Date Yourself Instead - How to ignite your DIVINE FEMININE ENERGY now. Instant energy upgrade. 🐆✨

Episode Date: July 17, 2025

Divine feminine energy is the key to getting everything you want out of life. Living in flow, not force. Living in relaxation, not stress. Living in trust, not fear. Surrendering and letting the world come to YOU. If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend and leave a comment on Spotify. Xx, Lyss. 🐆✨✨

So as I'm apartment hunting in London, I've been staying in a hotel. And the other night I went to the hotel bar just to have an espresso martini. Even though I'm really not big on drinking, sometimes I just like to set the scene for myself. I'm still dating myself, still enjoying my time here while I can. Living out of a hotel, I'm not complaining. It's a luxury, it's amazing. Room service all the time. There's just so many people coming in and out, so it's pretty easy to meet people.

And I use every hotel experience really as a divine opportunity to master my frequency and really ground my energy to meet people. I think hotels are an amazing way to meet other people and I took myself to the bar because I had nothing else to do that night and I was like you know what I'm just going to take myself on a little cute fun date see what happens see what the night has in store, and maybe something exciting will happen. I always believe that it's easier for me to meet people when I'm putting the energy out there

and I'm actually setting an intention for the night. People always ask me how I'm brave enough to take myself out on dates, how I'm able to sit at a bar by myself. And I always say it's about the energy you're emitting and the intention that you're setting for the night. So if you're going into the night anxious and scared and you're like, I'm not gonna meet anyone

and this is stupid, there's a high probability you're gonna block your opportunity to meet people or to connect with people or to open your energy field up to a new experience. I've done this so many times where I would go out in the wrong mood or the wrong environment and I would just feel off about it and my gut would say, it's probably not the best idea to go out.

It's not that it was pointless because I always enjoy spending time with myself and I enjoy my company, but nothing really happened, right? I would just have dinner, I'd be alone and then I'd go home. But when you actually make a conscious effort to set an intention before you go out and you say, I'm going to have an amazing experience tonight. I'm going to meet a new group of people tonight. I'm going to meet a guy tonight, whatever it is, whatever you're

trying to do, there is a higher probability that you're going to have an incredible, fun, exciting, magical experience. So I was setting the intention the other night and I sit down at the bar. The first thing that happened, which was so incredible, was one of my listeners and her boyfriend were sitting next to me and she started talking to me. She's like, oh my God, I love your podcast. I listened to your podcast. So we were just chatting for a bit and getting to know each other and she was so sweet and

I had an amazing conversation with her. After a few minutes, another man sat down next to me on the other side of me at the bar and he was overhearing our conversation. And he was like, Oh, did I hear that you're a celebrity or something? I don't really remember exactly what he said, but we ended up getting into a pretty interesting conversation. And the entire night was just so entertaining because I was meeting multiple different people. I was in my own energy,

I was grounded in my field, and I just had an amazing night by myself but was able to connect with cool people. I didn't think anything much of it, I didn't even exchange information with this man, but what ended up happening next was really really interesting. I'm in a period of my life where I'm really anchored in my divine feminine energy. This is something that I've had to master over the last six months. For most of my life, I've been in my masculine energy. I've always felt the need to push and force.

And even in my dating situations and my previous relationships, some of them, I would be the breadwinner, I guess you could say, where I felt like I was earning more, taking care of my partners in a weird way. And it's not to say I would always be paying for everything, but the energy dynamic always felt like I was more in my masculine and I was more in control

and kind of controlling the relationship in a sense. And it never felt good, it always felt exhausting and draining. And I think that attributes a lot to why I felt so drained in a lot of my other relationship dynamics. So this year for me has been about relaxation mode and turning that masculine energy off and taking it down 10 notches

and really learning to be more in my feminine energy. For the last four years, I've been wearing dark colors, like black t-shirts, black pants, black leggings, gray, beige, very muted, toned down colors. Now I'm starting to experiment. I'm wearing pink again, which is something I was appalled by a few years ago. I used to hate pink. Now I'm starting to wear colors again, which is actually very

symbolic and I didn't really understand that colors are very symbolic, but they are. And what someone is wearing actually shows a lot about who they are and their personality, right? So there's just so many things where I'm starting to change internally and people started showing up differently and men in particular started showing up differently because I started mastering my feminine side. And it was always there, right? But I learned and conditioned myself to be more in my masculine energy, especially because I grew up with two older brothers and I was closer with my dad than my mom as a child and there's just so many factors involved.

