Date Yourself Instead - How to unlock your best self in 2026

Episode Date: January 7, 2026

unlocking your best self in 2026: your blueprintmasterclass waitlist > tap here to join now. doors open jan 19.link > https://stan.store/lyssbossin this episode, i’m welcoming you into 2026 and honestly just sharing how excited i am for this next chapter!! for the podcast, for my life, for all of us. i talk about spending new year’s in dubai, why real change always starts internally, and why your self concept is the key to manifesting.i break down the actual hacks i’m using to make 2026 my best year yet: setting intentions that actually stick, protecting your energy like it’s your job, and fully leaning into a “delusional” mindset (because that’s where the magic is). i also share details about my manifest overnight masterclass launching on my birthday, january 19th. tap here to join the manifest overnight waitlist!!this episode is all about practical, real-life ways to magnetize success, upgrade your self-concept, and move through challenges without spiraling - just trusting that everything is working in your favor.timestamps00:00 welcome to 202600:24 new year’s in dubai01:39 why audio is underrated02:52 manifesting your best year yet06:51 my 2026 success hacks08:20 mood, music, and why vibes matter11:34 manifestation techniques i actually use17:18 embodying your future self now18:57 window shopping for your dream life21:09 visualizing abundance + collapsing time22:07 muting negativity and protecting your mental space24:02 blessing other people’s success (yes, really)25:55 becoming your future self through action27:21 career + money mindset shifts29:11 making space for love and relationships32:15 a new way to think about taxes (wild, i know)35:54 using boredom intentionally36:55 the power of delusion (trust me)39:08 closing thoughts + stepping into your next level

Hello everyone. Welcome to a new year. Happy 2026. I am so, so excited to get back into the podcast, to get back into the studio. On today's episode, we're going to be talking about your blueprint for 2026. We're going to be talking about how to take over the world this year and how to become the best version of yourself in every single way possible. I am so excited to get into it. New Year's was interesting for me this year. I was actually on a flight. I didn't really celebrate. I got. to Dubai super late and it was just in time to see the fireworks at midnight, which was really cool. I ran to the bridge by my hotel and I was watching the fireworks, overlooking the city. Dubai is so incredible. It's such a special place. This was actually my third time there. I really like it. I really enjoyed my time there. I had a few friends out there. A lot of people I know are moving out there. Super cool place. Can't wait to go back. And can I just talk about how incredible this community is? Everyone is just so amazing and so kind and so friendly when I was out in Dubai I was literally only there for like four days. I bumped into so many of you on my walks on the street. I met someone in a restaurant. I'm so grateful to

have so many of you who listen to the podcast and who have taken something from it. And I hope that I can continue to connect with more of you and to meet more of you into the new year, into 2026 and 27. There's going to be a lot of amazing things coming and I'm just really, really excited. Okay. Now, Now let's get into today's episode. It's a really juicy one. 2026 is the year where everything changes for you. Guaranteed, okay? There is no other option. There's no other option for me, and there is no other option for you, too. We are becoming the greatest version of ourselves this year. And the reason I'm going back to audio for some of my episodes this year is because so many people, number one, told me not to and told me that it was a terrible idea. And they were like, you know, the world is becoming all video and podcasts are video, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Well, I get it. Okay, I see what's changing. Everything is technically video now, but I have to do what makes me feel good. And if I decided to do video, I do it. But I know for me, I get the messages across better when I am in the studio, no cameras, no lights, just me and the microphone. That is how I roll. That is how podcasts originally became podcast. The whole point of podcasting originally was to speak just into the microphone.

It didn't have to have a face. I feel like my voice translates. differently when I do the audio, okay? Now, some of you may disagree and some of you might not prefer audio, but I do. This is something that I also realize moving to the new year, I'm just going to be moving with the punches and do what works best for me. Fuck all the rules, okay? Fuck all the rules. Fuck all the standards. I don't care. I just want to be happy and create and spread my messages the way that I need to spread them. So we're doing audio for the first episode of 2026. 2026 is the year where you're not going to work for your dreams anymore.

They're going to work for you. Okay. You're not going to chase money or chase love or chase success. All of these things are designed to chase you. You are going to become so magnetic and so unstoppable that the world has no choice but to bend in your favor. Okay. Reality has to work for you, not the other way around.

You can't be struggling. You can't be bending over backwards to try to make shit happen. Shit will happen when you become the most insane magnetic version of yourself. Things will fall into place when you love yourself and work on your self-concept. The world is a mirror. If you don't like the reflection, you don't scrub the glass. What do you do? You change your face.

