Crime Stories with Nancy Grace - Drug Counselor Supplies Friends Star Matthew Perry's Dope Gets Slap on Wrist
Episode Date: May 21, 2026Actor Matthew Perry wrote about his issues with addiction to alcohol and drugs. In his memoir, he said he began drinking at 14 and was an alcoholic by 18. Perry first went to rehab and completed a 28-...day program at the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation after a jet-ski accident led to an addiction to Vicodin. In his 2022 memoir, "Friends, Lovers, and the Big, Terrible Thing," Perry claimed to have been to rehab 15 times, detoxed 65 times, and spent about $7 to $9 million trying to get sober. Perry also spent 5-months in the hospital after his colon burst from prolonged opioid abuse. Two years after his near-death experience, Perry goes to a Rehab facility in Switzerland. He wrote that he faked pain symptoms to get Oxycontin during COVID. He was also getting daily Ketamine infusions. The Ketamine use after treatment led to his death. Five people where charged in connection with Perry's overdose death. Now, one of those who sold Ketamine to Perry gets a slap on the wrist from the court. Eric Flemming sentenced to 24 months in federal prison and three years of supervised release. According to prosecutors, Fleming admitted he distributed the ketamine, obtained from so-called "Ketamine Queen" Jasveen Sangha. Fleming also admitted to distributing 50 vials of ketamine to Perry's live-in personal assistant. On October 28, Matthew Perry went to his country club to play a game of Pickleball with friends. Perry returned to his home after the game and was seen by his assistant, who was leaving the house to run errands. At 4 p.m., the assistant returned home and found Perry floating face down in the heated end of the pool. Paramedics pulled Perry out of the pool and pronounced him dead at the scene. Joining Nancy Grace Today: Wendy Patrick – California Prosecutor, Author of “Why Bad Looks Good” and “Red Flags,” and Host of “Today with Dr. Wendy” on KCBQ in San Diego; Twitter: @WendyPatrickPHD Caryn L. Stark – NYC Psychologist, Trauma and Crime Expert; Twitter: @carynpsych, Facebook: “Caryn Stark” Mike McCormick – Owner and Lead Investigator of M.C.M. Investigations (Los Angeles); Former LAPD Detective for over 25 years (worked Gangs for 5 years); Facebook: MCM Investigations Dr. William Morrone – Chief Medical Examiner, Bay County Michigan; Author: “American Narcan: Naloxone & Heroin-Fentanyl Associated Mortality” Miguel Melendez – Senior Writer, Entertainment Tonight Digital; Twitter & IG: @MelendezReports See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Crime Stories with Nancy Grace
Torpedo to the State
The so-called drug addiction counselor
who is really just a doper, a pusher.
The same guy who supplied Matthew Perry,
the TV icon, the star of friends,
with his dope, his ketamine,
just sentenced in a court of law
if you can call it that, to a slap on the wrist.
I'm Nancy Grace.
This is Crime Stories.
I want to thank you for being with us.
Yes, Eric Fleming, a licensed drug addiction counselor, whatever that means,
admits to selling 51 vials of ketamine to Friends star Matthew Perry, including the dose that killed him.
But then, even after admitting gills of ketamine,
gets a slap on the wrist.
In the last days, Fleming sentenced to just two years in prison.
With good behavior, he'll be out in 12 months.
What a letdown.
What exactly happened to Friends star Matthew Perry?
You can't tell a lot, but I learned something significant.
more time, Sid.
It's a 23 response to the drowning.
Now, some of those numbers are universal.
Sometimes you hear numbers across a police ban or on an EMS that are specific to that region.
But what I'm hearing that really jumps out at me is response to the drowning.
So at the beginning, it was believed that the Friends Star died of drowning because that's
what was reported to them.
But what do we really know?
Take a listen to our friends at Crime Online.
The Los Angeles Medical Examiner
determined that 54-year-old Matthew Perry
died from the acute effects of ketamine.
Other contributing factors listed were drowning,
coronary artery disease,
and the effects of buprenorphine.
Buprenorphine is used to treat opioid use disorder.
The manner of death has been ruled an accident.
Okay.
