Date Yourself Instead - How to have INSANE aura - you will never be the same.

Episode Date: October 11, 2025

In this episode, I’m breaking down how to shift your aura from gray to golden - from dull and drained to glowing, magnetic, and unstoppable. I get into how your emotions literally color your energy, and I share how I healed from toxic vibes, cut out the noise, and raised my frequency. We’re talking self-belief, clarity, energetic audits, feeding your mind with the right content, and fully aligning with your soul’s truth so you can call in abundance and actually manifest what you want.00:00 Introduction: From Gray to GoldenThe vibe check: how I went from feeling gray and heavy to glowing golden.00:04 Understanding Auras and Energy FieldsBreaking down what an aura actually is and why your energy field is everything.00:50 Personal Experience with Aura ChangesMy own story—how I could feel my aura shift and what I did about it.01:51 The Healing Process and Golden AuraHow to release toxic attachments and step back into your power.02:50 The True Meaning of a Glow UpIt’s not just looks. It’s soul. It’s frequency.03:23 Mastering the Art of Alchemizing Your EnergyTurning low vibes into gold. Literally alchemy.04:51 Harnessing Inner Power and Self-BeliefWhy your energy skyrockets the second you decide you’re the main character.06:43 Certainty and Clarity in ManifestationHow being sure of yourself and your vision changes the game.12:37 Energetic Audit and DetoxWho and what gets to stay in your field—and what’s out.15:38 Consuming Positivity and High FrequenciesWhat you scroll, watch, and listen to builds your aura.18:07 Creating a Positive Morning RoutineSmall shifts to set your vibe high from the moment you wake up.19:00 Mastering Your Energy FieldOwning your aura like it’s your superpower.20:04 Life Hack: Removing Unaligned PeopleSometimes the hack is unfollow, block, delete. Protect the vibe.24:46 Living from Your Soul's TruthWhen you move from your soul, everything aligns naturally.26:17 Transforming Your Relationship with MoneyMoney is just energy—shift the frequency, shift the flow.28:33 The Power of Words and PositivityYour words are spells—speak gold, not gray.30:19 Romanticizing Your LifeHow to make every moment feel cinematic and magnetic.32:51 Connecting with a Higher PowerPlugging into the divine—God, universe, whatever you believe in—supercharges everything.34:23 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsYour aura is your magnet. Keep it golden.

From gray to golden. How to change your aura from gray to golden. When we come out of a breakup, when we come out of a toxic situation, when we're not feeling our best, when we're feeling low, we have a different type of aura. People can sense our energy. People can feel our energy fields and they could also physically see the energy that we're radiating. If you look at anyone, you can actually detect what color aura they have.

I know it sounds wild, but it's true. If you really think about it for a second, if you really tap in for a moment and tap into someone's energy field and really tap into your higher self and your spiritual side, if you observe someone and their energy field and you're around them often. And you look at them. You can actually master detecting the color of someone's aura, the color of someone's energy field. This is a real thing. If I look at old photos of myself from when I was going through loss, grief, heartbreak, depression, there's just something different about my color. There's just something different about my aura.

It looked dull. I looked gray. I looked pale. And you see this kind of dark cloud, even in photos or videos, over my face. You know that expression? You have a black cloud over your head.

I truly believe that if someone's going through a really difficult time or they don't have a great energy or they're not really a great person and you sense that they have a lot of dark energy in them, you can actually see the black cloud over someone's head. You could actually see their aura.

This is how I actually have been able to filter out people that are no longer serving my growth that aren't right for me, that aren't aligned with me and my energy. I observe their aura. And I actually ask myself and I tap into that higher energy field and I say, okay, what color is their aura? What color are they radiating out at me? And I can instantly detect it. So my theory is when we heal and we truly do the deep.