Okay, psychologically and then environmentally, you get it. So the more I've been leaning into that energy, which is all about receiving and taking a step back and letting the world come to you and becoming a magnet, the more I've experienced, the more I've gotten, the more people I've met, and the more opportunities I've received. The craziest part about it all, as I started to master this concept of feminine energy,

is that the less I've done, the more I've gotten. That's something I've recently experienced, is this sense of, I don't have to try so hard to get what I want out of life and it's interesting because this year I feel like it's forced me to take a step back from my usual working mechanisms and the way that I usually operate and the way my brain usually works where it's like you have to put this insane amount of effort towards your brand you have to foresolve this stuff you have to reach out to a million people you have to put this insane amount of effort towards your brand, you have to foresolve this stuff, you have to reach out to a million people, you have to secure these deals, you have to lock this in.

That's usually how my brain works. And this year has been like, you need to just chill and let things come to you. Just let things come to you. And that's really a lot of what being in your feminine is truly about. So after meeting this guy, I didn't give him my number. I didn't give him any information because I, to be honest, I just, he was a really, really nice man, but I just was not feeling it romantically. And the other day I get back to my hotel room and there were roses, like a huge bouquet of roses waiting in my room and they were

so beautiful. They were actually like really, really nice. This man delivered roses to my hotel room. Now, you know, it's hard to say if that's considered love bombing or it's genuine, but the gesture was definitely appreciated. And the whole point of the story is regardless of the outcome with this person because I didn't see it in a romantic sense, I knew that it happened because I'm in a different space in my life energetically, because I don't usually have men sending me flowers to my hotel room.

That's just not a common experience for me. Maybe it is for some of you, but not for me. And I'm like, oh my god, this is crazy. My hotel staff was like, oh, you have an admirer. Someone sent you flowers. I'm like, who sent me flowers? OK, it was this man who I met at the bar. And even though it was such a quick interaction,

I appreciated the gesture because it kind of reflected back to me where I'm at in my life energetically, where I feel like I'm in pure reception mode and I'm able to just lean back and let people treat me right and let people, you know, send me flowers and let people treat me how I deserve to be treated. It's really beautiful and it's really interesting because a part of me back in the day, if someone gave me flowers, I'd be like, ew, I don't know. I don't know how I feel about that.

Because I was so in my masculine that I convinced myself that I didn't like those things. But now I'm like, you know what? That's so nice. It's just nice to receive them. And it doesn't mean I need them every day, but it's just appreciated and it makes me feel good. And it makes me feel like I'm changing internally as a woman in a really beautiful way. And yeah, I just thought it was a really nice way to kick off the podcast because also,

I wanna remind you guys of something. If you're dating someone, if you're in a relationship with someone and they haven't gotten you flowers or made any sort of gestures like this to make you feel appreciated and loved, the bar is on the floor. I'm just letting you know because I've now realized that there are good men out there that will do these things even if you barely know them. So if you're in a relationship with someone, you deserve that type of treatment. You deserve to feel like a goddess and a princess. It's the thought that counts

and makes me feel more feminine and more divine and just it gave me more space to feel even more good about myself. So on today's episode, we're gonna be covering why being in your feminine energy is such a powerful thing and concept to master. And once you master this, your life will just get even easier, okay?

If you're already a really hardworking, successful, independent woman, if you're listening to this, the more you master your feminine, the easier it'll be for you to work, to get everything you need to get done, and to truly embrace your power. I was so excited to record an episode on it because I'm kind of living in it right now and feeling it right now. And I'm like, this is the first time in my life where I wanna wear a pink dress and heels. Like that's something I just wouldn't wear even a year ago.

Okay, for my friends that know me, for my family that knows me, I used to hate dressing up. I used to hate doing my hair and makeup, all this stuff. And now I'm like in this new season where I'm like, you know what, it's actually just nice because I'm doing it really for myself. And people being magnetized towards you is a bonus. You know,

obviously, I think I always had this idea like, Oh, if I'm dressing up, it's for someone else. But now that I'm starting to do it more, I'm realizing that it's making me feel good. It makes me feel more confident and beautiful. And that's what matters my perception of myself and feel more confident and beautiful. And that's what matters. My perception of myself and how I feel about myself. And when I walk out into the public, it's not about what anyone else is perceiving me as. It's about how I perceive myself. And in return, people will perceive me the way I perceive myself because everyone and everything

in your life is a divine mirror to how you feel internally, okay? So being in your divine feminine, what does this really mean? What is this all about? It means you finally stop chasing the world and you're letting the world come to you. You're letting the universe chase you. I don't wanna make this about men,

but a lot of you are looking for the loves of your life. I get a lot of messages about this or you're looking for a relationship, okay? You don't have to look for it if you're in your divine feminine energy. You will have that person come to you because you become a magnet for blessings, for abundance, and people smell that.

