Date Yourself Instead - If he wants you, he'll come get you

Episode Date: July 5, 2026

if someone genuinely wants to be in your life, you'll know.Inside this episode, we dive into:Why chasing energy never creates the relationship you actually wantThe difference between showing interest and pursuing someoneWhy men who are genuinely interested make it obviousThe biggest dating mistake I see women make over and over againWhat happened when I stopped forcing connections and started trusting myselfWhy "I'm busy" is usually an excuse (and the rare exceptions)How to stop reading into every text message and start paying attention to actionsThe bar story that reminded me to trust my intuitionWhy being alone is infinitely better than being emotionally unavailable to yourselfHow to reclaim your power, raise your standards, and stop settling for confusionIf this episode resonates with you, send it to a friend who needs the reminder.download the masterclasses here!!⁠Dare to Detach - let go of your ex⁠⁠Mind Body Soul - glow up for summer⁠⁠Manifest Overnight - manifest anything⁠ig @lysscontact: [e-mail]

If he wants you, he's going to come get you. If a man wants you, he's going to come get you. On today's episode, we're going to be discussing this. And we're going to give you some story times as usual. And also, I'm going to remind you of your fucking power as a confident, beautiful, gorgeous, stunning goddess for all of the women listening to this episode today. Welcome to List. If you're new here, my name is List Boss. And I've been doing this podcast for about three years now, which is insane.

I started this podcast after going through a breakup and I was going through a lot of my life at the time. It was 2022 and I remember just feeling so lost. I didn't know where my power went because I was in a relationship that drained my life force. I wasn't myself and I started podcasting about it. I started podcasting about my life and my dating life and it's slowly developed into my career, which is really interesting and really amazing. And I'm super grateful to be here. If you're new here, drop a comment, say hi, welcome to LIS.

This idea has been brewing in my mind since yesterday and I tried to record it in my house, but then there was construction. And I was like, okay, I need to just get into the studio and do it properly because it's a really important topic. If an N wants you, he's going to come get you. Period. Point blank. I get it if you're married and you're super committed and you're older and there are financial differences, whatever. I'm not talking about you guys, okay?

I'm talking about when you are in the initial stages of dating and when you are looking for the right person, when you're looking for a man to court you and get into a relationship, to be doing all of the work and chasing as a woman is not necessarily a good idea. And I'm going to tell you why. A man should come and get you because it puts you in your divine feminine energy. You know that you've seduced him. Okay, I was reading this book called The Art of Seduction by Robert Green. It's pretty good. I mean, there are parts of it. I don't necessarily agree with because I don't believe in manipulation necessarily.

But your energy should be an energy of seduction if you're looking to pull in the right man in his masculine energy. You want to feel pursued, chased. You shouldn't be using your precious divine goddess energy to chase down a man to make him want you, to be posting for him to react to you. Your energy should be so grounded within yourself that the right man with the right energy will rise to meet you and court you and take you into his arms and say, I want you. He should be able to be brave enough to court you.

Now, I also want to say that if you are the type of woman that likes to initiate and you are a bold, confident, strong woman and you like to initiate conversation, it can work. However, I will say that if you do initiate, he should take it from there. So if you decide to send the DM first, he should take it from there. Like he should take the reins from there because some men may not know that you're interested, which is fine. And they may pull back a little if they don't know you're interested, which is fine. But once you give that initiation, once you give him the green light, he should take charge, period. This is really for the women who feel like they're currently in chasing mode or they are feeling a man pull back and they're trying to get their attention again.

We're not doing that. Okay, you should not be doing that. You should not be trying to get a man to like you. because what ends up happening is even if it does work temporarily, you are giving away your power. And it ends up becoming a very draining situation. Your energy should feel like a luxury to people, where they have to earn the access to date you,

to be with you, to earn the right to love you properly. You can't be just throwing around your energy freely, doing whatever it is you want to do with guys, and then expecting them to fall in love with you. And then get upset when they're ghosting you or they're disappearing on you or they're not putting in the effort that you expected.

It's because you gave your energy and access to you away so freely and so openly. And this isn't about playing a game either. I just want to say this too. It's not about playing games. It's about your self-worth and knowing how your energy is a luxury and it's a privilege to get to know you and it's a privilege to be with you. And if you're just opening the door to any Joe Schmo that you meet on a dating app or you meet out at a bar wherever you're meeting these people and you're not.

putting any sort of filter or boundary in place before you're letting people into your life into your energetic field, it might put you in a position where you aren't getting the results you want from the people you want. Because one, you're going after the wrong guys that you're going to have to chase because they're not coming after you. And two, you're not valuing yourself properly. You're not valuing your worth and your self-concept is not strong enough when you're going into the dating game when you're meeting new people. If your self-worth is solid and if your self-concept is solid, you're going to be in your divine feminine energy when you're dating.