inner healing work and we really put an emphasis on bettering ourselves and bettering who we are and changing for the better we start to change our aura we start to change the color that we are radiating out into the world and we become more of a light and that is why in my master classes I always mentioned the gray to gold aura I have a theory that when you really do the energy work and you strip yourself of trauma and you strip yourself of negative energies and rid yourself of other people's energies that might be stuck to you that might be clinging to you from toxic relationships and from toxic cycles because you know that other people can infiltrate your energy field. Once you clean yourself and cleanse yourself and truly go through

the process of healing, your aura becomes golden. You become a light. You start radiating golden, magnetic, beautiful light and energy. And people will notice it. People will sense it. And that is what a glow up truly is. A glow up isn't really about the external things about, oh, I dyed my hair, I got a haircut, I lost weight, I know how to do my makeup now. Yes, although those things are very helpful and although those things could be beneficial and they don't hurt, I truly believe the biggest glow-up always comes from within and doing the inner healing and doing the inner energy work. That is where your true glow-up will lie because people will actually feel you and feel

how strong you've become and feel how powerful you are and feel you radiating this golden energy. So in this episode, I am going to tell you how to master the art of alchemizing your energy, anything that feels stuck, anything that feels stagnant that might be blocking you from achieving a golden aura. I want you to leave this episode feeling magnetic, feeling like you've had a little glow up, feeling activated, feeling inspired. This episode is for those of you who want to glow up energetically and to step into your power energetically and evolve and alchemize your energy into a beautiful high frequency where you will attract abundance, where you will radiate golden light,

where people will literally stare at you as you're walking down the street everywhere you go, babies, men, all eyes are going to be on you because you are going to be so powerful and feeling so in charge of your energy field and you are going to radiate positivity, abundance. You are going to shine so brightly that people are going to want to look at you, stare at you, want to be around your frequency, want to be around your energy.

and you will become a magnetic force field. So let's get into it. All of your manifestations are about to come true after listening to this. So buckle in, get ready, grab yourself a latte or a tea or wherever you are. If you're in the gym, locking it in, I'm proud of you. If you're on a walk, I'm proud of you. I'm excited to dive into this because this is going to be the ultimate game changer for you. You're going to be dominating the world.

You are a magnetic force field. I want to start off this episode by saying, you have it all within you. You have all the answers you need about your life, about your goals, about your future, about where you're supposed to be, and about how you love yourself. All of that's within you, okay? You have all the love, the divine magnetic essence you need within you already. You don't need it from anyone else. You don't need it from another person.

You don't need to seek it outside of yourself. You don't need to travel anywhere. You don't need to go anywhere or do anything. all the energy you need is within you. It's just a matter of tapping into it and knowing how to tap into your field. Know how to get really familiar with your energy field. You have all the power within you.

You are so powerful. If you're listening to this right now, I want you to know how powerful you truly are. If you found this video, you know how powerful you are because for some reason you found me. It brought you here. You're listening to this in this very moment

and you might be going through something right now where you don't feel 100% you feel a little broken down because you went through a really toxic situation, you went through a really difficult time or you're currently grieving something or someone and I get it, but I just need to remind you right now

you have everything you need within you. You don't need anything else to complete you or fulfill you. And once you grasp that concept, everything becomes easy because you don't need to do a thousand therapy sessions or call your friends and ask for advice for the million time, or go on TikTok and scroll for 10 hours,

trying to find an answer, or do a million things to try to get over someone because you don't need any of that. All you need is yourself and your mind and your thoughts and your energy field. Once you understand that, everything gets easier because everything is in the power of your thoughts, your mind, and your energy field.

And all the answers are within. So how do you go from gray to golden? From a gray dull aura, where you don't feel like your best self to your highest timeline where you are radiating constant abundance attracting constant miracles number one stop hoping and start knowing certainty being so fucking certain that everything you want is coming to manifest it's not about hoping wishing begging the universe being desperate that's the gray aura that's living in a gray energy in order to get to the golden aura, the golden energy field, you must know. You must know with unwavering

certainty that everything you've ever wanted is already yours. It's already happening. It's already aligning for you. Everything is working out. It's just a matter of divine timing. It's up to you to trust and have unwavering faith in the divine timing of your life. God knows the best timing for you, for things to unfold, for things to manifest. It's up to you to trust that and know that it's coming. Whatever you want is coming. It's happening. It's done. It's already done. That is living from a golden aura. That is living from your highest timeline.

Whatever it is you want, it's already happened. It's done. I'm good. I'm at ease. I'm grounded in my body. I'm so sure that everything I want is lining up in the perfect divine time. I am so confident in my manifesting abilities. I know exactly what I want and I know that I deserve it and I know I'm worthy of it.

