Date Yourself Instead - How to speak up to anyone. Be unapologetically YOU.

Episode Date: November 18, 2025

In this episode, I dive into what it really means to speak your truth and own your voice, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’m sharing personal stories about finding the courage to say what I actua...lly feel (in relationships, business, and online) and how doing that completely changed my life.We talk about healing, using your voice as your superpower, and letting go of that fear of judgment that keeps you small. I also open up about a recent karmic connection that pushed me to set stronger boundaries and taught me what authentic communication actually looks like.This one’s a vibe. It’s about being real, standing tall in your truth, and realizing your voice is the magnet for everything meant for you.00:00 Intro: Finding Your Power00:27 Getting Over the Fear of Speaking Up01:37 Why Your Voice Matters03:05 Using Your Platform with Intention08:15 My Own Struggles and Growth13:33 A Karmic Connection and What It Taught Me16:17 Communication = Self-Respect28:56 Closing Thoughts: Be Loud. Be You. Always.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Are you ready to speak your truth? A woman in her full power speaks her truth. She commands. She knows what she wants. She steps into every room fully confident, knowing her power, knowing what she brings to the table, knowing her worth, knowing what she stands for, knowing her boundaries, knowing her values, knowing herself. Are you ready to become a woman of power who speaks her truth, speaks her mind, and is not afraid to do so?
Starting point is 00:00:25 For the longest time, I feel like I was afraid to vocalize. who I truly was. I was afraid to showcase who I truly was to the absolute fullest when it came to my business deals, when it came to my relationships, when it came to my friendships. I didn't like confrontation. I always purposely made myself feel smaller or unheard and I wasn't able to fully access my throat chakra and speak my truth because there was fear. There was fear that if I spoke my truth, it wouldn't be reciprocated back. It wouldn't be received well. People wouldn't understand me. People would think that maybe I was crazy, maybe I thought too expansively. And I tend to hide away a lot in my own mind, retreat, and kind of just isolate myself
Starting point is 00:01:12 if I felt like people couldn't understand me instead of speak my truth and truly be myself. When we decide to fully speak our truth and own who we truly are and step into that confidence, we're going to intimidate a lot of people. But the beauty of this is we're going to attract the right people, the right. tribe, the right people who fully understand us and embrace our truth alongside us, the people who really understand us at a soul level. How can you attract the right people and relationships into your life if you're not speaking your mind? If you're not communicating out to the world, this is what I need. Something I've learned recently is that if I don't speak up, if I don't stand
Starting point is 00:01:49 up for what I believe in, if I don't speak my truth and if I'm not truly owning all of my power, I'm going to sell myself short on my life experience. I'm not going to be able to access the timelines and meet the people that I'm supposed to meet if I'm hiding and cowering away. Through doing energy work and healing deep parts of myself and really getting to the core of my fears and why I've held back in certain areas of my life, I've realized that I was always afraid
Starting point is 00:02:14 to fully embody who I am to the fullest. No shame, no fear, no guilt, just speaking words of truth, knowing that my intentions are in a good place, knowing that my words matter, and that my voice is a sacred instrument, and that my voice is meant to be heard. Your voice is meant to be heard.
Starting point is 00:02:34 If you know you are put on this earth to be different, to create differently, to move differently in this world, and you know that God is working through you, you have a mission, you have a purpose to speak, you have a voice, you are supposed to speak your truth. But it can be intimidating in the world of social media where, you know, there's so much out there that we often feel like maybe our voice isn't big,
Starting point is 00:02:59 enough. Maybe it's not important enough or significant enough. Maybe our voice just doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things. But I can promise you, even if you change one person's life through your life experiences, through what you've been through, even if it changes one person's life, that can create a ripple effect that you can't even physically see. For example, if I were to post something online and it got maybe 10 views and you think, you know, in the world of social media, 10 views is nothing. But in those 10 views, there's one person who is having a really off shitty day. They were having a bad day and they felt like their world was collapsing and they felt really hopeless. But you made a video about positivity and you spread a really positive message
Starting point is 00:03:40 to this one person who was having a really bad day out of those 10 simple views. That one person's mood in an instant could have completely shifted because of that one video that you posted. Even though it feels like no one saw it and no one was listening and no one heard you, that one piece of content could have made someone's day and completely shifted their timeline into a better one. And then maybe because they felt better and they felt like they could show up better in the world because of your one piece of content, they decided to help someone else out that could have been struggling. And then in turn, that person went and helped someone else out. And then it became a domino effect where people were doing good and spreading good energy to
Starting point is 00:04:20 one another. And it was all because of the one singular video that you posted that you thought had no impact. At the end of the day, you have no idea how big of an impact you are actually making on the world. You have no idea. Your one video that you think is performing badly because you're afraid to really express yourself and show your truth and you know, you're like, oh, no one's watching, no one cares.
