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Throughout ancient times, institutions of learning have been built on top of hills to convey that great struggle is required to achieve degrees of enlightenment.
Each of you had your own unique difficulties with the hill.
For some of you, the challenge was actually academics.
When you hear the words magna cum laude, cum laude,
you know that's not you.
That's not you.
You worked hard, you did your best,
but you didn't make As or Bs, sometimes C's. You never made the D's list,
but that's okay. You're here on top of the hill. And I want to say something to that.
You know, sometimes your grades don't give a real indication of what your greatness might be.
So it really is okay.
For others, it was financial.
You and your family struggled to make ends meet every semester of your matriculation.
You had to stand in one line to get to another line to get to another line for somebody that might help you. You had to work an extra job or two, but you're here. For a lot of you, not all, but a lot of you,
your hardest struggle was social. Some of you never fit in. you were never as cool and as popular as you wanted to be and it bothers
you so your social struggles here became psychological even though you made it up
the hill you carry the baggage of rejection with you but you're here or some of you went
through something traumatic you made it to the top of the hill but not
without scars and bruises.
Some of you fit in too much.
You were on the yard rapping on your frat block when you were supposed to be in class.
Or you got caught up in the DC party life.
You carried the baggage of too much acceptance.
When completing a long climb, one first experiences dizziness, disorientation, and shortness of breath due to the high altitude.
But once you become accustomed to the climb, your mind opens up to the tranquility of the triumph.
Oftentimes, the mind is flooded with realizations that were for some reason harder to come to
when you were at a lower elevation.
At this moment, most of you need some realizations
because right now you have some big decisions to make.
Right now, I urge you in your breath, in your eyes,
in your consciousness, invest in the importance of this moment and cherish it. I know,
savor the taste of your triumphs today. Don't just swallow the moment whole without digesting what has actually happened here.
Look down over what you conquered and appreciate what God has brought you through. I remember
walking across this yard on what seemed to be a random day, my head down, lost in my own world
of issues like many of you do daily. I'm almost at the center of the yard. I raised my
head and Muhammad Ali was walking towards me. Time seemed to slow down as his eyes locked on mine
and opened wide. He's raised his fist into a quintessential guard. I was game to play along with him, to act as if I was a
worthy opponent. What an honor to be challenged by the GOAT, the greatest of all time, for a brief
moment. His face was as serious as if I were Frasier in theiller in Manila, drawing from his victories and his losses.
At that moment, I realized something new about the greatness of Ali and how he carried his crown.
I realized that he was transferring something to me on that day.
He was transferring the spirit of the fighter in me.
He was transferring the spirit of the fighter to me.
He was transferring the spirit of the fighter to me.
Sometimes you need to feel the pain and sting of defeat
to activate the real passion and purpose
that God predestined inside of you.
God says in Jeremiah, I know the plans I have for you.
Plans to prosper you and not to harm you.
Plans to give you hope and a future.
When you at this day, when you have reached the hilltop and you are deciding on
next jobs, next steps, careers, further education, you would rather find purpose than a job or
a career. Purpose crosses disciplines. Purpose is an essential element of you. It is the
reason you are on the planet at this particular time in history
Your very existence is wrapped up in the things you are here to fulfill
Whatever you choose for a career path
Remember the struggles along the way are only meant to shape you for your purpose
When I dare to challenge the system that would relegate us to victims and
stereotypes with no clear historical backgrounds, no hopes or talents, when I questioned that method
of betrayal, a different path opened up for me. The path to my destiny. When God has something for you it doesn't matter who stands against it God will move someone
that's holding you back
away from a door
and put someone there
who will open it for you
if it's meant for you
I don't know what your future is, but if you are willing to take the harder way, the more complicated one, the one with more failures at first than successes,
the one that has ultimately proven to have more meaning, more victory, more glory, then you will not regret it.
The light of new realization shines on you today. I was on a roll when I entered the system of
entertainment, theater, television, and film. In my first New York audition for a professional play, I landed the lead role.
