Danny Jones Podcast - #56 - Lies & Lambos: The Business Behind Fake YouTube Gurus | CoffeeZilla
Episode Date: October 7, 2020Stephen AKA CoffeeZilla uncovers scams, fraudsters and fake gurus that are preying on desperate people on the internet. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
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So cool, dude. Thanks for doing this. I'm a big fan of all your work. I really like your video essays you do on the coffee break channel as well as I'm a huge fan of your exposing internet frauds on the CoffeeZilla channel as well.
I'm happy to be here. Cool. How did you get into doing those video essay? I love the video essays. They're like their own little mini documentaries. They seem like they take a lot of time and research.
Yeah. So I kind of got into them after college.
college and it was sort of like I would research for a month, whatever I was interested in at the time.
You know, I like to read a lot. So I would just find myself reading this stuff anyways and it gave
me an excuse to try to monetize it. And so that's what I was doing for a while. I would prepare
for a month and then I would kind of, that was a way for me to close the chapters. I would make a video
about it, basically. And so it's a very, it's hard to describe to people because the topics are so
miscellaneous. Coffeezilla's a channel that I can explain a little bit easier, falls into one
category or another a little more easily. But if you try to describe what I do on copy break,
it's very, the topics are much more me following my own nose. So yeah, no, I love coffee
break. I'm going to still make some videos for it. I've just taken a little break as I've
dived into this other end of the pool. Is anyone ever told you you, you sound a lot like
Pewy Pie. Like you have the same voice. No. It's very, very similar minus the Swedish accent,
but yeah, that's my first thing I noticed about you. I'm like this dude sounds like PewDie Pie.
It made me instantly like you. Okay, good. Yeah, I was about to say that's a, that's a polarizing,
you know, I didn't know where you were going with that. I thought you might have been going the other,
you know, really turned me off of your content. The people not like him?
He's a, some people don't. I like him. Yeah, I think he's hilarious. It's a nice compliment.
He's not selling any courses. That's a good thing.
That's for sure. And like the dude gives a ton of way to charity.
I actually find, so I think he just has some controversial things in his past,
but I find that it actually makes creators more,
it kind of gives them an arc to their story, you know?
If you've always been just this likable guy,
it's hard to become more likable.
But if you've kind of had some problems in your past,
you become a more compelling kind of person, I guess.
Yeah, you kind of like, you can see with him,
especially, I mean, he's grown and learned his entire career from where he started to where he is now.
You can kind of like see the character development, if you will, of him.
Absolutely. Absolutely.
So, I mean, I learned a lot from some of your video essays that I watched, especially the one about pop science,
where you talk a lot about these like entertainers that educate.
and how celebrities can kind of people trust celebrities or people with public figures like
Bill Nye for example, people will inherently trust them in what they're saying even if the
facts aren't necessarily true. I just thought that culture, that whole kind of idea that you were
exploring in that video was super interesting to me. Yeah, it's like, I don't know if you're
familiar with the idea of memes sort of as a, yeah, an idea, like ideas that are
spreadable sort of things, like the spreadability of an idea being a trait of the idea.
A marketable idea, kind of.
Yes.
Like a, yeah.
So the big thought there is that the virality of our education or of our science ideas is not
correlated to the truth of the idea.
So we have these ideas.
There is some correlation because if you learn that an idea is just wrong, you won't
spread it around. But some of our most viral ideas, they get spread around in a simplified,
overly simplified form that makes them almost untrue. So a great example of that is the 10,000
hour rule, which most people know from Malcolm Gladwell. Are you aware of that? I'm not aware of
that rule. Oh, okay. So 10,000 hours was this famous idea that, you know, all experts,
they have about 10,000 hours in the bank. So if you want to be an expert, you have to put in roughly
10,000 hours to be an expert at any given thing. That was a big idea in like 2014, 2012,
maybe even before that. But when you go over to the actual researcher who did the studies,
he says, wait, no, no, no, no, 10,000 hours is sort of just this arbitrary number. People loved it
because it was this really clean number. But it has nothing to do with 10,000 hours. It actually
has to do with deliberate practice and not to do with the number of hours you necessarily put in.
Of course, you have to put in a lot of hours to be an expert.
But that, the nuanced truth of that got muddied up when it just became this headline of,
you got to do the, hey, haven't you heard the 10,000 hour rule?
Malcolm Gladwell, dude.
Just put in your 10,000 hours.
Yeah, it's, it reminds me of YouTube videos.
People will use compelling headlines in their videos to get more views on all their content.
I mean, every, most YouTubers do that.
Like, what's the point?
Obviously, you're going to make great.
content, you don't want to, I mean, no matter how much integrity you claim to have in your own content,
you always want the most people to see it. Right. Exactly. You want it to be marketable to some
extent. Let me tell you something. So I haven't talked about this too much publicly, but one of the
reasons that I stopped publishing on coffee break, one of them, there's a few reasons. One of them
was I've gotten extremely jaded with the concept of online education on video. Sorry, I should
preface that online video education i don't think it's really that good i think it's actually terrible
video as a medium is a bad medium for education like true uh when i say true education i mean education
that's not that cannot be summarized in five minutes or 10 minutes or in a little podcast
i'm talking about education that is hierarchical like math for example math is a great example
because you can't just show up in a Cal class having not taken the prerequisites of algebra two, algebra one.
That's what I mean by hierarchical.
Right.
Video's not good for that.
Video, the primary form that it takes that it's, that it is economically viable at is entertainment.
So when you see a lot of these education creators, who's one of the biggest education creators?
Like Mark Rober.
He's not making, he's fundamentally an entertainer first.
The function of his videos always have to serve, it's a slave to entertainment first,
because otherwise no one's going to watch it and you lose the viewership.
If you just start really getting into exposition, which is where the real education happens,
by the way, and the real nuance happens, you lose all the viewers.
And so I was getting frustrated because I was taking these ideas that were increasingly complex.
As I just cared more about the ideas and getting to talking to experts,
you really quickly find that in any field worth looking into, it's going to be complicated.
And there's going to be experts who've all spent their whole lives studying this thing.
And there's going to be two of them that totally disagree.
They both think each other are idiots.
Right.
And to tell that story meaningfully, you have to give due to both sides.
You have to explain that maybe we don't know.
Maybe there isn't a way to summarize this very nicely.
But that comes at the cost of the viewer.
And if you want to make a real viral hitter on YouTube,
and which is the way to make education viable,
because you have to do sponsorships.
You have to do all those things to make your channel work,
and they're just looking at views.
You kind of have to simplify.
You have to cut things out.
You have to trim the script.
And so I was getting super frustrated with that.
And one of my friends who had been in the education game for a long time on YouTube,
he said, oh, yeah, you know, really you're trying to make
your audience feel smart. Not be smart. You're trying to make them feel smart. He goes,
an educational video is going to be great if it makes your, your audience is the type of people who
want to feel smart. And that's when I was like, all right, dude, I've got to, I've got to find some
other, if I'm in the, if I'm in the entertainment industry, that I'm just going to entertain,
but I'm not going to have the pretense of like trying to teach people something, if that's not
really what I'm able to do. Obviously, and of course,
There's limitations to this. It doesn't mean that no one's learning on video. But it means you
always have to entertain first if you want to be successful. And that's like a, that's a bitter pill to
swallow if you care about the actual topic and the material. Interesting. Well, how do you feel about that?
I'm not sure how I feel about that. I feel like you might disagree. It's fine. If you disagree,
tell me. No, I don't, I don't, I don't think I disagree. I think that it's, look, I mean, I think number one,
it's definitely better to have entertainment that has some sort of education tied to it rather than just,
you know, mind, been watching keeping up with the Kardashians. I'd rather watch a video essay or a
documentary. They're kind of the same thing, a documentary on Netflix or HBO that is fucking,
has great cinematography, has great storytelling, has,
dope music that goes along with it and makes me more compelled to watch it.
It makes something that I can sit down with my wife and eat popcorn and watch it and we both enjoy it.
That's not just like fucking sitting down reading textbooks.
So I think there's a huge benefit.
Middle ground.
You mean sort of a middle ground there?
Yeah, I think there's definitely a middle ground.
I mean, I don't know.
I think no, I think there is too.
And to be clear, in my videos, I never have really escaped the trying to educate people
to some extent. I'm still trying to educate people on marketing, shady marketing, bad actors,
you know, all these things. But I've accepted the fact that entertainment comes first.
And I think that was a hard pill to swallow because coffee break was my art project.
It was my like thing that I was really trying to be pure about. And when you're purely trying to
educate, that is a bitter pill to swallow. I agree with you that there's really meaningful work to be done.
on the margins of doing a bit of both.
And I think there are creators out there that are doing that.
They're funding themselves with things like Patreon.
They're funding themselves with other things.
But you find the more you go towards the education,
this is the bitter pill.
The more you go towards the like actually educational,
the less economical it gets.
True.
So that's kind of the bitter pill to swallow is that the people who are going to succeed
are not always the people doing the due diligence.
Or they're just the people.
people hyping up the entertainment and really lowering that actual meaningful.
And podcasts kind of found a weird podcast themselves kind of found their own weird little
crevice in between these two worlds, right?
Like it's not necessarily educational.
It's just people, you know, vomiting thoughts back and forth, right?
And, you know, discussing different ideas or whatever or, you know, having someone like you
on as a guest. Like some people that are watching my YouTube channel may not know who you are. Now they do
and they can, you know, compare our ideas that we're bouncing back and forth between each other
and decide they agree with something or they don't agree with anything. I mean, podcasts, I think
it's what's cool about them is they inspire a little bit more thinking. I think the benefit they have
is they're primarily audio and people have a greater, for whatever reason, long form just works better.
it just does. And whenever you have long form, you can expound on ideas. You can go farther, go deeper. That is one of the great sort of crimes of YouTube is that people's attention span on the platform is so short. So actually you brought up Netflix. I think Netflix actually has a different market on attention because you don't go to Netflix. Your idea of Netflix isn't to go there and watch a five-minute clip. That's people's ideas on YouTube. They want to watch a five-minute clip. And I'm talking in generalities because obviously they're exceptions to this.
people make five-hour documentaries on YouTube. And sometimes they find success. But when people come to
YouTube, most people's attention span is like eight minutes, nine minutes, maybe 10 minutes if you're
really pumping them, right? Right. Because the entire time, even the way YouTube is set up is to make
you ADD. Like it's like your video, but then there's other things on the side. So even your viewing
experience or like people will be scrolling through comments, you're not even getting a true
viewing experience. When you put on Netflix, they're not showing you as you're watching the show,
other shows you could be watching.
Whereas like YouTube, they're constantly hitting you with like,
hey, have you want to watch this?
Maybe this is boring.
You want to click off?
Hey,
you want to interact with the comments?
Hey,
you want to do it?
It's like this 80D experience that you're not actually zoning in, tuning in completely.
And that's another thing that just hurts that educational quality because in education,
you need that.
You need people really tune in.
So that's one of the benefits of podcasts.
When you're listening to a podcast, a lot of people listen on their way to work.
They have nothing else to do.
They're tracked in.
with what you're saying. And so there's a much larger time frame you have to talk about ideas,
tell ideas. So, yeah, no, I think podcast is a different game. I'm not necessarily talking about
that when I talk about my own cynicism. I'm talking specifically about my experience on this platform.
And some people may disagree. I'd love to, I'd love to hear what people think of that,
because that's my own pet theory that I've been working on for a while, mostly taken from Neil Postman,
amusing ourselves to death. He's a sociologist from like the 1900s, and he really influenced me.
He's got these three commandments of television that I think are totally true in the modern age.
What are those three commandments?
Yeah, I'm trying to remember them on the fly, but basically one is knowledge can never be hierarchical.
You can never ask a viewer to come in with knowledge.
The only like TV never does that.
Neither does YouTube. You never watch a YouTube video and they go, hey, if you haven't watched the first 10 episodes,
unless it's serialized like a drama.
You're never going to watch an educational video that says,
hey, guys, we're going to have to stop you at the door if you haven't seen this.
Everything's built for beginners.
And whenever everything's built for beginners, it's never going to go that deep.
The other side of it is avoid ex.
He words it like a commandant.
He goes, thou shalt avoid exposition like the plague,
which is as soon as you turn into nuance, people turn off.
