De-Influenced with Dani + Jordan - Dani Austin, Did You Get A Boob Job?

Episode Date: September 19, 2024

De-Influencers, we are BACK —and we dare say, better than ever! Happy THURSDAY! (Yes, that’s new, too!) We are thrilled to release our very first episode in this exciting rebranded era with Dear Media, and trust us, it’s a must-listen. In this episode, Dani finally addresses her most asked—and most ignored—question. We’re diving into the topic you’ve all been waiting for: Did Dani Austin get a boob job? But that's not all. We’re talking about everything rebrand-related, including our new release schedule (Thursdays at midnight!), Jordan’s official role as co-host, our updated color scheme and set design, and a new partnership with Dear Media—marking the first time in Dani’s 12-year career that she’s collaborated with an agency. We are beyond excited for this next chapter of De-Influenced. Expect a lineup of incredible guests, exciting solo episodes, and even MORE unfiltered content we’ve been working hard to bring you! And yes, we’re back on YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to our official channel, @deinfluencedpodcast, and follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your De-Influenced fix! Stay connected with us on Instagram and TikTok @deinfluencedpodcast, and thank you for being a part of this journey. We love you all! PS: GIVEAWAY! To thank you guys for all of your support we are giving away FIVE pairs of AirPods Max. To enter, simply drop a comment on our Spotify or YouTube and suggest the next hot topic Dani and Jordan should dive into. (OR question you want answered!) Good luck!

The following podcast is a dear media production. And welcome back to your favorite podcast. Deinfluenced. You guys, welcome back to the rebrand of DeInplanced. It's like my name's on the door. So this is insane. We listened to what you guys wanted, your feedback, and Jordan is now a co-host of the podcast. Which is really tough for me, honestly, because, you know, we are 75 episodes into this podcast.

This is our 75th episode. Which does not, it does not feel like that at all. No. Because we don't listen to any of them. Never. And so it feels like maybe 20. Right. Which is wild.

That's what I said. 20. Yeah. Whenever our podcast producer told us, like she surprised us with this cake this morning. And I was like 75 episodes. I would have said maybe 22 episodes. Well, it's so funny about where we're at now is that I think with my name on the door, it's like mentally it kind of does something for me because this was always a project where I felt

like I was a part of it, but I was always like, oh, peace out soon. Yeah, you just kind of show up and like, because, you know, when you started it was going to be like your thing. Well, that's why it was all pink. The branding is all pink. No, I know. It's my favorite color. And so I very, very much felt like a temporary part of this. Yeah. And honestly, I just saw my name on the door a second ago. It kind of, it's a little bit more pressure. And we chose neutral colors for our rebrand. Well, plus a pop of red, which was we were going to go just all neutrals. And I, and I, I literally had a dream about the pop of red in our podcast. Yeah.

So like we had already gotten all this branding done. It was like browns and coffee and tans. And then I go to like our girl and I'm like, guys, no. Like we have to add the pop of red. So we did. We had the pop of red. And then another big deal for us is we signed with an agency, which is so crazy because in my 12, almost 13 years of influencing, I have never worked with an agency. Everything we have ever built

Jordan and I has been in-house. Even from like when we started hiring people for Debbie, my personal team, we've always been very like ex- like stayaway agencies. We're very like hands-on entrepreneurs. Yes, yes. But we decided to sign with Dear Media and we're so excited. These are like our first partners. It feels really good to have like support. Because think about it. Every time we ever do anything like it's just me and you like if something happens we don't have anybody call it's just you i know i've always loved that i know i know it's nice it's nice but but it was time like the the business model of podcasting is way too hard to do it independently like i was very opposed to signing with any group for a long time live and learn because we built everything else in

house we're like we got this so we but we started looking at agencies back in march of 2020 no i'm sorry started interviewing agencies in 2023. Yeah. Like after like I don't know how many episodes we had done. But to be honest, we were like not making any money from this podcast. No. But I wouldn't say that was like the main goal. I would say the main goal when we launched the podcast was more like, do you remember?

It was like more like for our mental health. Yeah. Like we were like there are so many things that we want to talk about that you can't talk about on Instagram stories. It's too short of a format. It was either let's go hard on TikTok. or let's go hard on a podcast. And so we decided to do this podcast together.

But like financially, one of the worst decisions we ever made. But for our mental health, the best decision we made. Honestly, I was so scared of signing with an agency because I felt like they were going to censor us. And I was like, I don't want your money. I want to be able to say whatever we want to say. We have, but there are still like, I don't know. There's things that like I've avoided because we didn't have that outside.

advice or mentor, you know? So anyway, we, like, we're so skeptical. We flew to L.A. We flew to New York. We flew to all these people. We had, like, sit down meetings. And even after, like, I don't know, all of 2023 interviewing agencies, we decided no. Like, we're going to just still sell our own ads. We're going to do our own thing. Well, we started to come out on the negative, which we, like, we're like, whatever. We love it. Did we go into the red? I mean, it definitely was not in the green. Like, it was maybe neutral. It was. think about it. Our poor producer was probably fearing for her life.

Yeah, I mean, but like, you know, at the end of it, it was just like, we put so much effort into this and we love it so much now. Like, I'm ready to take it to the next level. I'm sick of DMing every single, like, guests that I want to have on the podcast and being like, hi, it's me, Danny. You probably don't know who I am, but we come on. Like, I want to have like a little bit more legitimacy. So when we reach out to someone, they're like, oh, she's signed with Dear Media.

Like, maybe they'll actually come. Yeah. And so I'm really excited about that side of working with Dear Media. Not only do they have like the coolest podcasts that they are, but they rose at the toast. I know. I was going to say, why did you want to go here? I love Lauren Bostic, who is the founder, her and her husband Michael Bostick from the skinny confidential. All of the, they cater to like millennial women.

Yeah. I think that they have the best business model in podcasting. 100%. Because they're very good at curating a very specific type of. demographic. Yes. And it helps them sell to advertisers better too because they're like, oh, we know this audience. You want this audience like males. Yeah. We're not for you, but like we're for you if you want this specific millennial. Can I tell you when I was sold on Dear Media? Yeah. Tell me. So I listen to the toast every single day. Like I have for years. You know that. And I've always been such a huge fan.

I don't know who they were signed with before. They might have been independent. When they sign with Dear Media, I have never seen a brand elevate so much slash their sponsors elevate like drastically like they had. They were working with the coolest brands ever like Lexus and these hotels and they're working with TV shows in Hulu and Netflix. And they were like, they're just huge opportunities. And so I was like, okay, whatever they have like, I want that. And to be honest, I feel like we're in a stage with our careers where with running Devi, running the influencer side of our business,

you're running your real estate stuff still. There's no way we could like spend as much time as we need reaching out to these sponsors and building those partnerships with our podcast. There's no way. Babe, we have become master delegators. I know. We have become master delegators. Like we are like eagles flying over our companies and just pushing our actual leaders

to be the best they can be. It's, that's beautiful, babe. No, really. I mean, I feel like that's been the lesson of my year. It's been weird. Don't micromanage. Yeah, don't micromanage. Yeah.

So this is the first time we're releasing control. And we'll see how it goes. We're excited. You know, do you feel like a lot is going to change? Honestly, no. I feel like, I mean, my name's up there. But like, other than that, no. Also, can we talk about this set?

