Daily Motivations - No Fear, Just Faith

Episode Date: November 7, 2025

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Starting point is 00:01:13 Take eight big risk in life. Sin once, miss the mark once, but get seven, achieve seven out of eight. Or take a hundred risk and achieve eight of them. My hunch is that if there's a God, he's saying, go for the hundred and get eight. rather than eight and get seven if you're not taking enough risk to sin or miss the mark to fail what are you doing
Starting point is 00:01:39 don't go back with even money go back with safe bets you cannot afford not to I get the sense that feelings are one of these strange bets emotions investing ourselves not holding a bit back not putting one foot out like putting it on the line opening up
Starting point is 00:01:54 that feels like a retreat in kind but one that's plausibly deniable. When we just have one foot out, I didn't fully commit myself to this project, this relationship, this friendship, this self-transformation. And it means that if failure comes along, it doesn't hurt as much.
Starting point is 00:02:10 But it also means that success is less likely, and if success comes along, you know that you didn't really earn it. We have to define success for ourselves. And then we have to put in the work to maintain it. Take that daily tally. Tend our garden. Keep the things that are important to us in good shape.
Starting point is 00:02:27 No, no, no. Don't study the result. What was the person doing when they got there? And everybody who's achieved something great was some sort of outlaw. Some sort of hustler. Out of balance. Out of balance. Out of whack, dark times.
Starting point is 00:02:42 Woo. Astream. Still wakes up in the middle of the night. I'm glad they went a mouth guard because they'd have chipped all their teeth with that a nightmare they were having about those things they did back then. I'm one of those. Prioritize who you are, who you want to be, and don't spend time with any thing that antagonizes your character.
Starting point is 00:03:02 Let's carry on and trust and be ready to do the work to say, we're not going to just let that slide anymore. No, make a sacrifice today. Sacrifice a plastic ring today for a gold crown tomorrow. Sacrifice something today for more freedom tomorrow. Sacrifice something today for a possible healthier future for your kids. Be brave, take the hill, but first answer that question, what's my hill? Whatever your answer is, don't choose anything that will jeopardize your soul.
Starting point is 00:03:38 You've got this great line where you say so many people are obsessed with how to live longer instead of how to live better. How do you come to think about that? I'm for it, the longevity. I'm for it. But in the pursuit of it, are we measuring quality of life along the way? Some people aren't. And I personally don't want to have the highest number, but then go, I don't need fun or I didn't enjoy that or that sucked. Profit measures quality with the quantity. So I'm saying real success is when you have profit. Well, really great longevity would be for those quality years, quality time left in this life. I also say that because while I'm not looking forward to it, I'm not really afraid of death.
Starting point is 00:04:25 or dying. I'm not looking forward to it. I'm shaking my boots if I'm face to face with that great white. You know what I mean? I'm not looking forward to it. But I see it as a, obviously it's inevitable. And obviously, I personally see it as hopefully a comma, you know, not a period. So tomorrow is not today's measurement when the misery is bad enough.
Starting point is 00:04:54 Right? is people don't have to the suffering consideration. It's a privilege, man. I'm trying to put food on the table right now. I'm paying my rent tonight. You want to talk to me about investing in my future? And I say, and that's part of what faith and religion are for. To help those in misery hang on to a hope that will most likely not be served them in this life.
Starting point is 00:05:16 To sell them belief and faith that they will be served in the next. And what if there is nothing there, man? What if there's nothing to hope for? What if there's no next? I don't know. But either way, in misery here or without a heaven there, not having any hope or faith in anything is a certain way to remain where you are forever.
Starting point is 00:05:41 But if you can find something that you can keep going, something that no matter how small to look forward to and continually have faith in and chase, well, then your life here's going to be better now. Heaven or not. let's go to the dream. Let's flip that script. I always have gone from nonfiction
Starting point is 00:05:59 to say, let's make that the dream. Just keep living. Art emulates life. Let's go to dreams. Let's go to poems, prayers. These are pursuits of an ideal beauty. These are in between the lines. This is in between the math.
Starting point is 00:06:12 This is not academic. This is not intellectual. These are ideals that we pursue. The beginner's mind that we have as a child before we know worse. And I don't want to be ignorant. I don't want to be foolishly optimistic. Let's look to those and believe
Starting point is 00:06:23 that we can still make those real. I grew up only knowing sort of the courage of the persistence. You're resilient, endure, get up, dust yourself off, go. The problem with that, the Achilles heel with that is if you get up and you have the courage to keep on going every time and get up and dust yourself off, you make the same mistakes each time around because you never backed up to have what I've now learned and still learning is the courage to go. No, I'm going to let some people pass me in the race right now because I'm going to look at why I keep stepping in that damn same pothole and twist my ankle, the same spot.