That's just not the way video works.
Video is not great at long winding ideas.
books are great at that. Podcasts are actually pretty good at it. Video is not. When you think about
video, when somebody starts just rambling on, hey, I'm out. I got to, because it's, it's stimulus,
you know, I've got to be stimulated. I want to watch a car blow up. I want to watch something. I want
to watch something happen. But when you're just talking to me, when you're just expounding one
idea forever, it gets boring. And so you, you see people compress ideas in video because of that.
And then I'm trying to remember the last one.
I think it's something to do with you should,
thou shalt avoid confusion or something like that.
Basically, all ideas must be simplified to a single point.
Everything must be kernels, takeaways.
There has to be the one sentence summary.
And so he's talking about, he was talking about education on TV, by the way.
So he's talking about that.
But if you think about, you know, a lot of these shows,
they end up any kind of TED talk you have.
They're always trying to give you one idea.
That's what communicators do by nature,
but especially science communicators.
They want to hit you with that one little factoid.
Oh, you know, something about Mars, how far we are from Mars,
or hey, this is the rule.
This is the blah, blah, blah.
This is the secret.
And in reality, that's not teaching you that much.
That's giving you a little party tidbit.
But should education be more than that?
And so those are his,
Three roles, but if you want to go read the book, I would.
That sounds interesting.
I think, yeah, I think education should be like that, but I don't think that's, I mean,
I don't know whose responsibility that is, but I think it's a cultural thing.
And I don't know what, I don't know what has created that.
Although I'm sure it's multiple things.
But for an example, going back to YouTube titles, YouTube headlines, I think the most
popular headlines are exactly what you said. They're just like boiled down versions of a one hour
conversation into like a few words, a few words that just grab you by the throat and really drag
you in because you kind of have to have like again, with the way our culture is and with the way
YouTube culture, you know, YouTube's algorithm works. You kind of have to have that bait and switch.
Everybody's looking for that bait and switch. Unless you're Joe Rogan, then you just make the title
of your video, your guest's name.
Yes. Okay. So actually, so he, first of all, he's a legend for that.
The ball is required to just like not even, well, I think it's partially because
his success never required him to really adapt to like grabby titles. But anyways,
I'll say this about YouTube. Like, this is my biggest hate and why I think education is
sort of dying on YouTube. The other factor is, okay, how do I explain this?
there is no reputation on YouTube, which drives me crazy.
So how did the New York Times have the luxury to kind of build a reputation?
Well, it's because reputation matter.
Everyone kind of knows the New York Times, maybe less now, but as a reputable newspaper.
You have reputation there.
And reputation allows you to sink cost into quality, knowing that it'll pay off in the future, right?
So YouTube, to some extent, that was captured in subscribers.
You could build a reputation because, hey, I'm getting you, you're subscribing to my content
so I know that if I publish something that's maybe a little off the wall, maybe not as grabby,
maybe not as clickbaity, I know my audience will still be there because you guys have signed up to my newspaper.
You've got, my reputation matters to you.
And so it'll surface in the algorithm.
Well, what YouTube has done is they've really distanced themselves from subscribers.
it's largely a vanity number.
It still means something,
but it's largely a vanity number.
You'll see channels with millions of subscribers
who get 10,000 views in a video.
And you're thinking, how does that happen?
Well, how it happens is YouTube is now deciding for the viewer
that they're not interested in a show,
even if they've already subscribed to it
because they didn't click on the last video.
And so they won't show you this video.
Right.
Or they're saying, hey, your normal fans,
they're not clicking on this video as much.
So we'll, we're going to test it out.
We'll test it out with 10% of your audience.
And if they don't click on the video at like a high click-through rate,
then we're not even going to show it to the rest of your fans,
who have all agreed that they want to see your stuff.
And so what does this do?
It incentivizes that it tells the creator
that every video has to still be grabbing.
You can never graduate from People magazine
where you're trying to grab people's attention
because you're forever in competition for their attention.
Because if you don't, if every video doesn't hit like that, then you're sacrificing your long-term growth.
Where if there was reputation involved, you could build sort of that more qualified reputation of, you know, you guys know me.
And you wouldn't have to do that.
Now, as you pointed out, rightfully, there are still a few creators who get away with this, who still can build that reputation.
If you're big enough, you don't have to play by everyone else's rules.
But if you're a normal creator on YouTube, if you're not playing the clickbait game,
if you're not playing the over the top titles, you're going to lose.
And it's sad that we're doing that.
Like it's sad that the whole platform is having to bend to these new incentives.
And it's like, how do we build a video platform where you can grow that trust with your audience
and know that your audience will be there because you've made quality things in the
they'll trust you enough to show it to your subscribers now.
I don't know.
I don't know the answer to that.
But that I think is part of it.
Yeah, it's a sad evolution of YouTube and how it's changed because of the growth.
I mean, I'm sure there's things that we don't know about like, you know,
what's happened with the way the company's grown and the billions of hours of content
that are uploaded every day.
I'm sure there's things that they have to do to keep their shareholders happy that, you know,
includes this kind of suppression of content that makes people have to run this rat race of clickbait,
this clickbait rat race.
Yeah.
No, I mean, there's definitely a side to it.
Ultimately, they're just optimizing for long-term audience retention.
But what they're not optimizing for is long-term creator freedom and creator satisfaction.
So, right, they're like in, they want to make sure they retain you as long as possible on the site.
But they don't realize, and there's not really a great metric to do it, as far as I'm aware, to measure, okay, how does this affect creators now that we really don't show their videos to everyone anymore? We only show them to the like 5% who clicked it last time. And you're left in this like spinning wheel of having to clickbait. How does that change? How does that change their content? Every piece of the algorithm is like an evolutionary pressure on the ecosystem. And your creators will change.
what they're making based on an algorithm change.
We saw this with, as they valued watch time,
videos got longer.
Now, it used to be,
you'd see a video of a person, you know, saying,
I jump off a giant cliff,
and it's them jumping off the giant cliff.
Now, if you go to YouTube 2020,
they'll say, hey, watch me jump off this cliff.
They'll jump off, they'll freeze frame.
Let me show you how I got here.
And then it's 10 minutes of stupid, pointless exposition.
And it's like, you'd think about,
why is this here?
Why is this all this filler here?
Why are just so many videos are just pointless filler?
Well, it's because the evolutionary pressures of the platform.
They've said, we want more content.
So creators go, well, I'll find a way to fit it in there.
I'll bait you, and then I'll put eight minutes of filler
and didn't actually give you what I baited you with at the beginning.
So that's what happens is YouTube, I think they're probably aware,
but I think they could become a lot more aware of how are they affecting the creators on the platform?
And long term, is this going to make YouTube a place where you don't feel like you can find
the quality creators anymore because they've stopped creating or they've really kind of sold out to
the clickbaited uh you know overhyped content yeah isn't it weird how something like that like
just a little change in a youtube algorithm can just affect the way that kids think in general like
the culture of people in a under the age of 30 like a change in a youtube algorithm can change
the way a huge portion of this population thinks and acts in any sense. It's so it's insane to
have that much power. Yeah, because they're creating the world in which we can have dialogue
and the incentives shape how big your megaphone is. And when everyone's trying to get the
biggest megaphone to share their ideas, whatever game you're going to tell me to play,
a lot of people are willing to play it, you know? And so, yeah, it's,
whatever they're like incentivizing creators to do,
they don't even have to say it because creators will just find out,
they'll find out the way to play the game and then they'll tell all their friends
and everyone will start to play it.
And you just see like the same recycled behavior.
Okay.
So going back to the coffee break videos you're making the long form video essays,
what did you transition to?
So what kind of content are you making?
now and why do you like that better? Oh, sure. So I was, yeah, I was making coffee break videos
and I had started this second channel called Coffeezilla. You could tell I have an
addiction to caffeine related things. And yes, you'd be right. So, but the focus of that channel
was kind of miscellaneous. It's where I threw up stuff. And then I started talking about these
scammers that I would see. I was just kind of pissed off about it. I was like, enough is enough.
Someone's got to call out these people because it's a bunch of yes men in the market.
It's a bunch of yes, oh, nobody's going to say anything bad about anyone else. And so I was like,
this is ridiculous. This marketing game has gotten out of hand. Everyone's promising that they're going to
make you rich. I know it's all a lie. Everyone's saying they're a 22 year old millionaire.
Oh, wait, no, now I'm a multi-millionaire. By the time I'm 22, they all have Lamborghinis
that are rented. They all have houses that are rented. It's a big joke. So I said,
enough is enough, guys. Let's call this out. So I started to do it on YouTube. No one really was doing it at the time.
And it kind of blew up. People said, I resonate with this. I was a victim of such and
such scam. And so I just found it. It was a place in the culture. It's a time in the culture
where calling this stuff out felt really meaningful, felt like I was doing kind of a public
service. And so I kind of went that way for a while. And now I'm doing more beat reporting,
which is different from what I was doing like sort of mini documentaries where you try to
summarize a big idea. And what I like about beat reporting, why I love doing it is because
I'm taking small chunks of a big topic and I'm telling them,
like almost every day.
But eventually you can cover a lot more ground on a topic.
So I don't cover nearly as much information in a coffee zillow video as I cover in a
coffee break video.
But over time, I have really explored this industry, which I would have never been able
to do in just one video on coffee break.
So that's the benefit of beat reporting is you really get to understand an industry.
You get to understand what's going on.
And I've really enjoyed it.
And it just so happens that it also aligns better with the YouTube algorithm of like having some momentum on your channel, not just uploading every month.
But I also just enjoy the way it works.
Yeah, it's cool too because things change, right?
Because things change, facts change.
Shit people do changes every day in the daily news cycle.
And if you'd make one long, if you spend a month working on some shit, it can change the day you release it.
And then all of a sudden you have some outdated shit in your documentary when if you do reporting every single.
day. Yes, yes. And if you've ever tried to summarize a big idea, you know the problem, which is
you're usually pressured to summarize it in like one or two, three ideas, but there may be
20 amazing things about that industry you want to talk about, and you just can't. And so you just
end up cutting a lot of it out. When you do more of a sort of beat reporting job, you can take an
episode to talk about this, then you can take an episode to talk about that, and you take an episode.
You just have that time to really flesh out an idea. And that's what's happened with gurus.
We've covered now the, like, webinars. We've covered the, uh, the, the, uh, the, the, um, the,
the lying in their advertising.
We've debated some of these gurus live.
We've talked to their victims.
We've talked to,
you know,
we've talked about the different industries they occupy.
We've talked about health.
We talk about wealth.
We haven't gotten too much into the relationship gurus,
but they're kind of their own hilarious little niche.
But we've really kind of seen this industry for what it is.
And what it is is a way for people to make money off the backs of desperate people.
So fundamentally,
my contention is that these guys, and for those viewers who don't know what I'm talking about,
I don't know if you've seen Ty Lopez. He's not kind of the...
Yeah, I know who Tai Lopez is. He was like, Ty Lopez was kind of like the innovator of this
guru industry, like the fake gurus. He was like the originator of this weird little
slimy market. But it all goes back actually further back to the infomercial days,
but he brought sort of the infomercial to YouTube. And that was like the first
really way to do that. And basically what he sold was health, wealth, happiness, a course for that
saying, I'm going to, you know, make you, you're like, you were miserable before, but I'll make you
happy. I'll make you, you're poor before, but I'll make you rich for, I don't know, like 70 bucks.
Nowadays, people have really innovated on that. Now they're selling $2,000 courses for all how to make,
how to get rich. And why I call it predatory is because the people who end up buying these courses
are people who are broke, are people who are dead.
desperate because the marketing is so over the top, if you watch it and you have a job,
you'll never believe it. Like, like it's so scummy. It's so scummy. They're like, yeah, dude,
I'm just going to make, I was broke, but then I just became rich using this one secret and buy it
for two thousand. And you're like, who would ever buy this? Well, when you're desperate,
when you have no job, all those promises, which sound crazy if your life is stable,
suddenly sound just good. You don't hear too good to be true. You just hear good. You just hear good.
That's an opportunity.
McDonald's, you know, I could work at McDonald's for the rest of my life,
or I can risk $2,000 and, you know, go take this guy's course.
And he says I'm going to make him six figures in six months.
There's a weird thing, too.
I think it really captures not only desperate people, but I think young people.
