Daily Motivations - HAVE NO FEAR!!!

Episode Date: August 14, 2021

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Please play responsibly. If you have questions or concerns about gambling or someone close to you, please contact Connex Ontario at 1-866-531-2600 to speak to an advisor free of charge. BidMGM operates pursuant to an operating agreement with iGaming Ontario. Welcome, this is Daily Motivations by Tolu Dave, where you get inspired and motivated. What is it that gives your life a sense of meaning and purpose? Because once you find that, it puts you in your power place. See, if you know what your life work is, I encourage you to start working on it.

If you can't do it all at one time, do just a little bit of it. And if you don't know what it is that you showed up to do, if you don't know why you're here, I encourage you to find out what your purpose is here what is the meaning of your life what will be different have you ever asked yourself

that question I've done that I I remember coming from a friend's of mine's funeral and I was reflecting on how much time I had left and I went for a walk in a park thinking about this guy whose life was so promising and I mean he wasn't an old guy he was quite young so promising and I mean he wasn't an old guy he was quite young in fact and I thought about all of the things that he said he was going to do and he never got a chance to do those things and I stopped thinking about my own life and how much time I had left to do the things that I would like to do and at that time I wasn't sure

What my life purpose was what my life's work was I wasn't sure about it at that time And I thought about it quite a lot. I Had some idea, but I wasn't convinced that I don't think I felt worthy I didn't believe that it could be me to do this kind of work that I'm doing right now And I say to you that if you begin to take a conscious effort to find out what it is that you're supposed to do, I say that it can literally save your life. I said that it can literally save your life. 85% of the American public, according to recent studies, are going to jobs that they hate, working on jobs that do not challenge them.

They get sick thinking about going. Because see, when you go to a job and you already know how far you can go you can already see that proverbial glass ceiling see when you're going someplace and you already know how much you're going to make you already know how far you can go you're in a dead-end position it erodes your self-esteem it lowers your sense of yourself it creates an inner turmoil it creates an emptiness in you so I say that your life is worth finding what it is that you're supposed to do and I'm not saying quit your job I'm saying find it and do just a little bit of it. Just start working at it just a little bit. But do find out what your work is and hold on to it and don't let your dream go. Don't let it go.

See, and here's something else I want you to begin to look at. Why is it that most people don't pursue their dreams or don't do better than what they're doing if they're capable of doing it? I think that many of us don't go the next step because we don't know what to do yet. And I say that the reason that we don't even explore the possibility of what to do is because subconsciously we don't believe that it can happen for us and we don't believe that we deserve it. So here's what I'm suggesting how much time do you spend

working on you how much time do you spend every day working on your dream and the last 90 days how many books have you read and the last year what new skill or knowledge have you acquired? What kind of investment have you made in you? So I'm saying that as you begin to look at where you want to go, if you want to make it today, and things are changing so fast you have to literally run to stand still, I'm saying that you've got to make some conscious effort to begin to work to develop you. Here's something else.

Most people are not living their dreams because of fear, ladies and gentlemen. Fear, limited vision, and lack of self-esteem is what keep most people doing things they don't want to do. The same reason that people stay in relationships where their abuse or their unhappiness is unfulfilling, they can't see themselves beyond that relationship. They can't see themselves enjoying life without that person. They think that this is all that they can do. The same reason that people get stuck at a certain level in life. They can't see things being better for them.

And they think that this is it and this is all they deserve. This is all they've ever seen. It's been passed on to them. And they think that this is it for them. Oh no. I was looking what Dr. Blanton, Smiley Blanton, who is a colleague of Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, what he said about fear, he said, Fear is the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases. Ladies and gentlemen, fear kills dreams. Fear kills hope. Fear put people in the hospital. Fear can age you. Fear, ladies and gentlemen, can hold you back from doing something

that you know within yourself that you're capable of doing, but it will paralyze you. And it seemed like you were in a hypnotic spell. And I ask you a question, what is the benefit? What's the benefit of allowing fear to hold you back? What's the benefit of giving up on yourself? Of not stepping out on life and taking life on? What is the benefit for you? What's the plus in that? It's one of the things I had to ask myself. See, I didn't want to make any mistakes.

I wanted everybody to like me. I wanted to be perfect the first time I did something. It's not going to happen You're going to make some mistakes You're going to hurt some folks feelings You're going to create some enemies Whenever you decide that you want to begin to take life on You've got to ask yourself

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That is an illusion that we create in our mind. It is a state of mind that can be changed. So let's look at how we can begin to take some steps to restructure that fear, to begin to expand our visions of ourselves, to begin to increase our self-esteem. Webster said that self-esteem means confidence and satisfaction in oneself

Look at your life right now Whatever you've done up to this point in time your life is working Whatever you have produced it came out of you as a result of the kind of person that you have become It's a result of your choices. It's a result of your consciousness Now you have to ask yourself. Are you satisfied with what you have produced? Is this what you want? Would you like for things to be better than this? Do you believe that you deserve better than this? Are you content?