Men smell that on you. When you're so in your own energetic space and you love yourself so much and you're so grounded in your energetic field. They smell that. They know that and then they will be gravitated towards you because you are in your divine feminine. When you're in your divine feminine you're not forcing anything. You're not trying to change people. You're not trying to fix people's behaviors. You're not trying to manipulate a man to get to like you. You're not trying to bend the world in your favor. You're not trying to fix people's behaviors. You're not trying to manipulate a man to get to like you.

You're not trying to bend the world in your favor. You're changing your internal state and the world bends according to that change that you've made internally. You are finally sitting in your power and you're sitting in your throne and trusting that the world will come to you with no doubt in your mind.

There has to be no element of doubt in your mind. When you're fully in relaxation and receiving mode, that is what being in the divine feminine is all about. Feeling truly at peace and knowing that the world is your oyster and that you are in control because your energy is sacred and you're valuing yourself at that frequency. You know you're a powerful, confident woman.

And when you are radiating at that powerful, confident woman frequency, the world comes to you. You become so fucking magnetic and irresistible. People will start looking at you differently. People will come up to you and ask you for your number. People will literally cross the street and almost get hit by oncoming traffic

just to say hello to you and bask in your energy. Okay, it's happened to me the last couple of weeks. I kid you not, these things are happening to me. And it's such a noticeable difference in the way men are treating me and showing up in my energetic field because I've let go of the idea of chasing. It doesn't exist in my timeline anymore.

I'm not actively seeking, I'm receiving. I'm in full receiving mode. And that is what the divine feminine energy is all about. The moment you stop emphasizing the importance of trying to get someone to like you, to date you, to wanna stick around and be with you, to wanna be to like you, to date you, to want to stick around and be with you, to want to be in a relationship. The less you emphasize that in your energetic space, the more they are going to be pulled towards you. Men are biologically

wired, okay, to pursue mystery. And I know that's kind of annoying to hear, but it's the truth. In a way I do believe human brains of annoying to hear, but it's the truth. In a way, I do believe human brains are wired to pursue mystery. Think we all love a little mystery. When you can't fully figure someone out, but their aura is magnetic and golden and radiant, you want to know more about them. You're pulled towards them energetically because they have this thing. They have this secret sauce. And there was a guy that

I was speaking to and he said something about that to me. He was like, you have that something, you're radiating that golden light and it's just something different. And I was like, you know what, that is the best compliment anyone could hear. More than you're beautiful, I think you're an amazing person. Of course, those things are amazing to hear too. But when someone says you just glow differently, you have a different light about you, that you light up the room, I think that's one of the best compliments you can ever receive because that's an energetic thing. Okay. You can't take that from anyone when they're radiating at a certain frequency. You can tell when someone is so

in love with their life and themselves and they're so anchored in their own energy, you can see it, feel it, and taste it. And you wanna be around that person more. So the point is, when you are caring so much about other people and how they perceive you and you're forcing and pushing and like trying to go after them energetically,

mentally, you're leaking your power and your energy and that is being in your masculine when you're trying to force something that's just not working or you're texting someone hoping that they're going to ask you out and you're waiting on them. When you're in waiting energy, when you're in pursuing energy, you're in your masculine, when you're in pursuing energy, you're in your masculine energy. So we gotta reel that back in. We gotta take a step back. We gotta take 10 steps back

and get ourselves back in our energy field. Get ourselves back into our feminine. And when you create that vacuum and pull your energy back, they'll come to you, guaranteed. The beauty about being in your feminine energy is as I just said, you're radiating at that frequency, that woman, you're being that person, you're not doing anything. I met with one of my friends, Hayley, you guys know her, Hayley Hoffman Smith. I met her for dinner in New York when I was back there visiting family a couple of weeks ago and I was talking to her about this feminine energy concept

and she was like, so what have you been up to? And I'm like, you know what? I've been doing a whole lot of nothing. I've been doing a whole lot of nothing recently because I've been mastering my feminine energy and that in itself is kind of a job because I'm rewiring everything I knew about energy and how I'm supposed to show up in the world.

