Date Yourself Instead - FALL SO IN LOVE WITH YOUR LIFE

Episode Date: August 1, 2026

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You know you're falling in love with your life again and with yourself again when you can't sleep. When you're so excited for the next day to come, when you're so excited to wake up and get out of bed, when you're literally tossing and turning and restless because you're so excited for the next day, for the next adventure, for the next opportunity, because you see life differently. When you're so in alignment and you're so excited about life and you love yourself so much, you literally see the world as a magical playground. A lot of people won't be able to understand or grasp this idea that life can be, that beautiful and amazing. Of course we all go through periods of time where life doesn't always feel

that way. However, when you get in a flow, when you get in a flow state and you're truly in alignment and you finally get there and you finally enter the vortex of your life, as Abraham Hicks likes to call it, everything opens up, the world opens up for you. Life becomes a magical video game and you literally cannot sleep because you're so excited. You have so much energy rushing through your body. You feel electrified. You feel like a child again, just wanting to play and adventure and experience everything that life has to offer. Sleep will literally feel like a waste of time because you're going to have so much energy that you want to create, that you want to do things, that you want to move, that you want to put yourself out into the world and experience life

to the absolute fullest. The last time I was really in that flow state and in the vortex was 2019. Okay. As I said, we all go through periods of time where it's not always going to feel that way. But when you finally get yourself back and you finally remember who the fuck you are and you finally remember your power and that you're here to create and you're here to build and you're here to experience life to the fullest, everything changes. That's the shift when everything changes because you're falling in love with life again. And on today's episode, I'm going to be talking about how to fall in love with your life again, how to wake up every day happy, how to wake up every day, excited about the little things,

having a sip of coffee, journaling, meditating, dancing around your kitchen to happy music, not giving a flying fuck about the past because you're so in the present, and just how to enjoy your life. 2026 is the year of enjoying and having fun and finally feeling like yourself again. And I want to be here to remind you and encourage you that it's possible to wake up every day happy. It's possible to wake up every day feeling good. And you deserve to feel that way on a daily basis.

So let's get into it. First things first, you can't fake a feeling. You can't fake a vibration. You're either embodying the energy and the frequency of an emotion or you're not. And the universe knows when you're truly embodying the frequency. The universe can sense when you're feeling depressed and it could also sense when you're feeling joyful and excited and playful and ready to take on the world. So you cannot fake emotions. You cannot force yourself into happiness. You cannot force yourself into a specific emotional state. You have to naturally embody the state. And this is a This is why people get stuck.

Because if we force ourselves to feel a certain way, the universe knows that you're forcing it. The universe knows that you're not truly embodying the feeling naturally. And so we want to get you to a place where it just feels natural to feel good. And you're waking up every day, not even thinking about it. And you're not trying so hard to heal. And you're not trying so hard to feel good because you're just happy. And that's who you are. And you're operating at the actual vibration of joy and freedom and bliss.

This feeling often arrives after the healing phase. I feel like the last five years for a lot of people were all focused on healing and really getting to the root causes of our trauma. Okay. Therapy was a huge thing, a huge theme for so many people. We started talking more openly online about therapy and different techniques to heal and different spiritual retreats. I know I discussed a lot of different types of energy work that I was doing on my podcast

over the last couple of years because I wanted you guys to be a aware of the tools, aware of what was out there, and have access to healing techniques and tools and methods because I feel like the last five years, to be completely honest, were very energetically intense and different after 2019. I feel like things took a little bit of a turn and things were a little bit, you know, crazy after COVID. And we all were going through different things at different times. And life was a little bit chaotic. Some days were amazing. Some days, not so much. And I just feel like I forgot who I was in the midst of a lot of things happening. We kind of sometimes forget our power and we forget how good and happy and amazing life can really be.

