Date Yourself Instead - How to be in the top 1% of the world

Episode Date: January 14, 2026

enroll in my new masterclass manifest overnight — TAP HERE TO JOIN THE 5000+ WAITLIST (whattt!?) this is for the version of you who’s done playing small and ready to actually change their life. ...periodddd.unlocking the power of your identityHOW TO BE IN THE TOP 1%in this episode, i’m getting into why committing to yourself is the biggest power move you can make — especially heading into 2026. this year isn’t about doing more, forcing more, or hustling harder. it’s about deciding who you are and moving like it’s already done.i talk about the launch of my new masterclass manifest overnight and why identity is the missing piece for most people. the top 1% don’t have more time, luck, or talent — they have decisiveness, self-trust, and a strong sense of who they are. they move fast. they don’t wait for permission. and they’re not afraid to be polarizing.we get into:why choosing yourself filters out distractions instantlyhow being fully you attracts the right people and opportunities (and repels what’s not aligned)the power of quick decisions and clean self-perceptionhow to stop living by old rules that were never made for youthis episode is for anyone who knows they’re meant for more but keeps feeling stuck in old patterns. manifest overnight is designed to help you reprogram your identity so manifesting stops feeling hard and starts feeling inevitable.timestamps:00:00 why this year is different01:15 manifest overnight masterclass details04:25 what actually separates the top 1%07:21 confidence, polarization, and self-trust08:34 decisiveness and moving faster16:16 living authentically and dropping the rules29:45 final thoughtslink to manifest overnight DON'T MISS THE EARLY BIRD BIRTHDAY DROP!!! : https://stan.store/lyssbosssee you there ;) <3 xx

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Starting point is 00:00:00 It is exactly a week before my new masterclass manifest overnight launches. I am really excited about it. I am so pumped for 2026. This year is already off to an amazing start. I'm not messing around. This is the year of the horse, which means freedom, abundance, moving things fast, doing things differently, catering to yourself, being ruthless in your vision, being ruthless in your goals, and your dreams and your visions, doing everything we said we're going to do.
Starting point is 00:00:29 committing to ourselves, committing to our goals and sticking to them. Okay. This episode, I really wanted to talk about why committing to yourself this year is the ultimate power move and how to really be in the top 1%. How to really be in the top 1% of the world. How to be elite. How to be a leader. How to be someone who runs their own shit.
Starting point is 00:00:51 Has financial freedom. Has the ability to do whatever the fuck they want. You have what it takes to build empires. You have what it takes to lead, to build, to scale your life to the absolute fullest. I'm going to be talking about how to be in the 1% in the way you think, in the way you operate, in the way you move in the world. Before we get into today's episode, I want to remind you, my masterclass manifest overnight is coming out on January 19th, my birthday.
Starting point is 00:01:19 It's going to be the biggest launch we've ever done. We already have 5,000 people on the wait list, which is insane. Be sure to tap the link in the show notes after this. episode or do it right now just so you don't forget. We're only accepting a limited number of people this time around into the masterclass, into the first launch, the birthday launch. It's going to be at a special early bird price for the people listening to this right now. Go to the show notes, click the link and join the wait list for manifest overnight.
Starting point is 00:01:45 This is it guys. This is the course that is going to change your energy, change your life, change your reality, change everything that you're about stepping into 2026, stepping into the new year. we have no time to waste anymore. And that is why I created this masterclass to help you get everything you want out of life. This is for the people who are tired of looking at their vision board and not seeing the results they want.
Starting point is 00:02:07 This is for the people who are stuck in their manifestations and don't understand why they're not happening faster or sooner or why things have felt blocked or stuck. This is to get you out of that rut and get you to the next level of your life where you're manifesting so effortlessly that it's not considered manifesting. It's just your identity.
Starting point is 00:02:24 It's just your new life. It's just your casual, reality. We're turning manifestation into your casual everyday experience where your life is so good, your life is so abundant and so amazing that you don't have to try to manifest anymore. I feel like manifestation has been thrown out so much online now. It's been overused. It's so oversaturated. Everyone talks about it. But the more you talk about it, the more you're blocking things from naturally happening. The course is literally designed to reprogram your mind to believe that miracles are just natural for you.
