Date Yourself Instead - it's lock in glow up get hot season.

Episode Date: September 27, 2026

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Hey guys, welcome back to the podcast. My name is Lisboss, and I am so excited to get into today's episode. Today, we're going to be talking about how to get hot, sexy, and rich for the fall and have a major glow up this September. I love investing in my wellness and beauty routines, and I love sharing everything that I've learned. As you can hear it in my voice, I woke up and my throat's a little sore. Not really sure what happened last night. I didn't get a very good sleep, to be honest, and I woke up with a deeper voice. So I kind of like it.

I'm kind of digging the husky or lower octave that we're working with today. But yeah, my voice dropped an octave overnight. So, hi. I might sound a little different on today's episode, but I'm here now with my coffee. Hopefully I'll get my voice back soon. We're going to just get right into it today. Today is an episode about becoming the hottest, sexiest, richest, most successful version of you this September. September is my favorite month of the year.

It's a month where we get to reset midway through the year. A lot of people consider January this time or the end of December because it's the start of a new year. But for me, September is the ultimate reset. Fall is my favorite season. I love the energy that comes with September. It feels like new beginnings. It feels like a total restart on the year. and it's preparation for the next few months.

It's like a really good checkpoint. It's right after summer, okay? We've had an amazing summer. We're tan. We're feeling really good. And now we're transitioning into a period where we're recalibrating and preparing for the winter. And getting our shit back together, getting organized, getting our head straight, and just really mapping out the next few months into the new year.

I am so obsessed with this month. And I cannot wait to dive into what I'm going to be doing. this September and what I think is going to be a huge game changer for everyone listening right now. So let's get into it. One thing you should know about me before we really dive in is that I'm obsessed with personal transformation and seeing old photos of myself and looking back at past versions of myself and being like, who was she? Who was that girl?

Because I'm constantly looking to evolve and up level and improve myself. I believe that anyone has the power to change. And if you really want to commit to changing, if you really want to commit to a better life and a better timeline. It's always possible for you and it's always within reach for you if you really believe it. And I'm a big believer in this because I've lived it. I've lived many different lives. I've lived out many different experiences and manifestations. I've traveled the world. I've made a lot of money. I've went from having nothing to literally having everything and living out my vision board because I constantly had faith in myself and my future self. I look at life

as this really fun game where we always have the ability to change our timeline at any time. And we always have the chance to improve our lives for the better. So I'm really excited to talk about all of these things today because these are a lot of things that I've applied to my life that have changed the game for me, that have allowed me to quantum leap into the best version of myself and have just made my life better and have made me feel sexier and more confident and more hot and abundant in every area of my life. If you are someone who is looking to massively transform and upgrade your reality overnight, I have three masterclasses that will help you do this.

One of them is my most popular masterclass. It's called Dare to Detach. And this masterclass is designed to help you let go of anyone or any X that you feel is holding you back from your best life and keeping you stuck. The next masterclass is the mind, body, soul reset. This masterclass is perfect for you if you're looking for a major spiritual and physical glow up. It will help you get your health and fitness back on track, and it will help you heal your mind-body's soul. Your aura will literally be golden after taking this masterclass.

And it coincides really well with Dare to Detach. In Dare to Detach, you are letting go of your ex and cutting the cord energetically. And the mind-body's soul is designed to give you that boost and that up-level to reclaim your power and to look good and feel good and have the best breakup glow-up of your entire life. The final masterclass is manifest overnight, and this is especially for people who are looking to, upgrade their life overnight and see results from their manifestations instantly.

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The first thing that I'm doing this September is embodying a brand new identity and deleting the old version of me. Now, what do I mean by that? I mean anything, any old habits, any old conversations, anything that feels old or like dead weight that isn't serving my highest good. And I know intuitively it isn't serving my highest good. This can apply to relationships, people in my life, business decisions, old contracts, any old things that have been lingering from the last few months,

I am getting rid of everything. I'm doing a full detox and I am embracing a brand new identity. In order to manifest a new identity for yourself, you need to occupy the end state of your reality. What does this mean? Instead of trying to manifest being a specific person, you have to embody the end state of that person already. So, for example, instead of saying, I want to manifest making an extra 50K, before the end of the year. You're not trying to manifest making 50K. You are embodying the identity of the woman or the man that has already claimed that $50,000.