You change your self-concept. You change your appearance to have the world match you. If you change internally at your core, the world has no choice but to reflect that new version of you back to you, period. If you change your internal state, the universe has no choice but to move accordingly and bend to match that new state. The more you love yourself, the more the world loves you back. The more you feel abundant and wealthy, the richer you become. It's not from insane amounts of effort, struggle.

It's not from pushing. It's not from forcing. It's not from chasing things down. It's when you learn how to change yourself concept and how you feel about yourself. 2026 is the year you stop asking for permission and start assuming your time. title as a fucking goddess, as a queen or a king, okay? We're not excluding the men here. We have to step into this new year with a brand new self concept, a brand new identity where we're like, I love myself so much, this is what goes. I'm going to do what works for me. I'm going to do

what's best for me. I'm going to do what makes me feel good. It's not being selfish. It's being smart. It's being loving to yourself. It's being kinder to yourself. It's anchoring in that frequency of I love myself and honor myself so deeply that I don't care what anyone else has to say about it because this is my life and my rules. And I get to create the standard. I get to create my own blueprint. I get to create my own destiny, period. So on January 19th, which is my birthday, 26, I am launching the manifest overnight masterclass. This is part of the blueprint. Okay, this is the exact protocol I use to collapse time, erase my limiting beliefs, and manifest my reality shifts in 24 hours or less, literally overnight.

The reason I created this masterclass is because I'm someone who likes to see results fucking fast. Okay, I don't have time to waste this year. I'm like, let's get the ball moving. Let's manifest now. Let's manifest overnight. I don't want my manifestations to take six months, okay? I don't want my manifestation to take five years. I want it done now. And it all starts, once again, with how you see yourself and how you feel about yourself. It all comes down to your self-concept and if you believe you are worthy and deserving of what you want to manifest. The wait list for manifest overnight is open right now, okay? And here is why you need to move fast. Everyone on the wait list gets access to the exclusive early bird sale that I am putting out on

my birthday January 19th. When we go live on January 19th, it will be released. You'll get an email sent to your inbox right away. And there will be a special price for people on the email list. It'll be a very special discounted price for people who sign up now and join the wait list right now. The early bird sale is going to be the lowest price. The course will ever be offered at. And then the price is going to jump up significantly. So I highly recommend you join the wait list now. So you get the email when doors open if you're interested in manifesting your reality at lightning speed.

Stop this audio for 10 seconds, whatever you got to do. Click the link in my show notes or go to Stan Store dash LIS boss. by SS BOSS and join the manifest overnight wait list. Your new life and everything you've ever wanted to manifest happens on January 19th, 119. I cannot wait to see you there. It's going to be amazing. I'm so excited.

Now, are you ready to hear the 2026 hacks that are going to make everyone be like, how are you so fucking lucky? Let's go. You're not here to play the victim like everyone else. You are here to take accountability and take action and take control of your life in the best way. In 2026, we are tapping into the law of assumption. You're going to learn how to become the creator of your reality. In this episode, I'm giving you the golden rules to make this your best year yet.

We're talking about becoming the richest you've ever been, the hottest you've ever been. Becoming hot and rich. That's going to be a whole other episode because that's all me and my friends have been saying lately. I'm like, let's get hot and rich. Let's get hot and rich. That is the mantra. That is the motto moving into the new year. to be as rich as possible and to be as hot as possible, to be as hot as possible, to be as

possible, period. If you found this episode right now, I know how amazing you are. I know how amazing you are. I know how powerful you are. And it's time to use that powerful energy the right way and move accordingly and stop leaking your energy towards the wrong things, wrong people, wrong situations. We're done with that. We're leaving that in 2025. 2025. 26 is a brand new start to your future. We're going to structure this into four pillars of becoming the architect of 2026. This is where you shift identities. It begins right now. I'm going to give you the crystal clear blueprint.

Okay, number one, your mood dictates your reality. How you feel internally dictates what goes in your reality. What's happening on the external. It's all a reflection of what's happening on the internal. If you are constantly stuck in a depressive state, which is okay. I've been there many times, trust me. It can reflect externally without us even really realizing it, that we're actually doing it to ourselves.

If you feel unlucky or if you feel like you've had bad breaks or, you know, things have happened to you that haven't worked in your favor, or you've lost a lot of money, or you've gone through breakup after breakup, whatever it may be. Oftentimes, it's because there's something going on within us. And once we take accountability and we realize that we are the architects of our own reality, and a lot of it is based on our mood and how we feel about ourselves and our self-concept. it is the biggest game changer. The biggest game changer.