So it's been an interesting year for sure because I've had to actually hold back from doing more. I used to try so hard to get the results that I wanted. When in reality, when you're truly basking in your feminine energy, it's about being and doing less. You're not pushing, you're not doing doing less. You're not pushing. You're not doing that much. You're just being the magnetic, confident, powerful force

that you are. And you're operating out of flow and not force. So when you're working, obviously, when you're being productive, it feels like this just feeling of freedom and joy. And you're not forcing. You're not spiraling, you're not stressing, you're just being in your energy and doing things out of happiness

and grace and flow and only aligning yourself with the things and tasks and people and situations and environments that truly light you up and make you feel good. The more you tap into the things that make you feel joy and bliss and make you feel good, the more you will be in your feminine and the more life flows to you because you're emitting a different frequency. I'll give you an example.

I was really stressed about a financial situation that had happened to me and I knew I needed to manifest a certain amount of money to kind of resolve the issue at hand. And so I just said, it's happening, it is done. I'm receiving this amount of money. And that night I got a brand deal for that amount of money with zero effort.

It was just the intention. I let it go and it was a miracle that that happened. It was an actual miracle. I don't really do brand deals. As you know, especially on my podcast, I'm very selective and I don't really advertise anything other than my master classes. So to get a brand deal out of thin air was a magical miracle in itself. But I almost wasn't surprised because my energy was in expectation. I sat back,

I relaxed and I expected it. Easy. Quantum. It is done. I shifted into the woman that had received the money instantly. And when you make that energetic shift, it happens. It manifests because you are that woman. You have those powers. We have powers, okay? And the more you master being in your feminine, the more you can tap into those powers and your intuition and your manifesting abilities. Divine feminine power and being in your divine feminine energy

is always being receptive and not reactive or forcing or trying to nail something down. Your energy field is open, your heart is open, and you're trusting that miracles are gonna land accordingly. Now, of course, there are times where we have to take inspired action to get what we want. No doubt about it.

You can't just sit on your couch and eat a pint of ice cream and do absolutely nothing, but the key is to do the things that are inspiring. Because when you follow the things that light you up, as I had just said previously, you're basking in a different light. You're radiating at a different frequency. And it shifts you into a timeline where you're opening your field because you're so happy and you're in such a state of trust and joy that more can come in.

You're allowing more to come in. The more you're stressed, the more you're pushing, the more you're chasing down things and people that are not aligned with your highest self, you are energetically blocking miracles. You're energetically blocking your manifesting abilities. You're energetically blocking your intuition. So just be wary of that, okay? Divine feminine power is understanding your power, is knowing how incredible you are as a woman. It's not rigid. It's not structured. It's flow. It's allowing life to come to you once again. It's also about really being soft yet standing in your ground and knowing your worth at the same time. It's being

gracious but also with boundaries. That's something that I've been mastering too this year is learning how to have my boundaries in place while also being gracious about them. Not being aggressive, not being rude, not being mean, you're being firm. You're still able to be soft while maintaining those boundaries in place. And it's a delicate dance between, you know, being cutthroat and being like, F you, don't treat me like that, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah to someone. And you know, being like, you're not respecting my boundaries and I'm choosing to walk away

in peace. Like, those are two totally different frequencies. And the latter is harder to master because, especially me, like I just sometimes I've just had enough and I wanna snap and I wanna go off, but learning how to really stop being reactive and start controlling my frequency and holding the energy of who I truly am

and maintaining my peace and not allowing anyone to trigger me that much has been such a blessing because I'm able to contain my energy for myself. Okay? I'm able to not allow people who don't deserve my energy or access to my energy enter my field or enter my space anymore or leak my power outwards because I'm so grounded in who I am. It's super important one. You can love someone with boundaries. Those two can go hand in hand. You can be gracious with boundaries, with standards, with knowing your worth. And when you master that, both of those at the same time, the amount of people that will treat you differently, show up for you differently, and respect you so much, it's wild. And I'm

experiencing this firsthand now where even if a man is like doing something wrong, you know, and not showing up properly, I just say it how it is. I'm like, I don't appreciate that. And I have very firm boundaries in place. And I really didn't like that. I didn't like what you did, X, Y, Z. And I refuse to participate. That's the energy you have to come with because you know your worth so deeply and you know who you are as a woman and you're not going to tolerate anything less than incredible.

