Date Yourself Instead - You can't miss what's DESTINED FOR YOU. Relax.

Episode Date: August 24, 2025

TRUST THE DIVINE PLAN. There are no rules. Just be YOU.In this episode, I yap about the importance of self-love and letting go of societal dating rules. From a coffee spill incident to deeper reflections on destiny and soul bonds, I emphasize that what is meant for you will never pass you by. Through personal anecdotes and the concept of the 'removal prayer,' I encourage you to trust divine timing and live authentically without fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that rejection is merely redirection towards what is truly meant for your soul.00:00 Introduction: Embrace Self-Love and Authenticity00:43 Funny Story Time: Coffee Mishap04:00 Main Topic: You Cannot Mess Up What Is Destined for You07:08 Breaking Dating Rules: Trust Your Intuition07:31 Personal Story: Unconventional Relationship11:32 The Power of Self-Love and Confidence12:26 Story Time: Pub Encounter and Crushing28:51 Rejection and Divine Timing35:23 Conclusion: Trust the Divine Plan

We waste so much energy trying to do things right, trying to follow a certain guideline of life, trying to follow a script. We try so hard not to scare someone off. How about you just love yourself so much that you don't give a fuck? That's it. Do the removal prayer. What's the removal prayer? You simply ask God to remove this person if they're not supposed to be a part of your life. Every single person that I've done this prayer on, they've glitched and disappeared in seconds.

The soul doesn't care about timing. If there's a soul bond with someone or something that's meant for you, it will always make its way back to you. Hello, everyone, and welcome to another episode of Date Yourself Instead. I just had the craziest morning. I was in Joe and the Jews in Soho here in London, about to go to the studio to record this episode for you guys. I order my usual coffee.

And a couple of things happened, okay? This is just a funny story time. This is not related to today's episode at all. But I just thought it was fucking hilarious to intro with this. There was a guy that I met yesterday outside of the same Joe and the Juice. And he approached me as he saw me walking out. He gave me his business card for like his fitness company or something. And he was like, oh, I would love for you to model for my fitness brand.

And I was like, I'm okay. I'm good. And he's like, no, no, no. Just take my car just in case. If you're interested, reach out. We have this studio opening up here near Joe and the Juice. So I was like, uh, okay, I'm good. I don't really need a new fitness place, but I'll just take your card, whatever, just to be polite.

This morning, I am sitting in Joe in the Juice again and the same man walks in. And he's like, oh, you look so nice because I'm a little dressed up because I have a bunch of meetings today and whatever. Okay. I'm like, oh, thank you so much. Okay, great. As I'm walking out of Joe in the Juice, I was on my phone and walked straight into the glass door, like full on. fucking ran into the door and my coffee exploded everywhere. Now, that guy was sitting down and looked at me. The look on his face when he saw this happening in real time, an explosion of

coffee going absolutely fucking everywhere all over my dress and all over the floor and literally all over Joe and the Jews. The look on this man's face was like, what the fuck? Yeah. So that being said, I don't think he's going to want me modeling for any type of fitness business. That just goes to show how uncoordinated I really am. That moment just summarized who I am, just all over the fucking place. But aside from that, the reason I actually find this so symbolic and the reason why I'm really telling this story is because every time I spill my coffee, like this has happened to me quite a few times where my coffee explodes and it goes everywhere. This is one of those things for me that when something like that happens, this is something for me that marks a turning point in my reality.

It's like the universe's way of saying, get ready, something incredible is about to happen. Last time my coffee exploded in public absolutely everywhere was last year before I decided to leave New York and move to Bali and start this new chapter of my life healing and really taking a break from dating and focusing on myself. and I ended up timeline shifting into a new world where I literally met all new people, made all new friends. And I just took a hugely beef of faith and changed my entire life pretty much. So I am taking this moment as another clear sign from the universe that things are about to get really spicy and amazing and good. And something really amazing is going to happen. That's what I'm taking from this. So anyways, okay, I hope that was a very very.

entertaining introduction to today's podcast episode, but today's episode is going to be talking about something really, really special. It's this concept of you cannot mess up what is destined for you. You cannot fuck up what is truly meant for you. The reason I want to talk about this is because yesterday I was on a live on TikTok and someone had asked me if they should text this specific person that they were talking to first, if they should be the one to initiate, does it really matter? Does it matter if the women initiates? Is it really going to affect the outcome of a situation? This is what I said. And then it got me really thinking, and this is why I want to talk about this. There are no rules. We've made rules in dating. We've made these rules and constructed things that we have to do and guidelines that we have to follow in order to get this person to be more attracted to us. order to get this person to want to date us. When you live in the 4D, there are no rules. Rules are constructs that humans have created to make life more simplified, but a lot of rules are based out of fear. If you're operating from fear, which means you care about what other people think,

you care about what that guy thinks about you, you care about their opinion of you. When you're operating from pure fear, you're essentially operating from the 3D and you're creating a construct that ultimately is limiting. It's limiting, right? And the reason it's limiting is because everyone operates differently. Every human brain is very different. As my friend Andrea said on our episode, you are so worthy of your wildest dreams.