I actually don't want it to change. The only thing I want to change is this. I feel like we sometimes have gotten really. distracted by the original purpose of the podcast. Like we've gone from it being a very personal discussion with us to de-influencing the business side of the industry to sometimes we're talking about random stories, like news stories and things like that. I've always wanted this podcast to be a way to talk to guests and to really de-influence

what people think about them publicly versus who they are actually privately. Like I've always wanted that to be the core concept. Like our conversation with Jefferson Bethke or the president of Toyota, like I want people to come on to our podcast and listen to our podcast because it's like, oh, I want to listen to the de-influence interview with this person who's been around on the VAL podcast or whoever because they're going to approach the discussion from a totally different angle than anyone else. Yeah. I think we do a good job at that. And like, that's a perfect segue into like kind of teasing some of the interviews we have coming up. Oh, yeah. Are you allowed to?

No. But, well, I mean, I don't know. See this is what I'm saying. So, a system. It's already controlling us. No, no, I could. But I want people to be excited about it. But like, we have some really big interviews coming up in the next couple of weeks.

And I've already been like watching other interviews that they're doing. And I'm like, no, I want to go there. Like, I'm going to ask that. question that they didn't ask. Yeah. But in like a, I just want them to feel comfortable. Like I wanted to be like a place where you can be vulnerable, real. And know that we're not trying to like gotcha.

It's not like we're trying to get a gotcha moment. Like we just want to know like the real you. Yeah. I think over 75 episodes, hopefully we've proven our character to the internet. Right. I will say that this episode that I think you're talking about is not a Jordan episode, but it is the episode I am most looking forward to in our entire 75 episodes. You know you and I are the perfect people for that interview.

100%. Like nobody, we are just going to kill this. Like I know it. Oh, man. It's going to be so good. I don't want to give anything away. Really fast before we move on. I want to talk about this set.

Do you know how much the set cost us? No. 20 grand. Really? So we built a set in our house. You could have redesigned the whole room. I know. I know.

Well, okay. So we, which is so funny because we don't make any money from this. So like we're even deeper in the red. But this was my like. That's so us though. I know because I'm like, it's an investment. Like I'm like, it'll pay off. So we decided to put the podcast studio in our playroom like it was before.

But we could have built this set in the Danny Austin office. Oh yeah. If you're watching like on film, you probably think that we're in a totally different room. That's what I'm saying. No, it's just we built it's around the room. Well, okay. So why did we decide? Because like when we have guests over, that means people are coming to our home.

Why have we decided to keep it in-house instead of building this set like in the Danny Austin studio? Because you don't like to leave the house. You got me. And that's it. Moving on. I mean, truly. If it was somewhere else, it would have been a tough thing to keep up with. No, I, because we filmed our last interview outside of the house because they were putting this together.

And I didn't hate it. I didn't hate it. I know. I don't think you could do it every week. Can I be honest why I personally wanted to keep it in-house? I think it is so much more personal. Like when we get to meet people, it doesn't feel like a transaction.

It's like humanizes everybody in the home. Like they come in. They're like, do I need to take my shoes off? And we're like, here, do you want a water bottle? Come through the garage.

You want to meet my kids. Like, I just feel like that's the way that I want to do things. Like I want them to know that we know that they're human and that we're human too. And like,

we're just mom and dad going upstairs to work. And so I think it's like it's just more intimate in that. way. I think it's worked. I personally think that this podcast, I think everything is going to change. Really? What do you think it's going to change? I think we're going to have better guess, more access. I think like we're going to be more honest and real because for the first time ever, we have support outside of ourselves.

Yeah. And so like I feel like I can say anything I want. Anything, which leads me to the topic of this, this podcast episode. Today I'm going to be answered. the most asked question I get that I constantly, daily, ignore and avoid. Danny Austin, did you get a boob job? This is a big deal. I'm nervous. So, okay, so I found out, you know, I was making dinner last night and you said, you know, tomorrow on the podcast, I think I'm going to talk about my boob job. And I was like, oh, all right.

I mean, I'm cool with it. I've always been okay with you sharing it or not sharing it. It's your decision. That's not true. you definitely would not have been cool right after. You and I have learned not to just share things right after they happen. No, I was endorsed your plan of doing it and not talking about it. I want to know first, why did you decide to talk about it now?

Is it just because of the rebrand? No. Good question. It has been something that I always knew I would share. What broke my heart the most is after I got it done, I was never trying to hide it. I got my boob job done in January. And I think it was like January, like the second week of January. Three and a half weeks later, I'm in Cabo and I'm like, woo.

And I wasn't, I mean, I really, I wasn't like wooing. But I was just like wearing my bikini. I did not hide it. Like that was never my intention to hide anything because obviously I know people are going to see it. To me, it was such a big deal that I wanted to give myself time to process and understand like if I even liked it. I felt confident about my decision. And my biggest fear was if I start opening up about this and then my mental health goes south, it's going to go like even worse.

Yeah, because you can't really like change it back. You can't change it back. And the whole reason I got it in the first place is very, I don't want to say like embarrassing or like shameful because you shouldn't be embarrassed. But like I have to be honest. I think I felt a little embarrassed like maybe. And so we'll get, we'll get into like the whole reason why I ever even. went into my consultations in the first place.

And then I was like, you know, people shouldn't feel that way. And I should just be honest. But I want to tell you guys, the number one reason why I did not share my boob job is because my biggest fear in life ever is for people to come up to me and say, Danny, you talked about your boob job. You shared your boobob, so I got one. And I knew where I was at in my life. Like, I knew I had just had two babies.

I have a husband that, like, I know I'll be with. for the rest of my life. I know he loves me to death. I know I love him to death. I am actually pretty confident. I don't think you ever hear me like complaining about my boobs. I was never like things when things didn't fit. Yeah,

I would say it was always about the way your clothes fit. Closed fit is annoying. It's annoying. Like, because the, you know, when you wear like a dress that has like a certain cut, they just like,

they just hollowed out. And because you guys know I was flat as bored. I never wore it raw. I literally have not worn bras and like since I was in high school. I mean, ever. And so, but I, I didn't feel like really like not confident about my, my body or anything. So I knew like when I was doing it, it was like solely for me and I'll get into the reasons like why. And to me, it was just like, I know this sounds like probably bad.

But I was just like, it's going to be fun. That's so bad. I was so, I guess should I tell them? I'm like, yeah, why don't we like backup? Let me help you in this conversation. Yeah. I think we should start by talking about when did it become a discussion amongst or for you first like how did you process it and then when we started talking about as a couple where

we were at because I was on different pages. This is the embarrassing part for me though. Okay. Okay. So we first started talking about going into a doctor after I breastfed Stella because I I, this is a little TMI, but I used to have the cutest nipples. Okay. Like, I'm telling you, it's true.

Nobody had cuter nipples. Nobody had cuter nipples than me. Okay. It's just like, it was one of my greatest assets, really. I never knew that you knew that. I always thought it, but I wasn't going to be like, it's so funny that that's what, yeah. Well, because they just, I mean, I don't know, but I hear about all these people talking about the pancakes and the this.

At the time, I was like, no. I was like, I love mine. But I, you know, as flies as can be. And, you know, but then I breastfed Stella. And one of them decided to go by-bye. Literally never came out. Like, it became from a very cute little perky nipple. Like, literally I got like an inverted nipple after breastfeeding Stella.