I remember when I was really young.
I think I was like maybe 17 or 18.
I got sucked into this pyramid scheme.
Remember what it was called?
Yeah, it was called Talk Fusion.
It was like this email, this email video marketing thing where if you use it, you can send videos inside of emails.
And it's the most innovative cutting edge piece of technology, especially for marketing your business.
And if you sell this marketing thing to this marketing tool to your friends, you can then make, you know,
ex, earn exponential sales revenue or commission on it.
Right.
And I was like, I was so excited.
about it.
I was,
because I,
this is my first introduction
to what a pyramid scheme was
or,
uh,
I think it was called an MLM,
multi-level marketing thing.
Oh yeah.
And I was like,
I was thinking about it all day,
every day.
I couldn't even sleep at night because I was thinking about,
like all the cool shit I was going to do.
I'm like,
I know how to do video better than anybody.
I'm like 18 at the time.
And I was like,
all these old people doing it.
I'm going to blow them out of the water.
I know I could do cool stuff.
I know how to use Photoshop.
And I was just,
I was so sucked into,
sucked into it and I thought it was so cool. I had never, you know, owned my own business at that
point. I had never. You got sucked into the get rich like opportunity mentality. Yes. Which is what all
these guys get sucked into. And it's because sort of if you haven't been scammed once,
it's sort of you're not inoculated to the disease sort of thing. Like, it's like you haven't gotten
chicken pox or something. You're just, you're just don't, your body doesn't know what it is.
Your mind doesn't know what it is. So when you're hearing these guys go through the same pitch,
that all of them use. It's sort of the same formula repeats over and over and over. You don't recognize
it. And so you kind of fall to just believing it. You just default to like, oh, yeah, why would this guy lie to me?
Of course, it's this amazing opportunity. And then you end up buying in and ultimately you realize,
wait, this isn't nearly as easy as they made it sound. They made it sound like everybody could
get rich together and da-da-da-da-da. And of course, that isn't true. And the only people who
really get rich are people who scammed enough people. And then they get rich, but then everyone else
Liz's money. So, yeah, it's an unfortunate system. But that's exactly what's going on with these
gurus as well, as they're saying, hey, I'm going to make you rich on Amazon. Well, of course, the reality is,
is Jeff Bezos does not make anyone rich for free. That's just, I mean, think about it for two seconds.
The guy's one of the most ruthless business owners of all time. You think he's going to make you
rich overnight. But they make it sound like such an easy thing that people end up paying them $2,000
to get rich quick. And now,
What these guys do is they take the money from the course that they're selling on how to get rich on Amazon.
They say, look how rich I am from Amazon.
And it's like, wait, no, no, no, you didn't make the money from Amazon.
You made the money from selling get rich on Amazon, which is a totally different thing.
And they're flashing the car, they're flashing the house.
And they're making it sound like you can get this if you sell on Amazon.
Well, maybe if you're one of the best third party sellers of all time, but you're going to be in the 0.1% of society.
But most people are going to fail.
You know, I did the math because Amazon FBA is really big right now.
Now, fulfillment by Amazon is what that means.
They're people who basically, they take products from China,
they sell them on Amazon for a markup.
That's simplifying it a little bit.
But people say, oh, it's such a good opportunity.
Well, I ran the numbers.
According to third-party data from Amazon themselves,
about 8% of people that are selling on Amazon,
make a fry cook's income.
8% on Amazon even make what a fry cook makes.
So these people saying, oh, yeah, it's the best opportunity ever.
Oh, you're going to make so much money.
Hey, you could work at McDonald's and make more than 92% of them.
Are you joking?
That's not a great opportunity, right?
Like even just saying it, it sounds ridiculous.
And even a smaller percent make, you know, $60,000 a year.
And then it's like 1% makes a,
a really good income, like 1% of all third-party sellers.
But you're telling young kids that they're just going to jump in.
They don't even have a work ethic.
They're going to jump in Amazon, but thanks to your magical secrets, they're going to make tons of money.
No, it's not going to happen.
Yeah, it's super predatory.
It's super, super predatory.
It's so predatory.
These people are told to take out credit cards.
Take out a loan for this course.
And it's like, so now they're less than zero.
They were at zero.
Now they're at below zero because you sold them on this crazy idea.
and it's not just Amazon FBA.
It's they create a new opportunity every month.
It's like Forex, you know, day trading.
Oh, man, the new secret is drop shipping.
The new secret is Amazon automation.
The new secret is it's all a bunch of new secrets.
But they all run the same business model,
which is really they're making money from the course.
They're not actually doing the thing.
And these guys also spend a shitload of money on,
so, I mean, correct me if I'm wrong.
on ads.
These guys spend a shitlet of money on Google ads, right?
So pre-roll commercials that are on YouTube.
Correct.
And I noticed watching a bunch of your videos
that these guys have their commercials
in front of your videos that are calling out fake gurus.
Oh, it's hilarious.
Like there was one guy, I got one guy.
I got his commercial like three times.
It's the guy.
I don't know what his name is,
but he's sitting there in front of his computer
and in his office he's got like a Lamborghini or a Ferrari behind him
with lights shining down on it.
Because that's normal, right?
you put your Ferrari with your computer. Yeah, yeah. Right. Anyways. No, it's no, it's ridiculous.
It's my favorite thing about my channel is that if you didn't think it was a big deal before,
you will understand that it's everywhere because as soon as you start watching my videos,
you'll see what I'm talking about. It's like really funny. I don't think there's ever been
such a perfect like they're proving my point as when they run ads on my videos. It's,
and it's only because the algorithm's bad and it doesn't see that I'm bashing these people.
And so it just sees the keywords and it just automatically puts me in there like,
ad category, I guess. But they spend a bunch of money on my show trying to advertise on it
just automatically and nobody's converting because nobody wants to buy it because they're getting
seeing these people get caught out. So it's hilarious. So hopefully I'm driving up their cost for
acquisition. Yeah, you definitely are. I think you are for sure. So who are some of the biggest
fake gurus that you've uncovered? I think probably Dan Lock's the biggest.
Dan Lock's the one that I don't know anything about.
Sure.
I did some looking into him.
I know that he has some sort of a pyramid scheme set up with people that are underneath him,
that are trying to sell his stuff.
Is that right?
Sort of.
So a lot of these guys do affiliate.
It's not quite a pyramid scheme, but it's close.
Where basically what they say is, hey, okay, you're going to, you take my course.
and then you sell my course to your friends,
and then you make a commission off that.
But it doesn't go any level deeper than that.
Because if your friends sell a course,
you don't then get money.
That would make it a pyramid scheme.
If it is if it like flowed all the way up.
But it's really just a one line.
It just like you make a kickback on what you sell to other people.
Just like a sales commission kind of.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But it is funny.
Yeah,
because these guys who are supposed to be trained to become high ticket closers,
become high ticket closers for high ticket closer.
And it's like this big loop of like,
you're selling the product and then those people are trained to sell the product. And it's like,
wait, what are you actually selling besides the product? Like, what are you really doing?
But Dan Locke, no, he's this, he's this Asian gentleman from Canada. And he's built this huge
following off the idea that he's the boss in the Bentley. That's what he calls himself. And he's
the high ticket closer. He teaches people how to sell high ticket items, right? But the thing is,
is he takes anybody. So he'll take a kid off the street and supposedly he's training them to be a high
ticket closer. But I've talked to these guys on the phone. They're like, yeah, I completed the course. I've never
sold anything in my life. Not only have I not sold a high ticket thing, I've never sold anything at
all. And you're calling me, you're just calling me a high ticket closer. I've never sold anything.
These people are not salesmen. And if you've done an ounce of selling, what you know is that sales books
cannot really take you that far. They're great to read. But then you, it's like basketball. It's like, hey,
how much you're going to read about technique?
The way to get good is by doing the thing, right?
And so the real way to sell is by doing the thing.
But he's sort of famous for really spending millions and millions of dollars on ads,
getting so many people involved.
And then the big thing was the upsells.
So it wasn't just about the $2,000 course.
It was about, hey, once you're done with the $2,000 one,
really the way to become a high ticket closer.
Mind you, nobody has sold anything yet,
is to go join the inner circle.
Okay, what's the end of the end of the?
Well, that's more money. Okay, go spend more money on Dan's inner circle. All right, but once you go to Dan's inner circle, now you got to go to the closures and black event. Okay, you go to closures and black event. Spend a few thousand dollars on that. Now, at closures in black, it's a big sales pitch for a high ticket millionaire. Now what's high ticket millionaire? Well, you still haven't sold a course, but now you can spend even more money. And now we're talking about tens of thousands of dollars on this high ticket millionaire thing. And what people told me who were in this thing in this sales pitch,
was people were running to the back to swipe their credit cards.
People were crying that their credit cards had been declined
because it had been racked up with so much spend on Dan Lock stuff.
And this guy goes, the famous thing is from one of my, you know, victim testimonials is
if I could sell my soul to take this course, I would.
I would do anything to take this course.
You know, can someone give me a loan?
I'll pay it back.
And these people are already mountains in debt.
they went to Dan in the first place because a lot of them are desperate.
And it's like this, so, so that's really where you go from predatory to even something almost
worse than that because you have these people basically ruining what they had left of a life.
They already were struggling to find their footing.
They ruined what left they had of that because now they're in debt.
They're not selling.
And then Dan instills them this idea that like, well, maybe the reason you're not selling is because
you don't believe enough in the product.
Maybe you need to take this other class.
Maybe you need to do this other thing, right?
And it's this really vicious cycle.
People have gotten, you know, $50,000 in debt.
Or they spent $50,000.
It's just crazy.
It sounds a lot like Scientology.
Well, that's the thing.
It's very, it's very like cult-like and religious.
The people from it called it.
Both people I talked to called it a cult.
The guy has them, everyone call him Cifu.
He calls it a family, the high-ticket closer family, the H-GC family.
He has them call each other brothers and sisters.
He says if your family's not supportive, you know, maybe, maybe don't talk to your family,
you know, like what is your family doing?
They don't want you to succeed.
Hey, we're your real family.
We're the high ticket closure family.
We're your brothers and sisters.
It's a very cult-like.
You're supposed to listen to these meditations in his course, like every morning and every night
of Dan Locke talking to you, like of affirmations and you're supposed to like, it's crazy.
It's absolutely crazy.
And so, yeah, that's one of the worst things that I've seen so far.
But now he specifically teaches like how to be good at selling like the like like like I mean because sales is all about most people who do sales are all into psychology and and all kinds of weird things like, you know, building the ways to build rapport with people to make them like you and want to want what you have to offer. Right. So is that what he's teaching? Yeah, but that's not even really what he's good at. He's mostly a copywriter. I mean, this is again all. My.
opinion. I'm just going to say because Dan Locke sent me cease and desist letters before for saying what I'm
saying. So let me reiterate. This is my opinion. Oh yeah. I've got one right over there. Actually,
it packed it up. But yeah, I could have gotten it for you. If I know we were going to talk about this,
I would have shown it to you. Yeah, they're like, shut up at my door and they're like, hey,
this is from Dan Locke, you know, da-da-da. And the letter was like, you can't talk about this.
We're going to sue you, yada, yada, yada, yada. But I don't know. They can't intimidate me.
So it's ridiculous.
I mean,
I mean,
it's ridiculous.
And that's how I know
that I'm getting through to people
is because the fact that they're wanting to intimidate me with lawsuit threats,
why would you do that to somebody who's not affecting your bottom line?
If you had such a pristine course,
no one would be leaving just because some guy started criticizing you a little bit.
Yeah.
No,
that's,
something I noticed when Graham Stephan came down here.
I was doing this,
like,
little documentary series about a real estate,
investor. And, you know, it was kind of like what you were doing with coffee break. It was more of
like an art project where I put a lot of time into creating these cool, like cinematic videos that
told a story. It was like its own little like business comedy documentary type thing I was doing.
And it became the most popular thing on my channel because it was probably 80% just entertainment
and a little bit of education sprinkled in there. And I just had this outpouring of people.
that were emailing me and messaging me, you know, all day, every day of like these, like, it was
always the same thing. It was always people who had not made it and they were, they were super motivated
to make it. And like their profile pictures was them wearing a suit and tie, you know, and they're an
up-and-coming realtor or they're up-and-coming real estate agent. And, you know, they want, oh, please,
just introduce me to this guy. Please, what can I do to meet this guy? And,
You know, they weren't seeing what I was seeing.