So feeling this feeling of pure bliss and joy about life comes after the healing process. And it comes after we've done the inner work. I want to emphasize that because if you haven't done any work on yourself, but I'm sure if you're listening to my podcast, you have done a lot of work on yourself. But if you haven't, it may be a little bit more challenging to access the timelines where you truly have a new fresh start and a new vibration of pure joy and bliss and happiness. Because we tend to bottle in a lot of different emotions. And if we're not clearing those emotions out, it'll be hard for us to actually recalibrate

to the proper vibration that we want. But the beauty is once we've invested in our healing journey, there will be a day. And there comes a moment where you use everything you've learned and you start to apply it. And 2026 is the year of applying everything we've learned from our healing process, from the journey, from going to therapy, from doing energy work, from traveling solo and exploring new places to find ourselves. We're using the tools we've acquired over the last several years to now skyrocket into a brand new timeline where we are waking up so empowered, so powerful, so excited to take on every single

day. You can fall in love with yourself now, deeply, unapologetically, obsessively. You can fall in love with your life unconditionally and it starts right now. Everything will change once you decide that is what you're doing. The truth is there is no better feeling than feeling like life has finally clicked into place again. And you remember how good you used to feel and how happy you were as a kid running around wild and free and just enjoying the present moment and playing and getting up, excited to create. We are here to create. We are here to create art, magic. We are here to write. We are here to dance. We are here to perform. We're here to sing. If you're in your divine feminine power, you are put on this earth to create and to be inspired and to use your energy, your divine feminine power to catapult

you into the next level of your life, to make your life blissful, to make your life amazing. That is why you are put here. You are here to create. And this could also involve creation like actually giving birth. This could also mean creation like creating life. We're here to create life. We're here to create passion. We're here to create our destiny. So first things first, I need you to fall in love with your mornings the second you wake up every single day. I want you to open your eyes and remind yourself of who you are. The best thing you could do is take five or 10 minutes before you touch your phone to really think about who you want to be every single day. When you wake up instead of grabbing your phone straight away. I want you to wake up and immediately say, I am and then fill in the blank.

I am creating this today. I am getting all of these things done today. I am this person. I am living my dream life. Fill in the blanks, okay? You can fill in the blanks with whatever you want, but start it off with I am because I am is an extremely powerful affirmative phrase and it helps rewire the subconscious. The morning you build is literally the foundation for every single day. The way you wake up builds your foundation. The way you treat your mornings matters. It sets the tone for your day. Something I've been doing is pushing myself out of my comfort zone and doing things that feel

uncomfortable, but I know that are going to make me feel amazing. For example, today I woke up at 6.30 in the morning and joined a run club. And I've never done that before. It's something new for me. I started running kind of recently. I was running a little bit in London, getting my feet warmed up. and it's still very new for me. Today I woke up and I chose Run Club.

I was like, this is something different. This is something new. And maybe I'll meet cool people. Maybe it'll challenge me. Maybe I'll die. I don't know. But let's just try it because I want to access the next level of my life. I'm here to access the next timeline and version of me.

I want to be great. I want to do amazing things. I want to do harder things. I want to challenge myself. I want to make my life as great as it can possibly be. So I woke up at 630. and I went to run club. I met amazing women.

I had an amazing time. Everyone was so nice. And it really made me feel good, even though I was like one of the last people to finish. But it doesn't matter, okay? You have to start somewhere. You have to start somewhere where everyone was once a beginner. And starting your morning doing something that slightly challenges you,

that slightly pushes you out of your comfort zone and shifts you into a new timeline is going to help you reprogram your subconscious and also help you get to the next. level of your life. The reason doing something new and different, such as going and joining a sports club, running club, or any type of club where there's new people, new faces, new characters unlocked in your reality, the reason this is so beneficial in helping you really love who you are and making you more confident is that it proves to yourself that you're reliable and you're responsible. And this is something I talk about in my masterclass manifest overnight. If you haven't already grabbed it, I highly recommend the masterclass. It will help you manifest.

so quickly, so fast, and help you shift timelines literally overnight. The link is in the show notes also on my Instagram, Atlas or Atlas Boss. Highly recommend grabbing the course, especially now that it's on sale for an amazing discount and the price will go up very soon. It will change your life. I created this master class to literally help you manifest like that. Your life will change overnight, guaranteed. A lot of what I talk about in this class is this concept of being reliable and responsible

to yourself. You have to claim responsibility for your life. the more you don't take action and the more you promise yourself that you're going to do things and then you don't do them or you're procrastinating, it delays your biggest blessings. It's going to be really hard for you to manifest your dream life if you're not taking accountability for your life and you're not taking responsibility for your life. You do have to take action in order to make yourself feel confident. Confidence doesn't come out of thin air.