And I was like, what in the world is happening? And remember you used to call it? is being used to be like, oh, is it shy today? It's so true. You'd be like, oh, she's shy today. And then I became really embarrassed about it. I didn't make you embarrassed. No, but no, but like it's weird.

And because you're already flat as a board. And then you have like, you're literally like I had nothing. Like I didn't even have a nipple anymore. And so not only that, but I had, I got my stitis like every single time I was breastfeeding both my babies. and it was really hard for like the latching whenever you have that situation. So that was like already kind of like bothered me, but I was like, whatever. So then after I had Stratton, it happened to the other one.

The other one, didn't they both go bye bye? And I'm like, are you freaking kidding me? Like I already have no boobs. No, I have no nipples. Like and then so it literally got to the point where do you remember because I never knew what state they were going to be in where I would take my shirt off and I'd be like, please don't look at me. Like I was embarrassed. I was embarrassed. It wasn't you.

You didn't make me feel that. way. But like you just can be insecure about your body as a female. And like that was my biggest insecurity. And I would never take my shirt off around other girls because I didn't know if that was like a normal. It was like a normal thing to have like inverted nipples like that. I'd never had that before. So. I don't know. Let's Google it. Like the end of the day it's like. I'm like the only one. You're all in like a locker room and it's like oh my gosh, me too. It's like everyone has inverted Put it this way. I've never seen someone else with that before.

Oh. I actually know of one other blogger that we went on a trip. Like, I won't say it, obviously, but she talked about it. And I was like, so I knew that maybe I wasn't the only one, but she talked about it like she was like an alien. So look up some stats. I will say it is, it is crazy how you are in the minority of every kind of adverse pregnancy reaction. Like postpartum depression, prepartum, dispression. pre-partum depression.

Like, it's pregnancy kind of is like tough. Yeah. It says 10% of women. Wow. See? Another minority. Yeah.

And to think we might have four or five kids is, wow. So, oh my gosh. Just may tell us how are my nipples now. Oh my God. Okay. So anyway. I first.

Nipples now. We're good. No. What? Babe. They are not good now. They're going to eat the world now. Like after the boob job.

We're talking about that. It's, okay. Don't mansplain my nipples, please. So you're insecure about your nipples. So I'm insecure by nipples. I am getting to the point. Also, just side note, I had been offered a boob job from my mom when I graduated high school.

Did you know that? I think you told me that. I turned it down. Like that is how much I didn't care about boobs. Like my mom, because my mom had got her boobs down when she was like 20 years old. And my mom's always had these like gorge. just volumptuous fig boobs, which I, was she lied to me my entire life and would always say,

oh, you'll get, yours will grow in one day. Like, you'll have boobs just like mine. And then I, like all these guys are always coming over to my house. I always think they're trying to hang out with me. They're really just trying to hang out with tornado. She looked so good. Like, I'm not going to lie. She wore stream bikinis in her 40s. But, you know, it was saying that she had, and I never really, like, wanted that. So what did you get instead? Like, was she like, you can have boobs or you can I got a David Yermann Bangle. I think it was like $250. I think it was because my parents put my brother through like private school, his whole life. Even I went to a private university. I went to like public school, public university.

Like UT was basically free for us because of like the Texas Tomorrow Fund. So I think this was like my mom's like big thing for me. And I was like, nah, I'll get the David Yerman bangle instead. Yeah. So anyway, just like the thought of getting a boob job was never. really like it wasn't always on like the front of my mind but when this then the nipples started to go away I was like okay like I could see it you know I feel like I would just feel so much better on myself I could fit into some clothes maybe I don't know so I started doing some research and this was like probably in the spring of 2023 that I started doing some more research I started asking my friends we also became pretty close like Bridget and Dr. Mike moved down the street

Dr. Mike moved down the street. And he's like number one in Dallas right now. Yeah, he's a great plastic surgeon in Dallas. So I started talking to them about it, started talking to more of my friends and set up some consultations. Do you want to talk about why we didn't set up a consultation with Dr. Mike? Yeah, let's talk about first, like the, the, how we were on different pages about this whole thing. Because even before we went to the consultation, I was not super into this idea. And I think that the reason I wasn't is because I never wanted to start a pattern in our marriage or support a pattern in you that was like, hey, you have to change something to be good enough for me or in the eyes of the Lord.

Right. And so I took it, it was like a very deep thing for me, right? And I think I was coming at it from a place of caring about you, but also probably. not understanding that it wasn't that deep, if that makes sense. And it really wasn't until you said this to me. Oh, I don't know what I said. No, it's good. You go, I never thought it was because you wanted to get attention from other males or anything like that. I never was like that. But I really just couldn't fundamentally be like, okay, if we're happy in our marriage and, you know, like, we don't have issues with intimacy or anything. Like, why would we do this? It was hard for me to comprehend the fit thing.

The fit thing? Like the fit of your clothes. Oh, okay. That was hard for me to understand because I was like, well, you've been fitting in these clothes for years. It felt like you were a little bit insecure after having Stella. And so I didn't want this to be something that you used to course correct that. I wanted to be like, hey, like, let's work on the heart, not the physical appearance. Like there's an issue there.

But you got me on this argument because you said, you asked me, you go. do you go to the gym every day and work out so that other women will recognize you? And I was like, no. And you go, well, then why do you go? And I was like, honestly, it just makes me feel better about myself. It's like more about me. And you were like, that's how I feel about my boob job. Yeah. And then I was like, ah, yeah, that would be hypocritical for me to treat the reason I'm doing that different than the reason you're wanting to do this. And so I became more open to it. I wasn't like fully on board. I hope I wasn't like, I don't think you're manipulative at all. You helped me understand the psychology behind the decision. I was just trying to show you I wasn't doing it for other people except for myself. Like the same reason you a guy goes to the gym or you would go to the gym. You're not going there to flirt. But like you come home and you feel good. And you're just like. And you would say that to me a lot. But it wasn't until you put it in that positioning that it kind of clicked for me. Yeah. And then I also started to really understand, I think, what a female's body goes through in having kids because we didn't really start going to consultations until after. Stratton was born, right? Oh, yeah. I've never been to a boob job consultation or ever reached out or really thought about doing that. Yeah. So after Stella, I was probably less empathetic than after having two kids under two in such a short period of time, like understanding just like the physical effects on your body that going through pregnancy had. And I think it created a lot more

empathy for me to be like, okay, I don't think it's that deep. But really what I was up against for the most part was, oh my gosh, like, what are Christians going to say? What are our Christian friends going to say? Like, what do people think about this? Because I had never talked about this with any of my guy friends or I don't know if you had talked about it with your girlfriends. But as the conversation started like coming up within our community, it was so funny what I started to realize in it. And I think a lot of like Christians will go through the same thing. I think that when I bring it up to the guys, the first thing that's typically brought up is like, okay, well, like what would the Lord say about this?

Or like, what is she doing this to cover up this insecurity or this, this, you know, issue that she's feeling about this is this a she feels like she needs to change to be good enough. It was always kind of digging into the heart, which is not unfair. Yeah, it's fair. But it put a lot of pressure on me as the husband to be like, okay, shoot, you're right. Like I do need to check the heart and be like, hey, Danny, like, you're perfect the way that you are. But then when you talk to the girls who were all strong believers, they'd be like, yeah, totally. Like, yeah, like, tell me how it is.