And that's why I created my manifest overnight masterclass, because that is going to elevate your mood like crazy. It's going to make you shift in the moment in real time. It's going to make you tap into that confidence and your superpowers in real time. So the mood is the most potent creative force. That is why I only listen to happy music. This is hack number one. You got to wake up in the morning and listen to positive things, mantras,

uplifting podcasts that are going to make you feel. more inspired or more creative or happy music or music that's just going to get you fired up. For me, that's been Megan the Stallion recently. I'm obsessed with her because of her energy. Okay, some of her lyrics, yeah, they might be a little intense. I don't care because it's her energy that speaks to me that makes me feel like a confident, powerful woman. Anyone that makes you feel good, any sound that makes you feel good, it's a vibrational

frequency. And by listening to things that make you feel more uplifted and confident and energetic, you are changing your vibrational frequency to match that. So pick a song in the morning when you wake up, when you're going to the gym, when you're going for a run, when you're going for a walk, whatever it is, when you're getting up in the morning, making your breakfast, getting ready for the day, pick something, some sort of audio or song that feels like your victory lap. When you hear that song, it feels like you've just won the lottery.

You've just won millions of dollars. You feel like a billionaire. You feel like the hottest person in the room because it makes you feel that good, okay? we want to go for that type of sound, that type of audio. The key is to anchor in that feeling with the sounds and then start visualizing, feeling like you can achieve anything in this life, picturing your future self, picturing everything you've ever wanted and feeling as if it's already happened. That's going to get your day moving. That's going to set the tone for the day. Stop doom scrolling on TikTok and, you know, video after video after video and consuming garbage and

shit and nonsense that's not really elevating your mood. Last night even, when I got to my house, I was scrolling on TikTok and I was in such a good mood. And then I realized my energy started to just like shift a little bit. And it wasn't great. I was like, I don't feel so good. I feel like I'm leaking my energy when I could be doing something productive with my life or like getting a really good sleep, you know. So just be mindful of that. Be mindful where your energy is going. And get that song, get that playlist going or get that podcast going. The second. The second. you wake up to start reprogramming the mind. The next hack for 2026 is we're not going to be checking on our manifestations. That is what is delaying it 99% of the time. Stop checking on the

things you want or saying I don't have it yet or oh like he hasn't watched my story or blah, blah, blah, blah. When you check on things, you're leaking your energy. When you're waiting on people, you leak your energy. When you're looking to see if someone is stalking you, you're leaking your energy towards them. Okay, you're giving them power. You were literally handing them your power. When you're like, oh, he hasn't watched my story today. Really? Really? Are you that not busy? That that's what you're focused on? Think about it. Okay. And I'm guilty of this. I'm speaking from personal experience. Like, I used to have a lot of time on my hands. And I would notice people who watch my story and be like, oh, they watch my story or blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Who the

fuck cares when we have empires to build in 2026? You're not going to have time or you shouldn't have the to be focused on things like that. You shouldn't have time to worry about if someone is going to want to take you out on a date or not, okay? If it was your person, it'll work. It'll feel good. The relationships that are meant for you in 2026 will be easy and effortless and will support your life and support your growth. You're not going to have to question anything. I was just watching, he's just not that into you the other day. I watched that movie like years ago. For some reason, I felt compelled to watch it a couple nights ago. And it was just another reminder. The main character, the guy, I forgot what his name was. But he was like, it's so simple. It's just so simple. If you're already questioning

if he's going to call, he's just not going to call. A guy will make a plan to see you if he wants to see you. It's literally black and white. And it's actually really simple. And we tend to overcomplicate everything. I really do find that true. I would say 95% of the time. And it's okay for women to initiate. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. But at the same time, it's like things should just feel good and flow and be easy into the new year. So anyways, back to what I was saying, okay? Constant checking on your manifestations on what you want, on what you desire is literally communicating to the universe. I don't have it yet.