Confidence is a practice. It's a skill. And the more you prove to yourself that you're reliable and that you can show up for yourself and keep the promises you've made to yourself, that builds yourself esteem. That's what's going to build your confidence. And that's what's going to make you fall in love with yourself because you're showing up for yourself.

You're proving to yourself that you could do hard things. You're proving to yourself that you could show up and be the boss-ass bitch that you promised yourself you would be. You are committing to what you said you were going to do. And that is the biggest form of self-love and self-respect. And when you commit to something new and different that pushes you out of your comfort zone, you build your own self-respect.

You feel good. You just do. That's the end result of following through with a promise you've made to yourself. You say you're going to wake up earlier and then you don't wake up earlier. You say you're going to go for a run, then you don't go for a run. You're saying you're going to do X, Y and Z, start the business, start the brand, move to a different city. You promise yourself all these things yet you take no actions to get there. So how are you supposed to access your dream life?

How are you supposed to get everything you want if you take no action? You have to create some sort of input, okay? Inputs create outputs. You have to put in energy to receive energy. energy back in life. That's the name of the game. And this doesn't mean it has to be stressful, but sometimes you've got to push yourself outside of your comfort zone. Great things will always happen if you do things differently. If you change up the routine, if you invest in new hobbies, new activities, new sports, this will build your self-confidence and your self-love. Guaranteed.

Even when you don't feel like committing to something, even when you don't feel like doing something and you know what's good for you and you know you're going to feel good after after you've done it, it's worth it because you know the long-term results of that is going to compound and you're going to feel more sure of your word. You kept your word to yourself and that also builds self-trust. So when you say, I can keep my word to myself, I said I was going to do it and I did it. That's the best feeling in the world. And no one can take your self-worth away from you when you've built it, when you've built it that way. No one can take your self-respect and your self-worth from you because you've built it. You've built your home from within. You've built your confidence from within

because you've taken the necessary steps to get there and to commit to yourself. Coming off of this point of committing to yourself and creating a new habit for yourself, creating new habits for yourself first thing in the morning creates emotional stability. It creates an unshakable emotional foundation. Confidence and self-love comes from routine. It comes from routine. I know because when I don't have a routine, I don't feel great. I just don't feel organized or productive and my head's all over the place.

and the more our brain gets scattered and foggy and unclear and we're not sure what direction we're headed in and we don't have a purpose and we don't have anything to work towards. We become depressed. We become anxious. We become confused and we're like messy. Okay. You have a messy aura and you have a messy energy when you have no routine or structure. Routine creates self-confidence. Routine creates self-trust and self-reliability. A routine creates emotional stability. I want you to remember this because it's so important. Okay. If you're trying to build dream life if you're trying to love yourself this year, if you really want to love yourself and you want this year to be about you and how much you love yourself and how much you love

your life, you need a routine in place. And you could create your own routine. This is your life, your rules, but create a solid routine that you know is going to feel grounding and good for your health and your brain. This routine cannot be waking up and eating McDonald's and laying in bed all day. That's not going to cut it. If you want to feel good, if you want to feel healthy and good in your mind, body, soul. You need to set up a healthy routine, okay, because there are good routines and they are not so good routines. If you want to change your life and radiate that golden aura and feel confident and strong and energetic and wake up every day excited, you need to take care of your mind, body, soul, your mind, body, soul, your brain health, your gut health,

and everything in between as far as working out, as far as meditating, as far as just moving your body and taking care of your brain, your heart, your mind, body, soul. This is crucial, okay? And having a really good solid morning routine helps with this. It creates emotional safety and stability. You feel safe when you know you have something to look forward to every single morning. You wake up and you know you have a purpose. You know you're working towards something and moving towards something.