Tell me what doctor you use. And it just like wasn't. They all had already had them. Yeah. And most of them had already had them. And so it just like wasn't that deep. Yeah. So I don't know.

I think that that's just like the weird. Yeah. It's like deep. But it's not. Like it's like deep. It's deep because it's a big deal to do it. But like my mentality behind it wasn't that deep. So let's get into the concept.

because I feel like that will help a lot. So first of all, Dr. Mike is a great plastic surgeon here in Dallas. We decided who like probably would have been like such a good person to do this for me. He is a very good close friend of ours, Bridget's are really good. And I don't know why. Like I have this like fear of something going wrong. Like that's not even his fault. Like you know how sometimes these things go wrong like on the table that are not even.

where it's like, it's like, it's like a fluky thing. Like I was like, I would hate to ever mess up our friendship that I was like, I don't even want to go there. But I honestly think he's like, like, I tell everyone. I'm like, you got to reach out to him. He's amazing. And I think you too are like, he's also like in our group text with all of our guys. And like, isn't that weird if he does your boobs?

And then like all the guys. No. And like, of course, I told Bridgett that. And she's like, that's so stupid because plastic surgeons don't look at bodies in like a sexual way. It's like they're just body like it's body parts. It's anatomical. It's like, but coming from normal people like just us who don't see other people's bodies 24 seven, I feel like you were weird about it. Yeah. I think now maybe I'm trying to like genuinely think about it. I think now I could have gotten it over it. But at the time I was like, no.

Well, some of the guys were messing with you. Yeah. And I probably got in my head a little bit. Like the other guys were like making jokes about. Yeah. Like they're. Yeah. I mean, what did they say? I don't remember what they said.

I don't remember. But they would say stuff about how like, oh, Dr. Mike is going to do her tits or something. Like, I don't know. And you were weird about it. I don't think any of my friends say this like that.

No, somebody said something like that. You told me. Yeah. Actually, I know which friend it is. You did. Yeah. He talks like that.

But yeah, no, it's, I still wasn't fully on board with it. And so I was like kind of insecure about it. And then I was like, I don't want it to be a friend. You want it to be more of like a business partnership.

Not like a friend. Yeah. Which is like it makes sense. And I think everybody has to do what they feel comfortable with. It's already like is a big deal. So anyway, he did my mom's facelifts. We don't trust him.

We love him. Well, did she get a? No, she didn't get a facelift. It was a half. Oh, I didn't even know. Oh, she shared it all over social media. Oh.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So anyway, let's see. I found two doctors in Dallas that were. recommended to me personally from friends. One of them was his name is Dr. Dawa. I never know if I'm saying his last name right. I think you got it. Okay. It's either Dow. Yeah, it's Dawa. And then this other guy that I'm not going to say his name because I think I went to, I went to Dr. Dawa first and had a

consultation. And it's like it was like $100 for consultation. And this was probably like in August of 2023. And told him what I was. like most insecure about. And he was like, I could go in and fix your nipples. Basically, they can go in and like sew it to where they're basically always back to normal. But I would never be able to breastfeed again. And I at this time was planning on having more children. You might be asking or wondering, why would you get your boobs done before you're done having children? The reason for me is I knew I wanted to have a lot of children. So why wait another five or six years to get something done that I like already am like hating.

Yeah. Whenever honestly by the time I'm done having kids, I'll probably need another one. Like like, you know what I mean? Like so, because you're supposed to get them redone like every 10 years. And I'm like, I don't know the timeline of when I'm going to have kids. And I hear I hear about people having, you know, getting them done and having kids all the time. And so that wasn't really like a concern of mine.

In fact, I thought they'll probably make it look more natural. Like whenever, because I like, you know, you get. them done, they're really uptight and they're really like, you know, your skin is still. But like when you get pregnant, everything stretches and grows. And I almost feel like it would have helped them settle and not looked like fake. And so, so that was really never a concern of mind. But he did say whenever we were looking at the nipples, he was like, you know, if you get your an augmentation, a lot of times, most times they naturally will pop back out. And they won't, you won't even need that surgery. He was like, that surgery is so simple. Why don't we try the augmentation first? And

see if that happens. Like it fixes like corrects your nipples. Anyway, so I was like, great. Like, let's try that because he's like the other one. You can get done in like 15 minutes. So I felt so comfortable with him. Like that was like the appointment. His office is so beautiful. The girls working there were so kind. A couple of them had followed me on Instagram. We're like, we won't tell me about it. Like they just made me feel so comfortable. And I just felt like I was hanging out with the gals, you know? And then they pulled out some of the sizes. I got to put them in my bra, which I honestly didn't even like that. Like I felt, like, I just can't even imagine. You remember, were you with me whenever I tried them on? Oh yeah. I was with

you. Some of the sizes and like. That's where I really started to get a vision of how this thing was going to go. Yeah. I mean, put these like bras on and stuff it. And I'm like, it reminded me of when I used to stuff my bra with toilet paper like in sixth grade. Did everybody else do that? Just me. One time the toilet paper fell out. It was like drag dangling. Yikes. Yeah. So, yeah, I started to get, like, more excited. But, you know, they always say you need to talk to get like multiple consultations and really, you know, listen to each doctor, their techniques, understand their bedside manner.

And so I went to another doctor that was recommended to me. And do you remember this guy? Yeah. High ego, which I'm sure is very prominent in plastic surgeons. See, I just think that's so wrong. Like I think it's so wrong to like act like you're just shuffling these people in. Like they're just like one after the other. Oh, no, that's what I mean.

I think it's wrong. But I think that that's what makes Dr. Dawa and Dr. Mike very successful is they're very low ego, very welcoming humans. Whereas like this guy was like, you're here. Like if you want me, you can have me. Like you got to pay this. It was just very transactional. So I went into this other guy. And also why is every single plastic surgeon good looking?

Have you ever noticed that? Well, they probably They know how to No, Dr. Mike's never done a thing. On himself? Yeah. No. Or had any like, no.

See, I just imagine like residency for plastic surgeons is like, No. Like, bro, just come on. Do my nose today. No. Like give me an eyebrow lift. It's a Tuesday.

We'll do homework later. And they're just like practicing on each other. No, these guys are just all like naturally very handsome, good looking men. Anyway, so this guy that I go in to sea, I had had a friend recommend. him to me and he comes in barely talks to me I say I show him pictures I show him some of the sizes and

he's like yeah yeah like my team will will will handle that that's not I don't I'm you know when Dr. Dow like sat there with me like while I looked at the sizes and he's like oh yeah it gave me his opinion and everything this guy's like yeah I don't deal with that like I'll bring in Stacy you know Stacy and she'll do that and I was like okay well can I show you a picture and he's like yeah no we don't really need to go like I don't need to like he didn't let me show him any of my answer. I was like, you don't even know what I want. And he just gave me a sheet with all the prices, you know, his scheduling, how to make the appointment, the different types. And was like, here you go, basically. And I was like trying to buddy up to him. So I was like, well, you know,

my friend so-and-so came to you. And he was like, I'm going to stop you right there. I don't talk about any of my clients. And I was like, you didn't talk about your client. I brought up your client because your client said I could bring her up whenever talking to you. He just was like so, like, ugh, I was just not, I didn't feel comfortable with him. I didn't care if he was better than Dr. Dawa. Like, I just want to feel comfortable with the person that is going to be doing this because I want them to listen to me. And I might change my mind a couple of times.

