Daily Motivations - DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE
Episode Date: September 21, 2024Please don't waste your life. You've only got one life...and the clock's always ticking. Speakers: Coach Pain William Hollis Eric Thomas Jocko Willink kindly follow us on Instagram - @daily_motivati...onsorg Facebook- @daily_motivationsorg Please Kindly support this show Support Us
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Bet on the sports you love with BetRivers Sportsbook. Take a chance. We'll be right back. life how beautiful it is
how amazing it is
to be able to rise up in the morning
and have that sun
shine on your face
rather than on your grave
what makes life so unique your face rather than on your grave.
What makes life so unique and so beautiful?
It is beautiful because whatever you have that you may be facing, what you may
be dealing with,
life is still good.
Life has so many moving parts,
but life is always good.
Every day is a new day and another opportunity that others may not have.
This life that you have been given, this life that you are temporarily holding on to, this
life that has been just given to you for only temporary reasons, has more meaning than you
can ever imagine.
So many people in the world take life for granted instead of realizing
that you have to take the opportunity
to live it the best way you know how.
Now on this journey of life,
you're going to face a significant amount of circumstances A significant amount of challenges
You're going to fall into areas that you cannot understand
And maybe it's not in the position for you to understand
At that moment.
When you start to feel that you are in a position that you don't love your life,
then shame on you.
Because your life is a beautiful thing.
And no one deserves to ruin it.
No one deserves to control it.
No one deserves to steal your joy. Your life is your life and you have the right to live it the best way you can. You must discipline
yourself and take full control and responsibility for the outcome or
whatever it is that you are seeking at this moment
life my friends it's a test of your grit, your determination.
When things get tough, and trust me, it will,
you got to remember one thing.
It's not how hard you hit.
It's how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.
You see, Rocky Balboa, he said that these words stuck with him because life ain't
just about the victories. It's
about the battles you
fought to get there. It's about
the failures. The echo
of the doubters
that didn't have the perseverance
to keep chasing the
dreams that they wanted. So they
told you to stop chasing yours.
But we're not going to listen to the echoes of the doubters.
We're going to listen to our soul.
We're going to listen to the warrior that lives inside of us all
that tells us it's not about our circumstances.
It's about our opportunities.
And not just about those opportunities.
It's about seizing those opportunities every
chance you get because ladies and gentlemen I gotta tell you that these opportunities
are not going to come back around do you have what it takes to make it through this journey
I'm telling you young king keep fighting because your life depends on it. Today we're gonna reach for the dreams where they said we couldn't reach them.
It's your job to rise like the phoenix and show the world what you have to offer.
Life is gonna be hard.
No one said it was supposed to be easy Life isn't fair
Sometimes you just gotta do it alone
What do you do?
How do you live?
How do we get through it?
You gotta stand up.
You got to get up.
The path that you have chosen
was never designed to be easy.
Some people want it easy.
But I dare you to go the hard way.
What do we do with the life that has been given? How do we face the circumstances
that have been brought before us? when we are faced with adversity.
Hard times create tough mass.
Tough mass creates tough characters.
But you got to carry on.
So when it gets tough, you got to carry on. So when it gets tough,
you got to get tougher.
When you're standing on your own two feet
and the storm is coming in,
you still got to stand.
And sometimes you just got to stand alone.
Greatness requires work.
And hard work is how you get it
you don't give up
because it's hard
you don't give up
because it's challenging
you don't give up on you
let the hard work begin
so when you're standing alone,
make sure you stand with a pure heart,
with a great mindset.
Because there's no one like you.
There's nothing that can stop you.
No one can do the things that you do.
No one can stand like you do.
You have to keep going.
You have to be truthful to who you are inside.
It was never designed to be easy.
Don't give up.
Go for it.
The question is, how hungry are you?
How much are you willing to give of yourself?
Because it's really ultimately up to you.
You can't sit around and waste time.
You can't sit around
and determine that everything is going
to go your way
because it will not go your way all the time.