If you haven't listened to that episode, it's a video episode. You can go watch that whenever you have a chance. Something Andrea said on that podcast, it stood out to me. She said, you cannot understand what's going on in someone's brain. You don't know what they're thinking. because you're not them. You're not inside of their head.

So to spend your hours and your days trying to pull apart how someone's perceiving you and thinking about you and how they may feel about you or may not feel about you is a waste of your precious energy and time. There are no rules in dating. We've made those rules. Society has made those rules. Society teaches us don't text them back right away, right? just play cool wait for them to make the first move wait for the guy to initiate everything don't be too forward don't speak too much don't say too much because you're gonna you know blow it you're gonna fuck it up but the truth is at the end of the day nothing is going to mess up what is truly

meant for you bottom line if that person is attracted to you if that man wants to date you he's gonna date you regardless if you say hi first or he says hi first it's going to happen regardless because in the fourth dimension, it just is. Your partner, the person you end up with, it's destined. It's faded anyway. You are supposed to be together regardless of who initiates. If someone runs away from you or gets scared because you initiated, they're not your person anyway. As I've dated a lot of different types of people, as I've been in a lot of different dynamics with people, I've initiated first and they've also initiated first.

I've made the first move before. and sometimes the guy has made the first move before. It all is very situational. It just depends on the person, on the relationship, and if it's meant to be, it'll just be, regardless of who's doing what. So an unconventional example of this would be my second boyfriend. We dated for four years, and we were in a very long relationship, but the first few months, it was up and down because I was essentially chasing after him because I was.

I made it my mission that I wanted to date him. If he's listening to this right now, he's going to be like, what? But I think he'll remember. In the beginning, he didn't really want to be in a relationship. He didn't. He was just there for a good time. I know that he liked me and he was attracted to me, but he wasn't ready to be tied down.

But because I was so confident in my mission and because I saw the vision, I had my energy set on him. I knew intuitively that we were supposed to date. I knew it was destined, okay? If I knew that he had zero interest in me, I wouldn't have pursued it. I knew he was just scared and I knew he was going through a lot of life transitions when I met him with his job and he didn't know if he wanted to quit his job. And I was just like, trust me, come work with me, we'll travel the world. And I painted this vision for us.

And over time, we ended up in a relationship. My point is, in that situation, there will be a million people who, who would have told me you're an idiot. Why are you trying to put all your energy into someone that is unsure about you? At that time, I was really trusting my own intuition and my own sense of judgment. You have to listen to your intuition. There's a balance, okay? You have to listen to your intuition and your sense of judgment and not be, you know, a crazy person and try to force someone to like you.

If you see the vision and you fully trust in it and you know that person is destined and supposed to be part of your life, there's nothing wrong with giving your time to it. If I had listened to everyone else and followed the standard rules of what the dynamic should have been, I wouldn't have had the amazing experience I ended up having with this person, which is traveling the world, building a business, and we were best friends for a very long time. And I don't regret a second of it. Of course, as I've gotten older, as I know now what I need in a partner, the same dynamic would not be okay for me. The same dynamic doesn't apply anymore. I'm just telling you this story because it's unconventional. It was an unconventional way of getting into a relationship. And I think even I have gotten lost in the narrative and the fog of everyone telling you it's only one way. It's black and white. Relationships aren't always black and white because everyone

is so different. Everyone has a different thought process. Everyone comes from different circumstances. And a lot of people are operating out of fear. They're not operating out of their truest self that may be like, let's get into a relationship. I love you. They might just be scared because of blockages. And sometimes there is wiggle room with that with people. And you have to trust your own sense of judgment and intuition to know if it's right or not. Rules are human constructs. There's no set rules on what you can and cannot do. So if you're scared to initiate, if you're scared to message someone first, think about this. If they get scared off by you sending a message to them, clearly that's not the right person for you.

