Date Yourself Instead - THE POWER OF DIVINE TIMING & FAITH - lessons from Bali

Episode Date: October 28, 2024

This is my favorite episode I've ever recorded. THE POWER OF DIVINE TIMING & FAITH. Having faith and staying strong. Being a warrior of love and light. Trusting in God and a higher power at play. ...Knowing that things WILL improve and turn around for you. You deserve the world, and I'm here to remind you of that. I love you all so much. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS - THE MIND BODY SOUL RESET The book in this episode: Your Greater Is Coming by Joel Osteen Coming in November 2024...join the waitlist. Doors open so soon. If you loved this episode, leave a comment or send me a message @lyss @dateyourselfinstead on instagram.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 When you realize that God is in control, that He's directing your steps, that He's already lined up everything you need, then you can relax. You don't have to go through life trying to make it all happen on your own. You don't have to live worried about your children or frustrated because the promotion is taking too long, or discouraged because a dream looks dead, or a relationship feels hopeless. No, keep reminding yourself. The Lord is the God who breathed life into you, the God who knew you before you were born, the God who has planned out your days for good,
Starting point is 00:00:33 and the God who has protected you, promoted you, and healed you. The same God who brought you to where you are is going to get you to where you're supposed to be. It may take a little longer than you thought, but that's okay. God's timing is the perfect time. It may not happen the way you had planned, but it's going to happen in divine timing. This is an excerpt from a beautiful book I picked up recently called Your Greater Is Coming by Joel Osteen. and I am just in a phase of life right now
Starting point is 00:01:07 where this book could not apply more and I wanted to share that passage with you because I think it's really important to cover this topic of divine timing. Everything is happening for you in divine timing. I literally have divine timing tattooed on my wrist. Whenever I look down it's a constant reminder that everything is happening in your own unique divine timing and God's plan is greater than your plan and what you can't see now doesn't mean it's not there or it's not coming
Starting point is 00:01:39 and just because it's delayed doesn't mean it's not coming. Just because it's delayed does not mean that it's not happening for you or God isn't working in your favor. Everything is happening exactly how it's supposed to happen. Everything in this moment is exactly how it should be and how it's supposed to be. And there may be setbacks you're facing right now. There may be roadblocks. There may be troubles or things that you're really stressed out about. There may be a relationship that failed in your life and you feel hopeless and like you're
Starting point is 00:02:08 never going to meet anyone ever again. Or you might have just lost your job and you're struggling financially. Or you have a family member who's sick or maybe you're sick. But that doesn't mean your story is over. That doesn't mean that your path is completed. You are just getting started. Just because you can't see it right now does not mean it's not working in your favor.
Starting point is 00:02:29 And I had a moment this morning that was slightly emotional because I was replaying the past. And I was thinking about some mistakes I had made in my past and how I've overreacted in certain situations that led down to certain roads and caused relationships to end and things didn't work out with a specific person. And I was replaying things in my mind thinking about, what if I did this differently?
Starting point is 00:02:56 What if I had taken a different course of action? What if I had approached the situation with more love instead of fear? What if I had not done the things that I had done? Would it have led to a different path? But I truly believe with all my heart that everything happens for a reason and a divine reason and a good reason. And sometimes the greatest blessings in our life are just supposed to come a little bit
Starting point is 00:03:23 later because God is preparing us for them, to receive them. I did an energy work healing session with my friend here and one of the lessons and takeaways I took from the session that night was sometimes we need to heal deeper layers of ourselves and work on ourselves even deeper than we already have in order to be prepared for life's blessings that are in our future, in order to actually get to the end goal and be ready to receive whatever it is that we're trying to manifest or whatever it is we're trying to attract into our life, sometimes you're not ready for it. Sometimes your character isn't built enough to receive
Starting point is 00:04:04 the blessing that you're trying to ask for. Sometimes your character isn't built enough to receive the blessing that you're trying to ask for. Sometimes you need to learn more lessons before you receive what you're trying to ask for and what you're praying for. And it's easy to get caught up in this idea of, oh, there's no hope. It's not happening. I don't see the results. I don't see the manifestation coming in. I don't see what I'm asking for coming into my physical 3D reality right now. So I'm going to be discouraged and I'm going to freak out and panic and just toss the whole plan into the garbage. It's easy to go down that path and take that road and spiral.