But I tell you what,
if you keep laying around wasting time,
time is going to continue
to carry on with or without you.
Because you have already decided to lay in your bed.
Because you were just too tired to get up.
It's up to you to make a difference so that you can be a difference maker.
It's up to you to be a solution and not a problem.
That means you got to be serious and you got to be willing.
You got to be dedicated.
You got to take that leap of faith.
I understand it will never be easy.
I understand that I got to work. I understand that sometimes I want to give up, but I will not give up.
So while you're sitting around, moping around, blaming everybody for what you're not doing,
guess what?
Nobody's going to sit around
and wait for you to do the right thing for yourself.
Because it's all up to you.
So just get busy.
You are on your way.
Success doesn't have time for your excuses.
Success doesn't have time for your excuses. Success doesn't have time for your laziness.
Success doesn't have time for the person who doesn't truly want to change.
See, I know you are scared.
But turn that fear into fire.
We've all been there. We've all been there.
We've all been afraid of something.
But don't give up.
You keep trusting.
You keep believing.
You keep going.
Embrace the suck.
And keep on fighting.
It's okay that you failed,
but don't think you don't have what it takes.
Don't doubt.
Don't be ashamed.
Trust in who you are.
I must work.
I must believe. I will fight. I will work I must believe
I will fight
I will work
I will push
And I will never quit on me
I know that I have to work
I know that I have to believe
I know I have to trust in me.
You got to show up.
Sometimes we are going to have to just deal with the circumstances and the challenges that we face.
You can't be soft.
You can't be weak.
And expect the greatness to come out of you
you can't expect anything good
to come out of nothing
if you're not giving nothing
you get nothing
now get up
and do your work
when it comes to the work ethic
that's when you have to dig deeper. That's when you have
to work harder. That's when you have to shut out all the noise and all the naysayers. Sometimes,
ladies and gentlemen, you just have to be quiet and listen to your passion listen to your heart listen to
your truth it's okay sometimes because these things are going to happen no
matter how hard you work but you don't have the right to give up you don't have the
right to give in and stop playing the blame game and go about your business
when you have been pushed back push back even harder I dare you to go down that path that many refuse to go.
Pain, passion, focus, faith.
You put it together.
You will be an unstoppable force.
I'm telling you, the one thing you cannot get back is time.
It is your greatest asset.
I'd give somebody some of my money for a couple more years time is the greatest enemy you think it is
infidelity the greatest enemy you thinking it is finances you're thinking
it is in laws you're thinking that is differences no no no it is time we've
got to learn how to steward our time we We got to learn to tend to it, guard it, keep it.
I just want to make sure that the life we got left, that it's sweeter than the life that if I would give up or if I wasn't focused and I wasn't doing what I was supposed to do.
So when you've been with somebody since you were 16 years old and they got a chronic illness, don't you know it's easy for me to go drink?
It's rough. My life, it ain't what it used to be before she got sick like while god is blessing her she still got ms i lost five hours
to cancer you don't think i could have smoked a week you don't think when i'm going through that
pressure i couldn't have broke but you talked about it mental toughness it is in those times
we have to be stronger than we've ever been before why because they need us more than they ever need
us before and you guys are blessed and that you are the one presenters not only people want to be stronger than we've ever been before why because they need us more than ever needed before and you guys are blessed
And that you are the one presenters
Now these people want to be in your life who want the life that you have and you got it
And you not taking it serious like you know how many people would die to have this life
You know how many people would die to be on the field on Sunday
You know how many people would die to eat the way y'all eat how many people would die to have the gear y'all got You know how many people would die to eat the way y'all eat? You know how many people would die to have the gear y'all got? You know how many people
would die to get on these planes and travel the world? You know how many people would
die to have your life? And you got it. It's your life. You got it. What you gonna do with
it? You gotta be able to see it when it cannot be seen. You have to see it happening. You
have to believe in the unseen. Because if you can't believe in it you will never manifest it but when you believe in it you demand the
universe to assist you in what you're doing and if you can see it before
everybody else can see it then it's going to eventually come to you forget
about January forget about February forget about March forget about April
forget about May forget about June Forget about April Forget about May Forget about June
Forget about July
Forget about August
Forget about September
It's over
So forget about the past
Listen to me
And make the rest of your life
The best of your life
It's your boy E.T.