Even on days where life feels very chaotic, that routine will be your anchor to get you through the day. because you know you have something to look forward to. And this will help you just wake up and go. You'll wake up and you'll be like, okay, time to go. This is my routine. I have to take my espresso shot, go for a run, journal, and my day will get started after that. But you know at least you have a few steps already in place. And that's really, really good for your confidence and your brain.

Now let's get to the fun part, romanticizing your life like you're living in a movie. You're living in a movie. You're the main character. You get to decide your destiny. you get to decide what you do, how free you are, what you want to be, how you want to act, how you want to dress. You get to create your life. And when you look at your life as a movie, life gets fun and interesting and exciting. And I'm going to explain this now, okay? Falling in love with yourself means you're creating your own life. Falling in love with

yourself comes with being creative. Your brain loves a good story. It loves narratives. We play narratives in our head all the time about the people around us, about our situations, about our life. And we always are thinking, right? Our brain is always thinking. We're thinking thousands and thousands of thoughts a day. So why not turn those thoughts into a movie, into a storyline that's actually fun and exciting? You can narrate the life of your dreams and over time, it will become real. Because the more you reprogram your brain to think of these whimsical, amazing, crazy scenarios that you come up within your head, they can all manifest for you. Because you're conditioning your brain, brain to see it as truth. This is something that I love talking about because I am a dreamer. I'm a big daydreamer.

I love to daydream and create scenarios and fantasies in my head. Oftentimes, these scenarios manifest because I'm not really attached to them. I'm just letting it flow and letting myself think of whatever I want to think about. But making it positive, making it fun, making it joyful and envisioning my future self doing cool things and really, really thinking about it has changed the game for me, has changed my life. This is what romanticizing your life is all about. It's about creating a new narrative in your brain of how you want the story to end up, how you really want to live your life, who do you really want to be? I always like to ask myself questions of like, what era am I in? What aesthetic do I want to be in right now? What vibe do I want to test out right now? You can get creative. You are in

control of your own life. Try new things, learn new things. Get excited about a new era of your life. For example, I just started paddle lessons and I joined a paddle club. And it's been so much fun because I don't really play sports. I used to play sports when I was much younger. But even my parents were like, you're not athletic. And I'm like, watch me. I am athletic because I claim to be. I swear, I've never played paddle before and I was like really good for someone who's

never ever played before. Like I was hitting the ball. I had amazing coordination. And I felt really, really confident about playing paddle. I felt like I was like channeling a paddle player because I was like, I am a good paddle player. I am an amazing paddle player. When you affirm to yourself that you're good at something, you'll become good at it very quickly guaranteed.

You just have to have confidence. Confidence is the key here. And when I went into the paddle lesson, I was like, I'm good at paddle. I'm crushing this. I'm amazing at paddle. And I kept replaying that new narrative over in my brain while I was playing paddle. Delusion creates new self-confidence and a new timeline. The instructor was like, have you played before?

I'm like, no, I swear, I've literally never played this before. It was just so funny because I think they thought I was like bullshitting them. But I really have never picked up a racket and I haven't played sports in years. So to go into the game, feeling strong, feeling sure of myself, and I just kept telling myself, I'm good at paddle. It manifested very quickly and accordingly. That's the beauty of becoming this main character of your life and narrating who you are. Your thoughts are your own.

No one can take your thoughts away from you. So use your thoughts for good. Get creative. Unlock a new character for yourself. Who do you want to be? What season of life are you in? What era are you stepping into? Right now, I'm in my paddle, sporty, athletic era.

Maybe next week I'll be in my pottery class era. Maybe I'm a professional artist and I'm painting and I'm sketching and whatever I want to do, right? The world is your oyster. Make it fun. Romanticize your life. Get delusional. Get creative. Have fun.

