Date Yourself Instead - you are your values. you attract exactly who you are.

Episode Date: September 13, 2025

This episode is me unpacking my summer all through the lens of values. I realized that authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence aren’t just “nice to have,” they’re literally the blueprint for my entire reality. Every decision I made this summer.. who I dated, how I worked, what I tolerated, what I walked away from, all came back to these values. I want you to not just hear my stories, but to start writing down your own non-negotiables and embodying them like your life depends on it, bc it does.00:00 Why Values Saved My SummerThe story of how this summer tested me — and the exact moment I realized my values weren’t optional, they were survival.00:12 Creating My Personal RulebookHow I got clear on what authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence actually mean to me, and why you need your own set of non-negotiables.00:46 When Life Puts Your Values on TrialMy real-life summer scenarios: the people, choices, and situations that forced me to either honor my values or betray myself.10:23 Authenticity + Freedom Are Non-NegotiableWhy these two are my oxygen, and what happened in moments when I tried to silence or shrink them.16:00 Living Your Values, Not Just Talking About ThemThe hard but necessary shift from “knowing” my values to acting on them every single day.21:19 Dating is a Reflection MirrorHow every romantic situation this summer mirrored back the values I was standing in — or not standing in.30:08 Money as a Value, Not Just a GoalWhy financial freedom is about so much more than numbers in your bank account — it’s about safety, self-respect, and choice.35:12 My Closing Reflection + Your Journal PromptThe one journaling exercise that can help you embody your values this week and start reshaping your reality now.

Your values dictate your reality. And that's something that I've realized, especially this past summer, and I'm going to explain why. But I wrote this down in my phone and I knew I needed to record an episode about it. You are your values. You are your standards. You are what you hold yourself to. And who you truly are is revealed by what you live and breathe every single day and what

you believe. You are your value system. The standards you hold and the boundaries you have for yourself, the choices you make, when no one else is watching is going to dictate and define everything else in your life. And your life is a mirror to your values and what you hold as important in your life. Your life is a direct mirror of the values that you embody. There was a moment this summer where I forgot what my values were in terms of the type of man that I want in my life. So in this episode, I'm going to be explaining why your values are really your identity.

Your values are going to reflect the type of people that come into your life, your self-worth, your relationship to money, and how powerful you are on a day to day. I love this quote by Neville Goddard. Life doesn't give you what you want. It gives you what you are, what you're embodying on a constant, consistent basis. I also read this the other day and I need to share it. Values are the code that you're running on. in your current reality values shape the choices you make the people you attract i love that and it could not be more true okay if you say you value loving yourself self-love but then you keep going back to a man who treats you badly your real value is external validation your real value is caring about how someone feels more than how you feel about yourself you're putting someone else on a pedestal before you and you're valuing the concept of abandonment and feeling the need to prove yourself to someone

else. Let me repeat that and rephrase it. If you're valuing things like self-love or self-worth and you say, you know, self-love is the most important thing to me, but then you're tolerating someone treating you like absolute garbage, your values are out of sync. You may say you want one thing, but if your actions are speaking differently and showing up differently in your life, you have to get clear on what you really are actually embodying. Because if you're embodying self-love, you're not going to tolerate someone that treats you badly. Another example is if you value wealth, but then you're terrified of the concept of money, you're

operating from pure fear in order to really get everything you want out of life and get that partner that treats you well. And to make a lot of money, you have to embody the frequency of it. actually make it a part of your value system because you could talk the talk and say everything out loud and say, you know what? This is important to me. That is important to me. But at the end of the day, what are you embodying? When I was traveling this summer, I was in a situation where I started to realize that my values were very different from some of the people around me. And what I mean by that is it was money related. And for me, I think my values with money are centered around

discipline working hard building my own business and always finding a way to make money by myself like even if i was married to a very successful multi-millionaire entrepreneur who had all the money in the world that he could spend on me and our family i would still want my own source of income and this is because one of my values is around financial freedom and independence for myself as a woman it doesn't matter who I'm with, regardless of my partner's financial situation, I know I always want to have my own source of income. And I always want to have my own passion projects and things that I'm working on. Whereas other people I had conversations with this summer, they don't care about that at all. And they would rather just have a really wealthy partner that can take care of them and pay for

everything. And they don't have to lift a finger or do anything. And that's totally fine. However, it made me start to understand the value system and what's important to me and what's important to someone else could look completely entirely different. And I caught myself judging a little bit, full transparency. And I don't like to judge or feel like I'm judging, but it kind of stopped me in my tracks because I know that everyone has their own ways of doing things. I almost caved into this like mindset of let me just marry someone really rich and then I could just have fun. and go on trips and blah, blah, blah. And it's literally everywhere, this narrative currently of like,

you have to just date a man for his money because they're just like going to do what they want anyway and we shouldn't have like feelings for them and we should focus on ourselves. And I mean, I'm not going to name any names, but there has been so much content centered around that everywhere. And for me, I just think that that's not who I am. That's not the type of woman I am.