You know, they have this perspective.
There's a huge group of people online that have a perspective of rich people,
a false perspective of rich people.
And I noticed that when Graham Stephan came down here, he was on this show.
And, you know, he was like a real estate agent slash investor.
And I expected him to be this, you know, hot shot real estate guy who made all his money in real estate.
And he also made these videos out of the kind of.
I mean, I had this perspective that he was this big investor who just through the kindness of his heart wanted to share his knowledge with the rest of the world.
Okay.
Right.
So, I mean, that's how he positions himself, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
And when he came here, I realized that's not, I mean, he said it himself.
He's like, that's not true.
He's like, I make most of my money on YouTube.
He's like, I make all my money through ads from my YouTube revenue.
Sure.
So I was like, they kind of like sent my mind through a loop and I was like, okay, people watch you because they want to learn how to, I mean, don't get me wrong. He has a lot of videos that will teach you a lot of valuable things about finance and how to use credit cards, how to build your credit, et cetera. And I think there's a line that you have to dance when you are positioning yourself as an expert in a certain field. Really what you're doing is just.
earning money from the entertainment that you're putting out by positioning yourself as this
wealthy person. Correct. A lot of self-development is just about making money through the show,
the glitz, the glam. Honestly, I have so many problems with the current state of self-help,
self-development, and then mostly this coach or mentor culture we've created.
and people don't realize that the reason everyone's talking about you need a mentor, you need a mentor, you need a mentor, you need a mentor, is because they want to be your mentor. Like how hilarious is that. It's like a piano teacher saying, hey, you really need a piano teacher. It's like, all right, well, of course you're going to say that. You're trying to sell yourself to me. But I think it's done this real disservice for young people trying to make their way in. They've never experienced any success so they don't know how to get it. And it's just kind of this, like, magical thing to them. And you have a bunch of quote, quote,
successful people saying how you become successful is you get a mentor and you copy them.
Okay.
Let's be totally clear.
That is not how you get successful.
They say like Kobe Bryant had a mentor, right?
Kobe Bryant had a mentor.
Hey, Kobe Bryant, the reason he's successful is not because his coach was so great.
Sure, he might have had a good coach.
The reason he became successful is because he put in hard work.
A lot of these kids, they don't put in the work.
They don't just go do the thing.
That's the secret.
is that there's no secret. It's like losing weight. Everyone's trying to sell you a book that tells you
it's not your fault you haven't lost weight before. It is your fault you haven't lost weight before.
You didn't have the discipline to do it. Like everyone knows how to lose weight. No one loses weight because
we don't have the discipline to do it. But rather than say that, that doesn't get any sales because
how are you going to sell discipline when it's something that you have to kind of like,
that's an internal thing. So they don't sell discipline. What they sell is it's not your fault you
haven't succeeded. You just don't have the right coach. You've had the wrong coaches this entire time.
And what it does is not only do those people make a lot of money, they cripple their, quote,
people that they're supposed to be helping who are wondering, how do you succeed?
And they're telling them the only way you succeed is with coaches.
No, the way you succeed is by getting off this cycle of feeling like you need someone to help you.
Someone's going to come and take your hand to success.
It's not happening.
That's not what's going to happen.
You're going to have to find a way to be successful through grit, perseverance, and hard work.
And yes, there's going to be a little education sprinkled in there.
But the amount of education versus like just application and like basically putting in elbow grease, it's 99%.
You know, 99% hard work.
1% maybe you were inspired by Graham Stephan or any of the Tony Robbins, any of these guys, you know, these self-help guys.
That's really what it is.
Maybe I shouldn't label Graham Stefan a self-help guy, but like these inspirational guys or these coaches or.
whatever. I think Tony Robbins fits into this category. I have mixed feelings on Tony Robbins.
Yeah, same here. I really like, I've read a bunch of his books. I really like what he does. I don't think
he's one of these people that are spending tons of money on on Google ads and Facebook ads trying to sell
courses. I mean, listen, he's, he is a guru, like he is this guru type person. I mean, he,
I think he charges like millions of dollars to like really rich people to coach them on things, right?
Yeah, listen, listen, let me say that there is a place for coaches.
It's just that the place is not really at the beginning of your trying something out.
Like, that's the funny thing is most people, when they look for the most help,
is like at the very beginning.
They go, hey, I just had some guys who you talked to me recently.
How do I start a YouTube channel?
Well, there's no really magical solution.
You start it.
And you try a bunch of things.
No one can tell you what your genre is going to be.
no one's going to tell you, be able to tell you your voice.
Where a coach actually comes in handy, in my opinion,
is when you get to an elite level,
is when you want to min-max that optimize that 10%,
when you want to go to the next level and you just need help
because you're putting in all the hours,
but basically you don't have a way to see from a third party
and see it sort of unbiasedly, like what your actual business model is,
and you just need help going to the next level.
I think coaches can be great for that.
I think there's a real value to coaches.
But everyone's a beginner's coach.
Why?
Everyone's taking you from zero to one because that's where the money is.
Because there's the most beginners.
There's very few people who need to go to that next level as an expert.
And so that's why all of that stuff is high ticket.
But the new beginner thing is you charge high ticket for selling to millions of beginners.
And it's like, wait, it's not worth to a beginner who doesn't know anything about Amazon,
$2,500 to learn how to set up a store.
or do basic product research or set up or how to buy from Alibaba.
Like these are all things that are available online for free.
And if the person's not willing to put in that basic work to go find that out,
they're probably not cut out for Amazon in the first place.
Right.
I've noticed that when you're talking about YouTube,
people asking you, how do I start a YouTube channel?
That's another thing is people want to be,
they want to be experts before they start something.
Like they want something to be perfect.
Like I've had someone come to me and say,
hey, I want to start a podcast or whatever.
What do, can you send me an equipment list, please?
Please send me my cameras and my microphones that I need.
Like I know I need at least $10,000 to start this thing.
And I'm like, dude, no, you need an iPhone.
That's it, really.
Well, and you need, you need a personality.
Like you're missing the big things, which is like you need work.
You need time in to know even what you're doing.
You can have beautiful audio quality.
You can have beautiful video quality and no one will watch you because you do not have the skill to be a podcaster.
You need to develop that basic foundation of work.
And I think part of the problem is,
is everyone goes through this school system
that encourages dependence and like spoon-fed answers.
And you're just taught, oh, this is the answer of the test.
There's one answer and your teacher's going to tell it to you.
That's not the way the real world works.
There is no one answer for sure.
And no one's going to feed it to you.
If there was an easy answer, everyone would be successful.
You know who has a really podcast with really good quality and really good camera angles is that guy Brian Rose.
And I noticed you've done a shitload of videos on that guy.
I'll tell you what, when I first watched your first video about that yesterday, I had no idea.
No clue.
Those people don't.
So give me, just for setup sake, give me like a brief background on how you got interested in this guy.
Sure. So Brian Rose had a video that was taken off YouTube.
So he is, for people that don't know who he is, he is the guy who has the YouTube channel called London Real.
Yeah, he does a bunch of great interviews. I actually like quite a lot of his guests. And I don't think he's even a bad interviewer.
He has a lot of legit guests come in.
Yeah, oh, 100%. He's built up this real thing. But he had this thing that happened, you know, at the start of COVID. I don't know what it was. Maybe he's just an opportunist. I don't know. But he had one video die and he decides, okay, I'm going to do a crowdfunding.
thing and I want to make a freedom platform, right?
And you can tell you.
You say he had a video die?
Sorry, like YouTube took it down because it's basically saying COVID doesn't exist.
Okay, you're talking about the David Ike interview he did.
It was a David Ike interview.
David Ike's conspiracy theorist who believes in.
Yeah.
Who believes in reptilians.
Yeah, exactly.
And so YouTube's like, we're in the middle of a pandemic.
We can't allow this on the site.
I'm normally very much against deep platforming.
that was one of those edge cases where I was like, this guy's literally saying,
don't worry about COVID, go outside, you're fine.
And it's like, this is not something to tell people when everyone's trying to pull together
and social distance.
But okay, everyone has their opinions.
But what Brian Rose decides to do is he decides to crowd fund.
So he starts one goal and it's like $100,000 from his audience.
And he realizes he reaches it in like less than 24 hours.
What?
So then he creates a stretch goal.
And he goes, hey, I'm going to crowd fund a little bit more.
Oh, $500,000.
And he basically said, look, we're not going to create.
crowd fund any more than this. This is it. $500,000. That's it. Hey. And then we're done. We're going to only
fundraise for a very short time until the live stream. We just happen to raise a little bit more,
but then we're done. So it raises the 500,000. The next day a video comes up. Hey, we need more money,
guys. We need more. We need more. And he's rifting off of this idea of freedom. People love freedom.
People love free speech. I love free speech. But then he says, give me money to protect your free
speech. So then people pay him even more money. He gets a million dollars from his followers,
all from his followers.
And I started to look at the fine print.
And he'd make all these claims,
like this is a free platform, you know, for the people.
But when you look at what the conditions are,
the freedom platform allows anyone on the platform
that Brian Rose allows on the platform.
And lets Brian Rose at any time delete things off the freedom platform
that do not conform to his community guidelines.
Now, tell me that that's not exactly what YouTube did to him.
So he gets mad because YouTube kicks him off.
for community guidelines, like violation says, this is unfair. This is against, uh,
this is against whatever, freedom. And then creates a freedom platform where he has community
guidelines and says you'll be taken off at my discretion. And I was like, oh, this is a huge
scam. Let me call this out. And as I'm calling it out, he starts rolling out even more stretch
goals. He goes, hey guys, we need not now. We've raised a million dollars, but that's not enough.
We need to raise even more. We need to raise $250,000 a month for the next 12 months.
So I saw, yeah, that's the same thing YouTube does.
I saw a video where he was claiming that he was banned from like Dropbox, Twitter, YouTube, Instagram, a whole slur of social media platforms.
Oh, yeah.
And then I went on YouTube and I saw his channel was posting videos every day.
Oh, yeah.
So he was just-
YouTube's banning me, banning my free speech, and he's saying it on YouTube.
It's hilarious.
And he's saying, no, it's all this big free speech grift where he's saying, oh, I'm so censored. I'm so da-da-da. But really, he's still playing by the rules on YouTube while trying to gin up all this controversy so that he can basically reap the rewards. It's super bad faith. And I caught him out on it. I said, look, you're lying to people. You said you were going to create your own platform. But really, the streaming service was not, it was third party. He was like hiring it out, but trying to disguise the fact that.
he was not actually using his own software.
He was talking about,
I'm hiring all these developers, all this stuff.
It's not true.
Like a lot of the things he was saying just were lies
and he was using it to raise money.
So I called him out.
I said, look, this guy's lying to you guys.
A lot of, he took a huge hit to his reputation for that
because, of course, he was lying.
And he never responded to me.
He never replied to any of the things there.
And then, you know, he's still continuing to do that.
It's unfortunate.
Because he was a good podcast.
What was the guy you were talking about who was his partner in the beginning, who he pissed off a bunch of people. Joey Diaz was ranting about him about for something he did.
Oh yeah. So his partner is this guy, Nick, and they started the podcast together. I can't get too into it because there's some things that like were just off the record. But basically Nick was a. Oh, do you talk to him?
Zuckerberg. I can't say. Okay. Which I guess maybe says too much. But, uh, yeah, yeah. It basically,
he got Zuckerberg from his own company by Brian. And there's just a bunch of shady things with
Brian and everyone that I've talked to about it, him. And a lot of people reached out. Let me say
that. Like past and current employees reached out to me. They said, this guy's psycho.
You've got to say more about this guy because he's the biggest narcissist I've ever met in my life.
The guy has a freaking painting of himself in one of his rooms. Like who does that? He has a painting
of himself a gigantic painting in his own office.
Like who, it's weird, dude.
Yeah, that's fucking weird.
That's a red flag.
If you walk into a room with somebody who has a painting of themselves on the wall,
that doesn't tell you to run the fuck out of that room,
then you deserve to be fucking scammed.
Maybe that's true.
Maybe you do.
Maybe that is like,
that needs to be your fucking icebreaker experience into getting scams.