And I want to feel understood. And Dr. Dalla made me feel that way, like, from day one. In fact, I even, like, we were like, I could DM him and ask him any question on Instagram. Like, he gave me his phone number, like, whenever I was freaking out about things. And so anyway, and then also, do you remember that? That one time we ran into him at a restaurant. And he was so cool about it.

Because he's obviously a plastic surgeon, like pretty well known in Dallas. No, it was me. I was, it was on the rooftop at Parkhouse. And he walked up to me after the Texas OU game. Oh, right. And I was with all my friends. And he just lightly tapped me on the shoulder. And I didn't really recognize him.

And he goes, my wife's doctor. And like winked at me. And then walked away. And then walked away kind of. And then all my friends were like, oh, is that like your wife's doctor? And I was like, but he was very discreet about it. I really appreciate it.

Yeah, my point was is he's discreet. Yeah, I guess not because you just said all of your friends asked if it was your wife's doctor. No, I mean, I told them because I thought it was so funny. Like I was my close friends, but he, if it was just a random group of people,

no one, he wouldn't have come up and said, hey, do you remember the thing that you changed your mind about the most throughout the process? Besides? Yes. Well, yeah.

Okay. So after I decided that I was going to go with Dr. Dalla, it's so crazy how fast the process moves because you think that you would have like all these like, you know, appointments to decide this and that you really only have like your consultation and then maybe one other appointment, maybe not even. And then you just have the surgery day. The craziest thing about 2023, the fall, do you remember how much I was sick? Yeah. I was sick every other week. So I had to reschedule my surgery day twice. I was supposed to get them done in September. And then we moved

it back to December because I had bronchitis. And he and I was like, I was so excited for the day. And I like called in. I'm like like, like, rast you boys. I'm like, yeah, I have bronchitis. But like, I'll be better. I'll be good. And they were like, no, absolutely not. Like, you have to be healthy. No sickness for six weeks. And then like I ended up like getting like COVID or something or the flu again. like four weeks later. So then I had to wait another six weeks. So finally I scheduled it for January. By that time, I was so ready to go.

I was not nervous at all. I was like so eager and just like praying I would not get sick that like I had no doubt in my mind by that point. But yes. So in the consultations, I want to get into kind of like the more like nitty gritty with like some of the decisions I had to make. So you have to decide on like the size, the C.C. Danny wanted big, big boobies. Okay, I did.

All of us were talking her down. And listen, it's in my vestus interest to have big boobies. But this girl wanted big boobies. No, because it's not that I wanted big boobies. It's that I was like, I'm doing this. I might as well, like, get what I really want. And everybody in my life around me, because I'm a pretty conservative person. Like, I'm not taking booty Instagram pictures.

I'm not wearing clothes to get like that type of attention. I think everybody assumed I would want small boobs, like very conservative, like, oh, nobody can tell. And I was like, no, like, that's not what I'm doing here. And I just wanted like two round balls. That's what you kept saying. I said two round balls. And he's like, this would be more natural.

And I was like, it doesn't have to look exactly that natural. Like, you know, because they're going to settle. I'm going to have babies, whatever. Literally all of us, even the nurses. We're like, that's too big. She was wanting to go so big that they were like, we don't know if your body will support moves this big.

Okay. It's true. This happened in the room. I have the funniest story about the CCs. So we're looking at the CCs, which is the actual, like, I guess, size of the implant, like how big they actually are.

And, you know, you're deciding between silicone and saline. I decided to go the silicone. gummy shape because they look a little bit more natural. Saline is like a plastic that's filled with basically like salt water, which I guess is better if they ever like pop, then it's technically healthy for you. But like these are the ones like don't pop.

They're like a gummy bear. They call them the gummy bear implants. My brand was called Centra, I believe, with a C. Centra? I don't know. So we're looking at this easy. And he was like, here's my advice. I will do.

anywhere from 250 or 265. That was like 250 to 300, maybe 310 for you. That was like, you remember it was kind of that range. I could be off by five. And you were like 400. No, I was not. He was like, I refuse to do anything bigger than like a 310 essentially. Remember he said that?

Yeah. Yeah, I guess it was 3.10. Yeah. And I was like, oh, bummer. Like, you know, I was like, okay, fine. And I was like, you know what? I trust this guy though. because he's laying down the law.

He's setting boundaries. Like, he won't give me exactly what he wants because he knows. But basically I had like before my surgery date to decide. So I'm all on TikTok. I'm asking all my friends. What did you get? What did you get? I have a couple of my best friends that got 265.

Put it that way. They had similar body types as me. And they got 265. And I'm over here trying to push over 310, which is like a lot bigger. And so I remember we ended up deciding on 285, me and you. Yeah. And the day I went in for surgery, I told him, I was like, on the table. I'm literally like, I go, Dr. Dawa 310.

I told him on the table, I'll go 310. And like, I was like, don't tell Jordan. Yeah, I mean, it's not that. Because you were pressing me to go smaller. And I was like so annoyed because I was like, I want to do what I want to do. And like, everybody has always told me go bigger because they, like, you'll always, you'll always wish you were bigger, not smaller. I was just so afraid, I think, at the time that they were going to look like look so fake.

That and to be honest that and this is just like a weird psychology. It's like I thought it was going to like change who I was. Yes. Honestly. Yeah. I was really worried about that. Has it changed me at all? No. In fact, it's like not even a topic of discussion except for very specific times. I, I don't. I don't. I can't think of any decision I've made differently. I can't think of anything. Maybe there's some things that like now actually don't fit because my boobs are too big, especially being pregnant.

But there hasn't changed your modesty at all. Like it hasn't. It's just like they're there now. I know. Fun for the whole family. Okay. So going into, oh, you also have to decide. Wait, did he do the three tens?

Well, let's get there. on you also have to decide on the profile which is how much they actually fill up the implant so when you're looking at the implant some go higher than others i think i'm doing this right the profile yeah and so you can go like moderate you can go like moderate like moderate like you can go like low medium high and i end up going with a moderate plus which is not medium it's a little above but it's not high. Because when you go high, that's whenever they look really filled and they're like really, they look more fake.

So I did moderate plus, which everybody was like, go moderate, go moderate. I was like, absolutely not. I'm going moderate plus. Like I just like knew what I wanted. And then also you can like, you know, you talk about where you want them to sit on your, and I was like, I want them to sit higher. Like I know that gravity is going to pull them down. So just go ahead.

Honestly, I wish I would have gone higher now, like even higher. Like closer to my collarbone. You know, just so that when I got pregnant, because they've fallen so much. They really do fall, you know. And so I made all those decisions. Yeah, on the table when I walked into the surgery center, which now he's like building his own like in-house surgery center, which is really cool. But I think we should clarify, we paid for all of this.

Oh, yeah, no collab. Yeah, no collab. No, obviously. I didn't ever share. No, I would never have done a sponsor like a club. No, I know. I know. I just want to say it for the record because I feel like people.

Sorry, people do do collabs. That's just not for me. Like, because here's the thing about me is I don't like it. I'm not going to share it. I don't care how much you paid me. I'm not going to do it. I just want all of your opinions to be interpreted as like your honest opinions as well. Yeah.