You know it's yours. You already know it's yours. And that is the mantra moving into September, into October, November, December. This is my mantra. It's already done. It's already yours. It's already been done for you.

And that feeling, when you embody that feeling of knowing and trusting that it's already yours, that will help you shift into that identity of that person. I want you to remember that it's not about trying to manifest. It's not about trying to get something that you want. It's about embodying the identity of the person that already has it.

That is how you get what you want. That is how you actually manifest. You have to be the person you wish to become. Stop manifesting for your future and start living it as if it's already happened. So you could ask yourself questions like, What would the person who makes an extra 50K a month be wearing? How would she speak? How would she operate?

What time would she wake up in the morning? What would I be doing differently to be that person already? If I knew it was a guarantee that that money was in my bank account, or if I knew that it was a guarantee that I was going to meet the love of my life in three weeks from now, how would I be showing up in my reality today? And then you have to change your actions and do everything that you possibly can to embody that new identity and that new energetic state. That is how you get what you want.

And so this September, no negotiations, that's what I'm doing. I'm already this person that I've set out to be. And I'm embodying that new state and that new frequency. Stop trying, start embodying. And watch how fast things begin to shift in your life. And the next part of this ties into what I was just saying, doing a full detox on my life and embodying this new person. You have to go feral when it comes to cutting out things that aren't serving you.

You have to really commit to the new version of you. The one that's not going to tolerate bullshit or being walked all over. The one who is a people pleaser. The one who feels guilty about things, okay? We have no time to feel guilty or be dragged down to people please or to leak our energy anywhere or to give our energy to people who don't deserve it. September can be the time where you reset the clock and you get a refresh on the year. And you're like, you know what?

2026 moving into 2027? I'm not taking bullshit from anyone. I'm doing me. I'm prioritizing my own well-being and my own happiness and really getting clear on my values and what makes sense for me. This can look like saying no when you used to say yes to people all the time. This can look like quitting a job that's draining the shit out of you and not making you happy. This can look like taking a solo trip and committing to loving yourself more and loving your

solitude more. This can look however you want it to look. But the point is you can't be afraid to let people go and let things go and let invite. go and workplaces go and things go that just aren't serving you and just not being afraid to set yourself free. Set your soul free. I love the energy that comes with fall. I made an episode, I think the first episode of the fall I ever recorded on the podcast was called

Free Girl Fall. And from what I remember, I have to go back and replay it. But it comes with this energy of just pure freedom for your soul. Okay. Fuck what everyone else is doing. Stop immersing yourself in other people's content and plan. and schedules and how they're living their lives and structuring their lives. You do you, I do me.

That's another motto I'm carrying with me into the fall. You do you, you live your best life and I'll be happy for you, and I'm going to do me. You don't need to follow the trends or what people's doing. You don't need to be where other people are. You need to tune into what makes you feel most alive and you most free and you most happy and stick to that. And the right people and the right situations will always gravitate towards you naturally when you were sticking to what makes sense for you.

Because when you stick to what makes sense for you, you're living in true alignment and you're living out your true path and your true destiny. And people feel that. And the right people in situations will naturally magnetize towards you. It's been a little tricky for me because I've spent the last few years traveling a lot. And a lot of my friends all have different timelines and schedules. And it's so easy for me to want to follow them and see my friends and spend time with them.