You're not gonna tolerate anything less than what you know you deserve, which is the best of the best, right? But you can communicate these things in a very gracious way. And when you do that, people will change and rise to meet you. People will change their behavior because they're gonna respect you more. Instead of going

off and you know getting angry and flipping a shit which is the easy option and the easy route. So be it we've all been there and I've done it. Come at them with grace but be firm and watch how their energy changes because they're not expecting it. They're expecting you to get mad. People are expecting you to flip a shit. That guy that ghosted you and then came back, he's expecting you to be pissed at him. Don't be pissed.

Don't waste your precious goddess golden energy on being angry at him. You contain your energy for yourself and you let go with grace and you say, that wasn't cool, I didn't like that and this isn't gonna work. Watch how they shift their behavior. The other thing is being in your divine feminine is being deeply connected

to your spirituality. From my perspective, I truly believe this. The more I've tapped into my spirituality, my faith, and trusting that there's a higher plan and a higher energy, working in my favor to give me the best of the best life, to give me abundance, to supply everything I need in this lifetime. The more I lean into that and I remind myself of that on a daily basis and I pray and I hold my faith and I believe in God

and I trust in his plan for me, the easier my life has gotten and the more I've been able to relax. The more I've been able to enjoy the process, even in the hardest moments, even in the lowest times, I'm able to bounce back faster because I trust that there's a higher plan. The other thing about being fully in your divine feminine is not being afraid to feel your emotions with grace and also understanding that emotions are a part of our journey and

a part of our process and a part of our process and there's nothing wrong with feeling your feelings fully. You let yourself feel and you also deserve someone in your life or the people in your life to understand your emotions and understand how you feel too. The best part about really owning how you feel is that you can take any sad emotions, stored emotions, trauma, anything that you've been feeling that feels dark and heavy and alchemize it. Alchemizing our pain and our emotions and facing our emotions, being willing to do that

work, not be afraid of them, and alchemize the energy, right? That's what being a woman is all about. We're taking our pain and we're changing it into art. We're using it as creativity. We're tapping into the side of ourselves where we know that even if we're going through a really dark period in our lives, we're gonna come out stronger, wiser.

We're gonna know more about who we are. We're gonna dive into the depths of our soul and create magic and art out of it in whatever way, shape or form that is for you. Dancing, singing, painting, journaling, vision boarding, anything that you love to do that inspires you, you can take that pain and turn it into art. I love talking about this. It's my favorite thing to do. It's all I do. I don't know what I would do if I didn't understand this concept of alchemy, true emotional alchemy, is facing your fears, facing your darkness, and turning it into light again, through art, through creative expression, or transferring the energy

into something else, whether it be your work, or a hobby, or an activity, whatever it is. It's moving the energy and changing it and alchemizing it. And that is such a beautiful thing to do. The other thing I've learned about being in my Divine Feminine Energy this year is rest is the best thing you could do for yourself and your body when you're struggling, when you're stressing, when you're going through a hard time,

giving yourself the grace to rest and pause when you have the opportunity to. And I know a lot of you are very busy and you have a lot going on and you may have kids and you may have a family and you may have so many different layers to your life where you're like, rest feels impossible. But even if you could take 15, 20 minutes to just pause,

meditate or nap or do something to recharge when you're feeling really overly burnt out and stressed. It is the biggest game changer. I started napping. I made it a priority for me to start napping more when I felt burned out. Or if I was out for long periods of time socializing, going out, meeting people, exchanging energies with different people, and then coming home and I was so tired, I would honor that and go to bed early instead of scrolling on my phone or leaking my energy out when I didn't need to. Rest is essential to recharge your field. That's how I look at it. I look at sleep as a portal to recharge your field so That's how I look at it. I look at sleep as a portal to recharge your field

so you can show up better. And for me, I have a social battery. I'm really big on this because there have been so many moments recently where I've had a lot to do and a lot on my plate and I would go out and I would speak to all these people and then I would have a drink and I would just be constantly moving from place to place to place and I started to feel very sick

and run down and I was like you know what I don't care how much I have to do right in this very moment I need to pause and take a rest and recharge my energy fields. So I started scheduling naps into my day, and I know that might sound silly to some people, but it has been the biggest game changer for me to recharge so I can get everything I need to get done more efficiently, faster, and show up with better energy in every other aspect of my life. And it's interesting because, you know, this is my personal experience by the way but I used to go to the gym seven days a week and feel like I had to do every single workout and every single thing in order to feel a certain way and lower my body fat and have a six pack and look