Starting point is 00:04:41 That one video, maybe no one commented, maybe no one liked it or shared it, but even if it reached one single person that was having a bad day and it uplifted their mood a little bit, you change the trajectory of someone else's life. and how special is that? We are all put here for a purpose and a divine reason. And if you know you have wisdom to share, if you know you have a message for people, if you know that you have something internally
Starting point is 00:05:05 that wants to get that message out there and you feel a calling to do so, this is your sign to do it, to post the video, to post the photo on Instagram, to post that caption, to post that story, to share your words of wisdom. You are a vessel and a portal that can potentially be helping hundreds
Starting point is 00:05:24 or thousands of people. And the only thing stopping you is you and your fear and your worry that you might be judged or perceived or seen. The fear of being seen is so real. The fear of being heard is so real. And I've struggled with this too
Starting point is 00:05:37 and I've had to work on it and heal it. We are put on this earth to create. We are put on this earth to help, to heal, to inspire other people. I feel like as a collective too, what I'm seeing is on a universal level, on a global level, everyone is really looking to help each other out now
Starting point is 00:05:52 more than ever, because we've been through a lot. Everyone collectively, we've been through a lot. We've been through a lot of heartbreak. We've been through a lot of trauma throughout the world. There's just a lot of chaos going on. And in the midst of all the fearmongering and all the bad news and everything that's been happening,
Starting point is 00:06:08 what I've been seeing more than ever now on social media, more so than negativity and all of that stuff, is people who want to help other people. In the comments sections, especially, if someone's going through a difficult time on TikTok, I see so many people trying to lift other people up, trying to help other people heal, trying to give other people advice. And that is the most beautiful thing in the world.
Starting point is 00:06:28 The new wave of social media and the new wave of humanity is going to be rooted in divine love. It's already starting. It's already changing. Things are shifting. And you could be a part of that movement. You could be a part of that collective movement of divine love and help people through your voice, through your wisdom, through your knowledge, because you know that you're special. And you know that you have everything you need within you to make that difference and make that impact.
Starting point is 00:06:51 All that's stopping you is fear. All that's stopping you is, oh, it's not going to get enough likes or views and no one's going to care. Fuck the likes, fuck the views, fuck the engagement for a second, and think about the impact that you may truly be making even in one person's life. You could change the course of their life in an instant. You matter and your story matters. You are here to lead and make a difference. You may feel like your words don't matter because maybe someone told you that they don't. Maybe you've had people, your coworkers, your boss, someone that you were dating, silence you make you feel small.
Starting point is 00:07:21 make you feel insecure about your identity and who you truly are, but I promise you. If you're watching this right now, it is a sign for you. You are the utmost powerful. You are so fucking powerful and you deserve to be heard because your story matters, what you've been through matters. The more we try to help, the more we share and the more effort we put into creating and helping the collective, the more peaceful the world gets, the happier the world gets, the more divine love is spread, the more hope for the future is restored because we're all
Starting point is 00:07:51 spreading positivity and light and we're sharing our wisdom and our knowledge so we could help other people heal. And that's such a beautiful concept. If you truly wrap your head around it, the more you tap into your story and your truth and you speak your words of wisdom and you speak your truth and you make it a mission to do so, the more the world shifts for the better. The more the world changes for the positive. I took a week and a half off from posting on the podcast and part of the reason was my own doubt and fear and insecurity. about my impact. I've been through a lot with my career. I've been through a lot of ups and downs. I've been through a lot of situations where I felt undervalued, underappreciated for the work
Starting point is 00:08:30 that I've done. I feel like I work really hard sometimes with not the rewards I would expect from a financial standpoint. I feel like I've done a lot, given my heart, my blood, sweat, and tears to the podcast, to building the community. And then sometimes when the noise gets too loud on the outside when I start hearing things about other people and what they've built. There's just so much pressure that comes with social media. There's another side to it. There's the side to it that's beautiful where we could uplift and inspire. But then there's this other side to it that if you start scrolling and you get sucked into
Starting point is 00:09:05 the noise, it can be a really rattling place. And for a moment, I started struggling with my mental health and I just wasn't inspired to create and to post. And it's human because we all ebb and flow. As a woman, I know my creativity comes in waves. There are months where I feel super inspired. There are months where I don't at all. But I know that I have a responsibility.