But I'm coming into a season now where I'm like, I need to make power moves and I need to do what's best for me. And although I would love to just hang out and drink wine on the beach, which is amazing and, you know, I've done that before. And it's good to enjoy yourself once in a while. I feel like September, the energy is giving let's lock in and build our dreams and really get serious and organized and disciplined. And let's really do what's best for ourselves. So for me, personally, I know that I'm going to be locking in. on my career and really focusing on building my empire this month and into the next few months, it's hard because you see everyone on social media doing different things and living their

lives and you're like, am I missing out? And I miss my friends and I want to go out and I want to do things. There's always a balance, okay? You can always make time to have fun. But at the same time, it's important to lock in if you have big goals and you have big dreams. Okay? Discipline will give you more freedom long term. That's another thing. thing I'm reminding myself of as I carry myself into the fall, discipline will give you freedom long term. And in the short term, it's a little bit challenging because you have this fomo and everyone's doing cool shit. But long term, you'll be able to do cool shit. There will be more opportunities for you. Okay. There's not one opportunity to have fun. There will be so many more

opportunities for you. But right now, it's time to focus. It's time to get serious about what you want and it's time to let the fuck in. The next thing is as you are starting to work on yourself, and build your momentum. You may not instantly see the results you're looking for overnight. Okay, we're so used to instant gratification all the time now. Like we expect every video we post to go viral and we expect things to pan out a certain way very fast because we see for other people it might be happening fast.

You have to treat the 3D. You have to treat it as if every video is viral. When you post something, when you put yourself out there, when you start to let yourself be more expressive publicly or when you take a leap of faith in any aspect of your life. If you don't see results immediately, you've got to look straight through it. You have to be in a warrior mindset and you have to say to yourself, this is just data. And it doesn't matter if right now things look slow on the outside in the 3D. It looks like the numbers are

lower than usual. I will figure out a way and there will be a way and there will be a moment where these numbers are going to be 10x what they were or this opportunity is going to have a major breakthrough. This is just the calm before the storm. I'll give you a perfect example recently. my podcast numbers have been lower than usual, and I am so calm about it, I don't care. Because I know by the time I post this episode that my podcast is going to be way bigger and more expansive and the numbers are going to skyrocket.

And everything is going to make sense. I'm in a new building phase of my career right now. And sometimes when you're not mentally strong to ride out the low periods, you're never going to see the high periods. You are never going to see the high periods if you're not mentally strong enough and disciplined enough to ride out the slower periods.

lower periods and everything comes in waves right so for me seeing my numbers lower doesn't panic me anymore I literally don't give a shit I'm just going through it and riding it through because I know it makes sense and I know that this is my path and my purpose and part of the bigger picture and I'm not afraid of it anymore I'm not afraid to fail I'm diving in head first to my success and I know something will come of it I know something amazing is going to happen for me I know my career is going to explode to new heights now because I am putting in the work. And if you put in the work and you trust and you have faith in God and your purpose and your mission on this earth, nothing long term can stop you. Nothing is going to stop you. Not even the breaks,

the hardships, the road bumps along the way, the periods of rest that you needed, the periods of isolation you had, nothing is going to stop you from getting to the end goal of where you need to be if it is your destiny. I felt this new surge of fire in me recently where I'm like, nothing's going to stop me. Nothing's going to get in my way. And I've been through so much. And I know that regardless of the short term and what's happening now, if it feels a little slow, I know my moment is coming. I know this breakthrough is coming. Maybe by the time I post this episode, my podcast is going to be number one on Spotify. My podcast is going to be charting high again. And I'm going to be doing really cool big things with my career. And that's the beauty of

just powering through and having a really strong disciplined mentality and mindset around your success. And that's something that I've had to work on over many years, after many years of trying to throw in the towel and give up on my dreams. The greatest success stories and the people you see at the top, they failed a million fucking times before they got to where they needed to be. So just keep reminding yourself of that. If you're not seeing results immediately, don't panic. Ride the wave. It will make sense. It will work out. Everything is going to work out for you. The next thing is something that has been so useful for me, and I know it's going to be useful for you guys as well. When you are creating a better life for yourself, you have to be in alignment and you have to

feel good, okay? It's not just about telling yourself affirmations. Like, oh, I am rich, I'm confident, I'm sexy, and beautiful. Although that's great. Most of the time, that's not necessarily the most helpful thing. Because if we're not in a high vibrational state and we don't feel good, yet we're saying these things to ourselves, it's not really going to hold any weight long term. It might make you feel good for like five minutes and then you go back to your old programming. So for me, a huge, huge thing has been choosing the better thought that actually influences my feelings. I actually have been working with a coach for myself. Everyone needs a coach, okay?