Starting point is 00:02:56 They happen overnight. They happen instantly. Every day of your life is a miracle and it's natural. It's effortless. Period. It's like done. There is no questioning how amazing and exciting your life is because it just is and you're living and breathing this new reality every single day.
Starting point is 00:03:12 I want you guys to have the most incredible 2026. I am rooting for all of you. 2025 was a fucking shit show. And so I knew I had to go into the new year with a master class that was going to guide everyone out of that chaos and into a brand new reality where we are getting everything we've ever wanted. Guys, I'm going to say this one more time. The price is going to be the lowest ever at the launch. So you're going to want to get it during the launch. You're going to want to get it in the first two weeks because after that drop, the price is going to double. It's going to go up.
Starting point is 00:03:43 That is how we're doing it this year. I'm giving you guys the most insane value. The information in the course is worth thousands of dollars. It's literally worth thousands of dollars. It's literally worth thousands of dollars and I've priced it at a rate that everyone can access it. If you're listening to this right now, it is going to change the game for you. Guaranteed. Go to the podcast show notes, tap the link, join the wait list and sign up right now so you do not miss the drop. We're capping it at a certain number of spots and then doubling the price.
Starting point is 00:04:10 You're not going to want to miss this. If you're joining, comment below on Spotify. Shoot me a DM. If you're ready to manifest overnight. I will see you there. Now let's get into today's episode. In order to be in the top 1%, you need to be in the top 1%, you need to be. be a polarizing person. Now what does that mean? You need to be the type of person where people are
Starting point is 00:04:28 going to either be obsessed with you and love you and love what you're about or they're going to fucking hate you. There's no in between. For me, being a polarized person has always been a thing for me. I feel like people either really like what I have to say and they love my energy or they want nothing to do with me. And I used to think that was a negative thing, but it's actually a very positive thing. And I'm going to tell you why. When you know yourself and you're confident in your mission and your values and what you stand for, if you know yourself insanely well, the right people are always going to be drawn to you. They're always going to feel the pull to listen to you, to respect you, to value you, to want to be around you and be your friend, whatever it is.
Starting point is 00:05:06 The people in your life are going to be drawn to your energy if they're the right people. So when you really know who you are and you're grounded in yourself at your core, you become polarizing to other people because some people might not see the vision. They might not understand who you are. And that's a good thing because you don't want those people in your field anyway. If you're always wavering in who you are and you're kind of this way and you're kind of that way and you're confused with your identity, you're always going to have wishy-washy people in your life.
Starting point is 00:05:38 For me, I would rather have people that I know or my rider dies and understand all that I'm about and have my haters too, okay? It's like two categories. When you're a polarizing person, that means you're doing something. something right. That means you know yourself. That means you're so confident in who you are and what you believe in and what you stand for, you'll be able to clearly differentiate who's meant for you and who's not meant for you. What's aligned for you and what's not aligned for you, period. And it makes life crystal clear. It brings you clarity in your life because you just know
Starting point is 00:06:10 what you stand for and the right opportunities, experiences, people will always be magnetized towards the most aligned, authentic version of you. Think about the most famous, successful people in the world. There are so many people who look up to them, who idolize them, who listen and hang on to every word that they say. And then they have their fucking haters where people fucking hate them, sometimes for no good reason. But people are like, oh, I just don't like her. Like she's the biggest actress in the world, but I can't stand her. I can't stand her. We always see these comments, especially online on social media, of people harassing celebrities and tearing their character and image and identity down when they don't even know who that person really is, right? We see them in
Starting point is 00:06:48 movies, we see them on the red carpet, but we don't really know them at a core soul level. Yet, there's something about their energy that's polarizing. There's people that are obsessed with them and people that don't like them. As you become more successful and as you rise to the top and you truly love yourself and you're really confident in who you are, you're never going to be able to cater to everyone. Okay. There are going to be people, as I said, who love you. And then there's going to be people who don't. And that means you're doing it right. That means you're doing something right. Polarization in who you are is literally a filter. When you speak with conviction, when you speak with a cutthroat attitude, when you know your value, when you know your worth,
Starting point is 00:07:29 a lot of people are going to drop off because they cannot handle your new energy and your frequency. And they're just going to be like, oh, I don't like her. Because they can't handle you. Okay. Most of the time, that's what it's about. As long as you come into life with good intentions and you speak with positivity and good vibes and good energy and you want the best and you are not harming anyone. Being yourself is harmless. Okay, if you're a good person with a good heart and good intentions, being yourself is harmless and the more confident and grounded you are in your identity and you're locked in. You're truly locked into what you're all about. And you're like, this is who I am. This is my beliefs. This is my boundaries. This is what I will and will not tolerate in my life.