You're going to be in your feminine energy where you know that they come to you. They are doing the work in the beginning, okay? It's okay to initiate sometimes if you're dating someone for an extended period of time. But for the most part, in the beginning, when you're getting to know someone, all men have the ability to chase. They have the ability in them to chase. they have the fire in them to chase. If you have the fire and you to chase,

they for damn sure have the fire in them to chase. But you're making it too easy for them. We're making it way too easy for them. I was out with a guy the other night. I've been dating very actively. I learn a lot through my dating experiences, and it's been really interesting recently. This guy literally told me the man should do it.

The man should be initiating most of the time. The man should be making the plans and picking where to go and taking those steps for the woman, especially in the early stages of dating. He was like, as a guy, I know that. We know the rules. But if we're not doing that, it's usually because we're not that interested.

We have someone else. We're just lazy because we're not that interested. If they're not that interested, they're not going to chase you down. So you have your answer right there. If they are genuinely interested in you, they're going to come after you. They're going to come find you.

Okay? I've had boyfriends that put in the most effort. Even when they had no money, even when they had nothing to really offer, they did the most to try to win me over, to try to impress me. I've had guys write freaking birthday cards for me after a day of knowing them. Okay, that's a little extreme. But like, I've had men doing a lot for me.

And you know when it was? You know when all those moments happened where I was being feverishly chased down by these people is when I was detached and in my own power and in my own energy and I didn't give a fuck. I didn't give a fuck what the outcome was. I liked them. I was open to seeing where it went. but I was still standing in my own power and I wasn't placing any emotional emphasis on them. I wasn't chasing them down.

I was a vacuum pulling in people into my experience because my level of self-worth and self-love was so high. Now I've also been in the other position where my self-esteem wasn't in a good place and I was feeling insecure and I would start messaging guys and going out of my way and message guys. There's a guy, he's an athlete. I messaged him a few years ago. and I was in a place of confidence. I was in a place in my life where I had a couple of other guys in my life.

So I was like feeling really confident as a woman. I was like, you know what? Fuck it. I'm just going to start messaging people I find attractive. So I message this athlete and he didn't reply. He didn't answer. Two years later, he messages me. Everything is really in divine timing, right?

Because when he had messaged me, finally it answered me back. Great. Okay. I was in such a different place with my self-concept and my self-esteem and what I really knew I deserved in a person that I handled the conversation very differently. I think if two years prior he had responded right away, it just wouldn't have been a good situation. Looking back, I'm kind of cringing at myself because I'm like, there has to be a naturalness about a man pursuing you. There has to be a naturalness about it. If you've initiated and then he sweeps in and takes the lead, that's amazing.

I think after looking back at that experience and looking at what I had messaged this guy and then he messaged me back, I was like, it just doesn't feel as great when you're the one who's pursuing. It's not a good feeling as a woman. And I'm just like, no, no, I can't. I just can't do it. And so I saw right away that it was a situation if I kept pressing on it and I continued to message him, I would be the one.

one having to take the lead. And I don't want that, right? And if you're watching this right now, you probably don't want that type of situation either. Now, as I said, if you like taking charge and you like being the dominant one in the relationship and you like being in that energy, that's a preference. Okay, that's a preference. But for me, I just feel like it feels nice to know that you can kind of like relax and follow a man's lead and be in your softer energy. And then when you go into work and you go into your career, you could tap into your masculine, okay? That's the beauty of being a woman who works hard, who runs your own business, whatever. Take that energy into your work.

I take that energy into my work. But when it comes to being romantic with someone, being physical, with someone, being intimate with someone, I like the man taking care of me, taking control, taking the lead. So I think looking back, I'm like, I'm not messaging anyone anymore. I'm not doing it anymore because even if they respond, it's like you kind of did the work for them unless they take charge right after you do. So let's just dive right into this, okay? Number one is no one is too busy to make a plan with you. If a man really wants to see you, he will move mountains to find a way to see you or be with you or talk to you or communicate with you. I met someone