I know you can do it
I believe you can do it
Now go out there
Get up.
Get out.
Go get something.
Are you wasting your time?
Or are you using your time wisely?
You can't replace money.
You cannot get a year back.
All you need to get where you're going, you already got it.
Right? You already have it. All I need to do is believe in going, you already got it. Right?
You already have it.
All I need you to do is believe in yourself.
When you say, E.T., my teacher don't believe in me.
My own parents don't believe in me.
All right?
You don't listen to me.
You don't need nobody else to make your dreams become reality.
I don't need them to believe in me.
I don't need them to encourage me.
I don't need them to pump me up to motivate me.
I have my own motivation.
All you need is a dream.
All you need is a goal.
Because once you get your goal activated, you alive you come to life you come alive you are you are once you
have a goal you got something to wake up to you got something to go to bed for all right what you
are to be you're now becoming I earned the right to be here I grinded to be here I get up at three
o'clock in the morning the last 13 years giving our content every day I deserve to be here. I grinded to be here. I get up at 3 o'clock in the morning the last 13 years giving out content every day. I deserve to be here. Don't talk to me like that. You understand
what I'm trying to tell you? See, because I grind so hard, I work so hard that when
I get this opportunity, like, I don't play with it. I don't act like I deserve to be
here. I think about my ancestors and what they went through, and that's why I'm here.
So the first thing I need y'all to do is and I know you sweet
What I'm trying to tell you this is different this different baby
This ain't high school this ain't college like this ain't for funsies like this somebody's lifestyle and people going out there getting it
And if something happens to you, I promise you if something happened to you as sweet as you are you gonna be what?
Come on. You gotta talk back to me. You're gonna be what? Replaced. Say it again. You're gonna be what? That ought
to scare you. That ought to scare you. That alone ought to make you wake up every day
and say I cannot afford to be replaced. And you're running out of time. You don't know
how much time you have. You keep telling yourself you got time and watch what happens. Now, on your mark, get set, go.
You are running out of time.
All right?
I'm going to say it again.
You are running out of time.
Two weeks.
My man told his grandfather, I'm graduating in two weeks later.
Even before he literally marked his grandfather's path.
Who's going
to pass in your life as you average?
Who's not going to see you blow up?
Who's not going to see you accomplish your goals?
Who's not going to be able to enjoy the fruits of your labor with you who put in, why?
Because you average.
And one day you're going to be great, but you think you got time.
You think you got time.
A.E.T.
Three years from now.
Five years from now.
I'm telling you, you deserve to be great now.
And not only do you deserve to be great, there's some people in your life.
Listen to me, you're running out of time.
That's right, you got a job and you knew at it.
Yep. You knew it's your job and you like E.T.
Look, I just got here. I got forever.
Listen to me very closely.
You got to hear me.
You might be at that job another 10 years.
You might be there another 20 years.
But that opportunity, somebody's about to leave and get another job.
Hear me very closely. Somebody's about to quit. Somebody's about to leave and get another job hear me very closely
Somebody's about to quit somebody's about to get fired and you will not listen to me
You will not be ready at that particular moment to go to the next level
We're not talking about the job right now
We talk about an opportunity
You never know when your opportunity is that opportunity. It may not be two years from
now. It may not be three years from now. It may not be four years from now. Your opportunity might
come in the next six weeks. Your opportunity to get your mama out of that neighborhood and get
your mama into a new neighborhood. Listen to me, that opportunity might come in the next six months.