Starting point is 00:07:01 Why I keep failing when I try to get that next spot in this relationship. There is a unique sort of circle of hell that is reserved for when you keep on making the same mistake over and over again, that you've done it, you've had to pay the penance, say that you're sorry. and then arrive straight back at the same place. Yeah. I think there's a hell in the mirror.
Starting point is 00:07:29 Then I think it can become a living hell. Like I cut that poem in their daymairs. I love that one. I do too. You know, nightmares suck, but at least you wake up. And they're over. It's the ones that stick with you and you wake up and go through your day that are right there.
Starting point is 00:07:45 Those are the ones. That's the living hell. I think that's what you're talking about. And you repeat offend enough. word gets out circles gets out people doubt you on your approach you know but don't do this I mean all of a sudden you're going places you got to look over your shoulder you got to see who's there that it didn't pay back who do I owe what bridge did I burn what person did I betrayed to get where I am that's a life that's a living hell in the modern world you can move from city to
Starting point is 00:08:16 city at least you can in some regard leave your reputation behind however If you lose your reputation with yourself, if you no longer trust you, I don't keep my own word. I know that I'm not a trustworthy person. I keep making promises to myself and to other people and I keep on breaking them. I keep doing something that hurts other people or the same person. They don't trust me anymore. And, oh, I don't trust me anymore. The rom-com time, that was definitely me.
Starting point is 00:08:52 doing the work I was doing and only being able to do the work I was doing and offer the rolls I was getting the wrong columns was eating at me because I felt like I could life is good man make good money feel like I can roll out of bed and do one of these tomorrow morning that's cool I'm the I'm the go-to guy for this I was countered by I had met Camilla falling in love she's now pregnant with her first child my life was extremely vital and I was alive cried harder, laugh louder, felt more joy, all those things. But my work was like, all right. And I was like, well, I wish my work could be as challenging or as vital as my life.
Starting point is 00:09:32 And I remember looking at the mirror going, we'll be glad right now. Appreciate that it's not the other way around. But can I have my work challenge my lifestyle in this vitality? Yeah, if I do some dramas I want to do, well, those aren't coming. All right, if I can't do what I want to do, let me quit, do what I was doing. Now, that was, yeah, it was definitely courageous. I did honestly think I'd written myself a one-way ticket out of Hollywood. People close to me, basically almost everybody besides my wife was like,
Starting point is 00:10:03 what is your major malfunction, little brother? You got it made? Why are you throwing a jackknife in this stuff? You're tripping yourself running downhill, man. You did it. I had my wife and myself to, remind myself for that 4 a.m. clarity that I had in tears when I was like, no, I'm, I'm rolling the dice. I'm sticking with it. Yeah, man, I did think I wrote myself a ticket out of Hollywood.
Starting point is 00:10:38 I did look at other vocations, become a teacher, a wildlife guide. I'm seriously, I seriously look at those things. But over time, and it was about 20 months, it was gone long enough, had found anonymity enough, was not in your living room in a theater in a rom-com, you didn't seem on a beach shirtless, where is he? Turning down the $14.5 million offer, many people go, oh shit, what's he up to? You don't just step out of Hollywood and enter, unless you turn that down because you've got a plan. You got somewhere you want to go, and I think that made me more attractive as a new novel idea. But that was, yeah, that risk took a, I think it's fair to say that took a fair amount of courage from me.
Starting point is 00:11:19 For a lot of people, their work feels more vital than their life. Yeah. Is that a shiny object mirage that they need to rid themselves off? If you can and you're willing to, yeah. Look, that's part of why I started writing. The script flipped on me five years ago. I was like, I was feeling like my work was more vital than my life. I felt like I was going through the motions more in my life,
Starting point is 00:11:50 but I was really getting major life experiences and through my work. And so that was a challenge to myself, which led to the writing, which was a more direct experience, going to put a word down without, it's my script and without my performance on it, without music, without pictures.