See, I'm going to try on.
lawyer. And that is why the medical examiners and everybody at the crime lab would go hide under their
desk when they saw my beat up Honda pulling up because they knew I was going to go through it
line by line literally to make sense of what they wrote down in their scientific findings.
What acute effects of ketamine, other contributing factors were drowning coronary artery disease
be preferable
used to treat opioid
disorder, manner of death
accident, there's
so much there. I could do a whole
flow chart on that
to try to explain all that to a jury.
Luckily, we have experts
with us, but first, I'm going to go to a special
guest joining us. Miguel
Melendez joining us, senior writer for
ET Entertainment Tonight.
Miguel, what a pleasure
to have you on. Man, this sent
shockwaves. They've not
only Hollywood, but across our country because I'm going to follow this up with our shrink,
Karen Stark. We think we know Matthew Perry. Why? Because we've seen him on the big screen.
We've seen him on the little screen. We follow him in the tabloids. We think we know him and about his life.
We've been following his struggle with addiction. And a lot of people can identify with that.
If you haven't had that struggle in somebody you know, somebody close to you has had that struggle,
so Matthew Perry was kind of like every man that was struggling with a lot.
But to you, Miguel Melendez, I want to go, before I get into Matthew Perry himself and how it ended up this way, I want to talk to you about what happened, what surrounded the discovery of Matthew Perry dead in a hot tub leading up to that.
Tell me about the discovery and what came out at the time that he was first.
discovered dead in the hot tub.
Right.
So what we know of the timeline is that at 11 a.m.
had played pickleball.
At 1.37 p.m. is when Matthew was last known to be alive by his personal living assistant
who lived with him in the Pacific Pallet home.
He was off to run errands at 137 p.m.
The living assistant returned home and found Matthew floating face down in the jacuzzi.
The assistant jumped into the pool, moved Matthew into the sitting position on the steps of the pool,
and found him, by the way, on the here.
heated side of the pool, called 911.
Paramedics arrived and they moved and they pulled Matthew out of the pool.
Okay, hold on. Miguel, you're giving me so much information so quickly.
I'm drinking from the fire hydrant because Miguel, you know, I like to dissect every single
sentence and I loved everything you just said as far as factually, what I'm learning.
Could you say it again very slowly?
Okay.
Did you say the live in assistant found him?
Yes.
Okay.
Why did Matthew Perry have a live in assistant?
That I can answer you, Nancy. I don't know the exact circumstances of what led to that. I do know that the living assistant based on this report is that he administered the detox drugs on Matthew twice a day. That's important, Miguel Melendez. Hold on, Miguel, hold the thought. Guys with me, he's a senior writer for entertainment tonight. You all know him. Miguel Melendez, giving us everything we need to know to analyze this.
drug, ketamine that claimed the life of Matthew Perry.
Karen L. Stark joining me, a renowned TV radio trauma expert at Karen Stark.com.
Karen with a C if you're trying to find her.
Karen, so is it like a minder you have with AA that, I don't think they call it a minder.
They call it something else.
Someone that checks in on you.
It's like your partner, your buddy.
That's who you call when you have a problem or you're,
going to relapse. Is that what you think is happening here? He had somebody to help him.
It's called a sponsor. And his assistant, she was his sponsor. She was his minder, as you said, Nancy.
So she was there. She could not stop him from taking something, but certainly was trying. That was her role to make sure that he was on the straight and arrow and sticking to his determination to stop.
And he was very open about it, but he really did want to stop taking drugs recreationally.
He really did, and he made no secret about it.
What led up to that moment Miguel Melendez is describing.
But first again, Miguel, could you tell me the assistant comes in?
You said he was near the heater end of the hot tub?
Correct.
So at 4 p.m., the living assistant walks in from running errands.
finds Matthew Perry floating face down in the jacuzzi in the heated end of the pool.
The assistant jumped into the pool, moved Matthew into the sitting position on the steps of the pool and called 911.
Paramedics soon arrived, pulled Matthew out of the pool onto the grass where he was pronounced that at the scene.
You know, I think I had it bass aquares, Miguel Melendez.
I was saying hot tub because I've read jacuzzi, but was the jacuzzi.
but was the jacuzzi or the hot tub part of the pool?