the way that I wanted to look blah blah blah blah blah. But it's kind of interesting because recently I've been working out less and just walking and resting more. And I've actually lost weight doing that and not forcing my workouts and pushing and trying so hard. I think the more intense my workouts, the more swollen I felt because I was in an energetic state of like high cortisol, high stress, oh my God, I have to go work out, I have to get in my schedule. Instead

of just taking a chill pill and relaxing and maybe going for a long walk, which one is way more enjoyable for me, and two is less stressful on the body in general. As a woman, if you're constantly doing heavy lifting in the gym, running 10 miles a day, you know, doing the most to try to maintain a certain physique or whatever it is or feel a certain way, that can work for you. But for me personally, I'm just mentioning this because I don't know if anyone else has experienced this. Sometimes when you're just really relaxing, enjoying your life and feeling into your body

and just really doing softer movements, like engaging in softer movements, like walking, maybe some pilates, and then just eating better, like eating maybe a little bit healthier. I feel so much more calm in my nervous system. I'm not obsessing over the way that I look. I'm just being. And I feel like I'm glowing more. I feel like my skin's gotten so much better. And overall, I just feel really, really good and healthy.

So that's something else that I've noticed. Just not stressing so much about, oh my God, I have to work out. I have to go to the gym. But more just like, let me just chill and embrace how, you know, I already love my body and I'm grateful that I'm able to walk and move in any way, shape or form. And I don't have to put all of this unnecessary mental energetic pressure on myself 24 seven to, you know, run a marathon because I see everyone else signing up for marathons.

Like maybe that's something I will do, but you don't have to force, is what I'm saying. You don't have to force to get the body of your dreams. A lot of it is mental. A lot of it is spiritual too. The beauty about really being in receiving mode and really stepping into this feminine power and this feeling is also I've seen my interactions and my relationships with women have changed drastically in the most beautiful, profound ways. It used to be really hard for me to connect with women.

Growing up, my female friendships were challenging for me. I made an episode about this years ago where I felt like I couldn't really connect with women the way that I wanted to. There was a lot of jealousy, envy, intention between me and a lot of the women in my life in my 20s. And now I'm in this era of my life where I'm meeting so many beautiful, like-minded women

who think the same as me, who are just radiating this beautiful light. And I'm so grateful and so appreciative of all the women I've met, especially over the last couple weeks here in London. There's just such a community of amazing women who want to be better, who are tapped into their spirituality, who are also, you know, just out here healing and changing the world in such beautiful ways. And I'm so lucky and grateful that I've met these women. And it's just showing me the more I've changed within

and the more I've shifted my energy and my perspective within, the more amazing, beautiful women I've attracted into my life that share the same values as me, that are able to understand where I'm coming from, that I'm able to be safe and vulnerable with, that I'm able to go out and have a good time with but then we're all independent, we go and live our best lives in other places. It's just magical. I think I always had a fear of closeness with women because of certain things growing up,

but now I'm in this phase of my life where it's become so much more effortless for me. I feel so close to the women in my life. And I also feel like I'm nourishing those friendships more than ever instead of focusing on men and dating and trying to get a boyfriend and all that stuff. It's like, no, I wanna hang out with my girlfriends. I wanna go out and have girl chat and I want to heal the world and do amazing things with all these beautiful

women. I really have changed everything about that side of me. And that's something that I'm so aware of and so grateful for. Because I don't even recognize myself anymore in a good way. I'm like, wow, like that part of me, I wanted so badly to have nourishing, solid female friendships. And I even had it on my vision boards. I had even journaled about it.