The question is, will you be ready when that
opportunity comes so you run it out of time one minute you doing it the next
minute you not one month you doing it the next minute you not we're not talking
about consistency right now we talked about consistency before we're not
talking about consistency right now I'm talking about residence you gotta
surrender to that thing you can't be playing with it you can't should I quit should I
give up or should I keep going listen to me I can't tell you what you should do but I'm gonna
ask you this question what's in your scene this is not for the head this is for the heart what's
the seed to you what is it worth to you what is it worth what is it worth to you? I don't know what your seed is.
I don't know what your harvest is going to be when it's fully developed.
I don't know if you should abort right now or not.
I don't know if you should quit or you should give up.
But I'm going to ask you this.
What's the value of your seed?
I know my seed.
I couldn't give up.
Homeless, I still couldn't give up.
12 years ago, I couldn't give up.
I'm one class child.
The staff of the PAD. I can't give up. Why years, I couldn't give up. I'm one class child. The staff of the PAD.
I can't give up.
Why?
Because of value.
What is worth?
What I put in.
I put in too much.
I've given too much.
I've sweat too much.
I've given up sleep.
I've given up friendship.
I've given up so much stuff that I had to give back later.
Why?
Because of value.
I put too much in it.
What's it worth to you?
What does it cost? What price have you paid for it? What has it cost you? And if it cost you
something, then you better not quit until you get an August. You cannot get a year back.
And you're going to fail. And you're going to fail. And you're going to fail.
And you're going to fail. And then you're gonna fail, and you're gonna fail, and you're gonna fail, and you're gonna fail,
and then you're gonna win.
And that's life.
Life without those challenges, it's just existence.
Don't just exist.
Go live.
Eventually, inaction will cost you.
But your default setting should be,
I'm going to do something.
Just get up, move towards that challenge,
and go attack it.
Go do something that's hard.
Struggle sucks.
Depends on how you frame it.
If you want freedom in your life, you have to have discipline.
Move towards that challenge,
whatever that challenge is.
And you may be successful
and you may not be successful,
but you will be better.
And the next challenge,
you can be more prepared for.
Because we're going to have wins, we're going to have losses Because we're going to have wins,
we're going to have losses.
We're going to have successes,
we're going to have failures.
We're going to have good nights,
we're going to have bad nights.
We're going to have good relationships,
we're going to have bad relationships.
We're going to have good ideas and bad ideas.
We're going to make money, we're going to lose money.
All these things are going to happen.
And if you oscillate emotionally,
up and down drastically, it's going to happen. And if you oscillate emotionally up and down
drastically, it's going to be problematic. Embrace those emotions, but don't let those
emotions embrace you. Keep pushing through things that suck. This is a very difficult thing to do
because it hurts. I'm going to go forward. I'm not going to quit. So I'm going to go forward, bring it on.
When you talk to people that went to SEAL training that didn't make it,
most of the time, it's some reason. There's a medical reason. There's a family problem.
There's very few people that look at you and say, oh, I quit because it sucked,
which is what happens to the vast majority of people.
The vast majority of people that don't make it through SEAL training,
they didn't make it through because they quit.
Your excuses will destroy you
and take everything that you ever wanted from you
if you let them.
When your excuses make you feel a little bit better
about the fact that you didn't execute
on what you needed to execute on,
then they can make you feel better,
but they're not helping you.
They're not helping you at all.
This went wrong.
This failed.
Didn't accomplish this.
And it's not the fault of my boss.
It's not the fault of my girlfriend.
It's not the fault of my parents. It's not the fault of my girlfriend. It's not the fault of my parents. It's not the fault of the weather. It's my fault.
And I'm going to take ownership of it and I'm going to fix it. That's what extreme ownership is.
Because when you look around at your life and you look around at your job and your financial
situation and your relationship and your physical health, and when you look at all those things
and all the problems that you may have with those things,
and you say, the reason I have all those problems
is because of me, that can hurt.
That can sting.
And a lot of times our ego rejects that
and makes excuses and lies.