And when we're working with the law of assumption, looking for signs delays the manifestation. If you're constantly looking to the universe for signs outside of yourself, you are creating energetic blockages. about what you want. It's just the name of the game. It's just how energy works. If you're constantly checking on the manifestations that you're putting out there for 2026, if you're like, oh, why is it taking so long? This isn't happened for me yet. That's what's always keeping you stuck. We're not doing that anymore. We set the intention for what we want and we embody the person that already has it. And we know that it's coming. We're in full trust mode this year. Just trust. An example would be if you order a necklace online. When you order it, you're not constantly checking your neck to see if it's on

your neck already. You know it's in the mail. You know it's coming. You're not going to be grabbing at your neck being like, where's the necklace? Okay, it's in the mail. So you just got to trust the process. The next hack of 2026. When you wake up in the morning, I want you to set an intention in your water and then drink it. I know it sounds kind of silly when I say it out loud, but trust me, you've got to charge your water and what you're putting into your body. You're going to hydrate yourself with your intentions and your goals and your manifestations. This is just an energy hack. It's a psychology thing, okay? We're reprogramming your subconscious. Okay, this is all part of my masterclass manifest overnight. But I'm giving you some of the juicy parts now because I really want you guys to

succeed this year. I really want you guys to move into this new year with such a fire and to completely rewire your identity. So this is also really good because not only are you staying hydrated in 26, but we're also going to reprogram your brain as you're hydrating. As you drink water in the morning, you're going to charge your morning water with a specific intention, okay? You're going to use the power of suggestion to prep your nervous system for the day ahead. So as you drink your water, repeat a script to yourself. Opportunities find me everywhere I go today. Miracles are happening for me everywhere I go today. I'm a magnet for money and miracles. I'm a magnet for endless, abundant opportunities. I'm a magnet for the love of my life. I'm a magnet for endless amounts of money.

You could even get more specific if you want a very specific outcome on a specific day. There was one day last year and I'll never forget where I needed $15,000. I was like, I need $15,000 like tomorrow because it's a financial emergency and yeah. Basically, it was an urgent matter and I commanded it to the universe. I was like, yep, everywhere I go, money finds me $15,000 in the bank, no problem, no questions asked. I got an email for a brand deal for exactly $15,000. And the best part of all was that the money was almost instantly transferred to me. Right after I did the post, I got paid. It was the fastest, easiest brand deal I've ever done in my life. That's the thing about our brain and how powerful our brain really is. Miracles can happen all the time

if we look for them. The same way when you look for negative things, they can appear. too. We can focus on the positive things and they will also appear. Okay. So drink your water, hydrate your body in the morning and start reprogramming your mind with a positive script. I am making an extra 10K this month. Done. I'm meeting someone that's going to invite me out to the coolest event in New York City this week. Done. It could be anything. I'm going on my dream vacation next month. Done. You don't need to figure out the how or how much money it's going to be or the logistics of it, you just got to set the intention. The next hack is changing your wardrobe is going to change your identity and your self-concept.

I never really understood this until I started dressing differently and started changing my hair and the way I did my makeup. It really does affect your self-concept and sometimes it's a little more effort for sure, but whenever I start dressing differently, I start putting more effort into my physical appearance, it changes the way I feel internally. Makes me more confident. If I'm wearing a really sexy blazer on a night out with heels, I feel like a boss bitch. I'm just like, I run the world.

Sorry, this is it. Like, I love the way I look, the way I feel. It's also just about wearing what works for you, what feels good on your body, what makes you feel most confident. Everyone has a different style. But for me, really tapping more into my style and like understanding what works for my body type, what looks good on me, how I feel good, what makes me feel more confident. wearing the feeling of your success will get you closer to the finish line of success. We're wearing the outfit of the CEO that you want to become.

Wearing the outfit, doing your hair and makeup like the hottest version of you. You're embodying your future self in real time. That's how you get the manifestations. That's how you get everything you want. That's how you start attracting opportunities. If you want to be a successful CEO, you don't wait for the title, okay? You become the CEO now. And what would that CEO be wearing?

How would you be operating? How would you be acting? What would your hair look like? How would you do your makeup? How would you style yourself? It is really important to note these things because we're really embodying the identity of the person we wish to become. And that is the ultimate reminder to your subconscious that this is who I am now. I'm not waiting to become someone. This is who I am right now, period. The next thing I absolutely love doing is window shopping. I walk into stores all the time envisioning that I'm buying something all the time. I do this all the time. I do this all of the time and it's just because I like to do it. It's not even because I'm trying to embody any type of identity. It's literally just me being like, oh, I know I'm going to purchase this soon. Once I hit this certain financial target, once I make this certain amount of money, once the money's deposited in my bank account, I'm buying this. Like, I know that I'm buying it. You know, it's already a done deal. And I'm just window shopping because I know that I'm going to buy whatever it is. So the thing is a lot of people view success as something that's outside of them or like a material item as something that's unattainable because it's so far outside of them. For example,

I know I'm buying myself a Cartier watch. I want that watch. I want the specific watch. It's absolutely stunning, but it costs a shit ton of money, right? It costs a lot of money. To a lot of people, it would be like absolutely impossible to make that purchase. But there are so many different ways and avenues you can manifest a nice watch. It doesn't always have to be that you even pay for it. Someone could gift you the watch. Someone could literally gift you a work opportunity that gives you the money to pay for the watch. There are so many different avenues to manifest what it is that you want. Even when I lost my Cartier ring, I met a guy who had an extra Cartier ring sitting in his house. And we went on a date. And unfortunately, I didn't like him.