I also really like using music to feel like the main character. And I know a lot of people do this, but I will love. literally daydream to my favorite songs, romantic music, replaying scenarios in my head that I want to happen. I literally feel like I'm in a music video sometimes when I listen to music that I really love. I just sit back and daydream to the music and it's really also helpful in rewiring your brain and making you feel like you're the main character. The next way to fall in love with yourself and your life is to take yourself out on dates regardless if you're dating someone else or not, regardless if you're in a relationship or if you're married, it doesn't

matter, take yourself out on solo dates occasionally to reconnect with your own energy and your own aura and your own magnetic field. Remind yourself of who the fuck you are. Remind yourself of how amazing you are, of how powerful you are, of how creative you are. You were put here to create, as I said, I'm going to reiterate that again because it is a key theme of this episode. You were put here to create, to use your divine feminine power to create, to inspire, to channel new ideas, to think of new ideas. Sometimes we need a break. Sometimes we just need to sit. with our own energy to remember that and taking yourself on dates is the most powerful thing you could do and the most beneficial thing you could do. Even if it's once a month, just setting a day

aside to take yourself to a nice dinner, a nice lunch, whatever you want to do and just bask in your own energy and savor every moment of it. Really get to know yourself. Really sit with yourself and bask in your own divine energy. I take myself on dates all the time, all the time. And I found that I really do enjoy my own company, 99% of the time more than actually going on a proper date with someone else because I've learned how to love myself. I've learned how to be okay on my own. There's nothing more exciting to me than getting a really cozy, comforting dinner and writing down all of my goals that I want to accomplish. I know if you're watching this, you have goals and dreams, you haven't accomplished yet. So what are they? Get clearer with them. Take yourself to dinner,

buy yourself a new journal, and you could also take my mouth. masterclass while you're at dinner, it's easy. You could download it on your phone. If you're looking to manifest quickly overnight, you want to get inspired and you want to feel like we're one on one, download manifest overnight. Link is in my show notes once again. It'll be a perfect solo date night activity to do. Or if you're just having a night to yourself in general, it's the perfect activity to do if you're on your own, if you're feeling a little stagnant, and you need a little spice and you need a little boost to your life. And you want to get excited about life again when you wake up in the morning. Manifest overnight is literally made for you. Manifest overnight

will literally change your life and change your timeline. So anyways, a lot of people will ask me, what do you do if you take yourself out on a date? Do you just sit there? Are you on your phone? What's the vibe? And I'm like, yeah, I'm on my phone either writing in my notes app the next 10 years of my life and mapping out exactly where I need to be and what I need to do and everything I want to manifest. Or I bring a journal. I journal. I reflect. I ground. I get clear on my goals. I just love thinking about future goals. I think that's what makes life exciting when you have things to genuinely look forward to. Or I'm planning a new trip.

I'm planning my next adventure. I'm just focused on doing things that lift my vibration. Another thing I love to do is listening to Abraham Hicks videos, manifestation videos on YouTube. Anything that will lift my spirits and my mood and my energy, that's what I'll usually do when I'm taking myself out on a solo date. Sometimes I'm filming stuff for TikTok. Right now I'm in the process of writing a book, which is very exciting. I occupy my brain with things that light me up, inspire my creativity, and make me happy.

Another thing you could do is bring a book with you. Bring a book with you or listen to a podcast, listen to my podcast. Whatever you need to do, there are so many things you could do while you're taking yourself to dinner. And it's really not so bad. Once you get in the sea and you order your food, it's really, really nice and it's really relaxing and peaceful and I love it. The next thing is creating inspirational mood boards for your life. I'm a very visual person.

If you're a very visual person, this is going to be really effective for you. I know I talk about vision boards on the podcast. Vision boards are very important in manifestation, in feeling good, in getting your energy in the right place and getting your vibration high. I get so excited when I see visuals of things that I want, of things that I desire. It makes me happy. Now, if these things make you like not feel so great or you feel like you're missing out or you're envious, this isn't for you.