And it all will happen in the perfect divine timing. That's it. That's all you need to believe. I'm certain. Miracles are unfolding for me at every hour of every day. It's done. I don't need to worry. I don't need to stress. I don't need to beat myself up over what I could have done differently in the past. I don't need to stress about the future. I don't need to scribble down my manifestations 300 million fucking times in a journal. The same way you know the sun is going to rise in the morning. The same way you know that water is wet. The same way you know that things are just certain, you have to feel the same

way about what you're trying to manifest. Part two of this is getting clear. and crystal fucking clear on what you want and need out of your life. What do you actually want? Really ask yourself this question. What do you actually want? You can't be vague. You can't be just going with the flow with these things. You have to know exactly what it is that you want and then flow towards it.

It's not about working harder. It's not about stressing. It's not about begging, as I just mentioned. But it's about knowing. And you need to be clear on what you actually want so you could actually manifest properly. People who have golden oras, people who are so confident and grounded in themselves, know exactly what they want. Bottom line, they're confident in their mission, they're confident what they're working towards, they're confident what they're trying to accomplish in life. They know what they want.

Do you know what you want? You say you want to be a content creator, for example. But are you doing anything that would align with the frequency of being a content creator? How many pieces of content are you sharing? Are you sharing content? Are you doing anything? Are you taking the steps to actually become a creator or be a creator? It's not just about posting a video.

It's about being that person already. Showing up as that person already. Are you showing up as the person you want to be already? If you're looking to quantum jump into a reality where you are your higher self, you are the best version of yourself, you're living out your wildest dreams, are you acting from that person? Are your actions reflecting what that person would be doing right now? Because if they're not, it's going to be a lot harder to get there.

Live and breathe as the person you wish to become in your mind. All you need is your mind. I am a multi-millionaire. I am receiving a check for an extra 30K this month because why the fuck not? The world is limitless. Energy is at your fingertips. Energy is always accessible. Energy is always at your fingertips.

And when you master your energy field, everything gets easy. Everything becomes effortless. you draw in new experiences, miracles, new people, new relationships, new work opportunities. Everything you've ever wanted starts to come into your field because you are mastering your own energy field instead of trying and scrambling to figure everything out and trying to manifest and trying to cling on to expectation. Just let go. When you master your mind and you master your thoughts and you're so confident in what you want, it's inevitable that it will come to fruition at some point or another. So what do you want? I want you. I want you.

to write a list, it's done. How much money are we making this summer? Write it down. Specific number. Okay, 100K, right, this summer. June, 100K month, done. It's done. I close the deal. Who are you dating? Are you still in the toxic situation ship where you're tolerating breadcrumb behavior from a medium, ugly man? Or are you shifting into a reality where you meet your soulmate, the love of your life and you have an incredible summer on a boat in mecanos? Which do you prefer? Which do you want? Get clear with the vision. Get clear with the vision and what you actually really, really want and know you deserve. More importantly, what do you know you deserve? Because if you're just settling with someone that doesn't like you, that's on you. Like it's time to wake up, snap out of it. You want to glow up. You want to be golden. You want to radiate golden light. It's about knowing your worth and knowing what it is you actually deserve. And what are you wearing? How are you speaking? How are you creating? How are you creating? How are you acting? How are you showing up to other people and to yourself every day?

Are you putting an effort to your appearance? Are you taking care of yourself? Are you going to the gym? Are you creating new healthy habits for yourself? Write it all down and then title the list. It's done. After each thing you write down, put a check next to it. It's done.

It's already done. It's already happened. That's how you create your reality and become golden. Step three, the next thing I want you to do is an energetic, audit. I want you to audit. Who is draining you? What is draining you? What are things that are holding you back? And then X them, cut them, cut the energetic cords. This is crucial. I speak about this a lot, but I am telling you this is the ultimate game changer. There are no exceptions when you have clear boundaries in place and you know who you are and you know what you stand for and you know

your worth. There are no exceptions anymore. If you want to glow up and master your energy field and radiate golden light at all hours of every single day. You can't have people that are toxic that are not on your vibration weighing you down. You can't be in environments that drain you. You can't tolerate bullshit behavior from people anymore. You can't tap into other people's energy that are lower than yours. You cannot surround yourself with people that aren't meeting you where you're at. It is going to drain you.