Starting point is 00:04:39 But wouldn't it be so much easier and so much more of a relief and so beautiful to just genuinely trust the process of your life and genuinely trust in your divine timing miracles will unfold in ways that you can't even imagine. Wouldn't it be so amazing to sit back and just let God take you where he's supposed to take you before you put pressure on something or force something that's not really meant to be in this timing? Just because it's not working out right now doesn't mean it's never going to work out. Just because that person left you doesn't mean you're gonna be alone the rest of your life. Sometimes separation, loss,
Starting point is 00:05:16 betrayal, and certain roadblocks and obstacles need to occur in order for you to develop your character and build upon who you are before you're prepared to go to the next level of your life. Before you're prepared to receive more blessings and more miracles and more abundant things into your life, sometimes you're going to be put through tests and challenges before you get there and before you're able to receive anything. I've wrestled with this concept for so long because when you're going through the midst of a crisis or a hard time and you're literally at your breaking point it's hard to have this mentality of trust and faith and it's hard to keep your faith but that's what's building your character. When you're able to persevere and hold strong and hold confident in your faith in the
Starting point is 00:06:03 worst possible times that's what's building your character and your strength. That's what's going to get you to the next level of your life. Do you want to stay stuck in the same place forever? Do you want to stay stuck in the same timeline forever? I'm sure most of you, if you're listening to this right now, you want to grow. You're a person who wants to evolve and expand and learn more and grow more and become a stronger, more confident
Starting point is 00:06:28 person. But oftentimes, we need challenges and delays and roadblocks to get us to where we want to be and to get us the things that we want to get and to be with the people that we want to be with. Another realization I had this morning is that if it's not that, it to be with. Another realization I had this morning is that if it's not that, it's something greater. If it's not what you asked for, it's something better and even bigger than you could ever imagine. God is preparing miracles for you. So if you're getting
Starting point is 00:06:58 blocked from something you're asking for and it keeps getting stuck and it keeps getting stuck and it keeps getting blocked and there's so many delays and obstacles Maybe there's something greater and better waiting for you He is preparing you for something so much greater than you could ever possibly imagine What you've asked for he's going to multiply and give you even more than what you've even hoped for So when you look at it from that angle, where you feel like your prayers or your requests to the universe are not being answered, maybe you just need to wait a little bit longer
Starting point is 00:07:33 because what you're asking for is too small and what you're about to receive is even greater and more impactful and even better than you could ever expect. Get big with your dreams, get big with your manifestations, get big with the possibility of your future. Don't settle for anything or anyone. Stop settling for toxic relationships
Starting point is 00:07:53 or people that aren't making you happy. What if I told you there was someone better out there for you that could make you a better person, that could inspire you to grow even more and that could enhance your life instead of bring you down on weigh you down. Often we get stuck in this cycle of thinking that the one person that we've fallen in love with is the only person we're ever going to fall in love with.
Starting point is 00:08:13 But what if there's someone even better than that person that's going to take you to new levels of your life and bring you closer to God and bring you closer to your goals and your future higher self and is going to build you up instead of tear you down. Your soulmate wouldn't tear you down. Your soulmate wouldn't make you miserable. So stop clinging on to what's familiar and stop losing hope that you're never going to find anything better because maybe God just wants you to do better and to date better and to be with someone who aligns with your future vision for
Starting point is 00:08:45 yourself. You can't be in a relationship or surrounded by people or be in an environment or be in a certain career that is making you miserable. God won't allow that. He's going to break you out of that pattern and bring you to the next level. If you truly want to be happy and you're asking to be happier in life, he's going to break you out of your toxic cycles and you're gonna lose people, you're gonna lose situations, you may lose your job,
Starting point is 00:09:12 you may feel like your life is crumbling to the ground, but it's only to make you stronger and prepare you for the next level of your life. It's only to build you up. As I said, in my previous episodes on my podcast, sometimes you really do need to break down in order to build yourself up again. Sometimes you need to break down to the point where you feel like your life is completely burned to the ground in order to rise higher than ever. Higher than you've ever could have imagined.