So who the fuck cares? Doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. There's no one way to do things. So if someone's giving you advice, it's coming from their own experiences. That's also why I always say when you listen to my podcast, you could take my advice, but nine times out of ten, people listen to things because they just want to hear something and they're still going to do what they want anyway. I know a lot of you, you message me. You've listened to all of my episodes. I give you guys advice. And then you message me saying, well, I still want to do this. I still want to do that with this person. You're going to do what you want regardless because it's your life. And there are no rules. The only thing I will say is make sure that you're operating from. a place of confidence and self-love and self-respect. When you're operating from a place of

pure self-love for yourself and pure respect for yourself, you'll always make the right decision. You'll always make the right decision. You have to be confident in who you are in order to initiate who you are. If you want to initiate something, be confident in it. Be full body yes into it. Don't hesitate. Don't be scared. Just live your truth. Be who you are. And just trust that if it's meant to be, it'll be. A recent story time as well. Okay, it's a little bit juicy. I wasn't sure if I was going to tell this one because it's like, I don't know. I don't want anyone I know that lives in London to hear it, but so be it. I don't, whatever. Okay. I'm not operating out of fear. I'm going to just speak my truth and it'll be a good story time. So here we go. Two weeks ago, I was in a pub.

I decided to take myself out. I was taking myself to a movie and I was alone. I had a little bit of tequila and I started getting in my feels. This is why also as you upgrade your timeline and you heal, it's harder to drink alcohol. It's not good for your brain. And I only had one drink, but it just opened up something where I started crying and I like ran to the bathroom in the pub and I was bawling my eyes out in the bathroom stall. I know that sounds really sad and depressing when I say it out loud, but sometimes you just need a good cry. It's also healthy to get your feelings And I truly believe that because I don't cry that much anymore. But when I do, it's like, I'm going all in.

So I'm crying in the bathroom. And then I was like, you know what? Let me just text my friend because I knew he lived nearby. So then I ended up going to my friend's house. He was literally next door. And there was this other guy at his house. And he was so funny. And he was really just keeping me entertained.

Like I feel like there was something there for me. I don't know about for him. I don't think for him. I think he was like not interested in me at all. But that's okay because it doesn't matter. You can't control how someone else feels, but I can control how I feel about it. And I think it's just nice to have a crush.

I had a little crush on him because we have similar senses of humor. And maybe in his eyes, he's like that with everyone. I don't know how he feels, okay? But I had a little crush on him. And it kind of flipped my whole mood around. Like, it changed my whole mood. The whole point was that one minute you could be really sad about something and just not feel so great.

And then another instant, you could be around someone who makes you laugh and brightens your mood. And I think that's such a green flag in anyone, friendship, romantic, whatever it is. The old me would have avoided it at all costs and waited for him to say something to me. But after I left, I didn't overthink it. I just DMed him. I didn't care. The old me would have not done that. But because I just don't have an attachment to the outcome of anything and I know that what's meant to be will be with anyone I interact with, it doesn't matter who initiates what.

It just doesn't because if I messaged him and he didn't want to talk to me, fine. If he messages me and we continue the conversation from where we left off, fine. There's no rules is my point. And I think that's the adult way to look at things. I feel like I'm just becoming more of myself where I'm not thinking of what the other person is perceiving of me. I'm just doing what I want to do. When you do what you want to do, it's so freeing. It's so liberating.

You're just yourself. You don't have to play these games. You don't have to play these mind games with yourself all the time. Like, oh, if I DM him first, is he going to lose interest? No, because if he was interested, it doesn't matter. He would be happy to talk to you, right? So if he's not interested, then that's it. Then you move on.

You go to the next person that will be interested. Nothing matters. That's the whole point of the story. In the past, maybe four years ago, I would have cared and I would have been like nervous to message someone after having a good interaction with them because I cared what they thought of me. But when you're in this space of detachment in a healthy way where you're just going with the flow of life and you're a real adult, you don't give a shit. Even if that person never spoke to me again, even if he never replied to the messages that I sent, whatever it is, it doesn't matter. Nothing matters. You will end up with who you're supposed to end up with.

You will date who you're supposed to date. You will be married to who you're supposed to be married to or whatever you decide in life to do with the person you love. You're going to be together regardless. You just got to go with the flow and not care so much and just be you. Be the most authentic, loving, open-hearted version of you. And life will just always feel light and easy because you're not putting an emphasis on how someone else feels about you or perceives you. We waste so much energy trying to do things right, trying to follow a certain guideline of life, trying to follow a script. And we try so hard not to scare someone off.