From that play, I got my first agent.
From that agent, I got an on-screen audition.
It was a soap opera. It wasn't Third Watch.
It was a soap opera on a major network.
I scored that role, too.
I felt like Mike Tyson when he first came on the scene knocking out opponents in the first round.
With this soap opera gig, I was already promised to make six figures, more money than I had ever seen.
I was feeling myself.
But once I got the first script, and with soap operas, you very often get the script the night before and you shoot the whole episode
in one day with little to no time to prepare once i saw the role i was playing i found myself
conflicted the role wasn't necessarily stereotypical a young man in his formative
years with a violent streak pulled into the allure of gang involvement.
That's somebody's real story.
Never judge the characters you play. That's what we were always taught.
That's the first rule of acting.
Any role play honestly can be empowering.
But I was conflicted because this role seemed to be wrapped up in assumptions about us as black folk.
The writing failed to search for specificity.
Plus, there was barely a glimpse of positivity or talent in the character,
barely a glimpse of hope.
I would have to make something out of nothing.
I was conflicted.
Howard had instilled in me a certain amount of pride,
and for my taste, this role didn't live up to those standards it was just my luck that after filming
the first two episodes execs of the show called me into their offices and
offices and told me how happy they were with my performance they wanted me to be
around for a long time they said if there was anything that I needed, just let them know. That was my opening.
I decided to ask them some simple questions about the background of my character,
questions that I felt were pertinent to the plot.
Question number one, where's my father?
Where's my father? the exec the exec answered well he left when you were younger of course okay
okay question number two if this script in this script it alluded to my mother not
being equipped to operate as a good parent, so why exactly would my little
brother and I have to go into foster care? Matter of factly, he answered, well of
course she's on heroin. That could be real, I guess.
But I didn't want to assume that's what it was.
If we're around here
assuming that the black characters
in the show are criminals
on drugs and dead people
and dead people are dead people
parents,
then that would probably
be stereotypical, wouldn't it?
That word stereotypical lingered.
One of the execs
pulled out my resume and began studying it.
The other exec wore a smile, trying to live up to what they had promised me only a few moments before.
If there's anything you need, just let us know.
She said, as you have seen, things move really fast around here.
But we are more than happy to connect
you with the writers if you have suggestions yeah I said that that would
be great I said because I'm just trying to do my homework on this I didn't I
didn't know if you guys had decided on all the facts but maybe there are some
things we could come up with some talent or gift that we could build maybe he's
really good at math or something he has to active. I'm doing my best not to play this character like a victim. So you went to Howard University, huh? The exec
holding my resume interrupted, peeking over the pages. Yes, I said proudly. He slid my resume back
in his desk and said, thank you for your concerns.
We'll be watching you.
I left the office.
I shot the episode I had come in to shoot on that day, probably the best one I did out
of the three because I got what was bothering me off my chest.
I was let go from that job. On the next day, a phone call from my agent.
They decided to go another way.
The questions that I asked set the producers on guard and perhaps paved the way for a less stereotypical portrayal for the black actor that stepped into the role after me.
As the scripture says, I planted the seed and Apollos watered it.
But God kept growing.
God kept it growing.
Yet and still, when you invest in a seed,
watching it grow without you,
that is a bitter pill to swallow.
A bitter pill.
Anybody that's ever been fired knows what I'm talking about.
Even if you really don't want the job, when they let you go, it's like any breakup.
You act like you don't care. I didn't need that damn job anyway. I didn't need them.
But when you have those moments alone, you start to wonder if there was a better way to
handle it. And if you could have handled it better, maybe you could help your family. And then before
you know it, you're broke and you find yourself scraping together chains just so you can ride the
subway so that you can get the next job. And maybe if you could book something else, that would eclipse
the feeling of doubt that's building, but it seems like you can't pay them to hire you now. My agents at the time told me it might be a
while before I got a job acting on screen again. As you commence to your
past press on with pride and press on with purpose. God bless you. Now,
this is your time.