So you can actually be enlightened to this world.
of fake gurus.
A lot of people it is.
I mean, a lot of people,
that is their icebreaker is
Brian Rose or somebody,
one of the millions of people just like him
who are just grifting a living
from basically poor people
who don't know any better,
who are just looking for that idol of success.
You know, one thing I've noticed
is that people who are successful,
they have people they like model themselves after,
but it's never one.
person and it's always very intelligently. It's not like they, most people I talk to that,
you know, have some business going, they're not saying, oh my gosh, you know, Jeff Bezos is the
only person I look up to and everything he says is correct. It's like they know they're intelligent
about it. They like, I like this guy for this. I take a little bit from here. They're inspired,
but they're not like worshiping these people. Whereas in this self-help space, they're building
these like people with all the answers. Oh, I've got all the answers. You. You're
You just have to be exactly like me and you'll experience the exact same level of success.
That's not how the business world works.
You can't go be Elon Musk and start Tesla today.
Tesla already exists.
You need to go do something else.
And there are going to be different rules in that new space that you design.
So I don't know.
I think it's really unfortunate that the incentives of this industry have actually created terrible business advice for people.
It's supposed to be a world that teaches you business.
It's like watching fake wrestling.
It's like this is not actually,
you're doing it so much for the attention and the clicks.
We're not actually getting real business advice anymore.
We're getting like a parody of it.
Yeah, it's like a weird little remora,
like a whole other organism that's kind of just evolved
as like a parasite that just sucks off what's really going on,
what people see.
I mean, people like to use.
There's certain people that you think of,
like Jeff Bezos or people like Steve Jobs or even people like Tony Robbins.
But if you look at most of them, by and large, like the billionaires of the world,
most of them, they don't chase money.
They're not chasing those ones and zeros, those dollars.
They're chasing bigger ideas or they're working on building something bigger than themselves.
Like building a brand that's big.
Like one of your video essays about Red Bull, Red Bull is not trying to just sell more.
I'm sure there's people in Red Bull that are focused on numbers and sales and accounting and whatever.
But the people that make Red Bull what it is are the ones that are focused on telling a story.
A hundred percent.
And that's the success of their marketing.
Is that focus, the difference in focus is what makes them such a strong brand.
is that they're not constantly shoving Red Bull down your face.
Instead, they sponsor some amazing BMX event,
and it just happens to have Red Bull on the side
because Red Bull sponsors it.
But it gets so many more clicks that way
because now you're just watching advertising as content,
which is so interesting.
Most people, they skip the ads.
In Red Bull, it's a Red Bull ad,
but you actually watch it because it's entertainment in of itself.
You have to stay in a certain lane,
as far as like, are you creating content and building a brand and trying to make valuable content
and shit with some sort of integrity or are you trying to sell shit?
And when you get too far on the side of I'm just trying to sell shit, the content that you're making is eventually going to suffer.
Same thing with advertising.
Same thing with making commercials.
and but however on the other side of things
what's to say
what's the difference between
letting Google
run 30 second commercials
sell 30 second commercials for some bullshit
just fucking you know guys selling a
an affiliate marketing scheme in front of your video
versus okay I'm going to sell my own
affiliate marketing scheme at the beginning of my video
or at the end of my video
as long as your content isn't about
what you're selling.
I mean, I think it's like the difference of like running a phone scam and using a phone
and sometimes you get called by these scammers.
It's like you're not, you have no participation in the actual scheme.
You know, like for example, you take my channel.
My ads are automated.
I can't control if Coca-Cola or Dan Locke advertises on my, on Medved.
I just have no control over that.
And to be honest, I am actively chopping off on the tree.
on the limb that I'm sort of sitting on.
It's like I make videos about fake gurus.
I'm trying to end the end it, not end it, but clean up the industry to the point where
you get laughed at if you make the same claims that these fake gurus are making now.
And so I have no problem if there comes to be a day where there's no fake guru ads.
I'm actively working towards that.
I want there to be, you know, honesty in marketing.
I want the price of these courses to come way down.
And I want them to stop targeting young people,
young, desperate, mostly men, to be honest.
So I think that has everything to do with that is like,
are you participating in the weird scheme,
or do you happen to live in a world where there are scams?
I think there's a mountain of difference between the two.
And I do think, you know, there's this lionization of making money.
People just think if you make money, you're automatically ethical or like,
not even ethical.
Ethics don't even come into the equation.
But you're doing good if you're making money.
you're successful if you're making money.
And I think it's just from our culture of like we're constantly consuming,
consuming money's kind of the scorecard.
It's unfortunate that that's where we've gotten because ethics is left in the dust.
It doesn't matter how honest your marketing is what matters to these people is at the end of
the day how many people bought.
And that's very sad to me because what they don't realize is that there are people at the
other end of these transactions.
It's not just the number.
You're not just making a bunch of money.
You're making the money from somewhere.
You're selling it to some poor school teacher who's putting their last dime in
going into debt because they think you're going to take them out of their situation.
And you're getting them more in debt.
You're selling it to some Malaysian kid who thinks this is their opportunity to become something.
And you're getting them in debt.
You're selling a Ponzi scheme to some kid in, it wasn't Norway.
I'm trying to give you a real example.
I think it was the Balkans who has no money.
Now they're in debt to this company, this like loan shark.
agency, which might end up breaking their legs. Like, there are people on the other ends of these
transactions. And when you lie to them and say it's easy to get rich, there is human cost to that.
I agree with you. And I agree with you to the point where you're saying success, you know,
there's a problem with how people define success, especially in the country as far as making money.
But isn't success define, I mean, how do you define success? Is it being happy?
Well, is it happy?
Couldn't you define happy as having enough money in your bank account to where you don't have to worry about paying your bills?
So I think.
No, no, no.
I don't think you could ever reduce happiness to that.
I also don't think money is not a part of the equation, but it's not the goal of the thing.
Like it's like saying, it'd be like saying this.
It's like saying, hey, most people want to be happy.
and money helps you not be,
money helps you not be sad for money problems.
Therefore, the goal of life is money.
It's like, whoa, wait, those things don't naturally follow.
If you want happiness, it doesn't mean you chase money.
It means that money helps you avoid some of the things that will make you unhappy.
But if you just reduce the equation to money, you've lost the plot.
And so what I'm saying is that by sort of making marketing and some of these,
these businesses only about money, they've lost the plot of really the purpose of creating something.
It's not just to make money.
It's to have an exchange of, to use an overloaded word, value where both parties benefit from
the transaction.
That is the way to be successful is you make a bunch of people happy and you can make
some money on the site.
There's nothing wrong with making money.
Right.
But a lot of these exchanges are one-sided exchanges where one person is losing and the other
person is winning.
That's another thing is that when you create something or when you create a product,
for example, that actually does provide that value, you no longer have to spend tons of money
on marketing because your product sells itself.
Word of mouth, people talk.
If I see something I really fucking like or if I watch a documentary I really fucking enjoy,
I'm going to tell all my friends about it.
Yeah.
And that way those people don't have to spend tons of money, you know, marketing their product
or trying to push some false narrative about their product to a certain group of people.
Absolutely. And even if they do spend money on advertising, I don't care. That's fine.
Advertising is not inherently bad. Where it becomes bad is in these market segments where there is,
where rationality leaves the equation and you get what I always call predatory advertising,
but maybe it's worth breaking down. Look, when you talk about health, it's the easiest way to see it here,
the health industry. You know, let's say I have cancer. And let's say,
the doctor comes to me and says, hey, it's inoperable, nothing to do about it.
But then you come down, you're some slick salesman, and you see an opportunity.
You say, hey, I can sell you this pill and it will cure your incurable cancer.
What is that, what is the price of that pill to me?
What can you sell that to me for?
All your worth, everything you're worth.
The last penny you have.
That's called inelastic demand.
It means there is no supply demand equation because there is no price at which I will not buy.
it. I will just buy it forever. That is where predatory advertising comes in because that's the reason
you can charge $2,000 for information you could find on the internet. It's because they lie and they say
the reason you're not successful is because I have this magical pill over here. How much are you willing to pay me
for it? It's $2,000. And people will say, even though they've never spent $10 on a book,
they'll say, hey, I'll buy that $2,000 course. Why are they buying it? They buy it because they believe it
will make them rich and they'll pay any price because obviously any price is worth it. If you're
going to make me rich and right now I'll give you my whole net worth to be rich, right? It just
makes logical sense. So this is where these industries become really scummy and there needs to be
a lot more regulation around the advertising of these things. I wouldn't be ranting and raving like I do
if people went in front of the camera and said, hey, this is a really, I mean, obviously you could
glam it up a bit more than this. But if you were honest about the fact that most people,
fail. If you're honest about the fact that even when you do succeed, maybe you'll make six
figures or something like that. And, you know, this is really hard work. If you aren't known to be a
hard worker, it probably isn't for you. You probably should go get a nine to five job where you have to be
a lot less disciplined, a lot less, you know, kind of clever and crafty. This just, this isn't right for you.
If people said that and they qualified their prospects, they wouldn't sell shit. Yeah, well, that's the
thing. They wouldn't sell it.
But I'd have no problem with it because it's like, yeah, you're actually being honest.
And they would have to lower their prices because there's no way you can justify, you know, a bet.
People want a sure thing.
They never spent $2,000 on something that's essentially unsure.
But that's actually what the product is.
And so in these industries where you get this scummy price gouging, I think is what I'm concerned about.
Again, mostly health and wealth.
Sometimes it gets into happiness, sort of religious stuff.
people, you know, are...
Yeah, televangelism.
It's all for a lot of this stuff.
It's very unfortunate. It's very disgusting.
You know, they pray on people's sort of trust and faith in common decency that, oh,
you're not scamming me.
You seem like a good guy.
That's something I get a lot.
Oh, this guy seemed like such a good guy.
And it's like, no, that's part of their image they're using to sell to you.
People who are vulnerable.
it's a lot easier to market to them and to sell them and to make them a prisoner of belief, if you will.
I like that title, that Scientology documentary.
And going back to Grant Cardone, he lives like three hours away from me.
He is a huge Scientologist.
You mentioned in one of your videos that you actually like him.
Sure.
What about Grant Cardone do you like?
Well, let me qualify that.
And look, let me go back to what we would.
Don't forget, we just got done talking about.
people who try to make videos showing off their jets and their Lamborghinis and the Rolls Royces.
No, I know where you're going with this. Yeah. Yeah. So I made that video a while ago and I get so much
crap for it. And the problem with online videos, you can't update your beliefs, you know, too well.
It's like a time capsule. So the time capsule of where I was. Listen, I just got, I had finished a job
in which I took his sales training. We were. Oh, really? I was in a home sales job. And I,
knew him sales and my father-in-law had like access to one of his courses he's like hey check it out
so i was watching some of his videos and uh it's funny because a lot of the training is old like it's like
grant cardone back when he had hair that wasn't you know white um it back when he had like the actual
whatever when he was when he was painting it yeah when he was painting it that's right um
and i thought some of it was good and mostly he was selling the businesses he had a business that was
selling sales training two businesses
And that usually is pretty ethically fine for me.
If you're selling to a business,
I don't really care what you sell.
You know, it's like it's fine.
Now he's gone to this new direction since then,
and I've kind of watched this unfold,
this Grant Cardone transformation where he said,
I want to build a brand now.
I'm going to go be the guy in the jet.
I'm going to go be the guy in the,
now he's doing all the guru tricks.
He's playing all from their playbook.
He launches this now,
this thing called 10X, the 10X event.
All it is is a big sales pitch for all these other gurus products.
So as far as I'm concerned, Grant Cardone is no longer some clean guy.
I don't know if he ever was, but I had just taken some of his sales training.
And look, Grant Cardone's a good salesman.
I think it's hard to deny.
But now he's engaged in some of the marketing side that is more ethically gray for sure.
So, yeah, no, I wouldn't give him a ringing endorsement anymore.
I think that was sort of from the past.
What are you saying, though?
It is interesting, though.
He's from Scientology.
that is something that's a little weird, right?
It's a super high level Scientologists.
And what Scientologists do is they donate money to the church.
And the more money you donate, the higher, the ladder you can climb.
Yeah, Scientology is a really weird one where money is so inexorably tied.
Like a lot of churches, they raise money, but they do it more or less sort of like is not a
big thing.