I'm a Capricorn, okay? I was just raised differently. I was born differently. I just feel like I'm not the type of woman who could chase after a man for his money and thrive, feeling comfortable knowing that I'm depending, essentially, on him to help me out with everything. Now, of course, as I said, if we're both doing well and, you know, he wants to pay my taxes for me. Great. No, like really, though.

I'm like of course I'm not going to say no to any assistance but at the same time my point is it's really irrelevant in the sense of like I just don't look at relationships like that I think it's very transactional and it was giving me this transactional energy where I was like that's just not how I operate I think I prioritize true love and feelings and connection and my faith over financial principles and then this experience starts started to really make me think about everything when it came to my values, especially with the partner that I want to end up with. And I realized that I just want someone that I could build with. I want someone that I could build a life of authenticity and freedom with and abundance with and create wealth with. It's not about someone who has a lot of money. It's about their state of consciousness around money. So when I say I want a man who is successful, I'm looking for someone who has the drive to be successful. I'm not looking at the actual money currently in his bank account. I'm looking at who he is and where his values are around money and entrepreneurship and leadership

and drive, right? Those qualities are going to get you far in life regardless. So I think those qualities to me in a person, as long as they're willing to put in the work and build and always achieve to be amazing and great and do big things, that's more important to me than just finding someone who has millions of dollars in their bank account. And for me, what's truly stimulating and exciting is someone who can match my level of excitement about growth and know how to build things and scale things and be abundant. And obviously, money comes as a byproduct of that. So I was just realizing all of these things about my value system and I was like, you know what? I'm glad I had this experience this summer where I was put in a situation where suddenly I had this wake up call.

And I was like, I just don't want to be around, you know, old men on a yacht in the middle of Spain. It just doesn't feel right to me. It doesn't feel in alignment with who I truly am. Because what is it doing for me? Long term. You know what I mean? Like, why am I here? because that shit doesn't impress me.

If I'm really looking deep into my soul, that shit doesn't mean anything to me. And that's just who I am. I was just built that way. I was born this way. So I was thinking about Taylor Swift's song about Harry Styles. I don't have to pretend I like acid rot or that I'd like to be on a mega yacht with important men who think important thoughts. I was really thinking about that song after I was on this yacht.

And I was like, I don't want to be here. And that's okay. Okay. If my friends want to be there, if my friends want to do that, that's fine too. I think also what I learned through this experience was it's okay that not everyone likes the same things that you like. Not everyone is going to do the same things that you want to do. And you can disagree on that.

And that's fine. So it was a good portal into today's episode. And I think it really had me doing some deep inner reflection over the last. few days of summer. Now we're getting into fall. We're really doing the inner work and just being cozy and really, you know, I feel like it's a cuffing season in a way. Like, I don't know who I'm going to be cuffed to necessarily, but we'll see. A lot of things are coming up for me where I feel really like myself. And the more I experience and the more I put myself out into the world and I just say yes to things, sometimes it's not always what I wanted. Like sometimes I don't really,

like the experience in the moment, but I always learn from these experiences. And that's the beauty of putting yourself out there and saying yes to things that maybe not all the time you necessarily think are in alignment with you. You can always learn something from everything. I truly believe that. And it's something that I always say, especially because I've had to learn the hard way through many different relationships and many different experiences in my life. And I never regret anything. Even the worst, the worst, the worst. I never regret anything because I think going through experiences shape you automatically and they make you unique and special. And I think learning more about my values, it has been such a game changer for