Starting point is 00:09:30 And I know that I have to show up. And I know that I have built this huge community. And although I felt like it was kind of crazy for me not to post an episode, at the same time, it almost felt like I was stuck. And I needed a minute to pause and catch my breath because there's a lot of changes coming with the podcast. there's a lot of rebranding happening. There's a lot of things for me personally that I feel stuck in because I don't believe a lot of the same things
Starting point is 00:09:55 I may have shared a year ago or two years ago because I'm changing, I'm growing, I'm evolving. And as I'm expanding and as I'm getting to the next level of my life and maturing, a lot of the content that I've recorded from the past, it doesn't really resonate anymore as deeply as it used to with my current self. And it's interesting because I feel, like I'm moving so fast and healing so fast and it's almost like time is just going by so fast for me
Starting point is 00:10:24 that my truth is always changing and evolving and expanding. So I just felt a little ungrounded. I guess the word is. And I felt like I wasn't ready to post the next batch of episodes because I always want to make sure everything is perfect and energetically aligned and feels right and feels good in the moment. So I had a lot of messages from you guys being like, hey, where's the episode? What's going on. I just knew I needed to pause energetically. And for those of you who've been listening for years, I'm sorry that I didn't post an episode. And I felt like a little bit of guilt around it. But at the same time, I was like, you know what? I deserve this pause. I deserve this moment of break and clarity. So when I get back to the podcast, it'll be stronger than ever. I'll have
Starting point is 00:11:07 more momentum. I'll have more of an energy to show up better. All I want is to be the best and show up in the best possible way I can for you guys and be a vessel of truth and be a vessel where I could speak my truth very confidently and freely. And when I can't really do that or when I feel like something's just not aligned or right, I won't make a move. And that's just how I've always operated. And that's how I usually am when it comes to my work. I know you guys wake up and look forward to the episodes and I love you. And I hope that I will be making up for it over the next several months with all of the exciting surprises, content, shifts and changes that are happening with the podcast. The reason I'm bringing this up is because after taking that
Starting point is 00:11:47 pause, it opened up my eyes to the impact I was having. And sometimes it's hard when I'm in a studio, when I'm by myself, when I'm, you know, isolated and I'm just posting content as we do. I didn't understand the impact to a degree that I had because I can get in my own head and I'm human. And, you know, people assume I think that I'm just this superhuman that's built this brand and I'm just, I have my shit together. Maybe I exude that confidence. I don't know. But I really at the end of the day, I'm just a girl and I have my own things and I have my own issues and I have my own day-to-day life. I have my own mental health battles. I have things going on and I feel like so close to you guys in this community and I know you all probably understand
Starting point is 00:12:33 this and you know me, but sometimes it just gets very overwhelming. I'm so grateful for every single person I've met, for every single person that listens. I'm so, so, so, so grateful every single day, but there's another side to it where I'm learning still. I'm learning how to hold a lot of space. I'm learning how to show up and I'm learning how to be the best I could be so I can build this movement and be here for the long term. So that was just a little side note, but it kind of opened my eyes to how important it is to keep going and to speak my truth and to keep going even when it feels really challenging. And I'm making this my vow and my commitment to keep going because I know that it is helping. And I want to heal people so they can go heal
Starting point is 00:13:21 people. And then those people could go heal people because I know it's a domino effect. As I just said, it is a domino effect. When you help others, they're able to help others. And then they're able to help others. It's just a beautiful thing. So let's get into the juicy part of this episode. I had an experience where I was, I don't want to label it as even seeing someone while I've been here. I was experiencing a man who taught me something very valuable and significant. It was someone that was a bit older than me and there was definitely a karmic sinistry involved because when I met him, I knew I was going to know him. I recognized him. And the crazy thing about that is when you recognize someone, you just know you knew them in a past life.