It's like sort of this thing that's like on the side, like, hey, we have to support ourselves,
whatever. Televangelists, they're like, buy my jet. But Scientology from the ground up,
it's all about money. Absolutely. And that's one of the strange things, like your money,
your access to, I don't know if they believe in God. I don't know what they believe in.
They believe in a galactic overlord named Zinu. But I think, I would say that Grant Cardone's one of
those people that he really embodies what I mean when I say the lionization of wealth like too
much because what he's always talking about, oh, you got to get your money right and, oh, you just
got to make money, you got to make money. Why? And he tries to make it ethical by saying, well,
you'll give it to a church. Well, you'll give it to this. Well, you'll give it to whatever. And he's
like, you'll take care of your family. And sure, all those things are true. But you have, but the source of
that money matters. And like, that's what I try to tell all these people who are selling these courses.
I've had the opportunity to sit down with a lot of them. And I'm like, you know, it matters that
you made your money by scamming people.
You should care about that.
Like, you should care about the fact that you hurt people on your way to the top.
These people are like, you know, looking up to Jordan Belfort, one of the biggest
scammers of all time.
And it's like, why?
Right.
I'm sure.
He might be a good guy now.
Like, you understand that this guy's a criminal, right?
But in America, we just kind of, the money just blinds us.
We're like, oh, he must be a good guy because he's on a movie.
he's in a movie he's he's the wolf of wall street yeah another thing those guys do oh sorry go ahead
no i was just going to say jordan belfry's now part of a stock picking scheme by jeff
joseph bishop and jason bond it's called the mind of the wolf and it's hilarious to me because here's a
guy who defrauded people on penny stocks and now he's supposed to teach people how to trade
like why are you taking his advice you are you not did you not see the same movie i saw this
is not a good idea. He's like selling, hey, you should go join so-and-so's course. He's like endorsing
them and stuff. It's like, dude, you are a famous stock scammer and now you are telling all
these young people, oh yeah, jump in this course. This is trustworthy. It's like,
it's crazy. Does it fucking matter? He's too goddamn entertaining.
Yeah, I know. He's too entertaining. I like him. I like him, but I see that stuff and I'm like,
what are we doing? That's what I mean. It's just like self-help has just become so dumb.
I really wish most people could just look. There's a few good things in self-help. There's a few good things in self-development that really matter. It's like when you learn to work out and you kind of have to learn some fundamentals of lifting form, you know, all these things. After that, it's all effort. It's not about going to more and more, you know, seminars on how to lift weights. It's like, no, no, you just have to get in the gym. And so a lot of self-help and self-development is that. People are keep rep pitching the same ideas we've known about for hundreds and hundreds of,
of years and we're all supposed to continue to buy their products. It's like, hey, we learned this
stuff a long time ago. There's nothing new. There's nothing new. I mean, there are some good things to it.
I mean, as far as, what's his name, Ty Lopez, he kind of, didn't he kind of make reading cool?
He was always like running around. Like, look at my bookshelf here. I always got a book. I'm
always reading a book. I'm always reading a book. I'm always reading a book at the same time.
He kind of did some cool things as far as like reading was always cool. And it always was the thing
you had to do. Ty Lopez just attached it to his brand. I mean, that's the thing. They just keep
reinventing old common sense as now I'm going to sell it to you. It's like Jordan Peterson saying
make your bed. Everyone's like, whoa, make your bed, dude. Best seller. Best seller,
Jordan Peterson's like the most brilliant guy ever. It's like, wait a second, your mom's been telling
you that forever, but this guy coats it in a layer of psychology to make it believable to a modern
mind. And all of a sudden, you're like, wow, that is profound.
It's, yeah. No, you're right. And it all goes back to, it all goes back to headland. You got to give, you got to give them, you got to give them, you got to coat the pill and peanut butter. You got to make it swallowable. You know, you got to help them. You got to, you got to lead them to water to an extent. As long as, as, as long as your water, your pond isn't full of incesticides. Yes. And as long as at the end, they're getting the actual, uh, help. Because my thing is like,
well, how much did Ty Lopez really inspire people to read? Maybe he did. Maybe he did more than I know.
But as far as I'm concerned, most of the people listen to Tai Lopez bought his course. They didn't buy books.
Maybe they did. You know, it's hard to know sometimes. But that's my thing about education, like even educational video.
Sometimes even I, I'll watch a video, an educational video. And after it, I'm wondering, wait, what did I just learn?
I don't even remember. I was just like so into the show. I didn't really get much out of it.
of that. And especially when you're like watching a lot of videos, a lot of these guys, these young
guys, they'll just be obsessed with self-development. So they'll be watching self-development videos all day.
And it's like you're taking in so much information that half of it's left your head by the time
you stop watching YouTube. That's not really, you're not really getting anything out of that.
And so I'm really, the real, if I had a message, my core message is that there are no secrets,
there are no shortcuts. And the sooner you realize that, the sooner you can get off this trend
mill of trying to find the right advice before you start.
The sooner you can get rid of the excuses that are preventing you from just realizing,
hey, there's nothing between me and what I want except my own work, my own effort,
and getting out of my way with all these excuses.
I need to find some guru to tell me how to do it.
In your experience, what do you think is the best way to learn and retain knowledge
or retain information?
Do it.
You have to do something yourself.
Like, and man, this.
is part of the problem with making education entertainment is that the core part of education is
repetition. Like anytime you learn to do math, you just go through problem sets. Why do you do the same
problem over and over and over? It's because that's how it sticks in your brain for more than 10
seconds is by just basically running into the same thing over and over our sort of medieval minds
finally crack the code and we kind of get it. Right. So same way. Shoot a basketball. Why can't you just have
to do it over and over in the same situation again and again until you finally it just gets into
our skulls. And so that's how ultimately you learn too. You, uh, I mean, you could be talking about
a lot of different types of learning here, but like we'll talk a little more pragmatically,
like about business. You know, the way to succeed in business is to fail a lot of business.
Absolutely. Yeah. I agree. And so yeah, there's just, I don't know. I think you're right. Like
people want to be successful before they start. They want to avoid the pain of failure. And it's like,
yeah, there's just, there doesn't exist. There's never been a stand-up who didn't bomb for years and
years. There's just no such thing. And you see it across all domains in life. And so why do you
think you're special? Yeah, an interesting thing for me is that like doing this, so doing this
podcast is a super weird thing for me. I think this is like my 74th one that I've done.
And I've always just been good at making cool videos with music.
And, you know, I've been really good at using my camera.
And, and, you know, I've worked on, like I told you, I've worked on movies and
and worked on TV pilots and stuff like that.
So it was always good at just, like, filming stuff and being in weird situations and
underwater shooting cool shit, making stuff look cool and sound cool and just give you
a really cool feeling.
You know, when you see a guy flying on a jet or driving in his Rolls Royce with some
fucking Rick Ross beat in the background.
It hits you. It just hits you. You know what I mean? It's a it's a thing that you do that you can't articulate.
It does something to you. You can't put it into words necessarily.
And I got really good at doing that. And a lot of the stuff I was creating was getting lots of views, hundreds of thousands, millions of views.
And then doing this is the complete opposite of that. There's no music. There's no cool camera angles.
I realized I am terrible at fucking communicating to people.
people. I am the worst conversationalist ever. At least I was at podcast number one. Now I'm a little bit
better. This is like number 74. I'm a little bit better at having a conversation with somebody.
I still suck. I'm still not an entertaining, charismatic person. I'm getting a little bit better every
time I do it. But I enjoy doing things I suck at because it makes me better at that thing. I really
realize I'm terrible at doing this.
That is, okay, that is the secret to greatness at the end of the day.
You have to just be willing to suck at something.
And one of the things that we, like, train people to be afraid of in school is failing.
There's like this huge cost of failing in school, right?
You know, there's even F for failure.
And you repeat your grade, your parents hate you because you're repeating your grade.
it's like this horrible thing.
And now we've created it where no one fails even if they do fail.
My mom's a teacher.
They're not even allowed to fail their kids.
They go, hey, if you want to fail kids, you have to fail.
Like half the class is failing, right?
She teaches inner city.
Half the class is failing.
They go, you can fail two kids this semester.
And you're still on people's bad.
Oh, yeah.
We laugh about it at dinner, like the dinner table,
because she's telling us about these kids that are just,
they're not getting it because they've been pushed through school.
school for so long that some of these kids are like at a third grade reading level and they're in high
school. And how can, so they're going to fail no matter what. We should have failed them back then.
Now they're just, they're just getting pushed through this system like cattle. But my point is,
is that there's no encounter with failure that is positive and that we encourage and that, you know,
we enter, like we put in as a regular part of life. But that is what life is at its essence.
It's a bunch of failure and then success.
and you've kind of hit upon this thing, this, you know, core principle of life that most people,
they go through their life never getting to. They've never really failed at something because
they've never really tried because they're afraid to try because they're afraid of failure.
But ultimately, that's how you learn. And what you said is true. Like I can already tell
that you've been podcasting for a while. You can just sense it in the way you carry yourself,
the way we even organize this whole business. That's how you get better. And,
at episode 1,000 when you get there, you're going to be a great interviewer and all,
it's going to be night and day. And there is no shortcut for that. Even if you try to teach people
what you know, there is no way to get it into their heads with, it's like being funny. It's like
you a comedian cannot tell you how to be Louis CK. Louis CK. Louis CK cannot host a class. There's no way to do it
because he learned it through experience. LeBron James can't teach you how to shoot a three-pointer
or dunk on somebody like he can because it's just through slogging through hours,
slogging through the dirt.
And so it just drives me crazy where we have this generation of young entrepreneurs.
They're all on YouTube.
They're all trying to watch.
How do I become an entrepreneur?
And they're getting garbage advice that's self-serving to the people selling them garbage
courses.
And the message is you're just missing a course.
I saw an ad just the other day.
And it goes, you failed in the past and they underlined it in red.
it is not your fault. It is your fault and that's okay. Of course it's your fault. And the guys like,
you just haven't had the right opportunity. You wouldn't, you wouldn't believe what a popular
saying that is in sales pitches. It's not your fault. You just haven't had the right right knowledge.
It's not the knowledge gap. It's the effort gap. It always is. And if it is an information gap,
it's an experiential information gap almost all the time. It's like you just haven't been in the situation
enough. Right. Yeah, absolutely. They find that they find their ways to wheeze
into that into your mind with what you are doubting about yourself, especially if you're
vulnerable. And failing is the journey to somewhere. Like the problem is these young people think that
achieving, getting that jet, achieving that success is like you've reached the final level and you're
there. Now you're, now you can finally be happy. But what they don't realize is the process of trying and
failing and trying and failing, that is what success should be. That is what success should be
because then that is life. Life is ups and downs. If it's a flat line, it's, if it's a flat line,
you're dead, right? It's peaks and valleys. Well, and that's where you get the most information
is in failure. I mean, look, it's this old thing, but people who experience success early
often fail late because what happens is if you experience success early, you don't learn what you're
not you're not really understanding what you could be doing better because you're already successful.
And so there's no reason to sort of autopsy what's going on because, well, I'm succeeding.
I'm already successful. And so it's actually a curse in some cases to experience success really early
in your life because you never have those moments which teach you the most about your craft,
which is like the points of abject failure.
You thought something was going to work.
You were sure it was going to work.
You put a ton of work in and then it flopped.
That is what teaches you the most out of anything.
That's a really weird thing, right?
That people that are young that get really successful, really early,
it's kind of, it's a sad thing when you see him like as little kids,
like McCulley Colkin, for example, and Home Alone and all those things he was doing.
And now, you know, look, he's kind of a crazy person.
now. Well, why do you have to become a better actor, right? Like, why would you become a better actor?
People already love you. What is there to improve? Everyone's telling you you're great. Why are they
telling you you're great? Because your box office is great. So they just assume you're great.
When you're not, you're just somebody who just happened to hit the lottery, you know,
on that magical spark, whatever it is. But then you never go to that process. Now, some people,
you can save it by becoming obsessed with the craft, but few people make that kind of negotiate.
And it's got to be way, it has to hit you way harder too when that's when you haven't experienced failure. And you're so like I know a couple of young people that have made tons of fucking money in this internet world. And especially like gaming in particular. Sure. That are so young that have so much money that have no life experience whatsoever. Like I've been sucking at most of the things I've done my whole life. And this when you're, when you're,
when you're 16 years old and you have millions of dollars and that only last five years,
that's got to be a fucking devastating when you get older.