Yeah. I mean, obviously. So, so I go in the day of surgery. I am, let me tell you, I am not nervous one bit. I am so excited. I am not scared. I don't get nervous. Like, especially after if you have two babies, having a baby is way worse in my.

in my opinion, like the healing and like the whole process. Like that's way more traumatic than the boob job. So the whole process for me was literally so easy. Like I was shocked at how simple it was. We showed up. They called my back. I hit on the table. I whispered to Dr. Dowell.

I went 3.10. Not 25. Don't tell my husband. You know, it's so funny. When you went into surgery, and this is just ironic now that I'm thinking about, about it. It was at a surgery center near our church. And our church has like a coffee shop in it. And so while you were getting surgery, I went in the coffee shop and watermark. And there were all these Bible studies going on and I was like, oh, this is funny.

Great. I was like my wife's on the table getting a boot job. Wow. Beautiful. Maybe that was my subconscious. Maybe that was a Holy Spirit leading me there to pray for you. Oh, gosh. I guess I really needed it. Okay, so, you know, they put you under anesthesia, countdown to 10. I'm still so excited. I'm not scared at all.

The bright lights, I'm like, let's do this thing. Take me home. Like, I'm like, come on, nipples. Come out, come out. And yeah, so I woke up and they wrap you up and it has all this pressure on your chest. Not bad at all. Like, honestly. Yeah.

If you've had a baby, once again, this is just nothing. Like, if you haven't had a baby, you might be like, oh, my God, it was so scary. Because you's probably like your first experience having like a major something. I was shocked at how like easy it was, to be honest. And the pain wasn't bad. I was probably still under the medication. But Dr. Dowell comes to me and he's like, I hope you don't kill me. He's like, I know I told you I would only do 265.

310 but I put the implant in on the table and decided to go with 325 made his own decision to go with 325 because he knew because he had listened to me and seen my pictures and knew what I wanted and which was 325 was out of the question put it this way Alex Earl has a 275 really and I have a 325 wow that's but the thing is is everybody is different. So the way he said that he put that implant in and my body just like it tightened it so like the cavity. Well, it goes underneath the muscle. That's how he did it. And we did it underneath the boobs. So I do have a scar, which also never bothered me because I heard of like other people that are like I only go through the armpit because I think that maybe it's because they're wanting to

wear more like swimsuits that show like you know when girls wear some suits that show your underboop. Like I'm not planning on wearing anything like that provocative ever. where I would care about a scar. Like, I'm still planning on wearing, like, my normal swimsuits. You know what I mean? I have a question. They fit? Yeah, they fit an implant.

What they do is they'll put a saline implant through your armpit, put it in, and then they fill it up with, like, saline once it's already in. It's like a whole thing. A lot of doctors. A lot of doctors won't do it. It's, but like some will. And I have a friend that did that. And I don't know if it's more dangerous or it's just harder to do.

But yeah. So I have bigger. Do they have a scar on their armpit then? Huh? I guess that's better. Yeah. Okay. So yeah.

I have bigger implants than Alex Earl. I have technically, but here's the thing is I don't have bigger boobs because another factor that people don't understand and they don't think about is Alex Earl probably already had breast tissue before they put the implant. So she had a boob and then they put a boob over it. So now she's got this big. I had. I had nothing, literally nothing.

So when he put that 310 in, he was like, Danny, your body, like, just swallow it. He was like, you would have hated it because it looked so small. And so because I literally had no breast tissue at all. So he decided on the table to go 325, which is just so funny because he was like, I won't go over 310. And I told all of you guys, I was like, I want more. And so I was, I woke up for the table. I've like, ever since I saw them woke up of all.

Always been so happy with everything. We didn't see them. I mean, I did not see your new boobs for like two weeks because they were wrapped. Yeah, they were wrapped. But I could see it. You know, I looked down. I see. I'm like, wow.

I loved it. I never second guessed it. I never like, was like, oh my gosh. Because I hear people that are like, oh my gosh, I can't believe that I did this. I was like, I'm so happy I did this. This is great. Everything's going to fit me now. I just feel like a normal person.

I don't feel like anything. I just feel normal. So I was so excited. The craziest part is I felt so great. I came home. You know they tell you you guys sleep for. three days. You're going to be out for about three to five days. You know, you got to be wrapped up and you take your... I came home and took a business call with Amazon for an hour. It's true. You

negotiated an Amazon deal. An entire, a huge Amazon deal for an hour. Now, did I say some things that I probably should have said? Maybe. Maybe I was a little bit more upfront because I had some of those meds still on me, in me. But I felt so amazing. Like, I was ready to go dinner that night like it was the easiest thing I've ever done I never done so dramatic it's the easiest thing I've ever done it was so easy though like and then but the thing is for me though like ever tell the amazon girl no I think you did no I did I think you did I think you'll laugh at Jordan I would not maybe I did I think you did yeah you might be right that sounds like something I would do under it yeah yeah I think you told her and and then she was like oh yeah it like kind of made the it's probably

great negotiations. Yeah, it's so funny that people don't know. I told everybody like in person. Well, you told your friends. Yeah, you told people. No, I go to the grocery shop

like, sorry, you just got a boob job someone to love it. Like, you know. And most people were like. Yeah, so anyway, yeah, I did milk the three to five days though because I'm like, might as well. Oh, I forgot to tell you all this.

This is huge too. So on the table, when I'm about to get this done, do you remember what I asked Dr. Dowell to do? No. I was like, wait, I want to get my lip filler out. I was like, can you do that while I'm under so that I don't have to feel it? Because, you know, they say that's really painful to get it dissolved.

He was like, yeah, absolutely. So they threw that in there for me. That's right, because I remember your lips being bruised and I was like. So when I woke up and I got back, I was on stories. I think the night, like the night that I got. I just put a T-shirt on. I was like, did. And like, nobody even thought about my boobs or talked about because my face was so bruised from getting my, my lip,

filler dissolved, which is something that I had been wanting to do. And so honestly, I wasn't planning it, but it was a great distraction, you know? A lot of people say, like a lot of positive surgeons say that when celebrities get something done, they'll like dye their hair red so that everybody's focused on their hair and not the boob job or whatever that they did because it's a distraction. I wasn't that like well thought and strategic, but it was, it did happen that way. And it, it kind of helped for a little bit. So like looking back, this was something that you wanted to keep private. You wanted to talk about it eventually, but not early on.

So I mean, I was like I gave myself the option that I didn't have to ever talk about it if I didn't want to. Right. Why, why this? Why did I, can you rephrase that question? Yeah. Like, why did you, why did you not want to talk about this? Like after the fact, you know, you did it. It wasn't hard. Like, why not talk about it? Why not talk about it sooner? Sooner.

I know that everyone on the internet says that they feel like they deserve the side of me all the time. Like, they feel like when they feel like they own a part of my life where they're like, Danny, like, you're an influencer. Like, you have to be transparent. And like, we deserve to know all these things about you. And I do understand that because you have to be responsible with your influence. And you want to be transparent. And you don't want people to see something like, you know, a boob job or something unrealistic and think that it's, that it is real. You know what I mean? I understand that responsibility.

But the whole route of like going into the consultations because I've inverted nipples is not something that's really easy to talk about. And I maybe was like a little embarrassed. at first. But then I think about it and I'm like, why was I embarrassed about that? That probably is very common for a lot of people. And I knew that I wanted to be transparent, but like, I just feel like it's so important for me to be confident in my decisions and be confident in what I did before I speak about it to the public.

