Daily Radio Program with Charles Stanley - In Touch Ministries - How God Gets Our Attention - Part 1

Episode Date: August 15, 2026

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Welcome to this weekend's In Touch podcast with Charles Stanley. Before we hear God clearly, he often has to quiet our hearts and remove the distractions that keep us from recognizing his voice. Today on the InTouch podcast, we'll discover how God gets our attention and how to respond when he speaks. When you're talking with someone and you're talking to them about something very important about their life that relates to them, you expect them to give you their undivided attention. Whenever God speaks to you and me, he always speaks to us about something extremely important. It always relates to us,

and God deserves our undivided attention. When you and I are walking in the spirit, we are walking with our spiritual antennas alert to God, and we can hear what he's saying. And the normal Christian life is to live alert to and listening to the voice of God in whichever form of fashion he may choose to speak to us. We said there were nine different ways that God spoke to people in the Old and the New Testament. He speaks to people today primarily in one of four ways.

He speaks through His Word, by His Holy Spirit, to our Spirit, through someone else, or through the circumstances in our life. We said that his objective is that you and I might comprehend the truth, that we might be conformed to the truth, and we might communicate. that truth to others. What I want to talk about today is this. How does God get our attention when he wants to speak to us? The natural, normal way should be that all God has to do is simply speak in one of those four ways to us, and we will hear him because their antennas, spiritual antennas are available to listen and to hear God. And if you've been a Christian long enough,

you know that when you're walking in the spirit, you can be about your business or about your family, whatever it might be, and God say something to you, you pick up on it right now and know exactly what to do. But since we don't always live that kind of life, God uses one of several ways of getting our attention. I want to list these ways that God gets our attention, and I want to say to you fathers and mothers, listen to me, if you will take notes and teach them to your children for goodness sake, pass on the truths to your children, you will teach them and so ground them, you can eliminate a whole lot of things that are unnecessary if they know the truth very early in life. So I want to encourage you to get a pencil and piece of paper. I'm going to give

you 10 of them, 10 ways that God gets their attention so you don't have time to do anything, but listen real quickly. The first one is this, a restless spirit. In Esther, for example, in the sixth chapter, here's a beautiful example of what I'm talking about. The day of the morning this event happened, or the night, one of the most important decisions ever made for the nation of Israel was going to be made. On this particular night, King Ahazurus could not sleep. In the sixth chapter of Esther says that during the night he couldn't sleep, so he gave in order to bring the book of the records, the chronicles, and they were read before the king. When they read them, they read of an incident that had happened sometime before where a man by the name of Mordecai, Esther's uncle, Mordecai, had

saved the king's life by reporting that he'd overheard a conversation of two men who were going to kill the king. So now the next day, Esther, the king, and Haman who hated Mordecai, were going to have a banquet together. And Haman had already tricked the king into making a petition sent out all among the people that said this, the king's provinces were sent this inscription, to destroy, to kill, and to annihilate all the Jews, both young and old, women and children. in one day. And so as a result of that, Esther, who had now become favorable to the king

and Haman were going to meet. The next day, Haman was going to be able to execute the command given by the king. That night, God gave him a restless spirit. He read in the book, this man, Mordecai, whom Haman wanted to destroy on all the Jews with him, Mordecai had saved his life, giving him a restless spirit, getting the king's attention, getting him into the chronicles, saved the whole nation of Israel, put Haman on the galaus,

which he had made, and prepared for Mordecai. One of the key ways, and I believe one of the simplest ways that God uses to get your attention in mind to listen to him is to get us restless. You're going about your vocation, your church life, your home life, your everyday life, and there's this restlessness that begins to brew within your own spirit. You can't put your finger on it. You don't know why it's there. You can't identify it.

You don't know exactly what's going on. But there's a restlessness in your heart. When that restlessness comes, my friend, the wise thing to do is to stop and give the Lord a little time to say, Lord, are you trying to get my attention about something? Are you trying to say something to me? I can look back and recall, look back and read in my diary that every single time God has moved me from one pastor or the other. For several months, I would become very restless. No given reason, but just get me to seeking the Lord to see what he was saying. So when the time came, I would know that God was in the

process of saying something. So, friend, when you get restless, don't run to someone else. Just stop and ask, Lord, are you trying to get my attention? Are you trying to say something to me that at this point in my activities, I have not been able to hear you? A restless spirit, awakened, the king, King Ahazuras, and save the whole nation of Israel, as he says from annihilation. The second way, or a second way that God uses to get our attention, is speaking to us a word spoken through someone else. For example, if you'll turn to 1st Samuel and you'll recall that young Samuel as a child was given to the hand of Eli, who was the priest, and as he raised him up to be a servant

of God because you remember that his mother promised him to the Lord, raised him up to be a servant of God that one night the Lord spoke to him. He said Samuel. And so Samuel thought that Eli, the priest was calling him. And you'll recall that he went to see Eli and he said, did you call me? He said, no. And so after a couple times, Eli said to him, now the next time you hear this voice, Samuel, here's what you are to say. You are to say, speak Lord for thy servant is listening. God used Eli to direct young Samuel to understand that God the father was trying to get his attention. Being young as he was, and he did not know the Lord as Eli knew him, the way that God got Samuel's attention was through a word of encouragement, a word of direction through Eli.