It is going to cost you your energy. And your energy is the most valuable, precious thing in the world. So you have to know what is actually holding you back and be honest with yourself. Be honest with yourself and know who to cut and what to eliminate from your energetic field. Do an audit. This is called the energetic audit. It is a very powerful thing that I do once every few months. I notice who's draining me.

I notice what's draining me. I notice what could be potentially holding me back in my field and I let it go with love. Detox your space. Detox your phone. Detox your circle. detox anything or anyone that is cluttering your energy field. I go through my camera roll all the time and delete old photos, old pictures of me that I just look gray, I look dull,

I look not my best, because that version of me doesn't exist anymore. If you're attached to the past, if you're constantly the type of person who looks through your camera roll at old memories of you and your ex-boyfriend or your ex-partner and you reminisce and you get in a fog and you get all sad and you get nostalgic because you miss this,

them, you are literally draining your energy field by doing that. It may seem like it's not a big deal at first, but over time, as you look back at the past, as you reminisce, it can actually deplete and drain your energy field. It can prevent you from being at the highest possible frequency. Because if you start stirring up negative emotion, sadness, nostalgia, you start replaying the past, you start missing someone, can make you feel sad. And sadness is gray. We're living in our gray aura when we're sad, when we're depressed, when we're anxious,

when we're really missing someone. When we're living in the past, that's gray. I want you to think future. Future higher self and higher timelines at all times. That's the golden energy. So what have you been avoiding letting go of? We're not clinging on to the past. So what do you have to let go of before that?

I'm making this episode right now so you clear the old timelines. Clear the past. Let go. When you let go, you release that old stagnant stuck gray energy. and you raise your frequency. You become magnetic. You become in charge of your energetic field.

The next thing is consuming positivity only and being around people and situations that are going to uplift you and raise your frequency. Now, you can start your morning by doing breathwork, by doing a meditation, by following my courses. The beauty about them is that you have the materials to revisit at any hour of any day and you get to keep it forever.

And I have my favorite meditations and breathwork, rituals in those courses. But you could go on YouTube, search meditations, search breathwork, and do something that becomes a part of your routine and ritual in the morning. Consume positive content only. Dive into positivity, dive into high frequency things, dive into things that are going to make you feel good. Stop listening to sad music.

Stop listening to depressing shit. Stop listening to toxic garbage on social media that says everything sucks and dating sucks and politics and this and that. Your brain is an algorithm. You are an algorithm. Your energy field is an algorithm. What you're feeding it, what you're consuming matters. So you have to filter out the negativity. This is how you change from grade to golden. You have to filter out anything that is negative, that is low vibe, that is about complaining, anxiety rooted in fear. There's none of that anymore. I refuse to listen to really depressing music. I just can't bear it. Everything is energy. And if everything is energy, when we listen to sad music, what happens is

it can infiltrate into our energy fields and make us actually sad. Replay the past. We connect to the artist that's singing at a really subconscious level that we don't even really understand. And then we could actually be so affected by it that we'll go through the next week feeling low and we don't even understand why we feel that way. Frequencies matter. The same way when you listen to a sad song, you can feel kind of sad. You can also tap into positive meditations, frequencies, high vibe songs that make you feel good, that make you want to dance, that make you get up and smile. That's all I listen to now. Because the more we listen to happy music, the more we listen to happy things, the better we feel and the more we could raise our frequency. Now,

obviously, that being said, I know we're human, we're all going to have days where we just want to cry and binge sad music, sad songs, and eat ice cream and get in our feelings. And that's okay. That's totally okay. Okay. However, don't get trapped in that habit. I want to feel good every day. I don't want to go from high to low, high to low. No, I want to be stable, happy, wild and free. I love 80s music. I love 90s music too, but I really love 80s music. So I play 80s music while I'm making my coffee, dance around my kitchen, stretch, do some yoga, do a meditation, work from my laptop. And I just tap into the frequency of dancing, of light, of joy, of just feeling good in my body. Because why the fuck not? Why wouldn't you want to wake up with a

smile on your face? Why would you wake up the first thing you do, go on Instagram, start stalking your ex, you start replaying the past, you do your emails and then you start like going backwards and you're like, ugh, like this is just another day for me. No, you're in control. You get to make the rules of your reality. You get to create your reality now. You are the master of your energy field. You're going from gray to golden.