Starting point is 00:08:08 This is what I stand for. A lot of people are going to disappear or turn against. you because they're not going to be able to handle you. And that's a good thing. That means you're doing it right. That means you're rising. That means you're evolving. That means you're going to attract better people into your life and better things into your life that are aligned with the new, more evolved, more conscious, more confident
Starting point is 00:08:29 version of you. The best thing about being in the 1% is that you know your brain so well that you will instantly know how to make better decisions in your life. I'm speaking from personal experience. I used to be the most indecisive human being on the planet. And it took me so long to understand this concept of making decisions quickly. You have to move fast in this world, especially in this day and age with social media. Everything is moving at lightning fucking speed.
Starting point is 00:08:58 You got to move quick on your ideas, on your visions, on your goals. I was just talking to a guy I met here about Michael Jackson. There's this famous quote by Michael Jackson and he was like, I need to get up, go to the studio. I need to lock in and record what I got to record and make music fast and quick and get it out before Prince. Like, I don't want to be second to anyone else. I want to be the best. And he always went in with that mentality.
Starting point is 00:09:24 And Michael Jackson was polarizing to a lot of people. He became a polarizing person. A lot of people started to bash him and say he did all these terrible things. Then a lot of people were idolizing him and obsessed with him, right? He was so big and he had such big energy and he had such power as a mutual. musician and as an artist and as a performer, it's because of how big his vision was. At the end of the day, the biggest artists in the world, the biggest celebrities in the world, they're at the top 1% in the game because they knew how to act.
Starting point is 00:09:55 They knew how to act on their decisions, on their goals, on their visions. They knew how to act. They moved with speed. They moved with precision. They moved with conviction. They knew what they had to do. They saw the goal. They saw what their future was.
Starting point is 00:10:07 And they're like, I have to move towards that. And I can't stop. I got to build the momentum and keep going and cancel out my competitors. I got to do everything I got to do to be the best of the best of the best. The most elite people in the game, okay, this is really important, know what they're about, they know where they're going, they have a clear vision and they act on it. And they make decisions like that. Lightning speed.
Starting point is 00:10:30 They're like, okay, this is what we have to do. Let's execute it. There's no waiting period of six months a year. No, they don't procrastinate. They move. the most successful people in the world, they're very decisive with where they're going and they move. Being decisive is everything. And moving, moving on those decisions and acting on those decisions is everything.
Starting point is 00:10:51 What I was saying before is that I had a tendency to be very indecisive for my entire life. The thing about being indecisive is that you make yourself smaller energetically when you can't figure things out and you can't make decisions. you stall yourself, right? If you're not making any decisions, you're kind of just stagnant and stuck and paralyzed. And I had this thing called decision paralysis where when I was faced with literally any decision, I would literally make no decision.