I can remember one occasion when I was in the process of making a decision. One of my friends in this fellowship came to me one day, he said, God told me this morning in prayer to tell you, he called me early in the morning, to tell you to spend tomorrow in fasting and praying before you make that decision. Well, first of all, he didn't even know I was making a decision. He says, God awakened me this morning and told me to call you and tell you to fast and pray. The next morning, that's exactly what I did. I got up. I fast and prayed that day before the day was out. The Lord had given me very clear direction that it was absolutely, totally opposite from where I was headed.

God used him to speak to my heart to say, God's trying to get your attention before you make that decision. You seek the mind of God in a fresh new way through fasting and praying. Friend, listen to me. That's why you and I must learn to listen with an open heart to the voice of God as he speaks through other people. Sometimes God will get your attention through a word of caution through someone else. If you're proud and egotistical and you can't take any direction for anybody else,

you need to read the book of Proverbs because he says over and over and over again, a man or woman who cannot take criticism or guidance is bound to failure. A person who's wise enough to take criticism and admonitions from someone else, from someone who's wise, is sure to succeed. One of the ways that God gets our attention is through a word given to us by someone else when that person may not even know the slightest indication of what's happening in our life. God has the power to know what is going on within us. He has the power to place upon someone else a burden to say a word to us, even when they don't have the slightest idea of what

they're talking about. So he may say it through a word through someone else. A third way that God speaks through our life, and everybody would rather choose this one. Some of them are not quite as pleasant as this one, is found in Romans chapter 2 and verse 4. And one of the ways that God gets our attention is through blessing us in a most unusual way. Here Paul is talking about how God brings people to repentance. And you see, it isn't always with some great word of judgment, but listen, if you will, in verse four. Do you think lightly of the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that the kindness or the goodness of God is for the purpose of leading you to repentance. Sometimes, one of the ways that God chooses to get our attention is to bless us

unusually. It may be a spiritual blessing. It may be financial. It may be something in your home. It may be something in your vocation. But God, it just seems heaps the blessing upon you. Now, the reason God can't use that method for everybody is because some people who already are heading in their own way independent, a little independent streak within them, not dependent upon God, If God heaped more blessing on them, they'd get more independent and more self-centered and more self-seeking, and they would totally ignore God. That kind of person, God has to use some other method. But one of the ways he gets our attention is to bless us. And you see, what we have to remember is this, that in every single one of these methods by which God gets our attention, behind every single one of them, no exception, is that God is expressing love.

God sees your future, God sees your present. He sees the plan that he's laid for you. He sees your plan. He sees them on a collision course. When God sees you on a collision course with his plan out of an expression of his love, he's going to do something to get your attention, to stop you, to get you looking to him to think and to believe and to listen in order to save you from ultimate ruin. Is that not exactly what you would do to your children?

If you saw your son or your daughter heading in the wrong direction, I mean they were moving fast in that direction. wouldn't you do something as an act of love to get their attention to stop them, to listen to you, to give them a word of wisdom, to protect them from ruining and wrecking their life? That is exactly what God does. So as we go through these ten, remember this, that every single one of them is the result of a loving God who knows the future as well as the present and knows your past perfectly, knows the future perfectly, and he only seeks to get our attention in order to protect us and bless us to the maximum,

when we're willing to listen and to yield to his direction for our life. So, I certainly hope that that is God's favorite way of getting your sense of attention, and that is by blessing you. A fourth one is not so pleasant, and that is found in 2nd Samuel, Chapter 12. And you'll recall at this given time that David, having become the king, having conquered nation after nation, rather young to be the king of Israel, fell into an immoral situation with Bathsheba. She's born a child now.

Nathan's pointed it out to him that he has sinned against God. But God gets his attention in a way here that he gets, oftentimes, he gets our attention. And that is, this fourth one, is unanswered prayer. David indeed prayed that God would heal this child. But listen to what he says in verse 15. So Nathan went to his house. Then the Lord struck the child that Uriah's will. abhor to David so that he was very sick. Now listen, one of the reasons God does not answer

prayer, and there are many reasons God doesn't answer a prayer. One of the reasons is sin. The another reason is that God oftentimes, listen to me now, he does not answer our prayer to get our attention. Listen, the prayer we are praying may be the will of God. It may be exactly what God wants to do. But because God's trying to get our attention in another area of our life that we're not even aware of, maybe something going on that we're not even conscious of, or maybe a sense of direction. We don't even realize we're heading in the wrong direction. In order to get our attention and to stop us,

God closes the doors of heaven, refuses to answer our prayer, to force us to re-evaluate our life, why he's not doing it, re-examine ourselves, and in the process of a re-examination, God may say, here's the reason I haven't answered your prayer, because over here, here's an area you need to deal with, and you've not dealt with it.