Don't succumb to the old timelines of replaying the past and being sad. Wake up tomorrow feeling fresh and saying, you know what? New era. This summer is going to be incredible. I'm attracting everything I want. I'm manifesting abundance. I'm living in miracles. God is my provider.

I get what I want effortlessly. everything is coming to me, everything is working out for me, everything is working in my favor, divine timing. I love my energy. I love myself. I am operating from divine love. It is time to create the new normal of just always feeling abundant and good. And that is going to radiate outwards to people. When you live in positivity, when you're rooted in confidence in your future, in your future self, in your manifestations, in knowing that you create your energy field and that you can attract abundance with the power of your mind, the world opens up for you. And people will see how different you are in the way that you carry yourself, in your appearance, and in your aura.

Now this trick works like a fucking charm. And it could be a little challenging at first because you're going to see people drop off like fucking flies. But here we go. Life hack, okay? Get ready to have your reality shift drastically and your mind blown. This is an activation. This episode is an activation. So if you're listening to this, get ready for your world to shift and change, okay? This is a life hack that I acquired over the last year that is failproof. If you're unsure about something or someone, if they're not giving you certainty, if you're anxious about a connection, if you feel like something's off with someone, if you feel like the relationship is just unclear in any way, shape, or form, I want you to ask God to remove them if they're not aligned

with your higher self. Literally ask God, go to God, go to source and say, God, please remove this person if they don't have my best interest, if they're not aligned with my higher self, if they're not aligned with my future self, that deserves unconditional love, divine love, I'm operating from divine love and truth now. Release this person, let them go, get them out of my energetic field right now if they're not for me. Now, you have to be ready for this answer because a lot of the time, they're going to poof and vanish off the face of the earth. It's actually fucking insane. But the beauty of it is you don't have to waste your time anymore

and you can move on and find true love and find the right people and the right situations because you are not afraid to let go of the people that are no longer aligned with your higher self. You'll be able to confidently eliminate any prospects that are wasting your precious time and energy. And if you really want to glow up and be golden and radiate at a high frequency at all times,

you have to cut out the people that are not aligned with you and the higher version of you. It's a little bit wild, but it works weirdly fast because God wants to see you happy. God wants to see you successful. He wants to see you vibrating

at the highest frequency, and he wants to show you his power because God is your source. So try this out. Try this method out for yourself. Yep, it's a little bit humbling. It's a little bit chaotic in the moment because maybe you're not fully ready to let go of this person, but there was someone here recently where I, oh my goodness, oh my God, I can't even believe it actually unfolded the way that it did.

But there was someone here who, you know, I just said, God, eliminate, delete, delete them from my life right now if they're not aligned. Even if you have to ask that, they're probably just not the right person. But it's always good to ask, check in with God, check in with the higher power, say, okay, is this person aligned with me? If not, if they don't love me, if they're not capable of loving me and showing up the same way that I could show up for them, delete them, get rid of them. So I did this. And yeah, it was like interesting because literally an hour later, this person was standing in front

of me. And I said in my head, God eliminate them if they don't have my best interest. And he like glitched and was like, oh, you know what? I'm going to go actually get a sandwich with my friend and he poofed and vanished. Like he literally walked out of my house and I never heard from him after that. Like he just glitched and disappeared. And I was like, okay, bye, see you later. And that was it. And I never saw this person again. He just vanished from the timeline. He vanished from my energy field. And there was no explanation. But I realized if someone just poofs and vanishes into the abyss, that was God doing it for you, doing the deed for you and saying, you're not going to walk away. You're not going to walk away because clearly you're too nice. You give too many fucking