Starting point is 00:14:05 And I knew him. He may not have known me or recognized me, but I knew him. I knew his soul and I recognized it immediately. And we talked very briefly the first night we met, but I knew I was going to see him again. We exchanged info. He never texted me, but I still knew I was going to see him again. And then I did. The events that unfolded afterwards were very carmic and very interesting and I learned a lot of lessons through very intense, interesting interaction with this person, even though I knew that it probably wasn't going to be anything long-term whatsoever, I just knew I needed to let it play out because it was a story that I needed to learn from. It was a lesson I needed to learn from.
Starting point is 00:14:44 And it made me also kind of understand that some things are just faded. Connections can be just faded where as much as you've healed, as much as you've grown, as much as you've done all the inner work you could possibly do, there are just some things that are and fated and you know that you need to experience them in order to learn something from them. And that's what this situation was because I knew right away that I was never going to be with this person or end up with them or anything like that. But I was attracted to him. And it was almost this curiosity of like, what lesson am I going to take from this person? That's what I kept asking myself because I already knew it was so karmic and I knew that it wasn't going anywhere
Starting point is 00:15:25 in the future. So I was like, what lesson am I about to learn? And there were a lot, but one of them was about speaking my truth. And this is what also inspired this episode. So this is kind of trippy and crazy. Simulation moment. If you believe in past lives, if you believe in past timelines, and that we live in multiple parallel realities, if you believe in all this stuff, then you're going to really understand.
Starting point is 00:15:46 And if you don't try to follow, it's a little bit intense, but here we go. In 2023, I met a guy in England who I had a connection with that was also very karmic. I met him. I recognized him. I felt like we just clicked. Everything kind of moved really fast where we were like dating and it was very rapid fire dates and like getting to know each other and there was a very strong karmic connection between us. The one theme or I think lesson that kept coming up for me in that connection was I was scared to communicate with that person. It was a trigger for me to express myself. In the beginning when I didn't really know him that well and we had just met. I was so confident. I was so bold. But then as time went on, I felt like my voice had been
Starting point is 00:16:32 diminished. I became super insecure. I'm sure many of you can relate to this. It's this weird experience where you feel really confident and yourself when you meet that person initially. And then their presence becomes stronger and their aura becomes stronger. And because they're more in your field and you start to get to know them and you start becoming attracted to them and you start caring about them and having feelings for them, your aura starts to shrink a little bit and your voice will start to shrink because you're afraid they're perceiving you wrong. You become more insecure because you're like, do they like me? How are they feeling about me?
Starting point is 00:17:03 And when you're not on the same page or when you're not communicating the right way, it can make your voice feel unheard or small because you're not expressing yourself fully anymore because you have all these fears that come up and all these triggers start coming up. And you're like, oh my God, I can't be myself around my crush anymore. I can't be myself around this person anymore because now I'm attracted to them. Now I'm a little bit invested in them. And now I'm afraid they're going to really see me for me. I'm afraid they're going to see me now and not like me and not like me for me.
Starting point is 00:17:32 So you start to filter yourself. You start to question yourself. You start to become more insecure with who you are. And you just start to go down this rabbit hole of like, I'm not enough. I can't speak my truth the way that I could with my best friend or my family. I have to put on this mask. I have to shelter myself and shelter my needs and shelter who I really am and not be fully authentic because if I'm authentic, then I'm exposed.
