and you know, it felt
like I was always just trying to kind of, you know, while walking on eggshells, trying
to sort of go like,
do you not see what you're doing?
You know, like I just thought like surely he's reasonable,
surely he can be reasonable and he can see what's happening, you know,
which wasn't going to happen, but you know, I was obviously holding on to some hope for a while, but there was a day that I really,
I almost did a kind of version
of the end sequence of the movie,
where I just stopped pushing back,
and it was almost like I went into,
and I know that you've been there,
that everyone listening has been there,
where it's like you almost go,
okay, at this point I think I just need to go
into information gathering mode.
I'm actually not going to push back at all.
I'm just gonna kind of agree with everything he's saying,
with his whole worldview, with all of it,
just so that he'll keep talking
and I can almost like get myself the information
that I'm subconsciously avoiding seeing.
And like just listening to him sort of describe where his like worldview was coming from
or like his mindset was like, oh no. Like it was just kind of so much more illuminating
than any argument that we'd had.
Because it really was like, okay,
I'm creating a really, really safe space for you
and you're talking crazy, friend.
So yeah, that's when I, like,
we went into couples therapy the next session
and I was like, I think we need to cut contact for a
while and a while was many months but
But you know then it you know, it was messy as complicated whatever and then
Yeah, it was done and I put his stuff in storage and and that was that do you still have a weird storage locker somewhere?
No, I actually I would have liked to burn it down, I think.
But you know what's funny?
There are so many times where I'm like,
I should have, oh, but then I'm like,
that would have been a gift to him.
Oh yeah, he would have eaten it up.
I don't even know who we're talking about,
but he would have eaten it up.
Playing the victim, oh baby.
He would have been, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah.
Well, I love it, and thank you for ending on that story,
because I do, I think it's so important
when talking about the stories, talking about the shame,
all of it, like, it feels,
I think people are waiting for like these big moments,
or like the actual like physical abuse,
or all these big things,
when it's like, it's in their daily life,
and if relationships aren't making you better
and making you happy, that's abuse in and of itself.
So thank you, I just think that was really beautiful.
And I haven't paid attention to my notes,
I think we're out of time.
I'm on your schedule, so I don't know.
I think you're the one on this giant press tour
for this amazing movie that's coming out.
Do you want to tell everyone where they can watch it,
when they can watch it?
So it's on Netflix starting October 18th.
So I think that's probably already happening,
depending on when this airs.
And yeah, it's woman of the hour
and it's on your Netflix right now.
You guys run, don't walk.
It is truly amazing start to finish.
You guys are gonna love it.
And if you make it through the first five minutes,
you've made it through the worst of it.
If you, these are crime junkies.
They're like no disclaimer needed.
You guys, this is made for you.
You're gonna love it, enjoy it.
Thank you so much.
This was so fantastic.
Thank you so much for having me.
Thank you for my merch.
Oh, you're so welcome.
All right, well, thanks again to SiriusXM
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I hope you guys enjoyed that conversation
half as much as I did.
Anna was truly, you guys, I... They say never meet like your heroes, the people you love.
She is a pleasure. She's everything you think she would be in person.
I always love knowing that she's truly a treasure.
So make sure you follow her, go watch the movie,
and please, please, please go check out the episode,
Serial Killer Rodney Alcala, if you want to hear the crime junkie version of that story.
It's linked right in the show notes.