Starting point is 00:09:39 There was a situation where I had very strong feelings for someone and the timing just never seemed to align and it kept getting blocked and things just seemed like everything was bad timing with this person. And it really killed me in a way because I saw the potential of this person and I and the connection that we had and there was so much good and it felt really good in moments but then there were certain things that got in the way of it and it just never worked out and then he ended up getting into a relationship and it was like I couldn't understand why the timing had to be so shitty because if you see potential in a situation it
Starting point is 00:10:25 almost hurts more than actually not having tried with that person and like getting the opportunity to date them and see where it went. It hurts a little bit more because you're like the potential is just hanging over my head and I thought it really could have possibly worked with this person because there were so many good pieces of it but things just didn't pan out the way that I had expected and maybe he had expected I don't really know but there were things that I was beating myself up about because it felt like I had acted really out of character with this specific
Starting point is 00:10:59 person because I was going through a rough time and probably one of the worst times and periods of my life when we had met. And now I'm in a place where I feel like so grounded in my energy. So I'm like, I just wish that I had had that opportunity to see where it went with that person. I just wish like, it wouldn't have panned out the way that it did, but I have to accept it because this is life and this is my journey and everything happens for a reason and everything happens in divine timing.
Starting point is 00:11:28 And if I live by faith and I live by God and I live by that, then I have to just trust that it wasn't meant to be or there's something greater or everything happens in divine timing and it'll happen when it's supposed to happen. But to keep that faith and that trust that everything is still going according to plan and God makes no mistakes and you're still on the right path, even if it feels really fucking difficult,
Starting point is 00:11:51 that's what gets you through every day. That's what's going to get you to new heights. That's what's going to get you to the next level of your life. Now I want to mention my masterclass in this episode because this is what the mind body soul reset is all about. The mind body soul reset masterclass was designed to help you have faith, break your barriers, break your toxic cycles and not be afraid to take on your life and not be afraid to achieve your goals in new ways and let go of old patterns and let go of your fears and your doubts and actually believe in yourself. The mind body soul reset is a total reset of your mind, body and soul.
Starting point is 00:12:32 The mind body and soul work in a trilogy. I'm giving you a little preview of the course right now because I think it is the most important thing I've ever created. I put my heart into it because I know this messaging, everyone needs to hear it. Your mind, body, and soul are what carries you through life. And if you're not nurturing each individual part, you're not going to get to the next level of your life because you're always going to stay stuck if you're not constantly working towards improving yourself a little bit every single day. If you're going through a funk, if you're going through a hard time mentally, if
Starting point is 00:13:06 you're going through a breakup, if you're going through loss or betrayal or separation or you're just feeling like you're in the midst of a transformation and you're really confused, the mind body soul reset is created to help you get on the right track and believe in yourself to create your dream reality, to manifest greater, to believe in your higher self and know that that version of you exists. And I created it with everyone who's listening in mind
Starting point is 00:13:32 because I want it to be accessible for everyone. I want people to be able to feel unstoppable. I want you to reach your fullest potential. I want you to grow with me and transform with me as I continue to put these podcast episodes out. I want you to grow with me and transform with me as I continue to put these podcast episodes out. I want the best for everyone and this masterclass was literally designed to make you unstoppable and I'm rooting for you always. My biggest thing is seeing you win and seeing you successful and I
Starting point is 00:14:00 created this masterclass so you can get there and so you could tap into your highest potential and truly believe in the power of God and faith when you are going through the worst and most difficult times. It goes straight to your email once you download it and you get access to all of the materials immediately and indefinitely. They're yours to keep and I'm super excited for you. I'm super excited to release this course.