Starting point is 00:12:09 So that was an inward journey that I'm still on. Yes, confidence, identity. testing it out and it can work confidence to go I'm going to try and pull this off maybe get away with it maybe it won't work pulling things off and I have an innate ability for something
Starting point is 00:12:29 that I believe I have the innate ability and I learned to the reason behind that instinct and how to where's the right time timing oh it'll work I think right here who's the audience I'm talking to oh yeah I'm going to make a plan for that cell, if it's all sales, for that transaction or whatever, and bam, it hits
Starting point is 00:12:52 and it lands like I wanted it to, dogs, damn it, was that deja vu? It happened. That's how I saw it. That, I get confidence from that. I don't think it's what the mystics meant when they were like, be disattached. I think it mean go embrace, but for highs and lows and pains and pleasures, understand that those outward things are not the things to be attached to for your own identity. It's got to be inward first. Enjoy those. Partake. But don't become attached to those for your measure. Without complacency, trust that time is on your side. What do you mean, though? Yeah, man. I'm get a header behind it. And I can get in a rush. Look, and I know how to hustle and let's go. The clock's ticking. We're all behind. All hands on deck. We got a bust ass. No,
Starting point is 00:13:43 time for pause. There's no sleep, no nothing. Get the caffeine out. Let's go. Sometimes we've got to do that. But that is usually because an unforeseen circumstance has happened, that there's a crisis we've got to deal with, or we've procrastinated and I've put myself in that position. We've got to cram. But it's not those two circumstances. We're going to watch ourselves getting ahead of time. And it's on your side. It's a little what I mean about the living longer and live in more quality. Time's on our side. And we're forced to think and feel, especially today,
Starting point is 00:14:18 with how fast things move. That more productivity, faster pace, more information, faster pace, it's better. We're ahead of time a lot. But time's still moving at the same speed. And they're not given more than 24 hours a day, even though me, like a lot of people, are looking for more. There's not any more unless you just want to change your work day. and some people do.
Starting point is 00:14:42 Me, I need my nine and a half hour's sleep. If I want to say I'm getting four hours and get five and a half miles more of a work day to be more productive, I would, but not to making that trade-off. It's on our side. And when we're feeling like we're dancing with time, I know I'm usually getting more done
Starting point is 00:15:00 at the same pace. It's John Wooden, a great basketball coach for you, so you're like, be quick, but don't be in a hurry. That was his note to his basketball players. It's like, it would be quick, but don't be in a hurry. You will miss things. You know, it's the Lego set, man. And you sit there and you get in a rush, you don't read the directions,
Starting point is 00:15:22 you get to the end, and you've got 12 pieces left. And you're like, shit. Because you got in a hurry. You got ahead of time. Instead of just that feeling of, I've checked out what I need to do, and it's all adding up, and this thing's built right, and the foundation's right, and boom, there's the last piece it fits. Walla, it was with time.
Starting point is 00:15:38 Time's on our side. It's not an enemy The end Death is not the enemy I do believe that part of You know Not in a rush to get there And we can stave it, we want to stave it off sometimes
Starting point is 00:15:51 And that can be a screaming fight And partially denial can help us get there I understand that But still, it's on our side It's going to happen And since it's going to happen And that's non-negotiable Might as well go
Starting point is 00:16:06 Well, I'm not going to rush to try and make more of it than there is. I want to try and spend the time I got as well as I can produce, succeed, achieve, whatever those things are, but also at a pace that I'm me, that I like the dance to. I like the giving the take. I like the reverb.
Starting point is 00:16:30 I like the cause and effect of how things are happening at this pace. how are we orienting ourselves now since time is speeding up so much faster with AI? I don't ask you this, with AI. And I mean this is an objective question. With AI. With all these podcasts, with all these wealth of information that people can get at all times, and no one's listening to music anymore, they're listening to everybody talk about this and reading up and this, and they're finding out the answers in 10 seconds
Starting point is 00:17:00 that would have taken them 10 days to get before. Do people sound smarter to you? No. me neither they don't sound dumber I do think so we were talking about if everything's significant
Starting point is 00:17:14 nothing significant at all I do think that I talk to some people that feel like they're hyperly punching their information absolutely great just flushing out
Starting point is 00:17:24 but I'm going dude what was the theme there did you have a bass guitar in your band you need a bass guitar or at least somebody on percussion hold it down because I didn't hear the theme
Starting point is 00:17:32 I didn't hear the thread it was digits Where was the soul in that story? Which goes back to the quality with the quantity, the quantity of information, but can we have the soul in it? It's where, ah, I hear the rhyme. Ah, there's rhyme to those digits. There's rhyme to those facts.
Starting point is 00:17:49 Oh, I see how they add up. Oh, but what if you put them in this order? Ah, they add up to another thing. Or actually, they may add up to the same den thing. Interesting. Now I've got a rhyme. Now there's a song. That happens when times on your side,
Starting point is 00:18:01 and you're looking at it without complacency. Like start now. That doesn't mean time's on my side. Yeah, dude. In July. When it happens, it'll happen. No, I'm like, wake up. Clock's ticking.
Starting point is 00:18:16 It's on your side. Now just move with it. Dance with it. Put some soul with the facts.

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