How about you just love yourself so much that you don't give a fuck? That's it. That's the goal. You're so grounded and confident in who you are and how amazing you are. that it doesn't matter. The best people in life that I've met aren't the most attractive physically. They're the most confident people. The ones that have this aura, this golden aura that I've spoken about on the podcast,

if you haven't listened, go listen to How to Have a Golden Ora episode. It's one of my favorite episodes I've ever recorded this summer. The people who I'm most attracted to have a golden aura. What I mean by that is they're shining so bright from within because they don't care about the external. They're radiating from within. They love themselves so much that you can literally taste it. You can feel it on them. You feel how much they love themselves.

You feel how confident they are. They're magnetic because they're radiating self-love. And that is the hottest thing in the world to me. When a man, he's not the hottest guy you've ever seen, but he has that aura. You're naturally just drawn to him. People like that for me are the people who can really make me laugh. I have this thing with guys who can make me laugh and snap me out of a weird mood. If you can get me out of my Capricorn darkness, I will fall in love with you.

If you have that aura where you can like snap me out of my sadness, that's it. I'm sold. I love you. Because there's something about people who can make you get out of a bad mood instantly. It's their presence because they're radiating that type of aura. It's so special and it's rare. It's really hard to impress me these days. It's really hard to make me laugh.

But when you do, I'm like, oh, okay. I like you. Let's do this. But anyways, to kind of conclude this segment of the episode, bottom line is the right person will never disappear on you because you initiated. The right person won't run because you were too vulnerable, too honest with them. And if they do, they were never it. So thank God.

Tell God. Thank you so much for removing this person because they were never to begin with, okay? You can't be with someone who's going to run at the drop of a hat. It'll never work regardless. So be thankful. Another thing you could do if you just want to immediately save yourself a ton of time with anyone, any crush, any guy, any situation, you're like, oh, I don't know if they like me. Do the removal prayer, okay? You guys know I've built my relationship with my faith in God.

This is foolproof. This is a foolproof method to see if someone's meant to be in your life. Do the removal prayer. What's the removal prayer? You simply ask God to remove this person if they're not supposed to be a part of your life. And it literally works faster than you're going to want it to. Every single person that I've done this prayer on, they've glitched and disappeared in seconds. It's kind of fucking insane. But if you want to save yourself the time of the headache, of the confusion, of the worry, of the doubt, of a relationship, literally just ask God to remove them and watch what happens. I did this with the last few guys have dated, which haven't been many. As you know, I've taken a long hiatus from dating. But the few people I have dated, I've done this prayer. Okay, the last guy I was seeing like for a couple months did this prayer. And then the next day he told me he was flying to the Philippines. He was like, oh, I just booked a last minute trip. I'm going to the Philippines. I was like okay bye um and then the most recent situation which happened last night i was supposed to meet up with this guy and last night before i went to bed i was like please remove this person if i'm not

supposed to see them because i just can't waste my energy on dating if it's not the right fit i just don't even want to go i would rather take myself to dinner if it's not the right person at this point so i'm like god please remove this person if i'm not supposed to go on this date tonight If I'm not, please remove this person, if I'm not supposed to go on this date tomorrow night, okay? I wake up this morning, seven in the morning, to a text from this guy saying he got food poisoning and he doesn't know if he could make it tonight. Yeah. Like, I can't make this shit up.

I was like, right, thanks God. I said the prayer and you get what you ask for. Like, it could not be more clear that God blocked it because I asked for that. So that'll also save you a lot of time if you want to do it. that way. Let's get into the next segment of this episode. Let's dive even deeper in this concept of things cannot pass you by if they're truly destined for you. What is meant for your soul will always manifest accordingly. When something is meant for you, a person or a career or any opportunity, it will always circle back even if there's a delay or a detour or a breakup. It will

always circle back. You could think that it's over. You could think that you made a mistake. They made a mistake. But if it's truly meant for your soul, it will always make its way back to you. In the 4D, in the fourth dimension, the soul doesn't care about timing. The soul doesn't care about weeks or months or even years. If there's a soul bond with someone or something that's meant for you, it will always make its way back to you. in the fourth dimension. It all comes down to your faith and trust. When you're living in the 3D,

it's very easy to get caught up and obsessed with this idea of everything has to happen at my time. If it's not happening right now, it's never going to happen. And we create so much fear around the things and the people and the situations that we want to happen for us. If something isn't happening in real time, the way that we want it to,