me. And that's why we're talking about it on today's episode. So my two biggest values, authenticity and freedom. I think authenticity plays a lot into how successful you are in every aspect of your life. Being true to yourself in real time, in the moment. Who are you right now? And then transform that into your career and let that show up in every area of your life. When you're so true to yourself in real time, you're always magnetic because people love authenticity. People love realness and rawness. And for me, I know that I can't be around bullshit. So I think the beauty of what makes people so golden and radiate that golden aura is because they're being true to themselves. And when you're operating from pure truth, it's so easy to tell. Everyone knows. I think doing this podcast

and having scaled it to what it is today was truly me living at the time in this energy of authenticity all the time. When it comes to my career especially, I can only create from who I am and what I've experienced. I can't create from anything else. I have to create from real life experiences. Otherwise, it just feels so out of alignment and it feels so forced. If I recorded episodes about things I've never experienced, I wouldn't be able to do the podcast. I would be so drained and so uninspired because I wouldn't be able to speak from truth, number one, I would have to be reading off a screen the whole time and it just wouldn't feel good for me. So authenticity is a big one. And I know when it comes to the people in my life,

I always want to be surrounded by people who are also living in their truth. And that doesn't mean they have to be similar to you or have the same interests as you. It's just their energy that is so inspiring. Like them as a person is just inspiring because you know they're so authentic in who they are. And when that rubs off on you, it just feels good because you know you're around people, even if sometimes, you know, you don't necessarily get along all the time or you have your differences. At least you know you're both operating from pure truth and you're being yourselves, right? And you're not putting on masks and trying to please the other person. It's just you're both mature enough and grounded enough and anchored enough in yourself to have real adult

conversations and just be truthful about who you are. I think it's so refreshing. The other thing that I really value a lot is freedom. I have it tatted on my wrist for a reason. Freedom is everything to me And every big decision I've made, especially when it comes to my work and also my relationships, it has reflected a lot of freedom in my life. I think the people I've dated have also reflected this value. There have been people in my life that I'm very drawn to because they are free spirits. I love people who are very free spirited and love to adventure and love to do cool shit. And I am very drawn to people who have similar lifestyles to me, as far as they like to travel. They like to build things from an entrepreneur standpoint. They think expansively.

They think of money as energy. And, you know, there's just so many things where I realize that freedom to me is a top priority. And the most exciting thing in the world to me is envisioning me and the love of my life, traveling the world together, building businesses, getting a good workout, eating right, eating healthy. and prioritizing fitness, prioritizing our goals together and building a life we love. That's like the dream life, right, to me. So some people, they don't really need those things. Some people are happy doing something totally different with the love of their life. But I think freedom is probably number one on my list of values.

And I know what it feels like to not have financial freedom or the freedom or luxury to do certain things. And I didn't really like it. I didn't really like it. It was really difficult for me to be my truest self. So authenticity and freedom, the two biggest things. These two values have literally shaped my reality and my life. If something costs me my authenticity as a woman or my freedom to do what I love, it's never worth it. There have been instances where I have sat across a table from someone I was on a date with.

It's happened several times where, I tell them about my lifestyle and how I love to travel and how I love to move around and work from my computer and just, you know, come up with new ideas and I have all these ideas for my businesses and all this stuff. And they look at me like I'm fucking crazy. And to some people, I might be. And that's okay, right? But there are other people who understand me because they prioritize that as a value too, right? They prioritize that lifestyle as well. And they've worked towards it as well. You know, I created my reality. through my own mind and my actions, I've gone to the place where I am today, being able to have the freedom to work and travel and go anywhere, essentially, because I built my life that way, right? I created that life for myself. No one handed it to me. It was through hard work. It was through discipline and it was through knowing what I wanted. Some people will say, I'm nuts. And then some people will say, that's amazing. Same. Like, I love that you've done that. And either I want to do that or they've already done it. So you're not going to necessarily be understood by everyone when it comes

to what you value and what you prioritize and how you've got in there. But just knowing who you are and staying true to that is what this is all about. Now I'm going to get into why the value system is so important. Okay. Your values are literally your frequency. They are the reason for why certain things show up the way that they do in your reality. So everything that you embody, as I said earlier in this episode, is going to manifest accordingly into the 3D, into your current world. So if you value freedom, but you're terrified to break out of your comfort zone, you're not embodying what you are saying that you're valuing. So my biggest advice to you is to write down what's actually important to you and do the most to embody each of these things. Because if you say