Starting point is 00:14:23 You could find a link to it in the show notes or by going to the Instagram MindBodyS body soul reset or my Instagram date yourself instead. The links will be there. I cannot wait for you to up level and now let's get back into the episode but I just wanted to mention that because I know that it's such a game changer and I can't wait for you to join us. When I was trying so hard to make my last relationship work. I look back and I'm laughing because I thought that we were going to end up together and it's comical. Like I'm laughing with God in a way because I'm like,
Starting point is 00:14:59 you were trying to guide me out of that for so long and you were trying to divinely protect me for so long and I was forcing it and forcing it and pushing it and clinging on so tightly and there were so many signs to leave and there were so many different things and red flags that I saw and they were right in front of my face and you were literally telling me point blank this person is not your person. But I wasn't listening and I refused to listen and I was creating so much resistance in my life and fighting so hard against it to the point where my life literally did burn to the ground temporarily.
Starting point is 00:15:31 I lost everything. I lost money. I lost my sense of drive. I lost my purpose. I lost my passion for life. I lost friends. I was disconnected from my family. I literally watched my life fall apart and I was still trying to make this relationship work. When I knew deep down that God was saying the whole time, get out, run, this person is not good for you. How many times do I have to shake you and show you that this person is a terrible human being and you are an angel. You should not be with someone that is doing the things that they're doing behind your back and if you don't leave I'm going to make you leave. I literally
Starting point is 00:16:11 am going to make you leave and everything as I said happens in divine timing so I do believe the end of that relationship very much so happened in divine timing but I literally needed the biggest wake-up call for it to end. And when I found out that he had been cheating on me and lying to me about so many things and had betrayed me so deeply, I knew that I needed to take action to completely remove this person from my life and take the next step to rebuild myself and reinvent myself and take my power back. But in those moments when I was still with him, when I was still invested in the relationship
Starting point is 00:16:52 and fighting for it, I was not trusting a higher power. I was not trusting God. I wasn't trusting that there was better for me. I wasn't letting go because I was scared that I didn't have a foreseeable future with anyone else. I was scared that I'd be alone. I was scared that I wouldn't find better. And looking back, I'm laughing because I'm like,
Starting point is 00:17:18 when you're in a situation like that, you're so clouded, you're so naive, you're so blinded, you can't see what's right in front of you. You can't open yourself up to blessings and beautiful opportunities and new people and new experiences because you're so clouded and blinded and you're literally blocking yourself from receiving your own blessings. The whole time I was my own worst enemy. I was literally fighting against myself and my higher self and my soul and I was literally like
Starting point is 00:17:46 no this is the love of my life, this is my person, we're gonna get married one day, everything happens in divine timing, but the breakup and the separation and me leaving that behind was actually what needed to happen so I could step into the next level of my life. My life instantly started to get better and improve when I let go of that relationship entirely. He was blocked, cut him out from everything, deleted everything, deleted the memories and started the healing process. I came to Bali, started doing energy work, started investing in myself, started the grieving process, which is still a work in progress because four years of narcissistic abuse
Starting point is 00:18:32 can really take a toll on your brain and your body and your spiritual health. And I'm finally in a place in my life where I'm so much stronger and clearer and focused and confident on my mission and what I have to do and my purpose in life, I can't believe I almost gave up on myself. I can't believe I almost settled that greatly. I can't believe I almost let my life permanently burn to the ground because of another human being.
Starting point is 00:19:01 The right person is going to lift you up. The right person, if they're God sent, they're going to make you a better person. They're going to inspire you to create even more and to fulfill your passions even more and to work harder on your dreams and give you excitement and energy and make you feel more loved. And I know I'm going to find that person very soon. Like, I feel it. I feel it energetically. But in the meantime, just trusting and knowing that it's going to happen when it's supposed to happen.
Starting point is 00:19:34 When I was talking to my angel friend, Isabel, who is definitely coming on the podcast because I just love her and she saved my life. I was like, are you ever worried about finding your person? Does that ever cross your mind? Because a lot of people who listen to the podcast and also even myself sometimes, I'll like have these brief moments
Starting point is 00:19:57 and flashes in my brain where I'm like, oh my God, wait, like I'm still alone. And what if I'm really dating myself instead indefinitely and like my person just doesn't show up and I was like going in a little bit of a rabbit hole in my brain because you could easily get stuck in that mentality and I've gotten so much better at not even thinking about that. But she's also in a season of her life where she's alone and she's doing her thing and she's building her goals and her dreams and she's single. And she was like, no, I don't really think about it.