And I don't know if I, I don't know, it maybe took me this long to like feel like I was confident enough to have that conversation. Because I know where I'm at in my life. And I know where my mind is that I know for a fact that I'm not doing this so I can attract men or because I feel like it's going to fix my life or my husband's going to love me more. Or like even I'm going to feel more beautiful or something. I don't know.

I never really thought that way. But I don't know where everybody else is at. And I don't want to be the reason why someone that's really, really struggling does something, alters their body forever. because Danny Austin did it. Like it's like, it is like, even though it's not a serious thing to me, it is a serious thing. And I just don't want to be that that type of influence. I don't know.

I'm just being honest. And I'm not saying I did everything perfectly. And if I went back, if I had to go back and do it all over again, I wouldn't change a thing. Because something I have learned is like, Danny, you don't owe everyone everything. Like, and it's okay to keep some things to yourself, even though you are an internet personality. because you started making videos when you were 19. I didn't sign up for all of this when I was 19. I didn't know that people were going to have all these expectations of me

when I was 19 years old. And so the nice thing about the space that we're in is like we can create our own rules and we can you can create our, set our own boundaries, like knowing what's healthiest and best for us. And that's why I think it's always important to support everyone's decisions when it comes to what they share publicly or not. And why there's different spectrum. of some people just share sales and some people share everything about their lives.

And it's like because everyone is in different places in their life. And like I think we need to respect that. Yeah. I'm kind of glad that you went in that direction because looking back on it, I think that we were coming out of an era of the internet pre-kids specifically where we did not have any boundaries in terms of what we shared. Like we really felt an obligation and we felt what was right was to share everything. Otherwise, you're a liar, you're fraud, your fate.

Right. That was kind of the era. And I think that once we started having kids, we started realizing, man, that's not sustainable because sharing everything it sometimes could put our family or our kids at harm. So we started pulling back and trying to really intentionally and thoughtfully, like, figure out what should be shared and what should not while also like having very intentional conversations around influence and like, how is this going to influence people? And this is one of a. few decisions that I was really proud of you for keeping private because it was for you, right? Like so many things I think you had to kind of break out of this mindset of like I owe the internet everything. And privately in our marriage and our life, I feel like I was very much a proponent of like, no, you don't. Like no, we don't. Right. And trying to scale us back. And I felt like it was a really good intentional decision for you to just simply do something for you and not for the internet or other people. Yeah. I mean, I got to. close to sharing it all on TikTok, do you remember? Yeah, but but even that, I was so proud that you

didn't do that because it would have gotten clicks and it would have gotten views and like it would have worked, you know, it would have been a great strategy to get people talking. But it like what we needed in that season of our lives is for our private life to like have moments and things that no one else knew about. It's so freeing. Like I remember even like five years ago, you know, you go on this blogger trip or you hang out with your friends and you just feel like you have to take pictures of every single moment together with everyone like let everyone knowing know what you're doing all the time and it's so freeing for me to not feel that way like to be like I'm hanging out with 10 of my friends nobody knows I'm hanging out to my girlfriends that nobody knows I'm doing something for me

no one knows remember I used to share every single workout in the morning yeah like I work out still four days a week and I maybe share like once a week now. Maybe not even because I'm like, I don't have to feel this pressure to share every single thing that I'm doing. And in fact, having this whole life outside of what I'm posting is really healthy. And it's not coming from a place of I'm trying to hide anything. Like I'm really not trying to hide anything. Like I'm just trying to be the best person I can be for my personal family and the best person I can be for the industry. and what people need to hear. And I just don't think that people needed

another boob job story online. Like, I don't think that people need another, like, vlog, come with me to get a boob job. Like, I really wanted to understand, like, where I was at with my story and process it and then come back and share it when I'm, now when people, I know for a fact I'm going to hate about this conversation.

I know that people are going to be really disappointed in my decision and feel like I've made the wrong decision even talking about this today. I know that for a fact, but like I'm in a place where like I am secure in my decision so that when I get those DMs, because I'm a very, very sensitive person, you know that. I want everyone to like me. It kills me when I get negativity. It will send me into like depression mode. But now I'm like strong enough to when I get those messages. I'm going to be like, it's okay because I thought about this. This is not like a quick decision that I made. I talk to multiple friends. I talked to my team. I talked to my husband. I wasn't like,

vlog with me to get some clicks. Yeah, that's what I... That would have broke me down. That's what I'm most proud of it too, is that, like, you know, you are secure enough to make decisions for Danny Austin, not what the internet wants for Danny Austin. That's been a two-year journey, I feel like... Oh, it's been a 12-year journey. Well, who am I?

True, but like, I feel like over the past two years specifically, you know, you're able to be, we are able to be Jordan and Danny despite what opinions say, right? Yeah. Yeah. Sometimes I'm kind of learning, it feels good to go against the grain. I'm like empowered sometimes whenever, like when I shared that post about Mark Zuckerberg. Yeah, people. I was like, and people like some people didn't like it. And I was like, but I'm not doing this for you. I'm doing this for me. And I haven't done that. What your conviction said is right. You know, like, like. Well, that's what I feel. And if you don't agree with it, that's okay. But I feel like it's okay. So I got to share what I feel like. And you know me. Like you know that. I hate to ruffle feathers. Like, you know, I am not an eight on the Enneagram that's like, oh, you don't hate me?

That's your problem. I'm like, you don't hate me? What do you want for me? What can I do? I'm so sorry. I apologize. I did it wrong. You're right.

I'm wrong. And I think it's healthy to have that balance. But I'm okay now with not everybody liking me. Now, don't take it too extreme because like I still am sensitive, you know? Yeah. But that's okay. And that's okay that not everybody agrees with me. But I, yeah.

It's also why I was proud. you for not caving when people were like, it is such a bad example for you not to disclose this publicly. Yeah. Because realistically, you were in a lose-lose situation. You could have shared it and that would have satisfied some people who were like, thank you for being transparent. But if you would have shared it, then you do run the risk. And we talked about this so many times.

You do run the risk of being a role model in a way that you don't want to be a role model. Well, I was, do you remember Champaign and Chanel, Emily Travis, shared hers like briefly after mine and she disclosed it publicly so a lot of people were upset with me I wish Danny Austin would have done this like I still say by Emily I think our decision was right still no but the thing is is like her decision was right for her and my decision was right for me and why do we both have to do the exact same thing yeah but everyone was like this is how Danny should have handled it and I wish Danny would have done this and they were all tagging me in the post and everything and I was like but I was proud of myself too I was like doesn't matter

are like, fine, if you think that she did it the right way, that's great for her and great for you, but that's not me. And yeah, it's, you know, life. For everyone that wants to know, the nipples did pop back out. I know you were concerned. Now they are at a place where what I always say every day is like, they're going to eat the world. I've never had boobs being pregnant.

It feels animalistic sometimes. Things rest on your skin that have never rested there before. Like I've never had this thing where like your boobs touch your belly, which I know is just going to get worse or under. I've never had sweat under my boobs because I've never had boobs. So where would the sweat go? It was just, you know. So that whole thing is like a new thing for me.

You got to make sure that when you shower. I can't even see underneath my boobs. I have to lift it up. You know one of those moves? And you're like, what's under there? And I'm like, did myself Tanner get? And I have to lift it up. And it feels very, yeah.

It's just, it's crazy. I have a question. Do you feel truly? Do you feel like you have gotten any, and this is not like a Jordan insecurity thing. I'm just curious. Do you feel like you have gotten more attention from other males? Really.