we start panicking. There's this sense of fear like, oh my God, we're breaking up right now. and it's it's over they fucked up i fucked up blah blah blah blah blah but in the 4d when you're living in this space of trust and ease and surrender you understand that if it really is meant to be with this person or if this career path is destined for you nothing long term is going to take that away if you're soul bonded with someone if your souls are literally bonded and you're supposed to end up together. You just might need a break because you need to individually grow in order to

come back together stronger. I've heard the craziest stories with this, okay, where people have been separated for 10 years at a time. They're engaged to other people. And then at the very last second, because God had a specific plan for these people, they ended their engagements and came back together because they were truly supposed to be together in the first place. But they needed to go through all of these other relationships and experiences in order to end up together. There are so many things like that that happen because of divine timing and because of the way that God wants things to be. Not everything is going to be in our control, but what we can control is how we perceive reality and how we look at it. And we could look at it from the lens of fear

and say, oh my God, this is hopeless. I'm never going to get what I want. This is impossible. This is never going to happen for me. Or we could look at it from a lens of everything is happening for me in the perfect divine timing, regardless if it's going to be this or something better. It's always going to be this or something better. So if right now it's not happening for me, if right now I can't be with this specific person, if right now what I'm trying to manifest isn't happening in real time, it's because I need to either take this time to build myself even more or there's something greater coming. Or this is being removed to be replaced with something better. There are no mistakes in destiny, in what's destined for you. So when something's truly meant for you and you think

that you made a mistake in the relationship or this person ghosted you, disappeared on you, or this person walked out on your marriage, maybe that period of time that they're not in your life is what both of you need to grow further into your purpose, into your soul's mission, into alignment. Look at every detour, every delay, every removal as an opportunity to grow, to learn. Take the time to build yourself internally. Every single relationship I've had has built me so much internally. I've learned countless lessons and things about myself. every single experience I've been through with every single person I've met in my life and dated in my life has taught me so much about the woman I am today, has built who I am today, has given me the privilege

and opportunity to get into a microphone and speak and help other people heal, has given me the opportunity to travel and connect with other people, other women that I would have never met if I hadn't gone through my last breakup. Exhibit A, me going through my last breakup, the worst breakup I've ever been through in my life shattered me in a totally different way than I've ever experienced. I was extremely depressed. It felt like there was a black cloud, literally hanging over my head for years. But without all of that, I never would have had the courage to break out of my old life in New York City and get on a plane and go to Bali to really do some deep inner energy work on myself. I was at such a low point that I was forced to really take full

accountability for all of the relationships that I've been through. Because I've dated a lot of people. I've dated a lot of people. I've been through a lot of relationships. At what point does one say, what's the common denominator here? Where I've had so many toxic dynamics with people. Me, right? I could point fingers and say, oh, you know, all of them were terrible and treated me horribly. But at the end of the day, the common denominator is me, meaning not that I did anything wrong intentionally, But I was wounded. Like I had a lot internally that I struggled with. I had a lot of deep fears about being alone and insecure.

So I would tolerate these really, really bad relationships. So if I hadn't gone through my last relationship, point being, I never would have had the catalyst and the courage to completely upheave my life and transform and change my destiny, right? I wouldn't be sitting in this room talking about this right now if I hadn't. gone through all of that. So there are no mistakes in your destiny. If something feels really shit right now, it's part of the plan to make you stronger and better long term. I can promise you that. There are no mistakes. If something feels like the end of the world for you right now, I promise you it's happening for you. It's not working against you. It's happening for you to build you to push you into a greater plan.

Guaranteed. In the bigger quantum picture, nothing is wasted. Your time is never wasted. If someone tells you, oh, why did you waste so much time dating that person? Rebuk it. Rebuk that statement. You didn't waste any time. Even your, quote, mistakes that you've made with other people, even if you feel like you've

stayed in a relationship for too long or longer than you should have, everything is working in your favor to push you further towards your destiny in the long term. I truly believe that. I could look back and beat myself up over staying too long in certain situations, but I needed that time. I needed to be in those relationships in order to be where I am now. It had to happen that way. I wouldn't be where I am today or who I am today if I hadn't gone through all of those experiences. The next thing is, in the 4D, there's no such thing as rejection. You're only being guided towards what's. truly meant for you. If it's not yours, that's okay. Trust that what's meant for you is not going to disappear on you. What's meant for you will never pass you by. People and things that run away

from you very easily, they were never yours in the first place. And also, I like to look at it like this. If you know how good of a heart you have, if you know that you have the best intentions, if you know that you're a kind, loving person, which I know you are if you're listening to this. And you're with the wrong person. God is never going to let you be with them. Like, it's just not a frequency match. You cannot be a vibrational match to someone who's not a good person. You can't because you deserve better.