you want freedom and you don't want to work a nine to five job, right? And then you're terrified to quit and you're doing the same thing on repeat for the last few years. You're not embodying what you're saying your values are. And that's where we get stuck because there's a lot of fear in the mix. So my biggest piece of advice to you, if you want to make a change, is really writing down everything that you actually know at your core is so important to you and the way you want to live your life and then start embodying those things accordingly. I know for me when I say, you know, loving myself is one of my biggest values. And then I was tolerating breadcrumbs from someone. I wasn't embodying self-love. Because if I was embodying self-love, that person wouldn't be in my

orbit. They wouldn't be in my field at all. So something I did this past week is I actually wrote down a list of every single one of my values and what was actually important to me. And it was very, very useful and insightful and helpful to get clear on where I wasn't fully embodying these values. Your values dictate who you are. And who you are dictates your manifestations and how things appear in your life. As I said earlier, Neville Goddard principles, you don't manifest what you want. You manifest who you are. What you're embodying. Who you are at your core. And this is why also when people message me and they're like, oh, how do I get my ex back? How do I get this person to like me?

What are you really embodying in that moment? You're embodying fear, anxiety, and worry and doubt about that other person. But if you embodied self-love and confidence and you knew that they would be a part of your life, you knew that they're a part of your life, they would have no choice but to show up. But when we live in fear, we're not embodying the values that we actually say that we have. If you're saying you value confidence and self-worth, but you're still checking your story views every three seconds to see if that person has watched your story, there is a misalignment in your values and what you're embodying. So I want you to take a pen and paper today, or whenever you have a second, or right now, you can pause the episode if you want, and just really write down what you value the most, what your standards truly are, who you want to be. And then I want you to see if there's any mismatch in your actions towards the things you're writing down and then start to correct them. Something I've also recently come to realize is that your values help you make better choices for yourself.

If you're indecisive like me, it could be hard to make yes or no choices about certain things. But when you have strong, clear values, it's easier to start saying yes to things and no to things. the more you stay true to your values and who you are as a human being, you will know how to say yes or no very easily to the right and wrong things in your life. There have been certain events I've been invited to recently, certain job opportunities I've received, and certain people who have come into my field. And I've had to make quick yes or no decisions. September has been a crazy work month. It's been very busy and filled with plans and things to do. And although it's very exciting and I'm very grateful. I've had to make yes or no decisions in the moment in order to filter out

what felt a line and what didn't and say yes to the things that I knew were going to light me up and say no to the things that were bound to drain me. There was no wavering maybe energy in these decisions because my values are strong enough to know what's going to make me feel good and what's not at this point in my career. I also like to look at it like this. Every yes and no you make, Every decision you make when you truly understand who you are as a person is an energetic tie or contract. So when it comes to the people in your life, when it comes to hanging out with certain people, when it comes to, you know, the business decisions you make for yourself, when it comes to your future goals and everything that you do, it becomes more intentional because you understand who you are more and what your standards are and what your boundaries are. I think values, standards, and boundaries are all kind of tied together. in a way and your values really help you determine your standards. I think for me understanding that I was

misaligned with certain things and my values, it helped me clear that out so I could actually make better decisions and show up differently and be more confident in my yes and knows when it came to things that came into my path or people that came into my life. I went on a date, I went on a date actually a few nights ago. I knew that from the beginning, me and this person are extremely different, but I was like, you know what, I'll just, I'll just give it a shot anyway. I felt kind of neutral about it, but according to my human design, if I feel neutral about something, it's a no. So maybe I should have listened to that. But anyways, went out with this guy, and he was hardcore I feel like at least from what I saw I think he was judging me I messed up a little bit too I'm

going to take accountability here because I started talking about my ex no one wants to hear about that on a first date but I just kind of word vomited and I think part of the reason was a little bit of I don't want to say testing someone but I like to be very open and vulnerable and see if that person can match or handle what I'm saying but I also think my life is a little bit different than a lot of other people's. And it's very, I don't want to use the word chaotic because I don't want to put that into the ether, but I think my life just has a lot of different moments and chapters and people and experiences.

And there's so many layers to what I've been through. And not a lot of people can see me, if that makes sense. I feel like I've met some amazing people that can understand and they see the beauty and all of the chaos that I've experienced. But for some people who may have a more chilled out attitude about life in general, they might listen to something I'm saying and just zone out or just be like, I can't handle this or this girl's nuts. And that's okay.