Was he in a pool or was he in a hot tub or jacuzzi?
It looked like it was a long pool that has a jacuzzi in it.
They're not too separate.
Okay, that makes perfect sense.
Okay, guys, what led up to this moment?
Take a listen to our friend Nicole Parton.
Matthew Perry went to his country club to play a game of pickleball with friends around 11 a.m.
Perry returned to his home.
after the game and was seen by his assistant who was leaving the house to run errands at 137 p.m.
At 4 o'clock p.m., the assistant returned to the home.
Investigator Jennifer Herzog says the assistant found Perry floating face down in the heated end of the pool.
The assistant jumped into the pool and moved him into a sitting position on the steps and called 911.
Paramedics responded, pulled Perry out of the pool and onto the grass and pronounced him dead on the scene at 4.6.
17 p.m. His stepfather, Keith Morrison, is listed as the informant, which means the
dateline host is who identified Perry to authorities. Oh my goodness. That must have been so
horrible on the stepfather to have to do that. After the struggle, he, Matthew Perry, went
through so publicly against substance abuse. Mike McCormick joining me out of LA, owner,
lead investigator, MCM investigations. Mike McCormick, thank you for being with us.
I'm very curious.
Matthew Perry had been so open and public about his battle with addiction.
Who, I mean, even I know about that, 2,000 miles away,
who would be supplying him drugs, ketamine and all the other things in his system?
It was either prescribed to him.
The ketamine was prescribed or he's getting it off the street.
There's only several ways of doing it.
My understanding is that the
from his
his assistant or past girlfriend,
Ms. Edwards, that
she's been involved with him off and on
from about 2006,
and she used to purchase his drugs
off the street for it.
Crime stories with Nancy Grace.
What a blow to justice.
The so-called drug addiction counselor
Eric Fleming admitted in court documents he met Perry,
had known him since 2005,
he learned Perry wanted ketamine,
and he, Fleming, procured 51 51 vials from a dope dealer
and sold them at a huge profit
to Matthew Perry's assistant to give to Matthew Perry.
Perry discovered dead after that same assistant,
injected him with three shots of ketamine that he got from the drug addiction counselor.
I'm saying that with quotas.
Now, Matthew Perry, dead.
What more do we know?
Can that be corroborated that an ex-girlfriend would score drugs for him?
Well, I don't know that the girlfriend and the assistant are the same people.
I do know that there was a girlfriend who was his assistant at one time.
And she has gone on record and asked that, you know, the doctors be investigated if they were the ones who supplied the ketamine.
Now, she's gone on record and said that if that happened and then this investigation needs to happen.
But whether the assistant and this ex-girlfriend are the same people, it doesn't seem to indicate that that's what happened based on the investigation and the details that are in the medical examiner's report.
the assistant.
This is Wendy Patrick.
It looks like the assistant.
It was living with Matthew Perry at the time of his death as a man named Kenny
Awamasa.
Right.
Not the prior,
not a prior girlfriend or a female assistant.
You're right, Wendy Patrick.
Guys, you're hearing California prosecutor and author of why bad looks good.
Wendy Patrick at Wendy Patrick PhD.com.
The star of today with Dr. Wendy on KCBQ.
I was just coming to you, Wendy, on another point, a legal point, and that is I saw the trial go down.
I don't know if you remember Archie Bunker of All in the Family when his son died of an overdose.
He went after the supplier in the Fulton County Courthouse.
And I was just wondering, Wendy, about people knowing about his public struggle against addiction.
I mean, he wrote about it, he talked about it, very open about it.
Who would supply someone battling addiction with drugs?
It's a great question when you're talking about somebody that's supposed to be a confidant,
a sponsor, a helper, a minder.
We have all these terminology, these terms that we use.
It's very different than a Michael Jackson situation where you actually have somebody medically administering a drug.
Who would do it?
I would have to say, Nancy, as you and I and our listeners know, the same people that are selling drugs to begin with,
maybe somebody that doesn't know him well enough, or because it was prescribed lawfully for a medicinal purpose,
somebody that honestly, although mistakenly thought that he needed it or could handle it in different doses.