This is a kind of funny story. And I don't want to go too off tangent here. But I was telling him how I lost my ring. And he was like, well, I could actually give you the ring if like you really, really want it. And this is the thing with me. It's just not in my nature to take something. If, I'm never going to see someone again. I'm not just going to take something off of a man that I know that I'm not interested in because I don't use people like that. There are a lot of women who would be like, why didn't you take it? But this is the thing. I just don't roll like that. Like I'm not going to ask someone for material item and have some sort of like energy attachment to them, if that makes sense. If I'm not interested. If I was interested in him, I would have taken the ring. But I didn't. But the point is I truly believe that I brought that into my reality and I brought him into my reality as a reminder. are that gifts can come in various different ways. It doesn't always have to be you pay for it. So this is the thing. Go into the stores where you know if you had that extra 200K in your bank account, 300k in your bank account, go into the stores where you would buy things and just envision yourself buying those things. And then tell your brain, oh yeah, I'm coming back to purchase this.

I'm 100% coming back to purchase this item. This is already mine. I'm just going to take a peek. I'm just going to look at it. This collapses the timeline between you and this object, between you and your future self that has the money. This really helps your subconscious mind. Just feel like you're embodying the identity of the most abundant, successful person. You're making everything normalized to you. You're making everything realistic for yourself. Because sometimes we create these energetic gaps where we're like, oh my God, this is too expensive or this is too much or this is impossible. Close the gap by immersing yourself in the identity of, the person who is buying the big item, who is buying the luxury item. Super helpful. The next thing is we're going to start muting people. We're going to start muting people that don't align with our future self and our visions and our goals. Your subconscious is a sponge for information. And if you're constantly consuming content of people complaining about the economy, complaining about the government, complaining about taxes, complaining, complaining, complaining, you're just going to get more complaining in your algorithm. And it's going to affect your subconscious mind.

even if you don't fully realize how much it's affecting you in real time, trust me it does. Okay. Our brains are very sensitive to information. And that is why I'm so cognizant and so aware of what I consume on a daily basis. Consume positivity. Consume uplifting content. Consume educational podcasts. Consume high vibrational music.

Whatever it is you got to do to surround your brain with healthy content. Stop feeding your mind lack. Because when people start complaining to you, oh, that's too much. That's too expensive. Okay. I've had people come up to me and be like, yeah, but that's impossible because blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. No, no, we're not living in lack in 2026. You have to turn off the lack button. You don't hear people who complain. You don't hear people who are negative. You don't hear people who are pessimistic or who spit bad news at you all the time or negativity or low vibe shit. Nope, we're not doing that this year. I am using that mute button like no other. I don't want to absorb anyone's voice or content. that may infiltrate my subconscious mind in a negative way. So protect your peace. You're the average of

all the people you follow on Instagram that you consume. So muting isn't about like not liking someone. Muting isn't necessarily to say, oh, like this person's not a good person. No, you're just protecting your energy and your energetic field in your space. It's protecting your mental atmosphere, period. That's it. It's protecting your mental atmosphere like the CEO billionaire boss has babe that you are. And that's okay. That's good. That's healthy. We want to start doing that. The next thing is, I want you to bless other people's successes. We're going to cut the envy and the jealousy. Because if you're jealous, that means you're coming from lack. Once again, you're communicating to the universe. I'm jealous because I don't have this thing that I really want and that this other person has. When you operate from envy, jealousy, not only are you operating from a place of pure ego, but think about it like this. If you were exactly where you wanted to be, if you had everything you've already. wanted or if you knew that your blessings were coming tomorrow or the next day or the next week. You knew that that million dollar check was being deposited in your bank account three weeks from now. You knew that you were going to hit your goals in a month from now.

You would be happy for other people because you wouldn't care. You'd be like, okay, amazing. We're all in this together. We can all be successful. There is room for everyone. Bless your competitors. Genuinely celebrate them because this is going to tell your brain, this success is all around me because it's mine too. It's so close to me. It's orbiting in my field because their success is also my success.