a couple of months ago where I swear to you he would have done anything. He would have done anything to be with me. And I know that. The thing is like it just wasn't the right connection for me, But no mature adult, no mature, and this is so mature adult, is too busy for what they want, for a woman that they want to go after. I've seen men and I've heard stories of men doing crazy shit for the woman they love. If a man's feelings are strong enough, he will move, he will act, okay? I was watching this YouTube video a few months ago and I remember this girl talking about manifesting her soulmate. She was saying how she got a message from one of her followers that was worried that if she moved, cities, she wouldn't end up being with her specific person and being with the man that she loved

because he wouldn't want to make it work because of the distance or whatever. And this girl's advice stuck with me. And she was like, the right man will move mountains to be with you. As much as you don't want to really believe that's true, it's true. It's true. You don't need to worry about where you are, where you're moving to, where you're going, what you're doing for work, who you are as a person. if it's the right person, they will make it work. They will make it happen. You will figure it out between God's plan for you and this man, if he's the right match and he loves you enough, he will move mountains to make it work.

There was a period of time where I think I was very lenient with this rule, right? I was like, no, but it should be 50-50 and it's a two-way street, especially in like English culture because I had lived in London for a while and I was dating a lot of Englishmen who believed in this concept of like, no, it should be equal. It should be equal. It should be 50, 50 with everything. And then a part of me was like, oh, maybe it's a cultural thing too and you got to be lenient about it. No, sorry, I tried it.

I tried it out for myself and it wasn't working for me. It's all about what works for you. Okay. It's all about how you feel, what makes you happy. Obviously, if you're in a situation like that and you're okay with that, you're okay with everything being 50-50 in life with your partner and making compromises and sacrifices for a man, that's okay. I'm not judging you, but for me personally and based on what this girl was saying, after everything I've been through, after all the pain I've experienced, after all the

relationships I've been through, I know that the right man for me will move mountains to be with me or just move cities, not actual mountains, but cities. Let's just say I met a guy he lived somewhere and I wanted to live in New York, I would expect him to move to New York. I'll give you an amazing example that's very personal to me, very close to home. Both of my brothers. My brothers are amazing men and they are very hardworking. I'm not just saying this because they're my brothers. I promise.

I have a good relationship with my brothers and I love them. When they met their wives, they moved to where their wives wanted to live. They both live in Arizona. They moved to Arizona, both of them, to be. be with their wives because that's what their wives needed. That's what their wives wanted. Obviously, it was a joint decision, but at the end of the day, it was what their wives wanted and what was going to make them more comfortable in their marriages and what they needed out of the marriage. Maybe looking at that, because I'm close to it and I've seen it, I know it exists. I know it's

possible and I know that it shows a sense of loyalty and commitment just by honoring where their wives wanted to be. So at the end of the day, I do believe that the right man will move to be with you if it's the right person. And now we're going to get into a list of reasons why if someone wants you, they will come get you. We're all adults. If you're an adult in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, okay, and you're dating a man who's around the same age, he knows what he's doing. You know what you're doing. therefore he knows what he's doing. I can promise you he knows what he's doing. If he is not courting you and showing you that he wants you and asking you to dinner and making plans, he knows he's not doing that. Trust me, I can almost 99.9% of the time guarantee his level of self-awareness is enough to

understand his actions because think about it from your perspective, okay? You're the same age or similar age. You know what you want. You know what you expect. You know what you're looking for. you know when you're making effort towards someone, you know when you're putting your energy towards a relationship. He knows too. He knows too. So that's the basic standard here. We have to remind ourselves of that before diving further into this episode. This is the baseline.

This is the standard audit, okay? People know what they're doing. We're adults. We're human beings with brains and we can think for ourselves. And we know what we're doing when we're dating someone. We know how much we're texting them. We know how much effort we're putting in. A man knows how much he's investing in you.

from the beginning from the get-go. So to make excuses and say, oh, maybe he didn't understand, you know, maybe I'm misreading the situation. Maybe I'm misreading the situation and I don't know. And maybe he didn't mean it like that or maybe he's really busy with work. And maybe he's just not the type of guy that texts often. Although those things can be true, you'll still know how much he wants you. Even if he's the busiest person in the world,

he will still make time and effort to make sure you feel wanted and desired and make a plan to see you. If he's not making a plan to see you, it's a no. That's the reality of the situation. There was a guy I met out at a bar several months ago. He seemed really sweet for the first 10 minutes I was talking to him. And he was like all blushy and like getting all shy. Then a little funny plot twist. Okay, he's telling me like, oh, you're too good for me.

I'm scared of you. Men telling themselves. People telling themselves, okay? When they're saying things, believe it at face value most of the time. and also trust her intuition. But he was like, oh, I'm intimidated. I'm intimidated. I don't know if you like me.