And then we don't have to change anything.
And then nothing changes. have to change anything.
And then nothing changes.
When the excuses all go away and people can actually confront the fact
that this is all because of me,
it hurts,
but it's also unbelievably empowering.
Because the more discipline you have in your life,
the more freedom you will end up with.
So if you lack the discipline to exercise and eat healthy,
you will end up being a slave to disease.
If you lack the discipline to work hard, save your money,
you will end up a slave to finances. If you lack the discipline
to manage your time correctly, you will end up with no free time. If you have self-discipline,
if you have the discipline to save your money and work hard and invest your money properly,
if you have the discipline to manage your time correctly
and not waste a bunch of time,
if you have the discipline to exercise and eat healthy,
you will end up with freedom.
And you're gonna start to progress
in every aspect of your life.
And you'll see that if you have
that kind of discipline right now,
you're gonna end up with freedom.
If you have discipline, you will attain freedom.
Go try and accomplish something that's hard.
You may win, you may lose, you may succeed, you may fail.
I'll tell you what, you'll be better.
And if you don't have that kind of discipline
and you don't work hard and you don't exercise
and you don't apply yourself, you you don't exercise, and you don't apply yourself,
you're going to end up shackled.
So if you're in the woods, and you don't know where to go,
start walking.
You've got to start walking,
because the perspective's not going to change.
You have to start moving forward.
But standing there, lost lost and not doing anything
is just waiting to die, waiting to starve to death. Don't let that happen.
I think it's really important because as men, we get conflicting messages about emotion
and how to express it and what that looks like.
And there's a lot of men struggling right now.
Every human faces challenges
and you don't know what they've been through.
Suppressing them isn't going to help
and nor is letting them run your life.
Because you're sad,
now you're going to make a bunch of bad decisions
because you're sad.
No, no, it doesn't work like that.
It doesn't work like that. You're sad. Okay. You get emotional
sometimes. Okay. Got it. Now get control of your emotions and carry on with your life.
And sometimes you're going to get hit with those waves.
And that's okay. Oh, I'm having an emotional moment right now?
There's something wrong with me.
No, there's nothing wrong with you.
There's nothing wrong with you.
The other extreme is, oh, I'm letting my emotions run my life,
and I'm making a bunch of bad decisions,
and my excuse is, well, you know, I lost some friends,
or I had this traumatic experience happen to me.
That's why I'm doing it.
That's just an excuse, And it's a very easy
excuse. Guess what? It's time to carry on. Remember, don't dwell. I'm in control. This is my life.
If you are in the problem, you won't see the solution to the problem. Take a step back,
detach from the chaos, detach from the mayhem,
detach from your emotions,
detach from your ego,
and be able to assess the best way to execute that is the job of a leader.
If you take any trait of a human being
and you take it to an extreme,
masculine or feminine or otherwise,
you take it to an extreme,
it's going to be a problem.
Is it good to have no emotions whatsoever? No, that's called a sociopath. Is it good to let your
emotions run your life and make your decisions based on your emotions? No, that's not good
either. What do we want to be as a human, as a man? We want to be balanced. It's much easier to be extreme.
It's much easier to say, oh, no emotions?
Cool, and turn them off.
That's easier.
Or total emotion mayhem?
That's easier.
It's harder to find balance.
It's harder to find balance in business.
It's harder to find balance in life.
It's hard to find balance.
But you have to be balanced. because what I want is for the
team to win so be balanced
you're gonna be okay You feel so lost.
You feel alone.
You feel ashamed.
You're concerned about what people are thinking about you right now.
You feel that you have no way out.
You feel that you can't go on. This idea that you have of yourself
makes you feel that you're not alive anymore. It's like walking the earth with no sense of knowing your truth.
The mistakes that you've made in your life,
you feel that you can't come back from it.
But I'm here to let you know
it's just not your time yet
to get to the best level in your life.