We're operating at the same vibrational level. If they can do it, I can do it too. If they can achieve their goals so quickly, I could do it too. That's it. You don't have to be jealous. You don't have to be envious of anyone's success because you know that there's room for everyone. This means you're operating from a place of abundance versus lack. If you envy someone else's wins, you're communicating to your subconscious. Success is limited and you can't be successful because someone else. which if you say it out loud it sounds fucking ridiculous oh they're successful so i can't be what do they have to do with you what does their success have to do with you so basically no one else can have a shot of being successful other than you because like what that makes no sense right so stop pushing

your success away the more envious and jealous you are of other people people's success the more you're pushing your own success away everything once again in life is a mirror and if you keep celebrating and immersing yourself and other people's success success will follow you that's it Now listen closely, okay? Because right now is the time to take full control of your new identity. If you've been listening to these hacks and you feel that pull in your chest, if you feel like this is really uplifting you and inspiring you, that is your future self trying to pull you into your future timeline.

And that's the most exciting thing in the world. But here's the truth, okay? Information without applying it is just entertainment. If you're not going to do anything about it after this episode, it doesn't matter. You can listen to my podcast as much as you want, but if you don't take action to change your frequency and your self-concept, you're going to wake up tomorrow in the exact same reality. So that is why I encourage you to go to the show notes and join the new masterclass, waitlist, manifest overnight. It is truly the portal to your highest manifestation timeline.

This is a neurological and spiritual rewiring of your brain and of your identity. I'm going to teach you everything you need to know about manifesting. I'm going to uplift your energy and activate you in that master class to get everything you've ever wanted literally in days. The wait list is officially open right now. This is the last time I'm going to be mentioning it. If you were on that list, you get the early bird pricing. You get the best deal possible. So stop what you're doing. Don't wait till the episode's over. Just go join the wait list right now so you don't forget. I cannot wait to see you there. The door to the old you is closing. 2026 is your year. You are the blueprint. You are the standard. You're getting everything you want. Period. It's a done deal already. Now go join the wait list. I can't wait to see you there. Okay. Now, let's talk a little bit about career. and wealth, some wealth hacks. If you keep saying you can't afford things, that's a mantra of poverty. You're not a peasant. You are an empress. You're a queen. You're a king. Whoever's listening to this right now, male or female, okay, you are royalty. You are designed to create the blueprint of your own life. You are wealthy. You are abundant. You are rich. You are successful. You got to keep telling your brain this.

Stop saying you can't afford things. That's another rule going into 2026. Another hack. You can afford anything you want. I can afford anything I want. I can afford anything and everything I want. You've got to keep telling yourself that. By claiming that you can afford anything you want, you're claiming your power. You know that money bends for you. You know that money works for you. You're not a victim of a price tag. You are a conscious creator of your wealth. Done. The next thing is, be aware of every single thought that you're thinking. It's time to be more aware of our thoughts and where our thoughts are going. and to not spiral. And if we start getting into a negative spiral, to course correct as soon as possible, as quickly as possible, okay? We don't want to get in these negative feedback loops all day. I used to do this

all the time. And I'm someone who struggled with anxiety my entire life. And it's taken me a while to get control over it. Before you check your phone in the morning, give yourself 20 seconds of pure positive mantras. I am so grateful for this life. I am so blessed. I am so lucky. I am so abundant. I am so wealthy. I'm a magnet for miracles and blessings. I am so, so grateful. I have so much gratitude for my life. I am so healthy. I am so vibrant.

I am so hot and rich. I am so successful in every area of my life. I am so, so lucky and blessed and fortunate. Keep telling yourself this and give yourself at least 20 seconds right when you wake up. Prep your brain for the day. It sets the internal thermostat for the rest of your day, guaranteed. The next hack, if you're trying to manifest a specific person, or really just like your soulmate or someone in your life or a new business partner. If you want to take someone on a

date, if you want to go on a date, whatever it is, okay? You have to start envisioning your life as if there's someone with you. So my favorite thing to do when I'm looking for a new relationship, which I haven't done in a while, one of the best manifestation techniques is to actually clear physical space for that person to arrive. This could look like making space on the other side of your bed, acting as if that person is sleeping next to you at night. It can mean setting a table for two people, even if you're eating alone. I know it sounds a little cringy, but you got to do what you got to do. If it helps your brain visualize what you want, if it doesn't make you feel good to do that, don't do it. But for me, when I'm really in that manifestation state and I'm like, I know it's coming.