Starting point is 00:20:32 I mean, I manifest it and I want it and I've set the intention to the universe that I want my person. Of course, everyone wants their person and their soulmate, but she's like I don't really stress about it because I know that it's going to just come into my life at the most unexpected beautiful time and in the most divine timing, so I'm not worried about it and that's the key to receiving and being open to receiving is just trusting that it is happening and the timing doesn't matter because it will happen at the perfect moment when you're not focused on it
Starting point is 00:21:09 and you don't need it and you're just living in flow and living in a state of ease. And I just loved that she said that and it resonated with me deeply because I used to be so stressed about outcomes. If you're a person who's easily stressed about the outcome of your future and what it's gonna look like, you are creating resistance to all of the miracles that could happen in the present moment. And
Starting point is 00:21:33 I'm in a season of my life right now where yeah I'm alone. I'm dating myself once again. I also look at it this way because there was someone who actually messaged me and I felt compelled to answer I don't know why I needed to explain myself but it felt like it was such a divine message because I had been thinking about it she was basically asking me do you ever think that it's something within you that's not allowing you to attract your soulmate and you preach about doing all these things in relationships and you preach about how to help other people find their true love but yet you're alone and do you think like
Starting point is 00:22:07 there's something that you're doing wrong and she was like asking me basically do you think you're the problem and I was like no I actually think it's such a beautiful thing that I've been through so much chaos in my romantic life because I wouldn't be able to do the work I'm doing right now. I believe that my purpose and my sole mission and my calling is to be doing this work. I feel like I am put on this earth to help people heal and to help people through hard times and I'm speaking from my own personal experiences. If I didn't have these personal experiences and the things that I've gone through I wouldn't be able to change the world. I wouldn't be able to make an impact. I wouldn't be able to share my stories and help people and
Starting point is 00:22:57 because I know this is my soul calling I know that everything is happening for me and not to me or against me and I also know that eventually when I am prepared for it and I'm prepared to receive my soulmate, it will happen so divinely and it will be the real thing. And I'll be able to show up even better for my work and show people what a healthy marriage looks like and show people what a healthy relationship dynamic truly looks like. And all of you will be able to see it publicly, because I've built this platform of talking about relationships.
Starting point is 00:23:30 And I'm not worried about what people think about me or how they perceive me. Oh, this girl can't find a partner, can't find a man. No, it's just not my time. It's just not my current moment to find my husband. And if I'm being completely transparent with myself, there was always a small part of me that feared marriage because I'm a very go with the flow, free-spirited person
Starting point is 00:23:56 and I don't like the idea of permanence with someone if I'm not 100% all in and sure. So a part of me would get into relationships where I think subconsciously on a very subconscious level, it was never obviously intentional, but I would attract partners that I couldn't be with longterm because I never thought of my wedding day, I never thought of getting married.
Starting point is 00:24:19 I wasn't prepared, but as I've gotten older and I've grown and I've been through many heartbreaks and I've been through a lot of tears and I've built my character and I've grown and I've been through many heartbreaks and I've been through a lot of tears and I've built my character and I've built who I am as a woman I'm becoming more and more prepared and now I feel like I'm at a place in my life where I'm very grounded and I've Stepped into an entirely new timeline and I'm finally ready to meet my husband now. I'm ready To meet my husband. Now I'm ready to meet my husband. Now I'm getting ready and prepared.
Starting point is 00:24:47 But I don't think I would have personally been the best wife I could be, or the best partner I could be in a long-term marriage, even a year ago. I don't think I was the person I meant to be in order to be with my husband, if that makes sense. I don't think I had built my character enough to meet the love of my life just yet. And my career was still shaky and my career was still being figured out and there were
Starting point is 00:25:13 other things in my life that weren't clear and I wasn't grounded enough to attract a partner in. But I needed all of these moments and I needed all of this time to strengthen my character and my core to attract the right person into my life. And I know it will happen when the timing is right and I'm trusting that this is my path and my journey. I do think there's a sense of fate when it comes to your own journey and your own path in life.