I think the impression that I left on him was like not really fully what represents me. But at the end of the day, I always say the right person will be able to see through me and understand me on a soul level. and I've also met amazing people like that before. So I feel like he was just judging me. And I was like, oh, no, he definitely wants to go home. And I realized that our values and what we wanted and what we had discussed at that dinner were just so different.

And I knew. I just knew that there was like a 99% chance. It was just not going to work. So I kind of just went off the rails and chewed his ear off for an hour. And he was literally like yawning at the take. I was like, oh no, those guys so fucking done with me. But the whole thing taught me a lot about the importance of just being on the same page with your values because we were having a conversation about like what we currently

were looking for. And it was just so different. And I think I'm a little bit too wild for him. So I was just like, oh, no. But it really was another good learning experience, right? And this is why I'm starting to date again and put myself out there. I'm realizing more and more every single day and every single experience that I have with someone who I am, right? I'm learning something through every person that I interact with. I'm learning more

about myself. And that's a beautiful thing. And that's something that I cherish no matter what happens or no matter what the end result is. It doesn't have to be, you know, you go on a date and you get married to this person. It doesn't have to be so black and white. It could just be like it was a one time dinner. You took something from it. And that's it. And then you walk away just like, learning something else about yourself. And for me, I think when I woke up the next day after that dinner, I realized that I really value someone who can snap me out of my chaos and ground me and make me feel like I don't even want to think about the past. Someone that can make me forget about the past and just focus on the moment. That's like such a special quality to have when you're around

someone who makes you forget about everything else and you're just in this bubble of conversation where you shut out the whole world. And it's just the two of you going back and forth. I think that's so important to me. And it's rare, but when you find that person, do everything you can to keep them around because that's special. When someone can take you out of your depth and your chaotic moments and just bring you into the present and make you feel grounded and safe, It's really special. And I've only met a couple of people who have really had that effect on me. Yeah.

I'm still waiting for that feeling again. I think that's one of the biggest values I have are qualities. I'm looking for in the person that I spend the rest of my life with is bringing me into the present. The next thing is, when it comes to dating, it's actually really been refreshing now because it's showing me where my values are currently at. And then I can adjust accordingly. If I didn't like something, if I didn't like how an. experience went, I can shape shift accordingly. So I can have a better experience with the next person. A lot of people say, you know, dating sucks, but like where are you really holding your standards and

your values? Okay. I look at it like this now. Every person that shows up in your life is data. They are mirrors showing you where you are at in your life, what you currently believe you deserve, and what you currently will and will not tolerate. So for example, if you value games, you're going to meet people who like to play games and you might say oh like why would anyone value games it's excitement right it's this concept of like up and down roller coaster excitement you don't know what's going to happen it's the unpredictability let's say okay that's the game it's like things being unpredictable i'm speaking from myself like i thrive on unpredictability why i don't know that's something that i've had to unpack on my own but i love the unknown i love the unknown i love the

unknown because it leaves mystery. And I think as humans, we like a little mystery, right? It keeps things exciting. However, long term, if you're looking for the real thing, if you're looking for a real long-term relationship, you can't be constantly valuing unpredictability because that's what's going to show up in your partners. And it's not a good feeling long term. If you're just looking for a good time and to have some fun with someone, fine. But I've had to change this about myself a little bit more because there has to be a balance right things can still be exciting and thrilling and fun but they also have to be somewhat predictable if you're looking to get married and you know build a life with someone so i think what i've realized is if i have someone who loves the same things that i love to do related to exploring the world traveling building things creating things creating art doing new cool things all the time that's my new way of channeling that excitement instead of of being like, oh, I don't know what's going to happen in this relationship. It's no. I know where this person stands with me, but let's make things exciting by doing things that are healthy to get

that same type of feeling and entertainment without it being unhealthy and toxic. The same thing applies with every other value that you hold. If you value honesty and you're a very honest person, you will meet people who keep their word and who are honest with you. But another thing about this is, you will also be able to filter out who's not honest with you. I think the more honest I've gotten with myself and made honesty and integrity and having good values a priority, I've been able to instantly spot someone who isn't honest or who's lying to me. I know right away. And that's also an intuitive thing where, you know, I have good intuition, but it's like, I just know if someone has the same level of honesty as me. It's really fascinating, actually, because I believe when you're