You know, ketamine, if it's being as supervised, is used, certainly not very, not as often as many other drugs,
but you have to believe whether or not somebody thought they might be doing him a face.
if he was depressed, if he was suicidal.
They could not have been more wrong.
And if it comes out that we can find the supplier
or someone who ate it or abetted him,
I want you to just think about this, Wendy Patrick,
about criminal charges.
Joining me right now is the expert in this field.
As far as I'm concerned, the preeminent expert,
Dr. William Maroney,
Medical Examiner, toxicologist, pathologist, opioid treatment expert, author of American Narcan, which is on Amazon.
Dr. Moroni, take a listen to what we've learned about the autopsy.
Matthew Perry's autopsy report doesn't say how or when Perry used ketamine prior to his death,
but the coroner ruled out the ketamine treatments he had a week and a half before his death
because ketamine has a half-life of three to four hours or less.
The report notes, at the high levels of ketamine found in his post-mortem blood specimens,
the main lethal effects would be from both cardiovascular overstimulation and respiratory depression.
Drowning contributes due to the likelihood of submersion into the pool as he lapsed into unconsciousness.
And that's not all, Dr. Moroni.
Wait for it.
I would never have imagined this goes into the cocktail.
The autopsy report noted Matthew Perry's history of chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, emphysema, and diabetes.
The report mentions Perry's past drug use, but notes Perry had reportedly been clean for 19 months.
The New York Post reports that in the autopsy report, a comment is made about Perry undergoing ketamine infusion therapy, most recently one and a half weeks before his death.
The report states ketamine treatments are for anxiety and depression, but ketamine in the system couldn't be from the infusion therapy.
Dr. Bancol Johnson, one of the leading neuroscientists and physicians in the field, tells the New York Post that ketamine in Perry's system is more likely from recreational use.
Male hormone testosterone injections, and there's one more ingredient.
Why was Matthew Perry getting injections of the male hormone testosterone?
Listen.
According to Matthew Perry, he had been cleaned for 19 months,
but the Daily Mail reports the actor died from an overdose of the party drug ketamine.
According to the autopsy report, a detective who attended the scene of Perry's death said,
quote, during my investigation, no alcohol, illicit drugs, or drug paraphernalia were found, unquote.
The Daily Mail also claims,
the 54-year-old was getting injections of the male hormone testosterone,
and an unnamed female associate claimed the injections were causing him to be angry and mean for the last
couple of weeks.
From my point of view, Dr. Moroni, as a layperson and not a doctor, an MD like you,
if something causes you to be angry and mean, it makes me wonder if it also didn't jack up
his heart rate, this male testosterone injection.
But I mean, I don't know what to make of it, Dr. Moroni, because you've got ketamine, you've got testosterone, you've got the opioid treatment drug.
There's so much going on there.
What you have is a cocktail of disaster because you probably are dealing with multiple doctors that are not communicating.
Nobody's coordinating his care.
and if he's getting ketamine, as it said in the autopsy, there's ketamine contents in the stomach that would be ketamine pills.
That's a rogue doctor.
Somebody outside of good practice guidelines giving pills they have no business giving in addition to ketamine treatments.
I mean, is it ketamine used by vets so animals don't have pain during operations?
Yeah, it helps with anesthesia for your cats and dogs.
But at low doses, it's been shown to be beneficial in a massively unstable major depressive disorder.
But guess what?
That acceptable therapy is nasal.
It's a nasal spray with your psychiatrist.
Wait, what?
You're saying ketamine, which many people believe is just used by veterinarians.
Now people are using it and you're saying that the only approved way for it to be used by people is by a nasal spray?
The acceptable FDA approved supervised ketamine treatment is to go see your psychiatrist, have an appointment, get a nasal spray and stay until you're stable and have a counseling session.
What you have here is somebody keeps saying, well, he's in.
treatment. He's in recovery. He's not getting enough psychosocial therapy because he's impaired.
He's impulsive. He's processing poor decisions because he doesn't have that counseling part linked to all
this medicine. What is ketamine? Ketamine is a class of medicine that works on transmitters
called glutamate. Oh dear Lord in heaven. Speak English, man.