Starting point is 00:11:22 And it was so hard for me to make decision. And then I got used to the habit of being indecisive where I'd be like, oh, I'll just sleep on it. Oh, I'll just wait. I'll wait a few days. I'll wait a week to see how I feel. And although sometimes with certain things you have to wait, because of timing, most of the time, you can make a yes or no decision in the moment right away
Starting point is 00:11:42 if you know who you are, if you know what you're about and you're really, really confident in your identity. Because when you know who you are and you know where you're going, most things are going to be filtered as a clear, hell yes or hell no, period. This can apply to so many areas of your life. But for me, this applies a lot now to dating. I'm very polarized in the vision, right? It's like, yes, this is the love of my love. life. This is someone who's really amazing that I could see myself with or see myself dating or I just want nothing to do with them because I don't have time to waste. I'm conserving my energy, right? I've dated enough. I've experienced enough. You guys have listened to the podcast for years. Most of you
Starting point is 00:12:22 who are here, you've been here for a while. You know that I've had a lot of life experiences dating. It made me polarized, right? It made me understand who I am so much and so deeply that I'll know right away when it's time to date someone. I know exactly who I am, what I deserve, and what I'm looking for. And that's the most beautiful thing in the world. I'm very, very selective in a positive way. It's not in like a closed off to love way. It's in a I know who I am and what I deserve way. This applies to so many different things in life. A lot of people and things will glitch and disappear out of your world when you really stand up for yourself and know what you're about. But that's how the 1% operate.
Starting point is 00:13:03 They have a vision and they know what they're about and nothing else can get into their field. Nothing else or no one else can penetrate the field. And it's liberating because you clear so many things that could have distracted you, that could have blocked you, that could have dragged you down. You clear all that out. So you're a clear channel and you have a ton of energy to work on yourself and you have a ton of energy to literally fulfill whatever it is you need to fulfill, to do whatever it is you got to do.
Starting point is 00:13:31 You have a mission and you're going for it and you don't have any of those like annoying distractions getting in the way of who you are. That's how the 1% operates. That's how the leaders operate. They don't have any noise. I saw this interview with the guy from Shark Tank. I'm forgetting, oh, Kevin O'Leary, right?
Starting point is 00:13:49 He was talking about Elon Musk and he was saying how Elon has no distractions and noise around him. And that is why he's able to do what he's doing right now. That is why he's Elon Musk. That is why he's built so many successful businesses and done so many insanely incredible, almost nearly what you would think is impossible things. He's accomplished so much in his life. And especially now because he filters everything out.
Starting point is 00:14:16 He filters out the noise. He doesn't get sidetracked. He doesn't get pulled into other people's lives and drama and bullshit and dinners. There was actually another interview I saw of Elon. This guy was like, yeah, I asked Elon to do. dinner and he said, no, I don't go to dinner because he's always working and he'll just have dinner on the side as he's busy computing, whatever it is he's working on. He doesn't look at like socializing and going to events as this like activity to do, right? He's just focused on the mission. And listen,
Starting point is 00:14:46 everyone has a different life path. He's on a different level entirely. I think there should always be a balance in life. You have to do what makes you happy. You have to enjoy the moments in life. Enjoy time with your family. Enjoy time with your loved ones. You have to be present in the moment. think that's super important. I'm not preaching, you know, just block everyone and be insanely cut off to the point where you're not having dinners. That's not the point here. The point, though, is he knows who he is so much that he's so dedicated to his mission and his life purpose, that he's willing to sacrifice all of those other things in order to execute. I just admire the fact that he's so set on his vision that he knows what he is to do and he moves in his way according to
Starting point is 00:15:28 his plan. And if you want to be at the top of whatever it is you're trying to do, whether you want to be a musician, an artist, an author, any type of entrepreneur, or at the top of your company that you work for, it's just about becoming so strong in who you are that you're making decisions according to what works for you and not necessarily leaking your energy everywhere else. It's super important. I really realized this as well. I was leaking my energy so much to bullshit when I promise myself I wasn't going to and then I did and I needed that reminder again to be like no 26 there's none of that we don't have time to leak our energy you got to be very protective of who you are you got to do what's best for you the next thing about being a polarizing person and being
Starting point is 00:16:15 in the top 1% there's going to be some people who think you're too much there's going to be some guys that make you feel like you're too much there's going to be you know some friends that might think you're too much and distance themselves your energy is going to become more and more powerful. This is going to draw people to you that have also been perceived as too much in their life because they were too big and their energy was so big. People with big energy can hold other people with big energy. People who love themselves so much are also going to gravitate towards you the more you love yourself. So the point is you should never fear being too much. And this is something that a lot of people do. They shrink themselves in relationships, in business partnerships. There's
Starting point is 00:16:58 These environments where people will make you feel like you have to play smaller because you're too much or you have your own opinions or you have a different perspective. The key is to be so grounded in who you are and love yourself so much that you're like, fuck that I'm out of here. There is a table somewhere in the world where people are waiting to sit with me and embrace me and eat with me and appreciate me. There are people waiting for you in rooms behind doors you haven't unlocked yet because you just haven't fully embraced. your fullest potential. You fully haven't embraced how powerful you are. But the second you make that switch and the second you embrace
Starting point is 00:17:35 how fucking incredible and powerful you truly are, those doors will swing open. Your life might temporarily feel like it's collapsing, like it's crumbling, like everyone around you currently, glitches and falls off the face of the earth, or they pull back, or they stop answering your messages, or they break up with you. Why?