Starting point is 00:25:40 And I think we're all divinely born with a certain calling and a certain purpose. And this is mine. Yours could be playing the piano. Yours could be being a lawyer, being a doctor. Yours could be anything. But for me, mine is to teach others through relationships and transform and help people heal through my own transformation. I genuinely feel it at my soul
Starting point is 00:26:06 that that is my purpose here on this earth. So to look at my experiences in a negative light and be like, oh, I've just been through so much and all of it's so fucked up and my life sucks. I could look at it through that lens and say, you know what, I'm alone. I have no wine. I've been through too much. I've been through too much heartbreak.
Starting point is 00:26:25 Let me just close myself off to love and be a miserable person. I could look at my life that way, or I could take everything as a blessing and say, this made me stronger. This catapulted me a hundred times more into the woman that I'm supposed to be. This made me the woman that I am today. And now I could show up better in my work. I could do my mission. I can attract better people into my life.
Starting point is 00:26:52 I can make more money to support myself and my family and my future family that I have eventually. I can create a foundation and stability for my life. I can use these experiences to my advantage. I could use these challenges and these tests that I've been faced with in my life to my fucking advantage. That's the beauty of going through tests and trials.
Starting point is 00:27:16 It strengthens you. It makes you more powerful. It makes you a person of depth. It makes you a person of strength. It makes you a fucking hero. And I'm proud of the woman I am now because I've been through so much. The right people will see the things I've been through as strength. The last guy I had some sort of weird situation with who was disguised as my soulmate.
Starting point is 00:27:46 That was the most interesting thing I've ever been through because it was such a fleeting moment in time. Like I have no emotional attachment to that situation really, but it was an experience that taught me how a lot of people that are not right for you will disguise themselves as angels and they'll disguise themselves as the one and it's up to you to kind of like see what's really going on and to reveal the truth
Starting point is 00:28:17 and it was like one of the biggest tests for me I think when I saw the truth and I saw who this person really was because they had masked themselves as this like divine angel. And I remember he said something to me which was like, I admire all the things you've gone through because I see how strong it's made you. After saying that, then he followed it with, I'm kind of wondering if there's something wrong with me that you've chosen to date me. Like, if I am also thrown into that category
Starting point is 00:28:55 of all the other crazy people you've been through, and I feel normal. I was like, wait. So first you were saying you admire my strength and admire what I've been through. And now you're saying there might be something wrong with you and you're taking it personally that I'm with you because maybe there's something wrong with me.
Starting point is 00:29:14 And it was this weird conversation that obviously showed me this person was not who he said he was. It was very, it was like completely one of those situations where I was like, okay, the truth is being brought to light. You're saying you admire me, but then you're saying there's something wrong with me for dating all these crazy men and dating all these crazy people. Like the two just don't go hand in hand. And if I could take any positive out of that conversation, it was the fact that I realized, wait a second, yeah, I am a fucking warrior. These situations have made me the woman I am today.
Starting point is 00:29:51 I should be so grateful that I've gone through all of these things and I should be proud of myself for continuing on and opening my heart up to good people when they didn't deserve it. It's strong to be vulnerable. It's strong to see the good in people. It's a good thing, but obviously, you need to have boundaries in place and you need to be really good at assessing
Starting point is 00:30:13 who's a good person and who's not. And I've gotten way better at that now that I've been through so much, but I wouldn't be the warrior that I am today without all those experiences. And I decided to take the positive out of what he said and ignore the other part and realize that person was just not the right person for me.
Starting point is 00:30:30 But for him to look at it in that light, I was like, there will be a time where I meet the love of my life and my husband, and he will genuinely look at me and say, I admire how strong you were through all of those things and I am going to be your rock now. Like I am going to be the man that is going to sit by you and stand by you through every storm in life.