chances. So let me take over. And yeah, it's happened to me on several occasions, foolproof. If you're not ready for them to disappear. You got to be ready for them to disappear if they're not aligned. But if they don't, if they stick around, there might be something there. A really powerful affirmation I love. I only call in people that align with my highest timeline. I only call in people that embody divine love and truth. I only call in people that truly embody divine love. A lot of people will vanish. But, you know, the people that's day, you know they're the good ones. The next thing, start operating from your soul and not from ego or what you think other people want to see. Operate from your soul mission. Operate from

your truth. Who are you? Who would you be if likes didn't matter, if comments didn't matter, if engagement didn't matter? How would you show up in the world? Who would you be? Stop putting on a show, stop putting on an act. Operate from the soul. What ignites you? What makes you excited get up in the morning. Tap into that frequency every day. I was having a conversation with one of my friends at dinner the other night and we were talking about our careers and how you know you're living your soul's truth

and your mission when you wake up every day, excited. I've gone through years of my life where I didn't wake up excited. I didn't wake up feeling inspired. I felt drained. I felt sad, especially when I was in the wrong relationships and tolerating bad behaviors, my aura started to dim, my light started to dim, and I wasn't living from my soul.

But when you live from your soul and you do what your soul wants to do, you're always going to be happy. You're always going to feel fulfilled. And for the longest time, too, in my 20s, I didn't really have a career that was fulfilling to my soul. It was more ego-driven, right? I was traveling. I was creating content.

I'm so grateful for every chapter, everything I've done for my career. I'm so grateful. But I know now what it's like to fulfill my soul's calling versus working from ego, working to make money. Money is important, okay? It's inevitable. We live in a physical 3D world where money is important. But when you start shifting to 4D and not 3D and operating from the 3D ego where you're like, oh my God, I need to do this to get a check or I need to do this to make money and I need this. I need money. When you start actually tapping into your soul's energy

field and you're like, listen, money is energy. Money is just energy. When you start treating money as energy because it is that's all it is and you stop living in fear about it and scarcity money will come to you in unexpected ways money will start flowing to you and coming to you in the most unexpected profound ways when i was struggling before i started the podcast and i went through a really rough patch with my finances i had to get in the mindset of 4d not 3d where i'm like oh my god i need to pay my rent i have bills i have this because everything was adding up it was so stressful i remember the feeling of being so broke that it can really make you feel fearful because you're like, I'm not going to be able to survive. I'm not going to be able to live my life. I'm not going to

be able to pay for things. It can stress you the fuck out. Okay? I get it because I've experienced it many times. Like on multiple occasions I felt this way where I was like my head was underwater and I'm like I feel like I'm drowning. I had to hack my reality, hack my energy. I had to hack my energetic fields and become a super magnet for money. I'm attracting money at all times. Money flows to me effortlessly. Money is just energy. When you grasp that concept, money will start flowing to you in unexpected ways. And this is why I'm also rebranding a lot and I'm going to be creating new courses around this because I've come to understand that once you look at everything as energy and not physically like dollars, you start to attract money from unexpected sources. Abundance will

flow into your life when you believe that it will. Guaranteed. So tying this back into, you know, following your soul's calling. When you really follow your soul's calling, money will start to come to you because you are aligning with your highest self. And that's why I always say, do what you love, tap into your passions,

do what you truly love. That's what the mind, body, soul reset master class focuses on a lot is getting you to that higher timeline so you could follow your soul's calling. The next thing, your words are potent and powerful.

Your words are codes for miracles. God knows, what you're speaking. God knows if you're gossiping. He knows what you're talking about on a daily basis if you're talking negative or positive. Speak positive. Speak positivity. Declare abundance even if you're currently going through, you know, a period of time where you don't feel abundant. Declare it anyway. Keep speaking positivity. When you're going through hardship, keep speaking words of encouragement to yourself. Everything is working out for me. Everything is aligning for my highest good. God has my back.

I'm divinely protected. I'm being divinely guided. What feels like a loss, what feels like hardship, is really just preparing me for more blessings and more miracles. When I was really struggling financially or when I was really going through my breakup and I felt like I was at my lowest points in my life, God was just preparing me for the next level.