Starting point is 00:17:52 Because you're embodying your power and they're not supposed to come with you into the next era of your life where you're the best version of yourself, period. That's why they're dropping off. If you keep working on yourself and harnessing your power and harnessing your energy and you feel like you're starting to really invest more in who you are,
Starting point is 00:18:09 get more confident in your skin, start doing things that are best for you, that work for you, start being a little more selfish with your time and your energy. And people can't understand that and they can't handle it. They're not going to be able to hold the new frequency of where you're vibrating at. So they're going to disappear. And it can feel scary. It can feel like the ground is cracking,
Starting point is 00:18:27 beneath you. But I can guarantee you if you hold firm to the new identity where you lock in and you're so obsessed with your new self and you take that time to really be like, I know what I deserve out of life. I know who I am. I know the right people are always going to find me. I know I'm here to make power moves. I know I'm here to be a leader and take over the world. I know what I'm about and I'm standing firm in that truth. If you really lock in and you don't waver in that frequency, your life will upgrade. Your life will get better. It will get more abundant, it will get more exciting. New people will come into your life. You'll have new opportunities flood in. Trusting and holding the frequency is the key to be in the top 1%. I was rereading
Starting point is 00:19:07 thinking grow rich the other day. There was a part of the book that was talking about how Thomas Edison, okay, he had like a million fucking failures before he invented the light bulb. He had so many failures, so many things that didn't work out for him. The greatest inventors, people who invented fucking electricity, okay? People who invented everything big and innovative and creative and crazy and wild had so many failed attempts before they got to where they were going, before they got to the final destination, where it worked, where it clicked. And people shat on them, people doubted them. People were like, you're fucking nuts. This is ridiculous. It happens when you're different. When you're an innovative person, when you're in the 1%. People are going to doubt you and question
Starting point is 00:19:50 you and think you're fucking nuts and insane. It's up to you to you to. hold the frequency of, I don't care what anyone else thinks about me because I know where I'm going and I know the vision and I know I'm doing something right. If people are doubting you and doubting your every move and telling you that things aren't going to work, it often means you're doing something different, something unique, and something that's right because you're an innovator. You're an innovative person. You're a creative person. You're different. You're special. You're unique. You have your own unique thoughts and brain and ideas. It's up to you to just believe in yourself and trust the vision. The beauty about really owning who you are is that when you
Starting point is 00:20:23 you do attract people who operate at your frequency because you're standing firm in your new identity and you're embracing your weirdness, you're embracing your creative side, you're embracing these parts of yourself that maybe a lot of people shit on you for in the past. You will attract people who understand your vibe. You will because it's inevitable. I'm going to give you an example because it just happened to me. I met someone. It was raining. We were both trapped at this restaurant and we both were waiting for the rain to stop. He kept looking at me and then I was looking at him and he was like pretty cute.
Starting point is 00:20:55 I was like, oh, okay, let's see if he comes over. And he did come over to me. He sat down next to me and he was like, oh, are you waiting for the rain to stop, whatever, blah, blah, blah. We get into a conversation and you know how some people are just messengers. Like some people will just approach you and they'll deliver a message that you know you need to hear in that moment in time. He was definitely a messenger for me.