When you deal with that, what you're praying is my will, but I cannot answer this prayer until you have dealt with that in your life. So what does he do? He refuses to answer our prayer and he gets our attention. Now, my friend, listen, how you and I respond to God's attention getting is very, very, very important. Because if I say, well, must not have been God's will. Listen to me, there are times when God will not answer your prayer when it is his will to give you exactly what you're asking, but if he knows you're not ready for it, can't handle it.

something's wrong over here, knows that if he answers your prayer, you're going to get off base, further off base, God's not going to answer it. Now, listen, you can manipulate and finaglia and Satan will help you get every. Listen, Satan will help you get an answer to everything you want that is outside the will of God, because he knows that the pleasure today means trouble for tomorrow. So one of the reasons and one of the ways that God gets our attention is he just closes the door. So don't chalk it off just because the prayer answer does not come.

it's not the will of God. It may not be, and he'll show you that if it's not. But it may be that he's simply trying to get your attention in some other area of your life. All right, Numbers chapter 14 gives us another reason, and that is disappointment. In the 14th chapter of numbers, you'll recall the nation of Israel now. They have come out of Egyptian bondage, down to Sinai, up to the promised land. And now all they have to do is to take it. And you'll recall that, um, They sent 12 spies into the promised land. They came back and they had a report. The committee reported 10 to 2 against possessing what God had already given to them

and promised to provide to them in battle. So the people decided they weren't going to do what God says. And so the 26th verse of this passage says, and the Lord spoke to Moses and Aaron saying, and the next verse is all the way down to 30 through verse 35 is God's judgment upon the nation of Israel because of their unbelief and unwillingness to possess what God had provided for them. So then God, through Moses, tells the people what's going to happen. Well, verse 40 says, in the morning, however, they rose up early, went to the ridge of the hill country,

saying, here we are. We've indeed sinned, but we will go up now to the place which the Lord has promised. He says, oh, no, you won't. He says, don't go because if you go, you're going to be defeated. It's too late. It's too late. Listen, you're talking about getting there at a time. Listen, these folks had come out of Egyptian bondage. They had owned their backs the stripes of the taskmasters of Egypt. They could still smell the same old food they'd been eaten for years and years. Four hundred years, their families and their ancestors had been in Egyptian bondage. And here they were standing on the threshold of a land flowing with milk and honey,

which God had promised them. And in unbelief, they believed the report of 10 verses the two who believed in God. And God said, no, it's all over. and the tremendous sense of letdown and mourning and crying and weeping and disappointment. But it was too late. But God got their attention, and he was able to show them that their unbelief would cost every single adult. Every single adult would die wandering around in the same old wilderness that was most like Egypt. Sometimes the greatest disappointments in life, listen, are God's attention get us.

Friend, God knows exactly what it takes to get our attention. And disappointment is a very effective way of causing us the back off and cry out, my God, my God, what are you saying? Listen, the wise response in each one of these is always the same. The wise response is an immediate saying, Lord, what are you saying to me? In this given situation, whatever it is, Lord, what are you saying to me? And, friend, listen, God, if he's trying to get your attention, he will use that. He will use that as a loving time to refresh and renew and redirect if necessary.

or to give you the answer to what he's trying to get your attention about. Then, for example, what about those unusual circumstances that happen? Look, if you will, in Exodus chapter 3. And this is the example and the story of Moses. Moses was a strong-willed man, and he had to be broken. Listen to how God got his attention. Verse 1, chapter 3 of Exodus. Now Moses was pasturing the flock of Jethro, his father-in-law, the priest of Midian.

He led the flock to the west side of the wilderness and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. Now watch this. And the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a blazing fire from the midst of a bush, and he looked and behold the bush was burning with fire, yet the bush was not consumed. Now listen, he'd seen lots of fires, lots of bushes burning, but he had never seen a bush that burned and burned and burned, but was not burned up, not consumed. Now watch this. So Moses said, I must turn aside now and see this.

marvelous sight while the bush is not burned up. When the Lord saw that he turned aside to look, God called to him from the midst of the bush and said, Moses, Moses. And he said, here I am. Out of a situation unlike anything he'd ever experienced before, God got his attention. He had never seen anything like that. Something so unusual, he had to start. He had to start. He had to start. He's often asked, then God spoke to him. What you and I must do is to learn to live and listen, look for the presence of God in every circumstance of life. Now listen to me. You hear people who are looking for demons behind every bush. Forget it. A child of God walking in the spirit is to look for the handiwork, the footprint, and the handprint of Almighty God in every single situation

of life. If God is sovereign and you and I are His kept, children, there's no such thing as an accident in the life of the child of God. Thank you for listening to how God gets our attention. If you'd like to know more about Charles Stanley or InTouch Ministries, stop by intouch.org. This podcast is a presentation of InTouch Ministries, Atlanta, Georgia.