What, speak English.
I mean, is this something I've got to worry about
they're going to have in the halls of my twins high school?
I mean, I hear about it, ecstasy, coke, marijuana, blah, blah, blah, blah.
But ketamine?
Ketamine's been abused for 20 years in drug culture and drug use.
But is it traded freely on the street?
It is on the street.
You can buy it if you can ask for it from your dealer.
They'll get you some, but it's FDA approved as a nasal spray.
And he's not getting the FDA-approved version.
Okay, I heard somebody jumping in.
Is it Wendy or Karen Stark?
Karen, it's used as a club drug.
It started years ago, Nancy, but it's continuing.
People do use it recreationally.
But it's also there are a lot of trials going on where they are psychedelics
to stop addiction, just the opposite of what we have here, and for depression.
And that has to be a trial because it's not FDA approved.
These are rogue doctors in rogue clinics.
The only doctor that's probably legitimate here is the one giving the buprenorphine.
That's the hardest word to say, but in order to do that, you have to have training.
The rest of these people doing ketamine, rogue, they're outside the law.
They're outside good practice.
We saw this with Anna Nicole Smith, Michael Jackson, Prince, all these rogue doctors treating all these celebrities.
and you don't know who's around them.
Ketamine has been around and being abused for a long time.
We just don't know that much about it, and we don't see it as much.
We don't.
It's not soaked into our national understanding as well.
But as far as I can remember, it's been called baby food, bump, cat killer, cat valium, Fort Dodge, Green, Green, K, K, K-Land, K-Hole.
There's a million slang words for ketamine.
and the first time I ever saw of it was when I was prosecuting and somebody had it as an aside drug.
They were dealing heroin and they also had vitamin K.
And you're going to laugh at this, Mike McCormick.
I said, so what's wrong with vitamin K?
Because I didn't know that vitamin K was ketamine and that was, oh gosh, I was prosecuting a dope lord and he had a stash of vitamin K.
That's the first time I heard about ketamine.
And Matthew Perry was not the first celebrity to be open about the ketamine therapy sessions.
I mean, the week before he died, on December 1st, Chrissy Teigen was very open about the fact that she underwent a ketamine therapy session to celebrate her birthday.
And she said on Instagram how she saw space and time and her late son Jack is someone she saw during this therapy session.
Ketamine has kind of like sort of has common to the conscious as of late and now more because of
Matthew Perry's death you're seeing the horrible side effects that it can have.
So Miguel Melendez from E.T. joining us. You're saying that it's common use among celebrities to
what fight depression? To fight depression to figure themselves, to use them, to use it as a form of
therapy. Chrissy Teehan is far from the only celebrity who has been open.
about taking or undergoing academy therapy sessions.
You have the likes of Sharon Osborne and Pete Davidson
who have been open about this.
But again, academy therapy session is not dangerous
if it's done under supervision,
as our esteemed doctors here have said.
When you go rogue, and in this case,
it seems to indicate that's what Matthew Perry did,
you're going to see the fatal consequences,
and that's just, that's exactly what happened.
in here. You're hearing Miguel Melendez senior writer E.T. And I've got to get everything he said,
which is all correct, by the way, explained to me medically, Dr. William Moroni, renowned expert
in this field. So when you have ketamine treatment with a doctor, you're saying ketamine is
ingested nasally like through Dristin, the spray into your nose. And if it's used any other way,
then it's rogue.
Do I have that right, Maroni?
The reason why it's rogue is the FDA-approved spray comes with specific conditions that you're observed,
that they follow instructions, and that your safety comes first,
and you really can't even drive to and from your session.
You're supposed to have somebody take care of you.
As soon as you let somebody take ketamine pills, well, it's unobserved.
It's uncontrolled.
And it's clear there was ketamine in his stomach.
and his level in his blood was exactly halfway between low anesthesia and high anesthesia.
You don't have those levels when you're supervised.
And the whole idea that ketamine therapy is matched to a psychosocial treatment,
a behavioral counseling session.
That's where you make the changes.
You have better insight.
You have better processing of stress.
and you're not impulsive.
The last thing you want with impulsive behaviors with somebody in addiction is to put them on testosterone.