Starting point is 00:21:15 We got into this conversation of our lifestyles and how we're more nomadic and how there's always this pressure. Like you have to settle down and buy a house and start a family by the time you're 30 and do all these things in order to be normal to society. But I've never ever felt that way. From the time I was 10 years old, I remember always thinking I just see the world differently. Like I want to always have my freedom and just do things that are different from everyone else. I don't like following the herd.
Starting point is 00:21:43 I feel like everyone who's found my podcast, you probably in some way feel that way about yourself. Right? Because as I said, if you're operating at a certain frequency, it's going to attract people that are similar to you. And I feel like there's a lot of people here who feel different from their family or feel different from their friends. Like you're the black sheep type of thing. And this guy was like, yeah, I could buy a house. I could settle down. I could follow the path that my parents expect me to follow. But I choose to just live life the way that I want to live it. At the end of the day, that's okay. Like you can just live. life the way that you want to live it. If you dream big enough and you think big enough and you have a creative mind and you believe you can manifest everything you've ever wanted, that's also why I'm dropping this master class around the same time because it's important if you feel like your dreams are a little out of reach. This class is literally designed to break that habit in your brain. So you can believe that you're capable of manifesting anything and get everything you've ever
Starting point is 00:22:44 wanted and live the life that you've always dreamed of according to your rules. He was just basically saying, it's okay to be different and do things the way that you want to do them. There's no rules to life and the way you want to live it. And if you don't want to buy a house and start a family just because you're in your 30s, who the fuck cares? I love those type of conversations because it really got me thinking of how, yes, I've always beat to my own drum. I've always done my own thing. I'm very stubborn with my vision and who I am as a person. And I've always been ruthless in pushing forward and, you know, always.
Starting point is 00:23:17 going and working and moving towards a goal. But hearing it from a stranger, I just sometimes feel like it hits differently because it made me realize that there are other people like me, that think like me, that dream big, that don't want to follow the rules, that want to break free and do what they want. I see a lot of people I know personally that I've met before, that used to work for people that are like, I want to do my own thing now. I'm going to bet on myself. I'm going to become the person I've always dreamt up becoming. I want to do something different. I want to do something more artsy. Or I will continue what I'm doing, but I just want to invest more in my passions. There's a lot of emphasis now on really just breaking free of the norms of society of what you're supposed to do,
Starting point is 00:24:01 what you're expected to do. And I think that's such a beautiful thing. Because in order to be the best version of yourself, in order to be at the top, the 1%, you got to beat to your own fucking You got to do it. You got to operate according to your rules. What are the rules in your head that you want to create for your life? Stop looking at what everyone else is doing. Stop comparing your life to everyone else online. What is going to inspire you and make you happy?
Starting point is 00:24:27 And then move towards that. The other thing about being in the 1% and really being at the top and being polarizing in who you are as a person is that when you radiate the frequency of certainty about yourself, people respect you so fucking much. people treat you differently. It's not about how you look. It's not about how you dress. Those things are kind of actually like a byproduct of becoming certain with yourself
Starting point is 00:24:50 because you'll start to want to invest more in how you look and how you feel about yourself. But when you're just so certain in who you are, people will just feel that and reflect how you feel about yourself back to you because everyone is your mirror. Everyone will show you pieces of yourself that you need to see when you meet them. That's why everyone's perception of people is different. Like when you're like, oh, I don't like that person. And then you know someone else who's like best friends with them. You're like, how are they best friends?
Starting point is 00:25:15 It's because their perception of themselves is different. Everyone is you pushed out. This is something I also talk about a lot in Manifest Overnight. It's one of my favorite concepts by Neville Goddard. Everyone is you pushed out. People reflect back to you how you see yourself, how you show up for yourself, how you carry yourself, how good you feel about yourself. Everything is energy.