Starting point is 00:17:53 and maybe they won't like that version of me. And it's like this whole psychological thing that can really mess you up if you're wounded, if you're coming out of, you know, other traumas, if you're not healed, if you're insecure because someone else has left you and walked away from you in the past or abandoned you and you have those wounds,
Starting point is 00:18:10 it's hard to really show all of your cards, especially if that other person likes to keep their cards close to their chest. We were like dancing always in this game of like, do we like each other, are we friends? do we like each other? Are we friends? And it was so hard for me because I was going through so much at that time. So that was that dynamic and it drove me insane because I was like, I like this person. Like I actually really like him. But I don't even know if he knows that I feel that way. I didn't know what was going through his head or how he felt. But he was also like,
Starting point is 00:18:45 I need to slow things down, take my time type of person. And so we were in this circle of what is this? What is this? What is this? What is this? I don't know what is going on. What is this connection? How do we feel? It just felt exhausting. I know if I had just communicated right off the bat everything I needed I needed I needed myself. I would have saved myself a lot of time and a lot of heartbreak and a lot of energy because two things would have happened. Either he would have come forward and been the person that I needed him to be and he would have provided that security and safety or he would have said, I can't give you that. We're not on the same page and that's that. I never communicated my needs. I was just expecting. that person to figure me out. I just expected him to figure me out because my ex had been really good at that but he was good at figuring me out because he asked me so many questions in order to manipulate me.
Starting point is 00:19:32 So this person was just taking his time and I was frustrated because I was expecting him to dive in the way that I usually would dive in. Anyways, I never communicated properly and I always had said to myself, I wish I could kind of redo, have a redo of that type of experience just to like know that I can show up the way that I need to show up because I was insecure. So flash forward to now, this is insane.
Starting point is 00:19:59 You guys are going to think I'm nuts, but like it is what it is. This is what happened. So I'm in Bali and I meet this other guy. And he looks and talks exactly like that other guy that I had this communication carmic thing with. This new guy I meet in Bali looks like an older version of that guy. 10 years older, same height, same build, same facial structure, same accent, same vibe, same demeanor, same astrology sign, everything, okay? It was like a simulation moment where I was like, this is this guy 10 years older.
Starting point is 00:20:35 And I said to my friend like, this is weird. I feel like I know this guy. Like I've seen him before. This is carmic. So the whole thing from the beginning, I was like, this is carmic. Something's about to go down. And then it did. So we were hanging out for the whole time I've been here.
Starting point is 00:20:52 We never got intimate or anything like that because I had said I need to just be friends. I don't, you know, want to rush into anything. And I was very open and clear about that. But at the same time, there was this question of what's about to happen? What in the karmic connection is going on? Throughout the course of time that I spent with this person, I had the same triggers and fears come up about communication style that I had back then with that other guy. God had sent me the same person in a different body,
Starting point is 00:21:19 similar vibes, similar communication dynamic. He had sent me the same lesson in a different person because I had asked for it because I said I want to kind of redo it because I know what I would do differently. Throughout the course of time that we were hanging out, there were so many triggers coming up and I had to force myself to communicate and speak my truth.
Starting point is 00:21:40 And instead of being afraid and held back and shrinking myself for someone else because I was afraid of how they would perceive me. I had to force myself to overcome that fear and that trigger and say, fuck this. If I don't like what you're doing, I'm going to say something. If I feel like you're being shady, if I feel like I don't like something, if I feel like you're crossing a boundary, if I feel like you're not aligned with me,
Starting point is 00:21:59 I'm going to speak my truth. And if you can meet me there and communicate properly like an adult and we can be two adults communicating, maybe it'll work. And maybe it will be a nice friendship or a nice connection and I can learn from you, you can learn from me. But if I don't speak my truth, I'm not learning from this. I'm not learning anything from this. So I had to get over the fear of speaking my truth with someone and fully step into
Starting point is 00:22:25 myself and my power and my voice. That's what it taught me. There were a lot of things I didn't like that this person was doing and I had to say it. Whereas in the past, I would just retreat and be like resentful and bitter and be like, oh, like, I really didn't fucking like that. And I would tell my friends like, this guy's pissing me off. but instead of doing that, I went straight to the problem and I said, I don't like this, you're weird, this is bothering me.