This advice isn't for you because you want things that make you feel good and elevated. The key is to always feel good and to focus on the things that make you feel good. So if vision boarding isn't for you, understandable. For me, when I see images of the things that I want, I use Pinterest mostly for this, I love to create vision boards. I create one vision board a week. And my goals always change. My dreams always change.

The things I want change a lot because I change a lot. I change my mind a lot. So I go on Pinterest often. And if I have a free hour at night before bed, I will save images and look at them for a moment and visualize my life being exactly that. I'll make vision boards, I'll set it as my phone wallpaper, and I literally will wake up staring at my phone in the morning and praying on it and visualizing it and believing that everything I want is mine and affirming it and claiming it and looking at the images. This technique is so powerful in manifesting and making you feel good and making you more confident in your vision and your life. It will help you manifest and it will help make you feel really good about yourself and love yourself more.

For example, one of my vision board images that I saved recently is a check for millions of dollars. Now, why did I do that? Because I want to make millions of dollars. I just love money. And that's a good thing, okay? When you start to love money instead of fear money and you're scared of money and making money and losing money and spending money, when you just love money and you finally come to terms with the fact that you just love money and you love making money, life gets fun because you're like, I can manifest money in so many different ways from so

many different sources because money is energy. And when you're radiating at a very high frequency, you will receive money and checks in crazy ways, in very abundant magical ways. So for me, having a bank account with millions of dollars on my vision board makes me excited to work and create and build the life of my dreams. It motivates me. And it really just excites me. So when I stare at my vision board and I see a check for millions of dollars, I'm like, it's already mine. It's already done. It's already done. It is done for me. I'm a millionaire. I'm creating a life. of my dreams. I'm a powerful manifester. I get everything I want. These images just reprogram your subconscious mind and in turn will make you more confident and in turn will make you love yourself

more. Why this also works is that your brain doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality. Your subconscious mind responds to images the same way it responds to real life. Your subconscious mind will literally absorb the images the same way that it actually responds to what's happening around you. It does not know the difference. Your brain does not know the difference between the image you are staring at and affirming in your brain and actual reality. So vision boards could actually be used as neurological rewiring tools. They are literally capable of rewiring your subconscious mind so you can attract and manifest faster. The reason why I also love things like journaling on what I want, affirming what I want, speaking what I want into existence and

making vision boards as well, when you have all of these tools, it gives your brain a target to hit. It gives your brain a target to work towards, to move towards. And And that will help you build your confidence and self-esteem. Because when you have a target and a goal, it builds your confidence and self-esteem. It makes you love your life because you have a motive. You have a reason to wake up and go and move and work towards something. Your brain loves goals because it loves direction. It loves clarity.

And it loves speed. So when you have a target, you can move towards it. When you have a target, this will help you manifest. And it will also help you build your confidence and make you feel really good about yourself and the direction you're headed in. You're no longer just like hoping for something or hoping it will manifest. You're literally moving towards a target. You're focused. You're on a mission to do amazing things to manifest your wildest dreams.

The most important thing of all that we're going to talk about right now is making your life bigger than your romantic partners and relationships and friendships. Okay. Obviously relationships are very important. They're a key part of growth and learning. And if you're happily in love, they are an amazing thing. If you're with the right person, relationships are beautiful. thing. If you have an amazing group of friends, that's an amazing thing. However, you have to build a

life you love so deeply that you're not dependent on anyone else for your happiness. A lot of where I went wrong in my 20s was I was outsourcing my power and myself love to everyone else. To all of my boyfriends and my situationships and all my romantic partners defined my level of happiness. And if my life was amazing or not, I was always in relationships, I was always with a partner or I always had someone next to me, romantically. A few years ago, I was severely humbled because I realized after another breakup that my identity and my confidence was built on the back of toxic relationships, like feeling like I had a partner and that was enough.