I had spoken about it on the podcast years ago. And now that is my life. And this beautiful community has really helped me get there too. All of you amazing women that message me, that connect with me, I feel so inspired by all of you. The beauty is that all of us here in this community are aiming to heal and better ourselves

and change our lives to the better. And when we do that, it causes a ripple effect because when we heal, when we allow ourselves to heal, we're also healing each other at the same time because when you heal, I heal. Yeah, it's just it's a ripple effect and it's so important. And I think since I've mastered this concept of really being in my feminine more, the amount of love I've received from other women has been so beautiful to experience. So yeah, there is a girl that I met here recently through another friend. All the

texts she sends me are just so loving and I just met her but she's just like you deserve the world babe you deserve everything everything you ever manifested like you deserve everything like she just says these beautiful things and I'm like wow like you're just so cool. Like I just love that. I love the Positivity and I love the affirmative words I think that's so important in friendships to as I'm building relationships with other women it's just to have other women that lift you up and support you and want to see you succeed and then you also Wish the best for them and you want them to succeed too. It's just such an incredible thing. I was chatting to her about this man that I knew and

I saw that she knew him. She's like, babe you're so out of his league like I know him personally blah blah blah blah. She's like I know him and no I kind of knew already but I was like you know it's just so amazing to have other women around you too that see your worth sometimes when you forget it because we've all been there where we're like maybe we should give this guy a chance or whatever because maybe they seemed really nice and she was like no it's not happening and I would do the same for a friend too like if I saw how incredible and special they are and you know they were dating someone that just wasn't right for them I would be like absolutely not babe you're not doing that you're not going in that direction.

I'm not gonna let you forge that path and go down that path. So yeah it's just being in a circle of women that have your back and just want to see you thrive and be with the love of your life and be with the right person is just it's really a fortunate thing and I'm very, very lucky. The other thing is the more I've been able to relax, the more God has been able to move through me and help me make the right decisions and guide me in the right direction. I was speaking to one of my friends about this the other day how she was telling me the more I really believed in myself and I let go of certain things and I knew that I had to let go of certain people and I had to end this toxic relationship I was in she's like God was moving through me

and I loved the way she phrased that so that's something that I wanted to talk about on the podcast today as well it It's like that feeling, that rush, that energy that moves through you, that inspires you to take a leap of faith, that inspires you to leave that toxic person, that inspires you to go out there and create and do something and take a risk or book that trip, whatever it is. That is God moving through you to give you the life you deserve. And the more I've leaned into my feminine energy and really been in receiving mode, the more I've been able to hear that voice

and feel that energy in my body and be like, okay, I have to go here, I have to do this and do things that actually are really good for me and healthy for me and take the actions I need to take to better my life. When you clear your energetic space and you're not forcing and pushing and struggling so much and you're just allowing things to flow You tap into your intuition more and you tap into that voice more that voice

That's telling you to go to this specific restaurant because you may meet someone there that can connect you to someone else and that could Kickstart a new career for you or that voice that tells you leave that person because I have someone better waiting in the wings That's gonna give you everything you've ever deserved and wanted out of a relationship. You know, or that voice that said, Liss, like you have to move to London because you have a whole new chapter waiting there for you. I was like, is it the best decision? Is it the right move?

But the more I just trusted and relaxed and opened my energetic field and I was like opening my heart up to it, I was able to hear that voice louder and louder until I made the decision and I made it become my reality. So the beauty is just leaning into that and trusting that and truly being open to miracles and truly trusting in your intuition and your powers. It's just the best feeling and that's when everything starts to flow into your life. Miracles really do start to happen when you embrace your divine feminine power. And I'm gonna leave you guys with this, okay? Remember that you are the

blessing and when you emit that frequency and you know how powerful and beautiful and radiant you are. Everything in your reality will bend in your favor. When you send out the signal to the universe, I am the miracle, I am the blessing, and you reaffirm these affirmations to yourself. Everything is going to align in your favor and anything can change at any time. Okay, if you're going through a season where things don't feel like they're working in your favor, tomorrow can be the day that changes your entire life. Even in a few hours from now, after you listen to this episode, it could ignite a new energy in you and a new fire in you that can translate out into your reality and change the course of your life. When you know your power as a woman,

the world will move to make things happen for you. You will get everything you want out of this life. You will be able to manifest faster. You'll be able to think clearer. You'll be able to access your intuition. You'll be able to receive the blessings you've been waiting for. When you are in your feminine, you are truly in your power. And with that being said, that concludes today's episode of Date Yourself Instead. Thank you so much as always for listening to the podcast. It means the world to me. I love all your messages, all your comments on Spotify. I see you guys sharing on your stories more. It's so appreciated. I love you so much. If you haven't already, be sure to rate the podcast on Apple and Spotify.

It really does help the show grow. And be sure to leave a comment as well as send me a DM on Instagram, atlaslyss or on the podcast account at dateyourself instead. Thank you again. I'm so grateful for you. I love you and stay tuned for next Monday.