I feel like it's been so immensely eye-opening for me and I absolutely adore her. I was expressing to her that I was having trouble with a certain situation. And she was like, well, what are you actually feeling when you're telling yourself that you're okay and you're happy and you're saying all these affirmations to yourself, but what are you realistically? What are you actually feeling when you're telling yourself these things? And I was like, I'm still kind of feeling sad. Even though I'm saying all of these affirmations and telling myself all of these positive things, I do still feel sad. And she's like, well, then those affirmations aren't good enough. You have to choose a better thought.

You have to choose a better thought. and you have to choose something else or do something else that's going to put you in a higher vibe state because it's always about the feeling, not about the actual words that you're saying. And not about the actual thoughts that you're thinking, right? Because not every thought holds energetic weight. So it really is about the feeling behind the thought. That is what helps the manifestation accelerate. And it was just a good reminder for me because even I get a little stuck sometimes and I was just like,

oh my God, I have to choose better thoughts. And it sounds so simple, but it's actually really. really, really useful when you feel like you can't get out of a certain energetic state, she asked me, she was like, what is something that you could think right now that would actually make you feel better? And not what you think is going to make you feel better. What actually will make you feel better? And so I really had to think about it for a second. And it took me a few minutes to actually really think about something else that would completely shift my energetic state. And so once I talked it out and once I started thinking of new things to think about, I started getting

in a more high vibe energy state. And then what I wanted happened very, very fast. And what I had been struggling with cleared out, cleared itself out very, very fast. I got exactly what I had been trying to manifest for so long after choosing better thoughts that actually made me feel good. Okay? If you're thinking things right now and they're not serving your energetic state, meaning you're thinking things that make you feel sad or even neutral or disappointed or frustrated, you have to choose a better thought. The universe doesn't respond to what you're trying to ask for and what you're begging for and pleading for and praying for. The universe responds to how you feel. And this is such a big takeaway that I have from getting what I want after wanting it for so

long. I couldn't understand what I was doing wrong. And I was like, oh, it was because whenever I would actually think about this person, I was frustrated. And I wasn't excited and happy. I was frustrated. So by eliminating the person out of the equation and removing my energy from the problem altogether, I ended up manifesting them back into my life so fast and so easily because I removed my energy from the problem. And I started thinking about things that actually brought me joy. And then I started feeling good because I was thinking of positive things that actually made me feel really happy. And so as I said, when the universe responds to your vibration, if you're constantly frustrated or begging, it's just going to give you more of that. And when you're feeling happy, it's going to

give you more happy. And it's going to give you things that you've wanted to manifest. So just a reminder, because even I need that reminder sometimes. It was a really powerful checkpoint moment for me where I was like, oh, right, that's how, that's how it works. That's how the universe delivers. The next thing is we're getting fucking delusional with our goals. Stop setting really small goals for yourself. I want you to think big moving into the fall and think about something that feels a little bit out of reach and a little bit scary, but you know that you desire it. And you know that it's something that you really do want, but you're just a little scared to actually make move towards it. For me, that's hosting events. I feel like I've been so scared to pull the trigger and just

start hosting in-person dinners and luxury events because I am naturally kind of introverted, but this is changing. This is something that I've really worked on. I feel very introverted a lot of the time. So for me, I think I've just put it off. But there is this extroverted side to me that I haven't tapped into as much throughout my life. And I've always wanted to just tackle it and be like,

yeah, I'm a Gemini rising. Like, I need to be out there and doing cool shit and meeting people and hosting things. I actually love to host. The very few times I've hosted dinners for my friends in my life were the most exciting, fun moments for me. So that is something that I'm putting myself to the test to and I'm going to hold myself accountable to organize something. Because I actually really do love the idea, but I think I've just been a little hesitant or nervous around it.