That's insane.
Well, everybody knows it makes you feel really good as a man.
You're 60 years old.
Suddenly, you feel 36.
Okay?
But it comes at the price of frustration and anger and really short tempers.
Add that to the impulsivity of substance.
disorder and you could have a, you know, a dark rabbit hole, a hidden monster in the shadows.
And somebody who's not going to listen to somebody when they say, oh, you know, taking a few
too many ketamine pills.
Ketamine spray is not something you do every day.
It's once or twice a month with counseling sessions.
And because he had the pills in his stomach still at the time of autopsy, we know it was rogue
ketamine and not the type used for a few.
using treatment. And of course, you've got the other factor weighing into Matthew Perry's
death. And that is, with all these drugs in his system, he gets into the pool, the hot tub,
and it's not the first time. Take a listen to our cut 13.
Now an emergency. Hi, how you doing? This is security from Beverly Hilton.
Hi, what's going on? I need a paramedics apparently. I got a 46-year-old female found
in the bathrooms. That's all I've got right now, but they're requesting paramedics.
Okay, so you don't feel the bathroom. What room is she in?
I'm not sure she fell or she was in the bathroom with the water.
4-6-4-4-3-4. I'm sorry.
That's room 4-34?
Yes.
Okay, and it's not east-west or anything else?
There's room 434?
Yeah.
Okay, and you don't know if she's conscious of breathing at all?
Apparently she wasn't breathing and she's 46-year-old?
She was not breathing?
Yes.
Okay, but she is breathing now?
I don't know.
Okay.
The person that called me was tirade and didn't get much out of her.
Okay.
I've got security going there now.
Okay.
Well, send police and fire over there with that person not breathing.
Does it sound like the person was still not breathing?
Yeah, that's correct.
Okay, we'll get in there for not breathing.
Is there we can give me to the room so you can try to do CPR?
Yeah, we're going there now.
Can you get me into the room so I can try to get CPR instructions?
Oh, I'm sorry.
No, because she kept hanging up on us.
Kept hanging up on you?
Yeah.
Okay, all right.
We're good in our units over there, okay?
Okay, thank you, Billy.
And there was water in Whitney Houston's lungs indicating she was alive
when she was submerged underwater.
But according to what we learn, the level of cocaine in Whitney Houston's body,
was not lethal, but it was enough to make her unaware of the fact she was going underwater.
And in an eerie twist, the same thing happens to her daughter. Take a listen to our cut 16.
The only child of Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown, Bobby Christina Brown wanted to follow her mother's
footsteps as a singer and actress. Tyler Perry cast Bobby Christina Brown in his television series
for better or worse.
and had high praise for her work.
In her personal life, she became engaged in Nick Gordon,
a friend of the family who lived with them from the age of 12.
Never officially adopted by Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown,
Bobby Christina Brown referred to him as her Big Bra, online.
Their engagement shocked many.
On January 31st, 2015, Nick Gordon found Bobby Christina face-down unconscious
in a bathtub in her home in Alpharetta, Georgia.
And then just recently, we lose another celebrity, Aaron Carter,
in our cut 21. As the younger brother of Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys, Aaron Carter had a connection
to the big time. He could sing, he could dance, and he had the look. As with most teen idols when
their 15 minutes is up, Aaron Carter struggled. His first stint in a treatment facility was announced by
his manager when the singer was just 23. Then a year later, it was announced that he completed a 28-day
rehab stint at the Betty Ford Center. On November 4th, 2022, Aaron Carter's housekeeper found his body in the
bathtub at his home. The Los Angeles County Department of Medical Examiner Coroner
Ruled Cause of Death was attributed to drowning after inhaling di-floroethane and taking the generic
form of the brand name Xanax. The report also indicated that Carter was incapacitated while in the
bathtub due to the effects of the drugs he took, which contributed to his death by drowning.
Aaron Carter was 34. You know, Wendy Patrick, California prosecutor and author, so many people,
not just celebrities die in pools and hot tubs after too many drugs or too much alcohol.
Yeah, it's so unfortunate.
You know, we only hear about some of these famous people because they're famous.