I know it's coming. I know I'm about to meet someone. I know I'm about to get into a relationship. Blah, blah, blah, blah. When you actually feel it into existence and it makes you feel excited, that's when these techniques really work. You don't want to come from a place of lack and like low vibe energy and you're just like, oh, this is so stupid, I don't want to do this. If it doesn't work for you, it doesn't work for you. But this is a technique I like to use when I want a clear space for someone new in my field. You got to act like they're already there, okay? And it could be really fun. The last time I got into a relationship and I really wanted a boyfriend. Looking back, I realized I used to set intentions, like, I want a boyfriend. And I haven't done that in a while. I haven't been ready to get myself

into another serious relationship. Full transparency. But prior to the last two years, I'm just, you know, years, I was always in a relationship. I had relationships back to back to back and I would always set the intention. I want a partner. I want a boyfriend. And then what I would do is clear space for them physically. I got an apartment with an extra bedroom. And for me, having an extra bedroom was really something for me that I like to do when I know that I'm having guests over or I like to create more space in my home because I know there's going to be a second person there. And I started doing small things like buying an extra toothbrush and just envisioning someone being there with me. I kid you not two weeks later. That was when I entered my relationship. I met this guy. We ended up dating. And then we

ended up living together really quickly. So these techniques really do work. But you have to be in a good energy space around them. You can't do them out of lack or desperation or, you know, feeling like there's something missing in your life. You have to do it excited. Be like, yes, this person is coming. They're about to find me, we're about to fall in love. Let me get my house ready. It's about living in the certainty of knowing that this person is on their way. This person is coming. What would you do? What would you be doing leading up to your soulmate entering your life? Would you be sitting on your ass, eating a tub of ice cream? Or would you be in the gym excited, getting into the best shape of your life, taking good care of yourself? So when they do arrive, you feel like the hottest,

most confident version of yourself. Okay, let's be honest. You're always going to meet someone when you feel good, when you feel confident, that's when you let people into your energetic space. That's when you can attract more easily. That's when you become most magnetic. The next thing is taxes. Taxes can be so daunting and I struggled with this for so long. I used to be terrified of paying my taxes. When I was younger and I started my first business and I was making a lot of money, no one taught me about taxes. My parents didn't tell me about taxes. My school didn't tell me about taxes. I was in college and I was making a ton of money for someone my age. I had started my first social media business. No one informed me that taxes were a thing. I thought I got to keep every

single cent that I made, which by the way, I think is valid. Like, I think if you work hard for your money and you've built yourself from scratch, you deserve to keep everything. I don't agree with taxes. I never did. But, you know, it's a thing. It's a thing that we got to do when we got whatever in the 3D, this is what it is. And wealthy people learn how to navigate taxes accordingly. They understand that taxes are a byproduct of being extremely successful and making your own money. So something I had to work on is blessing my bills and getting excited to pay off my credit cards. It sounds kind of twisted because you're like, how could you be excited about paying your bills and giving away money and paying your taxes? Yeah, it took me a while to grasp. It took me a while to understand

this, but this is something my grandpa always said to me. My grandpa was extremely successful and he made a ton of money. And something he always used to say to me was that means you're making money. If you're paying a lot of taxes, that means you're making a lot of money. And that's something you should be grateful for. That's something that always had stuck with me because I used to complain, complain, complain, be like, oh my God, I can't believe I have to pay taxes. I can't believe I have to pay taxes. I can't believe I work so hard. I work so I blah, blah, blah. But the fact that you're even privileged enough to have enough money to have to pay taxes, it's basically understanding that if you are paying a lot in taxes or you are paying a lot of bills, that means that you had generated that money to spend it

somehow or you've generated a lot of money somehow. It's always focusing on the positives, right? And wealthy people understand that it's part of the ecosystem. It's part of building wealth. It's part of running a business. So something I like to do now, and of course, it's not, it's easier said than done, okay? I still am like, I still don't want to pay them. But when you do pay a bill, you thank the universe. You say thank you for the service. I received. Thank you for the abundance that allows me to pay this easily. Thank you for the opportunities I've had that have made me a lot of money. And, you know, you just understand that this is a part of being a businesswoman, being successful. It's all part of it. For me, I know that

it's the feeling of also being really responsible and on top of my finances that have made me more confident and more organized. It's the things I've learned along the way about, you know, appreciating the fact that I get to make money. This keeps you out of a victim mindset and frequency. We don't want to go into the victim mindset and be like, oh, this is the worst. Like this sucks. Why do I have to do this? Blah, blah, blah. It's just going to drag your energy down. It's not helpful. It's useless. Okay, because at the end of the day, if you got to pay something, you got to pay it. And you don't want to be a victim to money. You don't want to be a victim to finances. And you don't want to be a victim to taxes. So just looking at it from a more gracious, positive angle is a way to actually increase your wealth because it's also saying you're not operating from lack.

