Daily Motivations - HOW TO FIND YOURSELF AGAIN
Episode Date: February 15, 2025How to Find Yourself Again! Robert Greene, Author of The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, and Mastery shares his greatest advice on success. Speaker: Robert Greene Robert Greene is an American... author of books on strategy, power, and seduction. He has written six international bestsellers, including The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law (with rapper 50 Cent), Mastery, and The Laws of Human Nature. Instagram - @daily_motivationsorg Facebook- @daily_motivationsorg Please Kindly support this show Support Us
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You've got to listen to yourself.
You've got to cut all that shit out.
You have to look at the things that you love and the things that you hate.
So what you don't like is very instructive to you, right?
You're looking at things that are very powerful inside of you that are emotional.
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It's never too late. The earlier you figure it out, the better off you are. But it can happen
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to write, but I loved words and I loved writing. And if I didn't have that connection when I was
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Working with your hands is a form of intelligence.
A carpenter has a high form of intelligence.
People who do sports who athletically use their body,
that's another form of intelligence.
There's music, there's math, there's language.
You have one of these frames of mind.
By the way your brain is wired,
you are inclined towards one of them.
Figure that out.
You've got to be a bit bold. You have to embrace what makes you different.
It takes time.
To do anything in life takes time and hours
and patience and work.
So I like to tell people to go back
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of things that really excited them
before they got mixed up with parents, teachers,
and all that other people telling them stuff, you know?
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free of charge you know i was I was frustrated. I was depressed.
I even have to admit I had moments
that were slightly suicidal
because I knew deep down that I could do something.
I was different from other people.
I had different experiences, you know,
and I knew that there was something I needed to express.
There was a purpose to how my life had unfolded,
but I couldn't find it. I tried
everything. I tried every form of writing, every possible endeavor you can imagine. It just didn't
click. So I was very deeply frustrated. And the frustration I tell people, it's a good thing.
Negative emotions are trying to teach you something. They're trying to teach you the
opposite. Something else is going on.
Frustration, what would be worse than frustration
would be despair giving up.
No hope, but frustration is a sign
that you haven't given up.
You know you can do something,
but you haven't figured it out.
So when you have those kind of feelings,
look at them and there's something positive in that.
So I knew that there was something I was meant to do. I just couldn't figure it out when.
It's easy for me, a boomer, I have to admit that, to preach to you when you have gone through like
two, you've gone through a pandemic, what looks like to be a recession. And then if you're
a millennial, you went through another, you went through the crash in 08. It's easy for me to
preach. You're dealing with really difficult circumstances. So a lot of people are rethinking
their lives. They don't want to work at crap jobs just to get by. And I
applaud that 100%, right? That's great. So you want to think about working for yourself is the
ultimate position in this world. And even though times are difficult, even though it may seem like
just a dream, there's so much potential out there for entrepreneurial spirit, for creating your
own startup, for creating your own podcast, for going your own path in life.
You don't have to follow other people.
It's not like it was when I was growing up.
There were things that were better back then.
There are things that were a lot worse, right? You have so many more options. It's just that you're not going to reach them.
You're not going to be happy in this short time that you have to be alive unless you take it
seriously and still have some fun and adventure and excitement. You got to listen to yourself.
You have to embrace what makes you different.
Just don't listen to your parents go, I've got to be making $100,000 when I'm
23 and go to law school and do all this
stuff. You're going to burn out.
So kind of understand
your, I guess the main thing I would say
is know who you are.
Know what you're
deep down in your core,
what you love, what you hate,
and what you were destined to create in this world.
That's like the most important process you can go through.
Everybody has that potential.
But I know it doesn't come easy.
It's a process and you have to be patient.
You have to put in the work.
But another skill that you cannot ignore is the social. We're social animals and there are a
lot of people in life who ignore that because they're shy and I was very shy as a young man.
I was mostly very quite introverted as well because they're shy. They just simply lean on
their own strength which is learning something really well, learning math or learning algorithms or learning how to write, etc.
And they ignore the social because they're afraid of it.
But you cannot get ahead in this world as a social animal dependent on other people in every aspect of life unless you treat that as another skill as well.
So yes, the process of looking inward is absolutely essential,
but you cannot disconnect yourself from your teachers,
your mentors, your colleagues.
You could have all the skill in the world
and know your life's task brilliantly,
but if you continually alienate people
by your boorish behavior, by your insensitivity,
all of the skill level in the world
will be completely neutralized by your boorish behavior, by your insensitivity, all of the skill level in the world will be completely neutralized by your own mistakes.
I didn't listen to other people.
At so many turning points in my life, I could have been discouraged.
People could have said, you know, I had somebody say,
Robert, you're never going to be a good rider in life.
You know, you need to go to business school, etc.
My parents tried to funnel me this way or that way.
I was stubborn and I was rebellious and I did my own thing.
And because of that, I have kind of a different voice from other people, right?
And when I look at books out there,
I'm searching for that voice,
for that voice of somebody who's different,
who has something different to say,
who speaks in a different tone of voice,
that has their blood and their personality in their writing.
And I don't find it often, but when I do, it's a great thing.
And so, to me,
success in life is kind of being who you are. There's a famous expression of the great ancient
Greek poet Pindar about become who you are. It's a process of becoming who you actually are
and realizing what it is. So we talked about my weirdness earlier on and
following that has allowed me to craft my own message which is basically about
opening your eyes up to the reality of the world and to what people are like.
But I wasn't, I'm not able to do that unless I had ignored what other people tried to foist on me earlier on in life.
It's never too late. Thank you.