It's projection, right? So I was like, interesting. A few minutes later, I see another girl, little cute blonde girl, walks into the bar and is like clinging to his shoulder, following him around. And I'm like, is he with another girl here? I'm so confused right now because we were really chatting, you know? We were really talking.

So I'm talking to his friend because I'm like, where else am I going to go? So we start talking to one of his friends and he's talking to this girl for like 30 minutes. So I'm just like, okay, I don't know who this girl is. Maybe they're just friends. But you know when your intuition is like, nah, something's weird. He ends up calling this girl a car to wherever she wanted to go and then she leaves. And he comes over to me.

He's like, I'm so sorry. I didn't want you to see that. And I was like, see what? And he's like, oh, I don't know. I met her last night. And then like I met you. So I just sent her a car. home and I'm like, excuse me? He's like, yeah, I told her to meet me at the bar, but that I met you,

so I sent her home. And I'm like, this is really weird energy. This is not good. And he was like, yeah, and also I saw you talking my friend and I'm jealous. And I'm like, how old are you? What is going on? This is so weird and immature and I'm leaving. And then he goes, I'll call you next week. I'm not a big texter. I'll call you next week. Another lie. You're not a big texter, but you'll call me next week. I was like, cool. I don't want to go on a date with you. You could just tell when someone's not actually interested or they're tied up in something else or they're a player, right? Like you just know as a woman, even though sometimes you want to be in denial about it and give people the benefit of the doubt, don't fucking do it. Don't do it. And this time I listened

to my gut immediately and I was like, I'm getting out of here. I don't like the vibes and it's weird and I just want to go to bed. He never called me. And I wasn't surprised. And it's not even that I cared. The whole point of this story is that you know immediately if a man really wants you. Your intuition will tell you, especially if you're a woman, your intuition will tell you and give you the green light yes or no right away. I can promise you that. Even if it feels like butterflies in the beginning or it feels good and flirty for a hot second and you feel chemistry with someone, there will be a small inner voice always telling you which way it's going. Always there's this little voice inside that's telling you the vibes.

Don't ignore that. There's always a little inner voice. And that little inner voice is really your higher self telling you if it's going to go one way or the other. I can promise you, it's always there. You just have to really tune into it and trust it. When I was in my 20s, I never fucking trusted it. And that's why I got myself in situations where I was like, oh, I thought he really liked me. And then he's like not treating me right.

It's because I didn't listen to my initial voice that told me which way it was going to go. You will know right away. Sometimes you can't really explain it or verbalize it, but there will be something that will let you know if it's a green light or a red light. Sometimes you just don't want to see the red. You don't want to see the red light. So you force it, you try to force it to be green. I'm telling you, trust yourself immediately. The second you feel that little like, I don't know, this is weird, I don't know.

Most of the time, you're right. You will know if a man wants you. And I knew that he didn't. I knew, obviously, from between the girl that showed up at the bar and him saying he was going to call me next week. I mean, those are obvious red flags. But before those things even happened, I knew. You could also tell in someone's eyes. His eyes went dark.

Immediately I was like, something's off. Something's really off. The next thing is, when someone says they're really busy, I've heard this many times, okay? Oh, work's been busy. I'm really busy. A lot going on. That shit doesn't work on me at all because everyone's busy. The busiest people I know are married and still have time for their wife, their kids, their family.

It's an excuse. When someone tells you they're too busy, they're telling you where you rank on their priority list. I've dated really successful people who are really, really busy and they still had time to make a plan. The only exception to this rule, I would say, is if there is some sort of family emergency that's happening in that person's life or like a health emergency in that person's life. Those are two things that I'd give a little grace because obviously if it's a serious situation and they weren't responding or they weren't engaging or they weren't making a plan. That's a different story. But nine times out of 10, if a guy's saying, oh, I've been really busy, I've been caught up

with work, he doesn't really like you that much. He's not that interested in you. I know founders of multi-million dollar businesses, guys who are the most serious entrepreneurs. I've dated tons of different guys that have really, really demanding careers. And I can promise you they have time to message you, to make a plan. Even if the plan is in the future, they have time to coordinate. If they really want to see you, they will find the time. Always think about it the other way around. If I really liked someone, like I was really interested and attracted to them, even with all the things I'm doing in my day and my schedule and I have to go to the gym

and I have to work and I have to edit and I have to record, I have to email a bunch of people back. I have a million things on my plate. I would still find an hour or two of my time to reply to them or to engage with them and to see them, right? Because that's just human nature. If you like someone, you're going to want to see them. You're going to want to spend time with them.

