Daily Motivations - GIVE YOUR ALL
Episode Date: March 23, 2025GIVE YOUR ALL! It's time to pull yourself up, lift up your head, stand up, and pursue your goals today, despite what is going on around you. Speaker: Dr. Jessica Houston Dr. Jessica Houston is a l...icensed social worker, college professor, consultant, and professional speaker. As the owner of a personal development and professional development training company, she provides proven tools and strategies that her audience can begin implementing immediately. She has overcome poverty, depression, low self-confidence, and intimate partner violence. For this reason, she is passionate about sharing how others can live an abundant and satisfying life, despite any obstacles they may encounter. In her self-help book, “Women’s Secrets,” Dr. Houston is completely candid about her personal experiences and struggles. She travels nationally and internationally presenting at Schools, Colleges, Faith Based Institutions, Family Advocacy Agencies and at National Conferences. If your organization is seeking an engaging thought leader, connect with Dr. Houston today! Don’t forget to RATE, SHARE, and Follow for more Instagram - @daily_motivationsorg Facebook- @daily_motivationsorg Please Kindly support this show Support Us
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Have you ever asked yourself the question,
how did I get here?
Many times we make subtle decisions that don't seem to be a big deal,
but what we often fail to realize is that where you are today is the result of all of the decisions
big and small that you've made up until this point. The good news is even if you are
not where you want to be right now you still have a chance to rewrite your
script. Yes it's frustrating when you do not accomplish what you've expected to
accomplish within the time frame that you set. Yes, all of us want our journey
to be a straight path, but in actuality your journey will have unexpected stops,
it will have curves, it will have hills, it will have valleys, you will have sunny
days, you will have rainy days, but you have to decide. if I encounter rejection, if I encounter frustration, if
I am disappointed, I will not give up.
The key is to learn how to separate your feelings from your performance. Yes,
some days I don't feel like working.
Some days I have to battle with unfair situations, but at the end of the day I
have a decision to make. Either I'm gonna have a pity party or I'm going to figure
out how to pull myself up. So I say to you today pull yourself up. Lift up your bow down head.
Guess what?
Every day I have to choose to pull myself up.
There will always be something that you can complain about.
There will always be something
that you could be worried about.
But what I'm challenging you to do
is to pursue your goals in spite of
what's going on around
you.
Take a close look at your life, your health, your relationships, your business, your career
and ask yourself a simple question, have I given my all?
If you are not careful, fear, doubt, and worry will keep you stuck wishing your circumstances
were better, but never doing what it takes to improve them.
It's time for you to pursue what you really want, not what others want for you, not what
others expect from you.
But you've got to pursue what you really want with everything you've got.
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One of the hardest things I've had to do intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. hostage? Is it self-doubt? Is it the fear of being rejected? Is it self-sabotage? Is it refusing to let go of the past? Don't get so wrapped up in what happened
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After being involved in a physically abusive relationship for six years,
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I do understand that a lot of times
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It's really so that you can help someone else
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was happy everyone thought I had it all together,
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Will you commit to making yourself a priority?
Yes, there are a lot of people counting on you. Yes, others need
you. But guess who else needs you? You need you. Be confident in your ability to overcome
any challenge that comes your way. Why? Because your level of confidence is going to determine what
you strive for. If you don't have confidence what you'll do is you'll see
something that you want but you won't go for it because you'll tell yourself I'm
not cut out for this. I'm not good enough for this. I don't speak well enough for
this. I'm not credentialed enough or I'm not qualified enough for this. I don't speak well enough for this. I'm not credentialed enough, or I'm not qualified enough.
And what you're doing is holding yourself back.
I never thought that I would be speaking.
I never thought that I would be Dr. Jessica Houston.
I never thought that I would be traveling the world.
I never thought that I would be an author.
But it took me stepping out of my comfort zone.
It took me saying to myself, you will not let your daughter take the same route
that you took. That's what helped me the most. What I have discovered is that
women are very good at pretending to be okay.
Many times we suppress what we're dealing with and we cover it all up.
Women are natural nurturers. In fact, we often help and support others
even when we are facing a challenging situation ourselves.
Unlocking your destiny is going to require that you add yourself to your priority list. You need you.