Think about how many men and women, friends, neighbors, family members die in the same way,
but maybe don't just grab headlines.
It's one of the reasons we always want to reach out sooner rather than later for people that are struggling.
And I like the way in that last clip they talked a little bit about what happens.
happens after the fame. You know, one of the things that Matthew Perry said, he said,
taking K is like being hit in the head with a giant happy shovel, but the hangover outweighed
the benefits. And that's part of what I think celebrities are getting better at explaining
and that, yes, perhaps they're self-medicating, but it's not worth it in the end. And that's
one of the messages that Matthew Perry wanted to leave us with. Karen, start joining us,
our renowned psychologist. Karen, we know that Matthew Perry told everyone,
he had been clean going on two years.
Is that common for addicts to insist they're clean?
It's a tremendous amount of denial, Nancy,
because they really are struggling in most cases to be clean.
They don't want to be addicted,
but they're very, very susceptible.
And when you think about somebody who's famous like that,
there are always people around who are willing to oblige them with drugs
and tempt them with drugs because they want to make them happy.
They want to be around a celebrity.
It's something that happens all the time.
So I am sure he was trying, but obviously not succeeding,
or that ketamine would not have been there.
He had really been through a battle.
I want you to take a listen to our cut four,
our friends from crime online,
something I didn't know until after Matthew Perry passed away.
After years of addiction, Matthew Perry spent five months in the hospital after his colon burst from prolonged opioid abuse.
Perry says he was in surgery for seven hours in a coma for two weeks and doctors told his family he had a 2% chance of survival.
Crime stories with Nancy Grace.
Oh, please stop in a letter attached to his sentencing memo.
Eric Fleming, the dope dealer, the drug counselor.
apologized to Perry's family and wrote he took full responsibility for my criminal acts, blah, blah, blah.
He did that out of one side of his mouth while grabbing and saying,
I do, to a sweetheart deal, a sweetheart sentencing on the other side of his mouth.
Fleming said in court, I'm still in disbelief. It's truly a nightmare.
Disbelief, you gave Matthew Perry 51 vials.
of ketamine. Perry was an addict. What did you think was going to happen? What happened the night?
TV icon and movie star Matthew Perry died. Dr. William Maroney joining us, the preeminent expert
in this field. Dr. Moroni, I believe that if my colon had burst from prolonged drug use,
I would go through hell and high water not to get addicted again. But see,
that's me on the outside looking in because I'm not addicted.
Addicts tell me that they can't stop themselves.
What it is is there is an insight issue that comes with substance use disorder.
And the only way you can rewire the brain, it's like rewiring a vacuum cleaner,
rewiring a radio or, you know, rewiring a power strip.
You rewire the brain, not by feeding the body drugs just as a substitute, but in-depth therapy, making selections, looking at the trauma in your life, choosing not to be impulsive, choosing to process your stress.
You have to do that with another person face-to-face.
It's not always about the drug.
he may have been clean from heroin for two years, but his brain was not done processing
that impulsivity, and impulsivity, poor processing, and lack of insight.
Those are the three things that substance use disorder people suffer with.
Every single alcohol, heroin, cocaine, those are the three things.
And the only way through that rewiring is with another person.
in a chair face-to-face.
And that's just not being done today.
Everybody wants a pill.
They want a quick fix.
And these rogue doctors are not getting people to therapy they need.
In the end, the same thing is going to happen.
Somebody's going to be investigated by the medical board.
There'll be another trial in a year.
Somebody's going to lose their license.
And it's so sad that Matthew Perry had to die this way.
Same thing with Michael Jackson.
Conrad Murray, there was a trial. He gets convicted. In the end, he walks free and Michael Jackson still dead.
Same thing with Matthew Perry. A bright light has been extinguished because of ketamine.
And I want to follow up with Miguel Melendez, a senior reporter entertainment tonight.
Miguel, I had no idea that Matthew Perry had been through so much in his battle.
even having his colon burst from prolonged opioid abuse.
But there's more, Miguel.
Let's now are cut five.
Two years after his near-death experience,
Matthew Perry goes to a rehab facility in Switzerland.
He wrote that he faked pain symptoms to get Oxycontin during COVID.