It's a non-negotiable for me. If someone gives me that excuse, I immediately write it off. I'm like, nah. Also, it's not just about, oh, I'm busy. It's the energy around it, right? So it's like, you know when someone's being honest about their schedule. Like, you just feel the energy. As a woman, you know when someone pulls their energy back and they're not prioritizing you

and they don't really care that much or they don't care as much as you do. So I'm like, I'm not going to settle for this. I'm not going to waste my time trying to make. a plan with someone that's not initiating or not asking to see me first or not properly planning a dinner like absolutely not you deserve better the next thing is if you have to send a screenshot to your group chat all the time about where you stand with someone and deciphering their texts and like looking at what they're saying and trying to figure out the meaning of things I think it's a no if you've gone through trauma in your life and you're getting back into the

dating game in the early stages I know I was there when I started dating again I was really anxious about messaging people again and trusting people again and that's different, okay? But if you're constantly trying to figure a guy out and what they're saying and if they want to see you and if they like you, 99.9% of the time, that's your answer in itself. It's a no. If you're confused, it's usually a no. If you're always anxious and on edge about where they stand with you, it's a no. If you're screenshoting everything they're saying and trying to pull it apart with your friends, it's usually a no. If you're asking chat TPT 24-7 about this person, it's a no. You'll know where you stand with someone.

You'll know where you stand with someone. You will know. It will feel grounded. It will feel safe. It will feel real. It will feel tangible. If you really don't know and you really just want to nip it in the butt and cut the cord and like really figure it out and not overanalyze it, I would just ask.

Honestly, just ask. I think sometimes getting a clear answer if someone's not interested in you is the best closure. If you say, hey, where is this going? And someone's like, no, like, I don't, I'm not interested. Like, or I'm not looking for anything. Or I'm not sure. I don't know what I want. It's so easy for me to move on.

It is usually as clear as day when someone likes you versus when they really don't. So I don't even bother asking where I stand with anyone anymore. I haven't in so long. But I'm just saying if you're the type of person who needs that answer, you need that closure. Ask. And you'll get it. You will get it in some way, shape, or form. But don't be a.

afraid to walk away. If someone's confused about you or they're not sure if they don't like you, don't be afraid to walk away and close the door. I've heard stories of people. They had that conversation. The guy was like, I don't know. And the woman walked away, clean break, didn't look back. And the man regretted it and was like, wait, like I actually really do want to try this. And then they ended up together. Okay. And I'm not trying to feed you false hope. But I'm just saying you have to be bold enough and strong enough in yourself concept to not be afraid to get clear definitive answers and then walk away if it's not the answer you were looking for. Love yourself enough to walk away. If that person doesn't want to be with you, be brave enough to know that there is someone out there that

will commit to you and will want to be with you. And if it is that person and it's just a timing thing and they needed an epiphany or some sort of tower moment to realize that they really do like you and they really do care about you, fine. Okay. Everything happens in divine timing. Sometimes men need a little shakeup to realize what they've lost. And you're not going to budge on your self-worth. So there's nothing to be afraid of when it comes to having those conversations. I just don't like having those conversations. I just remove myself now because I'm like, I know what I'm looking for.

I don't need to know where you stand because it's in the energy. And I'm pretty psychic and I'm very intuitive. So I'm like, if you're fucking around with me and playing games, I'm going to walk away. And if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, right? But you'll usually know where you stand. in your gut, in your heart, in your intuition, trust yourself. And also trying to get someone's attention through social media to engage with you, to remind them of you.

Oh my fucking God, how exhausting. Once again, if someone likes you, if a guy likes you, he's going to come at you, you're not going to have to play these games of like auditioning to be a part of a guy's life. You're posting for him and you're posting these things and cryptic messages and quotes on your Instagram story. Like give it a fucking rest. If you have to do that, it's not your guy. You don't have to audition for the right person. And I'm speaking from my own experience.

It's tempting to get at someone with hot pictures and going out with your friends. And yes, men are very visual. So sometimes this does work and sometimes this will work in your favor. But it has to be strategic in the sense of like you're not solely living to post content to get someone to want to be with you. And you're not posting for the sake of them wanting to date you or wanting to commit to you. You're posting for you. You're posting because you fucking want to.