Yeah, because you never get the chance to see also the fruits of your labor.
It's like it's like almost like the fruits of your labor are uncorrelated or your,
your reward is uncorrelated to effort.
And that's a really bad motivational structure.
Like the best way to structure wins if you want to incentivize yourself to do more hard work.
is that you win after putting in the effort, not before.
And so when people have their biggest success,
you know, on their first project,
like I can't imagine what a disaster that is.
I think like David Foster Wallace,
Infinite Jess is one of his first books.
And he was, you know,
he even talks about, you know,
what a kind of curse that was.
Shia LeBuff went huge with holes.
And he's one of the people who like later fell in love with the crap,
but there's all that period of just kind of free.
speaking out very publicly because you're trying to negotiate like, wait, what is my career now?
I probably got the biggest that I ever got. Like, that's weird. It's a weird thing.
Yeah. And they find, a lot of them find like weird things later on too. Didn't he become like a,
didn't he like direct a bunch of stuff and try to do, he got into like music videos?
Other avenues of like experimenting and like finding new ways to reinvent yourself where you don't
have that huge pressure on yourself.
Like, J.R. Tolkien did this.
No, not Tolkien.
Who am I saying?
Hogwarts girl.
J.K. Rowling?
J.K. Rowling.
She wrote under a pin name like Robert Goldbraith or something like that.
Why did she do that?
Well, she wanted to, like, lower the bar for a bit so she could fail without having it also
just be this big upset.
You know what I mean?
She could experiment.
She could experiment new riding styles, try to reinvent herself.
Like, that's another thing that happens is you get pigeonholed in your success.
They want you to keep doing what you've been doing.
Yes, yes.
To like keep showing us the shame show.
They want you to dance the same dance you've done.
And you're like, hey, I've moved on.
Can you, like, it's hard sometimes.
Yeah, when you start becoming so successful at something that you're never failing,
it becomes sort of lifeless.
And when you lose the struggle,
Right. When you lose that, that path, like getting from point A to point B, when you're already there,
there's something about it where there's just, there's just, when you lose that struggle and that,
you know, striving for success, I don't know. And people do, people do want you to stay,
keep doing what you're doing because they're used to it. And they want, they want more of what
they're used to. And they don't want things to change. Yep. Yeah, no, eventually one now I'll move on for,
I kind of moved on from copy break.
I don't know if I'll go back to it.
Probably will.
But I'll move on from like fake guru content one day.
And I'm sure people will be very upset about it.
I'd be like,
why can't you keep giving us the same things you've been giving us?
And it's like I'm saying my peace and then I'm done.
Like I don't want to,
this isn't just something that I want to do just forever.
It's like I want to make my point.
And then when I feel like I've sufficiently made it,
I'll move on to something else.
You've got to.
If you're at all creatively minded,
if you're not just doing it for the money, like you said, it becomes lifeless at a certain point
when you just, the record is on skit, you know, repeat.
We both do things that we can see ourselves in our work and we can see ourselves getting
better and building something bigger.
And a lot of people, they don't realize that is like, I got to keep chasing these.
Like, I know a lot of people who do this.
They're just, they have businesses.
And of course, there's products and marketing.
that they don't pay as much attention to that stuff,
but they pay attention to their P&L statement at the end of the month.
Like, okay, all I want to do is, it's a competition.
It's like gambling.
It's like, you can get addicted to wanting to make that number bigger
every month or every year.
Yeah, and it's a, the problem is, is that in a lot of situations,
you can win short term and lose long term.
And that's what I see to sacrifice a lot of companies.
make large companies and small creators make. So for example, to take my one real job, so to speak,
was I was, as I said, new home sales, graduated with chemical engineering, hated that. So I was like,
well, let me do YouTube. And on the side, I got this job. And one of the things I hated is we'd have
these weekly sales meetings. And everything was about sales that quarter. And like, even like there
was big pushes, like, if we're going to miss our numbers that quarter, it was the obsession,
was not make more sales, but let's move a bunch of sales up. Like, let's sort of fudge the numbers
to make it seem like we're doing more sales this quarter. We're hustling for this quarter.
Everything's about numbers now. But there's an immediate cost long term because the sales this
quarter is a sales not next quarter. So it doesn't matter. You're just moving numbers around.
But they were obsessed with that, not obsessed with how do we make the experience better for our
buyers? How do we improve the product we're selling? How do we make things better? And probably 80% of the
energy of the company was all about now numbers and nothing about long-term happiness of the
clients or the customers. No focus on that. And so when I look at creators put this to YouTube or
you know, sales or any kind of these info products, when your focus is just moving numbers around
pushing pencils, taking numbers from tomorrow and bringing them today, today, you're going to lose
long term because you're not putting the effort into what actually is bringing in the sales,
which is the customer experience. That's the long term sales generator is nothing to do with
quarterly reports or anything like that. And so I find a problem is, is that most of the metrics
we have access to are quality unrelated. That's the problem. People are obsessed with watch time.
Oh, man, this has the watch time. It's all a competition. Like the rate, this is whatever.
What I'm saying is those quantitative numbers are not necessarily linked to what's going to get you the views.
No, definitely not.
And if anything, they drive down what's going to give you the most amount of views.
And for example, to give you what Joe Rogan has, if you want what he has, then you can't look at, you can't worry about the numbers.
You can't worry about your headlines because that's just going to stifle the how good your content is or the integrity of your content.
And the problem, like going back to what you're saying about companies is that I think a problem,
with these companies why they worry about all of their monthly sales reports and trying to pack as
many sales in or to hit a goal for that month is because, you know, they're competing with a bunch
of other businesses that have extremely high overhead and they want to beat those businesses to be
listed as the top 10 most profitable businesses in their city or whatever that month.
Instead of taking a breath and being like, okay, how can we create?
something that is just better than everything else.
You nailed it.
I mean, it's hard to say it better than that.
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
And you're incentivizing people.
So one thing that I saw is the sales managers were incentivized to focus on the quarterly
reports because that's what they reported to.
So their bosses were looking at that.
And so they looked at that.
And I'm sure those bosses were also looking at like, so in order to, I mean, now we're
talking about sort of management theory, but like, I'm a big believer that incentives drive
everything. It's part of the reason that I mock people who are in this world is because I believe
the incentives shift when you get mocked and you're like, wait, I don't want to get mocked.
Let me not do this. Right, right, right. And so it's like, but yeah, all the focus,
when all the focus is on short term from the top, it trickles all the way down to your employees and
just everything goes wrong. Totally agree with you, man. I guess-
I'm agreeing on this podcast. Yeah, we have a lot of agreeing.
Not enough disagreeing. Not enough disagreeing. Well, we're going to have to do another one where we can find some things we disagree on for sure.
Yeah. So you don't sell a course. I do not sell a course. Never have sold a course. Have you been pressured to sell a course? I mean, I find that everyone wants to get everyone to sell a course now.
You dirty, dirty bastard. I have I've been I've been suggested by by people to sell a course. Really? Yes, I have. Well, a
course as well as so when i was doing that sort of business documentary series
graham recommended uh an additional way to monetize our show whatever and he i mean he was
thrown around some numbers that he was seeing from other people in his niche from doing seminars
making tons of money be like look dude you can make stupid money seven hundred bucks
ahead and you could pack this place with a thousand people, two thousand people. And is that a great
opportunity? Is that a great capitalistic opportunity to make more money? And yeah,
of course it is. That's a great. I mean, that's a, that's a way to look at things. But I just couldn't,
I can't, I don't know what it is, why it seems so unattractive to me to do something like that.
when, because it just, I feel like it just taints the art because that whole thing was like,
like you said, it was an art project to me. And when I, when I try to try to throw in something
that just sells people an opportunity to listen to some guy ramble for an hour.
Yeah. It taints everything for me. It makes me just feel, I just feel gross. I don't know how else to say it.
Here's why. And I think you instinctually feel,
what is actually true about what that offering is.
You're not giving people their money, their money's worth.
There's like no way that that's actually worth $700 ahead for them to, as you say,
watch a guy at ramp.
Like, what is this?
So you're obsessed with creating value, we might say,
for, you know, your listener and more value than they're ultimately having to pay at the door.
there is this mentality of like just take what you can get sort of from people that I think is so toxic right now.
And it's because they don't know who their buyers are.
That's what I find is like a lot of these people have not encountered their course buyers.
They only pay attention to their successes.
They don't pay attention to the losers.
They sue the losers for complaining.
And so it's really sad to me.
I think a lot of people don't see the cost of what they're doing.
And that's something I'm trying to shine a light on.
But yeah, I think you are just feeling something instinctually that is just sort of obvious,
which is it's not a good deal for the people that you're building up an audience of.
You're selling your audience out.
And it's like it's one thing to sell them out in a way that gives them something that like is like pretty obviously negotiably equivalent.
Like selling a mug, right?
Okay, you're spending $10.
You get a mug.
Mug's worth about $10.
Whatever.
That's fine.
But when you're trying to get $700,
squeeze it out of people, really crank the toothpaste tube for all it's worth.
That's when you get into this weird world where you and I, the people were kind of
architecturing something where we know it's not ethical.
We like we know in the back of our mind that it's not a good buy.
So why are we selling it?
If a lot of these people are selling courses, they would never buy themselves.
That's what blows my mind.
They would never buy it.
So why would you sell it?
especially because I've been a victim of it
I know what it's like
really you bought it you bought some
well I was I was telling you about the
the pyramid scheme I was a part of when I was like 17 years old
of course of course yeah you don't want to do that to somebody
you don't want to be the death of innocence for somebody
those who what was it what is it
those who have you heard you know what I'm talking talking about
I forget you cannot do teach yes those who cannot do teach
yeah let me fucking
look up that goddamn quote. I got to find out what it is. It's those who cannot do teach.
If you see someone trying to teach something, you immediately become suspicious of, okay,
why are you charging money to teach people how to do this instead of doing it yourself?
Right. If you knew so much about stock trading, why are you charging someone to teach them?
Like, why don't you just go do it and make a bunch of money? Yeah. Yeah. Well, 100%. That's the question
they can ever answer. They'll go spin off about, you know, well, it's because I just care about people so much.
Yeah, right.
You care about somebody.
That's why you're charging them $2,000 because that's how much you care about them.
But then again, dude, I have to say,
I would totally spend $2,000 to go sit at a Tony Robbins seminar.
I think that would be pretty cool.
I've always wanted to do that.
Sure.
Yeah, like Tony Robbins is one of those weird edge cases where it's like he's so much at the top of his game.
And it's almost like a different experience because he's not really even selling you information.
he's sort of selling you himself.
It's like, it's like experience a unique human who you will rarely see.
And it's almost like a performance, not even a, you know, it's not about information.
It's really about like you're just going to see Tony Robbins.
You could be told that it's the exact same information, but no Tony Robbins.
It's like going to the Super Bowl.
A hundred percent.
It's an event.
And Tony Robin, he more teaches, like he doesn't normally, I mean, for what,
but I've seen teach how to get rich.
He's more teaching.
Be inspired,
be whatever.
And that is one of those things that if that's what you want to do,
I don't really care.
Because how can you measure the failure of a be inspired speech?
You really can't.
But you can measure the success or failure of a get rich quick.
And that's the whole thing is these people aren't delivering.
So Tony Robbins,
if he's telling you he's going to make you inspired,
he probably will make you inspired.
I don't know.
Dude,
I was listening to a sometimes in the morning,
if I'm like, if I'm just not feeling it,
I'll put on his fucking Tony Robbins hour of power.
And I'll just like listen to him in the background,
just ramble.
And it just gets me fired up sometimes.
Like it gets me,
it just gets me energized and wanting to get shit done.
And sometimes you need that.
Sometimes you need it.
It's fine.
And it's fine.
Like the funny thing though is there are so many free things out there.
That the idea of buying some of these courses to me is almost funny because it's like,
you guys know we have.
have like Zig Ziglar, we have all these famous guys who did this. And now a lot of them are dead.
A lot of their stuff is just free online. Go do that before you join somebody's course, right?