Starting point is 00:25:36 So when you are in the feeling of certainty about yourself, people will respect you more and feel more certain about you and trust you more. And that's a really powerful thing. The next thing is when you are so grounded in who you are and you're ruthless about who you are, it's actually really authentic and refreshing. Instead of trying to like, you know, be a nice girl or like accommodate other people's feelings. I don't want to text them. I don't want to bother this person or I don't want to come off this way. No. When you just know who you are, it's more raw. it's more authentic. And once again, people will respect that way more long term. It might feel uncomfortable to be selfish in who you are, but people will respect that more than you being a people
Starting point is 00:26:22 pleaser and letting them get the last word or letting them walk all over you or just accommodating to their feelings. You can be kind, you can be warm, you could be gracious, you could be respectful to everyone. But when it comes to who you are at your core, you're always, you're always, you're going to honor yourself and your truth and have the most respect for yourself that if someone tries to cross your boundary or if someone ghosts you or if someone disrespects you, you know how to handle it. And you're not just like, oh, it's okay. And you make yourself a shell of a person on behalf of someone else's needs. That's not coming with us into 2026. That's communicating to the universe that you don't value yourself and you don't have strong boundaries. And in order to be at the top 1%
Starting point is 00:27:06 of your game, you got to come into life with clear, strong boundaries and knowing your worth and knowing what you deserve. When you speak your truth and when you speak with no filter and you stand up for what you believe, it is polarizing. And once again, a lot of people don't want to hear the truth. They don't want to hear your opinions. They don't want to hear things you have to say because if it goes against any little part of them, they freak out and they're like, I can't handle this. I'm out. Okay, so they're not meant for you. Those people aren't meant to stay in your field. Those people aren't aligned with the highest version of you. So it doesn't matter.
Starting point is 00:27:36 You're not losing anything by standing in your truth. You're gaining more self-respect or gaining more self-love by doing so. And the last thing I'll conclude with is it's just easier long term. If you're playing the long game of life and you've tried to curate a personality and you've tried to make your Instagram so aesthetic and you've tried to do this and you've tried to do that. Stop fucking trying so hard and watch how easy your life will get. Watch how easy it is to manifest the things you've always wanted because you're clearing any blockages or resistance around your identity.
Starting point is 00:28:07 You're not trying to fit into a certain box or mold anymore. You're just letting go and surrendering and being your fucking self and being the truest version of yourself because you're not trying to please anyone else. You're just operating and being authentically unapologetically you, which is the most important thing. And that speaks volumes. When you try to be so likable in this day and age especially, it actually shrinks your energy field. It actually shrinks what you're about. You're doing yourself a disservice by trying to be likable. Just be your fucking self.
Starting point is 00:28:40 You don't have to be a perfect curated version of yourself online because you want people to perceive you a certain way. No, just be your fucking self. Who cares what you're posting? Who cares what you're doing? As long as it's aligned with your truth and it feels good to you and it makes you happy, who cares? As long as you're not harming anyone in the process of being yourself, who cares? Life is supposed to be lived the way you want to live it. Your life is supposed to be lived specifically for you. Let me emphasize that. For you. Not for anyone else online. Not for the guy that you have a
Starting point is 00:29:17 crush on looking at your Instagram stories. Not for your friends, not for your family. For you. You're an individual with an amazing heart, an amazing soul, an amazing brain, an amazing mind. You have so much potential to do everything you've ever wanted in this life. So believe in it. Believe in yourself. Believe in your vision. You are the creator of your reality. You are the creator of your destiny.
Starting point is 00:29:39 You deserve all the amazing things in life. And with that being said, that concludes today's episode of a list. I love you guys so much. You're the best. Remember, don't miss out on the biggest masterclass I'm ever launching. This is going to be insane. I just feel it. 2026 is your year.
Starting point is 00:29:55 It's our year to manifest everything we've ever wanted. Be sure to tap the link in the show notes or go to my Instagram at ListBoss, L-Y-S-S-B-O-S-S. To join the waitlist, doors open on my birthday, January 19th. I cannot wait to see you there. I'm so excited for you all. I love you. Have an amazing day wherever you are in the world,
Starting point is 00:30:13 wherever you're listening from, and stay tuned for future episodes. Bye.

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