You're posting because you know how hot you are and you're doing it for the sake of feeling good about yourself. There's a very big difference. If you're posting from an energy of desperation and you look really good but you're trying to get someone to like like it, it's not even that great of a feeling, honestly, especially if they don't, especially if they don't see it or they don't like it or whatever it is. Post for you.

Do everything for yourself, okay? Dress up for yourself. Look good for yourself. If someone lacks the vision to see how fucking amazing you are and how beautiful you are and how special you are as a woman, let them walk away. The next thing is don't be afraid of being alone during a period of your life where, you know, no one's coming after you. I think we have this fear.

Oh my God. For a week, I haven't spoken to anyone. There's no one on the roster. There's no one texting me. And you get this like sudden wave of panic like, oh my God, I'm alone. I'm alone and it's silent and it's lonely. just use the isolation as a luxury experience to better yourself in your life and build your life. You have something you could be working on.

It's self-sabotage when we depend on men or we depend on texts to make us happy and give us dopamine hits. And it's so easy to fall into that trap. I always used to fall into that trap. My life was better when a guy was texting me. My life was better when someone was chasing me and courting me. That doesn't have to be the case. That doesn't have to be true.

Being alone can be so empowering when you fill your time with really fun things to do. New hobbies, new activities, going for runs, doing cool shit, traveling more, solo traveling. That's when I fell in love with solo traveling. When I went through my last breakup, I was like, fuck it. I'm just going to travel. I'm just going to live my best life. I'm just going to take care of me and do whatever the fuck I want. It can be very liberating when you know how to use your time wisely.

Take up a new sport. Do something artistic. Go to shows by yourself. Go to movies by yourself. just do things to take up your time and get your mind off of this concept of if I don't have anyone messaging me right now, my life isn't fulfilled or I'm not fulfilled. It took a bit of time for me to rewire my brain to love my life without the need for someone to be messaging me or like validating me. It took a very long time because I always had someone,

like I always had a boyfriend. It's a learning experience too, right? But the more you fall in love with your craft or something creative or something you love to do. Baking at home, journaling, light some candles, get cozy, get a brand new robe and just like snuggle up, order a jelly cat stuffed animal and fucking cuddle it. I swear,

I love my nighttime routine by myself in my bed, in my cozy sheets, just basking in my own energy, loving myself, truly. I've gotten to that point where I'm like, everything is just cozy and I just love my nighttime routine. I love getting a good sleep. I couldn't imagine someone,

right now just like sleeping next to me breathing like I tell my mom this all the time she thinks it's so funny I'm like how does it feel to sleep next to someone every night that's just like making noise and snoring and my mom's like I get it I get it you have a luxury babe like you have a luxury and we laugh about it because I really love my nighttime routine in my bed with no one around it's so peaceful okay you've got to reframe it in the beginning when you're going through a breakup and you've had someone there for a long time it's very lonely and I get it. it and I remember I went through a period of time where I was grieving and I was so sad. But get yourself a huge ass body pillow and hug that.

Get yourself some jelly cat stuffed animals. I have a bear and a dinosaur and a baby bear that goes with the big bear. I have stuffed animals. I got my candles. I got my incense. I do my meditations on YouTube. I take my own master classes that are so comforting to me because they really work in rewiring your brain and distracting you if you're going through a hard time.

You just got to fill your life up, fill your own cup up with what makes you happy, the small things that bring you joy. Get into a solid routine, take care of your body, go to the gym, do your hot girl walks. You'll realize more and more as time goes on that anyone that comes into your life is a bonus. And your life is amazing. And your life is great. And the right person that comes into your life, they should feel lucky. They should feel lucky to be in your life. So yeah.

And the last thing I'm going to leave you with is just reclaiming your power as a woman, okay? You don't need to do anything. The right man will find you. The right person will find you. All you need to do is be the best version of yourself. And remember that you are the operant power, as Neville Goddard always says, and what I teach in my masterclasses, specifically manifest overnight. People just show you what you're tolerating.

People just show you your self-concept and how much you really love yourself, okay? Because if there's someone in your life right now that's not appreciating you, that's not loving you properly, they're just showing you how much you're really loving yourself and what you're willing to put up with and what you're willing to tolerate. So take your fucking power back. Okay. You're powerful goddess woman. You have so much to offer. You're doing amazing things in life.

You're on the right track. If you found this episode, it's for you in perfect divine timing. I hope it can help you today wherever you are in the world. I love you guys so much. I'm sending you all the best vibes. Thank you as always for listening to my podcast. Be sure to drop a comment on Spotify. I read everything and it really does help the show grow and follow it.

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