Maybe my imposter syndrome. I don't know. If you guys would be interested in a luxury dinner or supper club experience where you guys can connect with one another and meet one another from this community and build friendships and talk about business and entrepreneurship, maybe and get ideas from one another, while having a really cool, intimate, amazing dinner. Comment below, drop a comment or send me a message and let me know if that's of interest and maybe I'll put something together. Just start normalizing your dreams as normal things.

Like, stop putting your goals on a pedestal all the time, okay? You have to start to normalize what success really feels like to you and say, yeah, of course I'm building an empire. Of course I'm doing this for my brand. of course I'm making this amount of money. And getting to that state where it actually feels normal, it sets a new standard for your life. And it forces you to step into your power

and face things that you may be afraid to do. I think a really big thing for me this September is facing those fears and tackling new projects head on and normalizing big goals that I've set for myself and just telling myself more often, like, this isn't that big of a deal. Life is short and it's time to, make fucking boss power moves because why not? And if someone else can do it that I know,

I could do it too. If they're capable of doing this, I could do it too. And just embracing the fact that it's okay to be nervous about something new. And it's okay to be a little intimidated by the idea of a big goal or something new that you've set out for yourself. It's human, right? Because it's unfamiliar. But that's where the greatest growth comes from. And that's where the most amazing experiences often come from from taking those risks and going all in on yourself and betting on yourself. The next thing is I want you to anchor in how powerful you are as a manifester by asking the universe for a very specific, clear sign that you're in alignment. This could be a gold butterfly, a gold sparkly butterfly. Be specific and detailed. Don't just say a butterfly and don't just say

a red car. I want you to be more specific than that. So when you do see this, you know that your reticular activating system, your brain is pulling in your manifestations and you know that you're in alignment and it's working and the universe is working in your favor. I want you to think of something really weird. Okay. I remember my friend was telling me a story how she was asking for a sign and she asked for a rainbow frog or something just so random that she knew that if she saw it, it was a clear sign that it was a yes or no. And that same day, she saw a bumper sticker on a car. of a rainbow frog. And she was like, there's no way.

There is no way. But the universe will deliver crazy shit, crazy signs to you if you really ask for them and get very specific. What this will also do is build your trust in how good you are at manifesting. It will make you feel like you have superpowers because you do. So I want you to put yourself to the test and do this this fall. Pick something very specific and then let it go. Don't obsess over it.

Don't think about it all day. don't look for it actively. Just write it in your notes app and let it go and forget about it and see what happens. Let it unfold naturally, okay? Don't put too much emphasis on it. Just do it very naturally. Go right now in your notes app. Write it down and move on and continue to watch this.

And you will see the universe works in really crazy ways. Also, I have a crazy story about this several years ago when I was deciding if I wanted to move out of New York. It wasn't the right timing. But at the time, I didn't know that. and I was thinking about moving to London. And I wrote in my notes. I'm going to see a bright red bird

if I am supposed to move to London and I'm going to see a bright bluebird if I'm supposed to move to Miami. But if I'm supposed to stay in New York, universe show me a massive sign that's a stay. Like, fuck the birds if I'm supposed to stay and show me a massive sign that's a stay. There was a huge part of me that wanted to leave.

So I made the New York option very specific. And I was like, if I'm supposed to stay and I happen to see this sign that says stay in huge letters, then maybe I'll have to stay. Two days later, I walked into urban outfiters and I'll never forget, I was on the checkout line

and there was a huge cement wall in the middle of the room at the checkout counter and spray painted on in huge black, bold letters. It couldn't have been more in my face was the word stay. And I was like, I had forgotten about the note that I had wrote because it had been 48 hours and I wasn't thinking about it. But then when I saw that, of course, immediately, I like jolted.

I was like, no fucking way. Like no fucking way. And I ended up staying for another few years. So true story, the universe will always deliver and guide you and show you what to do if you really, really set the intention and ask for it. The next thing is a physical thing, but it's boosted my confidence so much. There are two things that I've been doing consistently and regularly that have changed the game for me physically. And I've spoken about this before, but I want to touch on it again because it's helped my confidence a lot physically.