embodying values, you're operating at this new frequency that the values on. So if you're embodying authenticity, honesty, freedom, kindness, if you're truly at your core, all of these things, you can only match with people who are on the same frequency and operating in the same field as you. And if they're not, it's so easy to know. You just feel it. You just know. And it's a really good filter. Values are an energetic filter. When I tolerated hot and cold men in the past, it was because I still valued excitement over stability, which is fine, right? But at the same time, you can get your excitement through other things in a healthy relationship. So that's something that I've had to work on and reframe so I can go into my next relationship,

knowing that you don't have to associate stability and peace with being boring because it's not true. It's just when you've never experienced something directly, you don't really know it exists. So for me, I think I just had a twisted version of what stability meant. same thing with values applies with money a lot of people message me about financial freedom and money and wanting to quit their job and travel the world and do all these cool things and I get it because you know it is a dream for a lot of people and that's amazing and I encourage it if you feel a calling to do something different with your life I always encourage you to listen to that gut feeling but let's talk a little bit about money values because I think this is really important if you're

always struggling with money or you're broke or you're always, you know, trying to make ends me, you're valuing scarcity and you're in survival mode. And the feeling of scarcity can be safe because if you grew up in an environment where it was like that, it can feel safe to be scared of money. And I know it sounds a little confusing, but I'm going to try to break it down as best as I can. Of course you want financial freedom. Of course you want to be wealthy and you want to make a lot of money. Everyone does, right? Who doesn't? But there can be subconscious conditioning from a young age if your parents struggled with money or people have told you, you know, it's unrealistic to make a certain type of money or people have told you it's unrealistic to go into a certain type of career

field, et cetera, et cetera. It's a lot of subconscious wiring and old narratives from the past and generational trauma and all that stuff, right? There was an energy in my family dynamic that was very centered around making money, making money. And it was always about making money because we were going to run out type of thing. And it's not that we did run out or anyone did run out in my family or anything like that. But it was always this pressure of like, if you don't, if you don't, like figure it out, you're going to run out of money. And it was always a scarcity mindset where like your back is always up against the wall with finances. So I remember even at a very young age, I felt this pressure to really build something for myself and not depend on anyone else.

financially. But I didn't realize that there could be a totally different world that I could change my perception of money and how to make it. If you value and embody financial freedom, your brain and divine intelligence will guide you towards different ways of bringing money into your life. You will naturally come up with ideas that will allow money to flow to you. Or literal magic can happen and someone can offer you something that can lead to more money. there will be so many new opportunities that come into your life based on how you shift your perception of it all because money is just energy and we are taught that it has to be a struggle, right? It has to be a struggle. You have to grind. You have to hustle in order to make this

amount of money. But in reality, it all comes down to your perception of what money really is. I read something really interesting the other day because I have had an interesting history of like being very up and down with my finances where like one year I'll make an insane amount money and then the next year I won't make any I've had this like wave of like up down up down with it this was when I was in my 20s and something I read the other day was about losing money as fast as you make it and how it reflects a value of unworthiness and instability it reflects instability and then it all clicked I do think I'm worthy of making a lot of money but I think it was more the instability aspect of it all because I didn't feel grounded from within about finances and I

I always had the slight fear of, oh my God, I have all of this, but what if it's taken away? My life and my financial status literally manifested that way because I was valuing instability over consistent growth and confidence in myself and my business and growing wealth. So I felt like I would build myself up and I got in these little confident waves with my finances and then I would have this fear in the back of my head. What if it's all taken away from me? And that showed up accordingly. With money, I also highly recommend you write down how you perceive it and your relationship

to it and then move accordingly and correct it. Because if you value financial freedom, but you're terrified to make any power moves when it comes to your job, there's a misalignment there. Or if you value, you know, building wealth, but you feel really inconsistent and not grounded in who you are in your business and you're not confident in your business, that will also show up. So I think really observing my patterns and my actions and what I'm truly embodying versus what I'm not when it comes to money and finances has been super helpful for me. And I've also seen this play out in the most beautiful ways when I did feel really good and confident about

my finances. There have been moments where I've commanded, I'm making a certain amount of money at a certain time. And because I felt so good and so in alignment, I always manifested it. I always got it. And it was just a matter of being in the right energetic state and knowing that I was worthy of it. Your entire life, your reality, your partners, your money situations, they are not a reflection of what you say you want. They're a reflection of what you value and what you're embodying. So when you stay true to your values and you embody your values, the universe will have no choice, but to rearrange everything to work divinely in your favor at all times. With that being said, that concludes today's episode.

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