He was breaking me down in a lot of ways and testing me in a lot of ways so I could rise even higher and higher and higher. It's kind of like a game. Life is a game, right? And you're just hacking the levels. you're hacking the levels and rising above the chaos, rising above the difficulties, rising above the channels, rising above the challenges, you're rising above the challenges because you know

that you're strong, that you're confident, that you're a warrior, that you're going to get through whatever it is you're going through, through the power of your mind and your energy field. When you master your energy, you can use your words to help you get to the next level. I'm getting through this. I'm being divinely guided to the next level of my life. That's how you hack your reality. through the power of your words and speaking positivity into the world, speaking positivity into your energetic field, even if it feels hard right now.

The next thing is romanticizing your reality now, romanticizing your life now. It's so funny, I was actually talking to my friend about, you know, quantum jumping into a reality where I'm married or I'm engaged or I'm, you know, with someone who I think I'm going to marry. And we were talking about, you know, really living and bringing and breathing in this reality because it's already happened for us, right?

So it's like, we're talking about this and she's like, I don't have sexy pajamas to wear. If I was actually like with a man that I truly loved, I would be wearing sexy silk pajamas to bet, at least during the first couple months of dating. And we were laughing because I was like, oh, I didn't even think about that, but it's true. Every little detail, beautify your life, romanticize your life and live and operate as if it's truly already happening. Are you wearing the clothes you would wear if you were with the love of your life? Are you dressing up and carrying yourself and holding the frequency of someone who's deeply in love? Are you? Or are you sulking and saying, when is it going to happen? When is it going to

happen for me? When am I going to meet him? I'm guilty of it too. I've been there. I get it. But when you start romanticizing your life and loving yourself so deeply and pouring all of your energy into really making your energetic field so beautiful. That's when miracles happen. That's when you feel good. And when you feel good, you become magnetic. You start to attract new people. You start to attract new situations. And it all kind of ties together in such a beautiful way. So buy yourself the flowers. Take care of yourself. Do your beauty routines regularly. Feel good. Go to the gym, work out, better your body, eat healthy, what would you be doing if the love of your life was a week away? What would you be doing? Would you be in bed ordering takeout and sobbing your eyes out? No,

you would be in the gym, busting your ass, you would have a whole new workout routine, you would be go getting, you know, your hair done, your lashes fixed, whatever. You would be taking steps, you would be taking the steps to look hot because you're about to meet your soulmate. You want to look good. You want to feel good. You want to radiate confidence. You want to radiate abundance. You want to smile. You want to feel fucking good. So start now. Because if they're a week away, are you ready to receive. They are a week away. Are you ready to receive? Are you ready to meet them? Ask yourself that. Be honest. And the last step from going gray to golden. tap into the higher power, tap into God every day, wake up and say, God, I want you to show me who I am

how you see me through your eyes because I know that I am loved. I know that I am protected. I know that I am adored. I know that I am so special through your eyes and I want to see myself more through your eyes. You're perfect. You were made beautiful, perfect, confident, successful, abundant just the way you are. And that's something that I'm learning. too, just waking up every day and trusting in a higher power and asking that higher power to guide me to be better, to be more of myself, to live in truth, to live in divine love and operate from divine love. It's really changed me. I see it in the way I think. I see it in my energy. If you go back to old episodes from years ago when I started, you just see the shifts and changes. I cringe at

some of my old content because some of it's, you know, not operating from divine love. It's operating from fear or ego or, you know, toxic patterns that I went through. And we're all learning, we're all growing, we're all healing together. That's the beauty of being so tapped into the collective, having this platform, seeing how you guys have also healed with me on this journey of the podcast. And it's just so beautiful to see and see the evolution and see the growth as I've built a relationship with my faith, as I've tapped into my higher self more. And as I've rooted myself more in divine love and not ego or fear. So yeah, I am wishing you guys the most incredible day, the most incredible week, the most incredible year. If you enjoyed this episode,

if you feel activated, if you feel inspired, if you feel like this helped you get to the next level and it raised your frequency a little bit. Send me a DM on Instagram at list. I would absolutely love to hear from you. Thank you as always for listening to the podcast. And be sure to rate the podcast on Apple and Spotify. It really does help the show grow. Thank you. As always, I love you. I appreciate you. I'm so grateful for you. And stay tuned for next Monday.