This is it. You don't have to do everything else that you already resign yourself in life. So well, I'm happy I'm not starving like the people in Calcutta Are you allowing yourself to get off the hook like that? Or do you believe somewhere in the back of your mind or in your heart that there's some other great work for you to do? There's something else that life has for you. And that's why you're here. How do we handle this fear factor?

How do we increase our self-esteem? You have to begin to fortify yourself. How do we handle this fear factor? How do we increase our self-esteem? You have to begin to fortify yourself How do we do that? I believe that you have to begin to consciously monitor your inner conversation And start talking to yourself Start building yourself up Sometimes the only good things you will hear about you are the things that you say to you So I'm saying learn to be your own booster.

Start building yourself up. Start encouraging yourself. Start saying, I can do this. I can make this happen. When I started thinking about becoming a speaker, I said, yes, I can do this. I can make this happen. When I start trying to convince myself I can be a businessman, after flopping and failing and losing thousands of dollars and feeling stupid and dumb

and having people take advantage of me because of what I didn't know. I had to talk to myself because people were saying to me that I was dumb. And somewhere in the back of my mind, I was saying, you're right. Look at what I've done. I had to say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no less. Hey, hey, come on, man. Get yourself together you can handle this you just haven't figured it out yet it's alright this is your

training period this is the tuition you have to pay for what you don't know you can do this other people have done it doesn't take an Einstein get you some people that can teach you some stuff that you don't know get you some people that have done it successfully and learn from them. Take some seminars, workshops, read some books on how to manage a business. Change the way you see yourself and begin to tend to the personal details. Understand that nobody's going to take care of your business better than you. And when I start changing that kind of mindset of beating myself up because of my mistakes

and start looking at the possibility of my doing better of my making the adjustment that would enable me to do what I want to do successfully things begin to change I say stop beating up on yourself you do do it I know you do it I've done it it's a natural inclination for us to put ourselves down see we are born negative I think in a negative consciousness I think, in a negative consciousness because we live in a negative world. Here's some other things, ladies and gentlemen. Begin to guard your mind against negative programming, like turn off the television. Don't watch the news. So you've got to guard the kinds of things that you put in your mind. See,

if you don't program your mind, your mind will be programmed because human beings are goal-oriented. That's why we die of broken hearts early. That's why we're running through life to early graves. We're going through life, ladies and gentlemen, and I think that Henry David Thoreau said that most men live in quiet desperation. Most of us go through life running scared. So we created this in our minds,

false evidence appearing real. We made it this in our minds false evidence appearing real we made it real in our minds that's why Churchill said there's nothing to fear but fear itself that's the destructive monster so turn off things that can contribute to your fear turn a deaf ear to people that all they can do is talk about how negative things are because they have bought into the consciousness of the world start attending workshops seminars listening to tapes on a daily basis to begin to Recondition your mind to retrain your thinking faith comes by what hearing and hearing and hearing

Listen to things that can empower you that can enable you to create a new reality for yourself in a new life for yourself you might appear to be strange around most people you know most people think you're strange if you're happy today see these people have not found their purpose in life that's why they're grumpy but that's why they're miserable that's why they're so negative they're hurting and they want to hurt other people so start practicing using programs for your mind seminars books workshops keep a journal record your thoughts what's happening with you every day when you get up have a journal near you see ladies and gentlemen we get three to four thoughts a year that if we would act on those thoughts they could change our life what idea are you sitting on write your ideas down and then once you

get that idea take the leap take the leap since out here in the universe if you don't take the plunge I I guarantee you, somebody else will. Take the plunge. Go into action. And ladies and gentlemen, you will be surprised at how things will come together. You'll be surprised. Now, you're going. Be aware of that. Things are not going to work out exactly right. For a time they will, sometimes. And that's when life is just playing a game with you. I want you to feel good and relax. But ladies and gentlemen, go into action with your dream. And don't avoid where the fights are. Get in the midst of the fight. Get knocked down so you can learn how to fight so you can hold your position see

most people don't get out in the arena of life because they don't want to fight most people don't get out there because they don't want to get knocked down they don't want to be dropped to their knees but see you're going to be dropped whether you're on the field or whether or not you're sitting on the sidelines you're going going to be dropped. So at least get dropped for something. See, that's how most people are spectators in life. You don't want to be a spectator. You want to get out in the field where the action is, and you will be amazed. After the struggle, there will be a calm period and things will begin to click for you. all. You can also support this show starting with a penny to help sustain future episodes just by clicking the link in the description below. Thanks to those who already support this

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