Not at all. Zero. I have not gotten more attention for males, females. I think the only thing, excuse me, I get so excited about this. The only thing that I think is different is I have started to wear a different style of dress

and people like, I like your dress now. And I think they like some of the clothes I wear because it's different than they've ever seen before. Like honestly, I feel like girls notice more than guys. But no, and no one's ever even said to me like, oh, I like your boobs or like her boobs. She has good boobs.

I don't even do. The other funny thing is you're not, you're supposed to wear a bra to like keep them, you know, especially after you get them done. You want to keep them very secure. He recommended this bra from True and Come to keep the compression because you want to keep them as high as possible. As soon as that date passed, I don't even wear bras. Like, I'm not wearing bra now.

They're low to the flow now. But that's because of me, not because of the situation, like anything with the, I just don't, I still don't wear bras. Do you know, wait, this is a fun fact. I still don't work out. I work out in sports bras, but the top that I typically wear every day, the ribbed tank from Target with my red shorts, because it's like the only clothes that fit me pregnant. It's tight, but it's not a bra. So I don't really work out with a bra. Yeah. You had those two instances, the guy at the airport, remember? That was so. That was after post-boob job. though. Babe, he did not hit on me because of my boobs. I was like wearing... You just never know. No. I had a really good hairstyle that day.

It's typically my hair looks good. 100%. True. No, I was not... Tio. Hairstyle. Yeah, it was like the pony, I think. No.

The pony was killer. Pony was fire. The pony was partying. The pony was partying. I feel more confident whenever I have a high pony, the boo. To be honest. No, it's, and I think to the, I don't go places where people are going to be checking you out.

Like, I don't. It's funny. It's the same, like, I feel the same way about, like, working out. I feel like I get more compliment from my guy friends that are like, dude, you're looking good, man. You don't get more attention from the crowd. Yeah, no. And it's, it's funny. I know.

Guys, come and hit on us. Like, just give us something. Like, give us. Affirmation that it's worth it. Yeah, no, no, I don't even, that's not, because that's not the energy that you put out, so I don't expect that. I don't even, I put my hands behind my back in pictures.

I know, we, you very close. I've heard of a couple European soccer stars doing the same thing. I am. Sign of respect. I am excited to update you guys on the breastfeeding journey as I breastfeed with these things, because never done that before. And we'll see how the nipples stay.

They are just, they have their own little minds of their own these days. And it's just, I'm really curious to see what happens after I'm pregnant too, how much they go back to normal. I have a question. This is good. This is a really good question. So do you remember before you got your boobs and nipples done? I didn't give my nipples then. I got my boobs done.

Okay, but like the change in sensation in your nipples. Yeah. Is that a thing? Yeah, it's kind of like. For me personally, I kind of want to know too. Like I'm just so curious. What did I tell you about that? That you would lose sensation.

Did I tell you that I did or didn't? I don't know if I've asked. I kind of just have assumed you didn't, but I'm curious if it's. Yeah. There definitely doesn't happen to everyone, but sometimes you can totally lose like. So did you? I would say if they were at 100% sensation, they're at like a 50%. I don't know.

I mean, maybe it doesn't suck, but I'm just saying that. Maybe your mind is in the gutter. No, I'm not, I'm not trying to get in the gutter. I'm just, I mean, wow, good to know. Yeah, that's it. That is one downside that people should consider. But then there's a part of me that's like, but if maybe when I breastfeed, it won't hurt as bad, you know? Yeah, I mean, for your call, I don't know if that tradeoff is worth it, but.

Yeah, no, they have been really sensitive to this pregnancy, but I think that's normal. And they throb from pregnancy. Ooh, they hurt. Remember that one time that you accidentally, like, nipped it? And I was so mad at you. Yeah. You just like walked by and like literally brushed my nip. And I'm like, oh, like, it hurts so bad.

It hurts so bad. Let's see. Another thing about we haven't touched on is the cost. They were, they started 8100. For some reason, I could have sworn we got the initial. It was 6,500. But then I DM'd them to ask them like what they start out and they said 8100. So it's about 4K a boob.

4K boobs. Is they charged by the boob? Because that would be a weird pricing model. No, I'm sure they do. He's going to like, who's going to put a boob job on lay? away and just get one done. No, that happens all the time during. They just do one boob?

Yes, you can have like a deformed one boob. You can have one boob. Oh, okay, fair, fair. I thought you meant like people like. Getting you into boobs? Yeah, like one boob is like, I was like, how's that work? No, that happens all the time. No, that makes sense.

That makes sense. Yeah. So I'm sure they do charge by the boob. Yeah, okay. Stupid me. Have you ever heard of a labiaplasty? No, first time was today. Okay.

So I would think that this is a, very similar. I don't want to call it a deformity because it's definitely not, but something very similar that would happen to a woman that alters your body because of having either you're born with it or especially when you have children. When you have children, things do happen down there that just look different because literally a full size human is coming out of your Vajee. And so a lot of times what will happen is the dinkle doper. I always say that to my friends. And they always die laughing.

The Dingle-Dupor. Okay, the BJJ, it basically, let me have this rose. Okay. So, okay. So you have this beautiful rose that is all tight and snug. Okay. And then when the baby comes out, things stretch, you know. And things start to come out.

and maybe dingle-dupe a little bit lower than normal. And the more you have babies... It's actually like a fantastic setup. Like it's almost like it was planned. It wasn't. It wasn't. And the more that you have babies, the more the dingle-duper dingles.

So things are just out and about lower than they typically would be. And I've been seeing this trend of ladyoplasty where they took it all back inside and they make it a beautiful, tight little rose again. Now, my only thing is. is, and I understand that that happens during pregnancy, but my only, I guess it's the same thing with an inverted nipple. It's just like, annoying probably. Maybe it's a little unsanitary, I guess, sometimes. But I'm like, boys have big dingo doopers. So I'm like, how unsanitary. I'm sorry,

people are probably so annoyed. Maybe like, I can't say. Yeah, yeah. What's the technical term? A penis? A vagina? I know that is. But like what's the technical term? The labias, fine. The labias start to extend. So the labia is the dingle doper.

No. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So anyway, so like I've been seeing this trend. A lot of women that have had babies are getting labiaplasties. And I'm like, does that compare to my surgery in any way? I don't know.

Just something to think about. Food for thought. Just food for thought. When you say it's trending, I mean, we're probably in just totally different algorithms, but never heard of it. I mean, this is a big deal. Emily Kaiser talks about it publicly. So that was the first time I ever Googled it.

Okay. And I saw the diagram. It can be like, it can be so big that it shows to your clothes, which would be very uncomfortable. I wonder could it be mistaken as something else? No, it's not that big, babe. It doesn't dangle dupe like five inches. Okay. It dangle dupe saving an inch.

It's like tissue. It's not like a actual pee. Yeah. Yeah. So no, I would not think that. But it would be very uncomfortable if you're like changing around growth. Like I don't know. Anything like that is it can be a little traumatizing. God bless our plastic surgeons. God bless modern day science. Okay. So now you guys have your answer. You can stop commenting and harassing me in the DMs about it. Oh, well now it's just going to be the swing the other way. So you got the you had the, you had the people that were mad that you wouldn't comment about it. Now you're going to have the people that are mad that you did comment about it.

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