Starting point is 00:30:56 And like I want to be that person for you and I never want to hurt you. Like I know that man exists and I know that's what I deserve and that person is going to look at me as a symbol of strength and he's going to look at his wife, who's me, as a symbol of strength and be like, my wife is a warrior. Like your husband or your partner should see you as a warrior and not as someone who's weak for settling in the past or making mistakes in the past or tolerating toxic behaviors in the past. The only reason we tolerate toxic behaviors and patterns is unhealed trauma from childhood and because we want to see the good in people and we love deeply and we have good hearts
Starting point is 00:31:44 and we want to see the best in hearts and we wanna see the best in people and give them chances and believe in their potential. And that's a good thing, okay? It's a good thing to have a fucking amazing heart. It's a good quality to have because it teaches us and it strengthens us over time if we get hurt, if we get betrayed, it teaches us very valuable lessons. The right person will be your rock and admire that and admire all the things you've been through and mean it and mean it because
Starting point is 00:32:14 there may be people that disguise themselves, oh I'm so proud of you this that and they're like just bullshitting you but the right man I, and I've asked for these signs too, so like when I get them, I'm going to be very certain, the right man that is God sent and that is heaven sent and that is my rock will literally be my rock and show up with action and not just words and not just the sweet talk, but actual action where he says to me, I admire your strength because of what you've been
Starting point is 00:32:46 through and you are so strong and I will do everything in my willpower to protect you and guide you now and be your rock. And you know what the most beautiful thing too is? I know that I am so strong at my core and I am my own rock now that I've been through all of this bullshit with people. I'm my own rock. I have my own strength inside of me so regardless of when I meet the love of my life and I'm married and I have a family and a beautiful life with my husband regardless of that I know that I'm still my own person and I have done the inner work to heal and better myself and strengthen myself. Like I know that I've been prepared to live life regardless of another person.
Starting point is 00:33:36 And that person should just be there to make life better and to enhance it and to build a beautiful connection with and a life with. But I'm still my own rock and God is also my rock. But when you know that you come from a place of genuine power and strength and confidence and then you meet your soulmate, that's fucking amazing. That's an amazing thing to know that you're coming from a place of genuine strength when you meet your person and then you just come together and grow together and you become even stronger. That's like such a beautiful
Starting point is 00:34:14 divine thought. So for me that's how I look at things, that's how I see things. I hope this episode can resonate with you today wherever you are in the world. I appreciate you so much. I appreciate you so much I love you so much. I read all of your DMs. I read all your comments. I read all your messages. I Can't wait for you guys to also dive into the mind body soul reset class and dare to detach both of those courses are designed to help You skyrocket into a brand new timeline to become the best version of you, to step into your power, to love yourself more deeply, and to also just connect with the world around you and become a more present, grounded person. I think that's also the key to happiness and to truly tapping into your power is to become
Starting point is 00:34:57 a more present, grounded person. When you ground your energy, you become unstoppable. And that's what both of those masterclasses are designed to teach you. If you're interested you could always go to the show notes and click the link in there or go to my Instagram at date yourself instead or at lists and you could find the links there as well. I'm going to leave you with this passage from the book that I was reading this morning. Quit being discouraged over who pushed you out, who didn't want to be your friend, or who played politics and got the best of you. They didn't stop your destiny, they shifted you.
Starting point is 00:35:30 They were a part of God's plan to push you forward. There's gonna be people that don't want to see you win. There's gonna be roadblocks that set you back a little bit, that distract you, that discourage you. Don't let it. Don't let the challenges stop you. Don't let the people that are in your life try to tear you down just because they can't see your value
Starting point is 00:35:52 or just because they left you and didn't wanna be with you anymore. Just because a certain situation didn't work out doesn't mean that you're not infinitely blessed and something better is on its way. Something better is coming. Something greater is coming for you If you're a good person with a good heart, I promise you your life is going to get better
Starting point is 00:36:11 Something is on its way for you that you can't even see right now. Everything happens in divine timing Everything is happening for you and not working against you. I can promise you that I Love you. I thank you so much as always for being here. I am so grateful for this community. You have saved my life. You have changed my life. And I hope I can do the same for you. Thank you again.
Starting point is 00:36:33 And stay tuned for next Monday.

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