And I had that security blanket, like, oh, I always have a boyfriend. I always have someone to talk to. I always have someone around. That's not healthy. That's not the right way to do things because that's false confidence. That's false security. Hence why I created my entire podcast, my entire brand date yourself instead, because I was learning with you guys building my home from within, building myself love and confidence back up again and really finding myself. And now I'm at a place in my life in my 30s where I have built a life I love without any help, without someone else externally validating me.

I started finding new hobbies, new workout routines, new books to read, new people just to connect with on a friendly basis. I built new business relationships. I built new women friendships. I took myself out on more dates. I spent more time basking in my own energy, as we talked about earlier. I started taking on new hobbies and really thinking about the things that made me happy when I was young prior to ever having a boyfriend, which really helped build my self-love back up again. Because when we're young, we don't even know the concept of a romantic relationship.

We don't know what that means. I was thinking back to my childhood before I ever had a boyfriend, what lit me up? Horseback riding, singing, writing. All of these things came before the boyfriends, and it's just such a beautiful thing to get back to that state, that flow state where I'm like, I don't need anyone to make me feel whole. I don't need anyone for my life to be magical and exciting. I'm magical and exciting. I am the main character of my own life. I deserve an abundant life regardless if I have a partner or not.

That should never define your worth. And that's something that I'm really embodying now and it's such an amazing feeling. The beautiful thing about this is too when you truly fall in love with your life and yourself, you become so powerful that the right people, the right partners, the right situations will naturally gravitate towards you because you become very magnetic. The world will start orbiting around you and feel your gravity, feel your pull. They will gravitate towards you and you don't have to really do much. You just have to love yourself so much and everything else will unfold accordingly. You become wildly magnetic when you love your own life and everything will fall into place

accordingly as I just said. And that's what the beautiful thing is about truly loving yourself is that you're so in alignment that the right things will always show up for you. You can't miss what's destined for you. And when you're in alignment, it applies more than ever because things happen so quickly and so effortlessly. People are most attracted to you and most gravitated towards you

when you're so in love with your own life because they feel it. They feel your aura. They feel how happy you are. Everyone wants to be around happy people. Everyone is gravitated towards happy, vibrant, joyful people. When you're committed to yourself, people feel it. They know it.

You never lose by investing in yourself and loving yourself. You will literally become an irresistible magnet for abundance, blessings and opportunities. So I want you to ask yourself and be really honest with yourself, if no man ever texted me again, if no one ever texted me again, what would make my life still really exciting? What would I still be excited about? What would make my life extremely fulfilling that it wouldn't matter? Write it down. Get clear about it.

And then work towards that. For me, recently, it's been learning new things. Like I said, I joined Paddle. I also want to learn how to cook. I want to eat healthier. I want to learn to be a better runner. I want to learn how to write better. I want to nourish my brain with new information.

I just want to learn more. When you invest in learning, it builds your confidence too. That also builds your confidence a lot. When you're open to learning new things and enriching your life with new experiences and new subjects, I'm getting really into fiction writing lately. That's something that I never did. And I also started a substack. If you don't follow me on there, download substack.

It's going to be the next big thing. I'm calling it right now. Substack is where it's at. It's a writing platform and it's just so fun to read people's work and blog. I've written some pieces already. You can go follow me. I'll also link that as well in the show notes. But I'm getting into writing again.

I'm learning how to write better. I'm learning how to read more. I'm doing things that enrich my life regardless if anyone else is in it or not. And that's how you build a life you love. And with that being said, that concludes today's episode. of lists. Be sure to join the masterclass manifest overnight. It will shift your timeline, help you quantum jump and change your reality starting right now. I cannot wait to see you there. So excited for you to manifest everything you've ever wanted. I love you guys. Thank you as always

for being here and being a part of this community. I appreciate all your comments on Spotify. I love your messages. All the support on the podcast. The key is to always feel good and to focus on the things that make you feel good. You invest in learning new things. What do you want to learn about? What are you interested in? What lights you up? What are you passionate about? Think about it.