You're trusting that you're going to make it back. You're trusting that you're going to make more. You'll find a way to do it. The universe is always blessing us in such crazy, miraculous ways. Everything you've ever paid, you get back multiplied. Keep telling yourself that. Everything I spend comes back to me multiplied. Tripled, quadrupled, 5x.

Keep telling yourself these things because they become true. If you believe that whatever you give out comes back multiplied, there's no need to worry. There's no need to stress about it. The next thing is use your boredom wisely. Use your free time wisely, even if it's 60 seconds, okay? Bortem or these little gaps of space we have throughout the day, let's just say you're waiting online at a grocery store. You have 60 seconds to visualize your future self and think about a new manifestation or think

about a new goal. Focus your brain on that instead of scrolling. Focus your brain on that instead of texting. someone that doesn't like you. Okay. Do things with your brain intentionally. Be intentional with where your thoughts are going and where your visualizations are going and where your energy and time is going. Every hour on the clock can be used for something productive in 2026. Use every gap or even small minute or five minutes or 10 minutes, whatever you have in the day to be productive with your thought process. Think about your future self more than your past memories. Think about your future timeline more

than something that happened to you five days ago. Let's get into the future. Put yourself in the future. We're moving ahead in 2026. We're not replaying the past. The last hack is, okay? This is the secret blueprint. This is my favorite hack ever. It's how much audacity you have to believe in yourself, to believe in your imagination more than what's happening in the 3D physical world around you. You got to be so creative and fucking delusional to get what you want. Think about this, okay? Every amazing invention, like the iPhone, I was just thinking about this too when I was flying. I'm like, airplanes are so fucking weird. Like, how did someone build an airplane? That's insane to me that airplanes exist. We could get in this like tube and fly 20 hours across the world to a different country, to a different continent. What a privilege, what a blessing that I can do that for work, that I could do that, test out different cities to live in and go on vacations. And it's just we take advantage sometimes of how, you know, these things that are so actually complex. and wild. I know I would have never thought of that.

I would never thought of an airplane. But someone else did. And the point is that person was fucking delusional because I'm sure at the time before airplanes existed, that was a crazy thought because it didn't exist. Same thing with the iPhone, okay?

I couldn't imagine life without our iPhones or cell phones, whatever. These ideas were once deemed impossible and delusional and insane. But someone had to believe in them. Someone had to execute on these ideas. Every great invention was delusional until it became physical and until it worked. So 2026 for me is the year where we become

that delusional about what we want, what we want to create. You got to look beyond the 3D. You got to look beyond the physical of what's right in front of you and be like, what can I do? Who can I be? What can I create? That is so delusional and people will think I'm fucking nuts, but I know is going to leave a mark on the world. It's going to leave a positive impact on the world. It could be something even really small that you've always wanted to do or try or go or, you know. you know, somewhere you want to explore, you want it to travel to. It could be literally anything you want, but get delusional about your reality. Be creative with your imagination. Anything is possible for you. This is the year where anything and everything is possible for you. Anything

and everything you want is with and reach is yours. It's a done deal. It's already yours. I might have to make a part two of this because I'm really getting into it. We've covered a lot today and here's the ultimate truth that no one's going to tell you. Okay. You were never meant to struggle your way to success or to get the life you deserve and you know you deserve in your heart and soul. When you truly learn how to embody your future self, everything will fall into place. You'll be inspired to take different action. You'll be inspired to go to certain places that will lead you closer to your destiny. You'll start magnetizing the right people and opportunities into your field. That is what changing your energy is all about. In 2026, I want you to understand that you

are making a pact with yourself, that you are ready to be the person that you've always wanted to be. You have no choice but to succeed this year. Failing is no longer a part of your vocabulary. It's not an option. Success is your ultimate birthright. Everything you want is already yours. And with that being said, that concludes today's episode. I'm so happy if you found this episode.

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appreciate you. I'm grateful for you. Have an amazing, amazing day wherever you are in the world. Happy New Year. Happy 2026. Stay tuned for future episodes. Bye.