He was also getting daily ketamine infusions.
While at the facility, Perry needed to have surgery and was given propofal.
When he woke up 11 hours later, he found out his heart had stopped for,
five minutes and during the long CPR process, eight of his ribs were broken. The doctor then refused
more meds. So this guy, Matthew Perry, I mean, we look at him, Miguel, and we think, wow,
he's famous, he's a star, he's got all this money and this beautiful home. This guy was in a living
hell that nobody knew about. I mean, he had his colon burst from opioid use. Then he dies essentially
during a surgery and all eight of his ribs are broken during CPR.
And yet he went back to his own hellhole.
He couldn't stop himself, Miguel.
Yeah, I mean, it's tragic.
All these near-death experiences rooted from his need of these substances.
And he wrote in his book that he thought that the only reason why he was revived
and given CPR in such aggressive manner was because the person performing,
the CPR said, I can't let the guy from friends die on my table.
That can't happen on my watch.
So in retrospect, Perry asked himself, had I not been on Friends, would they have stopped
giving me CPR after three minutes and said they went five minutes, five them.
Wow.
And you talk about these drugs in his system, and even when he was detoxing, in the final
episode of Friends in 2004 when the episode ended and it all came to a close and everyone felt emotional,
not just the cast and the crew, but everyone who was tuned into that show, Perry himself said in
his book that he felt nothing because the detox drug that was in his system at the time made him
feel numb. So even in the happiest moments or what should have been the happiest moments of his life,
he felt nothing
and again it's all rooted because of
these substance issues that he's had
for so long. Miguel,
you are bringing up a whole
another issue. Not only
the battle against addiction
but how it affects your life
day to day. He couldn't even feel
regular emotions.
I mean, you know, this morning
when I was driving the twins to school,
I was so happy
just being with them.
What a loss in your life.
not to be able to feel all those wonderful things.
And guys, we're finding out now how his ketamine addiction began.
Take a list to our cut six, our friend, investigative reporter Nicole Parton.
Matthew Perry wrote about the ketamine infusions he received at the Swiss clinic.
He explained in his memoir that ketamine, quote, has my name written all over it.
They might as well have called it Maddie.
The New York Post reports that Perry described the drug as a giant exhale and said he would be blindfolded and listening to music when he got his injections.
Perry also said he would disassociate during the infusions and often felt as if he were dying.
Perry said he kept signing up for it because it was something different and, quote, anything different is good.
Taking K is like being hit in the head with a giant happy shovel.
but the hangover was rough and outweighed the shovel.
Still, in his memoir, Perry says ketamine was not for me.
You know, Dr. Moroni, ketamine is my new nightmare.
My new nightmare.
Because I've never known of it actually killing anyone until now.
Well, I think the ketamine awareness has went from zero to 100 on our national barometer.
But the whole idea is effective.
evidence-based FDA-approved ketamine treatment comes with counseling and where we have rogue
doctors and really dark rabbit holes is people are going to look for this stuff and not match
it to the counseling. The lack of feeling that he had meant that he was just altered by drugs,
seeing people, having emotions. You know, you talked about your kids. I got kids
the same age. Where's the celebrities with taking their kids to school? They miss all that stuff.
They're in clinics. They're in rehab. Their homes are in the hills and nobody has families
out there. Let's get back to simple things. If you're going to do ketamine, you're going
to seek it out, seek out the FDA approved ketamine, the counseling, the psychiatrist,
a behavioral health clinic, not the rogue. Rogue.
leads to death.
I also blame the prosecutors
because prosecutors
said sentencing guidelines
called for Fleming to get
up to 57 months.
But they, prosecutors,
agreed to a downward departure
claiming the
drug addiction counselor,
aka dope dealer,
accepted responsibility.
Seriously?
Of course he did.
Because he was caught red-handed.
There was a digital chain.
The assistant pointed to him.
It was a very badly kept secret that he was the supplier.
They had him dead in the water.
Why agree to a light sentence?
Try him and get the max.
I'm just, I'm disgusted.
The so-called assistant, Mr. Iwamasa, set for sentencing in just a few weeks.
We wait as justice unfolds.
Nancy Gray's crime story, signing off.
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