Starting point is 00:22:49 I don't like this, I don't like this, this is my boundary, these are my values, this is what I need, and that person forced me to speak my truth. This situation, this connection, it forced me to stand my ground and know my worth, know my boundaries, and speak up. My voice was being activated, my throat chakra was being activated. For the first time in my life as a woman, I was in a connection with a man where I wasn't afraid to fully own my voice. And that was new for me because in the past,
Starting point is 00:23:18 I would shrink myself and I would diminish my voice to appease the guy to make sure that he stayed. I would shrink my voice to make sure that he still liked me, that he still loved me, that he still cared about me. But true unconditional love, you're going to accept my truth. True unconditional love, you're accepting my voice, you're accepting my power, you're accepting my truth, you're accepting all of me.
Starting point is 00:23:41 Everything that I bring to the table, baggage, fears, trauma, boundaries, how I feel, how I express myself. We're a package. I'm a package of everything. And if I accept you and your truth and how ratchet you sound with certain things, or the crazy shit and the crazy stories you've told me, if I'm willing to embrace that, you have to embrace my standards, what I know I'm worth, what I need. You need to accept that and meet me there or drop off or get the fuck out of here. So with this connection, I knew it wasn't built to last. It made it easier for me to practice.
Starting point is 00:24:16 It was like a practice round of like, oh, are you going to stand up for yourself finally and know your worth and know how to communicate that? Or are you going to shrink away again? At first, my instinct was to shrink back, but then I shot forward. And I was like, hey, I don't like the feeling I get. When this happens, there was a few things that happened that were triggering to me. and instead of shrinking back, I spoke my truth, I spoke my word. And at the end of the day, what it gave me was so much fucking clarity.
Starting point is 00:24:46 It put me more on God's path because when you speak your truth, you're aligning yourself with your higher self, with God, with power. You're divinely aligning yourself with who you truly are, with your authenticity, with who you're here to become. Once I started practicing and started vocalizing and started embracing my voice and my power and realizing there's nothing to be afraid of, I got my answers about that person so much faster and so much more direct and so much clear
Starting point is 00:25:11 because I knew it just wasn't going to work. And it showed me that when you communicate your needs, if that person is making it clear after you've said everything you could possibly say that they still can't meet you where you're at, you know your answer they're not right for you. You know that they're not a part of your destiny. You know that they're not a part of your future
Starting point is 00:25:29 if you communicate your truth and you embody yourself fully and they can't meet you there. that's the answer in itself. Someone who can't accept you or respect you or know you at your foolish truth when you're speaking as much as you can possibly say to them, if they still can't hear you or see you, they're not it. That's where it ended for me because that person couldn't hear me or see me.
Starting point is 00:25:52 I just realized that that connection was there to teach me how to stand my ground and vocalize my emotions and vocalize my needs better. So when the right person comes in, I'll never be a friend. afraid to speak my truth. And at the same time, I do believe a person that is truly God sent for me and my husband. We're not even going to need words to communicate. I know that there's going to be that like connection where he's going to fully see me, understand me, and hear me, but I think this applies in business too, where I've been
Starting point is 00:26:23 sheltered or afraid to speak my truth because I was afraid of losing something or being perceived wrongly. It's just taught me how powerful it is when you own your voice. Two things are going to happen. Either people are going to rise up to meet you where you're at and embrace you for all that you are, or they're going to drop off. They're not going to be able to handle what you need
Starting point is 00:26:44 and you're going to attract the right people into your life. I wrote this down in my notes. A goddess who silence herself shrinks her aura. She dims her shine and a goddess who speaks expands the world around her. When you are silent, you are misaligning yourself with your truth. When you don't speak your truth, you attract situations, people, and relationships that match the version of you, you're pretending to be.
Starting point is 00:27:06 So therefore, you're going to be resentful, anxious, and drained because you're not being met where you actually are. Think about that for a second. If you're silent and you don't communicate yourself and speak your truth to the world, you are misaligning yourself because you're not giving yourself the opportunity to speak your truth and then align with the right people. You're playing pretend. So you're going to attract people that are.