It's not your time yet
to have that success story. Who says that you can't
struggle a little bit? Who says that you can't stumble? Do you realize your best stories are the
ones that you triumph from? Do you realize that the time that you're falling down and having the
ability to get up is the best time to celebrate.
Because that's when you know there is something good about you.
There's something special about you.
There's something unique about you.
I'm going to lose some battles,
but I'm not done.
I'm going to get pushed back a few times,
but I'm going to get pushed back a few times but I'm not done
this is an opportunity for me to get stronger
to get better
to recognize that I do have work to do
because I am a work in progress
and as long as I'm living
I'm progressing in this world
as long as you're living, I'm progressing in this world. As long as you're living, you are progressing in this world.
So struggle as much as you need to.
But keep working through your struggles.
Don't have regrets.
Because the regrets are only going to make you feel less
of who you are. We're not meant to always have a good day, but this is a day to celebrate breathing to celebrate life to celebrate another day to carry
on the good fight and that's what we're doing ladies and gentlemen we are
fighting every day of our lives so don't feel that you have to feel regret
because things are not going the way you want them to go.
Sometimes what you want ain't going to always be what you need.
We have to realize that it's just not your season.
And we all got a season.
We all going to live.
And someday, physically, we're going to leave here.
But while you're alive, just keep living your life.
Start understanding that these things that you are dealing with are necessary.
Because we have to go through it.
Sometimes those things that you're trying to build up They can crumble right before you
Many opportunities will be given
And many of them will be taken away
Sometimes being different can be very difficult
And that's when you got to dig in a little bit deeper in yourself
That's when you got to open up your eyes and open up your heart and have an open mind
That you are unique
That you are special
That you do make a difference
That you are touching somebody's life
So don't be ashamed don't have regrets just live just make
life better get knocked down just keep getting up again because if your heart is beating you're not dead. You're alive. You're breathing.
You got a little bit more fight in you.
So fight.
Don't regret.
Don't be ashamed.
Don't be ashamed.
Don't be afraid.
Take a chance. keep taking more chances when other people are looking down on you you keep looking up but look up and look past the
negativity because the ones that are looking down they don't realize what you're doing to get back up. Why they looking down focusing on your failures,
focusing on your misery,
focusing on all of your hardships.
They don't realize the fight that you have within you.
That you're not going to quit.
You're not going to give up.
You're not going to regret
anything that you have been through. You're going to give up. You're not going to regret anything that you have been through.
You're going to embrace it.
You're going to suck it up.
You're going to pony up.
And you're going to keep moving forward.
You're going to keep climbing up.
And if you slip again, you're going to get back up again.
Because death ain't got no business in your life right now
because you're still alive.
Death has not showed up yet and knocked on your door and said it's over.
Death ain't got no business with you right now.
So stop dying inside.
Stop being regretful and start being thankful.
Be blessed in this life.
Be blessed in your journey.
Be blessed in the steps that you take.
But don't give up.
You got this.
You need this.
You must complete your task.
It ain't over yet.
Keep going.
Keep fighting.
Keep breathing.
Don't quit.
Work for it.
Earn it every day of your life.
Sometimes,
it's gonna get dark. But you got to find the light.
The light is within you.
Believe in you when no one else does.
Understand that your purpose will be fulfilled.
It may not be today.
It may not be tomorrow.
It may not be next week It may not be tomorrow. It may not be next week.
But it's coming.
And as long as you're alive, you got to keep going.
I want you to know, ladies and gentlemen, I love you.
I believe in you.
I trust in your abilities.
I trust that you're going to make it.
But do you trust it? Do you believe it? Are you gonna stand on it?
No more regrets
You're not dead yet. They have not put anything that relates to death on your books
So fight And keep living stay strong in your beliefs stay strong in
your life if they feel a little bit of emptiness fill it up you ain't got time to be having emptiness in your soul fill your soul up again fill it up
live it up push forward be productive be powerful and from the bottom of my heart
no regrets keep it moving and conduct your business