Bottom line. So if you're dating someone that's very toxic, that's not right for you and you're a really good-hearted person with an amazing soul and you're settling, it's not a frequency match. you're not going to be able to maintain that relationship because God's not going to allow it. The universe won't allow that to happen for you because it knows you deserve a million times better. Instead of stressing so much about, oh my God, it's not working, it's not working. Why don't you think about, wow, maybe it's not working because I'm recalibrating to align with someone who's going to treat me the way I actually deserve. And I'm going to look back on this relationship and be thinking, why did I ever settle for that?

Why did I ever tolerate that? If you know in your heart you deserve better, you do. And I've said this before many times. But it's always a good reminder to repeat and think about if you know you deserve better, you do. Bottom line. I also like to think about rejection as this because we get so scared of rejection all the time. And I like to think of rejection as this. Okay.

It frees you. Rejection is freeing. You could look at it as liberating. When someone doesn't align with you or doesn't want you or something. isn't working for you in your favor in the moment. It's just an illusion. Okay. In the fourth dimension, when something's a loss, it's actually just clearing room for what's actually meant for you. It's clearing space for what's actually meant for you and destined for you. And the beauty is the wrong thing exits so you can actually align yourself with what's meant to be. Sometimes because

we are scared, we think that there's nothing better. It's easy to get caught up in this fear that there's nothing better for me. There's nothing better for me and I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm going to end up alone, blah, blah, blah. I can promise you there's something better for you. If you feel internally that you deserve better, as I just said, there's something better waiting for you. There is because you wouldn't even have that thought if it wasn't true.

The last thing I will say is if you truly believe in divine timing and destiny and fate, God doesn't care about how much you're overthinking or if you've messed up. Okay? Because what's yours is destined. What's yours is divinely protected. And when you know that and when you trust that, even if there's a little glitch along the way, it's still written in your soul's plan and your timeline. It's still written in the stars. And I'm going to give you one last little story time example to wrap this episode up. I was seeing someone briefly. It wasn't serious. It was, it's a little bit of a complex dynamic. But I will say it was, a friendship that may have eventually turned into something romantic. I think if both of us had wanted that. I cared about this person foremost as a friend, more than anything. I cared about this person deeply as a friend and I just wasn't myself at the time that I had met this person.

Okay. I was going through a really toxic relationship. Like with someone, the timing was off. Let's just put it that way. The timing was off and I was going through the lowest point of my life. This was when I was going through the worst of my relationship and I was trying to get out of it. I was trying to get away from my ex. I ended up meeting this person.

And there was definitely a connection there. And things just didn't work out because of timing and because of my mental state. I wasn't being fully transparent with what was going on in my life because I was scared. There was a lot of fear mixed in. There was just a lot of shit happening at that time. Needless to say, to simplify. it. And in my heart, I know, like, I know that regardless if I ever see this person again, you know when you just feel like someone is like written in a part of your plan, I just feel like

that person was always written in my life as a part of some sort of plan. And I don't know what that plan is. I don't know if it's platonic. I don't know if it's romantic. I don't know what it is. I just know that he's a part of the plan. And sometimes there are just those people that you know regardless of what happens, regardless of the timing circumstances, whatever, you just know that they're a part of the plan. So instead of worrying about it, I've just chosen to kind of just like let it play out the way it's supposed to play out. Because once again, if it's yours, timing doesn't matter. If it's yours, it'll always come back to you. If it's yours, God will make sure that it'll circle back in whatever way, shape, or form it needs to. If you know a sole contract isn't over,

then just let it play out naturally. And one of the best pieces of advice I received recently was about the process of letting things play out, exactly how they need to be. The less you force, the less you push, the less you try, just surrender to the plan of your life, to what God wants your life to be. Just surrender to it and watch how magical everything gets because you're not living from a place of fight or flight mode and worrying. You're just living. You're living in the present moment and you're trusting that what's meant for you, once again, will never pass you by. You're truly wholeheartedly living that way. When you're living and breathing in that truth that everything is happening in perfect divine timing for you and it's happening and aligning exactly in the moment that it's supposed to happen, life just gets so, so, so much easier and better. And you could just breathe. And isn't that nice to not wake up with anxiety because you know that everything is happening for you in its perfect divine time. And with that being said, that concludes today's episode of Date Yourself Instead. Thank you so much as always for listening to the podcast.

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