Starting point is 00:27:31 only in alignment with that pretend version of you instead of the version of you that's embodying your authentic self that's embodying your truth i never looked at it this way but that's why i'm making this episode because it's so fucking important to understand this concept when you don't speak your truth you are abandoning your true self you are abandoning the version of you that could be attracting the most incredible people in your life that truly understand every little piece of your soul your truth is the sorting mechanism your is going to help you quantum leap into a timeline where you're with people who fully embrace you and your soul and not this mask that you're putting on. So for me, when I was dating the
Starting point is 00:28:12 wrong people and in the wrong friendships, I always had a mask on. It was a filter because I wanted people to love me and like me and accept me and value me. But it's a fucking mask. If you're filtering yourself, you're going to be filtering out the right people and you're going to keep misaligning yourself with people who are only loving the masked version of you. It makes sense now as I'm stepping into my truth, as I'm vocalizing my needs more, why my circle gets smaller and smaller and smaller, it's because I'm finally being myself. But that's a good thing, right? Because now I'm aligning myself with people who see me for me, who are connecting to my soul and not just connecting to my image or my persona or my following or, you know, what I have to offer,
Starting point is 00:28:54 materialistically or superficially. I'm going to end this episode with this because it's so powerful to understand that when you speak your truth, you're also activating other people to feel comfortable enough to speak their truth. Because when you speak your truth, people feel it. People know that you're being authentic. People know when you're being fake. People know when you're being real.
Starting point is 00:29:13 And people know when you're filtering yourself or afraid. People sense when you're afraid to speak up. When you're hiding away in fear because of the fear of perception or, oh my God, they're going to walk away from me if I express my needs. or if I'm too clingy or if I'm too, you know, if I'm too interested, they're going to walk away, they're going to abandon me. People know that. They feel that in you.
Starting point is 00:29:33 They take advantage of that side of you because they know you're not going to fully speak up. And what I've realized is that the more you step into that power and you speak your truth, it encourages other people to do the same. I'm sure after this episode, this is going to push people to do the same. Speak your mind. Instead of just blocking someone, tell them, hey, I really do. don't appreciate this. I don't like this. And if you can get on the same page as me and respect this and communicate with me and meet me halfway and understand where I'm coming from and we
Starting point is 00:30:04 could work things out, great. If they can't, then you can block them. But at least speak, at least own your truth. What do you really have to lose? What do you really have to lose? Think about it. If they walk away, if they don't like you, then they weren't the right person for you to begin with. Then you're filtering out the bullshit anyway. Then you're gaining something. You're gaining more by them walking away if they can't handle your truth and all of you and the beauty and the divine wisdom and the grace and the love and the light
Starting point is 00:30:31 and the magnetism and the effortless divine love and the angelic presence you bring to the table if they can't value that and appreciate that and see you for you and see how fucking incredible you are and see you at your soul. You're gaining a lot by them walking away.
Starting point is 00:30:46 You're gaining more momentum and power so you can align yourself with the people who will appreciate you, who will love you, who will show up you the way you need. You are here to love loudly. You are here to show up in the world as your authentic self. You were here to be bold. You were here to make moves. You are here to make an impact. You are here to leave a legacy. You are here because you are divine. If you're listening to this, it's your sign. You are divine. You are an angel. You deserve to be heard. Your
Starting point is 00:31:10 voice is powerful and you deserve to be heard. In every aspect of your life, in every part of your life. You're not here to be a people pleaser. You're not here to be palatable. You're not here to be quiet. You're not here to be silent. You're here to shine. You're here to grow. You're here to make an impact. You deserve to take up space and your voice and your energy and your presence deserves to be seen and heard. And with that being said, that concludes today's episode of the podcast, the comments on Spotify, the messages in my DMs, everyone in the master classes, all the shares on your stories, everything, your words, your shares, your support on the podcast means the absolute world to me. If you feel like this episode resonated with you,
Starting point is 00:31:49 be sure to leave a comment on Spotify as well as share it with a friend, share it on your stories, spread the word. I read all your comments and I really do appreciate everything you guys say. It keeps me going. It keeps me strong and it really does mean the world to me. So thank you. I love you and this episode is your reminder to speak your truth and never be afraid to hold back and stand in your power. Thank you again. I appreciate you and stay tuned for next Monday.

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