I used to wake up a lot with a really puffy face, especially with certain foods that I would eat, salty foods and gluten and all of that stuff. I've been gwashing my face and literally sculpting my face with this gwasha tool every single day and drinking a lot of water. walking on an incline. And this combination, walking on an incline, it's not high intensity, it's just moving my body, lifting weights sometimes, and guasheing my face. I feel lean, I feel healthy, I feel like my skin is glowing differently. I feel strong in my body. I feel like I have more energy. And I've noticed a huge difference in the way my face shape looks. I feel more snatched. I feel more lifted. And even on camera, I really notice it because I film a lot. So I notice these things, I feel so much better about the way that I look. And I know not everything is about looks,

but I think for me, like, I want to look good and I want to feel hot and sexy and rich. And this is just something that I've noticed has really been really helpful for me and has made me feel better in my skin and has made me feel more beautiful. So I'm all for beauty enhancements. I'm all for skin treatments and doing whatever you can to look as good as fucking possible. Because I'm because why not? So that's just what I've been doing, the trio, walking on a treadmill on an incline, drinking a lot of water and hydrating and gwashing my face often and regularly to move the fluid and do like lymphatic drainage. It's really been amazing. I've noticed my cheeks look more defined, my jaw lines more defined. I've been doing a lot less when it comes to Botox and fillers.

I dissolved a lot of my lip filler. I stopped doing the most, if that makes sense. I started doing less and I noticed that a lot of it is energy work and just taking care of your body physically in the gym and just getting some sun, natural sun, no tanning beds, anything like that, just natural sunlight and hydrating has done wonders for what I look like, my confidence. I'm doing a lot less Botox and I feel like I can move my face more. I feel actually like I look better and I can actually smile because I dissolved a lot of my old filler from when I was like in my 20s. I never had my filler dissolved. So I feel like I could breathe and like stretch my face and smile bigger. So yeah, sometimes less really is more. And sometimes less is actually more beautiful and doing less work. What else did I stop? I stopped putting on false eyelashes and I've been doing lash lifts and tense, which has opened my eyes and made my eyes look more

open and bright, but naturally. So I'm really big on doing enhancements that feel very natural. And you're still enhancing things, but you're not going to extremes. And I think that actually looks way better, in my opinion. The last thing I am going to leave you with on today's episode is falling in love with the process as you are working on yourself to become the greatest version of you. Fall in love with the process of it, okay? Because that's most of it.

That's most of the journey of what makes life so enriching and exciting and special is the process of becoming the greatest version of you and embracing the transformation as a fun game to get to the next level of your life and not stress about it and make it this crazy, stressful thing that you need to do or you need to achieve at a certain deadline or a certain time of your life. Trust your timing. Trust in the divine timing of your life, number one. and also embrace the journey as a fun game to get you to where you need to go.

Embrace the process of it all. When I was struggling with my weight many years ago, I embraced my weight loss transformation and my fitness transformation as an exciting game. And I challenged myself to have more discipline, to eat better, to eat healthier, and to transform my body from the inside out by making it exciting and fun and saying, look at me how I have the privilege to change and to evolve as a person and to better myself. And that got me to my goal a million times faster. I saw results a million times faster than I would have if I had put so much pressure on myself

to look a certain way by a certain deadline, right? Fall in love with the becoming of you and fall in love with the process of it all. That's it for today. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. Thank you, as always, for listening to the podcast. If you enjoyed this, be sure to comment on Spotify. Let me know what you thought, as well as send me a DM on Instagram. Always, my DMs are open.

Atlas, L-Y-S-S. Also, be sure to check out the masterclasses. The link is in the show notes. As mentioned, I would love to see you guys there. We have an amazing community in the master classes. And you guys have seen results so fast. And it makes me so excited to keep creating for you guys. I love you.

Thank you again, as always. Happy September. Stay tuned for future episodes.