Yeah. But instead it's the shiny thing. It's the, the marketing is what ends up selling it. And it's a
marketing that the main message is like, you can be a millionaire by the time you're 20,
you know, in your 20s. You can be some big shot, retire on a beach somewhere.
whatever. And it's like they're really selling, they're not selling a info product. They're selling a
dream. I call them dream salesman. That's what their actual job is. They take your dream and they sell it
back to you. And that's what turns the tickets. It's not the idea that I've always died. You know,
I really wanted to work for Jeff Bezos. It's that I always wanted to live on a beach somewhere and you're
telling me I can and it's easier than I thought. And if I just follow you, the expert,
you're going to teach me how to do it. Those are the people that I call out.
Now, Dan Bolzarian doesn't do anything like this, does he?
He just sort of sells his lifestyle and has his, like, his weed brand, right?
I don't actually think Dan Bolzarian's like a fake guru in the sense that I usually say it.
He's just a big joke.
Like, because he just says he's rich and he's not really rich.
He says he made his money.
I mean, sorry, he said he's self-made wealthy.
He's not self-made.
His dad was a corporate raider in the 80s, and he basically took a bunch of money.
Corporate Raider.
Yeah, like there were all these companies that their job was to take over other companies with the costal takeover, basically.
Using basically some stock tricks.
You're buying up majority shares of the company.
You're basically taking possession of a company without them knowing that you're planning to do it.
And a bunch of money made doing it.
Paul Bolzerian did it.
I'm not too familiar with the specifics of why his type of trading was particularly, because a lot of people were doing it, but he's one of the people who got to rest of it.
for it. Okay. And he owed the government like hundreds of millions of dollars. And the government has now
gotten, I don't know, like three million out of them. Meanwhile, he shuffled all these accounts around.
So his basically, his family lives in a mansion, but he technically doesn't own it. Right. Like,
oh, I don't own it. So I don't have the money. I don't know where any of this money is. It's all gone.
But meanwhile, they're all living in the lap of luxury. And his sons, Dan and he's got another son,
basically have been trying to find ways to launder this money into actual, you know,
so it's not Paul Bolsarian's money.
It's not obviously his.
So Dan's cover story was, I won it in poker.
I'm this genius poker player that no one's ever heard of, by the way.
Like he hadn't appeared on any circuit.
Like he appeared one time and he did like a losers run in some poker series.
But it wasn't like Dan Bolzarian was some big shot, you know, Phil Ives or something like
that. Like he wasn't known in the poker world. And so, but he's saying he made more money than
almost any of these other professional poker players made. And that's the way he was laundering
the money. So that's what I sort of talked about. It's like he's not a poker expert. And he's got
this like goofy lifestyle brand that spins twice as much money as it's making in weed sales,
which is sort of the perfect weed business, you know, you're selling, you're spending twice as much
as you're actually. Yeah, I found it, I found it weird that he does so many like podcasts.
I feel like, like, why, if I was that guy, I would not be, like,
responding to all these interview requests from people like Brian Rose, for example,
who did a podcast with him or all these other, like.
It's a great way to build your celebrity at a low time cost.
Yeah.
I think.
Why did you find it weird?
I find it totally believable.
Because I don't know.
I just thought that, well, because I guess I didn't know as much about him as you did,
but I thought, like, here's this super rich dude who's surrounded.
but you know who lives in this massive mansion in LA in Hollywood and surrounded by all these
half-naked chicks you know if I have all that money why the fuck don't want to spend my time
talking to this nerd for I mean I understand if that's what you're interested in but isn't that
doesn't seem like his brand it seems a little bit off-brand to be having doing podcasts with people
you know when you're a professional gambler and you know professional playboy well he's not
really a professional gambler and hasn't been uh really doing it for a while
Ever since he's gotten popular, conveniently, the gambling has left the scene, which is kind of funny.
Because if you weren't a real gambler, of course you wouldn't show people how good you or bad you were at gambling.
But yeah, he's not really a professional gambler.
He's a professional playboy guy.
Like he just hires a bunch of models, takes pictures with him.
Or he says, sorry, he says he doesn't hire him, whatever.
Well, I mean, when you have that big of a follow me, you don't need to hire him, right?
You can just be like, oh, you'll be a social media celebrity if you hang out with me for long.
enough. Correct. And so everything's about expanding a celebrity. And a lot of these podcasts,
they'll do that. I mean, they'll expose you to three million new people who would have never
followed you before. And as long as you can seem semi-coherent, people that go, oh, man, this guy's
deep. He's really, he's really a thoughtful playboy. Yeah, right. That's funny, man. One of my favorite
things that, like, Danbles Aaron's Aaron and he goes, he goes, yeah, I'm not really like a pleasure guy.
It's like your whole life is hedonism. It's the funniest thing to me for someone to be,
like yeah man it's like pleasure won't really get you happiness man i'm just like i'm after that
happiness it's like pleasure won't get you happiness it's something it's like that it's hang on
he said something like uh something like that yeah i think that was actually what he said but it was
like this like thing that sounded really good but i was like dude your whole life is set up to be
the opposite of that it's just funny to me um yeah i don't know man when i when i see pictures of
people, you know, on Instagram taking pictures with Lamborghinis or Ferraris, I instantly just,
I feel like there's a stigma now.
Oh, yeah, you're, you're a loser.
If you're taking a picture still with the Lamborghini, dude.
You're just a total fucking kook, in my opinion, if you're doing that.
And I don't think many people, I mean, other than like people that are in the Faze clan,
if you're in the Fays clan and you're, you know, a hot shot video gamer, you live in the
Fays Mansion, you drive a Lambo.
But at least those guys aren't selling fucking slimy courses to kids.
people that are desperate.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's like, well, yeah, the Lambo has been become the status symbol of the douchebag.
It's like it went from the status symbol of the rich to like, it's been so overused
that it's now nobody who's rich probably wants a Lambo because they know, if you know of
the stigma, you know, like, oh, that's not what I want.
You get a car that people maybe who know, no, no and who don't, don't.
It's like, it doesn't matter.
You know, you just find like, again, it really does come down to it feels like,
what we advertise
success on YouTube
is just a parody of what real success is
because when you look at actually successful people
they don't feel the need to show off.
They don't feel like Joe Rogan is a funny example.
It's like that guy's worth hundreds of millions of dollars
especially after the Spotify deal.
Does he dress up in some suit every day
and project success?
No, he doesn't need to.
Right.
I mean, I'm sure he has a nice car.
Do you ever see it?
No.
He could buy it.
Like, you don't feel the need to brag
when you already got it like that.
And so the people who do brag all the time, you know they don't actually have as much money as they're saying or pretending.
Yeah, you're totally right. You don't see pictures of his cars or his houses or anything like that.
And he doesn't even like to talk about it either.
Yeah, any successful guy, unless their entire brand, like Bolzerian, I believe he probably does have a lot of money.
But his entire brand is having a lot of money. So he, of course, is going to do it.
But most successful people you talk to, they're not douchebush.
who just drive around in the Lambo. You'll never know they're worth as much money as they're worth
because honestly, it's a hassle. It's like when people know you're worth a lot of money, they want
things from you. It's like you just keep a low key. Absolutely. Well, cool, dude. I think that's
two hours. I appreciate you doing this. This was a great conversation. I feel like we
talked about some really interesting things. Yeah, I really enjoyed it. I think you have a cool
podcast. It very much feels like I sort of feel what you're searching after. And I,
I like it. I'd like your hunt sort of to learn podcasting for the art of it. Yeah, I love it, man.
Yeah, not only that, I'd like, I think it's like, I think it's an interesting way just to learn shit, period.
I've never, I've never been. I can tell that you're someone who's very well read and you, you enjoy, you know, reading and learning and just from watching your video essays. I've never been like that. I've, I just, you got, you got to do it. I've never been, I've never been the person to just sit down and want to read a book for enjoyment. I've, I've, that's just not me.
I mean, don't get me wrong. I would like, I would like to develop that habit. I very much would. And I'm trying to. But this encourages it for sure. So that's another reason I do this. Yeah. No, what I was going to say is like, okay, you probably don't like reading for pleasure because you've never read for pleasure. Like you, like you probably read some awful books. Like we don't teach people. The problem is we, it's kind of the same thing we do with everything. When we try to get people interested, we're obsessed with them like learning the classics. And we don't actually have them just do what they want.
want to do, which is how you actually stoke an interest.
Yeah, for sure.
It's very unfortunate.
We're like, you have to read Grapes of Rath by John Steinbeck.
It's like, nobody wants to read Grapes of Rath.
It's backwards.
It's totally backwards from how it should be.
And so now you're left thinking, I don't know, I just don't like reading.
No, you just, you're reading probably some dry stuff from dry authors and everyone just decided
it's a great book, but it's not a great book for you.
So, yeah, man.
Do you like listening or reading better?
So I really have been listening a lot because I just,
it's hard to carve out time and audio you can fit in easier.
But I,
there is something about a book that,
I feel like you retain it a little bit better.
Yeah.
I like the,
I like how like on the Kindles you can like highlight shit and save his notes
and export it later.
Yeah.
I feel like that's really helpful.
I just got into that.
Super helpful.
But if you're trying to listen,
let me just say this before you go.
If you're trying to read for pleasure,
Don't read self-development.
Don't read all these books where there's a big takeaway at the end.
Don't feel like you have to,
everybody's after just like,
oh,
I've got,
if I'm not,
they treat reading as like an exercise in like,
education necessarily,
and then they wonder why they don't enjoy it.
First learn to enjoy reading.
Like going to the gym,
you mean?
Sorry?
Are you comparing it like,
they're treating reading as an exercise like similar to going to the gym?
Exactly.
Exactly.
And it's like, if you just learn to enjoy this thing, it wouldn't be such a pain and you wouldn't
constantly be kicking yourself that you're not doing the thing.
Like a lot of people, they stay in shape because they found some way to enjoy exercise.
That's the best way to do it.
You like learn to play tennis or you learn some sport where you're doing it.
You don't even know you're getting in shape.
You're getting in shape.
The hard way to do it, really the challenging thing is to go to the, you know, if you don't
like the gym, some people like it.
But going to the gym every day, that's the hard thing.
I can't imagine.
Yeah.
It's harder in the beginning, definitely, than once you get into the group of doing things,
because, I mean, the hardest thing is taking the first step.
For sure.
Listen, do you like fantasy or fiction?
I do.
I like fiction at all?
I love fiction, for sure.
Okay.
Let me give you a suggestion that if you take it, we'll send you down a rabbit hole.
It's this guy, Brandon Sanderson, get away of kings.
I'm laughing because I've recommended this book to probably like 20 people at this point.
and probably 75% of them,
if you get through like the first seven chapters,
you will be hooked.
You're going to be,
it's going to be gonzo.
Like you're done.
Way of kings.
Way of kings.
What am I getting myself into?
Can you give me a...
Sure.
It's like 800 pages for the first book.
Jesus Christ,
that's a lot, dude.
And there's three books out right now.
The fourth book's coming out in November.
And it is, you can't describe it.
It's too epic.
It's too epic.
It's like if you've ever enjoyed Lord of the Rings,
if you've ever enjoyed any kind of book like that,
like it's just better than that.
It's just better.
It's a better world building.
I don't know.
You can't,
you can't boil it down.
It's like,
how do you boil down 800 pages?
You can't.
Yeah.
You'll love this book, though.
If you read it,
we'll have to,
yeah,
I will read it.
Call me.
Just call me.
I'll read it.
I'll read it and we'll do another one of these one day.
Do it on audible.
It's actually a really good audible.
Okay.
And it's hard to read that much anyways.
Like,
that's a lot of reading.
So just like, go on a walk, take an hour walk, just listen to it.
And yeah, again, by like chapter seven, once you get your hands on what's going on,
you're going to lose your mind.
And you will start enjoying reading.
That's the point.
Okay.
I will do that and I will report back to you, sir.
Thanks for doing this, dude.
I really enjoyed it.
And I'll link your channels down below for people.
Is there anything else besides your YouTube channels that people can go to
to follow more what you're doing.
It's fine. Coffee Zilla is where I'm posting right now.
Coffee break.
If you want to watch the video essays that we talked about.
And that's about it, man.
Cool, dude.
Well, thank you again.
And I hope we'll talk to you soon.
And don't forget, guys, there's no shortcuts.
